creeps in korea | story time| GRWM
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
- broooooooooooo, why do some men think it's okay to be creepy.
Dear Creeps,
Seriously, go trip in a ditch.
Sincerely,
Everyone
I literally use 20 minutes of your life complaining about the creeps I've encountered here in Korea while I do my makeup terribly. Enjoy
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Sis if a creeper asked me “Do you have a boyfriend??” I would yes- even if I don’t 💀 like That’s terrifying
That's so fucking sad that this bitches have more respect for my non existent boyfriend than for my lack of willingness to give them my number
whenever i do that they either just say oh that’s okay we can still be friends 💀 or something like well maybe we can get to know each other/ anything insinuating i could drop “my boyfriend” 🤢🤢🤢
so it won’t matter much either way if they have their intentions set
Even if you don't, this does not entitle you to shit like fk off mate
I always say " I don't have a boyfriend, I have a girlfriend" and they live me alone lol I know is not ok but saying "yes I have a boyfriend" doesn't work anymore
And the ‘insistent’ guy, pursuing his love is romanticized in movies and dramas, especially in Korea. They really have no idea how creepy it actually is.
Lol yeah I agree
ikr!!! i’ll watch kdramas and be like “bro leave her be your creepy”
@@bread2096 ikr i'm like bro leave her alone
It doesn't only happen in kdramas. You see it in western ones, too.
@@Mari-hb5do she didn’t deny it?
That's why I bought a wedding ring to be like, I'm married bye.
ooooooh thats GENIUS😍 Imma need to take note of that😌✍️
Good idea. Imma buy a ring now
I love rings xD
Omg, I’m gonna do that
That's genius
She's telling her bad experience and the song be like 🧚♀️🌷🌈🌟
Lol, sometimes you just got add that cause otherwise i'd cry.
🤣🤣🤣🤣I swear
lmao ikr
True😅
I've tried that and it still didn't work. Smh
some tips to avoid creepy men in South Korea:
- buy a fancy ring and keep it on your ring finger if someone asks for your marriage/relationship status
- there are safe spots all over that are built for women if they feel unsafe. you can call the police or just wait until you feel safe. men that see you enter these rooms will most likely leave you alone, because predators don't like dealing with women who will fight back. (I don't recall how they look exactly, but they should be noticeable)
- if you think you're being followed, DON'T go to an isolated area, go where people are everywhere; it's harder to creep on women if they're around people who will most likely see what's going on.
- stop worrying about being nice; creeps will use your kindness to their advantage. better safe, then sorry, right?
- don't be afraid to call the police or make noise to bring attention to the situation. creeps don't like attention or trouble.
this one doesn't apply as heavily to Korea, but in places like America or Canada, yelling "fire" instead of "rape" or "help" will draw more attention.
“Oh I just wanna practice my English” took me OUT. I live in Shanghai and that practice English excuse is all too real.
😂 I'd say go find yourself a college like normal people. If I wanted to be an English teacher I'd be doing it for a living.
@@chetsi_099 Well, I do it for a living, but not for free or to give people attention.
@@abbytrapp8258 atta girl
"Practice my English." That's the excuse Tatsuya Ichihashi gave Lindsay Hawker. Search either of their names if you dont know the story.
@@kokuutou92 yes ik that tragic storyyt
the absolute audacity. I'm sorry your day was ruined, bestie. pls stay safe out there
I will💛 you too!!
That McDonald’s story is actually scary.
I hear too many stories from white women in Korea having random men assuming that they are Russian prostitutes.
What? How do people just come to that conclusion??? By just... Looking.... At a person?????
What's wrong with these people?
Why they have that assumption tough?
@@chetsi_099 sick mentality.. I guess.
Lol
@@chetsi_099 I think after WW2 quite a few Russian women did come to South Korea for prostitution, however, this doesn't happen anymore these days. The stereotype persists though.
The day creepy men act like a decent human being is the day my humanity will be restored
You and me both! Until then......
Act but not BE? I rather it if they BE decent human beings. (Their acting skills is so ugghhhhh.... You can catch them in their own lie if you pay attention well enough.)
Don't forget that there's girls who get guys drunk, lure them in and steal everything and/or try to accuse them of something bad. Good thing there's cameras and phones with receipts on them nowadays, otherwise many innocent guys would be in jail for the rest of their lives
This has happened to me and my older sister about 3 years ago when we went to korea to visit my aunt and mom. We were on our way home after going out, when all of the sudden a group of korean guys (maybe 4?) Started following us. I was very scared since I was only like 17 years old. But my older sister wasnt even bothered by the situation because she lived in korea for 10 years. About 5 minutes later they kept following us and then my sister started to get red flags. We walked faster but one of then reached to us and repeatedly kept saying "please help I lost my dog" I was very alarmed at this point but I kept calm and was like "no sorry we dont have time" he kept on insisting even though my sister clearly said "No" to him. as my sister looked behind, the other 3 guys were walking to us AT A VERY ALARMING SPEED. Thats when we knew we had to get tf out of there so so started running so fast. I dont clearly remember who started running first, me or my sister. But all I know is that, we reached home very fast because of the running lol. BUT STAY SAFE IN KOREA YALL
That is honestly so terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I was holding my breath when i was reading your story. Im so sorry.
“wHy dO mEn eXiSt eXcept FoR PrOcrEAtInG aNd HaviNG AuDaCiTy”
Yes goddess yes 👏 👏👏👏
💛🙈 but honestly, tho😂
@@piareadz you don't hate all men do you? I'm a woman asking 😂
@@nyapayton7087 she literally said in the first minute she doesn’t believe all man are trash so nope she doesn’t hate all men....
I have sons who i will raise to not prey on women. Mine exist to be the difference and i love them with all my ❤
@@youcanlearnsomethingjustli38 it’s people like you who raise their boys to be good people that I have faith in humanity. 🥺💛💛
As a Korean, I deeply apologise for your bad experience in my country, I hope you don't have any hatred towards us. Most Koreans are genuinely respectful. Thank you for your honesty. I love my country 🇰🇷
Oh my gosh, no hate at all!! If anything I’ve been treated so nicely by the Korean people here. Korea is such a beautiful country and I’m very thankful to have had the opportunity to live and experience the Korean culture. I’ve just had a few bad run ins with the other foreigners here. 💛🌻
@@piareadz Oh I understand ^^
좋은 하루 보내세요♡
Don't worry bro creeps are in every country.
@@arushiyadav4662 I'm a guy
Jerks exist everywhere
I thought the first story was already scary, but they just kept escalating. I'm glad you managed to find people who would help you out, those situations sound terrifying ;;
Yeah... it was a train wreck all right. It just kept getting worse.
bro i use to live in korea so i already am anticipating the kinds of stories expected and to anyone suggesting she contacts the police, oof, it should be that easy in theory but the reality is the police in korea DOES NOT and i mean DOES NOT protect women ESPECIALLY foreign women. having a korean male around you to essentially mansplain to the police on your behalf MAY slightly help but it's damn exhausting and then they wanna know how tf you know this manz.
Thank you!! Trying to explain this was a bit tiring and a bit much. But so so true. The police don’t really do a good job in helping foreign women.
@@piareadz even women in their own country
ughhh I swear the audacity that some men have to even breathe sometimes, you know?
but seriously the last story sounds hella scary!
Right?! Like, why is it so hard to be respectful?💛
I wore a ring for a while, just to have more peace. Did not work every time, but I think it did sometimes
Ok this is low key embarrassing but if a guy was following me, I already have a strategy planned out, (I did theatre for 7 years, I’m not a great actor but if it comes down to it, I can act) I pretend to get a phone call by going into my settings and pressing on one the ringtone buttons to make it go off then would have a fake conversation and act like a psychopath looking for people to feed to my pet, and as I’m talking I would start to look at the person following me with that psycho look saying, “I think I found the perfect candidate” I have practiced making psychopath faces, if needed I can even do a creepy laugh, if that fails I have a taser so............
That’s a brilliant idea. It’s sad that women have to go to these lengths to protect ourselves.
Girl when i tell you I have EXACTLY same plan planned out, I...
@@missdagger1283 ayyyyyyyy
Now that's called a pro move
My ssister told me that ir guys cat called me I should just do random things, like, really random. (Start walking like a zombie or a crab, bark, do a moonwalk or even sing opera style) like just do the most random thing so they stop.
As a mother, this truly gives me kidnapping vibes. My daughter was in Korea for a few years. She didn’t really see a lot of foreign guys then. It’s like foreign guys are coming over to prey on foreign girls. Truly frightening.
I hope she didn’t go through anything bad and enjoyed her time in Korea. 💛🌻
@@piareadz It started off okay and then it became toxic. Unfortunately the few men she dated in her 2 years there were very very bad people. A lot of mental abuse, narcissism and almost rape on one account. Thank goodness she came home unharmed except for a lot of mental anguish she had to deal with. When she was in Korea, the society seemed very nice on the outside but once you become a part of it, there is a very dark and sad side that gave her a lot of depression. There are wonderful people in Korea with a great traditions, food and entertainment but I can’t say this enough.....what we see in the dramas and in KPOP is not the real Korea!
@@TheMusicmaker25 right!
@@TheMusicmaker25 im what sense society was dark and gave her deprression?
@@franciscaescobar3042 There was so much depression among Koreans and the suicide rate at that time was one of the highest in the world. She honestly wanted to help in some way but at that time depression was not recognized as a true illness and her not being fluent in the language made it impossible. I’m not sure how depression is treated today in Korea. The drinking culture is extreme and you were frowned upon and considered disrespectful if you didn’t join in. It’s such a work based culture...much longer than 8 hours a day so there was a certain sense of loneliness. She was an exchange student for a year and she had a perfect score before going to college there. Korea is a competitive society and rightly so because it’s a small country. So no matter how well you did in a class only a certain percentage would pass and foreigners were not considered top priority then. Also she took a class that was supposed to be in English but half way through the professor decided to just start teaching in a Korean since the majority of the class was Korean. Needless to say it dropped her grade point average. I could go on and on but I don’t think anyone wants to read this book.
Please call the police next time something like this happens. You shouldn't try to deal with it on your own. Also, don't go into the woods or anywhere else with nobody around when you have the feeling that someone is following you. It's too dangerous
I'll def. keep that in mind. But korea doesn't really do well in regards of helping foreign women when it comes to stalking. Korea is slowly becoming better at changing their laws in regards to women and children. During this whole situation, people saw and yet no one did anything, besides my shoe guy. So it's really hard to just assume that you can get help from people who just want to mind their own business. But thank you regardless!💛
@@piareadz I see, I'm really sorry to hear that. Maybe if it gets bad you could try to say out loud, in corean, something like stop following me, or help, these people are stalking me. In a situation like this someone will have to do something to help you. Also try to research what kind of defense weapons you can legally have on you in Corea. Just to be safe
@@piareadz just start throwing random Korean words at them mainly curse them or just hold your shoe in your hand like you will throw it in their face and pretend like you are calling cops they will go away but make sure not to do this when you are all alone do it in a shop or a public place if not many but maybe atleast one will come or people love to see some drama in every country so just create one for them ❤️ just do whatever you need to be safe and also when they ask that you have a boyfriend tell hell yea 🔥
One thing I do is threaten to film them, or threaten to call the police. Even if the police don't really do a good job over there, you don't have to actually call, just threaten to do so and imply they could get into trouble cause your friend is an officer there or idk hehe. They usually won't want to be filmed or accountable so hopefully they will leave you alone. Then you verify if they left and if not, call someone to accompany you, wait for you somewhere(not at your place but another place where you feel safe) and ask for a cab. It's so unfair to waste time running away from them.... :( and we shouldn't have to look for ways to avoid, it's so terrible...You are not alone, best of luck to you
Better to see thouse red flags🚩 and stay safe rather than being too nice to a Stranger in first place and regret it afterwards.
Truuuueeeee💛 I cant tell you how many times women fall prey to men because of being genuinely kind.
the quote says "be rude be weird stay alive"
@@fatisummer9106 unless your rudness pisses off the the ashole and u get bitten up🤷🏻♀️ no garanty it wont soo eather way #stay safe people
honestly barking is now going to be my second/third resort if a guy doesn’t leave me alone. “you have a boyfriend?” “no and im not looking for anything” “oh well can i have your number anyway?” “BARK BARK GRRRRR WOOF RUFF BARK”
Edit: OMG hit tweet?!?!?! follow me on twt i want more friends @sugaclde (yes that’s an L) !!!
Lol. This made my day
I literally did that to one guy and yelled if he treats his mom and sister the same way 😤
LMAOO IMAGINE WALKING DOWN THE STREET TO SEE A GIRL BARKING AT A MAN LMAOOOO I WOULD DIE XDDDDDDDD
@@winter3089 I would like it ngl
@@kyitty Damn
I got so angry watching this. Cuz I would feel so helpless in such situations, what do you do if someone won't take no as an answer? Fr...
I'm happy you got out of those safely
Thank you! I was pretty livid myself
If yoh encounter something like that again and you can't come up with anything, just start a live video in your social media.. It might scare them.
Such a good point! Didnt even think of that! Thank you💛
or do like my friend when a creep approached her she threw herself on the floor hold her bag on her chest looked terrified and she screamed "help help thief" , he ran away cz ppl stop and start staring, ppl dont like getting involved when youre standing there talking to them even if look that you are being harassed
@@fatisummer9106 I thought of that but I noticed Koreans tend to mind their business even when they can clearly see something happening.
That's an awesome idea thank you!
men being that normal yet confident af . You are cute
Where do they even get that kind of audacity I dont know
@@piareadz they prolly enjoy that since am damn sure they knows women feel uncomfortable that way.
I need a shirt that says “BTS and Ben Barnes” in my life
💛🤣😂 let me know when you find one!
I will make one "BTS and Jackson Wang"
@@lauralemon4890 I'll buy that 🙂✋
Our intuitions never fail us, if your gut tells you no, it means no, if your gut tells you there's something wrong, fly away my loves haha
Sadly almost all girls have similar anecdotes... I love your attitude, they have to accept that we say no because we are not interested, not because we have a boyfriend.
Thank you! Yes, I don’t want to be that person that has to use ‘I have a boyfriend’ excuse to get men to leave me alone. The answer ‘no’ should be enough. You make an excellent point💛
For the longest time i was the only male teacher at my Hagwon, but we did have another male teacher who only lasted a couple of months. He was the worst. He was very entitled and sounds exactly like the guys you're describing in the video. I had no problem being the only guy after he left because I'm gay.
Dang. I’m so sorry you had that mad experience. It’ must have been hard for you. 🥺
@@piareadz Thanks! I wish I could spill the tea on the comments section but Korea's defamation laws. (He was Korean.)
@@AlfonsoEspina huwhattt? Dang them defamation laws that strick ey, orrait
@@AlfonsoEspina the tea all of us have could fill a harbor. But yes, gotta be extra careful with what day due to defamation law
@@AlfonsoEspina but can it really reach you if you are living in another country? so if I defamate someone from Korea and I'm living in Europe could they take me to Korea to judge me and be jailed? If not then I don't see a problem, you can speak the truth
Not sure why any guy would think it's okay to follow, stalk, stare and invade personal space to pursue some kind of interest. It's nothing short of criminal and honestly I don't understand how more women don't slap, kick, scream and take self-defense classes just to offset this type of constant harassment.
When asked: I ALWAYS have a boyfriend. He is just invisible so he can ninja chop the creep asking XD. But really I don't know any girl, including myself who answers no to the boyfriend question. It's just one more way to make yourself safer if you say yes to that question. Like 60% of the time it works. I only need to go weird for the other 40%.
The last one sounded super scary, I probably would have started crying. Also that situation was harassment so you would have been right to call the police. I hope that you never have to endure this sort of situation again (or any of them)
"girl how this is no big deal" didn't hear ab the girl who got kidnapped and forced to work as a sex worker, the cups didn't even help her cz "the lack of evidence"
A lot of people in the comments being like oh you have to do this and that to avoid creeps in Korea (wedding ring?? Wtf)
Why is it up to women to not be harassed? Maybe we should start putting the blame where it belongs and publicly shaming these people.
Honestly tho💛😑
Keep a ring with u and pretend to be married
They might lose hope faster this way
Okay, soooo I'm trained in karate so whenever some creep follows me around the first thought in my mind is "yessss! I finally found someone i can beat up badly" 😂
I really should learn karate
@@user-qn2ey6gk4m it’s really fun
I LOVE THIS!
I want to learn Aikido soo bad.
Guys aren't easily overpowered so maybe don't put yourself in danger life isn't a movie.
Just saying better safe then sorry.
Looking at the comments I find the ideas funny af but so sad at the same time. That we need to come up with all that.
But anyways, my plan would be to go on a fake call and then talk really harsh German (if I'm in a foreign country) so that the guys get scared of. (Believe me it can sound scary and really unsexy if used the right way xD)
And in Germany I would talk about having diarrhea or something like that lol.
You gotta do do what you gotta do to be safe. Thanks for the tips!
tbh idk why people keep glorifying Korea when things like this are rampant. it’s time to stop idolizing every Korean thing just bc of the advent and globalization of kpop and kdramas
The troll comment. Fully agree. In Finland people actually sit under bridges and hangout in private but enjoy being outside. Nobody can see you so it's nice😂
Right, Im moving to Finland. Im going to be a troll😂
The biggest mistake that most girls do when they're approached by male strangers is being nice. Once you're opening up by being nice, the person who's acting like a predator shall gain instant power over you. What you wanna do is to actually look annoyed, bothered, and pissed off right before they even utter a sound. Just give them the "what the F do you want" type of look, the "i'm gonna kick your ass just because you've bothered me" type of confident look.
And yes, wearing a wedding ring is a brilliant idea. Don't worry that you're gonna end up single, because a really cool guy who likes you for who you are, shall be interested in your friendship first.
So very true!
girl i love you but, these men were exhibiting big red flags, both stories were horrid. the fact that foreigners tried it with y'all in korea where y'all are a minority is a mad ting
Lol!!🙈💛 thank you! When I tell you it's always the foreigners that give me trouble, I'm not kidding. The audacity of of some of these people. Thank you for watching! 💛🥰
oh my god your voice, you seem so chill and your vibes are immaculate.
Aw, thank you so much💛🥺🌻
Her sarcasm plus her editing skills😘👌.
She had the army vibe 😂💜✨
Omg I saw the thumbnail and immediately went “wow she is literally so pretty” like OKAY🤩😍
Awww, thank you. 🥺🥺💛💛
the second encounter was scary? I was scurd listening to the first encounter. Good thinking running up to the two couples. I always ran up to the grandmas and moms when I was traveling and this shit happened. Even if we didn't speak the same language - some how sexual harassment is universal. Sad but true.
i was very thankful to the couples for helping me. I literally was running away from this guy on the mountain trail.
I always just use the “I have a boyfriend” excuse 😂 oh man. On the bright side, those couples sound absolutely lovely!
I also live in Korea but for me it’s Korean men that are creepy. Like the second day I was here I was followed he by a group of three Korean men. At first they were walking in front of me and then they stopped and acted like they were going to go into a store but instead followed me all the way to my apartment building. Luckily you have to put a password in to enter my apartment building. Then literally yesterday on the subway during rush hour a Korean guy randomly grabbed my should and I got scared then I realized he was letting me have his seat. So I thanked him and sat down. His friend was sitting next to me and everything was fine until about 15 minutes later when the guy who gave me his seat asked his friend to switch with him. Now the guy that gave me his seat was sat next to me and he was sitting like man spreading and taking up all my space. Because of this our arms were touching even though I was sitting really close to the other person beside me. Then he started to rub his leg and his hand came off of his leg and into the gap between us and then the back if his hand literally rubbed against my thigh and I didn’t even know what to think. At first I was like “it was an accident.” But now I really don’t think it was.
Hearing these stories just makes me both sad and scared. Sad to know that this is how us woman have to life. And scared that this could happen to anyone, even me,my friends, or my sisters. Honestly fuck certain men...
BTS has forever thrown away the standard on men. Like, why do men even try? The fandom & population will be forever single and married ones or with partners will forever find faults. At least they taught us to have self respect.
this is not about a boy group, you shouldn't learn manners from some men celebrities. respect should be taught by parents,why teach young women how to dress and act when you can teach your sons to respect and protect women not to harass them.
And indeed it is what I'm trying to do with my own. Sadly, misogyny and patriarch views are ingrained in society as a whole, including in women's mindsets that help perpetuate these, or simply is what is expected, having known nothing else. It isn't about a 'boy band' at all, but when ppl lile them come around, talking abt self love, abt how to love others, about respect, showing, as men, affection and emotions, breaking stereotypes abt men in society, they make you wake up and say: "Hold the F up, no more". That's some of many reasons they get so much hate, especially from men and ppl who can't understand how they are attractive by lifting up others while breaking barriers and not conforming to societal standards and expectations. That's why we say they have raised the standard on men. Women and men in the fandom now know better.
@@idisbrioso4645 i understand you, but I can't really hear advice from some men whom i don't even know of, and expect them to be good people just by watching them from a screen. this is just my opinion.
@@IoveIie It’s like babies picking up languages, you observe and you figure out
@@Sarawarawara- not
everything tho, do we know how they act with the camera off, no. No disrespect to 💜ᗷTS⟭⟬💜 tho but for all we know this could just be personalities created just for fans
Ugh the last two stories with foreigners sound like human trafficking. Horrific.
Not exactly…chances are it was a religious group trying to get an unsuspecting person to join their group.
I’ve been followed by men 8 times. I feel your pain.
That honestly sucks. Wtf. I’m so sorry💛🥺🌻
❤DUDE THAT HIKE story feels like yesterday T___T
The way I freaked out on the phone with you😂😭💛
if that happened to me i wouldn't know what to do... i have a big problem with saying the word "no" or being "rude" to people (when they deserve) This is bad behavior and I need to change it, but it's hard
Ikrrrr Same is the problem with me but somehow I have started to say 'No' since it's my time to move out and live alone. But yes don't be afraid to say if u are uncomfortable with anyone. I thought it was hard until I learned saying it. So yuh.
I am so sorry 😞 you have to got through such experience, I was literally crying over last story😣😭😭 I lived in Korea too, for 6 six months, but have received completely different experience 🤭 I hope you are doing well now and have a good vibes around you👐🏻💗💗💗
Awww, I’m sorry I made you cry🥺😢🌻but thank you so much for your kind words!!
Girl you are so brave like i have encountered three times this type of situation and I'm like I'm done going out in the world. Hope you don't have to face this shit anymore. Stay healthy and beautiful just like you are now❣❣❣
I’m sorry you had to go through this. That’s not okay or fair to you. I hope you stay happy and safe 💛🥺🌻
The AuDAcITY of tHeSe MeNn
I don't know if you realize this, but you are a very strong woman...more power to you, stay safe and stay blessed
omg i hate this "creeps are everywhere" comments, okay?? we know there is ,we shouldn't talking about creeps in Korea?? it's literally a known thing that korea is not a amazing country for women, just because she talking about creepy men it doesn't mean she hates korea or sum 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ god peoples are so stupid. also this one "you can go to US back" comment is racist asf. that's not your country she can live there.
Human trafficking is a problem around this world. Always follow your gut feeling, keep safe and always pay attention to your surroundings.👍🙂
Don’t say it’s not a big of a deal!! Yes they are
Was at work and this man was hitting on me and wanting me to come stay at his house in Bangladesh (I live in the US). The most disgusting part was I worked at a baby store, his wife was in the hospital having just had their daughter, and here he is out here trying to get my number and get me to go on a date with him. He came in at least 10 more times, and would hang around for hours at a time. He freaked me the hell out.
Aw, noooo. That is so awful. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, Olivia. No woman ever deserves to get harassed. 💛🌻
@@piareadz seems to be the unfortunate part of being a girl. My mom had a stalker when she was in college. He'd follow her to school, work, home, everywhere. I hate that things have to be this way. Glad that you were able to escape these situations safely though!
Guy walking alone: chill
Girl walking alone: constantly looking around.
Being stalked or followed is just not ok
I feel yo so much! I’m always paranoid that someone’s following me. I hate getting stared at when I’m out because you never know what kinda guy is gonna approach you especially because I watch all kinds of docs on serial killers lol. Usually when I feel uncomfortable like this I rush out of wherever I am & make sure no one’s following me omw out. Stay safe! It’s a tough world for a girl
I had the same experience except I was always with my older sister and she is really protective of me so whenever some guy would come over to me she would stare at them since she is literally taller then anyone we met.
Yes Ben Barnes. After shadow and bone, I had to watch his other projects. I really liked him as Billy Russo in The punisher (warning: the show’s kinda brutal).
It’s hard to explain other guys that we women can sense a creepy guy/look. They always say to me that I’m exaggerating.
And that „locking looks” situation is so relatable. It happened to me before.
so trueeeee, we ladies have that gut instinct. Unfortunately, when women value their safety to an extent we are seen as exaggerates.
dude stay safe! and why tf you underrated like your content is genuinely so good!
Thank you so much💛🙈🥺🌻
Important always listen to your inner voice girls.. if you have a bad feeling dont feel pressured to act social. Stay safe
Well! Im just glad u r safe bec there r some scary murders there too. Ur edit style love it haha 😄
Thank you thank you! Me too!
@@piareadz haha glad I found your channel. Just a min in and I know I would like your style. Carefree, honest, and down to earth. Be safe out there especially in the countryside not a lot of protection. I just learn the other day that Korea ok for girls having a taser. I am officially a subscriber!!!
@@peacelife awww, that just made my whole day!! Thank you so much!💛🙈
Tip: incase someone might follow you, record a conversation an pretend you're in a call. not sure how good it'll work for you but it worked for me the one time i used this.
Just listening to this is SO infuriating and exhausting, it's like they don't realise she's an actual human being that deserves respect. Do they not have mothers or sisters? Even still, it costs £0 to be a *decent human being* .
Also women have a sixth sense you know when someone is looking at you a certain way
I'm getting second-hand anxiety just listening to your stories. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I'm just glad that you are safe now.
I feel like every girl has atleast one such story to tell. No matter how many times i feel like I'm well prepared for the next encounter some human shit of person would surprise the hell out of me. Anyway thanks for the procrastination video😂❤️
Every time i meet a creep I always say I am married, or things like that. I am not, but problem is solved fast
Girl, all these situations sound like a big deal. Especially the first story, sounds like the Lindsay Hawker story. That english teacher that got murdered by a random japenese person.
That story scared the shit out of me, ngl 😳
A few years before Lindsay, another young British woman was kidnapped and brutally murdered - Lucie Blackman. Grim discovery.
Omg I'm just learning about this, so so horrible 🙁.
As a western guy in korea this makes me really depressed to listen to. Sadly though, it seems like quite common for assholes who can't keep a job in their home country just goes to countries like korea because its easy and here they can be assholes without anyone calling them out.
I know it's not easy, but to any women experiencing foreigners act like this, at least try to call police and report them. Maybe it can lead to deportation. I don't mean it's your responsibility to do so, think of your own safety first, but it just makes me so upset. Both for selfish reasons like it makes people in korea doubt all foreign guys, but also because I'm raising my children here and I'm already worried for my daughter even though she is still just a young child.
When this things happened to me and I'm alone I just try to ignore and escape, or call a friend, but if I'm with my friends, it's just too hard to control myself. If I'm alone alone I can control myself, but If I have people around me it's so hard. For example, when guys are in a car and they're saying things to us I would just scream back, or if he's looking at me I would stare back, so he can see my disgusting look. I remember one time a drunk man started to say things to my friend and I at night, and we were alone, so I just talked to him nicely like we weren't in danger and he finally live. Ajj, it's awful that women have to go through this kind of stuff.
"ohhhh, I am ok... I don't need your number" hahaha... I loved the way you were telling us the story.
The AUDACITY. Please stay safe. Also, yes, Shadow and Bone is awesomeeee
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her: i see you judging
me: i don’t know make up
That jogger sounds alot like that stalker/killer case in Japan that involved a young White woman from England. He ran after her bike for ten minutes straight and could keep up with her.
I'm glad that you're safe.
That story scared me so much listening to it. It broke my heart. Thank you so much and I hope you're staying safe as well!
@@piareadz Thx, hon. It's kind of sad how common these stories are (I survived 3 r*pe attempts, a group tried to drag me into a house, I've been stalked since 13, I survived my own kidnapping, etc.) You're not alone.
I was planning to go to Korea so if anyone ever comes at me and uses the english excuse or try to talk me in English ill just start talking in my native language which im 99% sure they dont know. Ill just start speaking nonsense and be loud and annoying until they leave lol. Yeah girls just act like a crazy person and try to get away as much as possible , go to near stores and ask help from employees. Anything that you can.
You should’ve barked literally like a dog orrrrrr hiiiiissssss at him idk like a snake, if that doesn’t work just stark doing creepy stuff that’s what I always do and it always works. Or screammmmmmmmmm that works to
I got ugly privilege. No one ever catcalled me or tried to approach me in a creepy way. But any girl, ugly or pretty, isn't an object. So I wish bad things stopped happening to girls
This creep me sh!t up stay safe girl !!
You’re making me want to dye my hair black-
Also love your content, subbed xx
I’m here for the serve! Do iiiitttt💛💛
why do men
That first encounter was also scary.
I’m a recovering addict (almost 2 years sober) and I contracted Hep C back in 2016. I knew it since feb 2017 and procrastinated doing anything about it until summer 2020. Now it’s gone but I have cirrhosis 😂 🤦🏻♀️ 🙄 I’m a huge procrastinator as well
I feel so sad listening to these stories as a man it creeps me the damn up.
You are so brave 😃😎... If I were you I am sure I'll start panicking and your editing is just ✨
Thank you so much. Trust me. I was about ready to cry. 💛🤣
If there is a next time and they ask if you have a boyfriend say YES at least they Know they don't have a chance if you say no they think they have a chance, good luck sis ☺
She being like "the next story is creepy/scary" and me thinking, what the hell girl, they all freaking creepy.
Yesss shadow of bone ! Omg the book is even better
Nowadays, I just give them my phone number to get them to leave me alone. At least I can block them later... Sad but I do what I have to do to survive (:
Found myself gritting my teeth at the situations you found yourself in. I'd have been feeling the same probably. Though your edits made me smile and break the tension. :)
It's so sad that every girl watching this video can relate to you😔
The moment they asked if I speak English, I would literally start speaking Spanish 😭😩
I so get thay last story. I stopped at a local dollar tree in town to just look around, take my time and just shop, relax. And this guy goes "where can I find xyz?" And i go "what?" And he's all, "oh I thought you worked here". Smoothe Romeo. He follows up with a short story about his damn life and what he's doing there and then asks if I'm single. I'm not. F off. Then proceeds to ask me where something in the store was which I knew where it was, so being stupid I showed him. And then he basically kept kind of just following me around. He eventually got distracted and I went to check out praying he wouldn't come up to the registers. He didn't. So I paid and I ran to my car, jumped in and sped out of that parking lot so fast and sped down the street and called my boyfriend to tell him what happened. I'm sure he didn't mean any harm but I was not comfortable at all. He totally ruined my shopping trip and pissed me off.
I heard somewhere that striaght men will never ask women for help
So 3 things we learnt from this video: Do you speak English? Your answer should be...NO. do you have a bf? Your answer should be...YES. Also, we gotta build some condition, cuz I run for 1 min and I'm dead. Everything else aside, the way you describe the story feels as if I'm in it myself. You be handling these situations just great. If it were me I'd turn pale, get stressed and might even cry. Pathetic, right?
DO NOT APOLOGIZE EVER
THIS WAS A POTENTIAL KIDNAPPING... AND LOTS OF PEOPLE EVEN KOREANS HAVE GOTTEN KILLED IN THE MTS....