Women Are Not You're Friend
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"It's better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a contemptuous woman in a lovely home." -Solomon
*“JEZEBELS”*
And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house: Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner... Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to Hell, going down to the chambers of death. (Proverbs 7:10-12, 25-27)
For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life: To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman. Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life. (Proverbs 6:23-26)
For the lips of a “strange woman” drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on Hell. (Proverbs 5:3-5)
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@@theendtimesarehere "in the streets" lol
Facts bro I'd rather be alone
Yes, even “good” women will say the most crushing things on a whim. Things most men would never dream of saying to them. Seen it all my life.
BIG FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Those aren't good women, any more than you are a good man. All we hear in your statement is a boy who hides behind excuses and blames others for the problem.
If they say it fast isnt that a gift? I like it when men are honest fast. Why would u want someone to sugarcoat shit and waste ur time
@@LakeyLuvlokDats why you single as a pringle
@@bk_8338 I am single cause I dont waste guys time or allow them to waste mine??? Or in other words treat others with respect? Lmao ur charming cnt understand why ur bitter and alone hahaha ur not in ur masculine energy if u haven’t realized that rejection is a gift. The guys that chase me chase after my authentic self and if i see that we want different things or am not attracted to them i set them free instead of making them invest their time/ energy and money into someone that doesn’t appreciate whatever it is they offer that isnt compatible. Not everyone is meant for you. You can be a great person and not right for every girl. Only a narcissist or someone who doesn’t know themselves or what they want would think otherwise. The last guy i went on a date with i told him straight up that i didnt feel a romantic connection with him. It was awkward even hugging him. He said we are too similar and agreed. Now we are friends. If he gets attached or invests his time its knowing fully that I see him as a friend but gave it a chance. U want a girl to force shit with u until they bail later and break ur heart or just marry you when they arent all that interested cause u feel entitled to other peoples affection? Woman are human beings same as you. If a girl doesn’t get to trap u into marriage or dating just cause she likes u than u got to stop telling urself u deserve that from woman. No one is special to anyone until they find common ground, mutually invest and build attachment. Maybe ur like many guys and u just get rejected cause u don’t understand woman develop feelings differently. Men start with physical attraction and move onto logic and if they are wanting a relationship they just bam attach and if they arnt or bitter and have a bias then they will never attach regardless of attraction and logic ( being someone that fits into the future u want for yourself). But woman build attachment first with a general physical preference ( face first/ general body type/ style) and charm. Id argue charm is actually most important and thats why youll see ugly guys with hot girls amd bums with hot girls. Then girls go for men that are confident/ self aware and pursuing their own goals and best self. Once thats met ( honestly not hard to do which is why player can pull it off easy despite being pos) the girl spends time with the guy and if she thinks your fun then over time she will get attached. Finally the girl will look at the shit that really matters like life style similarities/ check to see if the guy is intelligent and wants the same shit. Most girls are dumb af and will start to whine and complain at this point when she shouldve known all along that the guy was a stoner so he isn’t ambitious/ doesn’t want kids/ works alot so duh cnt give them constant attention etc. thats when the girl usually keeps investing hoping one day the player will love them back or they bail on the less confident/ less attractive guy cause theyre bored he is going no where with his life or break up cause tehy never shouldve matched on day one. Some girls try to skip past this because they think if they demand more of men they will appear higher value and get more from a guy ( partly true). Now tell me, its not better to cut past all this bullshit and just be yourself and hangout with likeminded people and just pursue your own goals and go with the flow. Years ago I rejected this great guy that i wasnt attracted to cause he didnt have enough in commom with me. I knew my friend would match with him better and they both would be respectful. I dressed her up all cute and started a convo between them mentioning what they have in common. Theyve been married 3 years now. I am pretty sure he appreciates that i didnt date him/ break his heart or feel like im settling for him. Now hes happily married and truely loved
You can't trust people who will betray you.
*“JEZEBELS”*
You can trust them to be who they are
You can't trust a guy who tells you women are bad people.
"If you want to understand a woman, just think of a man and take away reason and accountability". Jack Nicholson
Says Jack Nicholson who’s legitimately crazy.
@@HeatherAngus-vj2jq takes one to know one
The worst part of this is we are hard wired to want them. And it’s damn near impossible to break away from that desire.
Especially when we want sex🤦🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️
They are beautiful
Nobody said you have to stop having sex just don't do cohabitation. The Buddhist can teach you to love without attachments works really well once you get the hang of it.
@sosaDerrick Yea your wallet is buetiful to!
BRUUUUUTAL
This advice applies to men dealing with mothers, sisters, and effeminate fathers and brothers as well.
Yes they are all solipsistic and dishonest. It really doesn't matter what your relationship to them is they will always put themselves before you.
You're perfectly on point 💯 spot on 🎯
I agree with this video broadly, but I have one big caveat. When discussing a large group such as "women' ... you have to realize that this is an incredibly diverse group of people. YES there are some sweeping commonalities ... but there is also a lot of difference from one individual to the next. So while this information is broadly correct ... in specific cases it is impossible to predict the behavior of an individual based on a formula. It can be better than he describes, or a Whole Lot WORSE. And with that caveat ... I can agree broadly that all of this is correct info.
@@pygmalionsrobot1896you’re talking about a minority group of women like less than 5% when we’re talking about over 95% of women ain’t shyt! That’s like someone thinking they can win a million dollars playing lottery! Yeah you might win but there’s a 1 in 2 million chance that you will! So you bringing that up made absolutely zero sense
@@QueensNewYorkguy Agreed about the 5%, 95%. Obviously. But the reason it makes sense to keep it in mind is because that 5% can make a huge difference. It is true that 95% of women are not zombie cannibals, but there's a small minority who are ... they DO NOT fit the formula ... and they can mess up your day. How this makes zero sense I have no idea. Maybe you never met a psycho.
Women are not honest or trustworthy. I leave them alone.
I'm afraid your right
Your right the proof is listening to ya and all my personal experiences cool understood never take them for granted
@@HarryHeath-pb6rv *you're
1000%
He is right @@HarryHeath-pb6rv
Good women are rare, it’s important to keep your standards really high and if any women treats you badly don’t be afraid to leave her.
I am not gonna spend a lifetime looking for that
F*** the Jezebels
The universe is vast
@@scentsoftravelmeditation No it’s definitely worth looking for it, true love is extremely important and we all need relationships similar to what our parents and grandparents had; love like that is extremely important for a happy fulfilled life! Also that’s actually not me on my pfp!
@@hot_guy997 yes Bro
Just get a dog ! Unconditionally loyal friends
Lol. Same advice I give. Better results.
I don’t know why pple degrade dogs and good animals. I really don’t
A world better than narcissists
No SUCH thing as friends. Just acquaintances.
BS! You sound like a female.
Definitely
bruuuuutal
Even mothers will let you down if you don't provide something...
Very true with my mother
Damn I feel this in my soul
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100 %
I am sorry your mother is such a bad apple.
Spot on bro - told my wife when we got together right away we will never be friends...only lovers...a women who wants friends with other men outside of marriage are not looking for friends they are looking for mates....men aren't looking for women to be friends they're looking for a mate....stop pretending
Sounds superficial af! Maybe just hire an employee instead. If your wife isnt also your best friend shes gonna get lonely and probably bail and your gonna be a bitch about it but u never appreciated her anyway
That's is the truth.
This guy cracks me up, because he looks like a teenager, yet he has all this knowledge and wisdom😂 very impressive my dude
It's called social media, Sir!
They want your money, not you.
It’s sickening but so damn true! I’m gonna be single until I find a female that loves me for me. I’ll probably be DEAD by that time! 😂
*Exactly!! 1,000%*
For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10)
(She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27)
Then shall they call upon Me, but I will not answer; they shall seek Me early, but they shall not find Me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord: They would have none of My counsel: they despised all My reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, *and the 'prosperity of fools' shall destroy them.* But whoso hearkeneth unto Me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil. (Proverbs 1:28-33)
We CAN'T want you if you have no money. U understand? Our babies will die
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26)
*The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61)
*The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7)
When *the wicked* spring as the grass, and *when all the workers of iniquity do flourish;* it is that *they shall be destroyed forever.* (Psalm 92:7)
The LORD is known by the judgment which He executeth: *The wicked is snared in the work of (her) own hands. The wicked shall be turned into Hell,* and all the nations that forget God. (Psalm 9:16-17)
*Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets* ... *Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into Hell:* for "wickedness" is in their dwellings, and among them. (Psalm 55:11,15)
Dont hold your breath@@k28_95z
Im so glad this next generation of men are learning and seeing this. I was 40 and divorcing when i finally caught on. Chase excellence not women
All we hear is a boy who failed at being a man which is why no woman followed. If you had been a man, you would have maintained your home and family. What we hear is you are mad at your bad choices. Garbage attracts garbage.
INDEED!!!!
@@universalmother schizophrenic behavior
bro this is the craziest synchronicity ever. I just got fired from my job like 5 hours ago, because i made a few females feel "uncomfortable" with my comments. The boss when she fired me said "you didn't say anything sexual " you just made some people feel uncomfortable. Wtf so now you can fire people for saying things that make them feel uncomfortable? What is uncomfortable? anything they decide is uncomfortable? I work(ed) in a call center with 16 females. im the only guy. go figure. I've been working this for 3 months before i got fired today. The funny thing, these girls have been pretending to be cool with me. while acting fake behind my back. Like all i do is joke with them and try and be friendly, and they act like they are cool with me back, yet they report me to the manager behind my back.
its crazy u posted this
The ole’ classic. Learn this good my guy. Someone can have kids with and marry you and turn on you and divorce out of boredom. Much less a job at a call center? Should’ve seen this one coming
@@raskult what happened to humanness? Like why can’t women just see me as a human who is trying to connect with them? Sorry if my personality seems to offend you, but I’m just trying to connect with you and play around with u. Like how is my attempt to be friendly and playful etc interpreted as making people feel uncomfortable when nothing sexual was expressed? What happened to humanness?
to most women men are perceived as a threat, I asked a chick out and got kicked out of a store , they thought I was stalking her (I wasnt) society hates men G just make sure you ghost women from now on at ur job so it doesnt happen again
Lesson learned don't work with a lot of women
Friend of mine got fired having “red pilled” on his instagram bio , a female colleague reported it
Not caring about anything but God should be every man's ultimate objective.
God doesn't exist
@Tom-cp6yj yeah he does bud
@@Tom-cp6yjplease change from that mindset and feeling of yours. Cause if you die you will be in for a rude awakening. A VERY rude awakening
And how can we prove he exists ?
Fuck your "God" 😂
I didn't learn this revelation until the past couple of years at age 50. You look like you are in your late 20's, and you are so far ahead of the game! Women don't really actually love men, only what we can do for them.
Man had paradise before Woman.
@@Cell90749th
If we're honest, our mothers hide this knowledge from us and the world does its best to hide the fact that women can't love as deeply as men, as it goes against their own survival, so they're more selfish in nature and much quicker to betray you and abandon you when a better opportunity comes around. Never complain to her when this happens trust me. She will only lose further respect if you act out emotionally.
Be stoic around her, and when you are alone let the pain flow out of you, I know it feels like you lost a child u were caring for (in terms of the depth of love) but for her it was merely a bad pair of shoes and she needed new ones.for real for real.. Stay Strong men
SPITTING BIG FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The metaphor of caring like the weight of a lost child, and for her a pair of shoes. Giving a woman this level of my love and integrity was a mistake. She was the wrong one of course. However that metaphor, hits it on the nail, matching the degree I cared for the relationship I was fostering. I thought we were.however it was just me, my expectations and false analysis.
Yes my mama want me to fall in love and be monogamous SIKE never
I can relate . Bro I just broke off a three year relationship. She started dating someone right after i took short nap bro. This is someone I respected and never wanted to do bad to but she betrayed me without blinking an eye
Almost all the wahmen I've encountered, I realized one thing. They only saw me as an option, not a choice...unless it's convenient for the wahmen.
Most people won't admit this but women are way more selfish than men and their love is VERY conditional. They see relationships as transactional even if they don't realise it (though most of them do realise this and don't care).
The nature of relationships IS transactional.
@@Claudereeno, only men WANT TO be with someone that doesn’t have as much money as them.
@@Claudereeagreed. If I provided no value, why would I expect a woman to value me? That said, the problem is that men OVERvalue women. And then we wonder why these women think they can try anything and get away with it. Men are at fault for worshipping women who never deserved it
Hypergamy 🤮
Very well said
They are EMOTIONAL and SELFISH. I remember in a few hours a girl who liked me went from liking me to liking my friend. IT IS NOT ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and loyalty. Men die for people, women don't. Women talk about loyalty but it's BS and they just follow their emotions
To be fair I've liked a girl & I was also into her friends. It happens bro.
@@dabbydabbington135no ur just a simp
@@dabbydabbington135men and women are different bro
If your friend's wife is starting do disrespect him publicly, its the beginning of the end of that marriage
Self interest governs all. To reveal her true nature, pretend you lost your job or something. If she sticks with you, she is true. If she runs, she is revealed as a pretender.
A women shouldn't be responsible for a grown man and support him. She is correct to leave if you can't provide for her
This comment is enacting genderless programming. You are essentially saying there is no gender
in MY case, SHE didnt run...I did
@@pyramidhead138 congrats. Real Man
@@AngelKrystalStarOkay, Golddigger.👈
This guy absolutely understands everything about this
Based. This boy GETS it. Wish I had as much sense 40 years ago when I was his age as he exhibits right now. This young man will go far.
The feminist are grabbing the pitch forks! 😆
No the feminists agree with this. They want to go 5050
Lolmao
Brah I need no woman!😂 I can cook, clean, work on my own, wash my clothes, build my own house! Adopt my own kids, etc!
@@eugeniosabater8449 breastfeed? 🙄 You want to be some kind of replicating organism 🤣
Let's have the Salem witch trials all over again then?
Something I have observed with women: If they find you attractive, but you just want to stay ''friends'' they sense it very quickly and disappear.
The other way around, many men will gladly stay in the ''friendzone'' of a woman.
Sometimes they tried to lie to themselves that they don’t like you so they don’t get rejected and they stay around….and flirt with you and try to “date” you…but you can still sense they like you.
I had to cut one off bc she was just taking my energy from me without reciprocating good energy back and around that time I decided that I want no female friends.
Its turns out if a women changes their mind of being with you for whatever dumb reason its over!😅
It's a catch 22.
The women you romantically want just think you’re just a friend, and the women you want just as a friend just think you’re trying to get into their pants. I’m afraid that there’s no solution to this paradox. It’s best just to make your intentions absolutely clear up-front.
Yoooo, this is low-key because the same happens with me. I remember one i was starting my warehouse career i had this petite short girl (i was waaay taller than her, she prob 5,5) that would crush on me HARD! she would say im strong, complement me in a smooth, seductive tone. Typical 9 yards. I was already mgtow/red pilled, so i saw right through this. There's a saying i live by in the workplace "Don't 💩 where you eat." That means don't flirt and get into womens pants who are your coworkers. You're inviting an angry wasp nest into your life doing that. It took a few months, but she finally stopped talking to me after she said, "How come you don't talk as much?" And continued to shame me about how i don't talk at work. Lovely, this is why im mgtow because if i DID get with her. Her saying, "How come you don't talk as much," would be replaced with saying something 50× worse to me. All types of abuse included.
Btw she doesn't work here anymore LMAO
@@hazznex Good job, they can really ruin things at work for you... hell I don't even engage with waitresses and such anymore, have had bad experiences. It does not surprise me that she doesn't work there anymore. In my experience, often times when there is a guy at their work (coworker or regular customer) who they have a crush on but he doesn't seem to like them... they quit their job!
In absolutely extreme situations, it is women who most often unite against men. And use it as a tool
Feminism will destroy America
Already has actually
Ehem modern feminism!🙄
It's actually happening today. They are sucking our energies through pornography, extreme hypergamy and entitled behaviour. They are using sexuality more than ever to control us.
@@ALLfemalesLiecheatnsteal America is pretty much destroyed, it is a rotting corpse. Despite my upbringing, I will not support her efforts to spread the rot worldwide
Absolutely.
This is the kind of brutal truth men need to hear, understand and internalise. Subscribed 👍
My X decided 9yrs ago she had to find herself after 25yrs and three children. Today I couldn’t be happier and single. As for her , the long term boyfriend moved out.
Red flags:
Too friendly with strangers
Drinks alcohol, even the occasional glass of wine or whatever. for some reason alcohol effects women entirely differently.
Glued to her phone
Women have lower tolerance than males
Yeah with women it's always "well what have you done lately?" what you've done in the past doesn't matter one iota.. better to stay single personally.
MGTOW for life
Yup
So you're going gay, 😮
@@mullcrumthesage6303 nah I still bang women for recreation but not going ever committing to any of them not worth it
#LongLiveMGTOW
Has nothing to do with being gay
Fathers in this day and age need to talk to their sons about female nature and manhood and not just about the birds and the bees.
Yeah, if they're actually allowed to SEE their kids hehehe
It took me 50 years and two divorces to know what you know at a young age! No truer words have ever been spoken young man. They don’t love like us, care like us, and loyalty is a virtue they don’t understand. What you say is absolutely positively true.
Garbage will always attract garbage. A 2 time failure. Real women aren't the problem.
@@universalmother lol sure thing Karen
@@tennbones That is exactly what cowards who hide behind excuses say, as you did nothing in life to prove otherwise. Talk is cheap and you are broke. You are just angry you failed where others succeeded. That is no one's problem but yours.
@@universalmother Lol, you so prove my statement and the video this young man made perfectly. Keep running that pie hole! Bet they are really standing in line for you. 😂
@@universalmother. Just curious, are you happily married?
Thank you 🙏
I learned this decades ago. Theyre in it for themselves in life. Give a woman enough time she will argue with herself and make her own life uncomfortable🤣🤣
hahhahhaha. you made me laugh!!!
Women are in it for themself and unfortunately in many cases that means getting a man’s resources. They don’t seem to have any other strategies or capabilities other than that. Thats why female hypergamy the ones with education or even a decent job want a man that a level up so they can obtain his resources above their own.
Everything this man said is true, I had a girl bestfriend for 3 years, in that amount of time I stayed w her thru thick and thin, I went thru the ringer w her, and she put me thru absolute hell, she threatend to cut me off for the smallest things, didn't take my feelings into consideration at all, I can go on and on, anyways long story short, a year ago she actually did ghost me than tried to come back into my life 2 months later, told me how she never had a friend as good as me, and she really hoped we could just be friends again, and I was NOT INTERESTED what so ever, she knew she fucked up, don't EVER keep a girl around as a friend when u want something more fellas, and even if u do get a "loyal" chick who has your back, always be prepared to lose her cause women always lose interest after a while, they either lose it really fast or it takes time, don't ever take these modern women seriously fellas.
BRUUUUUUUUTAL
@@iiCounted-op5jx I couldve said worse bro lol, but everything I said is true
THIS MAN is SPITTING BIG BIG FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
These aren't facts. The person who posted is someone who is angry and sees through bias, not truth. He has spoken nothing accurately about a real woman. What he speaks about are girls pretending. You attract what you are, as she is a reflection of you. Garbage always attracts garbage.
This is reality. People hate seeing the truth but he spoke nothing but the truth the ENTIRE video.
You're black, you got it easy now
Young men take notes!!!!
I’m 28 btw
Bruh I'm 28 with 0 experience. I just workout, play videogames with my friends and doing school. Just kinda sad Idk what I'm missing because I've never even held hands with a girl but all these channels and what I'm hearing online and with some of my friends and families experience, I really don't think I'm missing out on much lol. Just feel I was robbed a part of my young adulthood with how bad not just dating is but also the economy but not much you can do till I get my career going after school.
Not concerned about women but watching this makes me more motivated to work on myself and do better. Once I’m better I think I’ll still be fine with being alone
I agree men can live alone and still be happy.Its the way we're made.
yeah, bro, welcome to the club, you are not alone!!!!
My man speaking straight FACTS. It took me until 30 y/o to figure this shit out
All my illusions about women were completely shattered by the time I was about 27 years old. By that time, I had come across enough married women who had cheated on their husbands with guys I knew (some of these guys were personal friends of mine, some were work colleagues), that I realized how common cheating is. All these situations involved the married woman having sex outside the marriage while her husband was away at work and had no idea.
That's so sad! And obviously men and women cheat, human beings cheat, but I guess you'd say... men cheat less?
I've seen women bring her husband and the guy she's cheating with to her birthday meal sat them next to each other lucky to realise how cold they are before I was 18
@@muiclay8565 Do you think it makes them excited? Turn them on? That they can play with two guys like that? 😭😭
@@zuhairrezait does 😂
@@Big_talks. dammit! 😭😭😭😆😆
Yup. Solitude is best, be your own friend your just passing by on this earth anyway.
Straight up facts.
Why do people absolutely struggle like hell to differentiate between 'your' and 'you're'?!
lol
Why don't you mind you're own business. 😅
@@mullcrumthesage6303 Cos you're problems are actually my problems, but your too dense to see it. I care u.
LOL
This is a perfect example of an old soul!
WOMAN: "I'll call 😂😢😮you when I need you for something!"
Ya I just rather be alone and single I'm so much happier
welcome to the club Ryan, you are not alone!!!!!!!
They may have always been like this, but in recent times they've turned it up to 11.
Yeah, it went less noticed 50 year ago, but modern women are like demons.
Timothy 2:12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
The devil's greatest trick was convincing man to trust women but we are waking up
Every teenage boy should be sat down and made to watch this video.
It would save a million heartaches.
You don't learn until you experience it
@@spasmtube4548 Forewarned is forearmed.
Mainstream culture doesn't give young men any hint of what they are really going to be dealing with.
A video like this would be a much needed heads up.
bruuuutal
@@spasmtube4548 danggg
@@chrisx8902 absolutely
Loving the channel man, 2 years ago I left a people who I used to do drugs with, I found a good woman, got a good job, my music is taking off, and life is good, when I bump into them, I realised they always treated me like utter shit, the difference is now, is I won't stand for it...time to go
You are wise beyond your years, Terry. Great work. Some don't care to see the deeper message behind the wording. Keep pushing
He might have SOME knowledge , but no wisdom…
essentially watches over videos and then streams his own…
and claims as his own life experience..
My goodness , what is he, 25- 30 tops ?… and speaks like he has 60 years exp.
He definitely has wisdom, and he’s right about a lot. However, it’s all energy. Energy never lies. Humans do.
@@koylejeune4332 yes , that’s what I’m saying, and seen, is bullshit…so I’m calling it out.
Do I think Terry is a bad dude? … of course no.. he is like many of us other men trying to navigate this wounded world, and having some boundaries and compassion on the way.
what I’m rubs me the wrong way, is what I stated earlier,
it’s a bit of teachers complex,
he delivers it like he has lived it.
with that underpinning.
Perhaps give some props to whom he has got some knowledge from.
not deliver like it his personal wisdom?
@@Michael-it7nx maybe he has lived through it before? I’m not saying Terry is a bad dude either. There’s so many things people don’t know or can’t remember from their past lives. I won’t add anything else to this conversation.
@@Michael-it7nxagree, he’s no Aristotle. The Nicomachean ethics makes a fool of his trivial spout, if people cared to read. The advertising in the videos is levels of cringe also. Epictetus enchiridion discourses is another one also people should care to read.
Also Terry is very contradicting in regards to egotistical achievements which is not what an intelligent man does. Hey it is the internet, trying to be philosophical with no scripture and earn money talking crap, they all do it on this platform, he might as well be another one on the list!
Women are not your* friend
I choose not to get involved. Too much of a gamble
Relationships are a gamble
Before we talk about how bad women are, let’s make sure we are perfect first.
No one is perfect no man, no woman
No wife, happy life.
I’m a full time caregiver of my stroke ridden husband, as of five years. I’ve never thought of leaving. Some women are loyal.
Virtue signaling.
There's money involved, I bet
Exceptions prove the rule. But for those who are truly loyal, they are gems 💎
Are you staying with him because you genuinely love him and are loyal to him or are you loyal to your insecurities? I.e you’re afraid of being judged or afraid of being alone or afraid of loosing your lifestyle. Be honest.
@@georgedaviotis3016 🇬🇷☦️🏺🏛
Bro your young to be spitting these straight facts....if all men could see this and live by it, so many could be saved
It reminds of the scorpion and the frog with the women is the scorpion. The frog is giving the scorpion a ride across the river and they both are drowning and the frog asks why would you sting me and the scorpion says “ it’s in my nature”
Not all women are as this young man is describing but if you honestly feel his sentiments then it’s best to stay single forever. Because with that mentality that’s exactly what you will attract.
And thats ok
yes they are
@@swishthadon678 have you met ALL women yet? If so, I guess I'm lucky then because most women I know in my life are really awesome, and I enjoy spending my time with them.
@@VenomLeon There all evil.
@@VenomLeon i fucked over 40 of them, i know what most are like lol
The truth brother. We’re just utilities and it’s all conditional. It’s still fine to be in relationships, just don’t be blind to the reality of it all. As they say, she’s not yours, it’s just your turn, if that’s what you want.
Your 100 percent right man because i grew up with five sisters 😂 same goes for women all round they play mind games too and they threat men like baffoons 😢😮
You're
@@earthwormjim3269you are
Three sisters and now that they have their children they just entertain themselves no dating. All the drama now comes from the kids in their lives lol.
Never played any mind games with anyone no reason to or have time to, only have men that play mind games
so when you say all women play mind games is not true not all it's more men do
@@nataliechurch8093 Most men aren't smart enough to play mind games.
time to remain single and enjoy life
And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her. -Ecclesiastes 7 : 26
And I find “more bitter” than death - *the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands:* (Ecclesiastes 7:26)
*The bands of the wicked have robbed me:* But I have not forgotten Thy law. (Psalm 119:61)
*The robbery of the wicked shall destroy them:* because they refuse to do judgment. (Proverbs 21:7)
When *the wicked* spring as the grass, and *when all the workers of iniquity do flourish;* it is that *they shall be destroyed forever.* (Psalm 92:7)
The LORD is known by the judgment which He executeth: *The wicked is snared in the work of (her) own hands. The wicked shall be turned into Hell,* and all the nations that forget God. (Psalm 9:16-17)
*Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets* ... *Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into Hell:* for "wickedness" is in their dwellings, and among them. (Psalm 55:11,15)
*For the love of money is the root of all evil:* which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. (1 Timothy 6:10)
*(She) that is 'greedy of gain' troubleth (her) own house;* but he that hateth gifts shall live. (Proverbs 15:27)
Then shall they call upon Me, but I will not answer; they shall seek Me early, but they shall not find Me: For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord: They would have none of My counsel: they despised all My reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices. For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, *and the 'prosperity of fools' shall destroy them.* But whoso hearkeneth unto Me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil. (Proverbs 1:28-33)
All Facts brotha!! Been married 22 years 2nd time around. We might make it to 50 but I still have my eyes open
I was with this girl for 15 years then her father passed away. She wanted to be alone. Then she hit me up to say happy New Year. I thought she felt better so I ask her out to dinner. She said I don't do things for her and mention that's not what she wants. I was thinking she found someone else. I decided not to contact her it is her loss.
That is very odd illogical behavior.
14:58 "They don't care ..."
That's a good way to sum it up.
There's no love lost.
"just wait... just wait" is definitely how I feel I saw a young dude arguing with a young girl about cheating on him at a restaurant the other night, he had to be 19-21 years old I felt for him but minded my business saying to myself "damn.. he's on his learning path" shit is crazy 😅😅😅
brutal
Demons are a girls best friend!
I thought they were diamonds not demons!😂
@@eugeniosabater8449 you thought wrong sorry.
I accused a girl I was dating of being demonic. She didn't take kindly to being called out!
I've stayed by my husband's side through raising our violent autistic son who is now in a group home 5 hours away. He almost died at one point, having 4 other children all of our ups and downs, and then 2 of our older children have had some emotional problems because of the autism situation. We've been together for 24 years and have been iron clad, solid. I'm by his side and we MAKE it work by CHOICE. If anyone could or should have cut and run it would have been us... But we refuse it. Love is on many different levels, in many different ways. When you first get together it's more about looks, physical attraction and sex and procreating. But that is only one aspect of love. As time goes on and you get older, you will be tested. Possibly to the max, like never before in the relationship. It's the hardships that measure the substance of the love you have for each other. Granted, a love like that is rare. But they do exist. I'm 51 now and we're getting back to a more settled life without all the chaos. We' ve been tested to our core. I have to say that, I'm one of the few women who know who I am though, and my place, in relation to my husband. This is not common.
Noone cares about your kids 😮
But you benefit from him
@@canoayala5285and he benefits from her? What
@StoicCaringbutColdandFierceIfN I've been married twice I don't have it in me to Marry again. Both ex wives wanted alimony after both divorces. I've date a few times after my 2nd divorce and I don't even bring up Marriage the woman does
@@airheadusmc3821 In this day and age, it's literally a f'n jungle out there.
"The words you speak, my friend, are those that I would tell my brother. "thanks bro
When I married my high school sweetheart in 1972 my father told me " Dont give it all keep some of yourself for you".Wasnt until many years later I realized what he meant.
I am a good friend...been thru too much....want to make other people's lives good.
First time viewer: I’m so glad that a RUclipsr is saying, my exact thoughts on TV. The women are not your friend personally to me. God is your only friend. That feeling of wanting to go home, but not really being able to go go go go home. God is your friend the angels are your friend. The women will be a test for you and your children your sons they will be a test for you ever since God really became my best friend. It has been healing, beautiful and empowering a woman can never give you that.
Nah forget god you are in your own
@@user-el8bp1gj2mI rebuke your lies, Satan. God IS our friend and will always be with us :)
Harsh truth. But very real.
We need more raw content like this
Damn a young man speaking the truth……I wish I knew this along time ago…..54 here and single….had 2 fiancés in 6 years, I tried but I’m tired and want to give up on women , they cut bake and head out quick when there is resistance and move on so easily while we are left hurting and confused🤷🏼♂️ being alone is getting better though🤔
This man just set us back when he spelled you're friend, instead of your.😂😂
Brother you are spot on! I'm retired now, but almost every female I had as a working partner tried to get me fired, only because I didn't flirt with then, or try to sleep with them like most of the guys at work. Most of these women were married too, so I realized it wasn't even about attraction, or non-attraction, it basically came down to attention. I was most respectful to them than any guys on the job, but just because I didn't stroke their ego, they ended up hating my guts. It was crazy, but God got me through it! 🙏
Wow…this explains a lot. But why would women in their mid 30s-60s act like that to a man in his 20s? that’s disgusting
The female girls that were decent to me were the ones in their 20s too….weird
@@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et Wow bro it happened to me as well in my 20's, most likely it's because you may have some type of maturity about you that makes them feel insecure, as they may feel that you aren't easy to manipulate, or probably you could be very discipline about how you handle yourself, also it could be a spiritual thing as well to where they may feel that you have a strong connection with God, but most of all its probably insecurity. There are a whole lot of mature women, that simply refuse to grow up. Seems to me that, they actually may feel like you're superior to their spirit, which is their problem, not yours.
@@davidbanner9344 That’s mind-boggling man, it’s like we are twins haha.
But you’re right…it took me about a year to even begin to understand but you gave me even more clarity on the hate I received. I left the job bc of the toxicity for a better opportunity.
Thank you for your compliments, it’s funny because we chosen often do not see ourselves like that, at least for me I often underestimate myself and consider others better than me so to speak, but it’s comforting to know that I do have something beautiful in my soul, to such an extent it can inspire others or bring them to envy.
Godbless you brother and may we continue to shine and grow!
@@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et Man you spoke the magic word ENVY 😄😄 I have so much of it that's it's mind boggling, and I don't think there's anything special about me, but they see something that we don't see about ourselves, that makes them so envious, it's really crazy. It's great talking to you bro, we're actually spiritual brothers and you are blessed to have so much insight and knowledge at your very young age. You are truly blessed. Stay strong and God Bless You!🙏🙏🙏
@@davidbanner9344 Yessir! and spiritual brothers, I like that! That is indeed truth bro! Great reminder we’re not alone. Amen to that and see you at the top in this life and in heaven one day 🙏
Fam as a 50 year old man i wanna say thank you for opening up my eyes
Im a single man in my 50 .s and i can do what i want do my own thing go where i like eat what i like and ive a big round belly to prove it😊 and live my own life the way i want to man❤😊
There's a reason the word "evil" came from Eve.....
I think a good moral woman could be a friend maybe in the workplace but these other gold digging users...no sir
Do not make friends with women in workplaces.
Take the most unattractive man on earth and the most attractive female on earth and put them on a lonely island. Eventually they will have sex. A friendship between women and men is naturally not possible. Its like saying the sky is green. No its not and it will never be
Needed this thanks brother!❤🎉
What a gem bro! You articulated everything funny as hell too. Spot on info and I can attest from personal experience. I stay single because it's hard to find the right woman whom I'd let pilot my skill sets
Baby's, mothers, and dogs, only thing loved unconditionally
Many many blessings to you my brother for helping men in their struggles with. The highest praise to you and thank you for preaching the truth.
You're very articulate, Joel. You express things really well. Just saying.
Bottom line...Feinds are circumstanial in this life
Ah yes. The common female feind. Read em' and avoid em' like pitfalls.
All facts. If I knew what I have learned the last 8-9 years I wouldn’t be married. I wouldn’t waste my time, effort, love, money etc on any woman. Especially the one I’m married to that treats me like shit, says the most evil hateful shit I didn’t think existed, ruins days weeks months holidays etc., all while I’m just expected to forgive/forget because “I don’t mean what I say” and all while I have given her the easiest, least responsibility having life possible. I take care of literally everything,
All worries, problems, finances and so on and yet somehow it’s still not enough. If you want to be happy and not deal with headache, heartache, and other problems while also keeping your money and not going further into debt, then don’t ever get married and don’t ever put up with any bs from a woman. From the very start put your foot down. Please don’t make the same mistakes I have and be miserable for 9 years
Speaking Truth, it will always be this way.
I Know Because There's No Such Thing Unless It's Your Girl Friend Like He's Just A Friend & That Line All By It's Self Is Going To Be There * Karma *
I was in my 30s before I finally learned these facts. It pulled the rug out from under me. I can’t believe my father never taught me these lessons. I don’t think he even really understood until recently.
You have learned many of life's realities to be so young. May you go far in life. Peace.
Love your videos man.
My parents zero divorces, married for 48yrs! My grandparents zero divorces married for 60 and 75yrs! All my aunts and uncles both sides of family zero divorces, all still married or widowed now like my father at 80 in excellent health condition. The modern day woman 👩 is no longer a high value woman young men!!
Appreciate the talk brother.
If you've been there, you know this feeling... To be honest I'm happy I get to experience this reality in my lifetime. It's not making me hate women. I don't even hate the very woman who acted towards me in the ways he's describing. I have also been in situations where a couple of women were ready to mess up the good men in their lives to please me... It's just one nasty reality. But if you keep your head up in the right direction you only become a better man from these experiences. A man who understands the female nature and doesn't judge but just knows how best to navigate the waters for optimal outcome for all parties.... Good luck guys🤞🏾
The same you can say about men, if someone treat you bad and cant reflect it and go on with that abusive behavior than go away and never come back
And the deflection begins 😂😂😂😂😂
What is it with you bozos? Your comment is basic common sense but has nothing to do with the subject at hand. How about reasoning instead of competing on nonsense?
at this point, no one is your friend, frienship doesn't exist