I Left Her: HER REACTiON

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 21 тыс.

  • @tribetyler
    @tribetyler  5 лет назад +14191

    If you would like to support Haylee, you can grab a sticker from her new website here.
    www.hopefullnutrition.com/shop/stickers
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    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 5 лет назад +37

      Awesome, awesome video guys!!!! Totally amazing!!!!

    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 5 лет назад +34

      Definitely , hands down THE BEST VIDEO to ever come from your channel!!!

    • @mcfishyfirst253
      @mcfishyfirst253 5 лет назад +16

      Tyler Shelton omg it’s like the movie #canthardlywait

    • @clearcontentment3695
      @clearcontentment3695 5 лет назад +11

      Can’t wait for the sequel

    • @amandakay789
      @amandakay789 5 лет назад +56

      I just stumbled on this video and wow.. Absolutely Beautiful....
      She has one of the most amazing smiles I've ever seen, what power she holds in that alone... If she only knew..

  • @britniburdon7601
    @britniburdon7601 5 лет назад +31804

    The way he kept looking at her during the “film” he made to make sure she was okay it the purest thing I’ve ever seen. You can tell how much he really loves her.

    • @sebastianskii7512
      @sebastianskii7512 4 года назад +131

      This Xmas I wish I could experience the 'love' thing. I never felt loved or loved someone in my entire life.

    • @mittelinak.9595
      @mittelinak.9595 4 года назад +105

      Mr. Devor does that matter 🙃🙂

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 года назад +65

      Mr. Devor why? because they misspelled ONE word? you sir, are ugly for that.

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 года назад +6

      Mr. Devor okay rewrite it then

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 года назад +25

      Mr. Devor lmfao idk if you noticed sir but i haven’t been capitalizing anything because it’s the internet and i’m not worried about it like you are :)

  • @arinapopa3754
    @arinapopa3754 5 лет назад +27280

    Imagine having somebody who loves you like this man loves this woman

    • @sharonruff3837
      @sharonruff3837 5 лет назад +85

      Yeah. Wow.

    • @annaunverhaun4943
      @annaunverhaun4943 5 лет назад +74

      very unlikely for me XD

    • @lordmongo511
      @lordmongo511 5 лет назад +23

      I hope this isnt a diss to your man

    • @katclayton3163
      @katclayton3163 5 лет назад +63

      Arina Popa I’ve got that and I’m so extremely grateful. My fiancé has never left my side. Fast forward we’ve been together for two years, and we’re having our first baby. He was there through the thick and thin, literally, and still loved me every step of the way. I wanna be like him.

    • @takemetomarz
      @takemetomarz 5 лет назад +1

      Arina Popa ikrr

  • @tiffaraffi7749
    @tiffaraffi7749 5 лет назад +9001

    He teared up when it said "Haylee almost died." And how he is looking at her. True love.

    • @imhighduded8386
      @imhighduded8386 5 лет назад +27

      TIFFA RAFFI and she didnt even react

    • @sabserab
      @sabserab 5 лет назад +34

      She regrets not being thin anymore lol that vid got her so pissed. She doesnt deserve this man

    • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
      @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 5 лет назад +162

      sabserab dude you don't know that stop judging how people react to emotional things not everyone sobs their sadness away

    • @NoMoreQQ
      @NoMoreQQ 5 лет назад +45

      @@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 how she talks about still fighting it every day and catching her limiting herself still, means even though she says she technically is recovered I do believe she does still want to be skinny but she also wants to be healthy and happy. It goes both ways, I also do believe she was very sad from the video, not mad in any way like the other person said.

    • @mel-mz5se
      @mel-mz5se 5 лет назад +45

      sabserab what the actual fuck

  • @carolinerangen478
    @carolinerangen478 Год назад +4370

    For her husband to understand her fight and keep cheering her on IS WONDERFUL and he too is a fighter.

    • @kevingerlach7517
      @kevingerlach7517 Год назад +39

      Love is like that, does not want to let go. Seeing beyond a moment of frustration, hurt and helplessness. Love is more than a Moment, it is a lifetime.

    • @yvonnerolley9676
      @yvonnerolley9676 11 месяцев назад +6

      And dependency

    • @suzymoroka297
      @suzymoroka297 11 месяцев назад

      @@yvonnerolley9676very dangerous codependency

  • @torrirenee826
    @torrirenee826 5 лет назад +31020

    the fact that he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay literally melts my heart.

    • @laughlater4562
      @laughlater4562 5 лет назад +102

      Seriously. 😫😳

    • @xasprinn8044
      @xasprinn8044 5 лет назад +12

      Yee

    • @zm8077
      @zm8077 5 лет назад +89

      He’s perfect for that. Unconditional love

    • @user-gi6sn6cv9z
      @user-gi6sn6cv9z 5 лет назад +31

      Literally? Are you okay? Cuz, that's not a good sign :/

    • @StarsNight123
      @StarsNight123 5 лет назад +3

      chill_tf_out yeah alright “relationship expert”. Just stick to yourself

  • @mexbiuri
    @mexbiuri 5 лет назад +11936

    It kills me how emotional HE gets, you can clearly see how much he loves her.

    • @wishtheyunderstoodme
      @wishtheyunderstoodme 5 лет назад +90

      If you dont love someone like this, you've never really been inlove. Its simple

    • @olive8693
      @olive8693 5 лет назад +112

      @I like Potatoes doesn't feel like a lot of work if you're making it for your favorite person

    • @jasminelove101
      @jasminelove101 5 лет назад +43

      I like Potatoes when u love someone, your effort for them becomes timeless. You don’t focus on the time,u focus on how they will feel. A love like tht is just so special

    • @tracey72610
      @tracey72610 5 лет назад +19

      sensitive guys are very sweet and caring, i suppose

    • @jon222-r4j
      @jon222-r4j 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/DbPm5EG8-QI/видео.html

  • @alicemnightingale
    @alicemnightingale 5 лет назад +32847

    Imagine having someone who notices how broken you are inside

    • @Revilo-zo1bf
      @Revilo-zo1bf 5 лет назад +360

      If only

    • @Shay-ul2bg
      @Shay-ul2bg 5 лет назад +177

      I think a lot of people can relate

    • @Steph-wt1gp
      @Steph-wt1gp 5 лет назад +126

      Alice Nightingale my "boyfriend " helped me through wat I was secretly suffering he helped me get my self esteem up

    • @aisha-hh9rp
      @aisha-hh9rp 5 лет назад +37

      Alice Nightingale never had that

    • @cocokaka8183
      @cocokaka8183 5 лет назад +88

      Never in my entire life someone notice

  • @ljslw
    @ljslw Год назад +4291

    There is a saying “behind every successful man stands a strong woman”. This video is proof that behind every successful woman stands a man who loves her, and together their love can conquer all.

    • @ti20g
      @ti20g Год назад +24

      Such a beautiful comment ❤

    • @stinkfinger1942
      @stinkfinger1942 Год назад +5

      It's true, that's how Women have always been the ones in power.

    • @mikey92362
      @mikey92362 Год назад +31

      That makes no sense. A huge percentage of successful men are single. Especially if they're smart.

    • @kindofschinzelphrenic
      @kindofschinzelphrenic Год назад +61

      @@mikey92362 blah blah blah and meh meh meh

    • @idksmthng
      @idksmthng Год назад

      @@mikey92362 Source: Trust me bro

  • @redvorchannel
    @redvorchannel 5 лет назад +2163

    This hit so hard. My husband stuck with me through my 15 year battle with drug addiction mixed with anorexia. The hell I put that man through but he refused to give up on me. Today I have 2 years clean/sober and healthy and we have been married 20 years. This was a beautiful video & it reminded me how blessed I am to have my husband and my life.

    • @jigglehugs
      @jigglehugs 5 лет назад +45

      Sounds like a great man and congrats on your sobriety. I hope you’re both living your best lives.

    • @axxli29
      @axxli29 5 лет назад +9

      redvor channel 1076 congratulations on being drug free and healthy for 2 years! That takes a lot of strength ❤️

    • @redvorchannel
      @redvorchannel 5 лет назад +3

      @@axxli29 Thank you so much ❤

    • @Jfeliner
      @Jfeliner 5 лет назад +3

      redvor channel 1076 I wish I had your strength. I’ve been with my partner for going on 7 years now, we began dating at 19 and my ED began when we began dating. He’s been there for me since day one, I don’t know why he’s stayed with me this long, like you, ive put him through hell when I was at my worse, we’re both very lucky ❣️

    • @e2renee
      @e2renee 5 лет назад +3

      Love sees what we often fail to see in ourselves

  • @joinmeforasmile4464
    @joinmeforasmile4464 4 года назад +9603

    She’s so tense.. I can see how intensely she focuses on absorbing everything in this video and how she’s restraining her emotions.

    • @slitzch0_0
      @slitzch0_0 4 года назад +442

      @@alejandronunez7650 bruh you obviously arent able to notice the body language, instead of insulting her be more observant of not just her face, watch the full thing attentively. She's not heartless or fake, nothing is wrong with her. If anything you are in the wrong for speaking like that about her for no reason. The video is literally about her, she was trying to maintain her emotions so she wouldnt start crying. Stop being an asshole.

    • @practicalgrowthacademy3189
      @practicalgrowthacademy3189 4 года назад +63

      @@slitzch0_0 well said❤️

    • @joaquimmiguel8910
      @joaquimmiguel8910 4 года назад +40

      @@slitzch0_0 I respect you so much you said it right with all the words RESPECT

    • @enquvist
      @enquvist 4 года назад +100

      Alejandro Nunez How can she be both heartless and fake ? You’re saying her heartlessbess is fake ? Someone who suffered anorexia and nearly died is shown a video detailing it and you decide she has to act a certain way. You’re calling her heartless because she didn’t cry watching a video about how she nearly died? You’re an absolute deadshit. You’re the asshole not her.

    • @lovedandlanguished
      @lovedandlanguished 4 года назад +19

      @@slitzch0_0 maybe calling him an a-hole is a bit harsh, not everyone is wired the same: studies find that more empathetic people are more accurate at reading emotions, so maybe it's a skill that not everyone can just "get" or "see" or innately be good at. As for the "a-hole" in question I hope he just takes what's written here as a way to maybe not leap to conclusions in the future, cause maybe there's more to the picture than he thinks he sees. Obviously. We all can't be so ignorant.

  • @fynnroberts3392
    @fynnroberts3392 5 лет назад +6517

    Just as it hit the emotional part, where he said “I love her” it switched to an ad and instantly shouted “let’s play shadow legends” and I burst out laughgn

    • @wuthemaurine735
      @wuthemaurine735 5 лет назад +16

      reid shallow leggings

    • @Elisa-wn3im
      @Elisa-wn3im 5 лет назад +3

      SAME HAHAHA

    • @shilox
      @shilox 5 лет назад +4

      Welp, I had a stick figure dancing for a game

    • @criplydickly1309
      @criplydickly1309 5 лет назад +9

      mine was “i love her” then it switched and said “9/11”

    • @kailao6507
      @kailao6507 5 лет назад +1

      I got a why don't we ad 💕 ten what am I song 🌹

  • @ericmann2303
    @ericmann2303 Год назад +1707

    She is a miracle!!!! My wife almost died of anorexia. They had no idea what or how to treat her in the eighties. She no longer struggles with her disorder, but she came close to death several times. Your wife is miracle of God. He blessed you both with each other.

    • @livmarlin4259
      @livmarlin4259 11 месяцев назад +1

      She"s a MONSTER!

    • @b.j.loveislove9090
      @b.j.loveislove9090 10 месяцев назад +24

      It makes my heart feel good that your wife battled and eventually won being still with you. My niece did not... the disease won 🙏

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 месяца назад +2

      I'm glad she's doing better now

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 месяца назад

      @@b.j.loveislove9090I'm really sorry for your loss.. Rest in Peace🪦

  • @xbrix94
    @xbrix94 4 года назад +3887

    that is one lucky girl. that’s a man who loves his woman.

    • @spoiledmilky.
      @spoiledmilky. 4 года назад +6

      bri herigan yes so lucky

    • @mimachka
      @mimachka 4 года назад +1

      Yes! I was thinking the same. She is so lucky

    • @leannmarie3687
      @leannmarie3687 4 года назад +4

      You can FEEL the love in his face

    • @thr4iam151
      @thr4iam151 4 года назад +2

      Exactly!!!💞 Love is a key to epifanies! Are there any more like him out there????? 🙄

  • @TraceyJeanne
    @TraceyJeanne 5 лет назад +2465

    “I left her”could be what he named the video she’s reacting to
    And the video is talking about her anorexia, she left her
    & Often people refer to anorexia as Ana, that’s also where ‘her’ can come in

    • @luxxury9736
      @luxxury9736 5 лет назад +15

      or maybe 5:05

    • @thesmellofpizza
      @thesmellofpizza 5 лет назад +2

      thank u

    • @uj12678
      @uj12678 4 года назад +1

      Tracey Jeanne ah

    • @LarryS378
      @LarryS378 4 года назад

      @@Abby-uk7rv dude is clearly making the video about himself. i don't know why or if there's some context i'm missing but... her story is her story mate - why does it have to focus on him so much (i ignored my problems and it was so bad for me; I left her; I see her as strong etc.)

    • @LouisThorp-b9m
      @LouisThorp-b9m 11 часов назад

      @@LarryS378 read the message of the OP and you'll understand why.

  • @asdw3341
    @asdw3341 5 лет назад +11478

    He is one in a million or a billion even. She is one lucky woman let me tell u.

    • @SR-xk5ih
      @SR-xk5ih 5 лет назад +39

      NA. AF. I know I wish I could find a truly good man like this

    • @ubayyd
      @ubayyd 5 лет назад +21

      Hope everyone was like this with their relationships 💔

    • @yume5441
      @yume5441 4 года назад +27

      its not that rare, you just have to find the right person for you 💕

    • @haileyandgabistyles
      @haileyandgabistyles 4 года назад +17

      So is she. There honestly aren't a lot of people as open minded as she seems

    • @snipeuallday
      @snipeuallday 4 года назад +11

      I'm not trying to belittle anyone as this may seem but this a completely inaccurate statement, anyone who thinks this hasn't explored themselves or others to truly find their significant other. This is one of the hardest things in life to find, that's why people think it's 1/1,000,000 whether its just a thrown out statement or not.

  • @KeyboardPlaysGames
    @KeyboardPlaysGames Год назад +932

    "what we were struggling with, was so much" - It wasn't her Anorexia, it was theirs. Powerful perspective to tackle issues as a couple.

    • @a.deadgirl
      @a.deadgirl Год назад +11

      My man helped me too. There are still good people out there. His problems are mine, mine are his. He taught me that

    • @shaym4306
      @shaym4306 Год назад +9

      Endless good people out there 🤍

    • @AtomicDog-v2d
      @AtomicDog-v2d 7 дней назад +1

      Every health or mental disorder is a shared experience with whomever the ill person is close to.

    • @lillilyyyy
      @lillilyyyy День назад

      Made me sob. Thats a husband right there.

  • @sumayyaamos8069
    @sumayyaamos8069 3 года назад +8057

    Imagine being loved by someone this much.

    • @CasinoGin1
      @CasinoGin1 3 года назад +149

      Imagine that someone is out there looking for someone to love this much. You just need to find each other.
      Be a good person, be amazing, be happy, be kind to others, be comfortable in your own skin, be out there doing things with other people. You will find each other. ;-)

    • @lilykelley2290
      @lilykelley2290 3 года назад +35

      @Jim Blogs not true at all. i’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years. in the happiest i’ve ever been. you just have to find your person

    • @bc7319
      @bc7319 3 года назад +48

      We have been married for 32 years. It can happen. But, truth of the deal: Imagining and expecting to be loved that much cannot be an entitlement, everyone has to strive to become that person that can be loved first as much as possible. Too many people jump in and out of relationships without working to make themselves the best possible version of a good person first or learning how to give expecting nothing in return.

    • @Ass_of_Amalek
      @Ass_of_Amalek 3 года назад +16

      B C yeah, I've seen a lot of people spreading this idea of "they need to love you as you are, if they want you to change they don't love you" and it's always sounded like a really counterproductive excuse to avoid self-improvement. everybody who is good at anything got there by striving to be better, and they still are.

    • @Anon1370
      @Anon1370 3 года назад +11

      i cant never imagine that in all my years ive never once felt it so i dont know anyway my cat loves me lmao

  • @sirih4085
    @sirih4085 5 лет назад +6643

    Oh poor thing. She was trying so hard to hold her emotions in.

    • @babymammoth6254
      @babymammoth6254 4 года назад +83

      Do you think holding emotions in might have been part of why she got anorexia in the first place?

    • @rikiforever420
      @rikiforever420 4 года назад +11

      @@babymammoth6254 Yes, I do.

    • @arismatold_me6753
      @arismatold_me6753 4 года назад +23

      I've always thought the term poor THING is pretty derogatory.

    • @sirih4085
      @sirih4085 4 года назад +71

      @@arismatold_me6753 oh no you poor thing

    • @drewdavis4207
      @drewdavis4207 4 года назад +2

      Lol

  • @GRiDSWiFTZ
    @GRiDSWiFTZ 3 года назад +5974

    Him looking over at her almost every second. That’s what gets me.

    • @09Nipz
      @09Nipz 3 года назад +83

      He doesn't know how she will react. He's also maybe nervous about the finished work. Then she's really stoic, though, rigid and tense. It's interesting. Many read it as lack of emotion -- as if the outward reaction is all there is to emotion -- but some emotions cause us to be like this. Her lack of reaction to me says it was hard to watch and she doesn't want to share those emotions with outsiders.

    • @cassandrahughes2897
      @cassandrahughes2897 3 года назад +8

      @@09Nipz that might be plausible if she knew the camera was there. He recorded her reactions without her even knowing so this is just her genuine reaction..

    • @ang3licfire843
      @ang3licfire843 3 года назад +1

      😭❤️❤️💞💞

    • @808stateofmind2
      @808stateofmind2 3 года назад +2

      Yeah, the mix of emotions and thoughts... the unseen effort it can take to control them or even know which emotion are okay to let in and which thoughts may lead down a toxic path.. it can be all overwhelming! I wish I could be with the girl I love right now.,,,, wish we could be married, wish I didn’t isolate myself to such an extreme once she left, wish I wasn’t so loyal that as soon as she said she hated me, I hated me too,,,

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals 3 года назад +6

      He wants to see her reaction. To validate that he can emotionally affect her... idk that that's a good thing.

  • @infjjedi3335
    @infjjedi3335 Год назад +274

    I’m a 50 year old woman sitting with her first cup of morning tea crying like
    a child. THIS is SO BEAUTIFUL and my tears are prayers for both of you ❤

  • @foxyroxy2712
    @foxyroxy2712 5 лет назад +5703

    Who else was holding onto their breath waiting for her to tear so it wasn't just me and the boyfriend crying in the background ...

  • @ivynjoki
    @ivynjoki 5 лет назад +9296

    He keeps looking at her the same way you look at your friend when you make them watch something and eagerly wait for a reaction.

    • @jillianesguerra7
      @jillianesguerra7 5 лет назад +75

      Ivy Njoki and he aint getting any 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki 5 лет назад +49

      Jillian Modelo him on the inside->😠

    • @Dafairkidd12
      @Dafairkidd12 5 лет назад +16

      It’s almost like that’s what the point of the video is

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki 5 лет назад +1

      Darien fair it’s right in the captions.

    • @bardarians
      @bardarians 5 лет назад +10

      She had no reaction my dude

  • @andredinhus6687
    @andredinhus6687 4 года назад +7871

    "Love isn't about finding the one. It's about being the one"
    -My Grandpa
    Edit: I just learned that the quote was originally by Creig Crippen, but I first heard it by my Grandpa

    • @liatariwidodo3674
      @liatariwidodo3674 4 года назад +38

      How sweet.. 😊

    • @blkbarbie2671
      @blkbarbie2671 4 года назад +70

      Your grandad is inspirational damn

    • @bobbyweirddick6556
      @bobbyweirddick6556 4 года назад +16

      Yeah but if you don’t get on with the person or love the person, you can’t truly be the one. Be honest with your self.

    • @liatariwidodo3674
      @liatariwidodo3674 4 года назад +17

      @@bobbyweirddick6556 thats why we should being the one. Dont you get that?

    • @heiditownsend5865
      @heiditownsend5865 4 года назад +2

      Aww

  • @joyjones8782
    @joyjones8782 11 месяцев назад +177

    That was incredible! He found his person early. She is lucky to have someone that loves her so much!

    • @lisalarouge6309
      @lisalarouge6309 11 дней назад +1

      And he is lucky that she loves him so much also.

  • @LilJeepgirl81
    @LilJeepgirl81 3 года назад +6276

    The fact he could see her beauty in the worst time and helped. What a good man.

    • @febca6920
      @febca6920 3 года назад +19

      totally agree 🦋 We all need someone who sees beyond the debris and help us get back up to save ourselves. 🦋💗

    • @Justa25000
      @Justa25000 3 года назад +8

      Do you have a brother or twin? I Want someone like you in my life

    • @user-ib7wy4oq9e
      @user-ib7wy4oq9e 3 года назад +1

      @@Justa25000 LMAOOO

    • @alexandramouhou5919
      @alexandramouhou5919 3 года назад +6

      So rare these kinda men nowadays

    • @praveshmaharaj4387
      @praveshmaharaj4387 3 года назад +1

      you can find that too but since women only go for looks and only want model tier men you wont get true love since you base your relationship decisions of something shallow.

  • @brandon1437
    @brandon1437 4 года назад +2278

    Be honest. We all clicked on it thinking he’d be recording her reaction of them breaking up. And we all left with near tears in our eyes

    • @saraj.amann.52.71
      @saraj.amann.52.71 4 года назад +13

      Yeah... wth?

    • @Boroboo1
      @Boroboo1 4 года назад +2

      Why near 😇

    • @denachtconducteur7070
      @denachtconducteur7070 4 года назад +7

      Yes and also he promoted her company at the end and put more than enough commercial moments in the video.. bet he studies marketing haha

    • @Lauren.335
      @Lauren.335 2 месяца назад

      Me

  • @gingin4663
    @gingin4663 5 лет назад +14560

    I get so scared of marrying the wrong person because it is possible, I’ve seen it happen. I just don’t want that to happen to me. I really hope I marry the right person in the future

    • @SuperTzippy
      @SuperTzippy 5 лет назад +106

      Amen!!!

    • @AndiPandiBee
      @AndiPandiBee 5 лет назад +554

      Thing is they won't be the wrong person in the beginning. That's something that comes after. When you're with someone and you want to marry them. They are the right person. But life changes people and can pull people apart. You're never guarenteed an great life at all times.

    • @ulosen
      @ulosen 5 лет назад +168

      Maybe if you are scared you are predetermined to hold onto a bad relashionship in the future. Breaking up or a divorce is not the end of the world. If you get remarried to a better fitting person it is a positive thing

    • @lv5310
      @lv5310 5 лет назад +39

      And if you marry the wrong person it's not the worst thing that will happen. You could overcome that.... unless they kill you lol....

    • @C-SD
      @C-SD 5 лет назад +61

      Take your time! You don't have to get married because you've been dating for xxxx amount of time, or because you've gotten pregnant, or anything really. You don't ever "have to be" married. Its OK to take your time, and its OK to not ever want to get married. Do it for you, not anyone else, and you have to keep communicating; keep working together on your relationship. More info than you cared for, I'm sure. Nm me if it bothers you, that's not what I meant to do.

  • @zapbck8492
    @zapbck8492 11 месяцев назад +48

    Nice to see a wholesome loving couple overcoming obstacles together. Also props to her for overcoming her eating disorder.

  • @b068593
    @b068593 5 лет назад +13201

    she’s so lucky to have a man like this, i want to be this lucky too

    • @buttersbunt
      @buttersbunt 5 лет назад +148

      he's lucky to have her too Q_Q

    • @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380
      @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380 5 лет назад +15

      Bro! It’s true I sadly have to break up with my girlfriend because she is the completely different then these nice people!

    • @CMchyy
      @CMchyy 5 лет назад +2

      blessed🙌🙌🙏❤

    • @shqipe4801
      @shqipe4801 5 лет назад

      thats what i be sayin bruh

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 5 лет назад +1

      Me too!

  • @cadenhoogeveen8175
    @cadenhoogeveen8175 5 лет назад +4281

    Her reaction isn’t bad. It shows how much she’s paying attention and listening to every word.

  • @SeguralooVe
    @SeguralooVe 3 года назад +3904

    This guy is a total keeper. Wow, she is beyond lucky to have a guy like that by her side. He loves her indeed.

    • @praveshmaharaj4387
      @praveshmaharaj4387 3 года назад +1

      you women just go for looks you too could be this lucky if you didnt friendzone guys you dont deem attractive enough

    • @softiesofiesoso
      @softiesofiesoso 3 года назад +10

      @@praveshmaharaj4387 not all woman acts like this, sometimes we just didn't meet someone that we could get along, me myself didn't have the opportunity to have any male friends or anything..

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 Год назад +13

      no it shouldn't be looked at like that. This is what every person should be, and expect from those they love, and chose to share their life with.

    • @matthews852
      @matthews852 Год назад +14

      He left her for an 18 yr old Polish exchange student 6 weeks after this video..

    • @doudoulefol
      @doudoulefol Год назад +6

      @@matthews852 seriously??

  • @markf9871
    @markf9871 6 месяцев назад +72

    I'm 63 man & had quiet tear all the way through this.
    (don't hold in tears...)
    So So so good.
    She's amazing & Man, So are you.
    Good Man.

  • @bula138
    @bula138 5 лет назад +7597

    “I met my wife when I was 12 years old”
    Instant tears

    • @jesslane4363
      @jesslane4363 5 лет назад +78

      I met my husband when I was 6

    • @qlvinc
      @qlvinc 5 лет назад +21

      Jess Lane what... 🥺🥺😱😱

    • @kaiserbeelzebub4th
      @kaiserbeelzebub4th 5 лет назад +104

      I met my wife when i was still a sperm....
      Wait a minute... Then that means...

    • @jotomato
      @jotomato 5 лет назад +34

      FBI OPEN UP

    • @DrPebis
      @DrPebis 5 лет назад +9

      Y'all get married young

  • @ilysebell7074
    @ilysebell7074 3 года назад +2442

    This guy's parents did an amazing job raising him. It shows.

    • @shoejoe3518
      @shoejoe3518 Год назад +8

      ya they raised a real narcissist and mediocre film maker!

    • @michaelstimpfl9814
      @michaelstimpfl9814 Год назад +79

      @@shoejoe3518 no need to be jealous of someone else. why are you hating on others? you could spend your time doing something to become more successful, so you don't have to be jealous.

    • @inTruthbyGrace
      @inTruthbyGrace 11 месяцев назад +13

      adults need to take responsibility for their own behavior.
      you know NOTHING about his parents .... all you know about here is HIS BEHAVIOR so... credit grown-ups for being grown-ups quit blaming mommy and daddy for all your problem,

    • @isabellaperezcadiz3646
      @isabellaperezcadiz3646 6 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@inTruthbyGracebro, are u ok?

    • @durimuramon1620
      @durimuramon1620 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@isabellaperezcadiz3646 His succes is his succes. You can have best parents and still be idiot or opaque.

  • @armenis7
    @armenis7 3 года назад +2110

    To all those saying she is not crying. That girl has ran out of tears.. Been through a lot..

    • @lizarapp243
      @lizarapp243 3 года назад +88

      It’s also incredibly hard to listen to how your actions have caused pain. Either for yourself or others. I try not to cry so I don’t burden them anymore with my own pain

    • @OnyxMoon81
      @OnyxMoon81 3 года назад +6

      @Heloise O'Byrne Maybe but if you can't see the sadness on her face at times you must be blind.. anyway, you either feel it or you don't ✌🏼

  • @K33LMACHINE
    @K33LMACHINE 3 месяца назад +33

    As a husband married to his wife suffering from anorexia and bulimia, this made me immediately start crying. Thanks for making this.
    My wife is now healthy and pregnant, and we expect our first child to be born in just a few weeks.
    It's possible to beat an eating disorder with the right support system. Don't ever abandon someone you love. It will always work out. Keep fighting.

  • @TronciM
    @TronciM 5 лет назад +2923

    This shows how emotional males really are; we just keep it all inside. There's nothing wrong with opening up about your emotions people, it makes you stronger :)

    • @Baky_T
      @Baky_T 5 лет назад +56

      Women who really grew up know this already 😊
      That's what I always say:
      As long as a man is himself, there's no need to pretend emotional expressions 😊

    • @Lucy-wd4bm
      @Lucy-wd4bm 5 лет назад +60

      I wish men didn’t feel the pressure to keep it inside

    • @ZekeNacion
      @ZekeNacion 5 лет назад +26

      Which is wrong and needs to change.

    • @tomhendri1933
      @tomhendri1933 5 лет назад +1

      @@Baky_T thank you

    • @matthewstreacker7402
      @matthewstreacker7402 5 лет назад +5

      I don’t keep it inside

  • @edsanchez6173
    @edsanchez6173 5 лет назад +3116

    Beautiful. Thanks for that.
    “Kindness is the language the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain

    • @Herocaa
      @Herocaa 5 лет назад +2

      ❤️

    • @zahraf5367
      @zahraf5367 5 лет назад +1

      That’s such a beautiful quote that’s actually very true too❤️

    • @kayceewhite
      @kayceewhite 5 лет назад

      Ed Sanchez
      What a great quote!

  • @jonmoneymaker329
    @jonmoneymaker329 4 года назад +2093

    I'm a therapist, almost 40 years in the profession. This is an amazing story, well told, and most importantly a message of hope. Also, the bond and commitment you have as a couple shows that together you're better equipped to handle whatever life has challenged you with. Thank you for this.

    • @mikdadis
      @mikdadis 4 года назад +10

      Moneymaker=therapist 🤫

    • @jonmoneymaker329
      @jonmoneymaker329 4 года назад +26

      That's really my last name....

    • @user-hw3nq5vb3h
      @user-hw3nq5vb3h 4 года назад

      @@jonmoneymaker329 PFTTT bad last name

    • @docthorr
      @docthorr 4 года назад +4

      @@jonmoneymaker329 daym... hopefully you have the skillset to cope with the inevitable mockery people might throw at you.
      Cheers ! :-)

  • @maylaasperachiorean6303
    @maylaasperachiorean6303 11 месяцев назад +23

    She is so lucky to have him. The way he looked at her is, he truly cares and love her❤

  • @suhailldiaz1616
    @suhailldiaz1616 5 лет назад +4509

    Your storytelling and cinematography is top notch. Haylee's reaction was the same as all of us watching it for the first time. The message delivery was so powerful and it will help others out there who are struggling. Both of you should do speaking engagements to schools and bring more awareness to the situation.

    • @tiffanyroseangeles7517
      @tiffanyroseangeles7517 5 лет назад +1

      Suhaill Diaz absolutely agree w you!!

    • @diper911_
      @diper911_ 5 лет назад

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    • @ironres2cue169
      @ironres2cue169 5 лет назад +1

      Stfu you ugly skinny bitch not everyone is not eating it’s only girls who do this think about everyone’s else’s opinion

    • @MsSomeKT
      @MsSomeKT 5 лет назад +1

      Yes! I've been saying this for years! True master of his artistry.

  • @Rustypoptartt
    @Rustypoptartt 5 лет назад +3232

    She’s really good with holding her tears back I couldn’t

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 5 лет назад +101

      Deja Arguello you can tell shes def trying. Deep frown and big eyes, unmoving, i do the same lol

    • @choppinmywaydowntown6144
      @choppinmywaydowntown6144 4 года назад +4

      @maryjane you're a sad person

    • @Smittenx3
      @Smittenx3 4 года назад +4

      @maryjane are you stupid?

    • @pierrearr
      @pierrearr 4 года назад +4

      @maryjane Have fun being a bitter asshole for the rest of your life.

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals 3 года назад +3

      @Parts Unknown Seriously. How do people not see this??

  • @lulubreadddo
    @lulubreadddo 5 лет назад +1787

    I think "she's a fighter, and now she's a leader" hit differently, I'm crying

  • @fr1g1db1tch
    @fr1g1db1tch Год назад +79

    Its great to see something so positive on youtube. This is not just a story, but a reality for many people.

  • @therealjesterguys
    @therealjesterguys 5 лет назад +3890

    As someone who currently has a girlfriend with anorexia, this means a lot to me. And I’m sure it does to her too
    Edit June 2023:
    Hey this 3 years ago wow! Just a little update for everyone, my partner is considered to be fully recovered from anorexia nervosa. She enjoys her food again, has developed a love for cooking home made meals and is a healthy weight and is eager to gain more around her thighs. I'm very proud of her :)

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r 5 лет назад +10

      Della Sheri can you explain what anorexia means, I’m not sure and don’t make fun of me for it

    • @bunnie168
      @bunnie168 5 лет назад +27

      Teent u can still have anorexia even if ur overweight or at a healthy weight

    • @claraharris1793
      @claraharris1793 5 лет назад +30

      @@mj4r anorexia isnt just being underweight. It can be intentional or not. Theres anorexia (non intentional) so people who think they're just going on a diet or people who are so stressed they cant eat, and theres anorexia nervosa( intentional) where, in most cases, people struggle with body dysmorphia(unreal depiction of your own body) and believe the only way out is to starve. It is a mental Illness that can be super dangerous and hard to over come( I know first hand).

    • @kurniadichandra
      @kurniadichandra 5 лет назад +3

      fighting !
      u can do it 🤗

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r 5 лет назад +4

      clara harris thank you for explaining ❤️

  • @gabm1707
    @gabm1707 5 лет назад +27740

    him: “I met my wife when i was 12 years old”
    me: *starts crying*

    • @Ang3lBag3l
      @Ang3lBag3l 5 лет назад +91

      ME TOO

    • @zyprexza
      @zyprexza 5 лет назад +64

      LMAOO

    • @555-h1u
      @555-h1u 5 лет назад +120

      lmao can’t relate but must be nice :’))))

    • @rq1716
      @rq1716 5 лет назад +5

      🤗

    • @k1onie421
      @k1onie421 5 лет назад +26

      .
      p
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      s.
      Periodt

  • @JoJoMaMa_
    @JoJoMaMa_ 5 лет назад +4011

    She’s got herself quite a man there... beautiful.

    • @summernights1555
      @summernights1555 4 года назад +10

      3.2k likes but no comment 🤔

    • @WillieGee1970
      @WillieGee1970 Год назад +2

      True Genuine Man

    • @mrunique4871
      @mrunique4871 Год назад

      It certainly is .

    • @JohnJr901
      @JohnJr901 Год назад +1

      Everyone should find a connection like this. Working through things can be difficult and some let challenges push them apart. For those that find the courage and humility to fight through the tough stuff… they get to enjoy another level of love.

  • @gracehills5986
    @gracehills5986 3 дня назад +3

    i’m 4 years late but i found this at the perfect time. i’ve been “recovered” from my eating disorder for about 5 months and im seeing myself slip back into that life and i needed this to flip that switch and tell myself that i can’t almost die again. my heart is not doing good (i also have a disability that affects my heart) and adding an eating disorder onto it will only cause my body to get closer and closer to the last straw. thank you for posing this and sharing it, you truly don’t know how many people you’ve helped with this.

    • @barborella5420
      @barborella5420 2 дня назад

      You deserve every seconds life has to offer to you so pls be safe and kind to yourself. I wish you a long, healthy life, full of love and happiness 🤍

  • @abriannarodriguez9030
    @abriannarodriguez9030 5 лет назад +3176

    She’s so blessed to have a husband like him they are so cute

    • @Sasuga_Skky
      @Sasuga_Skky 5 лет назад +37

      They are blessed to have each other

    • @connorbell09
      @connorbell09 5 лет назад +5

      Who tf is they

    • @flaminga_x7627
      @flaminga_x7627 5 лет назад

      mz daily fan page I’m saying 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rq1716
      @rq1716 5 лет назад

      Indeed a great man amongst men.

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 Год назад +1

      how we all should be to one another. Shouldn't be seen as a blessing. That's just sad. Everyone should be this loving, and thoughtful to the ones they love, and even more so to strangers who may be going thru something even worse.

  • @dreama7673
    @dreama7673 4 года назад +694

    As a survivor of an eating disorder, I understand her reactions. She was holding in that emotion so much, waiting to see what the video was about.

    • @candi4202
      @candi4202 4 года назад +8

      Glad you survived 💜

    • @helenbekind8486
      @helenbekind8486 4 года назад +1

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @turtlesovertrains3667
    @turtlesovertrains3667 5 лет назад +92131

    Lol I thought you were going to divorce your wife and record her reaction

    • @hybridstarlet7844
      @hybridstarlet7844 5 лет назад +1727

      Lol me too! 😂😂😂

    • @shelovevanilla
      @shelovevanilla 5 лет назад +666

      Same 😷

    • @raksh9
      @raksh9 5 лет назад +1889

      My thoughts exactly. Feeling a bit ripped off.

    • @alejo3acosta4
      @alejo3acosta4 5 лет назад +744

      Same, I'm disappointed.

    • @tobieeck9676
      @tobieeck9676 5 лет назад +480

      Ah this gonna be some good content.
      ...wait a sec what is this?

  • @Psychiatricnerd
    @Psychiatricnerd 11 месяцев назад +13

    The part where the friend says that just like an alcoholic “it’s still something you have to battle everyday” is spot on. It creeps in the back of your mind like a shadow. Just when you think you’re past it, something provokes the old habits.

  • @telliiii2289
    @telliiii2289 5 лет назад +3682

    The way she admires your work is so sweet she looked so straight faced the whole time but she wasn’t being emotionless she was simply taking in your work for every thing that it was making little remarks that she noticed which was beautiful you two have a true connection and that’s amazing I bawled my eyes out watching this video and you’ve gained a new subscriber I absolutely loved this video

  • @dalilahtrevino6793
    @dalilahtrevino6793 4 года назад +5978

    lord give me patience to wait for a man like this one.

    • @statixlaw5675
      @statixlaw5675 4 года назад +139

      In the meantime, become worthy

    • @nicolasreyes2190
      @nicolasreyes2190 4 года назад +87

      You can help your partner improve. If you're waiting for the perfect partner while you yourself are not perfect it won't work. This couple grew together for years and years and years... They're together since 14. I guarantee you he wasn't so perfect from start... He grew and she had a big role on that... And viceversa.

    • @yeshalloween
      @yeshalloween 4 года назад +41

      You have to BE and SEEK and GROW and IMPROVE. Then you’ll attract

    • @odetothemasses
      @odetothemasses 4 года назад +24

      Aside from the people above, be yourself. Someday you will find someone, whether Male or otherwise, and you will fall in love. If you feel you have some things to fix, go ahead! But not to the point where you lose yourself inside. 💕

    • @davidsizemore718
      @davidsizemore718 4 года назад +26

      Give me the patience to be a man like this one.

  • @thepotato1141
    @thepotato1141 5 лет назад +1815

    This is how many times he looked at her to make sure she was ok
    ⬇️

  • @m.canida96
    @m.canida96 Год назад +24

    What a God send he is for her !! That is the true definition of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!! Prayer to Hayley to stay on her path of healing and prayers to her Husband for standing by her side !!💕🙏🏻

  • @MrKillroy26
    @MrKillroy26 5 лет назад +9524

    I dont know how this ended up in my recommendations but I’m glad it did.
    Edit: I’m glad so many people feel the same way.

  • @feelitnowmrkrabs1840
    @feelitnowmrkrabs1840 5 лет назад +4860

    him constantly glancing over to see her reaction is me when i show my friend a funny video

    • @gummywazhere7435
      @gummywazhere7435 5 лет назад +11

      total me too lol

    • @weetardedcat2112
      @weetardedcat2112 5 лет назад +77

      And them you realise the video isn't as funny and you thought it was...

    • @justinbelling9321
      @justinbelling9321 5 лет назад +11

      @@weetardedcat2112 then you think alittle more and realise the twisted humour you posses 😰

    • @cheeselover4351
      @cheeselover4351 5 лет назад

      @@weetardedcat2112 ikr

    • @pc6054
      @pc6054 5 лет назад +12

      @@weetardedcat2112 and then u desperately try to cover it up by searching for another funny video but the moment is over and now he looks at your other friends phone and u just sit there like '' why am I not funny''

  • @ChizurUBabY
    @ChizurUBabY 5 лет назад +2265

    "she's a fighter.... And now she's a leader." i burst into tears.

  • @derryshore5586
    @derryshore5586 Год назад +24

    Hey girl hang on to him, he is a keeper, and a lovely young man

  • @anamiladze9587
    @anamiladze9587 4 года назад +3146

    Him looking at her whole time to get her reaction is the cutest thing ever. just look at his eyes and heart in them

    • @acer696969
      @acer696969 4 года назад

      yes i saw that, he even started to cry a couple times,,,,but the thing that concerned me was she had no reaction at all during the whole film

    • @DIHANSvsv
      @DIHANSvsv 4 года назад

      Yes... I notice it. I love how he cares about her reactions.
      He was almost crying when he said she almost die...

    • @maceydowner9461
      @maceydowner9461 4 года назад

      I know 🤩

    • @indigoblue4791
      @indigoblue4791 4 года назад +22

      He shows more emotion on his face but you can still see the deep effect it has on her. Love is a wonderful thing and when you can look back and see it demonstrated for another, given fully and completely it warms the heart and whole body. They have a strong story and l hope it keeps them both strong and united. 💟💟💟

    • @Green-lk1cp
      @Green-lk1cp 4 года назад +23

      That video was moving. He is so perceptive and aware of what she has suffered. The film itself is beautifully constructed. Such a respectful, artistic tribute. He really honours his partner. It’s a sort of therapeutic gift.

  • @esperanzaserrano8608
    @esperanzaserrano8608 5 лет назад +6109

    “Literally no one will know”
    Now everyone knows

  • @rellcapone2763
    @rellcapone2763 5 лет назад +2982

    Who else clicks and goes straight to the comments while watching

  • @Willo_1647
    @Willo_1647 Год назад +18

    That's her story, his story, their story.. what an amazing story it is. The strength she found to battle, the help he gave when others didn't and the love they have for one another just shows in the video he's made and on her face as she watched. He kept checking to make sure she was on and you could see that love.. Keep on going Haley, you're an amazing woman ❤️

  • @icecreamisMine
    @icecreamisMine 5 лет назад +2404

    Why did RUclips recommended this to me? Why does RUclips want me to cry? Wtf RUclips

    • @namastemoon7442
      @namastemoon7442 5 лет назад +10

      You made me laugh through my tears. Thank you!

    • @CatGarthley
      @CatGarthley 5 лет назад +1

      I’m currently watching this at 4 am and I’m feeling the same way

    • @coraxoxo
      @coraxoxo 5 лет назад

      it was recommended for me too

    • @ZombieMan1997
      @ZombieMan1997 5 лет назад +1

      RUclips wants me to recover.... But it's hard when I'm alone.

  • @NazeMayo427
    @NazeMayo427 4 года назад +1451

    Everyone needs to stop hating on her reaction. The emotion is in her eyes. I can see it.

    • @glrogers67
      @glrogers67 4 года назад +135

      My wife is the same, she dont show much but she absorbs it. She was in a really bad relationship, and she has a hard time showing emotions, but I can pick it up. That's what matters!

    • @mrviewtiful3859
      @mrviewtiful3859 4 года назад +4

      Where exactly?

    • @NazeMayo427
      @NazeMayo427 4 года назад +35

      @@glrogers67 yeah. Everyone is different and absorbs things in different ways. More people should try and be aware of that.

    • @shanecevitate8393
      @shanecevitate8393 4 года назад +47

      Not to mention the fact it’s really uncomfortable having people mention mental illnesses that you’ve struggled with. It’s embarrassing and painful when my partner brings it up. I’m so ashamed of what I did to myself and I can’t really show how bad it hurts, it’s just drowning inside my head in my own shame

    • @cl3109
      @cl3109 4 года назад +15

      Americans are used to people screaming and faking it af. She was moved and happy and I guess he knows it, that's good enough.

  • @picklesbruh
    @picklesbruh 5 лет назад +2225

    Where did u order him😭😭he’s literally perfect, i wish i had a person that cared for me like this

    • @theunicorn621
      @theunicorn621 5 лет назад +25

      There's some super kind and beautifull person out there. But they are not many !!

    • @AlbaDoggy
      @AlbaDoggy 5 лет назад +1

      For real!!

    • @Hearbout.c
      @Hearbout.c 5 лет назад +1

      Clorox Bleach same

    • @brrrrrrrrino
      @brrrrrrrrino 4 года назад +1

      Me too 😔

    • @MacenW
      @MacenW 4 года назад +1

      And I wish I had a girl to hang out with me everyday like she did... Just to be comforted and loved, I'm just worried I don't have the money...

  • @sarahm.1632
    @sarahm.1632 Год назад +16

    Haylee, I’m so proud of you for overcoming this extreme hurdle in your life. It proves you are strong minded and strong willed. You and your husband make an excellent team. Keep fighting the good fight. Even though those of us stand in solidarity with you, because we know that everyday is a battle, just know you’re not alone. Best of everything to you both.🥰🥰🥰

  • @kiranNiks
    @kiranNiks 4 года назад +2754

    This man right there. Is your goal ladies. When men really love. They feel like this. You can see them in pain if you are in pain. God bless you both.

  • @iffi5303
    @iffi5303 4 года назад +7962

    so no one's talking about how he looked 25 at 14

    • @nissan2829
      @nissan2829 4 года назад +62

      Or it could be that those pictures were taken when they became adults.

    • @sacredalien8011
      @sacredalien8011 4 года назад +69

      @@nissan2829 they were adults when they first met in school?

    • @kingjulian9069
      @kingjulian9069 4 года назад +32

      hair does that to us dudes honestly we’d rather look 5 years older than look like a little kid it’s why most boys try to get facial hair we hate getting treated like a little boy we’re men ladies ;)

    • @JustMe-mz3te
      @JustMe-mz3te 4 года назад +14

      Who cares?

    • @glingo2glingo988
      @glingo2glingo988 4 года назад +3

      @@JustMe-mz3te 👌🌹

  • @c.reneecourtney5171
    @c.reneecourtney5171 4 года назад +2591

    The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so touching.

    • @koppilork
      @koppilork 4 года назад

      That is called acting, he is the one who set up the camera.

    • @sagittariuslady2846
      @sagittariuslady2846 4 года назад +21

      @@koppilork you people never have anything nice to say shut the hell up

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 4 года назад +1

      @@koppilork you gal tell that it comes from his heart why would he make such a emotional and real video and then act on it? You clearly have no respect

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 4 года назад

      *can

    • @ceaddacasarin3015
      @ceaddacasarin3015 4 года назад +1

      The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so creepy.

  • @i_sly_4479
    @i_sly_4479 Год назад +7

    Had to stop myself from crying like 7 times. This was so amazing and it hits hard because it's so true. Great job on the editing and material for this video! Your both gorgeous souls and I'm so happy she's recovered and where she belongs, right next to you!

  • @nicoleb1475
    @nicoleb1475 5 лет назад +15576

    People saying she’s not reacting obviously can’t read body language.

    • @laststanding5791
      @laststanding5791 5 лет назад +22

      Nope

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 5 лет назад +25

      Who is saying that?!

    • @nicoleb1475
      @nicoleb1475 5 лет назад +97

      People in other comments...

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 5 лет назад +18

      @@nicoleb1475 That's just weird.

    • @linnyroro3177
      @linnyroro3177 4 года назад +262

      Dumtum42 you never get over an eating disorder just like he described in the video. You deal with it everyday and everyday is a struggle not to slip back into it. I’ve been fighting mine off and on for almost 20 years. It got really really bad about 8 years ago and I almost died but that doesn’t mean that I still don’t struggle with it everyday. Its always in the back of your mind calling your name and telling you that you’re failing because you’re enjoying a meal or your pants look like crap on you. Its f-ing hard!!!

  • @daisydinah2852
    @daisydinah2852 4 года назад +3344

    "she almost died " ... he scratched his eyes trying not to cry

  • @a.l657
    @a.l657 5 лет назад +2677

    Anyone else thought he was going to break up with her on camera from the title?

    • @ukaramuslasher464
      @ukaramuslasher464 5 лет назад +31

      A. L yeah bruh you’re not alone I thought the same thing I thought she was scared because he was going to break up on camera😭

    • @Bobbiii0.2
      @Bobbiii0.2 5 лет назад +38

      Proper clickbait title

    • @latjjtal
      @latjjtal 5 лет назад +31

      I don't think it's meant as clickbait. Overall I got the feeling that the guy has a serious ego. First, he decided it's his job to tell her story and he tells it from his perspective. He talks about how it affected his life and his relationships. He kind of implies that he saved her from her own social isolation. This definitely distracted me. Overall it's a good video and it brings attention to serious issues. But, it would have been better if he was less of a focus. It's kinda creepy how he keeps looking at her for reaction. I started to count how many times he drank coffee and tried to measure how much coffee he'd get each time. Is he fake drinking by the end while looking at her for reaction? That's insane! ;)

    • @princessstarwatcher4652
      @princessstarwatcher4652 5 лет назад +2

      A. L same

    • @sodisgusteen
      @sodisgusteen 5 лет назад +5

      A. L ya that’s called clickbait 😂

  • @evelynelder307
    @evelynelder307 Год назад +28

    Coming from someone who struggles with an eating disorder for 20 years, this hit home so deeply ❤

  • @hollyniederer8581
    @hollyniederer8581 3 года назад +5787

    To everyone saying she isn't crying. She is. Inside.

    • @ebok98
      @ebok98 3 года назад +184

      Sometimes it’s too deep to cry

    • @johnwill8980
      @johnwill8980 3 года назад +16

      How do you know??

    • @hollyniederer8581
      @hollyniederer8581 3 года назад +153

      @@johnwill8980 she seems to be a very strong person who is fighting showing her emotions. But she has them .

    • @tyrawoodruff9835
      @tyrawoodruff9835 3 года назад +66

      Women are so good at masking their emotions you generally won't know

    • @krisnnademillemariano3941
      @krisnnademillemariano3941 3 года назад +14

      At the end she did say she was holding back tears

  • @that_missing_link
    @that_missing_link 5 лет назад +1251

    This woman is so lucky to have someone like him

  • @daniellemartin6374
    @daniellemartin6374 5 лет назад +1132

    The love he has for her.. need that in my life

    • @sophearyouk4129
      @sophearyouk4129 5 лет назад +4

      Sometimes we have that but we let them go

    • @Surelinefoams
      @Surelinefoams 5 лет назад +1

      Like with myself I waited for her like 15 yrs then moved to states and the end was from her and she still regrets...

    • @sophearyouk4129
      @sophearyouk4129 5 лет назад +1

      @TAKKAS DERMAWAN PASARIBU oh never, I was talking about guys who let me go lol

    • @nv8949
      @nv8949 5 лет назад

      Sopheary Ouk lmao

  • @coffee1207
    @coffee1207 Год назад +17

    Just saw this tonight, 8/25/23...I'm so tired from work today.. emotionally spent.. this made my WHOLE day worth it ❤ sending my best, best wishes, and hopes to you all. Thank you

    • @wesna213
      @wesna213 11 месяцев назад

      Stay strong, you got it all :)

  • @jaymoe9805
    @jaymoe9805 5 лет назад +12585

    I wonder why this was in my recommended for so long.

  • @ethand7854
    @ethand7854 5 лет назад +693

    I can’t thank you enough. This opened my eyes to a whole new world. Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago due to some severe PTSD from a past abusive relationship. Like he said it just became harder and harder to understand and I began to get frustrated with the situation instead of helping in the ways I should have. It’s not about me it’s about her and she made me so happy. I don’t know where we’ll end up but thanks for waking up my pathetic self centered butt to go and support the most amazing girl on this earth. I cannot thank you enough. God bless you guys

    • @shqipe4801
      @shqipe4801 5 лет назад +23

      i hope you guys find eachother again :)!

    • @edenelisa
      @edenelisa 5 лет назад +7

      You’re a good person

    • @iiBandage
      @iiBandage 5 лет назад +5

      That bean boy Hope your doing well.

    • @sunleo6161
      @sunleo6161 5 лет назад +9

      My heart 😭 Please go and try to understand. I have the same thing and many guys will feed off of it so Ive been single for years now. Try to be understanding for her

    • @teeqolegend1909
      @teeqolegend1909 5 лет назад +6

      Go get her

  • @dylanthepickle6428
    @dylanthepickle6428 4 года назад +7611

    Hey kids. THIS is what love is. Not that romantic crap you see in the movie.

    • @michellemichelle5202
      @michellemichelle5202 4 года назад +167

      Well, there’s nothing wrong with romance. But yes, there needs to be sacrifice and true attentiveness

    • @psylopanda2841
      @psylopanda2841 4 года назад +50

      This Is some crappy romantic thing that could be on a movie or something stupid like Gilmore Girls...
      No hating tho... The guy is a really creative dude and im happy that they have a good marriage...

    • @mandoky1647
      @mandoky1647 4 года назад +17

      Well him caring about her and her condition is romantic in a way.

    • @haa4990
      @haa4990 4 года назад +6

      @@mandoky1647 for everyone to see him the way he portrays himself. That whole thing is strange..

    • @daniellakshan
      @daniellakshan 4 года назад

      true true

  • @Mgiraldo87
    @Mgiraldo87 Год назад +4

    I've seen this several times and can never get over the beauty and heartache of this story. I'm so glad you guys shared this because so many people are suffering silently and don't have someone there to help lift them up.

  • @kimberlymcintyre2271
    @kimberlymcintyre2271 5 лет назад +2342

    She kinda looks like tinker bell and it's adorable

  • @kevinbaird7277
    @kevinbaird7277 4 года назад +4206

    This guy should be making movies.

  • @niziangely5469
    @niziangely5469 5 лет назад +7334

    I wish I had a boyfriend who cared that much about me

    • @katydonado6216
      @katydonado6216 5 лет назад +91

      Or at least have a boyfriend🥺

    • @yogirlsakura6065
      @yogirlsakura6065 5 лет назад +1

      Lmao

    • @donnamq07
      @donnamq07 5 лет назад +1

      Me ✌️. ❤️

    • @maggie-xf3vw
      @maggie-xf3vw 5 лет назад +53

      hard for me to watch stuff like this because i know i’ll never have love like this. it hurts 😅

    • @LeYtBGtainosambabati
      @LeYtBGtainosambabati 5 лет назад +33

      Maybe you had but friend zoned him hahah

  • @mychannel8809
    @mychannel8809 Год назад +4

    She is such a beautiful girl.. so lucky to have someone that loves her like this ❤ breaks my heart so many battle with this disease, thank you for bringing awareness and being a beautiful person yourself!!

  • @jamiealldayx
    @jamiealldayx 5 лет назад +3358

    Not sure how this ended up in my recommended but wow this is incredible 🙊

  • @soccerkylie202
    @soccerkylie202 5 лет назад +1402

    Not even kidding my church played this video during a service. We did a week of mental illnesses. Amazing video

    • @kiara_7822
      @kiara_7822 5 лет назад +23

      i love your church

    • @2ndchannell
      @2ndchannell 5 лет назад +3

      Haha church 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sheep

    • @hibye-by3yb
      @hibye-by3yb 5 лет назад +10

      @@2ndchannell I wonder if what you say corresponds with what you truly believe after giving it a good deal of thought or you're simply saying what everyone around you says.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 5 лет назад +6

      @ekim andersom it isnt! People have different approaches to it.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 5 лет назад +2

      @ekim andersom its funny how im born in finland as a muslim i guess then. Plus as i said people have different aåproaches on religions and you clearly are against religions, that can be considered as racism.

  • @thayevangelista
    @thayevangelista 5 лет назад +5980

    tyler: "we have been married for over 2 years"
    haylee: 3 years
    ~delay~
    tyler: :)

    • @coraljones537
      @coraljones537 5 лет назад +80

      me: reads comment
      ~delay~
      me: :)

    • @uriapark8848
      @uriapark8848 5 лет назад +69

      11:36
      Tyler : :) ...☕️... :))))))

    • @allyaltanhan7604
      @allyaltanhan7604 5 лет назад +3

      @@thayevangelista 2.9k

    • @ladyjay5551
      @ladyjay5551 4 года назад +13

      haha my thought process is, it was 2 years when he was filming, but with editing etc, it was probably close to 3 years by the time she actually saw the video.

    • @nextime6071
      @nextime6071 4 года назад +2

      He said “ over 2 years “ so its technically more than 2 years

  • @Theodicy101
    @Theodicy101 14 дней назад +2

    As a healthcare provider with also a master's in psych, I applaud your video. It was excellent...a wonderful, loving tribute to your wife, but also educating everyone and giving hope to those with eating disoders and to those who care about them. I notice that this was posted 4 years ago, and I'm hopeful that the years have been kind to you both and that you all are still together and still just as much in love--or more.

  • @caitlindean4682
    @caitlindean4682 4 года назад +2141

    I wanna say girl marry him; but she already did

  • @drteddy2609
    @drteddy2609 5 лет назад +1493

    In his defence, he said "we've been married for OVER 2 years" when you're married for 40 years, that's still over 2 years, so he wasn't lying! 😅

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 5 лет назад +9

      40??

    • @leilaa1235
      @leilaa1235 5 лет назад +10

      PrincessPetals no no. They’ve been married for OVER 2 years, so that includes any number above 2 :)

    • @KikiF7
      @KikiF7 5 лет назад +3

      That’s called double speak

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 5 лет назад

      @@leilaa1235 ohhh pftt im dumb lol

    • @reledpeak3324
      @reledpeak3324 5 лет назад

      PrincessPetals don’t worry I read it 7 times to realise what she meant

  • @Sammm30
    @Sammm30 5 лет назад +4754

    "I was born at a very young age"
    Me: starts crying

    • @Quntah888
      @Quntah888 5 лет назад +46

      サム - Sam 🤣 everybody is born at a very young age

    • @lkvt123
      @lkvt123 5 лет назад +115

      Neela Delphine r/woooosh

    • @chrwea3809
      @chrwea3809 5 лет назад +26

      Neela Delphine No shit

    • @C9Kreal
      @C9Kreal 5 лет назад +10

      Neela Delphine r/woooosh

    • @Wormy1271
      @Wormy1271 5 лет назад +3

      Neela Delphine omggggg

  • @soyburglar77
    @soyburglar77 Год назад +4

    These guys just seem so sweet. The way that he watched her for cues about how she may be feeling, her compliments at the end and just how supportive and encouraging she was about the overall piece…so good!

  • @sideriska
    @sideriska 5 лет назад +2707

    I'm not crying at all.

    • @jblink3923
      @jblink3923 5 лет назад +7

      Ikr, she held it together

    • @taylorcaron7629
      @taylorcaron7629 5 лет назад +21

      I have a hair appointment in 10 minutes and im bawling like a fucking baby dude

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 5 лет назад +4

      @@taylorcaron7629 😂 good luck

    • @emanuelmafalo1738
      @emanuelmafalo1738 5 лет назад

      Lol you are😂😂😂😂

    • @TheAngle92
      @TheAngle92 5 лет назад +2

      Im fucking sobbing please group hug?

  • @eeveyln
    @eeveyln 5 лет назад +2524

    the guy took a sip every time he cried low key

    • @slimtinamarshall85
      @slimtinamarshall85 4 года назад +3

      Evelyn Valdez 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 didnt he

    • @marjechevarez790
      @marjechevarez790 4 года назад +21

      for comfort

    • @gwynethjodie3577
      @gwynethjodie3577 4 года назад +4

      Yall i wanna like this comment but i can’t cuz i dont wanna ruin the 777 likes

    • @bythebay8183
      @bythebay8183 4 года назад +6

      I live how his eyes were on her looking for her reaction.

    • @daulken
      @daulken 4 года назад +3

      It wasn't that low key, lol.

  • @ifheemay
    @ifheemay 5 лет назад +14155

    He looks like the guy for Cloudy With A Chance Of Meatballs