The Try Guys Try Therapy
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"strong men talk about their feelings, bro" - Ned
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there's literally 5.1k and only 2 comments.
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“I feel......something.... I just don’t know what it is” -Eugene. Yes Eugene.... I feel that so hard.
IkR
I've related to that my whole life
me 24/7
Same with me
When did that happen
Try guys: shall we lie on each other
Dr Jenn: you don’t have to you really don’t have to
Try guys: well if you insist
I actually scrolled down just to re-read this comment 😂😂
Waaaait good omeeeeens, yaaay
Zach’s masculinity shows through when he is kind and open about what he thinks, when someone asks if he is scared he doesn’t hide it he just says oh yeah definitely. I think that is an awesome trait to have.
Sometimes I wonder how Zach would confront his insecurities if he chooses to. I, personally, lift weights on occasion to battle my insecurities about not being athletic or masculine enough. I'm aware that what might work for me might not work for Zach, though. Still, I wish that he'd try at some point.
preach
Untoxic (?) Masculinity!!!
@@jonathandiehl892 I felt the same way as him until I got my testosterone tested at 750 ng lol
@@venyl8204 Zach needs Kratos in his life.
"Beautiful Keith and the rest"
*Eugene
+Julieta G *keith
+Lilli Teravainen it's supposed to be uppercase because it's a proper noun
* all of them. Stop treating people different. Everyone can be equal, it's just society messing things up for other people!
+XxAmaliaMillerxX ummm she was quoting the video so chill
Finally a short compilation of Ned saying "my wife"
+Skylar Chumley
There must be hours of footage
Hahaha! YES! I love Ned💜
lol XD 😁
haha
+Zannie Ho lol XD 😁
Zach is the most honest, Ned is the most mature, Keith is the most introspective, and Eugene is the most independent. Together they balance each other out, which is why they work so well as the Try Guys.
Last bit: notice how Eugene & Zach are polar opposites like Ned & Keith are.
absolutely agreeing to this
This deserves more likes!!!
together they are chris pratt
Hey what about ned
Yeah and it’s weird . I always feel this awkward , cringey tension between Eugene and Zach . Even in the latest videos . I understand it’s “tough love” but I guess I’m just extra empathetic so I feel bad for him sometimes .
It feels as if Eugene is secretly longing for the ability to be open, deep down. Which is why I think he so openly says the opposite. Given his upbringing, I feel like his inner self truly wants to be able to be free to express, but has trouble communicating that with his outside persona.
That's me😭😭😭😢😢
As someone who sees my whole self in Eugene (and someone who shares the same personality type) I can say that that might be very accurate. Obviously I don't know him personally but it's very likely
Yeah, i´m exactly like that, so i understand him very well.
Mary Ketchum I cant speak for Eugene personally, but as someone who’s been raised in an environment where being open about your problems and your shortcomings is discouraged, having people who even just notice that there’s something wrong and give you the opportunity to express yourself genuinely is something that I (and others that I know who have had similar experiences) really want to seek out but have trouble saying it outright. so while again, I can’t speak for Eugene, I think you might be onto something
Yep.
"When you are in a room with me, therapy is always happening."
Why is this me and I'm not even a therapist
Sage Benenati omg lol
Okay sameeee aff
Sage Benenati same
Sage Benenati i
same
Is it just me or does Zach look really sad? like from the start
They all do
It's quite uncomfortable for them epically as males and in a group and being filmed. They're bound to be somewhat sad.
Samantha Rebecca Middleton Makes sense.
yeah like he doesn't want to open up
No he is always sad :(
Keith: hiding behind a persona.
Ned: stress, being pulled in many directions
Zach: self-confidence
Eugene: building emotional barriers, blocking others out
Depressed breakfast me: all of the above
@@Gabrosoft *virtual hug* you can get through it, me a virtual stranger believes in you remember that :)
The Zach and Eugene exchange about masculinity, was telling.
Zach: I’m not a masculine man, I never have been, and I have no qualms about it.
Eugene: Don’t you have problems about that? I would have so many problems with that..
Zach: What’s the alternative?
My heart kinda breaks for Eugene here. But I'm also proud of Zach here for being honest.
sajinokami that was too deep
@@cakt15us81 Yea for sure, being weird can sometimes lead one to be excluded because a group of other people can't relate to a certain thing and one can lose self confidence, but in the end it can be a blessing and be freeing to be different, and it makes you realise who you truly are, something that others never realise till very very late or never.
I know this is an old comment but seeing Eugene now being able to play into his feminine side in current videos by wearing dresses, skirts, makeup and nail polish makes me so happy because he’s finally comfortable enough to show his true self to the world and it takes a lot of courage to do that and I’m so damn proud of him
@@Ruby-jb6en I know, right. XD
[Side note: this is the internet, I will never leave.]
Zach's made me shed a tear. I love him so much
+sc_senyn I wanted to give him a hug ;c
+sc_senyn I bet seeing how everyone in the comment section like "omg eugene is so hot!" and "Keith is awesome" and "awww Ned and his wife" but the most we said about Zach is "yeah he's pretty cute" because he's tiny doesn't help much
my too. i reallylike him.
Same, I love Zach so much :)
poor Zach ),:
*Talks about doing things together*
"We slept together"
Lol
Ned: Jeans and a Jacket
Zach: Flannel and Jeans
Keith: Flannel and Jeans
Eugene: Full blown suit
He also wore a full-on suit when he met Ned's baby for the first time. He hides his fear with presentation.
I would love to see them revisit therapy; Eugene has come so far with his coming out etc, Ned is a father, Zach is in a committed relationship, Keith has grown enormously as a performer. Therapy with those new perspectives and experiences could be really insightful.
I'm not sure if group therapy is something that they would do or be comfortable with. Therapy is deeply personal where you can share everything, even things that you feel like might make you a bad person. I've spoken to my therapist about extreme anger and the desire to hurt people when in that state and I've gotten around it. I would never want people who I interact with everyday to know that.
zach has got to have the kindest, biggest heart ever
Nneoma Uche he is very wise
he's da man.
I'm so glad he met Maggie :)
Eugene walked into that hug, don't even lie
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THAT
lol exactly
i want that fanfiction
Just about to comment that as well. We see you Eugene.
Sure did lmao (also gee, Heck yeah )
is no one gonna talk about how Eugene and Dr. Jen are wearing basically the same suit..
7:26
*Eugene doesn’t want a group hug*
*walks into the group hug*
I literally was just thinking this 😂
Fair, Keith was 'helping', but still, he definitely came their way
I feel uncomfortable when I tell people everything
Me too
HOBIE
+Ayisha Bushra Mhm. Same.
+kimjimlim916 HOBIE IS LIFE MAN
is yur profile pic Hoseok?
"I...I...feel...something...."
Eugene has therapy in his blood
Catherine Witherow
XD
Catherine Witherow ...I just don’t know what it..... is......
I came back to this video just to see Zach's growth. He's stepping up big time, managing the lawyers in this internal lawsuit and working his ass off, not only to keep the company afloat, but improving it in a major way
I am so proud of him.
“I feel something I just don’t know what it is” - Eugene. Eugene just told my life story
Katie kiehl SAME!
I feel like Zach is really the strongest try guy emotionally because he has some much going on and he really tries to be honest about it
Kayla Allred I agree, emotionally because we all know masuclinity wise hes not even close
Agreed.
Definitely agreed. He also had the most commentary on the process, or the other guys' responses, in this video. (Ned had some too.) --though I'm sure the session was much, much longer than what we see here.
Yeah, I think he has mentioned that he's dealt with depression so he might have experience with therapy which makes him more mature about this stuff
Kayla Allred True
Zach and Eugene are so much more similar than they realize
Kenna T. I think they realize it too. In Hannah Harts "My Drunk Kitchen" the co starred in it and Eugene said he despises Zach the most because they are too similar.
KennaTheRUclipsTrash yay I made it 2.2k
I can agree
thats so TRUE
I think that I'm the Eugene in our group. not in being most fashionable or artsy way, but like, I don't tell my friends when I'm okay or not. I just suddenly disappear and just come back when I'm completely okay 'cause I don't want my negativity to affect them. 'cause when I'm down, I tend to be really negative and nothing good comes out from me.
Same
Have you ever tried asking them how they feel about it? If they preferred for you to be around even when you're down? You might find out they'd like to support you and be beside you when you feel that way. I'm writing you this because I used to react exactly the same but then through therapy I've tried to change and now I often call my friends and ask for help when I'm depressed (it still takes me some courage, but getting better each time) and they are precious angels that love to be there for me and help if they can and I've never would have made it through the dark moments in these last few years without them
Very much SAME
This is so relatable....
I don’t think my “friends” like me for this reason
4:23
"You're actually being a role model to these guys when it comes to being in a relationship"
GEEZ, THIS AGED WELL 💀💀💀💀💀💀
The most awful thing is that he was a role model for Eugene. He was showing Eugene, who has previously said that he doesn't believe in true love, that love can be pure. He screwed that one up and I think that's part of why Eugene was so angry.
I've noticed everyone is talking about Eugene and Zach, but to be honest what really got to me was Keith. He's seems so confident and happy and out there, and discovering that he believes that preforming is the only thing he's good at, pains me. (Ned also made me feel things)
Don't forget he also dose beautiful makeup
I suspect that Keith is someone with a gift for making people happy. He just doesn't realize it.
Nia Lorre my guy, that’s beautiful. I completely agree.
bring me the milk mother ur dp made me scream
I screamed “KEITH YOU HO, YOU ARE MORE TALENTED THAN ME TBH”
Zach, for the love of god, LET. ME. HUG. YOU. omg ❤
MY SENTIMENT EXACTLY
Same.
I never thought Zach thinks like that about him. I love Zach!
He is on the leaner side but that doesn't define his masculinity.
He is good at what he does specially in the Try guys videos
Making people laugh is also a talent and he is great at it in fact all the try guys are!
yuh
Zach is my fave! I think he's the funniest and does some of the best stuff poor Zach.
I think off the try guys feel protective of Zach.
I think they all know that Keith is actually deeply insecure of vunerable and just wants everyone to be happy all the time, and I think that's why he is everybodies favorite.
I think Ned has a hard time being close to Eugene because they are both so Alpha, but that any overture from Eugene means the world to him.
I think Eugene deeply appreciates his friends, but is afraid to show it and become dependent of their affection, or vulnerable.
But they truly trust each other, since going into business with your friends is very high stakes.
They all recognized Keith’s insecurity and in their new office makeover the sign says beautiful Keith :’)
that legit made me cry
I think it's their wifi password
Eugene:I feel
Me:yes!
Eugene: I feel
Me:say it
Eugene: I feel something
Me: oh come on!
Makeda Taylor Pearce haha same 😂
I FEEEL IIIII FEEEELL IIIIIIII FEEEEELL IT MR KRABSSS
Makeda Taylor Pearce literally me
Makeda Taylor Pearce 😂
Makeda Taylor Pearce thanks for a comment that I enjoyed reading since everyone is talking about such sad things
I definitely relate to Eugene. I shut my feelings out so that they don't get in the way of achieving, even if that means shutting PEOPLE out. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
You're not alone
We are one. :)
+JessieMcnally :-(
you guys ok
+Le_Skittle_Ninja i am exactly the same way
Keith is so chill if he left I think it would fall apart harder than if anyone else left. I am not saying he is my favourite. Just his dynamics with the others is so fascinating. He gets along with everyone keeps the peace between competative Eugene and Ned and sometimes undersog Zach. Evwn when Ned brought up a little beef Keith dealt with it so honestly openly and diplomatically.
Hes definitely like a glue for the guys I agree
I definitely agree. In the lie detector video all of the guys also said that Keith was their favorite or the one that they felt closest to in the group.
3 years later and you hit the nail.
Good thing it was Ned that left then. I don't think I could've handled a break up and end to the try guys, I'm a bit unstable right now but I know that I've got try guys videos yo watch if I need cheering up.
"strong men talk about their feelings" - thank you Ned
I feel like I shouldn't have watched this, like it was something private... I mean obviously they wouldnt put it on the internet if they didnt want people to watch it, but still.
+Talia Føre completely agree but on the bright side it may help people realize that theyre not alone and shouldn't be ashamed of their problems. Which is why I love buzzfeed btw :)
I guess it was to motivate others who are uncomfortable with seeing a psychiatrist or therapist or whatever... Like people may see this and think "these people are always happy and charismatic yet they have issues as well..." Sooo yeah if it gets more people who need therapy to see someone then it's a great video
Jordan Fonua Lyotac I agree 100%
I agree, I feel like a voyure. I think Eugene has more issues because of his family pressures he could use help with.
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Really wanna hug Zach now ;(
Eugene is waay better
+tronald dump
+Tronald Dump I love Eugene, he's so cool!
But it made me really sad seeing how insecure he was
+Bialyz (he=Zach)
+kennedy ann agreed
eugene: we sleep together
zach: *laughs, smiles a little, looks over at him*
keith: not the cool kind
zach: *smile gets a little less convincing*
“Eugene’s bigger, lay on him!”
Haha I love this video. Seen it a few times and I still think it’s super great and has an awesome message for people who are suffering.
0:37
I wonder if Eugene really did start therapy or go to a psychologist or something because he's really opened up during the few years in the try guys
I agree!
fr though
his openness and vulnerability is so admirable and beautiful. i’m so glad they did this
The funny thing is, I feel like Eugene is more like Zach than either of them realize. They simply display their insecurities differently... Zach uses self-deprecating humor and displays his insecurities as part of who he is, Eugene buries them and pretends they don't exist. And both are talented, despite what we see about Eugene being the most talented. Their insecurities come from different places, but it's still strangely similar. But they're both perfectionists, they're both lacking confidence (which they display in different ways), they're both worrywarts. Their main difference is their willingness to talk about such things. Anyone agree?
Domi Kat I agree
Domi Kat
agreed. i actually have a perspective that people who are not open about their feelings, look "hard" on the outside, are actually the most vulnerable ones. they don't share their feelings as they are scared of being seen by others as weak. this is also coming from personal experience really. i used to be like eugene, looking hard on the outside, not liking actions of affections, like hugging. but then i started becoming more open about my feelings, and i do see the changes. i now love hugs. and my personality has became more like zach. the difference only being that i felt better than before (when i was eugene) because i didn't have to act like i'm strong and nothing can hurt me
I absolutely agree
I agree but of course eugene is the best...hes asian
i cried during Zach’s speech, i relate so much
[Zach’s speech 2:42 - 3:53]💔
My biggest insecurity is my mediocrity. I can play basketball, play volleyball, play the guitar, play the piano, got good scores in school, know stuff about computer, can dance, and some other stuff but that's it. I can do them but never was good at it. In all the fields i join, people see a lot of potential in me but somehow i just am mediocre. Got into basketball varsity team but benched. Got good scores in school but was never in the top 10. There were even times girls chased me but i could never last in a relationship for more than 2 months. I just want to have a field where i am actually good at and can proudly say i did that.
Can't relate I'm bad at everything...not even average
Hey, this is an old comment but if you still feel that way. Maybe you could try focusing on a few things rather than many. If you have so many things in your life it'll be hard to master one. So set your priorities and drop some stuff, it'll help, trust me. And once you're for example good enough at dancing you could try focusing on another thing. You shouldn't half ass many things that way you'll always be mediocre because you have a lot of motivation and talents but you seem to do too much. I felt the same way for many years until I decided to focus on singing for an entire year and now I can at least say that I'm a good singer and now I can focus on my grades :)
@Bug Patrol pretty sure that phrase ends in 'but better than being a master of one'
Hey, buddy. I feel the same way
Damn I relate to that heavy.
Tbh, I can relate to Zach the most. I'm really self consious and I dont do sports. I also am not really popular and I am a bit nerdy.
same
Omg aka me
You're not alone :o)
That describes me.
Same, Zach is my favorite try guy because I see myself in him.. But I like him, so that makes me feel better about myself. If that makes any sense :D
I cried when Zach's thing came up! He's awesome! Nothing any of these guys do is bad. They're the best
Alexander Hamilton HAMILTON!!!
Alexander Hamilton HAMILTON IS LIFE
Alexander Hamilton what's your name man?
Alexander Hamilton. My name is Alexander Hamilton.
Sonali Aheer there's a million things I haven't done.
Rewatching in 2021 and noticed that even how Eugene is sitting with perfect posture, rigid and defensive while the other try guys are relaxed and slouching is so telling. He’s come so far.
4:21 nominating this for the most poorly aged try guys moment
Congratulations, you are awarded the "First Comment Post Ned Fulmer's downfall" trophy. May this award treat you well.
Hey! Are you here to be messy too?
I see Zach's masculinity but he's also a big sweetheart. How unfortunate we live in a society where some think those two traits can't live harmoniously within a man.
Hearing Zach's story made me think back to when I felt unsure about myself as a man. I, too, hated not being strong enough or athletic enough. I also envied men and women who were. What made me decide to train again? When others threatened me with violence after a mistake or two. Long story.
I learned that gentleness was my strength. That particular strength flourished when I became a healer. One must never allow society to decide what is strength for you.
Wish that I had as much solidarity as you. Right now, though, I try to get back into training every now and then. I still believe that might makes right.
I have nothing against might for we all need to protect ourselves. My greatest faith is might in the divine and not just human aggression.
I can understand that, too. Believing in a higher power and believing that said higher power can guide us to live better lives do help humanity.
Of course men don't talk about their feelings, they get abused when they do. Which is despicable by the way. People should be able to talk about things like this, without being judged, or feeling like they are weak. You aren't weak, not one bit. Talking about things can really help.
i think that is true but men also just genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses. bullying is part of it and it is horrid when it happens but its not compleatly because of that. Men just naturally dont like tslking about their feelings, not all men but most anyway
+MsAquamonkey bottom line, men just have to find friends who aren't living in an animalistic perception of alpha and beta males. Which is actually not always easy.
So true. :( I know as a female, I dislike being judged by other females for being comfortable in my own skin. But just the same, my husband grew up with a lot of judgement from other guys (inc. brothers) for being soft. It took him half of his life to lockup his emotions, and the other half of his life for me to unlock them. It's been one hell of a bumpy ride but its been worth it. Obviously, that doesn't mean he doesn't take some hits without a peep like a "man", but at least he isn't a rock. If you can, whether its a friend or lover, please teach/allow them to confide in you. Be that good friend/partner/person. :)
+MsAquamonkey I have to disagree with that. Guys don't get "abused". They just don't want to. I am aware that it is (mostly) caused by others then thinking about them differently, but I say that it is their responsibility to find someone that they can talk to. Therapists are there for a reason, too.
+Joey batman "genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses" There's no genes which would cause this. It's all about gender roles introduced to you from early ages like 4 upwards.
“role model to these guys in relationships” didn’t age well
Oh my...that was a painful moment to hear. 4:21...
the try guys are the best thing about buzzfeed!
Get outta here, spammer
+touchdalight right after Gaby and Allison :)
+touchdalight your videos are hilarious bro :D
+touchdalight stfu ur advertising ur channel, i went to ur channel one time, didn't like ur videos, good.
+touchdalight Ignore the haters!! Your videos are the best😂💗💗💗💗
dude, the therapist looks like keith
Omg!!!
I KNOW! She reminded me of Keith, dressed up as Katy perry in that one video.
CANT UNSEE
I just cried laughing 😂😂😂 its so true I van never unsee it
*can
I’d love for them to revisit this. Especially now.
It would be a mess if Ned shows up as well
Watch their body language you can see how vulnerable they all feel. When you cover your private parts like they do or cross your arms over your stomach, its like you're trying to protect your vital parts. Watch the video with that in mind
I relate to Zach a ton. I'm very insecure and even though i do play sports, I'm not popular. I'm not funny or interesting and I'm always stressed about my flaws.
donutsarelove me too. i hate my life
donutsarelove it's okay Jin. I believe in you.
I feel the same, bro
donutsarelove Well don't be so hard on yourself,everyone has their flaws as well so your not alone.I think what will help you is to find a positive thing about yourself,everyone is not made to be "perfect" but when everyone tells you that your nothing Jesus is telling you that your something.those negative thoughts that is cluttering in your mind is not helping you but stressing you.You are special in God's eyes but you just need to find what you like about yourself(Drawing,best video game player etc,funny etc)
Same
Even though Eugune said he didn't want a group hug, noticed that he actually willingly walked towards their open arms with his arms crossed. I see smthg~ 😄😄😄
Pink Sparker if you look closely, Keith did kinda drag him over. His left hand is on Eugene and his arm was probably pulling him toward them.
JaDe1207 DONT RUIN IT. plusss he took a few steps on his own ~.~
I saw thatt too he's so cute
He probably just accepted his fate
He does care about the guys he doesn't like to admit it tho
All my friends who’ve had therapy have told me that therapy sucks and I should never do it, but here I am, 7 months into therapy and I actually really enjoy it 😊
Twilit_Sheik agreed, I really liked my therapist. She was great!
I loved therapy. It helps a lot
Therapy is different for everyone. You have to be willing to change and notice there’s a problem. If not it will be missable because your in denial of the problem at hand. Sorry I’m a Social Worker 😂
i know the original comment is 3 years old but i hope everyone is still doing amazingly
Ned’s out here exposing people
ZACH IS MY CINNAMON ROLL I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HES AMAZING SO BADLY
5555
+lazypuffle horan
With all those caps I'm sure he'll notice you.
chill
+lazypuffle horan HE IS! He has a special spice in him that he doesn't know ! Zach your awesome omg:)
Zach is my boo! I want to give him a biggg hug so bad😭
Im so proud the try guys are in this years youtube rewind!!!
i noticed them like immediately but had to watch it again just to make sure
+Rena Unschwer Where?!
+Jazz Taylor with Rebecca Black xD
They where???
Zeebins jup
Eugene is now a lot happier after coming out.. You can really sense it how much open he's become.. Before he used to be so closed.
Turns out he doesn't need to earn anyone's approval. Just being himself is enough.
POV: it’s 6 years later.
Zack has really grown more confident and it’s inspiring af
You know *"Mental Health Awareness Week"* is the best when even *"The Try Guys"* get involved :)
Agreed!!!!! They're the best!
Eleanore Bliss Glad you agree Eleanore! :)
+Graphic Design Guy hi graphic design guy👋🏼
Oliviaxx Hi Olivia! :)
the graphic design is my favorite kind of guy
I think I wanna be a therapist when I grow up...it has always interested me
Go for it!
yea me to, i wanna be that person
Dakota Davis i do too, i told my friends and they said that if i wanted to be on i have to be careful bc sometimes their problems can effect yourself badly and some therapists go into depression and stuff
ashpluswifi yea I guess you have to be a strong person and take good care of yourself. But that doesn't stop me
Good for you! Go for it
ok but can we have a moment to notice how sweet eugene was to the pug he was holding? loll it seems like the pug is his baby 😆
Where?
He does like dogs more than any other small form of life
I feel so bad for Zach. He felt like he want cool or good enough if he didn't do sports which I get it. I do the same thing I see the same thing and I think the same thing. But Zach is such a sweet heart and shouldn't feel like he needs to be cool or good at something. But I relate to him a lot I am a very shy and quiet person and now that im in a new school I feel like I need to be prefect I need to be smart and I need to be athletic and I know people might say of you can just make friends but I haven't and its been weeks basically a year but I relate because I feel mostly likely I need to be cool. And I've tried many hobbies but it just want fit for me.
Yall this might be my new life in my new school..
Me too.. I'm still struggling at those things... I want to try something to be good at but always think I messed it up
it's so strange to see zach say these things. he is honestly the best one in the group. he's the funniest and the cutest and everything. and i'm not saying that because i feel bad for him. i am not a nice person believe me. i'm very honest. and zach makes the group what it is.
I don't think there's a best one in the group. The group wouldn't be what it is without any of them.
+Aliaa Bz I think zak and ned are easily replaceable.
+Namaka Lis I saw the other heartfelt comments, and your reply just made me feel some type of way.
***** Like the original commenter, I'm neither being nice nor mean, simply honest.
+Aliaa Bz i disagree i don't think there is one standout person, they all have equal weight in the group
Zach why you make me sad
Eugene you too
ida q idk
I honestly think in this day and age, having zero toxic masculinity is sooo much more attractive than the biggest muscles ever.
Eugene may be physically more good looking but Zach's openness and willingness to simply accept and announce his truth as it is very attractive. Like someone said. It takes a strong man to take about their feelings.
Looks reeally aren't everything.
Greetings. I see validity in your point, but I'd like to add that because we humans are physical and primal creatures, looks and physical strength still do matter. I've learned from classmates and total strangers that a person is valued when being physical, hence one of the reasons why I train and work out two to three times a week. That being said, I also learned that being sensitive and conscious about one's hardships and others' hardships also matter. Strong people talk about their feelings and try to help others with their feelings, but physical prowess will still be needed. In other words, strong folks deadlift while also uplifting others. That kind of balance I can welcome. Make of that what you will.
@Space Spectre What about those who still believe that being physical can be good therapy? I try to live by that by lifting weights two to three times a week.
@Space Spectre I believe that Zach would agree, too, knowing that he goes through physical therapy for his ankylosing spondylitis. I, personally, train for superficial reasons. Long story.
I can relate to both Eugene and Zach because I'm rather not completly shy but I have those walls and I hate showing people my Emotions and sometimes, I don't ask for help either because I grew up with a twin sister that has many talents especially in school and learning she's super smart and well, you look at our picture the one is this smart girl who can do anything and besides her is her sidekick twin who's only Talent is drawing. So I mostly don't go look for help because it's my instinct to Prove that I am able to do something like my sister. At the same time I shut people out, I trust no one it's what my mind is used to doing so I can Kind of relate to both
Saphire Anabeth hey I'm a twin too!! We all have our own strengths and weaknesses, and you should know that your talent in art is no less valuable than your sister's talents in another areas!! When we were in highschool my sister was good at math, art and music and I was good at English, history, and we were both good at science!! Try not to compare yourself to your sister in a negative way like this, you don't have to be good at the same things, rather think of your individual strengths and weaknesses as the ways you can both compliment each other!! I know that in our adult life, my sister and I have work great as a team precisely because we have different talents from each other; together we have a broader range of skills than we would if we both were only good at the same things!! Have pride in what makes you an individual!!
My question is is that when you make an appointment with a therapist, aren't you then on their agenda?
I'm sure this was meant to be funny (which it was), but just in case it was a serious joke, she means more like an "emotional agenda", where that person actually has a part in your life, and therefore has an opinion that could potentially be changed. A therapist is neutral in that sense. They're not there to judge, or to have an opinion of you, but rather to help you reflect on yourself
Daphne Wilson I don't think it was honestly. She was being serious about talking to a parent or a friend and where you are on their agenda.
+Braden Kemmerer Uh, I'm gonna have to agree with Daphne on this one, I get the literal aspect of it, but she was talking about the emotional aspect. Like Daphne said, a therapist is a pretty much unbiased and neutral professional who you can talk to, whereas your parents or friends are biased and tend to sway you one way or the other without helping sometimes. The agenda refers to the ideas that individual has set in place that they then encourage you towards, like your mom wanting to be a good parent and to see you being happy may be highly encouraging whereas a therapist may find a piece that you can work on. That's, all. Correct me if im wrong! I always want to learn
+E Argoff 😐. I don't think she was. Why would she home DURING the therapy session. She did say at the beginning "When you're in a room with me, therapy is always happening."
+Braden Kemmerer Ah, I see how you're thinking about this! While at therapy, anything a therapist says to you is considered treatment many times because it's all for the patient. If you were to express concerns about yourself or someone else, the therapist's reaction is always supposed to begin the help/healing process for the situation. When you enter a professional setting (so to speak) with a therapist, everything they say to you is supposed to help you or at least provide answers to you in some way, even if it doesnt seem applicable. Again, correct me if im wrong! Have a nice day Braden.
I just love the fact that even though Eugene says he despites group hugs, you can clearly see him going towards the rest of the guys. Thats adorable.
He loves them really haha
Mia Hansen ikr
I like how he doesn't enjoy group hugs, but he totally made out with Ned and practically ate his face.
I don't get people who dismiss therapy, it can be very useful for people to talk to a neutral party and discover more about themselves. It's such a shame that more people don't seek or can't get access to professional help when they need it.
Also a shame that people tend to think less of others who are in therapy. They believe that those who are in therapy are lost causes or potential psychopaths. Cases vary, so that may or may not be true. As someone who's still conscious of what others think of me, I try not to ask for therapy. For the most part, I've been sane and morally sound. Lifting weights also helped, I might add. Long story.
Hi! I completely agree with you, but coming from a background where I was raised to believe therapy is shameful, lemme try to give perspective.
I’m a first generation Chinese American. My parents always told me to be self reliant, strong, and to not be affected by emotion. Any time I tried to open up to my parents was met by “get over it” or what I could do to improve or “confront the situation” instead of facing any emotional turmoil. I love my parents, but the strict, emotionless way I was raised taught me to never reach out for emotional help; that would only make me and my parents think I’m a coward and weak. As such, even when I probably needed it, I’ve never reached out for professional help.
I don’t blame them though. From where they came from, emotional weakness was the difference between life and death.
Beverly Yu im so sorry :(( even so, your parents ultimately do love you and will do their best to help.
Beverly Yu hey! i know this is old but there are apps now that have therapists that you can talk to over texts!! so i know you can’t see one irl but do some research for different apps!
Sometimes we don't want to do therapy, because it's feels like accepting that we have the problems we tried to say didn't exist. At least that's my experience.
Eugene represents the Asian family culture.. and I appreciate how well he expressed his tension while talking about his inner self...
my precious little baby zach,
Naomi Garcia well my name is Zach
well this got awkward
Naomi Garc zach is not ur baby
Naomi Garcia Um, calm down there lol
I'm sorry but I'm crying because of Zach 💔 I feel the same way except I'm a girl and I really don't feel feminine enough
smiley face You don't need to be feminine to be wonderful 😊
Ailis McCleary ❤ thank you
Aw honey, I just found your comment. Femininity is just an adjective. Some people are feminine and some aren't and there's nothing wrong with that at all. My mom is one of the least feminine people I know but you know what, she's shown me more love and strength in my lifetime than I could have ever asked for. She's just like you though because she often feels out of place, especially with other women. But none of that has ever stopped her from being her amazing self and I know you can absolutely do the same. You're you, and you're amazing exactly the way you are❤️❤️❤️
Lucille Goodge thank you so much I really needed to hear that ❤
smiley face you're so welcome, my dear❤️
Eugene is so adorable. He is lucky to have those guys as friends.
I would love to see them make a re-vamped group therapy session to see how much they have grown.
I feel like the therapist looks like keith disguised as a woman
😂😂😂😂😑😑😑😑😑
WTF HAHAHHAA
OMG YES
Way to kill the moment, dude. XD
I can't unsee this now 😂😂😂
I want to give Zach the biggest hug ever
Omg yessss 😥
I know right. I probably have the lowest confidence out of anyone I know
Same here. It's just so touching 😭😭 he looks so sad in the video
Same,i almost start cry
I’m sorry but i have to say, i feel
Like they are kinda like the Sanders Sides, if you get my reference.
Eugene is Virgil because of his independence and the fact that he isn’t really open to anyone about his feelings
Zach is Patton because he IS really open about his feelings, is such a fuzzball and he loves hugs
Ned is Logan because he did say he would overwork himself sometimes, which is exactly what Logan does.
Keith is Roman because, well, Beautiful Keith, and is good with words and they both have egos and the sense that they aren’t good enough, which is why they continuously compliment themselves. They are also very good at performing and love acting and whatnot.
If i offended anyone with my rambling, i’m sorry
Shadow Monster In Your Closet YES
I think you're spot on!
90% of the therapy: try guys helping eachother and finding out new things
the other 10%: "DiD YOu kNoW THat aBouT hiM?
My problem is I notice the way people act way too much and I can't help it. Because of that I get so lost in how everybody acts and how different they are as people I don't know who I am. I can't even be myself because I'm so anxious of what people think of me so I make up a hundred scenarios of how I should have acted and it literally just stresses my brain out all the time. Even now.
I'm going through the same. I've friended you on google, if you want to, we should talk about this!
Me too!! I thought I was the only one
OrangeBlossemBossil I added you as well!
I happen to feel the exact same way that you do. You're not alone on this one 💪🏼
+Anna H. L. I don't really use google plus, Twitter?
NED HAS A WIFE??? He never talks about her.
Watch every video. He cant stop talking about her wifr
+Anna Maria i was being sarcastic..
😂
Don't worry, it's not your fault some people can't speak sarcasm.
+Joey Coveyduck yeah. it's a rare language that only few are blessed with
the women looks like a female version of keith and that is confusing
ItzPanny kay I was actually thinking she looks like a Kieth too lmao
Ned: "Me and my wife are thinking of having a babbbbbyyyy"
Me: Nothing makes me happier knowing Wes is now a real baby and not just a dream.
We love you Ned and Ariel and Wes Xx
And now they’ll be having baby #2 soon!
@@TM.BECK14 after they had finn
@@sonalimajumdar4533 not sure I understand your response
@@TM.BECK14 baby number 2 Finn is born
I have the same problem as Eugene! I just cover it up with being overly happy so I don't have to be confused about the other things.
same, honestly.
That's me too and then people call me abnormal and weird.
* virtual hug*
Jalissa Jal I get you. I'm like that too. I just cover up my feelings with a smile.
Same
what if u shut people out on instinct
I think I am Eugene.....XD
It takes time but if you want, you can work at it. :)
Dunno. I have a hard time trusting people. I just need to find an adult therapist instead of my child phycoloigist. She never really helped me :/
I do that too. I am aware I do it, but I cant stop it
tip 101 stop saying "i can't " it reinforces the negative aspect of it
We need a new video of the guys doing therapy
It think eugene secretly likes hugs because towards the end watch how he walks toward the rest of the try guys when they are trying to hug him
I'm going to cry because of Zach 😭😭😭
Rose McEwan me too! Especially because Zach is my favorite Try Guy and the one who gets the least amount of praise or attention from fans. I think Zach is very cute, talented, and funny. I really hope Zach can improve his self esteem.
I actually cried. I wish I could hug zach cause i know exactly what he´s going through.
I love him so much and I hate that he hurts. He's my favorite too and I hope he feels better about himself. He's so amazing
Rose McEwan i cried
I did!
"I-I feel something.... But I don't know what it is." Bets quote ever! XD
Gamer Girl that's me xDD
DID YOU SEE THAT
At the end, he said he didn’t want to do the group hug, but he still kind of walked into the hug, despite saying he didn’t want to be hugged.
I loved it but I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Eugene said he doesn't mind hugging Dr. Jenn so they all came hugging him knowing that he hates hugs 😂
my best friend is really like eugene and i get kind of upset because i love hugs and stuff. now i think i should think more about her side
outsider |-/
outsider I hate hugs and I'm a girl and I hate hugs because I'm really reserved.
im really reserved and act as if I hate hugs and any form of affection but the truth is, I'm just scared. I'm scared of people hating me when they get to know me so I don't let them, I distance myself and quite often, I would do anything for a hug, for a female friend to hug me and make me feel loved, for a male friend to hug me and make me feel safe, I just want a hug. it would be nice I think
mashed potatoes me too. i always wanted to be so clingy with my friends and hug and stuff but i just didnt know how
outsider |-/
ned needs some rn
I feel like they all have insecurities in a different way. For example, Keith’s weaknesses are different from Eugene’s. ❤️
Funny that Eugene didn't want to go to therapy but wore the exact same outfit as Dr. Jen
+Hollie Gainer OMG HAHAHAH
Hahahahaa omg, thanks for pointing that out :D
Oh my god. I had to pause the video to laugh.
Bruh... He is...