high-value man is naturally self-confident because he lives a life that he is proud of. His posture is usually open, not because he is trying to prove he is self-confident, but because he knows he has nothing to hide. A man with integrity is high-value because he is trustworthy and women love men with high value.
Naw bro, men approach women, it's what we do, Approach them all the time if you like what you see, go get it, but you're right on the DO NOT CHASE part, Never chase a woman.....Never.
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
The biggest thing to remember is while you won't have as many options as a woman at your grasp, a man has a much longer time window to attract a quality woman as you establish yourself the quality of women increases. Life is a marathon for men, not a sprint.
An ugly short man who is ignoring a woman and acting like a jerk, will not be chased by the woman. You need to be good looking to start off with and being tall also helps massively
Exactly. Numerous studies have proven this. Such men can try to buy love by being highly successful and/or going to developing countries where they have higher wealth But, it's not love they are buying. Peace.
@@andrewgiegerich153 You could be the next dating guru. Show us your in-field techniques. Defying thousands of years of natural selection preference would be fascinating to witness. What different things are you providing?
@@bobbruce4135 um idk I usually am more focused on myself than others including women I'm introverted maybe it makes ppl want to get to know me or pursue me Being good at sports and physically fit probably helped more though 😅
@@bobbruce4135 i think body type more than height affects attractiveness of a male . . . I dated a girl that was 5'11 before it really just depends what the girl likes
A different perspective. 1. you go where the women are and you will meet them. 2. you treat women as human beings - listen, ask questions, and don't talk about yourself. 3. don't act as coach, Mr. Fixit or protector. A woman may take a different path. However, she will most likely come to a good solution without relying upon you.
*11 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Strong Women in 2022* 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Daily walks outside 6. Listen to a TED Talk 7. Forgive someone 8. Stop following Kardashians and build something for yourself 9. Join a group of supportive individuals 10. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) 11. Congratulate yourself for this growth Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
I have a girl that cant get over me and its been 4 years and all i do is being my self, deep inside i like her a lot but you have to show her that you More valuable to your self then she is. Thats how you test a woman and make sure she has down side because that means your better then what you deserve. Be calm and be your self and never rush it, trust me this guy is totally right, simply telling your self that no matter what you do for a woman there be always another guy she might likes and you don’t know that, stay your self and don’t let yourself hurt by someone that is gonna hurt you. Never rush, you think you know her but all it is is just being trapped. Woman is different then a man, and no matter what you do for a woman they just going to use you to get to a better man, why waist your time right ?
Be able to maintain frame. You have a purpose or mission in life greater than the girl. Be secure. No attachment to outcome. Love is light and playful. Stop trying so hard. Are you a fun person? What are fun activities that you have done and go do them. Stop being boring. Can you make other people laugh and lift their mood. Let the other person talk via Chris Voss. Lift their mood. Repeat back key words and ideas. Active listening skills. Do you know any good jokes? Read any good books? Gone to any fun events or activities? Are you boring? Can you talk about cool and exciting things. Are you a secure confident man? Are other women attracted to you. Do you work out. Are you clean and a sharp dresser showing that you have high self esteem. Instead of trying to take love --- maybe try to have self love and share love, joy, and happiness. Lift emotions and make other people feel good. Be authentic and genuine. Be mysterious. Decisive. Not needy. Have standards and boundaries. Assume the other person likes you. We do not attract what we want. We attract what we are. No fear. Don't be her brother or psychologist or banker or doctor --- be up front - be her lover and if she rejects you do not be hurt - just move on - no attachment to outcome. It sure saves alot of time and money. Over come any psychological issues about sex. Maybe openly state that sex is natural and normal because it is natural and normal. Do not be her friend or brother. Be her lover or move on and stop wasting time. Go meet people in person at things or activities that seriously interest you.....
Nice post. The only point I differ on is we attract what the other person values (oftentimes because they lack and admire that trait.) A feminine, submissive woman is attracted to a masculine, dominant man. Domineering women actually like weak beta males. It’s all a matter of polarity, the yin and yang duality.
@Avid 10thPlanet he's talking about keeping her sexually attracted to you, which will keep you out of the friendzone or a sex-less marriage. Of course it's good to be friends and like each other if you are dating, just don't become her male girlfriend. It really is important because it's often why women lose feelings for their man.
I see some ms.conceptions Remember to treat the world you want it be, the way you want to be.. You don't have to play every game that comes along just in order to avoid... missing out, A true player chooses wisely which games to play and what not. Win where it matters, don't give away your breathing heart to win something that isn't yours. Believe in your basic goodness
SMH there’s nothing technical, out of the ordinary. They are just like us. If you are sometimes given or treated in a particular way,ie you know someone is into you but pushing it, you would have a reaction to distance yourself. They are humans( with emotions) like us.
Bro, we understand all the video about confidence and the value and never chase them tell us more about the situation in real life like given more examples like conversion body language thes help more to understand.and thank you😉
I agree with everything you just said. Never chase a broad it's just not worth it. Chase your dreams and continue to build yourself up. And they will Chase you. I sometimes question if this somekind of mental 🤒 they are born with but you can definitely use this to your advantage.
You will be okay, feeling for some you cant get over with is just a game and a road of slap in your face, showing your way can change your life no matter how hurt u are. Be normal no matter how hurt you are because they wont come back.
Your pain is just in your mind, but I promise you that no matter how hurt you are it will always stop and will take u back to be normal, i been personally hurt by someone I thought was too much of butty for me but it just stoped and I thought I loved them way too much but all i did is waisted time on them because i had nothing back from that one I loved, but just pain and questioning my self why,
I subconcously chose my crush because she "had lower value" and she liked me back but suddenly she became more high value so now she is only interested in a my rich friend who has a swimming pool in his backyard
the high value, low value thing can get real confusing. fact is, I dont see a lot of high value men with women. in fact isnt it the opposite in so many cases? women love the bad boy yeah we all know. but the confusing part is, most bad boys ARE NOT HIGH VALUE? - psychos, abusive, unemployed, bound for prison, high school drop outs, alcoholics, face tattoos, gang members, low class etc this list can go on. to me these men are not high value at all, but still so many women choose these types. long story short, I been struggling with what kind of "High value man" to try to be? am i supposed to try be the best I can be reach for upper class life? or the dont give a damn about anything bad type( the facts, these guys still get a ton of women??)
You become a high value man for *yourself* , not for a woman. Once you become high value, you will have far less drama with women than if you were a bad boy. See, the bad boys do get a lot of women. But they also get the baggage that comes with it, including tons of baby mamas and child support etc. So your ultimate goal should be to become more like DiCaprio or Clooney, and less like Charlie Sheen.
These bad boys will never get a good woman. They might get women I agree, but you guys are not focusing on the quality. Any sane woman with a happy childhood isn't going to prefer a guy who treats them like they don't care! Yes we might be attracted to someone who is sometimes careless( women are too like this not just guys) but a guy who never cares? I think everyone is going to avoid this person not just a woman. It's basic human quality to care about others..the difference is when you overdo it and put someone on the pedestal, you seem unattractive. Take this message only. Don't try to be someone you're not because a woman can tell the difference. If you're looking for hookups these might work for you but don't expect anything beyond that. And let me ask the self proclaimed Alphas one question... Are you going to be happy with someone who has nothing to offer except human flesh? Because the woman having more to offer in relationship will choose very carefully, anyone showing these traits won't be entertained by her ...yes dominance is liked by women I agree but trying to act careless and non chalant, isn't going to work. You have to show that you care about her and can protect her genuinely. She will be head over heels for that man.
"How to Psychologically Manipulate Women and Hide Your True Personality" would be the honest title of his videos. Psychological manipulation can be defined as the exercise of undue influence through mental distortion and emotional exploitation, with the intention to seize power, control, benefits and/or privileges at the victim’s expense.
Girls are just as superficial if not more superficial than men when it comes to looks. Most looks are determined by your genetics and then the rest is somewhat to do with your environmental surroundings or lifestyle choices
Be the lofty mountain and raise your light above all that surrounds you. Remember that the steps you take to climb up to the mountaintop, are the same steps you take to come back down, the same air is above as below, the same tree grows on the mountaintop as in the valley, the sun shines upon the towering mountain top as on the plain ground in the same way.
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I don't chase or over pursue!!! I leave them alone and look for a girl that values her character(and morals) more than her looks. Most girls wants the alpha male types and social status, or they want a come-up, and man to finance her life. Men that values intelligence than looks knows what he wants from a woman. The biggest attraction is a female that can do for herself and not rely on man for nothing, and has a lot to bring too the table no matter what. Not just that? She's willing to learn and try knew things and bring out the best in you and courage you to be at the absolute greatness(vice versa). Women like that is extremely rare. This generation!!! Guy's don't seek companionship or characteristic morals from a women, they want a booty call, and move on to the next one. Females do the same thing too, but, a lot better than guy's. They know how to use signals to draw them in. Guy's that are a lot experience in this cat and mouse games, wants to win no matter the cost. Those are games I personally leave alone. It's not worth it. Personally, men that missreads signal's will get thrown in jail or even worse.
This is all true - don't show interest and your value in their mind increases. I used to work in a place and new girl started and she was a 10/10 and she knew it. EVERY dude in the place hit on her and asked her out, but she kept turning them down. She was a glamour model in her spare time. I on the other hand genuinely showed no interest. Now I'm not as good looking as some of the guys at work, but an air of mystery must have bewitched her. Over time she showed interest in me. She was hanging around me a lot and told her female friends what she thought of me (all positive). I never took it further with her, so who knows what could have happened. So, do the opposite of what they expect, and your value will increase ten fold in their eyes.
If you see this reply I want your opinion on this male or female.The effect a woman has on a man is beauty. What I mean is her physical features as well as if she’s beautiful as well. They know that and call it value meaning that what makes a woman and that’s their pride. However we men can also and in fact look good as well and we should value it. If you are handsome or take good care of yourself then you’ll see their reaction towards you. If it’s negative then they are raising their ego or being arrogant or proud as well.
Don’t over pursue….agreed 100%. On the other hand, a woman who wants what she can’t have, and wants a man who doesn’t want her….this woman is low quality and has a lot of issues. Good thing that guy doesn’t want her.
A bigger then 8 inch will be beneficial but only if you know gotta control it, don’t let your self down, there be a girl that will actually love you the way u want, just be patient and read a woman like a book, simple. Shout out to this guy on yt cuz his right 100%
Hello fellow RUclipsr i recommend you to Dr James he helped me stopped the abuse of my narcissist and manifested my specific person I strongly advise you seek help from him...
Simply stay normal and see her ways, you can miss 1 or 10 girls that you like but there be one you can be sure about and have a future. Sex before marriage is okay as well because there isnt a person that should say no to you cuz its your choice but u have to remember it will trap you and will hurt you. Also some girls want only sex and no relationship even if they say its not true. I just explain my pain and been there but hey you can be me as well so dont kill your self just for a random person.
According to Speed Date and other objective research evidence, just be tall. Helps to also have a masculine facial symmetry, be physically fit, have social skills and a decent career. The rest is just finding a niche. Peace.
For those that just want to fuck… well im happy for you because you got no feelings. Being hurt emotionally is way worse then physically so I wish i was one of those people that okay to just fuck and not being hurt so its not for you. Be strong and love your selfs.
I really need help, I'm too attached to my wife, she's patient with me but I really don't want to be like this, I don't whant her to loose interest on me because of all my usecureness and self dependence on her, I really don't whant to be like this, any books that can helpme overcome this? Please help me 😔 I wish it was the opposite that she's the one looking for me all the time, is like she's not trying to attract me, please help me 😔
*#*Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you*#*..
I was waiting in line at a store a girl turned around and looked at me. I said hi, i smiled at her. She turned around quickly. After she walked by me i looked at her she looked at me she smiled put her hair behind her ear walked by. Did she show interest? Did my smile saying hi impress her?
You care for you and only u so be patient because I promise there are women that will accept you, im a guy but i say this cuz I value you and think that a guy should be deserving a chance to change thongs in being in love.
Hmmm I'm skeptical. These days girls hav a dozen dudes coming at her every minute. Men only get one shot and so we try to show we care and love not Joe Warrior no job. Is this wrong?
To all the guys watching this, it is simply false that women like jerks and don’t enjoy being chased and treated nicely. It is the exact opposite! There are so many jerks out of there already. Don’t be one of them. Be yourself and be nice to the girl you like.
I don't know, in most cases women fall in love with cretins, because in general most men and women are only superficial, at the end of the day it is more important to be at peace with yourself, and that inner peace will attract to people who really value you in this life
Depends upon what you are and what is valuable to you. Unfortunately, in the Western World, we live in fear and not love. So, yes that’s why girls go for “bad boys” fear attracts fear
I went on a date with a girl. I bought everything the the first date. She bought everything the second. I had a girl pay for hotels every single time we hung out. It’s about how you treat them and how good you …. Them. They will treat you like a mom when they really like you.
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As much I respect you and your amazing videos, I have to say: This video is funny, I am a girl. We do NOT want guys who don't want us! 😄 LMAO! That is a waste of time. We trust your word and act accordingly. Also, we do NOT imagine Prince Charming in our heads! We understand men are not Prince Charming and have their own life. That is true, don't put us on a pedestal, just be yourself and we will like you. We will go for men who reciprocate. Girls want someone that respects them and doesn't make them chase like they're the man. That is true, every girl has values they want in a man, and girls will feel attracted to men with high value or values they wish to aspire to. But don't expect a girl to chase you. They will show their interest and hope you reciprocate. If not, they will move on to meet someone that meets their interest/values who reciprocates. I personally like guys who have their own life and identity and goals. So, if a girl likes you for you, believe her! (:
It depends on how pretty you are. 9 out of ten guys throw themselves at an attractive girl. The one guy who just acts cool and detached intrigues her and stands out. I've seen it play out over and over.
I agree with the second part of your comment because I learned that the hard way. She was showing so much interest but my insecure ass was too afraid to make a move until she lost interest and stoped talking to me. Life is pain. Maybe next time lol
When will all guys understand its all about looks man and woman are the same Let's say there is a woman that is the B-word but she is a 10/10 and there is a nice girl that can clean cook and stay with you but she is fat and ugly who will you go out with The same goes with woman these man can be jerks because they're good lookin you can't be that why because you're ugly it's that simple It's the way life is I understood this years ago I am ugly so guess no woman wants me so guess i don't date woman or anything so I just avoid them You guys need to learn how to let go of life its all just a candle in the wild dust in the air here today gone tomorrow everything dies and fades so let go of it
Sorry for that man, it must be sad to know that you once worked up the courage to talk to her and were so happy when she reciprocated, you obviously didn’t think of divorce, only finally winning her and her being yours, but then divorce comes up and she wants to leave and take your wealth too, I’ve never been in a relationship but I think I’d never talk to another woman as it is, hate them now but divorce would only make it more obvious that they’re not to be respected because they’re knobblers nowadays
Dude, when are you gonna stop? You have been recycling the same stuff for YEARS! You don't even seem like a successful guy, just someone who is stuck on girls.
The real crazy thing here is how this channel keeps making the same recyclate videos for 4 years. He keeps repeating himself over and over for so many years.
"Spent a weeks of lunch money on this girl to find out she doesn't even like me" I'm the Only person this girl will sing to, dance for, twerk on, flirtatiously bother, make submissive eyes to, tell about personal things, u get it? To find out she only wants to b friends. The sad part is I do not like her LOL. Manipulative, likely...
high-value man is naturally self-confident because he lives a life that he is proud of. His posture is usually open, not because he is trying to prove he is self-confident, but because he knows he has nothing to hide. A man with integrity is high-value because he is trustworthy and women love men with high value.
Everyone has something to hide
@@forsaken7161 creepy smile emoji X3
I think you missed this
1. Never chase them, let them approach you.
2. Increase your own value.
3. Have a unique identity.
Get a 🐕 dog woman ❤️ animals
I like point 1 lol
Naw bro, men approach women, it's what we do, Approach them all the time if you like what you see, go get it, but you're right on the DO NOT CHASE part, Never chase a woman.....Never.
Approach is fine, it also shows our confidence level but never ever chase a woman because it only proves that you're weak and needy
Just be rich if your super rich you can have 3,4,5 girls and they wolnt care
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
Thanks ❤️.
THX SO MUCH
But remember for some
Of you, your dream is dead and gone.
@@30mattdavies WITCH ONES?
But im freaking asexual
Rather than giving women value, build value in your character. This makes you infinite times very attractive to women.
The biggest thing to remember is while you won't have as many options as a woman at your grasp, a man has a much longer time window to attract a quality woman as you establish yourself the quality of women increases. Life is a marathon for men, not a sprint.
why people hate on dudes that are 50 with a 20 year old..haters and jelly people are the best
For a woman is esseay to get men but as a man 8s diffucult
Focusing on your purpose and mission in life makes you attractive to women
Don’t think they would care about that either, remember these women are ambitious too and won’t think anything of yours
Bro man, you have taken this to the next level, simply to the point and not flashy, the way us older 40+ men love life, thanks
Oh really
An ugly short man who is ignoring a woman and acting like a jerk, will not be chased by the woman.
You need to be good looking to start off with and being tall also helps massively
Exactly. Numerous studies have proven this. Such men can try to buy love by being highly successful and/or going to developing countries where they have higher wealth But, it's not love they are buying. Peace.
I'm 5'2 and never really had a problem getting woman
Woman all want different things
@@andrewgiegerich153 You could be the next dating guru. Show us your in-field techniques. Defying thousands of years of natural selection preference would be fascinating to witness. What different things are you providing?
@@bobbruce4135 um idk I usually am more focused on myself than others including women I'm introverted maybe it makes ppl want to get to know me or pursue me
Being good at sports and physically fit probably helped more though 😅
@@bobbruce4135 i think body type more than height affects attractiveness of a male . . . I dated a girl that was 5'11 before it really just depends what the girl likes
A different perspective.
1. you go where the women are and you will meet them.
2. you treat women as human beings - listen, ask questions, and don't talk about yourself.
3. don't act as coach, Mr. Fixit or protector. A woman may take a different path. However, she will most likely come to a good solution without relying upon you.
*11 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Strong Women in 2022*
1. Drink more water
2. Eat whole foods
3. Practice daily gratitude
4. Pick up a book
5. Daily walks outside
6. Listen to a TED Talk
7. Forgive someone
8. Stop following Kardashians and build something for yourself
9. Join a group of supportive individuals
10. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
11. Congratulate yourself for this growth
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
I have a girl that cant get over me and its been 4 years and all i do is being my self, deep inside i like her a lot but you have to show her that you More valuable to your self then she is. Thats how you test a woman and make sure she has down side because that means your better then what you deserve. Be calm and be your self and never rush it, trust me this guy is totally right, simply telling your self that no matter what you do for a woman there be always another guy she might likes and you don’t know that, stay your self and don’t let yourself hurt by someone that is gonna hurt you. Never rush, you think you know her but all it is is just being trapped. Woman is different then a man, and no matter what you do for a woman they just going to use you to get to a better man, why waist your time right ?
Be able to maintain frame. You have a purpose or mission in life greater than the girl. Be secure. No attachment to outcome. Love is light and playful. Stop trying so hard.
Are you a fun person?
What are fun activities that you have done and go do them. Stop being boring. Can you make other people laugh and lift their mood.
Let the other person talk via Chris Voss. Lift their mood. Repeat back key words and ideas. Active listening skills.
Do you know any good jokes? Read any good books? Gone to any fun events or activities? Are you boring? Can you talk about cool and exciting things.
Are you a secure confident man?
Are other women attracted to you.
Do you work out.
Are you clean and a sharp dresser showing that you have high self esteem.
Instead of trying to take love --- maybe try to have self love and share love, joy, and happiness. Lift emotions and make other people feel good.
Be authentic and genuine.
Be mysterious. Decisive. Not needy. Have standards and boundaries. Assume the other person likes you.
We do not attract what we want. We attract what we are.
No fear. Don't be her brother or psychologist or banker or doctor --- be up front - be her lover and if she rejects you do not be hurt - just move on - no attachment to outcome. It sure saves alot of time and money.
Over come any psychological issues about sex. Maybe openly state that sex is natural and normal because it is natural and normal. Do not be her friend or brother. Be her lover or move on and stop wasting time.
Go meet people in person at things or activities that seriously interest you.....
Nice post. The only point I differ on is we attract what the other person values (oftentimes because they lack and admire that trait.) A feminine, submissive woman is attracted to a masculine, dominant man. Domineering women actually like weak beta males. It’s all a matter of polarity, the yin and yang duality.
Your 5cents💥
@Avid 10thPlanet he's talking about keeping her sexually attracted to you, which will keep you out of the friendzone or a sex-less marriage. Of course it's good to be friends and like each other if you are dating, just don't become her male girlfriend. It really is important because it's often why women lose feelings for their man.
Thanks Julien, I needed this video.
If you act weak, over chase or become desperate they will leave you
Facts brother. All of them. Glad you are putting this out there to help males wake up.
One thing I learned is there are no issues if there are no other men.
The analogy at the end is so true!
Hey farfromaverage can you organise your vids in a playlist so we can watch them and improve in a linear fashion thx
We need a video about life not about girls
Look somewhere bro
Go find a different channel or video for that.
I see some ms.conceptions
Remember to treat the world you want it be, the way you want to be.. You don't have to play every game that comes along just in order to avoid... missing out,
A true player chooses wisely which games to play and what not.
Win where it matters, don't give away your breathing heart to win something that isn't yours. Believe in your basic goodness
Not all jerks are high value people, some are just jerks.
Julian, you are the man!
Appreciate everything you've put up to this point.
Go Julian GO!🥊
The voice over of this guy makes me watch it more
SMH there’s nothing technical, out of the ordinary. They are just like us. If you are sometimes given or treated in a particular way,ie you know someone is into you but pushing it, you would have a reaction to distance yourself. They are humans( with emotions) like us.
Fr I'm a friendly person who like to get to know people I'm not gonna distance myself specifically just from women to make them think I'm higher value
Bro, we understand all the video about confidence and the value and never chase them tell us more about the situation in real life like given more examples like conversion body language thes help more to understand.and thank you😉
Bro Julian! Can you reupload the video about the cheat code for our emotions? Please, i need it every morning for my stressful job.
Nice video bro you nailed it
Your videos got shorter but the value got bigger!
I agree with everything you just said. Never chase a broad it's just not worth it. Chase your dreams and continue to build yourself up. And they will Chase you. I sometimes question if this somekind of mental 🤒 they are born with but you can definitely use this to your advantage.
Hi, which software do you use for making these videos? Btw, nice ideas :)
You will be okay, feeling for some you cant get over with is just a game and a road of slap in your face, showing your way can change your life no matter how hurt u are. Be normal no matter how hurt you are because they wont come back.
Your pain is just in your mind, but I promise you that no matter how hurt you are it will always stop and will take u back to be normal, i been personally hurt by someone I thought was too much of butty for me but it just stoped and I thought I loved them way too much but all i did is waisted time on them because i had nothing back from that one I loved, but just pain and questioning my self why,
I subconcously chose my crush because she "had lower value" and she liked me back but suddenly she became more high value so now she is only interested in a my rich friend who has a swimming pool in his backyard
I came to this realization independently of FFA but I can tell you truer words have never been spoken.
Just like men women chase the men they want. If she's not chasing you then she's not interested.
Apparently understanding that women have values and opinions that you might not is mind blowing for some people.
the high value, low value thing can get real confusing.
fact is, I dont see a lot of high value men with women. in fact isnt it the opposite in so many cases? women love the bad boy yeah we all know. but the confusing part is, most bad boys ARE NOT HIGH VALUE?
- psychos, abusive, unemployed, bound for prison, high school drop outs, alcoholics, face tattoos, gang members, low class etc this list can go on.
to me these men are not high value at all, but still so many women choose these types.
long story short, I been struggling with what kind of "High value man" to try to be? am i supposed to try be the best I can be reach for upper class life? or the dont give a damn about anything bad type( the facts, these guys still get a ton of women??)
You become a high value man for *yourself* , not for a woman. Once you become high value, you will have far less drama with women than if you were a bad boy. See, the bad boys do get a lot of women. But they also get the baggage that comes with it, including tons of baby mamas and child support etc. So your ultimate goal should be to become more like DiCaprio or Clooney, and less like Charlie Sheen.
@@cyber6sapien Wow, exactly, tubers saying bad boys get all the girls, but not what comes with 'em under the hood
These bad boys will never get a good woman. They might get women I agree, but you guys are not focusing on the quality. Any sane woman with a happy childhood isn't going to prefer a guy who treats them like they don't care! Yes we might be attracted to someone who is sometimes careless( women are too like this not just guys) but a guy who never cares? I think everyone is going to avoid this person not just a woman. It's basic human quality to care about others..the difference is when you overdo it and put someone on the pedestal, you seem unattractive. Take this message only. Don't try to be someone you're not because a woman can tell the difference. If you're looking for hookups these might work for you but don't expect anything beyond that. And let me ask the self proclaimed Alphas one question... Are you going to be happy with someone who has nothing to offer except human flesh? Because the woman having more to offer in relationship will choose very carefully, anyone showing these traits won't be entertained by her ...yes dominance is liked by women I agree but trying to act careless and non chalant, isn't going to work. You have to show that you care about her and can protect her genuinely. She will be head over heels for that man.
"How to Psychologically Manipulate Women and Hide Your True Personality" would be the honest title of his videos.
Psychological manipulation can be defined as the exercise of undue influence through mental distortion and emotional exploitation, with the intention to seize power, control, benefits and/or privileges at the victim’s expense.
Lmao indeed couldn’t have said it better
Thank you very much
Personally i like good guys who gonna be simple with you like if they like you they gonna tell you that with no games involved...
Then why are you single?
@@michaeljhale23 because right now I'm focusing on my career and relationships need time and energy!
There's massive value in rarity👌💥💯
Thank you
Girls are just as superficial if not more superficial than men when it comes to looks.
Most looks are determined by your genetics and then the rest is somewhat to do with your environmental surroundings or lifestyle choices
Bro you gotta come back we need you
Wow really good video and it’s so true in society 😭🦁
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Underrated
Be the lofty mountain and raise your light above all that surrounds you. Remember that the steps you take to climb up to the mountaintop, are the same steps you take to come back down, the same air is above as below, the same tree grows on the mountaintop as in the valley, the sun shines upon the towering mountain top as on the plain ground in the same way.
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Have the Balls to be yourself. Don't play Games., Have Integrity. Nuff said!
I don't chase or over pursue!!! I leave them alone and look for a girl that values her character(and morals) more than her looks. Most girls wants the alpha male types and social status, or they want a come-up, and man to finance her life.
Men that values intelligence than looks knows what he wants from a woman. The biggest attraction is a female that can do for herself and not rely on man for nothing, and has a lot to bring too the table no matter what. Not just that? She's willing to learn and try knew things and bring out the best in you and courage you to be at the absolute greatness(vice versa). Women like that is extremely rare.
This generation!!! Guy's don't seek companionship or characteristic morals from a women, they want a booty call, and move on to the next one. Females do the same thing too, but, a lot better than guy's. They know how to use signals to draw them in. Guy's that are a lot experience in this cat and mouse games, wants to win no matter the cost.
Those are games I personally leave alone. It's not worth it. Personally, men that missreads signal's will get thrown in jail or even worse.
LOL
Shit crazy I gotta act like I’m totally not interested or basically I don’t give a fuck in order to be with somebody
This is all true - don't show interest and your value in their mind increases. I used to work in a place and new girl started and she was a 10/10 and she knew it. EVERY dude in the place hit on her and asked her out, but she kept turning them down. She was a glamour model in her spare time. I on the other hand genuinely showed no interest. Now I'm not as good looking as some of the guys at work, but an air of mystery must have bewitched her. Over time she showed interest in me. She was hanging around me a lot and told her female friends what she thought of me (all positive). I never took it further with her, so who knows what could have happened. So, do the opposite of what they expect, and your value will increase ten fold in their eyes.
If you see this reply I want your opinion on this male or female.The effect a woman has on a man is beauty. What I mean is her physical features as well as if she’s beautiful as well. They know that and call it value meaning that what makes a woman and that’s their pride. However we men can also and in fact look good as well and we should value it. If you are handsome or take good care of yourself then you’ll see their reaction towards you. If it’s negative then they are raising their ego or being arrogant or proud as well.
Good shit, but def need longer videos bruh.... Elaborate on the Elaboration..
Does being altruistic is good tho?
Old but astute lesson
What's the name of your other channel
About making money
I watched this guys videos and I had a fate worse than hell.
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Far from avarage got my respect 💯
Don’t over pursue….agreed 100%. On the other hand, a woman who wants what she can’t have, and wants a man who doesn’t want her….this woman is low quality and has a lot of issues. Good thing that guy doesn’t want her.
A bigger then 8 inch will be beneficial but only if you know gotta control it, don’t let your self down, there be a girl that will actually love you the way u want, just be patient and read a woman like a book, simple. Shout out to this guy on yt cuz his right 100%
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@FFA can u do a video on narrssisim?
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Wait a sec... this wasn't a video on narcissism?????
@@InspiredCaterpie lmao 🤣 I see now that it probably is and I’m deleting this comment
@@keiraadolph442 sure
Simply stay normal and see her ways, you can miss 1 or 10 girls that you like but there be one you can be sure about and have a future. Sex before marriage is okay as well because there isnt a person that should say no to you cuz its your choice but u have to remember it will trap you and will hurt you. Also some girls want only sex and no relationship even if they say its not true. I just explain my pain and been there but hey you can be me as well so dont kill your self just for a random person.
According to Speed Date and other objective research evidence, just be tall. Helps to also have a masculine facial symmetry, be physically fit, have social skills and a decent career. The rest is just finding a niche. Peace.
This is crazy…. Been playing the wrong game the entire time…..
"Protein powder” contains SOY. Just sayin’...
If anyone can't understand what you're saying "lower testosterone"
Far all of you that watch this, its 100% true and you should take this advice
For those that just want to fuck… well im happy for you because you got no feelings. Being hurt emotionally is way worse then physically so I wish i was one of those people that okay to just fuck and not being hurt so its not for you. Be strong and love your selfs.
I really need help, I'm too attached to my wife, she's patient with me but I really don't want to be like this, I don't whant her to loose interest on me because of all my usecureness and self dependence on her, I really don't whant to be like this, any books that can helpme overcome this? Please help me 😔
I wish it was the opposite that she's the one looking for me all the time, is like she's not trying to attract me, please help me 😔
Lol
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I prefer more the old style videos without the hand drawing in the videos. I think is much better!!
I was waiting in line at a store a girl turned around and looked at me. I said hi, i smiled at her. She turned around quickly. After she walked by me i looked at her she looked at me she smiled put her hair behind her ear walked by. Did she show interest? Did my smile saying hi impress her?
I mean yeah she smiled back didnt she?
You care for you and only u so be patient because I promise there are women that will accept you, im a guy but i say this cuz I value you and think that a guy should be deserving a chance to change thongs in being in love.
3. Player rules 1. like women that like you 2. Never kiss her ass it never works 3. Women love attention, make them earn it.
Men: i love you..
Women : eeeewwwww!!!!
3:59 know the difference
Hmmm I'm skeptical. These days girls hav a dozen dudes coming at her every minute. Men only get one shot and so we try to show we care and love not Joe Warrior no job. Is this wrong?
To all the guys watching this, it is simply false that women like jerks and don’t enjoy being chased and treated nicely. It is the exact opposite! There are so many jerks out of there already. Don’t be one of them. Be yourself and be nice to the girl you like.
I don't know, in most cases women fall in love with cretins, because in general most men and women are only superficial, at the end of the day it is more important to be at peace with yourself, and that inner peace will attract to people who really value you in this life
Depends upon what you are and what is valuable to you. Unfortunately, in the Western World, we live in fear and not love. So, yes that’s why girls go for “bad boys” fear attracts fear
Makes me wonder sometimes if they are really worth the trouble?
I went on a date with a girl. I bought everything the the first date. She bought everything the second. I had a girl pay for hotels every single time we hung out. It’s about how you treat them and how good you …. Them. They will treat you like a mom when they really like you.
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bro how many girlfriends you have?
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so Jesus Christ,elijah(religion aside man) were an alpha male?
As much I respect you and your amazing videos, I have to say: This video is funny, I am a girl. We do NOT want guys who don't want us! 😄 LMAO! That is a waste of time. We trust your word and act accordingly. Also, we do NOT imagine Prince Charming in our heads! We understand men are not Prince Charming and have their own life. That is true, don't put us on a pedestal, just be yourself and we will like you. We will go for men who reciprocate. Girls want someone that respects them and doesn't make them chase like they're the man. That is true, every girl has values they want in a man, and girls will feel attracted to men with high value or values they wish to aspire to. But don't expect a girl to chase you. They will show their interest and hope you reciprocate. If not, they will move on to meet someone that meets their interest/values who reciprocates. I personally like guys who have their own life and identity and goals. So, if a girl likes you for you, believe her! (:
It depends on how pretty you are. 9 out of ten guys throw themselves at an attractive girl. The one guy who just acts cool and detached intrigues her and stands out. I've seen it play out over and over.
Boys, don't take dating advice from women.
You don't let a product dictate it's value in a market, that's the consumer's decision.
I agree with the second part of your comment because I learned that the hard way. She was showing so much interest but my insecure ass was too afraid to make a move until she lost interest and stoped talking to me. Life is pain. Maybe next time lol
Anyone who reads her comment should ignore what she is saying. It's not about what a woman says she wants, its about what she responds to.
I'm offering advice from my own experience and mindset, so feel free to accept what resonates and ignore what doesn't.
The life changing thing in the western country is: when you don’t have money, race matters, otherwise everything you said in the video is meaningless.
It's easy lol. Become rich af and every girl will love you.
Wow such original
Hello everybody i am leaving this channel because i finally got a girlfriend
Thank you and good luck to ya'll
being able to get a girlfriend is not the same as "being able to also keep a girlfriend" ..... might not want to totally celebrate just yet' lol
When will all guys understand its all about looks man and woman are the same
Let's say there is a woman that is the B-word but she is a 10/10 and there is a nice girl that can clean cook and stay with you but she is fat and ugly who will you go out with
The same goes with woman these man can be jerks because they're good lookin you can't be that why because you're ugly it's that simple
It's the way life is I understood this years ago I am ugly so guess no woman wants me so guess i don't date woman or anything so I just avoid them
You guys need to learn how to let go of life its all just a candle in the wild dust in the air here today gone tomorrow everything dies and fades so let go of it
I learned to stay tf away after being divorce raped and losing everything to them....
Sorry for that man, it must be sad to know that you once worked up the courage to talk to her and were so happy when she reciprocated, you obviously didn’t think of divorce, only finally winning her and her being yours, but then divorce comes up and she wants to leave and take your wealth too,
I’ve never been in a relationship but I think
I’d never talk to another woman as it is, hate them now but divorce would only make it more obvious that they’re not to be respected because they’re knobblers nowadays
Women want leaders, not followers.
Great money making channel.
Lunch money?
Dude, when are you gonna stop? You have been recycling the same stuff for YEARS! You don't even seem like a successful guy, just someone who is stuck on girls.
The real crazy thing here is how this channel keeps making the same recyclate videos for 4 years.
He keeps repeating himself over and over for so many years.
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Why this video? Is this a porn recruitment community?
This video just makes me realize how much I actually hate how todays men think... this video is painful to watch
"Spent a weeks of lunch money on this girl to find out she doesn't even like me"
I'm the Only person this girl will sing to, dance for, twerk on, flirtatiously bother, make submissive eyes to, tell about personal things, u get it? To find out she only wants to b friends. The sad part is I do not like her LOL. Manipulative, likely...
Then, get mad when men don't give her the attention she wants. Lol They don't know what they want.
SO MUCH COPE BRO
lol cope more