Good morning angels! 💛 I hope you're all having a lovely day! I'm back and I'm soo excited about today's video 😍 Today I'm sharing my comprehensive guide for styling a big bust! I share 20 tips for styling big boobs / a fuller chest, as well as my journey with having a fuller chest, game changing hacks I've learned, where to buy things, and my personal favorites + recommendations! I hope you enjoy today's video + please share your experiences, favs, + recs in the comments below!! Have an amazing day 💖
For me the most difficult aspect in finding clothes with a bigger chest whilst being skinny is finding the size of bralettes or bikini tops with clothing sizes. XS, S fits for the straps and M, L fits for the chest. It’s just frustrating. How difficult can it be to realise that skinny doesn’t mean flat chested and more curvy doesn’t mean bigger chested. How difficult can it be to add more fabric to tighter straps. ARRRG!
Yes this!! Adding an in between size for those of use who are not a 32 G but also not a 26B. It’s funny they say hourglass is the most wanted shape but they make no clothes to fit that shape 😑
Same. My bust I need xl but the waist ends up a little loose so I compromise for an L but even then the bust isnt big enough and the waist isnt tight enough but at least things are more cohesive. Frustrating!
HONESTLY 😭😭 finding a dress when you're chesty but not full figured can be a total nightmare Not to mention trying to find a t-shirt that doesn't make your chest area look too tight and still make it look like you've got a waistline
My tip for everyone, but especially for my fellow petite big busted women is to learn how to size clothing down yourself. Practically this means to learn how to sew, and that might scare you away or seem too time consuming or hard, but it is REALLY rewarding. You can start with a t-shirt with a non stretchy fabric. If you know how to size clothing down at specific places to match your body, for instance just take it in at the waist, leave it larger around the bust, shorten sleeves and pants and take in clothing around the shoulder, you can basically make almost every clothing piece out there fitted for you. You can wear everything you would walk by in the store and go "if i get this my size my bust will pop the buttons, if i size up it'll look boxy". I get clothes i like but won't fit my bust in my size 3-4 sizes bigger and take it in where i like. No more oversized blouses to cover your bust, no more huge waists to get a loose fit on top. If you can't be the industry standard, become your own:)
Or find a good tailor or dressmaker to do this for you. I factor this alteration into the price of my tops and dresses, as they all need taking in under the bust. It makes a huge difference to your comfort and how the item drapes on you.
I so agree with you!! I ALWAYS have to shorten my straps and even take in side fabric on shirts because I wear a medium in my body but a plus size in the bust. Learning to make clothing fit my body has been so empowering!
the first 5 minutes literally made me cry. I have lived all 29 years of my life ashamed of my chest size. I hope to gain even half of the confidence you are showing. Thank you so so much
saaamee im 23 and never wore right size bra for once in my life for almost 20 year my mum made me wear almost 0 size bra that has no bump then a little bigger 34-35 every time i ask to buy a bigger one she starts to shame in front the market so lets not talk about what she calls me inside her house... I don't know my right size like abcd cuz we buy from the local market n there's usually no abcd just 34-36-38..... smaller bra makes ur body looks uneven + adjusting it every 5 minutes i can never ever be confident about my body as my mum can never accept me the only way out for me looks like to reduce weight anyhow but i dont know how i always gain weight even if i drink water😓😓😓😓😓😓
I'm 39 and I totally feel you, I felt embarrassed and ashamed of my breasts most of my life, I was big chested since an early age and being Hispanic nasty older men made sexual comments to me since my teen years which made me feel disgusted with myself and my breasts. I hated them. It wasn't until my late 20s-30s that I really started accepting my breasts and understanding that I didn't need to be ashamed by a part of my body that was naturally given to me, and that what other women, men, family members thought of my breasts was none of my business and I shouldn't care what they said or thought. I still wish they were smaller but I am more accepting of them now and more comfortable in my own skin. BTW I am a 34DDD or 34F. Thank you for making this video not just for young girls but also older women that still struggle with accepting their large breasts and how to dress for them.
We are the same size and i feel your pain. I feel so ashamed and embarrassed since i was in middle school and upset not being able to fit into cute outfits and disgusted by all the dirty comments by men. Im trying to learn to accept my body as well. Thank you for sharing your experience
I totally relate! And my extended family members would shame me and make comments. These were grown women that should have known better. That really made me self-conscious and even introverted when that wasn’t naturally my personality.
@@shumzz7626 omg I hate not being able to wear cute tops with leverage of my breast, as most cute tops today require you to go braless, i’m a 36DD and will soon try boob tape(i’ve never used it before). I hope it works..
The struggle is real! I'm a 36G and I can't count the number of times I've had to give up on a piece of clothing because it couldn't fit over my chest. It can be so disheartening. At 26 I've only just started to feel comfortable letting my cleavage show! Something that's really helped this year (since I've been ordering everything online in the pandemic) is knowing my measurements so I can avoid ordering clothes that won't fit my chest :)
I'm a 32HH and the struggle is real. While I've learned to love my boobs , I still find it hard to wear tank tops or any clothes that need a special type of bra.
I was a nice little B cup in high school and loved it. I could pull off anything. Then in college i started birth control and i instantly went to a 32DD. I started wearing sport bras because i didnt feel comfortable with myself. After 4 years of sports bras, i finally bought a good bra and feel comfortable with my chest again.
@@hobihope5145 You’re welcome! Busty ladies gotta stick together. You can also use a button up/ down t-shirt dress as an open kimono style layer. Layering like this also helps slim us out by creating three vertical lines to give the illusion of lengthening the body (right side of kimono/ long cardigan, your under layer eg t-shirt and jeans, the left side of kimono). Just make sure it falls at a flattering length. 😉
Hey i'm late to the party but i will share a tip that i hope helps: a little shoulder patting like she has in this video, just a little, or when the fabric along the shoulder seam is a little gathered (which will also cause the fabric to fall really nice and airy) always balances a bigger arm. I struggle with my upper arms alot, too.. and this has helped me. Generally going for airy dresses or tops during the summer that have a nice waistline and show little bit of cleavage, as she said "show some skin to balance it out", while the arms are a little bit more loose fit. I found the sleeves most flattering to end around my wrist with an elastic, around my elbow (having the sleeve end with a little bit of gathered fabric here is super cute) or halfway up my under arm. Slightly oversized t-shirts help to, you can size them down just around the waist or shorten them a little to help maintain your silhouette while the arm holes are still more loose. Lastly i like to wear a tank or cami with an oversized long sleeve layered on top that i just wear open. You can take it off whenever, close it if its cold out, put it around your hips, but if you feel uncomfortable with your arms just put it on and still wear something more fitted around your waist and bust:) a loose cami works perfekt here too if you don't like to wear fitted clothes around your waist. Sorry for the long text i hope this still helps♥️
I can’t thank you enough for this video😭 My body is the EXACT same and I felt so embarrassed for so long! Thank you for making me feel less alone and more comfortable ❤️❤️❤️
@@JessicaNeistadt Same thing happened to my friend. She is almost average height and really pretty, but always wore giant flannel shirts to cover her big chest. Would not go out after school...just stayed home all the time. One day she had enough and decided just to live and quit trying to hide. What a difference! She has a fabulous figure. Can't wait to show her your channel. It's hard to believe all the wonderful clothes combinations you make up and how perfectly everything fits you. I know she will be truly inspired to get the classy ideas you show on your channel as part of her wardrobe. This will help many large chested gals. Thank you Jess!
This is probably my favorite styling video on youtube. I have a big bust, and i was discussing with friends how i always feel super sexualized because of my breasts and try to coverup as much as i can. Please keep videos like this coming!
I wish you’d been in my life 50 years ago! At 70 I’m still a 34F and all your tips and hacks are stuff I had to learn over the decades. I’m not comfortable showing more skin, but the lines are achievable through using things like v neck cardigans over my button-ups...and yeah, I’ve been sewing little snaps or carefully placed safety pins in ‘the gap’ for years. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this, it means so much. I'm 24 now, and I had the same chest growth. I was comfortable at B cup at middle school, but i got to an F now and all this time til now, I have no idea what to wear. When I try to dress up, I'm so conscious about how my chest makes about everything look sexy. Living in an asian country with such conservative older people and so many judgements makes dressing my boobs so hard for me. So this means so much to me. I really want to be comfortable in my own body. I want to be able to wear clothes i've always dreamt of. I really do
This video helps so much. I’m slim but have a very full chest and it feels like clothes are either catered to skinny and small chested or full figured and full chested
This has made me feel far more confident. I am 15 with a 28DDD bra size, I have struggled all my life to find clothing that fits me correctly because on top of having a big bust I am quite skinny. Thank you so much for your suggestions!!
Jess, my teenage girl would crave to hear you talking about this topic. But now, I feel grateful to know different women around me to understand the struggle of big chest and realizing that no one needs to body shaming for a size. I´ve been sexualized lot of times in college due to my size but c´mon I cannot live like that, I need to understand how to style and feel comfortable. Thanks!
I've always had a big chest in Middle School, I was in a 36 C. All my friends were so jealous because every boy liked me. But I knew they only liked me because of my chest, also my small chested friends didn't know how hard it was to find clothes to make sure I was comfortable in. Three years later I find this video and OMG THANK YOU JESSICA, you're a life saver. Thank you again
Recommendation for the BEST sports bra that no one ever talks about is the brand Shock Absorber. No bra has ever compared to them. I have an F Cup and wear there D+ Max Support Bra to play soccer and wow it is just the best support, there is no movement going on at all. Highly recommend
I could cry rn. I have FINALLY found someone who understands me. 🥺 I have felt alone for so long and I finally feel seen. Ugh I have no words. Gonna binge all of the videos on this channel. Byeeeeee ✌🏼
I am a G cup and absolutely adore Evelyn and Bobbie bras! Supportive, no more digging into my shoulder, or spillage out the top. Super comfortable and I look forward to wearing it, not taking it off. Just try one and you see what can be possible.
I’ve been bigger chested my whole life and have had many derogatory and negative comments about it. It’s all I see in photos and make shopping a huge challenge. I enjoyed your great spirit and very useful suggestions.
I have had a B size chest for the last 17 years and in less than 2 months I all of a sudden wear a DD. I’m 36 and have never had a big chest in my life. The doctors have no clue why this has happened to me and it sucks 😭 I have been watching videos all day on how to dress it happened so quick. Thank you for this video.
I feel like I needed this! As a 28DDD or E no one takes me seriously because I'm skinny and wear baggy clothes. I can't find any bras my size and I'm bottom heavy/side heavy. So I have to buy expensive bras or make my own. I often wear bracelets but they give me side boob. Then I get frustrated shopping with the women in my family cause they are all heavier then me.. it often ends up with me crying and feeling insecure. I wish people would take me seriously and clothing companies would make more sizes.
Thanks for these tips! I don’t like feeling ashamed or that I’m too revealing wearing tops because of the size of my chest. I usually dress modestly, but don’t want to always cover up.
I know what you mean, as I grew from middle to high school I was so self conscious and it has taken me quite sometime to recognize I am a women who is unique and am beautiful in my own way. Some days I get stuck in the rut, so this video definitely resonates with me💖
I’m a 32GG (UK). I’m in the US but US sizes are honestly garbage past DD. Especially for small band/large cup. Highly recommend A Bra That Fits! They have a bra calculator and a Facebook group to help you find the right fit! I finally have a bra that doesn’t kill me lol Anyways, I’m trying to find my style and curate a wardrobe I love and this video gave me some great staple things to look for when shopping for it! Thank you!
I feel this video in my soul I've been a DD since 14 the struggle is real 💜 your vids and your style especially since you are a short girl like me I'm barely 5'1 😀
I'm a DDD 38 I too have been that big since 14. I'm 5 ft. Unfortunately now at 54 I'm also gaining the weight to match. It's even harder in Arizona where summer can be 118 degrees. You almost have to wear tank tops
Yesssss. I’m a 32 f on a small day. And have been since like 14. It was the most embarrassing thing because they were totally natural. While other girls were sprouting into a cute B or C
I love this video! As a Filipina myself, it took me soooooo long to figure out what's best for my body type. Thrifting saved me! Gave me an opportunity to try out other silhouettes without breaking the bank. **And IDK if it's a hack but I always ALWAYS keep the "wrong" bra size aka too big/loose of either sports bras or just normal bras for those pre period days where they just swell up like crazy. It helps! 😉😉
This is a great video. For folks like me who are a much larger chest, Aerie and Savage X Fenty won't work-- they're just not big enough. Try investing in Elomi or Freya instead. Much better sizing (UK sizing so it's more accurate) and great fit & style. Elomi also make great swimwear. Bravissimo is also a great place to buy quality large-bust items and they have awesome sales. For reference, I'm an H/I/J cup. A personal goal for me is learning to sew my own lingerie, even if it's "just" some bralettes-- that way I'm sure to get the perfect fit! There are lots of free patterns too!
omg ty. im only 15 and im a DDD. idk what or why the hell this happened. they are growing so fast. i was literally a DD in December it feels like Im buying a new set of bras every 4 months. yesterday i had to get 6 new bras bc only 2 of my old ones still fit me. i cant even wear bras unless they have wire. your literally a lifesaver 🙏🏽
@@jonogren5567 also no I don't care that this comment was made over 9 months ago, Imma speak up bc it was genuinely irking me lmao. I hope you've been better in the meantime. Genuine respect if you actually end up reading my rant also lol
Big yes to this thank you so much for making this video! My bust isn’t even that big but whenever I wear low cut items I feel SO uncomfortable simply because of how people would look at me and treat me. It sucks.
Ahhh this is the vid I need! I'm still working on feeling comfortable with my chest, I gave myself a hunchback in school trying to hide! I was the same, A-B cup for years and then suddenly when I was 16 boom DD. By the time I left school at 18 I was a 28G and I absolutely hated it. Nothing fit and I had to buy giant ugly "granny" bra's online bc they didn't carry my size in shops. I'm almost 26 now (and a 30F/32E) and I've found some things that work but bikinis are still a nightmare.
I used to hate having a large bust when I was younger, but now I'm glad about it. You can dress sexy and flaunt it, but nowadays, there's plenty of options when it comes to more modest styles too, so you have many style options. Fashion has come a long way!
This was so helpful! I loved your inclusive language and consideration for viewers who might not want to minimize bust size. ♥️ For another recommendation, I’m going to put Wacoal out there-I *swear* by their bras. They fit perfectly, they offer a huge range of sizes, they offer wider straps to avoid hurting your shoulders, and they last FOREVER. Seriously could not recommend them more.
Other people don’t make me embarrassed. I feel like I’m a generally active person and just having boobs is uncomfortable idk. Am I the only one? 😞 And like, I think I’d feel different if I had a good bra but I tried to find new bras a while ago and just got a panic attack cuz it was so stressful and uncomfy idk
Hi! I was the same way. I was wearing D or DD bras because of Victoria's Secret and then I got measured at Dillards and I was actually a 36 I ! It's so important to get measured and wear a good, supportive bra. Its game changing!
Shefit is a great workout bra! I’m a 38f and when I wear it they don’t move which is so important for working out. The bra comes with an adjustable back and adjustable straps. It’s a good bra for when your body is constantly changing you can adjust to those difference.
the biggest game changer for me has been always buying unlined bras (i wear a 34G) -- finding one that fits properly minimizes really well and doesn't give that overly round shape, bare necessities has the best selection for DD+ imo
Thank you so much for this. I went from being a 32AA to a 34C and now a 34D. I was really embarrassed about it so I never told my mom about the fact that my bust size went up. So I was wearing 32AA bras when I was a 34C (horrible I know). After finding out that I had gone up again really scared me because I won't be able to wear a lot of things I like because they usually accentuate my breast more when I don't want it too. I am also in high school and because of hormones and uncontrollable teenage boys, I have been even more self-conscious about it. I am just really happy that I found this video because it is SO helpful
Pls wear a correct size for your body, because it could cause health problems if not! & Never ever be embarrassed because of your body, it is what it is! ;)
Thank you so much for sharing, I used to be a 22D a few months ago, but after getting pregnant I jumped to a 32G. It's been hard finding clothes that I feel comfortable in since my proportions all look different and this really helped :)
Ugh I have just been feeling so badly about my chest recently. I am a petite 32 G and the summer is always the hardest for me because I feel like I can't wear anything without feeling extremely uncomfortable, your tips were very appreciated! I wish they had cuter swimwear for people my size and I wish I could wear all the clothes small chested people do without looking super disproportionate! :(
Love your tips! I'm a 34G and I have discovered Soma bras recently. Bonus is they have actual pretty bras for big busts, which we all know is an issue!
Oh my god i miss my small comfortable B's from middle school-junior year😑 double d just gets messy sometimes. Bras more expensive. So much more science going into trying to.. put them ..away.. in a fashionable way 😂 i feel understood thru this thank you!
Thank you so much! I also started out as an A, then a small B, but then I got pregnant and suddenly I was at a G! This is what a little weight and breastfeeding will do. Now I am about a D/DD depending on brand. These styling tips are sooo helpful. Some of them I discovered on my own (V neck better than crew, for example) but most of these I’ve never tried. And the bra recommendations! It’s so hard to find something that fits well and is comfortable. 🦋
In school I started having larger chest starting in grade 6 …I was called a slut and It was hard for me to wear junior size clothing anymore. I ended up having to wear adult shirts. By the time I was 20 Victoria’s Secret didn’t Carry my size anymore And I left crying because I don’t know what I was going to do. It’s been very hard for me to become comfortable with my chest. Once somewhat recently I decided to post a beach selfie and the only comments I got were Saying things like “wow there’s a beach”. I’m gonna try not to worry about showing too much skin but I can say that it’s extremely difficult to put myself out there mentally and physically.
I have been struggling to look for clothes that fit me because of my big bust. I'm a senior in high school and throughout my high school years I have always hated being big chested, until I learned to accept my body for how it is. I came across your video and it is soo helpful! Thank you for sharing your story and tips for girls like us that struggle with the same thing❤
Amen sister, being more well endowed since 13 😅 I find my body gets more sexualized and it took me years to figure out how to both embrace my body and style it in a way I feel comfortable
I feel this.. I'm turning 26, and i've always been ashamed of having a big bust. I've never really tried on fixing myself, i just go for comfy clothes and i'm always all covered, i've never been really confident, i kept on wearing jeans ang hoodies. But recently i'm starting to learn how to love myself i've starting trying new things.. so i've been looking around and started taking care of myself regarding looking more presentable. I hope i'd be able to overcome my fear and be confident even if i do have a VERY low self-esteem. Anyways hope everyone is having a great time and take care everyone :)
It's very annoying when someone said I should cover up. I mean, people think I show too much cleavage even when I wear just a t-shirt. I struggle a lot because of my breasts. But when I tell someone about this problem, people think I wanna show off that mine is bigger. Thank you for sharing . Love your vid!
I've been struggling with summer outfits lately. I have a big bust and i want to wear cute clothes but it looks so revealing even if it is just a regular tank top. I don't even look at bralets 😭
mine is 34G I have struggled alot , as a teenager I was being started and told by my friends that my girls are too bigg . and ofcourse in college people literally think( consider ) me as some sl*t due to my hourglass figure , they have spread all false rumours about me in college only because "I am good looking( I do look after myself , I groom myself , I workout ) and literally two of my male professors literally complained that I am trying to seduce them taking the ADVANTAGE of my body ( like wtf I don't even talk to them , infact I never spoke to them either ) and recently I also heard from few of my seniors that , few staffs were talking about my cleavage after all these I felt so embarrassed , I don't even feel like going back to college post pandemic that's the reason why I came for this video , also you were right , we shouldn't be ashamed of our large girls. just flaunt the beauty you ladies🤗
My big problem is finding bras with small band size with big cup size. All the brands in this video didn't have my band size, maybe some day. Amazing video anyway the trick with the claps is genius
Were saving up for our younger sister breast reduction surgery. It literally impacting her mental health and she doesn’t has confidence to go out n meet people. If im not mistaken her size is H or G cup. Shes short and always wear big baggy clothes n her shoulder n back just sore all the time. Hopefully she’ll feel better after the surgery. Based on the plan, we will have enough amount by this oct🎉🎊 cant wait
need that so much! i've never been confident about how my bust looks in anything... i've always felt the need to wear baggy clothes (that i don't think are the best for a pear body shape) and cover up.. thanks x
As a busty petite Asian girl this was so helpful and affirming 😭 thank you for this and your petite styling video! I’ve been struggling especially with being more confident in my proportions while maintaining some business casual appropriate looks so THANK YOU SO MUCH! I’m especially glad it gave me ideas for styling my current pieces I wasn’t super sure about on me but didn’t want to let go of 😭❤️
I wore a 34C for years until semi recently realizing I'm a 34DD, and I really appreciate the relatability of this video oh my god 😂 Edit: also I absolutely adore Savage Fenty bras
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips with us. I don't know if every state has a Soma but they are really good at helping you measure your bust and finding the best bras for you. I highly recommend it! Their bras are reasonably priced and are super comfortable.
As someone who went from a 32AA in high school, to 34DDD in college, and now a 38I as an adult, this was really helpful and I'm going to check out a few of these sites and try a few styling tricks. I have been mostly braless since college because I couldn't find them in my size easily (not to mention the price when I do), and now they are getting too heavy and I need to find a way to wear bras again.
Hello friend!! This video had really helpful tips :) As a 32DD/32E I always feel top heavy in whatever I'm wearing and then feel insecure. So I've been doing the opposite of what you recommended - high necks/ crew necks Will implement some of them and see how it goes :) Thanks again!
Ive been Big busted forvever. My first bra was a c cup. You pretty much covered my fashion style for shirts and the tops of dresses. My absolute favorite bras are balconette and demis. I learned through trial and error. But my sister who has been a and b cup all her life is suddenly in the big boob club since she went into menopause. Im going to share this with her. Thanks!
I found here in Japan a bra that is made to make your bust look smaller (flat bra). I used it on colder weather we’re a turtle neck is highly necessary and it helps a lot with the overall look of the bust. It gives almost a sports bra effect but more comfortable, more stylish (in my opinion) and better “distributed” The brand I use is called Flufeel I don’t have a HUGE bust but my body frame is really small comparted to my bust so I have all the big busted girls problems 😂 I had the same experience of going from nothing to people asking me if I have implants 😂😂😂.
32E, I always felt ashamed of my bust and I'm actually quite skinny, and everyobody used to tear me apart for that. But I'm learning to embrace it. Thank you for the tips!
I love this video! I’m a 36 DDD and always get comments on shirts that aren’t even that revealing. I just ignore them now. The only bras I even like to wear are Victoria’s Secret and Fenty. Although it is harder to find larger sizes in both. I typically go for unlined bras with underwire that’s the most comfortable for me. I have yet to find a bralette or sports bra that’s comfortable. I wish I could find some!
13:34 This is truly game changing! I absolutely hated having to wear my formal uniform in school because it was a button-up! I had to find the smallest safety pin I could find AND THEN also tape it up with clear tape from the inside since the safety pin by itself didn't do anything. (For real, why aren't school uniforms designed with an extra button in there? It's not *that* uncommon for people to have big chests)
Ahh yes!! I linked it in the description under fav bralette 🥰 It's currently on sale for 60% off, I have it in a size large, and I really love it!! It's super comfy, fits well, and I never fall out of it. I'm actually going to take advantage of the sale myself and pick up a few new colors 🙂
This video is like my safe space rn lol. Being 16 with a large chest is really freaking difficult, I can’t wear anything I want because it’s just too much and I always get comments that make me really uncomfortable 😞
I have battled with all of this as well. Graduated HS many years ago with DDD breast and it has been a struggle, I am now 48 years young with 34 DD/DDD (depending on the brand) I am 5 ft short, wear a size 2/4 in most bottoms and finding tops to fit my short frame with big chest is the hardest. I have never been able to wear a button up shirt and strapless bras have been a constant struggle. Your suggestion on ordering swimsuits is a very valid one as I can only order separately in that department and I have ordered from the company Venus, so I wanted to share that I have had great results with that one. I personally prefer swimsuits that do not tie around the neck because the weight of my breast will make the back of my neck hurt after a little while. Thank you for starting the suggestions. I will be looking into the companies that you suggested as well
I'm not necessarily a busty gal, but I just tried Lively bras for the first time and they're the softest bras I've ever worn (and that's coming from a diehard Aerie stan)
Torrid is amazing for a plus size chest. I think some forget about it because it’s a strictly plus size store but I have friends who aren’t necessarily plus sized in their bodies but their chest is larger and they absolutely love Torrid. It’s pricey but high quality bras are anywhere you look.
I have always found that a low V neck on tops works very well, but if I feel it’s to low then a vest top underneath with a lace detail so that the lace goes across the v neck works good .
Hello Jess, I so needed this video. I am a 34C but I have slightly saggy boobs due to the size and coz I lost a lot of weight at the end of my puberty. I sometimes struggle and feel inferior when I see girls with elevated breasts. I bounce back loving my body but still secretly feel bad at times. I know the struggle girl. Love you for being so candid. ❤️
I'm a 32 GG in EU size, so I struggle lol. It's funny how I've been doing most of these things subconsciously. Like the showing more skin, the rectangular silhouette or wearing black in particular. I thought that was just my taste but now it makes sense. Thanks for this video! Really good! My recommendation for bras in the UK: Bravissimo
Finally found a style channel that talks about styling big busty ladies that actually has a big bust. All the videos I've seen about chest sizes, the women are pretty tiny chested. I'm between a C/D. So pretty excited to try these out.
Thankyou!! I went to a G (a G!) while I was pregnant & breastfeeding and, well, I won’t be seeing those C-cups anytime soon. I’ve settled at a D/DD, but I’ve never figured out what to wear. And I love button down tops, but I’d given them up as a lost cause. Thanks again!
This is so nice to see! I had a baby and breastfeed so I’m a 32G 😅🙈 finding really anything that fits me is a challenge.. as if it’s not hard enough after having a baby.
Thank you so much for the amazing tips! Also, it was so nice to start with you talking about not being ashamed of your body at all- having grown up in a conservative Christian church, having a big bust has made me feel so embarrassed and ashamed so often.
Good morning angels! 💛 I hope you're all having a lovely day! I'm back and I'm soo excited about today's video 😍
Today I'm sharing my comprehensive guide for styling a big bust! I share 20 tips for styling big boobs / a fuller chest, as well as my journey with having a fuller chest, game changing hacks I've learned, where to buy things, and my personal favorites + recommendations!
I hope you enjoy today's video + please share your experiences, favs, + recs in the comments below!! Have an amazing day 💖
Girl I don't have one, but we here still, amen? ❤️❤️😂
Omg I struggle with this alot but now it seems I have a solution😂❤️
Is there a way to measure your size at home?
When you buy sports bras and bralettes do you get the same size as your bra? Just curious if you find them sized differently. I am Cup size E too.
Thank you so much,I've been waiting for a video like this to pop up for a super long time❤😍this video was super helpful
For me the most difficult aspect in finding clothes with a bigger chest whilst being skinny is finding the size of bralettes or bikini tops with clothing sizes. XS, S fits for the straps and M, L fits for the chest. It’s just frustrating. How difficult can it be to realise that skinny doesn’t mean flat chested and more curvy doesn’t mean bigger chested. How difficult can it be to add more fabric to tighter straps. ARRRG!
Congrats
Yes this!! Adding an in between size for those of use who are not a 32 G but also not a 26B. It’s funny they say hourglass is the most wanted shape but they make no clothes to fit that shape 😑
Same. My bust I need xl but the waist ends up a little loose so I compromise for an L but even then the bust isnt big enough and the waist isnt tight enough but at least things are more cohesive. Frustrating!
YES
HONESTLY 😭😭
finding a dress when you're chesty but not full figured can be a total nightmare
Not to mention trying to find a t-shirt that doesn't make your chest area look too tight and still make it look like you've got a waistline
small chest but I used this video to buy clothes for my big-chested friend and she really, really loved them. thank you so much!
You're a great friend :)
Oh my god I love that you thought of this, so sweet.
❤️❤️❤️
The 🌏 needs more friends like you!!!!!
This is literally so sweet.
My tip for everyone, but especially for my fellow petite big busted women is to learn how to size clothing down yourself.
Practically this means to learn how to sew, and that might scare you away or seem too time consuming or hard, but it is REALLY rewarding. You can start with a t-shirt with a non stretchy fabric.
If you know how to size clothing down at specific places to match your body, for instance just take it in at the waist, leave it larger around the bust, shorten sleeves and pants and take in clothing around the shoulder, you can basically make almost every clothing piece out there fitted for you. You can wear everything you would walk by in the store and go "if i get this my size my bust will pop the buttons, if i size up it'll look boxy". I get clothes i like but won't fit my bust in my size 3-4 sizes bigger and take it in where i like. No more oversized blouses to cover your bust, no more huge waists to get a loose fit on top.
If you can't be the industry standard, become your own:)
I've decided to do this. Wearing huge shirts makes me look sloppy. Finding a good tailor is difficult. 😃
Or find a good tailor or dressmaker to do this for you. I factor this alteration into the price of my tops and dresses, as they all need taking in under the bust. It makes a huge difference to your comfort and how the item drapes on you.
Thank you for this amazing advice!❤️
I love the last line. Be ur own industry standard
I so agree with you!! I ALWAYS have to shorten my straps and even take in side fabric on shirts because I wear a medium in my body but a plus size in the bust. Learning to make clothing fit my body has been so empowering!
She looks like Veronica from Riverdale series 😍
I thought it was her at first 😂
Me too😂
We love to see it
Yes😂😂
i was looking for this comment 😂
I will never get over how beautiful your background lights are !!!!!!!
Thank you so much!!! 🥺❤️
the first 5 minutes literally made me cry. I have lived all 29 years of my life ashamed of my chest size. I hope to gain even half of the confidence you are showing. Thank you so so much
I cried too!!
Probably not all 29 😆 or were they huge from infancy to your preteens?
saaamee im 23 and never wore right size bra for once in my life for almost 20 year my mum made me wear almost 0 size bra that has no bump then a little bigger 34-35 every time i ask to buy a bigger one she starts to shame in front the market so lets not talk about what she calls me inside her house... I don't know my right size like abcd cuz we buy from the local market n there's usually no abcd just 34-36-38..... smaller bra makes ur body looks uneven + adjusting it every 5 minutes i can never ever be confident about my body as my mum can never accept me the only way out for me looks like to reduce weight anyhow but i dont know how i always gain weight even if i drink water😓😓😓😓😓😓
Girl do you realize some women actually want bigger boobs?
I'm 39 and I totally feel you, I felt embarrassed and ashamed of my breasts most of my life, I was big chested since an early age and being Hispanic nasty older men made sexual comments to me since my teen years which made me feel disgusted with myself and my breasts. I hated them. It wasn't until my late 20s-30s that I really started accepting my breasts and understanding that I didn't need to be ashamed by a part of my body that was naturally given to me, and that what other women, men, family members thought of my breasts was none of my business and I shouldn't care what they said or thought. I still wish they were smaller but I am more accepting of them now and more comfortable in my own skin. BTW I am a 34DDD or 34F. Thank you for making this video not just for young girls but also older women that still struggle with accepting their large breasts and how to dress for them.
The nasty older men 🤦🏾♀️ I'm so sorry for your experience
Same here 🙌🌻
We are the same size and i feel your pain. I feel so ashamed and embarrassed since i was in middle school and upset not being able to fit into cute outfits and disgusted by all the dirty comments by men. Im trying to learn to accept my body as well. Thank you for sharing your experience
I totally relate! And my extended family members would shame me and make comments. These were grown women that should have known better. That really made me self-conscious and even introverted when that wasn’t naturally my personality.
@@shumzz7626 omg I hate not being able to wear cute tops with leverage of my breast, as most cute tops today require you to go braless, i’m a 36DD and will soon try boob tape(i’ve never used it before). I hope it works..
The struggle is real! I'm a 36G and I can't count the number of times I've had to give up on a piece of clothing because it couldn't fit over my chest. It can be so disheartening. At 26 I've only just started to feel comfortable letting my cleavage show! Something that's really helped this year (since I've been ordering everything online in the pandemic) is knowing my measurements so I can avoid ordering clothes that won't fit my chest :)
Twin bust sizes!
Me,too
@@RougeRadiant Triplets! It's a real struggle.
We have similar bra sizes. Where do u buy your bras from?
Do u mesure bust size with or without bra?
I'm a 32HH and the struggle is real. While I've learned to love my boobs , I still find it hard to wear tank tops or any clothes that need a special type of bra.
Congrats. 🤣
Does it sag?
@@muskanhira763 who me? 🤣🤣
@@jonogren5567 I mean. Anyone lol.
Coz mine are big and they sag. I am super insecure of them
That part
I was a nice little B cup in high school and loved it. I could pull off anything. Then in college i started birth control and i instantly went to a 32DD. I started wearing sport bras because i didnt feel comfortable with myself. After 4 years of sports bras, i finally bought a good bra and feel comfortable with my chest again.
A 32DD here. ✋🏻
Same 🤚
@@payalkundu1936 congrats
@@noellebagel6645 congrats
Yo this is my story right here cause I was like wear did these boobs come from
having a bigger chest gave me big arms too and i'm so insecure about them especially during the summer 😭😭
If you’re feeling insecure about your bust/ arms, I recommend trying kimonos/ light dusters.
@@tilywinn I will definitely be trying them ! Thank you so much for the recommendation !!
@@hobihope5145 You’re welcome! Busty ladies gotta stick together. You can also use a button up/ down t-shirt dress as an open kimono style layer. Layering like this also helps slim us out by creating three vertical lines to give the illusion of lengthening the body (right side of kimono/ long cardigan, your under layer eg t-shirt and jeans, the left side of kimono). Just make sure it falls at a flattering length. 😉
Same!!
Hey i'm late to the party but i will share a tip that i hope helps: a little shoulder patting like she has in this video, just a little, or when the fabric along the shoulder seam is a little gathered (which will also cause the fabric to fall really nice and airy) always balances a bigger arm. I struggle with my upper arms alot, too.. and this has helped me. Generally going for airy dresses or tops during the summer that have a nice waistline and show little bit of cleavage, as she said "show some skin to balance it out", while the arms are a little bit more loose fit. I found the sleeves most flattering to end around my wrist with an elastic, around my elbow (having the sleeve end with a little bit of gathered fabric here is super cute) or halfway up my under arm. Slightly oversized t-shirts help to, you can size them down just around the waist or shorten them a little to help maintain your silhouette while the arm holes are still more loose. Lastly i like to wear a tank or cami with an oversized long sleeve layered on top that i just wear open. You can take it off whenever, close it if its cold out, put it around your hips, but if you feel uncomfortable with your arms just put it on and still wear something more fitted around your waist and bust:) a loose cami works perfekt here too if you don't like to wear fitted clothes around your waist. Sorry for the long text i hope this still helps♥️
I love all the square necklines that are out now. I was amazed at how flattering they were. I'm a 34G.
Yes!! I managed to find a square neck dress second hand. Amazing!
I can’t thank you enough for this video😭 My body is the EXACT same and I felt so embarrassed for so long! Thank you for making me feel less alone and more comfortable ❤️❤️❤️
Aww I'm so so so happy to hear this 😭 I am right there with you girl!! It might be a struggle sometimes, but you are seriously never ever alone 💗
@@JessicaNeistadt Same thing happened to my friend. She is almost average height and really pretty, but always wore giant flannel shirts to cover her big chest. Would not go out after school...just stayed home all the time. One day she had enough and decided just to live and quit trying to hide. What a difference! She has a fabulous figure. Can't wait to show her your channel. It's hard to believe all the wonderful clothes combinations you make up and how perfectly everything fits you. I know she will be truly inspired to get the classy ideas you show on your channel as part of her wardrobe. This will help many large chested gals. Thank you Jess!
This is probably my favorite styling video on youtube. I have a big bust, and i was discussing with friends how i always feel super sexualized because of my breasts and try to coverup as much as i can. Please keep videos like this coming!
I wish you’d been in my life 50 years ago! At 70 I’m still a 34F and all your tips and hacks are stuff I had to learn over the decades. I’m not comfortable showing more skin, but the lines are achievable through using things like v neck cardigans over my button-ups...and yeah, I’ve been sewing little snaps or carefully placed safety pins in ‘the gap’ for years. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this, it means so much.
I'm 24 now, and I had the same chest growth.
I was comfortable at B cup at middle school, but i got to an F now and all this time til now, I have no idea what to wear. When I try to dress up, I'm so conscious about how my chest makes about everything look sexy. Living in an asian country with such conservative older people and so many judgements makes dressing my boobs so hard for me.
So this means so much to me. I really want to be comfortable in my own body. I want to be able to wear clothes i've always dreamt of. I really do
This video helps so much. I’m slim but have a very full chest and it feels like clothes are either catered to skinny and small chested or full figured and full chested
This has made me feel far more confident. I am 15 with a 28DDD bra size, I have struggled all my life to find clothing that fits me correctly because on top of having a big bust I am quite skinny. Thank you so much for your suggestions!!
Jess, my teenage girl would crave to hear you talking about this topic. But now, I feel grateful to know different women around me to understand the struggle of big chest and realizing that no one needs to body shaming for a size. I´ve been sexualized lot of times in college due to my size but c´mon I cannot live like that, I need to understand how to style and feel comfortable. Thanks!
I've always had a big chest in Middle School, I was in a 36 C. All my friends were so jealous because every boy liked me. But I knew they only liked me because of my chest, also my small chested friends didn't know how hard it was to find clothes to make sure I was comfortable in. Three years later I find this video and OMG THANK YOU JESSICA, you're a life saver. Thank you again
Recommendation for the BEST sports bra that no one ever talks about is the brand Shock Absorber. No bra has ever compared to them. I have an F Cup and wear there D+ Max Support Bra to play soccer and wow it is just the best support, there is no movement going on at all. Highly recommend
I dont like them. The upper hooks are not reachable for me. I love Panache.
I could cry rn. I have FINALLY found someone who understands me. 🥺 I have felt alone for so long and I finally feel seen. Ugh I have no words. Gonna binge all of the videos on this channel. Byeeeeee ✌🏼
I am a G cup and absolutely adore Evelyn and Bobbie bras!
Supportive, no more digging into my shoulder, or spillage out the top.
Super comfortable and I look forward to wearing it, not taking it off.
Just try one and you see what can be possible.
I’m a G cup too and the struggle is TOO real! Thanks for the suggestion!
I’ve been bigger chested my whole life and have had many derogatory and negative comments about it. It’s all I see in photos and make shopping a huge challenge. I enjoyed your great spirit and very useful suggestions.
I have had a B size chest for the last 17 years and in less than 2 months I all of a sudden wear a DD. I’m 36 and have never had a big chest in my life. The doctors have no clue why this has happened to me and it sucks 😭 I have been watching videos all day on how to dress it happened so quick. Thank you for this video.
I feel like I needed this! As a 28DDD or E no one takes me seriously because I'm skinny and wear baggy clothes. I can't find any bras my size and I'm bottom heavy/side heavy. So I have to buy expensive bras or make my own. I often wear bracelets but they give me side boob. Then I get frustrated shopping with the women in my family cause they are all heavier then me.. it often ends up with me crying and feeling insecure. I wish people would take me seriously and clothing companies would make more sizes.
Thanks for these tips! I don’t like feeling ashamed or that I’m too revealing wearing tops because of the size of my chest. I usually dress modestly, but don’t want to always cover up.
I know what you mean, as I grew from middle to high school I was so self conscious and it has taken me quite sometime to recognize I am a women who is unique and am beautiful in my own way. Some days I get stuck in the rut, so this video definitely resonates with me💖
I’m a 32GG (UK). I’m in the US but US sizes are honestly garbage past DD. Especially for small band/large cup. Highly recommend A Bra That Fits! They have a bra calculator and a Facebook group to help you find the right fit! I finally have a bra that doesn’t kill me lol
Anyways, I’m trying to find my style and curate a wardrobe I love and this video gave me some great staple things to look for when shopping for it! Thank you!
Honestly this is why I am a subscriber because you have the same body as me plus the same height. So helpful and encouraging!
Same! Love this video making me feel like less of a weirdo
I feel this video in my soul I've been a DD since 14 the struggle is real 💜 your vids and your style especially since you are a short girl like me I'm barely 5'1 😀
I'm a DDD 38 I too have been that big since 14. I'm 5 ft. Unfortunately now at 54 I'm also gaining the weight to match. It's even harder in Arizona where summer can be 118 degrees. You almost have to wear tank tops
Yesssss. I’m a 32 f on a small day. And have been since like 14. It was the most embarrassing thing because they were totally natural. While other girls were sprouting into a cute B or C
@Amy Ah Gee ✋bragging about being tall lol
Samee
Me too!
32ddd here and i'm also 4'11 so I liked this video immidietly before watching because I know it'll be bomb 🥴
I love this video! As a Filipina myself, it took me soooooo long to figure out what's best for my body type. Thrifting saved me! Gave me an opportunity to try out other silhouettes without breaking the bank.
**And IDK if it's a hack but I always ALWAYS keep the "wrong" bra size aka too big/loose of either sports bras or just normal bras for those pre period days where they just swell up like crazy. It helps! 😉😉
This is a great video. For folks like me who are a much larger chest, Aerie and Savage X Fenty won't work-- they're just not big enough. Try investing in Elomi or Freya instead. Much better sizing (UK sizing so it's more accurate) and great fit & style. Elomi also make great swimwear. Bravissimo is also a great place to buy quality large-bust items and they have awesome sales. For reference, I'm an H/I/J cup. A personal goal for me is learning to sew my own lingerie, even if it's "just" some bralettes-- that way I'm sure to get the perfect fit! There are lots of free patterns too!
I just commented this too! Amazing brands with great fit and comfort:)
omg ty. im only 15 and im a DDD. idk what or why the hell this happened. they are growing so fast. i was literally a DD in December it feels like Im buying a new set of bras every 4 months. yesterday i had to get 6 new bras bc only 2 of my old ones still fit me. i cant even wear bras unless they have wire. your literally a lifesaver 🙏🏽
I'll trade you for a month?🤣
@@jonogren5567 👀 you can take them for life im so over it 💀 its a done deal 🤝🏽
@@tendousfingertapesatori2972 LOLOL okay. I'm 18 years old. I think I'm trans. So if we both dream tonight we will switch bodies? 😂😂🤣🤣
@@jonogren5567 oh deadass?!? Aight bet. Im finna be sleeping well tonight 💀💀💀
@@jonogren5567 also no I don't care that this comment was made over 9 months ago, Imma speak up bc it was genuinely irking me lmao. I hope you've been better in the meantime. Genuine respect if you actually end up reading my rant also lol
Thank you for this! I am also a 32E and this video has made me feel more confident about it!!
Congrats cutie.
Loving this. I'm a 34F and I'm embracing it. I was a 36C in elementary school and it sucked but I accept all of me now. Thanks for this!
Big yes to this thank you so much for making this video! My bust isn’t even that big but whenever I wear low cut items I feel SO uncomfortable simply because of how people would look at me and treat me. It sucks.
Ahhh this is the vid I need! I'm still working on feeling comfortable with my chest, I gave myself a hunchback in school trying to hide! I was the same, A-B cup for years and then suddenly when I was 16 boom DD. By the time I left school at 18 I was a 28G and I absolutely hated it. Nothing fit and I had to buy giant ugly "granny" bra's online bc they didn't carry my size in shops. I'm almost 26 now (and a 30F/32E) and I've found some things that work but bikinis are still a nightmare.
Omg same. I gave myself a damn hunched back because of the size of my boobs. Im a F cup too😩
Hunch back here too :'c Atm 32HH
I used to hate having a large bust when I was younger, but now I'm glad about it. You can dress sexy and flaunt it, but nowadays, there's plenty of options when it comes to more modest styles too, so you have many style options. Fashion has come a long way!
ah i feel the same!! that’s why i almost always wear oversized shirts to “cover” my big chest 😅
This was so helpful! I loved your inclusive language and consideration for viewers who might not want to minimize bust size. ♥️ For another recommendation, I’m going to put Wacoal out there-I *swear* by their bras. They fit perfectly, they offer a huge range of sizes, they offer wider straps to avoid hurting your shoulders, and they last FOREVER. Seriously could not recommend them more.
Gosh, yes, I LOVE Wacoal! They have a great return policy, too.
Other people don’t make me embarrassed. I feel like I’m a generally active person and just having boobs is uncomfortable idk. Am I the only one? 😞 And like, I think I’d feel different if I had a good bra but I tried to find new bras a while ago and just got a panic attack cuz it was so stressful and uncomfy idk
I totally feel you, I was such an active and jumpy person before my boobs got bigger.. and buying bras is so hard and stressful 😕
Hi! I was the same way. I was wearing D or DD bras because of Victoria's Secret and then I got measured at Dillards and I was actually a 36 I ! It's so important to get measured and wear a good, supportive bra. Its game changing!
@@zoeyiguess8358 maybe try looking at r/abrathatfits subreddit
@@tofutofii3097 ooO I will ty!!
thank you so much. i feel like often ppl forget that there not only a, B,and -c cups out there, but so much more.
Shefit is a great workout bra! I’m a 38f and when I wear it they don’t move which is so important for working out. The bra comes with an adjustable back and adjustable straps. It’s a good bra for when your body is constantly changing you can adjust to those difference.
I want one so bad but they’re so expensive.
the biggest game changer for me has been always buying unlined bras (i wear a 34G) -- finding one that fits properly minimizes really well and doesn't give that overly round shape, bare necessities has the best selection for DD+ imo
Thank you so much for this. I went from being a 32AA to a 34C and now a 34D. I was really embarrassed about it so I never told my mom about the fact that my bust size went up. So I was wearing 32AA bras when I was a 34C (horrible I know). After finding out that I had gone up again really scared me because I won't be able to wear a lot of things I like because they usually accentuate my breast more when I don't want it too. I am also in high school and because of hormones and uncontrollable teenage boys, I have been even more self-conscious about it. I am just really happy that I found this video because it is SO helpful
Pls wear a correct size for your body, because it could cause health problems if not! & Never ever be embarrassed because of your body, it is what it is! ;)
Thank you so much for sharing, I used to be a 22D a few months ago, but after getting pregnant I jumped to a 32G. It's been hard finding clothes that I feel comfortable in since my proportions all look different and this really helped :)
Ugh I have just been feeling so badly about my chest recently. I am a petite 32 G and the summer is always the hardest for me because I feel like I can't wear anything without feeling extremely uncomfortable, your tips were very appreciated! I wish they had cuter swimwear for people my size and I wish I could wear all the clothes small chested people do without looking super disproportionate! :(
Love your tips! I'm a 34G and I have discovered Soma bras recently. Bonus is they have actual pretty bras for big busts, which we all know is an issue!
Oh my god i miss my small comfortable B's from middle school-junior year😑 double d just gets messy sometimes. Bras more expensive. So much more science going into trying to.. put them ..away.. in a fashionable way 😂 i feel understood thru this thank you!
Thank you so much! I also started out as an A, then a small B, but then I got pregnant and suddenly I was at a G! This is what a little weight and breastfeeding will do. Now I am about a D/DD depending on brand. These styling tips are sooo helpful. Some of them I discovered on my own (V neck better than crew, for example) but most of these I’ve never tried. And the bra recommendations! It’s so hard to find something that fits well and is comfortable. 🦋
That red blouse is gorgeous. And you’re blessed with a beautiful body ✨
In school I started having larger chest starting in grade 6 …I was called a slut and It was hard for me to wear junior size clothing anymore. I ended up having to wear adult shirts. By the time I was 20 Victoria’s Secret didn’t Carry my size anymore And I left crying because I don’t know what I was going to do.
It’s been very hard for me to become comfortable with my chest. Once somewhat recently I decided to post a beach selfie and the only comments I got were Saying things like “wow there’s a beach”.
I’m gonna try not to worry about showing too much skin but I can say that it’s extremely difficult to put myself out there mentally and physically.
I have been struggling to look for clothes that fit me because of my big bust. I'm a senior in high school and throughout my high school years I have always hated being big chested, until I learned to accept my body for how it is. I came across your video and it is soo helpful! Thank you for sharing your story and tips for girls like us that struggle with the same thing❤
Amen sister, being more well endowed since 13 😅 I find my body gets more sexualized and it took me years to figure out how to both embrace my body and style it in a way I feel comfortable
I feel this.. I'm turning 26, and i've always been ashamed of having a big bust. I've never really tried on fixing myself, i just go for comfy clothes and i'm always all covered, i've never been really confident, i kept on wearing jeans ang hoodies. But recently i'm starting to learn how to love myself i've starting trying new things.. so i've been looking around and started taking care of myself regarding looking more presentable. I hope i'd be able to overcome my fear and be confident even if i do have a VERY low self-esteem. Anyways hope everyone is having a great time and take care everyone :)
It's very annoying when someone said I should cover up. I mean, people think I show too much cleavage even when I wear just a t-shirt. I struggle a lot because of my breasts. But when I tell someone about this problem, people think I wanna show off that mine is bigger.
Thank you for sharing . Love your vid!
I've been struggling with summer outfits lately. I have a big bust and i want to wear cute clothes but it looks so revealing even if it is just a regular tank top. I don't even look at bralets 😭
mine is 34G I have struggled alot , as a teenager I was being started and told by my friends that my girls are too bigg . and ofcourse in college people literally think( consider ) me as some sl*t due to my hourglass figure , they have spread all false rumours about me in college only because "I am good looking( I do look after myself , I groom myself , I workout ) and literally two of my male professors literally complained that I am trying to seduce them taking the ADVANTAGE of my body ( like wtf I don't even talk to them , infact I never spoke to them either )
and recently I also heard from few of my seniors that , few staffs were talking about my cleavage
after all these I felt so embarrassed , I don't even feel like going back to college post pandemic
that's the reason why I came for this video , also you were right , we shouldn't be ashamed of our large girls. just flaunt the beauty you ladies🤗
Congrats
My big problem is finding bras with small band size with big cup size.
All the brands in this video didn't have my band size, maybe some day.
Amazing video anyway the trick with the claps is genius
Were saving up for our younger sister breast reduction surgery. It literally impacting her mental health and she doesn’t has confidence to go out n meet people. If im not mistaken her size is H or G cup. Shes short and always wear big baggy clothes n her shoulder n back just sore all the time. Hopefully she’ll feel better after the surgery. Based on the plan, we will have enough amount by this oct🎉🎊 cant wait
need that so much!
i've never been confident about how my bust looks in anything... i've always felt the need to wear baggy clothes (that i don't think are the best for a pear body shape) and cover up..
thanks x
Same here! 32E! I have been very conscious of my bust size always!
As a busty petite Asian girl this was so helpful and affirming 😭 thank you for this and your petite styling video! I’ve been struggling especially with being more confident in my proportions while maintaining some business casual appropriate looks so THANK YOU SO MUCH! I’m especially glad it gave me ideas for styling my current pieces I wasn’t super sure about on me but didn’t want to let go of 😭❤️
The whole video, I kept thinking how good your red blouse looks on you, and I love that you thrifted it!
you're so kind, thank you :')
I wore a 34C for years until semi recently realizing I'm a 34DD, and I really appreciate the relatability of this video oh my god 😂
Edit: also I absolutely adore Savage Fenty bras
Me too 34dd, used to wear 34c lol. I find that balcony fits me best, how about u
You came THROUGH, I am a size N, hopefully, these work for me!
This is such a blessing! I have recently under gone a big jump in my bust size and have been super insecure about it. Thank you for the support 💙
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips with us. I don't know if every state has a Soma but they are really good at helping you measure your bust and finding the best bras for you. I highly recommend it! Their bras are reasonably priced and are super comfortable.
I have struggled with this issue all my life. Thank you for these great tips ❤️
As someone who went from a 32AA in high school, to 34DDD in college, and now a 38I as an adult, this was really helpful and I'm going to check out a few of these sites and try a few styling tricks. I have been mostly braless since college because I couldn't find them in my size easily (not to mention the price when I do), and now they are getting too heavy and I need to find a way to wear bras again.
1. Wacoal bras for me. 2.I have been lifting weights for while, it has slowed down gravity. 3. Learn to sew or find a good tailor.
Why are bras for bigger busts so expensive?! And 32E's are nowhere to be found😭 also, great video!
I don't find my size ANYWHERE but I noticed Zalando has stepped up their bra game!
Yes, I feel y'all! I was a double D in 6th grade. I weighed only 80 lbs. 5'6"...
Hello friend!! This video had really helpful tips :) As a 32DD/32E I always feel top heavy in whatever I'm wearing and then feel insecure. So I've been doing the opposite of what you recommended - high necks/ crew necks
Will implement some of them and see how it goes :) Thanks again!
Ive been Big busted forvever. My first bra was a c cup. You pretty much covered my fashion style for shirts and the tops of dresses. My absolute favorite bras are balconette and demis. I learned through trial and error. But my sister who has been a and b cup all her life is suddenly in the big boob club since she went into menopause. Im going to share this with her. Thanks!
I love the snappy clasps! I've sewn them into every single buttonup I own. Serious gamechanger! 😀
I found here in Japan a bra that is made to make your bust look smaller (flat bra). I used it on colder weather we’re a turtle neck is highly necessary and it helps a lot with the overall look of the bust.
It gives almost a sports bra effect but more comfortable, more stylish (in my opinion) and better “distributed”
The brand I use is called Flufeel
I don’t have a HUGE bust but my body frame is really small comparted to my bust so I have all the big busted girls problems 😂 I had the same experience of going from nothing to people asking me if I have implants 😂😂😂.
32E, I always felt ashamed of my bust and I'm actually quite skinny, and everyobody used to tear me apart for that. But I'm learning to embrace it. Thank you for the tips!
I love this video! I’m a 36 DDD and always get comments on shirts that aren’t even that revealing. I just ignore them now.
The only bras I even like to wear are Victoria’s Secret and Fenty. Although it is harder to find larger sizes in both. I typically go for unlined bras with underwire that’s the most comfortable for me.
I have yet to find a bralette or sports bra that’s comfortable. I wish I could find some!
I'm your size and a 3 pack of fruit of the loom spaghetti strap cotton sports bras is perfect and cheap! I size up to a 42, though.
13:34 This is truly game changing! I absolutely hated having to wear my formal uniform in school because it was a button-up! I had to find the smallest safety pin I could find AND THEN also tape it up with clear tape from the inside since the safety pin by itself didn't do anything. (For real, why aren't school uniforms designed with an extra button in there? It's not *that* uncommon for people to have big chests)
Is there a specific style of bralette from Aerie that you found is supportive but comfy? All your big busted girls thank you for this video 😭❤
Ahh yes!! I linked it in the description under fav bralette 🥰 It's currently on sale for 60% off, I have it in a size large, and I really love it!! It's super comfy, fits well, and I never fall out of it. I'm actually going to take advantage of the sale myself and pick up a few new colors 🙂
@@JessicaNeistadt omg thank you so much!! Definitely going to snag a few now while they are on sale!
The eyelash lace plunge bralette is amazing too!
@Kaity McBride Ooh good to hear!! I picked up that one as well in my order yesterday 😍
@@JessicaNeistadt I'm a L in the one you recommended but did go L D in the plunge bralette (I'm a 36DD for some reference). Hope you love it!
This video is like my safe space rn lol. Being 16 with a large chest is really freaking difficult, I can’t wear anything I want because it’s just too much and I always get comments that make me really uncomfortable 😞
I have battled with all of this as well. Graduated HS many years ago with DDD breast and it has been a struggle, I am now 48 years young with 34 DD/DDD (depending on the brand) I am 5 ft short, wear a size 2/4 in most bottoms and finding tops to fit my short frame with big chest is the hardest. I have never been able to wear a button up shirt and strapless bras have been a constant struggle. Your suggestion on ordering swimsuits is a very valid one as I can only order separately in that department and I have ordered from the company Venus, so I wanted to share that I have had great results with that one. I personally prefer swimsuits that do not tie around the neck because the weight of my breast will make the back of my neck hurt after a little while.
Thank you for starting the suggestions. I will be looking into the companies that you suggested as well
I'm not necessarily a busty gal, but I just tried Lively bras for the first time and they're the softest bras I've ever worn (and that's coming from a diehard Aerie stan)
30DDD here and this was so helpful! Would love to see your reviews on other brands for fuller chests
Congrats
Torrid is amazing for a plus size chest. I think some forget about it because it’s a strictly plus size store but I have friends who aren’t necessarily plus sized in their bodies but their chest is larger and they absolutely love Torrid. It’s pricey but high quality bras are anywhere you look.
I’m a G cup and love it. Let everyone look, it’s my body. I’ll dress anyway I feel comfy.
Same I’m a 36G
I love the Bravissimo inspire sports bra, comes up to like K or L cup. It’s the only sports bra I can find that fits
I miss when I was an E. I lost 30 pounds and I'm still a 32HH. The struggle is real.
I have always found that a low V neck on tops works very well, but if I feel it’s to low then a vest top underneath with a lace detail so that the lace goes across the v neck works good .
Hello Jess,
I so needed this video.
I am a 34C but I have slightly saggy boobs due to the size and coz I lost a lot of weight at the end of my puberty. I sometimes struggle and feel inferior when I see girls with elevated breasts.
I bounce back loving my body but still secretly feel bad at times.
I know the struggle girl. Love you for being so candid. ❤️
Try dumbbell press. Helps a lot.
Im literally a -A cup size so idk why im here lol but I love jess's tips ♡
Congrats
I'm a 32 GG in EU size, so I struggle lol. It's funny how I've been doing most of these things subconsciously. Like the showing more skin, the rectangular silhouette or wearing black in particular. I thought that was just my taste but now it makes sense. Thanks for this video! Really good! My recommendation for bras in the UK: Bravissimo
Finally found a style channel that talks about styling big busty ladies that actually has a big bust. All the videos I've seen about chest sizes, the women are pretty tiny chested. I'm between a C/D. So pretty excited to try these out.
Thankyou!! I went to a G (a G!) while I was pregnant & breastfeeding and, well, I won’t be seeing those C-cups anytime soon. I’ve settled at a D/DD, but I’ve never figured out what to wear. And I love button down tops, but I’d given them up as a lost cause. Thanks again!
This is so nice to see! I had a baby and breastfeed so I’m a 32G 😅🙈 finding really anything that fits me is a challenge.. as if it’s not hard enough after having a baby.
Thank you so much for the amazing tips! Also, it was so nice to start with you talking about not being ashamed of your body at all- having grown up in a conservative Christian church, having a big bust has made me feel so embarrassed and ashamed so often.