From Work to Friends and Even Relationships: Is Competition Healthy or Toxic?
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- Is it true that a little competition can be healthy? We discuss the ways in which being competitive can ruin relationships and if being competitive is truly necessary. Plus, how long would you wait to welcome someone into your home?
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I swear yall better not cut my girls off tv..they have at least 10 more seasons..5 at the minimum..yall dont understand these are my BFF in my head..I'm a DAY 1 FAN!!!!
Same sis!!!
me too 😭
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@Layla I swear I'm not gon function..You know how entertaining you have to be when a fan watch the same show over and over and they feel like its the first..I listen to them in my car..while I'm cleaning the house
Girl I feel the same way!!! 😭🥺 I want the Real to go on for years and years. If they have The View on for this long then the Real needs to be on even longer
Having the worst anxiety today, tomorrow is my best friends birthday, he passed away in 2020. You ladies make me feel so good with your genuine commentary!
So sorry for your loss 🙏🏾💕
Do something special for him tomorrow, light a beautiful candle, let his spirit feed off that energy, he’s always with you 🙏🏼 and in spirit form he’s an even stronger ally for you in this realm…
Sending love!!! ❤️❤️❤️ just breathe and be thankful for your memories together. Live for him. Xoxo
So sorry for your loss. ♥️
Sending love and virtual hugs ❤️
Garcelle is a great addition to the show. Definitely entertaining!
It's so hard to find 4 women who have a genuine relationships
I don't think their friends like they would lead us to believe. I think they are more casual friends then anything else and I say this because I hear them reveal things about themselves on the show all the time and the others are surprised to hear it for the first time and I'm talking about things a friend would definitely know about another friend
@@2sense110 They all have so many experiences to share. It is not uncommon to learn something about your friend after knowing them for years.
@@gaila.9852 you are absolutely right it's not uncommon not to know a couple things about your friends but the amount of things they don't know is uncommon and the fact that all of them are surprised to hear it for the first time. Maybe you would tell one friend and the others don't know but all of them not knowing so many things. This to me is not close friendship
@@2sense110 Can you recall any examples?
@@gaila.9852 off the top of my head no but you continue to watch the old episodes and you will see what I'm talking about
Competition btwn friends isn’t good. At least in my experience, friends who become competitive with me can’t be trusted, and I always wind up developing a slight resentment towards them for it
I LOVE the styling for Loni this season. She looks AMAZING. I am so sad this show is being canceled 😞
I hope that the real doesn't get cancelled!!!! I love all these ladies!!!! I would genuinely miss seeing them on my TV screen together on weekdays!!!!
I always say "No one is your competition because life isn't a competition"
Loni’s dress is amazing! Looks so relaxed and I love this color on her. Her entire wardrobe this season has been *chef’s kiss*
It's unfortunate for all sides. Sucks to be that only friend who is still trying to get that career while simultaneously surrounded by friends who are set and successful. But it also can suck to have to dismiss your blessings when you're around that friend whose life has been unfortunate.
Not everyone is emotionally equipped to compartmentalize their failures to applaud your success.
Loni 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ‘you’d be yawning, in your pajamas, taken of my wig’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Take a broom, turn it upside down and put it by the door.” Gonna try that for sure 😂😂😂😂
Omg the week's stories 😂🤣🤣. Jeannie got you! "Daughter, what's daughter?" 😂
The broom trick Garcelle was talking about, Mexicans do too!! 😂
I never heard of this one!
I laughed so hard! We're also doing it in Martinique! Just did it last week! 🤣
😂😂😂😂
Brazilians too! LOL
Yesss
It depends on the way the competition is handled ! If you’re being healthy it’s ok but if it’s getting dirty and things nasty are being said that’s when it’s not ok
My inner Kanye comes out when I am playing Taboo or a classic board game. I play to win or until the end of the game. I do not want anyone to leave until the entire game is finished properly and you KNOW that could be HOURS if it's Monopoly, Skip-Bo, or even Scrabble. I don't think it has to do with me being competitive as much as I want to hang out with friends/family.
I agree
Loni stay dropping some wisdom!!!
LONI IS HILARIOUS! Imma take the broom and start cleaning up LOL
Anybody else feel like Jeannie was talking
About Tamar when she spoke about having to dumb down good news to jealous bitches ... Adrienne was like “yeah I remember glad that’s over now “ 😆
Competitive in games is one thing but if they’re competing and it’s more like they’re comparing their achievements against yours and it feels like they’re trying to show they’re better than you then that’s a red flag. That’s where I’ve drawn the line. If they can’t be happy for me then that’s not a good friend.
I pray they NEVER cancel this show coz 😭😭😭😭😭 but if they do they should start a podcast together.. Its like listening to your aunties giving life advice... Love them so much!!
Competitiveness is fun when it comes to playing games.
But being competitive with others in work setting is lame. Support and uplift others while you work your way up.
Adrienne is servinnnnn with the new hair 🔥😄🔥
Adrianne your prioroties changed hence why you dont care lol. You got the man, the job, the house, the body and the family love : whats more to fight for?
That upside broom theory from garcelle is for a whole different reason for us in the Caribbean...some do this to know who is behind the evil spirit/force that has been tormenting u at nights...it works everytime I was told
Don't want this show to go...its the best relaxer for me
Adrienne that man was not going to die from eating 3 weed cookies 🤣🤣
Why didn't she put them where no one could reach them she puts them in the kitchen with hungry people go looking for food and yes three weed cookie can kill someone if the person has a medical condition to begin with
Thank you! Come on now.
Agree with Garcelle. You are not coming to my safe space if I don't trust you. You all are the best.
Yesss Garcelle. Im from the Caribbean and I've heard this.
I hate competition,I think it takes a lot of energy,I think if it is a health competition its OK for the people who loves to compete,but I notice some people would be competing with you without u knowing,that's crazy.
we also know the trick of the broom... love from Panama
2:30 Oh how I remember those days well🙄 Sometimes I feel like my entire 20's were spent watering down my personality. So glad I am the real me today.
My home
😂🤣😁 I am just coming off allowing a friend from the midwest that is moving to the Eastcoast, to live with me. It was horrible, a real trainwreck.🤣
Pre Covid I always had people in my home. Now, not often. But then again people that live near me think the same way I do about germs.
Garcelle...ahahahahahahaha...your story was hilarious girl. Awesome segment. I know about the broom thing too lol. But on a serious note I don't allow just anyone to cross my threshold. My home is special to me. I'm very weary of energies that people may bring into my home. Then I have to bring out the sage branch instead of a stick lmao
Lol 😂 I’m definitely going to try this. Does it matter if the broom is plastic or wooden???
I think a reality TV show with all the ladies would be really nice
Your own worst enemies.. its nice not having to worry about this. Guys aren't as evil to each other.
I love these ladies…
I’ve never smoked or eaten weed before and I went to this market and bought these gummy bears thinking they were just normal CBD products that would help me to sleep or help with anxiety. I went home and ate two of them thinking nothing of it. Turns out, these were not normal CBD gummies. They were 10mg RSO gummies. It was one of the most insane experiences of my life. I thought I was DYING. I couldn’t process anything, the room was spinning, I couldn’t breathe, time didn’t make sense. To stop myself from calling an ambulance, I called my brother to come and stay with me because I was freaking out. I hallucinated that someone walked into my apartment before he got there. When my brother showed up, we watched Encanto and I calmed down and got better. It wore off pretty fast but for those couple of hours, it was… wow.
Some people say weed help with anxiety but I find it to be opposite. I become paranoid when I smoke it. I'm the type of person I like to be in my right mind I like to be able to process what's going on if I'm not able to do that I become terrified
@@2sense110 I think CBD can help with anxiety but THC is more psychoactive. I’ve taken CBD products before and barely felt anything so I was not expecting what happened when I ate those gummies lol.
I'm glad I have no idea what RSO and THC are!!
Ohhhhhhh noooooooo
Jeannie is talking about herself🤣😂🤣
I cannot stand competition. it’s like if we aren’t playing a game then why are we competing
I just thought about what garcelle said. It's either a spiritual thing or like loni said, ppl assume you're starting to clean & they start heading out
Garcelle know bout that Haitian voodoo chile
That broom thing, Jamaicans too!!!
My mouth dropped open when Garcelle talked about putting the broom by the door ..mother in law always joke around ..when we are there... I am from Trinidad
The broom story is a thing in Brazil too 😂
Lool the broom is soooo Caribbean!!😂😂😂😂 we do the same. Im from Suriname 🇸🇷
As always 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥👑👑👑👑🖤💜😍🖤✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
Not Adrienne saying he could have died 😂😂
I really enojy learning about things Haitians do through other Haitians. I'm definitely gonna ask my parents about the broom lol
Who else thinks that Adrienne’s spirit is completely off, I’m getting that vibe from her
I think she tries too hard to be perfect.
@@deemichelle that’s not what I was talking about at all lol
@@Rokia2003 what do you mean?
@@TinaKai25 for some reason I feel like something happened to her recently that she hasn't talked about and her spirit seems really sad idk
Lmaoo loni looking at Garcelle 0:58 like girl don't talk to us acting like you on our level you've probably been competive your whole life and didn't even have to work for it lmaoo I can't😁😁😊😊 like get outta here with that😄😄🥴🥴
DIED!?! from the weed cookies??? 🤣...and y'all are IN California! I love you guys but come on! Lol
I have to use the broom trick 😂
I know about the broom thing Garcelle….it’s also a Trini thing😂
For real? I never heard about this lol
They probably left Garcelles house because she’s randomly putting brooms upside down by the door 😂
I think garcelle knows witchcraft why else would she put a broom by the door and immediately everyone is convinced it's time to go
To keep negative ass people out. Clearly it works🤣
It's a Cuban thing, too. My mom told me to do that, and it always works 😂😂😂😂
@@mariamaceo6619 Do people see the broom, or do they just suddenly say it is time to go home?
@@gaila.9852 They don't even notice the broom, yet suddenly they decide that it's time to go
That type of person, need to hyper themselves outta of life, especially in my work life and any relationship , cause i ain't got the time or the patience for that.
Lmao this episode was so entertaining! Let me tell you a story … it’s on my RUclips Channel , but I went to my mentors cookout and her wife had made Weed cookies … I had no idea… y’all I ate one of them things and thought I had covid ( covid had just came out ) I was scared and dizzy lol … when I tell I was in that bathroom floor on the FLOOR , holding up the bathroom ! Baybeeeeeeeee I didn’t care 🤣 !
Adrienne😄😄😂😂 she be like Tabooo tabooo Adrienne🥴🥴 lmaooo😊😊😄😄
I’m competitive af. Playing taboo especially. I won’t play unless my husband or daughter are my team mate 😂 my sons? I’ll quit before they are on my team. 🤣
Fox please don't cancel this show, we love the ladies and we love tuning in, anyone who has acess to fox channel please watch the real so that it's not cancelled.
In Germany we just tend to give a friendly heads up as to when we expect for people to leave. “Just so you know, I’m gonna have to kick you out in 30 ☺️” - done!
Yes listen to Garcelle. I had half of a weed brownie, NEVER AGAIN. Terrible 😂 I was also recovering.
Loniiiii 🤣 will clean to make them leave 💀
I love how she says bitch!!!!!
It's a spiritual trick the broom, people will leave
I do not invite people into my house because I don't want to ask you to leave. My friends are always invited.
Hey ladies. One way to get my hey is there Is with the thumbs down ey. Have a great week ladies. Welcome back Jeanie.
I'm Haitian and I heard about it 😆 🤣 😂
18K views in 9 hours and THEY WANT TO CANCEL THIS SHOWWW! Are they crazy 😡
I agree with Garcelle if I need to hide anything other than weird items then you don't belong there.
Garcelle a low key witch lol with the broom.
We grew up doiong that in Belize. LOL
Idk what I’ll do if these girls leave me 😣 y’all cannot cancel this show. We need a petition!!!
Switch the lights off if you want people to leave/turn off the music/tell them you have to go
Hi lovely Andrenne
"3 cookies...he could've died!"🤣🤣
It’s a Caribbean thing I’m from Jamaica I know of the broom
Garcelle, you are looking all kind of levels of F.I.N.E🤤🤤😍😍🔥🔥🔥
And Adrienne's outfit is ✨✨✨🎇🎇🎇🎇
A story!! 😂😂
They're leaving, because you look crazy, putting a broom, upside down, at your door ... I would leave too, if i saw that lol
You got older I can't loniiii🥴🥴🤭🤭lmaoo shadddde😎😎😏😏👀👀
Is it wrong that I thought about Haiti's witchcraft reputation when Garcelle talked about taking out the broom???
Traditional religious practices isn’t witchcraft. Unlearn the colonial approach and you’ll see the true beauty of ALL indigenous beliefs
Adrienne “he could’ve died” lol, no, he just would’ve been high out of his mind 😂 can’t overdose on marijuana, I mean you could. It’s just not fathomable
I’m Haitian, and I’ve never heard about the broom thing haha 😂 but I’ll try it next time.
Adrienne never understands the topic properly omfg
that broom trick is very mexican lol
How is being not ambitious a good quality in a woman? Yes you don’t have to be overly competitive as you get over but losing ambition and simply not caring is just plain unattractive.
Girrrrrrl he wasn't going to die, he was just not going to be functional for a few days.
I don't worry about it causes it's a No No what came so what time do that 🤯🤭🤕😡😩😀
MOST WOMEN IVE WORKED BELIEVE I WAS SO COKPETITIVE BECAUSE OF THE GOOD JOBS I HAD BUT NOTHING COULD BE FARTHER FROM THETRUTH, I FACT GAVE UP A JOB BECAUSE A WOMEN WHO WANTED MY JOB MADE THINGS SO DIFFICULT AND WOULD TRY TO SABOTAGE ME. THAT I GAVE UP THE JOB BECAUSE I WONT PLAY THOSE GAMES.
The broom trick is true. Hahaha.
Seems like Loni and Adrienne have had a Lil tension on the past few episodes. What's going on?
I just ask everyone to leave lol
It s ment for but egnoreded if it a relative that really needs a help out which I don't do cause it's a mom 😱😤😫😀
Hi there y’all I desperately need advice I’m 24 and my boyfriend is 36 what is the catch for our age gap or what is the appropriate age age?
And Dimoos shifts🤭😀😩
Why would she put the weed cookie where anyone could reach it. In the kitchen where people go when they're hungry and looking for food
If she clearly had snacks out where the actually party was p shouldn't be in her kitchen eating whatever looks good
I don't agree with giving your friends the bum's rush out of your home. Why invite them if they can't spend the night after the party, help you clean up or know when it's time to leave? Seems kinda rude to me. I also wouldn't have anyone in my home that I didn't trust. That whole you have to leave when I leave, don't offer a house guest a key, or having kitchen rules about food is all so ridiculous! Thankfully I don't have anyone like that in my life.
No to weed, pray the rosary instead ^_^
What does the upside down broom mean?
Adrienne let the other Ladies talk …
There is no show lk this one, why are they cutting it 😭😭😭😭