Fighting Fair | S5 E3 | Couch Conversations

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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2023
  • CC503 - FIGHTING FAIR
    Disagreeing is inevitable in any relationship, but learning how to fight fair can actually bring couples together. For the couples on Couch Conversations - and many couples - that is a learned skill. Ace & Shelah discuss how they have learned to navigate the different ways they disagree, argue, or have misunderstandings and come out better on the other side.
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  • @alexishunt4336
    @alexishunt4336 3 месяца назад +2

    Sybil said” I need to expect what I offer not expect a rescue” that’s powerful to me.

  • @abiodunbabalola1413
    @abiodunbabalola1413 9 месяцев назад +13

    Did y’all heard when Cornelius said “Go play by yourself… we’ll get you a counselor when you get older”😂😂😂

  • @roscoewilliams2892
    @roscoewilliams2892 10 месяцев назад +23

    Ace Hood and his wife are doing a good hosting.

  • @myhumbleapothecary8284
    @myhumbleapothecary8284 10 месяцев назад +64

    i keep thinking ima stop watching so i can watch it with my husband but ima just have to watch it again with him. Such a good episode.

    • @grakno172
      @grakno172 10 месяцев назад

      Wonderful discussion. Great job everyone! I wish you all the best in your marriage.

    • @laurenrichardson446
      @laurenrichardson446 10 месяцев назад +1

      This!!!!! I was thinking the samething

    • @TheFarleysAbroad
      @TheFarleysAbroad 10 месяцев назад

      Same😂

    • @CalmRelaxTranquil
      @CalmRelaxTranquil 9 месяцев назад

      Same and I don't even have a husband yet. He's coming though.☺

  • @dashb9053
    @dashb9053 10 месяцев назад +25

    Ace and Sheilah, y'all doing an amazing job this season 😊

  • @SpindarellaMotloung
    @SpindarellaMotloung 9 месяцев назад +3

    I honestly feel so validated when I find a married woman I can relate with. I know there’s hope for me😂❤️
    I am a complicated woman❤️God have mercy😂

  • @nedraford5461
    @nedraford5461 10 месяцев назад +12

    I am single but I appreciate all of the wisdom that each couple shared. I learned a lot!

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows 10 месяцев назад +18

    Ace Hood has some gorgeous locs

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 10 месяцев назад +24

    🗣Listennnnn, this season so far is touching on deep conversations couples should have, even before marriage
    I'm grateful, just like Ace said

    • @joannaansah4957
      @joannaansah4957 10 месяцев назад +1

      Sa ga fête DooDoo? ❤ #Salisbury

    • @D_A_Marv
      @D_A_Marv 10 месяцев назад

      @@joannaansah4957 Ayeeee mwen la #Loubiere 😊

  • @delroynestawilliams5247
    @delroynestawilliams5247 10 месяцев назад +14

    i love this episode... and to be honest, i think watching it with my gf and discussing the topics is strengthening my relationship... thanks #gratitude

  • @minicoop605
    @minicoop605 9 месяцев назад +1

    So grateful for these conversations!! So much priceless wisdom has been shared on each episode.

  • @dzidzokumahor3857
    @dzidzokumahor3857 9 месяцев назад +2

    Very insightful conversation! Thank you to all the couples for being honest and vulnerable. Taking away some nuggets.

  • @gcromer903
    @gcromer903 10 месяцев назад +5

    This is good preparation work. Learning how to repair sets the new foundation for next surge forward. Well done to all!

  • @LifeWithAlliDaily
    @LifeWithAlliDaily 10 месяцев назад +8

    Yes.
    *Have expectations. Expectations should be communicated, not demanded. 💜

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 10 месяцев назад +2

    Another amazing, much needed topic & discussion!!

  • @marcusbennett157
    @marcusbennett157 9 месяцев назад

    Ace and Sheilah your show is awesome. Please push your show worldwide ❤❤

  • @siphililemoyo5712
    @siphililemoyo5712 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is insightful ,relationships like any aspect of our lives require being worked on!

  • @4hisglory365
    @4hisglory365 5 месяцев назад

    This was sooooo enlightening oh my goodness. 🖤

  • @opeyemiagboola6529
    @opeyemiagboola6529 10 месяцев назад +2

    Another pleasant episode … thank you ACE … for creating this space …. I learn a lot every time I watch this ….

    • @shaystar5008
      @shaystar5008 3 месяца назад

      ACE didn’t create this space. Devale and Khadeem was the first black couple to host this show and they are busy doing Tyler Perry’s show “Sista’s” so they passed the show on to ACE and his wife to host

  • @marymyatt3004
    @marymyatt3004 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you🖤for all you do. Enjoy your Channel.

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 10 месяцев назад +2

    I learned so much from this episode.

  • @darisesanker6022
    @darisesanker6022 10 месяцев назад +5

    What we were saying to ourselves will definitely come up and come out... aloud

  • @Ieasha10
    @Ieasha10 10 месяцев назад +2

    This was GOOD!

  • @karissarobinson1892
    @karissarobinson1892 9 месяцев назад

    Replace expectations w appreciation ❤❤❤❤ love that so much

  • @joannaansah4957
    @joannaansah4957 10 месяцев назад +4

    I love the language these couples are using.
    #reactive vs #proactive
    #direct vs #indirect communication styles.
    ...language we can all use to communicate more effectively ❤

  • @Antonio-kx5rd
    @Antonio-kx5rd 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love y'all 🖤🖤

  • @salnaka6674
    @salnaka6674 10 месяцев назад +5

    Glad to see black couples 💑

  • @user-og9ch5tj6b
    @user-og9ch5tj6b 6 месяцев назад

    I can appreciate this. In the beginning I didn't like that Heather didn't allow her husband to introduce himself, (I initially though oh here we go again, another strong "girl boss" woman who is happy to be wife but disregards her husband )but what I later realized is that her husband is her balance. They truly need each other.

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 10 месяцев назад +2

    I love this show ❤

  • @nikiawilliams4670
    @nikiawilliams4670 8 месяцев назад

    Love this.

  • @mickyfingaz
    @mickyfingaz 10 месяцев назад +6

    When did Ace Hood become a relationship counselor? 😂

    • @shaystar5008
      @shaystar5008 3 месяца назад

      He’s not a counselor, he’s just hosting the show. He just asking the questions they told him to ask

  • @ellisonclarae
    @ellisonclarae 9 месяцев назад

    This! This! This! All of this!

  • @melissamelodies3729
    @melissamelodies3729 6 месяцев назад

    love this 🫶🏾

  • @gracesoares3009
    @gracesoares3009 10 месяцев назад +4

    Love, love, love Heather and Cornelius Lindsey!!!! So happy to see them here!❤❤❤

  • @marylee19941994
    @marylee19941994 5 месяцев назад

    I’m the same way at the lady I the blue bc I don’t want my kids to feel was than growing up n trauma and barely being Abe to talk with my mom about anything sucks . & feeling like you have to overwork

  • @sheilaisaacs4360
    @sheilaisaacs4360 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤️🙏🏾

  • @queridarodrigues635
    @queridarodrigues635 10 месяцев назад +2

    Can we talk about the topic How to deal with sexuale abuse in marriage

  • @kwameaboagye-cl9me
    @kwameaboagye-cl9me 6 месяцев назад

    Black Love inseparable

  • @sg5720
    @sg5720 10 месяцев назад +7

    So people don’t discuss what they want in a marriage while dating?? 🤷🏽‍♀️. 🤦🏽

    • @AngelaElikya
      @AngelaElikya 10 месяцев назад +10

      Your wants can change and sometimes what you want out while dating will end up being only a want and not a need you have to compromise

    • @dashb9053
      @dashb9053 10 месяцев назад +3

      I was wondering the same, it's alot of serious conversations when already in the marriage but its like why not in the beginning when it matters most to gauge compatibility