To all who are sad about what happens to the dog, we'd like to recommend this other beautiful short film, which is better for the dog! ruclips.net/video/WfxQuD9weWM/видео.html
moral of the story, marriage is not just about loving someone, it's about much more. Talk about all the little things and the big things before you get married.
AMEN! AMEN! We need to enter relationships aware of these dangers and how to prevent them that dog could have been a fondant child or he could have turned her on her and killed her. She was needing his help. He was physically and sexually agressive throughout. That's not a MAN.
This is true, even though we want to have happy endings, they are not granted to us. We have to work hard and understand each other and our feelings in order to earn and truly have our happy endings.
I think the meaning of the dog being "squashed" is that he sold the dog and the money he got from that is used to buy the mini tv. In the end their marriage did not work out because of each other's preferences of a perfect wife/husband.
@@ana-maria8350 Why is it only him? She was just as selfish and abusive as he was. She denied his wishes just as much or more as he did hers and before he ever did. She made the first physical contact by throwing a spoon at him. She was a spoiled brat. Being female does NOT give a woman a pass to be verbally or physically abusive. Too many modern women have "Princess Syndrome." They think they can do/say/act any way they want just because they were born female. That's just called being childish and women need to grow up. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated and they will reciprocate.
CATwoman 1 I’m trying to figure out what wishes did she deny him. Having a child? Yeah, because she didn’t want one. That was both their mistake, they should’ve discussed kids before getting married. Now, I don’t remember exactly what happened in this video since I’ve watched it a while ago, but I don’t recall her hitting him. If she did, that’s just as wrong. What I do recall is him not doing anything around the house, which I wouldn’t call abusive, just being a really shitty partner. What I also recall is him destroying something she cared deeply about just to get back at her (after she destroyed the thing that was distracting him so fucking much that he couldn’t act like a husband). Which was abusive. And then both of them got physically abusive at the end
Y’all are missing something. At the start, she kissed his cheek. At the end, he willingly kissed her back. Meaning that the real life may not actually turn out like the cake life.
Hey, I’m just hoping that although the ending is almost similar to the start, not all events will be the same, especially in the case of the husband absolutely murdering that dog
The stain of red wine was what I would consider a red flag. The fact that he spilled it right over her heart (the left side of her chest) makes it seem like she knew all along from her instincts and her gut feeling that the marriage wasn't gonna work out but she chose to brush it off which we literally see her doing, but in the end, red wine leaves a stain that doesn't leave, no matter how much brushing off you do.
Didn't seem like an intentional action of the man. The red flag is her unwillingness to let it go. She keeps revisiting his mistake and not trying to draw near when he tries to make things right.
Spot on dude!!! I was trying to figure that out too. He spilt it right over her heart-so some type of murder/death I supposed at first. But really that moment represents their entire marriage. His carelessness and lack of accommodation is damaging and the way she holds back her anger until she can’t anymore is just a recipe for destruction. She marries him because she wants her ideal romantic life but settles for something lower than her expectations. The fact is that both these partners disappoint each other and don’t meet the other’s expectations.
I know there’s a lot of controversy going on in this comments section, but imagine what it would be like to be able to just create things out of the ground.
Humans have been creating things from the ground since we grew a cerebrum. Fossil fuels provide us with petroleum, oil, gasoline, tar, and plastics. The minerals and stones of the earth itself are used to create glass, concrete, and all the metals imaginable. The plants that come out of the ground provide us with lumber, food, medicines, and fabric (and that is probably far from covering all of it)...
@@chelseawoolcott33 Her response was to the idea of a baby. She didn't go out and kill one. And I think the point is pretty clear-- if you can't even make time to care for a pet, how in the world are you going to care for a child? They're obviously not the same thing, but in that aspect, same concept.
@@emmaw2972 with her expressions and disgust to the idea I wouldn't be surprised if she would have an abortion though. Many women kill babies all the time because of not wanting one.
@@chelseawoolcott33 Uh-huh. Or they just... don't get pregnant in the first place. Wanting to be pregnant and have children isn't what constitutes being a good person.
Интересно, что мультфильм один, а комментарии совершенно о разном. Кто-то пишет об упадке института семьи и брака, кто-то видит причину в отсутствии детей, кто-то - в эгоизме. А я вижу тут двух героев, которых совершенно не интересует жизнь друг друга, ни сейчас, ни в перспективе. Это, по факту, и не семья (и дело тут совсем не в отсутствии детей), а соседи, которые только и делают, что отстаивают свое право на комфортный быт. А пятно на платье - символ затаенных и не высказанных обид, которые все сильнее разрушают отношения.
@@citrussuicide8549 lol I understand... it was just shocking and for an instant it seemed so real.... and then it escalated. It was just unexpected and I felt it. Good flim.
They both made mistakes and they couldn't find a compromise. Gosh this video is so packed with symbolism you need a 10+ page essay to unpack it all and still you'd miss things.
💯💯💯 *ABSOLUTELY* Most everyone in the comments missed almost everything! I watched it 7 times and was still catching metaphors as much the last time I watched it as the 1st!
Hmm both characters are portrayed as very cliche with exaggerated stereotypical traits, but clearly the woman's character is portrayed a lot worse. She's portrayed as extremely petty and selfish. The male character didn't really do anything wrong other than want to live a life. He is also portrayed as continuously reaching out to apologise or make her feel better. But I would say all the scenes and actions have a pretty straight forward meaning. There isn't any complex symbolism to decipher or to write 10 pages about.
1. He stained her dress and never fixed it 2. She brought the tv to make him happy but instead he made her miserable 3. She is always the one who steps down, like when she gave him the tv remote and he started to compare her to women in commercials (though she didn't while she was watching muscular handsome man) 3. He wanted a child but couldn't take care of a dog ( no responsibility) 4. He wanted bigger breasts with all of his flows and big belly and when he finally try to fix the very beginning stain he wanted his wife to change And when she tried to change him as well he got angry.. There r millions of husbands like him, this type should never breed
I like how symbolic it was When they destroy each other towards the end it just means the had different expectations from one another. And eventually they couldn't work out so they got divorced.. It's what happens when u don't discuss what u want from one another in a marriage. Love the art style btw ;)
I don't know, our goals change over time, even if they had planned everything out to a T from the start, a change in goals could still result in a similar mess. The issue isn't just that there was a problem from the start, it's that they basically allowed pursuit of personal comforts to drive them apart (or against each other in this case). They went in thinking life was going to be a happily ever after from that moment on, only to find that they soon took each other (and the well being of that other) for granted, and were back to pursuing daily comforts.
I hope the real bride and groom have a happier ending than their cake topper counterparts (on a side note: couples heading towards marriage should always discuss kids beforehand, to make sure they're on the same page to avoid possible resentment later)
Well, the same red wine stain appears on the dress at the end of the movie that foreshadows their future marriage. And the wedding photos in the end credits show that the cake topper behaved the same as the living couple: The woman wouldn't want to have a child, the man loves watching sport and big tits, while the woman has no visible tits and disinterested in football so they won't go well together.
I think it might be different because with the wedding toppers, she only kissed his cheek. But with the actual people she kissed him on the lips, so maybe that small difference makes it so that they have a better married life than the wedding toppers
@@KekPafrany But you see the last photo of them being together happily. I think the cake toppers were an example of an alternative of what could have happened if they were to focus on only what they liked and not their love for each other.
Not only kids, but everything. What does each partner expect of the other? Does one of them have strict roles in for men and for women? How will finances be handled? What are the expectations for how each partner will interact with people outside the marriage? How will decisions be made? Etc.
Never a guarantee. One of my godmothers got married with the understanding they both wanted children, she had fertility issues, and her husband later said he was GLAD because he didn't want kids after all. It devastated her. A friend of mine married a guy, however, and both of them DIDN'T want kids, and he cheated on her after 7 years and had a baby with a mistress and divorced her because--ta-da!--he DID want kids after all!
I actually love the subtle signs of the pictures at the ending credits - the difference between the groom and the bride when holding a child, the groom staring at a bride's maid's breast, a football's ticket as a gift...
Yeah a man who is that easy to seduce with just some random boobs, nope. A man whose priority is himself and not the relationship, nope. But also the 2 have different opinions on wanting a child or not. This relationship is doomed. And the guy is a hook up kinda person, he should not be married at all
Yes. I didnt even think about it. But you're right. Because all the time she kept worrying about the stain (issue). In marriage that's exactly what happens. That was a mistake or accident he made, but that was never resolved, so she keeps coming back to it. And unresolved issues create problems in marriage ☹. Thank you so much.
I think... It describes their relationship... As she did not have any problem with it but after spending some time she realized..and when she was sad.. She wanted to get rid of it.. (may be) 😀
For everyone who’s worried for the dog, he didn’t kill it. At 04:58 he smashed and then replaced the dog with a tv---> meaning that he sold the dog to buy a new tv
that was the purpose of making the story out of the cake figurines. the cake figurines usually symbolise the 'ideal marriage' - perfect husband, perfect wife and therefore perfect life. but marriage is never anything like your cake figurines.
@@AkiraAlexisSoyra It reminds me of the saying, *no one is really scared of falling, we are only scared of not having someone to catch us and hence crashing down.* Marriage, kids and family, aren't for everyone. But when you reject it, you should be clear that you're not rejecting it because of the fear of failing. It should be because you aren't genuinely interested, despite being aware that you can have a happy marriage, family and kids. Otherwise, one day you'd realize that, you've given up what you truly wanted, merely because you succumbed to fear.
Alternate ending: She walked out on him, taking the dog (who was much more devoted to her), and now lives on a cute tiny cupcake with rainbow sprinkles. Happily ever after.
he only covered her stain once he went too far and it was only “covering” it . not cleaning it or apologizing. then the icing started to slip and he packed more on. he never truly fixed anything, just tried to slap a bandaid on their hardships.
Moral: Marriage is messy. It's not going to always be easy, it's not always going to be fun. It has it's ups and downs, it has it's nice moments and it's harsh moments. You're a human marrying another human. You're no longer fighting for yourself, you're fighting for the team. If you can't handle the mess, if you can't handle the required shift in focus, don't get married.
The wine stain on her dress meant more than just a stain. It represented that she ignored his shortcomings (because she loved him) they lacked alot of conversation before marriage. There was no acceptance but ignorance of partners flaws.(because of love)
@Alita Hargrove Exactly. Loving someone unconditionally isn't bad. But loving someone unconditionally, who won't do the same to you, that's bad. He loves himself the most and she loves him the most as well. Neither of them loved her enough. Recipe for disaster.
That’s a nice way of thinking of it, but if you look at the pictures in the end credits, the same things happen. He looks happy carrying a child, but then she’s freaked out by it. He gets distracted by a woman’s big chest and is so happy to get sports tickets, but she looks annoyed, and she keeps covering the red stain
This has made me reflect on marriage. When two marry, the perspective also changes: There are not two problems, two concerns, two priorities, but rather, one. Therefore, taking the big step, getting married, causes us to think as one. The joy of one is also that of the other, the sadness of one is also that of the other, ...
this is the most wholesome perspective. i totally agree. both have lapses, but both dicuss and meet at the middle if they really want the marriage to work. ❤
I love the concept of this, and the foreshadowing. It's a good reminder that working on the relationship doesn't stop with getting married. Keeping the spark alive is a continual effort, and it gets harder with time as life happens. Very lovely, although the fate of the dog shocked me.
Why did she try to get rid off the stain on her dress whenever she was upset with him ? Does the the staining scene imply that the husband doesn't care enough for her ?
I think it's all symbolic, I understand the stain is a heartbreak the lady had against her husband, she clearly forgives him, but she does remember it when she gets upset. Every time he hurts her is a stain in her heart, she tries cleaning it but it doesn't go away. He didn't bother remove or help remove that stain but when he does ( which clearly made her happy) he hurts her again by giving her bigger boobs. I think it's all symbolic here, you interpret it how it came across to you
Sometimes we tend to hold on to public shame more than we care to admit initially. That hurt snowballs over time. Or who knows? Life is a horror story anyways 😕
I think it's about holding a grudge. Usually if something thats happened a long time a go still is bothering you, people tend to bring it up in arguments over and over. I don't think it means she holds a grudge for the wine stain, but probably represents something else.
I think it can also be interpreted as the red flags that she always knew were there (even prior to the wedding) but brushed them off until she was reminded of them again everytime they argued
It could be about sacrificing .. when she decided to get married she is sacrificing her self to serve her husband and live with him .. she sacrifices that she would stand patiently even in hard circumstances just to stay with him .. and whenever he hurts her she become broken because of the deal she made long time ago and continued along her life.. as asking her self did he derve it from me ?
Am I the only one who sees the "dog stomping" as a metaphor? Like him stomping on the dog actually meant him getting rid of it (selling it) for money so he could buy a new TV?
_Absolutely_ the entire short film was a metaphor. Every single thing in this film stands for something, seriously, _it's very deep if you watch it past surface level_
Of course also the stain showed their first fight/misunderstanding she kept rubbing old wounds and he kept expecting so much from her he got rid of things which made her happy or were her gift to buy things he needed
Sometimes feelings change. A friend of mine was very clear about not wanting kids, and her partner of 12 years suddenly changed his mind and wanted kids. Rough on the relationship when it happens.
The comment section is full of sympathy for the bride. Am I the only one who think they both made mistakes? And I also PERSONALLY think the spilled wine thing is really just an accident. But the bride seemed to never forget about it even though years already passed. This is my personal opinion please don’t attack me.
I would too. I love sleeping. I even call napping on my parents bed while my mom reads a book "mother-daughter quality time", so I'll likely be the same way with a spouse.
А куда они смотрели, когда выбирали друг друга? Были бы повнимательнее, не пришлось бы переделывать. Современные парни совсем испортились: им только красивых и подавай...
Если люди любят друг друга действительно такими, какие они есть, то никто никого не будет даже пытаться переделать, потому что принимает своего спутника жизни со всеми его достоинствами и недостатками. А если изначально строить отношения с оговоркой на то, что в человеке нравится всё, НО! вот это бы поменять в нём, а в супружеской жизни точно поменяется, потому что никуда не денется... То и исход таких взаимоотношений соответственный. Да и как минимум нужно быть самими собой друг с другом, потому как многие влюбляются в созданный самим человеком образ, а потом, когда при совместном быте пелена спадает, то и улыбка уже не та, и глаза что-то не сияют, и характер совершенно другой... Любовь - очень многогранное чувство, и, как сказал один замечательный человек: "Если любовь заканчивается, то это не любовь".
Pet is not a answer when you dont wanna share dreams and time with your couple. The dog came as a solution when the man propose the obvious for one family: children.
Because he didn't really want one. Thats realism, men say they want children but then when you give them one they are the first to complain or make no effort to help you look after them.
@@helenahooley2076 Women are like that as well, they can say they want/ dream to have a big family. Though when they do, they can't handle kids as well as they thought. Some even just keep making kids and end up passing on the responsibility of taking care of the kids to the kids themselves, they would just have the older siblings take care of the younger, as if they were servants.
That one offense that takes years for you to forgive. Every time she was upset she went back to that stain which frustrates her more. Cherish one another and keep working at it. Love conquers all. We were given the Power of Love from God.
the stain is brought up again and again unless it is fixed. any problem should be talked and settled over. And God's guidance as well shall wrap a marriage and their journey of being a family. :)
Moral of the story; "Communication is key for a healthy relationship and accept each other flaws an all." The part that rub me the wrong way was what happened to the dog. 1st Do you not communicate with your partner about your future, like if you want kids or not? Finding out after marriage, sucks. So the replacement is a dog? Like what smh 2nd You don't just get a dog to replace a child to shut your partner up. A dog is still a responsibility; you have to feed, groom, take care of their health, train/teach them etc... I just can't understand people sometimes smh I know this is just a short film but these kinda thing happens in real life which bugs me a lot *rolls eyes*
I love that they included the sweet bits, and made us root for the relationship to recover despite the problems. That's what keeps you in these situations, and pretending like it's a simple matter of seeing all the red flags downplays a lot of what keeps people invested. Yes you should figure these things out first, but once you're in, you feel like that's it.
А многие пары живут хорошо! Но показывают именно плохие пары. Эти мультики работают на разрушение института семьи в принципе. Раньше всегда заканчивалось хепиэндом. А сейчас один негатив демонстрируют намеренно....
А я не понимаю зачем выбирать себе типаж партнера на всю жизнь, если тебя привлекает другой? Он засматривается на большую грудь, выбирал бы девушку с пышным бюстом изначально. А ей нравятся спортсмены… мне кажется там изначально не было любви( по принципу синица в руках…
@@РитаЛюбимова-ъ2ъ несчастных пар больше. мораль сей мультика: общайтесь, узнавайте партнера и его планы ДО свадьбы, надо уметь проговаривать. Плюс ищите партнёра на свой вкус сразу, чтобы потом не переделывать. В мультике и муж и жена оба "молодцы".
And in reality most of the time the guys are much worse. In real life, most of the time i truly believe women are the ones searching for real solutions. I have even heard some men admit they need a woman to keep them on their toes.
@@marthamedina7561 Yeah...tell that to the statistics. But seriously, men just don't speak up and women are less direct about it. It's pretty much on an equal playing field. My mother was not the one trying to find solutions
@@marthamedina7561 They are the same. It's not a thing about gender, it's a thing about being someone who cares for her/his relationship. Sometimes women care more, sometimes men care more. In my case, in my parents relationship, my father was the one who was looking for solution.
Потому что брак, это когда сидят в одной лодке и смотрят в одну сторону. А чтобы вместе смотреть, нужно учиться слышать другого человека и менять себя, свой эгоизм, а это истинный труд!
Maybe the 'Cake in Shambles' was something of a metaphor for how things wound to following that (arguing)scene? Something of a timeskip maybe, resulting in either a divorce or an overall miserable marriage. But a double interpretation may be intentional (on the animator's side), allows people's creativity more flexibility to better mold the details they noticed into a story of what they think happened as opposed to one with a definitive end, allows them to get a more varied set of responses.
What if (in this universe) there was one bakery that was known for predicting the outcome of a marriage. Like in the short, the mini figures would be sentient (or it would be said that they are) and they would enact the exact way the marriage will happen (unless the couple take action). The the figures were damaged/the cake is damaged then it would signify different things about the marriage. Maybe there would be a ceremony in some weddings where the couple would analyze the cake for any issues: broken figurines, misplaced frosting, uneven frosting, damaged cake shape, etc. If everything was fine then it would be that the marriage would end in bliss. If there were issues with the cake then there’d be issues with the marriage. And what if the couple could take action? What if they receive a disfigured cake? The guests gasp in horror. The couple look at each other frantically before inspecting the cake. The find a possible catalyst for the fragmentation of their love. This causes them to be more open about everything in their relationship and eventually, living happily and peacefully. The cake having saved their marriage.
Propably not. Humans have a tendency to dwell on bad things...Which is why curses, spells and fortunes were a big part of ancient life. Even if things were going good..They might blow up a small problem into a catastrophic problem by thinking about this over and over. Kinda like the witches prophesisng Macbeths future. It could be said that by dwelling on the prophecy Macbeth acted in ways that he wouldn't do normally and eventually the prophecy played out exactly as it was announced. However i like that idea and would love to get pointers like that way ahead of the marriage haha.
The "real life" photos are so much happier. The couple still had the same likes and dislikes and differences, but they got along much better. From this, we can conclude that if they got a dog, it would be treated much better.
Ok so conclusion:- the "stain" on the dress represents the stain in their life. The man wasn't surely worth her obliviously the first thing he made was a bed. Yeah! He did covered the stain for once but covering it doesn't mean that it's gone. After that they started to point out the lacks in each other and instead of filling them they wanted a different person. The marriage was definitely a wrong choice for the lady.
I agree with you but it also seemed the wrong choice for him - they had very different interests in life concerning children and hobbies etc. I'd say that they are both at fault
this example shows how important it is: 1. long communication before the wedding to get to know each other better! 2. Solve important issues BEFORE getting married! Where to live, whether to have children and when, and so on. 3. try to meet each other halfway, look for compromises!
If you don't be open at the beginning with your spouse what you want together the plans and everything, this will happen.. But marriage is not always rainbows and butterflies. It needs love, patience and communication ♥️
Seek to understand if you want to be understood. Folks look deep enough, this movie is more than "he bad she good agenda." The more you blame the other, the less you are likely to solve anything.
But she is still trying to make him happy but he didn't .I don't like him She was pretty and he was fat but still he tries to make her sextoy and then she tries to do the same he smacked clay....hmm So I think it is metaphor that you shouldn't marry anyone who is only needing you but Marry someone if they want to take a responsibility.Even if reverse the gender one is trying and another one is only taking advantages.
To anyone who plans to get married, be sure to discuss the important stuff beforehand, like babies, pets, and finances. There’s more to marriage than just enjoying life with someone you love, it’s about, well, surviving together as well!
@@MiorPhoenix Yes, I know. :-) But they'd already _watched_ and started to covet something they _didn't_ have rather than embracing what they _did_ have (love, each other, that newlywed feeling, a future together, etc). Did you notice that the "wine stain" was not only blood red but was directly over the woman's heart? Was it _supposed_ to resemble a bullet wound? And it was _awful_ that he killed the dog! :-( And that their "lust" for something _else,_ destroyed any possibility of happiness or contentment with each other. I'm sorry that this is the view of marriage -- I understand _why,_ mind you, but it still makes me very sad. Peace, SirenSima.
When the guy did that to the puppy my heart broke into a thousand pieces :'( Clearly here the bad thing was that they were not friends, romance and lust pass quickly in a relationship, what lasts is commitment and friendship; in addition, she did not want (at least) biological children, which is completely understandable and moral, but that is discussed before...you know...getting married.
I don't think she thought they were ready for it yet, and CLEARLY she was right. He neglected and killed the dog that she gave him. Or, she just didn't want a child.
Мое сердце разбилось когда марципановый жених раздавил собаку... 😭Если история торта тут начинает повторяться в реальной жизни, страшно представить что реальный жених с животным сделает...
@@m.e.9118 сильно хотел, сам бы и рожал) а если серьёзно, он даже с собакой погулять не может, а малого бы на жену скинул, нежеланного ею и гораздо более сложного в уходе чем пес. Хотеть не значит брать ответственность
She was trying alright, but not to have a healthy, balanced marriage. She was trying to get him to do what she wanted and be what she wanted. She was just as selfish as he was. It just showed up differently.
This was literally my first marriage. I actually have pictures of me looking miserable right before time to walk down the isle. I knew it wasn’t what I wanted but didn’t expect it to become abusive. You live, you learn, you eventually find the person you are really meant to be with
Things r pretty much clear u have to be tactful n understanding to tackle after marraige issues.... That makes one mature some people don't even get matured even after marraige.... I loved the content it shows the positive n negative both side of a divorce futured marraige....
Before I watched the video I saw the title and thought to myself "wow, wouldnt it be cool if instead of real people they were made out of cake" and suddenly they were made out of cake.
@@РитаЛюбимова-ъ2ъ Ну вот где именно они вбивают это? Тут показаны типичные ошибки, из-за которых и разваливаются семьи! Посмотрите статистику разводов и ужаснетесь. Такие мультики нужны, чтобы наоборот, уберечь молодежь от ошибок. Надо же было сказануть, антиреклама..... Я понимаю, если бы в этом мульте, супруги ругались бы беспричинно, но тут явное вытекание одного из другого!
@@user-svet328svet вы отвечаете на МОЙ комментарий, так что я отвечаю на него ровно так, как у человека хватило ума написать. Это во-первых. А во-вторых, читать сначала научитесь, а потом с умным, но неуместным, видом отвечайте на комментарии других людей.
В момент, когда они переделывали друг друга - в этой борьбе разрушили друг друга до основания. Печальное зрелище. И никого из них не смог остановиться.
Moral of the story: *The key to experiencing true love in life, is to first love yourself, properly.* Neither too much nor too less of self love. The story is about a relationship. In which, the man loved himself the most and the woman loved him the most as well. *Both of them failed to love her.* He didn't love her as much as she loved him, hence he is fine with hurting her feelings. She doesn't love herself enough to stop encouraging his hurtful behavior towards her. Spiritually: God gifted you with a vessel to enjoy all comforts on this Earth with. Hence it's your first and foremost duty to never fail in caring for it. Biologically: "Not loving yourself enough" means you've failed to care for your own emotional health. Now, unless you got lucky and met someone who is genuine, you are at a risk of ending up with someone toxic, who takes advantage of your emotional vulnerability. The "evil" one in your life, could be your significant other, your friend, your co-worker, etc. Sigh. Thousands of ways to love or hurt someone. This "self love" is not just the "basic need" to make a marriage work. It goes far deep than that. This is something that is required to live a fulfilling life as a human.
Holy guacamole. I wrote all of that, 2 months ago. The things my mind does, while getting high off memes and choccy milk.... just marvelous. It's truly the core to achieving peak performance in life.
I actually can understand this symbolism. The stain is represents something they cannot remove or hide in their marriage, no matter how hard they try. They went into marriage without a realistic expectation of what married life really entails (give and take) and they both get into it, thinking it will be according to their fantasies of what they think their marriage would be, without actually understanding each other deeply 1st or checking if their life goals match. A common, sad scenario. My parents are now going through the state of disillusionment and turned toxic on everybody.
Bear ate the couple People: meh Dog gets squashed People: OH MY GOD DID YOU SAW THAT THAT WAS SO CRUEL, IT ISN'T FAIR THEIR IS NO COMPASSION FOR ANIMALS IN THIS WORLD
Meh. The bear - hungry wild animal doesn’t know “better” and acting on instinct. The man - sentient being who does know better acting out of anger deliberately. Also, he was trying to insist the woman have children (against her will), so imagine if the dog had been one of his children needing his care/attention; would he stomp on the child?
@@charzipuddin6129 most comments here are complaining about how extremely violent the dog getting squashed by foot looked and almost no one mentions the humans getting eaten alive one by one, it is about how violent it seemed and how it made people feel uncomfortable I don't think many are really looking at the back story of the person that committed the act rather talking about how it looked
@@strawberrykun6136 - I am seriously concerned that you are more upset about tiny representations of a woman's fear of bears than you are about a man literally stomping a dog to death in anger. I mean, the tiny fake bear was just acting on instinct anyways. You'd probably be pretty pissed too if someone came crashing through your backyard and lighting your shit on fire! But the bear doesn't have police to call to get them arrested so he does what he has to in order to protect his territory. But what makes me even more concerned is that you think the guy's backstory is somehow an excuse for murdering an innocent dog that only wanted to go for a walk. There's NEVER an excuse for animal cruelty or cruelty of ANY KIND! The fact of the matter is, that dog was killed because his owner didn't like him anymore and got angry. The tiny fake bear ate the tiny fake people because it's a wild animal that is only acting on instinct in its own territory. The dog was a real, full sized creature with wants/needs (to go for a walk), and killing it because you're angry is inexcusable and wrong. So stop trying to make excuses for it.
А реальность такова, что многие пары не готовы брать на себя ответственность и вместе развиваться в отношениях. Сначала обуреваемые страстью рисуют себе то, что хотят сами, думая что эта страсть останется на всю жизнь, но ни кто не хочет уступать друг другу. Эгоистические отношения в семье приводят к развалу. Нужно уметь принимать, договариваться и уважать!
To all who are sad about what happens to the dog, we'd like to recommend this other beautiful short film, which is better for the dog! ruclips.net/video/WfxQuD9weWM/видео.html
I'm not going out with you guys doing today. I spoke with
@@tocalily6660 Hola
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It doesn't freaking help or change the fact that you made an animation where the character freaking smashed and killed a dog
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moral of the story, marriage is not just about loving someone, it's about much more. Talk about all the little things and the big things before you get married.
I have a bad feeling that this won't work either. It could easily turn into petty and controlling behaviour.
AMEN! AMEN! We need to enter relationships aware of these dangers and how to prevent them that dog could have been a fondant child or he could have turned her on her and killed her. She was needing his help. He was physically and sexually agressive throughout. That's not a MAN.
@Notre Aira Thanks for telling me how worthless I am.
This is true, even though we want to have happy endings, they are not granted to us. We have to work hard and understand each other and our feelings in order to earn and truly have our happy endings.
And dont kill dogs.
My heart skipped a beat when he did that to the dog.
Ikr I was like what!?! That was the only thing I didn't like
That's not how you use the phrase
I was like wtf Who would do such a thing who kills animals 🥺
@@spades2575 how do we use the phrase ?
Ikr i wasnt happy about tge sound it made
I think the meaning of the dog being "squashed" is that he sold the dog and the money he got from that is used to buy the mini tv. In the end their marriage did not work out because of each other's preferences of a perfect wife/husband.
lion popsicles I think it’s a bit more general than that. Like him not caring about her wishes (in this case, the dog) but only about his
OH GOD, THANKS FOR SAYING THIS EVEN THOUGH IT'S STILL SAD. IT WAS JUST SO DISTURBING BECAUSE THE DOG WAS ADORABLE AND LOVED THEM BOTH... :(
@@ana-maria8350 Why is it only him? She was just as selfish and abusive as he was. She denied his wishes just as much or more as he did hers and before he ever did. She made the first physical contact by throwing a spoon at him. She was a spoiled brat. Being female does NOT give a woman a pass to be verbally or physically abusive. Too many modern women have "Princess Syndrome." They think they can do/say/act any way they want just because they were born female. That's just called being childish and women need to grow up. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated and they will reciprocate.
CATwoman 1 I’m trying to figure out what wishes did she deny him. Having a child? Yeah, because she didn’t want one. That was both their mistake, they should’ve discussed kids before getting married. Now, I don’t remember exactly what happened in this video since I’ve watched it a while ago, but I don’t recall her hitting him. If she did, that’s just as wrong. What I do recall is him not doing anything around the house, which I wouldn’t call abusive, just being a really shitty partner. What I also recall is him destroying something she cared deeply about just to get back at her (after she destroyed the thing that was distracting him so fucking much that he couldn’t act like a husband). Which was abusive. And then both of them got physically abusive at the end
I hope that's the case with the dog!!!
Y’all are missing something. At the start, she kissed his cheek. At the end, he willingly kissed her back. Meaning that the real life may not actually turn out like the cake life.
Absolutely agree :) I was searching for this comment ^^
The end credits show that his interests are the same so likely their story will be the same 😢
U are talented!
If they can't even decide on whether or not they want kids until they're married, I don't really see a bright future for them.
Hey, I’m just hoping that although the ending is almost similar to the start, not all events will be the same, especially in the case of the husband absolutely murdering that dog
The stain of red wine was what I would consider a red flag. The fact that he spilled it right over her heart (the left side of her chest) makes it seem like she knew all along from her instincts and her gut feeling that the marriage wasn't gonna work out but she chose to brush it off which we literally see her doing, but in the end, red wine leaves a stain that doesn't leave, no matter how much brushing off you do.
Didn't seem like an intentional action of the man. The red flag is her unwillingness to let it go. She keeps revisiting his mistake and not trying to draw near when he tries to make things right.
deep
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@@chelseawoolcott33 that's also a very good theory
Spot on dude!!! I was trying to figure that out too. He spilt it right over her heart-so some type of murder/death I supposed at first. But really that moment represents their entire marriage. His carelessness and lack of accommodation is damaging and the way she holds back her anger until she can’t anymore is just a recipe for destruction. She marries him because she wants her ideal romantic life but settles for something lower than her expectations. The fact is that both these partners disappoint each other and don’t meet the other’s expectations.
I know there’s a lot of controversy going on in this comments section, but imagine what it would be like to be able to just create things out of the ground.
Humans have been creating things from the ground since we grew a cerebrum. Fossil fuels provide us with petroleum, oil, gasoline, tar, and plastics. The minerals and stones of the earth itself are used to create glass, concrete, and all the metals imaginable. The plants that come out of the ground provide us with lumber, food, medicines, and fabric (and that is probably far from covering all of it)...
Patrick Star
Erm.. that's what humans do
Uhh... you mean like building lol
YAsss
He wanted a baby and then didn’t even have time to care for the dog. The worst part it’s that this happens repeatedly in real life.
You don't have an issue with her response to a baby?
She got the dog and also didn't care for it. Dogs and children aren't interchangeable.
Dogs and children are quiet different.
@@chelseawoolcott33 Her response was to the idea of a baby. She didn't go out and kill one. And I think the point is pretty clear-- if you can't even make time to care for a pet, how in the world are you going to care for a child? They're obviously not the same thing, but in that aspect, same concept.
@@emmaw2972 with her expressions and disgust to the idea I wouldn't be surprised if she would have an abortion though. Many women kill babies all the time because of not wanting one.
@@chelseawoolcott33 Uh-huh. Or they just... don't get pregnant in the first place. Wanting to be pregnant and have children isn't what constitutes being a good person.
Интересно, что мультфильм один, а комментарии совершенно о разном. Кто-то пишет об упадке института семьи и брака, кто-то видит причину в отсутствии детей, кто-то - в эгоизме. А я вижу тут двух героев, которых совершенно не интересует жизнь друг друга, ни сейчас, ни в перспективе. Это, по факту, и не семья (и дело тут совсем не в отсутствии детей), а соседи, которые только и делают, что отстаивают свое право на комфортный быт.
А пятно на платье - символ затаенных и не высказанных обид, которые все сильнее разрушают отношения.
Согласна на 1000 %
Скорее брак не по любви, а по убеждениям.
Полностью согласна с вами🙏
А виной всему пятно от вина.
@Yulechka Iv а я ненавижу дочь и мужа своей соседки. И причина на то серьёзная...
I am so disturbed by what he did to the dog....
if it helps, the dog was made out of fondant.
@@citrussuicide8549 lol I understand... it was just shocking and for an instant it seemed so real.... and then it escalated. It was just unexpected and I felt it. Good flim.
@@katblue1460 It was really well done! I feel like killing a dog is a bit of an extreme reaction to destroying a TV tbh
Kat Blue saaaame!! And the way he treated her! He was such a pig and it was disturbing that he was physical fighting her!
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They both made mistakes and they couldn't find a compromise.
Gosh this video is so packed with symbolism you need a 10+ page essay to unpack it all and still you'd miss things.
💯💯💯 *ABSOLUTELY* Most everyone in the comments missed almost everything! I watched it 7 times and was still catching metaphors as much the last time I watched it as the 1st!
Can you give any examples?
I know, right?!! I absolutely loved it! 😍
@@annenjambi8579 zaasss
Hmm both characters are portrayed as very cliche with exaggerated stereotypical traits, but clearly the woman's character is portrayed a lot worse. She's portrayed as extremely petty and selfish. The male character didn't really do anything wrong other than want to live a life. He is also portrayed as continuously reaching out to apologise or make her feel better.
But I would say all the scenes and actions have a pretty straight forward meaning. There isn't any complex symbolism to decipher or to write 10 pages about.
1. He stained her dress and never fixed it
2. She brought the tv to make him happy but instead he made her miserable
3. She is always the one who steps down, like when she gave him the tv remote and he started to compare her to women in commercials (though she didn't while she was watching muscular handsome man)
3. He wanted a child but couldn't take care of a dog ( no responsibility)
4. He wanted bigger breasts with all of his flows and big belly and when he finally try to fix the very beginning stain he wanted his wife to change
And when she tried to change him as well he got angry..
There r millions of husbands like him, this type should never breed
Luv it
Their both in the wrong alrighty not just the husband -.-
Husband really had some more faults doe in the marriage
I would say every man in general is like him - never satisfied.
@@Myview246 ok that is NOT true.
Well sorry but it's kinda not
I like how symbolic it was
When they destroy each other towards the end it just means the had different expectations from one another. And eventually they couldn't work out so they got divorced..
It's what happens when u don't discuss what u want from one another in a marriage.
Love the art style btw ;)
I don't know, our goals change over time, even if they had planned everything out to a T from the start, a change in goals could still result in a similar mess. The issue isn't just that there was a problem from the start, it's that they basically allowed pursuit of personal comforts to drive them apart (or against each other in this case). They went in thinking life was going to be a happily ever after from that moment on, only to find that they soon took each other (and the well being of that other) for granted, and were back to pursuing daily comforts.
I hope the real bride and groom have a happier ending than their cake topper counterparts
(on a side note: couples heading towards marriage should always discuss kids beforehand, to make sure they're on the same page to avoid possible resentment later)
Well, the same red wine stain appears on the dress at the end of the movie that foreshadows their future marriage. And the wedding photos in the end credits show that the cake topper behaved the same as the living couple: The woman wouldn't want to have a child, the man loves watching sport and big tits, while the woman has no visible tits and disinterested in football so they won't go well together.
THE JENNY ROCKS Why do you say they don’t have morals?
I think it might be different because with the wedding toppers, she only kissed his cheek. But with the actual people she kissed him on the lips, so maybe that small difference makes it so that they have a better married life than the wedding toppers
@@KekPafrany But you see the last photo of them being together happily. I think the cake toppers were an example of an alternative of what could have happened if they were to focus on only what they liked and not their love for each other.
Not only kids, but everything. What does each partner expect of the other? Does one of them have strict roles in for men and for women? How will finances be handled? What are the expectations for how each partner will interact with people outside the marriage? How will decisions be made? Etc.
Watched this after getting married and it gave me chills. So glad we actually talked about everything before getting married
I wish you a happy live
don't let your husband squish your dog, please
Kakyoin the doughnut how do you know I have a tiny dog 🐶 ?
@@1cutieish friendship magic, my friend
Doesnt matter if you did. They lie! Mine did.
Maybe should have discussed kids before getting married..
Never a guarantee. One of my godmothers got married with the understanding they both wanted children, she had fertility issues, and her husband later said he was GLAD because he didn't want kids after all. It devastated her. A friend of mine married a guy, however, and both of them DIDN'T want kids, and he cheated on her after 7 years and had a baby with a mistress and divorced her because--ta-da!--he DID want kids after all!
Limey True, but in the video it looked like he only asked her about kids after they got married
@@limalicious you make me want to slap them
@@limalicious scumbag guys
@@limalicious 🤣😂tragic
I actually love the subtle signs of the pictures at the ending credits - the difference between the groom and the bride when holding a child, the groom staring at a bride's maid's breast, a football's ticket as a gift...
This will end poorly...
Now. This comment should have the most likes
Yeah a man who is that easy to seduce with just some random boobs, nope. A man whose priority is himself and not the relationship, nope. But also the 2 have different opinions on wanting a child or not. This relationship is doomed. And the guy is a hook up kinda person, he should not be married at all
This short film taught me that marriage isn't for everyone.
true...
Or maybe u just need the right person...? 🤗🤗
yeah im watching u kids 😶😶
@@candypetlife :)akward*
@@suzilynn70 you just don't get it, do you?
I think the stain represents a crack in their marriage, from the very beginning
Yes. I didnt even think about it. But you're right. Because all the time she kept worrying about the stain (issue). In marriage that's exactly what happens. That was a mistake or accident he made, but that was never resolved, so she keeps coming back to it. And unresolved issues create problems in marriage ☹. Thank you so much.
@@cervantace2191 maybe she wanted to have breast implants or something (like the girls in the television), but they can't afford to
Azzie Studios ohh thanks!
@@mxwitcher or not fixing an unresolved issue properly
I think... It describes their relationship... As she did not have any problem with it but after spending some time she realized..and when she was sad.. She wanted to get rid of it.. (may be) 😀
Wait if he spilled wine in her dress in real life then.... the dog... OH MY-
I thought the same
Does that also mean they kill each other or get divorced?????
And... Finally....They are gonna kill each other...?
I don't get it
Yes, he will !!
For everyone who’s worried for the dog, he didn’t kill it. At 04:58 he smashed and then replaced the dog with a tv---> meaning that he sold the dog to buy a new tv
That's dark
You're right. But still cruel
Still awful for the dog, it had it's family it trusted and they got rid of him, that's traumatizing for a dog.
keep dreaming bro
Whoa that was deep bro
This is the *ReAl* moral of the story:
Marriage behind closed doors is no fairy tale.
So true.
that was the purpose of making the story out of the cake figurines. the cake figurines usually symbolise the 'ideal marriage' - perfect husband, perfect wife and therefore perfect life. but marriage is never anything like your cake figurines.
Not interested in marrying... or ever having kids...
@@AkiraAlexisSoyra It reminds me of the saying, *no one is really scared of falling, we are only scared of not having someone to catch us and hence crashing down.*
Marriage, kids and family, aren't for everyone. But when you reject it, you should be clear that you're not rejecting it because of the fear of failing. It should be because you aren't genuinely interested, despite being aware that you can have a happy marriage, family and kids.
Otherwise, one day you'd realize that, you've given up what you truly wanted, merely because you succumbed to fear.
aesthetic dåisy I feel like the moral of the story is that we always want the other person to change, to be “perfect”
Alternate ending: She walked out on him, taking the dog (who was much more devoted to her), and now lives on a cute tiny cupcake with rainbow sprinkles. Happily ever after.
Awww
Perfect
fam this is how it should be ended
Yay❤
With that attitude our societies will get extinct.
he only covered her stain once he went too far and it was only “covering” it . not cleaning it or apologizing. then the icing started to slip and he packed more on. he never truly fixed anything, just tried to slap a bandaid on their hardships.
I mean...have you tried getting red stains out of white fabrics?
Moral: Marriage is messy. It's not going to always be easy, it's not always going to be fun. It has it's ups and downs, it has it's nice moments and it's harsh moments. You're a human marrying another human. You're no longer fighting for yourself, you're fighting for the team. If you can't handle the mess, if you can't handle the required shift in focus, don't get married.
Smooshing the dog into the ground would of been a deal breaker for me.
A man who doesn't treat aminals well is not a good man.
I agree completely
Yes you know someone’s good if they can treat animals right
If my partner so much as hurt that dog I would break HIM.
Humans are animals and he treats his wife badly
I think he didn’t actually kill the dog, he probably sold him so he can buy a tv since his wife destroyed the one they had
The wine stain on her dress meant more than just a stain. It represented that she ignored his shortcomings (because she loved him) they lacked alot of conversation before marriage. There was no acceptance but ignorance of partners flaws.(because of love)
@Alita Hargrove yes. Agree...
@Alita Hargrove Exactly. Loving someone unconditionally isn't bad.
But loving someone unconditionally, who won't do the same to you, that's bad.
He loves himself the most and she loves him the most as well. Neither of them loved her enough. Recipe for disaster.
I think the main problem was that they never listened to eachother
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I like to think their full kiss on the mouth at the end was a sign that their marriage would end up better than the cake toppers'.
That’s a nice way of thinking of it, but if you look at the pictures in the end credits, the same things happen. He looks happy carrying a child, but then she’s freaked out by it. He gets distracted by a woman’s big chest and is so happy to get sports tickets, but she looks annoyed, and she keeps covering the red stain
I wasn't to think that too, but I also noticed what Mahiyat mentioned.
Would like to add: she does the house chores while all he cares about is football/his interests
@@ana-maria8350 and he couldn’t even take care of the dog lmao nd wanted kid
Married 40 years tomorrow! This made me smile, it's very creative.
Congratulations!! Any advice?
This has made me reflect on marriage. When two marry, the perspective also changes: There are not two problems, two concerns, two priorities, but rather, one. Therefore, taking the big step, getting married, causes us to think as one. The joy of one is also that of the other, the sadness of one is also that of the other, ...
this is the most wholesome perspective. i totally agree. both have lapses, but both dicuss and meet at the middle if they really want the marriage to work. ❤
who else is mad that the fact THAT HE SMASHED THE DOG
It's actually mean *he sold the dog then buy a new TV*
MEH
Me !!
Poor dog
HE IS A BRAT >:{
Everyone here sad about the squished icing dog, nobody talking about how they slaughtered each other.
lolololol true story
Idk y a lot of people care more about dogs than other humans. We should love and care equally for both ❤️❤️
They murdered a dog. Not shedding any tears over those two.
@@JBear87 Indeed, the dog did nothing wrong and it just gets killed by them.
@@JBear87 not they. him
I love the concept of this, and the foreshadowing. It's a good reminder that working on the relationship doesn't stop with getting married. Keeping the spark alive is a continual effort, and it gets harder with time as life happens. Very lovely, although the fate of the dog shocked me.
Why did she try to get rid off the stain on her dress whenever she was upset with him ?
Does the the staining scene imply that the husband doesn't care enough for her ?
I think it's all symbolic, I understand the stain is a heartbreak the lady had against her husband, she clearly forgives him, but she does remember it when she gets upset. Every time he hurts her is a stain in her heart, she tries cleaning it but it doesn't go away. He didn't bother remove or help remove that stain but when he does ( which clearly made her happy) he hurts her again by giving her bigger boobs.
I think it's all symbolic here, you interpret it how it came across to you
Sometimes we tend to hold on to public shame more than we care to admit initially. That hurt snowballs over time.
Or who knows? Life is a horror story anyways 😕
I think it's about holding a grudge. Usually if something thats happened a long time a go still is bothering you, people tend to bring it up in arguments over and over. I don't think it means she holds a grudge for the wine stain, but probably represents something else.
I think it can also be interpreted as the red flags that she always knew were there (even prior to the wedding) but brushed them off until she was reminded of them again everytime they argued
It could be about sacrificing .. when she decided to get married she is sacrificing her self to serve her husband and live with him .. she sacrifices that she would stand patiently even in hard circumstances just to stay with him .. and whenever he hurts her she become broken because of the deal she made long time ago and continued along her life.. as asking her self did he derve it from me ?
Am I the only one who sees the "dog stomping" as a metaphor? Like him stomping on the dog actually meant him getting rid of it (selling it) for money so he could buy a new TV?
Nah
_Absolutely_ the entire short film was a metaphor. Every single thing in this film stands for something, seriously, _it's very deep if you watch it past surface level_
@@Griselda_Puppy Agee! It’s about two people who get into a marriage with completely different exceptions, assuming that love would be enough
Wow someone with a brain!!
Of course also the stain showed their first fight/misunderstanding she kept rubbing old wounds and he kept expecting so much from her he got rid of things which made her happy or were her gift to buy things he needed
I love how this is LITERALLY about building a life together and making compromises. That’s the symbolism and it’s beautiful.
Шедевр))) За 7 минут без единого слова так много и точно сказано)))
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Это почти всегда
Am I the only one who finds it odd that they hadn't discussed kids (yes/no) before marriage?
Yes!!
@Tasmeema Tabassum And that's a huge problem
Sometimes feelings change. A friend of mine was very clear about not wanting kids, and her partner of 12 years suddenly changed his mind and wanted kids. Rough on the relationship when it happens.
Some people rush into marriage.
Its her fault. She was dishonest
The comment section is full of sympathy for the bride. Am I the only one who think they both made mistakes? And I also PERSONALLY think the spilled wine thing is really just an accident. But the bride seemed to never forget about it even though years already passed.
This is my personal opinion please don’t attack me.
I agree
Feel my wrath feel attacked aahaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
STUPED!.
@@luzmarinagilayala1422 o.o
*attacks him with spoon*
Of course the first thing he builds is a bed!
Lol.. Damn true
And she rejoices 😜 But her mood drops at the hint of a child in their life 🥺
I would too. I love sleeping. I even call napping on my parents bed while my mom reads a book "mother-daughter quality time", so I'll likely be the same way with a spouse.
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Как точно! Сначала любим такими, какие есть, а потом начинаем переделывать под себя
Я думаю там изначально не было любви, а просто компромисс
Да никто не был просто изначально такими какие они есть на самом деле
А куда они смотрели, когда выбирали друг друга? Были бы повнимательнее, не пришлось бы переделывать. Современные парни совсем испортились: им только красивых и подавай...
Если люди любят друг друга действительно такими, какие они есть, то никто никого не будет даже пытаться переделать, потому что принимает своего спутника жизни со всеми его достоинствами и недостатками. А если изначально строить отношения с оговоркой на то, что в человеке нравится всё, НО! вот это бы поменять в нём, а в супружеской жизни точно поменяется, потому что никуда не денется... То и исход таких взаимоотношений соответственный. Да и как минимум нужно быть самими собой друг с другом, потому как многие влюбляются в созданный самим человеком образ, а потом, когда при совместном быте пелена спадает, то и улыбка уже не та, и глаза что-то не сияют, и характер совершенно другой...
Любовь - очень многогранное чувство, и, как сказал один замечательный человек: "Если любовь заканчивается, то это не любовь".
Жене не захотелось беременеть. А, говорят, что беременность красит женщин. Вы согласны?
Moral of the story: don’t get a dog if you’re not willing to devote a huge amount of time and attention to it
Not the one.. But yeah true!
Well yes, but actually no.
You got the right idea, just incorrect target
Pet is not a answer when you dont wanna share dreams and time with your couple. The dog came as a solution when the man propose the obvious for one family: children.
Well said...always go within your means.
If they could make a live dog out of the icing, why didn’t he just sculpt himself a baby?
Oof
But then the story wouldn't make sence it would Imply that HE got her pregnant
I like to believe that only she could create life from icing... Which would simbolically represents the fact that only women can give birth.
Because he didn't really want one. Thats realism, men say they want children but then when you give them one they are the first to complain or make no effort to help you look after them.
@@helenahooley2076 Women are like that as well, they can say they want/ dream to have a big family. Though when they do, they can't handle kids as well as they thought. Some even just keep making kids and end up passing on the responsibility of taking care of the kids to the kids themselves, they would just have the older siblings take care of the younger, as if they were servants.
That one offense that takes years for you to forgive. Every time she was upset she went back to that stain which frustrates her more. Cherish one another and keep working at it. Love conquers all. We were given the Power of Love from God.
the stain is brought up again and again unless it is fixed. any problem should be talked and settled over. And God's guidance as well shall wrap a marriage and their journey of being a family. :)
U r soooo RIGHT
I actually love these animations, they are so unique and adorable
This was a student project ? Very well done. Great design from drawing board to film. Enjoyed it a lot, thanks.
Seems like what happened on the cake is a preview of what the marriage is going to be.
... Well yea
Foreshadowing
and i thought i was the only one noticing that, thanks for remarking 😊😏
Moral of the story; "Communication is key for a healthy relationship and accept each other flaws an all."
The part that rub me the wrong way was what happened to the dog. 1st Do you not communicate with your partner about your future, like if you want kids or not? Finding out after marriage, sucks. So the replacement is a dog? Like what smh 2nd You don't just get a dog to replace a child to shut your partner up. A dog is still a responsibility; you have to feed, groom, take care of their health, train/teach them etc... I just can't understand people sometimes smh I know this is just a short film but these kinda thing happens in real life which bugs me a lot *rolls eyes*
I love that they included the sweet bits, and made us root for the relationship to recover despite the problems. That's what keeps you in these situations, and pretending like it's a simple matter of seeing all the red flags downplays a lot of what keeps people invested. Yes you should figure these things out first, but once you're in, you feel like that's it.
the cake molding sound was so satisfiyng
moral of the story: SEND THE DRESS TO THE DRY CLEANERS
Ag interests 😂😂😂
When a stain on a dress isn't really a stain on a dress...
Ha ha!
4:58 Why would someone do that to a dog!! No one cares about your stoopid football just resculpt the doggg!!!!
Calm down-
they could have resculpted the dog tbh
Gabrielle Austin true, it’s not like the dog “died”.
@@izzy_bizzy4075
He sold the dog for the smaller TV.
John wick: *reloads guns*
Это страшно(. А еще страшнее, что именно так и живут очень многие пары(
Хорошо хоть ума хватило детей не рожать.
А многие пары живут хорошо! Но показывают именно плохие пары. Эти мультики работают на разрушение института семьи в принципе. Раньше всегда заканчивалось хепиэндом. А сейчас один негатив демонстрируют намеренно....
А я не понимаю зачем выбирать себе типаж партнера на всю жизнь, если тебя привлекает другой? Он засматривается на большую грудь, выбирал бы девушку с пышным бюстом изначально. А ей нравятся спортсмены… мне кажется там изначально не было любви( по принципу синица в руках…
@@РитаЛюбимова-ъ2ъ несчастных пар больше. мораль сей мультика: общайтесь, узнавайте партнера и его планы ДО свадьбы, надо уметь проговаривать. Плюс ищите партнёра на свой вкус сразу, чтобы потом не переделывать. В мультике и муж и жена оба "молодцы".
99% так живут и это УЖАСНО!!
I like how they're trying to make both sides look bad but dude was objectively so much worse lol
And in reality most of the time the guys are much worse. In real life, most of the time i truly believe women are the ones searching for real solutions. I have even heard some men admit they need a woman to keep them on their toes.
@@marthamedina7561 Yeah...tell that to the statistics. But seriously, men just don't speak up and women are less direct about it. It's pretty much on an equal playing field. My mother was not the one trying to find solutions
@@marthamedina7561 They are the same. It's not a thing about gender, it's a thing about being someone who cares for her/his relationship. Sometimes women care more, sometimes men care more. In my case, in my parents relationship, my father was the one who was looking for solution.
@@marthamedina7561 by divorcing you mean ?
Martha Medina I completely disagree. It’s not about gender.
Потому что брак, это когда сидят в одной лодке и смотрят в одну сторону. А чтобы вместе смотреть, нужно учиться слышать другого человека и менять себя, свой эгоизм, а это истинный труд!
Это очень тяжело, а в большинстве случаев не возможно, поэтому это проблема.
Хорошо, что жених и невеста были ненастоящие.
🤣🤣🤣🤣вы первое предложение из вкладыша к жвачке списали?!
Какая банальщина.
@@larashake3727 не так
@@larashake3727 Без этой "банальщины"как вы пишите,увы не будет семьи...
I was thinking this was so sweet, and then.... 😳
Cake pun unintended
Truly a shock from someone who deliberately avoid the "horror" genre 😮 😆
I feel really happy just for 25 seconds at the beginning.
And then😱
Каждый любит себя, а не свою половинку. И в жизни обычно также. Печально.
Любит значит отдавать.
Точно
Печально и то, что нашим родителям чужие дети кажутся лучше нас.
Moral of the story: Don't marry a disrespectful man.
Or woman
Or human. Better marry angel 😇
No, the moral is not that ._.
Moral of the story: don't marry
But the story is that the lovers are just a cake ._.
Hahaha amazing short! I'm married and it's another (humorous) reminder that selfishness and being superficial will destroy relationships
I like to think the real-life marriage worked out - one mistake does not a relationship break.
Maybe the 'Cake in Shambles' was something of a metaphor for how things wound to following that (arguing)scene? Something of a timeskip maybe, resulting in either a divorce or an overall miserable marriage. But a double interpretation may be intentional (on the animator's side), allows people's creativity more flexibility to better mold the details they noticed into a story of what they think happened as opposed to one with a definitive end, allows them to get a more varied set of responses.
That was so cute and realistic, marriage is i love you and will fight for you through all the ups and downs
Him : *Kicks the dog
Me :
*You're dead to me*
No he actually SOLED IT
*omae wa mou shindreiu*
NANI?!
We attack at night...
Every animal! Not only the dog..👍
What if (in this universe) there was one bakery that was known for predicting the outcome of a marriage. Like in the short, the mini figures would be sentient (or it would be said that they are) and they would enact the exact way the marriage will happen (unless the couple take action).
The the figures were damaged/the cake is damaged then it would signify different things about the marriage.
Maybe there would be a ceremony in some weddings where the couple would analyze the cake for any issues: broken figurines, misplaced frosting, uneven frosting, damaged cake shape, etc.
If everything was fine then it would be that the marriage would end in bliss. If there were issues with the cake then there’d be issues with the marriage.
And what if the couple could take action? What if they receive a disfigured cake? The guests gasp in horror. The couple look at each other frantically before inspecting the cake. The find a possible catalyst for the fragmentation of their love. This causes them to be more open about everything in their relationship and eventually, living happily and peacefully. The cake having saved their marriage.
Propably not. Humans have a tendency to dwell on bad things...Which is why curses, spells and fortunes were a big part of ancient life. Even if things were going good..They might blow up a small problem into a catastrophic problem by thinking about this over and over. Kinda like the witches prophesisng Macbeths future. It could be said that by dwelling on the prophecy Macbeth acted in ways that he wouldn't do normally and eventually the prophecy played out exactly as it was announced.
However i like that idea and would love to get pointers like that way ahead of the marriage haha.
That would fit a lot as an SCP not gonna lie
that was just awful, and glad they didn't have a kid, could you imagine!?!
Bt I hve kid a beautiful girl baby
Yes the dog got crushed literally
The "real life" photos are so much happier. The couple still had the same likes and dislikes and differences, but they got along much better. From this, we can conclude that if they got a dog, it would be treated much better.
The baker didn’t put enough love into it...
I agrEe-
That’s one accurate statement.
Who else was watching their everyday videos and somehow ended up on the animation side of youtube
Ok so conclusion:- the "stain" on the dress represents the stain in their life.
The man wasn't surely worth her obliviously the first thing he made was a bed. Yeah! He did covered the stain for once but covering it doesn't mean that it's gone. After that they started to point out the lacks in each other and instead of filling them they wanted a different person.
The marriage was definitely a wrong choice for the lady.
I agree with you but it also seemed the wrong choice for him - they had very different interests in life concerning children and hobbies etc. I'd say that they are both at fault
I also like what you've said about the stain, very poetic
H
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live chick :-!
this example shows how important it is:
1. long communication before the wedding to get to know each other better!
2. Solve important issues BEFORE getting married! Where to live, whether to have children and when, and so on.
3. try to meet each other halfway, look for compromises!
If you don't be open at the beginning with your spouse what you want together the plans and everything, this will happen.. But marriage is not always rainbows and butterflies.
It needs love, patience and communication ♥️
Seek to understand if you want to be understood. Folks look deep enough, this movie is more than "he bad she good agenda." The more you blame the other, the less you are likely to solve anything.
Finally someone who thinks, thank you for brightening my mind 😅
But she is still trying to make him happy but he didn't .I don't like him She was pretty and he was fat but still he tries to make her sextoy and then she tries to do the same he smacked clay....hmm So I think it is metaphor that you shouldn't marry anyone who is only needing you but Marry someone if they want to take a responsibility.Even if reverse the gender one is trying and another one is only taking advantages.
To anyone who plans to get married, be sure to discuss the important stuff beforehand, like babies, pets, and finances. There’s more to marriage than just enjoying life with someone you love, it’s about, well, surviving together as well!
Taboo and exotic, exciting and uncomfortable, beautiful and beastly all at the time. This was a masterpiece of emotional manipulation. Bravo 👏🔥🔥🔥🔥
All these people upset over a frosting dog... and I'm over here like:
Well the whole message regarding their marriage is really a let down...
They should have smashed that damn _television,_ not the dog, their marriage, their lives and each other. Too soon old, too late smart.
The wife did smash the television. That's what caused the husband to kill the dog and create a new mini television.
@@MiorPhoenix Yes, I know. :-) But they'd already _watched_ and started to covet something they _didn't_ have rather than embracing what they _did_ have (love, each other, that newlywed feeling, a future together, etc). Did you notice that the "wine stain" was not only blood red but was directly over the woman's heart? Was it _supposed_ to resemble a bullet wound? And it was _awful_ that he killed the dog! :-( And that their "lust" for something _else,_ destroyed any possibility of happiness or contentment with each other. I'm sorry that this is the view of marriage -- I understand _why,_ mind you, but it still makes me very sad. Peace, SirenSima.
@@MiorPhoenix television didn't has soul, and it was unfair for the dog
@@niakurnia8576 They didn't say it was RIGHT for the husband to smash the dog, they just explained that the television WAS technically broken already.
This is a really cute short. The idea to make the couple on a wedding cake is so creative. Kudos on that
Муж хотел ребенка, но по факту даже к собаке был не готов
Где логика?
@@ЕленаКораллова к ребёнку так-же посредственно относился бы.
@@angelkoks7172 возможно. Дети - не питомцы.
ага, времени нет, денег нет, но давай детей заведём.
Собаку ему навязали, вместо ребёнка.
И ещё, можно не любить собак и кошек, но любить детей!
When the guy did that to the puppy my heart broke into a thousand pieces :'(
Clearly here the bad thing was that they were not friends, romance and lust pass quickly in a relationship, what lasts is commitment and friendship; in addition, she did not want (at least) biological children, which is completely understandable and moral, but that is discussed before...you know...getting married.
If she didn't want to be pregnant couldn't see have just sculpted the baby instead?
Also can I mention the sounds are just amazing?
I don't think she thought they were ready for it yet, and CLEARLY she was right. He neglected and killed the dog that she gave him. Or, she just didn't want a child.
7:15 he cheating on her he looking down at those things
Plus she looks like bell from the beast
Wow, i didn't notice that. Good eye in catching details
For killing the dog, he IS a beast! And not the good kind like Adam/The Beast was.
thats not cheating, hes simply looking at other womens breasts. that what a lot of men do, they look at other women
It's not technically cheating, it's still wrong tho. Same goes for his wife when she was looking at the guys six pack on TV 🤷♀️
though it's incredibly distasteful (especially at ones own wedding) It's not cheating. Though I wouldn't doubt it in the slightest if he tries to... 🙄
this feels pretty accurate to real relationships
Мое сердце разбилось когда марципановый жених раздавил собаку... 😭Если история торта тут начинает повторяться в реальной жизни, страшно представить что реальный жених с животным сделает...
Это хорошо, что ума хватило ребенка всё-таки не заводить)
Нет он просто заменил собаку, на телек лол
Про это есть старый фильм "Война Роуз" с Дугласом и Тернер)
@@m.e.9118 сильно хотел, сам бы и рожал) а если серьёзно, он даже с собакой погулять не может, а малого бы на жену скинул, нежеланного ею и гораздо более сложного в уходе чем пес. Хотеть не значит брать ответственность
@@m.e.9118 откройте форточку))
The wife was the only one whose trying from my perspective.
Eh
They both have their flaws
both of them were flawed
Not really
She was trying alright, but not to have a healthy, balanced marriage. She was trying to get him to do what she wanted and be what she wanted. She was just as selfish as he was. It just showed up differently.
Me: the dog is a little bit annoying
1 minute later: WHAT NOOO I SHOULDNT OF SAID THAT
Shouldn't have*
Sorry, not sorry
@@junpei8770 *high pitch screaming* EHHHHHHHHHM
Thanks you cursed all of us with Ultimate sobs..
It was getting on my nerves...
"Shouldn't HAVE said that", not "shouldn't of". My GOD, people. Did you ever study English?
Мораль этой истории на мой взгляд. ЭТО ПЕЧАЛЬНАЯ РЕАЛИЯ СОВРЕМЕННЫХ БРАКОВ...
МИР СОШЁЛ С УМА...
The thing I learned after I watch this:
MARRIAGE LIFE IS A MESS
I knew it when the groom dirt his bride's wedding dress unintentionally.
That's why I have TON of reasons when my family approach me for marriage
I wasn't planning on getting married anyways lol
She already have known this before
indeed yes ...But it depends on how you work on it.
The question is
Why are they still wearing wedding clothe’s-
it's an emphasis on the 'wedding cake' designs and how everything can be made out of the frosting on it. This whole animation is based on marriage.
They're the models from the top of the cake, they don't have other outfits.
same day!?!?! this all took place!?!?! maybe!?!?!?!?!?
😃
Uhm it's not really clothes lol thats like there skin because thats how they was made
This was literally my first marriage. I actually have pictures of me looking miserable right before time to walk down the isle. I knew it wasn’t what I wanted but didn’t expect it to become abusive. You live, you learn, you eventually find the person you are really meant to be with
Did you find “the person?” Just curious- this isnt meant to sound rude!
How old are you? And where r u from?
Things r pretty much clear u have to be tactful n understanding to tackle after marraige issues.... That makes one mature some people don't even get matured even after marraige.... I loved the content it shows the positive n negative both side of a divorce futured marraige....
Before I watched the video I saw the title and thought to myself "wow, wouldnt it be cool if instead of real people they were made out of cake" and suddenly they were made out of cake.
Поразило, с какой легкостью и быстрым принятием именно такого решения прототип мужчины убил собаку... А что было бы с ребенком в такой "семье"?
Эти мультики антиреклама семьи.! Специально вбивают в голову молодёжи что семья это плохо...
@@РитаЛюбимова-ъ2ъ Ну вот где именно они вбивают это? Тут показаны типичные ошибки, из-за которых и разваливаются семьи! Посмотрите статистику разводов и ужаснетесь. Такие мультики нужны, чтобы наоборот, уберечь молодежь от ошибок. Надо же было сказануть, антиреклама..... Я понимаю, если бы в этом мульте, супруги ругались бы беспричинно, но тут явное вытекание одного из другого!
@@user-svet328svet вы хоть иногда думайте, когда захотелось что-то написать.
@@user-svet328svet вы отвечаете на МОЙ комментарий, так что я отвечаю на него ровно так, как у человека хватило ума написать. Это во-первых. А во-вторых, читать сначала научитесь, а потом с умным, но неуместным, видом отвечайте на комментарии других людей.
@@user-svet328svet так, дамочка, еще раз повторю, что кому-то надо научиться читать, не говоря о том, чтобы оскорблять. Больше не пиши, контуженная.
В момент, когда они переделывали друг друга - в этой борьбе разрушили друг друга до основания. Печальное зрелище. И никого из них не смог остановиться.
А зачем переделывали? Для потехи?
Они поссорились.
Если бы родители могли создавать детей по собственному вкусу...
so they literally kill each other in the end 😂 lovely 😂😂😂
Moral of the story: if you break tv, he break *puppy*
Yes😂
So messed up
RIP Lil puppy
Shows the complexicity of a relationship in very short intervals of time👍
Moral of the story: *The key to experiencing true love in life, is to first love yourself, properly.*
Neither too much nor too less of self love.
The story is about a relationship. In which, the man loved himself the most and the woman loved him the most as well.
*Both of them failed to love her.*
He didn't love her as much as she loved him, hence he is fine with hurting her feelings.
She doesn't love herself enough to stop encouraging his hurtful behavior towards her.
Spiritually: God gifted you with a vessel to enjoy all comforts on this Earth with. Hence it's your first and foremost duty to never fail in caring for it.
Biologically: "Not loving yourself enough" means you've failed to care for your own emotional health. Now, unless you got lucky and met someone who is genuine, you are at a risk of ending up with someone toxic, who takes advantage of your emotional vulnerability. The "evil" one in your life, could be your significant other, your friend, your co-worker, etc.
Sigh. Thousands of ways to love or hurt someone.
This "self love" is not just the "basic need" to make a marriage work. It goes far deep than that. This is something that is required to live a fulfilling life as a human.
In my personal opinion I feel like you missed the home run, interesting idea though.
I loved your comment.
Holy guacamole. I wrote all of that, 2 months ago.
The things my mind does, while getting high off memes and choccy milk.... just marvelous.
It's truly the core to achieving peak performance in life.
@@1..0w0..3 Are you still high? Your replies make no sense.
@@inessa5923 I'd say I'm not, but if I were, I can't trust myself.
боже, сколько же негативных эмоций я пережил за эти 8 минут!!!!! 2 любящих друг друга человека могут создать столько проблем и боли на ровном месте!!!
2 НЕлюбящих, скорее всего
I actually can understand this symbolism. The stain is represents something they cannot remove or hide in their marriage, no matter how hard they try. They went into marriage without a realistic expectation of what married life really entails (give and take) and they both get into it, thinking it will be according to their fantasies of what they think their marriage would be, without actually understanding each other deeply 1st or checking if their life goals match. A common, sad scenario. My parents are now going through the state of disillusionment and turned toxic on everybody.
Bear ate the couple
People: meh
Dog gets squashed
People: OH MY GOD DID YOU SAW THAT THAT WAS SO CRUEL, IT ISN'T FAIR THEIR IS NO COMPASSION FOR ANIMALS IN THIS WORLD
Meh.
The bear - hungry wild animal doesn’t know “better” and acting on instinct.
The man - sentient being who does know better acting out of anger deliberately. Also, he was trying to insist the woman have children (against her will), so imagine if the dog had been one of his children needing his care/attention; would he stomp on the child?
@@charzipuddin6129 most comments here are complaining about how extremely violent the dog getting squashed by foot looked and almost no one mentions the humans getting eaten alive one by one, it is about how violent it seemed and how it made people feel uncomfortable I don't think many are really looking at the back story of the person that committed the act rather talking about how it looked
@@strawberrykun6136 ok. The bear is wild. Wtf is it that you expect from a bear? Also it's probably just her fear..
@@strawberrykun6136 - I am seriously concerned that you are more upset about tiny representations of a woman's fear of bears than you are about a man literally stomping a dog to death in anger. I mean, the tiny fake bear was just acting on instinct anyways. You'd probably be pretty pissed too if someone came crashing through your backyard and lighting your shit on fire! But the bear doesn't have police to call to get them arrested so he does what he has to in order to protect his territory.
But what makes me even more concerned is that you think the guy's backstory is somehow an excuse for murdering an innocent dog that only wanted to go for a walk. There's NEVER an excuse for animal cruelty or cruelty of ANY KIND! The fact of the matter is, that dog was killed because his owner didn't like him anymore and got angry.
The tiny fake bear ate the tiny fake people because it's a wild animal that is only acting on instinct in its own territory. The dog was a real, full sized creature with wants/needs (to go for a walk), and killing it because you're angry is inexcusable and wrong. So stop trying to make excuses for it.
@@MommyMoreen do you really know that though?
А реальность такова, что многие пары не готовы брать на себя ответственность и вместе развиваться в отношениях. Сначала обуреваемые страстью рисуют себе то, что хотят сами, думая что эта страсть останется на всю жизнь, но ни кто не хочет уступать друг другу. Эгоистические отношения в семье приводят к развалу. Нужно уметь принимать, договариваться и уважать!