I’m the breadwinner too, wake up early. Thai husband sleeps in til 9:30-9:45. He is kind, and a good father with our son. Not a heavy drinker nor gambler. I know I can’t have it all, and am grateful.
Yeap Thaï (or Madagascar or Mayoote) 's local men consider European or US wifes to be their " grain of rice " (meal ticket ) ... if THAT SUITS YOU, well ... let it be...
@@mercedesvisage3380 if YOU say so ... but Lilly does NOT look happy at all ... she sounds misearable really ... think she is trapped like so many european woman by these guys , who seek their " grain of rice " among fcreign tourists... believe me or not .. I know for sure ...
I understand your husband. He has a Big heart. A man with capacities. Serious and a Big father. Wish him a Glory restart in the Restaurant. God bless you all.
In your blogs Wat is his own character…he is part of the content and that’s his role in the show…we love him as is …and the same with all the characters….we love your family with all its beauty and faults…so simply blog the family and it’s reality…it’s the honesty that people are drawn to….it’s not made up or scripted…..power on Lily…on to the next video!
Hello everyone! We are new AMWF content creator. I'm from Bangkok and my gf's from Scotland. It is good to see an AMWF content creator on RUclips. Have a nice day/evening everyone! 🇹🇭🇬🇧 Paul and Jay
Yes - well said. Be real and genuine - struggles and all. I used to think I had to be ‘winning’ in order to show Christ to people. …but I’ve learned that sharing struggles, hardships and tough times with honesty whilst focusing on the Lord to get me through was more powerful than any ‘perfect life’ I could try to live. Keep being authentic and share each other’s burdens. It does seem that Wat is struggling and there are so many legitimate reasons for it. He’s lost his dad, his work, his life as he knew it, his life has changed with a new baby and your new work and calling. He’s lost some of his roles and had to pick up others…Change- even change for the good can be a stressor that can contribute to feeling down. Keep encouraging him - letting him know you’re in his corner. Keep respecting him for the good man that he is. Respect is so implant all the more needed when we feel we aren’t doing or being what we were previously. Keep fighting the good fight and remember that we don’t fight against flesh and blood but against the evil powers that threaten us (physically, mentally, spiritually) Ephesians 6:12 ❤ blessings to you and your family
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
I noticed too over the last while that Wat was sleeping too much and seemed a bit off. Getting his groove back by re-opening the restaurant is a great idea and should as you mentioned Lilly, give him purpose. Wat is a great family man and is clearly devoted to the children. Cheers.
I love how you’re so patient with Wat and encouraging him to find his purpose again. Depression can be very difficult but he has a great partner in life. Many blessings to you and your family.
@@alwaysnevr Did you even watch the video lol. She said he owned a bar and it went well before covid. She said the first time they met she didn't have to work at all for months, just go hang out at that bar everyday.
@@켄지 you dont get life. she was lonely so she got him and made a mistake, he was excited a pretty girl with blue eyes looked at him. he dont even say I love you to her what are u talking about vro
@@alwaysnevr lmao!! He didn’t need a green card. He loves his country. If she think she’s soo good then she can go back to where she come from. Thai ppl don’t need a person like her. Karen!
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
i like wat how he respects his wife lilly in every videos. he always support her even he is a lil bit shy on cam. love these couples. inspiring 🥰🥰❤️❤️🙏🙏
Remember that marriage is a loving mutual relationship between a husband and wife. Kids are temporarily. Once they're grown, they'll be gone, only you and your spouse are left.
Your husband smiled so sweetly when you asked him if you were his crown and he said yes. He loves his wife .♥️💯 beautiful!! God bless you and your family !
When Wat settled into Bangkok and made friends he was happy, he gained weight and looked healthier, ever since you’ve come back from the trip with your ( mom and dad) he’s lost the weight and he never smiles. I think he misses having fun with his friends too. I hope he finds his happiness.
Im sure losing his dad still affects him, too. Losing my dad may me reevaluate a lot of things, i.e., purpose. It speaks volumes to your relationship that you notice when he's off and help/support him to get him through. Wish you guys much success on reopening.
@@alwaysnevr My Thai fiancée mention southern Thai man can be super lazy..... and woman provide for them... and i ask why do woman still stay with them? she have no idea... and mention good sex? LOL... then i say i need learn how to F like those men haha
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Me and my Thai boyfriend will visit your restaurant once it is open again. I am also an expat living here for 11 years now and so happy to have found your youtube. Have been following your vlogs for quiet some time now since covid.
Its nice to hear you talk about the differences (culturally) and the hardships couples and individuals face. Your channel feels very honest. I'm sure Watt is going to really enjoy having this new purpose and I think we all felt a bit lost during Covid. Good luck on the restaurant reopening.
"Purpose" Hard to teach an illiterate in their own language new tricks or to function in business when they can't read or write their own language let alone yours, but What can rest easy Lily will be there to bailout him out like the federal reserve. The kid will outgrow him mentally about age 10 but I think that kid will be great and find a very good place in Thailand as a very liked and celebrated kid! Eventually he may be embarrassed by his Father's lack of social acceptance here
It’s kind of a blessing Wat has felt different or “off” while not working, means he has the desire to want more. He will feel so much better when the restaurant opens, you’ll see! Just do a slow open with a small menu…baby steps. We are all rooting for you.
I am soon to be 66 years old and at age 44 became a widow when my 49 year old husband died suddenly from a heart attack. Our 15 year marriage was not perfect, but I can tell you even during the lowest points my life was much better when my husband was sharing it with me even during the times when I was the solo bread winner and my husband got laid off several times from his job which he too felt lack of purpose when not gainfully employed. As a now retired R.N. who worked with many depressed patients, a red flag for evolving clinical depression is excessive sleeping, lack of purpose, and loss of interest in activities that at one time were enjoyable. If you think depression may be an issue with your husband get him the appropriate help before it worsens and is much harder to treat.
What about if your husband has all of those symptoms, but doesn't want to get help? Oh and throw in an addiction to oxycodone! What's a wife to do? I do pray for him and the situation.
My son is suffering for depression for years and we didn't know, now we have a therapist and meds, he's so different than before, but still working on it.(my English is not good) God bless you all
@@karencarter3312 it is one of the hardest things. You must look after yourself firstly… and try and be informed. Learn how to take care of yourself and understand your reactions to it. It does help but doesn’t heal . Prayer helps…
Wat just lost a major person in his life his father he looks like he's grieving still.Some people need time to readjust to a new reality.Hes not himself but pushing him to soon will make him lose his self-esteem more. Healing takes time. Lilly your a great lady and will pray for him.Take care
I lost my cousin who was like my only sister almost a year ago, still bring tears to my eyes today. I've never been the same since. Your an amazing person, just give him time to heal and he will. Yes getting him back to work will help him heal too by keeping him busy. Thanks for another great vlog❤️
It looks like Wat is re-energized and motivated because he enjoys his work. I too understand how when sad I will sleep later. It can be frustrating for others in the family though. It looks like everyone is enjoying their day.❤Thank you Lilly🙏
Hi Lilly, I am glad you are opening the restaurant and Wat will be able to feel useful and good about himself, you are a good wife, a good mommy, and a good boss to Nam. It takes a strong, faithful woman to care and keep her family healthy, happy, and unified. God bless you all!
Hi Lilly, Your family is very simple. Just like other asian family. Your children are so adorable . I love how you took care of Nam and Wat. As an asian person, I understand how you tried to adjust asian culture. . Mostly asian men are too shy, silent type and have so many plans in mind. What do they need is understanding. As what I see, Wat is a wonderful husband so loving and gentle. Love him always lilly.
@@bluebutterfly7233 That is true Lily is sooo special & deserves much Better But Thank God for he has rewarded her with an awesome helper and sister Nam and three Beautiful Children God bless Her whole Family🙏❤
Are you serious?, criticizing Wat for sleeping in? Wasn't that long ago he let you sleep while he looked after the boys and got up for the little girl. Nam looks after the kids and the house. A lot of mums are working two jobs and bringing kids up by themselves. Have a look in the mirror and count your blessings instead of criticizing your husband who adores you and your kids. Instead of negative criticism what about positive encouragement/direction.
@@GM-cq6ez you can really see the change in her in the past year. So focused/consumed with videos/religion/$$$ she's not putting what's really important first...husband and kids.
I am Thai woman I been with Thai man before I have to say goodbye now I married to an Australian man . A lot of Thai men will not help much to looks after kids will not clean the house or cook because they believe this are women jobs even more bad is he got low income and the wife still go to work and have to come home do the rest of the job in house too bye bye thai man low quality
It's funny how people who don't know someone personally gets on here chatting with critical criticism ...please get a life...what u sow is what your going to reap...if you don't like her video move on ..your free to make your own video . What I am nicely saying is stop judging her seriously...
Many housewives complain of doing household chores although it's the role of being a married woman. You don't really know how a man feels that this woman's role is assigned to him ( a husband turned to houseband). Sleeping extra long hours is a sign of depression. Just be thankful that compared to other men, he is not brutal to his wife. A little encouraging may uplift and regain his confidence and enthusiasm to work again.
Hi Lilly, You are so wise to have Wat make the decisions regarding reopening the restaurant and the restaurant menu. Having a purpose and a passion in life are both so important, as is making our own decisions about our purpose and passion. I admire your courage to put a word to how Wat is feeling. 'Depression'and 'depressed' can be hard words to say aloud. I don't know Wat, but he has definitely appeared disengaged and depressed. He is fortunate to have you - a supportive and thoughtful life partner. You always acknowledge Wat"s strengths such as being a wonderful father - way to go Lilly. Best to all of you. I wish continued success with your RUclips channel and success to Wat's reopening of the restaurant. Cheers and best to your lovely children and Nam. ❤️
Omgee my mom too said “ rise and shine” ! What a good memory and yes it was a bit annoying while sweet. Yes your present dresses are so nice. Wat also grieves within for his dad I’m sure, praying for good upon your family as you continue to grow. ❤ Love your channel.
It's so sweet how Wat answered without having to think when you asked him if you're his crown😄 I think Wat will be happier when he starts running the restaurant again. A New Orleans restaurant offering some authentic Thai food sounds great!
I had really bad relationship before but I met the perfect one we are together 5 years and he will answer the same if I ask I am his 👑 with out even think twice I am so lucky and happy like you now 🎉
How else could he respond ON Her camera? (What wifely duties does She provide for him as a man's wife, besides sex.) His heart didn't seem into her pushy forced- on-my-camera reply. She seems to THINK she IS better. She allegedly came in and set herself up in His country off his back and touring guide introductions; mixed-raced children; and manhood. (Allegedly, seems to dictates where they live like a MS. Anne.) Christian wives who read the WORD understand the role of the husband and wife. (You become one with YOUR husband.) NOT one with your mom, sister and your combined family business in YOUR own homeland. Should we THINK allegedly "USING someone else for your own selfish gains?" (Comments made are IMHO FROM observing these videos.) GOD HELP her to do better. IMHO
Morning Lily! I’m so that Wat is opening the restaurant again and I think that’s going to bring a spark back into him and we are going to see a different Wat. Praying for all of you! God bless you and your beautiful family and for Nam and her family 🙏🏻❤️
Hello from Texas Lilly, so happy for you and your family. You know Lilly, family dynamics come in all sorts of shapes and forms. Family is HAPPINESS, are your kids happy, are you being respected, emmotianally supported, are your parents supporting of your relationship....if YES then there is nothing for you to explain. You and your husband are a compliment to each other, and that is how it works. Nam, gets my kudos for being such a great part of this family. Your relationship and care towards her is amazing. Watt will come around when he gets the restaurant off and running! Hugs to all!
Magnificent video! Wat … yep… that’s normal to lose ambition at first when your job goes away. I’m so happy to see him looking better already. Prayer changes everything!
I have three children (they are 4, 2, and 1), the oldest loves Lyla, the second has a crush on Leon and the youngest thinks Luke is the best. They love Thailand and it's cute to watch them watch you!
Lilly your amazing because instead of putting your husband down and criticizing him you take the matter into a different way and you help him go up by uplifting him. Giving him Hope and pushing him to achieve better. Your an amazing wife. God Bless your family. Sometimes men get caught up into a depression and they feel low but it takes a special wife to uplift her husband and that’s you. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌✝️🙏❤️
@@inka87871 WORRY ABOUT YOUR OWN MISERABLE LIFE.... You're a nobody who gives Lilly nothing. Go and get professional help (therapy) or take your meds, instead of stressing over strangers lives. You are mental.
You're a brave woman with 3 kids and a husband from a different culture who seems depressed. Thank God you're strong enough to keep up your household together. May God bless you 🙏 and your beautiful family everyday.
Looks like Wat is a man of few words! The children are beautiful! I admire the life you chose, all I say is must be “LOVE”! God bless you and your family!
I'm so happy Wat is opening the restaurant. He needed that. He was bored to tears. You could tell he was unhappy. Everyone needs purpose. Your baby girl is getting cuter and cuter. Those EYES! They all have your big eyes! I think she's Daddys girl. You have beautiful babies.
Please dont be negative, keep uplifting the family, its norma to go on stahes like this, with Gods grace they will overcome with it!!, Stay positive!!!..
Hi Lilly, thank you for sharing yours and your family’s situation and challenges. I am also gone through many similar scenarios but have now found new passions for life in general. I wish you and your family peace, happiness, and good health.
So many rude people commenting. It's not your life or your place to be commenting. Don't like it, don't watch it! Very simple! You people are just jealous. Learn compassion 🙏 ✨️ it goes a long way, even online. Geesh
Ashley, to those pathetic and sad people are just very unhappy with their lives. They will never see or have any good things to say to another human being. 😕
Oh my gosh! You should totally have a picture made from when the boys were sitting together looking out over the water. I'm telling you...that was precious!
Loved this video! So happy to see Wat find a purpose again. I think when we get snippets of your life every day you get really invested and seeing Wat appear to be so unhappy and depressed and sleeping his life away has been difficult! I’m sure it has been very hard for all of you and him! So great that he is opening the restaurant again!
@@Joshadowolf My own opinion - Lots of controlling here from foreigner wife. Husband has no chance to be The Man. It suits though, after all it’s “Lily’s Life” . I lost interest with their contents and following Lily’s life.
A man is not easy to have forieghner wife, specially Lilly is used to luzus living, a man is tired but he can't backout because of too many children. Men don't make children to foreign women. Their mentality is not fit to Asian way of life.
My Dad was so mean to my mother and he searched for reasons to beat me because I would try to protect my mom. It was hell! Watt is a wonderful father and husband. He doesn’t say much but he married a woman who loves to talk so he must be a good listener too! I’m glad you talk a lot Lilly because you glorify the Lord!
It's worrisome for the young children as mom is becoming dissatisfied with dad. Lilly's work is evangelical, serving the poor, and setting up a ministry for herself.
He better be a good father and a good listener. She is the provider, mainstay, pillar of the family. Regardless of supposed depression, he needs to step up to the plate and start working, if only part time at first.
Lily, I really hope things get back to “normal” for you as life resumes in Thailand. You are such a shining light for your family and an inspiration for many. Keep enjoying life!
Hi Lilly, I think there have been many challenges for all of us over the last 3 years. Thank you for being open about your life and sharing with us. It has helped me more than you know. I had to quit my job in November 2021 for many reasons. I miss working and need meaning and purpose. I have appreciated the time off but I am so ready to get back to work. I wish Wat many blessings on reopening the restaurant. I will pray that it is successful and blesses your entire family. I sure do wish I could visit your new restaurant. The food in your video looks so wonderful. Please take care and God Bless!
She WAS interested in restaurants (like she and her White partner owned in the states.) That WAS her dream NOT his. Now she wants him to be a footman while she determines her restaurant's direction. THEN LAUGHING at him with her nanny/ housekeeper AND his children. Allegedly, seems to be a type of setup. Now she can bail out, she has inroads into his culture and economy, mixed-Thai children and a stateside business with her mom and sister PLUS she is accusing him of being lazy. But she has the nanny? He was doing fine before he met her. Sounds like colon***** to me.. Dear LORD, please place a hedge of protection around YOUR unhappy child of GOD.
Why y'all watch this lady but criticize her so much why ? Can't she express her feelings if she want I see other channels do it ? This lady is very motivated to me , no one knows if she depress and tired . She is also human , she have to be working be a good mom , wife and she also the back bone for him. She do understand what's going on she supportive an understating. I love her from 🇯🇲
I love the message at the end of your videos. Keep posting. Challenges in life are like spices. You needed them to complete you. Keep believing, keep going. God is there to guide you always. God bless! 🙏♥️
Hello Lilly, what a joy to see you on this video. I saw all the members of your family. From the beach and looking at Koh Phangan at a distance, and to see all the greenery, coconut trees and the mountains and clear crystal waters. That makes me think life is worth while living. Those fruits that Wat was taking from the tree. I think it is called Chickoo. When I come next year, I want to see that gadget that Wat had. So I can make one to get my mangoes. Lilly by the end of this week, you should have received my letter, and the recipe books. Please acknowledge it, so I know it has reached you. Very sad news this week of Lisa Marie Presley, and today Gina Lollabridgeda passed away. She was 95 years young. I am up between 3.30 and 4.00am every morning. I work till about 10.30am, come in have my breakfast, shower and sit down to watch anything that Lilly has put out for me to watch. In your bar, if you have any Tia Maria or Irish Cream. Please check it, as those liquers are made of milk. I had them, and they went off. Take care, stay safe, keep smiling, and all God's blessings on you, Wat your precious kids, and Nam. When you go to bed at nights, Go to sleep with a smile on your face, and you will wake up with a smile next morning. Yes I like the dresses you wear. You remind me of Cher, Love you all.
It brings me so much joy seeing what a loving family really looks like. You all look so beautiful and precious to me. God smiles on you with so much love in his heart. Hallelujah!
Hi Lilly ! Warm greetings from cold Calgary (Alberta, Canada). I have been watching your videos for the past 2 years. Your daily vlogs is my happy pill. You have a very beautiful family - thank you for sharing them with us, including your daily life which is truly inspirational. Be strong and keep the faith. Wish you and your family a bounty of blessings. Tight hugs !
So glad to hear ya’ll have a plan to open your restaurant! I agree Wat has seemed depressed but I know God will help him rise up to be the husband and father he is meant to be! Great blessings to you and your family!
Thank-you for sharing the challenges of life, marriage, children, impacts of the pandemic and cultural differences that exist as a non-Asian living in Thailand. Your family has been through so much including the death of your husband's dad and best friend. Plus supporting the amazing Nam by raising awareness of everything happening in Myanmar. Being a queen helping your husband find purpose again, whilst being understanding and supportive is a special part of marriage. It will be returned to you when needed in abundance. I really enjoy your videos 😊 many blessings to you 🙏
I don't see Wat fishing in these videos. Wouldn't that make him happy to go and fish and catch enough for a meal. Lily you seem to be closer to Nam. I'm wondering if Wat feels left out.
I love this video please bring them back with all the activities and things that go all around you good luck I hope you open the restaurant soon and I hope you get your house and I hope your Nanny gets to see her son and her family comes soon
No man is happy bored or without purpose, wat is feeling it and still grieving his father. I’m so happy he decided to open the restaurant again, it will be great fir him and the family;) great to see him moving forward . God bless you and wat and your family, which includes Nam ❤ i think with god on your side, you will prosper and get your business back up and going:) god bless & good luck!
I thoroughly enjoy both of your channels. I am in recovery for drug/ alcohol addiction. I have 4 1/2 yrs clean and I'm also Christian but I'm just learning about God. I find comfort and in your videos. If you only affect one person with your life and struggles then it's worth it but you're effecting many people so even though it's difficult to not worry really give it to God because we both know through God anything is possible. Bless you and your family ❤
I worked in Taiwan for 8 years and was always told not to think too much. People do not talk as much in Asia or think too much. Different cultures. Actually it is much healthier for the brain and body, if we control our thinking and go with the flow. I am also not a person who likes to put up a happy face for people. I like to be myself. He is standing his ground. He wants to be himself. Lilly is doing a great job anyway. Things do become like this in a marriage. It's not always romantic and exciting. In the west we are brainwashed by movies and the media to what a happy marriage should be. Just accept that entertainment is going to be your job. He tried. Things will work out anyway. God bless you and your family😍
Look at it this way. Let's turn this around. The family is sleeping or resting quietly...you get to go for your walk and enjoy the early peaceful morning. Wat I believe is a thinker...but when he speaks its because something important needs to be said. He loves you so much. You can see it where looks at you and that little grin.
My husband was able to retire early so he could raise our daughter while I worked. I always made more money. He also cleaned some and did laundry, he was under appreciated. Miss him as he passed in 2019. I reinvented myself and brought happiness, cherish everyday.
The boys are beautiful 😍. Lyla is getting so big. Can't wait to see her walking 😍. I'm so glad Wat is going to open the restaurant. It's never good for a man not to work 😕 especially a man like Wat. With opening the restaurant he will regain his purpose and self respect while showing his children great work ethics 🙏 👏. Happy for you Wat ❤😊!!! Hope you guys can get your house soon...what a blessing it will be for all of you! Be well, stay safe and God bless you all. 🥰
I’m happy for your family that you recognize the value of Nam getting back to normal and working. It has been challenging for so many but to be in the food industry, I can’t imagine the adjustments you’ve had to make. Thank you for sharing your life with us!❤
Hi Lilly love your channel. From a man's perspective maybe it's best at this stage to let Wat do his style of thai style restaurant so to have some importance to his family and himself. Confidence and pride grows in doing something your familiar with and bringing back passion sometimes you didn't know you lost until it's like your reborn again. Bless you all.
Yes, I think Wat really wanted to do something to help you with the family financially plus I think he feels like he needs to support his mother in some way but since he’s not making any money and that’s maybe why he looks unhappy or depressed. That’s my opinion 😊
My husband & I have 10 daughters 5 son's put together. I don't work but enjoy every moment I can including filming my husband while sleeping. Honestly if you love someone shouldn't put them down.
I've been watching your video's for a few weeks now and really enjoy them. I enjoy everything about your life in Thailand. It looks like you found a perfect blend of happiness where you live tied in with your faith in God. May God continue to Bless you.
Thank you so much for sharing. Lately I've been caught in the same kind of rut myself, so I understand! Good for you for picking yourself up and doing what you need to do for you, Watt!
I remember saying this to you on several other videos Lily, Wat needs structure and routine.. he is a giver and a doer. I think this will be the making of him 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Boredom is challenging and even though it’s going to be tough at the beginning to get into a routine but I’m sure it’ll all work out for the best 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
When the sickness came it affected so many small businesses. So sad to see some of our favorite small businesses close. Even here in America we lost some small businesses that my family went to. So many people developed PTSD and depression from this new world we all had to get used to. It's good that you are getting back to doing what you love. It will be good for everyone. You are such a good cook and you lost so much weight, you could even do your own book with beautiful photos from the area and it would be cute to include everyone's favorite meals in your book, even the kids. You could even have a funny chapter on that stinky fruit. I am sure Nam has some recipes she could share too along with her families story. You have a lot to share with the world and God is right their by your side leading you in the direction to do this. God bless you and your family always.
Wat is a good and supportive father/husband. Yes you are right, men DO feel disconnected and depressed if he cant find his life purpose. For years men is to "provide" for his family, poor Wat he may felt "defeated" and unable to do much for the family - but he did. All those times on the road, you guys worked as a family unit. Tell Wat its okay to feel this way (we're humans anyways), but dont give up. And Lilly, you are an amazing spouse (good listener & observer) that understood this and instead of making him feel bad, you supported his decision to open the restaurant early so he could do something and this is good for his self esteem. Looking forward to visit your restaurant oneday!
Hello everyone! We are new AMWF content creator. I'm from Bangkok and my gf's from Scotland. It is good to see an AMWF content creator on RUclips. Have a nice day/evening everyone! 🇹🇭🇬🇧 Paul and Jay
Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around. Lilly, your different experiences in the past and in various places are more value and of course priceless. They look real education that you got from true life university and more important than any internal education or university. Steve Jobs left from university once he felt that it was not his way and just a few years later he did succeed. Facebook creator also decided to out from Harvard university to build what he loved and lastly he made FB to be well known all over the world. Time is free, but it's priceless. It depends how we used it in time in our life we can't own it, but we can use it and at the same time we can't keep it, but we can spend it. Once we've lost it we can never get it back. In my view, your time in the past until now is regarded as your special reward that God giving you - your lovely children who will grow to be qualified human, your husband, Wat - who is honest and loyal to you and importantly beloved and excellent daddy of three kids. Besides you have nice and friendly friend like Nam who always builds warm and impressive feeling to you and your family even your fan club, everyone likes Nam. Lilly, today you have a perfect life, based on your experiences and your global education, and excellent family.
I agree that Lily does have a great life. They both show consideration to each other are a strong couple. I love learning about the things Lily talks about and explores. The kids are amazing, Luke is a Total American with Dad’s complexion; Leon looks completely American but has Wat’s demeanor💯. We will have to keep watching Lila develop but physically she looks like both. All are gorgeous, well behaved kids🤩🤩🙏❤️🩹
@@debj5114 SHE does have a great life--NOT so this husband who THOUGHT he was gaining a loving wife and not someone to embarrass him in a YT camera-made video thumbnail. How can she laugh at him WITH the housekeeper AND His own children for all the world to see on YT. HOW embarrassing! Lazy! How LAZY is she hiring a nanny/housekeeper to do her wifely/momma duties? And if she moves back to the states, how will she deal with her mixed-race children since she seems so conscious of people staring at the baby when they were out? GOD, please HELP this family soon. 🔆
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Wat reminds me of my mother, she sleeps/rests a lot and she used to be a very busy and hard-working person, she says: even when I look like sleeping ''I am working'' planning what to do next 😊 LIly, you are blessed with your family and beautiful warm place. Greetings from Canada🥰
First of all your content is beautiful and authentic. I love how you instill back into society that struggles are part of a healthy family dynamics mixed with your success. Way too often we only see the edited version of contrived success in many content throughout all platforms of social media. This gives false sense of how life should be and that is unfortunately what so many young impressionable people are measuring themselves against. Your love and support for your family is showing the realness of life. I'm not a doctor nor do I hold any degrees in psychology but it appears that he is suffering from depression rather than laziness. Depression can suck all the energy out of a person. He is clearly grieving the loss of his father and prior to that the shutdown of his business during the pandemic. Though I'm certain your success with RUclips is something he greatly admires because he admires and loves you, perhaps he's trying to find his success in all this as well. Maybe what he does not realize is even though its not him doing all the filming and all the wonderful things that you do he too is a great part of this channels success. As a person who works in entertainment and searches for content for TV and film I assure him that he's plays a huge part in this channels success. Your content is about family and your relationship without him there would be a huge missing part in this channel and it 's branding. Gently remind him that his journey even though it has it's challenges is great content. Find what he truly loves, Is it creating culinary magic? If it is help him create a youtube platform that is about his recipes and cooking, the dynamics of running a restaurant in an exotic location. That alone is great content! We already know him from this channel you can together create the next big "thing" through food. Everyone loves a good cooking channel. You are an amazing producer, produce that for him and expand your brand. I hope this helps! I'm rooting for all of you. I love this channel it's so wholesome and we need more of that in our world. Thank you for welcoming us into your lives your hard work adds beauty to our world.
Just got the notification.. going to watch the video with my breakfast in a few minutes as usual.. haven’t seen it yet but Aww Wat is apart of your channel/work.. your lovely family brings content that we love. This Pandemic has been hard on all of us.. and hard to get back into working for some, for many reasons. When you open your family restaurant.. it will only get better God willing ❤
I’m the breadwinner too, wake up early. Thai husband sleeps in til 9:30-9:45. He is kind, and a good father with our son. Not a heavy drinker nor gambler. I know I can’t have it all, and am grateful.
Yeap Thaï (or Madagascar or Mayoote) 's local men consider European or US wifes to be their " grain of rice " (meal ticket ) ... if THAT SUITS YOU, well ... let it be...
@@Maimitti just because Wat sleeps until 10am doesn't make him lazy or someone who takes advantage of his wife.
@@mercedesvisage3380 Ok what does it make him, Lazy, Lazy Lazy.
@@mercedesvisage3380 if YOU say so ... but Lilly does NOT look happy at all ... she sounds misearable really ... think she is trapped like so many european woman by these guys , who seek their " grain of rice " among fcreign tourists... believe me or not .. I know for sure ...
Wat seems to be suffering from Clinical Depression. I can tell because I suffer from it.😔...some days are harder than others.
I understand your husband. He has a Big heart. A man with capacities. Serious and a Big father. Wish him a Glory restart in the Restaurant. God bless you all.
This is Watt's way of coping with the roller coaster ride you've been on. I'm a big fan of Watt's!
Very funny Watt is sleeping while she’s up working. But I think when he gets up he does so much for the boys it’s unbelievable-:)
Lovely video Lilly. Your nanny is a breath of fresh air. So positive and just exudes light and love.
So glad Wat is getting some purpose back in his life…it will be a blessing to you all xx
In your blogs Wat is his own character…he is part of the content and that’s his role in the show…we love him as is …and the same with all the characters….we love your family with all its beauty and faults…so simply blog the family and it’s reality…it’s the honesty that people are drawn to….it’s not made up or scripted…..power on Lily…on to the next video!
Hello everyone!
We are new AMWF content creator.
I'm from Bangkok and my gf's from Scotland.
It is good to see an AMWF content creator on RUclips.
Have a nice day/evening everyone!
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Paul and Jay
Yes - well said. Be real and genuine - struggles and all. I used to think I had to be ‘winning’ in order to show Christ to people. …but I’ve learned that sharing struggles, hardships and tough times with honesty whilst focusing on the Lord to get me through was more powerful than any ‘perfect life’ I could try to live. Keep being authentic and share each other’s burdens.
It does seem that Wat is struggling and there are so many legitimate reasons for it. He’s lost his dad, his work, his life as he knew it, his life has changed with a new baby and your new work and calling. He’s lost some of his roles and had to pick up others…Change- even change for the good can be a stressor that can contribute to feeling down.
Keep encouraging him - letting him know you’re in his corner. Keep respecting him for the good man that he is. Respect is so implant all the more needed when we feel we aren’t doing or being what we were previously.
Keep fighting the good fight and remember that we don’t fight against flesh and blood but against the evil powers that threaten us (physically, mentally, spiritually) Ephesians 6:12
❤ blessings to you and your family
@@joycohen938 Amen!
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
I noticed too over the last while that Wat was sleeping too much and seemed a bit off. Getting his groove back by re-opening the restaurant is a great idea and should as you mentioned Lilly, give him purpose. Wat is a great family man and is clearly devoted to the children. Cheers.
I love how you’re so patient with Wat and encouraging him to find his purpose again. Depression can be very difficult but he has a great partner in life. Many blessings to you and your family.
this man hasn't worked for 9 years, and now depression is his excuse. you wouldn't go for that
@@alwaysnevr Did you even watch the video lol. She said he owned a bar and it went well before covid. She said the first time they met she didn't have to work at all for months, just go hang out at that bar everyday.
@@켄지 you dont get life. she was lonely so she got him and made a mistake, he was excited a pretty girl with blue eyes looked at him. he dont even say I love you to her what are u talking about vro
@@alwaysnevr lmao!! He didn’t need a green card. He loves his country. If she think she’s soo good then she can go back to where she come from. Thai ppl don’t need a person like her. Karen!
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
i like wat how he respects his wife lilly in every videos. he always support her even he is a lil bit shy on cam. love these couples. inspiring 🥰🥰❤️❤️🙏🙏
You gotta be trolling. Dude don’t pay no bills and don’t even sleep in the same bed as her
Luke is smart and mature enough to begin assisting with chores, and perhaps helping around the resturant.....Good character building for him😊
Praying for your husband to find fulfillment and praying for your marriage and your family and your life
Dont feel bad , watt is a really hands on dad and a great help with his children🥰
Is that so
@@amarie3309 Watch all the vidéos and you will see
Remember that marriage is a loving mutual relationship between a husband and wife. Kids are temporarily. Once they're grown, they'll be gone, only you and your spouse are left.
What we see on utube is watt being a great father , he is always there for his children , thats what is shown
Agreed.
Your husband smiled so sweetly when you asked him if you were his crown and he said yes. He loves his wife .♥️💯 beautiful!! God bless you and your family !
When Wat settled into Bangkok and made friends he was happy, he gained weight and looked healthier, ever since you’ve come back from the trip with your ( mom and dad) he’s lost the weight and he never smiles. I think he misses having fun with his friends too. I hope he finds his happiness.
You grew into learning Lily it got better the older you became
Wat is not a morning person. He appears to be a great & involved father. You are blessed 🙌 🙏
Im sure losing his dad still affects him, too. Losing my dad may me reevaluate a lot of things, i.e., purpose. It speaks volumes to your relationship that you notice when he's off and help/support him to get him through. Wish you guys much success on reopening.
I lost my parent to but I had to still work
he;s a MAN tho
@@alwaysnevr My Thai fiancée mention southern Thai man can be super lazy..... and woman provide for them... and i ask why do woman still stay with them? she have no idea... and mention good sex? LOL... then i say i need learn how to F like those men haha
ATTENTION!!! Hell is real. We can not hide our sins from God. Is your heart right with God? Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. If you reject Jesus Christ, you will not have everlasting life in Heaven. ACTS 2:38 “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Me and my Thai boyfriend will visit your restaurant once it is open again. I am also an expat living here for 11 years now and so happy to have found your youtube. Have been following your vlogs for quiet some time now since covid.
Its nice to hear you talk about the differences (culturally) and the hardships couples and individuals face. Your channel feels very honest. I'm sure Watt is going to really enjoy having this new purpose and I think we all felt a bit lost during Covid. Good luck on the restaurant reopening.
Yes. We all have marital issues. I love 💕 this channel. God bless ❤. I love and appreciate all the honesty !!!!! I can so relate 😊
"Purpose" Hard to teach an illiterate in their own language new tricks or to function in business when they can't read or write their own language let alone yours, but What can rest easy Lily will be there to bailout him out like the federal reserve. The kid will outgrow him mentally about age 10 but I think that kid will be great and find a very good place in Thailand as a very liked and celebrated kid! Eventually he may be embarrassed by his Father's lack of social acceptance here
It’s kind of a blessing Wat has felt different or “off” while not working, means he has the desire to want more. He will feel so much better when the restaurant opens, you’ll see! Just do a slow open with a small menu…baby steps. We are all rooting for you.
Wat get your self together now and stop feeling sorry for your self, please!!!
restaurant business is tough and hard to make a profit ..
I am soon to be 66 years old and at age 44 became a widow when my 49 year old husband died suddenly from a heart attack. Our 15 year marriage was not perfect, but I can tell you even during the lowest points my life was much better when my husband was sharing it with me even during the times when I was the solo bread winner and my husband got laid off several times from his job which he too felt lack of purpose when not gainfully employed. As a now retired R.N. who worked with many depressed patients, a red flag for evolving clinical depression is excessive sleeping, lack of purpose, and loss of interest in activities that at one time were enjoyable. If you think depression may be an issue with your husband get him the appropriate help before it worsens and is much harder to treat.
Very true but space is normally great and 50/50 space time for long term
And drinking….
What about if your husband has all of those symptoms, but doesn't want to get help? Oh and throw in an addiction to oxycodone! What's a wife to do? I do pray for him and the situation.
My son is suffering for depression for years and we didn't know, now we have a therapist and meds, he's so different than before, but still working on it.(my English is not good) God bless you all
@@karencarter3312 it is one of the hardest things. You must look after yourself firstly… and try and be informed. Learn how to take care of yourself and understand your reactions to it. It does help but doesn’t heal
. Prayer helps…
Wat just lost a major person in his life his father he looks like he's grieving still.Some people need time to readjust to a new reality.Hes not himself but pushing him to soon will make him lose his self-esteem more.
Healing takes time. Lilly your a great lady and will pray for him.Take care
She's more interested in herself.
@@GM-cq6ezShe doesn’t seem interested in her kids that much. I’ll bet the kids regard the nanny more as a mother.
Anyone else checking numerous times a day for a video? I hope all is well with this family!
I lost my cousin who was like my only sister almost a year ago, still bring tears to my eyes today. I've never been the same since. Your an amazing person, just give him time to heal and he will. Yes getting him back to work will help him heal too by keeping him busy. Thanks for another great vlog❤️
@Gette? One day at a time ❣️ sending you love and prayers from Palm Springs CA USA
It looks like Wat is re-energized and motivated because he enjoys his work. I too understand how when sad I will sleep later. It can be frustrating for others in the family though. It looks like everyone is enjoying their day.❤Thank you Lilly🙏
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Hi Lilly, I am glad you are opening the restaurant and Wat will be able to feel useful and good about himself, you are a good wife, a good mommy, and a good boss to Nam. It takes a strong, faithful woman to care and keep her family healthy, happy, and unified. God bless you all!
U are the kind of wife every man needs for a wife
Hi Lilly, Your family is very simple. Just like other asian family. Your children are so adorable . I love how you took care of Nam and Wat. As an asian person, I understand how you tried to adjust asian culture. . Mostly asian men are too shy, silent type and have so many plans in mind. What do they need is understanding. As what I see, Wat is a wonderful husband so loving and gentle. Love him always lilly.
Your husband looks kind☺️. You're a perfect couple lowkey... I'm from Philippines and always supporting you guys😊💖
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Beautiful Family of 3 Me Con and Nanny is clearly a TRUE AUNTIE. Cam On for the scenic of beautiful Thai and its people.
He is such a nice guy. You need to keep him busy and give him more responsibility, he would love that! He is a good husband and father
God Bless You - water looks amazing. Watt is a wonderful Dad - do not try to change him - just love him.
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I agree as I can see your husband is wonderful daddy.
@@bluebutterfly7233 That is true Lily is sooo special & deserves much Better But Thank God for he has rewarded her with an awesome helper and sister Nam and three Beautiful Children God bless Her whole Family🙏❤
Continue to be blessed! Mourning the loss of a parent is hard. Wats’s eyes look sad. The love Wat has for his family is seen.
Are you serious?, criticizing Wat for sleeping in? Wasn't that long ago he let you sleep while he looked after the boys and got up for the little girl. Nam looks after the kids and the house. A lot of mums are working two jobs and bringing kids up by themselves. Have a look in the mirror and count your blessings instead of criticizing your husband who adores you and your kids. Instead of negative criticism what about positive encouragement/direction.
She's consumed with "praying" on her other channel now, reaching out to "christian" $$$.
@@GM-cq6ez you can really see the change in her in the past year. So focused/consumed with videos/religion/$$$ she's not putting what's really important first...husband and kids.
I am Thai woman I been with Thai man before I have to say goodbye now I married to an Australian man . A lot of Thai men will not help much to looks after kids will not clean the house or cook because they believe this are women jobs even more bad is he got low income and the wife still go to work and have to come home do the rest of the job in house too bye bye thai man low quality
It's funny how people who don't know someone personally gets on here chatting with critical criticism ...please get a life...what u sow is what your going to reap...if you don't like her video move on ..your free to make your own video . What I am nicely saying is stop judging her seriously...
Many housewives complain of doing household chores although it's the role of being a married woman. You don't really know how a man feels that this woman's role is assigned to him ( a husband turned to houseband). Sleeping extra long hours is a sign of depression. Just be thankful that compared to other men, he is not brutal to his wife. A little encouraging may uplift and regain his confidence and enthusiasm to work again.
Hi Lilly,
You are so wise to have Wat make the decisions regarding reopening the restaurant and the restaurant menu. Having a purpose and a passion in life are both so important, as is making our own decisions about our purpose and passion.
I admire your courage to put a word to how Wat is feeling. 'Depression'and 'depressed' can be hard words to say aloud. I don't know Wat, but he has definitely appeared disengaged and depressed. He is fortunate to have you - a supportive and thoughtful life partner. You always acknowledge Wat"s strengths such as being a wonderful father - way to go Lilly.
Best to all of you. I wish continued success with your RUclips channel and success to Wat's reopening of the restaurant.
Cheers and best to your lovely children and Nam. ❤️
Omgee my mom too said “ rise and shine” ! What a good memory and yes it was a bit annoying while sweet. Yes your present dresses are so nice. Wat also grieves within for his dad I’m sure, praying for good upon your family as you continue to grow. ❤ Love your channel.
It's so sweet how Wat answered without having to think when you asked him if you're his crown😄 I think Wat will be happier when he starts running the restaurant again. A New Orleans restaurant offering some authentic Thai food sounds great!
And stops drinking until early hrs
@@yvettedale6072 I don't think we've seen that on the videos? How do you know that's happening?
I had really bad relationship before but I met the perfect one we are together 5 years and he will answer the same if I ask I am his 👑 with out even think twice I am so lucky and happy like you now 🎉
@@yvettedale6072 Who said he's drinking ?? thats a bit of an assumption ?
How else could he respond ON Her camera?
(What wifely duties does She provide for him as a man's wife, besides sex.) His heart didn't seem into her pushy forced- on-my-camera reply. She seems to THINK she IS better. She allegedly came in and set herself up in His country off his back and touring guide introductions; mixed-raced children; and manhood. (Allegedly, seems to dictates where they live like a MS. Anne.)
Christian wives who read the WORD understand the role of the husband and wife. (You become one with YOUR husband.) NOT one with your mom, sister and your combined family business in YOUR own homeland. Should we THINK allegedly "USING someone else for your own selfish gains?"
(Comments made are IMHO FROM observing these videos.)
GOD HELP her to do better. IMHO
Morning Lily! I’m so that Wat is opening the restaurant again and I think that’s going to bring a spark back into him and we are going to see a different Wat. Praying for all of you! God bless you and your beautiful family and for Nam and her family 🙏🏻❤️
Hello from Texas Lilly, so happy for you and your family. You know Lilly, family dynamics come in all sorts of shapes and forms. Family is HAPPINESS, are your kids happy, are you being respected, emmotianally supported, are your parents supporting of your relationship....if YES then there is nothing for you to explain. You and your husband are a compliment to each other, and that is how it works. Nam, gets my kudos for being such a great part of this family. Your relationship and care towards her is amazing. Watt will come around when he gets the restaurant off and running! Hugs to all!
She is desperate for attention and won't share it with others.
Magnificent video!
Wat … yep… that’s normal to lose ambition at first when your job goes away.
I’m so happy to see him looking better already.
Prayer changes everything!
I have three children (they are 4, 2, and 1), the oldest loves Lyla, the second has a crush on Leon and the youngest thinks Luke is the best. They love Thailand and it's cute to watch them watch you!
Lilly your amazing because instead of putting your husband down and criticizing him you take the matter into a different way and you help him go up by uplifting him. Giving him Hope and pushing him to achieve better. Your an amazing wife. God Bless your family. Sometimes men get caught up into a depression and they feel low but it takes a special wife to uplift her husband and that’s you. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌✝️🙏❤️
this man is a lot older than her and even in thailand husbands and fathers have jobs...
@@inka87871 WORRY ABOUT YOUR OWN MISERABLE LIFE.... You're a nobody who gives Lilly nothing. Go and get professional help (therapy) or take your meds, instead of stressing over strangers lives. You are mental.
Poor Watt
You're a brave woman with 3 kids and a husband from a different culture who seems depressed. Thank God you're strong enough to keep up your household together. May God bless you 🙏 and your beautiful family everyday.
Hmm 🤔 I'm not that lucky with men. I picked and fell for a cruel bad caucasian man.
Wat is such a sweet person it seems and a wonderful daddy
Lilly !! Miss your vlogs!! From Lilly’s life!! Praying for you guys!!! God bless you all!
You’ve got such gorgeous children and I’m happy that you and hubby are gonna open up the restaurant again!
Looks like Wat is a man of few words! The children are beautiful! I admire the life you chose, all I say is must be “LOVE”! God bless you and your family!
I'm so happy Wat is opening the restaurant. He needed that. He was bored to tears. You could tell he was unhappy. Everyone needs purpose. Your baby girl is getting cuter and cuter. Those EYES! They all have your big eyes! I think she's Daddys girl. You have beautiful babies.
Please dont be negative, keep uplifting the family, its norma to go on stahes like this, with Gods grace they will overcome with it!!, Stay positive!!!..
Hi Lilly, thank you for sharing yours and your family’s situation and challenges. I am also gone through many similar scenarios but have now found new passions for life in general. I wish you and your family peace, happiness, and good health.
So many rude people commenting. It's not your life or your place to be commenting. Don't like it, don't watch it! Very simple! You people are just jealous. Learn compassion 🙏 ✨️ it goes a long way, even online. Geesh
Ashley, to those pathetic and sad people are just very unhappy with their lives. They will never see or have any good things to say to another human being. 😕
Oh my gosh! You should totally have a picture made from when the boys were sitting together looking out over the water. I'm telling you...that was precious!
Loved this video! So happy to see Wat find a purpose again. I think when we get snippets of your life every day you get really invested and seeing Wat appear to be so unhappy and depressed and sleeping his life away has been difficult! I’m sure it has been very hard for all of you and him! So great that he is opening the restaurant again!
it's called the Spleen of islands ! - in Tahiti too ... a big half of the population is badly depressed -
he's is NOT the victim, she is.....
Praying for the best to come Ma'am Lily and your family as well..
she should not show her husband sleeping, she's putting him to shame..her husband takes care of their children..he is a loving father..
I wonder if Wat is really happy having a foreigner wife and how his life turned out?
Omg Lilly , you opened a big can of worms
@@SeaOfLuv Lily wouldn’t send boys to the school. But she had nothing to “homeschool” with them, because she was busy editing vlogs.
@@Joshadowolf My own opinion - Lots of controlling here from foreigner wife. Husband has no chance to be The Man. It suits though, after all it’s “Lily’s Life” . I lost interest with their contents and following Lily’s life.
A man is not easy to have forieghner wife, specially Lilly is used to luzus living, a man is tired but he can't backout because of too many children. Men don't make children to foreign women. Their mentality is not fit to Asian way of life.
Thank you for honestly sharing! Life is not always easy and pretty. You have a beautiful family and I wish you many blessings
My Dad was so mean to my mother and he searched for reasons to beat me because I would try to protect my mom. It was hell! Watt is a wonderful father and husband. He doesn’t say much but he married a woman who loves to talk so he must be a good listener too! I’m glad you talk a lot Lilly because you glorify the Lord!
It's worrisome for the young children as mom is becoming dissatisfied with dad. Lilly's work is evangelical, serving the poor, and setting up a ministry for herself.
Tank u Lilly nice video got to see the kids everything will be ok wat is a nice guy ♥️❤️💐🌈🌻so cold in calif your place looks nice and warm right now
@Jade, you are right! Only God knows how long she will be able to tolerate this, with 3 small children to look after, too.
He better be a good father and a good listener. She is the provider, mainstay, pillar of the family. Regardless of supposed depression, he needs to step up to the plate and start working, if only part time at first.
@@LKre-vi5oq everyone keeps bashing her who knows if she depress too kmt
Lily, I really hope things get back to “normal” for you as life resumes in Thailand. You are such a shining light for your family and an inspiration for many. Keep enjoying life!
Hi Lilly, I think there have been many challenges for all of us over the last 3 years. Thank you for being open about your life and sharing with us. It has helped me more than you know. I had to quit my job in November 2021 for many reasons. I miss working and need meaning and purpose. I have appreciated the time off but I am so ready to get back to work. I wish Wat many blessings on reopening the restaurant. I will pray that it is successful and blesses your entire family. I sure do wish I could visit your new restaurant. The food in your video looks so wonderful. Please take care and God Bless!
She WAS interested in restaurants (like she and her White partner owned in the states.) That WAS her dream NOT his. Now she wants him to be a footman while she determines her restaurant's direction. THEN LAUGHING at him with her nanny/ housekeeper AND his children. Allegedly, seems to be a type of setup. Now she can bail out, she has inroads into his culture and economy, mixed-Thai children and a stateside business with her mom and sister PLUS she is accusing him of being lazy. But she has the nanny? He was doing fine before he met her. Sounds like colon***** to me..
Dear LORD, please place a hedge of protection around YOUR unhappy child of GOD.
Why y'all watch this lady but criticize her so much why ? Can't she express her feelings if she want I see other channels do it ? This lady is very motivated to me , no one knows if she depress and tired . She is also human , she have to be working be a good mom , wife and she also the back bone for him. She do understand what's going on she supportive an understating. I love her from 🇯🇲
I love the message at the end of your videos. Keep posting. Challenges in life are like spices. You needed them to complete you. Keep believing, keep going. God is there to guide you always. God bless! 🙏♥️
If Nam left there would be a problem! Partnership is equal responsibility.....
Hello Lilly, what a joy to see you on this video. I saw all the members of your family.
From the beach and looking at Koh Phangan at a distance, and to see all the greenery, coconut trees and the mountains and clear crystal waters. That makes me think life is worth while living. Those fruits that Wat was taking from the tree. I think it is called Chickoo. When I come next year, I want to see that gadget that Wat had. So I can make one to get my mangoes. Lilly by the end of this week, you should have received my letter, and the recipe books. Please acknowledge it, so I know it has reached you. Very sad news this week of Lisa Marie Presley, and today Gina Lollabridgeda passed away. She was 95 years young. I am up between 3.30 and 4.00am every morning. I work till about 10.30am, come in have my breakfast, shower and sit down to watch anything that Lilly has put out for me to watch. In your bar, if you have any Tia Maria or Irish Cream. Please check it, as those liquers are made of milk. I had them, and they went off. Take care, stay safe, keep smiling, and all God's blessings on you, Wat your precious kids, and Nam. When you go to bed at nights, Go to sleep with a smile on your face, and you will wake up with a smile next morning. Yes I like the dresses you wear. You remind me of Cher, Love you all.
It brings me so much joy seeing what a loving family really looks like. You all look so beautiful and precious to me. God smiles on you with so much love in his heart. Hallelujah!
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Glad to hear you will be adding your dresses on line for purchase! They are so soft and flows! Can’t wait
Hi Lilly ! Warm greetings from cold Calgary (Alberta, Canada). I have been watching your videos for the past 2 years. Your daily vlogs is my happy pill. You have a very beautiful family - thank you for sharing them with us, including your daily life which is truly inspirational. Be strong and keep the faith. Wish you and your family a bounty of blessings. Tight hugs !
So glad to hear ya’ll have a plan to open your restaurant! I agree Wat has seemed depressed but I know God will help him rise up to be the husband and father he is meant to be! Great blessings to you and your family!
Thank-you for sharing the challenges of life, marriage, children, impacts of the pandemic and cultural differences that exist as a non-Asian living in Thailand. Your family has been through so much including the death of your husband's dad and best friend. Plus supporting the amazing Nam by raising awareness of everything happening in Myanmar. Being a queen helping your husband find purpose again, whilst being understanding and supportive is a special part of marriage. It will be returned to you when needed in abundance. I really enjoy your videos 😊 many blessings to you 🙏
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You summarize Lily's life so well. I know you watched all her videos.👍
I don't see Wat fishing in these videos. Wouldn't that make him happy to go and fish and catch enough for a meal.
Lily you seem to be closer to Nam. I'm wondering if Wat feels left out.
Can you recommend a tailor in Bangkok .
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My dear you are far from home. What brings you to Thailand? God bless 🙏
I love this video please bring them back with all the activities and things that go all around you good luck I hope you open the restaurant soon and I hope you get your house and I hope your Nanny gets to see her son and her family comes soon
You’re really is Wat’s crown. God bless your family always❤
No man is happy bored or without purpose, wat is feeling it and still grieving his father. I’m so happy he decided to open the restaurant again, it will be great fir him and the family;) great to see him moving forward . God bless you and wat and your family, which includes Nam ❤ i think with god on your side, you will prosper and get your business back up and going:) god bless & good luck!
Wat is an amazing Father!
He is lazy the husband
I thoroughly enjoy both of your channels. I am in recovery for drug/ alcohol addiction. I have 4 1/2 yrs clean and I'm also Christian but I'm just learning about God. I find comfort and in your videos. If you only affect one person with your life and struggles then it's worth it but you're effecting many people so even though it's difficult to not worry really give it to God because we both know through God anything is possible. Bless you and your family ❤
I worked in Taiwan for 8 years and was always told not to think too much. People do not talk as much in Asia or think too much. Different cultures. Actually it is much healthier for the brain and body, if we control our thinking and go with the flow. I am also not a person who likes to put up a happy face for people. I like to be myself. He is standing his ground. He wants to be himself. Lilly is doing a great job anyway. Things do become like this in a marriage. It's not always romantic and exciting. In the west we are brainwashed by movies and the media to what a happy marriage should be. Just accept that entertainment is going to be your job. He tried. Things will work out anyway. God bless you and your family😍
Poor Wat.
Look at it this way. Let's turn this around. The family is sleeping or resting quietly...you get to go for your walk and enjoy the early peaceful morning.
Wat I believe is a thinker...but when he speaks its because something important needs to be said. He loves you so much. You can see it where looks at you and that little grin.
My husband was able to retire early so he could raise our daughter while I worked. I always made more money. He also cleaned some and did laundry, he was under appreciated. Miss him as he passed in 2019. I reinvented myself and brought happiness, cherish everyday.
The boys are beautiful 😍. Lyla is getting so big. Can't wait to see her walking 😍. I'm so glad Wat is going to open the restaurant. It's never good for a man not to work 😕 especially a man like Wat. With opening the restaurant he will regain his purpose and self respect while showing his children great work ethics 🙏 👏. Happy for you Wat ❤😊!!! Hope you guys can get your house soon...what a blessing it will be for all of you! Be well, stay safe and God bless you all. 🥰
Thank you 🤗
I’m happy for your family that you recognize the value of Nam getting back to normal and working. It has been challenging for so many but to be in the food industry, I can’t imagine the adjustments you’ve had to make. Thank you for sharing your life with us!❤
I hope your husband starts to feel better when he starts to work we all need routine in our lives
Hi Lilly love your channel. From a man's perspective maybe it's best at this stage to let Wat do his style of thai style restaurant so to have some importance to his family and himself. Confidence and pride grows in doing something your familiar with and bringing back passion sometimes you didn't know you lost until it's like your reborn again. Bless you all.
I totally agree. Thanks Chris.
Yes, I think Wat really wanted to do something to help you with the family financially plus I think he feels like he needs to support his mother in some way but since he’s not making any money and that’s maybe why he looks unhappy or depressed.
That’s my opinion 😊
The thumbnail pic " I work. He sleeps" is disrespectful.
LILLY, LEON is looking more and more like Your Mom lately ❤
Nam is such a gift!
My husband & I have 10 daughters 5 son's put together. I don't work but enjoy every moment I can including filming my husband while sleeping. Honestly if you love someone shouldn't put them down.
I've been watching your video's for a few weeks now and really enjoy them. I enjoy everything about your life in Thailand. It looks like you found a perfect blend of happiness where you live tied in with your faith in God. May God continue to Bless you.
Thank you so much for sharing. Lately I've been caught in the same kind of rut myself, so I understand! Good for you for picking yourself up and doing what you need to do for you, Watt!
I remember saying this to you on several other videos Lily, Wat needs structure and routine.. he is a giver and a doer. I think this will be the making of him 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Boredom is challenging and even though it’s going to be tough at the beginning to get into a routine but I’m sure it’ll all work out for the best 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Kelly❤️🙏
When the sickness came it affected so many small businesses. So sad to see some of our favorite small businesses close. Even here in America we lost some small businesses that my family went to. So many people developed PTSD and depression from this new world we all had to get used to. It's good that you are getting back to doing what you love. It will be good for everyone. You are such a good cook and you lost so much weight, you could even do your own book with beautiful photos from the area and it would be cute to include everyone's favorite meals in your book, even the kids. You could even have a funny chapter on that stinky fruit. I am sure Nam has some recipes she could share too along with her families story. You have a lot to share with the world and God is right their by your side leading you in the direction to do this. God bless you and your family always.
Yes, this "pandemic" changed everyone, everything. No one is the same anymore. Time heals all wounds - we are deeply scared, but we will heal.
@@lillipad3503 So true.
Your husband isn't happy with your vlog, you have a wonderful husband, give him the best respect 👏
Bless you, Leon is a bundle of energy. Don’t mind that people are watching, he is handsome.
Your. Husband is so lucky to have you. And you are one of a million kind hearted wife.
Wat is a good and supportive father/husband. Yes you are right, men DO feel disconnected and depressed if he cant find his life purpose. For years men is to "provide" for his family, poor Wat he may felt "defeated" and unable to do much for the family - but he did. All those times on the road, you guys worked as a family unit. Tell Wat its okay to feel this way (we're humans anyways), but dont give up. And Lilly, you are an amazing spouse (good listener & observer) that understood this and instead of making him feel bad, you supported his decision to open the restaurant early so he could do something and this is good for his self esteem. Looking forward to visit your restaurant oneday!
Hello everyone!
We are new AMWF content creator.
I'm from Bangkok and my gf's from Scotland.
It is good to see an AMWF content creator on RUclips.
Have a nice day/evening everyone!
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Paul and Jay
Wat is seems really lovely
Lovely vlog as always
Thank you Karen😊
Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around. Lilly, your different experiences in the past and in various places are more value and of course priceless. They look real education that you got from true life university and more important than any internal education or university. Steve Jobs left from university once he felt that it was not his way and just a few years later he did succeed. Facebook creator also decided to out from Harvard university to build what he loved and lastly he made FB to be well known all over the world. Time is free, but it's priceless. It depends how we used it in time in our life we can't own it, but we can use it and at the same time we can't keep it, but we can spend it. Once we've lost it we can never get it back. In my view, your time in the past until now is regarded as your special reward that God giving you - your lovely children who will grow to be qualified human, your husband, Wat - who is honest and loyal to you and importantly beloved and excellent daddy of three kids. Besides you have nice and friendly friend like Nam who always builds warm and impressive feeling to you and your family even your fan club, everyone likes Nam. Lilly, today you have a perfect life, based on your experiences and your global education, and excellent family.
I agree that Lily does have a great life. They both show consideration to each other are a strong couple. I love learning about the things Lily talks about and explores. The kids are amazing, Luke is a Total American with Dad’s complexion; Leon looks completely American but has Wat’s demeanor💯. We will have to keep watching Lila develop but physically she looks like both. All are gorgeous, well behaved kids🤩🤩🙏❤️🩹
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SHE does have a great life--NOT so this husband who THOUGHT he was gaining a loving wife and not someone to embarrass him in a YT camera-made video thumbnail. How can she laugh at him WITH the housekeeper AND His own children for all the world to see on YT.
HOW embarrassing!
Lazy! How LAZY is she hiring a nanny/housekeeper to do her wifely/momma duties?
And if she moves back to the states, how will she deal with her mixed-race children since she seems so conscious of people staring at the baby when they were out?
GOD, please HELP this family soon. 🔆
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You have a wonderful husband Lilly and your children a great Dad. All the best with the restaurant opening. God bless. X
Wat reminds me of my mother, she sleeps/rests a lot and she used to be a very busy and hard-working person, she says: even when I look like sleeping ''I am working'' planning what to do next 😊 LIly, you are blessed with your family and beautiful warm place. Greetings from Canada🥰
Watt is depressed & not happy! Hopefully he will feel better working more
... or getting her of her god roll.
First of all your content is beautiful and authentic. I love how you instill back into society that struggles are part of a healthy family dynamics mixed with your success. Way too often we only see the edited version of contrived success in many content throughout all platforms of social media. This gives false sense of how life should be and that is unfortunately what so many young impressionable people are measuring themselves against. Your love and support for your family is showing the realness of life. I'm not a doctor nor do I hold any degrees in psychology but it appears that he is suffering from depression rather than laziness. Depression can suck all the energy out of a person. He is clearly grieving the loss of his father and prior to that the shutdown of his business during the pandemic. Though I'm certain your success with RUclips is something he greatly admires because he admires and loves you, perhaps he's trying to find his success in all this as well. Maybe what he does not realize is even though its not him doing all the filming and all the wonderful things that you do he too is a great part of this channels success. As a person who works in entertainment and searches for content for TV and film I assure him that he's plays a huge part in this channels success. Your content is about family and your relationship without him there would be a huge missing part in this channel and it 's branding. Gently remind him that his journey even though it has it's challenges is great content. Find what he truly loves, Is it creating culinary magic? If it is help him create a youtube platform that is about his recipes and cooking, the dynamics of running a restaurant in an exotic location. That alone is great content! We already know him from this channel you can together create the next big "thing" through food. Everyone loves a good cooking channel. You are an amazing producer, produce that for him and expand your brand. I hope this helps! I'm rooting for all of you. I love this channel it's so wholesome and we need more of that in our world. Thank you for welcoming us into your lives your hard work adds beauty to our world.
Well said. As a person suffering from depression...artistic, aspiring youtuber and a foodie...I love what you said☺️💛👏🏽
I will pray for you, your family, including Nam and her family today. Pray=Faith. You’ve got this. ❤
OOOOh Lilly I admired you for who you are. Keep on moving it will only gets easier. We'll come by your restaurant and check out Watt cooking.
Is everything ok? I look forward to your videos. Hope everything is good. God bless you all
Just got the notification.. going to watch the video with my breakfast in a few minutes as usual.. haven’t seen it yet but Aww Wat is apart of your channel/work.. your lovely family brings content that we love. This Pandemic has been hard on all of us.. and hard to get back into working for some, for many reasons. When you open your family restaurant.. it will only get better God willing ❤