How to Stage Your Home For Living

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  • Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
  • Most of the time while staging our home for sale, I wondered why we had never put in the effort to stage our home for living. Consider setting aside a weekend to stage your house for living. It will take some intentional effort. But in the end, your home just may look better than the day you bought it. And maybe, just maybe, it could be a little bit of fun too.
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  • @JoshuaBecker
    @JoshuaBecker  2 года назад +17

    Hey guys! Just wanted to let you know that my new book, Things That Matter, is finally here. I put my heart into it, and I can’t wait to share it with you. You can pick up a copy at www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/676394/things-that-matter-by-joshua-becker/

  • @tgayer1
    @tgayer1 3 года назад +157

    I had this realization a while back that people fix up their houses for someone else to enjoy. I wanted to enjoy it myself, so after some major decluttering, I recently had my home exterior painted and had new landscaping put in. Now I have pride in myself and my home, and I get to experience living in a beautiful home! Now, gotta go clean my bathroom!

  • @potatoking8759
    @potatoking8759 3 года назад +622

    1:36 Remove 1/3 of your possesions
    2:10 Find a home for everything
    3:15 Declutter surfaces
    3:58 Personalize your decorations
    5:02 Deep clean the bathroom
    5:50 Curb appeal (the exterior)
    6:47 Deep clean the house
    7:25 Tackle minor projects and repairs
    7:56 Tackle major projects

    • @serendipityshopnyc
      @serendipityshopnyc 3 года назад +38

      Thank you. That saved me a lot of time. I often find this speaker, while not wrong, goes on at length without telling me anything I didn't already know.

    • @potatoking8759
      @potatoking8759 3 года назад +46

      @@serendipityshopnyc I listen at 1.5x speed and that works fine ;)

    • @robbiefromabq2400
      @robbiefromabq2400 3 года назад +12

      Potato King thanks so much, just looking for tips. You helped.

    • @StephL1111
      @StephL1111 3 года назад +26

      @@potatoking8759 I do the same thing! Some folks get the 1.75x treatment. It's hard for me not being able to speed up the tv sometimes for the people who. take. too. long. to. get. to. their. point! LOL

    • @ppier77
      @ppier77 3 года назад +5

      @@serendipityshopnyc My thoughts too. We all know this stuff.

  • @rebeccawhite9379
    @rebeccawhite9379 2 года назад +23

    My siblings did all this for our parents home when they were elderly. They really enjoyed it, they are passed now and we are so happy we could do that for them.

  • @jordanjeppsen
    @jordanjeppsen 3 года назад +85

    Each evening we do a 1-minute quick clean. Our family of five spends 1 minute in each room, cleaning up and putting things away. However! Because we have five people cleaning, we actually turn one minute into five minutes. It's genius!

  • @jamesferrell336
    @jamesferrell336 3 года назад +350

    I remember, when I fixed my house up to sell then I really didn't want to sell it.

    • @deb9806
      @deb9806 3 года назад +13

      That happens more than you think! I read a FB post from someone who told a friend "you'd never recognize our home, it's so nice" She was selling for a job lol

    • @vanessamay3689
      @vanessamay3689 3 года назад +6

      🤣
      That’s how I feel.

    • @lorraineturton4485
      @lorraineturton4485 3 года назад +18

      Interesting comment. It seems like fixing up a place re-ignites one's own interest in their property. I have heard of that as well.

    • @deniseherud
      @deniseherud 3 года назад +7

      I'm feeling this. After all the effort I put into this house, anything I look at can't compare, so I find myself frustrated and angry. It's like, if I'm going to be paying more than what my house is worth, better damn well **look** worth it! And so far, not happening.....

    • @lorraineturton4485
      @lorraineturton4485 3 года назад +6

      @@deniseherud I knew two people who had the same feelings, they ended up re-decorating their houses and staying there. They had looked for an entire year to find something comparable and could never obtain that. Of course, the reason for the move can be vital, in those cases one was retired and one was close to retirement. All the best to you whatever you choose to do Denise Herud. :-)

  • @JJ-cx8gl
    @JJ-cx8gl 3 года назад +226

    This is THE best video you have done.. my husband and I have this mindset and we have done improvements so we can enjoy them now. We are blessed and (hopefully) are living in our forever home. Thank you for this reminder.. Stage your home for living. confession: still need to remove 1/3 of the possessions... still a work in progress.

    • @JoshuaBecker
      @JoshuaBecker  3 года назад +27

      Glad it was helpful. You've got this!

    • @evelynbatton650
      @evelynbatton650 2 года назад +2

      I like that. I have always thought that's a good idea

  • @MrsThollo
    @MrsThollo 3 года назад +321

    I always say some people just need to clean up. They don't need a bigger house, they need less stuff! Lol

    • @KittyClark4433
      @KittyClark4433 3 года назад +9

      Aint it the truth!

    • @franceslovato9842
      @franceslovato9842 3 года назад +4

      Exactly.

    • @instantsiv
      @instantsiv 3 года назад +15

      Yup, I recently repainted my parents kitchen cabinets and they always said that they need a bigger kitchen... After taking everything out of the cabinets I'd estimate easily over 50% of the cabinet space was taken up by decorative dishes/cups that are never used or old junk that hasn't been touched in years. Counters were cluttered with stuff that could easily fit in that 50%+ cabinet space.

    • @AskDrJana
      @AskDrJana 3 года назад

      @@KittyClark4433 687uu9 Turn down

    • @KittyClark4433
      @KittyClark4433 3 года назад

      @@AskDrJana ?

  • @AkS143joyful
    @AkS143joyful 3 года назад +27

    This advice is great. We live this way and it is phenomenal. It takes us a few minutes each day to put things away. But he is right everything needs a home and most things that don't can go. Today was a really great day. We helped someone else declutter, our neighbor. She was overwhelmed with her garage. My husband and I offered to take to goodwill whatever she placed out of her garage. We did and she was in tears after, she just needed encouragement and someone to help take it. Now that we can help others, we feel so grateful. Thanks Joshua for your motivation!

    • @anitacerny7626
      @anitacerny7626 3 года назад +7

      That is beautiful ! I wish more people were kind like that . The elderly especially need a helping hand . Most often their grown children live out of town and are unable to tackle large decluttering projects . Way to go bringing someone else joy and peace of mind!

    • @lilysgram5886
      @lilysgram5886 2 года назад +2

      That is so nice of you and your husband!
      It gets harder to do when you become older.

  • @kritikitti3868
    @kritikitti3868 3 года назад +260

    Has bern said, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks", however our dog taught my husband to put his socks in the dirty clothes, not on the floor. Rosie ate socks left on the floor. Good dog! Rosie😸

    • @PatriotB0t1947
      @PatriotB0t1947 3 года назад +1

      @Kritikitti... there was no need to comment this

    • @AGM-ts5bb
      @AGM-ts5bb 3 года назад +3

      😄

    • @patriciareed3510
      @patriciareed3510 3 года назад +8

      @@PatriotB0t1947
      ~If everthing is ok with you, you’d have no NEED to make others wrong.

    • @muushii
      @muushii 3 года назад +8

      Good girl Rosie!

    • @songbirdforjesus2381
      @songbirdforjesus2381 3 года назад +13

      Laughing!!! Too funny. Our sons dog taught my grandaughters to put away Barbies that way. Bitten off feet only....

  • @alfienykabutler5919
    @alfienykabutler5919 3 года назад +124

    Okay, I've been meditating how to make my home a retreat instead of needing to vacation. This video helped so much. Thx brother.

  • @tildenchild2360
    @tildenchild2360 3 года назад +13

    Totally agree with this video. Value your own family enough to have a lovely, ordered, repaired home for them.

  • @Soo_Blessed
    @Soo_Blessed 3 года назад +103

    One of the smartest things you can do is if your house is minimal it's not going to cost that much for somebody to come in and clean it if you and your husband go out and eat or go on vacation you spend money all the time have someone to come in and clean your home It is not that great a luxury as people think There's nothing better than coming in after your house is clean and fresh it saves you so much stress and if you're not getting around to it or you don't want to clean in those places there's someone that needs the money so just do it
    You will never regret it.
    I believed to have someone clean your home and cut your yard are two of the best stress relievers there is unless you love doing it yourself and you have the time

    • @lorraineturton4485
      @lorraineturton4485 3 года назад +3

      Your idea is a really good one. There are cleaning businesses that often have good "whole house cleaning" specials. They usually can offer non-scented products too, which is good if you are selling as it guarantees no scent allergy issues :-)

    • @alifewithluna4134
      @alifewithluna4134 3 года назад +1

      I never thought of doing this, but I love this idea! I’m treating myself to this!

    • @ammumeme5789
      @ammumeme5789 3 года назад +6

      I like to cook occasionally but not every day. Both my husband and I work long hours, but we want to have fresh, home cooked meals. So we have somebody come in to cook and clean the kitchen afterwards. We are not rich, but we splurge on this so we free up time to do other things we want to do. I cook often, but only when I want to and not as a chore.

    • @anne-marieesnos9402
      @anne-marieesnos9402 3 года назад +9

      I could not agree more. Having somebody clean your house/apartment even if it is only once a month is the best decision you will ever make. It is the best return on investment. And do not clean with the cleaner, no, go for a walk, a coffee, meet a friend. For me, this was a life changer, the closest thing to luxury. I would rather have somebody doing chores for me than have a car. I do not have a car, I live downtown, I do not need one. Thanks for the nice videos.

    • @ef4zsv
      @ef4zsv 3 года назад +1

      @@ammumeme5789 Nice and smart too. Good for you!

  • @stacihartman48
    @stacihartman48 3 года назад +30

    LOVE these tips! When we sold our last home after 12 yrs of living in it we had a lot of little projects to do to make it look just right to show. Nothing that was major or expensive, just a little time consuming. When we were finished I was so upset with myself that I hadn’t done those things years sooner so that we could enjoy how nice everything looked.

  • @aimeebernadettedesmond7096
    @aimeebernadettedesmond7096 3 года назад +67

    This is so great! My husband and I moved two years ago and staged out old apartment. We liked how it looked so much than now we only have those “staged” items in our new home... friends often say it looks “staged” but nobody ever mentions minimalism ... because it’s still lived in and homey. My husband refers to it as our “set”.

  • @funnymemos3056
    @funnymemos3056 3 года назад +93

    Loved this one! I’m in my seventies and this this the truth. When I retired I sold my home and now I rent. Life is so much easier after downsizing.

    • @patriciajohnsonson8639
      @patriciajohnsonson8639 3 года назад +19

      cindy How did you adjust to your downsized home? Was it a major mental adjustment? My husband and I are in our upper 60s and we are looking at downsizing in the next few years. I am having issues with that thought. I know it is inevitable but I kind of dread leaving my home. We raised our family in this home.

    • @rvista6956
      @rvista6956 3 года назад +18

      @@patriciajohnsonson8639 Helped my parents downsize. They had a LOT of stuff. Created a photo album just for the house. Photos at every angle with the old and new landscaping. Photos of the contents of the China hutch. Which we also used to sell on Craig's List. Helped them choose pieces for their new smaller rental and sold or donated the rest. They resisted letting stuff go in the beginning. By the end they said a heavy weight had been lifted. They love their new life. They just had not been able to visualize the process to get there. Take baby steps. De-clutter and create a memory photo album to start. Best wishes if you decide to make this journey.

    • @patriciajohnsonson8639
      @patriciajohnsonson8639 3 года назад +11

      R Vista I am minimizing. I started about. A year ago. My parents left us with a lot of stuff to rid of and I don’t want to do that to my children. We have a home in Illinois and a condo in Indiana. I am stream lining both homes. The Condo so was easy but the home we have lived in for 30 years. Thank you for the suggestion of photos of the home we will be one day leaving. That’s a great idea. I just hope one day when I am in my smaller home, I am not crying as I look at the pictures and wish I were still in the bigger home.😄

    • @cherylkeys1284
      @cherylkeys1284 3 года назад +17

      To Patricia-We dragged our feet on downsizing but finally did it. Getting rid of stuff was so freeing. Within 2 days of our move I realized how much easier and calmer it was living in a smaller space. I exclaimed to my husband, “ We should have done this sooner!” Set aside your fear and prepare for a new adventure.

    • @garypuckettmuse
      @garypuckettmuse 3 года назад +4

      @@patriciajohnsonson8639 Do it now. You may be surprised at how different you feel in your mid-70's than you do in your late 60's, first of all. Second,, it's good to live for today and tomorrow not yesterday. Sometimes lingering around in an environment which has lived out its usefulness instead of moving into a space that meets one's needs today is more of a drag than we realize until we make the move. No one ever says they are so miserable after downsizing and going through all their "stuff" and unburdening themselves. Everyone says they are delighted and wish they had done it sooner. Ask around. That said, the "dread" can definitely be doing the work to dig out and prepare a house for sale ugh! But again, better sooner than later when it's only going to be harder. Good luck.

  • @cherylannjohnson8801
    @cherylannjohnson8801 3 года назад +46

    It always amazes me what people will put up with in their home and then fix those things when they get ready to sell. Pretty sad really...

    • @adamarlem9863
      @adamarlem9863 3 года назад

      @@claratexeira2554 it is a start?

    • @oldcountryman2795
      @oldcountryman2795 3 года назад +1

      It is both sad and disgusting.

    • @oldcountryman2795
      @oldcountryman2795 3 года назад +1

      @@claratexeira2554 Yes. I look down on people who live like pigs.

    • @adamarlem9863
      @adamarlem9863 3 года назад +1

      @@oldcountryman2795 true for the obvious that something is wrong, but maybe you have problems they do not, nor have you lived their life. Be grateful :)

    • @oldcountryman2795
      @oldcountryman2795 3 года назад

      @@adamarlem9863 Sure 1 in 100. The other 99 would just rather watch TV then take care of their house.

  • @debramorris3329
    @debramorris3329 3 года назад +7

    I’ve always said the same thing. If you have to fix it up, fix it up for yourself not for somebody else.

  • @elenascarmagnan1713
    @elenascarmagnan1713 3 года назад +12

    I helped a mum get rid of 60% of her stuff to get ready to sell. Her children loved it and said “why didn’t we do it sooner mum?” ❤️

  • @juanitaturner7019
    @juanitaturner7019 3 года назад +46

    Stage your home for Living. I totally agree with that statement.

    • @johnfd0210
      @johnfd0210 3 года назад

      We really need to be told that? Isn't (living there) the purpose of our home anyway; mine is, at least.

  • @EllyKallan
    @EllyKallan 3 года назад +10

    I thought I was the only weird one. I stage my house all the time but everything is used and lived. TFS!

  • @TheDriftwoodlover
    @TheDriftwoodlover 3 года назад +73

    So true. Doesn’t this apply to other areas of life too? We do for others often what we don’t give ourselves (compassion, charity, etc.). When I sold my condo 21 years ago to buy a house, all my friends commented how great it looked and why was I leaving it (indoor parking and laundry) because I had done all those things. In process of doing it again for myself. Thanks Joshua for reminding us what’s important. (P.S. it’s easier to keep the place cleaner and get to the little projects once you’ve minimized because you don’t have the impediment of shifting so much stuff to get to it, plus you have more time.)

    • @debbiemohekey1509
      @debbiemohekey1509 3 года назад +4

      When you're ready to move your house generally looks just like you always wanted it to. Painted, new or cleaned carpets, decluttered, furniture rearranged and when you get to new place its always easier and quicker to clean cos you've not had time to fill it up yet with new purchases you've been unable to resist.

  • @kelseyd4196
    @kelseyd4196 3 года назад +49

    Yeeeessss! I loved every word of this! This video is getting sent to any of my family and friends who are feeling tired, overwhelmed and stressed in their homes! We sold our home 6 years ago and did EXACTLY what you said! What a shame! Our home and property looked so sweet and inviting! We should have be able to enjoy that all 10 years we lived there. Now in our current home, I've been simplifying and following your tips and The Minimal Mom's... and it is incredibly peaceful and super easy to maintain every day! Before covid, several visitors would say, "You know, I thought it was gonna feel cold and empty in here. But actually, it's so peaceful and open! Your little house feels roomy and relaxing!!" Win for minimalism!

  • @alexandra109
    @alexandra109 3 года назад +19

    This was true for me and my car too. My last car when I went to sell, I did an amazing deep clean on the interior, washing mats, etc. It was never that clean the entire time I had it.

  • @intentionallycreatingmylif2281
    @intentionallycreatingmylif2281 3 года назад +127

    We thought of downsizing, but it would have cost more than staying where we are! Instead we have been remodelling to make our home easier to manage and we added a covered patio. I’m loving my ‘new home.’ ❤️
    Great insight as usual Joshua... I would have liked to see your hands cleaning the bathroom! 😉

  • @NLY1WAY4U
    @NLY1WAY4U 3 года назад +37

    You are so on target Joshua. I lived in 21 different home before I was 18, my Dad was a carpenter. Mom kept them minimal and ready for moving. Loved the relaxing atmosphere of a minimal home!

  • @evelynsaungikar3553
    @evelynsaungikar3553 3 года назад +3

    Sometimes you stop seeing the grime, clutter and broken things. A cheap way to see them, is take a picture and then flip it (mirror). Suddenly everything becomes visible!

  • @sandypowell8306
    @sandypowell8306 3 года назад +45

    Thank you Joshua for another great video! I just wanted to add that when you remove that 1/3 of your belongings *or more* to sell, and the prospective buyers walk through saying it's so nice and airy, it's because all that stagnant energy is gone! 🤭

  • @sheilaenglish7329
    @sheilaenglish7329 3 года назад +221

    Stage your home for Living. What an interesting perspective to take and a great idea.

  • @mskrislewis
    @mskrislewis 2 года назад +1

    A house fire removed 1/3 of our possessions. After 7+ years living an a fire damaged house, my husband says he will build me a tiny house. I am continuing to downsize, only keeping what we need! I am not sure how many families have the time to deep clean. I try to deep clean 1 time/year. I call it multi-tasking doing Spring and Fall cleaning all at the same time!

  • @susanathomson3967
    @susanathomson3967 2 года назад +1

    I live in Spain, where the tradition was yo show the whole house to new visitors (Friends and family). I used to hate It as a kid and stopped doing It as an adult. I'm finding, howeve, that this tradition helped us keep our homes perfectly "staged" so any unexpected visit would find It clean and ordered.

  • @ClaudiaMartinez-pj5xd
    @ClaudiaMartinez-pj5xd 3 года назад +9

    I like your approach, make your home great for you and your family, not for others. Some of the books and videos I have seen regarding decluttering place too much emphasis on having the home ready for company. But truly, you should have a home that is great for the people who live there.

  • @AngelCel227
    @AngelCel227 3 года назад +36

    I've often wondered how many people stage for selling after realtor's advice ... and then find they don't want to move any more. Sometimes 'we can't see the wood for the trees'.

    • @DebrasBeautifulMusic
      @DebrasBeautifulMusic 3 года назад +3

      That kinda happened to us! We sold our house to ourselves after showing it!! Realized what we had after all that staging and deep cleaning and decided to stay.

    • @AlexandraLynch1
      @AlexandraLynch1 3 года назад +2

      After living with a hoarder, I'm very fond of having a house where I can clean it up enough to have a female relative visit me (ladies will understand this) within about 15 minutes. And most of that is sweeping up after the cats, who don't understand that kibbles can stay in the food dish and it's not necessary to dig to China and fling litter over the entire house in order to do your business.

  • @kritikitti3868
    @kritikitti3868 3 года назад +165

    One more good idea. Train every family member to put their stuff away..or else! I speak from 3 children/1 husband experience.😸

    • @MonieMuse
      @MonieMuse 3 года назад +18

      How do you get your husband to do it w out nagging? Lol asking for a friend 😆

    • @daisybuchanan5378
      @daisybuchanan5378 3 года назад +6

      I’ve been trying that for many years ! I have not succeeded.

    • @loripark6391
      @loripark6391 3 года назад +5

      @@daisybuchanan5378 Throw it away or sell it(within reason). My aunt did that to my cousin. Once they realize it's not gonna work in their favor, they'll pick it up or you'll make some cash!

    • @11nica5
      @11nica5 3 года назад +5

      If you leave things on the floor and or “store” them on surfaces after 1-week I will throw it away. PERIOD

    • @redheadjp5267
      @redheadjp5267 3 года назад +6

      If my kids didn’t put toys away I would put them in a box (jail) and they had to do a small chore to get them out. My husband, ugg! He’s very good about kitchen and living areas but I gave up after 26 years 😂 and still clean up in our bedroom/bathroom.

  • @deb9806
    @deb9806 3 года назад +12

    My coworker had to rent a pod to sell his home and used his MIL home (she reminded him often he was picking up that clutter back up!) He thought later, did he really need all that? Sometimes seeing it all together is a wake-up call

  • @leomortimer2565
    @leomortimer2565 3 года назад +2

    Great video! As new home owner, it was difficult to take your advice. Our condo was built in 1996. We are the third owners. The hot water tank, furnace & AC, and carpet are all original. None of the previous owners wanted to invest in the upkeep or maintenance. Both bathrooms and kitchen are old and need updated as does the windows.
    Originally we wanted to focus on paying off the mortgage as fast as possible as Dave Ramsey suggests, but we decide that we want to tackle a major repair or update each year and enjoy living in our condo. We replaced the hot water tank, replacing the entire carpet and pad throughout condo, and upgrading both bathroom and kitchen floors. Possibly get new AC & furnace this year as well.
    Next year we will update our kitchen since that's a bigger and more expensive project. We want to enjoy living in our condo while we are here. Don't want to fix it up for someone else to enjoy!

  • @LittlePrairieLibrary
    @LittlePrairieLibrary 3 года назад +10

    My husband and I were planning to move for about a year, so we've been working on fixing up things we didn't like. We're still not done, but we've also decided to stay put in this house for another few years, so now we're working to make our house the way that we want it!

  • @castanedagus
    @castanedagus 2 года назад +2

    Totally agree with you on all aspects!
    Two weeks ago I hired a pro to completely tear apart and redo my back patio. I’m using that as the starting point to get my house ready-to-live-in-it with style
    I shared it with my mom who passed away last year. She believed in “ if it’s not broke why fix it “! And she would not allow me to spend on anything major nor would she get it done herself. So I lived in misery and lack of my own style
    I’m moving forward and not looking back. Thank you for this motivation I’m glad I found your channel
    Greetings from Los Angeles

  • @conniesoares157
    @conniesoares157 3 года назад +28

    My husband and I try to do each of these items. I love my house since I decluttered! A friend asked if I would be a host house for a Bible study because she knew my house did not have to be thoroughly cleaned because of the major decluttering. I know I need to do the window cleaning...will try to tackle that before your next video. Thanks for this great reminder Joshua!

  • @asianangel5400
    @asianangel5400 3 года назад +2

    I'm also in my 40s. My husband and I have been married for 20 and a half years. We have lived in several houses as well. We are a family of 4. Two teens and my hubby.. Im a minimalst and i have to have my home very tidy.
    We have sold and bought homes as well. The fastest we sold our home was in 17 hours because I know how to stage and God is awesome. I love staging so I knew how to sell the home fast.
    Great tips, I do all of these. Thanks for sharing.

  • @judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
    @judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 3 года назад +22

    I started FlyLady last month. I’ve come to like shining my sink and doing the nightly hot Spot/reset nightly. This is all good advice
    But I must disagree with you about cooking utensils. You didn’t seem to think people needed many things like measuring spoons or spatulas.
    I put the extras in quarantine, and then brought extras back out. For example, a recipe will say “Add 1 TBSP of oil to the chicken. Then add 1 TBSP if the seasoning. “. The purpose of the oil is to help the spices cling to the chicken. You aren’t going to put the oily spoon to go into the spice bottle. And it’s really taking the joy of cooking to stop and wash stuff. Not to mention the time increases. Sometimes, it’s the time between the dish burning while it’s cooking.

    • @DesertSingerAZ
      @DesertSingerAZ 3 года назад +2

      Love FlyLady! (Love Joshua, too!)

    • @laurahulland
      @laurahulland 3 года назад +1

      Me too! I started FlyLady on 1st September with Babysteps after following Steph on The Secret Slob! It’s a fantastic system isn’t it! I live in a show home now. Just shined my sink just now. 😉

    • @AllegedlyApril
      @AllegedlyApril 3 года назад

      I've been Flying for over 12 years and can attest to the wonderful approach she shares to reduce CHAOS. You won't regret following her advice. I am now buying a tiny home in a beautiful resort and am completely thrilled because I am not stressing about all of my stuff because I know everything will have a purpose and my environment will be easily managed through the habits I formed using Marla's advice. Definitely use the "babysteps" approach because burnout is a real thing. I still shine my sink and tackle hotspots along with doing all the rest (especially laying clothes out for the next day and having a launch pad, even though it is just myself). My FlyLady folder is still going strong (super durable!!) and is very versatile with what I choose to put in it. I could go on, but you get the idea 😉

    • @AllegedlyApril
      @AllegedlyApril 3 года назад

      Also, I wanted to address the extra tools (your example: measuring spoon) issue. The French have a term, which I'll copy from Wiki:
      Ingredients arranged in a home kitchen for a peanut brittle recipe

    • @marycoyne7395
      @marycoyne7395 3 года назад +3

      @@AllegedlyApril ??????

  • @aleithea2715
    @aleithea2715 3 года назад +7

    Great video as usual. You can always think of some topic that is not ‘run of the mill.’ I love the idea of staging my house for living in it. It makes so much sense. Every video is so professionally presented that it is always a satisfying experience, and are you aware that you are the personification of tranquility?

  • @rickwalker5203
    @rickwalker5203 Год назад

    Love this video!!! We just sold our 1,000 square foot home, sold and gave away about 40% of stuff. Moving into a 1,500 square foot home. Now everything has a place, decorating is so easy, what we enjoy is out and displayed, not hidden away.

  • @cristylynn53
    @cristylynn53 3 года назад +9

    "stage your home for living" I love this, I'm definitely going to have that in mind during my next declutter! Thank you 🙂

  • @davidandamandaboots
    @davidandamandaboots 3 года назад +14

    Words of wisdom! We worked our tails off 2 years ago to get our house ready for someone else to enjoy.😥 We vowed we'd never do that again! Working on #9 as we speak...a complete bathroom gutting and reno!

  • @mcalderhead
    @mcalderhead 3 года назад +3

    My favorite video on how to prepare your home for daily living. So many achievable tasks to reduce clutter & enjoy your home.

  • @kritikitti3868
    @kritikitti3868 3 года назад +32

    Sept 25, 2020. Cleaning out papers early this AM. Found a newspaper adticle dated Sept 25, 1995, titled "Voluntary Simplicity". I save some articles for inspiration; will keep this one. Minimalism has been going on forever, it just wasn't called that b4 da Tube. 😸😁 Keep on truckin'.

  • @virginiagrenier8572
    @virginiagrenier8572 3 года назад +61

    Isn't it amazing what we are willing to live with that we can not sell?

  • @anneworks
    @anneworks 3 года назад +4

    Yup, I didn’t even have to from the realtor because it was an easy sell but I repainted the bathroom and should’ve done it years ago. Now we’re living in a definitely unminimalistic home (To Dutch standards, probably modest to American standards). But it’s a place to share and host. It looked much better than it turned out in terms of paint, and that’s okay because it wasn’t to our taste. So no we’re slowly making it ours, with some help of friends at a social distance. And we’re following most of your advice in doing so. I’m going to think about decorations. I’m not into decor, but some pictures somewhere might be nice 😎

  • @suzannebramble6564
    @suzannebramble6564 3 года назад +18

    Thank you, this makes so much sense. My husband and I have a large, light filled bedroom that has not been decorated for 20+ years because we concentrate on other rooms! I would love it to be special BEFORE we decide to sell. You (as always) have motivated me...

  • @smoothsailingmp
    @smoothsailingmp 3 года назад +1

    Thank you. This was very good. We are retired. My husband put in new electrical thru out our home,garage and yard. (An electrician for 59 years , and certified with a lifetime teaching credential for the state of California....so it's A-1 condition) and I keep plants up and he the lawn. We were not going to do much of anything else, because we were going to move out of state to our son's area in Texas, but all has changed for different reasons, good reasons, not bad. So this concept sounds right to me. We can no longer do slot or afford slot, such as removing pop corn a, but we can freshen everything with paint . We have already removed slot of clutter, ( a little more to do....so just want to say we have to be thinking of our son and his family having to come from Texas after we're gone, and they would've had to deal with soooooo much more let alone all the paperwork and the "then" selling of our home....so I feel a great gift to them would be to do as much of it as we can now, before that time

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky1988 3 года назад +20

    Hi Joshua, we just painted two rooms in our house for this exact reason. It does take time and commitment and money but it’s worth it. For me it was getting over the hump of beginning the project....

  • @marjamesquire8141
    @marjamesquire8141 3 года назад +3

    This video came at THE RIGHT TIME for me because we just moved over the weekend into our dream house. I’m collecting things we really don’t want to donate

  • @lizh7210
    @lizh7210 3 года назад +48

    Strangely enough, I started ripping out my old tile countertops today- really don’t have a plan other than the inspiration to begin painting the cabinets. For 10 years I’ve lived with porous porcelain floor tiles on my countertops that were impossible to clean. I told my husband that we won’t be able to sell the house down the road (6-7 years) with this kitchen. I’m tired of seeing it daily. Thanks for the boost- I was beginning to regret my decision. ❤️

  • @jent.6622
    @jent.6622 3 года назад +1

    Joshua this is great.
    I have staged a home to sell and it is hard work, but it works.
    It is only now that I am at a place where I have become mindful of this very thing.. to stage my home for living.
    I have been working towards my version of minimalism and it is a constant work in progress.
    Now I have no excuse... I quit my job during a pandemic..how balsy was that..the audacity of me to do it..I was in no financial position to do it...my rationale was stay.... it would have become ugly and I would have torn down so many bridges, relationships and barriers that I have built or leave for the sake of my sanity and joy.
    I was so unhappy that I could not continue there and I have no regrets..I can spend my time living my version of my best life doing the things that I love on my own time..gardening, pets, my 1000 projects and DIY's.
    I never would have imagined that I would be this happy in my 60's no less..I feel like it is the new 40 for me.
    Thank you and bless you Joshua for continuing to inspire us.

  • @suzanneturley4433
    @suzanneturley4433 8 месяцев назад

    My husband and myself bought our Cottage to renovate in readiness for our retirement. It took a long over the years, but now my next door neighbour is pulling our work apart by making sure that she props rubbish against our boundary wall. We have noticed an increase mould or mildew. The last time this happened and we asked her politely to remove everything against the wall, she just laughed and said she has every intention of driving us out come ‘Hell or High Water. My husband is 76 and I am 70, and the stress is awful.

  • @wayfarinstranger2444
    @wayfarinstranger2444 3 года назад +7

    Repeat after me...."A place for everything and everything in its place"

    • @anitacerny7626
      @anitacerny7626 3 года назад

      And “Don’t put down , put away”!!! These are both great to grow up hearing because you can’t get them out of your head so you “complete the process “ without having to think about it. There is something of a decision fatigue when you let things pile up and delay decisions .... just do it now or pay much more dearly when there are mounds of clutter to be dealt with. Wishing everyone peace in their journey if retraining their minds and creating useful , and helpful habits of living .🕊

  • @marianreddy9848
    @marianreddy9848 2 года назад +3

    Absolutely profound! I am always decluttering and my husband is a hoarder, it's very frustrating! I'm trying to be patient and explain each video to him excitedly and he now asks me to send them to him. I am sure you will create a breakthrough for him!

  • @Christyi
    @Christyi 3 года назад +7

    Seeing this video made me feel good that we have finally gotten rid of close to one third of our stuff. And I have much less stress now! Tidying up is very quick. I have had that mindset for many years: to stage our house for living not moving. We've been doing one major project every year for the last 4 years. It's exciting to finally get things done!

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 3 года назад +6

    Great video. 🔥 I am going to pretend I am selling my home every day, and accomplish more tasks 💪🏼

  • @Shmu22
    @Shmu22 5 месяцев назад

    This makes sense ... I remember getting our house ready to sell once and then thinking our house wasn't so bad ... why did we want to move again ???

  • @xfaroutzx3637
    @xfaroutzx3637 3 года назад +1

    As someone who is very clean, has recently gone minimalist, believes in valuing and caring for everything I own and a domestic cleaner....i couldn't agree more.

  • @ambermik2940
    @ambermik2940 3 года назад +2

    I thought showing my home was gonna be so stressful with a family of 5 to keep it clean and put away, I kept being told how miserable it would be.....I found I was the least anxious I had been for years for those 3 or 4 weeks. There wasnt stuff everywhere, things were cleaned up and put away everyday, and there was space to move, to breath, to relax. Unfortunately we have now moved and clearly I was the only one that had this outlook.

  • @iamjane9628
    @iamjane9628 3 года назад +1

    This is the absolute truth. Taking all these steps will make you appreciate your home more and be grateful for what you already have.

  • @lucytitus2183
    @lucytitus2183 3 года назад +22

    Thank you Joshua! Taking care of our home shows gratitude and appreciation for having it! I feel happiness since I have decluttered my home. 🙏🏻

  • @MichelleF1320
    @MichelleF1320 3 года назад +16

    Love this topic. I love watching staging videos to get ideas even though I have no intention of selling.

  • @macsmiffy2197
    @macsmiffy2197 10 месяцев назад +1

    We call Realtors Estate Agents in the UK. They don’t come in and tell you what to do. Most buyers can use their imagination to see beyond other people’s clutter. I like to buy something a bit shabby, pay less and make it mine when I move in. Neither would this clinical environment feel ‘homely’ to me. I like my ‘stuff’! Each to their own.

  • @alcogito8287
    @alcogito8287 2 года назад

    The house across the street from mine just sold for twice what my identical one was appraised for four hears ago, and nearly $400K more than listing. It was painted inside, carpeted, staged and the garden was manicured and barked, but mostly it was immaculate! It showed wonderfully well and inspired me to have less stuff.

  • @Clutching.My.Pearls
    @Clutching.My.Pearls 3 года назад +2

    This quarantine has helped me walk around my house and really see it. I've staged my house, did the deep clean, moved pictures, revamped our bed, rearranged furniture, and can't believe the difference. Considering I thought our house was great before I made all these changes! Seriously great advice and it really didn't cost us anything.

  • @nonnasstitchingloungewithr7281
    @nonnasstitchingloungewithr7281 3 года назад +1

    I just bought a new place and am finally going to renovate and stage so we could live in it. We sold all of our old furniture. It is a clean slate now.

  • @lisab.1559
    @lisab.1559 3 года назад +6

    Then this pandemic hit....and everyone was up for minimizing, maximizing, home projects, cleaning out their homes, swimming pools, bicycles, home haircutting, prepping, homeschooling.....on and on. And here my family of 8, soon to be 9 have been doing it all and more for decades, already. I pray people, after this virus, see the value of focusing first on what truly matters. God, Family and Fun is our motto.

  • @sharonche5042
    @sharonche5042 3 года назад +21

    Such simple but wise advise. Now, let's get the notepad out and put together a room by room "things to do" list. 🦉

  • @bboggs1277
    @bboggs1277 3 года назад +3

    Great video and the advice is so true! I am in the real estate business and when I see a cluttered or dirty home it drains my energy. Some people live in homes so perfect it looks like they are staged. Being around organized people and seeing these videos is so inspiring!

  • @Sonya_Barnes_On_Move
    @Sonya_Barnes_On_Move 3 года назад +10

    Great tips! We already practice several of these, like a home for everything and tackling projects now, and it really does payoff in terms of mental health and peace. My home is my happy place!

  • @evelynwald9132
    @evelynwald9132 3 года назад +1

    You are so right on this. We just let let other things, excuses, work and procrastination get in our own way.

  • @suladaly3635
    @suladaly3635 4 месяца назад

    Watching this video while I am in the middle of cleaning to move to our first home and it makes a lot sense. Thank you for sharing your fantastic ideas. 🙏🙏

  • @sgueymard
    @sgueymard 3 года назад

    My phone definitely spies on me: I'm exactly doing these "10 top things" at the moment, and this video appears first...
    I decided to PRETEND i was selling in order to enjoy my place better. I'm even removing everything on the walls and making boxes, for the plaster guy and painter team. Also, i finally accepted to get rid of useless items that had sentimental values. It's quite stressful however, especially financially, but i will be happy to afterwards and enjoy my place a few years before i sell it!

  • @dbartz5510
    @dbartz5510 3 года назад +4

    We did our Fall, whole house, deep clean today. Then I sat down and watched this amazing video. Such a wonderful reminder. Thank you. 🙏 Now to tackle our staging list. 😍

  • @debbiek7193
    @debbiek7193 3 года назад +2

    I live that way all the time. Clean inviting user friendly calm pretty. 😊 I count so my home (apt) reflects that. I am worth the effort even if no one visits 😂

  • @kontinent1602
    @kontinent1602 2 года назад +1

    It´s like the same with our behaviour. In public, we appear to be the best versions of ourselves, but in real (everyday) life we don´t make any effort.

  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 3 года назад +3

    I thought that too, often people renovate their home to sell. Crazy!

  • @katc7332
    @katc7332 3 года назад +1

    We recently sold our home. It was staged beautifully. I left realizing I didn’t need so much furniture or items laying around. Our new home has been more intentional about what comes in. I’m still going through rooms & removing items. Storage unit has been dealt with finally! Keep up the great work! This one gives a different perspective!🤓

  • @staceykersting705
    @staceykersting705 2 года назад

    I do this a couple times a day. Main clutter's my bedside table. Easy to take 4-5 items back where they belong. If I enter the kitchen/bathroom and notice an item lying around, I put it away or rinse and stack in the sink. When I get 5-6 dishes in the sink, I wash them and wipe the counters. I can clean the usual in 10-15 min. Almost daily, I notice a dusty corner, or a grubby switch plate and wipe it down right away. Makes me feel as if I've accomplished something.

  • @missyblissy90
    @missyblissy90 3 года назад

    My husband and I flipped our first house in our early 20s and came to this realisation. It makes life so much more enjoyable - we would rather stay home than go on vacation because we just love our house so much more. Nothing needs repairing. Everything is to our taste. Its clean. Its us. Its so worth it (if you can) to put money back into where you live - you live there every single day, its your retreat from the world.

  • @MultiAnne36
    @MultiAnne36 3 года назад +1

    That's what I had to do to sell my house. I'm still amazed when I look at Zillow and see photos of houses all cluttered up.

  • @samantharowley125
    @samantharowley125 3 года назад +2

    Excellent idea! Homes look so nice before they are sold, but why not live that way? Great video.

  • @findingfrugal2093
    @findingfrugal2093 3 года назад +26

    Google is obviously listening to my conversations, because I'm selling my place, talking a lot about staging but also talking with my Mom about how much nicer everything looks when it's "staged" and how it makes you reconsider what you actually need in your home.

    • @JoshuaBecker
      @JoshuaBecker  3 года назад +4

      Good luck with selling your house and moving into your new home.

    • @currentresident
      @currentresident 3 года назад +4

      This is our situation, as well, and we keep finding ourselves saying things like "wow, I wish we would have done this ten years ago for us!"

  • @annatheawesome1
    @annatheawesome1 2 месяца назад

    Whenever we host an event we stage the house for our guests by streamlining, installing the new things we put off, rearranging to make things flow better and get the benefit of the upgrades afterwards! 🥳

  • @annarepke1118
    @annarepke1118 3 года назад +2

    We just did that! This video describes our goals exactly. All those years we put up with messy and undone! No more.

  • @magdaemmert
    @magdaemmert 2 года назад +1

    I’m a Realtor and I LOVE this video! Totally true! :)

  • @seaspeaktome9167
    @seaspeaktome9167 3 года назад +1

    We learned this after a few moves too. My husband spent one afternoon doing all the little minor fixes we’d put off for over a year and I deep cleaned. Afterward we both wondered why we didn’t do it ages ago for ourselves.

  • @rosiekeeble4189
    @rosiekeeble4189 3 года назад +1

    I watched 5 minutes of this the other day. We're nearly finished doing up our kitchen so the house is messy and dirty. I deep cleaned my bathroom and wondered why??? Until I was done. It has made a big difference

  • @nancysadewater964
    @nancysadewater964 Год назад

    I loved your ideas and they have echoed my own question of why fix it to sell it, but not to live in it daily. Thank you.

  • @GG-hr8yh
    @GG-hr8yh 2 года назад

    Growing up my dad used to say "Clean like your moving ". Love it. At least once a month.

  • @S_H9260
    @S_H9260 3 года назад +1

    I'm so bummed out, we're working on getting the house ready to sell right now and half of the things that have been on my wish list for years now, yep, they're getting done now for strangers.

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  • @paigesmith6898
    @paigesmith6898 3 года назад +1

    Brilliant video. Hubby & I have moved 8 times in our 23 yrs of marriage. I've had this same thought every time we've gone through the getting ready to sell phase. Thank you for the kick in the pants I needed to stop procrastinating!

  • @sakinahabdul-jaleel
    @sakinahabdul-jaleel 2 года назад

    Ahhhh!!!! I am an Interior Designer and I approve THIS AWESOME MESSAGE!

  • @marlenek3412
    @marlenek3412 3 года назад +3

    I stopped the video to clean our bathroom really well. ☺️ Always great information!

  • @gailtester8749
    @gailtester8749 3 года назад +22

    The first time you shared this concept a big light bulb went on in my head and I ran with it. Now I see it's time to do it again, but it's going to be a lot easier this time! Hey when I saw Kim open the tidy and minimal kitchen drawer it made me want to have her give us a kitchen tour of the insides of your drawers and cabinets.

  • @catd2543
    @catd2543 3 года назад +6

    Great advice 👍 I love being able to reset the house in 15 min. Now for a big project, new floors... I will have to do it before I sell, so might as well doing it now and enjoying it. Thanks