The Only Way To Use A Dating App

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @AskShimon
    @AskShimon  Месяц назад +72

    not everyone is going to have great experiences, some people do, there’s many factors they play into all. I recommend to never connect your happiness or self worth to a dating app, but use it as a tool to learn and connect with others. always improve yourself and do what you think is best. not everyone has the opportunities to go out a meet more people as often as others, but regardless everyone should learn to love themselves and strive to find those who will enjoy them for who they are in real life and online🧘🏾‍♂️peace and love

  • @safouaneagdouran3532
    @safouaneagdouran3532 Месяц назад +150

    Appreciate your motivation brother. This guy helped me to quit my p*rn additction, now I'm 12 weeks clean and I feel a lot better. Love your vids brother❤

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +51

      yoooo ! 🤞🏾❤️I’m proud of you. Salute to you

    • @evanace6659
      @evanace6659 Месяц назад +2

      Congrats Dude. I'm 4 months clean and it is incredible!

    • @Sazzyoff1
      @Sazzyoff1 Месяц назад +2

      Let's gooo !!! ❤️ Keep going man

    • @Odiebestbud
      @Odiebestbud Месяц назад +3

      Proud of you guys for making that decision! Wishing you the best in your journeys

    • @baxter_canada_dry8182
      @baxter_canada_dry8182 Месяц назад +3

      Proud of all of you!! Keep it up

  • @PadreConcha
    @PadreConcha Месяц назад +47

    Because of these apps i got to be unapologetically myself & lowkey it got me some good friendships or good dates. Def helped my confidence going up.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +5

      glad to hear that !

  • @Odiebestbud
    @Odiebestbud Месяц назад +7

    So glad I found your channel, this video is so enlightening. I think it’s great advice to get on dating sites and to find friends with similar interests even if it doesn’t turn into a lifelong relationship. Especially coming from a heartbreak, you know now more than ever what kind of person you DONT want to be around.

  • @m.a.dmicah
    @m.a.dmicah Месяц назад +5

    Man you've helped me so much, I was going through a horrible heartbreak and one day I stumbled across your channel and "For purpose driven men" and you guys have motivated me to start my RUclips Channel and start my self healing journey, I've never felt better and I just wanted to say keep going! What your doing is amazing, keep building your empire king!

  • @devinvillodas7241
    @devinvillodas7241 Месяц назад +5

    I would definitely love another video on this topic. I feel like people nowadays don’t get into dating apps with the right intentions. A lot of these people aren’t even sure of what their intentions are which can create tension within yourself & I feel people should know that

  • @nikostyleonyomamacoochie8513
    @nikostyleonyomamacoochie8513 Месяц назад +8

    your words really mean alot. Im happy youtube lets me find people who give really genuine advice and content that help me through times that feel lonely. thank you truly

  • @FightingReaper
    @FightingReaper Месяц назад +5

    You literally changed my life, your videos are so peaceful and meaningful they’ve taught me so much. I’m very scared of change and you helped me overcome that fear ❤

  • @elizabethpadillamartinez9182
    @elizabethpadillamartinez9182 Месяц назад +6

    I just found your page not even an hour ago. Your page is like those shows on Netflix that are too good and can’t get enough of it 😊 and then realized you just posted another one not that long ago I was like NO WAY! Anyways, Thank you so much for shedding light onto those that need it. I appreciate you so much! Looking forward into more videos. You’re doing amazing ❤

  • @certamenteeomagalhaes
    @certamenteeomagalhaes Месяц назад +10

    Thanks for always giving the best advices for becoming someone better, at least for me your videos have been really helpful Davis

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +1

      🤞🏾❤️I got you fam

  • @Majishin-s
    @Majishin-s Месяц назад +7

    I'm realizing now that every week I should have a time to listen to your talks 😅

  • @BermudaHawk47
    @BermudaHawk47 Месяц назад +5

    Very early today, love your vids man. They always help me go through tough times when it feels like nobody else is there to help

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +1

      🤞🏾❤️all love

  • @demarcus.isgone
    @demarcus.isgone Месяц назад +1

    Your videos always make me reflect and try a bit more. Keep going man, God bless you.

  • @Luke6verse44
    @Luke6verse44 Месяц назад +1

    😂😂😂 god bless you bro, i am so glad you are alive and i can listen to this message

  • @SOVADEA
    @SOVADEA Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for saying this. For the last two years I haven’t been on any dates. I’ve met people in bars but it hadn’t stuck. Or they were younger than I and so I’d let them know I’d want them to experience more than just their first jump. Being in a ten year relationship I had to end, took a lot from me, my family and how I felt about relationships. But this here has opened my mind, given a new perspective. I live somewhere that I really am most of the time the one to go to my friends, not often will they come to me. So this has sparked something and I’ll download hinge the next chance I get

  • @SpatFNN
    @SpatFNN Месяц назад

    I really love your channel man, I love the fact that in the last week or so you have made me realise I am more then what I perceive myself to be if that makes sense. Its been a solid month since my ex broke up with me and I have been stuggling to just be myself especially around her because we are in the same class, but after watching your videos they make me want to go out and meet new people and be myself. Man your lowkey a massive inspiration for me and probably many other people in this community, thanks for all the great videos they really do help me become a better person.

  • @ClovisBatinyuy-eg2qv
    @ClovisBatinyuy-eg2qv Месяц назад +2

    Am really addicted to your videos 🥰🥰

  • @DonnieDaytime
    @DonnieDaytime Месяц назад +7

    I rather just go outside brother , theres always something wrong with a woman who cant go outside and meet a man i wouldnt trust it

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +8

      I rather non gmo relations too bro but I’ve met some good people online. You never know what’s going on. Regardless I encourage going out more than anything.

  • @FbIHeadquarters5150
    @FbIHeadquarters5150 17 дней назад +1

    The only way to use a dating app is ro simply NOT use it. Let it happen naturally. You dont need ro be in a rush for a relationship because you're lonely. There's always something to work on. Work on yourself until it happens naturally. That way you can meet him or her at your best and your worst will come as a surprise and you'll work around it. Love takes time 😢❤. Especially if you're dating for all of the right reasons. Either je comes in my lowest stage, or my prohressing stage. At least oll have some of me worked on.

  • @sphinxkitty4951
    @sphinxkitty4951 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for still responding to us, I know you have a lot going on. Great videos ❤

  • @itsfunandGamestv
    @itsfunandGamestv Месяц назад +2

    Love this video!!!!!!!!! Can you make an in-depth video on hinge please

  • @Toshobi
    @Toshobi Месяц назад +14

    If it ain't snowing i aint going

    • @ChasingElizabeth
      @ChasingElizabeth Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂Brilliant!

    • @neah2003
      @neah2003 Месяц назад

      Ew

    • @mwill9638
      @mwill9638 Месяц назад

      @@ChasingElizabethyeah this is the 50 billionth time this has been said it’s not really brilliant anymore it’s pretty old now

  • @choptop5619
    @choptop5619 Месяц назад +1

    The only thing for me is that I’m insecure about my looks and I feel like I can never take any good photos for dating apps

  • @cadeocarregador5629
    @cadeocarregador5629 Месяц назад

    Please I need more honesty dating app adivices like this

  • @Jujubee9000
    @Jujubee9000 Месяц назад

    Your video on our world ending caught my eye, and then I noticed we're both from the 504! Much love from the Westbank brother.

  • @Good_luck4
    @Good_luck4 Месяц назад +1

    Glad found your channel, glad meeting you❤

  • @tamarasjekloca8647
    @tamarasjekloca8647 Месяц назад +10

    Im literally a med student and i watch your vids in breaks, they are so relaxing and peaceful, love xx

  • @medaman15able
    @medaman15able Месяц назад +12

    I tried my hand at dating apps for the longest, but they never seem to work out for me as opposed to meeting irl, that I'm good at. So I assume that's just not the path for me as a person. But I respect you for making a video like this nonetheless it was very nice to listen to.

  • @uchihaserviver666
    @uchihaserviver666 Месяц назад

    Man like every single video I seen help keep showing me a better place and things that’s nice I might do sum probably just when uu can keep des coming my way man 😆

  • @SICKBOY1970
    @SICKBOY1970 Месяц назад +2

    Damn bruh. You were at 599k yesterday now you at 601k. You amaze me

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +2

      1 million loading !

  • @zillionaire7361
    @zillionaire7361 Месяц назад +4

    What is the name of the music in the background it is so calming? Amazing video love your content ❤

    • @bonorton5870
      @bonorton5870 Месяц назад +4

      What you heard- Sonder instrumental

  • @Benny365Days
    @Benny365Days Месяц назад +10

    I think my biggest issue is that I don’t know who I am anymore. I’ve found that I don’t do a lot of my hobbies anymore. I don’t understand myself like I thought I used to. I also would like to find a more social hobby because my old ones were very by my self. Anyone have any advice or experiences they can share?

    • @LaysChips-n6z
      @LaysChips-n6z Месяц назад +4

      Start to get to know yourself. Start all over this may sound weird but date yourself and do something fun, go out, try new hobbies, meet people, practice self care and love, give yourself compliments, take youself on dates, affirmation, and affection. Just Give yourself the attention that YOU DESERVE! 💗🙏🏾 I hope this helps God bless!!

  • @Malik_Dawson
    @Malik_Dawson Месяц назад +1

    Yeaaaa brodii!!! Wats good my guy!

  • @Fridayfridge
    @Fridayfridge Месяц назад +1

    This is awesome.
    Side note, nice on the Brent background song. As a guitarist hope you've checked out Leon Thomas 🎸

  • @Iamshemarsmit
    @Iamshemarsmit Месяц назад

    The Realest!

  • @bobolishis7
    @bobolishis7 Месяц назад

    The dang music. I am laughing

  • @wajahatnet
    @wajahatnet Месяц назад

    Crazy, how this video and channel came up on feed seconds after a heartbreak 🤔

  • @Rafix
    @Rafix Месяц назад

    awesome video

  • @irisldevries
    @irisldevries Месяц назад +1

    I’m earlyy love your content 🫶🏼

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +2

      I appreciate you ❤️

  • @nicknuzzo6417
    @nicknuzzo6417 Месяц назад

    This video really hit different

  • @acyanks2319
    @acyanks2319 Месяц назад

    another video on this would be fire 👀

  • @kianaovercomer
    @kianaovercomer Месяц назад

    yoww, may i know the background music u use in your videos? subscriber here from the Philippines, your advice are always lit bro!

  • @Poisondriptv
    @Poisondriptv Месяц назад +1

    🔥

  • @justSTANtelevision
    @justSTANtelevision Месяц назад

    Would you mind sharing what app you use to generate your subtitles on your videos?

  • @CORNELIUSLloyd-s6g
    @CORNELIUSLloyd-s6g Месяц назад +1

    trusting this over Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening

  • @cynosuricgamer2308
    @cynosuricgamer2308 Месяц назад +1

    How do I go about taking pictures? Idk how to take pictures, nor do I have many. I don’t have a wardrobe either, I don’t have any clothes that show who I am. I’m also not confident in the way that I look. I’m also not sure who I am, so I’m not sure how to be who I am on Hinge, etc.

    • @phi5835
      @phi5835 23 дня назад +1

      When it comes to clothes, one thing ive noticed is that how you wear clothes is often more important than how one item looks. Id suggest just watching some very basic fashion tips on youtube and then buy clothes that you like and dont be afraid to explore in the beginning. Its actually better to be a little bold.
      Also, personally i dont like the “find out who you are“ thing. People change. We have experiences and they shape our world view, the way we feel, the way we think. There is no true constant “you“ that is waiting to be found. Every feeling or thought you have is perfectly valid. Its not like we can truly control them. What matters is what you do, how you act. And how you wanna act is something you can decide. I personally try to be both empathetic and mindful. Doesnt always work but im trying

  • @igorraks
    @igorraks Месяц назад +1

    Naah the timing is crazy dawg 😭 love you Shimon

  • @cbrown2025
    @cbrown2025 Месяц назад +1

    Ayee 1st

  • @AaronOverEverything
    @AaronOverEverything Месяц назад

    Got the hinge 💼

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад

      Indeed, dubs for everyone

  • @NEVILLEDennison
    @NEVILLEDennison Месяц назад +77

    why stick to surface-level stuff when Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth

    • @MegaIiyambula
      @MegaIiyambula Месяц назад

      there's multiple books with the same name, who's the author?

    • @teamili7957
      @teamili7957 16 дней назад

      the people who mention this book are bots. All created their accounts 2 months ago​@@MegaIiyambula

  • @egor.kuznetsov
    @egor.kuznetsov Месяц назад

    Great video what is the background music called?

  • @dpatel6393
    @dpatel6393 Месяц назад

    I met my
    Ex on
    Hinge. I dont wana go back cuz i dont wana see her on there
    On there wdy think
    About bumble

  • @intuitivelymagician2076
    @intuitivelymagician2076 Месяц назад

    I recommend speed dating

  • @joaoestrocio9088
    @joaoestrocio9088 Месяц назад

    What's the name of the background music ?

  • @nichsster
    @nichsster Месяц назад

    they banned me for posting a shirtless picture..

  • @myef97
    @myef97 17 дней назад

    What is the song in the background?

  • @gio_fuse
    @gio_fuse Месяц назад +1

    How can i find the angelic track in the background of this video? Do anyone know the name of it? ❤

    • @ceexay9946
      @ceexay9946 Месяц назад +3

      what you heard - sonder instrumental

    • @gio_fuse
      @gio_fuse Месяц назад +1

      @ thanks!!!

  • @Shadow003_
    @Shadow003_ Месяц назад

    🔥🔥

  • @Slime-u8e
    @Slime-u8e Месяц назад

    Sir I’ve been watching you for almost a year now and I’ve been bringing up the courage to Ask this girl out and I don’t know how to start the conversation I have her social and I feel more comfortable to text her instead of talking to her in person but i feel like anything I say is going to be wrong I need advice I hope you see this shimon Davis

  • @daytongreen7831
    @daytongreen7831 Месяц назад

    Man if you inna small town stay off them apps

  • @hiropraim4417
    @hiropraim4417 Месяц назад

    I don't have pictures of me alone, what should I do about it?

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  Месяц назад +2

      Start taking more pictures, I invested in a tripod years ago for content and started using it and the self timer on my phone to get better at self photography. 90% of my photos are taking by myself

    • @hiropraim4417
      @hiropraim4417 Месяц назад

      @AskShimon thanks man

  • @Mahmoudicooloomie
    @Mahmoudicooloomie Месяц назад

    Guys what are the reasons for stopping porn? Everyone stops but I don’t know why I should do it. Thanks in advance

    • @ethanvera1031
      @ethanvera1031 Месяц назад +1

      You do it for yourself. It's a very damaging addiction, very negative and draining. Self control and self love. You should stop for yourself.

    • @Mahmoudicooloomie
      @Mahmoudicooloomie Месяц назад

      @ thank you

    • @Vezoc
      @Vezoc Месяц назад +1

      If u don’t feel disgusted afterwards then nothing will help. In the end you gotta find your own reasons and beliefs, otherwise it won’t last and you will come back to it. I stopped watching in January 2023 and so far so good. Hope it helps. I believe in you.

    • @Mahmoudicooloomie
      @Mahmoudicooloomie Месяц назад

      @ ❤️ thanks

  • @snu283
    @snu283 Месяц назад +1

    Snowbunny mind control in full effect

  • @conceptoriginalplayz1150
    @conceptoriginalplayz1150 Месяц назад

    Bro said if it ain’t snowing he ain’t going 😂😂

  • @mizzlered
    @mizzlered Месяц назад

    What’s the background song

  • @stephenotieno9021
    @stephenotieno9021 Месяц назад

    💯🇰🇪

  • @Tum_Tum_YT
    @Tum_Tum_YT Месяц назад

    How are you?

  • @nomoretalkk
    @nomoretalkk Месяц назад

    I invit you shimmon to my country (France) respond to my comment if you’re interessed 😊

  • @meet_you_sweetheart
    @meet_you_sweetheart Месяц назад

    so good video!!! I’ve done something similar with my sugar daddy! Check out my video on how to set up the perfect luxury date.😃

  • @AUSWQPCV
    @AUSWQPCV Месяц назад +2

    downvoted

  • @JAMELMoorman
    @JAMELMoorman Месяц назад

    if this hits for you, go read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s next level

  • @MIKELJerome
    @MIKELJerome Месяц назад

    nobody talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything

  • @ELISEOSwan
    @ELISEOSwan Месяц назад

    this is cool and all, but Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture

  • @JimmyQuinn-k6o
    @JimmyQuinn-k6o Месяц назад

    not saying this is bad, but Magnetic Aura makes it look basic

  • @PRESTONThornburg-u2w
    @PRESTONThornburg-u2w Месяц назад

    you’re missing out if you ain’t read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down

  • @RUBENHylton
    @RUBENHylton Месяц назад

    don’t waste your energy on weak stuff, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is the real move

  • @HUMBERTOGordon-i7j
    @HUMBERTOGordon-i7j Месяц назад

    stuck on repeat? Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki actually changes the game

  • @SarinaSkelton
    @SarinaSkelton Месяц назад

    Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows how to break free, but most people don’t even try