I tend to be a very nice person, but sometimes I do stupid things like saying something I shouldn't to someone even when they don't really deserve. I know how to love and be caring but I know how to hurt people and I do it so deeply! Now I'm trying to learn to apologize and learning with my mistakes... I feel so bad and the remorse is something terrible;
The person who will read this, if you said sorry, and the person doesn't forgive you, well think about how the person would feel if you didn't say sorry, so if the person doesn't forgive you, atleast the person knows that you said sorry, okay? So please, don't feel bad about yourself😊
Just know, them leaving you on read is not on you at all. You did the big thing and apologized and said what you wanted and needed to say. If they don't reply to you, it's on them. It's hard and I get it, that was me with my best friend from hs but you move on and it's a little easier to do so, knowing that you at least tried.
I said something extremely stupid as a joke to my classmate over text, and they responded back with "Shut up, I'm going through something personal." When I read this, I felt so bad, I didn't even know how to apologize back to them. I ended up spending the whole day trashing myself for doing something so stupid. Thank you for this video, I really hope I can build up the courage to apologize to them.
same thing happened to me, my friend really needed someone to be with and just to talk to and i completely changed the subject and made a joke on a completely different topic to try to lighten the mood but I didn't even take his feelings into account so here I am trying to throw away my ego and apologize sincerely
I’m going through the same thing too, I called my friend who is transgender a trap without knowing it was a offensive word to people who are trans. And I want to apologize properly to him for saying that :(.
To be honest I get so tired of hearing "sorry" from people who don't mean it. I have a friend who blows up my phone non stop, then when I confront him about it, he says sorry then goes back to the same behavior. He leaves voicemails every time he calls and says "Sorry for blowing up you phone" but he keeps doing it. It gets tiring. Sometimes sorry won't make things how they were. Also, a note to add: forgiveness doesn't mean that the person will want to stay friends, lovers, etc. Forgiveness means not letting what happened have power over you. Then you move on with your life :)
*THANK YOU.* Some people need to realize an apology must be sincere, and in some cases, it's not enough to repair the damage. If you've done something wrong that genuinely upset another, your apology won't mean shit if you don't really mean it or don't even try to change. Willingness to listen, talk, and reflect is key 👌
tbh I’m that friend that apologizes a lot and makes the mistake again.i won’t give myself any excuses.i realized that I’ve said sorry too many times that it didn’t sound so sincere anymore and I’m scared to sorry now.i feel like they’ll think i don’t mean it.I’ve never realized how much of a toxic person I was until a friend and their friends spoke up about.i didn’t realize I used to play the victim card.I’m truly sorry to all of them but it’s in the pass now.
I know, I was awful. We had a great evening together but then I was too scared to even talk to her for fear of ruining it and I've hardly spoken to her in two weeks. Idk if it's too far gone now though, I feel really bad :/ Edit: Turns out I had gone too far and she broke up with me :(
I have really low-self esteem and I had a really hard time apologizing when I was younger. I'd never apologize to anything and I hated fighting with people. Now a days I still hate fighting but I'm never really careful with what I say. I know I hurt people often and apologizing makes me uncomfortable and nervous. Thank you for making this video. I want to be the best person I can be!
Sometimes it just takes time, and space. If you back off a bit, and try again sometime in the future, she may have cooled down, and be more willing to hear your side.
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1. Firstly apologize. For example: I sincerely apologize for... 2. Address what you are apologizing for 3. Don't make excuses 4. Be honest, if others find out you were lying they might not trust you again. 5. Take full responsibility 6. Try to understand the persons u hurt feelings. Also express your own feelings. 7. Add ''I hope I can things between us'' or ''I hope you can forgive me'' 8. Don't play the victim 9. Learn from your mistake. Promise the other person that you'll do better in the future 10. Write down the apology before saying it. 11. Imagine that youre the person that was the victim, if the person was saying the apology that you made how would u feel? How would they feel? If the apology doesn't seem sincere enough change it up a bit. 12. Give the person some time to accept it. They might not be ready. Here is an example of a good apology I guess?? - Hello, I sincerely apologize for hurting you and saying mean things. I should have never said that. I can imagine how you feel, I feel horrible for saying mean things right to your face without thinking about it. The things I said before are not true, you're an again guess person. I'm terribly sorry once again. I made sure to understand my mistake and learn from it, I'll be more thoughtful in the future. Thank you for helping me realize and learn from my mistakes, I appreciate it. I do agree that I was wrong with my behaviour, I hope you can forgive me. If you're falsely accussed of something remember that you still have to apologize and be honest. Address the situation from your side and collect proofs if you're able to.
I messed up with my best friend and I really want her back it was my fault we fell out and I appoligsed and she didn't forgive me but I really want to go back to what we were
I would be honest and tell them you're not exactly sure what you did, but you've noticed that they are hurt and you want to rectify that. So ask them to help explain why they got hurt. Make sure you make it clear that you care about their feelings and that is why you want to understand what you did and make things better. :)
Omg thank you I followed the steps of the plan and my mom forgave me I realized that all my other excuses did not have any of those steps BUT "BUTS AND LONG ACTING STORIES AND NO KEEPING TO MY WORD!" So this time I 1: planed it 2: didn't blaming anyone 3: Apologized 4: KEPT TO MY WORD and she FORGAVE ME!!! SO THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!! I am liking and subscribing!!!! And everyone should too!!!
People, especially on social media, think that apologizing is so easy, but it really isn't. Apologizing isn't simply just swallowing your pride and taking accountability. That's the easy part. What makes apologizing so scary and difficult is that taking accountability requires you to be vulnerable in a really tense situation while knowing that you're in the wrong. It's basically opening your heart at gunpoint. That's what apologizing, especially when you've done something really bad.
What if someone never accepts your apology? I have apologised to someone for what I did but they rejected me HORRIBLY!!! I stormed of crying and crying! How do I deal with this sort of stuff?
Then why are you apologizing to that person. If they're gonna hold a grudge even when you stop holding one as well, then they're just being, well, a female dog
I use one racist word that offend one person in school.. Probably teacher won't forgive me I hope to change school because maybe I will hurt to many people... Because it happens yesterday.. Ahh I'm the most disgusting person in the world lel I'm upset why did I become such a racist person.. I hate my negative thought..
So me and my "best friend" got into a huge argument today and she blocked me on social media(not my phone tho) so idk whether to leave her alone, or call/text her, or what and she lives too far for me to go and walk to her house
Tips! Don't forget that we're all human beings. Just because you made a mistake, don't forget you're human too. *Friends* A friend who got into a fight with you will have to apologize too. If that friend doesn't apologize, but you do, you need new friends. If you need help apologizing, you should text them or write them a card. Don't forget that both of you are the victim, and both of you should apologize. *Family* If you have a fight with your family, you should look them in the eye and apologize. I'd recommend getting them a gift or something to show them that you are actually apologizing, and not faking it. If they're parents, they're most likely to forgive you. *Kids* Apologize to them simply in words. Make sure to make your speech not too lengthy and not too wordy. Kids are extremely simple to apologize to, knowing that I am basically a kid too. If they respond negatively, try again a day later. They will most likely forgive you. *OVERALL* Try not to blame it all on yourself or the other person's. Remember that both of you probably made a mistake and you shouldnt stress about it.
This is a great video. It's currently helping me prepare an apology myself to give to a teacher. I feel really bad because i realized i was being weird and annoying with her, and making her feel uncomfortable. So I'm practicing my apology speech, wish me luck! AND THANK YOU WELLCAST!
Thanks I was being rude to this kid Able at my school and he always did nice stuff for me and never did anything to anyone. I didn't know what to do and this video really helped out on how to apologize to him
Since my childhood I was too spoiled and that behaving stook up with me till my 20´s. I´ve dealed with shit in military school then and with college. I quitted m S in the second year in there and then quit my comunications carrer in college to study in an music institiute because of my passion and love for music. But I still regret every moment I´ve putted through a hard time on my parents. They were and even now still very supportive to me and I´am so greatful with them. But every time I´m still haunted by pictures of my past self giving them stupid troubles and making them feel guilty for my mistakes. I know I´am an ungreatful shit but now I´m trying to do my best to not give them troubles anymore. Sometimes I think I don´t deserve them and think that I would be better death or something. The only thing I know is that God is with me and I pray to him to emend my sins and let me be forgiven if he let me. I wisht them the best and I try to do my best to not fail anymore to them or do something I would hate myself anymore. Please, love your parents and honor them.
I am currently in middle school and im having some drama. it all started during my third quarter of 6th grade and im currently in 7th (quarter 3) im playing knockout (Basketball) for P.E and the lines were to long for the to main boy basketball lines ,so i headed over to the other short line (no boys in it). Im chatting with some people and there was some dumb blonde in the front making up her own rules for basketball and i just glance over and keep minding my buisness. then i hear an arguement going on and there saying someone was out . I witnessed the whole thing and the girl wasnt out . i hear a girl go " paige your not out !" so i repeated the same thing and when she turned around and looked at me, that was the first time i had seen her before .....my god she was amazing. the game continues and P.E soon ends. few days later some friends of mine asked me who i liked, and i was dumb enough to point to her. im joking around with them telling them dumb pickup jokes and the day continues. by the next day I had her two main friends come up to me and tell me to back off and stop spreading rumors that i had her number, and by that time i had absolutly no clue what had happend but appearantly my dumb friends where spreading rumors about me. the year goes by and i had not hear much from anybody. everyonce and a while we would accidentally make eye contact and it would be akward. the year ends and its now 7th grade now. nothing had happend in the first quarter, but the second quarter os where EVERYTHING goes wrong. i had told the whole story to my friend and he listened to me about it. the next we walk into the drama room to drop off his stuff for next period AND what do you know ! she walks right in with her friends and breeze right past me. The worst possible thing my friend could do ,did that just thing. He grabs my arm and says "oh no you don't , as i try to speed out the door to get away, but I luckly escape. as im speed walking out he says " im going back in. and i beg him not to, but as were outside i was slowly talking him out of it. but he just makes his mind and walks right in ( if you didnt know there were about 10 of them in a group). as a part of me is already dead he comes out about 5 minutes later and he just says " yea shes pretty nice" then explains everything . apparantly she dosent hate me ( which i had previously thought) but just thinks im a little bit creepy.... month goes by and its around christmas, last week for the first semester. my mom had told me shes taking me out of school for the last to days to go lake tahoe ,a ski resort with my family. as i had realized it was going to be christmas i bought her a starbucks gift card. I babied out the first day of planing to give it to her and i was going to leave the next morning, which ment i wasnt going to be at school the next day. my other very trusy friend said he has math class with her and says that he could give it to her for me. so we followed through and i gave it to him. next day he had texted me that she just smiled , said " thanks" and walked away. i was pretty stoked about that and patted my back. the next day my OTHER friend had texted me that everyone was talking about it and he said that she looked discusted when she recived it. for about a year now i have been planing an apology but i have never done it. i dont know what to do/say and i need your help..... any suggestions would help .(PS sorry it was so long)
See if you can at least get her to listen to you. Then, tell her the same thing that you just said. The truth. You had no trouble writing it in a comment, so try to work up the courage to say it to her.
I am about to apologize to someone for my actions in approximately three hours from now. This is honestly the most difficult thing I have ever had to do in my life. My stomach is churning, and I feel sick. However, I must do it to save this friendship. This video came in handy. Thank you!
I have a best friend that would always talk to me online if i was scared at night to sleep, she would always talk to me about the things we liked and kept on sharing jokes with each other, but one day i made a very big mistake that had actually ended my friendship with her, i have never felt so guilty before in my life. I apologised but she didnt accept it. Now i just wish i could turn back time and not do that mistake. It feels sad not to have her accompanying me at night. I really want her back. But...life has to go on its ok if you have lost a friend, you might take time to get over it. But you will soon find more friends that will make you happy again. Dont feel sad if they dont accept your apology. There are even more friends you can make in your life and im always supporting you :)
I came here after an argument with a close relative, and I just kept on talking to myself about how I failed as a family member and I didn’t know how to apologize to them without backing out and having an anxiety attack and I’ve been crying for a few minutes, and thinking, this video was helpful nonetheless and I think I’ll be able to say sorry
I came here after a 2-3 week argument with a girl in my school. I try to seek the best moment to apologize her but those moments seem to be ruined by her friends. We fought over silly stuff in P.E, then the worse in our everyday-school-in-class classes. I got no idea how I will approach her.
Fern Tidalgo don’t worry just try to be nice to her or him i know you said that he or she is ignoring you but if she or he aren’t talking does that really consider her or him your bff because i don’t think so. If it helps you can find new friends, i mean everyday is a new adventure right?
I've spoken with my friend and he says that i've been a douche to him even though I haven't. He gave me one last chance and then a few weeks later he straight up blocked me. I asked him at school what I did and he didn't answer. A few days later he finally spoke up and said, "Its the same reason like last time, you're being a douche." Now I can swear on my life I haven't said crap to this person so I was confused, but I said sorry like thousands of times anyway but he just won't listen to me. I don't know what to do. I haven't even been a jerk to him at all and he just hates me now. I keep telling him that I owned up to my mistakes and tell him that I promise on my life I would stop being a "jerk" but still. He just won't listen to me anymore. What hurts the most is that me and him have been friends for over 5 years and when he told me we weren't friends anymore, I didn't see any regret, shame, or overall pity. He just straight up told me and without even a change in his attitude walked away like I was dust. Its hurts. I keep telling him but he just won't listen. Do any of you have any tips, if so please tell me. I want my friend back.
Don’t apologize again. I’m completely 100% positive he’ll never explain how you can resolve whatever you did to make him mad, and that he will not forgive you for whatever it was. Truly is his loss, as he doesn’t know how or even try to communicate in an emotionally mature way.
First of all, try to see if his behaviour or tone changed when you talk about something specific. Maybe what you did which you think was okay hurt him, because people take things differently. I think to apologize you have to know the cause. But if really, not a thing happened, maybe there are other factors and reasons abt not wanting to be friends anymore.
if you are very sure that you didnt do or say anything that could’ve hurt him then dont apologize. Im very sorry for what happened and i understand that you really want that friend back but if he acts like this when you didnt do anything then you shouldn’t apologize. If he doesnt contact you and apologize instead then i suggest moving on. That is a big step and it is not easy. But if he keeps ignoring you then you’ll be better off without him
Something I learned about words and I want to share it. Words are like feathers in a wind storm, once you release your words you can never gather them all up. I often write these words on a piece of paper and tape it in areas that I’m going to see first thing like a mirror: be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. Nobody’s perfect, we all make mistakes but the one great thing about life is we can learn to apologize. Even when I am wrong, I choose to tell the person that’s hurting that I’m sorry. When I care about someone and I know they have no control over their pain, saying sorry to that person and telling them that they’re right regardless of them being wrong will make them heal and get over the hurdle. This is a bit of psychology that really helps and works. A word of caution, if this person constantly wants you to apologize then you know that they’re onto you and it’s all about their ego. Have a great day and God bless
I say things sometimes that I really regret and obsess over it until I just can't anymore. The obsession usually goes on for weeks, all because I couldn't keep my mouth closed. It sucks, and it's just straight up embarrassing for me personally.
@@Mazechan-3 I wouldn't say it wouldn't work, but knowing your mistake is crucial. Asking "What can I do to correct my mistake?" might not be the best bet. If the person replies and forgives you, then that's good! If the person is giving you the silent treatment, let the person have some alone time (doesn't mean the person is ignoring you).
@@Vyprr1004 oh dear it's almost an year now I'm waiting for their reply. And it wasn't even my fault still I'm putting all blames on me... 😔 I'll happily accept the mistake whatever they think I did... But now I truly want them back... I'm totally alone for a year without my best friend 😞
@@Mazechan-3 A year? Well, looks like you have to move on. I know it's hard losing your best friend. You could always try talking to the person if you seriously want your friend back, however, it's time to move on.
@@Vyprr1004 Really?? 😟😞 actually yesterday I texted with big message of apology and I still haven't got any reply... 😔 but I'll wait, I'll wait as long as I could. I have faith in her, she will reply if she's a real friend 😌
In some cases, the hardest part after saying "I'm sorry" is the rebuilding the relationship part with the making amends. Although your friend to whom you say sorry to "forgives you" & you tried your best to make amends, it would sometimes require a lot of time for the relationship to be rebuild; sometimes after saying "I'm sorry", say it only once & give the person you say "I'm sorry" to some space & time for processing.
my mom and her boyfriend were breaking up i was stressed and it turned out my best friends dad was telling my mom to leave him so i lost my temper and started text her bad things about her dad and now she said "have a good life julee,bye" idk if you will accept my apologie chyanne cause u blocked me and im to scared to see u in person but if your watching this or any part of chys family tell her to unblock me i love u your like my sister im under a ton of stress u saw i how acted then and please try to hear the full story i was trying to explain ,please chyanne walls forgive me i have said some bad things if this is her family i repeat tell her to unblock me love julee ramaya for chyanne walls
Me and my friend started a fight we do talk but we talk weirdly like were angry at each other but after watching this i bravely apologize to my friend and where back to normal now 😍😍😍
Friend of mine apologised to my other friend, but they didn't accept their apology. After reading their apology I could see why not, but I couldn't quite put into words what was wrong with it. This video showed me they missed the mark on pretty much every one of these pillars (not taking responsibility, justifying their actions with "it's a bad habit" and when all was said and done immediately wanted to move on, not allowing conversation). Thank you for this video, it was really hard trying to explain what they should improve on, so this was super useful.
i wanna say sorry to my aunt for doing something that she didn't like but i still fear her because she might reject my apology and still continue to say hurtful words such as "your education is not important" "you are worthless" hurts me alot and she still continue to say those words even though she sees me crying for a WHOLE day i hope she forgives me this time and say that im sincerely sorry for i did wrong :(
This happened to Me.. I am really helpful and friendly, but sometimes when I get mad or if it's not My day then I harmed someone one day. And that was My best friend. I tried to apologise so much and that Made even worse. The last what I said was *Im sorry* And My friend blocked Me and never talked to me again😕now I'm feeling so incomprehensible and indescribable like a rain without a cloud😕😕
That Guy Over There I tried to talked to them in person, they refused. I messaged them on IG, they blocked me. And they never picked up the phone to call back. I hate myself. I’m a waste of a human. I’m sorry everyone
Same :( I'm trying to message my friend to apologize but she never respond maybe i should do it in person? but i know that she will say that she did not hate me :( but i know that she really do hate me! cuz i did something wrong that hurts her so much.
Me and my crush argued about how i should've been a man and accept a call from a stranger This is my apology: To My crush Hey ???? I'm sorry about yesterday I should've of been a man....so are we still friends? P.s. I'll do anything for us to be 'friends' again From ????? Btw I Didn't use are real names
Jesus lord ik this old but your crush doesn't deserve an apology more then anything you deserve it as what I'm getting from this is just she kut right accused you for not being a man???? Yeah she obviously not the right person for you. Swipe.
The best advice given to me is that if you and another person did wrong to each other and neither of you are too proud to apologize, the best thing to do is apologize 1st. If the other person didn't apologize for doing wrong to you even after you apologized 1st then that person is not the person you need to be hanging around with. Therefore, you need to keep your distance from that person and move on. Believe it or not, that person will come around and wonder why you avoid him or her and only then they'll apologize. Why I know this? Because I had even the most stubborn people come to me and apologized to me even years after the incident. Distance is a powerful weapon! Quote "A person apologizes because they value their relationship or friendship over their pride".
11/27/24 i owe her an apology. saying sorry was one of my weaknesses, not literally. the hard part was not saying sorry, it was knowing where i went wrong, how could i. i even thought it was her fault, how could i. i thought she loved me for who I am, how selfish of me. wish i could turn back time wherein i was a 9/10 rather than a 2. wished i still had my hair, so that she'll love me again. i thought she liked a cleaner look. backreading was not the best move i did, it was the worst. im missing u more than normal. our midnight chats. our bullying of each other. our chikas. our little fights. ur eyes that sparks. ur voice that echos. ur genuine laugh. ur cooked mani. i really do miss u as a whole. i'll wait for you to compensate for making u wait, everytime. sorry for turning u off coz of the state that im in, but, as my last selfish act, i'd hope that somehow you'd still love me, when i grow back my hair.
@@_Tyler if your checking her channel to see if she actually is and you don’t see anything, that’s because she doesn’t have “subscriptions” set to public. Think a little more
My friend and me were talking and he started cursing me and i said : Same to your mom And he became mad at me and even though i apologised he didnt listen so what do i do now
Any advice? So basically someone at my table asked me a question and I answered. My teacher was like, “WHO’S TALKING!” Well a lot of people were talking but my best friend pointed to both of us. Luckily my teacher didn’t notice but then I just was like, “Really?” Then out of nowhere I “stole” her bracelet from her pencil box and held it and then gave it back. She then was mad at me till the end of the day, which wasn’t much longer. Finally, she told me what was wrong so I tried to apologize but she just ran away from me....idk what to do so plz help me!
Thank you I just apologized to my friend and just feel so much better. It's like a bunch of egotistical chains were holding me when I made up my mind for not apologozing but thanks to you I realized that what truly important in a friendship is the ups and downs which made the initial apology a bit hard but the when I said the whole note I made it went smoothly . Thank you once again for making me a better person
I am having a hard time talking with my friends, we haven't talked for like a month. Now, I really do feel worse especially since I ignored them without giving a proper explanation. Please dont do the same way as I did :(..it's really sad if someone ignored you for no reason. Have the guts to tell what you felt and open up to them when needed.
Same we havent talked for a few months and they decided to treat me like a close relative and not a best friend, well it was pretty fair but we were friends for 8 years but after 2 weeks i finally learnt to let go because everthing has changed, her likes, dislikes are not the same as they used to be so i should just treat them like a.. relative nothing more nothing less :)
@@krap8325 Awwee, its unfortunate that you guys weren't able to go back together as friends. Though I give props to you for having the courage and strength to let go and try to move on. There's a ton of great people out there but amongst them, atleat one or two could become potential close friends who'd stick with you no matter what. That would understand you no matter how trivial the problem may be. I hope you've found someone like that too, hehe.
There was this girl who thought i hated her for the longest time, (i believe 6 months) and I feel awful to hurt someone without knowing it. I could never be able to hurt someone on puropose, so hurting her by accident really broke my heart. I'm gunna apologize today and let her know i never hated her
I tried to look at my crush’s grade even though he told me not to and he caught me. I was too curious and I thought that “He won’t ever know.” This really helped me because I wanted to apologise to him, but I never had the courage. So after 2 days, I finally did it. And he forgave me
I've followed all the steps on here but the problem is my best friend won't forgive me... he's still pissed at me and he constantly says "YOU ARE NOT MY FRIEND!" which really hurts.. it hurts more than a break up!. I really want my best friend back but I don't know how.. I need help.
Show Her you care and tell her if there's anything I can do to get back our friendship I'll do anything. Even if it takes to just starting as just friends.
I was at my cousins and we got in a fight so I felt sad so I said a mean thing and she left and told her mom and her mom came in and yelled at me and said I always bullied her and I felt this guilt and sadness and now I am so scared what to do it’s to late to go home it’s 3 and I want to say sorry so much and I am already really full of pain
Me and my friend had a huge fight at the last day of school well graduation and then I felt so guilty but me and one of my friend were both mad at her now the rest of the group found out and called us 'low' and although those words hurt I'm still happy because I deserved them.
I need advice. So here is my story: I have known this guy since I was 8 and in the first year o high school we came closer, I liked him and from his behavior I can tell that he liked me too. One day out of the blue he kicked my butt... and I got really mad cause he had known me for years and he knew that I didn't like being touched there. I told him - have I ever give you the right to touch me? He tried to make it a joke but it didn't work, he apologize but at the same time he was laughing. A week passed and I told my brother (he was on his last year of high school). He was like - do you want me to take care of it? -Yeah of course. I applied thinking that maybe this would make him stop? I don't know why I agreed... anyway... the next day my brother grabbed him with anger and told him some things (I'm not gonna analyze). The next day he didn't even look at me. I was crying because it was all my fault... I took him aside and lied to him telling him that my brother took the initiative all by himself and that I had nothing to do with it. I know it wasn't right but I missed my friend😔. I told him I was sorry and he said that we were good..... but we weren't. We dont talk anymore and when we do it's awkward. What do I do? I miss him.😔😔
Ps. When we went on a trip for 4 days with our school he offered me his umbrella and in the club I caught him looking at me, and when he passed behind me he touched me very gently on my arm and my waste. And with every opportunity he had he compliment other girls loudly in front of me.
I’m crying right now because I think of all the times I was mean to my brother and he means so much to me I don’t want to lose him so this video was very helpful
I’m usually pretty composed but I think I’m in love with a guy and he used to feel the same but I was dating someone so he stopped but I’ve never stopped how I feel. Now I’m single I confessed that I still have feelings for him and he turned me down. And I can’t get over it. And I finally snapped at him and I messed everything up and I’m dying.
I have a problem on this...I don't know what I am asking forgiveness for.....like IDK what I did but I know I did something to upset my crush to the point she hates me and stated the following: "I can't stand being around him. I hate him so much, or don't even get me started on him" she always badmouths me behind my back and gives me stoic looks that are discouraging to deal with every single day. So how do I apologize if I don't know what I did wrong? and How can I earn a second chance for friendship with her? I have never had to apologize to a crush before and thing typically go smooth for me but not this time..only one of my friends out of the 11 I asked told me to just piss off and ignore her and that he didn't care or want to talk about my prob etc. while the other 10 said to apologize formally etc.
Well...what have you been doing recently try and recap all the daily activities and decisions you have made and try to figure out which one of those could have upset her.On the other and she might also be in love with you and frustrated that you haven't asked her out to someplace idk though women are like neverending jigsaw puzzles.
do not feel bad about yourself when you do something wrong if you say sorry and they don't forgive try to do something nice and if they still don't forgive you then they are the ones who are not realizing how sweet you are and how thoughtful you are and I know this even though I'm 10 years old.
I'm doomed..... I knew for a while that it was my friend birthday today and I said happy birthday and said I was going to hang out with her in about an hour from then. Well fast forward half an hour and a different friend came over so I was hanging out and figured all 3 of use because we are all friends could hangout... well half and hour after that my friend came over to hangout but said she only could outside so I said we would be out in a little well... we got distracted, I tried to turn off the game a few times but got busy doing something her brother was over with mine and was saying we should go outside but I didn't want to hurt my other friend by say we had to do something else when she was having fun... Well we never ended up hanging out with my friend who's birthday it was because by the time I got off she already had to go in... I never mentioned it was her birthday to our other friend I figured she knew already... She later found out and now I made her feel bad because she didn't hangout with our other friend on her birthday and made my friend feel bad that I said I would hang out with her and never did even though she came over Not to mention she was stuck alone in her room all day because know now would hang out with her on her b day (oh and I was also with her sister on the phone all the day too) Now I haven't stopped crying for hours and I feel like locking myself in my room and never coming out because she is one of my only true friends that I have had for years and have always felt like I could trust and I probably just lost her as a friend.....
I lost my Bestfriend too.... he said all of my secrets to his other bestfriend... i said sorry , i did everything i can , i added effort but... he gave up on me... T^T
same, My friend would always make fun of me, and now hes becoming friends with anither person. Today I flipped out Ik im in the wrong, and I feel like I shouldnt apologize, but i want to keep this friendship - Sorry I wrote this out, but i needed to express my feelins
I really have not done something wrong but this is what I said sorry for. So I have social anxiety and every time I get called on I say I don’t know because I’m to scared. Every time the teacher talks to me I never say sorry. So today I talked to my teacher and said, The reason why I say I don’t know Is because I have social anxiety, I’m sorry. And she totally understands and she forgave me.
i am crying right now. i said sorry for how many times and my friend still says "i cant accept your apologies." i've explained to her my side but she kept on saying some things against mine. i love my friend. i won't let this problem just ruin our friendship. even though she'll push me back, i will still say sorry. even though her pride and anger is above everything, i'm still saying sorry to her.
so we were in class and my bestfriend with copying me in a test because im kinda like smarter then her than the teacher yelled at my friend and my friend got mad because she wnated me to act like i was the one who copied her but i said that it was unfair because i studied hard and got a good grade now she wont talk to me anymore i try to apolgize everytime but she walks away :(
I've been overthinking for a year now about my situation if i should apologize or not to this person, i know it's really reallyy bad since its been over a year now, thats why i feel like in a really horrible person, just thinking about going up to them and apologizing gives me fear:(. I really needed help, and after searcing for so long i found this vid. Now I'm trying to make a move instead of punishing myself for what i did instead of hurting myself and them. Thank u for this video. As I'm writing this it'll be the start of my apology plan for them
i started dating someone. a female. while i’m a female. i identify as panromantic. i didn’t plan on dating anyone just yet. my crush had confessed their love for me, and i was kinda stupid. i told her about my love for her, and we started dating. almost. we never acted differently towards each other in public. in fact, the only time we ever really said anything was over text. so we were doing everything in secret. then, months later, i told one of my best friends about it. i know she’s not homophobic, and she herself calls herself an ally, but i was still scared. just like how it took a while to come out to my lesbian best friend. there’s no way she could not accept us being together, i just got scared. so when i tell my ally friend (let’s call her.. fly) (yes, there is a fly annoying me right now. gosh dang it, i just called my friend annoying.) about my sexuality and my secret significant other (let’s call her lemon for no reason), she is supporting but.. gets upset. i didn’t really think this through, but now i realize that i was being really selfish not telling fly about lemon and i, or even how i identify as panromantic. she says she is disappointed and i feel fly has lost some of her trust in me. i’ve gotten really emotional about this, as it will put a dent in fly and i’s friendship, but i will use this video to apologize fully. thank you.
I tend to be a very nice person, but sometimes I do stupid things like saying something I shouldn't to someone even when they don't really deserve. I know how to love and be caring but I know how to hurt people and I do it so deeply! Now I'm trying to learn to apologize and learning with my mistakes... I feel so bad and the remorse is something terrible;
+Aswathy Ajith that hilarious AF
Same..
I feel you. I'm exactly like you
Same
Moonstone Games Dude I just went through the same thing. I need tips!!
The person who will read this, if you said sorry, and the person doesn't forgive you, well think about how the person would feel if you didn't say sorry, so if the person doesn't forgive you, atleast the person knows that you said sorry, okay? So please, don't feel bad about yourself😊
omg omg exo,wait?what?
Kkaepsong -ByunBaek04 thx you made my day 😀
No. I feel too bad, I was a shitty friend. I hate myself and I’m finally ready to die
futurluv13 me rn
tanq
the fact i had to search this up tho
Same
Same
Yea...
For real tho
Same
*When you say sorry and they leave you on read*
That was me. I was left on read
Just know, them leaving you on read is not on you at all. You did the big thing and apologized and said what you wanted and needed to say. If they don't reply to you, it's on them. It's hard and I get it, that was me with my best friend from hs but you move on and it's a little easier to do so, knowing that you at least tried.
She said idc. My heart was broken after that
That’s me right now... I need help
Me too
dont do it on chat do it in real life
I said something extremely stupid as a joke to my classmate over text, and they responded back with "Shut up, I'm going through something personal." When I read this, I felt so bad, I didn't even know how to apologize back to them. I ended up spending the whole day trashing myself for doing something so stupid. Thank you for this video, I really hope I can build up the courage to apologize to them.
same thing happened to me, my friend really needed someone to be with and just to talk to and i completely changed the subject and made a joke on a completely different topic to try to lighten the mood but I didn't even take his feelings into account so here I am trying to throw away my ego and apologize sincerely
I’m going through the same thing too, I called my friend who is transgender a trap without knowing it was a offensive word to people who are trans. And I want to apologize properly to him for saying that :(.
update: i now apologized and he accepted me
Same
I’m sending this to my friend who used /kill on me in his minecraft world
HAHAHAHA🤣🤣
LOL
•_•
BAHAHAHHAHA im sending this to my parents wish me lol
xD
well this proves i have low self- esteem
yup
Mesa Meme Radio same
Welcome to the club
Its hard not to put off an appology when you know youve done something realy bad. But the guilt eats me alive.
Meat Shield Same, now I’m EXTREEEEMMMMEEEELLLLLYYYYY guilty.
To be honest I get so tired of hearing "sorry" from people who don't mean it. I have a friend who blows up my phone non stop, then when I confront him about it, he says sorry then goes back to the same behavior. He leaves voicemails every time he calls and says "Sorry for blowing up you phone" but he keeps doing it. It gets tiring. Sometimes sorry won't make things how they were. Also, a note to add: forgiveness doesn't mean that the person will want to stay friends, lovers, etc. Forgiveness means not letting what happened have power over you. Then you move on with your life :)
Miss Laura he loves you just tell him your not interested when some one is texting none stop that doesn’t mean there bored
Miss Laura well always give mercy so you will also get mercy.
*THANK YOU.*
Some people need to realize an apology must be sincere, and in some cases, it's not enough to repair the damage. If you've done something wrong that genuinely upset another, your apology won't mean shit if you don't really mean it or don't even try to change. Willingness to listen, talk, and reflect is key 👌
tbh I’m that friend that apologizes a lot and makes the mistake again.i won’t give myself any excuses.i realized that I’ve said sorry too many times that it didn’t sound so sincere anymore and I’m scared to sorry now.i feel like they’ll think i don’t mean it.I’ve never realized how much of a toxic person I was until a friend and their friends spoke up about.i didn’t realize I used to play the victim card.I’m truly sorry to all of them but it’s in the pass now.
softbeanuwu how did you apologize then?
I started giving my girlfriend less attention and I really love her and i just don't know what to do because i know i was wrong for it
@@vannergy you dont know how much I needed this
Me to
You're the same as my bf be givung me less attention now and i dont know why
Yes
I know, I was awful. We had a great evening together but then I was too scared to even talk to her for fear of ruining it and I've hardly spoken to her in two weeks. Idk if it's too far gone now though, I feel really bad :/
Edit: Turns out I had gone too far and she broke up with me :(
I have really low-self esteem and I had a really hard time apologizing when I was younger. I'd never apologize to anything and I hated fighting with people. Now a days I still hate fighting but I'm never really careful with what I say. I know I hurt people often and apologizing makes me uncomfortable and nervous. Thank you for making this video. I want to be the best person I can be!
I relate to this comment sm
Sometimes it just takes time, and space. If you back off a bit, and try again sometime in the future, she may have cooled down, and be more willing to hear your side.
I keep saying sorry but my friend is just; (
We have all been there :(
Sean Grabner oh wait he got over it XD
Me too,I still can't get it over.
That depends. What are they like? (I know this is too late but whatever)
Same.. She gives me a "👍" emoji....
my friend and I had a huge fight and I had sleepless night for 4 days but she blocked me everywhere and her house too far :(
Next time you're at school with her, just don't say "sorry I'm better than you". Say "sorry I did (what you did)"
Same:((
Your story is same like my best friend but now i cant apologize now 😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😢😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿
Aisha Kargbo same i can't stop thinking about it
Same here😔
1. Firstly apologize. For example: I sincerely apologize for...
2. Address what you are apologizing for
3. Don't make excuses
4. Be honest, if others find out you were lying they might not trust you again.
5. Take full responsibility
6. Try to understand the persons u hurt feelings. Also express your own feelings.
7. Add ''I hope I can things between us'' or ''I hope you can forgive me''
8. Don't play the victim
9. Learn from your mistake. Promise the other person that you'll do better in the future
10. Write down the apology before saying it.
11. Imagine that youre the person that was the victim, if the person was saying the apology that you made how would u feel? How would they feel? If the apology doesn't seem sincere enough change it up a bit.
12. Give the person some time to accept it. They might not be ready.
Here is an example of a good apology I guess?? -
Hello, I sincerely apologize for hurting you and saying mean things. I should have never said that. I can imagine how you feel, I feel horrible for saying mean things right to your face without thinking about it. The things I said before are not true, you're an again guess person. I'm terribly sorry once again. I made sure to understand my mistake and learn from it, I'll be more thoughtful in the future. Thank you for helping me realize and learn from my mistakes, I appreciate it. I do agree that I was wrong with my behaviour, I hope you can forgive me.
If you're falsely accussed of something remember that you still have to apologize and be honest. Address the situation from your side and collect proofs if you're able to.
Thank you so much for writing this it will help me very much
I messed up with my best friend and I really want her back it was my fault we fell out and I appoligsed and she didn't forgive me but I really want to go back to what we were
i feel you
Nobody Cares same
Give it time
Nobody Cares same here
@Nobody But is he mad?
What if I dont know what I did? I just know I did something to hurt my friend.
I would be honest and tell them you're not exactly sure what you did, but you've noticed that they are hurt and you want to rectify that. So ask them to help explain why they got hurt. Make sure you make it clear that you care about their feelings and that is why you want to understand what you did and make things better. :)
Souporgamer we have the same problem me and my friend always get I. Argruments but idk what I did to her
@@kierstenswanson5276 same
@@kierstenswanson5276 same
same problem asked him said promise but don't even talk with me and no forgiveness
Omg thank you I followed the steps of the plan and my mom forgave me I realized that all my other excuses did not have any of those steps BUT "BUTS AND LONG ACTING STORIES AND NO KEEPING TO MY WORD!" So this time I
1: planed it
2: didn't blaming anyone
3: Apologized
4: KEPT TO MY WORD
and she FORGAVE ME!!!
SO THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!!
I am liking and subscribing!!!! And everyone should too!!!
Or just say sorry. It works. Always.
Im glad she forgave you! Its good of you to apologize. Thank you for the steps :)
People, especially on social media, think that apologizing is so easy, but it really isn't. Apologizing isn't simply just swallowing your pride and taking accountability. That's the easy part. What makes apologizing so scary and difficult is that taking accountability requires you to be vulnerable in a really tense situation while knowing that you're in the wrong. It's basically opening your heart at gunpoint. That's what apologizing, especially when you've done something really bad.
When i feel like i messed up i will always be in my room. It feels more saver
When I feel Like I messed up, I will always be in My room, it feels safer.*
Yeah agree
And sleeping
Same
i really mest up i need a profesional
same
same accidently called the person I love slow so I fucked up
hey were back to being friends now
+Teen Gohan me to
Theofficial GamerHD same
What if someone never accepts your apology? I have apologised to someone for what I did but they rejected me HORRIBLY!!! I stormed of crying and crying! How do I deal with this sort of stuff?
They might not deserve your apology if so, don't feel so bad about it
Then why are you apologizing to that person. If they're gonna hold a grudge even when you stop holding one as well, then they're just being, well, a female dog
I use one racist word that offend one person in school.. Probably teacher won't forgive me I hope to change school because maybe I will hurt to many people... Because it happens yesterday.. Ahh
I'm the most disgusting person in the world lel I'm upset why did I become such a racist person.. I hate my negative thought..
CakeFreeze if ur a racist u deserve to be hated
Im writing an letter u should try it
This needs a Lot more views..
This works a lot, I just apologized this morning. Thank you very much! For y'all that's currently planning to apologize, good luck!
"Why do we fall, Bruce? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up." - The Dark Knight (2008)
Family is definitely a topic we'd like to address. Thank you for your suggestion!
i accidentally woke up the baby, somebody help
Then say the baby's language by saying sorry
What if that person keeps avoiding me so I can't get to them 😨
Elizabeth Adams ikr
+Elizabeth Adams Go to them irl You cant do anything if she/he ignores you in text or communication so better go to her/him and talk personaly
Elizabeth A stalk them LOL
elizabeth o
Tell them to stop running away and listen to me
So me and my "best friend" got into a huge argument today and she blocked me on social media(not my phone tho) so idk whether to leave her alone, or call/text her, or what and she lives too far for me to go and walk to her house
same situation, my "best friend" blocked me on whatsapp
@@joycejoyce5025 ohh my best friend blocked me from everywhere ⬅➡⬆⬇↗↘↙↖ 😭😭
Me too😣
My friend didn't block me but he neither talking to me
Ask if her she/he if they want space or if you can work it out
Tips!
Don't forget that we're all human beings. Just because you made a mistake, don't forget you're human too.
*Friends*
A friend who got into a fight with you will have to apologize too. If that friend doesn't apologize, but you do, you need new friends. If you need help apologizing, you should text them or write them a card. Don't forget that both of you are the victim, and both of you should apologize.
*Family*
If you have a fight with your family, you should look them in the eye and apologize. I'd recommend getting them a gift or something to show them that you are actually apologizing, and not faking it. If they're parents, they're most likely to forgive you.
*Kids*
Apologize to them simply in words. Make sure to make your speech not too lengthy and not too wordy. Kids are extremely simple to apologize to, knowing that I am basically a kid too. If they respond negatively, try again a day later. They will most likely forgive you.
*OVERALL*
Try not to blame it all on yourself or the other person's. Remember that both of you probably made a mistake and you shouldnt stress about it.
This is a great video. It's currently helping me prepare an apology myself to give to a teacher. I feel really bad because i realized i was being weird and annoying with her, and making her feel uncomfortable. So I'm practicing my apology speech, wish me luck! AND THANK YOU WELLCAST!
Thanks I was being rude to this kid Able at my school and he always did nice stuff for me and never did anything to anyone. I didn't know what to do and this video really helped out on how to apologize to him
how do we say sorry to my mom?
sorry mom
+YoungTrellafrella as easy as that
do what she says give her a lot of love and say sorry
kat ly say sorry mom you are beautiful
yeah thats what i came here for :(
Since my childhood I was too spoiled and that behaving stook up with me till my 20´s. I´ve dealed with shit in military school then and with college. I quitted m S in the second year in there and then quit my comunications carrer in college to study in an music institiute because of my passion and love for music. But I still regret every moment I´ve putted through a hard time on my parents. They were and even now still very supportive to me and I´am so greatful with them. But every time I´m still haunted by pictures of my past self giving them stupid troubles and making them feel guilty for my mistakes. I know I´am an ungreatful shit but now I´m trying to do my best to not give them troubles anymore. Sometimes I think I don´t deserve them and think that I would be better death or something. The only thing I know is that God is with me and I pray to him to emend my sins and let me be forgiven if he let me. I wisht them the best and I try to do my best to not fail anymore to them or do something I would hate myself anymore. Please, love your parents and honor them.
I wanted to say I like you to a girl I liked, But I never had the courage to say it. Now I regret it so hard.
I am currently in middle school and im having some drama. it all started during my third quarter of 6th grade and im currently in 7th (quarter 3) im playing knockout (Basketball) for P.E and the lines were to long for the to main boy basketball lines ,so i headed over to the other short line (no boys in it). Im chatting with some people and there was some dumb blonde in the front making up her own rules for basketball and i just glance over and keep minding my buisness. then i hear an arguement going on and there saying someone was out . I witnessed the whole thing and the girl wasnt out . i hear a girl go " paige your not out !" so i repeated the same thing and when she turned around and looked at me, that was the first time i had seen her before .....my god she was amazing. the game continues and P.E soon ends. few days later some friends of mine asked me who i liked, and i was dumb enough to point to her. im joking around with them telling them dumb pickup jokes and the day continues. by the next day I had her two main friends come up to me and tell me to back off and stop spreading rumors that i had her number, and by that time i had absolutly no clue what had happend but appearantly my dumb friends where spreading rumors about me. the year goes by and i had not hear much from anybody. everyonce and a while we would accidentally make eye contact and it would be akward. the year ends and its now 7th grade now. nothing had happend in the first quarter, but the second quarter os where EVERYTHING goes wrong. i had told the whole story to my friend and he listened to me about it. the next we walk into the drama room to drop off his stuff for next period AND what do you know ! she walks right in with her friends and breeze right past me. The worst possible thing my friend could do ,did that just thing. He grabs my arm and says "oh no you don't , as i try to speed out the door to get away, but I luckly escape. as im speed walking out he says " im going back in. and i beg him not to, but as were outside i was slowly talking him out of it. but he just makes his mind and walks right in ( if you didnt know there were about 10 of them in a group). as a part of me is already dead he comes out about 5 minutes later and he just says " yea shes pretty nice" then explains everything . apparantly she dosent hate me ( which i had previously thought) but just thinks im a little bit creepy.... month goes by and its around christmas, last week for the first semester. my mom had told me shes taking me out of school for the last to days to go lake tahoe ,a ski resort with my family. as i had realized it was going to be christmas i bought her a starbucks gift card. I babied out the first day of planing to give it to her and i was going to leave the next morning, which ment i wasnt going to be at school the next day. my other very trusy friend said he has math class with her and says that he could give it to her for me. so we followed through and i gave it to him. next day he had texted me that she just smiled , said " thanks" and walked away. i was pretty stoked about that and patted my back. the next day my OTHER friend had texted me that everyone was talking about it and he said that she looked discusted when she recived it. for about a year now i have been planing an apology but i have never done it. i dont know what to do/say and i need your help..... any suggestions would help .(PS sorry it was so long)
See if you can at least get her to listen to you. Then, tell her the same thing that you just said. The truth. You had no trouble writing it in a comment, so try to work up the courage to say it to her.
I mean it was long because you needed someone to talk to...
Niqbo dont Call her "some dumb blonde" though.
oh good god i have a lot of apologising to do tomorrow...
What are you doing here-
I am about to apologize to someone for my actions in approximately three hours from now. This is honestly the most difficult thing I have ever had to do in my life. My stomach is churning, and I feel sick. However, I must do it to save this friendship. This video came in handy. Thank you!
What was the result?
I have a best friend that would always talk to me online if i was scared at night to sleep, she would always talk to me about the things we liked and kept on sharing jokes with each other, but one day i made a very big mistake that had actually ended my friendship with her, i have never felt so guilty before in my life. I apologised but she didnt accept it. Now i just wish i could turn back time and not do that mistake. It feels sad not to have her accompanying me at night. I really want her back. But...life has to go on its ok if you have lost a friend, you might take time to get over it. But you will soon find more friends that will make you happy again. Dont feel sad if they dont accept your apology. There are even more friends you can make in your life and im always supporting you :)
Can we be friends :D?
@@ARMY-gh5xg sure!!
Thank you soooo much! Now i don't need to walk aorund with that stone in my stomach anymore. You really helped me to say sorry. Thanks...
I came here after an argument with a close relative, and I just kept on talking to myself about how I failed as a family member and I didn’t know how to apologize to them without backing out and having an anxiety attack and I’ve been crying for a few minutes, and thinking, this video was helpful nonetheless and I think I’ll be able to say sorry
I came here after a 2-3 week argument with a girl in my school. I try to seek the best moment to apologize her but those moments seem to be ruined by her friends. We fought over silly stuff in P.E, then the worse in our everyday-school-in-class classes. I got no idea how I will approach her.
Same
I dont know how to start though D: my best friend sits right beside me everytime I try to make a conversation she wont listen. :(
Fern Tidalgo don’t worry just try to be nice to her or him i know you said that he or she is ignoring you but if she or he aren’t talking does that really consider her or him your bff because i don’t think so. If it helps you can find new friends, i mean everyday is a new adventure right?
and i’m sorry for u
When your bff is just a stranger with your deepest secrets at hand :(
I've spoken with my friend and he says that i've been a douche to him even though I haven't. He gave me one last chance and then a few weeks later he straight up blocked me. I asked him at school what I did and he didn't answer. A few days later he finally spoke up and said, "Its the same reason like last time, you're being a douche." Now I can swear on my life I haven't said crap to this person so I was confused, but I said sorry like thousands of times anyway but he just won't listen to me. I don't know what to do. I haven't even been a jerk to him at all and he just hates me now. I keep telling him that I owned up to my mistakes and tell him that I promise on my life I would stop being a "jerk" but still. He just won't listen to me anymore.
What hurts the most is that me and him have been friends for over 5 years and when he told me we weren't friends anymore, I didn't see any regret, shame, or overall pity. He just straight up told me and without even a change in his attitude walked away like I was dust. Its hurts.
I keep telling him but he just won't listen. Do any of you have any tips, if so please tell me. I want my friend back.
Don’t apologize again. I’m completely 100% positive he’ll never explain how you can resolve whatever you did to make him mad, and that he will not forgive you for whatever it was. Truly is his loss, as he doesn’t know how or even try to communicate in an emotionally mature way.
First of all, try to see if his behaviour or tone changed when you talk about something specific. Maybe what you did which you think was okay hurt him, because people take things differently. I think to apologize you have to know the cause. But if really, not a thing happened, maybe there are other factors and reasons abt not wanting to be friends anymore.
if you are very sure that you didnt do or say anything that could’ve hurt him then dont apologize. Im very sorry for what happened and i understand that you really want that friend back but if he acts like this when you didnt do anything then you shouldn’t apologize. If he doesnt contact you and apologize instead then i suggest moving on. That is a big step and it is not easy. But if he keeps ignoring you then you’ll be better off without him
2:49 “eating my doritos” *WHEEEZE*
TiredBoi ツ what’s the joke
I had a boyfriend, he passed away.
He said “I’m sorry”.
;w;
It’s hard -3-...
JayDoesRandomCrap :3 swag
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@stan u guys r pricks icl
Pros cheated
@snauJ L
I Want my Friend back..
Man we’re here for the exact same reasons
starting to think its better to just not have friends. didnt know people get so offended by everything these days
Something I learned about words and I want to share it. Words are like feathers in a wind storm, once you release your words you can never gather them all up. I often write these words on a piece of paper and tape it in areas that I’m going to see first thing like a mirror: be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. Nobody’s perfect, we all make mistakes but the one great thing about life is we can learn to apologize. Even when I am wrong, I choose to tell the person that’s hurting that I’m sorry. When I care about someone and I know they have no control over their pain, saying sorry to that person and telling them that they’re right regardless of them being wrong will make them heal and get over the hurdle. This is a bit of psychology that really helps and works. A word of caution, if this person constantly wants you to apologize then you know that they’re onto you and it’s all about their ego. Have a great day and God bless
I'm using this to bring up the courage to apologize to my mom in the morning. Thank you...
i fucked up really bad
lolz forever there's this boy who I keep calling short and he hurt me and it's so hard to say sorry .... and am gonna say sorry to him on Monday
Lizzy LuvsMilkAndCookies youre so brave :D
lolz forever lol thanks but am scared he will reject me :(
lolz forever me to bro
I say things sometimes that I really regret and obsess over it until I just can't anymore. The obsession usually goes on for weeks, all because I couldn't keep my mouth closed. It sucks, and it's just straight up embarrassing for me personally.
Dont say sorry say...iam sorry what can i do to correct my mistake
Okay... But will it work?? 😟😟
@@Mazechan-3 I wouldn't say it wouldn't work, but knowing your mistake is crucial. Asking "What can I do to correct my mistake?" might not be the best bet. If the person replies and forgives you, then that's good! If the person is giving you the silent treatment, let the person have some alone time (doesn't mean the person is ignoring you).
@@Vyprr1004 oh dear it's almost an year now I'm waiting for their reply. And it wasn't even my fault still I'm putting all blames on me... 😔 I'll happily accept the mistake whatever they think I did... But now I truly want them back... I'm totally alone for a year without my best friend 😞
@@Mazechan-3 A year? Well, looks like you have to move on. I know it's hard losing your best friend. You could always try talking to the person if you seriously want your friend back, however, it's time to move on.
@@Vyprr1004 Really?? 😟😞 actually yesterday I texted with big message of apology and I still haven't got any reply... 😔 but I'll wait, I'll wait as long as I could. I have faith in her, she will reply if she's a real friend 😌
At the first moment when the speaker said "I'm sorry", idk why but it kinda bought me tears.
In some cases, the hardest part after saying "I'm sorry" is the rebuilding the relationship part with the making amends. Although your friend to whom you say sorry to "forgives you" & you tried your best to make amends, it would sometimes require a lot of time for the relationship to be rebuild; sometimes after saying "I'm sorry", say it only once & give the person you say "I'm sorry" to some space & time for processing.
my mom and her boyfriend were breaking up i was stressed and it turned out my best friends dad was telling my mom to leave him so i lost my temper and started text her bad things about her dad and now she said "have a good life julee,bye" idk if you will accept my apologie chyanne cause u blocked me and im to scared to see u in person but if your watching this or any part of chys family tell her to unblock me i love u your like my sister im under a ton of stress u saw i how acted then and please try to hear the full story i was trying to explain ,please chyanne walls forgive me i have said some bad things if this is her family i repeat tell her to unblock me love julee ramaya for chyanne walls
Julee Ramaya make a new account and tell them sorry
are you guys friends again
Did you guys become friends again?
Jules is everything okay now?
Jules run on sentence
Question, I was in the middle of saying sorry, but she just stared at me and walked off...what do I do??????????
Zombieboi206 dig your grave
She not coming back-
@Park Taehyun-ssi did she forgive you lol
Did she forgive you lol
Me and my friend started a fight we do talk but we talk weirdly like were angry at each other but after watching this i bravely apologize to my friend and where back to normal now 😍😍😍
Friend of mine apologised to my other friend, but they didn't accept their apology. After reading their apology I could see why not, but I couldn't quite put into words what was wrong with it. This video showed me they missed the mark on pretty much every one of these pillars (not taking responsibility, justifying their actions with "it's a bad habit" and when all was said and done immediately wanted to move on, not allowing conversation).
Thank you for this video, it was really hard trying to explain what they should improve on, so this was super useful.
i wanna say sorry to my aunt for doing something that she didn't like but i still fear her because she might reject my apology and still continue to say hurtful words such as "your education is not important" "you are worthless" hurts me alot and she still continue to say those words even though she sees me crying for a WHOLE day i hope she forgives me this time and say that im sincerely sorry for i did wrong :(
This happened to Me.. I am really helpful and friendly, but sometimes when I get mad or if it's not My day then I harmed someone one day. And that was My best friend. I tried to apologise so much and that Made even worse. The last what I said was *Im sorry* And My friend blocked Me and never talked to me again😕now I'm feeling so incomprehensible and indescribable like a rain without a cloud😕😕
What if they won't respond on Insta
Olie Nolen apologies to them any way and if there your true friend they will respond
Olie Nolen if you really cared you would do it in person
Olie Nolen
Sorry but ya' need to do it in real life
That Guy Over There I tried to talked to them in person, they refused. I messaged them on IG, they blocked me. And they never picked up the phone to call back. I hate myself. I’m a waste of a human. I’m sorry everyone
Same :( I'm trying to message my friend to apologize but she never respond maybe i should do it in person? but i know that she will say that she did not hate me :( but i know that she really do hate me! cuz i did something wrong that hurts her so much.
Me and my crush argued about how i should've been a man and accept a call from a stranger
This is my apology:
To My crush
Hey ???? I'm sorry about yesterday I should've of been a man....so are we still friends?
P.s. I'll do anything for us to be 'friends' again
From ?????
Btw I Didn't use are real names
Magma Pikachu nice thank u
Jamille Britts because its pure autistic
Cryogeneric lol
????? is your real name.. wtf
Jesus lord ik this old but your crush doesn't deserve an apology more then anything you deserve it as what I'm getting from this is just she kut right accused you for not being a man???? Yeah she obviously not the right person for you. Swipe.
The best advice given to me is that if you and another person did wrong to each other and neither of you are too proud to apologize, the best thing to do is apologize 1st. If the other person didn't apologize for doing wrong to you even after you apologized 1st then that person is not the person you need to be hanging around with. Therefore, you need to keep your distance from that person and move on. Believe it or not, that person will come around and wonder why you avoid him or her and only then they'll apologize. Why I know this? Because I had even the most stubborn people come to me and apologized to me even years after the incident. Distance is a powerful weapon!
Quote "A person apologizes because they value their relationship or friendship over their pride".
11/27/24
i owe her an apology. saying sorry was one of my weaknesses, not literally. the hard part was not saying sorry, it was knowing where i went wrong, how could i. i even thought it was her fault, how could i. i thought she loved me for who I am, how selfish of me. wish i could turn back time wherein i was a 9/10 rather than a 2. wished i still had my hair, so that she'll love me again. i thought she liked a cleaner look. backreading was not the best move i did, it was the worst. im missing u more than normal. our midnight chats. our bullying of each other. our chikas. our little fights. ur eyes that sparks. ur voice that echos. ur genuine laugh. ur cooked mani. i really do miss u as a whole. i'll wait for you to compensate for making u wait, everytime. sorry for turning u off coz of the state that im in, but, as my last selfish act, i'd hope that somehow you'd still love me, when i grow back my hair.
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My friend and me were talking and he started cursing me and i said : Same to your mom
And he became mad at me and even though i apologised he didnt listen so what do i do now
Any advice?
So basically someone at my table asked me a question and I answered. My teacher was like, “WHO’S TALKING!” Well a lot of people were talking but my best friend pointed to both of us. Luckily my teacher didn’t notice but then I just was like, “Really?” Then out of nowhere I “stole” her bracelet from her pencil box and held it and then gave it back. She then was mad at me till the end of the day, which wasn’t much longer. Finally, she told me what was wrong so I tried to apologize but she just ran away from me....idk what to do so plz help me!
My friend is the one that started the arguement and should be apologizing but I’m going to like I do everytime.
Thank you I just apologized to my friend and just feel so much better. It's like a bunch of egotistical chains were holding me when I made up my mind for not apologozing but thanks to you I realized that what truly important in a friendship is the ups and downs which made the initial apology a bit hard but the when I said the whole note I made it went smoothly . Thank you once again for making me a better person
I am having a hard time talking with my friends, we haven't talked for like a month. Now, I really do feel worse especially since I ignored them without giving a proper explanation. Please dont do the same way as I did :(..it's really sad if someone ignored you for no reason. Have the guts to tell what you felt and open up to them when needed.
Same we havent talked for a few months and they decided to treat me like a close relative and not a best friend, well it was pretty fair but we were friends for 8 years but after 2 weeks i finally learnt to let go because everthing has changed, her likes, dislikes are not the same as they used to be so i should just treat them like a.. relative nothing more nothing less :)
@@krap8325 Awwee, its unfortunate that you guys weren't able to go back together as friends. Though I give props to you for having the courage and strength to let go and try to move on. There's a ton of great people out there but amongst them, atleat one or two could become potential close friends who'd stick with you no matter what. That would understand you no matter how trivial the problem may be. I hope you've found someone like that too, hehe.
idk why but i just CANT apologize to anyone like i CANT
Same it feels so weird
The thing is I hate apologizing when ik I’m right
Yeah fuck you don't take my Doritos
Yeah
Same
Yeah.. This wasn't the best example... I used to live with roommates and we would never eat each other stuff unless we asked.
There was this girl who thought i hated her for the longest time, (i believe 6 months) and I feel awful to hurt someone without knowing it. I could never be able to hurt someone on puropose, so hurting her by accident really broke my heart. I'm gunna apologize today and let her know i never hated her
I tried to look at my crush’s grade even though he told me not to and he caught me. I was too curious and I thought that “He won’t ever know.”
This really helped me because I wanted to apologise to him, but I never had the courage. So after 2 days, I finally did it.
And he forgave me
I've followed all the steps on here but the problem is my best friend won't forgive me... he's still pissed at me and he constantly says "YOU ARE NOT MY FRIEND!" which really hurts.. it hurts more than a break up!. I really want my best friend back but I don't know how.. I need help.
Show Her you care and tell her if there's anything I can do to get back our friendship I'll do anything. Even if it takes to just starting as just friends.
Clark Kent its a him
same problem
First of all: what in the hell you do to make them sound so petty?
I was at my cousins and we got in a fight so I felt sad so I said a mean thing and she left and told her mom and her mom came in and yelled at me and said I always bullied her and I felt this guilt and sadness and now I am so scared what to do it’s to late to go home it’s 3 and I want to say sorry so much and I am already really full of pain
basically I teased my friend about her and this teacher.Now I dont know how to apologize? Help me pls x
I know it sounds wierd but we always tease each other about us and these teachers (don't ask )
Me and my friend had a huge fight at the last day of school well graduation and then I felt so guilty but me and one of my friend were both mad at her now the rest of the group found out and called us 'low' and although those words hurt I'm still happy because I deserved them.
I need advice. So here is my story:
I have known this guy since I was 8 and in the first year o high school we came closer, I liked him and from his behavior I can tell that he liked me too. One day out of the blue he kicked my butt... and I got really mad cause he had known me for years and he knew that I didn't like being touched there. I told him
- have I ever give you the right to touch me?
He tried to make it a joke but it didn't work, he apologize but at the same time he was laughing. A week passed and I told my brother (he was on his last year of high school). He was like
- do you want me to take care of it?
-Yeah of course. I applied thinking that maybe this would make him stop? I don't know why I agreed... anyway... the next day my brother grabbed him with anger and told him some things (I'm not gonna analyze). The next day he didn't even look at me. I was crying because it was all my fault... I took him aside and lied to him telling him that my brother took the initiative all by himself and that I had nothing to do with it. I know it wasn't right but I missed my friend😔. I told him I was sorry and he said that we were good..... but we weren't. We dont talk anymore and when we do it's awkward. What do I do? I miss him.😔😔
Ps. When we went on a trip for 4 days with our school he offered me his umbrella and in the club I caught him looking at me, and when he passed behind me he touched me very gently on my arm and my waste. And with every opportunity he had he compliment other girls loudly in front of me.
I used to hate a girl in my life class but now I have a crush on her. She still hates me for what happened back then. Help me please!
Thank you so much. This is mother's day and my MOM is MAD at me. Send support.
happy 2021 mother’s day
I’m crying right now because I think of all the times I was mean to my brother and he means so much to me I don’t want to lose him so this video was very helpful
I'm a type Who acts genuinely kind to everyone, but sometimes I do some bad jokes that get people offended,This video helped alot.
I’m usually pretty composed but I think I’m in love with a guy and he used to feel the same but I was dating someone so he stopped but I’ve never stopped how I feel. Now I’m single I confessed that I still have feelings for him and he turned me down. And I can’t get over it. And I finally snapped at him and I messed everything up and I’m dying.
I have a problem on this...I don't know what I am asking forgiveness for.....like IDK what I did but I know I did something to upset my crush to the point she hates me and stated the following: "I can't stand being around him. I hate him so much, or don't even get me started on him" she always badmouths me behind my back and gives me stoic looks that are discouraging to deal with every single day. So how do I apologize if I don't know what I did wrong? and How can I earn a second chance for friendship with her? I have never had to apologize to a crush before and thing typically go smooth for me but not this time..only one of my friends out of the 11 I asked told me to just piss off and ignore her and that he didn't care or want to talk about my prob etc. while the other 10 said to apologize formally etc.
Well...what have you been doing recently try and recap all the daily activities and decisions you have made and try to figure out which one of those could have upset her.On the other and she might also be in love with you and frustrated that you haven't asked her out to someplace idk though women are like neverending jigsaw puzzles.
2:01 to 2:08, my favorite part!
You should say sorry with your heart. not only your mouth.
do not feel bad about yourself when you do something wrong if you say sorry and they don't forgive try to do something nice and if they still don't forgive you then they are the ones who are not realizing how sweet you are and how thoughtful you are and I know this even though I'm 10 years old.
I'm doomed..... I knew for a while that it was my friend birthday today and I said happy birthday and said I was going to hang out with her in about an hour from then.
Well fast forward half an hour and a different friend came over so I was hanging out and figured all 3 of use because we are all friends could hangout... well half and hour after that my friend came over to hangout but said she only could outside so I said we would be out in a little well... we got distracted, I tried to turn off the game a few times but got busy doing something her brother was over with mine and was saying we should go outside but I didn't want to hurt my other friend by say we had to do something else when she was having fun...
Well we never ended up hanging out with my friend who's birthday it was because by the time I got off she already had to go in...
I never mentioned it was her birthday to our other friend I figured she knew already...
She later found out and now I made her feel bad because she didn't hangout with our other friend on her birthday and made my friend feel bad that I said I would hang out with her and never did even though she came over
Not to mention she was stuck alone in her room all day because know now would hang out with her on her b day (oh and I was also with her sister on the phone all the day too)
Now I haven't stopped crying for hours and I feel like locking myself in my room and never coming out because she is one of my only true friends that I have had for years and have always felt like I could trust and I probably just lost her as a friend.....
Yep I said sorry and sorry and sorry and she still ignores me😖
I lost my Bestfriend too....
he said all of my secrets to his other bestfriend...
i said sorry , i did everything i can , i added effort
but...
he gave up on me...
T^T
same, My friend would always make fun of me, and now hes becoming friends with anither person. Today I flipped out Ik im in the wrong, and I feel like I shouldnt apologize, but i want to keep this friendship - Sorry I wrote this out, but i needed to express my feelins
I really have not done something wrong but this is what I said sorry for.
So I have social anxiety and every time I get called on I say I don’t know because I’m to scared. Every time the teacher talks to me I never say sorry. So today I talked to my teacher and said, The reason why I say I don’t know Is because I have social anxiety, I’m sorry. And she totally understands and she forgave me.
i am crying right now. i said sorry for how many times and my friend still says "i cant accept your apologies." i've explained to her my side but she kept on saying some things against mine. i love my friend. i won't let this problem just ruin our friendship. even though she'll push me back, i will still say sorry. even though her pride and anger is above everything, i'm still saying sorry to her.
so we were in class and my bestfriend with copying me in a test because im kinda like smarter then her than the teacher yelled at my friend and my friend got mad because she wnated me to act like i was the one who copied her but i said that it was unfair because i studied hard and got a good grade now she wont talk to me anymore i try to apolgize everytime but she walks away :(
Your friends an ass hole. Where is she now?
We wants it, and we needs it! We must have the Doritos!!!
I have a friend that thinks that i love to go with others even though its not, pleasee help mee(we've been 7 years already)
I've been overthinking for a year now about my situation if i should apologize or not to this person, i know it's really reallyy bad since its been over a year now, thats why i feel like in a really horrible person, just thinking about going up to them and apologizing gives me fear:(. I really needed help, and after searcing for so long i found this vid. Now I'm trying to make a move instead of punishing myself for what i did instead of hurting myself and them. Thank u for this video. As I'm writing this it'll be the start of my apology plan for them
i started dating someone. a female. while i’m a female. i identify as panromantic. i didn’t plan on dating anyone just yet. my crush had confessed their love for me, and i was kinda stupid. i told her about my love for her, and we started dating. almost. we never acted differently towards each other in public. in fact, the only time we ever really said anything was over text. so we were doing everything in secret. then, months later, i told one of my best friends about it. i know she’s not homophobic, and she herself calls herself an ally, but i was still scared. just like how it took a while to come out to my lesbian best friend. there’s no way she could not accept us being together, i just got scared. so when i tell my ally friend (let’s call her.. fly) (yes, there is a fly annoying me right now. gosh dang it, i just called my friend annoying.) about my sexuality and my secret significant other (let’s call her lemon for no reason), she is supporting but.. gets upset. i didn’t really think this through, but now i realize that i was being really selfish not telling fly about lemon and i, or even how i identify as panromantic. she says she is disappointed and i feel fly has lost some of her trust in me. i’ve gotten really emotional about this, as it will put a dent in fly and i’s friendship, but i will use this video to apologize fully.
thank you.
I said sorry but my dad just got more mad
TitanicLoverTori :3 that happens to me all the time mines with both parents
Apologizing doesn't always mean you're wrong and the other person is right . It means you value your relationship more than your ego . 🐃
Saying sorry is hard. Believe me I know. Also, I have one question: if I apologized to Nick (which I have), DOES THAT MEAN I LOVE HIM??????!!!!!!!!