Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 7-year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 8-year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
Beginner: Start with simple approaches to ask for directions or opinions about jewelry items or cologne. Finish with a final quest of a direct opener that states a woman is cute, or you like her look. Ask for contact information after 3 minutes of conversation. Intermediate: Attractive girls are in groups. More of a focus on moving girls around and approaching groups. Get contact information and follow up. Focus on leading and being in charge. Let's go walk and talk here, etc... Advanced: Moves from a numbers game to getting a girl to qualify herself to you and do more of the work and chasing. Flip the script. At first, you may lose sets doing this. Make your focus not how far the set can go, but how much you can get her to qualify and fall in to your frame. Challenge and disqualify her from the beginning. Finally, be ok losing any set and being able to walk away, no matter who it is you are talking to.
Wow, this is genuinely one of Todd’s best videos ever. He basically summarized all of game as succinctly as possible in a highly actionable manner. This is basically the condensed version of The System. Great refresher. Will definitely be referencing back to this video.
I’m a beginner. In the last 10 months approached 25 girls, and they were mostly warm approaches, when I notice signals from girls. Hope I will reach the Intermediate level one day.
This is actually practical. I was stuck at not even knowing how to approach. I feel like no one talks about the “risk” factor enough, just to man up and approach. It’s great to see this in levels now and have something to practice no matter what level you are.
Same, my game hasn't really taken off yet but I've been getting a lot better at working approaches into each day and contemplating what worked, what didn't work, what I could try next time. The more I watch these vids and try to put them into practice, the more intensely driven I feel to make it to advanced. I know deep down I can have great relationships with girls who are really into me and all the components that go into that beyond what I already have in my personality are trainable. I don't want lukewarm relationships where the girl is with me for the security of being in a relationship, waiting for a guy with a bigger bank account or whatever to come along. I heard this awful thing on the radio, this man's wife wanted to divorce him, he was a wreck, wanted to keep her, the advice show hostess gave him this awful jUsT lEt HeR gO spiel, which ironically has a seed of truth in it, non-neediness but she didn't tell him about anything else like abundance, getting in the gym, how to do approaches, obviously she wasn't like Todd or anything lol. The last fucking thing I want in my life is to end up in that man's shoes.
Went to a big local farmers market on Sunday and started talking to the girls in the booths who were being paid to be there and try to sell me shit...BUT this led to me having more confidence and then engaging the other cute girls who were browsing along side me, all of them were somewhat receptive and chatted for a bit. Y'all, trust Todd, he's spitting straight truth.
The smartest thing these guys made was to link and attach their personal success journey to a business selling others success journeys - the journey itself is expensive and difficult so it’s basically genius
"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness". Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women.
I remember my cousin doing the cologne opener, at the mall. He was so happy doing it! Also, happy during the interaction that the girls was super into it.
The basic idea of this video made an AHA! moment for me.I heard it before,100% but I kept approaching with the idea of taking it somewhere. Not a good start if you're anxious. You'll give up fast.
Tip for content: Show infield of you doing each kind of approach. You already had the mic and the camera. Other than that, good info but the effort could have been higher
Great tips Todd. I’m going to try these. Do you have any suggestions for the beginner missions if you’re in a bar? Should you just drill on openers like “how’s you’re night going” or “I like you’re shoes” or “I hate you”, “I love you”, etc…
If you guys really want to get your emotional callouses you should do this backwards. When you start out just talk to girls normally and never escalate. Nothing is more painful than knowing a girl likes you and doing nothing about it without having any success to fall back on. Todds right if you wanna be great you have to get rid of your emotions
Mission 1: Level 1 - done Level 2 - done Level 3 - skipped (reason: boring ... I dance as a hobby) Mission 2: Consider it done. Bonus: Can do. Leading ... Again, i dance. I had to learn that. Going to a group ... Will do. Following up - could be better. How can i get her to chaise me? I do not get that ...
Sir , could you please voiceover of your voice in hindi in your next video , because sonetimes , i am unable to know everything from you because of english , so please do something here
I get rejected even asking for directions. The women start shaking their heads (saying no), blanking me or walking away once I start asking before they even know what I'm about to ask/what i'm asking. This actually feels worse than rejections when you do a direct approach. Very humiliating and frustrating. Do I carry on asking for directions or just give up? I am fairly unattractive and not white.
It's probably the energy you are approaching with bro. You call yourself unattractive, so you're probably approaching with unattractive energy. Feeling attractive makes you attractive & being attractive isn't what's on the outside when you understand the Game. Keep approaching, you only lose when you stop going for what you want.
AG Hayden said he’ll pay 1K to anyone who records audio of 30 approaches if their game isn’t cringey and they get rejected every time, try taking the challenge and you may make some cash
If she gets pissed, you just say it was a joke, but in a frame that you dont think you said something that bad, you just say: -It was a joke (and smile), then change the subject of the conversation. If she continue pissed, you just step back, apologise, now you have to build confort again, if its not possible you acept you lose the set. Disqualify is risky i prefer risk the set by sexualizing the conversation, i think its more to the point, disqualification is like a 4D chess.
you are catastrophising. this hardly ever happens as long as you have learned the difference between disqualifying and insulting. As long as you haven't insulted her then why would she get pissed off? if it does happen it is either a shit test to see if you hold your frame or she is insane in which case you don't want anything to do with her anyway. hold your frame until you work out which it is and proceed from there. most of my same-night lays have started from women being "upset" with me lol.
Question have you read the art of sedution by Robert green? I ask because I would like to know your opinion about that book specially the part about the seducers types.
From my experience, when I approach multiple women in groups I get that: 'you've got balls' look from at least 1 if not multiple girls bc guys generally don't approach groups of hot girls. And women love men whom have balls😉
That all depends on your frame.. ive gone up to women saying the most stupidest things ever all while maintaining the frame of the conversation and it works like a charm.. it makes women nervous when youre being serious and they love the roller coaster of emotions! I once made out with a chick at an aisle of stater bros! Made it seem like a memorable moment for her of a future story to tell😂 it was romantic! There was flowers around the corner, ice cream options everywhere, snacks on the shelf😂 totally worked👏🏽💀
Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 7-year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 8-year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
Remarkable! How did you discover a spiritual counselor, and what's the procedure for me to get in contact with her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back ex-partners.
Many thanks for providing this valuable information; I've just conducted an online search for her. Remarkable!
This is the most comprehensive, *ACTIONABLE* dating advice I’ve ever heard, thank you so much for uploading this!
Beginner:
Start with simple approaches to ask for directions or opinions about jewelry items or cologne. Finish with a final quest of a direct opener that states a woman is cute, or you like her look. Ask for contact information after 3 minutes of conversation.
Intermediate:
Attractive girls are in groups. More of a focus on moving girls around and approaching groups. Get contact information and follow up. Focus on leading and being in charge. Let's go walk and talk here, etc...
Advanced:
Moves from a numbers game to getting a girl to qualify herself to you and do more of the work and chasing. Flip the script. At first, you may lose sets doing this. Make your focus not how far the set can go, but how much you can get her to qualify and fall in to your frame. Challenge and disqualify her from the beginning.
Finally, be ok losing any set and being able to walk away, no matter who it is you are talking to.
Wow, this is genuinely one of Todd’s best videos ever. He basically summarized all of game as succinctly as possible in a highly actionable manner. This is basically the condensed version of The System. Great refresher. Will definitely be referencing back to this video.
I’m a beginner. In the last 10 months approached 25 girls, and they were mostly warm approaches, when I notice signals from girls. Hope I will reach the Intermediate level one day.
You got this 💪🏽
warm approach would be meeting the girl for a date. you can get ioi's, its still cold approach. you're doing great.
Bro you should approche 25 girls in like a month maximum
@@rivoly100true, but still props to the guy for doing 25, it’s a lot more than zero
@@rivoly100 No. He should be approaching 25 a week. I've been doing about 30 a week here in Chicago. It's only 4 a day.
This is actually practical. I was stuck at not even knowing how to approach. I feel like no one talks about the “risk” factor enough, just to man up and approach. It’s great to see this in levels now and have something to practice no matter what level you are.
Can you elaborate a bit more, kinda stuck at that stage
I'm 52 and watch these videos to give advice to my 18-20 yo boys and I can tell you this all rigs true based on actual experience.
I plan on doing the same when I'm older and have a family. Gotta give the gift of game 😆.
Wish my dad was like that instead of a lazy alcoholic.
The father of the year
I wish I had a dad / older brother like you
@@NotAProducer888 aww
Man I’m sorry to hear that:(
I've watched so much content on game. But this really feels like the masterplan to follow. You don't need much more than this
I can’t wait till Friday night to try these new skills out
Todd you been looking good as hell lately
Right the guy is in his 40s and looks fly as fuck.
Gayyyy
Todd has been looksmaxxing 😆
@@Hittboxingandfitnessimagine using ‘gay’ as an insult. You must be 13 or something. How sad
@@georgeblair4797it is an insult but telling another man that he looks good is not gay it's just the truth
Todd V knows his stuff!
Todd, the last bastion of good old game from the golden era.
I would say I'm only at low level intermediate, but I'll do what it takes to get to advanced someday.
Good luck, brother. We’ll make it.
Same, my game hasn't really taken off yet but I've been getting a lot better at working approaches into each day and contemplating what worked, what didn't work, what I could try next time. The more I watch these vids and try to put them into practice, the more intensely driven I feel to make it to advanced. I know deep down I can have great relationships with girls who are really into me and all the components that go into that beyond what I already have in my personality are trainable.
I don't want lukewarm relationships where the girl is with me for the security of being in a relationship, waiting for a guy with a bigger bank account or whatever to come along. I heard this awful thing on the radio, this man's wife wanted to divorce him, he was a wreck, wanted to keep her, the advice show hostess gave him this awful jUsT lEt HeR gO spiel, which ironically has a seed of truth in it, non-neediness but she didn't tell him about anything else like abundance, getting in the gym, how to do approaches, obviously she wasn't like Todd or anything lol. The last fucking thing I want in my life is to end up in that man's shoes.
Went to a big local farmers market on Sunday and started talking to the girls in the booths who were being paid to be there and try to sell me shit...BUT this led to me having more confidence and then engaging the other cute girls who were browsing along side me, all of them were somewhat receptive and chatted for a bit.
Y'all, trust Todd, he's spitting straight truth.
Todd I love you so much I'm honestly getting emotional by how much you've helped me throughout my life
Can you explain more ?
Solid gold! If you could only watch one video on game, this is it.
The smartest thing these guys made was to link and attach their personal success journey to a business selling others success journeys - the journey itself is expensive and difficult so it’s basically genius
Good job. Very real and ethical.
todd is the master joda of game
droping gold for free this is what i needed i moved to advanced to fast i guess but i have seen that it works thanks todd
Todd has got the art of game sorted. No wonder he's got a girlfriend while also pursuing other girls as a part of his coaching. 😄
brilliant advice! love the blueprint as always!
"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations
She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness".
Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women.
Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better #growthmindset 💪🏽
best video on game I ever watched. thank you man
I remember my cousin doing the cologne opener, at the mall. He was so happy doing it! Also, happy during the interaction that the girls was super into it.
One glaring oversight: men don't ask directions.
Citation needed
That's right. It's Kripptonnite !
Hilarious
Well I just moved to Japan so this works superbly well lol
Great video thanks!
Great stuff . Especialy No follow up and low energy advanced.
Years n years of learning game in a few minutes video
Amazing content!
This intro is fucking insane, cheers🍻
The basic idea of this video made an AHA! moment for me.I heard it before,100% but I kept approaching with the idea of taking it somewhere. Not a good start if you're anxious. You'll give up fast.
I still hold on to Tylers old quotes from back in da day. " go out, go out, go out!!"
Is it allowed for a male customer to approach a female worker during her workplace that is not related to the female worker's job?
Walk Away Power is the greatest power you can possess.
Tip for content: Show infield of you doing each kind of approach. You already had the mic and the camera. Other than that, good info but the effort could have been higher
Effort? Bro you couldn't even put a profile picture 😂
Go back, there are a lot of infield videos with Todd doing approaches
What would be the informational value of showing a cologne opener ? There is no need demonstrate a normal platonic conversation
Todd is the goat!
Could you do a video about dating a girl with far higher social status than you, as in making a lot more money?
It's not so hard to catch a big fish, it's harder to retain one. Are you ready for a sweat?😅
Women normally look for men that are higher up than them on the social status scale
Approaching a group of girls scares the crap outta me. Great video
It's good to be hearing some new stuff.
Great tips Todd. I’m going to try these.
Do you have any suggestions for the beginner missions if you’re in a bar? Should you just drill on openers like “how’s you’re night going” or “I like you’re shoes” or “I hate you”, “I love you”, etc…
boss is back
What's a good drill for you personally Todd, let's say when you got to "god game" ? thanks
If you guys really want to get your emotional callouses you should do this backwards. When you start out just talk to girls normally and never escalate. Nothing is more painful than knowing a girl likes you and doing nothing about it without having any success to fall back on. Todds right if you wanna be great you have to get rid of your emotions
You're more fitter now Todd
What about for male customers to approach a female worker that is not related to her work or not related to her job?
Gold Content
Mission 1:
Level 1 - done
Level 2 - done
Level 3 - skipped (reason: boring ... I dance as a hobby)
Mission 2:
Consider it done.
Bonus:
Can do.
Leading ... Again, i dance. I had to learn that.
Going to a group ... Will do.
Following up - could be better.
How can i get her to chaise me? I do not get that ...
Sir , could you please voiceover of your voice in hindi in your next video , because sonetimes , i am unable to know everything from you because of english , so please do something here
Good stuff
The game called "Game" lol
I am facing first problem approach anxiety and what to say 😢
*When you approach dating with a mindset of respect and curiosity, it naturally makes you more attractive.*
Great!
Ultimate cheat sheet!😅
Expert level is James Bond game
Glad to see more of this and less of the black pill crap
I’m 51 years old, but I look much younger. Do these rules still apply to me to speak with girls that are in their 30s
yes
I get rejected even asking for directions. The women start shaking their heads (saying no), blanking me or walking away once I start asking before they even know what I'm about to ask/what i'm asking. This actually feels worse than rejections when you do a direct approach. Very humiliating and frustrating. Do I carry on asking for directions or just give up? I am fairly unattractive and not white.
It's probably the energy you are approaching with bro. You call yourself unattractive, so you're probably approaching with unattractive energy. Feeling attractive makes you attractive & being attractive isn't what's on the outside when you understand the Game. Keep approaching, you only lose when you stop going for what you want.
@@Billygoatstatus Haha, was waiting for a comment like this. Understand you're trying to help bro but you couldn't be further from the truth.
AG Hayden said he’ll pay 1K to anyone who records audio of 30 approaches if their game isn’t cringey and they get rejected every time, try taking the challenge and you may make some cash
But how do you disqualify her without pissing her off?
If she gets pissed, you just say it was a joke, but in a frame that you dont think you said something that bad, you just say:
-It was a joke (and smile), then change the subject of the conversation.
If she continue pissed, you just step back, apologise, now you have to build confort again, if its not possible you acept you lose the set.
Disqualify is risky i prefer risk the set by sexualizing the conversation, i think its more to the point, disqualification is like a 4D chess.
you are catastrophising. this hardly ever happens as long as you have learned the difference between disqualifying and insulting. As long as you haven't insulted her then why would she get pissed off? if it does happen it is either a shit test to see if you hold your frame or she is insane in which case you don't want anything to do with her anyway. hold your frame until you work out which it is and proceed from there. most of my same-night lays have started from women being "upset" with me lol.
Question have you read the art of sedution by Robert green? I ask because I would like to know your opinion about that book specially the part about the seducers types.
From my experience, when I approach multiple women in groups I get that: 'you've got balls' look from at least 1 if not multiple girls bc guys generally don't approach groups of hot girls. And women love men whom have balls😉
OH my GOD Thank you . May GOD Blesses such wisdom
I hope for you higher and higher knowledge and long term success
this is a way better way to learn than john's dumb boring modules ;P
Pretty sure that if a guy walked around, asking a girl to sniff his wrists, he be being escorted out of the building
That all depends on your frame.. ive gone up to women saying the most stupidest things ever all while maintaining the frame of the conversation and it works like a charm.. it makes women nervous when youre being serious and they love the roller coaster of emotions! I once made out with a chick at an aisle of stater bros! Made it seem like a memorable moment for her of a future story to tell😂 it was romantic! There was flowers around the corner, ice cream options everywhere, snacks on the shelf😂 totally worked👏🏽💀
Cool new hairstyle bro!
All of life is a game of reps
TODD = GOD
I got anxiety from watching this
I think my problem is that when I look at that thumbnail I dont want to be the guy on the right. I dont want to be the man women want me to be.
Lecture by a professor
I need directions but you look like trouble (a stranger) 😅
I think I'm first lol😂
I'm pretty sure no one cares
@@darlawrence9295 well I do 😘
@@cave_holmes Well you shouldn't
@@kutayimre2837 killjoy😛
@@kutayimre2837 killjoy😛
This fur beginners tf
It STARTS with beginner issues, yes.
@@ToddVDating dude u the Man U got me a girl friend 6 years ago when I was 15
Good advice and everything, but you need a Dental cleaning brother
Would you like 10million to teach me and only me?
Jesus
I just never manage to finish watching your videos. To much filler sentences and my brain drifts away.
I agree Gems of wisdom in mountains of verbosity. Have more coffee and don't blink.
How about just stop watching these videos and just go and be yourself. I feel like vids like this are turning men into weirdos
I m Just Not interesting in their superficial topics.
1 view 0 comments u fell off
Yeah that one view was you fanboy 😂
@@McKCM405 Thirty-Five THOUSAND views in 2 weeks bro.
Tod you look so good....