How I met my Thai husband and moved to Thailand

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  • Опубликовано: 10 май 2020
  • This is our love story. I use to own a successful restaurant in New Orleans. In 2013 I went to Vietnam with a Vietnamese Doctor to do a one month volunteer trip teaching the blind how to do acupuncture. When the trip was over I traveled though Cambodia and into Thailand. I walked down Maenam beach on the island of Koh Samui and met my future husband Wat. He showed me all around Thailand and treated me like a queen.
    When I went back to the USA I told my mom that we should start an import business. We opened a clothing company together and I went back to Thailand to be with my love.
    I have owned several businesses here in Koh Samui and I look forward to sharing more with you all about my expat life in Thailand.
    Instagram @lillys.expatlife
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  • @lillyslife
    @lillyslife  2 года назад +591

    Thank you all so much for watching!🙏 Please hit the👍 up button to support this channel.😊 It really helps❤️
    you can see more behind the scenes of our life on instagram
    instagram.com/lillys.expatlife/

    • @ketutsujati1668
      @ketutsujati1668 2 года назад +6

      Inspiring story life

    • @Jereuel
      @Jereuel 2 года назад +4

      Amazing story Lily ....God Bless and Cheers...🤗🎇💞

    • @asiane
      @asiane 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for sharing your story here. One of my dream is to move and live in Thailand too. Yours an inspiration.

    • @saisumilhig2181
      @saisumilhig2181 2 года назад +1

      New subscriber to you idol...
      Hope you notice me...
      One by one watch your videos and it was great...
      Stay safe and godbless

    • @bonlapztv7544
      @bonlapztv7544 2 года назад +8

      Your husband is one in a million man.

  • @alucard86
    @alucard86 3 года назад +1012

    When you talk about your husband you have the biggest smile on your face! so happy for you!

  • @jellybellyfun3288
    @jellybellyfun3288 2 года назад +622

    The character of a man is what will move a woman's heart. It's not just the financial. Lilly is perfect example. Thank you for sharing your story, Lilly!

    • @vasanthajennings8653
      @vasanthajennings8653 2 года назад +21

      Can't agree more! This is exactly what I am going through! Fat bank balance, no character! Miserable and selfish.

    • @opiatebank
      @opiatebank 2 года назад +3

      Perfect example stand for nothing , fall for anything. Will end in tragedy. Maybee when she leaves Thailand she can find a nice black man to abuse her

    • @sbshaunb95
      @sbshaunb95 2 года назад +2

      @@vasanthajennings8653 Guess he's doesn't share his fat bank balance, huh

    • @vasanthajennings8653
      @vasanthajennings8653 2 года назад +1

      @@sbshaunb95 No way!

    • @Friady1970
      @Friady1970 2 года назад

      that's a great observation and knowledge. you are absolutely right.

  • @7.5Mviews
    @7.5Mviews 2 года назад +383

    That’s amazing how your mom was so supportive of your choices. My mom would’ve called me crazy and locked me in the basement 😆

    • @Tina758
      @Tina758 2 года назад +17

      SAME HERE lol I'm really impressed.

    • @BayonyVega
      @BayonyVega 2 года назад +7

      😂😂😂🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @masterk5372
      @masterk5372 2 года назад +5

      😂😂😂

    • @marcusvee7386
      @marcusvee7386 Год назад

      Your mother would have been 100% correct too

    • @woofwoof9667
      @woofwoof9667 Год назад +5

      Absolutely...Mine did, and emotionally blackmailed me until I went home and gave up my new life. Biggest regret of my life.

  • @conchitinabernardo4370
    @conchitinabernardo4370 2 года назад +67

    If your husband gives you unconditional love like that ... you are blessed !

  • @the.openroad
    @the.openroad 3 года назад +620

    the part when she talked about her past relationship, you could still see the sadness in her eyes, but when she turned the page & talked about her journey, you could see how happy her face turned to be.
    Life is full of opportunities & sparkles. Thanks for your story

    • @chemala9885744400
      @chemala9885744400 3 года назад +6

      God bless you

    • @mtth4ever
      @mtth4ever 3 года назад +4

      Yups that true 🖐🏻👍🏻

    • @tianchorang6724
      @tianchorang6724 3 года назад +3

      I r so beautiful.u can find a better n handsome husband.

    • @SyedAli-wu3hk
      @SyedAli-wu3hk 2 года назад

      You are fine

    • @missdhee
      @missdhee 2 года назад +2

      The sparkles in her eyes and the blushed cheek 😘

  • @hinnyQ
    @hinnyQ 2 года назад +55

    Honestly your moms the real hero here! Moms hardly tell their daughters to pack up and move across the world for a man! Good for you!!!!

  • @BabyGirl-ow6zk
    @BabyGirl-ow6zk 2 года назад +173

    ❤️ when you talked about how he made you feel like a queen. I now know I shouldn’t settle until I find someone who makes me feel the same way 🤗 thank you for sharing!

    • @Urs-Mr-Honestman
      @Urs-Mr-Honestman 2 года назад

      You are Baby Girl ,So I am here for someone , I will care you millions time ..❤️💗

    • @farzana6676
      @farzana6676 Год назад +3

      You are already starting on the wrong foot. You should ask how do you make your partner feel before anything else.

    • @catherinekeddy2816
      @catherinekeddy2816 Год назад

      Absolutely.

  • @RiemsAI
    @RiemsAI 2 года назад +124

    The biggest lesson here is sometimes it takes one to travel halfway aroound the world to find someone who truly appreciates! Congrats for finding yours. You truly deserve the happiness after helping the blind in Vietnam. May your channel continue to be successful onwards.

  • @li-an7700
    @li-an7700 2 года назад +265

    Lilly proved that Love has no barriers. When she said they were staring at each other for 30 mins, there was something that pulled them together and that energy is called Love❤💗💗💗. dude came in at the right moment. its really perfect timing! Lilly is truly beautiful inside out!

  • @forg_tfuI
    @forg_tfuI 3 года назад +733

    ur mom is so supportive

    • @Channel66678
      @Channel66678 3 года назад +26

      All mother's should be supportive. Sorry, all parents should be supportive it's normal. I definitely am supportive of whatever my son WANTS TO do, as it's his life to live not mine. I guide him and he listens sometimes, other times he has better ideas. We learn off People everyday. They could be children, TEENAGERS, older grandma's, uncles. We all LEARN from EACH other.

    • @forg_tfuI
      @forg_tfuI 3 года назад +5

      @@Channel66678 true true gonna show this comment to my mom

    • @plantenthusiast8992
      @plantenthusiast8992 3 года назад +5

      I really enjoyed watching your vlog..i feel you

    • @bilbobagins5013
      @bilbobagins5013 3 года назад +2

      Introduce me to your mom mintsf lol

    • @9007dodo
      @9007dodo 3 года назад +3

      Brothers or sisters, the kingdom of GOD is near, we need to repent and believe in Jesus Christ, so that our sins can be forgiven, and we can have eternal life.
      If we don't believe in Jesus, we will die in our own sins.
      Lying, Stealing, murders, evil heart, revellings, hatred, emulations, arrogant, strife, Envyings, commit adultery, seditions, bad words, porn, didn't honour father and mother, worship idol, homosexual, fortune teller, black magic, blasphemed GOD, claiming self to be GOD, calling a man as GOD, worship things made of gold, silver, wood, stone or other materials, worship animal as GOD, against GOD, did not want to repent and believe in JESUS, take the name of GOD/JESUS in vain and other evils things, these all are sins. If we did 1 of these things before, it makes us sinner. If we continue to do these things or sinning, we will die in our own sins.We need to repent through Jesus, to make our relationship with GOD good again, because There will be a judgement day 1 day, The people who believe in Jesus Christ and follow his commands will enter the kingdom of GOD, but the people who don't believe in Jesus and done evil/bad things/sinners will enter Hell.
      Only Jesus can give you joy and real peace in your heart, only Jesus can forgive your sins, only Jesus can lead you to be a righteous man.
      No other name except JESUS can save your soul and lead you to heaven.
      This is about our eternal life and eternal death, so believe in Jesus and repent(Confess to GOD that we're sinner, stop sinning and follow Jesus teaching), to save our own soul and life.
      Repent, and be baptized every one of us in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and we shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. The Holy Spirit/Ghost will guide us on how to become a righteous man, live and work according to GOD's will.
      Lord Jesus said:
      luke6: 37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
      You can read BIBLE online by searching it on google, you can start read from the book of JOHN. You can learn Jesus teaching from there.Or here's one: www.esv.org/John+1/
      If you have any stress, problem in your life, you can pray to Jesus and ask for His help, Jesus will listen to your prayer.
      GOD is our Father, He is the ONE who made us and everything in this world. It's time for us to return to Him and acknowledge Him as our Father through Jesus Christ. Wake up people, return to your only ONE Almighty GOD and Father.

  • @goolamahmedhanware475
    @goolamahmedhanware475 Год назад +66

    What an amazing evolution.
    I've was told how the Asian woman are dedicated to their husband and kids and how Asian men assist their wives with chores etc.
    Being single for 12 years now, it actually petrifies me to think of another relationship.
    This clip is very encouraging and it has installed some hope in me.
    Lets pray i will nurture this hope and become more confident of entering into a brand new relationship.
    Thank you kindly Lilly🤗

    • @Chinchinta
      @Chinchinta Год назад +2

      need to start traveling now, to find one 🙂

    • @lilydauber3147
      @lilydauber3147 Год назад

      Asian men do not assist their wives with chores typically. Wat is the exception.

    • @lilydauber3147
      @lilydauber3147 Год назад +2

      Don’t trouble trouble till trouble troubles you.

    • @lilydauber3147
      @lilydauber3147 Год назад

      @@Chinchinta
      Good luck!

    • @aldozilli1293
      @aldozilli1293 Год назад +1

      Problem with many western women is they expect everything from the man but give little in return.

  • @Jenanluv
    @Jenanluv 2 года назад +81

    Your mom is so supportive. Also, I've been smiling the whole time you've been talking about you and Watt.

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking 2 года назад +155

    I can't express how happy it makes me that people like you exist in this world. Your curiosity and self awareness are inspiring.

    • @labauer5314
      @labauer5314 2 года назад +3

      J R, you worded my thoughts exactly! I was searching my brain for words... BeaUUUTiful comment!

  • @becwrites
    @becwrites 2 года назад +161

    The fact you got all sweaty and smiley talking about how you met your husband is adorable! I’m still like that with my husband 11 years after we met, I hope it lasts forever 🥰

  • @motogp2375
    @motogp2375 2 года назад +91

    Hi Lilly, my sister sent me this video because my wife is also caucasian. She said i have to watch your story. Your story is so amazing to hear because of how it came to be. Im glad you’re so happy with your new chapter as am I. My wife and i are having triplets and i am very excited to meet my half Filipino/Caucasian boys. Pls keep the videos coming. Would love to see more! 🙏🏼

  • @barbaragrace1992
    @barbaragrace1992 Год назад +20

    Its beautiful to see someone so happy and that your family approve your choice. My family unfortunately would have disowned me due to their prejudice. Your children are absolutely gorgeous. I would love to visit Thailand one day.

  • @tuvo9791
    @tuvo9791 3 года назад +275

    I don't know how RUclips's algorithm brought me to your channel but glad to be here. It amazes me how brave you are, leaving everything behind to follow your heart. what a beautiful story!!

  • @cocolocofamily759
    @cocolocofamily759 3 года назад +55

    I fell in love in Balinese man, we worked together on a cruise ship, got to Bali to visit him, fell in love in Bali and we got married, now its us plus two, our kids Mila and David. I would have never imagined that I would live in Bali, but here I am💙💜

    • @lillyslife
      @lillyslife  3 года назад +5

      I love Bali! Hope to go back one day :-)

    • @cocolocofamily759
      @cocolocofamily759 3 года назад +3

      @@lillyslife same here, hope to visit Thailand one day💜

    • @terriode
      @terriode 3 года назад +6

      The male islanders no matter where on earth must have something unique yet in common. Perhaps the sun, sand and sea make them more amazingly different somehow. Or it's just simply a coincidence?

    • @fredtacang3624
      @fredtacang3624 3 года назад +6

      @@terriode
      They're mostly chill. In a stress-filled, rat race of a world, islanders and their very relaxed yet adventure-filled life/demeanor are a breath of fresh air ;)

    • @cocolocofamily759
      @cocolocofamily759 3 года назад +4

      @@fredtacang3624 I would have to agree, actually the whole stress free lifestyle of all people in Bali got me to fell in love not just in my husband but all balinese people and this island 🥰

  • @samsimpson4448
    @samsimpson4448 Год назад +3

    Love how you shared you guys how you met story. The end warmed my heart. I love how you just keep going into the next chapters of your life.

  • @JoseReyes-ov2tu
    @JoseReyes-ov2tu 2 года назад +11

    I got a bit emotional with your story. It made me think back about my own story :) Sometimes you meet the perfect person in the most unusual place and they show you what you had been missing all along that you didn't even know you lacked.
    He surely sounds wonderful.
    And your mom is awesome. You need to have her in your channel. I love that she has been so supportive of you.

  • @hanathao1903
    @hanathao1903 3 года назад +200

    I love this story! This shows that your soulmate isn’t just around your corner. Love is around the world. ❤️

    • @rkbrkb7998
      @rkbrkb7998 3 года назад +4

      Outstandingly true !

    • @belindarudomanyenga3688
      @belindarudomanyenga3688 2 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️💜

    • @indimist390
      @indimist390 2 года назад

      Soulmates aren’t real

    • @amaanasherif4901
      @amaanasherif4901 2 года назад +3

      @@indimist390 I feel like they are. After I met mine, I learned that there are certain events in your life that are pre-planned. I feel like everyone has one and they will meet theres. The only tragedy is that life is fleeting and you may not always get to be with them. My mother met hers when she was 21 and they had a baby, they separated after and they reunited when she was 57.

    • @chcx5275
      @chcx5275 2 года назад +2

      @@indimist390 cuz u ain’t met one. They exist.

  • @mariahonaida
    @mariahonaida 2 года назад +175

    It’s the little things that count. Congratulations! So many people live a whole life thinking material things is what fills your soul. Glad you found out early that it’s not.

  • @DanielaAriel36
    @DanielaAriel36 2 года назад +7

    you can't stop smiling when you talk about Watt, you so in love with him. Lily I love your videos. congratulations on your new baby girl 💖

  • @pj.k955
    @pj.k955 2 года назад +6

    Lilly, Wat is a blessing to you. I can tell he adores you. Blessings to you as your family grows. 🍁🍂

  • @snake0911
    @snake0911 3 года назад +336

    living in Asia, each day is like an adventure. Living in the US, each day is routine. I've should've stayed in Asia. Congrats on your successful life change.

    • @Dudububu57
      @Dudububu57 3 года назад +14

      grass is always greener

    • @norbelsemaj3870
      @norbelsemaj3870 3 года назад +12

      Yes. You are Exactly Right.
      I thought I'm the only one feeling that way.
      Life in US is Sucks, even you got Most of Everything. Still Sad Life

    • @ginnyfromdablock7551
      @ginnyfromdablock7551 3 года назад +24

      Disagree. There are so many adventures to be had in the USA. It's all in the mindset. Anyplace can just become a routine. America is a wonderful country, with wonderful people, and places.

    • @dezafinado
      @dezafinado 3 года назад +33

      For Westerners, life in SE Asia is interesting and adventurous because it's new, different and almost opposite to the typical life in the US. The locals there are also fond of Westerners. However, if you asked 1st generation Asian-Americans who grew up there part of their early lives and came to the US and finished their formative years, I think "most" would say that SE Asia is fun for a vacation but to live there is another thing. At least that's the case with me, my relatives and friends, which are Cambodian, Thai and Vietnamese. All of us have the financial means to live in SE Asia very comfortably. The majority who do go back to live there permanently are retirees of the older generation. Life in the economic powerhouse that is the US is just too impersonal for old age.
      I have relatives in SE Asia who'd love for me to come back and live there. I've been visiting every 2-3 years for almost 20 years. The first few times were very nice when I traveled and saw all the places I wanted to see. The nostalgia I felt when meeting relatives/friends from my childhood days was emotionally satisfying. Later it became boring because you can't keep talking about what you did when you were 10. After a while, you realize your interests and theirs are totally different but I still go because it's family. For them, they dream of coming to the US.
      I also agree with the comments that life in the US is routine. But if I had the freedom to wander, most of my time would be spent in the western states of the US, western Canada, Alaska and Hawaii. I just love the geological diversity these places have to offer. After N. America is Europe with so much old human history still preserved among modernity. And lastly, some parts of Central and South America.
      Adventure, love and purpose of life are really personal. You go where your soul gravitates and your mind find interesting. If a place makes you happy, that's where you belong. For Lilly, I can see/feel the happiness she is emoting. It's really beautiful! With her blue eyes, pretty smile and business mind, she's gold. The bi-racial children will be adored by both families and both cultures. I know because I have Euro-Asians in my family and they seem to be the center of attention most of their lives.
      Finding yourself isn't easy. Being poor is hard but money doesn't necessarily make you rich.
      Enjoyed your vlogs. Best of luck with your baby!

    • @snake0911
      @snake0911 3 года назад +3

      @@ginnyfromdablock7551 Seems like this vlogger and I disagree with you. So nice to meet you and hear your side.

  • @City_Valencia
    @City_Valencia 3 года назад +88

    Life is a journey. Take a lot of turns , forward, detour . The best part is there is someone ride along with you.

    • @ismailaziz5508
      @ismailaziz5508 3 года назад

      Miss Valencia, yes it is true, someone say get along without you now, I hope don't mind, this is only quite popular song name of the late 1960's, try to search (you - tube) name of the singer -> Skeeter Davies, but she has already pass away long time ago, that's all from me in Johor Bahru, Malaysia. Thanks.

    • @City_Valencia
      @City_Valencia 3 года назад

      @@ismailaziz5508 Thank you.

  • @iamryanne
    @iamryanne Год назад +6

    Gosh, you're so trusting. I'm so happy this worked out. I really want to visit Thailand soon and I'm so glad I found your channel. Where I live, I'm too afraid of everyone and everything and I'm ready for peace.

  • @robusttj
    @robusttj Год назад +2

    Found it today and came back to hear the story! So impressed to see how you followed your dream and attained that! 🥰

  • @erlinnurlaeni
    @erlinnurlaeni 2 года назад +123

    The way her husband look at her is wonderful.
    Full of love .
    Very happy for both of you and your gorgeous children 💞

  • @angelicashley
    @angelicashley 3 года назад +72

    I like how your mom is supportive of you living abroad.

  • @zoeii515
    @zoeii515 Год назад +5

    Your story is so inspiring, breaking all the stereotypes and found the happiness you deserved.

  • @MaiNguyen-ic9ue
    @MaiNguyen-ic9ue Год назад +4

    This is such a lovely story! And it really shows that love has no boundaries. And love that you chose to experience Vietnam and stay in Thailand. Sending love from Finland!

  • @laughingmanthailand
    @laughingmanthailand 3 года назад +122

    Oh dam... he’s a lucky man... 😬👍🏼
    I’m a Thai man living in America... achieve the American dream... and wanting to move back to Thailand to relax and enjoy life...
    Life too short... Be happy👍🏼😂

    • @terriode
      @terriode 3 года назад

      So that you'd meet another your better part from the US just like that lucky guy I also envy him a lot? 555
      Just kidding!

    • @nicholasong2760
      @nicholasong2760 3 года назад +3

      You should move back to Thailand, there is nothing left in USA.

    • @Al-iu1nz
      @Al-iu1nz 3 года назад +3

      Hope you didn't get hate crime there... I hear america is getting aggressive towards asians

    • @TV-mn1zd
      @TV-mn1zd 3 года назад

      Right

  • @JonGarcia1990
    @JonGarcia1990 2 года назад +119

    I don’t know how the algorithm brought me here and I have no idea how I got so invested in your story but I was so entertained and inspired. I love your journey and I wish you the best and happiest life! Congrats to you and your family!!! 😍

    • @arnicepernice8656
      @arnicepernice8656 2 года назад +1

      Do you follow Emily Larter.
      Another white privilege story

    • @Nicki17321
      @Nicki17321 2 года назад +3

      Same here Jon. This kept popping up in my feed, so I just now decided to click and see what it's about.

    • @linak7155
      @linak7155 2 года назад +3

      Me too! This just came up in my feed! Was that Chef Anthony Bourdain standing next to the lady? So sad how his life ended...

    • @vetgmacatmomfl2055
      @vetgmacatmomfl2055 2 года назад

      @@arnicepernice8656 are you seriously being racist. this is racism in your comment. racism is judging based on skin color. you don't know another's story or struggles.

    • @arnicepernice8656
      @arnicepernice8656 2 года назад

      @@vetgmacatmomfl2055 it’s about rescuing a person of colour…..is that right.

  • @susanclow5384
    @susanclow5384 2 года назад +3

    I'm so happy you had a supportive mom and still do. It was great she told you to go back to Wat. Clearly you both fell in love and how wonderful. Now you have 3 beautiful children. It's remarkable where life takes us some times isn't it.

  • @elaineray4674
    @elaineray4674 2 года назад +2

    You are an amazing woman. I'm so encouraged by your video. I lived 7 years in SE Asia and absolutely loved it. I would probably still be living over there but after the Umbrella Revolution I needed to come home. Thank you for sharing your life. Your kids are beautiful.

  • @gloryroldan9738
    @gloryroldan9738 3 года назад +167

    You went on a trip not knowing that God had a different plan for your life. You found love in many different ways.
    God bless you and your family💕

    • @Person-mh6xq
      @Person-mh6xq 2 года назад +5

      God didn't make her plan. Stop it!

    • @yeshugotj
      @yeshugotj 2 года назад +2

      God never ‘makes anybody’ plan. Every man has their own free will and we choose to do what we choose so ourselves. He does have a plan for each one of us, to do us all good and never to harm. To give us hope and thriving future- no matter what ❤️

    • @gemball8343
      @gemball8343 2 года назад +4

      My god had a plan for your god to have a plan for them

  • @SusanMinhTrangNguyen
    @SusanMinhTrangNguyen 3 года назад +201

    Thank you for embracing the Vietnamese, Asian culture with such class and grace!

    • @stephanieonyourmind
      @stephanieonyourmind 3 года назад +7

      Right? That was very refreshing! I love this love story it makes me feel like there is hope for everyone.

    • @ThydaCookingTV
      @ThydaCookingTV 3 года назад +1

      Embracing

    • @roshnik5137
      @roshnik5137 3 года назад +6

      I want to marry an Asian man.

    • @williamjohn4229
      @williamjohn4229 Год назад

      @@Pablo-ci1kq she mean east asian

  • @lyty6196
    @lyty6196 Год назад +1

    Wow! Your mum is so supportive! I’m so glad! ❤ thanks for sharing your beautiful story 😊

  • @lizettemuna3234
    @lizettemuna3234 2 года назад +3

    Hi Lilly. You may not read my comment since it’s been two years since this video was posted.
    I have never fallen in love with any video on RUclips until today. Such a simple video but so beautiful. Your beautiful and pure heart radiates throughout this video. I wish you and Watt God’s best. And may your family continue grow and flourish.

  • @clayflowersboutique8611
    @clayflowersboutique8611 2 года назад +77

    When you found the right person dont lose them. Money is not everything in life .. im sure you know.. ❤️ thank you for love Thailand land . You sacrificed a lot!

    • @00Tenrai00
      @00Tenrai00 2 года назад +4

      Fine compromise on money, but, looks? What was she even thinking!

    • @snehaparanjpe5454
      @snehaparanjpe5454 2 года назад

      @@00Tenrai00 ikr

  • @nglinlin1641
    @nglinlin1641 2 года назад +15

    Thank you so much for sharing ! I am a girl from Singapore. I understand how you feel because i married a man from another country Malaysia ..He treated me preciously too, unlike men from my own country Singapore, who are mostly cold and uncaring. I feel happy for you that you found happiness in Thailand. All the best! Stay safe! 😀

  • @tevan7529
    @tevan7529 2 года назад

    Hi Lily,
    I stumble on your channel and listened to your heart worming story. You had me into tears. You heve such a genuine and wonderful soul. I am happy for you that you found yourself. You have a beautiful family, hour husband, your children's and the your extended family.
    I will leave you with this quote
    "Everything you need you already have. You are complete right now, you are a whole, total person, not an apprentice person on the way to someplace else. Your completeness must be understood by you and experienced in your thoughts as your own personal reality."
    All the best🌷🌺🌷🌺💖

  • @healthmysticwellness
    @healthmysticwellness 2 года назад +7

    Lovely Story Lilly! Brings back memories for me on my adventures in Thailand. I love 💕 your entrepreneurial spirit! I have it too!! The rest of your videos are also great, living in abroad is very special. I live in Michigan, my last adventure was in Taiwan (I lived there for 2 years) nearly 11 years ago. I came back here and now have a family! I cannot wait to come back to Thailand with my kids. ❤️😊

  • @kathleenmueller8660
    @kathleenmueller8660 2 года назад +47

    Oh goodness, I just stumbled upon your channel and had no idea you owned Coquette! My husband and I lived in NOLA while he was in graduate school at Tulane, oldest born at Touro and youngest just finished up in 2019 at Tulane. Needless to say, I’ve spent quite a bit of time in NOLA and your restaurant was our absolute favorite! I’m so happy that your story had a happy ending for you and I wish you and your family continued happiness! GOD Bless you and yours.

  • @AaronDoud
    @AaronDoud 3 года назад +83

    This was a really great story. Love "normal" expats who hang out with locals vs the various "stereotypes" of expats. We need more expat vloggers like this.

    • @cocolocofamily759
      @cocolocofamily759 3 года назад +1

      That's the best way to experience a place, just hang out with locals, I hang out mostly only with locals in Bali, but my family are locals🙃😊

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 года назад

      What is the stereotype?

  • @LittleTut
    @LittleTut 2 года назад +4

    found Lilly's Expat Life today. Lilly, your journey was meant to be. 🙏🏽

  • @melissapoole8580
    @melissapoole8580 2 месяца назад

    OMG. I just watched the latest video about your mom and now came to this one. Your mom is adorable and amazing. I love this story so much. My prayers are with you.

  • @ddyeo503
    @ddyeo503 3 года назад +163

    In April of 2019 I came to Thailand to experience the water festival. And walking around in Pattaya I sat down in this bar and there was this Thai woman who was limping, and she took care of the paperwork and made sure everyone got their drinks. And there was something I just liked about watching her do her job. We begin to talk and it wasn't long before we just started spending a lot of time together. When she was 21 she had a terrible motorbike accident and pretty much lost the use of her leg. I came back for 2 months Sept & Oct and we spent every day together when she wasn't working. Then the pandemic came and we have been apart since. She lost her job and went back to her family's home. It's very hard for her to find work. No one wants to hire a disabled person. But I'm hoping soon to come back to Thailand around Oct. and spend more time with her,,,,,,,,Thai people just have a wonderful outlook on life. Thailand can change your life,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

    • @lillyslife
      @lillyslife  3 года назад +12

      Many blessings to you Dan🙏🏻

    • @Sammyli99
      @Sammyli99 3 года назад +7

      Get back asap..hope you are telling HER this...

    • @leenaa.9745
      @leenaa.9745 3 года назад +4

      you re look so beautiful. Glad that you can set up family in Thailand with a good Thai guy. He is look a family man also. Sincerely welcome. I will follow you this channel.

    • @NathaliesWorld9
      @NathaliesWorld9 3 года назад +6

      Water festival is called Song Kran and it is a Thai New Year. They pour water onto you to wish you happines and good health. They have many intersting festivals like a candle and flower festival called Loi Krathong. You can see on my channel

    • @jasminecharlotte7939
      @jasminecharlotte7939 3 года назад +6

      exactly, you would never know Thailand until you come and see it by yourself. Wish you and her best of luck.

  • @Wombat-pv5eb
    @Wombat-pv5eb 2 года назад +48

    All it matters is that he treats you well and makes you feel treated as you described. You are a beautiful family. Thank for sharing your experience with so much sincerity.

  • @Strawberryvang1
    @Strawberryvang1 Год назад

    Watching your vlog, made me almost cry. I’m so glad you found love and your mom is very supportive. God bless you and your wonderful family

  • @ellenshumate5106
    @ellenshumate5106 Год назад +1

    Wow what a lovely story how you met the love of your life. Just goes to show how different cultures can come together in such lovely harmony!!

  • @mikehkitune6630
    @mikehkitune6630 4 года назад +88

    Most humbling story coming from a humble person who had everything tailor-made life and yet gave up all for true love. Age, race, wealth, look was not even in your book. That’s truly a humble and down to earth person. Salute to you Lilly!!

    • @lillyslife
      @lillyslife  4 года назад +13

      Wow thank you so much for your kind words Mike. I really appreciate it. Many blessings from Koh Samui!

    • @UplifterMan
      @UplifterMan 4 года назад +10

      i totally agreed. hard to find a proper people out there now. Gald to see her happy with her family. at the end, aren't we all humans who need true love.

    • @terriode
      @terriode 3 года назад +2

      @@UplifterMan Why not. And I couldn't agree more with Mike's retrospect.

  • @seancullen99
    @seancullen99 3 года назад +72

    Her Mom sounds pretty cool. I can imagine a lot of Western mothers of a certain age might have a problem with their daughter marrying a Thai man and moving abroad.

  • @cayrick
    @cayrick Год назад +2

    Nice story. You seem very happy and energetic and learned to let your intuition lead you or go with your instincts. I'm in my 70's and am still working on that lesson.

  • @Brenzzy
    @Brenzzy Год назад +1

    I loved your story. Thank you for sharing with us how you melded your cultures into a long lasting and loving relationship. Your husband is a beautiful man.

  • @0412lennon
    @0412lennon 3 года назад +282

    sometimes as a man you have to take a chance. a lot of people are gonna think she's way out of his league and that may be the case but he took the chance to go up to her and ask her out and the odds came in his favor. like the World Series of poker sometimes you gotta put all your chips in the middle and let the cards ride. props to homeboy for taking a chance.

    • @DH89715
      @DH89715 3 года назад +23

      Finally the real man have spoken…😉

    • @strikelee3369
      @strikelee3369 2 года назад +25

      I was head over heels for this one guy based on his physical features but then when we connected it went down south fast because the chemistry wasn't there and the less we connected the less he became unattractive not because he wasn't handsome but because there wasn't chemistry. What I'm trying to say is looks can only go so far because at the end of the day you want someone that truly cares about you, someone you can have deep conversations with and so on.
      Fast forward to now I've been seeing a guy for six months and the chemistry is definitely there and the more I got to know him the more handsome he became to me. Lol

    • @strikelee3369
      @strikelee3369 2 года назад +30

      Beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder. Brad Pitt who's known to be one of the sexiest man alive but I don't find him attractive at all. Lol

    • @PlantsAndDough
      @PlantsAndDough 2 года назад +27

      I think women get to a point in life, especially when they've been treated poorly in previous relationships when you realise that if you've met a good man so you should just go for it and not be worried about it meeting "conventional standards" (whatever that means). A kind heart, honest & caring man is more attractive than anything. Good luck to them both!

    • @Dina52328
      @Dina52328 2 года назад +36

      @@PlantsAndDough I agree and I can relate to your comment. Many years ago, as a young 20-year old, naive girl, I fell in love head over heels, with an extremely handsome European man. After a short courtship, we got married and I left my family, friends, and country to go to Europe and live with him. I was swept away by his good looks but what a big mistake because the next 10 years were a living hell. As handsome as he was on the outside, he was the ugliest and most horrible human being on the inside. Eventually, with the support of my family back in the US, I gathered up enough courage to leave him and came back home. As the plane took off, I felt like I had been liberated from a monster👺. After being treated so poorly, I swore I would NEVER put myself in a similar situation by making bad choices.
      I remained single until my mid-fifties until I met the nicest, most caring, humble human being I had ever met. He was older than me and came into our marriage with very little to offer except his love and endless devotion. For the first time in my life, my days were filled with joy and laughter. Sadly, after 12 years of happiness, he passed away from complications due to Alzheimer's. Young people take note, regardless of good looks or material things, it's the inner beauty in a person that counts and that is Priceless ❤.

  • @Victoria-uq8mf
    @Victoria-uq8mf 2 года назад +7

    Oh my gosh
    You've already lived such a life. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. It's really cool how brave you were in your adventures.

  • @wendyalane1
    @wendyalane1 2 года назад

    I loved, loved, loved your video. Thank you for sharing your story. It was beautiful to hear. I am happy you are being loved well, you deserve it. Congratulations on your. son and your new baby and Wat. Keep doing videos. Yesterday I watched one of your videos about the places you shop and the hotel you stay it. Was informative. I also LOVE Thailand and was planning in moving to Bangkok 2 months before Covid hit. Looking forward to my return there. May God bless you too Lily.

  • @rebecca2653
    @rebecca2653 2 года назад

    I really enjoyed this video. I was smiling the whole time. I'm so happy for you both!

  • @jamesabroad8589
    @jamesabroad8589 4 года назад +20

    Just found your channel on the Thailandvloggers FB. I'm another old git expat RUclipsr enjoying a ladies view of life, marriage, kids and settling down here in Thailand. All the best 🙏👍

    • @lillyslife
      @lillyslife  4 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for your support! I just subbed to your channel. It's so cool connecting with other expats. Blessings!

  • @brosiad7184
    @brosiad7184 3 года назад +16

    What a sweet story! And your mom sounds like she’s super supportive!

  • @wallycruz9483
    @wallycruz9483 Год назад +3

    Loved how brave you were to take that trip and how you found your happiness.

  • @saraphanar6507
    @saraphanar6507 Год назад +12

    You're really lucky to have such supportive mother. Unfortunately some parents would talk their children out of moving to another country because they want their children always to stay chained and near by.
    But your mother is different. For her your happiness is more important than living together in one city 🙂

  • @yusoffmdsalleh
    @yusoffmdsalleh 3 года назад +55

    Yes....material wealth is not everything.....happiness and good health in life is more precious than anything

  • @hmk6063
    @hmk6063 2 года назад +16

    Lilly, thank you for sharing your story with us. You have such a beautiful and loving family. Have been binging your videos, and I can feel the love between you and Wat. And your boys are gorgeous and adorable.

  • @lenmuertegui2662
    @lenmuertegui2662 Год назад +9

    Such a beautiful precious relationship wishing you both years and years of happiness together 💞

  • @voezing3059
    @voezing3059 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your story, Lily. You are amazing, beautiful and so proud of you. It’s great you have a wonderful life and beautiful family around you in Thailand. 🙏💕

  • @eddyshawnkoh4536
    @eddyshawnkoh4536 3 года назад +16

    Beautiful story to tell another 1,000 yrs yet, still put a smile on anyone’s face. Love Always Win! 🥰

  • @tootspogsforever5590
    @tootspogsforever5590 3 года назад +20

    that was an interesting, beautiful and wonderful story Lilly!! we Filipinos are also excited when we develop a relationship with foreigners and we want to share it right away with our family and friends. Congratulations on your new chapter and life there in Thailand with your family. best wishes and take care always!! greetings from California😊

  • @chamnarstv4662
    @chamnarstv4662 2 года назад +4

    wow! watching this video till the end is worth! i love your story, i can feel the excitement when you and your thai husband meet at his bar. Sending love and support from Philippines

  • @hefniehawkins1564
    @hefniehawkins1564 2 года назад +1

    hi Lilly.. awesome Video, all the very best in the New adventure... dont forget to continue smiling and breathe.. life is good...control what you can control..

  • @Marek_Cali
    @Marek_Cali 3 года назад +48

    Awesome story. I love Thailand and i go there every year. It is very rare to see caucasian woman with Thai man- and this is awesome that you found him there.

    • @suphapphengpanja7644
      @suphapphengpanja7644 3 года назад +2

      I am Thai, I'm glad you like Thailand. And I think you will be fascinated by my country. You have come to Thailand every year.😍

    • @minkx8
      @minkx8 3 года назад +1

      In general, it is very rare to see Caucasian woman with Asian man, anywhere... It's more common the other way around...

    • @sylvetiterngel3741
      @sylvetiterngel3741 3 года назад

      GOD blessed..

    • @mrconfusion87
      @mrconfusion87 2 года назад

      @@minkx8 Generally speaking yes it is more common the other way around. However, some places have more of it than others!

    • @d4rksoci3ty
      @d4rksoci3ty 2 года назад +2

      @@minkx8 it’s even rarer to see brown women with Asian men

  • @jazevox
    @jazevox 2 года назад +10

    I'm glad that youtube recommended this video to me, and I discovered your channel in the process 😀 thank you for sharing you guys love story, I am glad both you and your husband took the chance in each other, and live happily together ❤ I wish you and your family the best.

  • @jan3d3an6
    @jan3d3an6 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing This a beautiful story and its soo neat :)

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 2 года назад

    Your new chapter is so great! Proud you.

  • @global794
    @global794 2 года назад +32

    Love your testimony about how you met your husband and your entrepreneurial & adventurous spirit. You captured my curiosity - an expat in Thailand. I’m selling my business. I need to make a transition. Thank you for your inspiration. God bless! ✨

  • @vivianvo7014
    @vivianvo7014 2 года назад +3

    Your mom is so supportive and loving! May God bless you and your family with Happiness, Good Health and Success!

  • @ButterFly-zj8bo
    @ButterFly-zj8bo 2 года назад +4

    I admire your Mum, she is a very supportive Mother ❤️❤️❤️

  • @leilaelmi_stuart1073
    @leilaelmi_stuart1073 Год назад

    Such an amazing story! thanks for sharing with us. Wish you lots and lots of happiness. ❤

  • @aliciatompkins5948
    @aliciatompkins5948 2 года назад +9

    I am so happy for you! To find love and be loved is a gift! Enjoy the sacred family unit you have created!

  • @deonkhamvongsa946
    @deonkhamvongsa946 2 года назад +7

    You have a wonderful heart. So glad you found your happiness. Your mom is so supportive and you both are open to adventures. Love it!

  • @Ronmacabeo
    @Ronmacabeo 2 года назад

    Great story Lilly, best wishes for a successful life and new adventures!🙏

  • @OurEastJourney
    @OurEastJourney 4 месяца назад

    Loved to hear about your story! My friend sent me this video right before I came to Thailand, I guess she was trying to hint me about something :) Now that I have soon been here almost a year and just started to document my life in RUclips together with my Thai boyfriend I feel that I could never go back.

  • @thevia1976
    @thevia1976 2 года назад +13

    The happiness you got in taking a leap of faith in a new journey, some people spend their lifetime searching and still haven't found it. GOD bless you and your family.

  • @staytrue6232
    @staytrue6232 2 года назад +48

    I'm inspired by your sense of sdventure and courageousness. It's priceless to be treated like a queen by a man.Wishing you continued success, good health and happiness.

  • @lillianroux2747
    @lillianroux2747 2 года назад

    You’re amazing and so lucky to have that one thing everyone needs. Love your channel and hi! from New Orleans 💕

  • @daolieu4261
    @daolieu4261 2 года назад +1

    Lily - looking forward to what you show us.

  • @ivansin4326
    @ivansin4326 3 года назад +6

    Wow, Lily... had tears (admiring tears) as I was reading and listening to your story...Best wishes to you and your Hubby.
    I truly admire your story.....

  • @anacleta424
    @anacleta424 2 года назад +7

    Love listening how you guy's met.
    The boys are just ADORABLE.

  • @teresacoppola236
    @teresacoppola236 Год назад

    You are so sweet! I'm so glad I've found your channel. Look forward to hearing more about your family and adventures!😁😁😁😁

  • @perlaalbarran8719
    @perlaalbarran8719 Год назад +2

    Your story is so inspiring and you are so brave to follow your dreams. ❤

  • @ripsagoly
    @ripsagoly 2 года назад +12

    You are such a precious soul... how wonderful you have found your love and life in the most unexpected way... blessings to you and your sweet family 🥰

  • @lectrictraveler
    @lectrictraveler 3 года назад +14

    Amazing story, ... its amazing when you find the right person who loves you for you and it feels like the right person.

  • @clare1971
    @clare1971 2 года назад

    Am so thrilled that I have found your wonderful channel’! You are blessed with a beautiful family

  • @MyAjjisKitchen
    @MyAjjisKitchen 2 года назад +1

    Enjoyed hearing your story. Thanks for sharing that intricate part of your life. Sandee

  • @jenniferdavis2110
    @jenniferdavis2110 2 года назад +21

    Lilly I'm so happy for you! It's really true love ❤❤❤ May you and husband and family be happy for the rests of your life!! 🙏🙏🙏 a Filipina in New York 🇺🇸

  • @MrSujay77
    @MrSujay77 3 года назад +18

    Also,,,hats off to ur mother for being so supportive and positive towards ur life.

  • @aprilynephu
    @aprilynephu 2 года назад

    Such inspiring life and love journey💕 Thank you for sharing it with us. More power to your channel💕