OUR BIRTH STORY | How I went through the first 8 hours of LABOR at home! | The Beeston Fam
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- We talk about our experience of the full LABOR and DELIVERY of our baby boy, Jack. I didn’t realize I was in labor and barely made it in time to the hospital! We talk about the details of getting the epidural at the last second and how it barely even helped. It was the most INSANE experience of our lives!
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Omg Jack looks like a a exact mixture of both of you!!! 💛
Yessss!! Hes sooo cutee 💛
Ahhh yay! We can never tell hahah
Thanks! :)
Jack is gorgeous and I love his blonde hair and so much of it. He looks like you both ❤️Jack is a lucky little boy to have such loving parents who brought him into this world. Enjoy Jack and take lots of photos at least one a day they grow so quick! Don’t forget the videos lol stay safe lots of love for you all be safe.🥰
You are so nice! We definitely will! Thanks:)
Your little family is so beautiful. Seriously, baby Jack is such an adorable baby.
Aw thanks! You're so nice :)
@@SarahAndDerik of course! :)
Im binging Jacks birth videos anxiously awaiting your Part 2 of baby girls birth. Sarah you're an absolute Rockstar! Not to mention Derik is the most supportive husband ever! You guys are seriously an awesome couple!
LOL 10 points. I saw you on the shorts, now I'm binge watching you guys. You're all so cute. 😁💜 I'm also from Salt Lake. It's good seeing fellow Utahn's 😊
Just love watching your little family❤️ it reminds me of mine 20 years ago. My kids are 18 and 20.
You were right to get to the hospital when you did. By the time I got to eight, after a very long labor of 20 plus hours, it was only a matter of minutes until I was at 10 and delivered.
Congrats. What a lovely family. IMO they waited much too long to start the epidural. The area I live in starts the epidural after you're 3 or 4. Maybe that has changed b/c that was 20 years ago.
Many blessings.
I was married for 15 years and I had 3 miscarriages , I just wanted to let you know that you both are brave and Sarah you looked beautiful giving birth! Great job making Jack, he’s so handsome and adorable 😍! Love 💕 his big blue eyes 👀!
You’re such a wonderful family 😊😊👌🏾👌🏾
That happened to me with the epidural! And then i had to have an emergency c-section, and i had a complete mental breakdown because I thought i was going to feel them cutting 🥲🥲
ahhh that's so crazy! I hope everything was okay!
My mother had to have an emergency c-section because my oldest brother was way too big... My mother passed out pushing after hours and hours of trying natural. Then when she was getting a c section the dr. said "I am going to pass out" and she fell backwards. She was pregnant and hadn't tell anybody. My father (a proctologist) who was watching, noticed that getting a doctor would take enough time for my mother to bleed, risking to loose my mother's life and the baby's. So immediately he finished the c-section himself. It was his first c-section surgery... thank god he paid attention in his ob/gyn rotation. He did it perfectly. Until this day I can't grasp how stressful, nerve-wracking, soul-crashing that was to them. Imagine going to the hospital thinking you are having a baby and hours later deal with the fact that you may loose your entire family there 😣
Aww he is so cute congratulations
Thanks!!💛
I didn’t have time to get an epidural when I had my son. However, I had to get essentially what is an epidural done when I got my hip replaced. The guy who did it was SO great! I didn’t even have to see him prep it and they did a local anesthetic prior to putting it in, which honestly hurt enough so I can’t imagine how bad a needle like that in your spine hurts without it! But can definitely tell you had one done after it wears off cuz damn was my back so sore for a few days afterwards from that needle. I definitely wouldn’t want to know how big it was either! 😮
Jack is so cuteeeeeeee
Thank u! :)
Such a cute n different love story n look where u at today ...I want to see the twins she carrying, 2 right? Now tht something if it 2 girls 👭 God Blessing to you both n 🙏 pray u grow always with Love ❤️
Even with my third pregnancy, it was so surreal! I'd look down and see this big knee or foot moving across my belly and think, "There is another *person* inside me!" It seems so alien and weird! 😀 They're all beautiful, though. No aliens! 😉
When I got an epidural the anesthesiologist looked at my husband and said “sir you need to sit down you’re white as a ghost” 😂
She was dilated to 8 and she was not dying.. Contractions were worse than actual pushing for me. After 5cm i was trying not to scream from the pain 😵
I have the same b day as jack!!!
When I got my epidural my husband turned white as a ghost and I was like “uhh I think he needs to sit down” to the nurses 😂
My baby pooped inside me. They had to clean her out and me! It was scary
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Thanks! That's so awesome!
Ohh I thought you went natural. They way you can tell if it worked, is if you didn’t feel the labor pains as bad and when the head comes through, naturally you feel like you’re being torn in two. That was the worst
Part for me. The head coming through. Wowser. Then in a flash the pain was gone. Then it came back again to get her shoulders through but for only a minute if that.
Lmaoo assassin
And you don’t mention anything about your first reactions to ALL THAT HAIR!!!
Dad's hair has a life of it's own and he's asking Jack what he has going on. LOL!
I love all their hair
@@maureenwoodard9588 we all do. 😊
Deril is totally correct in the way he support Jack's neck. The head and neck need the most support. Good going Derik
Derik iS holding Jacks neck and supporting his head properly. Some people just like to think young parents don't know what they are doing. PLUS, you both have mothers if you have any questions let the grandmothers give you feedback and answers before strangers. Your both doing great!
Derik you freaking crack me up with your pain tolerance! When you said you would have went to the hospital if you were dilated to a one I couldn’t stop laughing 😂 your hilarious 🤣
They say that gravity helps a lot with helping the baby through the birth canal during labor. Giving birth on one’s back can be the hardest supposedly. Doulas and midwives can help position you so that it’s more helpful for you. Cheers!
Yeah, i never understood why laying on your back during labor is the norm. Did you see that video of the woman who couldn't make it on time to the hospital and gave birth while walking across the parking lot? The baby basically flew out! Giving birth scares the crap out of me, and if i'd get pregnant i'd choose to have gravity make the birth easier/quicker
Yes, I learned to labor on my left side and for some reason that brings the baby down. So you don't have to push so much.
You kids are doing great,,don't let silly people say ugly things ok.wen they do.
Just let it all go.
Keep loving keep moving .
You guys are doing great.
Derik describing the epidural like a sword is exactly how it is. I’ve had four. And it felt like a freaking sword.
"Two more points" LOL -- that's the most fun way to think about it
I wish that is how it worked lol
Derik holding jack is the cutest 💕💕🥺🥺💕💕🥺🥺💕💕🥺🥺💕💕
It's my fav thing in the whole world
Congrats, guys!!! Jack is soooo cute! Also, Sarah looks super good with bangs! I know it is because of postpartum, but it really looks like she got it professionally cut. Love you both! 💕
Hahah thanks Emma! Making me feel all gooood :)
Cutest ten point baby ever!
I just love you guysss. You’re so down to earth and lovely! Jack is gorgeous too!
Awe thanks! You're so sweet😊
What a precious little dumpling!!!!! Xoxo You two are beautiful and made a sweet, beautiful little person!!
You're so nice thank you!
This is such a beautiful video! Thank you for documenting and sharing this important moment!😊
awe thanks! :)
So I'm binge watching y'all. (Had to get the y'all in) My eyes are watering. 🤣 I want to be in your family now! I had my son when my husband was in Iraq. I was alone and all I really remember is they wouldn't let me go pee and said to just pee on the table, which infuriated me, so I hurried up pushing, jumped off the table to go potty. It was actually really funny thinking back. Anywho, I love you guys and I now will return to my binge. Love Aunt Mal...
Jack has the cutest hair!! I can't stand the adorableness of this family!! ✨💛
hahah thank you!! You're too sweet😊
I love seeing a young, energetic happy family. Your little guy is very fortunate. I wish you every happiness!
Love the eye mascara!! At first I thought you got a black eye from pushing!!
Thank you for sharing such a private moment❤ It was lovely to see you both holding your baby for the first time What a wonderful little family you are
You guys are so hilarious and so REAL! I love you guys so much 🎉
I giggled at all the new parent yawns!🥱
hahahah they're non stop
I feel like they are anxiety yawns. It looks like your trying to get more air in your lungs. I have asthma and anxiety so I've done this kind of yawning my whole life. Just a thought
Being pregnant and having a baby is the easy part... raising them is the hard part! But I’m older and my kids are older and I truly miss those days. I loved my babies and being a mom and watching them grow. I’d give everything I have to go back in time. As far as being a grandma I will probably won’t be. Older sons wife can’t youngest sons wife has been to the doctors and nothing so far. Love your adorable family!
I wish you all the best with everything! You are SO kind! Thank you :)
Your so right 💓
We have two grown sons that day they are perfectly happy being single. So maybe not meant to be. We do have an 18 year old granddaughter. I will pray for you and daughter inlaws and your family. Matt 19:26 "With God anything's possible. " Believe
jack is so cute 🥺🥺
Aww thanks :)
I had a very similar birth experience just a few days ago! Hearing your story makes me feel so much better. I went into the hospital at a 7 and I felt everything on one side and I felt all the pressure as well:( I even felt the ring of fire and I didn’t sleep for 3 days prior because of laboring at home, and just being anxious days before! I literally had such a similar experience it’s insane! Hoping my second kid is as easy as sunny was for you! I also decided to formula feed because my son wouldn’t latch and I have a lot of mom guilt about it, but I know fed is best and my mental health is also important. I could’ve exclusively pumped, but my supply was low and I would cry everytime I pumped I felt so helpless:( I’m not sure if you breast feed or formula feed, but in a more recent video of sunny I saw a baby brezza and it honestly made me feel so so so much better. You guys are amazing!!
My pushing was the same too! I was sweating sooooo much and my baby kept hitting my pelvic bone too!! It was so painful!
I remember when I had my daughter, I was in labor for 4 hours and pushed for an hour. My labor and delivery was so traumatic it turned me off completely to having more kids. They refused me the epidural at 7cm because I went from 3 to 7 in an hour. I ripped, had a full blown melt down. When she came out, she was blue. She spent a week in the NICU and they never figured out why she was born not breathing. Because of how perfect my pregnancy was and my labor and delivery, and how my baby came out and almost died for no reason at all, turned me off to more babies. Those mamas who can have more than one are saints. Because I couldn't do it !
Jack is by far one of the most beautiful newborn babies I've ever seen
I love y'all so much! I think your family is beautiful! Jack is so adorable! Y'all are awesome parents and just so sweet!
I can’t believe how big Jack is now and what a beautiful boy he is! You guys are the BEST parents ever and I mean that ❤
If you sit up baby will come out much easier yr working against gravity n much more painfully lying down
Jack is adorable! He’s literally such a handsome baby man!!
It’s good that they are sharing their life story and experiences!
I can’t get over how cute he is 😍😍 usually I think babies are ugly but he is probably the cutest baby I have ever seen 🥰
hahah thanks! Yeah he's a cutie:)
Lol
Lol you’re not wrong. Usually they look like little aliens, but this is a cute baby.🥰
Hey guys love your vids! Jack is a cutie! I have baby fever
Thank you! You are so nice:) Babies are the best!
Being a RUclips influencer myself my channel's been starting to grow the past year and a half I teach and preach the word of God I had a near death experience in Jesus ordained me with his own hand to teach his word and that's what I do I don't really watch a lot of RUclips videos but I love to watch you guys I just love to watch you guys you guys are so inspiring
YOU BOTH ARE AMAZING 🥰❣️ You guys had rough start, but you have a wonderful son🥰❣️ You are AMAZINGLY BLESSED🥰❣️ Jack is so HANDSOME 🥰❣️ I had ALL 3 of our kids at CASTLE, they're a GREAT HOSPITAL👍🥰❣️ Our youngest is now 18!!! He just graduated from High School!!! 💞 ALOHA FROM HAWAI'I 💞 🌹 LYSSA 🌹
To me he has Sarah’s cheeks and has his dads nose 🥰 he’s so adorable ☺️
TOTALLY agree!! Thank you :)
I'm confused as to why they didn't just break your water themselves? That's what they usually do to get things going stronger!! Kudos to you Sarah, your so strong, hanging in there til u were almost 9 cm..You guys are so sweet and your baby is adorable❣❣❣ I'm definitely a fan of your channel ✌ My daughter had the same thing with my grandaughter where she pushed for 3 hrs until they fineally cut her to help her deliver!! It was so traumatizing for me...lol and of course my daughter. When she fineally pushed her out, my daughter and I were touching foreheads and I was telling her to get mad and push hard and she did it..I found myself pushing with her..lol. I had all c-sections so it was amazing for me to watch my child give birth...women are so strong!!!!
also...labor stalling could have been from laying in the bed and not being active...something to keep in mind for next time!
Cute family welcome baby jack🥰❤️❤️
Thanks💕💕
Jack is such a beautiful baby. You guys are going to be the best parents any child could have.
Amazing guys! You are the very best daddy who he could ever have!
Thanks! You are so nice!
10 POINTS I CANT BREATHE🤣❤
Just to annoy you - I had my children in an hour from each, start to finish. With my second they insisted that I stayed in hospital for weeks before my due date because they thought she’d drop out in the street!
😎💚🤟
Wow! That's amazing!
My sister’s best friend gave birth in the hospital elevator. The nurses tried to reassure her “Don’t be embarrassed. Two years ago a woman gave birth on the front lawn.“ Carol wailed “I know! It was me!”
❤️ 🤣👶🏼😂👶🏼❤️
Just adorable! ❤
My dad wasn’t allowed in the delivery room when my 2 sisters were born and they changed the rules after my sister so when I was born he was allowed but he’s not good around blood so passed out when I was coming so he had never seen a birth ever so I had him in when I had my last baby and everyone was worried about him and kept checking on him and when the head was coming out my doctor turned and looked to make sure my dad could see and he wasn’t doing good so the doctor told the nurse to get him a chair and asked my dad “you ok?” And I said “hey! If he passes out he passes out! You need to be asking my son if he’s ok since you’re supposed to be catching him! Get your head in the game man!” lol Dad made it through and saw his grandson born!
I love the way you tell it like it is. You are inspiring to people your age. Bless your hearts for sharing!
Aw thanks!!
You both look like amazing Parents and lil Jack is so adorable
Thank you!
I hate epidurals. My last epidural didn’t work, when they put it in they hit my spine and I’ll never forget how bad that hurt. Then he realized he put it in upside down and had to flip it, that also hurt bc it scraped my bones. It didn’t even work. I could feel every tear and I got that baby out FAST bc of how bad it hurt. It took me three pushes. Thankfully she was only 6lbs.
I wish you guys the best I love your videos so much.
If he was hurting the baby would be crying not laughing from what I saw he was laughing. yeah they didn't have it in right because you shouldn't of felt anything not even on one side.I had two epidurals and my third baby I had her so fast eight minutes after I got to the hospital so there was no epidural with a third. honestly it was really good that Derek got to experience that it strengthens the love between you both and it builds a bond, when couples don't have that I believe it hurts things
How can jack has so much hair?
I have no idea it's crazyyy
Look at both parents.
LOL. You guys are so adorable and funny. Hope you will be able to get more rest soon as Jack gets older and starts sleeping through the night.
I hope so too! Thank you! :)
Congratulations!!!❤️ such a heartwarming story
Thanks Kristina!
I just love you guys, and Jack is the absolute cutest! So happy for you guys 💕😊
Thanks Lauren! We love you!
legit love u guys and bebe jack so much
Thanks so much! You're so nice. We love you!
OMG!!! Jack was born on my B-Day October 17. Jack is such an adorable baby. I’m a grandmother of three beautiful kids. One boy 8yrs, two girls 2yrs, and 10months. I was able to witness both births of my two children. But Covid-19 restrictions didn’t allow me to their with my last glamdaughter. I was a nervous wreck. Thank God for FaceTime. Congratulations y’all are doing an amazing job to be first time parents.
The good nurses/doctors will give yiu just enough epidural to take the edge off the pain but so you can still feel the contractions so you know when to push. The pain goes from stabbing pain to pressure pain.. if you felt mostly pressure after epidural you had it right amd it worked like it should've
Greetings from Wales 🏴
Love your channel. **Jack** is so handsome cute Loveable. His hair should have a Channel on its own...
Much Love to you all. Hope your journey in life is blessed. XXXXXX
Awww jack is adorable 😍
Thanks Sophia!
Good for you, proberbly keeping moving helped. That's so weird that you get to choose for epidural, in NZ we only get one if it's really bad.
I would not wear that mask. U poor girls
I will die if my husband looks that , I won’t allow that under any circumstances, like forget it !! He can give me his hand and be behind me but I will mask the doctors to put something so nobody can see !!
I'm guessing Brian didn't appreciate being called a nurse lmao
Edit to say- if it's not apparent, my commemt is a joke. You guys are the cutest 🙂
Beautiful family inside and out.
Thank you for sharing.
Thanks!! 💛
@@SarahAndDerik PLEASE BE CAREFUL. There are some evil haters on our planet and they targeted souls, beam them to make them sick or induced heart attacks www.freedomfortargetedindividuals.org (get the app EMF radiation detector and test every now n then). I like supporting you here but it is also their hunting grounds. Think about joining RUMBLE. Do not get the jab :( that truth is starting to surface. Look up
Stew Peters news vlogs on RUMBLE. Love you both... joy to watch
Sarah your an amazing mom but I think dad's don't get full credit either and Derrick is on point..Jack is a lucky lil fella!
Your videos popped up while doing dishes and they have been fun to watch. It has been a sweet reminder of lots of things from years ago. My husband and I had a swift romance. We just KNEW it was right and got married pretty quick. I think of how fast it all happened now and I can’t believe it. 🙃🙈. But it has worked out for us. 🤷🏻♀️. Five kids and 17 years later.
And my first labor was similar in that the epidural didn’t work but I wasn’t sure at the time because it was my first! (Although my first wasn’t posterior, my fourth was but my epidural worked with that one! Having a posterior baby for me was a LOT of difficult).
Anyways, it was super painful when he put the epidural in and had to do it several times. Which maybe should have been a sign. But I was in labor at the hospital for about 13 hours and I couldn’t sleep because of the contractions kept me up, despite the epidural. By the end I was delusional and tired saying the weirdest stuff to the nurses. 😂 And when I could finally eat again the burger and milkshake at the hospital tasted like the best meal I had ever eaten in my life.
When I was going to have my second child I had pretty much decided on not getting an epidural at all because of my first experience. But a nurse talked me out of it. 😂 and guess what?! it was barely painful going in. And then the epidural kicked in and I KNEW that the first epidural didn’t work. I kept saying “This is heaven! I will never not get an epidural!” And I have got an epidural with every pregnancy following that! The end. 🤪
Awe I'm so happy to hear that! SO crazy that you had a similar experience! Definitely hope it works better the second time hahah😬🙏
You are such a trooper lasting so long without an epidural in your first labour!
I'm hearing you....got epidural 12 hours in with my first and pushed 3 hours and your body is absolutely exhausted and was throwing up from the exhaustion. You did a marathon girl.... posterior is so painful!
I love. His eyes the prettiest I ve ever seen
Derik talking about the point system made me LOL 😂😂😂😂
You are both my favourite content creators I’m not just saying this for you to reply jenualy (sorry for the spelling) keep up the good work
This made our day! Thanks!
Derik made me laugh so hard " she was an point 8 and had only 2 more points to go" lololol
Your videos are addicting and you're both so funny😂😂
I had two boys and with both I had epidural neither one worked. so your not alone. Jack is so adorable, great job to the both of you.
Love this Family😍❤️✌️💕👌 and I Subscriber here 👍🙏
Thanks so much! Glad you're here!
You two are a breath of fresh air I have three kids all are on the spectrum meaning ASD however they are grown my eldest is 23 and is an adult with Aspergers -Tourette’s syndrome and agoraphobia disorder he lives in my home and I take full time care of him , my second is 15 years old they have ASD-ADHD they were considered severe with blind rages and was kicked out of every church group, school and any therapy group in our area that we lived in at the time between the ages of 3-10 however they are also very good at dancing so I put them in Ballet, jazz, tap and acro and they competed in competitive dance for 5 years and won first place and many scholarships around the world to dance. Then my son “ Lola Haze” I put in quotes came out to me as gay and since then they went from he to she and her and now she is doing so much better. She seems happier She still has her moments because of her mental health challenges but I think now that she feels more comfortable knowing that she does not have to hide her identity she’s more relaxed. Then I have my youngest who is 11 she has ASD-ADHD-PICA, which is a disease which causes you to crave non-food items such as garden soil, grass, plants, trees, flowers, paper, toilet paper, glue, marker ink, crayons, paint ect it’s very dangerous because she could poison herself if she consumes something with substances that are not edible. My house was always baby proofed from the day she swallowed 60 fish oil vitamins and they broke open in her mouth she chewed and swallowed them all😢she was air lifted to Sick kids hospital because it was considered hazardous she was only 2 years old and they had to pump her stomach to retrieve them since that day we had to put locks on everything I go through toilet paper daily because she still finds ways to get it even though we hide the rolls so my point is. Your videos are refreshing to watch. After my long hard day, I watch them, I smile through them, I laugh, I think sometimes what it would of been like to have it so easy but life is never easy and even though it may look easy to some people viewing the videos I know that life is life and I know being a mom is hard even if you are a billionaire it’s still hard even with two parents it takes a village to raise a child I’m thankful for my village that I had or have now that support me if and when I need them. Some days are harder 😢than others some days I want to throw the towel in, some days I think to my self God gave me these kids because he knew I could handle all that he gave me I can love them no matter what they do or say❤I will always be here for them. ❤good luck I can’t wait to watch Jack Grow up and I cannot wait to watch your other videos
@tabitha7161. Hello thank you for sharing your story. What a fabulous mother you are! Can I make a suggestion? I think you should write a book about your life, all the experiences you had, and what you do to make things run smoothly, if you can. It would be a best seller, the way you explain things is bloody amazing. Cheers.
Awwww Jack is the cutest I love his little face 🥰🥰💕
Me too, what a beautiful little d
Me too. A sweet little angel doll of a baby.
Little do they know there having a baby named sunny
I only pushed 6xs with both my girls.