I feel like logical words have almost nothing to do with it Onetime I said blahblah in a nonchalant playfully challenging sexy way to this one girl at campus as i swagged past her and she said it back to me while laughing hornily Another occasion with a different chick (my girlfriend) we had blahblah convos like twice. eachtime afterwards she was deeper in fuck me mode Men = logical / thought Women = emotional / feelings Be higherstatus (read the book Higher Status by Jason Capital) and have amazing vibes. That's the simple recipe to bake a pussy cake You're welcome
I look at rejection as a motivation. A lot of guys sees rejection as a bad thing. Men needs to realize that women are opportunist. They're always looking for the best possible outcome to best suit them, that's why 99.99% of women date multiple guys and so men always needs to date multiple women so that way, you're not putting all your attention on one person.
By popular demand. This is one of the most fun and satisfying skills in game, and it will help you sleep with those hot girls who give you the blasé... but the fundamentals of having good overall game are still far more important overall, so try to focus your energy on your GOOD sets rather than heavily on turning your bad ones around. It's better and easier to just do a good job from the start and have nothing to correct.
@@Martin-xv I've seen this comment several places lately. I wasn't aware anything had happened. In any case, I had nothing to do with the backup channels... I believe they were started by fans who had saved my videos offline. Have some videos vanished, or the whole channel? Thanks
except that with the lawn mower, you pull the same cord the same way a few times until the engine runs, but if one opener is dud, don't try the same more than once, try something different
@The Foxt He may be biased against pick up but he's right. Go up to anybody and tell them you're a pua and you'll see the disdain and contempt in there eyes. Even if pua worked which it doesn't its a sad pathetic existence think of all the STDs you'd contact in a year of doing pua.
this is such a ignorant loser-approach to game. so whenever you fail and do miserable in game, you just blame her "bad taste" and completely disallow yourself to reflect on what you just did. truth is, if you get rejected, better for her, because she doesnt date someone with a losers mentality.
except that with the lawn mower, you pull the same cord the same way a few times until the engine runs, but if one opener is dud, do not try the same more than once, try something different
Or learn to not let rejection affect you. Everytime you get rejected, use that moment as an excersise to find a way to mentally not let it bother you. Luckily for me, feeling rejected my whole life, has made completely immune to rejection. It hasn't bothered me one bit....yet. I also don't expect the girls to like me, so rejection doesnt dissapoint me.
Dude wtf... what youre describing at 1:55 legit happened to me yesterday. I sat down next to this girl on the train and during the train ride the train stopped for no reason. I took my earbuds out and she took her headphone off one of her ears a split second after... kinda like how a friend would do if they were expecting you to say something. I said to her "did you hear any announcements", she replied with a pretty unenthusiastic"They said they're waiting for a signal". That was it. I didn't say anything else and just sat there watching netflix on my ipad until it was my stop. Feels bad man, I dont want to make excuses for myself, but maybe I would have done better if the carriage wasn't full of people and dead silent. I told myself I was gonna ask for her instagram one stop before I got off, just to practice putting myself out there. Bitched out of that one as well... I still have a lot of work to do.
A hot girl let you sit next to her? Lucky fuck. Girls would rather stand than sit next to me. When I'm looking for a seat they put their purse in the seat or, if they dont have one, just get up and leave. I had one cute girl get up and stand by the door the whole way. When I got off I walked by her and said "all yours."
The moral of my story is two fold: It could be worse. And: Be a little more appreciative of the opportunity. If she let's you be in her presence in a confined space for any period of time, you're halfway already. Next time, pick her up for all of us who are rejected before we even open your mouths.
@@trajan74 Where do you think the rejection is coming from? Poor clothing choice? Body language? Bad genetics? Anything can be overcome. Maybe you're just in the wrong country.
Women are lawn mowers. Ok, got it! Seriously though, Todd makes some great points here and in other vids. Glad I found his channel in this modern age of mostly neutered pick-up coaching.
Definitely gotta be one of your best, most useful videos, fantastic. A lot of practical advice and a bit of mind frame adjustment. Only thing I would consider adding is actually skimming through a list of different emotions you can pull on your first opener, along with one example for each. Would make it easier for beginners to understand what you mean. Anyway, love it! Thank you.
Mocking Tyler/RSD free association idea there 😂. I personally think free association is not a fucked up concept as long as you make things relevant to her at some point
Todd V ... you are easily the top 5 baddest ass dudes I've never met. Your ability to swiftly and pithily pick logic out from any circumstance and turn it into actionable insight is unfathomably immense. I'm quite impressed. I hope one day to meet you.
Gosh how many videos have I watched on dealing with rejection. I just have to let somebody like me who doesn't know they are like me, know this. If you have ADHD, Bi-Polar, or both then you have something called RS. Rejection sensitivity. Basically what this means is that you take rejection a lot harder than everybody else in the world and even when people in general haven't rejected you it still feels like they have. basically it also feels very personal whether you know it is or isn't. and this was a huge problem for me in pickup when I would get rejection. one after the other instead of feeling better and it not being scary it got worse and I fell into depression. but that's because I have ADHD and Bi-Polar and RS. I now have been diagnosed and am taking medication for this. I have never felt better and my game/pick up has gotten better as a result. I again am typing this for anyone who may be like me and doesn't know it yet. I encourage everybody to go to a psychiatrist and figure out what you have. (be careful though some depending on what you say will tell you that you are a trans person and need hormone therapy which has caused a lot of problems for people in recent years. i would advise going to a religious one. not because of their religion but they are less likely to advise hormone therapy and give you the medication you need. at least that's what I have seen in my experience and I'm thankful for switching psychiatrists and am still a man (very happy as a man) to this day.) it seems everybody has some mental health issue and could benefit from medication. anyways this video has helped me only now that I am medicated and functioning like a normal person. but for anybody ls this is here for you.
I have had lots of rejection work out in my favor. Because I get a sense of relief more times. I find the hard part of asking a girl out is if I’m going to regret it. The more you get rejected the better. Think about it you see girls with jerks that hit them and they have no courage to leave the situation and it started from before they got together. I can see why it’s hard for women to make a decision. A lot of times I feel better that I’m single. I’m also finding more women wanting less commitment maybe we have finally turned the corner in getting what we want as me. Just a thought
- If you pick the RIGHT girl, then ANY opener works, they usually sub-consciously send signals to the mate they like, you just need to be able to read the signals and the body-language from the women around you.
I really liked this about trying different approaches. often times I think I'm really quick to say something, and I could get a positive reaction, but I'm quick to just move on instead of digging deeper. thanks!
Your videos come up on my feed at such a convenient time😭💯 literally just failed a shit test now I'm sorta dealing with a rejection. But ayy Great stuff Todd!!!👌🐺
The nerve of that guy. Just imagine if it one of those girls had discovered a lump on her breast and was looking for support from her friends or if it was the 1yr anniversary of her older brother dying in Iraq and she was meeting up with friends to remember him. My point is that he had no idea of why they were there talking. And he's just there trying to add another notch to his lay count. Pua's are such losers.
@@nathancad nah, just a couple of penguinz0 fan boys talking about a vid that's like 5 years old. Never mind the fact penguinz0 is one of the slimiest creeps you'll ever see
Instigate from an arrogant frame. Calibrate and use a different opener if necessary. She's not rejecting you; she's rejecting your opener. Thanks, Todd
I just wanted to comment on a Todd video to mention that RSD is "moving on" to a self-help and away from pick-up. I knew this was going to happen since a year ago because Todd is now cornering the market and they cannot compete
Don’t get too excited Ive done hundreds or approaches and literally nothing unless the girl is a 5 . Any girl 7 or above is going to want a hot high value guy . Just imagine being an ugly guy and her introducing you to her friends ?? Just doesn’t make any sense at all
Awesome vid Todd, honestly. Btw, when you mentioned switching the ways of talking, how many are there? Like jokes, trust & cocky things. Not the ones in pants.
Funny story, I was in a coffee shop once this was many years ago, And as I was waiting for my drink, I had a 30 sec conversation with the barista while she was making my . It was just chitchat and I wasn’t trying to game on her or anything. I got my drink in a few minutes later the owner of the coffee shop came out and started screaming at me, accusing me of hitting on his barista, and how awful that was, in front of a full café , and then proceeded to quite angrily, kicked me out and told me to never come back. I just didn’t know what to say. A few days later, I happened to see that girl on the street while I was walking. I immediately felt embarrassed, but she came over to me and apologized to me for how absolutely insane her boss is, ended up, giving me her number. So in this situation, I wasn’t the one who instigated an emotional reaction. It was her boss making a scene that made her remember me.
You ever randomly start texting someone online, and they force you to slam the brakes hard? - I tried randomly texting a 10, but this one is giving me quite a hard time!
Wow there is a lot of shit out there but this guy keeps hitting straight in the middle all the time. I never realized how complex a great conversation that is interesting is. This guy just made it realize to me. Sad that women do not comprehend this too. They just expect to receive it.
Todd es claramente un exponente de la comunidad de la seducción. Sus videos son tecnicos y van justo a lo que se necesita. Son maestros como el los que me motivan seguir con mi canal y con videos que ayudan a las personas! Gracias Todd!!
Good opener, good tonality, she can hear you, sound sure of yourself. She's not rejecting you, she's rejecting your opener. Carry interaction after open. If a topic dies, bring up another topic. "You know what's funny about you.." thats a good one to begin with, add in a push pull or compliment. Million dollar mouth piece whatever the hell that means LOL Make it relevant to you and her. Instigate, anything about her is a risk. Anything about you and her is higher risk. Adopt frames that if true would lead to sex. Provoke a reaction. If an opener doesn't work, instigate in a different way. Try being positive and sincere. Try an opinion opener. Give her a different sample of your personality. Have a few different opener formats. Each opener I a different trigger. If she rejects a direct approach, go with something subtly dismissive or arrogant, push pull, dont be complimentary to someone when they aren't responding to that. If you give your power away, do something else. Emotional spikes. Positive negative. Turn around negative by using a different approach.
Everything is fine but not the one with the direct rejections...if she says NO...or I am not interested, or I have a bf....DO NOT continue, unless you want to ruin everyone night out or day. Have some dignity. I had a lot of those situation where I had to call the taxi to get away, or get behind the bar ask for help or ask help from my friends , the owner, dj, security...or even approach some random dudes that are strong and tall to help me, it is drama and making a scene, but when someone does not get the NO for answer, people have to do what they have to to survive. So please... if someone says NO, say nice to meet you and move on, that is the best thing you can do for yourself and others.
If you could make a video on: How to win girls that aren't physically attracted to you. That would be good. So, girls who ONLY like white guys but you're brown or girls who ONLY like brown guys but you're white. How to turn a girl on who's indoctrinated to like a certain type of guy -- the skater boy guys, the suit wearing alphas, the shorts-sagging gangsta guys etc
Instructions unclear- ended up going to Home Depot with her to buy a lawnmower- she left me there when she ran into her ex bf who's the Home Depot CEO.
I'm fine with a girl not contributing much, not talking much, being shy etc (although being glued to her phone or outright ignoring me is a deal breaker for sure). My problem is that even though I'm quite charismatic and social (learned, not innate), I can have awesome interactions with girls that go on for 30 minutes and seem like 5. I'll get her number and leave, but when I hit her up later, she almost NEVER replies. I don't send "hey" texts, I send a text that calls back to something we talked about and usually has a flirtatious cadence to it. It's not too long, not too short, and I like to have a bit of ambiguity or an open ended question in it. Basically, a one or two line text that reminds her who I am, recalls something we talked about, and has a mysterious component that should prompt a reply. But the reply never comes. The worst is when this happens with a girl I know I'll see again, like in the gym or a class or something. Once I text her, she almost always shifts from fun and wanting to talk, to avoiding me like the plague.
I have a similar Problem, when Iam texting. In the real life I have no problem with Woman, but in Chat Most of the Interactions Just die. Has he made a video about something like that?
Hey Todd, love your videos. Thanks for the great content. Also, I have a question: I’ve been seeing some decent success on Tinder, thanks to your videos on text game. A few times I’ve had great conversations with women via text, asked them out on dates, they say yes, and we start planning the logistics of the date, and during that process, out of nowhere, they suddenly stop responding. There’s no hint that it’s coming. They seem completely receptive and excited about the date, and then suddenly I get ghosted. Pinging value to them occasionally has yet to resurrect these conversations. What’s going on here?
Be emotionally relevant... about her... about "us"... arrogant... set the frame, assume she's attracted (she might shit test)... TRY DIFFERENT EMOTIONS / METHODS
Sorry guys but I’m reading some of these comments and they are appalling. If you are thinking negative things about women, you aren’t going to attract anything good. Why would any woman want to be with any man who thinks negative things about women? Take a year off and clean up your thoughts and think wonderful things about the woman who you will love and cherish and adore and you might get somewhere. But love yourself first. This is so scary and ridiculous that men think it’s about looks. It isn’t.
lots of guys focus too much on getting a girl or getting with multiple girls that they overlook the real success - not having one or any. getting rejected is a blessing in disguise, but why go that far, just repel them before. it's too much effort to play these games, it's easier to make things awkward or humiliating.
I can see signs of initial interest almost instantly. But as soon as I start speaking everything goes downhill. Todd, what do you think I should focus on just to have the right energy and right verbal game? At least to feel like she wants me to stay in the conversation because she isn't bored. Any advice is truly appreciate it.
Find something you're both interested in and avoid small talk, ask her what she likes, or some polarizing current events which can initiate plenty of discussion. It helps a lot if you do this in a social situation like a bar, or a social gathering, or some sort of hobby club, the sort of places people go to talk. trying to talk to someone just in general in public generally isn't good girls mostly just want to get on with their day and can't interesting in deep conversation while doing errands
“She Didn’t reject you, she reject the opener. She doesn’t know you”. Well said. Understanding this instills confidence when approaching.
Todd:
Tree dog T-shirt
Building with a pizza
under the seaboard
and
the fish's pyjamas
Girl: *Pants drop*
4:50
It's like a wizard's spell or a cheatcode in a videogame ))
I feel like logical words have almost nothing to do with it
Onetime I said blahblah in a nonchalant playfully challenging sexy way to this one girl at campus as i swagged past her and she said it back to me while laughing hornily
Another occasion with a different chick (my girlfriend) we had blahblah convos like twice. eachtime afterwards she was deeper in fuck me mode
Men = logical / thought
Women = emotional / feelings
Be higherstatus (read the book Higher Status by Jason Capital)
and have amazing vibes. That's the simple recipe to bake a pussy cake
You're welcome
That would get a girl interested because it's just so totally random :D
HandsomeSexGod “laughing hornily” Please do video on your channel showing us a horny laugh lol
I look at rejection as a motivation. A lot of guys sees rejection as a bad thing. Men needs to realize that women are opportunist. They're always looking for the best possible outcome to best suit them, that's why 99.99% of women date multiple guys and so men always needs to date multiple women so that way, you're not putting all your attention on one person.
Channel Energy you being too cool for school isn't gonna stop your dream girl from seeing other guys.
A genius makes a complicated topic (game, intergender dynamics & interactions) simple. This is exactly what Todd is doing here
By popular demand. This is one of the most fun and satisfying skills in game, and it will help you sleep with those hot girls who give you the blasé... but the fundamentals of having good overall game are still far more important overall, so try to focus your energy on your GOOD sets rather than heavily on turning your bad ones around. It's better and easier to just do a good job from the start and have nothing to correct.
That's the man talking!
Please... give us more student infields ... because they are very helpful...
What happened to your Backup Channel?
@@Martin-xv I've seen this comment several places lately. I wasn't aware anything had happened. In any case, I had nothing to do with the backup channels... I believe they were started by fans who had saved my videos offline. Have some videos vanished, or the whole channel? Thanks
In other words, don't give up!
Todd is a certified verbal mechanic.
The lawn mower analogy is perfect for opening/hooking a set.
except that with the lawn mower, you pull the same cord the same way a few times until the engine runs, but if one opener is dud, don't try the same more than once, try something different
Can someone recap the lawnmower technique once more..missed that
I don't get rejected she just has bad taste 😉
At least she gave u a BJ.
@The Foxt He may be biased against pick up but he's right. Go up to anybody and tell them you're a pua and you'll see the disdain and contempt in there eyes. Even if pua worked which it doesn't its a sad pathetic existence think of all the STDs you'd contact in a year of doing pua.
Good complain to not approch
this is such a ignorant loser-approach to game. so whenever you fail and do miserable in game, you just blame her "bad taste" and completely disallow yourself to reflect on what you just did. truth is, if you get rejected, better for her, because she doesnt date someone with a losers mentality.
The lawn mower metaphor was spot on, thanks for the video and keep up with the good work Todd!
except that with the lawn mower, you pull the same cord the same way a few times until the engine runs, but if one opener is dud, do not try the same more than once, try something different
make a video of how to hit on girls that you already know.
he already has a video on that on this channel :) or on AskToddV channel
Friend zoned.
Exactly the same as a cold approach.
Why not try on someone who doesn’t matter to you, get confidence and then move on girls you know?
the worst feeling is to be rejected. But to turn it around and hold your integrity intact you just have to walk away. Nice Video Todd
thats true, but sometimes it is hard when you are really into her
@@emmanueleriserison8150 You need to be aware of the signs you wont be rejected. Sometimes you dont have to be naive
rejection is nasty
@@lifestyleplustv sure
Or learn to not let rejection affect you. Everytime you get rejected, use that moment as an excersise to find a way to mentally not let it bother you.
Luckily for me, feeling rejected my whole life, has made completely immune to rejection. It hasn't bothered me one bit....yet.
I also don't expect the girls to like me, so rejection doesnt dissapoint me.
Not quite that easy: she may not just be rejecting your opener, she might not find you at all attractive.
Worst rejection I had was "errr no thanks" 🙈😂
Tuff
Earth is hard😂😂
Go bald and say i didnt say you can say yes 😂
I had 'not interested'
Oof
Lol you get the engine started then you can mow the lawn 😂😂😂 shit was pretty funny n ice analogy
Dude wtf... what youre describing at 1:55 legit happened to me yesterday. I sat down next to this girl on the train and during the train ride the train stopped for no reason. I took my earbuds out and she took her headphone off one of her ears a split second after... kinda like how a friend would do if they were expecting you to say something. I said to her "did you hear any announcements", she replied with a pretty unenthusiastic"They said they're waiting for a signal". That was it. I didn't say anything else and just sat there watching netflix on my ipad until it was my stop. Feels bad man, I dont want to make excuses for myself, but maybe I would have done better if the carriage wasn't full of people and dead silent. I told myself I was gonna ask for her instagram one stop before I got off, just to practice putting myself out there. Bitched out of that one as well... I still have a lot of work to do.
Harl0 283 it's great that you did an approach at the end of the day, hopefully you learn from that and get further next time :)
Shit dude i done this aswell i was pissed after haha fuck it though man
A hot girl let you sit next to her? Lucky fuck. Girls would rather stand than sit next to me. When I'm looking for a seat they put their purse in the seat or, if they dont have one, just get up and leave.
I had one cute girl get up and stand by the door the whole way. When I got off I walked by her and said "all yours."
The moral of my story is two fold: It could be worse. And: Be a little more appreciative of the opportunity. If she let's you be in her presence in a confined space for any period of time, you're halfway already. Next time, pick her up for all of us who are rejected before we even open your mouths.
@@trajan74 Where do you think the rejection is coming from? Poor clothing choice? Body language? Bad genetics? Anything can be overcome. Maybe you're just in the wrong country.
Women are lawn mowers. Ok, got it! Seriously though, Todd makes some great points here and in other vids. Glad I found his channel in this modern age of mostly neutered pick-up coaching.
Thank goodness you're still around to guide us lost souls, Todd...Hope to learn from you in person someday!
Great video as always! What a shame we lost Todds Backup Channel. Could you restore it? - I found there couple of best motivational speeches. Thanks.
What happened?
so true man... i remember the nihilism video
What happened to it?
@@Martin-xv youtube says its blocked because of copyright infringement
Please replicate videos on other platforms. RUclips is destroying itself.
Hey Todd, you know what the best lawnmower is?
A push-pull.
I see what ya did there
"We've all kind of been there"
That is literally me with every conversation I've ever attempted with women.
😂😂😂we all in the same boat bruh ❤️❤️❤️
Todd is black magic.
1. Instigate: a reaction is better than none
2. Do not do what didn't work before
3. Understand what works, and what didn't.
4:53 As soon as Todd said that it was so weird. I'm a straight guy but I became instantly attracted to him for at least a few seconds.
Black magic ritual
🤔
Fuckin same
Definitely gotta be one of your best, most useful videos, fantastic. A lot of practical advice and a bit of mind frame adjustment.
Only thing I would consider adding is actually skimming through a list of different emotions you can pull on your first opener, along with one example for each. Would make it easier for beginners to understand what you mean.
Anyway, love it! Thank you.
so true. i thought i was rejected so many times. most times it was really just lack of follow thru...
Mocking Tyler/RSD free association idea there 😂. I personally think free association is not a fucked up concept as long as you make things relevant to her at some point
Todd V ... you are easily the top 5 baddest ass dudes I've never met. Your ability to swiftly and pithily pick logic out from any circumstance and turn it into actionable insight is unfathomably immense. I'm quite impressed. I hope one day to meet you.
Clear, efficient, value-packed & no bullshit dating advice. Is this real life?
Gosh how many videos have I watched on dealing with rejection. I just have to let somebody like me who doesn't know they are like me, know this. If you have ADHD, Bi-Polar, or both then you have something called RS. Rejection sensitivity. Basically what this means is that you take rejection a lot harder than everybody else in the world and even when people in general haven't rejected you it still feels like they have. basically it also feels very personal whether you know it is or isn't. and this was a huge problem for me in pickup when I would get rejection. one after the other instead of feeling better and it not being scary it got worse and I fell into depression. but that's because I have ADHD and Bi-Polar and RS. I now have been diagnosed and am taking medication for this. I have never felt better and my game/pick up has gotten better as a result. I again am typing this for anyone who may be like me and doesn't know it yet. I encourage everybody to go to a psychiatrist and figure out what you have. (be careful though some depending on what you say will tell you that you are a trans person and need hormone therapy which has caused a lot of problems for people in recent years. i would advise going to a religious one. not because of their religion but they are less likely to advise hormone therapy and give you the medication you need. at least that's what I have seen in my experience and I'm thankful for switching psychiatrists and am still a man (very happy as a man) to this day.) it seems everybody has some mental health issue and could benefit from medication. anyways this video has helped me only now that I am medicated and functioning like a normal person. but for anybody ls this is here for you.
I have had lots of rejection work out in my favor. Because I get a sense of relief more times. I find the hard part of asking a girl out is if I’m going to regret it. The more you get rejected the better. Think about it you see girls with jerks that hit them and they have no courage to leave the situation and it started from before they got together. I can see why it’s hard for women to make a decision. A lot of times I feel better that I’m single. I’m also finding more women wanting less commitment maybe we have finally turned the corner in getting what we want as me. Just a thought
YOU ARE ABSOLUTE BEAST TODD AND I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWESOME LOVE YOU!!! Wow that was emotional but yee todd rules
Best advice I’ve had, ever. Great view of opening. Thank you Todd.
- If you pick the RIGHT girl, then ANY opener works, they usually sub-consciously send signals to the mate they like,
you just need to be able to read the signals and the body-language from the women around you.
Game analogy: “You make the engine start then you mow the lawn” gets my like
You can't turn around ANY rejection. Nobody clicks with absolutely everyone.
I really liked this about trying different approaches. often times I think I'm really quick to say something, and I could get a positive reaction, but I'm quick to just move on instead of digging deeper. thanks!
Just subscribed to your channel. i have watched few of your clips. You have got GEMS mate.
Your videos come up on my feed at such a convenient time😭💯 literally just failed a shit test now I'm sorta dealing with a rejection. But ayy Great stuff Todd!!!👌🐺
You really did a great job turning around that rejection on those 3 girls talking to each other on the park bench pal!
also, what makes it wrong is that he wont accept a "No"
The nerve of that guy. Just imagine if it one of those girls had discovered a lump on her breast and was looking for support from her friends or if it was the 1yr anniversary of her older brother dying in Iraq and she was meeting up with friends to remember him. My point is that he had no idea of why they were there talking. And he's just there trying to add another notch to his lay count. Pua's are such losers.
am I missing something? Where is that in the video?
@@adamgorz9679 You sound like a loser idealizing a feminine situation. SMH.
@@nathancad nah, just a couple of penguinz0 fan boys talking about a vid that's like 5 years old. Never mind the fact penguinz0 is one of the slimiest creeps you'll ever see
Instigate from an arrogant frame. Calibrate and use a different opener if necessary. She's not rejecting you; she's rejecting your opener. Thanks, Todd
Laughing after every 'rejection of your approach method and congruency' is my best bet. Thanks Todd
As long as you have clarity of intent and no ego into it, you should be fine. Don't forget that sometimes some girls are just not your audience.
@SoliDeoGloria 07 Not every girl will like you
Right off the bat
This guy is the real deal
That lens thooooooo! I’m guessing a SONY prime
Welcome to Toby's Club.
good observation, but you look geeky as hell 😁
The middle child beat 🔥
Lawnmower metaphor; if it doesn't go on the 1st try, choke it
I just wanted to comment on a Todd video to mention that RSD is "moving on" to a self-help and away from pick-up. I knew this was going to happen since a year ago because Todd is now cornering the market and they cannot compete
man, your words are gold. keep doing this great work!
Todd upping my street harassment game 😂
0:31 Dope cole intro 🔥
FRED Method Bruh.. focus, relevance to her, emotion, logical decision
The lawn mower metaphor is genius
Watching pick up vids for 4 years now. Think I'll never cold approach 😂
...walk out your front door.
@@chrisknorr1326
Im always outside dude
Don’t get too excited Ive done hundreds or approaches and literally nothing unless the girl is a 5 . Any girl 7 or above is going to want a hot high value guy . Just imagine being an ugly guy and her introducing you to her friends ?? Just doesn’t make any sense at all
@@cakeboss1721
I did 4 in my life. All hot. 50% succes. Maybe im hotter than I think
Awesome vid Todd, honestly. Btw, when you mentioned switching the ways of talking, how many are there? Like jokes, trust & cocky things. Not the ones in pants.
Funny story, I was in a coffee shop once this was many years ago, And as I was waiting for my drink, I had a 30 sec conversation with the barista while she was making my . It was just chitchat and I wasn’t trying to game on her or anything.
I got my drink in a few minutes later the owner of the coffee shop came out and started screaming at me, accusing me of hitting on his barista, and how awful that was, in front of a full café , and then proceeded to quite angrily, kicked me out and told me to never come back. I just didn’t know what to say.
A few days later, I happened to see that girl on the street while I was walking. I immediately felt embarrassed, but she came over to me and apologized to me for how absolutely insane her boss is, ended up, giving me her number. So in this situation, I wasn’t the one who instigated an emotional reaction. It was her boss making a scene that made her remember me.
Thank you Todd, you've helped me more than other coaches
You ever randomly start texting someone online, and they force you to slam the brakes hard? - I tried randomly texting a 10, but this one is giving me quite a hard time!
Thanks Todd simplicity. Great work
You are the Bodhisattva of pickup Todd
Wow there is a lot of shit out there but this guy keeps hitting straight in the middle all the time. I never realized how complex a great conversation that is interesting is. This guy just made it realize to me. Sad that women do not comprehend this too. They just expect to receive it.
Todd es claramente un exponente de la comunidad de la seducción. Sus videos son tecnicos y van justo a lo que se necesita.
Son maestros como el los que me motivan seguir con mi canal y con videos que ayudan a las personas!
Gracias Todd!!
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If you start talking about her , and what hobbies she has then it starts going one with the conversation ,one topic leads to the next works with me
Good opener, good tonality, she can hear you, sound sure of yourself.
She's not rejecting you, she's rejecting your opener.
Carry interaction after open. If a topic dies, bring up another topic.
"You know what's funny about you.." thats a good one to begin with, add in a push pull or compliment.
Million dollar mouth piece whatever the hell that means LOL
Make it relevant to you and her. Instigate, anything about her is a risk. Anything about you and her is higher risk.
Adopt frames that if true would lead to sex. Provoke a reaction.
If an opener doesn't work, instigate in a different way. Try being positive and sincere. Try an opinion opener. Give her a different sample of your personality.
Have a few different opener formats. Each opener I a different trigger.
If she rejects a direct approach, go with something subtly dismissive or arrogant, push pull, dont be complimentary to someone when they aren't responding to that. If you give your power away, do something else. Emotional spikes. Positive negative.
Turn around negative by using a different approach.
Everything is fine but not the one with the direct rejections...if she says NO...or I am not interested, or I have a bf....DO NOT continue, unless you want to ruin everyone night out or day. Have some dignity. I had a lot of those situation where I had to call the taxi to get away, or get behind the bar ask for help or ask help from my friends , the owner, dj, security...or even approach some random dudes that are strong and tall to help me, it is drama and making a scene, but when someone does not get the NO for answer, people have to do what they have to to survive. So please... if someone says NO, say nice to meet you and move on, that is the best thing you can do for yourself and others.
lol Hahaha, I love your shot at "A Million Dollar Mouth Piece." So true, by the way.
Great video as always Todd. Iall keep my fingers crossed
4:42 SHOTS FIRED
Todd "ValueBOMB" legend
Where is Todd Backup channel?
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If you could make a video on: How to win girls that aren't physically attracted to you. That would be good. So, girls who ONLY like white guys but you're brown or girls who ONLY like brown guys but you're white. How to turn a girl on who's indoctrinated to like a certain type of guy -- the skater boy guys, the suit wearing alphas, the shorts-sagging gangsta guys etc
Todd rejection is inevitable. Not everyone is going to be into yiu. You're not compatible with everybody
😂😂😂 this dude’s metaphor for the lawn mower
Phil Mickelson said, "The birdies are in the woods."
Nice example of the lawnmower Todd hehe...
Agreed til the end. If you can turn around the worst sets into the best sets you've basically won.
Game is like a lawn mower, it takes a couple pulls to warm up. - Todd V
Sometimes I give a woman a compliment and it feels like she will dismiss me with a "thank you" even when I try to carry on.
Todd the Big Boss Love you
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Tree dog T-shirt
Building with a pizza
under the seaboard
and
the fish's pyjamas
-My new opener
Instructions unclear- ended up going to Home Depot with her to buy a lawnmower- she left me there when she ran into her ex bf who's the Home Depot CEO.
I'm fine with a girl not contributing much, not talking much, being shy etc (although being glued to her phone or outright ignoring me is a deal breaker for sure). My problem is that even though I'm quite charismatic and social (learned, not innate), I can have awesome interactions with girls that go on for 30 minutes and seem like 5. I'll get her number and leave, but when I hit her up later, she almost NEVER replies.
I don't send "hey" texts, I send a text that calls back to something we talked about and usually has a flirtatious cadence to it. It's not too long, not too short, and I like to have a bit of ambiguity or an open ended question in it.
Basically, a one or two line text that reminds her who I am, recalls something we talked about, and has a mysterious component that should prompt a reply. But the reply never comes.
The worst is when this happens with a girl I know I'll see again, like in the gym or a class or something. Once I text her, she almost always shifts from fun and wanting to talk, to avoiding me like the plague.
Probably because you didn’t flirt.. happens to everyone tho what you described
@@Max-yp1iw Flirting is very risky these days, it's the fastest way to get asked to leave by management.
@@fuzzypanda1684 no lol
Awesome video Todd!! Your vocabulary is impressive, had to look up "instigate" again.
I have a similar Problem, when Iam texting. In the real life I have no problem with Woman, but in Chat Most of the Interactions Just die.
Has he made a video about something like that?
This is a crazy shot
I prefer the good ole classic “Who cheats more, men or women?” 😂
Hey Todd, love your videos. Thanks for the great content. Also, I have a question:
I’ve been seeing some decent success on Tinder, thanks to your videos on text game. A few times I’ve had great conversations with women via text, asked them out on dates, they say yes, and we start planning the logistics of the date, and during that process, out of nowhere, they suddenly stop responding. There’s no hint that it’s coming. They seem completely receptive and excited about the date, and then suddenly I get ghosted. Pinging value to them occasionally has yet to resurrect these conversations. What’s going on here?
Give a time frame “Let’s meet on Saturday; next week i will be out forma work trip”; she will have to take you or loose you
Be emotionally relevant... about her... about "us"... arrogant... set the frame, assume she's attracted (she might shit test)... TRY DIFFERENT EMOTIONS / METHODS
Awesome vid, one question though... how the hell do you guys find instrumentals for the latest/dopest songs all the time?
You have some good analogies
Sorry guys but I’m reading some of these comments and they are appalling. If you are thinking negative things about women, you aren’t going to attract anything good. Why would any woman want to be with any man who thinks negative things about women? Take a year off and clean up your thoughts and think wonderful things about the woman who you will love and cherish and adore and you might get somewhere. But love yourself first. This is so scary and ridiculous that men think it’s about looks. It isn’t.
lots of guys focus too much on getting a girl or getting with multiple girls that they overlook the real success - not having one or any. getting rejected is a blessing in disguise, but why go that far, just repel them before. it's too much effort to play these games, it's easier to make things awkward or humiliating.
Todd imma call you god cuz ur doing his work on earth.
Honestly, after he said “TreedogT-ShirtBuilding-With-The-PizzaUnderTheSeaboardAndTheeeFishesPJmas” I felt a little attracted.
" million-dollar mouthpiece, whatever that is!" Straight shit talking about RSD. Lol
It's so much easier just not talking to girls at all.
ZeronXL indeed, it's easy not to but you don't get better at something by not doing it.
Hey dude I was watching old vids of you from back in the day
This is something Hollywood seems to do right. Almost all Hollywood romances start at some witty exchange of remarks.
Max inthe natural has a full video infield opening rambling 4 min haha
I can see signs of initial interest almost instantly. But as soon as I start speaking everything goes downhill.
Todd, what do you think I should focus on just to have the right energy and right verbal game? At least to feel like she wants me to stay in the conversation because she isn't bored.
Any advice is truly appreciate it.
Find something you're both interested in and avoid small talk, ask her what she likes, or some polarizing current events which can initiate plenty of discussion. It helps a lot if you do this in a social situation like a bar, or a social gathering, or some sort of hobby club, the sort of places people go to talk. trying to talk to someone just in general in public generally isn't good girls mostly just want to get on with their day and can't interesting in deep conversation while doing errands
I'm watching this preemptively
Get that fckng engine started and you can mow that lawn Todd lol