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Attitude of man that I am very attrative with: 1. A doer not a dreamer. 2. Knows how to budget 3. Knows how to keep his words. 4. Brutally Honest 5. Protective
1. A Godly man. 2.Truthfulness and honesty. 3. Sense of adventure and fun, even if it's just going to the store. 4. Finding positives in negatives. 5. Willingness to apologize. 6. Loyal.
I like #5 since it’s very rare to find someone who not only knows they made a mistake but has the ability to admit it and ask for forgiveness, I see that as s virtue.
Mindsets of my husband that I find attractive are: 1. He is persistent and ambitious and he acts on it 2. He involves me in every decision that he makes. 3. A great motivator of me to become better version of myself 4. Transparent - he wants to discuss everything. 5. Loyalty - he wants us all the time "two against the world"
Mindsets I love in men: 1. A man who laughs easily. 2. A man who looks me in the eye when either of us are speaking. 3. A man who shows interest in my interests as well as new experiences together. 4. A man who takes the initiative ~ helping, spontaneously celebrating, doing thoughtful things that make huge differences. 5. A man that can comfortably express his feelings.
I love how he always uses his wife as a good example 💖 this should make her feel super appreciated. Thanks for your example as a good couple. We need more good of this kind in the world! 🙂
Elisa Cardenas I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Elisa Cardenas I love a man with compassion towards animals kindness and well mannered and honest and insecure and respectful someone that would make me laugh I wish there was a man that would love me and support me for me and give me compliment I wish there was a man that would find me attractive
Mindsets that are attractive in men: 1. Visionary - a man who has a clear vision & perspective of life, clear roles & responsibilities over life. 2. Vulnerability - a man who is willing to be raw, open, honest & trustworthy. 3. Respectful - a man who is never forceful, tender loving & a true gentlemen. 4. Boldness - a man who dares to take challenges & risks it all in life for himself & those whom he loves. A man of actions rather than just mere words. 5. Persistence - a man who has never giving up spirit, relentless, always a fighter & a warrior to achieve what he wants in life.
@@mmc7818 If you believe you're a mess, look intp how to get UNmessed. DUH! Or just endure even little kids Saying the SAME and Laughing at you. Seriously! How "rocket science" is that DUH answer??! Manipulating others like empathetic "chumps" to protect him from having to Deal With things NOW ... and "later" TOO. He's been doing that manipulative stuff since he was very small and long before you even met him. Slip sliding into Worse and WORSE burden to dump on others to tolerate until they CAN'T. "These guys simply Refuse to grow up and wont change until they're ready to." That is until it's Allowed to be a problem for HIM instead of Others he Chooses to dump the UNnecessary burden on. Boot in the burt therapy Works great.... but he WILL burden You with having to follow him to apply that boot over n over. Hand em over to a Male counselor or their father "works" great too ...but he Will burden You to get him to them over n over n over to burden them over n over n ... 37 Used UP people that he has NO Respect for the Equal Value of THEIR Time wasted ... because only his time matters and he Chooses to spend it on the Too Many Choices other than Get REAL Help and USE It on his Own "wasted" Time. If he is Allowed to continue to Abuse Your Time and More, he WILL. Note he doesnt have the same problem with his boss, his neighbor, his dentist, his therapist, his best bud, etc where he knows he Cant Get By With It being excused. He'll actually Want to get help when there is NO Other "better" Choice. Some really DONT even need some kind of treatment other than NO woman and NObody Else will put up with it. The "therapy" that Prevented a kid of mine from becoming the Worse mess her over privileged and over protected from consequences father apparently alteady was. Never knew there was even such a "diagnosis" then, so the 19 year old got booted out and Never fully developed the attitude "disorder" and was within less than a couplw years, a FULLY capable in life, FAR More than was expected to EVER be by mental health. " experts." No joke! However, that is Not to say this would apply to all people who are such a behavior "mess" that MAY require other treatment TOO
being an open honest communicator, being vulnerable, being very confident, being very kind and polite always. being physically strong and having the skillset to fix things or learn how to fix things, a great sense of humor in a great conversation.
I love determination in a man. One thing I love about my boyfriend is that if the initial option is no longer available, he will immediately start seeking out other options instead of giving up on our plans. I love that mindset where you just don't feel satisfied until you know you've done the best you could. I actually hold the same mindset myself, and I think that's part of what makes us so compatible.
Do you know many men like this? Most of them will say "I will call you" and then disappear or "I will be there for you" and then leave you in a difficult situation.
bread winner I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
The mindset I love in my man: 1. He is a great leader 2. He is financially responsible 3. He is very wise 4. He is a great communicator: listens, says the right things, values honesty 5. He is constantly learning new skills
Mindsets I love seeing in men: 1. Being present (in this moment, in a conversation, etc.); 2. General calm attitude - a man who knows who he is and does not engage with negative energy; 3. He takes good care of his body and cleans up after himself; 4. He is in touch with nature; 5. He is in touch with his feelings.
The DRIVE to care for his health by working out and eating healthy, the DRIVE for personal growth. A man who is driven to be better and can take charge of his life and in the relationship is super attractive!
A man that treats me with respect, that is caring, responsible, humble, romantic and with good sense of humor. A man that walks through the world always keeping me and our relationship as a priority in mind. Thank you for sharing this video 💖
You're talking about liberals. Bwaha ha ha I stopped dating because I can't date women who look like men. Give me a conservative, Godly, tough conservative anyday. Crying men who FEEL more than me may be attractive to a feminists who wants to dominate them into submission, but for me, it makes me wanna vomit,
1) not just only saying it but also showing their love 2) being assertive 3) being smart (a know-how), but not a bragger, and humorous 4) responsibly sociable to people of all walks of life 5) save the best for last: being godly :)
@Chuck Dude enough already, maybe if you got off the Internet long enough you'd see that there ARE women such as myself that have been with their man when he practically had nothing but his heart, soul, and his determination to better his life while living in a shack in the backyard of his brother's place that he built himself. When I was with my man when I first met him, we both didn't know what we had. We were too young to appreciate it back then, but now that we came back together even have a beautiful son together we can appreciate it more. Looking back I'm proud of the man I have by my side, I'm lucky EVERY DAMN DAY that he chose me to be the woman he comes home to everyday. I was proud of him back then too, I was just too young to realize. Nobody on this damn planet is perfect, but my man is perfectly imperfect to me and I love and am IN LOVE with every flaw he has because it's what makes him a beautiful soul to me. So my point is that those women ARE out there, you just have to be ready and willing to see it and receive it.
Taking responsibility, funny, being helpful, being a gentleman, attentive and eyecontact, remembering things about me, paying attention to visual details (my dress, hair etc) , generosity
I apply every single one of these to what I’m attracted to in a man. Consistency is a big one for me as well. I enjoy when a man does specific things to get me and continues those things to keep me 😊
One of the greatest mindset for me is that he knows who he is and is not in competition with me about everything..Safety for me inspires me also.to be more open and vulnerable with him.
5 Mindset I love in men. 1. A Leader. Someone who protects and lead. His words and actions are reliable. 2. Good Provider/ Generous. 3. A man who listens to my advice or atleast to my request and values it. 4. A man of God. 5. A man who gives time.
Great video ! Thanks ! I may not be good at telling this....ummm.....dunno mindset but the following are the kind of men i like:- 1. Consistent 2. Man of words 3. Easy going 4. Well behaved 5. Polite 6. Who compromises and sacrifices etc.
I just cannot skip a video of yours Mathew Boggs!! You say the most helpful advice!💐The most attractive thing in a man in my opinion is when he makes a woman feels that no matter what terrible things life throws at us he is my strong rock!💛when I feel down he makes me smile again and so when he is feeling down I would do whatever it takes to make him feel better and support him like he does for me.As a woman I am more sensitive and more overwhelmed with the bad news I see on tv and I feel terrified because in my country we have a terrible situation but he supports me and makes me feel better and stronger.If a man won't support me at very critical moment in my life and instead makes things more scarry to me I would totally leave him and take charge of my life,I think that's what happened in my past relationship.I preferred to be in depression by myself than to suffer from a lack of attention and him being distant and the type that's scared to show emotions and avoids me.
Dania Dessine I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Things I want in my man 1- Empathy & kindness 2- Someone whom I can trust with my feelings & secrets, I'd like him to not reshare them with others 3- doer, not a talker 4- good sense of humor, turning tense situations to laughable ones 5- respect my desire to be left alone when I need to & not feeling left out
A strong sense of purpose and fulfillment in his work, kindness, leadership, disciplined, respectful of women, plans dates, clear in his intentions, not manipulative or dishonest.
Honesty, kindness, sense of humour, confidence, passion for life, reliability, ability to show their vulnerability, sensitivity, compassion, enthusiasm, open mindedness.....
Someone who is honest about his feelings and not afraid to say whats on his mind. Also protectiveness is very attractive to me but also a family man and caring for the ones he loves and is closest to. I think I found that with the guy im seeing now, he is amazing and all this and it feels so right to be with him.
Thank you for making these videos! I finally found a great man. He’s 10 years older than me and I’m watching your videos every day to become a better version of myself. I want to spend the rest of my life with him 💕
What’s highly attractive to me in a man is his ability to own his opinion even if it differs from mine. Secure in himself and looks at mistakes as opportunities for growth. Also an openness and willingness to listen and consider other peoples’ opinions. Willingness to be inclusive of me into his social and familial circles. Clear with his boundaries and being assertive. Having zest and passion for interests in his life , and actively nurturing his spiritual emotional social and physical wellness and growth.
Hmm I also get that warm feeling of having someone solve my problems, but now I see it as a sign of codependency. I don't think that desire is beneficial anymore.
A man with an open heart who is available to connect w you & wants to please you, who treats you with kindness & respect for your feelings. Someone who is confident in who they are but also is able to be vulnerable... that’s sexy. And yes- having a sense of humor, being able to laugh at life & not take it too seriously... that’s the best. That playful joy can make it all feel better.
Thanks a lot Mathiew!!!!! For me, I love it when a man has a sense of direction in everything he does. One who knows what he wants, why he wants it and sets himsekf to get. I love men who take responsibility for their actions. Men who keep to their words by doing what they say. I love men who are ambitious, yet ready to assist and worry for others when need be. I love men who are respectful of others even when they don't believe in the same things like them. And last but not the least, I love men who appreciate having fun from time to time and do funny things, even if they do not have a sense of humour.
The most attractive mindset in a man for me is being in a position to understand and forgive in case I go wrong...The Video is awesome, I have actually highlighted the areas that I should go an extra mile. I really appreciate!
Sense of humor- joyfulness- confidence- connection to god- good taste, especially in fashion and food- compassion- humbleness- not a racist and against racism- vulnerability- ability to express and show love and admiration- respect- honesty- straightforwardness- kindness - courage- sensibility- ability to admit to their mistakes and to apologize when wrong.
Being Promising , being consistent with the behaviour through which they initiated in a woman’s life are significant mindsets that could make men attractive for women.
A great sense of humor is a must, they can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves so seriously. Is ambitious and knows what he wants. Is self aware and is open about who he is.
Cheryl Brunk I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Matt you have been talking directly to me the last 2 videos...you asked what women find attractive in a man. Well I will speak for me. I find it very attractive for a man to be confident and strong. To just ask me out . Especially if he knows we have a lot in common...movies, music, church, hiking or just going for a walk. Additionally, my family is huge for me. My family has to approve of him before I will fully commit. I don't know when this needs to happen or how.
What an amazing video! That first part talking about being able to turn big issues into nothing was great. I just realized that’s a must for my next relationship. My ex is a great man with many qualities but he would get so worked up and frustrated with every little inconvenience and I realize now how much anxiety that created for me. Thanks for this video!
Mindsets in men I find attractive: -Passionate: if you're excited, I'm happy and excited, too. Yay, experiences! -A confident mindset. If you can walk into a room like you own it and then own it without a scene, then, I want to be around you. -Humorous: life happens. If you laugh at it when you can it happens less painfully sometimes. Plus, keep me laughing overall and I'll stick around. -A chivalrous mindset: I'm capable of a lot, but I've made an effort to joyfully receive. I'm a business major a single 32 year old with no children, and I'm uniformed services. I've grown to love chivalry, it makes me feel special and treasured. ❤❤
1. Intelligence 2. When a man me feel like a women 3. Accountable for his actions 2. Caring, thoughtful 3. Ambitious, established, knows what he wants, knows himself 4. When we get each other’s humor 5. Gentle
What I find attractive in a man, is confidence & intelligence & sense of humour .A man who is able to express his vulnerable side . Honesty, kindness & being real are attributes I find highly attractive !
Yoon Tran I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
The qualities I find attractive in a (my) man: 1). Hard Working - Saw this quality in my grandpa growing up. 2). Kindness - Opens my heart for deeper connection. 3). Humorous - Sometimes you need to laugh to feel better and enjoy life. 4). Emotionally in tough with feelings - Very few men are raised to access this part of themselves. A lot of healing can come from this. 5). Good Energy - If the vibe meshes with mine…..it’s a wonderful connection. It’s difficult to list only five. Other qualities that are just as important that should be standard: Honest, loyal, respectful. My guy has all of these qualities and more! He is working on the emotional development. I always am. He is tapped in and willing to grow. ♥️ 🙏🏽
Confidence, spontaneity, proud of being with me, protecting of me, has his act together at home and in his career, kind to animals and children, fun and carefree.
I loved this video! Thank you! One of the most attractive thing in a man for me is how he makes me feel like I’m the only one in the room when we are together.
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he finds humor in every down fall or bad situation. he's cool headed. he's emotionally mature. hes not throwing temper tantrums at the females in his life when hes mad.
I like a man with intelligence. Even if I don't know much about the topic he's talking about, I love learning something new. I like a man who is compassionate, similar to the kindness attraction. Sense of humor is always a must
I think a man is attractive when he calls to find out how your doing , making sure your okay,asks about your day , ask on how you feel , take responsibility for his actions, says sorry and really mean it , a man who tries and never give up , one who supports you and help you make the right decisions, one who sacrifices his time and tasks to make that special person happy , a man who is loyal , a man who understand or tries to understand what a woman is going through , even when we ( women ) are angry he don't just walk away but makes sure we cheer up , one who understand what we want and don't want and they also respect that fact , one who has humour and dignity and self care and trustworthiness and leadership and smart and intelligence ,a man that is able to see the difference between the two and understand that we were not made perfect .
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5 mindsets men find attractive
1) opportunity in every challenge
2) kindness
3) certainty
4) versatility
5) sense of humor
Please don't do this in people's videos. Let the audience watch and enjoy.
@@maiquynhbui2071 - then keep scrolling if it is offensive to you
Thanks, loved the video. Saved me writing it own.
No thank u for writing!
Thank you!
Attitude of man that I am very attrative with:
1. A doer not a dreamer.
2. Knows how to budget
3. Knows how to keep his words.
4. Brutally Honest
5. Protective
👍👍👍
My best in a man is.. his honesty or transparency while dealing with me!!
Ok , where is he? 🤨😆
@@barbaramay3539 he found me..
@@honey24cute 😉👍
Strong yet tender. Confident yet humble. Truthful. Faithful. Passionate. One who never stops pursuing his woman.
You said it! ❤
I actually took a screenshot of your reply, it’s so perfect for me! Thank you for putting it into perfect, simple words. :)
1. A Godly man.
2.Truthfulness and honesty.
3. Sense of adventure and fun, even if it's just going to the store.
4. Finding positives in negatives.
5. Willingness to apologize.
6. Loyal.
Spot on for me too
Not just a Christian man but a “Godly man”!
Yes! Perfect response! Ditto on my end!
Love this list, Laura.
I like #5 since it’s very rare to find someone who not only knows they made a mistake but has the ability to admit it and ask for forgiveness, I see that as s virtue.
Mindsets of my husband that I find attractive are:
1. He is persistent and ambitious and he acts on it
2. He involves me in every decision that he makes.
3. A great motivator of me to become better version of myself
4. Transparent - he wants to discuss everything.
5. Loyalty - he wants us all the time "two against the world"
It makes the other partner feel very appreciated.
Great!!!
💋
Lucky woman! 👍
He seems like a hero
Mindsets I love in men:
1. A man who laughs easily.
2. A man who looks me in the eye when either of us are speaking.
3. A man who shows interest in my interests as well as new experiences together.
4. A man who takes the initiative ~ helping, spontaneously celebrating, doing thoughtful things that make huge differences.
5. A man that can comfortably express his feelings.
Arrogance is so ugly to me. Some women like it but I cannot stand it
Men who don’t talk about other women, when he is with me it is about me and him!!!
The laughing part very important
@@Halo-li8hg I HATE an arrogant person more than I hate a serial killer!
💯💯💯
When he has a good relationship with God...has solid integrity amd matured enough emotionally and spiritually
Absolutely! ☺️🙏🏻
Absolutely, too.
That's true! :)
Very true. If he fears God, he won't want to hurt you b/c he fears what God will do if he does.
Amen 🙏
I love how he always uses his wife as a good example 💖 this should make her feel super appreciated. Thanks for your example as a good couple. We need more good of this kind in the world! 🙂
Elisa Cardenas I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Who knows.
Elisa Cardenas I love a man with compassion towards animals kindness and well mannered and honest and insecure and respectful someone that would make me laugh I wish there was a man that would love me and support me for me and give me compliment I wish there was a man that would find me attractive
I know, I like it too!!!
@@oluwaseunmabinuori98 All of these coaches use their "wives" as examples... don't be naive.
Mindsets that are attractive in men:
1. Visionary - a man who has a clear vision & perspective of life, clear roles & responsibilities over life.
2. Vulnerability - a man who is willing to be raw, open, honest & trustworthy.
3. Respectful - a man who is never forceful, tender loving & a true gentlemen.
4. Boldness - a man who dares to take challenges & risks it all in life for himself & those whom he loves. A man of actions rather than just mere words.
5. Persistence - a man who has never giving up spirit, relentless, always a fighter & a warrior to achieve what he wants in life.
One thing I find attractive in a man is him being truthful and trustworthy.
Follow up with your words. Meaning do what you say!!!!
"The most attractive thing a man can do is exactly what he says he's going to do"
I agree..being honest is the no.1
What if he keeps saying he's a mess and doesn't know what to do but then says he thinks about me and is wondering how I am doing?
@@mmc7818
If you believe you're a mess, look intp how to get UNmessed. DUH! Or just endure even little kids Saying the SAME and Laughing at you. Seriously!
How "rocket science" is that DUH answer??!
Manipulating others like empathetic "chumps" to protect him from having to Deal With things NOW ... and "later" TOO. He's been doing that manipulative stuff since he was very small and long before you even met him. Slip sliding into Worse and WORSE burden to dump on others to tolerate until they CAN'T.
"These guys simply Refuse to grow up and wont change until they're ready to." That is until it's Allowed to be a problem for HIM instead of Others he Chooses to dump the UNnecessary burden on.
Boot in the burt therapy Works great.... but he WILL burden You with having to follow him to apply that boot over n over. Hand em over to a Male counselor or their father "works" great too ...but he Will burden You to get him to them over n over n over to burden them over n over n ... 37 Used UP people that he has NO Respect for the Equal Value of THEIR Time wasted ... because only his time matters and he Chooses to spend it on the Too Many Choices other than Get REAL Help and USE It on his Own "wasted" Time.
If he is Allowed to continue to Abuse Your Time and More, he WILL.
Note he doesnt have the same problem with his boss, his neighbor, his dentist, his therapist, his best bud, etc where he knows he Cant Get By With It being excused. He'll actually Want to get help when there is NO Other "better" Choice. Some really DONT even need some kind of treatment other than NO woman and NObody Else will put up with it. The "therapy" that Prevented a kid of mine from becoming the Worse mess her over privileged and over protected from consequences father apparently alteady was.
Never knew there was even such a "diagnosis" then, so the 19 year old got booted out and Never fully developed the attitude "disorder" and was within less than a couplw years, a FULLY capable in life, FAR More than was expected to EVER be by mental health. " experts." No joke! However, that is Not to say this would apply to all people who are such a behavior "mess" that MAY require other treatment TOO
@@mmc7818 girl move on
😂
being an open honest communicator, being vulnerable, being very confident, being very kind and polite always. being physically strong and having the skillset to fix things or learn how to fix things, a great sense of humor in a great conversation.
Actually these mindsets are attractive both ways.....men and women!
And to add on, compassion, patience and humility. Among others of course 😊
I agree. Don't we all want that from our partner? I'd add one, not wanting to change who the other is. We should be attracted by them not to fix them.
I love determination in a man.
One thing I love about my boyfriend is that if the initial option is no longer available, he will immediately start seeking out other options instead of giving up on our plans. I love that mindset where you just don't feel satisfied until you know you've done the best you could. I actually hold the same mindset myself, and I think that's part of what makes us so compatible.
I like a man who pays attention to what Ive told him about myself. He’s genuinely interested in what I’m about .and is open with his feelings for me .
A man who has the courageous and humble enough to praise good qualities of their spouse in front of others. (Who is loving and supportive behind you)
Consistency and taking responsibility of their actions is just soooooo attractive ❤️
Do you know many men like this? Most of them will say "I will call you" and then disappear or "I will be there for you" and then leave you in a difficult situation.
bread winner I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
@@oluwaseunmabinuori98 🙆🏿♀️ chaiii you too much 😅
Chuck The toxic comes from 100 years satanistic politics. We are all victims.
Yep
1. Great Communicator
2. Honest
3. Loyal (doesn't have roving eyes)
4. Trust worthy
5. Sense of humor (can turn tears to laughter).
A man that comes in and says “it’s been handled” about a stressful situation or problem.
Girl yes, I think that is so sexy when a man takes action and handles things!🤗
Yes yes yes
Emotional Intelligence: the ability to love with balance, firmly with tenderness and kind-heartedness.
I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
A positive attitude, confident and open minded, kind and fun. Going for what he wants and doing what he says. Loving too.
Sense of humor, confidence, and being supportive
The mindset I love in my man:
1. He is a great leader
2. He is financially responsible
3. He is very wise
4. He is a great communicator: listens, says the right things, values honesty
5. He is constantly learning new skills
Trustworthiness, sincerity, loyalty, kindness, generosity, courage & a sense of humour.
Man who is loyal and honest
Man who speaks truth
Man with good height and health
Man with good sense of humour
Mindsets I love seeing in men:
1. Being present (in this moment, in a conversation, etc.);
2. General calm attitude - a man who knows who he is and does not engage with negative energy;
3. He takes good care of his body and cleans up after himself;
4. He is in touch with nature;
5. He is in touch with his feelings.
Gratitude, kindness, thoughtfulness, interest in you and your interests, remembering what you do and don't like
The DRIVE to care for his health by working out and eating healthy, the DRIVE for personal growth. A man who is driven to be better and can take charge of his life and in the relationship is super attractive!
So true!
A man who simply keeps his word is so attractive. Also a man who is consistent, calm, good with humor, and just plain genuine.
I love when men are steady and focused, with a caring emphasis.
That kind of leadership makes me go weak at the knees, who can resist that! :)
A man that treats me with respect, that is caring, responsible, humble, romantic and with good sense of humor. A man that walks through the world always keeping me and our relationship as a priority in mind. Thank you for sharing this video 💖
i love a man who is emotional intelligent, resilient, strong and well mannered. I dont like wusses and who lacks of consistency
Ombretta F well said I love this type of man too
You're talking about liberals. Bwaha ha ha
I stopped dating because I can't date women who look like men. Give me a conservative, Godly, tough conservative anyday. Crying men who FEEL more than me may be attractive to a feminists who wants to dominate them into submission, but for me, it makes me wanna vomit,
I’m looking for exactly the same kind of man.
You are looking for a woman then...😆😆
1) not just only saying it but also showing their love
2) being assertive
3) being smart (a know-how), but not a bragger, and humorous
4) responsibly sociable to people of all walks of life
5) save the best for last: being godly :)
Resistance, stability, perseverance, kindness when appropiate and humor makes a man in my eyes attractive and masculine.
That's sexyy
Foremost reliability. If a Man is a person of his Word. And when he cannot deliver admit that beforehand ofc if thats not a bs.
Chuck And what most men find attractive is a whore with money.
And by getting older (the men), they even get worse.
@Chuck you seem pretty jaded
@Chuck Dude enough already, maybe if you got off the Internet long enough you'd see that there ARE women such as myself that have been with their man when he practically had nothing but his heart, soul, and his determination to better his life while living in a shack in the backyard of his brother's place that he built himself. When I was with my man when I first met him, we both didn't know what we had. We were too young to appreciate it back then, but now that we came back together even have a beautiful son together we can appreciate it more. Looking back I'm proud of the man I have by my side, I'm lucky EVERY DAMN DAY that he chose me to be the woman he comes home to everyday. I was proud of him back then too, I was just too young to realize. Nobody on this damn planet is perfect, but my man is perfectly imperfect to me and I love and am IN LOVE with every flaw he has because it's what makes him a beautiful soul to me.
So my point is that those women ARE out there, you just have to be ready and willing to see it and receive it.
Taking responsibility, funny, being helpful, being a gentleman, attentive and eyecontact, remembering things about me, paying attention to visual details (my dress, hair etc) , generosity
I apply every single one of these to what I’m attracted to in a man.
Consistency is a big one for me as well. I enjoy when a man does specific things to get me and continues those things to keep me 😊
One of the greatest mindset for me is that he knows who he is and is not in competition with me about everything..Safety for me inspires me also.to be more open and vulnerable with him.
5 Mindset I love in men.
1. A Leader. Someone who protects and lead. His words and actions are reliable.
2. Good Provider/ Generous.
3. A man who listens to my advice or atleast to my request and values it.
4. A man of God.
5. A man who gives time.
That is my man
Great video ! Thanks ! I may not be good at telling this....ummm.....dunno mindset but the following are the kind of men i like:-
1. Consistent
2. Man of words
3. Easy going
4. Well behaved
5. Polite
6. Who compromises and sacrifices etc.
Gentleness. There's nothing stronger than that.
I just cannot skip a video of yours Mathew Boggs!! You say the most helpful advice!💐The most attractive thing in a man in my opinion is when he makes a woman feels that no matter what terrible things life throws at us he is my strong rock!💛when I feel down he makes me smile again and so when he is feeling down I would do whatever it takes to make him feel better and support him like he does for me.As a woman I am more sensitive and more overwhelmed with the bad news I see on tv and I feel terrified because in my country we have a terrible situation but he supports me and makes me feel better and stronger.If a man won't support me at very critical moment in my life and instead makes things more scarry to me I would totally leave him and take charge of my life,I think that's what happened in my past relationship.I preferred to be in depression by myself than to suffer from a lack of attention and him being distant and the type that's scared to show emotions and avoids me.
Dania Dessine I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Things I want in my man
1- Empathy & kindness
2- Someone whom I can trust with my feelings & secrets, I'd like him to not reshare them with others
3- doer, not a talker
4- good sense of humor, turning tense situations to laughable ones
5- respect my desire to be left alone when I need to & not feeling left out
A strong sense of purpose and fulfillment in his work, kindness, leadership, disciplined, respectful of women, plans dates, clear in his intentions, not manipulative or dishonest.
Honesty, kindness, sense of humour, confidence, passion for life, reliability, ability to show their vulnerability, sensitivity, compassion, enthusiasm, open mindedness.....
Someone who is honest about his feelings and not afraid to say whats on his mind. Also protectiveness is very attractive to me but also a family man and caring for the ones he loves and is closest to.
I think I found that with the guy im seeing now, he is amazing and all this and it feels so right to be with him.
Lucky you dear. All the best
👍You are Lucky!Wish you all the best😀
Thank you for making these videos! I finally found a great man. He’s 10 years older than me and I’m watching your videos every day to become a better version of myself. I want to spend the rest of my life with him 💕
Patience, kindness and being generous
@Chuck lol you're right Chuck
Taking responsibility and owning it. Certainty in knowing what they want in life and who they want in life.
A positive attitude in men is so refreshing! No whining or pity parties! Sure let's bear one another's burdens but a healthy attitude is so good.
A man who will suggest activities based on what he knows both of you like, and not always leave it up to you to tell him 💜
Someone who knows what they want in life, hard working for a better life, gentle with you and humorous
What’s highly attractive to me in a man is his ability to own his opinion even if it differs from mine. Secure in himself and looks at mistakes as opportunities for growth. Also an openness and willingness to listen and consider other peoples’ opinions. Willingness to be inclusive of me into his social and familial circles. Clear with his boundaries and being assertive. Having zest and passion for interests in his life , and actively nurturing his spiritual emotional social and physical wellness and growth.
I love the mindset of a protective man, one that is there to solve my problems or at the very least help and support me.
Hmm I also get that warm feeling of having someone solve my problems, but now I see it as a sign of codependency. I don't think that desire is beneficial anymore.
A man with an open heart who is available to connect w you & wants to please you, who treats you with kindness & respect for your feelings. Someone who is confident in who they are but also is able to be vulnerable... that’s sexy. And yes- having a sense of humor, being able to laugh at life & not take it too seriously... that’s the best. That playful joy can make it all feel better.
Oh and someone who listens & hears what you’re saying and cares.
Thanks a lot Mathiew!!!!!
For me, I love it when a man has a sense of direction in everything he does. One who knows what he wants, why he wants it and sets himsekf to get.
I love men who take responsibility for their actions. Men who keep to their words by doing what they say.
I love men who are ambitious, yet ready to assist and worry for others when need be.
I love men who are respectful of others even when they don't believe in the same things like them.
And last but not the least, I love men who appreciate having fun from time to time and do funny things, even if they do not have a sense of humour.
1. Strength, leadership.
2. Good communication, actually pushes me to communicate...
3. Respectable.
4. Honest.
5. Protective.
Oscar Williamson That is so sweet thank you very much! 💕
Protector, provider, leader, responsible, and sense of humor
The most attractive mindset in a man for me is being in a position to understand and forgive in case I go wrong...The Video is awesome, I have actually highlighted the areas that I should go an extra mile. I really appreciate!
Clarity, communication, commitment and career
When he is honest and does not withhold anything from me. Makes himself vulnerable to me and has a great sense of humour as well
Consistency.. initiative, humble, caring, honesty are the things that attracts me to men✨🙏❣️
Mindsets in men that attract me are being decisive, assertive, caring, and generous
Sense of humor- joyfulness- confidence- connection to god- good taste, especially in fashion and food- compassion- humbleness- not a racist and against racism- vulnerability- ability to express and show love and admiration- respect- honesty- straightforwardness- kindness - courage- sensibility- ability to admit to their mistakes and to apologize when wrong.
Men
Honesty
Respect
Generosity
Loyalty
Courage
100%
Watching your videos is like my therapy 😭 I open RUclips and the suggested videos are always what I need to hear👏🏽 god bless you!
All I want from a men is RESPECT!!
Thanks Mat. Humor, caring and generosity are some of my most favorite mindsets of men.
When they don't wig out, are cool under pressure, sense of humor, a gentleman
Being Promising , being consistent with the behaviour through which they initiated in a woman’s life are significant mindsets that could make men attractive for women.
A great sense of humor is a must, they can laugh at themselves and don’t take themselves so seriously.
Is ambitious and knows what he wants.
Is self aware and is open about who he is.
Cheryl Brunk I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
Matt you have been talking directly to me the last 2 videos...you asked what women find attractive in a man. Well I will speak for me. I find it very attractive for a man to be confident and strong. To just ask me out . Especially if he knows we have a lot in common...movies, music, church, hiking or just going for a walk. Additionally, my family is huge for me. My family has to approve of him before I will fully commit. I don't know when this needs to happen or how.
Initiative, honesty, compassion and humor.
What an amazing video! That first part talking about being able to turn big issues into nothing was great. I just realized that’s a must for my next relationship. My ex is a great man with many qualities but he would get so worked up and frustrated with every little inconvenience and I realize now how much anxiety that created for me. Thanks for this video!
Mindsets in men I find attractive:
-Passionate: if you're excited, I'm happy and excited, too. Yay, experiences!
-A confident mindset. If you can walk into a room like you own it and then own it without a scene, then, I want to be around you.
-Humorous: life happens. If you laugh at it when you can it happens less painfully sometimes. Plus, keep me laughing overall and I'll stick around.
-A chivalrous mindset: I'm capable of a lot, but I've made an effort to joyfully receive. I'm a business major a single 32 year old with no children, and I'm uniformed services. I've grown to love chivalry, it makes me feel special and treasured. ❤❤
Being understanding, patient, has a lot of respect to everything about me, sweetness and having sense humor 👌🏼
@mathewboggs you should interview your wife on how she raised her standards and her influences to be a high value woman! ❤
1. Intelligence
2. When a man me feel like a women
3. Accountable for his actions
2. Caring, thoughtful
3. Ambitious, established, knows what he wants, knows himself
4. When we get each other’s humor
5. Gentle
Kindness, honesty and a sense of humor.
Attractive in a man: thoughtfulness, concern for their own & others wellbeing, and remembering things about us.
I love a man who knows what he wants and takes charge of his life. Confidence is key👌🏿
Honesty,Loving ,Well Planned,Kindness etc
U r the best dating coach on whole RUclips
You guys know...he's is just making this up. Kindness with solid boundaries/confidence...do not over give. Be fun and playful.
Vulnerability, loyalty, and integrity
understands a woman, has a good sense of humor, humble, not afraid to take risks, will make us feel safe, most importantly - romantic
What I find attractive in a man, is confidence & intelligence & sense of humour .A man who is able to express his vulnerable side . Honesty, kindness & being real are attributes I find highly attractive !
Dignity, integrity , consistency, witty and protective
Yoon Tran I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, whatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to that Genius, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Text/Call/WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.
The qualities I find attractive in a (my) man:
1). Hard Working - Saw this quality in my grandpa growing up.
2). Kindness - Opens my heart for deeper connection.
3). Humorous - Sometimes you need to laugh to feel better and enjoy life.
4). Emotionally in tough with feelings - Very few men are raised to access this part of themselves. A lot of healing can come from this.
5). Good Energy - If the vibe meshes with mine…..it’s a wonderful connection.
It’s difficult to list only five. Other qualities that are just as important that should be standard:
Honest, loyal, respectful.
My guy has all of these qualities and more! He is working on the emotional development. I always am. He is tapped in and willing to grow. ♥️ 🙏🏽
Confidence, spontaneity, proud of being with me, protecting of me, has his act together at home and in his career, kind to animals and children, fun and carefree.
Hey Matt. I think the reason you're such an effective life coach is coz you're a genuinely good person.
We woman wants these too to our men
I loved this video! Thank you! One of the most attractive thing in a man for me is how he makes me feel like I’m the only one in the room when we are together.
A man that's humble, warm hearted, one that doesnt cheat lol, one that's funny, & and knows how to communicate.
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Sense of humor, take charge attitude, good cook, take you everywhere, caring
he finds humor in every down fall or bad situation.
he's cool headed.
he's emotionally mature. hes not throwing temper tantrums at the females in his life when hes mad.
I like a man with intelligence. Even if I don't know much about the topic he's talking about, I love learning something new. I like a man who is compassionate, similar to the kindness attraction. Sense of humor is always a must
Confidence,good manners sense of humour, and shows affection
I think a man is attractive when he calls to find out how your doing , making sure your okay,asks about your day , ask on how you feel , take responsibility for his actions, says sorry and really mean it , a man who tries and never give up , one who supports you and help you make the right decisions, one who sacrifices his time and tasks to make that special person happy , a man who is loyal , a man who understand or tries to understand what a woman is going through , even when we ( women ) are angry he don't just walk away but makes sure we cheer up , one who understand what we want and don't want and they also respect that fact , one who has humour and dignity and self care and trustworthiness and leadership and smart and intelligence ,a man that is able to see the difference between the two and understand that we were not made perfect .
I just wanted to thank you for your honest and open channel without feeling as if you trying to sell something.