Depression: A Student's Perspective
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- This video educates students about depression in order to minimize the stigma that is associated with the medical condition. It discusses how depression impacts lives and describes its symptoms, causes and treatment options. The video also provides information about resources available at McMaster University for students who are living with depression.
This video was made by McMaster students Zunaira Tarique, Shatha Jaber, Semir Bulle and Haley Leroux in collaboration with the McMaster Demystifying Medicine Program
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You know the feeling when you pretend to be happy with your friends and family but you are just truly dead inside?
Yes, dear friend, I know that feeling of being truly dead inside. If fact, I was almost dead on the outside... from suicide. I couldn't take it anymore. Am I touching any buttons? This is when my life changed completely. I just cried out to Jesus. And He came running to me.
I encourage you to take any thoughts you have about religion dear friend and throw them in the trash can. That's where they belong. Because Jesus isn't religion. He's the Son of God. He changes lives. I'm living proof. Please take care.
@@robinsk5644 Comrade, i'll try
Not really
100%
everyday of my life.
that moment when u realize ur no ones favorite person so you stand back and slowly get sadder and sadder inside .
izel nayeli same :(
Ya'll didn't notice god is there for you always every damn day and he is the only one who can see your problems or the things that you suffering from it, he gave a problem to all of us to know on how to solve it in a good way or determine how strong we are when it comes to challenges we had in every year in our life
Those problems will make you even stronger too but we all know we can't handle those problems by ourselves only, we need a people who can very trustful, very knowingly their character and specially a truly caring
Some of the people are having low spiritual on themselves that's why they can't find the answer on how to solve their own problems sometimes their own wrong decision without support or advice from their family/very close friends can lead on a bad way
THEN WHY THE HELL DID HE DIDNT TEACH ME FILIPINO?!?!?!!
Why would you have to be someones favorite person? The thought that you have to be is the cause of the pain
*I think the worst part about depression is not wanting to talk about depression*
Kenny YES. that’s the worst part ever. i couldn’t speak the day i finally found out i wasn’t happy any more! and that’s how i told my parents.
Very true. I can't tell my parents about it cuz they'll think I'm just being over dramatic and that makes it even worse than it already is. Sometimes, all you have is yourself
Nah, kids on the internet can't go a second without wanting attention
The worst scars are the ones we hide
greennikex My parents would most likely laugh at me and make me feel worse that’s why I never talk to family about things like this.
Its like waking up and not looking forward to anything, questioning your very existence, no motivation, no drive or purpose
God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
, He doesn't make mistakes
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible
I don't care about God but thanks .
Where was he when I tried drowning myself lol.
@@wannabecar8733
It's so true man. I'm a university student and I'm currently struggling mentally. I'm not trying to play the victim; I am very fortunate for my surroundings and I am better than a lot of others. But despite all of that I still feel the way I feel. This year I've really struggled with revising, due to the pandemic and also a lot of careers stuff taking up a lot of my time. The careers stuff led nowhere. And as you said, I haven't felt any motivation or purpose this year which has led to laziness and procrastination. And then I am angry at myself for not being productive enough and feeling the guilt of it. I don't think I've felt this dark mentally before. I try to tell myself that it will be okay but I don't know if it will be. But one thing that does get me through it is knowing that we can be in the struggles together. The RUclips comments section feels like my family at times. PanCake I don't know if you'll read this but if you do, please reply and maybe we can have a convo through here as an outlet for our feelings. Obviously only if you are comfortable with that too
@@erhhsdhh2099 i respect that man, balancing family, work and school throughout the pandemic is so stressful and its good for people to talk and share there emotions 🙌
@@TheRealKeegan_ Agreed man, totally agreed. Do you mind if I ask how old you are, whether you are in education or working? Don't feel pressured to say, if you don't want to answer that's fine :)
Kid: *tired af because of depression*
Parents: stop being that lazy then
Sir/Ma'am Life is hard
@@cmsaphire_0882 you say that like it's easy
I want to yell at someone so much
Confess with your mouth believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord and God raised him from the dead 3 days later and repent and turn from sin . And ask God to forgive you and build a relationship with Jesus but not everything will go well ask for strength we love you
Cyber Alex Confess with your mouth believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord and God raised him from the dead 3 days later and repent and turn from sin . And ask God to forgive you and build a relationship with Jesus but not everything will go well ask for strength we love you
honestly I like dreams more that real life I wish I could stay in the dream world forever
Same
School starts tomorrow for me too. Im all online and im nervous. Good luck!
@Cola Octoling 💪💪
Same, school starts in 4 days and I’m not sure I can deal with it
Which is fantasy, i know that reality sucks sometimes not gonna lie, but we can get through this!
School is when anxiety and depression starts.. for most people
•Samantha • and then it get’s worse outside of school..
I agree and as you get older it gets worse.
Not necessarily
Totally agree with u
Fr..
I don’t mean this in a suicidal way. But has anyone ever felt like they don’t wanna wake up from their sleep because they feel like they’re happier in their dreams than they are in real life?
Mee
yes me
Me
me. every. single. night. sometimes i force myself to fall back asleep even if I'm not tired, just to keep on having the dream that I'm having. it's devastating.
@@sheevamirshahi8820 sorry to hear that, you’re not alone ❤️
I'm missing my old self I don't laugh the same anymore
Feel you. It's like I have to force myself to laugh
@@wallflower931 yeah unfortunately my parents don't even notice
@@sadfandomgalaxy9196 do you have anyone, you can talk to?
umm yeah ig but I cant open up
@@sadfandomgalaxy9196 yeah I understand I can't open up very well too. What about friends? Have you talked with a close friend of yours? Or if you don't want to talk, maybe write it down in a journal or if you are religious maybe try and talk to God.
I feel like a robot lol. I am very tired of the same cycle everyday
Same tho I want to suicide I'm so fucking done with all this shit going on. Government lying to us, poisoning us, controlling us, parents are never supporting me, when I quitted soccer they said they wasted money(in my country we have grades from 1 to 10) and I got 7 at math and they are just talking about this shit and they never encouraged me and I just want to jump from a tower and fucking die because I'm done with all these lies and shits
PSPEbeats Hi, I hope you’re feeling better. This will get so much easier. You’re so strong. Going through all of this only makes you stronger, I promise. Try reaching out to someone that will understand that you can trust. Talking about it really helps, even when you might now want to. Hang in there and have hope! Much love to you.
@@pspeoma8840 how is it going
Thanks a lot Daniella ❤ now I'm better, I started the no fap challenge yesterday, I'm meditating every day. Now I have a new dream, to fight in UFC. I'm so obsessed with. I like it too much to not chase it. Overall I'm a lot better, I took cold showers every day for like 3 weeks and still going(literally recommend it), started eating healthy and kickboxing training. There's a lot to tell, but I have to pray, stretch and meditate now. Never prayed so wish me luck(at least in the last 3-4 years) so yeah. I want to start a business too, I make beats and graphic design. Wounds take time to heal, so be patient, like I was and now I'm so so so much better and blessed
The cycle I'm going through now is
Wake up
School
Go back home just to be sad and study
Pray I get good grades
Sleep
Repeat
Its so funny how you can be happy oneday and the want to die the next day
Lol _so_ funny lmao
@@averagepotato00 tf lol
Yeah it is funny this how i feel and then i laugh at myself when i feel okay for a while
Honestly
Oh I love my life
That's it I'm jumping out a window
@@soggybread4083 please dont i can feel you
Remember those time we all laughed liket here was no tomorrow? When we all just played in the grass?when we all just had a great time? Yeah. Fun times.
Miss them
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love .past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food.
@@Kaiizerr_ lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love.
wish I could go back
Source 1: School
Source 2: Fake ppl
Source 3: Sometimes parents
Source 4: Sometimes social media
Note for parents: Stop trying to help w/ depression by telling everyone.
My brother. He LEGIT spun my thumb.
My parents r so nosy and it’s mostly my mom, she thinks, “I get to be nosy bc I pay for ur phone”. It’s like ur boss saying, “I get to be in ur personal business bc I pay u.” It’s really bad when u have anxiety, depression, and stress at the same time. ;A; ugh *sigh*
I think I hate my family and my sister really hates me. My sister has said I tired to kill her 3 times now. All lies, but every time I got punished. My dad has been doing "medical" marijuana because it supposedly helpes his *undiagnosed Chrones disease* and he's just high all the time. One time he was making fun of me because I had my shirt up to my nose because the smell was so potent off of him that it made me gag. They all just make fun of me all the time and I don't have a lot of friends so I just stay in my room. That causes them to get nosy and force me to spend time with them, but that doesn't help my view of them. My sister even told me today that "Mom and Dad think you're depressed because you spend so much time in your room" when I came downstairs. Little did she know, before I walked downstairs in the hallway I said "If I ever do kill myself, it'll be out of spite."
@@greennikexful I hate it when my parents check my phone. They read my texts and Its so stressful.
source 5: alienating jobs
source 6: absurdity of existence
source 7: isolation, loneliness
School is the source of depression
Being bullied for no reason
Teachers always on your ass about homework
"Here, have a million deadlines to keep up with, and sucks to suck about your family life, but if you can't keep your grades up, we'll kick you out of everything"
Maintain a social life
Get 9 hours of sleep
Fail everything miserably
Have everyone disappointed in you...
Parents: "What do you have to be depressed about??"
Nothing, mom. Nothing.
Oh man. I can't wait to die
Angela P same here i feel like a failure bec i fail due to depresdion
Flats it is
Flats it really is😭😭
Man I have been depressed ever since I got out of high school.
I have 0 friends
No social life
I'm in college so I'm stressing out
I have had 0 relationships while everyone around me have had one
I have no job
I'm 21 I should be living it up but I wish I was dead
I'm also self conscious since I have acne scars and I'm getting fat
Anyone else going through this or went through this?
Emisoccer • sorry about that bro. For me life is still the same even in college I get homework that's insane like answering 20 questions about history in one week in paragraphs. I knew this from my second year of high school maybe you do too. In high school it's about living life having gf/bf, social media apps like snapchat showing off your happy life, teens trying to fit in, teachers not giving a fuck because they just want their money, but after all that your on your own no one in college or jobs will ask you did you go to prom, lost your virginity, how many friends you got, or were you popular. You start fresh no one stops you the reason I'm stuck is because I got a 16 year old brother who dated 5 girls and I haven't got a single one. Just try your best to move through high school it's only a brief time eventually thing should get better.
Emisoccer • me too man. Mom is on my ass
Pretty much going through everything you said.
Dreidon 17 you dont need to be sad.. acne is a pretty common thing and there are treatments, i am sure you can overcome that issue, but anyway that doesnt make you look ugly. I am sure you are a beautiful person. I am also depressed and want to die, but you know, that will happen anyway we dont have to accelerate that ending. You CAN have a relationship.. but maybe start by getting a job and money to fix your insecurities, go to gym, exercise, go to the dermathologist. Everything gets easier when we are confident in our own skin!
dude wtf i felt like you are describing my life in detail and im also 21
The only thing that makes me happy are my dreams.
Same
Sometime I just pray before sleeping that " I wish to have a dream tonight a dream that never ends"
my dreams are my escape from reality
Yo same with me does that mean I'm depressed or??
I relate to this so much I actually hurts. I can't wait to sleep, I'm so fucking tired everyday even if I do nothing.
You know what my parent would say about this “it’s because of that phone!”
😂😂😂 for real!!!
That's what my parents say too but the number one reason is "school teaching us bullshit that they don't even know"
Example: they said they believe that gold came from exploding stars but if that happened why isn't there gold on the moon, or Venus or Mars? That is the most bullshit I heard in school!😒
Im 16 btw and my mom don't underst and the meaning of me being way too shy or anxious or depression at all im on your side though😊 good luck
bossmeteor 1235 same here
For real that is LITERALLY the answer I get every time I talk abt a problem that I have ....
EVERY FRAKING TIME EVERY TIME
How to know if u have depression: You cry Randomly at nothing
Or if you don't cry at anything, and even if you try to cry, you just can't
true
Yup I had this
Nah, that’s just being emotional lol.
Dude you might be pregnant
Kid: *Has thoughts of suicide*
Parent: It's because if that damn phone, it isn't because of school or my bad parenting.
Most Karen Moms wehn you say you have depression
There is truth about that “damn phone”.
I do feel like social media has had both a positive and negative effect on my mentality.
Maybe the phone part has some truth in it social media influence and stuff 🤦🏾♂️
My teacher on bully me in the class even I had good grade they always best me
It does get better guys. It really does. Talk about it and you'll be suprised with the ammount of support you get from people around you.
zjapp then get help from family
zjapp Go through it yourself
zjapp there is always God above
JAQ I'm not believer
If you don't have friends to help you up then we have family, but what if the family can't help you up too, because sometimes they just don't understand you. Simply as that.
Source 1 : Parents expectations
Source 2 : lack of family support
Source 3 : school
Source 4 : bullies
Im in source 1,2, and 3...
@@talitato9530 I m too...
i’m all and my parents fight
Me too ever since I started online school my mom will always yell at me for little mistakes and then I started to cry ever night and I couldn’t sleep because my mom always puts high expectations and comparing me to others. Im still young and I have to enjoy my life for at least one time
It is 3 & 4 for me....
honestly if school wasn’t a thing i’d be happy af but i’m sad af
i left school because i put my mental health first but now i’m just bored all the fucking time and i never see my friends anymore because i only saw them at school. i don’t have or want a job so what the fuck do i do all day
@olivia how old are u? If u dont go to school, please stay healthy and wealthy. Dont forget to be kind and nice to others and just slowly find a job you like and can make some money. Take it easy
Balkanci ツ im 15, honestly everyone else just bashes me for it which just lowers my motivation. so thanks for giving me better advice
Lit fam
*mOvE tO afRIcA*
Me: Dying Of Cripling Depression From My Failure
Mom: IT'S THAT DAMN PHONE *screams loudly and yells*
Me: :'(
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God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible
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Actually....I wonder if it IS from our phones. Because if we're spending so much time on them, we're not doing the things we are supposed to be doing, which makes us fail and get depressed!
@@lvega5606 Nope. Those rare days I actually finish homework, I don't feel different from times I don't. I know there's just gonna be a bigger bomb of work ready to get assinged.
I can’t talk to my family about depression because they will think I’m crazy
Michael Duck you can I promise you that you can and they won’t think you’re crazy even if you think they’ll think that because like you’re not at all I promise the best decision I’ve ever made in my entire life was to talk to my mom about my suicidal thoughts even though I thought that she would think I’m crazy or somethings wrong with me but that turned out to be my turning point to becoming who I am and I don’t think I’d be here if I didn’t talk to someone
Michael Duck I’m twelve and I talked to my mom last year
@@eyetukafatshet6246 Every time I try to ask for help, They just call me insane and dont support me. They actually tell me to kill myself if I want to. Im still trying to become happy.
chloe dela cruz I understand. I’m extremely sorry to hear that and i extremely admire how you’re still trying to be better! And to get better and stay happy! That’s so important and it does get better. I’d recommend trying to talk to an adult in your life that you trust and know very well and are comfortable with
I am not depressed but i am emo.
Having depression and having to do school is slowly killing me.
I felt that... I really did...
Ya And the fact that my school js the reason I'm depressed
@@seongminluvr830 i just want to end my life😭
@@Bruce_wayne_52 Samee😭
@@Bruce_wayne_52 I am also weak in studies AND my parents and school or forcing me to study too much😭
"Todd's friends are worried about him"
lol what are friends?
I don't know anyone that would even care unless I was dead
I'm pretty sure if I had friends I wouldn't be depressed
Please open your mind and listen to me now okay now not tommorow but now,I just want to help you cause I had social anxiety and depression too before,Beleive in me,FOLLOW this steps:
1.Always pray every night to lord Jesus christ or read bible.
2.OPEN YOUR MIND(Listen to others opinion)
3.Believe in your self(Love your self)
4.Search for "EVERY TEENAGE GIRLS NEED TO HEAR" vid. here in youtube
And last think on my advice
"LET GO OF ALL OF YOUR BAD MEMORIES OF
And last think on my advice
"LET GO OF ALL OF YOUR BAD MEMORIES OF YOUR PAST"
Please open your mind and listen to me now okay now not tommorow but now,I just want to help you cause I had social anxiety and depression too before,Beleive in me,FOLLOW this steps:
1.Always pray every night to lord Jesus christ or read bible.
2.OPEN YOUR MIND(Listen to others opinion)
3.Believe in your self(Love your self)
4.Search for "EVERY TEENAGE GIRLS NEED TO HEAR" vid. here in youtube
And last think on my advice
"LET GO OF ALL OF YOUR BAD MEMORIES OF YOUR PAST"
I told my family I’m depressed and my mom lashed out on me and told me it’s because I hide my self from the world and she refused to take me to therapy and as a minor I can’t seek help without my guardians consent. It’s the worst when no one believes you and try to convince you it’s “all in your head”.
clear your head, and go outside, lets do this. your family doesn't give a f about your depression? get better. fight back. by being better i mean improving everything you need to improve on for your future; and when you succeed, and they start calling out to you, well don't ignore them but seriously REMIND them of what they did to you before. cmon lets go. its all up to you. dont even have single second of useless thoughts it's hard but possible. just take action.
Yeah all they say is that it's all in your head or they think we're just lazy and faking it lol 💔
Dear Sir/Madam. I know how it feels BUT NEVER LOSE HOPE AND BE POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT! 🙂👍
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I'm also a minor and I never told my mom about what I feel. It's okay darling, we'll be okay. Let's heal together❤️
I'm also a minor and I never told my mom about what I feel. It's okay darling, we'll be okay. Let's heal together❤️
*my friends are never worried about me.*
My friends made me even more depressed by backstabbing me ._____.
*"Friends"*
B O I
Let me ask you, did you even try to talk with them about you're problems?
relatable
I just had a long talk with my family about my depression, they said that I´m just stupid and that I have no reason to be depressed
Well that just seems to add fuel for more depression that's what I call getting hit with a bomb of depression. My parents are kinda the same except they said "stop being on your phone so much, get a girlfriend for once love someone, girls are very compatible, do good in school and make friends, and stop playing video games so much, it damages your eyes!" Yeah that just hit me with a bomb of depression hope you have better luck than I do
If i tell my family about depression they will just say u r so small to have depression 🙂
same...
Don’t worry ... they said that because they want you to get out of this zone ... or maybe they will not understand you because they don’t through it.... just stand up for yourself and go to therapist and do some sports it is not the end of the world !!! I have depression and i stil alive and no one can put me down 👌🏻👌🏻👍🏻
U know what fuck them just fuck them
I just want my self back😭
Pierferdinando Rossi I suggest you meditate friend, trust me it will make you feel much better and relieve your pain ❤️
Skxllz same dude I used to be so careless so free so happy now I’m just an anti social fuck and it sucks man hopefully in the future things change
I felt that....
@@korbynchapman9416 No sleep no rest no positive thinking no love no passion no meeting with me people no proper food no proper talk nothing suitable depression depression is real death and death have mercy from depression
There is no self
The scary thing is there could be millions of people with depression but they might not know that.
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But there literally are millions of people with depression.
Why school is bad:
It makes you feel depressed
It takes all of your energy
It makes you problems
....
*Strips your self confidence away*
I had severe depression and anxiety on my 2nd year of college. Then I found the solution by didn't worrying about anything. I just sat on exam hall and didn't write anything. I jogged with my friend during morning. I did whatever makes me little happy and made my mind relax. But the best decision I made was accepting Islam. I accepted Islam which showed me the true purpose of my life. Now I started to working in a software company and whenever I got started to worry about something I just pray to Allah. Then everything becomes normal. Believe me after following the path of Islam now I can handle any stress and I am now perfectly normal
@Ma. Jennifer Alcaraz they don't even have a gacha pfp or videos
@Ma. Jennifer Alcaraz why do they have to be made fun of for liking gacha life?
it's bad
I think I'm depressed but no one is seeing how bad I'm actually doing. They don't seem to care.
GetRektUFag nobody will stand for u ,you should help yourself ,everyone in world is playing their own role what u have to do is that u urself standby as a support .
No one will care except u urself everyone here in world is alone.Just be strong and acheive ur goals with utmost faith .
And yes don not practice ur depressed experience on others
Saro M thanks for the reply, I have been in therapy for 3 years now. Recently I started a new kind of therapy where we work on my self-esteem and moodchanges. For the first time since I've started seeing therapists, I feel like it's starting to work. Ofcourse I feel hopeless at times, but I can feel something's changing.
Johannadx same is happening to me my parents think I'm just tryna make lame excuses for being lazy and they actually don't seem to care infact they have left me to die. No one helps me, frankly even I gave up then I thought of visiting a doctor by myself cause my parents wouldn't even care about taking me there tho my age is just 16
Akhil Lover I think your parents are insane, but maybe they'll believe an official diagnosis from your doctor.
Johannadx hmm maybe
Sometimes Our Parents Are Unable To Understand Our Situations..
If We Tell Them About Depression
They will scold Or Else
They Will Laugh And They Will Tell Us That
You Are Still A Kid☺
Thats true, finally something I can relate to..
#relatable 👏🏻
I don’t blame those parents because they don’t like the idea that their kids are depressed.
@@9to9archives But they still have to accept it, we kids don't like the ideas of inheriting our parents' genes but we still accept it.
The real problem comes when the kids don't believe in their parents anymore
"You're lazy. You have to go outside and meet some of your friends, then you will feel better."
Me:*doesn't know im Depressed*
Parents: stop being lazy you shit
Me: yes im worthless ik :)
same man it sucks
I don’t tell my parents that I have negative thoughts because I don’t want them yelling at me because of my grades
same help
Same
@Alex Returnz it never will because this country is garbage
@Ma. Jennifer Alcaraz Yeah? Where are you now?
Please don’t force others to like school and focus ONLY on school just coz you did😉
@Ma. Jennifer Alcaraz I’m not gonna spend my whole childhood dedicated to school cause that’s extremely stupid. Why should we change the way we are when the school system hasn’t changed in 100 years? That’s more than we ever lived. I know that you have been in this position and you recovered from it and I guess that’s good, but I’m not trying to be a freaking factory worker. I’m trying to become my own self! I say this in the friendliest way as possible.
Exams, exams, exams and exams.
“Exam” for me has become synonym with “despair”. It’s the only reason I’m unhappy.
Same I wanna suicide so bad
Lol true. Trust me, well preparation for the exams would fundamentally help. You feel relaxed when you are doing something makes sense to you
agreed.
School is a synonym for depression
@@WA-hq6ls i think you're right. But still I want to, but I can't even focus on what i've to do :(
What exactly is depression?
Quick answer: Hell
Smitty Werbenjagermanjensen he was #1 yep :(
True
Smitty Werbenjagermanjensen he was #1
Getting constant headaches just for looking at math now .
I'm on a highway to depression.
A perfect example
of what im going through . . .
haven’t slept, got school in an hour and a half, failing my classes because im majorly depressed (along with severe adhd), man this sucks. the worst part is schools will try to talk about mental health and not do anything to reduce the amount of stress they’re causing. having to cope with depression while trying to keep up with school is so tiring. I hope it gets better for everyone reading this.
Ever since I started high school I've been depressed on and off. Sometimes I'll be happy and then I just start to get sad and gloomy out of nowhere.
grease ain't the word I can kind of relate
Yea same
Yo me too
grease ain't the word ain't that just called puberty. Ya know cause you experience mood swings.
grease ain't the word facts
“having a sit down talk with family members to discuss practical solutions ..”
yeah, right ..
يتفلون بعينك اكثر
But it's not that easy
they will think we are crazy
@@wbmw450 fax
It's just not that simply, it takes self reflection and soul searching. Having the cliche "talk to your family" alone won't help heal the pain
"6 to 8 months"
I'm going on year 6 and I don't think it's going to go away lmao
where's my yeezys year 3 here
I am about 13,14 years by now.
5 Years here
lol right hahahaha
Damn sorry to hear that bro I hope you get better soon trust me life is way better when you are happy.
Since quarantine started,my mind is filled with creative thoughts,great for drawing or painting,but since school starts tomorrow,my creativity will be gone,which makes me so sad. I want to quit school,but what can I do after I do that? What can I do with my life after that? Going to school,with people that make me feel bad. Teachers aren't helping either. I can't find the words to explain how I really feel,but I hope I can go through this until next year.
I honestly don't know what I'm writing but yeah,thanks for reading
hey :) on my channel I help teenagers overcome mental health issues. I think my videos may help you
Can you do homeschooling instead? If not, then block every weekend for creative time.
Dear Sir/Madam. I know how it feels BUT NEVER LOSE HOPE AND BE POSITIVE NO MATTER WHAT! 👍🙂
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I wish my parents understood this. I suffered alone for so many years as a student. If you are a parent and you think that your kid is suffering, do something about it.
smile it's just a game just don’t be nosy abt it, be patient at times. Let them tell u themselves, as an 11(almost 12) year old girl, I think it’s ok to talk about it, just don’t be nosy and stick ur nose where it’s not supposed to be, don’t threaten ur child saying You’ll send them to boot camp if they don’t get it together, and don’t push it too far! Just some advice from a fellow young student. :) ( ◠‿◠ )
Imb 16 and Yeah idk what to do. I'm depressed- been depressed and haven't seen a doctor or told my parents. I just dont know where to even start not gonna lie. It's hard 😔😪
My parents just don’t get it. They think I’m a moody defiant teen and I can’t take it it makes me so stressed to talk to them and I can’t. Around ppl I feel anxious too all the time and if I don’t fake smile and act fine then they think I’m having a bad attitude and being ugly on the inside. And it’s so much more than that I just don’t even know what to say it’s like my mind goes blank.
Zoe Waage I feel the same
If I tell my parents they will say "normal teen anxiety...it'll pass"SMH
My parents tell me that I am abnormal and that's something to be ashamed of. That's my mom, actually. I doubt she even knows what depression is, the way she treats us.
I hate it so much my mom always says it’s horomones
The fuck?! Go straight forward to them that they didn't care because they didn't experienced it when they're was a young. And told them what is your true feeling when you have a depression or anxiety specially both
@@patandcri4242 Tbh that's most likely true after all its your brain
Exactly! My parents are very religious people and when I try to tell them about my depression, they just make fun of me and say that I am not normal and tried to send me to a mental institution. They also say that it is very satanic to hate on life and that I will go to hell like pls stfu. My life sucks of course I will hate it they'll only care once I'm dead. Actually, nobody at all will care until I'm dead
Anyone struggling with this at the moment due to having to do college work from home with virtually no support and lots of deadlines due. Like if stress from a global pandemic and constantly worrying for elderly loved ones isn’t enough we’re gonna give you a shit ton off deadlines and give you no support so u have to teach yourself everything and if u get one unit wrong u get kicked off the whole course. gee thanks guys I see u rlly care about student well being.......... I needed to get that off my chest sorry
Literally me expect that it's not virtual this time. How is it going?
You described the past few months of my life PERFECTLY
That's same with me, now I am being accused of not concentrating, however the current and previous months have led to me in severe depression and anxiety
Yeah, feel like a loser, and my brain doesn’t function as normal
I felt bad for saying this but your comment makes me feel better. It makes me feel like I'm not alone in this. I was having a really hard time these past few months, I cry a lot, feeling really anxious because I couldn't go back to school yet I have to finish the assignment. It's so stressing.
"College doesn't make you depressed, it's because of video game"
-parent probably
Yes god said where we attached to much we got trouble from that .lack of spiritual knowledge we feel fearless nagtive. Positive knowledge is power of mind. In our fun we disrespect other souls that gives us guilt. Stubborn behavior makes our life worse. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love
My every day life...
Wake up super late and nearly miss the bus.
That one group of girls yapping their ass off.
Arrive at the school and hold back tears through class.
Go to lunch and sit at least five chairs away from the others while they stare at me.
Finish school and go on the bus.
The damn group of girls yapping yet again.
Go home and have mom yell at you.
Dad's out of the house because of a divorce.
Go upstairs and cry for the rest of the night until I sleep.
*R E P E A T*
i feel you but mine is like
wake up
shower
eat breakfast
ride you're car or if it's friday go to a public bus stop
arrive at school
flag ceremony where everyone stares and laughs at you're back
class
recess (popular guy flirts me)
class
lunch (popular guy again)
class
dismissal
me and my friends go to our gates
i wait for my mom or our driver
i do my homework and projects
i use my phone and see bad things about me
i cry
my mom calls me for dinner
no one answers her from my room
because i'm already asleep.
Wake up at 7AM
Walk to the train while listening to music
Meet some friends at the station
Go to school
Teachers look at me and prolly wish me the worst
Walk into class
The whole class stares at me
Walk to my friends and we don't give a fuck
Go home
Sleep for the rest of the day.
Sleeping at 4
Waking up at 8
Sleepy and tired
Getting ready
Eating breakfast
Going to coaching 9-12
Then school 12-5:30
Arrived home at 6 tired as f
Taking shower
Being yelled for results
Listening depressing songs
Calling for dinner didn't respond
Using phone
Sleep
*Repeat*
If time machine was a thing i wanna skip 3 years forward so i can have another long holiday without shit ass school shit
😩😔
school was the MAIN source of depression but now i feel like im dying in quarantine
I had online classes the whole year and I have offline finals. It just started and it's killing me. It's a new school, I don't have any friends, I've parted ways with some of my best friends, I've isolated myself from some of my other friends this past year. I feel like a completely different person. Trust me, quarantine was horrible, but going back to high school after quarantine makes you realise you're really fucked because you're future will be defined in the next few months or so. It's like.....it's over.
@Adarsh Chaturvedi Lol I stopped IIT prep.
@Adarsh Chaturvedi Couldn't do it, too difficult. It screwed up my mental health and confidence real bad. I'm settling for something less difficult.
@Adarsh Chaturvedi 21 Lakhs??? Oh my, I think we already have a bunch of loans in. Also BITSAT is somewhat the same level as Mains I believe....it's hard man.
@Adarsh Chaturvedi Mains itself is horrible man. I don't know I'll probably go for CET coaching in my place.
Sometimes I just wish I could travel back in time and undo my mistakes.
School is basically a cycling hell of stress go to this class _homework_ *_RING_* next class _homework_ *_RING_* next class _test tomorrow _*_study, study, study_* *_RING_* next class _homework_ *_RING_* _EAT YO GRUB_ *_RING_* next class _homework_ *_RING_* _GET OUT AND SHOW UP TOMORROW_
And then the cycle repeats for 9 months of year almost every day
EnderSquid 11 it especially sucks when you are at school, the beginning of the second week, and you found out a teacher from the school passed away. And to make matters worse, they also announce that your best friend passed away to an ATV accident on her VACATION. She was only 12 😭😭💔💔 sorry I am just really sad about this
Im preety much failing its just so hard to foucus or even care my highest grade last semaster was a 72 in geography witch i kinda cared about becuse of my love for polandball comics but get into this cyle were i make a bad grade and feel bad and not pay attenoin and then feel like im wasting everone else time and feel worse to the point were im done and just but my head down and seek releaf in my dreams only to be woken up by a bell and off to feeling like you wasted everone else time and you just made a 20 *JUST FUCKING GREAT*
You don't have to stress tho. It's your choice to sacrifice your happiness for school work...
Yup ever since this year I’ve been getting c’s on assignment, when I used to get all a’s. I’m always tired and I just want to give up now and be done with life. My friends try to help me but it just makes me worse because they don’t know how it is. My parents push it off and just say you’re fine, stop complaining.
Fake Asshole be like: I am so depressed my mom and dad wont buy me airpods and the new iPhone , fuck my life.
I have one word that is the main root of depression for teenagers: School
No no no NOOOO don't say it school good
@@romansoulja1217 school sucks so bad its stressful and boring and hard
@@Dylan-472 ikr I was joking, school should be totally reformed
@@romansoulja1217 in a way I would be happy for the next generation when are schools are reformed but in a way I would be frustrated that this damn thing didn't happen in my school years
@@kaneabd1217 ikr, but id still be happy to see the younger generations not struggling the way Im doing
Daily Reminder: You're never alone. We're all here for you and we experience the same thing.
yeah its comforting to know there are people who are struggling way worse than me it makes me appreciate my life even more
@@vijaysabarish9600 i felt that way before and.. well, you shouldn't belittle your pain or what you're going through.. instead we can say, some people out there are experiencing the same thing as me and people have their own stories while I have mine. ^^ ig I don't think we should be focusing on who's suffering more bc our feelings should be validated. idk if i make sense anymore lol
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Thanks kaminari from my hero academia
Yep, ofc you are not alone there is someone in your home watching as your reading this comment and it's getting closer second by second
Place your hand over your heart, can you feel it? That is called purpose. You’re alive for a reason so don’t ever give up.Never let a stumble in the road be the end of the journey.
Society: I see no problem.
Well said, Daksh. Very well said.
"Society: I see no problem." Yes, you are correct.
Now let me show you the answer dear friend...
Jesus: I see nothing but problems, and I gave my life for every one of them.
Take care Daksh. Reach out to Him. He knows your name.
Robin Sk not everybody is religious you know..
Robin Sk bro shut up it was a joke
@@robinsk5644 "Reach out to him" oh, okay. Alright mate
The worst part about a mental illness is people expect you to act as if you don’t
The main reason students feel depressed is the thought of failing in life..like, not getting in a good job, or not getting a good mark or being unhappy in life
Edit: tqsm for all the likes, makes me feel like I'm not alone
At law school rn and idek whether all this is worth it
@@luminousmark12 hang in there bro, you can get through this
Or not wanting to work a 9-5 job for the rest of your life. Most of the time when i was advised on future careers I was just like...”meh”. I personally don’t like working for other people as well.
@Alexis Autotte ikr
I’m failing in classes..Im not submitting any of my homework an my teachers exposed me in front of my class.I feel wrong,i felt like i was failing to make my parents proud.This comment brighten up my eyes,a little.
Everyone thinks I’m this happy girl who is always smiling while in reality I’m hiding my pain. At night I cry myself to sleep and just don’t feel like myself. I have felt sad and a little depressed but never as bad as this. No one seems to notice and I have just told my one friend how I feel. I haven’t told anyone else because I don’t want to seem as the sad friend since they see me as the funny friend. I feel like if I talk about my feelings I’m just a burden
Same here except im never happy. I thought I was a few times but it all falls down when I do im 16 year old guy that just suffers from shyness, anxiety, and a little acne, I try to act cool even though I can't stand the cool people talk. And I tell only 2 friends how I feel because they are my best friends. And I cant tell everyone else because they will just laugh and tell everyone what I said because they always yell it like their trying to tell the whole school or something it's ridiculous im on your side though and the best of luck come to you through life🖐
Me too I always smile at everyone and I make everyone smile but deep down I am crying.....
Literaly Me..
Exactly me
Alex no! you’re not a burden. You have amazing things going for you in the future, I promise. Try reaching out to someone close to you, maybe a parent. Therapy really helps, I’m rooting for you and things will get better! Stay strong love.
I am depressed but I believe in myself. I’m never gonna give up☺️❤️
love you positive energy ! keep it up 💚
Life is 80% depression
Main reasons
School
Work
Social life
Physical damage
Mental damage
Yeah for school I get depressed over
Homework
Being rejected by my crush at school
And not fitting in
Home work isn't hard
@Sp00ky Sponge people like to pretend they have it really hard online if it was so hard you would be doing it now
Marcia Osullivan you sick idiot
And toxic family
No one:
Not a single soul:
My brain: awe shit here we go again
💀💀💀
Yup
*@Chelsea Huff* Here's a great resource that will help you treat your depression: www.ZootSad. xyz
Please open your mind and listen to me now okay now not tommorow but now,I just want to help you cause I had social anxiety and depression too before,Beleive in me,FOLLOW this steps:
1.Always pray every night to lord Jesus christ or read bible.
2.OPEN YOUR MIND(Listen to others opinion)
3.Believe in your self(Love your self)
4.Search for "EVERY TEENAGE GIRLS NEED TO HEAR" vid. here in youtube
And last think on my advice
"LET GO OF ALL OF YOUR BAD MEMORIES OF YOUR PAST"
cj be like ):
When you don’t have friends...
I don’t have any either...haven’t for years..you’re not alone...
I dont really know who is my best friend, i think i have 5 best friend and a lot of friends... Hahahahah poors😂😂😂😂
Me too buddy..
@@srpakiikic6498 the fuck? You don't know if they are your best friend or friend? Are you an alien boi??? Lol
@@srpakiikic6498 but seriously if i were you i don't want to comment that comes from my pride attitude
I swear everytime i hear someone say school i feel like crying cuz im horrible at school but i dont want to disappoint them
School 🚸
@@htmoh8115 😐🔫
@@Muzan_JacksonHEEHEE same 🙁🙁🙁🙁
Honestly I relate to u so much
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The most inaccurate and fucking frustrating thing is the part where his friends notice and care.
Im not tryin to be edgy and a memelord but its true
I was about to comment about this. I couldn’t give a shit less what other people thought in the state of mind I’m in rn. I even bring up how sad I am all the time to my boyfriend?? (Which I know I shouldn’t do and I’m working on it, I just don’t wanna not talk about it and leave him in the dark)
Yeah no one noticed when I was depressed. Not my friends, my family, or my fiancee. And when I told my family they said it was because i didnt pray or go to church enough.
So much for love and friendship.
Check yourself for Candida. Look for Candida spit test on youtube.
Same here. I can say "I want to kill myself" and "I'm depressed" as many times as I please and they wont think anything of it. This is because my age group has grown so desentisized to depression and suicide. They throw in "I want to die!" into ever other sentence as a joke and eventually it loses its meaning, so the people who really are having those thoughts are left in the dark.. :/
The time I told my friends the truth they didn’t care. So I just kept it a secret from then on.
When you put Netflix in the background so you dont feel alone every night
Marya i do that exact thing :(
@Macdealerx you're right
Into the spider verse will help somewhat anyway
Macdealerx smart 👍🏻👌🏻
I just do that because feeling alone in a quiet room freaks me out. I have a fear of being home alone. So it helps.
ppl sometimes ask me how i’m doing and i always say “i’m fine ty” but if i said “not doing well, i am in fact depressed ty” i just feel like they wouldn’t get me and it would b kinda weird to just say that. Anyone else get me??
yes, it is hard to open up to people. but the thing is, even if it was easy, i wouldnt be honest about the state of my mental health to people around me, with the exception of my mother and i dont even tell her everything. i actually prefer being in my own bubble, which isnt helpful but i prefer that over sharing, because i dont want to be a burden on anyone or have to justify myself for my feelings
For me, I just feel like I've lost all willpower to try and get help, people probably wouldn't understand me but it's mainly that I've lost motivation to get help and I just feel like doing and but question how I got into this situation
Yea Ik what you mean
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@@celinaselmanovik im the same way
"best solution is to sit with loved ones and have their support"
I tried to do that. It made everything worse. One of the major reason why I have depression is MY PARENTS EXPECTATIONS.
Same .
My dad abuse from my childhood but I am still a teen and I still get abuse at time
@@itsilovemybed590 😔 I can't get the fact that why do they give birth to us if they were illiterate assholes .
@@itsilovemybed590 i am so sorry for you. You dont deserve this. I hope you'll be able to move out one day and live on your terms. But remember to always stand up and fight for yourself. It sounds easy but ik it isn't.
I hope we all will be able to get out of your dysfunctional families and be genuinely happy one day.
Ily, always remember that:)💗
@@kashif4300 sorry for you💔
I hope we'll be in a better place one day. I hope we'll be able to move out, be independent and live on our terms. I hope one day we'll wake up and be happy for our existence. And the most important, i hope we'll still be able to chase what we always wished for.
I am a stranger but remember that ily 💗
Kids: *Go to school every day, gets piles of homework and has extreme anxiety because of the constant testing*
Kid: *Has depression*
Media and politicians: *Video games*
and seeing those fake news on tv our parents will take everything 💀
@@arpitamishra6641When reading newspapers:
*Current Affairs, crimes, news*: My parents: *"No"*
*Boy studying under streetlight becomes Harvard Student*: My parents: *"Yes"*
@@78anurag✨ and Comparison ✨
@@ds02 bruh :-( ik right like we are not that person, we may have something they can't do bro I believe in you don't listen to them
@@ds02 me too
who suffers from depression because of a change in behaviours of family members and then each and every person starts to feel toxic? Anyone? Can the cause of depression be your very own family?!
mahera mads definitely
Lost my girlfriend 4 days ago because I was whining too much. Now , I am more depressed.
yup first it was family, til I got kicked out, then my ex roommate and gf made it worst at the same time. I went from having friends and family loving me to not wanting to leave my room at all unless I go to work which I dont lie doing no more. depression is real
Life doesn't work for me interesting!
A lot of not getting on with family and people in general is to do with Astrology. If you are not compatible in Astrology you will not always think alike, you will see things in different prospectives. Also with the huge rise in Aspergers, many people lack being able to show emotions on a compassionate level., they cannot put themselves in other persons shoes! I should know, my family are like that . Sometimes you just have to make friends with people you are compatible with in Astrolgy and except you cannot change other peoples ways of thinking.
I got into Astrology and funny enough the people i am closest with and think alike with are compatiable with my in Astrology. Just proves this works. Look at Patrick swayze and Jennifer grey, they were born compatiable in Chinease astrology, that's why they had chemistry. Katy Perry and Orlando bloom are compatible too
Also read about Candida, check it out on youtube. Candida causes depression and anxiety too.
"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
-John Lennon
My life is Ok.😌😌
Wait what💀
What a powerful statement
Then, my life is never ending.
Things didn't turn out ok for Lennon in the end.
i've missed so many days already... it just makes me so anxious and it is even harder to go back there
having trouble to rest all the time? feeling anxious? check us out and hope this can help ❣️
I don’t tell anyone about my depression.
Edit: I wrote this comment because RUclips comments is one of the only ways I can express myself...if anyone wants me to, I can delete this comment, it’s not a problem ❤️
* Mushii_Potato * me too
It’s hard. I just keep it to myself
Then I think you should.. Start by telling one who's very close to you.. Then, try to overcome it... I'm sure you can.. Anyone can.. I believe in it.. You just have to be brave, strong and determine enough to share your feelings, fight it and also overcome it.. You have faith deep inside your heart to tell people because I think you already told some strangers that you were depressed right here on comment section..
Goodluck... I hope you would take these advice.. 🙂🙂
Angelica Heartfilia Thank you. I’m trying to overcome my depression. This really helps
@@muskanb2346 Your welcome.. I'm glad that I could help you even when I know that I'm nobody.. Goodluck on overcoming your depression.. I know you can do it..☺☺
And, be happy with your life... You should be happy to get to live until now.. Many didn't get chance to live these long.. I had a friend who passed away 2 months ago... He's the same age as mine, 16.. No one would expect he would went away that quick.. A day before his death, we went home from a camp.. We had so much fun during the camp.. Sadly, the next day he's gone.. Drowned.. Sacrificing his own life to save his families who almost drowned as well..
So,don't waste your life living with sadness..
Don't take life for granted.. Just enjoy your life while you still have the chances.. Remember, friend.. You only lived once... Cherish it... And you won't regret it.. Trust me.. ☺☺
However the best solution is support from loved ones... For Example Having a Talk with Family members...
Me: Gets More Depressed
Yeah I know these days there is no actual cure for depression it's just gonna get worse. And other things like school, social media, and family can make it a lot worse and it could bring out the worse in you me i have too much depression and im just trying to make the best of it but I don't work but I hope it gets better for you bro good luck🖐👍
Especially if they don’t understand you and just blames you for your grades
@@Silver-fk6yu I'm getting yelled at by my dad if he sees me having fun instead of study...
Idk what to do now if my grades are bad when it comes out a few weeks later 😭
@@AteshiAqua Well, keep on fighting, and still try to talk to them.
It is not a long term solution, I have been trying this for a few months now. You would not believe me if I tell you that I am seeing major deformity in my face and body due to this loneliness, but nobody seems to notice. I can't go to talk to someone as I don't have conversation skills. In simple words I am 22 now but last 5 years I am just seeing failures everywhere. I lost my grandma, then my mother, I lost concentration in my studies, My family is facing financial problems, I had a failed relationship(never gonna try that again). I am just like a living body with no life, I lost all my interests.
“Todd’s friends are worried about him-”
Woah stop right there Todd is depressed, Todd has no friends.
They never asked me if I'm ok I'm always the one that helps them when their into their shit
And any okays they ask are empty and of obligation over choice
Stop helping. It will lessen your stress levels.
I feel sick off everything in my life, yep.
Man, hang on, same for me.
man i live in war, i cant buy anything online and i live in an islamic society which means no girlfriends to sexual interaction, i live alone my parents divorced and each day goes by i feel pain and heavy chest and sadness but i know i am not suicidal and i dont want to be that way but i hold it in i used to get beaten by my dad since i was a kid and according to this society its normal and not like outside im surpressed.
@@okayokay12 i'm islamic and my life is suc*, while I was childhood school give me a lot homework and my parents always asking about my homework and homework. I'm not suicidal because I know I'll going to hell, that's my parents and my religion says but I always waiting for die right now.
God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
, He doesn't make mistakes
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible, and so you can be forgiven for your sins and go to heaven
keep strong, we can through this
what's a depressed person's favorite coffee
depresso
Ba... dum....... tss
..
This joke helped mine a bit lol
Hahahahaha..
Lol this one was cool :'D
*The worst thing is that depression starts with insecurity sometimes and when you should tell your family, they laugh, and there triggers you and you feelings.* *I don't know if I have depression but I relate to almost everything in this video.*
I'm a student....and sometimes I regret having been a topper in the past
I feel like a failure now and have suddenly developed this weird exam fear
When she was talking about the major signs, I was like check, check, check, check...
And guess what! I had all of them!!!
Has it improved dude if it has then my wishes if it hasn't hang in there you worth a lot more than you think cheers
@@kaneabd1217 words like those really don't help at all, by doing that some actually get more pissed at it than finding it helpful.
“Depression starts from 12 years old to 65 years old”
That explains why I got it after my 12nd birthday-
12nd?
Do you mean 12th?
@TheLee It's not a matter of caring it's a matter of making something sound right.
@TheLee then why did you reply?
I got it at 14
I got it earlier ..
Yes.
I play Fortnite, on Mobile.
I agree. Never talk about it with your fam
Exactly
so true. they always belittle me by saying that they were off worst. which is true but im still in pain. the suffering is the same.
When I told my dad he told me I’m not a man and that he didn’t raise a weak son. I don’t understand how that’s supposed to help
@@itsmichael1711 im sorry he doesn't understand you.. you are NOT WEAK!! your so strong for even attempting to talk about it tbh. find someone who will not judge you and listen and comfort you!! much love and support~ Isabel 😊
I know a lot about depression; it's nothing new to me and I've struggled with it, as well as with other mental disorders and suicidal thoughts, for years. I didn't notice it starting, because I was young (around 11-12) and at that time knew nothing about it, I thought I was just like that and it wasn't an illness but just how I saw and lived my life.
I was hospitalized during my senior year of high school and started getting better (around 16-17 years old), I found a career I'm interested in and really want to pursue, I have future plans, I even started thinking about having a family later in life and settling with someone when I'm ready. I'm not saying I've been extremely happy, but compared to before, I was happy. The shit started going down in my life and I've been noticing these symptoms coming back :
-I can barely get out of bed, for school, for work or even just on a normal day
-I've skipped classes, even my favorite ones, because I couldn't motivate myself to get up (I'm not someone who ditches school, I'm more the type to force myself to get up even if I'm sick and barely ever misses classes)
-My grades are going down because I can't motivate myself to study
-I don't enjoy talking as much as I did not that long ago
-I have NO energy, climbing up the stairs to my class is terribly hard
-I don't enjoy my classes like at the beginning of the semester, I don't enjoy drawing... I have hobbies I do, games I play, videos I watch... But I find myself becoming just... nonchalant ? Even if I enjoy them to an extent, just not as much as before, it's more numbing in the end
-I don't smile as much, it doesn't come as naturally as it did when I was getting better
-I cry so easily, I crack at the slightest things and go on full panic attack mode when I'm alone sometimes
-I'm so frustrated with small things, I'm not someone aggressive but I want to punch something way too often
I'm just starting to see the black cloud of depression starting to cover up my future ahead, my plans I had made, my hopes... I feel like I'm terrible at everything I do, class, drawing, socializing, work... I hate myself, maybe not as much as I used to, but I do. I'm scared and so annoyed that it's coming back like that, I've been working SO hard to become better and I truly thought all of this was behind me, but I feel like I'm going to snap (if I didn't already)
I feel weak and just... idk useless, like why can't I just be happy and productive like a normal human being ? Why do I constantly need support to stay functional ? I hate being a burden, but I hate being forgotten and now my family and my life seems to be falling apart.
The only thing that motivated me to get better was my Mom and now she's dead.
What am I supposed to do ?
I'm turning to the Internet once again, I have a great therapist thankfully but... I'm still lost and lonely
I have never been seriously diagnosed but I do have very similar symptomps like you.. but im scared of admitting it..
I feel empty at all times that I realized i'm not experiencing the word "happiness" anymore.
God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
, He doesn't make mistakes
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible
Istg this comment section is so annoying
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With my condition like this, I've started to only live for future thinking that it'll end soon and once again the happy time will come.But I often think to myself what if it never ends and at that time I pray to God that 'if my life is going to be like this then please make me die'. Because I seriously can't endure much more than this. I'm in so much pain. I wan't to be loved. I want my old self back. I want that time back where I had learned to balance between my academics and other cool stuff and most importantly where my parents were proud of me ( yesterday only I yelled at my mom for the first time in my 18 years of life)
Damn, I feel like i'm in the same situation. I feel like i'm messing up my decisions and it's gonna impact on my whole life so it's gonna be bad. I don't wanna live like this
I relate to both of these comments so much. I feel like I’m wasting my education and it’ll never get better. I have no life cause I spend hours forcing myself through schoolwork. Yet I’m still behind and still letting my parents down
@@Anna-ug8cq i also relate🥺🥺
God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible
same
True friends would know your not ok when all you respond with is “I’m fine”
i always respond with "I'm fine" or "I'm okay"
Draw With Rose 19 rose it’s me I love you just kidding I hate you
But I dont have *friends* so true friends are not even in the picture
@@eddiew2325 ummm no
Natasha Smith why
Whoever reading this, may God cure your all sufferings and guide you to come out from darkness to the light. 💙
Fed. Gov: Um, the students are being stresser and depressed. What shall we do? OH RIGHT!
More homework boys!!
For real or its like let's teach the bullshit that we don't know like where did gold come from exploding stars but they said they believed that that's where it came from but they don't actually know it's bullshit man im 16 shy depressed anxious and very quiet and hurt and a guy but good luck
I hate the government and school as a whole.
School is the source of my depression I stress about it every day and I always feel sad but it’s been getting better
I had to stop caring abput school and say Fuck it too better my suicide
Agreed, since I started college, two months in, my depression got worse. Haven’t done any assignments since I started
Salman Drame same
Hate those people who use this stuff for attention🙄they don’t even know what it really is and they have the easiest life going
Barry bee Benson specialy after seeing 40 + comments pf people been depressed for years XD. Someone with real depression would have a hard time sharing.
Not all the times, everyone is different not everyone does it for attention, jackasses
Jay z lips people dont do it gor attention they want to get it out and it release stress and its hadd trying to talk on person but its better on phone/tablet and ivr had depression for 2 years and tryed tl kill myself 3 times and i am not doing it for attention
@@tigerandwolfarmy8714 what the, he said he hates those people who do it for attention, not everyone uses it for attention. There are some people who say they're depressed for attention.
So...
You don't know shit about the depression school gives us cuz you ain't never been to school 🤣
If anyone who is going through depression reading this, power through it and force yourself to do whatever you have to do even if you don't feel like it. I promise you will get through. Thank you.
Hey Johnny Boy, such a wonderful comment and although I'm not going through a rough time it made me smile and realise that there are great people in this world who encourage others, so thank you for this wonderful comment and I hope that it impacts others who read it.💛
Thank you!;)
Tried it, did it, but unfortunately it made me fail again…
I’m scared for what life has more pain to give me
Apparently this generation had seen the highest amounts of depression I mean , school puts so much stress especially high school
I've been depressed since I started Sophmore year( I'm still a Sophmore) and just seeing people on social media saying oh I'm ugly, I'm fat, no one loves me pisses me off. This is not to be made fun of
Ya... I’m a freshman and my depression is really bad this year. Also, don’t listen to what people say. You’re amazing, not fat or ugly, and you are worth it! Some people are so stupid and only put down others because they look bad on themselves. Don’t worry. It will all get better one day ! I hope everything works out. Stay strong! 😊
@@arianawastaken9295 Thanks man 😁
Joel Villa Np!! 😊
Joel Villa My cousin is like that (they’re far from ugly and love attention), it’s so sick because there are people who genuinely feel horrible about themselves and their life.
I agree to the fullest. I've lost the energy to work my hardest and I find school to be absolute purgatory
Source 1: *School*
Yes...
Actually, I don't think the school itself is the problem... It's the people inside of it. Think about it for a moment. If you were the only person in your school, you wouldn't have to worry about bullies, fake people and many more.
Im not depressed and semi enjoy school now i beat up my bullies
Source 2: parents
Stop sayings it’s school! Y’all very not smart. Sorry but it’s true. School is causing stress not depression. Get you facts straight.
The lockdown made it worse.I never in my entire academic life felt soooo depressed and unmotivated about having to study
Sounds like my last year almost exactly
My friends are always better so I feel ashamed I can't catch up.
lemon doodles Armyy really everywhere 💜
I don’t even have friends
When your the funny friend but also unstable af
rizi don’t be ashamed, you’re stronger than ever.
Same...
I don't get why I've got to constantly prove to people how much I am suffering, its until I start trying to kill myself or end up killing myself is when people will say they missed their chance to save or had no idea how much I was suffering.
I've been dealing with this thing myself for fucking years with people still trying to tell me I'm looking for attention or don't know what it's like to have a 'real' hard life, and as a young person it's even worse when adults start 'babying' you saying things like "oh, it must be so hard.." and start talking about themselves and their supposedly harder, bigger lives. If I could put these people into my shoes for a full month, I bet they wouldn't be able to handle the constant beat down, struggle that I go through just to push myself onto the next weeks. Fuck them. I'm not some edgy kid who listens to sad music wanting to "feel depressed". I constantly want to fuckin die and its not a fun 'feeling' thank you very much and its not like children everywhere have happy lives just because they're children, they don't even know my fuckin story.
Then they will stand at your funeral saying "oh I didn't know"
keep fighting my friend. eventually the ignorant people will leave and you'll find people who know what theyre talking about, who have survived it, and are better.
I don't know if you're still here.. But take it like this (from someone who can 100% relate to you): You wake up one morning with no one in the world to care about you. Friends, family etc. The first thing going through your head will be "I wish I fought that little bit harder each day" You know why you will think that? Because YOU deep down know it won't last forever. As much as you may feel like you've hitten rock bottom and you're never going to get back up. You will. This shit doesn't last forever, no matter what. Because each day you fight harder the closer you come to blocking out the people that dont care and the people that truely do will either begin to understand or new people who care will come into your life. I know its so hard but you have to keep going because at the end of the day if you dont; all you can say is 'why didnt i try harder'. I have strong beliefs in any human, and from hearing your story, you too.
I am going through the same phase as you, I lag at my academics which makes me depressed . I have always been an average student now here I am at college doing my Engineering getting F grades. Yes it sucks , and it also sucks to have no true friend all fake people that talk behind you and make fun of your situation.
To get rid of this feeling I suggest you Exercise , get a pet dog and eath healthy.
also think good , talk to many people (even strangers)
we human being are social creatures without interaction (even introverts like me) we get on edge.
I am facing this too
I dont get motivated to do anything , but remember this we all will die in next hundread years. Not one of us is immortal.
Life is too short for depression or guilt
Live your life they way you want to
ur right these people cannot understand us.
I can't describe how I feel
lately, I feel so sad like there is no point in life and really I don't want to suicide but like I do wanna die but I don't wanna die idk...
nobody understands me and if I talk to my mom she thinks I'm crazy or blams me for being miserable and that I'm lazy. I'm so tired lately.. ballet seems so sad and my teacher always yells at me. school is really stressful and I always feel like time is chasing me. NOONE understands me and I feel so weird towards others. I don't want to go to a psychologic as i feel like im crazy. my friends dont listen to my problems and i just want the old me again
It is because you are growing lol
I've felt like this a lot in my life and you could be experiencing depression since you don't find joy in what you're doing anymore. Maybe start out by trying out new interests- take something other than ballet or maybe go to a different school/instructor, or ask to see a therapist because you're definitely not crazy- you're human- and you're seeking help. A therapist can help you understand how you feel and how to take steps to enjoy your life more and get the best out of every day.
Natali Beri you’re not crazy. Don’t feel like you’re crazy! Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re crazy. I’m here, and I understand everything you’re going through. Things will get so much better, I promise. Try reaching out to someone else that you can trust and will understand you! Then you can look into therapy, it really helps. I hope you feel better❤️
Same with me 😔🥺
God loves you having fearfully and wonderfully made you'
(does not exempt you from pain)
, He doesn't make mistakes
He gave you a purpose and plan specific to YOU, He wants to be in a relationship with you having sacrificed his son to make that possible
I dont feel pity or I don't hate myself specifically, yet I dont see any purpose of doing anything in my life i used to be a very good student but right now im not sure if even I could remember what i used to study
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I don't know when was the last time I was truly happy. I don't remember when was the last time I smiled genuinely.
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When your parents scream at you and tell you that you ARE the problem and you know you did something but you didn’t mean it so u just sit there not saying a word thinking..... “I’m sorry I’m the problem, I want to disappear but then again.... I’ll still be the problem...”
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Praise inner beauty god daily then souls connect with love ,be faithful be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature except everything happened in like for good reason