Excellent video! Your insightful candor is so refreshing. I agree with everything you said 100%. Your experiences are what I have dealt with as well! You're so good-looking and well-spoken gentlemen 😍Please continue to do more videos!! We need more of you in this world.
Well-said. I'd give you a shot for sure being how you are fearless and a man of conviction and values, handsome. Fyi: Racism is the biggest issue in my life - superficial BS second.
100? OMG - Dude, seriously. Get a puppy. I will say, that for me, after two failed, long-term relationships, I've settled on just enjoying money, sex, and freedom, and everything else can just take care of itself....or not. Stop being afraid of offending people! Be proud of what you want and who you are, no compromises.
IF U Believe there is someone out there who will complete you u are screwed from square one just level a bullet to your brain. Much less painful than living waiting for THE ONE.. There is no one that Can MAKE you any thing above and beyond what u r now or ever will be. First you HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF unconditionally. Then there will come a moment when you will bump into your mate. Usually unsuspectectly. Yes are many valid points in this book and many others however. Get happy with yourself and will seek you out.. ALL LOVE to you and yours
This was a great video, Patrick. I really appreciated your authenticity, honesty, and vulnerability. I felt like so much of what you shared was very similar to my own experience as a gay man and how I view life. Thanks for the inspiration! 😊
Same! I'm watching his videos and it's so refreshing to see other gay guys sharing your same core values. It kinda gives you hope in a world defined by wild sex/drugs/looks etc it’s so toxic and unhealthy, and you're right, he's a special guy 👌🏻
I've just stopped the video at 29.05 because you've just mentioned Anxious Attachment style relationship , a guy Im seeing now is shit at returning messages . Ive blocked him , unblocked him a few times . Like you said he brings it out in me . Really enjoying this video xx
Great video.... almost thought you read my mind .... dating as a gay man is the worst...so many times I thought..wow we think alike and then you would say another thing that sounds like me... guess ive now learned...I'm not alone...sometimes seems hopeless
Don't know how I came across this vid but glad I did. Completely appreciated the rawness and truthful content of which I resonate with much of it. Your comments are very wise of which I suspect mostly comes from the experiences of pain and confusion and so happy that you are able to use these experiences here in order to bring learning, growth and clarity to others. Another point in what you have said is that although many of the themes stated are quite true within the gay community, it's also true in any relationship including heterosexual. Maintaining any form of relationship nowadays is getting more demanding as many people tend to look out for having their needs met and lack patience in trying to understand the other persons desires. Having said this however there is always hope once love becomes the biggest denominator. Where in Australia are you based? Victoria?
Excellent video! Your insightful candor is so refreshing. I agree with everything you said 100%. Your experiences are what I have dealt with as well! You're so good-looking and well-spoken gentlemen 😍Please continue to do more videos!! We need more of you in this world.
Well-said. I'd give you a shot for sure being how you are fearless and a man of conviction and values, handsome. Fyi: Racism is the biggest issue in my life - superficial BS second.
100? OMG - Dude, seriously. Get a puppy. I will say, that for me, after two failed, long-term relationships, I've settled on just enjoying money, sex, and freedom, and everything else can just take care of itself....or not. Stop being afraid of offending people! Be proud of what you want and who you are, no compromises.
IF U Believe there is someone out there who will complete you u are screwed from square one just level a bullet to your brain. Much less painful than living waiting for THE ONE.. There is no one that Can MAKE you any thing above and beyond what u r now or ever will be. First you HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF unconditionally. Then there will come a moment when you will bump into your mate. Usually unsuspectectly.
Yes are many valid points in this book and many others however. Get happy with yourself and will seek you out.. ALL LOVE to you and yours
This was a great video, Patrick. I really appreciated your authenticity, honesty, and vulnerability. I felt like so much of what you shared was very similar to my own experience as a gay man and how I view life. Thanks for the inspiration! 😊
Same! I'm watching his videos and it's so refreshing to see other gay guys sharing your same core values. It kinda gives you hope in a world defined by wild sex/drugs/looks etc it’s so toxic and unhealthy, and you're right, he's a special guy 👌🏻
@@danrgn5078 I fully agree with you.
Sometimes I feel most of us need to learn how to survive without any relationships or partner.
I've just stopped the video at 29.05 because you've just mentioned Anxious Attachment style relationship , a guy Im seeing now is shit at returning messages . Ive blocked him , unblocked him a few times . Like you said he brings it out in me . Really enjoying this video xx
Thanks you share the story.
Great video.... almost thought you read my mind .... dating as a gay man is the worst...so many times I thought..wow we think alike and then you would say another thing that sounds like me... guess ive now learned...I'm not alone...sometimes seems hopeless
Don't know how I came across this vid but glad I did. Completely appreciated the rawness and truthful content of which I resonate with much of it. Your comments are very wise of which I suspect mostly comes from the experiences of pain and confusion and so happy that you are able to use these experiences here in order to bring learning, growth and clarity to others. Another point in what you have said is that although many of the themes stated are quite true within the gay community, it's also true in any relationship including heterosexual. Maintaining any form of relationship nowadays is getting more demanding as many people tend to look out for having their needs met and lack patience in trying to understand the other persons desires. Having said this however there is always hope once love becomes the biggest denominator.
Where in Australia are you based? Victoria?
What is the title of the book?
Velvet Rage
@@robertldavisjr Thank you 😊
I love your video ...Thanks for sharing!!
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