Hi Tina!! I was hoping you would talk more about what happened with chantel the doula? I thought she would be staying with you for the first year of lylas life.
I swear you two are so elegant and kind when it's about personal questions. I don't think I've ever felt so much comfort in two people I've watched on the internet.
Today is another episode of things older sister tina will tell us that people don't tell women for god knows what reason and then we're all unprepared and scared when random things happen that weren't mentioned in any books or any conversations, but are totally normal apparently Thank you for being open, it's a genuine help, everyone should be able to make informed decisions about something as life and body altering as pregnancy and having a baby
My daughter was the chillest baby. Rarely cried, EVERYONE commented on what a laid back baby she was. Now as a 3 year old she's a crazy little tornado. I love it, she's fun, but I definitely sometimes go "what the heck happened to my super chill baby??"
Same to the baby part for me, my mom always said I was a very quite baby to the point it gave her anxiety that she’d have to wake up several times a night to check on me 😅 (I’m the 2nd child out of 4). My little sister (child #3) was the complete opposite 😅.
Omg this is my now 3.5 yr old. Born June 2019, and I tell you, it was so nice having her at that time during the pandemic so no one was trying to bother you. Now tho, post pandemic life eith s toddler, it sucks. She's a crazy energetic only child with not that many outlets bcuz of "covod policies". Ugh
thanks so much for being honest! so tired of people having kids and then being smug and condescending about it and how it’s only been amazing for their marriage like girl, be real
I really really appreciated this video, They aren’t a lot of us that can get on RUclips and talk about our babies or sex life after baby. It’s great that I have somebody that I can watch that can relate to what we went through as we go about being parents with a new baby and the stages that they go through. I wish more parents would do this, so more first time parents would watch as they get prepared for bringing a new life into this world. It isn’t easy but the memories and the journey to raising of beautiful family is totally awesome. I hope you guys have a great journey making memories with your family. ❤
It makes me laugh how awkward Alfred is when Tina goes on talking about Chris Haemorrhoids. Thank you for keeping it real and answering these questions 🥰
Omg. This is the most entertaining Q&A i have ever seen. Honestly, I just love how real Tina and Alfred are ❤️ Tina should update her channel to Tina Yong Keeps It Real. Apart from this video too, all your tins tries it video's and the cooking ones you don't try to hide your body flaws and it's just empowering. I absolutely love your channel! 💯
Having a child means all the joy in the world even if you're sleep deprived. That single sudden smile from our babies takes all the bad vibes away. Good to see you having fun while in motherhood. May your baby be safe and be always healthy 💕
So relatable! Our baby is 7 months old. It’s so hard to prioritize the relationship when there is a tiny human that needs care 24/7. Hopefully we can put us first more as baby gets older. Happily together parents means happy baby :)
Thank you for being so open and honest! It's lovely to see you both be comfortable with communicating the truth to each other as well. Hope you all have a lovely break
When my husband and I became parents for the first time we made sure we went ok a date at least once a month or eat together when baby is down for a nap. Make time for each other is always one of the best things you can do for your family .
I'm not a mom, but I did lose quite a bit of hair after covid and another health issue. The biggest thing that's helped me is using a mix of pumpkin seed oil, jojoba oil, rosemary oil, and mint oil. It stopped a majority of the excess shedding after maybe 3-4 weeks, and I'm starting to see a lot more new growth at the 6 month mark. It'll take time but I'm sure your hair will come back eventually anyway, and I think the tall baby hair look is cute!
@@michioka You would do it about 2-3 hours before you wash your hair. But if you're like me and only wash it once a week, I use it as my scalp oil, and 3 hours before on my wash day. Using Rosemary oil 4-5 times a week gives the best results, but that would mean more frequent hair washing depending on how much you already do it. I use it on my eyebrows about every other day before showers though. Also make sure you look up dilution rates for the essential oil, personally I use about 30 drops for every 30 ml, but you might use more or less depending on how sensitive your skin is
It is comforting to know it’s not just us.. we’ve recently had our baby, she is now 8mo (premie) and we’ve been so busy with the baby that our time for each other has declined. And it’s nice to know that this is absolutely normal as long you communicate with each other.
You have both help SO many people who feel so lost in the weeds & have so many questions they are afraid to ask or don't get real (Tina Real!) answers for. Thank you!!!
Omg I have the same hemorrhoid! Still there 3 years later 😂. Loved this video. Thank you for being so honest. There’s so much pressure as a parent and hearing things like bedtime varies and you cosleep is refreshing
Omg yes to all of that! My daughter is 3.5 now ans bed time varies and we still so sleep. Ugh. We have been trying to get her to sleep in her own bed since she was about 2. She's a very active sleeper and I'm tired of getting kicked!
I found out that I am pregnant on Wednesday. I am kind of excited about this journey but also I don’t feel anything lol. Haven’t told anyone except my bf. Your videos about birth and pregnancy really helps me a lot. Thank you so much❤
I my god,I love you guys, I’d wish you had your baby before me and see this interview 6 years ago 😂 You are right on so many levels, with sleep deprivation, sex, sleep training and all of that. And we also had our moments when we were asking ourselves if we did right to have a baby. It all works out as long as you communicate, help and love each other like in the beginning. Kisses and merry Christmas 🎄🎁
It's seems like they had everything planned . Everything seems so perfect. They are so mature and they are just so understanding to each other.I love them .theya re so inspiring❤️
My baby just turned 6 months and it’s nice to hear I’m not alone in a lot of the things I’m experiencing 🙌🏼 thanks for being so honest and not sugar coating anything! Just a PSA on the hair loss by the way, unfortunately you cannot do anything to stop it.. it’s a (although HORRIBLE) natural consequence to the hormonal changes. Your hormones during pregnancy basically press pause on your hair loss, so when it resumes it all sheds at the same time where it would normally be more gradual. In most women the heavy shedding stops after 4-5 months and your hair should be back to normal after about a year. I think I’ve lost about half of my hair at this point 🥲 but I’m definitely doing everything I can to make it grow back quicker like you mentioned! Bring on those baby hairs 😜
@@rinim00n51 I don’t have a lot of hair either, but luckily you barely use any during pregnancy so you build up quite a reserve ;) my hair hasn’t looked that good in years 😂 and just hold on to the thought that it will grow back eventually 😊
Tina you are beautiful and your baby hairs are so cute(: I recently had a baby as well (Oct. 15th) and I can't believe how fast time is flying! But nonetheless the changes in our bodies' are nothing to be ashamed of so I really appreciate yours and Alfred's honesty when answering these questions. I wish you and your family well :)
I really like the fact they are open about it and that they actually answer. This is so important to know before, we are all different but somethings like not having time and energy must be the same. Its good to know how it works for real people.
Gosh I love that we had babies so close together 😂 cause every time you post anything after-baby videos, I relate to you SO MUCH! So I find myself nodding and laughing along with you and Alfred 😂 Sending you guys a big hug Tina! 🤍
0:37 Has your relationship changed after having a baby? 2:03 How do you deal with conflict when it comes to parenting? 3:28 What has been the hardest time since having Lyla? 4:34 How has your sex drive been after having a baby? 6:02 How is sex after having a baby? 7:44 How do you manage your finances and expenses as a couple/family now? 9:15 Does Lyla have a caretaker? 10:30 What languages are you going to teach Lyla? 11:06 Did you sleep train Lyla? If so what method did you use? 13:05 After experiencing childbirth and parenthood would you consider having a second child? 15:03 How has fatherhood been for you? 15:57 What is your career now and how do you manage your time? 17:02 How has your breastfeeding journey been so far? 19:08 Has Lyla met your dad? I feel like she has only met her grandma on your side 19:43 Does your breast and nipples go back to their normal size after having a baby? 20:29 What have you done to help with postpartum hair loss? 22:09 Does hemorrhoids go away after child birth? 23:32 Can you share more about Lyla’s daily routine? 25:24 Has Lyla said her first word? 26:04 How is it raising a baby in Singapore vs Australia? 27:30 Who is Zenn? Is she your sister?
I love that you guys are so open! Yeah nipples are changed after breastfeeding, they do not go back to pre-pregnancy looks and structure. I’m dying over your Chris Hemorrhoids comments. 😂. You’re lucky that your mom is there to help with Lyla. “Mama!” Omg so cute!!! Btw your studio Christmas tree is so cute and aesthetic!
Thank you for sharing your story, and not trying to sugar coat anything! It’s so relatable! I experienced almost everything you talked about.. it was entertaining to watch 😊
I really love this video so much. I have a 3 year old and I would have needed this video when I was pregnant so I would know what to expect and not be constantly clueless and overwhelmed because I compared myself to the happy pink bubble families on the internet that have everything under control. I had my life under control before having a baby and the first couple of months were so exhausting for this reason - your baby has you under control 😅. With a child, you really learn so much about yourself and it is challenge every day - but also a opportunity to grow.
You are like a Rodger-Rachel Zoe tandem! Rodger was more behind the scenes but definitely helped Rachel grow her brand and happy to see her shine. Hopefully you'll have more time for each other when Lyla grows up. More power guys! 💕
It is so refreshing to hear you co-sleep. I feel like there is a lot of pressure to sleep-train your baby, and co-sleeping is kind of demonized, even though it can be done safely. I tried sleep training with my first child, it was hell. Didn't even try with my second, just went to co-sleeping straight away. My first-born started sleeping in her own bed when I stopped breastfeeding at 2 yo, I hope for the same with my youngest too.
I have come to love Tina so much... Everything abr her feels so relatable and genuine. I really love yr every sort of video... I love the way you are.. tht makes yr videos so good ❤️
I don't why but you all make me feel like I am a part of your family 🤌🥺 Thankyou dear I hope that you spent your holiday very cheerfully ❤️ Ik that Lyla is going to be a kind girl just like you too ❣️
THe way I took care of my baby hairs are I used gel to put the baby hairs down… Love you guys ❤ I have 2 kids over 10 now. Please don’t wait too long to have your 2nd child. The closer the better… My kids are a year apart. It wasn’t planned😂 surprised us but I was so happy. My husband wanted to wait few years.
“If I didn’t have to feel for him, I wouldn’t know he is there” 🤣 I’ve always loved and appreciated your honesty. Thanks Alfred for joining today :) and damn. Zenn isn’t Alfred’s sister?! hahaha
Very refreshing video. We're similar in age to you both. We're expecting our first baby in June, so this video is really helpful and sets very realistic expectations. Can you please do a video on what baby equipment is worth getting and what you thought wasn't necessarily?
My husband & I had the easiest baby girl ever. She rarely cried, slept easily (we co slept so I’m sure it would have been more difficult if we didn’t) and essentially set her own schedule. I’m fully expecting our next to be a little demon. But with that said, I wouldn’t wish to ever go back to the newborn stage. It was a blur. Age 9 months to 2 years have been the most fun and happiest times of our lives. We don’t have any help with family nor caregivers so I work every single weekend while she stays home with her dad. There is a strain on the relationship and intimacy but every relationship has up’s and down’s, baby or not. You aren’t always going to be head over heels with your partner, especially after 10 years. But staying committed and a family unit is always most important. Thank you for your honesty 💜
Speaking of TMI, you mentioned pantyliners for discharge. I wore the disposable ones for years and found them irritating. I recommend the reusable period or wee undies or maybe reusable liners instead. I find them kinder to your skin.
Just seeing your little hairs stick up gives me flashbacks lol😂 about 3 months after birth my hair started falling out and left me with that exact same look!!
Ahh that’s so funny you’re talking about help with the kids! Because I was an Au-pair in Australia in Sydney living with the family helping with some housework as well and I met so many other au pairs and nanny’s! I feel like every other family I know/ friends of the kids etc everyone had help from a nanny or a live in au pair because day care is so expensive here and most family’s have a spare room as well. But it probably depends on your living situation. Just stepped over your channel and I love your openness and kindness and realness!😍
I am surprised that how your Q&A video desbribed my life. From breastfeeding to co-sleep and imiting stuffs, i felt like i am not alone😊 thank you for sharing. From Finland with love♥️
Omg Tina my husband and i went through the same exact situation with my baby boy 😅 i cant believe we're not the only ones who went through all of that haha.
When your little girl gets older I'm sure she'll look just as beautiful as mamá Tina, also if you ask me I'd say your pretty good parents so far and to tell the truth I'd say Tina found herself a top notch husband and the baby has herself a couple of top notch parents. Keep up the great work and I'll be playing for both of you 🙂
A hair wax stick will help with your hair. You can find them in any beauty supply store or online. You can also try hair growth oil to help restore your hair. I recommend Kaleidoscope Miracle Drops the extra strength.
Oh oh! For hair loss issues, I used argon oil and Hers shampoo and omggg my hair growth journey has been amazing! My hair ove 2 days was just like your hair now in this vid 😊
I jsut feel like Tina is my big sister now for some reason cos I've been watching your vids since like 2015-16 and now im literally watching u talk about life after a baby... its jsut so surreal and I've def adopted layla as my nibling
Loved this video! You guys are so cute!! Random tip take it or leave it, but something that helps with postpartum regrowth if you want it to stay down is eyebrow gel with the brush and it looks like the rest of your hair :))) Your baby hairs are so cute though 💕💕
I had my first child at 19, he is turning 21 in January. I'm still car believe it, the time has gone so fast. I love being a young Mum and there is a downside, I was completely unprepared financially and I was very immature, I wish I knew then what I know now, but that saying goes with most things in life.
Hello Tina, loved your video and the honesty you telling here in the video. Can you do tutorial for the hair growth. I see a-lot of your baby hair. I’m losing hairs I try lot of brands didn’t work for me 😢
Thank you so much for sharing and the laughs lol I love that you both are so open with these topics! I feel like I can relate. Watching this video as I breastfeed my 3 month old son lol btw your hair is so cute! 😂
Hi Tina, love your videos!! ❤ FTM here and EDD is end July. Have been watching your pregnancy related videos. Do you mind sharing what’re the hair products and herbs you use to combat hair thinning or hair loss?☺️ I currently have very thin hair and super worried i’ll be bald losing hair post partum 😢
Omg Chris hemorrhoid that was hilarious love that u blessed it with a name for hair lost have u tried peppermint shampoo or tea tree oil I heard those work mayb it will help
I know you didn't ask for it but... In my opinion the best time to have a second kid is best aligned with school... In my country schooling is 8+4, so best is 4 year difference but if the schooling is 6+3+3 maybe 3 year difference between kids...
Have more questions for us? Leave them below!
Do u plan to have another baby.....? When
What haven’t changed after having lyla ❤
How is zen related to you? Or just a friend, etc?
@love4kpop oooh thanks! Haven't finished the vid yet
Hi Tina!! I was hoping you would talk more about what happened with chantel the doula? I thought she would be staying with you for the first year of lylas life.
Absolutely loved the realistic answers because NO ONE talks about the cons everyone just butters the pros but never talk about how difficult it is.
I swear you two are so elegant and kind when it's about personal questions. I don't think I've ever felt so much comfort in two people I've watched on the internet.
Today is another episode of things older sister tina will tell us that people don't tell women for god knows what reason and then we're all unprepared and scared when random things happen that weren't mentioned in any books or any conversations, but are totally normal apparently
Thank you for being open, it's a genuine help, everyone should be able to make informed decisions about something as life and body altering as pregnancy and having a baby
My daughter was the chillest baby. Rarely cried, EVERYONE commented on what a laid back baby she was. Now as a 3 year old she's a crazy little tornado. I love it, she's fun, but I definitely sometimes go "what the heck happened to my super chill baby??"
Literally my sister and brother tbh
Same to the baby part for me, my mom always said I was a very quite baby to the point it gave her anxiety that she’d have to wake up several times a night to check on me 😅 (I’m the 2nd child out of 4). My little sister (child #3) was the complete opposite 😅.
Omg this is my now 3.5 yr old. Born June 2019, and I tell you, it was so nice having her at that time during the pandemic so no one was trying to bother you. Now tho, post pandemic life eith s toddler, it sucks. She's a crazy energetic only child with not that many outlets bcuz of "covod policies". Ugh
Thats adorable though. My Mom said I once cried so loud that her ears were ringing lol. I think I had some problem though so it makes sense
I love how open and transparent you guys always are about both the positives and negatives ❤ It’s honestly been so helpful
love how tina is so chill answering TMI questions, while alfred is literally red. 😆 love your content btw~
thanks so much for being honest! so tired of people having kids and then being smug and condescending about it and how it’s only been amazing for their marriage like girl, be real
I really really appreciated this video, They aren’t a lot of us that can get on RUclips and talk about our babies or sex life after baby. It’s great that I have somebody that I can watch that can relate to what we went through as we go about being parents with a new baby and the stages that they go through. I wish more parents would do this, so more first time parents would watch as they get prepared for bringing a new life into this world. It isn’t easy but the memories and the journey to raising of beautiful family is totally awesome. I hope you guys have a great journey making memories with your family. ❤
It makes me laugh how awkward Alfred is when Tina goes on talking about Chris Haemorrhoids. Thank you for keeping it real and answering these questions 🥰
The nickname was so creative!
Omg. This is the most entertaining Q&A i have ever seen. Honestly, I just love how real Tina and Alfred are ❤️ Tina should update her channel to Tina Yong Keeps It Real. Apart from this video too, all your tins tries it video's and the cooking ones you don't try to hide your body flaws and it's just empowering. I absolutely love your channel! 💯
Having a child means all the joy in the world even if you're sleep deprived. That single sudden smile from our babies takes all the bad vibes away. Good to see you having fun while in motherhood. May your baby be safe and be always healthy 💕
I totally agree
Love this ❤
So relatable! Our baby is 7 months old. It’s so hard to prioritize the relationship when there is a tiny human that needs care 24/7. Hopefully we can put us first more as baby gets older. Happily together parents means happy baby :)
Thank you for being so open and honest with us ❤️ It's very helpful and comforting to hear this - it feels a bit like a safe space :)
Thank you for being so open and honest! It's lovely to see you both be comfortable with communicating the truth to each other as well. Hope you all have a lovely break
When my husband and I became parents for the first time we made sure we went ok a date at least once a month or eat together when baby is down for a nap. Make time for each other is always one of the best things you can do for your family .
Just love your openness and honesty! As a new mum myself it’s very refreshing to hear similar stories/experiences ❤
I'm not a mom, but I did lose quite a bit of hair after covid and another health issue. The biggest thing that's helped me is using a mix of pumpkin seed oil, jojoba oil, rosemary oil, and mint oil. It stopped a majority of the excess shedding after maybe 3-4 weeks, and I'm starting to see a lot more new growth at the 6 month mark. It'll take time but I'm sure your hair will come back eventually anyway, and I think the tall baby hair look is cute!
Do you use it before or after washing your hair?
@@michioka You would do it about 2-3 hours before you wash your hair. But if you're like me and only wash it once a week, I use it as my scalp oil, and 3 hours before on my wash day. Using Rosemary oil 4-5 times a week gives the best results, but that would mean more frequent hair washing depending on how much you already do it. I use it on my eyebrows about every other day before showers though. Also make sure you look up dilution rates for the essential oil, personally I use about 30 drops for every 30 ml, but you might use more or less depending on how sensitive your skin is
It is comforting to know it’s not just us.. we’ve recently had our baby, she is now 8mo (premie) and we’ve been so busy with the baby that our time for each other has declined. And it’s nice to know that this is absolutely normal as long you communicate with each other.
You have both help SO many people who feel so lost in the weeds & have so many questions they are afraid to ask or don't get real (Tina Real!) answers for. Thank you!!!
Omg I have the same hemorrhoid! Still there 3 years later 😂. Loved this video. Thank you for being so honest. There’s so much pressure as a parent and hearing things like bedtime varies and you cosleep is refreshing
Omg yes to all of that! My daughter is 3.5 now ans bed time varies and we still so sleep. Ugh. We have been trying to get her to sleep in her own bed since she was about 2. She's a very active sleeper and I'm tired of getting kicked!
Been watching you for years. You're amazing so happy that you have you're own little family! 💛
I found out that I am pregnant on Wednesday. I am kind of excited about this journey but also I don’t feel anything lol. Haven’t told anyone except my bf. Your videos about birth and pregnancy really helps me a lot. Thank you so much❤
Congratulations!
I my god,I love you guys, I’d wish you had your baby before me and see this interview 6 years ago 😂 You are right on so many levels, with sleep deprivation, sex, sleep training and all of that. And we also had our moments when we were asking ourselves if we did right to have a baby. It all works out as long as you communicate, help and love each other like in the beginning. Kisses and merry Christmas 🎄🎁
It's seems like they had everything planned . Everything seems so perfect. They are so mature and they are just so understanding to each other.I love them .theya re so inspiring❤️
My baby just turned 6 months and it’s nice to hear I’m not alone in a lot of the things I’m experiencing 🙌🏼 thanks for being so honest and not sugar coating anything!
Just a PSA on the hair loss by the way, unfortunately you cannot do anything to stop it.. it’s a (although HORRIBLE) natural consequence to the hormonal changes. Your hormones during pregnancy basically press pause on your hair loss, so when it resumes it all sheds at the same time where it would normally be more gradual. In most women the heavy shedding stops after 4-5 months and your hair should be back to normal after about a year. I think I’ve lost about half of my hair at this point 🥲 but I’m definitely doing everything I can to make it grow back quicker like you mentioned! Bring on those baby hairs 😜
Hang in there! I feel your struggles ❤️
I hope I don’t lose too much hair postpartum because I don’t have a lot of hair already 😅 I’m going to be bald.
@@rinim00n51 I don’t have a lot of hair either, but luckily you barely use any during pregnancy so you build up quite a reserve ;) my hair hasn’t looked that good in years 😂 and just hold on to the thought that it will grow back eventually 😊
I love how open and honest your answers were 😊
"Chris Hemorrhoid" 🤣
Leave it to Tina to make us laugh and have a great time watching her videos.
Tina you are beautiful and your baby hairs are so cute(: I recently had a baby as well (Oct. 15th) and I can't believe how fast time is flying! But nonetheless the changes in our bodies' are nothing to be ashamed of so I really appreciate yours and Alfred's honesty when answering these questions. I wish you and your family well :)
Yr baby and me share the same bday🎉❤😊
I really like the fact they are open about it and that they actually answer. This is so important to know before, we are all different but somethings like not having time and energy must be the same. Its good to know how it works for real people.
Gosh I love that we had babies so close together 😂 cause every time you post anything after-baby videos, I relate to you SO MUCH! So I find myself nodding and laughing along with you and Alfred 😂 Sending you guys a big hug Tina! 🤍
0:37 Has your relationship changed after having a baby?
2:03 How do you deal with conflict when it comes to parenting?
3:28 What has been the hardest time since having Lyla?
4:34 How has your sex drive been after having a baby?
6:02 How is sex after having a baby?
7:44 How do you manage your finances and expenses as a couple/family now?
9:15 Does Lyla have a caretaker?
10:30 What languages are you going to teach Lyla?
11:06 Did you sleep train Lyla? If so what method did you use?
13:05 After experiencing childbirth and parenthood would you consider having a second child?
15:03 How has fatherhood been for you?
15:57 What is your career now and how do you manage your time?
17:02 How has your breastfeeding journey been so far?
19:08 Has Lyla met your dad? I feel like she has only met her grandma on your side
19:43 Does your breast and nipples go back to their normal size after having a baby?
20:29 What have you done to help with postpartum hair loss?
22:09 Does hemorrhoids go away after child birth?
23:32 Can you share more about Lyla’s daily routine?
25:24 Has Lyla said her first word?
26:04 How is it raising a baby in Singapore vs Australia?
27:30 Who is Zenn? Is she your sister?
Thank you 💜
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I love that you guys are so open! Yeah nipples are changed after breastfeeding, they do not go back to pre-pregnancy looks and structure. I’m dying over your Chris Hemorrhoids comments. 😂. You’re lucky that your mom is there to help with Lyla. “Mama!” Omg so cute!!! Btw your studio Christmas tree is so cute and aesthetic!
Thank you for sharing your story, and not trying to sugar coat anything! It’s so relatable! I experienced almost everything you talked about.. it was entertaining to watch 😊
I really love this video so much. I have a 3 year old and I would have needed this video when I was pregnant so I would know what to expect and not be constantly clueless and overwhelmed because I compared myself to the happy pink bubble families on the internet that have everything under control. I had my life under control before having a baby and the first couple of months were so exhausting for this reason - your baby has you under control 😅. With a child, you really learn so much about yourself and it is challenge every day - but also a opportunity to grow.
Your baby hair look super cute Tina!! ❤❤
lol thank you!
Living for that adorbs baby hair of yours! 💞
My best parenting advice is to go with the flow and do what works for u and ur family as each baby is different
tina is so naturally pretty and i feel honest. great chemistry btn u two
You are like a Rodger-Rachel Zoe tandem! Rodger was more behind the scenes but definitely helped Rachel grow her brand and happy to see her shine. Hopefully you'll have more time for each other when Lyla grows up. More power guys! 💕
It is so refreshing to hear you co-sleep.
I feel like there is a lot of pressure to sleep-train your baby, and co-sleeping is kind of demonized, even though it can be done safely.
I tried sleep training with my first child, it was hell. Didn't even try with my second, just went to co-sleeping straight away.
My first-born started sleeping in her own bed when I stopped breastfeeding at 2 yo, I hope for the same with my youngest too.
Thank you so much you guys answered so many questions that no one ever answers
I am now equally terrified and excited for parenthood!
This is so relatable as a first time parent with a 3 month old and as someone who barely moved to singapore a year ago.
I have come to love Tina so much... Everything abr her feels so relatable and genuine. I really love yr every sort of video... I love the way you are.. tht makes yr videos so good ❤️
Zenn and Alfred are definitely siblings. No doubt.
Such a good Q&A! And cute baby hairs too!
Same mom different dad, hence the different last name 😏 or cousins!
I don't why but you all make me feel like I am a part of your family 🤌🥺
Thankyou dear
I hope that you spent your holiday very cheerfully ❤️
Ik that Lyla is going to be a kind girl just like you too ❣️
THe way I took care of my baby hairs are I used gel to put the baby hairs down… Love you guys ❤ I have 2 kids over 10 now.
Please don’t wait too long to have your 2nd child. The closer the better… My kids are a year apart. It wasn’t planned😂 surprised us but I was so happy. My husband wanted to wait few years.
Thank you so much for making this video! As a first-time mom I feel so much better after watching this video 😀being a parent is haaaaard!!
I’m always so grateful for your honesty Tina 😊
“If I didn’t have to feel for him, I wouldn’t know he is there” 🤣 I’ve always loved and appreciated your honesty. Thanks Alfred for joining today :)
and damn. Zenn isn’t Alfred’s sister?! hahaha
You gained à followers cuz of how real you guys are. I relate with so much of what you said
Thank you for wanting to share your life with us! It definitely feels like my older sister is talking to me and even teaching me stuff ❤️
Omg that last question. It was on my mind the whole video 😂
The cat is indeed out of the bag!
Very refreshing video. We're similar in age to you both. We're expecting our first baby in June, so this video is really helpful and sets very realistic expectations. Can you please do a video on what baby equipment is worth getting and what you thought wasn't necessarily?
My husband & I had the easiest baby girl ever. She rarely cried, slept easily (we co slept so I’m sure it would have been more difficult if we didn’t) and essentially set her own schedule. I’m fully expecting our next to be a little demon.
But with that said, I wouldn’t wish to ever go back to the newborn stage. It was a blur. Age 9 months to 2 years have been the most fun and happiest times of our lives.
We don’t have any help with family nor caregivers so I work every single weekend while she stays home with her dad. There is a strain on the relationship and intimacy but every relationship has up’s and down’s, baby or not. You aren’t always going to be head over heels with your partner, especially after 10 years. But staying committed and a family unit is always most important. Thank you for your honesty 💜
Speaking of TMI, you mentioned pantyliners for discharge. I wore the disposable ones for years and found them irritating. I recommend the reusable period or wee undies or maybe reusable liners instead. I find them kinder to your skin.
Just seeing your little hairs stick up gives me flashbacks lol😂 about 3 months after birth my hair started falling out and left me with that exact same look!!
It's really sweet to see you guys. you guys are really awesome and it's quite sad that the bubble[brother-sister] busted... lots of love to lyla💕💕💕💕
Ahh that’s so funny you’re talking about help with the kids! Because I was an Au-pair in Australia in Sydney living with the family helping with some housework as well and I met so many other au pairs and nanny’s! I feel like every other family I know/ friends of the kids etc everyone had help from a nanny or a live in au pair because day care is so expensive here and most family’s have a spare room as well. But it probably depends on your living situation.
Just stepped over your channel and I love your openness and kindness and realness!😍
My situation was very similar to yours. My baby is now 3. It DOES get better and easier. Definitely. Hang in there ❤️
I am surprised that how your Q&A video desbribed my life. From breastfeeding to co-sleep and imiting stuffs, i felt like i am not alone😊 thank you for sharing.
From Finland with love♥️
Omg Tina my husband and i went through the same exact situation with my baby boy 😅 i cant believe we're not the only ones who went through all of that haha.
omg your baby hair after maternity is so CUTEEEEE!!!
but i still cant get over how cute Tina's hair look on top. reminds me of lil fuzz from baby animals in their glorious fluffy stage.
When your little girl gets older I'm sure she'll look just as beautiful as mamá Tina, also if you ask me I'd say your pretty good parents so far and to tell the truth I'd say Tina found herself a top notch husband and the baby has herself a couple of top notch parents. Keep up the great work and I'll be playing for both of you 🙂
19:58 lmao Tina. I love you. I just love how honest you are with everything.
A hair wax stick will help with your hair. You can find them in any beauty supply store or online. You can also try hair growth oil to help restore your hair. I recommend Kaleidoscope Miracle Drops the extra strength.
Thanks for the recommendation!
Oh oh! For hair loss issues, I used argon oil and Hers shampoo and omggg my hair growth journey has been amazing! My hair ove 2 days was just like your hair now in this vid 😊
I love how you talk about these medical things! Like we need to know!
Everything is so true 100%. We had the same situation/feelings with our first child. OMG it was so difficult.
Happy holidays to both of you!!
I jsut feel like Tina is my big sister now for some reason cos I've been watching your vids since like 2015-16 and now im literally watching u talk about life after a baby... its jsut so surreal and I've def adopted layla as my nibling
i LOVE these videos! i’m a few years out from baby and real adulting time but these are really informative videos on what someone could expect
Tina your baby hairs are so cute 😍
Tina’s baby hair tho !! That’s so cute 🥰
Lol I love these kind of videos. Love the rawness and transparency!
Loved this video! You guys are so cute!! Random tip take it or leave it, but something that helps with postpartum regrowth if you want it to stay down is eyebrow gel with the brush and it looks like the rest of your hair :))) Your baby hairs are so cute though 💕💕
I had my first child at 19, he is turning 21 in January. I'm still car believe it, the time has gone so fast.
I love being a young Mum and there is a downside, I was completely unprepared financially and I was very immature, I wish I knew then what I know now, but that saying goes with most things in life.
Thanks for sharing your journey
Hello Tina, loved your video and the honesty you telling here in the video. Can you do tutorial for the hair growth. I see a-lot of your baby hair. I’m losing hairs I try lot of brands didn’t work for me 😢
I needed this video!🤣 tina i lovvvee your silliness thank you for putting a smile on my face 🙂
You guys are awesome, i loveeeeee how open you are about all the things
We all agree that Tina and Alfred is the best couple ✨✨✨💛💛
i know you might be self conscious but the baby hair is honestly really cute, it’s very youthful if that makes sense
Thank you so much for sharing and the laughs lol I love that you both are so open with these topics! I feel like I can relate. Watching this video as I breastfeed my 3 month old son lol btw your hair is so cute! 😂
Look at your baby hair crown! Lol so cute.
Thank you so much for this video. It made me feel like my family’s journey makes sense. ❤ very reassuring. Thank you for sharing
Aww NOO i wanted zenn to be Alfred's sister 😩😭.
love your videos ❤thanks for always keeping it real and honest!!
Thanks for sharing and being transparent about your life
Baby hair Issa vibe ❤
She is sooooo cuteee..love y'all💓
I just love you guys so much. Watching your vlogs makes me smile loads. Merry Christmas & Happy New Year 💕💞
Hi Tina, love your videos!! ❤ FTM here and EDD is end July. Have been watching your pregnancy related videos. Do you mind sharing what’re the hair products and herbs you use to combat hair thinning or hair loss?☺️ I currently have very thin hair and super worried i’ll be bald losing hair post partum 😢
Love your Q & A's. You guys are the cutest.
Thank you for sharing your experience ❤
Love the pink Christmas tree
I love the honesty
Aw you guys are so cute and I always love watching you're videos ❤❤
Omg Chris hemorrhoid that was hilarious love that u blessed it with a name for hair lost have u tried peppermint shampoo or tea tree oil I heard those work mayb it will help
Ty for being so open ❤
I know you didn't ask for it but... In my opinion the best time to have a second kid is best aligned with school... In my country schooling is 8+4, so best is 4 year difference but if the schooling is 6+3+3 maybe 3 year difference between kids...