Let Go of Your Attachment to Them: How to Practice Non-Attachment in Your Relationships 🦋
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2022
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I missed you and hope this helps ❤
WE MISSED U ANGEL!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰 especially ur vlogs 😇
girl you have no idea how happy i was when i saw the notification, i was thinking of you earlier today!
It really does ❤️ I’m going to come back to this later today too to sit with it even more deeply
I missed you, it helped so much 🎀
I was so happy when I got your notication. Your teachings bring so much light and comfort. Thank you Leeor ❤
Attachment to others has so much to do with feeling seen/unseen. It's so powerful to create that self love relationship to avoid seeking so much externally 🌷🙏🏾
this is truly underrated
Wow, cette perspective est si intéressante
"has so much to do with feeling seen/unseen." Wdrym? How do you feel seen then and what does this have to do with attachment?
@@gujono.eiriksson8553 I believe it means we feel validated when the other person makes us feel seen, thus, creating attachment.
Yesss!!!
Few things that I took away from this video:
1. Choose happiness
2.Don't expect things from anyone
3. Millions of people are living happy lives without knowing your ex and so should you.
4. You was happy before your ex and you'll be happy after.
Great video and content. Thank you for sharing.
Oh my goodness #3 ! Ahh so glad I read this today
Yes, #3 spoke to me
Yes, she broke up with me. Still believe that she’s a great person, and other peoples lives would be happier knowing her. She’s just a good human, which I had the honour to spend my time with.
wait this is about relationships attachment thangk god I saw this comment I'm not in a relationship and I just wanna fix my attachment issues 😭
The art of non- attachment plus walking away from someone that doesn't respect or treat you equally, is a double plus🌟
This is big facts, say dat again
What is double plus?
"I can just be happy for no reason at all." VERY powerful words.
How aligned the timing of this video was. I literally sent a text to my sister that said “I just have to let him go, I can’t do this anymore” and at that exact moment this notification popped up at the top of my screen. Thank you so much for this 🖤
Yesss! Same, just ended a toxic relationship but with purpose to learn healthier ways and learn me. Releasing a lot and learned a LOT through it all
i think its just youtube creepin up on our messages coz i recently also just chatted the word "i think i need to let you go" to my bf and this vlog also popped up
I was also thinking this but couldn't muster courage
We give these apps access to our microphones, so it picks up key words. Hence why the video popped up after your convo.
Did it help? The pain is awful
Affirmation:
❤️I do not want anyone who does not want me.
❤I’m only doing what I’m supposed to be doing.
I’m only being the person I’m supposed to be.
And if they don’t like me then they’re not a member of my soul family.
I love this
This is good 👍
Yes love this ♥️
I’m trying to let go of a long time friend and my husband said I keep making excuses and justifying their actions when it comes down to the very simple idea that she doesn’t want to see me or value me outside of her own needs. It seemed so brutal to hear that my closest friend just didn’t want me- but i kept ignoring it. It’s time to let go and find acceptance in this situation. To accept we are on different paths and I need to put my efforts in the areas that compliment my life.
I'd replace the first affirmation with: I want someone who wants me❤
Because it's a positive and sparks joy rather than a negative one that could possibly spark sadness. Just my opinion ❤
What I learned the most about this video is to accept that person as they are. I feel like I’ve trying to “manipulate” them into the person I WANT them to be. What I HOPE they could be. But in reality is that I’m always disappointed, because what I truly expect never happens. So, working on accepting them as they are, without expecting anything from them is what I must do from now on. Thank you so much for your words 🤍
Thanks for wording it so nicely. I needed it.
Do u have any tips to accept it?
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When you said that “before this person was in your life they didn’t mean anything to you” - yes! He came into my life and it messed me up. I feel like I was much happier before him. I want my old self back.
Non attachement has been my thing lately as well. I used to be obsessed with manifesting what my ego wants but wanting is basically saying "I dont have it" or "Im incomplete without it". When we realize we're already perfect and whole things just go as they should and its so freeing.
Im there right now.. its horrible, i just feel desperate.. 😫😣
@@Phd366 Its ok to not get it. You're perfect already. Its not even your job to make it happen. Life will bring it to you.
@EthanFalcomFanatic YES YES YES I needed to hear this 🙌🏽 thank youuu
Great insights!
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The concept of letting go, detaching and accepting what is has been the biggest block to manifesting for me. I've dealt with major anxiety which leads to needing to control. I've been seeing a lot of content about all this come up recently, like the universe is giving me another nudge to keep practicing.
Me too!!
Same here Lucy! Especially dealing with “major anxiety which leads to needing control.” I feel that 100%.
Same...I have been having anxiety because I am not comfortable with uncertainty and the need to be in control..the very thing I need to work on
1. Attachement or happiness? Make that decision now
2. Aware of the pattern it cam from or the story you're telling yourself that makes you hold to it
3. Perspective - the happiness comes from within you (it doesn't come from this person or attachment)
4. Happiness for the fact you're
5. Practice total acceptance & full love of everyone and everything that is like it is - fully accept people rather than expect them to be different. Don't have expectations of other people - as these are exactly what keeps you unhappy. We're also manipulating them. RADICALLY ACCEPT & LOVE.
6. Be yourself wihtout the expectation to receive something from others. Don't act in certain way in order to receive or get the access to yourself.
Cheer up 💜
thank you for sharing! i like this and it makes sense, though i have a question. do you think we should never have any expectations of others? what about setting boundaries or committed relationships?
@@junelove777 I think it’s important to have standards, boundaries, and expectations for people in general, but i also feel that not everyone will act the way you want them to. It’s apart of life and it’s something i’m learning as well. When people don’t match up to my standards or are treating me bad, i have to walk away for myself.
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A man verbally assaulted me in the street. He really upset me and I couldn't let it go for days. I am letting it go today. I choose happiness
What's difficult for me when it comes to detaching is loneliness. When someone is such a huge part of everyday of your life for years, what do you do when they're gone? Especially as someone with social anxiety who's not good at making new friends and doesn't really have any.. thank you for this video. ❤ you have a lot of wisdom and this really helped me with perspective.
I can relate 😔 There’s this overwhelming hole that they left behind and I don’t even know where to begin filling it
@zara7276 maybe just having faith that in time that hole will fill naturally ❤ keep your head up
@@zara7276 i've been there. that's when you fill that hole with hobbies, passions, family, friends and things that should naturally be there. That way you not only don't depend on one person anymore, but you're attaching to who you are/are supposed to be. If one friend goes, it hurts, but it's okay because you have a life outside that one particular friend. That's also what i got from the video is nobody likes the pressure of being completely relied on by someone, to be responsible for their mental well-being. But start with the question "what can i do now that i couldn't, didn't, or forgot to do during my previous relationship/attachment" whether it be meditating, taking baths again, watching tv, hockey, journaling, etc.
Just go out and talk to people (not through comforts of social media) and actually experience life, that's the only way (make mistakes and a lot of smart mistakes as quick as possible the more you'll learn, seriously. Perspective matters you know.
Learn dancing, it's good and people will naturally gravitate to you and speak and even dance with you, dance anywhere and everywhere but vibe, don't dance just to attract people, it can't be faked, similar to confidence can't be faked.
Anxiety is cured is by understanding and experience, yep that's right, actually for me it worked, I don't have anxiety, well I think but that's about it.
Goodluck mate.
In buddhism we say we're all connected (same energy) so you can never lose someone. It is believed if you deeply connect with yourself and the universe you'll feel it ❤️
"NOthing outside makes you feel happy or unhappy, you are the one who decide" just a note to myself, thank you ❤️
The moment I had closure with my twin flame and let go of him was the best moment of my life. I have never been happier, being absolutely honest.
Thank you for this comment... I still have some trouble here and there of letting go 💛🙏🏻
Happiest time of the year!🎉
Hello, thank you for this comment. I would really like to know how you let go of your twin flame, and why it was necessary.
How did you bring it about? Also, I'm so happy for you. :)
Twin flames is made up, it’s not real
Also!!!! I’m literally so shocked because just yesterday after meditation I got the same message that “we get overly (unhealthily) attached in connections with family, relationships, friends because that’s an external projection of our internal desire/ need to experience a connection/ deeper connection with God, who is unconditional love.”
Have you won?
This video has really reinforced steps i need to make in detachment within my relationship. I had an epiphany right in the middle of me apologising for some harmful self critical behaviour that had been going on for a while and I cried a lil as I felt immense guilt, to be met with not much response from my bf...this made me cry more as I just wanted some reassurance. I was expecting him to soothe me but he decided to not enable me. It was at that moment, i stopped crying and thought I’m expecting way too much from him in changing how I feel about me. I’m the only person that can validate myself and realised I’ve been looking to him to do it. Nope today it stops, no looking to others to make myself happy. I was this before him and can continue to be that way with or without him
Powerful!
Amazing epiphany!!! I feel the same
1. The particular attachment or your happiness
2. When & how did the attachment start?
3. Get perceptive. ( you can live without this attachment)
4. Total acceptance
5. Be your self.
Thank you I got lost on the tips 😂❤
This felt like such a wake-up call to me. I've been "in love" with someone for 3 years now. We dated for a while, and he told me he never liked me but wanted to stay friends. Recently he's even told me that he doesn't want to talk regularly anymore. Although this shattered my heart, I know there's a way out of the sadness I've been feeling since we broke up. He doesn't matter anymore. I need to make room for someone that does. Thank you infinitely for your video. You've earned a new subscriber.
Accept yourself as you are. Accept everyone as they are. Release expectations of others and replace it with full acceptance not wanting to change anyone or anything. Choose your happiness and know that it comes from within, not external. Remember who you were before you knew them. Know where this attachment roots from. Be authentically you with 0 expectations and let them too. Don’t expect things from others for something in return. It releases disappointment. (Mine is from childhood - my mother / feeling not good enough, unseen, people pleasing)
The timing has never been more perfect 😩
I love my boyfriend so so much and this is the first healthy relationship I’ve had in my life but I absolutely feel my attachment issues coming to surface
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This is happening to me too, my boyfriend and I are seniors in high school and he recently committed to going to a university that is far in another state while I’m staying in state. We are still going to stay together after college but I feel like it’s not enough and I don’t want him to leave which is where my attachment comes in. This video is super helpful, it’s helping me learn how to let go of my fear of departing myself from him after high school and learning that it is going to be ok.
@@genavievek7405 Yes, but that is a totally legitimate reason to be unsure and weary of. I wouldn't say this is an unhealthy attachment coming from you.
Summary for the impatient people:
1. Do you choose attachment or your own happiness?
2. Where did that attachment come from?
3. Get a perspective of the situation. You‘re fine as you are.
4. You‘re the only one responsible for your own happiness, not the person/thing you‘re attached to.
Thank you, thank you thank you you are a lifesaver. I’m a very impatient person, I wanted to skip the extra talking thank you again.
I have been very upset over the past few weeks over someone who I felt wasn't putting enough effort into our relationship. This video showed up at the perfect time in my life to let go of my attachments and work on being happy for myself and by myself.
I’ve literally been dealing with this for a week and JUST talked to my therapist about this 3 hours ago! Like wow. The universe loves me so much and I’m very appreciative for this
i might get a therapist tbh, bc its difficult for me to continue dealing with this on my own
God loves you, not the universe
@@angellenamayamen
I was just talking to somebody about how we are experiencing this collective wave of detachment. Specifically for those on a twin flame journey. It’s like everybody is settling into that “What will be, will be.” Finally after two years of focusing on this journey and devotion to our twin/our higher self. ❤️ love you leeor
Yes! I feel this 100%
Yes! Been Feeling This! There Is Just So Much Toxicity Out Here In The RUclips Community About How The Twinflame Journey Needs Too Be When That Shouldn’t Be The Case.
After two damn long years😭 but we are finally getting here. I left it to God,,,, and said God did bother to me God will get me through it
SO TRUE!!!
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Now that's what I call perfect/divine timing! Letting go of the attachment to the girl I'd love to be with and to the outcome is something I've been thinking about and working on over the last few weeks.
"peace to friendships that no longer serving me - moving on from them" (I felt that so much this week)
the first step "choosing happiness over attachment" is very empowering
Love this. Non-attachment has always been difficult for me. But I’ve found that when it comes to people, I get attached because of the potential I see in myself that they’ve actualized, if that makes sense.
Our emotions are caused by our perception. Not others... your words gave me this realization once more. I leave this comment so not only I, but many others can relearn this truth as well. Thank you darling for this amazing video, it was exactly what i needed to be reminded of. From this point forward I will love every person, situation and thing. I choose love, and I love you! The one making this video...the one reading this comment... whomever comes across this comment, i pray you feel my love. As my expectations are lowered, my happiness, peace and love grow in response.
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This whole message hit, especially the expectation part. Wish at least a billion people could watch this. So powerful, thank you !
This is crazy, Leeors videos come always at the perfect divine timing. I literally wanted to search „how to let go“ and then her video popped up before I could even search. Thanks Leeor for bringing us further ❤️
This came just in time:) I’ve been doing really well being single but then recently I developed a crush and I’ve been feeling so anxious and I overthink every interaction I have w him. I need to let go and let it flow naturally ✨✨✨
Same is the case with me!! I just can't deal with this anymore... though I am self obsessed over myself but still this emotional attachment gets into head😐😐😐
I feel seen xD ! TIME TO LET GO hahahahahha detach, step back, be normal and care less
So good to see you back! I’m glad you had a good rejuvenating, relaxing break. You deserve it! We love you Leeor! 🤍🙏🏽
it hit me the most with your reminder that our happiness comes from within us and not from those attachments.
This helped me extremely with everything in my life. I’m in this period where I really wanna heal from everything, since I was a kid ‘til now and this brought sooo much perspective. It’s like the missing piece! Thank you so much, Leoor! You are an angel and I love you!!! ❤
I needed to hear all of this. I have felt almost obsessively attached to a situation and it has weighed heavily on me. I want to try to incorporate some of these mindful strategies into my everyday inner monologue. Thank you. ❤
This has come at such a good time, about to get into the most mature relationship I’ve ever been in
Same!
Everyone talking bout the timing of this vid AND I COULDNT AGREE MORE! I’ve been feeling super bothered by attachment lately but didn’t know what it was or where it came from and you literally nailed it and explained everything I needed to hear. Buying that book stop fixing yourself now. Thanks for teaching us love and light, Leeor ❤
YES leeor that is what. I learned when I went into my current relationship. When I started dating them I knew I wanted to let them be who they were and love them for it. This shined so much light on my own self, desires, triggers and more. It was so powerful and I still work with this 2 years into the relationship because we are always changing ❤
I’ve been anxiously waiting for a new video because I’ve been dealing with a lot of overwhelming emotions. I’ve also been struggling with non-attachment in a current relationship. This video is a gift, thank you thank you thank you
Not everyone deserves full lov. But I do agree that acceptance is necessary. Once you accept the way people are, you can then judge properly whether you want them in your life
This is something that I believe was meant to come into my life. I am going through a rough breakup with someone who was also a friend before we dated. Unfortunately, I keep thinking about the “what ifs” but watching this video made me realize that prioritizing myself and my happiness and what I put out to the world is the most important thing to me. I can’t predict the future with other people but I can focus on my life and happiness. Thank you so much 💜
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This was beautiful. I love the part about loving them exactly for who they are as a beautiful person. Expectations really tend to fuss things up..
Thank you Leeor, this exercise was really helpful for some uncomfortable emotions coming up about my relationship. It brings me true peace to remember that all I need to do is internally shift and people can either meet me where I'm at or fall away peacefully
You are completely right. I made this mistake in my relationship so badly. I realised I used this in all aspects of my life, never saw people "as they are". Profound shifts are happening. I no longer want to be this way. This is such a peaceful, blissful message. Thank you Leeor
We’ve missed you Leeor! The timing is incredibly divine. I’ve been struggling with this so bad the last two days and I’ve been asking for my guides for help and here you come with that flawless timing ✨
This was so great. I have to learn to let go and not have any expectations. I’m always giving so much of myself to others. It’s time to focus on me. I choose to be happy 😄.
It's unbelievable how you can read minds and post the video related to my issues 🥺
Thank you so much ❤️
I just watched your "shifting identity" video and now you drop this video🥰 Thank you! What was really freeing for me in this video was the realization that I am responsible for my feelings.
i didn't realize i was setting expectations/being attached to my friend until you explained the relationship you had with yours and i finally understood why i was feeling the way i did. this video brought me a lot of comfort and reassurance that i don't need anyone/anything to be happy. I'm grateful for you and this video
The timing of this is truly divine
oh MY goodness! its like an angel was speaking to me! so glad to see your videos again!!! needed to hear, it this was so calming and loving!♥
Leeor!! I’m so glad you’re feeling inspired after returning to mediation, connecting with God and accepting and letting go 💛🌙 I’m so grateful and happy you’re back to guide us by being a living embodiment of love, gratitude and hope! We’ve all missed you🥰
Steps:
1- Bring to mind someone who you have been feeling attached or anxious about
Do you want to remain attached or be happy?
Let go of that attachment
2- Where this attachment came from?
Expectations? Find the lie from this attachment came from
"without this person you will never be happy/married"
3- Perspective: before this person you were fine, and after you will be ok too
before this person you didn´t care about them
4- Nothing outside of you can make you happy or unhappy
5- Practice full acceptance
6- Be yourself without pretending to accomplish another´s expectations
Don´t act certain ways in order to get things from other people
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i got so excited to see you posted
As did I 🎉
It’s a hard process but an achievable one - something to remind myself that helps is that we see God in everyone, if I’m trying to change someone I’m trying to change that same aspect of me too so why not take a step back and see the Divinity in everyone and actively and radically choose to accept, to love without expectations… my well is reaching eternal depths ❤
This video shows how much the autobiography has pivoted your spiritual growth, its palpable. That book and Yogananda launched me to the next levels of my evolution too. Love to see this! Very beautiful!!
Timing, impeccable! Struggling with this however learning that I'm such a gem to have in any place in people's lives that if they choose not to have me it's their loss. Thanks Leeor 🌻
You're one of my Super Heros! ✨️ It's amazing how synchronicity work on the positive side - that's what led me to find you 🙏
Really enjoyed this video and the Heal & Feel workshop we did a couple of days ago. I have let go of my attachments and feel much better and light. Just out here radically loving and accepting 💖
Loving how this video came out at the same time I’m currently reading “ the power of letting go “ ❤️
I resonated with this in so many ways. I have been going through something that has felt so personal and specific that I thought no one would ever understand. But this video reminded me that no experience has not been experienced before and I am never alone. Leeor you are a true teacher you got me writing notes, pausing and rewinding so I don’t miss anything. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
Attachmentes also occured when you lack self love and you try to find this love in the exterior validation and not inner you..... Thank you so much Alexandra for this interesting and very useful topic 😘💕 Do you want to be attached or to be happy? 😊😊 The best quote ever and draws the essential 🤗☺️
Wow. Thank you for this comment... Merci.
@@solindasol 💐💐🌹🌹
@@andreeailie9053 how do you learn to be fully loving yourself?
definitely missed your wisdom! the timing of this message is absolutely divine ✨ thank you for your commitment to self and all 🫶🏽
This came at the most perfect time. What really hit for me was when you said how in order to align with love, you must accept the situation for what it truly is. Thank you so much for this! 🙏
Wow! I normally stay away from these type of videos but I could feel your authenticity. Thank you so much
If you’re giving your all and it’s not enough, then you’re probably giving it to the wrong person.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Leeor, this hit so deeply! Thank you angel, everything aligned.
Wowwww this changed my mindset immediately. I’ve been battling with relationship anxiety and emotional issues and overthinking. I listen to this everyday and it has totally changed everything for me❤❤❤ Thank you Alexander❤❤❤❤
Amazing. I feel such peace now in accepting the person as they are while still being myself.
You look so radiant in this video ❤
I needed this message. I’ve been getting back into dating recently and I get attached to people and outcomes too quickly
Would love to hear more about your perspective on conscious relationships and your experiences. It's so refreshing💚
What really hit for me was when you talked about your friend who has an attachment to every man she dates--that was me, and I still deal with these tendencies. You said that she was really craving God/connection to source and masculine energy and that REALLY hit home wowwwwww. It's so true.
your wisdom reaches the deepest valleys of my soul and dusts them off. yes. thank u.
It’s funny that sometimes we can’t comprehend this advice until we have gone there, done the work and begin to understand what it means to be operating at this high frequency of total acceptance, love, understanding and being happy just because!
Very true. I am experiencing this attachment right now and am trying to overcome it. Thank you!
Going to watch this very soon!! I know it will be absolutely, spectacularly, blissfully amazing!! Thank you, Leeor!! You are back and better than ever!! The better it gets, the better it gets. 🙌🏻✨💚🙏🙂
Amen Eric!!!
Crying before even watching. The timing is uncanny❤ thank you 😭
I just broke up with him two days ago and he was the best relationship I've ever had in my life. It hurts me a lot because everything was perfect until the last moment and knowing that the reason for our breakup is because he didn't heal his ex-partner hurts me even more because I know I can't heal him. Thanks for this video Leeor. ♥
You are so BRAVE for that, dude!
Lmao this is exactly what we mean you break up with a really good guy to be with a hood guy from that streets that treat you like shit
Then you have girls in the back ground
Yeahhh girl you’re soooo brave
Like bruh I’m sick n tired of this….
Most women break up relationships then complain where the good guys are at
The western society is a big joke!
@@Lightgeneration6446 Did you not read the part where she mentioned his ex and healing? Stop selecting the information you want man.
@@yasminleonora you’re a part of the problem too
@@Lightgeneration6446 and you are the entire problem.
“Funny” timing ❤ thanks for these words of love and wisdom and this practice 🙏🏻
That was like therapy ❤ I love it when you go step by step giving examples and giving us time to think about our own experiences. Thank you Leeor 💜
This video found me at the right time bc of things I am currently going through.
Thank you so much for your videos and beautiful presence. I always gain so much from them. ❤
leeor, your timing is actually insane!! thank you for posting this i missed u!!
Same here 💛 glad she is back🙏🏻
Omg so happy to see your notification! I hope you are doing well Leeor, you have been missed! Sending you love and light all the way from England 🤍
This is truly divine timing and I am so grateful and excited. Blessings and love to everyone
This was amazing. Many times we can't accept others because we can't fully accept ourselves. When we realize we are enough, it makes a difference ❤
I need to play this like everyday, so divinely timed. Thank you Leeor 💗
Your timing is always perfect . Thank you so much.
Love you Leeore, you're like that friend that i haven't seen for so long but when we get together nothing has changed, the bond is still there.
I cannot tell you how much your words always resonate with me. Thank you for sharing your beautiful light with the world.
Perfect timing for me to watch this. I just had a life moment where something reminds me of a moment with my ex and I said out loud man I miss him because I miss those little life moments. Then I told myself you can’t still be in this it’s been a year exactly how long it too long if I could cut the tie physically literally I would but it’s not that simple and or sucks to know I still am healing over this guy. Don’t get me wrong I am improving on myself I see the difference and my heart is not aching anymore and I’m not crying from the trauma(manipulation) anymore but I still feel like I’m not over it. Looking for the moment when I am unattached. This video was a reinforcement to give myself all the time I need and looking forward to the future and practicing being not attached to things accept myself
The Universe spoke to me through you ❤❤ Thank you for this video!!
WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS HOW HAPPY I AM THAT RUclips RECOMMENDED ME BACK TO YOUR CHANEL AFTER SO LONG
Having an anxious attachment style hearing this made me so calm. It’s always the unhealthy attachment and expectations I have had projecting onto another person, which has always left me empty! Process is to let go of the attachment and form healthy patterns for yourself. Loved this 🔥
I've recently let go of my attachment of all things and being ok with whatever happens and it's amazing
I can't explain the much this video has done to and for me. Thank you so much Alexandra ❤️❤️
I’ve came back to this probably more than 10 times and it got me thru my first heartbreak
I have chills after watching this.
This video was spot on and the timing of me seeing it was divine. Thank you! I feel a weight lifted off of me after doing this exercise and I’ll continue doing this work.
Thank you so much!! Sending light and love to you. 💕✨
As always, I learned so much from this video. I didn't realize I was so attached to my fiance but more so trying to change his way of doing things . Learning to accept people as they are without expectations❤️ Thank you for this video💕
You talk about having no expectations of changing them but, what if your BF has anger issues related to post traumatic stress /Vietnam result? I want him to get counseling or get help somehow. I've suffered three years with his stubbornness and refusal to get help. I finally had to detach myself from him for my peace and happiness. There are cases where they need to change to make it work or detach.