What photographing death taught me about life | Caroline Catlin | TEDxSeattle

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  • In this 2020 TEDxSeattle talk, see how Caroline Catlin’s own experience with illness inspired her to connect to others facing similar challenges.
    After a diagnosis of a rare form of brain cancer, Caroline Catlin was forced to confront her own mortality and come face to face with the complex emotions surrounding death and dying. Through photography and writing, she has learned to see the beauty in the end of life, and reframed her perspective on her own cancer in the process.
    1:35 Catlin explains her evolving interest in the emotions of those around her and how she records these emotions.
    4:45 The effect of a cancer diagnosis on Catlin’s understanding of emotion.
    6:40 Catlin describes her feelings while taking photos of those who are dying.
    More to explore:
    Learn about Caroline Catlin’s work at www.carolinecat...
    Soulumination provides photography packages for those in need. Learn more here: www.souluminat...
    View “What Really Matters at the End of Life?”, a TED talk by BJ Miller and Hospice and palliative care Physician: www.ted.com/ta...
    Learn about lessons learned when almost dying from at TED Talk by Suleika Jaouad: www.ted.com/ta...
    During his TED Talk, Jason B. Rosenthal give a humorous view of loss and grief: www.ted.com/ta... Caroline Catlin is a writer, photographer, and nap enthusiast. She exudes such a positive, bubbly personality that her desire to dive into intense and difficult topics may come as a surprise to some-but for Catlin, joy and loss feel deeply intertwined.
    In January 2019, Catlin found out she had brain cancer. A long-time advocate for mental health, Catlin suddenly found herself dealing with trauma and devastating illness first hand. With the help of her “sunshine tornado” partner, she made it through multiple rounds of radiation and chemo that were followed by coffeehouse jaunts with her dog and close friends in tow. The road was long, but she made a point to, “practice letting joy in.” Through it all, Catlin found the strength to process her own journey through trauma and to look with an inquisitive and sensitive eye at how other people function through life’s most difficult moments.
    This work has taken Catlin and her camera to the bedside of those breathing their last breath and into the lives of individuals dealing with intense grief and loss. Catlin’s research and work in behavioral health and developmental trauma have inspired her to reform the way health, illness, and disability are portrayed in the media. Through her lens we can discover the art within caregiving and therapy. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 147

  • @amandahayman6807
    @amandahayman6807 3 года назад +25

    Grief is love with nowhere to go.
    Thank you for courage and for sharing your story ❤

  • @fernandozapateroarriaga7926
    @fernandozapateroarriaga7926 3 года назад +8

    Grief changed me: since my brother died, I see life in many different way.
    Sometimes I remember the moment I held his hand as a photograph, as a moment.

    • @bernardofitzpatrick5403
      @bernardofitzpatrick5403 3 года назад

      Fernando, I am sorry for your losing your dear brother. I am happy you remember the moment "you held his hand as a photograph, as a moment"

    • @fernandozapateroarriaga7926
      @fernandozapateroarriaga7926 3 года назад

      @@bernardofitzpatrick5403 Thank you, really, for you response. It means a lot that you read me.

    • @bernardofitzpatrick5403
      @bernardofitzpatrick5403 3 года назад

      @@fernandozapateroarriaga7926 Thank you for sharing my friend. I am sorry for your loss - it is hard to lose close family.

  • @karmen1265
    @karmen1265 3 года назад +7

    Who else cried or got close? Because wow, everything she said was needed and it made me very sappy to hear about that 3 year old.

  • @stephaniecarleton3117
    @stephaniecarleton3117 3 года назад +33

    I like your authenticity in how you are relentlessly true to yourself. Miracles happen everyday- I hope you are granted great health in addition to your other super powers.

  • @rpitt5066
    @rpitt5066 3 года назад +10

    Thank you for this topic. I have many photos like this, taken around my son's bed, over his 28yrs, before his passing. 💞

  • @SY-sp8uo
    @SY-sp8uo 3 года назад +11

    Death is reminder that life is too short.
    *That's why you should spend your time with things that you love and the ones that you love!*

    • @yaras.8492
      @yaras.8492 3 года назад +1

      but in the end, life is the longest thing we've got right?:)

    • @Piyussh
      @Piyussh 3 года назад

      Yeah, thank you for this reminder 😃 sometimes we knew everything, but still these reminders are necessary. God bless you 🌼

    • @Piyussh
      @Piyussh 3 года назад

      @Chris Manzi true

    • @Piyussh
      @Piyussh 3 года назад

      @@yaras.8492 the longest or the shortest, doesn't matter, it's the only thing we have rn. We should live in every moment. 💫

    • @faizanspeakes4469
      @faizanspeakes4469 3 года назад +1

      We should spend much more time in the devine mission for which we have been created.....

  • @CheeferSutherland
    @CheeferSutherland 3 года назад +15

    “Every man dies, not every man really lives.” -Sir William Wallace

  • @kunalkhan1143
    @kunalkhan1143 3 года назад +11

    When I was 17 years old I did 9 brain surgeries for Brain Tumor and Internal Infections. You are brave, I know how it feels , I got paralyzed, Blind, Lost one third of my Scull. just keep Rocking..... :)

  • @kiranr3104
    @kiranr3104 3 года назад +18

    I cried for the first time in two years

  • @grimish_tunes
    @grimish_tunes 3 года назад +9

    Very insightful and inspirational content, that's what keep RUclips truly valuable

  • @badanintelejennetizen7571
    @badanintelejennetizen7571 3 года назад +7

    In Singapore now 03.25 am and i still watching

  • @brunomcoliveira
    @brunomcoliveira 3 года назад

    Thank you Caroline!

  • @KutiezEP
    @KutiezEP 3 года назад +8

    Wow this is amazing information I can see how emotions can relate to colors. Different colors do carry a certain mood. Awesome analogy, thanks for giving us a peek into your world!

  • @jamiepond
    @jamiepond 3 года назад +32

    This is one of the most heartfelt TED talks I've ever seen. Wow.

  • @karliebaxter9932
    @karliebaxter9932 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your heart with us! I have lost many close family and friends in my short 28 years, and grief is my largest struggle. My heart and mind can’t handle it, so I appreciate your insight. I wish you a happy and joyous journey, no matter the length.

  • @trinity1luvHeaven
    @trinity1luvHeaven 3 года назад +2

    Very touching she almost made me realize one of my colleagues I probably never knew and it also remind me of my near death experience and I should not be alive today but I walked out of that hospital two weeks after my hatchet to the head.
    Great story thanks for sharing

  • @carinm.bonifacino
    @carinm.bonifacino 3 года назад

    Stunning talk! Thank you for your sharing your story, your wisdom, your heart and your truth!

  • @marimarujaa7818
    @marimarujaa7818 3 года назад +8

    Amazing 🥲 thank you for an amazing TED talk at times as human being we believe we are invincible but we are so fragile we have to remember this and live life

  • @gopalpoojary2958
    @gopalpoojary2958 3 года назад +5

    This was absolutely beautiful & emotional. Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @louisetanner3232
    @louisetanner3232 3 года назад

    What an amazing emotional talk.

  • @pip9425
    @pip9425 3 года назад +3

    "Beautiful and awful side by side" Whow what an amazing TED talk. Thank you, thank you. It has touched my soul.

  • @joannemates6367
    @joannemates6367 3 года назад +7

    “Get busy living or get busy dying.” (Shawshank Redemption) An absolutely BRILLIANT TED Talk!!

  • @jasontheman3763
    @jasontheman3763 3 года назад +25

    Life is made from nothing but means everything😇✌

    • @JayKay-jh9ek
      @JayKay-jh9ek 3 года назад +4

      It's made by God

    • @bilikdotid
      @bilikdotid 3 года назад

      I agree😀

    • @خارجمنالقطيع
      @خارجمنالقطيع 3 года назад

      I can't imagine how nothing makes something.what comes out of nothing is nothing the two extremes don't meet

    • @bilikdotid
      @bilikdotid 3 года назад

      @@خارجمنالقطيع think about big bang

    • @خارجمنالقطيع
      @خارجمنالقطيع 3 года назад +1

      @@bilikdotid the big bang theory doesn't say something came out of nothing but it said there was an explosion with start point but. What was before the explosion and how it happened the science of men stopped at this point.

  • @bnofficial08
    @bnofficial08 3 года назад +5

    Absolutely Right. I 'm from india 🙏

  • @jasonclark4419
    @jasonclark4419 3 года назад +1

    I love her.

  • @koraptd6085
    @koraptd6085 3 года назад +6

    It just shows how imperfect creatures we truly are, with minds bound to our fragile bodies with an internal death timer.

  • @WesternAustraliaNowAndThen
    @WesternAustraliaNowAndThen 3 года назад +1

    Most of us keep waiting to do the things we want to do and because of that, many of us never get to do them. If you don't start doing the things you dream of now, you may never get the chance. Death is final, you don't get a second chance.

  • @dj_jamfu91
    @dj_jamfu91 3 года назад +13

    Enjoy every moment and second because it does not last forever

    • @Nirmol1.618
      @Nirmol1.618 3 года назад

      Nice speech 👍

    • @Anisabell2
      @Anisabell2 3 года назад

      Nothing does

    • @Thewoxter
      @Thewoxter 3 года назад

      Appreciate health while you have it.

  • @reynoldshr
    @reynoldshr 3 года назад +1

    Thankyou Caroline..I lost my best friend and my mother this past year..I was so moved by your talk..Bless you..

  • @katherinaec5894
    @katherinaec5894 3 года назад

    Live life and be happy for nothing is permanent in this battle field we called world.

  • @king6238
    @king6238 3 года назад +3

    That story at the beginning was so cute
    I am really happy there is someone I can relate to; we're not that similarI but it's cool that I'm not the only slightly weird one lol

  • @valeriejoyce5407
    @valeriejoyce5407 3 года назад

    Thank You ✨💜✨

  • @foreverviking6941
    @foreverviking6941 3 года назад +4

    how are these titles always so interesting

  • @jadedmonk7001
    @jadedmonk7001 3 года назад +2

    We're all dancing in the space between life and death and you glide across the floor with grace. Your moves are beautiful!

  • @LittleLioness1986
    @LittleLioness1986 3 года назад

    I was diagnosed with my first brain tumour at the age of 21 in 2008. It was a grade 2 diffuse astrocytoma. The doctors believed it was there prior to discovery. They believed it was growing at a slow rate my entire life. Then I was diagnosed with two more brain tumors in 2017. Lime size. Surgeries were only a few months apart. They were more aggressive. They were Anaplastic Astrocytomas grade III. Just one grade below a GMB. These often turn into a glioblastomas over time so that concerns me a bit. I’ve had 3 brain tumor surgeries total. I'm on my 4th brain tumor now. It's still considered an AA3. It's not operable. I wish it were. I would absolutely get a 4th surgery. My next MRI is coming up early next month. I start my 12th cycle of oral chemo the day after Easter. It's so challenging not letting this illness define me. I am more than my brain tumor/cancer. When you get a daunting diagnosis like this, it kind of consumes a lot of your thoughts, energy and time. You don't mean to be self focused but you are in survival mode.

  • @joeyvanostrand3655
    @joeyvanostrand3655 3 года назад +2

    I farted this morning and the smoke alarm went off.
    Not sure if they are related, but it's a sign that a great day is comin'!!

  • @kdarlack
    @kdarlack 3 года назад

    You’re an amazing young woman. Thank you for this talk and for taking the photographs you do. What a gift you are blessing grieving families with.💕📸

  • @bettyboo1927
    @bettyboo1927 3 года назад

    You have fully embraced that in the face of death you must live your life to the full. A lesson for us all to learn, and one that, if we don’t, we give up this precious life to fear. Thank you for sharing your very personal story which, looking through the comments has profoundly touched us all.

  • @lauragardner7210
    @lauragardner7210 3 года назад

    yeah, i was told it was all in my head (emotionally) when i was very sick with hydrocephalus, to the point i could barely function, by 2 different hospitals. when my vision began to be effected i had a friend take me to a different hospital where i later had the neurosurgery i needed for years.

  • @Flowertot
    @Flowertot 3 года назад +2

    Going to have a bit of a sob now peace

  • @longlivepakistan5870
    @longlivepakistan5870 3 года назад +2

    Super power is your thinking .

  • @JUN-2022
    @JUN-2022 3 года назад +2

    well done ! My fiend❤❤❤

  • @MrItachi18
    @MrItachi18 3 года назад +3

    GO VEGAN!!!!

  • @dkt6408
    @dkt6408 3 года назад +2

    Is there an audience there?

  • @rarestatus9261
    @rarestatus9261 3 года назад +3

    3rd

  • @vanessablanc2074
    @vanessablanc2074 3 года назад

    Wow. Makes me more appreciative. ❤️

  • @casperlory
    @casperlory 3 года назад +1

    Chk out Hoxsey's Formula.

  • @zapatillaszap4445
    @zapatillaszap4445 3 года назад +1

    I cried your talk is so emotional

  • @garimadhall5807
    @garimadhall5807 3 года назад +1

    Awesome video, brilliant speaker

  • @theclavers
    @theclavers 3 года назад

    Sharing love is sharing Life and u share what you have. Life/love or... The Clavers

  • @aj28b2xe16
    @aj28b2xe16 3 года назад +1

    ❤سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم❤
    🗣أستغفر الله العظيم وأتوب اليه🗣
    💭لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم💭
    💬اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد💬
    💌سبحان الله والحمد لله ولا اله الا الله والله أكبر💌،؛::

  • @eriotouwa4054
    @eriotouwa4054 3 года назад

    Amazing talk!

  • @romaniamyland6191
    @romaniamyland6191 2 года назад

    thank you

  • @mayflowerlash11
    @mayflowerlash11 3 года назад

    Contact Caitlin Doughty whose RUclips channel is called "Ask A Mortician." She has an uplifting perspective on death. She is intelligent and funny. You might get some benefit there.

  • @LUNAELIXABETH
    @LUNAELIXABETH 3 года назад

    Trump esta en Lbry

  • @gapegobuiwang9177
    @gapegobuiwang9177 3 года назад +1

    Why am I crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jannnyyy1
    @jannnyyy1 3 года назад

    Blessings and more Joy along your journey sweet woman! Praying for Yahwehs Supernatural healing POWER to overshadow you WITH HIS DIVINE TOUCH!!!!💜🙏💜..in the Perfect Name of Yeshua!!!

  • @palomaramos4028
    @palomaramos4028 3 года назад

    What a beautiful heartfelt talk! Thank you and I wish you a happy and love filled life 💚🌿

  • @parkminrin9014
    @parkminrin9014 3 года назад

    In the Philippines we have a saying called “Sana all” or “I hope everyone”
    This is usually seen posted in social media by the users/commentators who aspires to be, aspires to have, and aspires to achieve in life based from what they see in social media.
    e.g. A famous celebrity posted about his/her struggles before she has had become successful in his/her career.
    “Wow! Sana All”
    e.g. A friend of you posted a photo of her newly purchased iPhone 12 after months of saving money.
    “Sana all”

  • @susydyson1750
    @susydyson1750 3 года назад

    stay present and enjoy with curiosity ' the moment' that is all 'ever' exists

  • @imdavidbaby
    @imdavidbaby 3 года назад +10

    3rd comment, how is there 25 likes with 4 views? That makes no sense

  • @r1sktayker
    @r1sktayker 3 года назад +1

    Logan paul: I feel ya

  • @endo9902
    @endo9902 3 года назад

    Death is all around us.. we must not loose sight of that.. we have little control over it.. so we must all treat our lives with immense appreciation and value the lives of others.

  • @neilwilliams7885
    @neilwilliams7885 3 года назад

    Look at Tom Seyfried and Mercola interview

  • @angelgarciadelrioromero5740
    @angelgarciadelrioromero5740 3 года назад

    incredible!! what a meaningfull as phylosophical video at least in the way i undertund it.

  • @deorarajendrasingh
    @deorarajendrasingh 3 года назад +1

    Koi Aashiq Dekh Raha hai kya

  • @АлександрАгроном-г3ъ

    Случайно попал.

  • @tikkirose3580
    @tikkirose3580 3 года назад

  • @edwarddrobinski9137
    @edwarddrobinski9137 3 года назад

    Super message .thanks to you.

  • @herowilko1065
    @herowilko1065 3 года назад

    Thank you😊, great talk!

  • @deorarajendrasingh
    @deorarajendrasingh 3 года назад

    Anyone from India

  • @archanabiswas1664
    @archanabiswas1664 3 года назад

    WOW

  • @zvuho
    @zvuho 3 года назад

    It really starts at 5:30

  • @алена-с9м6к
    @алена-с9м6к 3 года назад +1

    это ужасно...

  • @stickersamurai2272
    @stickersamurai2272 3 года назад

    .. in the end, we all die.

  • @jfb919
    @jfb919 3 года назад

    Wow what an amazing talk

  • @juanmanuelacevedo3849
    @juanmanuelacevedo3849 3 года назад

    Sustitutos al español para más visitas

  • @pawlutsada8935
    @pawlutsada8935 3 года назад

    I watched "soul"

  • @chappy9038
    @chappy9038 3 года назад

    Priceless

  • @joerivera6011
    @joerivera6011 3 года назад

    🙏🏼😃 God Bless!

  • @zulfikarzulfikar9789
    @zulfikarzulfikar9789 3 года назад

    Lovely speech

  • @IYogi019
    @IYogi019 3 года назад

    I loved it ! Stay strong ! ❤

  • @rudraom9
    @rudraom9 3 года назад

    I m John ibrahim rohit son

  • @fatemehkhodaparast3051
    @fatemehkhodaparast3051 3 года назад

    Such an amazing talk 😮❤

  • @jadynali9459
    @jadynali9459 3 года назад

    2:32 I like that😍💋 💝💖❤️

  • @okuuyan4613
    @okuuyan4613 3 года назад

    Thanks.💚

  • @zozanyalcntas6974
    @zozanyalcntas6974 3 года назад

    Yes , of course

  • @TimmyDahitman
    @TimmyDahitman 3 года назад

    😢

  • @LadyJ_88
    @LadyJ_88 3 года назад

    Damn

  • @rach-id
    @rach-id 3 года назад +2

    ✌ ☺ ✌

  • @jagadish3408
    @jagadish3408 3 года назад

    In India it's 02:05 AM.......
    Time will pass...
    No need to mention....😂👍

  • @arkanali5333
    @arkanali5333 3 года назад

    Doctor's Advice

  • @АлтанЦэцэг-р6б
    @АлтанЦэцэг-р6б 3 года назад

    Жаль что нет перевода

  • @danvallier1796
    @danvallier1796 3 года назад +1

    Most profound book on grieving available today is Grace Disguised by Gerald Siitsser

  • @klaudiaczarnecka7053
    @klaudiaczarnecka7053 3 года назад +1

    wowee

  • @darlingtono9296
    @darlingtono9296 3 года назад

    This is really depressing!...no pun intended

  • @Zeke4744
    @Zeke4744 3 года назад

    Ahhhh, false hope.

  • @teddydavid2816
    @teddydavid2816 3 года назад

    God is Love and Jesus proved it.

    • @petermcgregor9255
      @petermcgregor9255 3 года назад

      God (s) made cancer, but it is probably one of his/her/its little tests /s

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 3 года назад

    Just once I’d like to see an alpha male give a Ted Talk.

    • @Flowertot
      @Flowertot 3 года назад +6

      Clearly, you have some unresolved issues

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 3 года назад

      @@Flowertot woman, please.

    • @Flowertot
      @Flowertot 3 года назад +4

      @@giftedgreen2152 point proven

    • @petermcgregor9255
      @petermcgregor9255 3 года назад +3

      Well that rules you out.