Things Guys Do That Are Unintentionally Attractive
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Other attractive qualities: assisting an elderly person. Playing with kids.
A few things guys do that I think are unintentionally attractive:
1. Taking the initiative
2. Being chivalrous
3. Showing passion for Jesus, career, etc
4. Showing EMOTIONS!!!
5. Thoughtful gestures
6. Boldness & Confidence accompanied with HUMILITY!
But chivalry is dead and women killed it. It’s fine if you like it in a man, but there’s gotta be balance. So you gotta be a traditional woman too if you want a man to treat you traditionally.
- using my name when talking
- being nice to the elder
- playing with kids
- kindness combined with confidence
Sutton: "My parents watch this."
Nate: "...I'm just joking."
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I love it when my husband:
-does things around the home without me asking him.
-When he initiates snuggle time.
-When he takes the initiative to pray.
-When he does things to protect me.
-When he listens to me.
-When he checks in with me and asks me how I'm doing.
Being a GENTLEMAN - YESSS (when he is so strong as a person that he can genuinely be gentle yet in a masculine way..)
Yes Sutton! When he is NOT on his phone, my husband is very rarely on his phone and I love that about him!
The coolest quality!
As a girl experiencing the beginning of a new dating relationship, what I realized I find attractive is clarity and intentionality. Instead of playing games, he made what we were and where we were going clear.
So refreshing!
For me what is unintentionally attractive in a guy is someone who doesn't aspire to be what's considered to be "cool", has their own opinion and moral principles that they firmly stand for. In addition someone who is empathetic, romantic, understands you without even you saying a word, knows your needs, really listens to every word you say and follows the "actions speak louder than words" principle. And last but not least, I find it really attractive when a guy isn't afraid to be vulnerable and emotional around you❤
Couldn’t agree more!
I really agreed with all of these!! I especially loved how you find a quiet, humble, leader as attractive. ☺️ As a teenage girl I really appreciate the guys in my life who step up to lead something… they are few and far between! Haha!
Agreed!
One thing guys do that are unintentionally attractive for me is when they know what they what . I find that when guys are less confused about what they want in different aspects of life I find that very attractive but especially knowing what they want when it comes to a relationship.
Oh I always know what I what
YES🙌🏼
I have been married for 27 years years and I will say this is an excellent list. You are a very wise couple. I might not describe it as his feminine side, perhaps being goofy and not taking oneself so serious. I will add that kindness in a man is so attractive.
Nathaniel wondering if he's unintentionally attractive at all throughout the video 😂😂😂 so funny! Great video Sutton! God bless! 💙
I thought the same thing 🤣
Being direct with their intentions for dating and being kind to wait staff.
I really like the listening/asking one too. I had a guy friend who I had a crush on for a time and it was crazy how much he remembered from our conversations. Sometimes I'd be like wait I told you about that? Haha
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Good lessons/ideas for the guys!!...My husband is still so attractive to me for all the same reasons as when we married almost 40 years ago. 1. leadership and spiritual leader.
2. The way he stands casually but yet manly..lol
3. How he has fathered our daughter.
4. How sweet he always was to his Mama.
5. How he loves animals.
6. How he kept his promise at the alter that I wouldn't ever pick up after him..its true...in our 60's, almost 40 years married and I have ever rarely picked up after him. It's not so much that part that's attractive..its that he kept that promise in our covenant with the Lord. Yes..he actually wrote that in his vows!
I can think of so many more ..but...blah blah blah.
Also...I read these to my husband and he said...Yes! I still got it! Lol
And...although I love him dearly..I think it would be fun to talk about what they do that ANNOYS us!!! Cheers!
Relationship goals! We've been married 24 years and noticing there is an increase in ease between us and smooth sailing.
For me it's being sensitive, humble and taking responsibility for your actions 💪
After 23 years of marriage my husband still says he gets “lost in all my words”. He tries to listen but can’t focus after a few sentences. My female friends have similar experiences with their husbands. In general men and women communicate differently.
Some of the things I find most attractive in my husband: he is incredibly loyal, has a great sense of humor and always compliments me in front of our children.
for meeee:
when they're playing with kids
when the car is in reverse and they put their right hand on the passenger side headrest (my headrest) to look behind them
when they teach me something! specifically about the bible!
when they get super excited about something completely random
I concur and love that you mentioned the car comment!
Yes!
Ooo yeah teaching you something about the Bible, that’s fun!
Oh my goodness, I love these! I love the funny side of a man, where he doesn't have to be so tough all of the time. I do like a man to be tough, but to also have a sense of humor. Another trait I like is a smile. I really like it when men smile. Once again it's just like they are showing the happy side of themselves, and not just the tough side. I also really like what you said Sutton about the humble confidence! Honestly, these were all so good!!! Thank you for sharing! ❤
I love when guys just jump into a task without a why or how! When they just jump into a task. Anyone can do it! However I notice and find it attractive when guys do it, machine mode!
I agree with all your points!!
Good job! Especially the quiet confident one!!
SO EXCITED FOR THIS VIDEO!!!
Girl... preach 🔥🔥
I totally agree with all these points.
When a guy in formal attire removes his tie, folds his shirt sleeves up to a little below the elbows, and then puts his hands in his pockets...I love it.
Intellect, wit, courtesy, protector, and a good sense of humor are very appealing to me. Yes, to a balance of confidence and humility. Tfs
Girl! You knocked it out of the park. Agree wholeheartedly!
Awesome video! 🥰 I'm impressed how similar is this video with my likes! You both got a smile out of me every moment I heard every aspect. 🌼 God bless you! Colombia says hello here! 👋🏻🇨🇴
As a single person here are things I find attractive 1. Integrity! Not just like a hard worker but also like doing what they say. 2. Gentle Kindness: Non judge mental curiousity and patience 3. Mannerisms such as the little hair flip thing when they are shy. Even though I haven’t dated these are just some of the ones I feel as though are not thought about as much
when Nate exclaimed "a little gay" I lol'd 🤣🤣 you guys are so funny without even trying!!
Okay idk if I’m alone on this one but when guys are wearing a collared shirt and roll up the sleeves.
This!! Yes😂😩
I completely agree on the being a leader. My fiancé is a coach and teacher so he is a leader in multiple areas. When we first started dating I just saw his goofy side but then I started going to his games and seeing him interact with kids and directing. Let me tell ya, I liked that haha! Confidence in knowing what he was doing but definitely humble and no ego at all. Can’t wait to marry him this November and then I can see the jeans and no shirt 😜 I’m so blessed with the man God gave me 🥰
I love when my husband is an attentive father. When he's hands on and I don't have to ask him to care for them!
I agree with all of yours. I'll like to add when he's God fearing.
I think it's so sweet when a guy opens the car door for me! It's very old fashioned but I love that he puts in that extra effort.
I love the early thursday upload!😆
Playing with babies and loving their mama!! ✨
Sutton just spoke for every every christian girl🙌🏻❤️
I agree with Sutton! I also like a guy who has the end in mind or a goal. But also just simply showing kindness is very attractive to me :)
okay you mentioned the car door thing but for me personally i LOVE it because growing up my dad always did the car door for my mom and for me, he's only a girl dad so he has always been such a gentlemen, and i really appreciate my dad just always doing that for me because it shows how thoughtful he is.
1,000% agree with Sutton. Almost all of them made me think of my boyfriend ☺️
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Thanks for bringing us great content!
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For me it’s when a guy cries. They’re “supposed to be” strong and tough, and I love that about them. So when they drop the strong and tough exterior and can really cry…. My heart melts
Spot on girl! Same 💯🎯💯🎯
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You guys are awesome... funny and christ filled! I love it.
These videos are so good!! Keep em coming! Haha!
100% agree with y'all!
This is good info to know. As a guy who is actively searching for the woman God has for me, it’s great to know what I can consciously work on now to get bonus points in the future haha!
watching this video made me sad and happy at the same time. I feel like society now is producing weak men who don't know who they are. All the things she was saying was a great balance of a biblical man who can lead his family and love like christ. So thank you guys for doing this video. Keep spreding the message.
these were all really good!
Great job, Sutton!
Thank you!
Being assertive and confident in their beliefs but open to hearing your take. When a guy is physically affectionate. Being self aware and kind but also a teeny tiny bit uncivilized haha I don’t know how to describe it any other way
Hey Nate & Sutton, would it be possible to do a workout/keeping in shape type of video? Nate for the guys and Sutton for the girls.
Just daily practices to stay active and then full on workouts
Those are good ones Sutton - top list! I was once talking to a rather handsome man outside church and a piece of litter blew by on the pavement. He bent down, picked it up and threw it in the bin. I gotta say, that was SO attractive.
Good job 👍
Playing with my nieces and nephews, taking them little gifts he knows they would like. Asking about my family.
I love it when men aren’t afraid to step out of their comfort zones!
Leadership 100%
I’ll never stop learning
Someone who can laugh at themselves (and maybe even tells on themselves sometimes).
Kindness is attractive
His face the whole time! hahaha priceless!
When they love kids / babies 😍
Love you guys but honestly there are far too many guys acting like girls these days. We need strong manly men. This being said..a guy who can joke around and show a sweeter side is attractive
I'm like a second in on this video and I'm sure there's a disclaimer😅😅I feel for youtubers🤧
Something that’s attractive to me is when he Stewarts what he has, in a Godly manner.
My husband does all the old school gentleman stuff. He won’t even eat until I sit down with my plate. And now our boys do it too. But he feels weird praying out loud with me.
I love when a guy is gentle😁
Support your local chivalry!
NOT INTO THE PHONE...YESSS
Lol I agree! 😊. Hard working men are attractive too.
1:47 Amazing!🤣😂🤣
Nate: I'm going back in this video and see how I did!! Haha
I find it attractive when a man:
1. Is assertive and plans great dates
2. Listens and asks follow up questions
3. Enjoys genuine laughter
4. Is humbly confident by being a chivalrous gentleman
5. Is vulnerable and open about strengths and weaknesses
6. Works out and has a muscular frame suited to his body type
7. Honors God
Lol....I am just needing help. Go nate. Get that help.
I feel like the one about guys respecting girls' opinions can really flow from girls being willing to share their opinions. That being said, guys need to value all others' opinions no matter what others say.
Some things that I think Guys do that are unintentionally attractive are,
Showing leadership,
Having God be number one in the life by reading their Bible, spending time in Prayer etc.
Showing emotions
Going out of his way to do something nice, like surprising his girlfriend, wife, fiance. At like a random day of the year and not because it's a special occasion but just because they want to show how much they care.
Jesus said that He stood outside the door and knocked to the Church of laodicea. (Yes! HE was OUTSIDE the church!!) He later said that He would rather them be hot or cold than Luke warm. He was standing halfway into the church with Just Some Of His Body inside and the rest outside, no, He was outside knocking. If we search for Him, we can already know that He’s been waiting for us. Don’t make Him wait any longer. Jesus doesn’t come uninvited. The enemy comes wherever there is an open door. Jesus isn’t just going to give you salvation if you don’t truly want it. He isn’t going to change your life if you don’t ask for it (and MEAN what YOU ASK FOR.) Christmas and Easter should not be the main times of praise to GOD IT SHOUDL BE ALL THE TIME.
A few things I find attractive in guys:
1. Being good with kids
2. Being athletic and fit
3. Being healthy
4. Being ambitious and having goals
5. Being hardworking
6. Being kind, romantic, and thoughtful
7. Being adventurous, loves trying new things, loves traveling
8. Being confident, opinionated, and decisive
I totally agree with your list! One of my best guy friend meets all of the things on this list and he doesn't even know how attractive he is when he does these things (except the no shirt lol).
Guys, take notes! A true lady appreciates your effort into planning a date. I love it when a guy comes up with a few restaurants recommendations then ask for my opinion, it shows that he is thoughtful and caring, he is upgraded from a guy to a man.
"And it was like, nothing......" 5:04 😂
I just feel like the most thing that bugs me about guys these days is that they don’t respect girls like they know they are stronger and they have authority and they use it to kind of push girls back and be like “ oh yeah your weak, annoying and you guys are weird “
Like HELLO is it our fault that we have to go through so much and we get yelled at that we take so long to dress and stuff like you don’t know what it’s like to be a girl and have so much struggles, like have some respect seriously.
As a man I would say don't date guys with those values, especially if your a Christian.
If your not a Christian this would perhaps be a great benefit you would find in the Christian community where most don't value beauty trends and heavy makeup (unless they're from a trendy church that follows the world instead of the Bible). Beware of "carnal Christians" because they truly aren't born again.
Christian men look for a woman who will be a great wife while most worldly men are just looking for their next lay.
I’m too young to date but thank you for the advice I’m Christian :)
I like all of these
1)loves God
2)plays with kids
3)kind
4)humble confidence
5)funny
6)hard worker
7)good leader
8)chivalrous gentleman
9)others focused
10)listens
11)respectful
12)not too into technology
For me it's unintentionally attractive when a guy is not on social media. Also one who lives a simple life, one who is minimalistic. I like a person who is more interested in building treasures in heaven rather than on earth. Also someone who isn't trying to be the richest person financially, because they know that true wealth comes not from finances but from the relationships we build here with God and others.
Wow thank you so much I needed this comment. I'm a guy like that and I feel so alone. I feel like everyone is so materialistic and trying to become a millionaire they won't want a simple lifestyle. My dream is to do God's will, have a Godly wife and raise up a few children to serve the Lord. Money is so whatever to me besides having a little emergency fund.
It’s more so not using your phone when you’re around them ;)
YES!!!!!! I know the guy she's talking about. 🤭
Loving kids
-wearing a baseball hat backwards
-wearing all black
-playing with kids
-playing an instrument
-writing you letters/love notes
-planning dates
I think a guy that is not outspoken but intentionally wants my opinion.
I like when guys wear cologne
Sutton forgot to be good with kids. Even just smiling at them is nice and attractive.
trueeee
I think Nate felt convicted today hahaha
A few things guys do that I think are unintentionally attractive:
1. Godly MAN
2. takes on parenting 50/50
3. able to show his feminine side and play with our girls
4. cooks randomly
5. puts me first
6. sensitive
7. family man
8. prays with me
I feel like I like the 'hallmark movies' guys a lot😂😂😂😂but honestly, I like introverted guys who knows what they want, and who can say no, who knows how to speak to the elderly, who has respect and love and barely utters a word that can crush any person's mood, who loves dogs and kids equally, who are kinda shy but extroverted around me and led by the Bible.
I am sorry I just don't believe in the 50/50 thing, I can be a 30 and him a 70 as long as everything he does is instructed in the Bible, that is literally the most important thing of them all. And, should be an early bird coz I'm a night owl😂😂😂😂oh I am so extroverted so he must definitely know how to get me to shut down without saying a word😂😂😂😂😂
A man working with his hands is very attractive. My hubby is a mechanic and all-around fixer. So I’m biased I guess.
That’s a nice thing to have around the house! I love handiness!
The 5 things I find attractive about my hubby:
1) Seeing him reading the bible, praying and getting closer to God
- it gives me faith that the future of my marriage is blessed
2) Seeing him doing "mainly" stuff, e.g: doing bbq in the Garden, taking care of the car, etc
3) Seeing him cook
4) Seeing him playing with our baby on "goofy daddy" mode
5) Being the leader
A guy who is not too too chatty and flirty with different ladies is attractive
“You don’t want someone who’s lazy”
😬 big oof
Tbh though, I’d rather be lazy and single than be married and have to work hard 😂
1. Takes care of / respects his parents
2. Fixes things around the house or car
3. Old school… when a guy does something bc he’s the man… like carry a heavy bag, or give u his coat when it’s cold etc
4. Funny… don’t u remember that guy in school that always had the girls attention bc he was funny!
#4 yes!!
Nate was down bad that whole video😂 he wanted to kiss her so badly 😂
When my bf turns his cap backwards 🧢. Mannnn, he looks so attractive
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