speaking of things you ladys like men to wear. now hear me out bae. picture this... now what about me standing starkers right infront of you but for my leopard print mankini giving you my come to bed eyes. irrisistable i know ...
1. fitted clothing (by a landslide) 2. white or black tee 3. fragrance 4. crisp dress shirt + rolled up sleeves 5. watch/simple accessories 6. layered look 7. tailored suit 8. baseball hat
So men should be as conformist and ordinary as possible. I think it would be quite pathetic to take instructions on what to wear and how to be as a person. Men are increasingly women pleasing, it’s pathetic.
I remember at my senior prom (November 2022) I was the only person wearing a tie bar and literally every person I spoke to complimented the tie bar. Easily the most underrated tie bar
Yes! I still have my grandfather's tie bar. On the rare occasion I wear a tie, I put the tie bar on too of course, and it always gets complimented. Thanks, Pop.
@@Salim_shahidy i like the way that shirt fits on the guy that just so happens to bench 280 and squat 300 and can run a mile sub 8 minutes at the same time lol
@@lukereilly4963 you missed my whole point. you do not need to have an impressive physique to look good in clothes. nonetheless, it doesnt take a lot to bench 280. i benched 215 in a year of training.
@@Salim_shahidy don't flex on me man. I don't care how long it took you to get your beginners gains. This is a hidden desire for a desire of a body. A lustful one at that. Go ahead and take all of this surface level advice thinking you're doing great and then eventually get used for your body or your charm or whatever. To hell with this crap. Character content is leaps and bounds more important than worrying about this superficiality.
@@lukereilly4963 don't get your panties in a bunch. i wasn't even flexing on you, wasn't even close to it. i literally only said that it was easily achieved and somehow you got all hurt about it.
as a man, my general philosophy is to dress for you. there will always be some women that like it and don't like it. you can't please everyone so please yourself first
Yea the fashion stuff is over-emphasized, and I say this as a stylish guys that’s always been complimented by men and women on my style and clothes. The main thing that attracts women is your vibe and energy, not your clothes.
Just turned 40 and I appreciate your videos. Learning for myself, but also my teenage boys enjoy watching. My wife and I could tell them something, but if they hear it from you, it hits harder...
Your videos are really good, not just for attracting women but also for general ideas on conducting yourself in a positive way in any social interaction.
I started to improve my hygiene/grooming habits and my God, it's made all the difference. People are telling me how much better I look and it really feels great to hear it.
@@jamesg1974aI’ve gotten compliments on my full beard from men and women. Mine is about halfway down my neck in length. Key is to make sure the other hair around it is clean cut and the beard is lined and cut properly. That makes all the difference!
Bro I'm middle aged now and I don't think I look as good as I did when I was in my 20's...but dang it's like a switch got flipped when I hit my late 30's and early 40's. I used to be completely invisible to women, just always. Never got so much as a glance. Now it's just constant attention, and it took me awhile to figure why. I think it's just dressing classier and sometimes wearing a beard or a few days shadow. I did not expect this.
I really appreciate your videos on style, I’ve been working on bettering my style and I’ve been getting A LOT more attention from women. Thank you Courtney 🙏🏻
6:00 I think where you spray it matters too. My sister told me her secrets to make the smell last longer; she sprays her wrists, inner elbows,and right under the jawline. Women are so smart lol.
Totally agree. One of my sisters told me to spray my wrists once , never more times, and then use my wrists to spread the fragance around my neck and my jaw line. You don`t want to be "fragancy radioactive", in my opinosn women like to appreciate it at close distances. I think on this issue, subtlety is key.
As a guy in his 50's I don't only recommend the oxford shirt, but I recommend getting them custom made. There are plenty of tailors who can do this, and when you where it you will feel and see the difference. You can pick the fabric, collar, buttons and it will be sized perfectly. I would recommend for casual oxford the non tuck in look is better, and for more formal the tuck in works better. I have custom shirts for every season. My favorite is flannel for winter in NYC. And yes, roll up the sleeves!!
Same here. Fitted button downs are game changers. Any decent tailor can alter any shirt you already have. Most commonly, they will taper it in as it goes down, which helps accentuate the V-taper you have or are working towards.
I recently started back to a very crowded work environment from working mostly remote for the past 3 years. In our accounting department, there are 3 men and 5 women. 3 of the women are single. I am middle aged but all the women pay very close attention to what the men wear no matter what our age. They may not say anything but I can tell by the way they look at us. I wore a black Eddie Bauer pocket T shirt and jeans that fit well last week, got a lot of looks that day and could not figure out why. Courtney's advice is very important today, now I know why they were paying attention. I am a married man for several decades but these women are my colleagues and one is our Division Controller. I miss wearing my sweat pants on those remote days but life has a way of demanding we look professional especially when it is important to the women we work with daily. It is not all about attracting women, it is about impressing them with a demeanor and look they feel they can lead, follow and/or trust. As a middle aged man, I do not get the baseball hat thing but it can be good, just not at work for me. A great collection of self winding watches with classy faces is my best choice for middle aged men to catch the eye.
I definitely agree with not wearing logos. Looking after your skin is vitality important too, I have been all my life and it shows!! I love your advice videos Courtney 😊😋
V-necks are great as undershirts for a button-down shirt with the collar left unbuttoned. I learned that from Courtney. But crew necks are best when there's not a buttoned shirt over it.
Courtney won't say it,but I will. The v neck looks gay worn by itself, and if you're not gay you might be sending out the wrong signal. Their fine as un undergarment, but wear a crew neck instead.
Years ago, a group of ladies visited our ministry offering a free service. They had colored cards similar to what is used to identify paints. Different cards were compared to the tone/color of one's skin. The determination was then made of which of the four seasons was complimentimg the skin best. One of the ladies comcluded that i am the aitumm colors. Changing leaves. Yellow. Orange. Rust. I have shirts in this description and when I wear them, i probably get 5X the everyday looks. Especially from women. It's a real thing. Colors matter. When i see a woman with black hair, wearing white and crimson or scarlet, i absolutely notice that she has my attention. As an example. Thank you Courtney.
If you are in ministry, apparently you are not there to spread the word, but to try to garner attention from women. You are not leading. You are following. Wanna know what REAL EFFEMINATE women find sexy? A man that leads. The "attention" you are getting is them telling you that your dandy ways has allowed them to talk to you like you are one of the girls.
I do that at home sometimes in the summer. Girlfriend doesn’t even blink anymore I just roll out to play some games after a long hike or work, straight up in my birthday suit.
Tip for the people that don't wear a suit. Get a blazer and a pair of chinos. Goes well with simple and plain sneakers. A shirt or T-shirt can't go wrong. The blazer can be summer-fresh or winter-heavy. Chinos go all around the year. Dessert boots, Chelsea boots or simple sneakers. Get multiple of them eventually and you can look amazing. And it is super simple!!!
Thank you Ms. Ryan! As a older man, I notice that a large number of men in my age category do not take their grooming habits very serious. Staying conditioned is also important! Simple but nice clothing is a must.
@@sixstringsdown1 I would wear a nice golf shirt! I'd make sure its ironed. It has a collar which I believe to be important. Just don't look like a golf clown
If I may add something of a very sensitive nature, I've been approached by older men asking why they are having issues finding a woman to their liking. I've told them they need to work on their breath and body oder. These older men are conditioned and workout a lot. I have to shower then rinse and shower again! Hey Ms. Ryan you look great in anything you wear! Such a class act!
Put some Vaseline before spraying on a fragrance lads, it prevents the skin from absorbing the alcohol of the fragrance making it last all day long. Cannot recommend this enough
I splurged and bought a custom suit for my wedding. Gorgeous oatmeal/grey color with brown accents. Fits me like a glove because it’s custom tailored to me. I’ve worn it to a couple other events as well and every time I get compliments by people I don’t even know! So yes, fitted clothing makes a huge difference.
Hi Courtney. The thing that I have been most complimented on are my hats. I wear a baseball cap with a seagull on it and and a trapper hat during winter.
You kinda sound like SCOOTER, MIKE PRINCE'S right hand man in the great SHOWTIME SERIES, BILLIONS!!! Let me know if you've ever seen it. It's a very good show, IMHO.
I'll admit Im not one of the ladies, but on fitted clothing: I know oversized pieces is a growing choice for men's casual wear. Personally I like slimmer fits more, but I have a couple oversized neutral tees. However, there's a BIG difference between purposely oversized and not fitting, and people can tell the difference. But at the end of the day, wear whatever makes you confident.
It’s all about clothes that fit you well. When I was younger, I would wear shirts that have big labels on them but now that I’m older, I’m more into very simple clothes. It’s more clean and it looks good on anyone.
I love when women wear clothes that highlight their modesty and beauty simultaneously. You tend to nail that. Elegance, femininity, and perhaps with a subtle flirtatious streak...
Speaking of what women wear. Having grown up in France we always noticed American women how they stood out because they always wear shorts and loud labels "hard rock café" example,,,we always made fun of them. They wear shorts even inside of churches.
This is all really great information! I'm not a suit/formal person (no way, no how) but I can relate to clothes, any clothes, fitting well. You made this point in a previous video and it has stayed with me to the point that literally yesterday, I went through my dress casual button-down collection and pulled all shirts that didn't fit well - they were too large...six shirts to be exact! The white/black tee shirt advice landed well because that's what I already do...the crew neck vs v-neck information is interesting and I'll keep that in mind. I also relate to accessories - a simple watch or very light chain (I also wrap a string of prayer beads around my wrist sometimes because that's a part of who I am.) KEEP IT UP, SIS!! 📿🙏
All things being equal (assuming both styles of shirt are fitted), why do women prefer crewnecks over v-necks? As a guy, I switch between both and don't really have a preference. But the only reason I like v-necks is because they are slightly more comfortable around the neck. I'd really like to hear a group of women answer this question.
Anyone can answer this question and the answer is v-necks make you look like a douche bag, outta style, 2010's Jersey shore lookin ass. They just look dated, because they are but if you must 🙄 wear one that isn't cut so far down your tits. Go for a more modest v-neck line cut. Not the exaggerated version of it. Hope that helps
I love Courtney's channel. Always such helpful advice. Basics are key to the wardrob. I am surprised to that women prefer baseball hats but I am glad to hear they do!
Great video as always Courtney, thank you. You keep it interesting fun and classy! I must say I am not really into wearing baseball caps but I did wear one last summer and it went down well. Your reaction to baseball caps. wearing it backwards 😂, love it!!
I strongly disagree with the wearing of ball caps, especially a logo ballcap. It's clearly a down-market look, and typically either used by young men who didn't take the time to wash their hair, or older men who are trying to hide a loss of hair up top. as a 50+ man, i've only just started wearing a hat in the wintertime to keep my head warm, as cold-shock will reduce blood flow to hair follicles, speeding up hairloss. Wearing a hat also blocks sun exposure (near infrared light) which also contributes to loss of hair. A smart, non-logo cap or headgear is different and gives a man a more mature look, esp. if it's color-co-ordinated with part of your outfit (such as your pants)---that looks smart. Wearing a logo baseball-cap, sorry I don't care who was interviewed for this survey, that's a complete non-starter if you're trying to improve your dress and overall look.
@@contrarian604if one is into sports, and so is the woman you’re trying to attract, then team logo baseball caps work magic. Many high value women love sports and athletic men who can rock a team hat.
@@dasc0yne Not plain black or white. My favorite shirts are blue or green or have something printed on them. I would hope I attract a woman who likes bright color more than black or white anyway.
Tshirts: thicker material for most of us who aren’t ripped. Fragrance: free and clear soap followed by aftershave or fragrance. Pick a fragrance and do that…1, not shampoo + soap + aftershave + cologne. Uniform guy: mechanic, hvac, must always be clean and not worn out/tattered…get a few so you always have a clean one every day.
I kept listening to videos like this and applied the knowledge I learned. I got all the ladies in the world, but constantly felt like a stupid superficial tool. Eventually, I lost all my hard-earned money buying stuff to keep the two-dimensional depthless ladies happy and singing. Now as a 176-year-old man, I know better.
I'm blue collar and find excuses to wear a 3 piece because I love the look. If you're going out for an evening, it's always appropriate to wear a suit. Could just be going to the movies and wear a suit.
1. Fitted Clothing - Doesnt work on fat people. 2. White or Black Tee - I love wearing a white tee to accentuate my ghostly skin color. So Black tee it is. Its also harder to see the man nips with a black tee. 3. Instead of cologne, how about scented body lotion for dry skin? 4. How far to roll up? We talking to the shoulder? How about if you have thin arms? 5. Is an apple watch ok or should it be a classic style? Where are you supposed to place the sunglasses when they arent being used? On your head? Clipped to your collar in the front or back? 6. Layered Look. This doesnt work in Texas for 9 months out of the year. Combine that with being fat and this is a no go. 7. see comment #1. 8. what kind of baseball hats are appropriate? mesh backing? solid backing? Logo that covers the entire hat? Can the hat be cocked off to the side? How should the brim be formed? Straight? curved? U-shape? What if you have a big head? small head?
8. Baseball hats with a Yankees logo are the best option. Red Sox hats or Astros hats indicate you have questionable taste, and possibly also eat puppies in your spare time. Mets hats indicate that you never grew out of the paste-eating phase in preschool.
My GF gifted me with a Taylor Swift Eras tour t-shirt, and when i wear it i noticed that a lot of women look at me in a good way, like "he´s brave enough to use that, he must be self confident".
Eat good food and limit the grog and your skin will be fine. If you eat processed foods and takeaways, follow Courtney's advice, but understand that these cosmetics contain serious toxins, including endocrine disrupters. Hmm.. I seem to be drifting away from Courtney, but most of her advice is common sense. I will carry it with me to the Philippines where the real women are.
My style is classic, white, navy. black, charcoal and some cream and the odd olive, burgundy, oliver peoples sunglasses, tudor or rolex watch, molten brown scents toiletries, Rowdy leather travel bags, stetson headwear. - To add to this list a Waistcoat is a nice accessory, my charcoal pinstripe suit has a really well fitted waistcoat , so few out there without pockets which make you look like a tradesman or a fisherman
i wear my snapback allways backword, wear a simple thors hammer neckless and a apple watch, simple grey T Shirt with v neck, a simple slim fit jeans and white sneakers combined with my beard and glasses and i like it. I feel good with this „style“ and that is important to me
I live in the rural south, so most of the men I know (any age group) wear baseball caps, myself included. If it’s a formal occasion I’ll wear a felt cowboy hat. Even a lot of girls I know wear caps. I don’t think it’s an age thing, I think it’s regional.
Clothes are a form of self-expression. I'm glad women have taken the time to express their opinions on men's dress but I don't dress for them, I dress for myself. V-necks are comfortable. Fragrances would make me allergic to myself, I just keep good hygiene. We do have some common ground. Fitted clothing is more comfortable for me. Extra fabric gets me warm and gets in the way of movement. I wear a watch because I like to be punctual, and mine is an understated style which works both with casual outfits and suits. My suit is fitted because I'm an adult. Baseball hats allow me to skip styling my hair for the day.
Courtney, I have found the backwards hat look works. I have gotten 2 women to help me when I was locked out of my apartment and they approached me. But I also like the back hat look because it still shows the persons face. When wearing a hat forward, I feel it blocks the person's face and makes it look a bit more unapproachable if that makes sense
Thank you for your very informative video! Finally Men can now understand what rates well for women.. Now it's just whether they will actually listen..! 😂 A great video, regardless.👏👏👏
Awesome stuff mate.. thanks for sharing. My problem is, I don't feel like 40, and that puts off the looks. I don't even know what to wear where. I have nice blazers, but other than formal get-togethers or parties, where do I wear them? Sam goes with what style of shirt to wear for certain occassions? List goes on...
Great advice Courtney! As an aussie in queensland I think this is just about the only place in the wolrd where a singlet and gym shorts gets attention. Although this may well be for the same reason as the snap back cap. But most of the time what works for me is exactly what you listed: plain B/W T-shirt or ironed shirt rolled up to reveal my watch. For women I'm done with mini skirts and revealing dresses. I want woolen tops with a modest v neck that hugs her form and short skirt is fine but pants are better. For summer she cant go wrong with a sun dress. Be modest. You cant be special to everyone and I dont want you to be.
What I’ve noticed recently that I love seeing is a woman in a business suit. Like I have an office crush and whenever she where’s her green suit it does something to me.
I had a friend back in the 80s who wore nothing but “Members Only” attire. It took him a while to get the picture. Btw, I wear both crew and V neck T’s underneath my shirts, but it’s a seasonal thing for me
I loved these responses and pretty much try to line up with most of them. My biggest discovery recently has been the power of fragrance - the hidden secret that pulls women closer. I bought a really nice, manly fragrance and I noticed that some women linger just a little longer than usual. I’ve even had women directly compliment me by saying I smell great! Last thing, and alluded to in your video, fragrance should never mask bad hygiene. It should highlight a proper wardrobe on the outside and a gentlemanly nature inside. 😊
You mentioned hands. Well, I started painting my nails, I am a guy. This has been amazing!!! I already accessorize as you stated but this has taken things to another level. I LOVE your video's!!!
While accessorizing keep it simple yet fashionable. A sleek watch, with a sleek bracelet and a nice elegant signet ring with cool shades. The ring part is spot on on the attraction factor. Women often notice the rings/accessories what men wear and often find that attractive - though it may vary from woman to woman. Like Ryan Gosling's characters in Crazy Stupid Love, La la Land (notice his accesories very well put together especially the fashionable Black Onyx signet ring he wore in Crazy Stupid Love which later went up in sales) More than a fancy bracelet, a fashionable signet ring often does more. However, Brad Pitt's Rusty Ryan character in the Ocean Eleven's trilogy (again accessorization well put together) Tom Cruise's Charlie Babbit in Rainman, Vincent in Collateral and Ethan Hunt in the MI series and in Lions for Lambs (though he looks good in all his movies) Daniel Craig in James Bond Keanu Reeves in John Wick Christian Bale's Bruce Wayne in the Dark Knight trilogy All very stylish dress and accessory ideas for guys.
For me I think when men wear a formal suit or even a long sleeve dress shirt that has been washed and ironed with the sleeves rolled up. I also like when men wear clothes that fit them not too tight and not baggy either. Crew necks over V necks is a plus too. I also like when wear baseball caps and a nice looking pair of sunglasses when needed. Note sunglasses are not needed indoors or at night time. lol.
there was a time when I didn't wear suits at all, now that my business has grown to the place it is, I'm wearing suits a lot more at formal events and I love the feeling I have and confidence it gives me when I'm wearing a tailored suit. I used to wear baseball hats all the time because I was too lazy to do my hair but in the last 10 years or so I rarely wear one. I'm blessed that I have all my hair I didi when I was a teenager so I am going to let it breathe and show it off!
The backwards cap thing is more in line with the rolled up sleeves thing. Normally, we only roll up our sleeves when we have to do something that requires a bit of focus and precision, and we dont want to keep our sleeves clean and out of the way. The backwards baseball cap is the same deal! You don't want to walk around with a backwards cap all the time, you'll look like a goof, but if you needs to do something that requires you get it out of the way, its totally ok to flip that sucker backwards for a sec lol
Ladies have commented on my shoes, so I've learned to pay closer attention to them and my socks - Shoes: Just classic, basic leather (black/brown) lace up or oxfords - keep clean and a little polished and buffed. Also, CLEAN white shoes (My first pair of Sketchers - it felt very strange at first, but it received a lot of very positive comments). The last part of the shoe thing is the length of my pants - making sure they have a slight break (suit) or no/almost no break (jeans) - if someone is looking at your shoes they will notice poorly fit pants (length) right above them. Also, my fingernails - Ladies comment and observe men's hands, as Courtney said, so keeping nails trimmed and clean has received complements. I think this is especially important when wearing a ring or watch that draws an observer's eye to those areas.
I think the word “suit” also would include sport coats and blazers. A nice well-fitting wool, cotton, or linen sport coat with jeans or chinos is a great look to invest in.
Courtney. Hats, no matter what kind, are good protection from sun, bad air, and eyes balling your respective. That's why it's appreciated in both males and females. We want to show integrity and personal attributes.
Another grand video this, tis my third of the day, so I had to subscribe. I really adore a woman in a dark leather jacket, wite blouse of some sort, black jeans and a simple heel or especially a white sneaker. This look draws me to a woman instantly.☘
Beautiful video. I would add to pay attention to the shoes, not only the style but that they are clean. It’s easy to ruin a nice outfit if the shoes are dirty or to old
I can honestly tell you, I tried some of these suggestions and the first day. EVEVRYONE in my life was like "Wow you look great" even strangers were talking to me which never happens.
Hi Mrs. Ryan. I enjoyed your video very much. I wanted to know where I might stand in how I look to the average woman these days. I am glad to find out that my style fits into a lot of the categories that you mentioned in this video. I was very shocked about the T-Shirts. That is an area that I found amazing to find out that a lot of women like that look. I hang out with my best friend a lot and she is an extremely fashionable woman with a wonderful personality. I have known her for about twenty years now and she is always getting compliments from women of all ages, practically every day and several times a day. I had, (wanted) to get my wardrobe together to just compliment what ever she might be wearing when we go out to dancing, which is every week &. sometimes all weekend long, shopping, going to dinner, concerts, other affairs that pop up. I very rarely ever see her in the same thing twice and she was just a former Hair Stylist that had owned her own salon. Oh, she is my best friend too. She has never put any pressure on me for what I wear. She only tells me what to wear when we go out to formal affairs. That is when she wants me to match her gown for the evening. I have learned a lot from her but, I was very interested in what other women like in men’s fashion. Thank you for making this video and helping me gage what I think that some women might be thinking about my attire. This was a most informative video. I’ve learn a lot today. Oh, I wanted to mention that my best friend is 72 years old and I am almost 70 years old and we actually dress like we think we are very young people & we are still having fun every day. We both still dress rather well and I am still learning how to dress. I wish you continued success with all of your videos and I also wish you continued success financially as well. Thank again you for making this video and have a wonderful day and weekend. Oh, one last thing I would love to know if you have made a video on the top colognes that women like for different seasons? This is something that I am very interested in knowing about. I love colognes I don’t feel right when I go out, if I don’t have on some type of cologne. I’ve been like that since I was a teenager. Have a great day.
I liked you video. I'm a man, and I agree with the example at the end with your dress. At the beginning I said to myself I don't completely like your dress because I find it "unbalanced" visually. But at the end it makes you different and so, interesting (desirable) in a certain way. Thanks for the tips.
Idk why it took me so long to realize this but maybe it can help others. Whenever us guys buy shorts or pants or jeans we are always very particular about the length. We don't want it too short or too long and that's easy to notice coz it bothers you when you walk and covers up the nice sneakers.Butt this summer I noticed the biggest problem was actually my t-shirts were too long and we never really get them fixed. We just kinda have to settle for whatever length the tee is based on our size. Hunting for shorter length tees, polos and shirts made all the difference.
V neck is preferred by men because the V allows for body heat to dissipate. It may seem a minor concern, however wearing a crew for extended periods retains body heat.
I rocked a flat bill hat backwards, studs in my ears, a cutoff shirt, basketball shorts, and some Jordans when I met my wife. And it was at youth ministry on Wednesday Nights. 12 years later and we are still going strong... although she did introduce me to Polo, lol
I agree with this and also pretty much do and wear what was listed. I was lmao when Courtney talked about baseball hats I automatically was thinking of the times of 2005-2008. The Ed Hardy tee, boot cut jeans, “come at me bro” douche! The nightclub fake tough guy 😂😂
I am a face guy, and a hair guy, so for me to say your dress caught my attention the instant your video started really compliments the dress. If other ladies don't like it, they're jealous.
I am just wearing non-dirty clothes (sometimes dirty ones if I am lazy). Most of them don't even fit me. Since I have nice physique (tall and wide shoulders) whatever I wear I got people's attention. But it makes me anxious. So I will try my best to wear worse but feel good at the same time lmao.
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If I may kindly ask are you personally married or not?
@@adamjones7276 She has on a wedding ring and mentions her husband in the video. Bruh.
I don't like your dress. Is your husband's opinion the same?
PS: I've seen you dress pretty well on other videos, but not this time.
@@steelresilience: Good eye: Good ear.
speaking of things you ladys like men to wear. now hear me out bae. picture this... now what about me standing starkers right infront of you but for my leopard print mankini giving you my come to bed eyes. irrisistable i know ...
1. fitted clothing (by a landslide)
2. white or black tee
3. fragrance
4. crisp dress shirt + rolled up sleeves
5. watch/simple accessories
6. layered look
7. tailored suit
8. baseball hat
So men should be as conformist and ordinary as possible. I think it would be quite pathetic to take instructions on what to wear and how to be as a person. Men are increasingly women pleasing, it’s pathetic.
Baseball hat? What are you, American? :D
A red baseball hat that reads "MAGA" and a pair of gold high top Pedo-FILA's.
The idea of her liking baseball hats but not HeyDudes is so odd to me lol
Baseball hat is the laziest choice of headwear.
Death metal shirts, cargo pants and New Balance shoes. Got it.
AND A BIG GOLD CHAIN WITH 3 BUTTONS DOWN SHIRT
Don't forget the shin-high white socks and the mullet
If you are a Chad it will look good
A stained wife beater is the best along with cargo shorts 😂
And a ball cap worn backwards.
I remember at my senior prom (November 2022) I was the only person wearing a tie bar and literally every person I spoke to complimented the tie bar. Easily the most underrated tie bar
Yes! I still have my grandfather's tie bar. On the rare occasion I wear a tie, I put the tie bar on too of course, and it always gets complimented. Thanks, Pop.
Paying homage to all the men out there wearing whatever they want, not trying to impress anyone. You have my trust and support.
Fitted clothing is code for fit physique.
Exactly. You don’t even need a six pack, a small waist and broad shoulders is enough.
@@Salim_shahidy i like the way that shirt fits on the guy that just so happens to bench 280 and squat 300 and can run a mile sub 8 minutes at the same time lol
@@lukereilly4963 you missed my whole point. you do not need to have an impressive physique to look good in clothes. nonetheless, it doesnt take a lot to bench 280. i benched 215 in a year of training.
@@Salim_shahidy don't flex on me man. I don't care how long it took you to get your beginners gains. This is a hidden desire for a desire of a body. A lustful one at that. Go ahead and take all of this surface level advice thinking you're doing great and then eventually get used for your body or your charm or whatever. To hell with this crap. Character content is leaps and bounds more important than worrying about this superficiality.
@@lukereilly4963 don't get your panties in a bunch. i wasn't even flexing on you, wasn't even close to it. i literally only said that it was easily achieved and somehow you got all hurt about it.
There is nothing more confident than running down the street in a T-rex costume. Just saying...
And women do like funny guys more than any other type.
This.
Noted
aha, taking notes, please continue!
True, but it's got to be a tailored T-Rex costume
as a man, my general philosophy is to dress for you. there will always be some women that like it and don't like it. you can't please everyone so please yourself first
Do you get laid though?
When you dress for you, that's when you really learn personal fashion and understand what styles are "you" and what styles look out of place on you.
Yea the fashion stuff is over-emphasized, and I say this as a stylish guys that’s always been complimented by men and women on my style and clothes. The main thing that attracts women is your vibe and energy, not your clothes.
Agreed, and being comfortable with your appearance will increase confidence
But guys that dress like slobs should not complain when they hurt their own chances.
Just turned 40 and I appreciate your videos. Learning for myself, but also my teenage boys enjoy watching. My wife and I could tell them something, but if they hear it from you, it hits harder...
I love the clean color palette in this video. Keep the great work, Courtney.
I love how good is your audio quality
Your videos are really good, not just for attracting women but also for general ideas on conducting yourself in a positive way in any social interaction.
I started to improve my hygiene/grooming habits and my God, it's made all the difference. People are telling me how much better I look and it really feels great to hear it.
A good hair cut that fits you, trimming or removing a beard, keeping eyebrows from Eugene Levy levels, etc make all the difference
ye must of been a right clip
@@jamesg1974aI’ve gotten compliments on my full beard from men and women. Mine is about halfway down my neck in length. Key is to make sure the other hair around it is clean cut and the beard is lined and cut properly. That makes all the difference!
Showering and brushing your teeth are important.
Bro I'm middle aged now and I don't think I look as good as I did when I was in my 20's...but dang it's like a switch got flipped when I hit my late 30's and early 40's. I used to be completely invisible to women, just always. Never got so much as a glance. Now it's just constant attention, and it took me awhile to figure why. I think it's just dressing classier and sometimes wearing a beard or a few days shadow. I did not expect this.
I really appreciate your videos on style, I’ve been working on bettering my style and I’ve been getting A LOT more attention from women. Thank you Courtney 🙏🏻
I’m so glad to hear it! 🥰
Thank you Courtney. As an older man, I'm glad to know I do a lot of what you mentioned. Again, thank you for this great video.
6:00 I think where you spray it matters too. My sister told me her secrets to make the smell last longer; she sprays her wrists, inner elbows,and right under the jawline. Women are so smart lol.
Totally agree. One of my sisters told me to spray my wrists once , never more times, and then use my wrists to spread the fragance around my neck and my jaw line. You don`t want to be "fragancy radioactive", in my opinosn women like to appreciate it at close distances. I think on this issue, subtlety is key.
@ good advice
As a guy in his 50's I don't only recommend the oxford shirt, but I recommend getting them custom made. There are plenty of tailors who can do this, and when you where it you will feel and see the difference. You can pick the fabric, collar, buttons and it will be sized perfectly. I would recommend for casual oxford the non tuck in look is better, and for more formal the tuck in works better. I have custom shirts for every season. My favorite is flannel for winter in NYC. And yes, roll up the sleeves!!
Same here. Fitted button downs are game changers. Any decent tailor can alter any shirt you already have. Most commonly, they will taper it in as it goes down, which helps accentuate the V-taper you have or are working towards.
I agree about the Oxford button down. Technically not the dressiest shirt, but arguably the most versatile.
Could you tell where you get your shirts made?
@justingary5322- No idea why you are stuck in DA ZONE… 🤔
@@gatorcellmanGoogle "bespoke shirts near me" and you should find plenty of tailors that can make shirts for you
I recently started back to a very crowded work environment from working mostly remote for the past 3 years. In our accounting department, there are 3 men and 5 women. 3 of the women are single. I am middle aged but all the women pay very close attention to what the men wear no matter what our age. They may not say anything but I can tell by the way they look at us.
I wore a black Eddie Bauer pocket T shirt and jeans that fit well last week, got a lot of looks that day and could not figure out why. Courtney's advice is very important today, now I know why they were paying attention. I am a married man for several decades but these women are my colleagues and one is our Division Controller. I miss wearing my sweat pants on those remote days but life has a way of demanding we look professional especially when it is important to the women we work with daily. It is not all about attracting women, it is about impressing them with a demeanor and look they feel they can lead, follow and/or trust. As a middle aged man, I do not get the baseball hat thing but it can be good, just not at work for me. A great collection of self winding watches with classy faces is my best choice for middle aged men to catch the eye.
ye might be married and dress like this that an the other but a bet they dont know ye thinking about knobbing them everyday
I definitely agree with not wearing logos. Looking after your skin is vitality important too, I have been all my life and it shows!!
I love your advice videos Courtney 😊😋
This video is pure gold. So useful. Thank you as always, Courtney! Cheers from Brazil
So beautifully simple, straightforward and sincere. I really admire what you do.
V-necks are great as undershirts for a button-down shirt with the collar left unbuttoned. I learned that from Courtney. But crew necks are best when there's not a buttoned shirt over it.
Agree!
Exactly!
There is no worse look than a white crew neck T-shirt under a button-down shirt.
Boom - this is the way. I learned that style hack years ago. So many guys don’t realize that’s the best use of a v-neck
Courtney won't say it,but I will. The v neck looks gay worn by itself, and if you're not gay you might be sending out the wrong signal. Their fine as un undergarment, but wear a crew neck instead.
@@tvrbob8681 I think its worse under a polo shirt LOL
Years ago, a group of ladies visited our ministry offering a free service.
They had colored cards similar to what is used to identify paints.
Different cards were compared to the tone/color of one's skin.
The determination was then made of which of the four seasons was complimentimg the skin best.
One of the ladies comcluded that i am the aitumm colors.
Changing leaves.
Yellow. Orange. Rust.
I have shirts in this description and when I wear them, i probably get 5X the everyday looks. Especially from women.
It's a real thing. Colors matter.
When i see a woman with black hair, wearing white and crimson or scarlet, i absolutely notice that she has my attention. As an example.
Thank you Courtney.
If you are in ministry, apparently you are not there to spread the word, but to try to garner attention from women.
You are not leading. You are following.
Wanna know what REAL EFFEMINATE women find sexy? A man that leads. The "attention" you are getting is them telling you that your dandy ways has allowed them to talk to you like you are one of the girls.
Here is what i like to wear: nothing.
Which goes well with everything 👌
Blend in
I do that at home sometimes in the summer. Girlfriend doesn’t even blink anymore I just roll out to play some games after a long hike or work, straight up in my birthday suit.
Same. Clothes are a hindrance. Some of us look better without clothes on anyway.
Story of my girlfriend
Tip for the people that don't wear a suit. Get a blazer and a pair of chinos. Goes well with simple and plain sneakers. A shirt or T-shirt can't go wrong. The blazer can be summer-fresh or winter-heavy. Chinos go all around the year. Dessert boots, Chelsea boots or simple sneakers.
Get multiple of them eventually and you can look amazing. And it is super simple!!!
I’m all for fitted clothing, but please no skinny jeans 😂
Amen to that
Depends on the size of your legs and the shoes you’re wearing.
No, it does not.
Unless one is skinny.
I’m more for slim fitted jeans. Skinny jeans are out of fashion
Thank you Ms. Ryan! As a older man, I notice that a large number of men in my age category do not take their grooming habits very serious. Staying conditioned is also important! Simple but nice clothing is a must.
You aren’t lying about the grooming, eyebrows looking like the Amazon
What do you think about nice GOLF SHIRTS? I tend to wear them anytime... Not sure if that's good or not...
@@sixstringsdown1 I would wear a nice golf shirt! I'd make sure its ironed. It has a collar which I believe to be important. Just don't look like a golf clown
If I may add something of a very sensitive nature, I've been approached by older men asking why they are having issues finding a woman to their liking. I've told them they need to work on their breath and body oder. These older men are conditioned and workout a lot. I have to shower then rinse and shower again! Hey Ms. Ryan you look great in anything you wear! Such a class act!
@@dahlmer1234 Yes! COURTNEY IS GREAT! 🌹
Put some Vaseline before spraying on a fragrance lads, it prevents the skin from absorbing the alcohol of the fragrance making it last all day long. Cannot recommend this enough
I believe the vaseline goes on after if I'm not mistaken
No, don't do this nonsense.
None of which works in the tropics, where most people live.
I don't wear perfume and do ointment
And still manages to have a good skin
@tonyryan43 most people live in the tropics?
Are you aware of the rest of the globe mate?
I splurged and bought a custom suit for my wedding. Gorgeous oatmeal/grey color with brown accents. Fits me like a glove because it’s custom tailored to me. I’ve worn it to a couple other events as well and every time I get compliments by people I don’t even know! So yes, fitted clothing makes a huge difference.
Hi Courtney. The thing that I have been most complimented on are my hats. I wear a baseball cap with a seagull on it and and a trapper hat during winter.
The Borat mankini is my favourite item to whoo the ladies.
i tried it now i am in jail
Glad my “Free mustache rides” shirt is still on trend … can’t go wrong with a Classic
Jak se mas, then poke vagiiine!
Backward baseball cap really surprised me. Especially on a grown man that screams "douchebag" to me.
True
You've probably never been outdoors fishing or hunting in your life. City girl, right?
@@lorentaidhg8534 aww, some backward baseball cap wearing douche got offended 😂
Same here!
@@lorentaidhg8534 What is your point?? I happen to live on a lake and fish from time to time and never had the need to turn my cap around lol
We are men of serious class who follow Ms. Ryan. We listen, we consider, and we act on her teaching. We do this in a humble manner.
You kinda sound like SCOOTER, MIKE PRINCE'S right hand man in the great SHOWTIME SERIES, BILLIONS!!!
Let me know if you've ever seen it. It's a very good show, IMHO.
and we do it to get laid
You simp this woman hard, you ain't speaking on my behalf when you say "we."
The bewilderment at the baseball hat responses had me dying, you're hilarious!
I'll admit Im not one of the ladies, but on fitted clothing: I know oversized pieces is a growing choice for men's casual wear. Personally I like slimmer fits more, but I have a couple oversized neutral tees. However, there's a BIG difference between purposely oversized and not fitting, and people can tell the difference.
But at the end of the day, wear whatever makes you confident.
It’s all about clothes that fit you well. When I was younger, I would wear shirts that have big labels on them but now that I’m older, I’m more into very simple clothes. It’s more clean and it looks good on anyone.
@@TSierra stop simping bro, she is already married.
I love when women wear clothes that highlight their modesty and beauty simultaneously. You tend to nail that. Elegance, femininity, and perhaps with a subtle flirtatious streak...
Speaking of what women wear. Having grown up in France we always noticed American women how they stood out because they always wear shorts and loud labels "hard rock café" example,,,we always made fun of them. They wear shorts even inside of churches.
This is all really great information! I'm not a suit/formal person (no way, no how) but I can relate to clothes, any clothes, fitting well. You made this point in a previous video and it has stayed with me to the point that literally yesterday, I went through my dress casual button-down collection and pulled all shirts that didn't fit well - they were too large...six shirts to be exact! The white/black tee shirt advice landed well because that's what I already do...the crew neck vs v-neck information is interesting and I'll keep that in mind. I also relate to accessories - a simple watch or very light chain (I also wrap a string of prayer beads around my wrist sometimes because that's a part of who I am.) KEEP IT UP, SIS!! 📿🙏
All things being equal (assuming both styles of shirt are fitted), why do women prefer crewnecks over v-necks? As a guy, I switch between both and don't really have a preference. But the only reason I like v-necks is because they are slightly more comfortable around the neck. I'd really like to hear a group of women answer this question.
Anyone can answer this question and the answer is v-necks make you look like a douche bag, outta style, 2010's Jersey shore lookin ass. They just look dated, because they are but if you must 🙄 wear one that isn't cut so far down your tits. Go for a more modest v-neck line cut. Not the exaggerated version of it. Hope that helps
♥♥ Thumbs up! AGAIN CR has impeccable taste !
I love Courtney's channel. Always such helpful advice. Basics are key to the wardrob. I am surprised to that women prefer baseball hats but I am glad to hear they do!
Great video as always Courtney, thank you. You keep it interesting fun and classy! I must say I am not really into wearing baseball caps but I did wear one last summer and it went down well. Your reaction to baseball caps. wearing it backwards 😂, love it!!
❤️😂
Depends where & when you wear a baseball cap. But in my humble opinion, wearing it backwards look inmature.
I strongly disagree with the wearing of ball caps, especially a logo ballcap. It's clearly a down-market look, and typically either used by young men who didn't take the time to wash their hair, or older men who are trying to hide a loss of hair up top. as a 50+ man, i've only just started wearing a hat in the wintertime to keep my head warm, as cold-shock will reduce blood flow to hair follicles, speeding up hairloss. Wearing a hat also blocks sun exposure (near infrared light) which also contributes to loss of hair.
A smart, non-logo cap or headgear is different and gives a man a more mature look, esp. if it's color-co-ordinated with part of your outfit (such as your pants)---that looks smart. Wearing a logo baseball-cap, sorry I don't care who was interviewed for this survey, that's a complete non-starter if you're trying to improve your dress and overall look.
@@CourtneyRyan😂❤😊
@@contrarian604if one is into sports, and so is the woman you’re trying to attract, then team logo baseball caps work magic. Many high value women love sports and athletic men who can rock a team hat.
A baseball hat! Finally something I own that came up on one of these lists.
Yes, that shocked me as well. Great, l can vacuum them down now and start wearing them again.
You don't own a t-shirt?
@@dasc0yne Not plain black or white. My favorite shirts are blue or green or have something printed on them. I would hope I attract a woman who likes bright color more than black or white anyway.
You don't own clothes that fit?
@@certifiedbruhmoment4293 I do, but I guess I feel like that's just a basic thing for living.
Tshirts: thicker material for most of us who aren’t ripped. Fragrance: free and clear soap followed by aftershave or fragrance. Pick a fragrance and do that…1, not shampoo + soap + aftershave + cologne. Uniform guy: mechanic, hvac, must always be clean and not worn out/tattered…get a few so you always have a clean one every day.
I kept listening to videos like this and applied the knowledge I learned. I got all the ladies in the world, but constantly felt like a stupid superficial tool. Eventually, I lost all my hard-earned money buying stuff to keep the two-dimensional depthless ladies happy and singing. Now as a 176-year-old man, I know better.
im only in my 130s PLEASE share more of your wisdom with us! we are lost souls
If you're never in a situation where you can wear a suit, wear a sports jacket. A sports jacket can be worn with jeans casually anytime.
I'm blue collar and find excuses to wear a 3 piece because I love the look. If you're going out for an evening, it's always appropriate to wear a suit. Could just be going to the movies and wear a suit.
Muscle mass / lean + tan + white fitted shirts is the grand slam 🔥🫡
With a V neck, aviators, nice watch, jewelry. Ahhhhh
@@lauragwillim1055no that’s called a douchebag
And our preferences are: less make up, and zero plastic.
1. Fitted Clothing - Doesnt work on fat people.
2. White or Black Tee - I love wearing a white tee to accentuate my ghostly skin color. So Black tee it is. Its also harder to see the man nips with a black tee.
3. Instead of cologne, how about scented body lotion for dry skin?
4. How far to roll up? We talking to the shoulder? How about if you have thin arms?
5. Is an apple watch ok or should it be a classic style? Where are you supposed to place the sunglasses when they arent being used? On your head? Clipped to your collar in the front or back?
6. Layered Look. This doesnt work in Texas for 9 months out of the year. Combine that with being fat and this is a no go.
7. see comment #1.
8. what kind of baseball hats are appropriate? mesh backing? solid backing? Logo that covers the entire hat? Can the hat be cocked off to the side? How should the brim be formed? Straight? curved? U-shape? What if you have a big head? small head?
😂 👍👍👍
fat person with thin arms....rough lol
8. Baseball hats with a Yankees logo are the best option.
Red Sox hats or Astros hats indicate you have questionable taste, and possibly also eat puppies in your spare time.
Mets hats indicate that you never grew out of the paste-eating phase in preschool.
1. Stop being fat - it shows discipline and self control instead of gluttony and sloppiness.
maybe you should work on the being fat thing then.
I recently had tailor custom make a bunch of clothes for me. Absolute game changer as far as women have been concerned. It's a superpower.
Thanks for the video. Thoughtful and learned more about keeping things simple and classic.
1) muscles
2) healthy clean skin
3) well groomed beards
4) good breath and healthy gums
5) good smelling scent
Ma'am, Clear skin matters ??
My GF gifted me with a Taylor Swift Eras tour t-shirt, and when i wear it i noticed that a lot of women look at me in a good way, like "he´s brave enough to use that, he must be self confident".
Eat good food and limit the grog and your skin will be fine. If you eat processed foods and takeaways, follow Courtney's advice, but understand that these cosmetics contain serious toxins, including endocrine disrupters. Hmm.. I seem to be drifting away from Courtney, but most of her advice is common sense. I will carry it with me to the Philippines where the real women are.
My style is classic, white, navy. black, charcoal and some cream and the odd olive, burgundy, oliver peoples sunglasses, tudor or rolex watch, molten brown scents toiletries, Rowdy leather travel bags, stetson headwear. - To add to this list a Waistcoat is a nice accessory, my charcoal pinstripe suit has a really well fitted waistcoat , so few out there without pockets which make you look like a tradesman or a fisherman
… and what does ur boyfriend wear?
i wear my snapback allways backword, wear a simple thors hammer neckless and a apple watch, simple grey T Shirt with v neck, a simple slim fit jeans and white sneakers combined with my beard and glasses and i like it. I feel good with this „style“ and that is important to me
Guess heavy metal t-shirt, cargo shorts and vans were number 9,10,11
Fitted clothes only work for guys who's body is also fit. It's woman code for "they prefer men who are fit".
No, it's woman code for "women prefer men who they can control".
I live in the rural south, so most of the men I know (any age group) wear baseball caps, myself included. If it’s a formal occasion I’ll wear a felt cowboy hat. Even a lot of girls I know wear caps. I don’t think it’s an age thing, I think it’s regional.
Clothes are a form of self-expression. I'm glad women have taken the time to express their opinions on men's dress but I don't dress for them, I dress for myself.
V-necks are comfortable. Fragrances would make me allergic to myself, I just keep good hygiene.
We do have some common ground. Fitted clothing is more comfortable for me. Extra fabric gets me warm and gets in the way of movement. I wear a watch because I like to be punctual, and mine is an understated style which works both with casual outfits and suits. My suit is fitted because I'm an adult. Baseball hats allow me to skip styling my hair for the day.
Courtney, I have found the backwards hat look works. I have gotten 2 women to help me when I was locked out of my apartment and they approached me. But I also like the back hat look because it still shows the persons face. When wearing a hat forward, I feel it blocks the person's face and makes it look a bit more unapproachable if that makes sense
Proper fitting classing clothing, well groomed, confidence (not cocky), intelligent and articulate.
I‘m so glad I found someone thats into fashion just like me, no more stressing bout overdressin
Dangg, your voice is so calming and soothing
Thank you for your very informative video! Finally Men can now understand what rates well for women.. Now it's just whether they will actually listen..! 😂 A great video, regardless.👏👏👏
Awesome stuff mate.. thanks for sharing. My problem is, I don't feel like 40, and that puts off the looks. I don't even know what to wear where. I have nice blazers, but other than formal get-togethers or parties, where do I wear them? Sam goes with what style of shirt to wear for certain occassions? List goes on...
Great advice Courtney!
As an aussie in queensland I think this is just about the only place in the wolrd where a singlet and gym shorts gets attention. Although this may well be for the same reason as the snap back cap. But most of the time what works for me is exactly what you listed: plain B/W T-shirt or ironed shirt rolled up to reveal my watch.
For women I'm done with mini skirts and revealing dresses. I want woolen tops with a modest v neck that hugs her form and short skirt is fine but pants are better. For summer she cant go wrong with a sun dress.
Be modest. You cant be special to everyone and I dont want you to be.
What I’ve noticed recently that I love seeing is a woman in a business suit. Like I have an office crush and whenever she where’s her green suit it does something to me.
I had a friend back in the 80s who wore nothing but “Members Only” attire. It took him a while to get the picture. Btw, I wear both crew and V neck T’s underneath my shirts, but it’s a seasonal thing for me
I loved these responses and pretty much try to line up with most of them. My biggest discovery recently has been the power of fragrance - the hidden secret that pulls women closer. I bought a really nice, manly fragrance and I noticed that some women linger just a little longer than usual. I’ve even had women directly compliment me by saying I smell great! Last thing, and alluded to in your video, fragrance should never mask bad hygiene. It should highlight a proper wardrobe on the outside and a gentlemanly nature inside. 😊
Amen. Fragrance plus BO is the worst possible combination
My standard is jeans and a compression sleeveless.
Being shredded helps a lot
You mentioned hands. Well, I started painting my nails, I am a guy. This has been amazing!!! I already accessorize as you stated but this has taken things to another level. I LOVE your video's!!!
While accessorizing keep it simple yet fashionable.
A sleek watch, with a sleek bracelet and a nice elegant signet ring with cool shades.
The ring part is spot on on the attraction factor. Women often notice the rings/accessories what men wear and often find that attractive - though it may vary from woman to woman.
Like Ryan Gosling's characters in Crazy Stupid Love, La la Land (notice his accesories very well put together especially the fashionable Black Onyx signet ring he wore in Crazy Stupid Love which later went up in sales)
More than a fancy bracelet, a fashionable signet ring often does more.
However,
Brad Pitt's Rusty Ryan character in the Ocean Eleven's trilogy (again accessorization well put together)
Tom Cruise's Charlie Babbit in Rainman, Vincent in Collateral and Ethan Hunt in the MI series and in Lions for Lambs (though he looks good in all his movies)
Daniel Craig in James Bond
Keanu Reeves in John Wick
Christian Bale's Bruce Wayne in the Dark Knight trilogy
All very stylish dress and accessory ideas for guys.
For me I think when men wear a formal suit or even a long sleeve dress shirt that has been washed and ironed with the sleeves rolled up. I also like when men wear clothes that fit them not too tight and not baggy either. Crew necks over V necks is a plus too. I also like when wear baseball caps and a nice looking pair of sunglasses when needed. Note sunglasses are not needed indoors or at night time. lol.
How can I find fragrance video? I never did it and I have ZERO idea of how to find fragrance that fits me :|
there was a time when I didn't wear suits at all, now that my business has grown to the place it is, I'm wearing suits a lot more at formal events and I love the feeling I have and confidence it gives me when I'm wearing a tailored suit. I used to wear baseball hats all the time because I was too lazy to do my hair but in the last 10 years or so I rarely wear one. I'm blessed that I have all my hair I didi when I was a teenager so I am going to let it breathe and show it off!
The backwards cap thing is more in line with the rolled up sleeves thing. Normally, we only roll up our sleeves when we have to do something that requires a bit of focus and precision, and we dont want to keep our sleeves clean and out of the way. The backwards baseball cap is the same deal! You don't want to walk around with a backwards cap all the time, you'll look like a goof, but if you needs to do something that requires you get it out of the way, its totally ok to flip that sucker backwards for a sec lol
Great video Courtney.
I live in Hawaii & I love when I see a woman walking around in a cute sun dress not revealing too much.
Fit is king. Keep it simple with a white or black shirt. At winter layer. Add some good fragrance and a luxurious watch.
Ladies have commented on my shoes, so I've learned to pay closer attention to them and my socks - Shoes: Just classic, basic leather (black/brown) lace up or oxfords - keep clean and a little polished and buffed. Also, CLEAN white shoes (My first pair of Sketchers - it felt very strange at first, but it received a lot of very positive comments). The last part of the shoe thing is the length of my pants - making sure they have a slight break (suit) or no/almost no break (jeans) - if someone is looking at your shoes they will notice poorly fit pants (length) right above them. Also, my fingernails - Ladies comment and observe men's hands, as Courtney said, so keeping nails trimmed and clean has received complements. I think this is especially important when wearing a ring or watch that draws an observer's eye to those areas.
If I had a face like urs I’d also focus on my shoes
I think the word “suit” also would include sport coats and blazers. A nice well-fitting wool, cotton, or linen sport coat with jeans or chinos is a great look to invest in.
Courtney. Hats, no matter what kind, are good protection from sun, bad air, and eyes balling your respective. That's why it's appreciated in both males and females. We want to show integrity and personal attributes.
Another grand video this, tis my third of the day, so I had to subscribe.
I really adore a woman in a dark leather jacket, wite blouse of some sort, black jeans and a simple heel or especially a white sneaker.
This look draws me to a woman instantly.☘
Best video so far, thank you Ryan.
Cowboy hat. Just adds that swagger and confidence to any outfit. ❤❤❤
Beautiful video. I would add to pay attention to the shoes, not only the style but that they are clean. It’s easy to ruin a nice outfit if the shoes are dirty or to old
I can honestly tell you, I tried some of these suggestions and the first day. EVEVRYONE in my life was like "Wow you look great" even strangers were talking to me which never happens.
Hi Mrs. Ryan. I enjoyed your video very much. I wanted to know where I might stand in how I look to the average woman these days. I am glad to find out that my style fits into a lot of the categories that you mentioned in this video. I was very shocked about the T-Shirts. That is an area that I found amazing to find out that a lot of women like that look. I hang out with my best friend a lot and she is an extremely fashionable woman with a wonderful personality. I have known her for about twenty years now and she is always getting compliments from women of all ages, practically every day and several times a day. I had, (wanted) to get my wardrobe together to just compliment what ever she might be wearing when we go out to dancing, which is every week &. sometimes all weekend long, shopping, going to dinner, concerts, other affairs that pop up. I very rarely ever see her in the same thing twice and she was just a former Hair Stylist that had owned her own salon. Oh, she is my best friend too. She has never put any pressure on me for what I wear. She only tells me what to wear when we go out to formal affairs. That is when she wants me to match her gown for the evening. I have learned a lot from her but, I was very interested in what other women like in men’s fashion. Thank you for making this video and helping me gage what I think that some women might be thinking about my attire. This was a most informative video. I’ve learn a lot today. Oh, I wanted to mention that my best friend is 72 years old and I am almost 70 years old and we actually dress like we think we are very young people & we are still having fun every day. We both still dress rather well and I am still learning how to dress. I wish you continued success with all of your videos and I also wish you continued success financially as well. Thank again you for making this video and have a wonderful day and weekend. Oh, one last thing I would love to know if you have made a video on the top colognes that women like for different seasons? This is something that I am very interested in knowing about. I love colognes I don’t feel right when I go out, if I don’t have on some type of cologne. I’ve been like that since I was a teenager. Have a great day.
I liked you video. I'm a man, and I agree with the example at the end with your dress. At the beginning I said to myself I don't completely like your dress because I find it "unbalanced" visually. But at the end it makes you different and so, interesting (desirable) in a certain way. Thanks for the tips.
Idk why it took me so long to realize this but maybe it can help others. Whenever us guys buy shorts or pants or jeans we are always very particular about the length. We don't want it too short or too long and that's easy to notice coz it bothers you when you walk and covers up the nice sneakers.Butt this summer I noticed the biggest problem was actually my t-shirts were too long and we never really get them fixed. We just kinda have to settle for whatever length the tee is based on our size. Hunting for shorter length tees, polos and shirts made all the difference.
Courtney I appreciate your natural and classy appearance .
Interesting approach, a survey. I got a lot of ideas from this one. including how to look like I'm going to wreck your life! Thanks, Courtney!
Love the dress you are wearing and i would say that for a long time spring and summer dresses have been such a pleasing look to me.
V neck is preferred by men because the V allows for body heat to dissipate. It may seem a minor concern, however wearing a crew for extended periods retains body heat.
Where do you get those hats with the cap in the back? where I live, all the shops have only hats with the cap in the front.
I rocked a flat bill hat backwards, studs in my ears, a cutoff shirt, basketball shorts, and some Jordans when I met my wife. And it was at youth ministry on Wednesday Nights. 12 years later and we are still going strong... although she did introduce me to Polo, lol
I agree with this and also pretty much do and wear what was listed. I was lmao when Courtney talked about baseball hats I automatically was thinking of the times of 2005-2008. The Ed Hardy tee, boot cut jeans, “come at me bro” douche! The nightclub fake tough guy 😂😂
I am a face guy, and a hair guy, so for me to say your dress caught my attention the instant your video started really compliments the dress. If other ladies don't like it, they're jealous.
I agree layered looks are sharp, however if you live in the south where it's 100 degrees it is impossible.
I am just wearing non-dirty clothes (sometimes dirty ones if I am lazy). Most of them don't even fit me. Since I have nice physique (tall and wide shoulders) whatever I wear I got people's attention. But it makes me anxious. So I will try my best to wear worse but feel good at the same time lmao.