How to be an Everyday Influencer | Jeff Civillico | TEDxPurdueU

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  • @TaraLaFonGooch
    @TaraLaFonGooch 9 дней назад +3

    “Jeff the Juggler!”
    Loved your talk, Jeff! What a wonderful story and life you have led, my friend. Truly incredible and inspirational. ❤️

  • @edsaxton1797
    @edsaxton1797 Месяц назад +2

    His high school charity show sounded pretty great and easy to see the impact it's made on him now in terms of acts of service. What a great guy.

  • @shastahasta
    @shastahasta 5 дней назад +2

    It's such a special person who gives back like this. Especially when he's obviously successful enough to just be making heaps of money from his talents

  • @davidangus6502
    @davidangus6502 Месяц назад +2

    The person who had the biggest impact on Jeff's life would never have know it before he told him. That's a thought that could stay with me for years.

  • @rangatvespaldy
    @rangatvespaldy 20 дней назад +2

    I can't imagine how good of a feeling that first charity gig would have been for Jeff

  • @matveykoshelev
    @matveykoshelev 4 дня назад +1

    I can't imagine how fulfilling it would be to bring that much joy into places that are so in need of it.

  • @malavikavarada
    @malavikavarada 11 дней назад +2

    Man I love hearing stories like this, people just being so sure of what they want at a young age and going for it. It's really inspiring

  • @shimmikang
    @shimmikang Месяц назад +2

    This is why it's so important to be your true authentic self! When you're aligned with your passion and living your truth it inspires those around us in ways we don't even know

  • @yoursecretstar
    @yoursecretstar 16 дней назад +2

    The closing message about action creating ripples was a strong takeaway. It’s a good reminder that what we do matters, even if we don’t see it right away!

  • @landonwaters8318
    @landonwaters8318 9 дней назад +2

    Absolutely right, Jeff! For those of you in the comments, Jeff’s talk made the top 50 TEDx talks of 2024. Well done, sir! Your message is an idea worth spreading & worthy of such an award!

  • @IAmShootCute
    @IAmShootCute Месяц назад +3

    To think that he was just a child doing juggling shows in the kitchen of his parents home. Amazing how little moments often spark something much bigger.

  • @jordanbaslier
    @jordanbaslier 2 месяца назад +2

    It's really cool that he calls out how people don't want to be the hero of their own story. I've seen that a lot

  • @happybarker
    @happybarker 11 дней назад +2

    Absolutely bawling at all those happy kids faces towards the end

    • @happybarker
      @happybarker 11 дней назад +1

      I wish I could be involved with something like that!

  • @cruznow
    @cruznow Месяц назад +3

    Jeff's honestly about his failures with four-walling is aside of show business we don't often hear about. It's easy to think "They've got a show in Las Vegas, must be rolling in it"

  • @rubyguil4622
    @rubyguil4622 Месяц назад +3

    Jeff’s story about his charity shows is such a great reminder of the power of perspective. Helping others can really change your outlook on life!

  • @leodancingsanders
    @leodancingsanders Месяц назад +3

    The fact that Peter Panic didn’t see himself as an influencer was really cool to me! Just a dude going about his life doing things for the joy of it and having that much of an impact, it's really wonderful.

  • @dino1416
    @dino1416 Месяц назад +3

    So wholesome that this is about real life influence and not just online instagram/tiktok stuff

    • @rico76
      @rico76 Месяц назад

      I know Jeff, he is the real deal. He gives back so much to his community and anywhere really that will help others in need of a smile. Just the time in puts into making the charity stuff happen is commendable, I don't know how he does it all even with the help of his charity board and volunteers.

  • @karlmarxismydad
    @karlmarxismydad 7 месяцев назад +2

    It was literally just like one second but that clip of the girl smiling while holding the spinning plate was so precious

  • @Favekillertunes
    @Favekillertunes 2 месяца назад +3

    This might be the most wholesome thing I've seen all month.

  • @therealphoebuscommunication
    @therealphoebuscommunication 5 месяцев назад +2

    The way he brought his childhood hero on stage for his last show was so dang sweet and wholesome.. Kinda makes me want to reach out to some of the people who inspired me when I was younger!

    • @milesprimrose5990
      @milesprimrose5990 5 месяцев назад

      yeah I think it shows just how genuine he is about the gratitude side of things

  • @nothx3299
    @nothx3299 13 дней назад +2

    I'm just impressed that this guy knew himself well enough to be like yup, that's what I want to do too! after he saw peter panic's show

  • @ThreadIT
    @ThreadIT 4 месяца назад +2

    his story about almost giving up hit hard. Makes me think about all the times I've wanted to throw in the towel on my own projects. It's reassuring to know that even successful people have those moments of doubt.

  • @colincampbell5068
    @colincampbell5068 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's wild how he went from being the kid picked out of the audience to headlining his own show. just goes to show you never know where life might take you. makes me excited for what could happen in my own future.

  • @rmmuskeet3831
    @rmmuskeet3831 6 месяцев назад +1

    I've always believed that laughter is the best medicine, but I never really thought about it in the context of sick kids in hospitals. It's heartwarming to know that there are people out there dedicated to bringing smiles and joy to those who need it most.

  • @taniagill4673
    @taniagill4673 5 месяцев назад +2

    The part about his grandma being his first audience was so relatable. Reminds me of when I used to put on little shows for my family as a kid. It's cool to see how those small moments of encouragement can lead to something big

    • @StirGlassHour
      @StirGlassHour 4 месяца назад

      absolutely and just generally so sweet. My grandma was my first cheerleader too

  • @ermacohen
    @ermacohen 3 месяца назад +2

    His story of doing charity shows reminded me of a time I joined a local group to perform at senior centers. It wasn’t fancy, but the reactions we got made it all worth it. It really makes you see the value in using your skills for good.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @ermacohen YES! I love hearing this! It's all about the reactions ❤

  • @miamay626
    @miamay626 Месяц назад +2

    How fantastic is this man!!! Even his non profit aligns with his higher purpose. Using his skills and recruiting others to bring smiles to kids in hospitals is such a meaningful way to give back.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico Месяц назад

      @miamay626 aww, thank you! That's very sweet of you to say! I've had a LOT of support over the years from family and friends. I have not done any of this alone! Even discerning my true passions came from countless hours of talking openly and honestly with supportive friends and family. I am very grateful for this support!

  • @CouchSurferWorldsBest
    @CouchSurferWorldsBest 4 месяца назад +2

    Wasn't expecting to get emotional over a juggler's life story... but that hospital story really got to me. It's amazing how a simple act of kindness can have such a huge impact. Makes me want to do more to help others, even in small ways.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @CouchSurferWorldsBest thank you for watching! I love that you're applying my talk to your own life and then determining actions you can take from it :) That was my hope!

  • @TheRealJay-Jay
    @TheRealJay-Jay 3 месяца назад +2

    love how he keeps it real about the struggles. too many success stories skip over the hard parts and just make us "normal people" feel like we're less-than

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @TheRealJay-Jay 👊 Gotta keep it real! I still struggle on a regular basis with a lot of these issues- cash flow, good days/bad days, making the wrong decision about one thing or the other. You just have to keep going and adjust along the way...

  • @georgenotbest
    @georgenotbest 2 месяца назад +2

    I like the thought of us having more influence than we realize... that simple moments or gestures can really impact a persons whole life.. it's kind of really beautiful to think about

  • @gazioktay441
    @gazioktay441 5 месяцев назад +2

    the way he talks about hospital visits really puts things in perspective. Here I am stressing about little things, and this guy's out there trying to make sick kids smile.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @gazioktay441 I love the expression, "when you feel helpless, get helpful" - It's so true! I've lived it...

  • @moneymaker324
    @moneymaker324 6 месяцев назад +2

    The story about the grandfather in the hospital and how much his visit meant to them really got to me. It's crazy how a small gesture can have such a huge impact on someone's life.

  • @Chat-Vibe
    @Chat-Vibe 22 дня назад +2

    I think the best way to be a positive influence is to be exactly who you are. Authenticity does something really amazing both neurologically and externally. People are drawn to those who are living in a way that resonates with how that person wants to live

  • @deepfocus1540
    @deepfocus1540 7 месяцев назад +2

    I totally love the idea of being an "everyday influencer." It's so cool to realize that we all can make a positive impact, no matter how big or small.

    • @arnafieldsteen
      @arnafieldsteen 7 месяцев назад

      yeah absolutely, like I doubt Peter Panic realized how "influential" he was being as a kids performer but the way he inspired Jeff and everything that has led to has made a huge impact. It's really cool to think about

  • @gizmeaux
    @gizmeaux Месяц назад +2

    Wish I had Jeff's boldness to just follow a dream. Maybe it's something that's only possible when you're young and don't have anyone relying on you. How quickly that window closes.

  • @hamgifford
    @hamgifford 3 месяца назад +2

    The way he turned his struggles into something positive is inspiring. A lot of people just let it consume them

  • @stanzdumas
    @stanzdumas Месяц назад +2

    I think part of why Peter Panic is so endearing is that he was so humble about it too

  • @CamouflageAngel
    @CamouflageAngel Месяц назад +3

    The fact that Jeff reached out to thank his idol and give back just shows what a great person he is. It's not often you get to thank someone who inspired you like that.

  • @westondevelopment
    @westondevelopment 3 месяца назад +2

    I’ve always admired entertainers who give back, and the way Jeff talked about how his hospital shows kept him going was really wonderful

  • @theoriginaltedtok
    @theoriginaltedtok 25 дней назад +2

    This is a nice message, I think a lot of people struggle with wanting to make a difference but also living simply in terms of minimizing harm and wanting to live quietly.

  • @Lulu-99
    @Lulu-99 Месяц назад +1

    Finding meaning in his charity work while he was struggling in his career and that's the thing that made all the difference. It's just proof that it's all bigger than just us.

  • @sophiawalters6908
    @sophiawalters6908 5 месяцев назад +2

    the concept of everyday influencers is really making me rethink my daily interactions. never know when you might be someone's "peter panic" moment. kinda puts things in perspective.

    • @Blue-Thrill-Bonzo
      @Blue-Thrill-Bonzo 5 месяцев назад

      so true, makes me want to be a better person in everything that I do

  • @milesprimrose5990
    @milesprimrose5990 5 месяцев назад +2

    His point about intention vs. action is spot on. Gotta stop just thinking about making a difference and actually do something.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @milesprimrose5990 100%! I will say, in my experience at least, it gets easier. You eventually develop what I refer to as a "bias for action" when taking action actually becomes your default way of operating.

  • @why-why-why-why1
    @why-why-why-why1 4 месяца назад +2

    Oh man the way I teared up about the kid in hospital coming to his show. Such a beautiful story, tbank you

  • @pleaseinspiremetoday
    @pleaseinspiremetoday 4 месяца назад +2

    That hospital visit story had me choking up. Made me remember when I was in the hospital as a kid, and how much little things meant to me. Maybe I should look into volunteering or something.

  • @TheSoundOffNow
    @TheSoundOffNow 3 месяца назад +2

    This was super motivational! I love how Jeff’s story shows that no dream is too big, but also that you have to be willing to put in the work and handle the setbacks along the way.

  • @thereallyreallybigpicture
    @thereallyreallybigpicture 4 месяца назад +3

    I'm blown away by his persistence. Sleeping in his dressing room? Maxing out credit cards? That's some serious dedication to the dream.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад +1

      @thereallyreallybigpicture thank you! That's what it takes sometimes to power through 💪 Just want to keep it real!

    • @thereallyreallybigpicture
      @thereallyreallybigpicture 4 месяца назад

      @@jeff_civillico we appreciate the authenticity!

  • @1henrythomas
    @1henrythomas 7 месяцев назад +2

    The reminder to focus on what we CAN do rather than what we can't is so powerful. It's easy to get bogged down by limitations, but we all have the ability to make a difference in our own unique way.

    • @arnafieldsteen
      @arnafieldsteen 7 месяцев назад

      wow that's such a great point, somehow I missed that part

  • @slowmodern
    @slowmodern 5 месяцев назад +3

    his take on being an "everyday influencer" is pretty powerful. never thought of myself as having much influence, but maybe we all do in our own way. kinda makes you wanna step up and be a better person.

    • @milesprimrose5990
      @milesprimrose5990 5 месяцев назад

      Definitely, and I think we all do, most of the time without realizing it

    • @StirGlassHour
      @StirGlassHour 4 месяца назад

      It's a much more wholesome and helpful kind of influencer than what we're used to seeing

  • @wuyattakeita3883
    @wuyattakeita3883 2 дня назад +2

    We should all try to be the kinds of people who can see the value and impact in what other people do ❤

  • @graciasandlove
    @graciasandlove 7 месяцев назад +2

    I'm loving how he talked about how we all have the power to make a difference in people's lives, even if it seems small. It's a good reminder to be mindful of how we interact with others.

    • @westhalbrook2472
      @westhalbrook2472 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, he has a great message and takes it to some fantastic places

    • @FortunateFollows
      @FortunateFollows 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes! Same I also really resonated with that part of his message

    • @arnafieldsteen
      @arnafieldsteen 7 месяцев назад

      Fully! That's what struck me the most, how we might be influencing people without even knowing it

  • @UncleUnivers
    @UncleUnivers Месяц назад +2

    It's all about finding our purpose. Nothing more powerful or "influential" than someone living their passion

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico Месяц назад

      @UncleUnivers I agree! I think people sometimes get "stuck" when they don't immediately have something in their life that they consider to be a passion, instead of continuing to take action and move in the direction of what they are good at + what they enjoy doing. In my life, for example, as a kid I was passionate about juggling, but that passion over the years has evolved into a life I never could have imagined when I was 22 years old doing juggling shows. But I kept pulling on the thread...

    • @UncleUnivers
      @UncleUnivers Месяц назад

      @@jeff_civillico truth, thnx

  • @stephZandrews
    @stephZandrews 16 дней назад +3

    This is so wholesome, all around 10/10 tedx talk

  • @KuiperSplit
    @KuiperSplit 2 месяца назад +2

    Loving his positivity and ability to turn setbacks into opportunities! Really speaks to how we can see failure as a stepping if we're willing to keep pushing forward

  • @thequinnquinn
    @thequinnquinn 4 месяца назад +2

    The Peter Panic story is wild. It's like a real-life "pay it forward" situation. Makes me wonder about all the people who've had an impact on my life without even knowing it.

  • @genesis4real
    @genesis4real Месяц назад +2

    There is so much goodness in this talk! What a journey and what a beautiful place to have arrived at

  • @VodkaByNight
    @VodkaByNight 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love how he seems just as excited and impressed by his tricks as someone in the audience would

  • @realminipowers
    @realminipowers 4 месяца назад +2

    I never really thought about how much a random street performer could change someone's life. It's wild to think about all those little moments that might've shaped who I am today.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @realminipowers right?? It's totally wild! I invite you to start noting those little moments when they happen. Write them down if you can! I believe that being more mindful of these little moments of others' influence on you will make you realize how powerful YOU can be as an agent of positive change... someone who can influence others with YOUR OWN MOMENTS of influence too ❤

  • @therealjuanschmidt
    @therealjuanschmidt 7 месяцев назад +2

    Man I love how much he included Peter Panic in all this, from the initial phone call to having him in his show... it's obvious that Jeff was not only impacted by him but is also grateful for him and that's a really awesome thing to acknowledge

    • @lamarjacobs
      @lamarjacobs 7 месяцев назад

      Fully, shows how humble he's stayed in all of this

    • @StirGlassHour
      @StirGlassHour 4 месяца назад

      yeah the gratitude and acknowledgement are really cool to see

  • @sashapetrovic1678
    @sashapetrovic1678 5 месяцев назад +2

    man, the story about tyler and his grandpa hit me right in the feels. it's amazing how a small act of kindness can have such a huge impact. definitely gonna try to spread more positivity from now on.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 5 месяцев назад

      @sashapetrovic1678 It’s incredible how a small act of kindness can make such a big difference. Definitely inspired to spread more positivity as well! 🌟

  • @hasnain-jeelani
    @hasnain-jeelani 7 месяцев назад +2

    That story about the boy in the hospital and his grandpa had me emotional. So heartwarming that exchanges like this are still able to happen

    • @westhalbrook2472
      @westhalbrook2472 7 месяцев назад

      It's a really beautiful part of his journey

  • @tetrusexpert
    @tetrusexpert 3 месяца назад +2

    I actually volunteered at a children's hospital once, and I remember how the smallest interactions could brighten their whole day. It’s incredible that he’s doing this on a larger scale

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @tetrusexpert thank you! I'm so glad you've had experience volunteering in children's hospitals. I know you understand how powerful it is. It's amazing what this can do for your mindset, perspective, gratitude, courage, etc.

  • @artcornish3520
    @artcornish3520 2 месяца назад +2

    We don't always get to hear about the struggles of people who chase their dreams. Amazing journey!

  • @georgemanu
    @georgemanu Месяц назад +2

    Perfectly balanced story. I like how he used humor to talk about his struggles. Kept it light, but you could still feel the weight of what he went through.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico Месяц назад

      @georgemanu thank you! I appreciate you noticing and appreciating the ebbs and flows of the talk! It was challenging cause I'm such a high-energy goofball 😂 I still had to "be me," but there are definitely some emotionally charged parts of this story.

  • @alisonjanicewhite
    @alisonjanicewhite 6 месяцев назад +1

    The story about the little boy in the hospital brought tears to my eyes. It's a beautiful reminder of the profound impact a small act of kindness can have on someone going through a tough time.

  • @bjsddc
    @bjsddc 5 месяцев назад +2

    He made me wonder who I've impacted and appreciate those who have impacted me.

  • @felicityhalette
    @felicityhalette 6 месяцев назад +2

    The part about his nonprofit work bringing smiles to hospitalized kids warmed my heart. Not everyone uses their success for stuff like that so it's so special when you get to see it

  • @davinachilds
    @davinachilds 8 месяцев назад +2

    I think it's really cool that all of this came from a random run-in with a street performer but I daresay, judging from Jeff's energy and bravado, that was always his path. He's just lucky to have been shown it so early on.

  • @azureopal
    @azureopal 7 месяцев назад +2

    The videos at the 14:00 mark had me in tears straight up that is something so special

  • @orlaithhill
    @orlaithhill 2 месяца назад +2

    Tears in my eyes when "My grandson wasn't eating when you came to see him"

  • @thisistheperfectstate
    @thisistheperfectstate 6 месяцев назад +5

    Hearing about his ups and downs made his success even more impressive. It’s the true definition of hard work paying off.

  • @blockchainbobisbroke
    @blockchainbobisbroke 7 месяцев назад +2

    It's wild to think about how a random encounter with a street performer could completely alter the trajectory of someone's life. It really makes you appreciate the power of seizing opportunities when they come your way.

  • @therealmariorossi
    @therealmariorossi 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hearing about his childhood dream of performing in Vegas coming true through hard work and determination is so motivating. It's a great reminder to never give up on my own dreams.

  • @farahjuniper9214
    @farahjuniper9214 4 месяца назад +2

    I love that this wasn't about like social media influencing. Means so much more when you're making an impact with someone face to face

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @farahjuniper9214 YES! I could not agree more about the power of face-to-tace, in-person influencing! I think it's so cool to think about the fact that Peter had all of this influence before the internet, before social media, before cell phones even. It's a great reminder that we can use these tools to amplify our influence, but it doesn't start there.

  • @robyncrosby666
    @robyncrosby666 4 месяца назад +2

    I love the subtleties of this talk, like he's not telling you exactly what to do or how to do it but he is leading by example, and that's really wholesome

  • @jeffchapski6501
    @jeffchapski6501 7 месяцев назад +2

    The only thing bigger than your talent and your smile is the size of your heart! Keep sharing all of that with the world.

  • @earlyeaston
    @earlyeaston 6 месяцев назад +2

    man, I can't imagine how surreal it must've been for him to actually have peter panic on stage with him after all those years! that's the kinda stuff you dream about as a kid but never think will actually happen, ya know?

    • @hudsonhalloway
      @hudsonhalloway 6 месяцев назад +1

      definitely would have been a dream come true

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @earlyeaston - thanks for watching, and sharing! Reconnecting with Peter was one of the highlights of my life for sure. I'm grateful that we are still friends :)

  • @jessTcarter
    @jessTcarter 6 месяцев назад +2

    I didn’t realize how tough the entertainment industry could be until hearing his story. Much more respect for performers now.

  • @darkclouds3320
    @darkclouds3320 3 месяца назад +2

    This is why I became a teacher! I was lucky enough to have some really awesome ones growing up and I just always wanted to be that for other people too

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @darkclouds3320 that's awesome! I love hearing this. It sounds like you are really making your teachers proud :)

  • @KeithConrad-p1y
    @KeithConrad-p1y 8 месяцев назад +2

    Jeff’s passion for his craft is an inspiration and example of why following your dreams is what life is all about.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you @user-tl9jn9hb8t! Your words mean the world to me! Pursuing your dreams is an incredible adventure, and it's definitely worth it. Keep following your passions, and remember that the journey is as important as the destination. Let's continue to inspire each other! 🙌

  • @CaseReynolds
    @CaseReynolds 8 месяцев назад +2

    I'm blown away by his hustle and determination, even when he was struggling with money and setbacks, to have been so steadfast on his path is really admirable.

  • @oilverdennison
    @oilverdennison 4 месяца назад +1

    Going from kitchen shows to performing in Vegas is so cool! Talk about following your passion! It's inspiring to see someone turn their childhood dream into a reality. Makes me wonder what I could achieve if I really committed to something I love.

  • @boogerrhymes
    @boogerrhymes 6 месяцев назад +4

    This dude's energy is off the charts! Loved how he turned his childhood dream into reality.

    • @hudsonhalloway
      @hudsonhalloway 6 месяцев назад +2

      yeah and still stayed humble enough to want to give back to the community, really cool stuff

    • @Blue-Thrill-Bonzo
      @Blue-Thrill-Bonzo 5 месяцев назад +1

      he definitely has a lot of energy lol

    • @milesprimrose5990
      @milesprimrose5990 5 месяцев назад +3

      your display picture is off the charts lol

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @boogerrhymes thank you 😊

    • @StirGlassHour
      @StirGlassHour 4 месяца назад

      @@milesprimrose5990 yeah wth is going on in it lol

  • @NoahForSure
    @NoahForSure 2 месяца назад +2

    My kid had to spend a week in hospital and it was so hard on all of us. I wish someone like Jeff had of been there to lift his spirits! I'm sure the parents of all those kids who do get visits are eternally grateful.

  • @lanceabbott1994
    @lanceabbott1994 Месяц назад +1

    This dude should be a salesman. Handing out those flyers with that hustle and persistence, he'd freakin crush it!

    • @thephilosopher59
      @thephilosopher59 Месяц назад

      I'm pretty sure he's already crushing sales in many different ways, no flyers required!

  • @abbeylordes7918
    @abbeylordes7918 7 месяцев назад +2

    I really liked his vulnerability in sharing his struggles and doubts along the way. It makes his success feel that much more earned and meaningful.

    • @iambabypink
      @iambabypink 7 месяцев назад

      for sure and super relatable

  • @arnafieldsteen
    @arnafieldsteen 7 месяцев назад +2

    Seeing Peter Panic join him on stage for his final Vegas show after all those years brought such a smile to me face! What an incredible full-circle moment that must have been for both of them.

  • @arnoldcintron1621
    @arnoldcintron1621 3 месяца назад +2

    As a parent, this talk is a good reminder of how even small encouragements can shape our kids' futures in unexpected ways

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @arnoldcintron1621 absolutely! I am so grateful for how my parents encouraged me growing up, in big ways and small ways...

  • @AskAConcierge
    @AskAConcierge 6 месяцев назад +2

    Ahhhh this is SUCH an incredible TEDx!! SO inspired! We need to lean into being the hero in the stories of our lives... taking full ownership of the influence we have on people we interact with on a daily basis. This is the best type of influence... it's often not the big grandiose gestures that make the difference... but the intimate, everyday ones that can make "real, lasting change." :) Great work, Jeff!

  • @joshauwidten
    @joshauwidten 7 месяцев назад +2

    Listening to his journey, I'm reminded that success is rarely a straight line. There are twists and turns, ups and downs, but if we stay true to ourselves and keep pushing forward, amazing things can happen. It's the mindset I want to carry with me as I navigate my own path.

    • @arnafieldsteen
      @arnafieldsteen 6 месяцев назад

      This is such a great mindset and I tend to agree. Knowing what we want and working towards it slowly and steadily really is a winning formula.

  • @gog-gog
    @gog-gog 6 месяцев назад +2

    It's amazing how he transformed a challenging experience into an opportunity to make a difference for others

  • @thisismindfulness
    @thisismindfulness 8 месяцев назад +2

    So sweet of him to have Peter join him for his last show, you can till this guy is so humble and genuine.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you @thisismindfulness! Having Peter join me for the last show was truly special. Moments like these remind me why I do what I do. Humble and genuine all the way!

  • @IAmAnInfluenster
    @IAmAnInfluenster 3 месяца назад +2

    gotta say, i was impressed by how he handled the tough times in vegas. maxing out credit cards and barely scraping by, but still doing charity shows? that's commitment.

  • @happyriley
    @happyriley 4 месяца назад +2

    the way he talked about his parents encouraging him to do that first charity show was so sweet. It's a good reminder of how important supportive parents can be.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 4 месяца назад

      @happyriley aww thank you for noticing 🥰 Yea, my parents are the best! A lot of family members say - 'You have to do what you love' - but it's much more difficult in practice to support nontraditional journeys and career paths over many years. My parents did that for me, and they still do that for me to be honest. I am very grateful for that 🙏

  • @HeavenlyProphet
    @HeavenlyProphet 3 месяца назад +2

    His story about reconnecting with Peter Panic was so touching! Really speaks to how grateful and sentimental he is.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад

      @HeavenlyProphet thank you :) I'm a total softie haha

  • @grantcayden
    @grantcayden 2 дня назад +1

    I haven't been nearly as successful as this guy but the little success I _do_ have I owe to my family and friends, they really helped me gain momentum. I can't even imagine doing it all alone the way Jeff did out in vegas

  • @corkyamos
    @corkyamos 7 месяцев назад +2

    His message about owning our influence and taking action is so important. We all have the power to make a change.

    • @azureopal
      @azureopal 7 месяцев назад

      Definitely, even if it's just setting a good example for those around us

    • @lamarjacobs
      @lamarjacobs 7 месяцев назад

      that's it, you never know who's looking up to you

  • @BasketofDreams
    @BasketofDreams 3 месяца назад +2

    One thing I loved was how he was so open about his failures and struggles. Not a lot of people talk about the hard parts like that, and I think that creates unrealistic expectations for people trying to achieve similar things.

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 3 месяца назад +1

      @BasketofDreams I completely agree. More people need to be open and honest about their struggles. If not, people think success is supposed to come quickly and easily so they get thrown off once they face real hardships.

    • @BasketofDreams
      @BasketofDreams 3 месяца назад +1

      @@jeff_civillico Absolutely! I think there's are some very unrealistic expectations around success

  • @rosserl1
    @rosserl1 8 месяцев назад +2

    Only Jeff knows how to make you laugh and choke up in the same 20 minutes!! Thank you for your vulnerability and ability to tell a story that hits home. Two key lessons for me: 1) the reminder to not diminish your own influence!! 2) Action creates influence, intentions are great, but without action that is all they are!

    • @jeff_civillico
      @jeff_civillico 8 месяцев назад

      @rosserl1 ahhhh thank you so much! Appreciate you!!

  • @themessimadetoday
    @themessimadetoday 3 месяца назад +2

    I wish I had his energy! but his story shows it's not just natural talent - it's years of hard work and passion too. Respect!