I lived in Chiang Mai 18 months and miss the culture, currently back in the US for 4 months. I loved Thailand but did feel somewhat disconnected and isolated. But to be honest I feel the same in the US as well. I’ll be going back to SEA in June, not sure where maybe Vietnam or Cambodia. For me I like the freedom and the lifestyle that SEA has to offer. Being a lonesome traveler and a man without a woman is key to my happiness.
Thailand, hands down. Living in IT Park, I couldn't wait to get back to the Land of Smiles. Filipino food sucks and I found the renowned "friendliness" to be forced and feigned in the Phils. And I am being kind. My stronger feelings are best left unsaid on a public forum.
I've had a totally different experience with store clerks in thailand. They're always quick to let me know that items that I am purchasing is buy one get one free. A few times they actually physically left the counter to go back to get the item for me. I have to say that customer service in Thailand is really outstanding.
I like how you’ve included the equivalent cost in all currencies, not just the local currency. Eliminates the need for me to go google the conversion. Much appreciated. Lots of videos don’t include this convenience.
Lovely video. I decided on the Philippines because of language. Im, as i say am bilingually challenged 😅. Other factors as well such as a beautiful young woman played into it ❤.
I just left Thailand after 2 weeks. I can't wait to get back. A lot of what you say is true, but I think I'm going to have a great time when I move there. I don't think I could ever learn Thai fluently either, but I'm pretty sure that I could learn well enough to make myself known. Learning a language of a country that you want to live in should be part of the fun. And as for all Thai women being cutthroat I don't think you can say or anybody is anything. Sure there's that type but there's also some really good people there. Got to get out of the bars for that though right? Either way the world's your oyster bro. If you don't like Thailand go to the Philippines or vietnam. Me I can't wait to get back to Thailand.
@@BiggWorldCinema ... Well, one would indeed be rather astonished if one were to expect the average continental European to seek out fast food when dining in Asia. It seems rather unlikely that one could impose upon us to conform to some notion of "English standards" in this regard.
@@BiggWorldCinema Ah, Great Britain, the land of royal rigidity and the perennially damp tea, where the sun shines so seldom that even the clouds occasionally seem to grow bored. A place where people are so enamored with tradition that they have forgotten what it means to truly live. The British, proud of their stiff upper lip and their eccentric rituals, could indeed pen a tome on the charm of yesteryear and the obstinance of the present. Their fondness for royal etiquette and queueing is admirable, if simultaneously a tad perplexing, and their incessant muttering about the weather borders on obsession. British cuisine, a culinary tragedy of epic proportions. Fish and chips, a gastronomic delight as inspiring as a soggy Sunday in Blackpool, and haggis, a dish so bold that even the Scots occasionally hesitate to partake. And then there are their roads, a labyrinth of roundabouts and potholes that can drive even the most seasoned driver to madness. Yet, in their unwavering conviction that they are the masters of traffic, they often overlook the fact that their land is as thrilling as a cup of lukewarm milk. But let us not be too harsh. Great Britain has its moments. Their literature may no longer change the world, but their ability to spin tales that touch the soul is indeed commendable. Overall, however, Great Britain remains a nation ensconced in the fog of its own nostalgia. A land so preoccupied with celebrating its glorious past that it has forgotten what it means to truly inhabit the present.
As always, if you want to live in another country, it is your job to learn the local language and not the other way around. I moved to Spain and learn Spanish and in 2-3 years I will get an apartment in Hua Hin, Thailand and I will learn Thai. If you just go there for a couple of months, no need to learn the language, but if your plan is to stay, learn and do not complain;-)
You cant even compare spanish with thai. Thai is a tone language with mean that the same word have different meaning on your tone ..like chinese japanese etc..i still say "mountain newspaper" sometimes when i mean "white rice".. all four things there have the same word but different tone
In Thai, every syllable is pronounced in one of five tones: low, mid, high, falling, or rising. The tone must be spoken correctly for the intended meaning of a word to be understood. Since every word has a particular mandatory tone
@@Roof_Pizza the problem with Thai mandarin and other asian tone language is as i said that is so damn different against how we speak in the west. And top on that u have the read and write problem. The expats struggle most that i seen over 15years permanent i se-asia is from uk and usa aka english speaking countries . Other countries are often bi-lingual from early school time and seem to coop better in asia with learning a new language.
Agreed. Feeling disconnected in a foreign country when you don't speak the language is not mysterious. Complaining about the locals not speaking your language in their country is hilarious
I lived for 11 years full time in Thailand .Most of what you said i agree with .Despite some problems i still love Thai people ,and the Country .I was back again for a Holiday last month .
Great perspective...Respect...Let me add. First, your accent is not American so my perspective is from whats going to the USA. We are in a retirement crisis, the working poor and senior homelessness is rising at the highest rate in history. The income gape is the widest it has ever been. From violent crime to homeless encampments, drug zombie no go zones and fetynal crisis taking hundred of thousands of lives every years. The average American live in poverty and struggle to afford rent, energy, insurances and food in 2024. So if your at 50% poverty side (Not the 50% of Americans (1 out of 2) that are living better, Thailand and other destinations look attractive especially for retirees getting slammed by inflation. Moving overseas, even to Thailand can be a wise part of anyones exit plan. But like I would not live in San Francisco or any other major US country due to cost, I would stay away from Bangkok, Siagon, and other major citites. As far as not being accepted. its the same in the west. The USA is a sald bowl, a make of different cultures that other than work life and social nicities, most cultures do not allow others to get into their inner circle. So the smiles in the UK, USA, Canada etc are just as insincere. Maybe because I am retireed social worker, counsoler and world travelor, I notice these things a little more and can be fair and balanced. Living overseas is not for everyone. I never enjoyed the Western culture but enjoy the buddhist central cultures (most of my close friends in California have been Asian (Philipino, Chinese, Vietnamese, Korean etc). Just always felt more at home in SEA and my SEA friends. Moving overseas retired is also not for everyone. Most people in general live and dies within a 12 mile radious according to statistics. Most people get trenched in to their comunity, have ties, family and networks. However, some welcome the Journey and venture outward, make new friends and develop new networks. Ive been in Thailand for 1 year then went to visit some friends in the DR (but I will return). As long as a have a good church to go and a good gym Im ok. Ive always made friends very easily whereever I have gone. My family has aged out so I do miss them. But I will see them when I knock on heavens door. There is a 99% chance I will settle in SEA. Maybe Thailand, maybe Vietnam or Indnesia. But then agian as a social worker, my practice has always been transcultural and embracing culture and language. Lastly do not look for undying love anywhere, not in Thailand, or the West or anywhere else, statistics show you will likely get REKT!!!! Look for something real not a sexual fantasy but a long term stable companionship and take your time. There are good woman but there getting harder to find (or tears will fall and your wallet will end up empty). Might as well stay in the west for that. LOL :) Thank you for sharing your video. I get you and enjoyed the video! Respect.
Excellent video. I’m trying to think of something you’ve missed but I can’t think of anything. Someone else mentioned something that stuck with me. They said that in Thailand, you’re welcomed and you’re mostly tolerated.
The spiritual side of Thaialnd is the main draw of the place. Good vibes all around! Manila and cebu can’t compare. But the dating is ten times better in Cebu. Btw I saw you at Starbucks yesterday in Cebu and was gona stay hello but didn’t want to be rude
Hey Mate, this rings very true to me. I spent 2 months in Philippines travelling expecting to live a year in Thailand. After 2 weeks im heading back to Cebu. I love being able to have a conversation with the locals! You said you are a football fan. Being from Romford are you a hammers supporter? Any thoughts on where i can watch the Euros in Cebu when im there? Cheers 🙏
Conversation is sooo important. Feel it more so now than when I arrived in Thailand in Dec 2019 and stayed 3 months. I used to watch Romford play soccer in thr Southern league. My olde man was a West Ham fan so took me to many games in the 60s, seeing the infamous England trio play for the Hammers. Then changed my allegiances to Chelsea in 1970! In Cebu try Howling Dogs or Billies bar. Keep in touch and let me know how yr getting on. All the best!
Thanks for the video and info. Last year, I lived in the Jomtien area for 6 months and my monthly budget was $3K and that's with companionship with a regular Thai lady for 3x a week without buying any LDs and barfines. I did not eat any western food due to way more expensive and been eating Thai food in the market. In my early 50's now, I was planning to retire but I changed my mind in the very last second due to the fact that it's all westernized nowadays and the prices are doubled and tripled so I came back to work in CA. Better be off to Manila next time.
Hi thanks for a funny video. Thailand is just like the rest off S.E. Asia its is a great place to spend your golden years . Great place to spend your money before someone else does.
Lots of cute Thai girls in this video, my friend. I guess, if you want to have a more coherent conversation with a Thai, it seems the Ladyboy's speak more Engrish! 🤣😜🤣
I am in Thailand at the moment and my idea was to spend a few months of the year here. The inability to have a decent conversation with locals puts me off.
I've never been, but have spent years living abroad. I noticed that the older I get, the more I want to spend time back home, I think it's pretty natural. The Pattaya type culture and travelling around SE Asia is appealing for a few months a year, but selling up and committing to a life out there is a big risk after 50
Living permanent in the Philippines. Only have been in Thailand for a 4 day visa run. Honestly, despite the language problem, I could live there for the better food, infrastructure, alone. Accommodations for the money are better too. My biggest issue is the food in the Pi. Filipina women are better looking imo , and warmer personalities (if not scamming). More and better English also.
I've been thinking the same about attraction to the Filipina. So many beauties! I wondered if it was just me? Thai women in general are not attractivee (to my eyes) but over 30-40 they do keep the lean health. Filipinos are just like Americans with square bodies puffing out as all the diet and inactivity catch up to you as you get older.
Interesting, i have not been to Thailand yet but plan to go to Cambodia and Vietnam sometime in the next 12 / 18 months. I am currently in Panglao, moved here mid November ( retired). I have been coming to the Philippines for 25 years. Still single as i will travel around and bought a motorcycle to do that. Patience is what you need in the Philippines or just go with the flow. Thanks for the Thai information.
Great video Philip... I have not lived or visited Thailand but I thought it would be the visa extensions and border runs being the most inconvenient part of Thailand... But I get what you mean when you say the language is a tough barrier... Sure, like you mentioned you could learn Thai... It wouldn't be high on my list of things to do other than learning a few words to get by day today.
You are right Thailand's main backdraw is the language barrier and writing/reading and yes it make many expats feel lonely and disconnected. I lived in Thailand 8 years and did fight hard to learn thai, an i do speak pretty good have i heard(a little slow but pretty clear pronunciation). But often thais often switch to Isaan dialect in things then they want private conversations and makes' you a outsider, because in the end you are only a "farang" a non Thai
It's common in other cultures too and I think they do it without thinking. I went to lunch with my Chinese boss and his Chinese friend and we all spoke English well but sometimes they spoke Chinese leaving me out of the loop for no apparent reason. Even so, I'm sure we all whisper or leave the room at times when we want a private conversation, is that rude as well?
I worked in the medical field for almost 40 years with many filipinas. They would do the same thing. The Americans found it very irritating to work next to them when they were speaking it. I don't think they did it to offend anyone, just a way to have their own conversations in their own language. I'm retiring to Thailand in June. I've been struggling to learn even some simple sentences and words. What they say about teaching an old dog new tricks is true. It's not impossible. Just difficult. I hope to take a more formal immersive class once I'm there. I'll be there in rainy season so I might as well do something indoors Interesting. No immigrant in any country is fully accepted into the culture. I'm a second generation American. I know my grandparents found it very difficult to integrate into American culture. I'm pretty sure I'll find the same amount of difficulties in Thailand. I think there are ways to offset the downsides though.
@@RobFomenko about to do some Thai language immersion myself here in Chiang Mai. Tried to learn a few words but there is nothing to hold on to. It's completely new and different. Immersion seems to be the way to go. Go to school a few hours a week, talk to locals and read and listen to something relatively easy and interesting...anything I missed?
The language barrier in Thailand is very appealing to me because there's less room for misunderstanding and gossiping bs. Although, I'd personally learn to speak it. But I wish they had a better residency program. And, then there's Malaysia and Vietnam.
I know what you mean about language. I've lived in Japan for 30 years and the language barrier is very frustrating especially when trying to take care of business. I often feel a sense of isolation because I can't just pop into a conversation with the locals who are very friendly but I don't know what they're talking about so it becomes very exhausting.
The only bad thing in thailand is the visa B.S. and the air pollution the rest is far superior to the philippines . Most thais speak plenty of english if they dont its because they dont like you 😂. Been to thailand at least 20x and spent 4.5 years of actual time living in the philippines . Been living full time and going in circles around southeast asia for like 13 years maybe longer i dont know exactly .
Thailand is more interesting and more to do the Phillipines is more boring 💤 food is very average and that's being nice Phillipines is too Americanised look at how the RUclipsrs in the Phillipines act lots of USA expats fighting like entitled babies look at dramaguete. You tubers in Thailand aren't playing these silly games and your close to all other countries like cambodia Laos Vietnam etc you can just get a bus or train to another country while the Phillipines is a island you have to fly to get to other countries 😂 !
I found Thai fairly easy to learn, but had to stop my lessons impromptu for personal reasons snd when I returned to Pattaya, my language school on Third Rd had closed. A bit disappointed as she owed me 68 hours and I felt at the speed I was picking up the language, I'd have been fluent by the end of it. Also I was learning the Bangkok dialect, not the primitive Eeeeesahn! (Isaan)
Thailand's biggest drawback isn't language ....it's weekly changing immigration rules... making folks who are doing their darnest to follow their change rules to JUMP high and far through many hoops. Most other countires in Asia are easy to visit of retire..... Thailand by far is thee most difficult Asian country to visit or retire.
I put it down to the graft embedded in the system. Pay some agent to grease the wheels and I'd imagine you wouldn't notice it. Otherwise, you'll get the runaround.
Thailand is a country that steals the culture from neighbouring counties. They are such a cultural threat towards Myanmar, Laos and specially cambodia. They need to do something that's unique For once. Did you know that ancient stone temples in Thailand like hin phimai and phnom rung are all khmer temples. They have nothing but Khmer heritage. The latest studies have shown that Thai people are just migrants from china who settled in the khmer empire and then they broke away from the Khmer empire and stole our land.
Thailand is a hierarchical society. You have no chance to break into that system. At the other end is the prostitution which has permeated the DNA of the country. Massage and handsome man and bar fines. That model now extends to the whole of SE Asia. Thailand has also become quite expensive compared to Cambodia, Philippines etc. Also, I sense there is a growing dislike of foreigners imo. Though I agree that the spiritual native of Thais is still very appealing. I prefer the Philippines for communication of course. The food isn't great but you have a chance of connecting, which I feel is out of reach with most Thai people.
Backpacked in Thailand in the early 90’s ..been back numerous times. Love the Thai food and infrastructure but the people and especially the women hold no ..zero appeal. The Filipina are on a different level for me, the Filipina Morena skin tone is appealing..plus I like the Philippines being inherently Christian.
@@gmm5550 I’ve no idea apart from a friend in the UK that owned a couple of Thai restaurants..she was Buddhist and had a tree she hugged in the local park…ps she was also f a married man(not me lol) and convicted twice of drunk drinking ..Hari Hari ..bs lol.
The different language and no chance of being understood, means Philippines appeals more to me, than Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos etc; and TEFL in far flung places (Teaching English as a Foreign Language, surely requires some knowledge of the other language? otherwise how would you explain?)
HI brother! Actually, it's unnecessary to speak the local language while teaching a foreign language. I really only speak English but I have taught in Thailand, China, Dubai, Saudi Arabia and now Oman. BTW Thailand always needs foreign teachers.
People can argue about which S.E. Asian country is best to retire in, but I doubt many people would argue that most Western countries are better unless you have tons of money or like monotony.
Thailand is not the best country, we have lots of problems as well. Some people can accept that, but some can’t. Anyone who can not accept this reality can stay in wherever you like.
Air pollution in bkk is pretty bad , always hazey Cannabis legal !?, for now 200bht for ready made joint, Government looking into ending perculiar alcohol purchasing times in 7/11 etc So many options for woman , really great people if you avoid the so called superstars , It's always good to try and learn some Thai language , very important, don't be ignorant 👍👍
I'm no expert, I've been researching for a month. One thing, finding a woman amongst young bar girls and independents, you'll get what you deserve from what I see.
The Philippines is now what Thailand used to be. Thailand used to heavily cater to foreigners and sexpats. Now that Thailand has raised its standard of living for the locals, they no longer bother to cater to foreigners, sexpats, like they used to. So the Thai girls who used to marry older foreigners for a secure life, no longer need to. You’re starting to see this in the Philippines now, many foreigners are starting to notice a shift in how the local girl see foreigners. Get it while it’s hot, soon Filipinas won’t even give you the time of day or a courteous smile.
@@BiggWorldCinema It's the truth! Seems like there's been a dramatic shift in the mindset of Filipinas since the pandemic. Social media has enabled them to do things they couldn't even imagine 10 years ago. On top of that, foreigners have been flooding the Philippines and many girls have several foreign LDR SIMPS who're sending money for nothing. Many of the girls don't need to go after a wesIterner who shows up in the Philippines. It has definitely become much harder for an expat of any age to find a good Filipina partner.
I haven't yet visited Thailand. The natural beauty and the 21st century infrastructure make it appear to be a nice place to visit or slow travel to for a bit. However, the video shows endless fat, old men day drinking and cruising for women. That does NOT appeal to me in the least.
Thailand is a country that steals the culture from neighbouring counties. They are such a cultural threat towards Myanmar, Laos and specially cambodia. They need to do something that's unique For once. Did you know that ancient stone temples in Thailand like hin phimai and phnom rung are all khmer temples. They have nothing but Khmer heritage. The latest studies have shown that Thai people are just migrants from china who settled in the khmer empire and then they broke away from the Khmer empire and stole our land.
Generic footage and a rambling discourse. Where did you exercise outdoors around Ari area? You could have taken BTS to Mo Chit and worked out in Chatuchak Park of Rot Fai Park - the greenery helps and the air isn't as filthy.
When immigrants go to western countries they are told to learn the language or home but expats travel to their countries expecting them to tolerate them because they cant speak thier language thats karma learn thier language or go home😂😂😂
Awesome vid. I am a bit younger (46) and I love learning languages so Thailand was an absolute blast. It is still my #1 spot in Asia so far.
I lived in Chiang Mai 18 months and miss the culture, currently back in the US for 4 months. I loved Thailand but did feel somewhat disconnected and isolated. But to be honest I feel the same in the US as well. I’ll be going back to SEA in June, not sure where maybe Vietnam or Cambodia. For me I like the freedom and the lifestyle that SEA has to offer. Being a lonesome traveler and a man without a woman is key to my happiness.
Except for family and any close friends, everybody else is essentially a stranger no matter where you go.
Thailand, hands down. Living in IT Park, I couldn't wait to get back to the Land of Smiles. Filipino food sucks and I found the renowned "friendliness" to be forced and feigned in the Phils. And I am being kind. My stronger feelings are best left unsaid on a public forum.
Wow! & Thanx! A harsh reality exposed! A wonderful snap to!
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I've had a totally different experience with store clerks in thailand. They're always quick to let me know that items that I am purchasing is buy one get one free. A few times they actually physically left the counter to go back to get the item for me. I have to say that customer service in Thailand is really outstanding.
That guy dancing near the beginning of your video is the Thai version of you 😂
I like how you’ve included the equivalent cost in all currencies, not just the local currency. Eliminates the need for me to go google the conversion. Much appreciated. Lots of videos don’t include this convenience.
Lovely video. I decided on the Philippines because of language. Im, as i say am bilingually challenged 😅. Other factors as well such as a beautiful young woman played into it ❤.
I just left Thailand after 2 weeks. I can't wait to get back. A lot of what you say is true, but I think I'm going to have a great time when I move there.
I don't think I could ever learn Thai fluently either, but I'm pretty sure that I could learn well enough to make myself known. Learning a language of a country that you want to live in should be part of the fun. And as for all Thai women being cutthroat I don't think you can say or anybody is anything. Sure there's that type but there's also some really good people there. Got to get out of the bars for that though right? Either way the world's your oyster bro. If you don't like Thailand go to the Philippines or vietnam. Me I can't wait to get back to Thailand.
Anyone who prefers Manila over BKK is suspect.
I prefer BGC/Makati over Bangkok
From Germany says it all.
@roofpizza1250 How much time you spent in Bangkok and Manila wise guy?
@@BiggWorldCinema ...
Well, one would indeed be rather astonished if one were to expect the average continental European to seek out fast food when dining in Asia. It seems rather unlikely that one could impose upon us to conform to some notion of "English standards" in this regard.
@@BiggWorldCinema
Ah, Great Britain, the land of royal rigidity and the perennially damp tea, where the sun shines so seldom that even the clouds occasionally seem to grow bored. A place where people are so enamored with tradition that they have forgotten what it means to truly live.
The British, proud of their stiff upper lip and their eccentric rituals, could indeed pen a tome on the charm of yesteryear and the obstinance of the present. Their fondness for royal etiquette and queueing is admirable, if simultaneously a tad perplexing, and their incessant muttering about the weather borders on obsession.
British cuisine, a culinary tragedy of epic proportions. Fish and chips, a gastronomic delight as inspiring as a soggy Sunday in Blackpool, and haggis, a dish so bold that even the Scots occasionally hesitate to partake.
And then there are their roads, a labyrinth of roundabouts and potholes that can drive even the most seasoned driver to madness. Yet, in their unwavering conviction that they are the masters of traffic, they often overlook the fact that their land is as thrilling as a cup of lukewarm milk.
But let us not be too harsh. Great Britain has its moments. Their literature may no longer change the world, but their ability to spin tales that touch the soul is indeed commendable.
Overall, however, Great Britain remains a nation ensconced in the fog of its own nostalgia. A land so preoccupied with celebrating its glorious past that it has forgotten what it means to truly inhabit the present.
As always, if you want to live in another country, it is your job to learn the local language and not the other way around. I moved to Spain and learn Spanish and in 2-3 years I will get an apartment in Hua Hin, Thailand and I will learn Thai. If you just go there for a couple of months, no need to learn the language, but if your plan is to stay, learn and do not complain;-)
You cant even compare spanish with thai. Thai is a tone language with mean that the same word have different meaning on your tone ..like chinese japanese etc..i still say "mountain newspaper" sometimes when i mean "white rice".. all four things there have the same word but different tone
In Thai, every syllable is pronounced in one of five tones: low, mid, high, falling, or rising. The tone must be spoken correctly for the intended meaning of a word to be understood. Since every word has a particular mandatory tone
It's important to at least try. So many people complain back home that newcomers don't attempt to integrate.
@@Roof_Pizza the problem with Thai mandarin and other asian tone language is as i said that is so damn different against how we speak in the west. And top on that u have the read and write problem.
The expats struggle most that i seen over 15years permanent i se-asia is from uk and usa aka english speaking countries . Other countries are often bi-lingual from early school time and seem to coop better in asia with learning a new language.
Agreed. Feeling disconnected in a foreign country when you don't speak the language is not mysterious. Complaining about the locals not speaking your language in their country is hilarious
I lived for 11 years full time in Thailand .Most of what you said i agree with .Despite some problems i still love Thai people ,and the Country .I was back again for a Holiday last month .
Great! Happy travels!
Great perspective...Respect...Let me add.
First, your accent is not American so my perspective is from whats going to the USA. We are in a retirement crisis, the working poor and senior homelessness is rising at the highest rate in history. The income gape is the widest it has ever been. From violent crime to homeless encampments, drug zombie no go zones and fetynal crisis taking hundred of thousands of lives every years. The average American live in poverty and struggle to afford rent, energy, insurances and food in 2024.
So if your at 50% poverty side (Not the 50% of Americans (1 out of 2) that are living better, Thailand and other destinations look attractive especially for retirees getting slammed by inflation.
Moving overseas, even to Thailand can be a wise part of anyones exit plan. But like I would not live in San Francisco or any other major US country due to cost, I would stay away from Bangkok, Siagon, and other major citites.
As far as not being accepted. its the same in the west. The USA is a sald bowl, a make of different cultures that other than work life and social nicities, most cultures do not allow others to get into their inner circle. So the smiles in the UK, USA, Canada etc are just as insincere.
Maybe because I am retireed social worker, counsoler and world travelor, I notice these things a little more and can be fair and balanced.
Living overseas is not for everyone. I never enjoyed the Western culture but enjoy the buddhist central cultures (most of my close friends in California have been Asian (Philipino, Chinese, Vietnamese, Korean etc). Just always felt more at home in SEA and my SEA friends.
Moving overseas retired is also not for everyone. Most people in general live and dies within a 12 mile radious according to statistics. Most people get trenched in to their comunity, have ties, family and networks. However, some welcome the Journey and venture outward, make new friends and develop new networks.
Ive been in Thailand for 1 year then went to visit some friends in the DR (but I will return). As long as a have a good church to go and a good gym Im ok. Ive always made friends very easily whereever I have gone. My family has aged out so I do miss them. But I will see them when I knock on heavens door. There is a 99% chance I will settle in SEA. Maybe Thailand, maybe Vietnam or Indnesia. But then agian as a social worker, my practice has always been transcultural and embracing culture and language.
Lastly do not look for undying love anywhere, not in Thailand, or the West or anywhere else, statistics show you will likely get REKT!!!! Look for something real not a sexual fantasy but a long term stable companionship and take your time. There are good woman but there getting harder to find (or tears will fall and your wallet will end up empty). Might as well stay in the west for that. LOL :)
Thank you for sharing your video. I get you and enjoyed the video! Respect.
great comment! Thanks for sharing your insights!
Very well said.
Excellent video. I’m trying to think of something you’ve missed but I can’t think of anything. Someone else mentioned something that stuck with me. They said that in Thailand, you’re welcomed and you’re mostly tolerated.
The spiritual side of Thaialnd is the main draw of the place. Good vibes all around!
Manila and cebu can’t compare. But the dating is ten times better in Cebu. Btw I saw you at Starbucks yesterday in Cebu and was gona stay hello but didn’t want to be rude
love thailand💯💯💯❤❤❤❤❤❤
At least they had the crisps unlike in the Phils with empty shelves.
Hey Mate, this rings very true to me. I spent 2 months in Philippines travelling expecting to live a year in Thailand. After 2 weeks im heading back to Cebu. I love being able to have a conversation with the locals! You said you are a football fan. Being from Romford are you a hammers supporter? Any thoughts on where i can watch the Euros in Cebu when im there? Cheers 🙏
Conversation is sooo important. Feel it more so now than when I arrived in Thailand in Dec 2019 and stayed 3 months. I used to watch Romford play soccer in thr Southern league. My olde man was a West Ham fan so took me to many games in the 60s, seeing the infamous England trio play for the Hammers. Then changed my allegiances to Chelsea in 1970!
In Cebu try Howling Dogs or Billies bar. Keep in touch and let me know how yr getting on. All the best!
Ah shame about the switch in team but appreciate the tips! Might see you at one of the bars if you are watching the euros!
Thanks for the video and info. Last year, I lived in the Jomtien area for 6 months and my monthly budget was $3K and that's with companionship with a regular Thai lady for 3x a week without buying any LDs and barfines. I did not eat any western food due to way more expensive and been eating Thai food in the market. In my early 50's now, I was planning to retire but I changed my mind in the very last second due to the fact that it's all westernized nowadays and the prices are doubled and tripled so I came back to work in CA. Better be off to Manila next time.
Thanks for the appreciation. Enjoy Manila!
Hi thanks for a funny video.
Thailand is just like the rest off S.E. Asia its is a great place to spend your golden years .
Great place to spend your money before someone else does.
I'm glad to hear I'm not missing much in Thailand. I'll stick to the Philippines.
Great music selection, DJ.
Thanks for listening!
Lots of cute Thai girls in this video, my friend. I guess, if you want to have a more coherent conversation with a Thai, it seems the Ladyboy's speak more Engrish! 🤣😜🤣
This gent is honest with himself and shares his opinions openly, can't ask more of him really.
I am in Thailand at the moment and my idea was to spend a few months of the year here. The inability to have a decent conversation with locals puts me off.
Great insight..I agree would never bother with Thailand..prefer Philippines..English baby English
I've never been, but have spent years living abroad. I noticed that the older I get, the more I want to spend time back home, I think it's pretty natural. The Pattaya type culture and travelling around SE Asia is appealing for a few months a year, but selling up and committing to a life out there is a big risk after 50
The happiest Americans in SE Asia tend to be the ones who were in misery in the states.
Living permanent in the Philippines. Only have been in Thailand for a 4 day visa run. Honestly, despite the language problem, I could live there for the better food, infrastructure, alone. Accommodations for the money are better too. My biggest issue is the food in the Pi.
Filipina women are better looking imo , and warmer personalities (if not scamming). More and better English also.
I've been thinking the same about attraction to the Filipina. So many beauties! I wondered if it was just me? Thai women in general are not attractivee (to my eyes) but over 30-40 they do keep the lean health. Filipinos are just like Americans with square bodies puffing out as all the diet and inactivity catch up to you as you get older.
LOLZ at the honking as you record this.
Interesting, i have not been to Thailand yet but plan to go to Cambodia and Vietnam sometime in the next 12 / 18 months. I am currently in Panglao, moved here mid November ( retired). I have been coming to the Philippines for 25 years.
Still single as i will travel around and bought a motorcycle to do that. Patience is what you need in the Philippines or just go with the flow.
Thanks for the Thai information.
Hi mate, during what time period do you think Thailand had the highest concentration of good-looking women?
From June 2018 to August 2019.
@@BiggWorldCinema In my opinion, it was from the mid-late 90s!
The Phillipines has the loudest malls ever. Robinsons in Cavite plays booming techno music at the matching sound levels. At least when I was there.
Christmas music 5 months out of the year not lifting your spirits? lol.
9:50 the monorail put Ogdenville, North Haverbrook, Brockway, AND Bangkok on the map!
Great video Philip... I have not lived or visited Thailand but I thought it would be the visa extensions and border runs being the most inconvenient part of Thailand... But I get what you mean when you say the language is a tough barrier... Sure, like you mentioned you could learn Thai... It wouldn't be high on my list of things to do other than learning a few words to get by day today.
You are right Thailand's main backdraw is the language barrier and writing/reading and yes it make many expats feel lonely and disconnected.
I lived in Thailand 8 years and did fight hard to learn thai, an i do speak pretty good have i heard(a little slow but pretty clear pronunciation).
But often thais often switch to Isaan dialect in things then they want private conversations and makes' you a outsider,
because in the end you are only a "farang" a non Thai
It's common in other cultures too and I think they do it without thinking. I went to lunch with my Chinese boss and his Chinese friend and we all spoke English well but sometimes they spoke Chinese leaving me out of the loop for no apparent reason. Even so, I'm sure we all whisper or leave the room at times when we want a private conversation, is that rude as well?
You might just have to pick your company carefully just like in the west...if I feel excluded and cannot change the situation I go somewhere else
I worked in the medical field for almost 40 years with many filipinas. They would do the same thing. The Americans found it very irritating to work next to them when they were speaking it. I don't think they did it to offend anyone, just a way to have their own conversations in their own language.
I'm retiring to Thailand in June. I've been struggling to learn even some simple sentences and words. What they say about teaching an old dog new tricks is true. It's not impossible. Just difficult. I hope to take a more formal immersive class once I'm there. I'll be there in rainy season so I might as well do something indoors Interesting.
No immigrant in any country is fully accepted into the culture. I'm a second generation American. I know my grandparents found it very difficult to integrate into American culture. I'm pretty sure I'll find the same amount of difficulties in Thailand. I think there are ways to offset the downsides though.
@@RobFomenko about to do some Thai language immersion myself here in Chiang Mai. Tried to learn a few words but there is nothing to hold on to. It's completely new and different. Immersion seems to be the way to go. Go to school a few hours a week, talk to locals and read and listen to something relatively easy and interesting...anything I missed?
The language barrier in Thailand is very appealing to me because there's less room for misunderstanding and gossiping bs.
Although, I'd personally learn to speak it.
But I wish they had a better residency program.
And, then there's Malaysia and Vietnam.
I know what you mean about language. I've lived in Japan for 30 years and the language barrier is very frustrating especially when trying to take care of business. I often feel a sense of isolation because I can't just pop into a conversation with the locals who are very friendly but I don't know what they're talking about so it becomes very exhausting.
On my recent trip I found people far less friendly especially the younger generation. I can get by in Thai and even that didn’t make a difference
It seems like globally people are coming to realize how much expats drive up the cost of housing, food etc. Locals get priced out.
You're a good looking young foreigner tho
The only bad thing in thailand is the visa B.S. and the air pollution the rest is far superior to the philippines . Most thais speak plenty of english if they dont its because they dont like you 😂. Been to thailand at least 20x and spent 4.5 years of actual time living in the philippines . Been living full time and going in circles around southeast asia for like 13 years maybe longer i dont know exactly .
Thailand is more interesting and more to do the Phillipines is more boring 💤 food is very average and that's being nice Phillipines is too Americanised look at how the RUclipsrs in the Phillipines act lots of USA expats fighting like entitled babies look at dramaguete. You tubers in Thailand aren't playing these silly games and your close to all other countries like cambodia Laos Vietnam etc you can just get a bus or train to another country while the Phillipines is a island you have to fly to get to other countries 😂 !
I found Thai fairly easy to learn, but had to stop my lessons impromptu for personal reasons snd when I returned to Pattaya, my language school on Third Rd had closed. A bit disappointed as she owed me 68 hours and I felt at the speed I was picking up the language, I'd have been fluent by the end of it. Also I was learning the Bangkok dialect, not the primitive Eeeeesahn! (Isaan)
Great vid
Why did you get sick from the air pollution. ??
your best to date--bravo
You think so? Thanks!
Did you try Jomtien?
I did. You mean you didn't watch that video shot in the retirement sector? Lol
So true so true
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It's sad that foreign men judge all Thai women based on their experiences in the red light districts.
your experience is based on your looks
What looks?
There’s a simple language solution but it involves a different approach.
Thailand's biggest drawback isn't language ....it's weekly changing immigration rules... making folks who are doing their darnest to follow their change rules to JUMP high and far through many hoops. Most other countires in Asia are easy to visit of retire..... Thailand by far is thee most difficult Asian country to visit or retire.
I put it down to the graft embedded in the system. Pay some agent to grease the wheels and I'd imagine you wouldn't notice it. Otherwise, you'll get the runaround.
The upside is it keeps out most of the riff raff. Put on a nice shirt and the Thai ladies KNOW you got game and money.
I don't understand why you're single 😂
Look him any girl will only go for him for money 😂
Thailand is a country that steals the culture from neighbouring counties. They are such a cultural threat towards Myanmar, Laos and specially cambodia. They need to do something that's unique For once. Did you know that ancient stone temples in Thailand like hin phimai and phnom rung are all khmer temples. They have nothing but Khmer heritage. The latest studies have shown that Thai people are just migrants from china who settled in the khmer empire and then they broke away from the Khmer empire and stole our land.
@theharassedexpat Thanks for your sharing the love. Good luck with your channel.
America is way too expensive to live in and Thailand is a great reprieve to move to.
I totally agree with you, been in Thailand for 18 months, loudest, most uncomfortable place I've ever lived, hope to leave soon.
Where you heading?
Maybe check out the BGC/ Makati area, possibly Cebu.@@BiggWorldCinema
That sounds like every place in Asia I've been, except Japan
Thailand is a hierarchical society. You have no chance to break into that system. At the other end is the prostitution which has permeated the DNA of the country. Massage and handsome man and bar fines. That model now extends to the whole of SE Asia.
Thailand has also become quite expensive compared to Cambodia, Philippines etc. Also, I sense there is a growing dislike of foreigners imo. Though I agree that the spiritual native of Thais is still very appealing.
I prefer the Philippines for communication of course. The food isn't great but you have a chance of connecting, which I feel is out of reach with most Thai people.
Backpacked in Thailand in the early 90’s ..been back numerous times. Love the Thai food and infrastructure but the people and especially the women hold no ..zero appeal. The Filipina are on a different level for me, the Filipina Morena skin tone is appealing..plus I like the Philippines being inherently Christian.
Can be the Buddhist mindset with is very different and strange for us western ppl =)
@@gmm5550 I’ve no idea apart from a friend in the UK that owned a couple of Thai restaurants..she was Buddhist and had a tree she hugged in the local park…ps she was also f a married man(not me lol) and convicted twice of drunk drinking ..Hari Hari ..bs lol.
The different language and no chance of being understood, means Philippines appeals more to me, than Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos etc; and TEFL in far flung places (Teaching English as a Foreign Language, surely requires some knowledge of the other language? otherwise how would you explain?)
I have a fair understanding of Spanish words, so Chabacano might appeal.
HI brother! Actually, it's unnecessary to speak the local language while teaching a foreign language. I really only speak English but I have taught in Thailand, China, Dubai, Saudi Arabia and now Oman. BTW Thailand always needs foreign teachers.
People can argue about which S.E. Asian country is best to retire in, but I doubt many people would argue that most Western countries are better unless you have tons of money or like monotony.
Thailand is not the best country, we have lots of problems as well. Some people can accept that, but some can’t. Anyone who can not accept this reality can stay in wherever you like.
Yes it’s the way of it.
Even if you’re fluent…….depth is missing
If there's no depth..... what's the point?
every one in this world wants respect...if you are a farang in Thailand you will not get respect even if you are paying to pump
Air pollution in bkk is pretty bad , always hazey
Cannabis legal !?, for now
200bht for ready made joint,
Government looking into ending perculiar alcohol purchasing times in 7/11 etc
So many options for woman , really great people if you avoid the so called superstars ,
It's always good to try and learn some Thai language , very important, don't be ignorant 👍👍
In Thailand a farang is like a dog if you do not know this then you should never go to Thailand
I'm taking my Filipna friend to Thailand to see what it's like
she is gonna eat herself to death..pinas love thai food =)
Friend …ahhh friend …”football friend” ?! Or not 😂
Pinas get crazy over the food in Thailand and u sure going to see your lady eat 60% of the time with a big happy blissful smile in her face=)
Make sure you leave from Cebu and hope she has at least one stamp already.
Immigration loves to deplane Filipinas
@@oceanearth2243 Yup, not uncommon at all.
It sounds like you miss London too much.
I do miss London. But not enough to want to live there. Far too cold!
As long as the women do who really cares.😋
so how many baht to pump
I'm no expert, I've been researching for a month. One thing, finding a woman amongst young bar girls and independents, you'll get what you deserve from what I see.
The Philippines is now what Thailand used to be. Thailand used to heavily cater to foreigners and sexpats. Now that Thailand has raised its standard of living for the locals, they no longer bother to cater to foreigners, sexpats, like they used to. So the Thai girls who used to marry older foreigners for a secure life, no longer need to. You’re starting to see this in the Philippines now, many foreigners are starting to notice a shift in how the local girl see foreigners. Get it while it’s hot, soon Filipinas won’t even give you the time of day or a courteous smile.
True that my dude 👍
Very good points. I've noticed a complete reverse during my 4 years in the Philippines. I feel completely invisible now.
@@BiggWorldCinema It's the truth! Seems like there's been a dramatic shift in the mindset of Filipinas since the pandemic. Social media has enabled them to do things they couldn't even imagine 10 years ago. On top of that, foreigners have been flooding the Philippines and many girls have several foreign LDR SIMPS who're sending money for nothing. Many of the girls don't need to go after a wesIterner who shows up in the Philippines. It has definitely become much harder for an expat of any age to find a good Filipina partner.
AGREE ..NEVER THAILAND...HOW ABOUT MALAYSA SPEAK ENGLISH YOU BEEN THERE
Thailand is one of the worst countries i visited
I haven't yet visited Thailand. The natural beauty and the 21st century infrastructure make it appear to be a nice place to visit or slow travel to for a bit. However, the video shows endless fat, old men day drinking and cruising for women. That does NOT appeal to me in the least.
Easy enough to avoid. Just stay away from the few open air brothels like Pattaya, parts of Phuket and Bangkok
Thailand is a country that steals the culture from neighbouring counties. They are such a cultural threat towards Myanmar, Laos and specially cambodia. They need to do something that's unique For once. Did you know that ancient stone temples in Thailand like hin phimai and phnom rung are all khmer temples. They have nothing but Khmer heritage. The latest studies have shown that Thai people are just migrants from china who settled in the khmer empire and then they broke away from the Khmer empire and stole our land.
Generic footage and a rambling discourse. Where did you exercise outdoors around Ari area? You could have taken BTS to Mo Chit and worked out in Chatuchak Park of Rot Fai Park - the greenery helps and the air isn't as filthy.
When immigrants go to western countries they are told to learn the language or home but expats travel to their countries expecting them to tolerate them because they cant speak thier language thats karma learn thier language or go home😂😂😂