I've experienced this a lot in the workplace, and I started wondering why I'm a beacon for weirdos. It's because I'm more masculine, more powerful, and I do agree it's a way of knocking me down a peg. I have piercings, tattoos, and listen to metal...it's almost like men feel it's ok to speak to me in a certain manner because of my personal lifestyle choices. I never reported any of those instances til today. Enough is enough.
No, its because men know (generally) that tattoos and piercings are often caused by early childhood trauma and people who display them often are vulnerable and sometimes think, a freak in the sheets. Ive heard them comment thia before. Sad that some people see trauma and the first thing that comes to mind is to want to exploit again.
really like your speech, i am totally agree with you about the "people in power , they think they can do whatever they please, they don't care other's feelings," also i think these people are always like to bully people who they think are lower level than them.
She does use, though, social constructs during her speech such as masculinity. I just believe the gender issue is in many ways a social construction problem. A structured society that decided how women and men should behave, and judging those who don't fit. Let's not give them validity by using them. After that, loved it.
Great speech! However, this doesn't give examples of what to say to stop someone from harassing you. I can't seem to find info on how to handle someone hitting on you and won't leave you alone.
I watched a video where a Lawyer recommended to write the complaint in an email and then another video where the person who reported it got fired. Wonderful. I winder why very few people report. 😐🤮
I agree with @dawngambino - everything in this is valid and should be heard. But the scolding attitude made it hard to hear. I’m a social work major, and harassment and hurting others is so far from okay, but if we are going to get our point across we have to speak professionally and respectfully, and this off-putting anger (though justified) doesn’t work for absolutely anyone - how many people have talked like this and been heard by anyone except those that see this persons point exactly. That is why this talk doesn’t have many views. I’m on this woman’s side, in just about every single thing she said, but how she said it won’t win anyone that actually needs to hear this.
Just harassed today. It turned out the snake in suit was this mexican guy who was a crook and stealing money from the company however I was shocked by the response of the boss that really worried me. It's still a crime. Hopefully it gets fixed but it's curious how things take a turn for the worse.
You shouldn't determine for people what is ok and what is not. Let people take their responsibility. If i'm uncomfortable with being touched by someone, i'll call that out myself. It isn't for you to decide.
HAHAHA...note how the far left is like the most conservative Christians except anything goes so long as a leftist is doing it, no matter how depraved, they give themselves license to do as they please while being hysterical if someone who is not a leftist even cracks a joke.
@@yotuba9493 is this a respectful answer?! You guys are unfair because you want everyone to be disbeli eving in God as you do!! If we died and that's it nothing after that,, we did what is called being precautious.. So if there was God we won and if wasn't we didn't loose anything.
No. That man is terrible in his own right. Shes more addressing the corruption coming from sexism in society, but yours is based on corruption from a physical difference. You are heard and you're strong. Hope you're doing okay.
According to a lot of men, you're either a manly man or a woman. Maybe ask your bros, why would random people's opinions on the internet matter unless you have no friends to ask?
So female managers are more likely to be harassed by their employees. Hahaha okay. This talk is ridiculous. If women in power are more likely to be abused, why do you advocate for more women in power? No. It is clear you are not able to think logically. Way to go in defying the stereotype about women and rationality *sarcasm*
I've experienced this a lot in the workplace, and I started wondering why I'm a beacon for weirdos. It's because I'm more masculine, more powerful, and I do agree it's a way of knocking me down a peg. I have piercings, tattoos, and listen to metal...it's almost like men feel it's ok to speak to me in a certain manner because of my personal lifestyle choices. I never reported any of those instances til today. Enough is enough.
No, its because men know (generally) that tattoos and piercings are often caused by early childhood trauma and people who display them often are vulnerable and sometimes think, a freak in the sheets. Ive heard them comment thia before. Sad that some people see trauma and the first thing that comes to mind is to want to exploit again.
If I did ever lay eyes on you, I would avoid you like the plague.
Make sure you start to record your interactions. This is the way to go.
Forgiving of bad behavior... yes. So satisfying to hear something so accurate.
really like your speech, i am totally agree with you about the "people in power , they think they can do whatever they please, they don't care other's feelings," also i think these people are always like to bully people who they think are lower level than them.
Society. Its like bullying, you participate by staying silent.
One of the most powerfull speeches I have heard on the topic! It's great!
"You don't have to touch me to talk to me. I can hear you just fine without your hands on me."
Very surprised this doesn't have more views, good speech
lets be honest, we know why
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Amazing speech. SO UNDERRATED!
Great speech , more people should listen to this
Very thoughtful, truthful, and moving
Thankyou JT if you shared this with me. Means a lot
She does use, though, social constructs during her speech such as masculinity. I just believe the gender issue is in many ways a social construction problem. A structured society that decided how women and men should behave, and judging those who don't fit. Let's not give them validity by using them. After that, loved it.
I need to know more about this to be able to understand perverts madness and to protect myself.
I came here for the same purpose!
You are a rock star. Thank you for this powerful, spot-on talk.
As a man I feel educated by this excellent speech. Thank you!
Excellent speech and initiative
Soo true! You speak so beautifully and strong! Thank you!
This is very clear and very good. I'm also surprised of the view count.
What do you do when the harassment comes from RUclips Reps/Mods!!??? Google/YT has too much power and abusing it on the regular!
It's exploitation. The perp is taking advantage someone of vulnerable.
Great speech! However, this doesn't give examples of what to say to stop someone from harassing you. I can't seem to find info on how to handle someone hitting on you and won't leave you alone.
Excellent overview and action plan. Thank you.
Thank you
I learn a lot from the video, thank you
Thank you!
I learn a lot, thank you
I watched a video where a Lawyer recommended to write the complaint in an email and then another video where the person who reported it got fired. Wonderful. I winder why very few people report. 😐🤮
Amazing.
thank you 🙏🙋♀️
I agree with @dawngambino - everything in this is valid and should be heard. But the scolding attitude made it hard to hear. I’m a social work major, and harassment and hurting others is so far from okay, but if we are going to get our point across we have to speak professionally and respectfully, and this off-putting anger (though justified) doesn’t work for absolutely anyone - how many people have talked like this and been heard by anyone except those that see this persons point exactly. That is why this talk doesn’t have many views. I’m on this woman’s side, in just about every single thing she said, but how she said it won’t win anyone that actually needs to hear this.
fantastic thank you
Just harassed today. It turned out the snake in suit was this mexican guy who was a crook and stealing money from the company however I was shocked by the response of the boss that really worried me. It's still a crime. Hopefully it gets fixed but it's curious how things take a turn for the worse.
You shouldn't determine for people what is ok and what is not. Let people take their responsibility. If i'm uncomfortable with being touched by someone, i'll call that out myself. It isn't for you to decide.
It's most common in prison male on male
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44 dislikes! what kind of people...?
What is a male subordinate genuinely is attracted to a female manager?
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great speech and content...I did find her tone and almost scolding behavior a little off-putting though
Nope, it was fine.
It's honestly needed.
Your aversion to it is a you problem. I didn't feel scolded, but I'm also not someone who harasses others...
THE ANSWER IS COMING BACK TO GOD'S TEACHINGS REGARDING MODESTY AND FEAR OF THE DAY OF JUDGMENT.
HAHAHA...note how the far left is like the most conservative Christians except anything goes so long as a leftist is doing it, no matter how depraved, they give themselves license to do as they please while being hysterical if someone who is not a leftist even cracks a joke.
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F off mate
@@yotuba9493 is this a respectful answer?!
You guys are unfair because you want everyone to be disbeli
eving in God as you do!!
If we died and that's it nothing after that,, we did what is called being precautious..
So if there was God we won and if wasn't we didn't loose anything.
@@emsnewssupkis6453 you not wrong, most of the anti speech laws are just away to silence dissidents and rule the lower orders.
I feel offended by her anger.
I'm a smaller guy that had a larger guy keep trying to touch him. Am I a woman? 😮
No. That man is terrible in his own right. Shes more addressing the corruption coming from sexism in society, but yours is based on corruption from a physical difference. You are heard and you're strong. Hope you're doing okay.
Yes you are now a woman, congratulations enjoy it.
According to a lot of men, you're either a manly man or a woman. Maybe ask your bros, why would random people's opinions on the internet matter unless you have no friends to ask?
Why is it really easy to picture this lady calling the cops on a bird watcher?
Ooooougjhhhhhhhbhhhhjjb soooooooooooooo annoying i cannot baarrrre
women can be very aggressive and they have harassed me !!!!
That sucks :/ You know what it's like to be a woman every day now. What did you do about it?
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So female managers are more likely to be harassed by their employees. Hahaha okay. This talk is ridiculous. If women in power are more likely to be abused, why do you advocate for more women in power? No. It is clear you are not able to think logically. Way to go in defying the stereotype about women and rationality *sarcasm*
Very thoughtful, truthful, and moving