We Had a Miscarriage

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  • @davidsimmons654
    @davidsimmons654 3 года назад +518

    You DID NOT have to share this with us, but we are so grateful that you did. We’re praying for you both. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @rachelking7002
      @rachelking7002 3 года назад +3

      Yup I agree they can keep things private if they choose too. There's no need to tell us everything if they don't feel like doing so.

  • @wendymathews1030
    @wendymathews1030 3 года назад +115

    Sutton, when you talked about how great that nurse was and how she took the time to help you, I totally related to how that made you feel. When I was 41 years old I had a somewhat similar situation happening to me. I walked into an OB/GYN office that I had never been to before, and told the girl at the front desk what was happening. She said that normally they don’t do walk-ins for new patients, but she could see I was close to totally losing it, so she went back & talked to one of the drs and they took me right in. It was that kind and compassionate treatment that day that made me want to help other women in similar situations, so I went back to school to be a Medical Assistant, and I ended up getting a job in that very office when I was done with my course. I loved working with the expectant moms so much, and became very good friends with the woman at the front desk who helped me that day. Her kindness and compassion made all the difference to me. I’m so sorry you have had to experience this loss, and I know only too well what that feels like. God bless you and your precious family. I will be praying for you.

  • @dockaylee5418
    @dockaylee5418 3 года назад +142

    I had a miscarriage this month. Everything you said, Sutton, was exactly how I felt as well. We are not alone in this and God has a plan. Your family is in my prayers. ❤️

    • @andreabarman5426
      @andreabarman5426 3 года назад +5

      Take a listen to "I Know" by Forever Be Sure. It was a great comfort to me when I was going through my miscarriage back in April of this year! 🙌

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад +1

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

    • @2l84me8
      @2l84me8 2 года назад

      Why does your god’s plan involve him committing abortion on this woman?
      Do you think he could have created a plan that doesn’t allow for that?

  • @emilyamguenther
    @emilyamguenther 3 года назад +126

    So sorry to hear this, will be praying for you two. I have a 6 month old daughter now, but I lost my pregnancy before her at 9 weeks. It is so incredibly difficult to go through, but God truly is so faithful. I couldn’t see how good could come from our loss, but having shared my experience openly, I’ve been able to walk with several women through their own seasons of loss. I’m able to mourn deeply with those who mourn, which can be a beautiful thing. Thank you for your courage in sharing this, I’m confident that God will use this video to encourage those who going through a season of grief.

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад +16

      Wow I’m so sorry 😞 but thank God for your beautiful daughter!

    • @2l84me8
      @2l84me8 2 года назад

      Your god uses RUclips?

    • @emilyamguenther
      @emilyamguenther 2 года назад +1

      @@2l84me8 😂 I suppose in a way yeah - not sure he has an account tho.

  • @GratiaPrima_
    @GratiaPrima_ 3 года назад +238

    “You give and take away. My heart will choose to say, blessed be your name.”
    So sorry to hear, guys. Praying for comfort and peace beyond understanding.

    • @sophieghaffari9006
      @sophieghaffari9006 3 года назад +2

      ❤️ perfect song!

    • @charityokiria
      @charityokiria 3 года назад +3

      God doesn't take away babies. Praying for you guys because whatever the enemy messes with, God will restore 7 fold.

    • @marjoleinspov
      @marjoleinspov 3 года назад +3

      @@charityokiria Hi, I just wanted to respond to this since it sounds like you don't have a clear view of who God is and what He can do... 1 Samuel 2:6 "The Lord brings death and makes alive; he brings down to the grave and raises up." God is actually the one who is in charge of everyone's life and death, including babies. But since he is the one giving life, he isn't unrighteous for taking it. He just takes back what was already his. Sometimes it is hard to understand why, but we clearly read in the Bible that this is the case. Hope this doesn't disappoint you, but ultimately brings you closer to Him who is in charge of everything!

    • @GratiaPrima_
      @GratiaPrima_ 3 года назад +1

      @@charityokiria God is most definitely the author and sustainer of life.

    • @lauriedacosta1693
      @lauriedacosta1693 3 года назад +2

      @@marjoleinspov I agree with Charity. God doesn’t kill babies. That’s not even in line with his nature. You are quoting 1: Samuel 2:6. Hannah was the one that said that, not Jesus.
      Everything in the Bible is truly stated, but not everything in the Bible is a statement of truth. Like the example you gave above. It is true Hannah said that, but that is not the truth about who God is. God is the author of life. God is good. A miscarriage is never from God. However God can bring total restoration and healing to anyone that has had a miscarriage.

  • @heatsann4456
    @heatsann4456 3 года назад +86

    You guys are so honest unlike most social media people and we cherish that . Our father in heaven is taking care of your sweet baby ❤️

  • @sophieghaffari9006
    @sophieghaffari9006 3 года назад +108

    Sutton l really love and needed that point you made about not turning away from God in difficult times when your prayers aren’t answered. I’m a teenager and l lost my friend in a motorcycle accident 2 weeks ago. Ever since his death and funeral I’ve been an emotional wreck and there has been some anger as to why God would allow that to happen to him so young after seeing his parents lives being destroyed, especially as they are the sweetest family and some of the most faithful Christians I’ve ever met. It’s been a tough lesson for me that bad things happen to such good people but I have maintained my faith and God. I hope one day I’ll find peace with his death and l pray you find yours. God Bless. ❤️

    • @lailavipal
      @lailavipal 3 года назад +13

      Girl, I pray for you and that you may experience Gods love through all of this like never before! He has a great story for you prepared and he deeply wants to comfort you in this loss with his love.

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад +26

      Wow. I am so sorry to hear that. I pray you along with his family are blanketed with a comfort beyond understanding 🙏🏽

    • @chioma2844
      @chioma2844 3 года назад

      💜

  • @babygurl101ization
    @babygurl101ization 3 года назад +159

    My husband and I have lost 9 babies in a row :( I so desperately want to be a mommy.. 💔 you’re not alone

    • @missjoy2698
      @missjoy2698 3 года назад +27

      I'm so sorry for your losses. I am praying for God's grace and protection over you

    • @Rebeccs777
      @Rebeccs777 3 года назад +25

      Omigosh.. my heart dropped when I read your comment... I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking experiences! Praying for you that life will still be beautiful in spite of all the heartbreak and that your miracle will come! Keep your head up babygurl ❤️❤️

    • @almaokeyo3690
      @almaokeyo3690 3 года назад +14

      I'm praying for you !
      I know God has seen you and will testify of his goodness

    • @babygurl101ization
      @babygurl101ization 3 года назад +7

      Thank you all so much 🥺🤍

    • @aileenc8905
      @aileenc8905 3 года назад +4

      Praying for you.

  • @joshhopkins224
    @joshhopkins224 3 года назад +31

    I'm so incredibly sorry for the loss of your baby. Miscarriage is a club no one asks to be in. I lost my first baby after 2 successful ultrasounds and so much excitement, and I will say, I don't think the pain is any less severe if its your first baby. You don't have to have a child to know what you're missing out on. If anything, its so much scarier and less hopeful because you don't know if you'll ever be able to carry a full term baby, and you don't have babies to come home to and hug. God blessed us with our beautiful rainbow baby, but I'll always remember my first and can't wait to hug them in heaven.
    - Hannah

  • @fancycupcake03
    @fancycupcake03 3 года назад +48

    So sorry you went through this. I had a stillbirth at 31 weeks this past Christmas. Most traumatic and devastating thing to go through. I gave birth to my son, Emmett, we held him, took pictures and laid him to rest. It's definitely a different experience the further along you get. But hard either way. We are blessed to be pregnant again, but no other baby will ever replace him.

    • @liana1019
      @liana1019 3 года назад +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss. This broke my heart. I can’t imagine what you went through, and you are so strong❤️

    • @johannastromberg1224
      @johannastromberg1224 3 года назад +2

      My heart shatters for you. My sistsr lost her baby at 39 weeks. It was a blessing to hold him and see him but there is a huge gaping hole in our family's lives. Losing a child is so so hard, and there is so much trama in a stillbirth.

    • @angeladomann-bolduc5077
      @angeladomann-bolduc5077 3 года назад +1

      I am very sorry.

    • @blessedbeauty9851
      @blessedbeauty9851 2 года назад

      Brought tears to my eyes
      So sorry for your loss

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @sarahurley3238
    @sarahurley3238 3 года назад +20

    We lost my son’s twin in an early miscarriage. It gets easier as time goes on. It’s good to talk about these losses.

  • @ikeacha4153
    @ikeacha4153 3 года назад +42

    I‘m so sorry guys. I am my mother‘s rainbow baby as well, Nate. I tell her all the time that I cannot wait to take my rightful place as her middle child on the other side of eternity:). Blessings

  • @oneinemily
    @oneinemily 3 года назад +45

    So sorry guys. We appreciate you for sharing your story.

  • @celinahildebrand4146
    @celinahildebrand4146 3 года назад +22

    I'm sorry to hear about your lost. We lost our first two baby's through miscarriage. What comforted me most was the thought of them playing in heaven and me meeting and holding them one day. We are married two years now and met our beautiful miracle rainbow baby boy 3 Months ago. We are blessed beyond measures

  • @summergoller5262
    @summergoller5262 3 года назад +31

    Oh my. You are both so authentic. Lifestyle evangelism at its finest. I pray God wraps His arms around you. Scars in Heaven-Casting Crowns. I’m sure you’ve heard it but listen again. Love you ❤️

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 3 года назад +29

    Your transparency and perseverance is inspirational and a true testament of your faith. May God continue to keep and bless you!

  • @ashleybaars3041
    @ashleybaars3041 3 года назад +71

    I had my miscarriage in May. it broke me. It's still hard, but God is helping me. Just know that you are not alone❤️

    • @myhandsrfullofluv4225
      @myhandsrfullofluv4225 3 года назад +1

      I lost a baby in May as well. Such a difficult mother's day. Hang in there... sending a prayer you heal soon. 🙏 💖

    • @ashleybaars3041
      @ashleybaars3041 3 года назад +1

      @@myhandsrfullofluv4225 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @caladhiele
      @caladhiele 3 года назад

      I had a miscarriage in May, too. It was my first pregnancy. Sending you a lot of support and love!

    • @ashleybaars3041
      @ashleybaars3041 3 года назад +2

      @@caladhiele it also was my first pregnancy. He blessed me with this miracle. And i will see my baby again❤️❤️and you to😘

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @michaelfabiyi3685
    @michaelfabiyi3685 3 года назад +16

    First time I clicked so fast. My heart goes out to you guys. You are strong, you are comforted, and the Lord is with you.

  • @steffiponyhof1869
    @steffiponyhof1869 3 года назад +8

    I'm so sorry for you guys. I had a miscarriage this year as well (and got pregnant again right after 😊). What we did, is catch some of the blood (and tissue), put it in a box with letters, flowers and the pregnancy test and burnt it in a bonfire, made music and talked about how we loved this baby already. I think a little ceremony is really important to say goodbye. Also for your other kids, maybe let them name the baby, draw something, plant a tree. It's their brother or sister, the baby is part of the family. And also I think they know when mum and dad go through something hard, let them be involved. ❤

  • @kaelaward6588
    @kaelaward6588 3 года назад +30

    Even though it’s unbearably hard, always remember you’ll meet that precious baby someday, and it’s in good hands with Jesus until you get there ♥️ I also suffered a miscarriage and I still remember the pain. God is faithful, He will carry you through this difficult time.

  • @charlottej01
    @charlottej01 3 года назад +10

    Prayers for you all❤❤ Miscarriages are so hard!! I've had 2 miscarriages at 8 weeks, my husband and I pray we can have a healthy pregnancy and baby one day! 🙏 His will be done!

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @rachaeld4996
    @rachaeld4996 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing this with everyone. I have had a traumatic miscarriage too at 13 weeks. But God is good. We now have 3 children and 2 we foster. I hope sharing with everyone here helps you and others on your journey as you heal. I agree it's weird not to have a funeral or some sort of something for this special little life. I felt the same after my miscarriage. But thank you so much for encouraging so, so many people, in so many ways. Your boys and beautiful and I will be praying for you all.💗

  • @kaitlyneileen2255
    @kaitlyneileen2255 3 года назад +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔 I lost my first, Liam at 28 weeks. It was so so hard, but God was so close and I’ve come to know Him more deeply as a Father than I ever have. There was one thing you said in your video that was a little frustrating for me to hear… I hope you don’t mind me giving another perspective on it. You said something along the lines of, women who’s miscarriage comes before they have a child don’t know what they’re missing… on the flip side of that, women who already have children have someone to cuddle and to fill their arms with among other things. I’ve had to really watch my heart and not compare my pain to others. Pain is pain. Loss is loss.
    Thank you for sharing your story. I wish more people would speak up about this. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss.

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @paigefurey735
    @paigefurey735 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story! My husband and I went through this same thing 3 months back and it was such a hard thing. I've had a miscarriage once before my only girl and once after her and you are right after you think of what you know your missing out on it is hard. Byt Glory to God those babies are in heaven. We had a little ceremony between just my husband and I, named the babies and just prayed. It was emotional but definitely relieving and comforting to know God is with us. We will pray for you and your family and ask you do the same for us as we are now currently early pregnant again!! 👐👐

  • @cynthiamoore3401
    @cynthiamoore3401 3 года назад +35

    As a woman who had a miscarriage my first pregnancy, the feeling is utter panic. What if I can’t have a baby? Why? I understand what you said about knowing what you’re missing if you don’t keep this baby. Like Nate, if I hadn’t had a miscarriage, then I wouldn’t have my son who has an amazing sense of humor like me. I also learned that I needed a shot to keep me from miscarrying because my Rh is negative. I now have three beautiful kids. I was 11 weeks but we didn’t DO anything but pray and mourn…but I never forget that first baby. You can be an excellent listener to another woman someday.

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад +8

      Yes I can totally see that with the panic and it being your first! So so difficult. Praise Hod for your 3 healthy kids!

  • @alysonhalalilo1159
    @alysonhalalilo1159 3 года назад +3

    THANK YOU so much for sharing this raw story. Sutton, I appreciated how you were so real about the bleeding process and not knowing how to walk through that. I’ve thought about that SO much with miscarriages, like “am I possibly flushing my baby right now? Shouldn’t I be saving this or protecting it in case there’s a baby?” My husband and I have two boys and haven’t ever miscarried, but I have a lot of anxiety about that possible trauma. Trying to give it all to God.
    I’m praying for your next baby right now ❤️🙏

  • @carraface
    @carraface 3 года назад +11

    I remember being so surprised at the amount of blood as well. And how the doctor's office was so non-chalant. I'm so glad you shared your story ❤ Thank you.

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @deannberry8745
    @deannberry8745 3 года назад +1

    First of all, thank you for sharing😊 I have a 2 y/o son and got pregnant with our second in May. I heard the heartbeat and saw our peanut at my 7 week ultrasound. When I went back for a checkup at 9 weeks, baby had stopped developing. I scheduled a D&C, but wound up miscarrying naturally at home, two days before the procedure. It was the MOST physically and emotionally painful event I have ever been through. Especially since my husband and I saw our tiny, precious baby. It is SO hard! I’m hopeful to get a rainbow baby soon. Love and prayers to you!

  • @iveyfrancois7625
    @iveyfrancois7625 3 года назад +9

    I am so sorry for your loss. I've had 3 miscarriages, and still have no living children. I'd recommend reading the book "Grace Like Scarlett" by Adriel Booker to help with grief. Around the 9 minute mark, when you addressed having a miscarriage after having children (knowing what you're missing out on) I hope you realize that is a huge privilege to know that feeling, not a burden because not all of us WILL get to know what it's like to have a baby and have that love. Adriel perfectly addresses this in the book mentioned above, about not comparing our grief. I know you said it was "different" not worse when it's not your first, just wanted to give you a different perspective. I've struggled with jealousy of friends who have had miscarriages on not their first, because I think "at least they HAVE a baby, I'd do anything to have a baby". Just sharing a different perspective. I hope you get pregnant again with a healthy pregnancy! Also, I'm a labor and delivery nurse, and I also want to be like that nurse!

    • @alexandrapotroghir6316
      @alexandrapotroghir6316 3 года назад

      I know your pain. I also lost my first baby and after 6 years we are still trying for a rainbow baby but nothing for now...

    • @tina123thomas
      @tina123thomas 3 года назад

      I’m the same boat as you and I agree completely! Thank you for sharing this perspective ♥️

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @ck337
    @ck337 3 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby! ❤️ My mom lost 2 of my siblings (1 was 18 weeks in utero and the other was 20 weeks). We were shocked and shook to the core. It was devastating. We had burials for them both at a cemetery. We visited them every week for months. ❤️ We also planted 2 trees in our yard in their honor. We think of them all the time and the trees also remind us of them. I can’t wait to meet them in Heaven one day !! I have a friend who’s lost 7 babies and she had buried the ones she could see...traumatic but beautiful too. She buried them under a tree in their backyard. 💕

  • @tina123thomas
    @tina123thomas 3 года назад +1

    I am sorry for your loss!
    I did just want to say that it absolutely hurts just as much having a miscarriage when you have no kids. My husband and I have had 2 and have been trying for a year and a half.. and we definitely know what we’re missing out on. So for all the families praying and hoping for their first baby - my heart goes out to you and the pain is absolutely the same (and in my opinion it can feel worse) than those who have kids already

  • @rosanaprice8793
    @rosanaprice8793 3 года назад

    Watched announcement 1st, then this came up, cried. My heart goes out to you all! Your such a great example for us all! To trust God through it all and pray He will turn it around for good and not blame Him. Been a work in progress in last 2 yrs. it is so hard when we ask and pray and it doesn't get answered as says in the word. Trust and believe as Jesus said, ask in my name and you will receive. the the other scripture that says ask and receive if lines up with God's will. I have struggled which one look at it. I didn't lose a baby had C-sections, was in military hospital husband was not allowed to be with me. It was horrible experience what went through. I have grieved for years for my son's now adults' and have grand kids. Through divorce by no choice didn't get to finish raising them. Now they've been in out of prison, and grand sons, etc. Youngest in there now, and grandson, I live in Texas they are all in MN. I have watched the patterns carry on drugs, jail, abuse etc. They wouldn't listen about God or why these things happen from generation, to generation. My loss has been different and they are on this earth. 45 & 43 not been part of their lives and special moments. I keep praying God turns around for good while I am still here. I will be praying for you all goes well and God's favor upon this, His will to be done. Know had to be so tough, such courage, and strength to share with us all! xoxo Love you both!

  • @emmajames139
    @emmajames139 3 года назад +1

    You are not alone. It is so true what you said about not thinking it would happen to you until it does. We had a late miscarriage at 17 weeks in July with our identical twin girls. They died because of a condition called TTTS. It is hard but take heart, you will see them again! There are times people pass away and we don't know whether they are saved or maybe their testimony isn't solid.. BUT we know your sweet baby is in heaven! I am so sorry for the loss you are facing. Please take care, hugs

  • @pnovotar
    @pnovotar 2 года назад +1

    My condolences. I, too, experienced a miscarriage....Somehow Hallmark does not have a card for this one, do they?...But after years of wondering "Why," The Lord gently reminded me part of knowing Jesus, is the fellowship of sharing in His suffering...etc. Philippians 3:10. And I console myself in this knowing it is simply a "piece" in conforming me into His image and enlarging my compassion for those who suffer great sorrow and grief. I also smile knowing someday I will meet this little one...precious, little gift. Bless you for being so transparent....that is a GIFT to others who suffer.

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @nicoletteloveslearning
    @nicoletteloveslearning 3 года назад +1

    This happened to us this Summer... I had my first miscarriage and was emotionally checked out for about a week. But God is good and I was reminded of the miracle of life. We have a son and I look at him a bit differently now - thankful he is here as a gift for us. Thank you for speaking about gratitude. 🙏 God Bless you both.

  • @laurenh5145
    @laurenh5145 3 года назад +6

    Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 🙏 I had a late miscarriage in January and I didn’t know what to do either don’t worry. It was traumatic. I haven’t been blessed with another pregnancy yet, when you lose a baby the first time you lose a lot of hope but you find a way to carry on because that’s how God made women - resilient! ❤️ I also gained much more compassion about an issue I wouldn’t have given much thought to before. Sending a lot of love and prayers your way xx

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @officialdakstudios589
    @officialdakstudios589 3 года назад +1

    My sister who would be 14 now was miscarried. Praying for you too love you! No matter what happens, Gods always there for you

  • @amberhennagir7462
    @amberhennagir7462 3 года назад +1

    As much as miscarriages are devastating and they are so so hard but Nate is right, I had two miscarriages before I had my baby boy and if those miscarriages had not happened, he wouldn't be here and I could not imagine my life without him, he is my everything. I hope you find strength during this difficult time, my thoughts are with you.

  • @Lisa.06.12
    @Lisa.06.12 3 года назад +4

    I sooo feel you’re pain. We had a miscarriage when i was 19 weeks along. And it was such a shock for us. But God works everything for Good for those who trust him❤️

  • @Naomi28007
    @Naomi28007 2 года назад +1

    My mom had so many miscarriages in her life that I can’t even count. And I have never known about that. This breaks my heart to know that she went through those moments alone and in front of my siblings and me. She’s so strong.
    Sutton you’re strong. And your strength came from the Lord. God bless y’all

    • @gamewarden2813
      @gamewarden2813 2 года назад +1

      Wow, your mom sounds like such a strong woman💕

  • @anahmartin7518
    @anahmartin7518 3 года назад

    I just watched this, and it is so powerful! I was in a bus accident on the way home from serving as a leader for my church's high school retreat the day this was posted. Everyone was injured in some way but multiple of us, including me, had spinal injuries and were hospitalized for more than a week. But what got us through it, was how we could see God working in our community and church. My church hit the nail on the head this week, giving encouragement and hope when we needed it the most. The crazy part is that the message had been prerecorded all the way back in June!! There is even more to this story, but this video hit the mark. (The one on prayer was also really good!)

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад +1

      Wow I’m sorry to hear that! They spinal injury is no joke! I pray all of you heal! But that is so awesome to see God working through a hard time 🙏🏽

  • @baxterbunch
    @baxterbunch 3 года назад +1

    I had a miscarriage and gave my baby a unisex name that went with my son’s name which really helped me heal, I will be praying for you both

  • @victoria.bermoy
    @victoria.bermoy 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing about this very intimate topic. One of my best friends is going through this right now, and your video was timely. Thanks for being an encouragement through your own testimony in this regard.

  • @cajunjenny43
    @cajunjenny43 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your faith through loss is inspiring. My parents lost 3 babies-one early on, one at 8.5 months and one shortly after birth. They all had the same genetic abnormality. At the time my parents could not understand why this was happening but they did eventually have 2 biological children and one adopted child. If the other babies had all lived I most likely would not have been born.
    You may find comfort in a song called “Glory Baby” by Watermark. It is a older song but I am sure you can find it on RUclips.

  • @cristimccluney1102
    @cristimccluney1102 3 года назад +2

    This reminds me of my brother in heaven. It wasn't a miscarriage. I never got to meet him and he was born before me and very early. He didn't last the first day in the hospital. I always imagine what he would be like or what it would be like to have a brother. I'm so excited to meet him in Heaven and run up to him and give him a hug for the first time. Praying for peace and comfort as you try for another.

  • @christinamorales6060
    @christinamorales6060 3 года назад +2

    I am sooo sorry guys. I’ve had 3 MCs and the pain is real and so are the emotions. But during the hard times, I clinged to The Lord as I see you guys are doing right now. Praying for peace and understand through this. ❤️❤️

  • @dixienicoara
    @dixienicoara 3 года назад +3

    It really encouraged me on what you said about praying big prayers. My husband and I are trying for a baby and was hoping to had gotten pregnant this month but sadly I didn't so I was left discouraged. Now I'm wanting to open my heart to God and tell Him whats there and God is not afraid of our real and honesty-Thank you for the piece of encouragement

  • @lauralefort5755
    @lauralefort5755 3 года назад +9

    I’m so sorry to hear this sad news!! God has a reason and like you said, Nate, if anything it is something that makes you appreciate the babies that are healthy.
    I have five children and I have had six miscarriages. The hardest one was when I actually passed the baby when I was lifting up one of my children to the high chair. I didn’t know what to do with it either. I could see the spine and knew this was the baby. I ended up bringing it to my appointment and let the doctor take care of it.🤷‍♀️
    I did regret that and wished we would have had a little service for it.

  • @estelarodriguez5866
    @estelarodriguez5866 3 года назад

    Just found your channel. My hubby & I have gone through a miscarriage too. Thanks for sharing. God is amazing ALL KNOWING!💛

  • @jacquelynnjones1372
    @jacquelynnjones1372 3 года назад

    I am so sorry Sutton, I have never had a miscarriage but I did bleed a lot with my first and I thought I was miscarrying. i went through a lot of those emotions of fear. I am so glad that nurse was there to care for you. I will be praying for God’s continued blessings for your family. I have had two children and the hardest part is that I would love to have more but I have back issues that are debilitating so I don’t think I can carry another child. I also have really horrible post partum depression so it makes post partum extremely difficult. 💔 thank
    you for sharing this part of your story.

  • @RachelOnAWhim
    @RachelOnAWhim 3 года назад +1

    I am so, so sorry. My husband and I just experienced this in April. I’m still grieving. I don’t know if I can watch this video yet (processing it is so hard, some days I handle it better than others), but I do want to be able to sit down and watch it soon. Praying for you both! 🙏

  • @emilysangster23
    @emilysangster23 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video.. it came at the great time. 3 and a half weeks ago, our baby's heart stopped beating and this weekend I miscarried naturally which means I no longer need surgery this week.
    This was my first pregnancy... my Rainbow baby will come 💕
    I wish it was spoken about more. This video will definitely help so thank you! I had no idea what to expect. I plan to share my story with all my friends and family incase one day I can help them in the future of they were ever to go through it.

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад

      I’m so sorry. It’s so hard and very crazy how many people experience it, but it’s good we can all be there for each other!

    • @Look.Upward
      @Look.Upward 2 года назад

      Hi there,
      I am sorry to hear about that. I would encourage to avoid food products (including factory produced meat alternatives) that may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g Vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white rice, white bread and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
      Instead, please aim for a well-planned, unrefined and untempered with organic vegan diet (preferably consuming plant foods in their raw-form where possible so as not to denature or destroy life-forms and enzymatic activities beneficial to the system) that will nourish your body well, consuming foods that look like the organs and targets them too, for instance:
      [ ] Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the motility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm cells to overcome male sterility.
      [ ] Olives assist the health and function of female ovaries.
      [ ] Eggplants, Avocadoes and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats 1 avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight and prevents cervical cancers; and guess what? It takes exactly 9 months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
      [ ] Grapefruits, Oranges as well as other Citrus fruits look like mammary glands of females and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.
      Please make sure to have a look at some free downloadable health reform artworks on this video ruclips.net/video/w_HtGKzUMXA/видео.html (Links in the description) and keep an eye out on some informative videos e.g ruclips.net/video/4KFmjTXHG1o/видео.html that I believe will be very beneficial.
      *** Please note: Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
      Best wishes
      💙💙💙

  • @bronniemcleod8200
    @bronniemcleod8200 3 года назад

    Thankyou for sharing about your loss, you are encouraging and inspiring ❤️
    I lost my husband this year, he was only 45 and we have five children, every day I have to trust that God has a bigger plan than what I can see 🙏❤️

  • @ezrianasolorzano9523
    @ezrianasolorzano9523 3 года назад +1

    Just miscarried my second pregnancy at 5 wks and experienced a similar story to you. So thankful I still get to hold and love my firstborn son ❤️ praying comfort for your family, I still think of my baby and all that could have been. But it brings me comfort knowing I will meet my baby in heaven one day soon 🥺❤️

  • @stephanielake11
    @stephanielake11 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story, and encouraging us to pray. One of my best friend's had a miscarriage many years back and she still is not fully over it. She doesn't have any children to this day. Some other youtubers that have shared their miscarriage stories are "Ellie & Jared" and "Sacconejolys"....it was also their 3rd child that they had lost. Afterwards, they were able to have healthy children again....so never give up...anything is possible!! Sending much love & positive energy from Toronto!! Praying for your miracle baby!!

  • @brittanyb4719
    @brittanyb4719 3 года назад +1

    Miscarriages are so hard, not only physically but mentally and spiritually as well! I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy Jan 1st of this year. Now I am pregnant again and due December 1st😭😭🙌🏽🙌🏽. God has a plan always, even if we sure don’t see it at the time💙 Praying for y’all and your journey in trying to conceive again💙

  • @DefiningDiane
    @DefiningDiane Год назад

    Hey, I came back to this message and I remember you going through this.. I just experienced the same thing after 2 pregnancies, healthy first try pregnancies abd 2 boys. Right now I am in pain but this is helping me. Thank you.
    Crazy that I was the previous commentator 😭

  • @gina8652
    @gina8652 3 года назад

    God is no doubt going to bring good from this. Since 2018 my husband and I have had 5 miscarriages and I am currently pregnant again. Praise God! Im 32 weeks and this is my first time reaching the 3rd trimester so we're very hopeful this is finally the baby we get to keep earth-side!
    I have had to learn over and over that depending on God's strength and not my own is truly my only option during those losses. That dependency has carried into other struggles in my life and I'm grateful for that. To "Let go and let God" has been a hard and painful, but worthy lesson in my life. It's already been very clear how His timing is better than our own, even if we can't understand that in the moment! I know he will show this in your lives as well 🙏
    Even though I understand your perspective of marricarriages after vs before having other children, I would like to say please try not to downplay or compare anyone else's pain.. I can attest that that exactly thing from others can cut VERY deep. The feeling of an empty womb and an empty home can be overwhelming. Having no other children to hug tightly during those rough moments is also a true hurt you can't describe. Again, I understand your thinking behind it, but I say it's never worth it to try and compare pain! Just my thoughts from experience 💕
    I will be praying for you two, that God would bless you with more children when his timing is right 💕 Lean on Him!!

  • @jessicastarkey1229
    @jessicastarkey1229 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. It really is such a hard thing to go through. I’ve been through two very early miscarriages this year. It’s so hard to understand, but God’s goodness prevails always.

  • @tirzahstaples32
    @tirzahstaples32 3 года назад +1

    I just went through a miscarriage in August. I was 11 weeks but my baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks. My husband and I found out at our first ultrasound too. It is the most heartbreaking thing I have ever gone through, I’m so sorry you have to know that pain. You are not alone! I’m praying for healing in your family 🤍

    • @tirzahstaples32
      @tirzahstaples32 3 года назад

      My water broke when I lost my baby and I actually got to hold them, we buried our baby in our favorite spot in the woods.

  • @alyssastorey3844
    @alyssastorey3844 3 года назад +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. The same thing happened to me but it was my first pregnancy. I wanted to be a mom SOOO bad and then I felt like my dream was ripped away from me. We got pregnant the following month with our rainbow. I will be praying for y’all! Rainbow baby coming soon! 🌈

  • @Heatherrr1234
    @Heatherrr1234 2 года назад

    Watched this around when it came out, and now watching again after having a miscarriage yesterday. Don’t know why it’s comforting to hear another women talk about her going through it too. Thank y’all for making this video I know it was hard. So happy your rainbow baby will be here soon 🥰 and having a nice nurse in a crappy situation makes a world of difference it truly does.

  • @deborahsmith7828
    @deborahsmith7828 3 года назад +4

    Nate and Sutton, Thank you for being so real, and sharing right from the depth of your hearts! You have no idea the impact you are making on those who are watching your videos. Love you two and thank you again. God holds your precious family in his hand. Continue to Trust in Jesus!

  • @rixygutierrez
    @rixygutierrez 3 года назад +7

    Aww I've been following for a while now, and I definitely couldn't get past not saying I'm really sorry for your loss. It's such a difficult process but may God give you strength and know that your baby is with our heavenly father. We love you guys!! sending a virtual hug 🤍

  • @leighannbutler1204
    @leighannbutler1204 3 года назад +1

    God is so amazing! My husband and I lost our 1st pregnancy at 15 weeks. He was a formed baby so we had a small ceremony with just immediate family. We prayed and prayed for another baby but it didn't happen so I began to pray for a child. I was talking to God and he told me adoption was the way. So my husband and I became foster parents. We adopted our now 9 year old son 4 years ago. He was 5 but what a blessing!!! Then this past November I found out I was pregnant!!! We had our son August 10th. God is so amazing and he knows the desires of our hearts. If we had had our first baby we wouldn't have our 9 year old!! And he is such a blessing. Keep the faith God is so amazing!!

  • @KelseyGibson
    @KelseyGibson 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing ❤️
    My husband and I were expecting our first baby and then naturally I lost the pregnancy in a miscarriage about one month in..
    I was DEVASTATED, unfortunately I temporary left the church, I blamed God because I so clearly knew it was time to get pregnant, I believed I was a mama the second I saw that positive pregnancy test. I really isolated myself from my husband, best friends, church, everyone because I knew they couldn’t heal me, their thoughtful kind encouraging words didn’t even help me. As I drove home from the grocery store one night I could just imagine a thin thread and I knew that I was still connected to God although I couldn’t feel him, hear him, sense him, he felt so far away although I just knew he was still there. I was scheduled to speak at a teen girls retreat although my emotions and head said I wasn’t in a place to speak to young believers, I decided to share everything but the miscarriage but then with so much time left to share I decided to open up about it, with each word I spoke I felt literal healing through my whole being. Shortly after I saw what looked like an ultrasound in the sky and just two months after the loss I was pregnant with my sweet girl, Nevaeh Rosalee. She turns 4 soon! She loves the lord so much and isn’t afraid to pray for strangers at the grocery store. The other day I heard her “preaching” in the library 💖
    Although the loss hurt so bad..
    I am thankful I have my sweet Nevaeh and know that for whatever reason(s) that first baby of mine wasn’t meant to be here OR he or she would have been here. I have to believe that one day I will meet him or her again and I believe that we are here for a reason.
    No words from my loved ones could help or heal me, sharing my loss helped, having my daughter helped, time helps but remembering that life never stops.
    Whether you have chose God or not, he loves you and wants you. I pray whoever reads this will have a heavy desire to know who God is and to choose him before he comes back!
    Life isn’t always easier but man is it so much sweeter with God in it!
    It will be okay ❤️
    God calls you loved.worthy.wanted.forgiven & so much more. Cry out to God and make him your Lord.
    Edit: my family doctor THINKS I had a miscarriage because of my blood type..
    I had no idea this was a thing but recommend everyone know their blood type..
    I have A Negative blood which means I needed the Rhogam shot to stay pregnant with a baby that possibly has my husbands positive blood type.

  • @rivd
    @rivd 3 года назад +1

    It's hard to go through times like these...my first pregnancy ended in an early miscarriage (9 weeks), then 2 beautiful healthy daughters followed (now 3 en 2 years old), and this year pregnancy number 4...unfortunately we just lost our son with 26 weeks pregnancy, after many weeks of hope and fear. We miss them so much here in our lives now...but we'll meet them in heaven.
    Sometimes you don't have an answer on the 'why'. Sometimes it takes a while to see what He does with the bad to use for a good thing. I wish you peace from above.

  • @pamfenter176
    @pamfenter176 3 года назад +2

    I lost a baby in 1993 and got pregnant pretty quickly with twins. It was devastating, but I think it was God's way of making sure I had 2. I only ever wanted 1 little boy, my entire life. And he gave us a son and daughter after the miscarriage. It was his will and I am grateful because my daughter and I are so close. Love my son to pieces too, but he knew I had room in my heart for 2.

  • @Maya-sv6yk
    @Maya-sv6yk 3 года назад +1

    I am so sorry that you went through this.
    My husband and I lost our first baby to a miscarriage last year.
    I know that it is heartbreaking. I will pray for you ❤️

  • @jeannine8400
    @jeannine8400 3 года назад +3

    I'm so sorry this happened. I have two waiting for me. One would be 29 this year and one would be 17. I will pray for God to comfort your hearts! Such a sweet couple and love seeing your Littles.

  • @myrtlemaesimmons
    @myrtlemaesimmons 3 года назад +1

    Thank you both for sharing. Nate, it is awesome that as the Dad, you want to encourage this conversation. Sutton, your thoughts and feelings as you had the miscarriage are so common, yet they usually go unspoken. Thank you for describing them so well. Praying for you!

  • @josalmon4742
    @josalmon4742 3 года назад +1

    So so sorry.I had a miscarriage 39yrs ago. I still think of him or her all the time. I will meet in heaven. You won’t ever forget and don’t. Name the baby and dedicate in some way.

  • @erickamills2046
    @erickamills2046 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing! I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks with you as I can sympathize. My husband and I have two precious babies here with us and two in the arms of Christ. We lost a baby in March and July of this year. I just found out on Friday I’m pregnant again. We’re so excited but also anxious. We’re focusing on the Lord and trusting Him. I’m so thankful for this baby He’s given us now. Praying we get to hold this baby here. Praying for you guys as well, so sorry!

  • @kaitlynhuizenga4307
    @kaitlynhuizenga4307 3 года назад

    So sot for you all. But also so thankful you are being open and willing to share. I myself am breaking the silence of miscarriages, just had my second at 10weeks on August.

  • @kerryseaton4401
    @kerryseaton4401 3 года назад

    ❤sending love and prayers...I've suffered 2 miscarriages in between being blessed with my two sons. It's such a difficult grieving experience. God bless ❤🙏❤

  • @LoveZaley
    @LoveZaley 3 года назад +1

    Currently going thru one. It was my first pregnancy, we were devastated. Thank you for this video.

    • @nateandsutton
      @nateandsutton  3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry 😞 it’s insane how many people it happens too. I pray God blesses y’all with a healthy baby in His perfect timing! 🙏🏽

    • @LoveZaley
      @LoveZaley 3 года назад

      @@nateandsutton thank you! 💛 just wanted to say this video was perfect timing and things I needed to hear! 🙏🏻

  • @Seaside_Mama
    @Seaside_Mama 3 года назад +1

    Awww. I’m so sorry. That’s so hard. I’ve bled randomly with normal pregnancies (4), and then with a miscarriage at 14 weeks. It feels like you’re in a blender at the time, it’s surreal. ♥️ Praying for healing for you.

  • @deboraholsen2504
    @deboraholsen2504 2 года назад

    I want to express gratitude to Nate and Sutton. They are continually encouraging us all to have faith in God, trust him, and be closer to him and to serve him. They are true servants of His!
    You are both an inspiration, as individuals and as a married couple! Thank you!

  • @kagisomokoena209
    @kagisomokoena209 3 года назад +2

    Ohh Nate and Sutton, I'm so sorry for what you guys are going through/went through. One of my favourite Chapters in the Bible is Psalm 139. I'll share verses 5 & 6 with you guys:
    "You hem me in, behind and before, and you lay your hands upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, it is high, I cannot attain it"
    You guys God's hand is upon you and your family. You know this and we can never understand why certain things happen but we always trust God's will even when it's hard to understand. God be with you. Praying for you 🙏

  • @breno910
    @breno910 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing … my mother had a miscarriage last year on Christmas Day. She was 2 months and some days pregnant.And it has been difficult for me personally because I was super excited to have another sibling. But God’s plans were different . What you said was so encouraging and uplifting Sutton. “ they were never meant to be here. They were meant to be in heaven “ 💜👼🏼 love y’all.

  • @natalee7726
    @natalee7726 3 года назад +1

    I had a miscarriage coming up to 7 years ago. I've never been able to get pregnant again since and it is my personal hell that I am very unlikely to have children in this world. Thank you for sharing this and for sharing your way of thinking about it. I'll be praying for you

  • @SIPRIANA38
    @SIPRIANA38 3 года назад +2

    My prayers are with you 🙏🏻 I had a stillborn 2 years ago at 36 weeks and I can relate so much to the pain of loosing a baby it’s terrible but our hope is to see them again

    • @angeladomann-bolduc5077
      @angeladomann-bolduc5077 3 года назад

      I am sorry to read about your baby. I said a prayer for you.

    • @SIPRIANA38
      @SIPRIANA38 3 года назад

      @@angeladomann-bolduc5077 thank you 🙏🏻

  • @emileeengelhardt9373
    @emileeengelhardt9373 3 года назад +5

    My husband and I have 3 babies in heaven and it definitely doesn’t get easier. I’ll always miss those little ones 💗 sending hugs.

  • @sarahtaylor7988
    @sarahtaylor7988 3 года назад +1

    I will pray for the both of you and thank you for your testimony.

  • @averylynnkronzward6975
    @averylynnkronzward6975 3 года назад +2

    So so incredibly sorry for your loss!! I had one this summer and it is so so hard. Praying the Lord continues to be your peace and comfort! 🤍

  • @MelanieMainberger
    @MelanieMainberger 3 года назад

    It’s good that people speak about it. I had a spontaneous miscarriage at 12 weeks last year and a silent miscarriage at 11 weeks in Feb. It was hard but now I’m pregnant again and extra grateful for every moment. Sometimes it takes loss to make us treasure a blessing more.

  • @dianaholt9566
    @dianaholt9566 3 года назад

    Sutton and Nate , I am so sorry to hear that you guys had a miscarriage. I had a miscarriage when I was 21. I carried him five months and he died inside of me . It’s a very hard wrenching time .
    I did bury my son . I just kept praying and asking God to help me and he did

  • @TheLordsPrayerAmen
    @TheLordsPrayerAmen Год назад

    I watched this back in 2021 when y’all first posted. I was pregnant with my first daughter at the time and I remember crying and praying for you guys while sitting in a Lowe’s parking lot. Now I’m sitting here watching this again in 2023, almost 5 days after we had a miscarriage at 13 weeks. God is still good, but I’m so hurt. Lord help me.

    • @YAHweh.YAHshua
      @YAHweh.YAHshua Месяц назад

      The scripture says that a baby is NOT a soul until they are born and receive Yahweh's GIFT of breath.
      The life of the baby is the mothers life.
      WHEN a baby is born Yahweh gives the body His GIFT of Breath and the BODY becomes alive.
      At the same time THE creator Yahweh puts a soul and Spirit in the body and the baby becomes a living SOUL.
      Very clear literal scriptures.
      The truth will set free all the mothers
      many mothers would blame themselves. Now they can know the truth.
      during the thousand years, those mothers will ask Yahweh why He didn't give their babies His gift of breath.
      Yahweh will tell them why and they will except Yahwehs way and Yahweh will give them back their babies breathing.

  • @insidetherose1934
    @insidetherose1934 3 года назад

    Im so sorry, Sutton!!! I had a miscarriage in May of 2020, mothers day weekend. Mine was early on too. I grieved for so long. I had such bad depression and anxiety after it happened.

  • @lesarease1596
    @lesarease1596 3 года назад +1

    This is why I love watching you guys! I’m so sorry this happened to y’all. You definitely have the right attitude about it. I recently watched a RUclips video of Jim Woodford who was dead for 11 hours. In heaven he saw a building taller than the others and the Angel told him it was the nursery where babies who were aborted or lost during pregnancy lived. There were deer, dogs and cats playing on the lawn with the babies. So encouraging to those who have lost their babies on earth. Keep the faith!! 🙏

  • @sabrinamartinez474
    @sabrinamartinez474 3 года назад +3

    We will definitely be praying for both of you . I went through two of them and had two rainbow baby’s after and I just must encourage you that God is so good and will restore and bless you even beyond and I think going through with a second I and reminded that the baby is still a life and celebrating whether the baby was 2 weeks or two months they were a sweet moment in time and there’s is also time to mourn and you will see them in heaven again . PRAYING FOR YOU AND HOPE THIS ENCOURAGES YOU . 🙏💕in total I always say Will have 2 beautiful babies in heaven and am blessed that they got to see the face of God even before me .

  • @KCoda1248
    @KCoda1248 3 года назад +10

    I will pray for you. I never had a miscarriage (my one sister did very early like you on his first pregnancy; my sister-in-law had to terminate at 5 months because there was no brain in the baby’s skull - it would have been stillborn or died immediately after birth on her first pregnancy), but it was not in God’s plan for us to have a baby and that still saddens me at 59 years old.

  • @annasymemusic4710
    @annasymemusic4710 3 года назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss❤️ I lost my baby the day before memorial day at 9 weeks. It was very traumatic, we had heard the heart beat multiple times. Something just didn't feel right.. I cry at random times. Take all the time you need to grieve. Cry when you need to cry.

  • @psalmistabigail
    @psalmistabigail 3 года назад +10

    Sutton has something special to look forward to. You're gonna get pregnant again. God's gonna bless you with another one and you're gonna meet the baby you lost when you get to Heaven. You're gonna get to hold him or her and it's gonna feel indescribable. I love you guys so much and I pray that God will continue to be your source of comfort, joy and peace in this time.

  • @isabelbaumgartner1578
    @isabelbaumgartner1578 3 года назад +2

    My heart goes out to you. ❤️ You're right, no one talks about miscarriages. I'm so happy you shared this with everyone. Others may not feel so alone now if it happens with them.

  • @hannahkeller9740
    @hannahkeller9740 3 года назад

    I had a miscarriage at 15 weeks, and it started at home. When you get to the hospital they take samples of what they think could be the baby, and the baby ended up not being there at the hospital. I have always thought about how I lost the baby at the house and now they are just gone. Thank you so much for being open and saying things out loud that I have needed to say.

  • @TheJanayWellsShow
    @TheJanayWellsShow 3 года назад +1

    Praying for you all 🙏💜🙌 God bless you

  • @c.z.227
    @c.z.227 3 года назад +1

    Been there - feel for you. It's been 22 years since we lost our second baby at 11 weeks. I still think about that little one, but I did have my Katie afterwards so if I had that baby I might not have had Katie. I pray to meet that baby in heaven someday. I had some spotting, they did an ultrasound, and we found out my baby had stopped growing. I knew I would have a miscarriage - the Dr. said I could let it happen naturally or he could do a D&C. I did not want that - it would have felt like I was aborting my baby. I wish more people would talk about their experiences as I would have known what to expect. I was at a restaurant with friends when it hit - totally did not expect the amount of bleeding involved. It wasn't until afterwards talking with people that I realized how many have had miscarriages but no one really talks about it. God bless you - there will be another baby, but you will always think of this little one.

  • @soilingourfriendshipgarden8706
    @soilingourfriendshipgarden8706 3 года назад +2

    I’m so sorry. Praying for you both

  • @theangamigirl4674
    @theangamigirl4674 3 года назад +8

    Yay came so early today!So sad to see the title 😭..take care you guys ❤️