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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
  • * im aware of how many times i said um, i was extremely nervous talking about this so if you're here to point that out, exit*
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Комментарии • 2,9 тыс.

  • @brookecsabey
    @brookecsabey  5 лет назад +3763

    you can skip to 15:00 if you want the quick version

    • @emiliaoldfield3295
      @emiliaoldfield3295 5 лет назад +96

      Brooke Sabey I’m so sorry girl. I hope your okay now xx

    • @yahyo4429
      @yahyo4429 5 лет назад +364

      Ur real asf for that

    • @kathubbard3631
      @kathubbard3631 5 лет назад +78

      damn girl. gotta extend that watch time 😂

    • @Dawnnem
      @Dawnnem 5 лет назад +20

      Pineapple Girl 👧

    • @zephyraskamori89
      @zephyraskamori89 5 лет назад +84

      No I’m good I’ll just watch it from the start

  • @Jenniiiiiii92
    @Jenniiiiiii92 5 лет назад +4198

    Terrifying how many people in the comments are saying they have gone through similar situations.

    • @hottie846
      @hottie846 5 лет назад +17

      Eriii Bambi my thoughts exactly

    • @Kelpweed
      @Kelpweed 4 года назад +13

      Yeah it is.

    • @foxonfoxy1
      @foxonfoxy1 4 года назад +10

      @@juliaobrien5353 9/10 people are telling the truth. What does this have to do with the fact that many women experience this??

    • @foxonfoxy1
      @foxonfoxy1 4 года назад +11

      @@juliaobrien5353 And? What does that have to do with the fact that most women have experienced this? Anyone can lie about anything, that doesn't take away from the actual issue? What tf are you even talking about?

    • @Miss_SkiPp_8812
      @Miss_SkiPp_8812 3 года назад +3

      With social media set up the way it is, its way too easy for them to achieve thier goals now. The amount of information people will share is nuts. Its basically served to them on platter. Its absolutely terrifying.

  • @maddi3318
    @maddi3318 5 лет назад +8252

    “I was a senior in high school and I just finished my sophomore year in college, so that gives you an idea of how long this has been going on for”
    me, an australian: nope. no clue.

  • @khadija9441
    @khadija9441 5 лет назад +9152

    If Kendall Jenner and Dua Lipa had a kid.

    • @TeddyBearCrippen
      @TeddyBearCrippen 5 лет назад +79

      Khadija she looks like amanda steele to me

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 лет назад +147

      Khadija I see Dua . Don’t see Kendall at all ..

    • @sophiebailey4849
      @sophiebailey4849 5 лет назад +65

      Due Lipa and Adelaide Kane

    • @user-np8yf8fj2w
      @user-np8yf8fj2w 5 лет назад +12

      Khadija nope

    • @lilith5752
      @lilith5752 5 лет назад +34

      Lily Smith i see kendall. But i respect your opinion

  • @edfynn7621
    @edfynn7621 4 года назад +2476

    U already know all 400+ dislikes are bobs different accounts😂

  • @jocelynebuenrostro98
    @jocelynebuenrostro98 4 года назад +1074

    This video hit home for me. I'm crying. My ex did the same exact thing, except I didn't get a restraining order against him. He threaten to kill me, literally pointed a gun at me and said " If I cant't have you, nobody will." He showed me that the gun was loaded and shot the ground and I'm soooo glad there were houses around (we were in a hiking trail) because they heard the gun shot and called the police. Once the officer arrived I felt so relieved I went back into my car grabbed my phone (that he told me to leave in the car) and blocked him on everything. It took him about 6 months for him to understand that I didn't want anything to do with him and I haven't heard a thing about him since.

  • @caristewart481
    @caristewart481 4 года назад +4332

    I don't know who needs to hear this but:
    If someone threatens to hurt or kill themselves if you leave them, leave them. It is abuse. They are using your pain, compassion and empathy against you. If they hurt themselves *it.is.not.your.fault*
    Period.
    If someone hurts themselves because you leave them, that is on them. They need help. It is not your job to save them. It is never your fault. They are already broken people by then.

    • @julie8954
      @julie8954 4 года назад +46

      good book exactly on that subject is "A Heart in a Body in the World"

    • @fairymystonight1783
      @fairymystonight1783 4 года назад +31

      Cari Stewart my ex boyfriend did that to me in the beginning of the relationship. I remained with him. I ended up be the physically abuser which is why it all ended. We really rub off negativity on one another.. and it sucks, but I’m going to therapy and learning.

    • @madisenc5309
      @madisenc5309 4 года назад +13

      Periodt

    • @ashlyndeslatte8585
      @ashlyndeslatte8585 4 года назад +11

      PERIODT.

    • @nishikigoi.
      @nishikigoi. 4 года назад +22

      That happened to my family friend, she had a boyfriend who was super controlling, he broke up with her and said that he hated her. He starting cutting his wrists, he said he would kill himself unless she came back with him and that it was her fault. She blocked him and is now safe and happy with a nice and loving boyfriend. She still goes to school with him and says that he’s in deep depression and putting threatening notes in her locker but that’s all on him.

  • @victoriaarriaga9977
    @victoriaarriaga9977 5 лет назад +3564

    The view outside your windows gives me the creeps even though it looks beautiful. Be safe.

    • @noemijoseph2
      @noemijoseph2 5 лет назад +77

      Victoria Arriaga I was thinking the same thing

    • @MVal94
      @MVal94 5 лет назад +186

      I didn’t even notice the windows until I saw this comment lmao.

    • @shrubmongeau6499
      @shrubmongeau6499 5 лет назад +28

      Victoria Arriaga just trees 😂😂

    • @jorgemontes4855
      @jorgemontes4855 5 лет назад +104

      @@shrubmongeau6499 yeah imagine that at night and bob standing there with a knife and a clown mask or some kind of mask and weapon

    • @vaniafernandez2125
      @vaniafernandez2125 5 лет назад +6

      Oh God I swearrr

  •  5 лет назад +4355

    The 10 dislikes are Bob and his fake accounts 🤷‍♀️
    Edit: Thanks for the likes... did not expect that 🤪😂

  • @meghmamillapalli9563
    @meghmamillapalli9563 5 месяцев назад +297

    Who’s here in 2024?

  • @vfxjo7155
    @vfxjo7155 4 года назад +893

    Me : *See's stalker and proof in the same sentence*
    Me: clicks

    • @kaylaxmedlock
      @kaylaxmedlock 4 года назад +2

      Im Johana ruclips.net/video/Rsej6jhABxQ/видео.html check out my storytime on my college roommate from hell, she tried to STAB me!

    • @aaryaasastry8099
      @aaryaasastry8099 4 года назад +3

      Omg! So accurate! I did the same too! Lol 💯😂

    • @arriibacon531
      @arriibacon531 3 года назад +1

      Same 😂😂

  • @DixiNormous50150
    @DixiNormous50150 5 лет назад +898

    1. I love your sweater
    2. You shouldn’t have to apologize for using RUclips as a self expressive therapy 👌🏼😊
    3.first video I’ve seen of yours can’t wait for more

  • @Gabsloch
    @Gabsloch 5 лет назад +622

    The “recognizing the way he texts” thing absolutely makes sense! This creepy guy that I blocked followed me on a different Instagram account under a different name to try to talk to me and I knew it was him because of the way he was texting!

    • @rileymatthews9161
      @rileymatthews9161 4 года назад +14

      Yeah, like because of using “u” instead of “you” or like “bc” or “because”
      I get it it’s like the way someone talks, except with texting

    • @nixunivrse
      @nixunivrse 2 месяца назад

      The dude that stalks me likes texting formally and with periods, i don't know if it's what he says in the text but the whole thing just looks creepy

    • @dreamy_clouds_7
      @dreamy_clouds_7 17 дней назад

      For me it was a guy who could not spell and form proper sentences

  • @3mecproductions03
    @3mecproductions03 5 лет назад +1622

    side note but your university is 35 min away from me and I'm super proud of u for getting in, its a really good school :)

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 5 лет назад +5

      miasalvano88 where did she go to school! I live in Indiana

    • @addsi3964
      @addsi3964 5 лет назад +129

      Krystal Early It’s not information that everyone needs to know. There are some real creeps out there and everyone knowing where she goes to school can put her in danger. Even if it is a big school.

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 5 лет назад +11

      Madison Thomas I mean agreeable but it’s on her instagram which is where this other person probably found out .

    • @addsi3964
      @addsi3964 5 лет назад +28

      Krystal Early I see. Idk I still don’t think it’s our business to spread her info. I personally just don’t feel like it’s ok to do that.

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 5 лет назад +21

      Madison Thomas it’s literally on her insta that is public . Just saying .

  • @prettierinpink2597
    @prettierinpink2597 3 года назад +239

    the fact that people were blaming brooke for men's actions. ugh i hate that

    • @josephmorgan2583
      @josephmorgan2583 2 года назад +6

      Been there trust me it sucks

    • @heatherfeather1293
      @heatherfeather1293 3 месяца назад +2

      That's men for you

    • @ditsydaisys
      @ditsydaisys Месяц назад

      Ur pfp tripped me out because I saw it and was like... I don't remember commenting this 3 years ago 🤔 lmfaoo

  • @chiamaka4877
    @chiamaka4877 4 года назад +1099

    me watching brooke's eyebrows for 39 minutes straight

    • @mariamsy_1284
      @mariamsy_1284 4 года назад +19

      Sameee

    • @taliamcrae7776
      @taliamcrae7776 4 года назад +24

      I stared at her eyebrows for 5min

    • @robbiepasturrp
      @robbiepasturrp 4 года назад +9

      Chiamaka PLEASEEEEEJHAHA SAME

    • @brookemckinley5709
      @brookemckinley5709 3 года назад +14

      I can’t stop staring at her eyelashes myself, wondering if they’re hers or falsies, I’m leaning more towards they’re hers

    • @equiidiana
      @equiidiana 3 года назад +8

      me watching brook's smile for 39 minutes straight

  • @nikkidincau9506
    @nikkidincau9506 5 лет назад +2969

    Sorry this is really off topic from what you're talking about but I have decided after 18 minutes I should tell you that I think you're absolutely gorgeous.

  • @grayweeden204
    @grayweeden204 5 лет назад +2239

    You have the most pretty lips i have ever seen (I’m so jealous)

  • @ceciliacorral7060
    @ceciliacorral7060 3 года назад +750

    pov: you came here from the part 2

  • @stacyrodriguez128
    @stacyrodriguez128 4 года назад +514

    Your stalker: YoU nAmEd Me BoB?!

  • @heyitshal816
    @heyitshal816 4 года назад +1606

    long story short: don't date guys named bob

    • @rex639
      @rex639 4 года назад +8

      @@viktoriailieva314 r/whooosh

    • @viktoriailieva314
      @viktoriailieva314 4 года назад +1

      @@rex639 huh?

    • @rex639
      @rex639 4 года назад +1

      @@viktoriailieva314 he was joking

    • @heyitshal816
      @heyitshal816 4 года назад +4

      @@viktoriailieva314 i was joking lmao

    • @juliogreenland6213
      @juliogreenland6213 3 года назад +1

      @@viktoriailieva314 bruh

  • @RXMemes
    @RXMemes 5 лет назад +446

    You look like a glossier ad. GORGEOUS GIRL

    • @kendramelissa9754
      @kendramelissa9754 4 года назад +1

      RXMemes omg you are right! She absolutely does!

  • @galinigdh2092
    @galinigdh2092 4 года назад +384

    I have finally found someone that has gone through something I did aswell. I still remember videos he used to send me carving my name onto his skin and putting salt on it and screaming, the image and sound is stuck inside my head to this day. Bless your soul, remember that you aren't responsible for his actions and you should never feel guilty. My heart goes out to u

    • @kiwifit620
      @kiwifit620 4 года назад +51

      Oh my! I'm so sorry you had to go through that! That's horrible and it gets me fuming that some people would go to those extremes just to keep control over someone smh.
      I really hope you take your own advice and don't blame yourself because it's not your fault in any way. 💕

    • @bonsaiinamu7807
      @bonsaiinamu7807 4 года назад +22

      Im so sorry you went through that shit it's disgusting. Stay safe and happy babe ❤️

    • @lizycolette5305
      @lizycolette5305 4 года назад +13

      What the buttcheeks dude that's disgusting pray for your enemies (him) and pray for his help. God bless!

    • @babydaddy4886
      @babydaddy4886 4 года назад +8

      That’s horrible man I’m so sorry you went through that I had something similar when I was 14 my ex boyfriend carved my name into his arm and sent me photos it was terrifying so my heart goes out to you b

    • @JohnsonKayla12
      @JohnsonKayla12 3 года назад +9

      Omg! Wow 😳 makes me so afraid to even date... I hope things are better mow

  • @tanisrees1701
    @tanisrees1701 4 года назад +144

    Her fear to break up with him bc of what he might do to himself WHILE losing everyone else in her life hit HARDD

  • @silque575
    @silque575 3 года назад +295

    back here for a recap

    • @soobinstoe5991
      @soobinstoe5991 3 года назад +2

      same 😭

    • @2846hs
      @2846hs 3 года назад +2

      Same gurl same

    • @1uv_nai
      @1uv_nai 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 3 года назад

      New storytime :) ruclips.net/video/QZZuKW0BJyM/видео.html

    • @kciee6258
      @kciee6258 3 года назад

      Samee

  • @ShawnaHill83
    @ShawnaHill83 5 лет назад +660

    My question is where the hell were his parents!? As a mama of 3 boys and 2 girls I can honestly say if any of our children boy or girl behaved this way me and my husband would be beating that ass! Idgf if they are 18 or 28! I'm sorry u had to go through this love, stuff like this changes u in ways no one but a survivor could understand and I was there for 7 long ass years and wouldn't wish that on ANYONE.

    • @brookecsabey
      @brookecsabey  5 лет назад +87

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams His parents were always very disconnected from his life and I assume they had no idea this was going on since he didn’t live in the home anymore. I’m really sorry you had to go through something similar.

    • @ShawnaHill83
      @ShawnaHill83 5 лет назад +24

      @@brookecsabey kind of makes you wonder why tho? Maybe they knew how he could be. I noticed that my ex's family all knew how he was and even told stories about him after I was finally able to get away.

    • @TanyaMedina77
      @TanyaMedina77 5 лет назад +3

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams Same!

    • @maymay5812
      @maymay5812 5 лет назад +6

      Makes no sense why westerners kick there kids out with this economy. I always think there is some messed up dynamic with that.

    • @ashleygomez9400
      @ashleygomez9400 5 лет назад +5

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams same thing happened to me & when I’d tell his damn mom? it was my “fault & problem”😂😂😭 I’m so glad we have a no contact order by the judge now. We need more moms like you cause that fucker was babied by his mother

  • @anniek4919
    @anniek4919 5 лет назад +198

    Always ignore a stalker, don't reply or react to anything, don't respond to emails. Ignore, ignore, ignore. I am worried for you for even posting this video, it's acknowledging him. Knowing that he stalks you, you know that he will find this video and it could start all over. I had a stalker twice and it's scary! I hope this guy has found something else to focus on, sorry you had to go through this.

    • @haleyrose946
      @haleyrose946 3 года назад +2

      Yes I’m sorry you had to go through this as well 😔

    • @rachelh3250
      @rachelh3250 2 года назад +4

      Ignore and screenshot everything

    • @clewdyedition5888
      @clewdyedition5888 6 месяцев назад

      Im going through this now-

  • @Mara-ri9ik
    @Mara-ri9ik 4 года назад +1672

    Anyone else seeing this in December 2019?

    • @Absajj
      @Absajj 4 года назад +2

      Jut did

    • @clairemcilroy8542
      @clairemcilroy8542 4 года назад +2

      Dee Xo me

    • @zailynz
      @zailynz 4 года назад +2

      Yeah

    • @celalauren9543
      @celalauren9543 4 года назад +12

      I’m watching from December 2034... it’s so weird to see so much green trees and grass in the background.

    • @lylamichelle9235
      @lylamichelle9235 4 года назад +1

      Dee Xo OMG YESSSS

  • @lilywagged7156
    @lilywagged7156 4 года назад +177

    “I got my wisdom teeth out... then I went to a rave”

    • @hollyweikle
      @hollyweikle 3 года назад +3

      It was her last day...🙄 she said she was in bed almost entire break

    • @grixxly8531
      @grixxly8531 3 года назад +4

      @@hollyweikle I think he/she just thought it was funny

  • @briii5997
    @briii5997 3 года назад +265

    Anyone else here bc she made a new story time and it was confusing so u had to go back and watch this??? No... no one else 👌🏽

  • @raechel0823
    @raechel0823 5 лет назад +172

    When I was in my abusive relationship I lost so many people for the same reasons. I really felt that

    • @wm304wv
      @wm304wv 5 лет назад +3

      Raechel P. Same. Still going through it. It was hard to hear someone go through the same thing bc they had been friends of mine for 10+ yrs and I never imagined the fall out from a bad relationship affecting so much

    • @kelsythompson6351
      @kelsythompson6351 5 лет назад +1

      wm304wv i don’t think any of us realize the fall out and how badly these toxic people effect not just their victim, but the victims friends and family. i lost so many friends with my “Bob” eight years ago. you ladies aren’t alone. speak your truth & stay safe. ❤️

    • @leaedenk5975
      @leaedenk5975 4 года назад

      Hello Raechel P, yes this is really sad because when someone like a narcissist takes control of our lives, and that it's so hard to get out of this situation all we really need is our friends to be there. . We have to rebuild a new life after these destroyers..and this is not easy.

  • @jaelyngunter3991
    @jaelyngunter3991 4 года назад +1377

    anyone else seeing this November 2019?

  • @jessicam4825
    @jessicam4825 5 лет назад +93

    I went through the same thing!! My restraining order only lasted 3 years. It ended this year and he literally counted down the days so he can harass me again. He thinks I had his baby and literally had me served to court to try to get custody of this "baby"

    • @mirandasant3624
      @mirandasant3624 5 лет назад +22

      Wow that's creepy . So glad it wasn't his baby it would have been a way to get to you.

  • @urfavsemm
    @urfavsemm 2 месяца назад +5

    the X’s over the eyes are TERRIFYING! thats literally what a murderer would do..im so sorry you had to go through this. i love you ❤

  • @abbywolf1016
    @abbywolf1016 4 года назад +294

    Anybody else quarantine 2020?

  • @violetsforviolet
    @violetsforviolet 5 лет назад +101

    Girl it is NOT your responsibility to make sure 'Bob' or anyone else doesnt do anything stupid. I am so sorry.

  • @shyanne4894
    @shyanne4894 5 лет назад +467

    I swear we dated the same guy. Except I had a baby with him 😭

    • @alexlol9712
      @alexlol9712 5 лет назад +36

      Damn

    • @nikkigulayan3754
      @nikkigulayan3754 5 лет назад +138

      Oh, I’m sorry. I hope your baby is happy and healthy tho

    • @femboyrules7594
      @femboyrules7594 5 лет назад +18

      💀

    • @kys571
      @kys571 5 лет назад +42

      if your still with him run away or just leave I mean it your and your child's mental health is going to be pretty bad. either way stay safe and strong ❤️❤️

    • @shyanne4894
      @shyanne4894 5 лет назад +35

      isαviвє вiτcн we’re not with him anymore. Unfortunately things turned so bad we needed a restraining order

  • @Countryphotography88
    @Countryphotography88 5 лет назад +366

    Okay not to change the subject but you are absolutely gorgeous girl!

    • @mariar4428
      @mariar4428 5 лет назад

      Think she has ed

    • @juliaf946
      @juliaf946 5 лет назад

      Maria R why do you think that ??

    • @mariar4428
      @mariar4428 5 лет назад

      @@juliaf946 Because she is extreamly skinny, she could put on some weight

    • @Countryphotography88
      @Countryphotography88 5 лет назад +4

      Ignore them, you’re beautiful girl

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 5 лет назад +3

      Ya! She’s SOOOO pretty!

  • @suneasha2191
    @suneasha2191 3 года назад +26

    He thought u going out is u cheating is exactly what he does . Guys who cheat always feel insecure that the girl is cheating too.

  • @cugglymonster
    @cugglymonster 4 месяца назад +6

    I’d also like to add, crazy stalkers would listen to your story time and all they’ll hear is how bad they hurt you and take that as an invitation to try again. I found out the hard way that’s how their minds works. In a stalker’s mind, if you’re still discussing them, you still want their attention.

  • @christian092299
    @christian092299 5 лет назад +213

    if he’s still giving you problems, we can get that handled. be safe

  • @oifooofdaa9840
    @oifooofdaa9840 5 лет назад +1205

    you remind me of the youtube Bella Fiori you guys look very similar

    • @jaidynkk5373
      @jaidynkk5373 5 лет назад +3

      Oif Ooofdaa very off top is but at 6:39 on
      my phone the l in the work look lines up with the red bar...

    • @happyuniverse5721
      @happyuniverse5721 5 лет назад +4

      yasss girl

    • @allieking2086
      @allieking2086 5 лет назад +11

      YES! I KNEW SHE LOOKED LIKE SOMEONE ON HERE! THEY'RE BOTH SO GORGEOUS!!

    • @mackenzielewis1905
      @mackenzielewis1905 5 лет назад +6

      i thought the SAME thing!

    • @vaner309
      @vaner309 5 лет назад +2

      Ikr

  • @BriannaFullerton
    @BriannaFullerton 5 лет назад +216

    this has nothing to do with the video but you are so freaking gorgeous like im in awe

  • @yamotha222
    @yamotha222 4 года назад +17

    I relate to this way too much.. I’m 13 and I dated him from August to November and he was very abusive and manipulative and multiple people warned me constantly, and my friends and family hated him, and he always threatened me and himself if I left him and I lost so many friends because of him. I’ve learned my lesson and none of it is your fault, he manipulated you, I know how that feels. I appreciate you so much for being brave enough to share your story. I admire you so much ❤️

  • @milanavujkovic827
    @milanavujkovic827 4 года назад +98

    I had stalking situation yesterday, and the man (who is about age of my dad..) took picture of me when I was walking to my boyfriends house, like he passed me couple of times. And when I was near my boyfriends house he honked at me and took a picture, btw like I wasn't in any provocative clothes (even if I was this doesn't give him the right to do that). Even tho my boyfriend walks me home every night I am still scared. Btw (2x) town where I live is really small and this stuff never happeneds, and I found out that this man has kids and wife...so yeah I am scared and people here don't take seriously this kind of situations. I am really scared guys. Some advice? Love you all, stay safe. ❤️

    • @karlasokol2107
      @karlasokol2107 4 года назад +14

      Report it, try to get evidence of him stalking you if it happens again

    • @milanavujkovic827
      @milanavujkovic827 4 года назад +4

      @@karlasokol2107 thank you, I hope I don't see him ever again

    • @NoProb4Rob
      @NoProb4Rob 4 года назад +8

      Sorry you are facing this. You should report it in person so it's on record. If you know his name and address this is good info. If he is reported by someone else for the same activity then there will be more evidence for arresting him.

    • @lizycolette5305
      @lizycolette5305 4 года назад +4

      Pray and put your trust in God!
      God bless!

    • @lexiandkimbarnes4608
      @lexiandkimbarnes4608 4 года назад +3

      Tell your parents or someone you trust

  • @mirandarose47
    @mirandarose47 5 лет назад +194

    3:40 glad to know I wasn’t the only one. never settle for less because you are lonely ladies. Wait for the right guy.

    • @dxrkfoxx
      @dxrkfoxx 5 лет назад

      Miranda Rose definitely done this too. Let my ex walk all over me and cheated and I just believed his excuses :/

    • @panheadgirlofskillet
      @panheadgirlofskillet 4 года назад

      Made this mistake too :(

  • @nicoledrea9149
    @nicoledrea9149 5 лет назад +59

    Finally a story time i can peacefully watch without ads. Not all heros wear capes.

  • @trotski619
    @trotski619 5 лет назад +106

    It breaks my heart that many women who tell these stories feel compelled to start with saying they're not telling it to get sympathy or "play the victim". This is your story, and eff anyone who has that perception! As women we're programmed to please and be as affable as possible, and its not right. Thanks for sharing this, you're a strong person.

  • @chelsearose.m
    @chelsearose.m 4 года назад +99

    He sounds just like my ex boyfriend “can u unblock me on snap?” 😷 I’m cringing

  • @ambersmith3737
    @ambersmith3737 4 года назад +305

    Was this on anyone else’s recommended?

  • @kaya-dj2yq
    @kaya-dj2yq 5 лет назад +512

    The 53 dislikes are Bobs fake accounts on yt lmao

    • @laceymarie1274
      @laceymarie1274 5 лет назад +1

      Maria Agreste your pfp teehee 🥰

    • @kaya-dj2yq
      @kaya-dj2yq 5 лет назад +2

      @@laceymarie1274 Lol im a miraculous fannn

    • @laceymarie1274
      @laceymarie1274 5 лет назад +1

      Maria Agreste everyone should be at this point ❤️🖤

    • @kaya-dj2yq
      @kaya-dj2yq 5 лет назад

      @@laceymarie1274 Omg yess😍

    • @ryshlovanoodo7591
      @ryshlovanoodo7591 5 лет назад

      Not interested.

  • @skyllarsophie8918
    @skyllarsophie8918 4 года назад +647

    she is like Charli from tik tok, Kylie Jenner and Dua lipa all in one! 🤣
    Omggggg thanks for the likes

  • @shayleetilley8979
    @shayleetilley8979 5 лет назад +1331

    I think every girl has had a "Bob" in there life :/

    • @reemaa602
      @reemaa602 5 лет назад +14

      DEFINITELY 😫😫

    • @StephanieeAlexandra
      @StephanieeAlexandra 5 лет назад +15

      Sadly. 😓

    • @llacey
      @llacey 5 лет назад +2

      yesss

    • @MeliLove8
      @MeliLove8 5 лет назад +127

      uhhh im sorry but no

    • @kaebutt5266
      @kaebutt5266 5 лет назад +64

      @K and K um how about you take a step back for a second. Saying that maybe you're smarter than women that find themselves in abusive relationships is ignorant and false. A lot of these relationships start out normal and they grow a connection with you before they start the abuse. I hope you or people that you love never have to go through an abusive relationship.

  • @jayleenmarie
    @jayleenmarie 4 года назад +51

    “Ik the light behind me is out , just ignore that” me- 👁👄👁

  • @user-er6qz5zr8c
    @user-er6qz5zr8c 3 года назад +49

    GOD i went through almost the exact same thing. he would try to contact me on SPOTIFY (edit: he would make playlist names saying “*something* *something* *MY NAME*”)

  • @furryksier7349
    @furryksier7349 5 лет назад +133

    168 dislikes are all of "bob's" extra accounts he made

  • @joannafreedom7914
    @joannafreedom7914 5 лет назад +276

    If someone accuses you of something you wouldn't do...it projection...they'll accuse you of everything they do. Gas lighting you. Sound like Bob is a sociopath. Stay safe. Question everything.

    • @amandasiple9936
      @amandasiple9936 5 лет назад +12

      It’s definitely not sociopathy, it is most likely better categorized by borderline personality issues, one of the big hallmarks for BPD is an intense fear of abandonment and impulsivity. Sociopathy would be Antisocial personality and that is characterized by lack of empathy.

    • @kendramelissa9754
      @kendramelissa9754 4 года назад +4

      Amanda Siple people way overuse BPD..... it’s a huge range of different symptoms not just fear of abandonment....just about everyone you meet has/had at least one symptom of BPD.... again it’s a broad range of symptoms not only checking off a couple and calling it BPD. All it’s doing is further stigmatizing and demonizing it...... people with BPD are more likely to hurt themselves than hurt others FYI. (Coming from someone with actual diagnosed BPD) smh

    • @orania8033
      @orania8033 4 года назад +2

      @@kendramelissa9754 Thank you❤ BPD and PTSD sufferer over here. Thought you worded it perfectly x

  • @millencarino5031
    @millencarino5031 4 года назад +21

    I really feel bad for what happened to you tho! First of all I'm glad that i met u today, May 22, 2020! I don't know but after watching ur whole video i was urged to give comment and a friend talk, i really hope that you're totally okay now, better than before i know it's already 1 year ago that this happened but, I'd like to offer u a short prayer:
    Heavenly Father, Thank you for the life that you've given to this person, indeed that she's a child of Yours, i pray atm God that You may cover her everyday of her life, cover her by Your protection, Strength, love, comfort, support, courage, wisdom and also You may guard her heart. Keep her away from any harm and hurts, and fill her heart with Your love, fill her mind and heart with peace. Lord, i pray for total healingness to this person, mentally, physically and spiritually! and also to her family, to the people that surrounds her. I'm blessed what she concluded to her video, that it is indeed important that we must and should listen to what our important people and love one's is telling us, give us a heart to listen and take their advice, we believe that You have send them to protect us from harm! God bless you brooke with more strength and courage! In Jesus Name, Amen! Sending love & hugs for u Brooke 💗 u're so genuine!
    RIGHT TIME, RIGHT PERSON!
    Love, Millen Philippines!💙

  • @ginapapai2332
    @ginapapai2332 4 года назад +12

    I love your voice,
    Why are all the girls that do story times so pretty and have soothing voices?!

  • @crysta1queer
    @crysta1queer 5 лет назад +126

    This is so grossly similar to my ex.
    He’s an alcoholic, dependent on weed, and unable to hold down a job.
    I dealt with him for 3 years until I finally full got rid of him because he found a new victim, which I’m pretty sure I was getting cheated on near the end of the relationship. Pretty sure this new person is dealing with the exact same shit I dealt with. (He will never change) they give you so many false promises.
    I went back even after he threatened to kill me and my mom if I left him.
    I went back even after getting a black eye.
    It’s hard to get away from.
    I would go away for months at a time and then I’d get notes on my car, he’d show up at my job, email me.
    Also the not fully blocking them I totally understood because it was like a comfort knowing they have a way to contact you because then you know they are okay but also they will be less likely to just show up because they have a way to contact you.
    It’s fucked up how it’s less scary to be with them than to be without them because it’s the fear of what they will do if you leave. When you leave they are far less predictable than they are when you are together. I’m so glad you got out of this. Also proud of you for going to the police I didn’t because my ex is transgender so he would guilt trip me about how he would get beat up or killed if he was locked up for being trans which is very valid but also more manipulation and isn’t fair that he can use that as a way to get out of being punished for what he did.
    Also fun fact about blocking people on an iPhone is there’s a folder for “blocked voicemails” so then when you know that you can see if they have left you voicemails even while blocked, that folder is full of voicemails.

    • @Theflyawaybabe
      @Theflyawaybabe 4 года назад +4

      Sounds like my narcissist ex

    • @Theflyawaybabe
      @Theflyawaybabe 4 года назад +3

      Crazy thing is he live around the corner from my street

    • @qpriscilla
      @qpriscilla 4 года назад +4

      He won't get beat up for being trans, he will get beat up for doing that to you

  • @itssaadia2075
    @itssaadia2075 5 лет назад +376

    You remind me a bit of Dua Lipa

  • @oOzephyrOo
    @oOzephyrOo 4 года назад +22

    Been through a similar situation, and 2 years later, he's just waiting for any occasion to recontact me or threaten my friends, I've got a restraining order but I have to make it a permanent one. The good news, I'm with a loving wonderful man now, who will protect me if the psycho tries to come near me, and the psycho is living in a camping car and sometimes with his mommy (he's approaching 40), waiting to find his next victim to leech of, another young girl to submit, dominate, abuse, call awful names, make him dinner, scratch his neck while he plays computer games all day, and pay the bills. That's what women are here for in his eyes. And I payed my insubmission a high price, but I'm out.
    I can relate to this story on sooo many levels. I'm glad you got out of that relationship. The "funniest" thing is after everything, when they innocently ask you if you could just unblock them. They got no soul, those people.

  • @vanessaultimo1926
    @vanessaultimo1926 4 года назад +13

    Every time I hear a story like this I feel less alone with my own story (which is sooooo damn similar). So thank you.
    It really sickens me how many people like "Bob" are out there in the world 😔

  • @AlwaysJesusAvailable
    @AlwaysJesusAvailable 8 месяцев назад +5

    Being stalked by strangers is weird and they usually don't know something is wrong with them

  • @MinimiMax
    @MinimiMax 5 лет назад +22

    Gotta say, I did not expect this to be the way you return to RUclips. I'm glad things didn't escalate and you managed to escape this situation.

  • @arismith2403
    @arismith2403 5 лет назад +20

    This is the first video of yours I've seen. You're strong & no-one ever deserves what you went through.

  • @abitofbay2973
    @abitofbay2973 4 года назад +38

    My step mom is in this situation with my dad. My dad is abusive to her. She admits to what he did but a few days later she’d say she tripped or she was drunk and fell. But I know that we can’t do anything about it. He’s taken her phone an has control over everyones’ phones so we can’t communicate. I can’t see him anymore every since today. How can I help her see what’s going on? And plus there are kids in the mix both her kids and my dads kids, including me. What can I do to help? I’m so worried for my step sister especially as she’s been very affected by this.

    • @hannaandsunny4076
      @hannaandsunny4076 4 года назад +2

      I found this website. but ur step mom would have to be willing to contact them. best of luck with your family
      www.thehotline.org/help/

    • @abitofbay2973
      @abitofbay2973 4 года назад +1

      Hanna and Sunny sadly she doesn’t think that he meant any harm when you know... she still thinks he’ll change. I feel so bad for her and wish I could help. We’ve contacted ppl and we’ve given her notes saying that we’ll help but she ignores. I wish we could help but it’s in her hands

    • @taranorth6495
      @taranorth6495 4 года назад +2

      I'm curious to see how everything turned out for you. I read this and I'm so worried for your family, especially you and the other kids. Do you have a relative you and the kids could stay with till this situation is solved? Your mom has got to see how damaging it is for you guys and I'm not trying to say she's the bad guy. It has to be awful for her too.

    • @abitofbay2973
      @abitofbay2973 4 года назад +1

      Tara North my mom is getting full custody of me and my sister. We tried to tell her we were here for her and he’s done this before and she’s fully committed to him. She won’t even admit what he did anymore. I feel awful for her and her kids. He’s an awful person even besides the abuse.

    • @taranorth6495
      @taranorth6495 4 года назад +2

      A Bit of Bay I am so sorry this is happening to you guys. Your poor mom has probably been told that she will never be able to find anyone else who wants her and that's so not true. I know it's hard but you keep your head up and keep an eye on those kids. If he even lays a finger on any of you call the police, even if your mom doesn't want you to. If you ever need a shoulder please let me know. You're so brave and shouldn't have to be worried all the time. Let this make you a stronger person and don't let it ruin your life. Please take care. I'm praying for you guys.

  • @Melody-ud5kz
    @Melody-ud5kz 4 года назад +5

    This is so horrible that you had to go through this. This must have been so terrifying. I am truly sorry that you had to experience this. I am just very happy to see you happy and I am glad that everything worked out for you!

  • @appleagxx
    @appleagxx 5 лет назад +54

    I had a similar situation like this.
    I told the guy to stop contacting me and once I blocked him on my iPhone it still went through on my MacBook. I later told him I was contacting the police if he didn’t stop what he was doing, then it died down.
    But this was honestly so scary and I would have honestly handed it the way you did.

  • @CherryBombBabe101
    @CherryBombBabe101 4 года назад +159

    sadly your first boyfriend was a and "is" a narcissist, they are horrible dangerous people. always beware when dating. you can even have these types of people in your family.

    • @SuperAnimecity
      @SuperAnimecity 4 года назад +8

      No he sounds more like a sociopath then a narc

    • @randomwolf545
      @randomwolf545 3 года назад +8

      No, no. That's a narcissist alright. Sadly my dad is one. It's a disorder though so all you can do is feel bad for them that they have that disorder.

  • @rhiarnaparker5935
    @rhiarnaparker5935 5 лет назад +452

    You need to publish his name so girls know to stay away from him! How scary 😪

    • @alexbryyan
      @alexbryyan 5 лет назад +46

      Rhiarna Parker shed be sued tho

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 5 лет назад +10

      Alex Bryan she would, but it’s safer for everyone if they know who he is

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 лет назад +7

      Alex Bryan How would she be sued tho ? I don’t see how that would work in this case

    • @amyblood5568
      @amyblood5568 5 лет назад +10

      Lily Smith it would be defamation which could get into legal trouble

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 5 лет назад +4

      Because “BOB” could sue her

  • @mucize31
    @mucize31 4 года назад +120

    POV:You’re watching story time video’s during Quarantine

  • @stephanieshanonn366
    @stephanieshanonn366 4 года назад +6

    I had a relationship extremely similar to this when I was 15. I am so happy we both realized what was going on and found ways to leave those situations and I pray for anyone who is in this situation. Much love ❤️

  • @brookembilling
    @brookembilling 5 лет назад +31

    Just got out of something almost exactly identical to this story after 3 years! He would randomly show up in different locations in seattle if I went out, sat outside of the gates of my house, and got access to my card number and spent a load of money... whats up with these seattle heads tho? feel ya girl

  • @Tor.e
    @Tor.e 5 лет назад +541

    You kind of look and talk like Kendall Jenner !!!!

    • @lit721
      @lit721 5 лет назад +20

      Tori R lmfao i don’t see it at all, and she doesn’t have kendall’s obnoxious valley girl voice

    • @Tor.e
      @Tor.e 5 лет назад +6

      LIT aw I didn’t mean it in a bad way. She’s way more beautiful than Kendall, I think it’s how she carries herself. She takes like Kendall without the actual annoying voice

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 лет назад +12

      Tori R I mean Shes really pretty but so is Kendall. I don’t see the resemblance tho. They’re just both white with brown hair lol

    • @Tor.e
      @Tor.e 5 лет назад +7

      I’m white with brown hair and look nothing like either of them? The way they talk, eye brows, nose, lips, her hand gestures. Didn’t know I had to be so specific. Also doubt she took it as an insult or read as deep into it as anyone in the comments

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 5 лет назад +1

      Tori R you missed my point ... lmao
      I’m saying they don’t have any similarities in appearance except being white with brown hair. In other words, I see no resemblance. Of course, it’s fine if u do lol

  • @crpngrb
    @crpngrb 5 лет назад +102

    Ok so basically this is a psycho stalker ex-boyfriend??...

    • @jadeashley4929
      @jadeashley4929 4 года назад +6

      Exactly i thought it was like a real stalker not ex..😐🤨

    • @babydaddy4886
      @babydaddy4886 4 года назад +16

      Jade Ashley an ex can be a real stalker? Don’t be stupid

  • @thirstyspirit9567
    @thirstyspirit9567 4 года назад +5

    you're lucky your alive..

  • @lucid_gabe
    @lucid_gabe 3 года назад +21

    imagine him watching this 🤣 you know he's had to see it

  • @xoArmy20GirLxo
    @xoArmy20GirLxo 5 лет назад +17

    OMFG! How terrifying!!!
    "Bob" is absolutely BEYOND PYSCHO!!!
    You poor girl, hopefully you're far away from him and you're safe

  • @kendallwomack3519
    @kendallwomack3519 5 лет назад +23

    hey girl. i live in the seattle area as well and have had a similar experience, sadly. i hope you’re doing better and know that you’re not alone. ❤️

    • @lauralboney4504
      @lauralboney4504 5 лет назад +2

      Kendall Womack Vlogs probably the same guy. Bob might get around lol

  • @MaddieWilt0n
    @MaddieWilt0n Год назад +4

    I have this ex who cheated on me and continually tried to hit me up even after I blocked him. He texted my number. Facebook. Tiktok. Fake Instagram accounts. And he tried to act like he was someone else when he hit me up with a random account. I could tell it was him based on how the texts sounded. found out he would do the same to other girls. Scary.

  • @producTIMity
    @producTIMity 5 месяцев назад +2

    This guy had his chance. You handled this appropriatetly and treated him as a person. I recommend contacting IC3 to try and block him. He is determined to get the last chance. I have been in love with women but the minute I get a direct ‘no’ I lay off. He’s just trying to manipulate.

  • @PinkZebraT
    @PinkZebraT 5 лет назад +4

    So so grateful that you got yourself out of this. It's alarming to me that I can relate to some of the minor details you mentioned when I was with someone in the past. You sharing this really helped bring to light a lot of things for me. Thank you, Brooke! Stay safe, girl.

  • @braydeevolpa3069
    @braydeevolpa3069 5 лет назад +15

    this story hits home cause it reminds me so much of my moms old relationship :( thanks for sharing your story💞

  • @darknessbarbie6615
    @darknessbarbie6615 5 лет назад +17

    This reminds me of my ex who is now in jail. He horrified me still does, I hate him so much because we had a baby and I gave my baby up for adoption because I couldn't protect him from his dad which makes me want to die because I love my son so much but I needed to protect him and if you think I'm the worst person in the world I feel that but I couldn't be selfish I had to protect my baby 😥😭

    • @justme-ii7kq
      @justme-ii7kq 3 года назад +2

      Don't worry you did what was best for your son

  • @elianazuniga6541
    @elianazuniga6541 2 месяца назад +2

    Me and my ex have a no contact order and he has a second degree felony because he stabbed me.
    Like...i hate to be that person. But what you went through is a normal day in my life. Lol but it could...COULD have been more had you not stopped it from the beginning.
    My ex still makes new phone numbers almost everyday to contact me. Even with the no contact order. He finds and messages any person that i start to get involved with and lies and makes problems with that person and myself. He called my worker. Messaged my coworker.
    Its been three years. He still does this.
    Spoiler alert: the restraining order isnt gonna do shit. At all. These people are mentally unwell

  • @nopeee._703
    @nopeee._703 3 года назад +18

    Outta everything u called him bob😭💀

  • @unknowngirl6824
    @unknowngirl6824 5 лет назад +5

    GIRL!! You are drop dead gorgeous and didn't deserve to have such a toxic relationship(nobody does) and I hope you find a man who will love and appreciate you for the amazing person you are!!
    And I'm so sorry you had to deal with such a negative and toxic person.

  • @beautyandbrainz
    @beautyandbrainz 4 года назад +6

    If your single please don't rush into a relationship and accept just anyone. You're valuable and your time is valuable. If your in a dark place use that time to love yourself first and then right person will enter your life. Waiting for the right guy is worth the wait with someone who will treat you with love and respect. Never accept physical & emotional abuse from anyone. It's a big red flag and if your best friends and family are telling you they don't like them there's a reason. Leave!!

  • @summerwagner270
    @summerwagner270 4 года назад +162

    Who’s here sitting in 2019 thinking she looks like Charlie

  • @tamaravalentine2760
    @tamaravalentine2760 4 года назад +3

    I had exactly this happen to me... not quite to your extent after I'd blocked him on everything but it was going on for over 2 years and i get exactly what you mean about being scared to leave them i was worried what he was going to do to himself etc etc but the mental and emotional abuse is just insane and it really messed me up. I really dont understand the psychology of it all. Glad youre ok now :)

  • @LauraB86284
    @LauraB86284 5 месяцев назад +2

    What a narcissist. He blackmailed u. These narcs are always ALWAYS watching u. This is why its so important for young teens to tell their parents whats going on with their relationships.

  • @ABitofBre
    @ABitofBre 5 лет назад +18

    Literally went through something similar 😭 glad you got out safe!!

    • @kikist8368
      @kikist8368 5 лет назад

      Oh me too! Just in a little bit lighter version! Stay safe

  • @nakaylaroberts5404
    @nakaylaroberts5404 4 года назад +15

    at 6:25 when she says "and i believed him" i could feel the regret

  • @lesliefincke3230
    @lesliefincke3230 5 лет назад +35

    I went through almost the same thing, except i was kidnapped and tortured, beat, raped if u can imagine it i had it done to me. His name really was Bob and i was in high school n with him for 3 years, got pregnant and ran from him!! Thank you for sharing, u give me strength to talk about what i went through, hopefully itll help with my anxiety, depression and PTSD!

    • @brookecsabey
      @brookecsabey  5 лет назад +7

      Leslie Fincke i am so sorry for what you went through, sending you my love.

    • @anafarcas1505
      @anafarcas1505 5 лет назад

      Oh girl :( i hope you'll get over this , take care of yourself mentally , spiritualy and of your body too, hugs ! I hope you go at a psychologyst ...

    • @lesliefincke3230
      @lesliefincke3230 5 лет назад +1

      Ana Farcas yes i have a Psychologist i see monthly been dealing with it for 14+ years

    • @erinhiggins1904
      @erinhiggins1904 5 лет назад

      Leslie Fincke damn.

    • @rosalindarts_3818
      @rosalindarts_3818 5 лет назад +2

      You're saying like you're really looking for attention. I don't think this is a true story.

  • @G-GGagames
    @G-GGagames Год назад +2

    You’re gorgeous , your video was so calm to hear because of your voice I love it! Im sorry you went through that😢 and also you live in a beautiful place with garden or forest around, that’s my wish😭 I live in the city !! I love the nature around your windows. I’m sorry I have to say it!

  • @cnow82
    @cnow82 2 месяца назад +1

    There are just not enough protections for women from stalkers. It has gotten better. But isn’t far enough. Unfortunately, the law is soooooo slow. And what’s worse, now there are so many social media sites to contact your victim. And it is so hard to get it to stop. I’m so sorry sweetheart. You are brave and strong. You did absolutely nothing wrong. Please know none of this is your fault.

  • @sofiarotelletti7269
    @sofiarotelletti7269 5 лет назад +16

    I watched the whole vid. I’m happy ur ok now. Love ya babes

  • @Ridiculi
    @Ridiculi 5 лет назад +21

    "He somehow found out" (Social media shares and tags). So many creepy guys who don't understand NO.

  • @ryleemilligan433
    @ryleemilligan433 5 лет назад +45

    "He was talking to himself at this point." - Brooke 2019