I miss being in love - loving and being loved . I love myself but I want to share things with someone I want to be someone’s safe place and I want to be theirs . I feel something missing. I want a partner, but the right partner. I don’t want to settle.
Hey how's it going? I'm hoping you manifested somebody like this! Pls give us an update so the rest of us can get a boost of confidence! Have a good day!
I never had any partner. Ever. I want this too. I haven't settled in 10 years or 14 years since the last time I dated! I know my wife is out there. I know it. I know what I'm seeking is seeking me. You got to believe this. It's truth. Once you align with that energy, it will come into your life. Remember. We attract what we ARE, not what we want. If you are not attracting what you want, it's because you are there yet. You need to let it go. LEt it go. It will appear when you don't expect it. I"m working on myself and I"m freaking 49 years old.
@bestactress1281 Deborah right? Hey so I just wanna say I was listening to a podcast by Mel Robin's abt confidence and basically she said confidence is not a feeling u feel but a skill you build so you cannot feel confident bc this is not a feeling. And abt finding your right person see the girl that you replied to she said she loves herself but if u r operating from a place of lack and u r like oh when my person will come come onnn then u r forcing things and holding soo tightly onto this which eventually will crash so let go trust the process and and let everything into the lap of God and Universe ❤
I'm attached on finding true love & start a family. I'm 30 and scared of not finding the right person on time. I'm learning to detach this limited believe & to stay present in the moment ✨
Just get out where you can meet people and enjoy your life! Life is too short to feel so worried about not finding what you want. Fill your life with fun, work and goals and you will find the this person as they will be very attracted to you if you are doing well in life and attracting positive energy.
I'll be 30 this year as well and going through this exact struggle too. I keep trying to remember advice a friend gave me that I think helps put everything into perspective. "It will be what it needs to be."
same here! for me what has helped so far was deleting dating apps and focusing on what makes me happy and just… living. I have many beautiful things to experience and so many great people surrounding me ❤
I needed this video. I really did. I put my partner on the highest pedestal and then when his traumas are triggered then he triggers mine and then i find myself seeking validation from my family and friends and its such a cycle for us. I want to learn to seek validation from myself and trust. Trust in myself. Trusting myself that i would walk away when i need too. Trust that i have all the answers inside.
I'm attached to my ex :( He broke up with me 2 months ago and it's been so hard to let him go, our relationship was so amazing and the best i've ever had, we planned so many things for our future together and I was sure he was the love of my life, but he left me because he's going through some tough times and is not emotionally available to have a serious relationship. Although I understand and have empathy for him, I still love him and want to be with him so bad. I think about him everyday and everytime anything reminds me of him or the pain of not being with him, it makes me cry like a baby. I think this video came up in my feed for a reason and everything you said resonated with me a lot. I hope I'm able to move on and let go of him, because so far everything feels like emotional hell :(
I hope my girl thinks like this as well and come back, i really miss her alot, she breakup with me cause just little argument and she go crazy and breakup with me 2 months before
I was beggining to feel a bit lost, and then out of nowhere I see your notification on my phone, a best friend calls me, and another youtuber I love uploads a video. I have to learn to accept that the universe will come to my aid when I need it, and it's okay 🥺💕 Also, what a powerful and baeutiful message, thank you Leeor. This past two years have really taught me to let go of people I loved, people I didn't want to leave, because I was scared. I was scared of standing on my own two feet. I was scared I couldn't trust myself. But I have... and I have never led me astray, my heart, my soul has never allowed me too. Learing to allow parts of me to die, to feel them literally dying, learning to surf the waves and to allow the universe to guide me. I live so much closer to my heart, to people, to the universe. I am learning to love freely. To love not to hold. To admire, not to acquire. I have learned a very beautiful way of loving. Holding people in my embrace, allowing me to feel their heat, their love, their presence, and allowing me the freedom of letting them go, of holding onto the knowing that everything is okay. I am okay, they are okay, and everything will be okay. P.s: Love you very very much Leeor! Biggest hug ☺
@@Kidrobot016 hello Euseph, thank you for asking :). I think that for me it took a lot of shadow work. I really had to sit with my fears, my discomfort and my pain. For me it was about learning how to find security in myself, so that I know that even if life changes I can trust my decisions, and even if I make a mistake i am capable of acquiring the tools I need to navigate anything that aggravates me. I think a lot of people talk about sitting with things and never go in detail, in my case I had to do a lot, a lot of journaling, I vented a lot to my therapist, and I had to change my beliefs. I used to be very insecure in my own decisions, so I relied on the people in my life to "guide" me per se. So if they though I should do A, even if i thoughy B was better I do A, bcs I was scared of failing or doing something wrong or not being able to deal with my mistakes. Once I tackled that I started becoming much more secure. It's not about knowing I will always do the right think, it's about knowing I'llbe fine even if i don't. My advice for you would be to understand what underlying issue makes you attach to people, are you relying on them to decide for you? Are you scared of change? If so why? It really is about understanding what your fears and insecurities are trying to tell you, and help yourself through them. Hope you find this helpful Euseph, sending you the biggest hug ❤
@Kelly Fortes I just woke up from a dream that I believe came from yet another fear. The universe (GOD) really has my back because right before bed, I asked for strength and guidance to ground myself and the tools to rid myself of my certain fears. I woke up to this comment, and it literally has already made my day! Thank you, Kelly! I always hear about shadow work being a key, but never know if I'm doing it right. I did start to journal, and a lot came out. Yes, you have helped me tremendously. I'm going to continue to sit with myself and journal my fears and insecure thoughts. I also need to practice trusting my ideas and decisions even if someone I think is better has a different plan or idea. That's a really big one for me. I think half the time I just don't speak up or voice my opinion because I've decided they are better or I already lost.
I cried reading this. I never thought about being scared to trust myself or stand on my own until I read those words, thank you for making me more aware of why I’m attached.
I thought about “who would I become if I keep the attachment”; for example, when hanging around a family member- I get “sucked” in to the vibrations of who I once was. I know I have to stay true to myself and continue standing my ground: then I realize I dim myself/ my light so that i can relate to them or connect with them. But I realize I don’t want to be doing that anymore. So detachment here I am, I’m ready to face it, to learn from it, and embody my higher self.
Since the beginning of this year i have been attached to this person hoping that this connection would bloom into a relationship. I lost sight of all my goals and was hyper-focusing only on this man. I get upset when things don't work out the way i hoped they would. I feel myself having mood swings more often, i have been lashing out at people because im disappointed that, that person did not reciprocate things the way i expected them to. This video made me realised how attached i am to this person and how that attachment has been damaging to my life. I have been on a roller coaster of emotions, feeling disconnected from myself, since knowing this person Thank you Leeor for this video. God sent you as an angel on my way to make me realise these things. I hope that i can come back here soon to tell you that i have healed from this and that i am doing better❤🥺
I’m attached to my SP bcuz she makes me feel safe and comfortable. She brings me pleasure and joy by sharing moments of intimate connection to mundane easy moments. I feel a part of me has been lost bcuz we’ve been together for most of my adult life and now I have to start over.
I did the exercise right away and felt an instant sense of relief and release, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I finally get it - been giving so much mental energy to something that's not serving me, and now I see that I have the power to let it go. Detachment is truly peaceful, thank you so much for this video! x
I listened to this video back to back like 3 or 4 times to let it digest & not just consume. A season I’m in and working on but I really wrote the questions down and took notes & I will return to it and find out more about myself & how I truly feel.
I'm a anxious attachment style and I cling to others. I fear abonnement! At almost 49, I"m learning how to go within to date myself. I don't have a partner and don't have family or siblings. No friends in the town in live in and now I'm making new friends! I loved your video. I started going to CODA in Jan 2020. Been going off / on for years. Not every week. defiantly a game changer when letting go. Great great video. I couldn't have said it better. That low self esteem and that root Charka gets clogged then we don't feel WORTH love, or good friendships and we can self sabotage the friendship! No more. I say I"m worth good loving friends and I say that I am worth my own time instead of giving my power away to others and expecting them to be something they are not. I'm done with that.
Being laid off for a few months, I have become attached to finding the perfect job within a field and status I want. I will continue to do the work I need to internally and externally but I’m letting go of the attachment to certain roles, companys and even type of work I am desperately holding on to.
Perfect timing!! I have been attached to the pain and hurt my Ex husband caused! I need to release this TODAY, NOW! I have found an amazing true love that I AM forever grateful for!!
Trying to let go completely my boyfriend is needing space at this time my grandma just passed my mom passed 5 years ago and now I’m being attacked by my daughters father trying to take my daughter I have never truly been alone to discover growing for myself living myself I have always put peoples needs before my own I see that I have to release my past!! It does hurt the soul but I know I’m in the right path♥️ thank you for this
it says to me that i can finally surrender to my desires, to be loved, and to be admired. I wanted him to think of me as a unique human being, be that special person that changes his entire life. I wanted to be explored by him and never gets bored of what to learn about me. I will finally be 100% proven that i am truly loved and special.
A lot of the times we have unhealthy attachements and i had to learn the hard way. I've been bullied in school so I never had a lot of friends, also i lost a lot of friends. I guess that's where my attachement comes from. 14 years ago i met some girl at my work who i was on the same page with and we became really good friends. I guess She was the friend i never had before, a few weeks ago she commited suïcide and it created so many anxiety inside of me. This video makes me understand the situation and myself a little better, so thanks for that!
This video made me realize I am attached to feeling safe and accepted. I thought I loved myself and was at peace with all the growth I've undertaken recently but there is still some elements to be tended to
I didn’t watch RUclips for 2 months. Today I opened the app and the first video that popped up was yours. Talk about perfect timing. Suffocating someone with my love, being attached…that was me. And it was hurting us both. I was finally ready to figure out how to detach and you’re right on time with guidance ♥️
Attachment and go getting is masculine for me, I've had masc my whole life though I'm female. The attachment is teaching me it's okay to sit back and receive, trust that I can get what I want and it'll come to me because I'm worth it simply cuz I want it.
I will be forever grateful that I came across your channel years ago! Today's date is 8.8.2024 and I was reflecting on what I want to manifest and shift my focus towards "what is the person I want to be doing / focusing on?" and the first thing on my list was " detachment from what no longer serves me" (in this case a recent heartbreak). Then this video auto played immediately after I watched your "Design your life for 2024" Exactly what I needed on such a powerful day. Thank you thank you for doing what you do and sharing your gifts with the world. Wishing you and your growing family much blessings and joy
Thoughts I always have when hearing this: I don't understand why having no expectations is the route to go. You can have expectations, and also have awareness that not everyone/everything will meet your expectations, because it is your individual preferences based on your personal outlook on life. If someone does not meet your expectations, then place them appropriately in your life based on what you expect/have observed from that person. If not being disappointed is the goal, then that's slightly ridiculous since life itself is out of our control and there is bound to be some type of disappointment in one way or another. It's not detachment or not having expectations, it's just understanding and acceptance that every person and every thing follows its own timeline, and it's your responsibility to have the discernment as to which person, which thing and which timeline to interact with. Detachment often carries a negative connotation with its definition being open to interpretation, when it could easily be replaced with the word acceptance and mean a lot more.
One day, I woke up & completely detached! Since then, I feel 1000x lighter. Living life accepted me "BEING ENOUGH" is proof that I love myself the most! I do need to give credits to my X. He was the one broke me and he was also the one transformed me into the happiest person. Key to DETACHMENT? Lotsa lotsa meditations. Let go! Why? To love yourself more!
Leoor this is exactly what I needed!! Randomly out of no where- I’ve found myself ruminating over my first relationship that ended 4 years ago. I don’t think my body fully metabolized the trauma and experience. I prayed today for closure, I still harbor a lot of confusion, pain and anger towards him. I want to break free and call back my power. Thank you!!!
i was begging myself to resist the urge to act impulsilby against my belief just bcuz i was "doubtin or fearing" and i was looking for one of those affirmation videos of yours and this one pop up I'm so happy, you blessed my tough time, I'm happy to hear your voice in my state right now, lot of love, I knew learning to detaching would be the next step I'm so happy you are my teacher today ajjaj
i never go around commenting this stuff on people’s content but genuinely, i love you Leeor. you have changed my life for the better in so many way, almost held my hand and walked me through my spiritual journey and through so much of my healing. not only that but it feels like you give me cheat codes to life. the work you’re doing matters more than i can even fathom. i’m grateful to have found you when i did ❤️
I’m going through a really hard time of my life right now. Every time I felt anxious, I listened to this and it instantly helped to calm me down and be more peaceful with my inner self. Thank you for creating this video. ❤
This is what I needed. Thank goodness it found me. I haven't been honest with my attachments in years but lately my pain points have been glaringly obvious. To the point where I can no longer ignore them. I am looking forward to being with myself and completing the journal prompts. I have been in a heart space where I felt like no one chose me but truthfully I haven't made me a choice in years. I am looking forward to just being with me in an honest way; I desire to like and love who I am. Thank you for this video.
Wanted to leave it on 111 comments…but had to just say…thank you leeor…am trying to manifest a specific job with fewer hours and had been struggling ❤️❤️
You were on FIRE with this one 🔥 I’ve been feeling attached/obsessive over certain relationships in my life recently and trying to detach as much as I can. Not throwing out the fishing reels right now. Just chillin in my boat. Here’s something I thought up; I like to think it when I am out and about: “I give out smiles for free, as only what is best & meant to be will flow to me with ease” 💛❤️💚
wow, the clarity I gained from the journal prompts you provided is so empowering. I discovered that my attachments to men & my dream career are both coming from a need to feel safe by predicting my future & planning. but I've realized, although I think I know what I want - only time will tell what is truly best for me, and God & the universe will provide just that. thank you Leeor
i came across this video bc it was suggested to me and i am going through a healing journey right now. i was involved with a guy for a few months and i grew so attached to him, that i abruptly ended things with him. i didnt want to do it and i thought i had made a mistake. i was going through guilt, grief, anger, sadnes, and i felt like i had lost everything. but i didnt. i only gained more strength into realizing that i dont need anyone to give me happiness. happiness lies within me. im on day 5 of my healing journey and by watching videos like this one, i know that i have the power to learn detachment and use it in my next relationship.
I can't believe just by watching this video & ofc taking notes and practicing what she said over & over again my whole changed. I can't be enough thankful of you cuz you literally saved my life from super anxious attachment to fully detachment & freedom . I belive I still have lots of things to learn and imma keep my eyes on you ❤️
I was just thinking about this very same thing this morning. I was thinking about how I want to meet my person and have them with me but then in turn I thought about how I don't need them and how I am perfectly content loving myself. I came to the conclusion that I will just go with the flow of where spirit leads me and be surprised by whatever happens in my life. Thank you Leeor 🙏 ❤
More than a person per se these days, this really clicks for me right now with situations or aspects of self. Letting go and allowing flow and change, is really what I need right now
Hey girl ❤ I want you to to know how much I enjoy these moments I get to share with you. I am sending you so much love. Have SUCH a good day because you deserve ittttt after all you have done for us 😊
Over the past couple of years you’ve literally transformed my life. I am so thankful to you. Your affirmations are the best I’ve come across. Your explanation of LOA and detachment are the best and this video is also extremely well explained and helpful. Thank you. I feel instantly happy after watching this ❤🙏
I started watching videos on detachment to detach from someone a Situationships that I felt was becoming toxic… Little did I realize that the message of detachment actually applies to a lot of other things in my life!
You’re Godsent. I have been struggling with sadness and neediness for months.. and couldn’t find resolution within myself .. despite knowing mentally much about the laws of the universe/LOA/Neville Goddard etc. but I really needed this process you just shared. God bless 🙏
Thank for this. I had tears steaming down my face. This hit me on a different level and I really needed to receive these words. I’m going through a really hard time in my life with attachment and anxiety and listening to this grounded me. Saving to a playlist to come back to ❤
I'm very attached to being a model because it makes me feel like I am desirable and worthy of respect and love. It's giving me prestige and a sense of being special. I'm afraid to be meaningless without it. I could be someone who loves their job and isnt afraid to accept change.
You speak so well. I'm learning how to let attachments relax and breathe, and this video comes at the perfect time. And I just want to say that you reflect the best part of this philosophy, and what you say resonates deeply with me. I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you.
Psychical and social distancing was the most helpful thing that I learn from this .there's a girl I have a crush on and she's healing and distancing has helped the most.
I initially expected this to be cliché and "let go, so it can flow" kinda video. Loved how you showed the possibility that in a better scenario we could not have this attachment and yet stand to gain much from losing this attachment.
i have a kind of territorial, toxic attachment to my best friend. its something i havent had with anyone else and im trying to let go of that to better enjoy my beautiful friendship. ive talked to my therapist as well and this video is great help, you even touched on a few of the same points as my therapist. your videos are always super on point to what i need and they always bring me great joy, thank you so much!
I love what you shared about how vital it is to remove ourselves from a situation in order to get perspective and gain clarity on what's going on, and how this relates so beautifully to the creative process. Your video is helping me see this so much more clearly- it's ALL relationship! Like in painting, we need those same step-backs in order to get a clearer sense of the art that's being created. It's in that perspective where we can more clearly see where we're forcing or "trying" to "make" something happen, and we also get more clarity on what's asking to emerge next. We can't attune to these subtleties when we're so attached to seeing it from one specific viewpoint. Your videos Leeor have been activating so much inspiration within me since I found your channel a few months ago- thank you for all that you share here
I clicked here because I’ve been manifesting a specific SP and after my meditations it’s all I can think of so much so that I get the opposite results. I need to learn how to detach and trust and release the doubts that don’t match my desires. It’s years of doubts put upon me I’m trying to undo.
I don't necessarily have an attachment to a certain person , but an attachment to wanting to be loved. Finding my person to walk the journey of life together. But this is really hard when you've spent time alone, it's been about 4 yrs that I've been single. So I gained the knowledge of how to be alone, it's the yearning after so long that I struggle with. Every day I wake up sad that this is where I am at 34 . Of course I've had dates or small period of time where someone would come in my life and they would act and say they want us or to be together but then BAM it's like they switch and either ghost me or just want my body. I'm tired of this cycle , and I've been on a manifesting/ spiritual journey for about 2 yrs and trying to manifest unconditional true love and it hasn't shown up. I don't know what I'm doing wrong..but anyway that's my story and I felt like this morning I wanted to share 💫
Thank you for explaining it so profoundly and deeply. Instead of just telling us to detach and focus on self. 💗 This has helped me so much in my current situation in helping me leg go of my ex after so long…
Thank you so much ❤ I was attached to someone, because they made me feel loved and that I would feel like nothing. Now I'm considering letting him go. There are other men out there who are just a loving ❤❤❤
1. coworker 2. Be a valid woman (?) def need more reflection. 3. Gives me a person (?) 4. Afraid of my life now I think 5. Self accepting, as I am. Secure, loving, creative, know what I want.
1 - Attached to a bumble guy and ex 2 - I don't value my needs and am too empathetic to a point i don't see i deserve to be loved 3 - compatibility , social status , progressive acceptance, comfort , trustworthy 4 - ill be good, just wonder if ill get someone like him again , 5 - I can be with someone who really loves me and who i love too.
Needed to hear this.❤ I was literally feeling so drained today, as I'm focusing on getting a job, felt like I was under too much pressure, but now I feel better .❤ Thanku, Thanku, Thanku Leeor for this wonderful guidance, it felt as if I'm talking to one of my guiding angels, guiding me ❤
I found your channel and now I feel like I heard what I really needed to hear for my entire life. Thanks for all, because this knowledge is going to change me. I’m so grateful for you, as a woman, decide to help us to achieve this self love and happiness.
I don't know how old you are but you explained that like a pro,I'm attached to time frames in life who I was with,when my parents were alive to how that time made me feel as in safe and happy so I'm in the past alot....this is worth so much more than riches!thank you
I started caring more about my own health (mental and physical), and trying to let go of any situation with my partner (I used to be jealous and also he used to throw tantrums and leave)… Now that I "don't care", I don't feel jealous and I let him be. He comes back quickly
Did the journaling and your words gave me so much insight and clarity. I’m currently facing a choice of whether to leave my apartment which comes with identity, ego and stability. Thank you for reminding me it’s a process and taking back our power takes time so to be gentle on ourselves. Much love 🦋✨
Finally, the spiritual perspective and dynamics on attachment and how to bring out energy back to ourselves with specific clear nurturing steps that feel very doable and reachable. Thank you, I love you. I’ve subscribed. Can’t wait to learn more from you 💫
The timing of the video is insane. Especially the part about physical distance & being out of sight and out of mind. Taking a step back to see clearly I literally just said this last night. Thank you so much for your consistent confirmation. & please show off a little bit more you deserve this community😭! It’s ok to not be humble sometimes THE BABY ELEPHANT COMMUNITY LOVES YOUUUU🎉
Leeor - I've been watching you for years. Your time is coming, I feel it. I feel called to tell you to watch your old videos and remember why you started this journey
This was super helpful. I love knowing what the steps are. A lot of people on RUclips just say let it go, but with the steps and the questions it’s now a guide to move through letting go. Thank you so much.
for the past 2 weeks or so, ion know, i’ve been attached to getting my hair done. i’m black so i wear protective styles a lot and i wanted my mom to do my hair. every time i asked her when she was going to do it, she never gave an answer or just ignored me. i got upset and took this as rejection and decided that i was gonna learn how to do my own hair. as soon as i made that decision and stopped asking my mom, she came to me and brung up a previous style that i wanted. anyways, i’m trans as well and i only get certain styles to pass as a cis gender man and without having those styles, i feel like i’m not masculine or attractive enough but that’s another story on its own. im hoping that i’ll overcome my attachment towards my hair. this video was rlly helpful and i preciate the good advice you gave :)
I have never heard anybody explain attachment better than you. Thank you. I am just living it and you have clarified it for me so well. Time to start making my own powerful spider web. I love this idea!!!!
For all the journal prompts i had no answer for what impact that person is having in me ! My intention when I clicked this video was to just listen, as I am your subscriber and I appreciate your words ! But at the end this just left me BLANK !! 😊
Thank you! Finding your video is a sign of God’s work. I really needed this. I’m letting go of a person I have a strong feelings for, and now I see it I haven’t been able to provide the space and having the energy for him to feel free when he is around me. Now that things are over and I have gone through the hardest time now. It’s a good lesson learned and I have now able to effectively review my actions and behaviors, hopefully I could practice this methodology to the next person I meet. I am truly grateful for your video. ❤️🙏
I think for me my attachment to the person I’ve been seeing (however it’s defined) is based on what it could be…with each passing day that she disrespects me, I remove a layer of of love for her, a layer of expectation, a layer of her words and actions. She could be a beautiful person, but her two previous marriages damaged her! So, I’ve put up w her manipulation etc. I’m bringing the energy back to me and my purpose…
I miss being in love - loving and being loved . I love myself but I want to share things with someone I want to be someone’s safe place and I want to be theirs . I feel something missing. I want a partner, but the right partner. I don’t want to settle.
Hey how's it going? I'm hoping you manifested somebody like this! Pls give us an update so the rest of us can get a boost of confidence! Have a good day!
I never had any partner. Ever. I want this too. I haven't settled in 10 years or 14 years since the last time I dated! I know my wife is out there. I know it. I know what I'm seeking is seeking me. You got to believe this. It's truth. Once you align with that energy, it will come into your life. Remember. We attract what we ARE, not what we want. If you are not attracting what you want, it's because you are there yet. You need to let it go. LEt it go. It will appear when you don't expect it. I"m working on myself and I"m freaking 49 years old.
@bestactress1281 Deborah right? Hey so I just wanna say I was listening to a podcast by Mel Robin's abt confidence and basically she said confidence is not a feeling u feel but a skill you build so you cannot feel confident bc this is not a feeling. And abt finding your right person see the girl that you replied to she said she loves herself but if u r operating from a place of lack and u r like oh when my person will come come onnn then u r forcing things and holding soo tightly onto this which eventually will crash so let go trust the process and and let everything into the lap of God and Universe ❤
I know exactly how you feel. Let’s stay hopeful.
I'm attached on finding true love & start a family. I'm 30 and scared of not finding the right person on time. I'm learning to detach this limited believe & to stay present in the moment ✨
I found my true Love at 46 years old … it’s amazing and so healthy!!
You’ve got this ❤
Start loving you and all will fall into place! ❤️
Just get out where you can meet people and enjoy your life! Life is too short to feel so worried about not finding what you want. Fill your life with fun, work and goals and you will find the this person as they will be very attracted to you if you are doing well in life and attracting positive energy.
I'll be 30 this year as well and going through this exact struggle too. I keep trying to remember advice a friend gave me that I think helps put everything into perspective.
"It will be what it needs to be."
same here! for me what has helped so far was deleting dating apps and focusing on what makes me happy and just… living. I have many beautiful things to experience and so many great people surrounding me ❤
@@dawncollins3161 thank you. I will be 47 on Sunday and am still single.
I let go, I allow what is to be.
I retreat back to me. I release all tension.
I am happy and calm and receptive.
How is she always on time!? Lol.
Literally!
Heheheh🥰
She’s tuned in! ❤
I was totally thinking the same!!!
I said the same thing lol
I love that expect nothing from anyone and appreciate everything the art of unattached living
Seeing this while I’m in the process of detachment, works like a good motivation to remain present❤
Nothing in this life is constant except change.
I am scared of change.
You are truly yourself when you let go.
Forcing ourselves out the comfort zone all summer 2023
@@angeliclizzie we are! 💗
I needed this video. I really did. I put my partner on the highest pedestal and then when his traumas are triggered then he triggers mine and then i find myself seeking validation from my family and friends and its such a cycle for us. I want to learn to seek validation from myself and trust. Trust in myself. Trusting myself that i would walk away when i need too. Trust that i have all the answers inside.
I'm attached to my ex :(
He broke up with me 2 months ago and it's been so hard to let him go, our relationship was so amazing and the best i've ever had, we planned so many things for our future together and I was sure he was the love of my life, but he left me because he's going through some tough times and is not emotionally available to have a serious relationship. Although I understand and have empathy for him, I still love him and want to be with him so bad. I think about him everyday and everytime anything reminds me of him or the pain of not being with him, it makes me cry like a baby. I think this video came up in my feed for a reason and everything you said resonated with me a lot. I hope I'm able to move on and let go of him, because so far everything feels like emotional hell :(
I can feel that pain
I'm sorry. Hope you're doing better. I feel the same way.
hi love, how are things going now?
I hope my girl thinks like this as well and come back, i really miss her alot, she breakup with me cause just little argument and she go crazy and breakup with me 2 months before
Yr don't worry everyone is going through the same thing ...just keep faith in god
I was beggining to feel a bit lost, and then out of nowhere I see your notification on my phone, a best friend calls me, and another youtuber I love uploads a video. I have to learn to accept that the universe will come to my aid when I need it, and it's okay 🥺💕
Also, what a powerful and baeutiful message, thank you Leeor. This past two years have really taught me to let go of people I loved, people I didn't want to leave, because I was scared. I was scared of standing on my own two feet. I was scared I couldn't trust myself.
But I have... and I have never led me astray, my heart, my soul has never allowed me too.
Learing to allow parts of me to die, to feel them literally dying, learning to surf the waves and to allow the universe to guide me.
I live so much closer to my heart, to people, to the universe. I am learning to love freely. To love not to hold. To admire, not to acquire.
I have learned a very beautiful way of loving. Holding people in my embrace, allowing me to feel their heat, their love, their presence, and allowing me the freedom of letting them go, of holding onto the knowing that everything is okay. I am okay, they are okay, and everything will be okay.
P.s: Love you very very much Leeor! Biggest hug ☺
If you don't mind my asking, what makes it easier for you to "let go" of someone you didn't want to let go?
@@Kidrobot016 Great Question!!!! 🙏🏻🤍. What do you think please, Euseph?
@@Kidrobot016 hello Euseph, thank you for asking :). I think that for me it took a lot of shadow work. I really had to sit with my fears, my discomfort and my pain. For me it was about learning how to find security in myself, so that I know that even if life changes I can trust my decisions, and even if I make a mistake i am capable of acquiring the tools I need to navigate anything that aggravates me. I think a lot of people talk about sitting with things and never go in detail, in my case I had to do a lot, a lot of journaling, I vented a lot to my therapist, and I had to change my beliefs. I used to be very insecure in my own decisions, so I relied on the people in my life to "guide" me per se. So if they though I should do A, even if i thoughy B was better I do A, bcs I was scared of failing or doing something wrong or not being able to deal with my mistakes.
Once I tackled that I started becoming much more secure. It's not about knowing I will always do the right think, it's about knowing I'llbe fine even if i don't.
My advice for you would be to understand what underlying issue makes you attach to people, are you relying on them to decide for you? Are you scared of change? If so why?
It really is about understanding what your fears and insecurities are trying to tell you, and help yourself through them.
Hope you find this helpful Euseph, sending you the biggest hug ❤
@Kelly Fortes I just woke up from a dream that I believe came from yet another fear. The universe (GOD) really has my back because right before bed, I asked for strength and guidance to ground myself and the tools to rid myself of my certain fears. I woke up to this comment, and it literally has already made my day! Thank you, Kelly! I always hear about shadow work being a key, but never know if I'm doing it right. I did start to journal, and a lot came out. Yes, you have helped me tremendously. I'm going to continue to sit with myself and journal my fears and insecure thoughts. I also need to practice trusting my ideas and decisions even if someone I think is better has a different plan or idea. That's a really big one for me. I think half the time I just don't speak up or voice my opinion because I've decided they are better or I already lost.
I cried reading this. I never thought about being scared to trust myself or stand on my own until I read those words, thank you for making me more aware of why I’m attached.
I thought about “who would I become if I keep the attachment”; for example, when hanging around a family member- I get “sucked” in to the vibrations of who I once was. I know I have to stay true to myself and continue standing my ground: then I realize I dim myself/ my light so that i can relate to them or connect with them. But I realize I don’t want to be doing that anymore. So detachment here I am, I’m ready to face it, to learn from it, and embody my higher self.
🎯 I feel you
“A state of allowing, surrender to cosmic bliss… to the divine.” how beautifully said. Thank you so, Leeor, for your beautiful gift.♥️🙏🏼💫🕊️☁️✨
Since the beginning of this year i have been attached to this person hoping that this connection would bloom into a relationship. I lost sight of all my goals and was hyper-focusing only on this man. I get upset when things don't work out the way i hoped they would. I feel myself having mood swings more often, i have been lashing out at people because im disappointed that, that person did not reciprocate things the way i expected them to.
This video made me realised how attached i am to this person and how that attachment has been damaging to my life. I have been on a roller coaster of emotions, feeling disconnected from myself, since knowing this person
Thank you Leeor for this video. God sent you as an angel on my way to make me realise these things.
I hope that i can come back here soon to tell you that i have healed from this and that i am doing better❤🥺
How are you doing? 🥺🩷
Same situation 😢
Totally understand. I am also letting go of someone and putting the focus back on my life, happiness. ❤
This sounds like anxious preoccupied attachment. You can heal some of those wounds. Look into Thais Gibson’s Personal Development School videos etc.
I’m attached to my SP bcuz she makes me feel safe and comfortable. She brings me pleasure and joy by sharing moments of intimate connection to mundane easy moments. I feel a part of me has been lost bcuz we’ve been together for most of my adult life and now I have to start over.
I did the exercise right away and felt an instant sense of relief and release, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I finally get it - been giving so much mental energy to something that's not serving me, and now I see that I have the power to let it go. Detachment is truly peaceful, thank you so much for this video! x
“everything has a beginning and an end” i SO needed to hear that 🥰
I listened to this video back to back like 3 or 4 times to let it digest & not just consume. A season I’m in and working on but I really wrote the questions down and took notes & I will return to it and find out more about myself & how I truly feel.
I'm a anxious attachment style and I cling to others. I fear abonnement! At almost 49, I"m learning how to go within to date myself. I don't have a partner and don't have family or siblings. No friends in the town in live in and now I'm making new friends! I loved your video. I started going to CODA in Jan 2020. Been going off / on for years. Not every week. defiantly a game changer when letting go. Great great video. I couldn't have said it better. That low self esteem and that root Charka gets clogged then we don't feel WORTH love, or good friendships and we can self sabotage the friendship! No more. I say I"m worth good loving friends and I say that I am worth my own time instead of giving my power away to others and expecting them to be something they are not. I'm done with that.
Being laid off for a few months, I have become attached to finding the perfect job within a field and status I want. I will continue to do the work I need to internally and externally but I’m letting go of the attachment to certain roles, companys and even type of work I am desperately holding on to.
Perfect timing!! I have been attached to the pain and hurt my Ex husband caused! I need to release this TODAY, NOW!
I have found an amazing true love that I AM forever grateful for!!
Trying to let go completely my boyfriend is needing space at this time my grandma just passed my mom passed 5 years ago and now I’m being attacked by my daughters father trying to take my daughter I have never truly been alone to discover growing for myself living myself I have always put peoples needs before my own I see that I have to release my past!! It does hurt the soul but I know I’m in the right path♥️ thank you for this
it says to me that i can finally surrender to my desires, to be loved, and to be admired. I wanted him to think of me as a unique human being, be that special person that changes his entire life. I wanted to be explored by him and never gets bored of what to learn about me. I will finally be 100% proven that i am truly loved and special.
A lot of the times we have unhealthy attachements and i had to learn the hard way. I've been bullied in school so I never had a lot of friends, also i lost a lot of friends. I guess that's where my attachement comes from. 14 years ago i met some girl at my work who i was on the same page with and we became really good friends. I guess She was the friend i never had before, a few weeks ago she commited suïcide and it created so many anxiety inside of me. This video makes me understand the situation and myself a little better, so thanks for that!
What I love about you is that you never talk about ''attachment'' as something shameful
This video made me realize I am attached to feeling safe and accepted. I thought I loved myself and was at peace with all the growth I've undertaken recently but there is still some elements to be tended to
It's true when they say "you heal the world through you"🙏🏼
Our Parents experienced the same
"Detachment Phenomenon", but "They coined the phrase""ABSENTS
MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER"!
I didn’t watch RUclips for 2 months. Today I opened the app and the first video that popped up was yours. Talk about perfect timing. Suffocating someone with my love, being attached…that was me. And it was hurting us both. I was finally ready to figure out how to detach and you’re right on time with guidance ♥️
Attachment and go getting is masculine for me, I've had masc my whole life though I'm female. The attachment is teaching me it's okay to sit back and receive, trust that I can get what I want and it'll come to me because I'm worth it simply cuz I want it.
I will be forever grateful that I came across your channel years ago! Today's date is 8.8.2024 and I was reflecting on what I want to manifest and shift my focus towards "what is the person I want to be doing / focusing on?" and the first thing on my list was " detachment from what no longer serves me" (in this case a recent heartbreak). Then this video auto played immediately after I watched your "Design your life for 2024" Exactly what I needed on such a powerful day. Thank you thank you for doing what you do and sharing your gifts with the world. Wishing you and your growing family much blessings and joy
Thoughts I always have when hearing this:
I don't understand why having no expectations is the route to go. You can have expectations, and also have awareness that not everyone/everything will meet your expectations, because it is your individual preferences based on your personal outlook on life. If someone does not meet your expectations, then place them appropriately in your life based on what you expect/have observed from that person.
If not being disappointed is the goal, then that's slightly ridiculous since life itself is out of our control and there is bound to be some type of disappointment in one way or another. It's not detachment or not having expectations, it's just understanding and acceptance that every person and every thing follows its own timeline, and it's your responsibility to have the discernment as to which person, which thing and which timeline to interact with. Detachment often carries a negative connotation with its definition being open to interpretation, when it could easily be replaced with the word acceptance and mean a lot more.
One day, I woke up & completely detached! Since then, I feel 1000x lighter. Living life accepted me "BEING ENOUGH" is proof that I love myself the most! I do need to give credits to my X. He was the one broke me and he was also the one transformed me into the happiest person. Key to DETACHMENT? Lotsa lotsa meditations. Let go! Why? To love yourself more!
I knew what I was doing wrong all along and couldn’t stop myself…pretty positive it’s a family curse…I need to heal!
this video popped up while i’m going through the worst situation iv had w a roomate. i appreciate you
cried at number 2 ♡ this was amazing. thank you
Leoor this is exactly what I needed!! Randomly out of no where- I’ve found myself ruminating over my first relationship that ended 4 years ago. I don’t think my body fully metabolized the trauma and experience. I prayed today for closure, I still harbor a lot of confusion, pain and anger towards him. I want to break free and call back my power. Thank you!!!
where I'm at in life currently, I'm wanting so much. It's great to have this reminder, thank you.
i was begging myself to resist the urge to act impulsilby against my belief just bcuz i was "doubtin or fearing" and i was looking for one of those affirmation videos of yours and this one pop up I'm so happy, you blessed my tough time, I'm happy to hear your voice in my state right now, lot of love, I knew learning to detaching would be the next step I'm so happy you are my teacher today ajjaj
This is Divine Timing - I’ve been resisting letting go against my own nature - Thank you!
i never go around commenting this stuff on people’s content but genuinely, i love you Leeor. you have changed my life for the better in so many way, almost held my hand and walked me through my spiritual journey and through so much of my healing. not only that but it feels like you give me cheat codes to life. the work you’re doing matters more than i can even fathom. i’m grateful to have found you when i did ❤️
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I’m going through a really hard time of my life right now. Every time I felt anxious, I listened to this and it instantly helped to calm me down and be more peaceful with my inner self. Thank you for creating this video. ❤
Me too💝
what will i gain - Self love, my power back, possibility of meeting someone who will give me love, self respect , clarity. actual hapiness!!!!
First line in and you’re already a magician. I’m so happy to be a part of your energy
This is what I needed. Thank goodness it found me. I haven't been honest with my attachments in years but lately my pain points have been glaringly obvious. To the point where I can no longer ignore them. I am looking forward to being with myself and completing the journal prompts. I have been in a heart space where I felt like no one chose me but truthfully I haven't made me a choice in years. I am looking forward to just being with me in an honest way; I desire to like and love who I am. Thank you for this video.
Wanted to leave it on 111 comments…but had to just say…thank you leeor…am trying to manifest a specific job with fewer hours and had been struggling ❤️❤️
You were on FIRE with this one 🔥 I’ve been feeling attached/obsessive over certain relationships in my life recently and trying to detach as much as I can. Not throwing out the fishing reels right now. Just chillin in my boat.
Here’s something I thought up; I like to think it when I am out and about: “I give out smiles for free, as only what is best & meant to be will flow to me with ease” 💛❤️💚
wow, the clarity I gained from the journal prompts you provided is so empowering. I discovered that my attachments to men & my dream career are both coming from a need to feel safe by predicting my future & planning. but I've realized, although I think I know what I want - only time will tell what is truly best for me, and God & the universe will provide just that. thank you Leeor
i came across this video bc it was suggested to me and i am going through a healing journey right now. i was involved with a guy for a few months and i grew so attached to him, that i abruptly ended things with him. i didnt want to do it and i thought i had made a mistake. i was going through guilt, grief, anger, sadnes, and i felt like i had lost everything. but i didnt. i only gained more strength into realizing that i dont need anyone to give me happiness. happiness lies within me. im on day 5 of my healing journey and by watching videos like this one, i know that i have the power to learn detachment and use it in my next relationship.
We Drink from the Pitcher of Love, only when we're THIRSTY! WOW, I just made that up!!!
I can't believe just by watching this video & ofc taking notes and practicing what she said over & over again my whole changed. I can't be enough thankful of you cuz you literally saved my life from super anxious attachment to fully detachment & freedom . I belive I still have lots of things to learn and imma keep my eyes on you ❤️
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I was just thinking about this very same thing this morning. I was thinking about how I want to meet my person and have them with me but then in turn I thought about how I don't need them and how I am perfectly content loving myself. I came to the conclusion that I will just go with the flow of where spirit leads me and be surprised by whatever happens in my life. Thank you Leeor 🙏 ❤
More than a person per se these days, this really clicks for me right now with situations or aspects of self. Letting go and allowing flow and change, is really what I need right now
Hey girl ❤ I want you to to know how much I enjoy these moments I get to share with you. I am sending you so much love. Have SUCH a good day because you deserve ittttt after all you have done for us 😊
Over the past couple of years you’ve literally transformed my life. I am so thankful to you. Your affirmations are the best I’ve come across. Your explanation of LOA and detachment are the best and this video is also extremely well explained and helpful. Thank you. I feel instantly happy after watching this ❤🙏
I started watching videos on detachment to detach from someone a Situationships that I felt was becoming toxic… Little did I realize that the message of detachment actually applies to a lot of other things in my life!
You’re Godsent. I have been struggling with sadness and neediness for months.. and couldn’t find resolution within myself .. despite knowing mentally much about the laws of the universe/LOA/Neville Goddard etc. but I really needed this process you just shared. God bless 🙏
Thank for this. I had tears steaming down my face. This hit me on a different level and I really needed to receive these words. I’m going through a really hard time in my life with attachment and anxiety and listening to this grounded me. Saving to a playlist to come back to ❤
I'm very attached to being a model because it makes me feel like I am desirable and worthy of respect and love. It's giving me prestige and a sense of being special. I'm afraid to be meaningless without it. I could be someone who loves their job and isnt afraid to accept change.
Thank you for sending this to me exactly when i needed it❤ hope you have a beautifully blessed day
You speak so well. I'm learning how to let attachments relax and breathe, and this video comes at the perfect time. And I just want to say that you reflect the best part of this philosophy, and what you say resonates deeply with me. I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you.
Psychical and social distancing was the most helpful thing that I learn from this .there's a girl I have a crush on and she's healing and distancing has helped the most.
I initially expected this to be cliché and "let go, so it can flow" kinda video. Loved how you showed the possibility that in a better scenario we could not have this attachment and yet stand to gain much from losing this attachment.
Thank you soon much. I really needed to hear this right now. 💚
i have a kind of territorial, toxic attachment to my best friend. its something i havent had with anyone else and im trying to let go of that to better enjoy my beautiful friendship. ive talked to my therapist as well and this video is great help, you even touched on a few of the same points as my therapist. your videos are always super on point to what i need and they always bring me great joy, thank you so much!
I can really feel you
I had the same problem
I love what you shared about how vital it is to remove ourselves from a situation in order to get perspective and gain clarity on what's going on, and how this relates so beautifully to the creative process. Your video is helping me see this so much more clearly- it's ALL relationship! Like in painting, we need those same step-backs in order to get a clearer sense of the art that's being created. It's in that perspective where we can more clearly see where we're forcing or "trying" to "make" something happen, and we also get more clarity on what's asking to emerge next. We can't attune to these subtleties when we're so attached to seeing it from one specific viewpoint. Your videos Leeor have been activating so much inspiration within me since I found your channel a few months ago- thank you for all that you share here
You have no idea how badly I needed this right now
I clicked here because I’ve been manifesting a specific SP and after my meditations it’s all I can think of so much so that I get the opposite results. I need to learn how to detach and trust and release the doubts that don’t match my desires. It’s years of doubts put upon me I’m trying to undo.
I don't necessarily have an attachment to a certain person , but an attachment to wanting to be loved. Finding my person to walk the journey of life together. But this is really hard when you've spent time alone, it's been about 4 yrs that I've been single. So I gained the knowledge of how to be alone, it's the yearning after so long that I struggle with. Every day I wake up sad that this is where I am at 34 . Of course I've had dates or small period of time where someone would come in my life and they would act and say they want us or to be together but then BAM it's like they switch and either ghost me or just want my body. I'm tired of this cycle , and I've been on a manifesting/ spiritual journey for about 2 yrs and trying to manifest unconditional true love and it hasn't shown up. I don't know what I'm doing wrong..but anyway that's my story and I felt like this morning I wanted to share 💫
Thank you for explaining it so profoundly and deeply. Instead of just telling us to detach and focus on self. 💗 This has helped me so much in my current situation in helping me leg go of my ex after so long…
Thank you so much ❤ I was attached to someone, because they made me feel loved and that I would feel like nothing. Now I'm considering letting him go. There are other men out there who are just a loving ❤❤❤
Yaaaaaaaasssss!!!!! You are nailing it. I know my energy is strong and I have always had to be mindful of not overwhelming people with it.
1. coworker
2. Be a valid woman (?) def need more reflection.
3. Gives me a person (?)
4. Afraid of my life now I think
5. Self accepting, as I am. Secure, loving, creative, know what I want.
1 - Attached to a bumble guy and ex
2 - I don't value my needs and am too empathetic to a point i don't see i deserve to be loved
3 - compatibility , social status , progressive acceptance, comfort , trustworthy
4 - ill be good, just wonder if ill get someone like him again ,
5 - I can be with someone who really loves me and who i love too.
Relate to each point
Needed to hear this.❤
I was literally feeling so drained today, as I'm focusing on getting a job, felt like I was under too much pressure, but now I feel better .❤
Thanku, Thanku, Thanku Leeor for this wonderful guidance, it felt as if I'm talking to one of my guiding angels, guiding me ❤
Hey Lakshya. Were you able to detach from the outcome?
I found your channel and now I feel like I heard what I really needed to hear for my entire life. Thanks for all, because this knowledge is going to change me. I’m so grateful for you, as a woman, decide to help us to achieve this self love and happiness.
I don't know how old you are but you explained that like a pro,I'm attached to time frames in life who I was with,when my parents were alive to how that time made me feel as in safe and happy so I'm in the past alot....this is worth so much more than riches!thank you
I felt my solar plexus and heart open as I completed this exercise and loosing the tension in body ❤❤❤❤❤
I started caring more about my own health (mental and physical), and trying to let go of any situation with my partner (I used to be jealous and also he used to throw tantrums and leave)… Now that I "don't care", I don't feel jealous and I let him be. He comes back quickly
Grateful I clicked on this. Definitely a message I needed to hear today 🙏🏻💕
Did the journaling and your words gave me so much insight and clarity. I’m currently facing a choice of whether to leave my apartment which comes with identity, ego and stability. Thank you for reminding me it’s a process and taking back our power takes time so to be gentle on ourselves. Much love 🦋✨
Finally, the spiritual perspective and dynamics on attachment and how to bring out energy back to ourselves with specific clear nurturing steps that feel very doable and reachable. Thank you, I love you. I’ve subscribed. Can’t wait to learn more from you 💫
The timing of the video is insane. Especially the part about physical distance & being out of sight and out of mind. Taking a step back to see clearly I literally just said this last night. Thank you so much for your consistent confirmation. & please show off a little bit more you deserve this community😭! It’s ok to not be humble sometimes THE BABY ELEPHANT COMMUNITY LOVES YOUUUU🎉
Perfect timing per usual 🌟
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Omg, THANK YOU soooooo much! I really needed this due to a break up that was killing me inside. Thank you
Leeor - I've been watching you for years. Your time is coming, I feel it. I feel called to tell you to watch your old videos and remember why you started this journey
This was super helpful. I love knowing what the steps are. A lot of people on RUclips just say let it go, but with the steps and the questions it’s now a guide to move through letting go. Thank you so much.
for the past 2 weeks or so, ion know, i’ve been attached to getting my hair done. i’m black so i wear protective styles a lot and i wanted my mom to do my hair. every time i asked her when she was going to do it, she never gave an answer or just ignored me. i got upset and took this as rejection and decided that i was gonna learn how to do my own hair. as soon as i made that decision and stopped asking my mom, she came to me and brung up a previous style that i wanted. anyways, i’m trans as well and i only get certain styles to pass as a cis gender man and without having those styles, i feel like i’m not masculine or attractive enough but that’s another story on its own. im hoping that i’ll overcome my attachment towards my hair.
this video was rlly helpful and i preciate the good advice you gave :)
I have been suffering from anxious attachment towards a person. I woke up and wanted to regain my power back into the state before I met him
YOU CALLED ME OUT IMDEIATLY omg I love it tho it was the perfect description of attachment. I needed to hear this❤
Seeing you pop up on the screen makes my whole day, I love you and your beautiful energy Leeor💛
Literally needed to hear every word in this video for confirmation that I’m doing the right thing currently. Thank you for creating this video for us
This video came in good timing am trying to manifest something right now 🕯🕯🙏
From your journal prompts I’ve realised I want to feel like I’m chosen, this has been an ongoing need for me which I must explore further. Thankyou x
All I can say is thank you wow. It was gentle since it all added up and made sense to me
I have never heard anybody explain attachment better than you. Thank you. I am just living it and you have clarified it for me so well. Time to start making my own powerful spider web. I love this idea!!!!
Thank you ❤
I did this journal prompt & he messaged me… now he’s gone again because I’m still attached😂 it’s PRACTISE. I don’t want him it’s just I’m attached
For all the journal prompts i had no answer for what impact that person is having in me ! My intention when I clicked this video was to just listen, as I am your subscriber and I appreciate your words ! But at the end this just left me BLANK !! 😊
Thank you! Finding your video is a sign of God’s work. I really needed this. I’m letting go of a person I have a strong feelings for, and now I see it I haven’t been able to provide the space and having the energy for him to feel free when he is around me. Now that things are over and I have gone through the hardest time now. It’s a good lesson learned and I have now able to effectively review my actions and behaviors, hopefully I could practice this methodology to the next person I meet. I am truly grateful for your video. ❤️🙏
I think for me my attachment to the person I’ve been seeing (however it’s defined) is based on what it could be…with each passing day that she disrespects me, I remove a layer of of love for her, a layer of expectation, a layer of her words and actions. She could be a beautiful person, but her two previous marriages damaged her! So, I’ve put up w her manipulation etc. I’m bringing the energy back to me and my purpose…