I changed a huge repeat pattern one year ago. The one thing I have to add to this video is this: sometimes you dont believe you DESERVE better than your current pattern, in other words you need to acknowledge your WORTH and talk, act and decide from it. My pattern was exactly what she describes, relationships that didnt appreciate me, but it was almost impossible to see it because they would act and say that they liked me a lot, HOWEVER they didnt love themselves and were in heavy codependent and subtle addicted cycles. Be very vigilant when asking yourself these questions and KNOW you are worthy of loving healthy people around you. Tip: love is supposed to feel good and safe, otherwise its not real love. Plus you need to be safe and in love with yourself to manifest it.
I can *SO* relate to your story. I went through something similar. Going through one toxic relationship last year taught me so so so much about what love *isn't* , so now i know what love *is* . Self love and self acceptance was the absolute *key* for me, and it is truly was has created safety in myself. May we all love ourselves and heal ourselves ❤
I needed this today! I'm 32 my birthday was yesterday! I'm finally finding enlightenment. My house burned down in 2014 and attracted abusive men to me and then my dad died in 2018. I'm ready to change my pattern 😊 today !
I don't want to offend and please stop me if I do, but why do women fall for abusive men so often? In every case I knew, there were quite a few good men interested in the woman, but more often than not, a bad man ends up with her, and good men are left behind, struggling to be chosen, and some never succeed. Do those good men are doing, saying something to be unattractive or it's a genetic thing? Or something else entirely? I'm not judging the choices, but I'm interested in why bad guys win while being a bad choice?
Thank you for this, Teal. It is true, the universe will continue to present one with the same life lesson until that person has achieved mastery over it.
After repeating the same pattern over and over again, the universe reveals that the Law of Mirroring and Law of Attraction are only imperfect half-truths developed by humans to try and explain what we observe from our narrow, unaware and programmed minds. These theories are only partially correct. Yes, thank-you for this Miss Swan. Thank-you universe for giving me a choice.
But I do different things and get same results. I want new and are open for new experience but still something keeps blocking and stop me from getting new things in life.
@@meadowc6058 We are all a source of supply/gain to others… tread carefully, don’t be so quick to help them or be “overly attractive “ as in “valuable “ to a new person in your life…withhold some information…tread carefully (healthy boundaries) and notice those that hurt you will slowly disappear … be valuable to yourself!
I will loVe you, long time & long term. I love everything you're about. I am the son of a hippie/witch/working woman raising my ass on her own. She was married 5 times the last one lasted. Just as the spirit told her, on the spirit board. Can't remember how to spell it out for you but, I REALLY WANT TO SPEND MY LIFE WITH YOU!♒⭕💛💞♾️💫🤙🙏🙏🙏🌄🌄🌄
Now that they are no longer living, except in spirit. I want a family of my own that we can grow together. My daughter Trinity, is almost 16 in August 6 05. She is the best blessing I ever happened for me. Then 4 years into her life, I had 2 strokes. My mom would have never put up with what they did to me. I am mad 😡 still for them taking Trinity and not giving her back to me. Heather her mom wasn't mentally stable, so her Dad and adopted Mom took them both away. Devistating it has been 11 years, help me get her back, or have a room to sleep in when she visits us.🙏🙏🙏💞💫♾️⭕💯💝
okay my name is jason and this video literally came at a time where i just ended up in the same pattern of feeling completely unwanted for who i am, then 6:35 came, literally like word for word of what my last attempted relationship was. this is probably the biggest synchronicity ive ever had so I think im going to pay special attention to this one, thanks Teal.
Hi Jason I'm clare 😀 I literally was reading your comment when I heard my name. Have the most beautiful day Jason! Everything is working out best case scenario.
I'm Jason too, she literally just described my loop with relationships. Teal is a synchronicity generator. I don't come to her all the time, but when I do I am presented with extremely accurate and timely weirdness. It's going well beyond coincidence now.
@@starrypurple8568 start with self awareness and do the work to understand why you attract this loop. Once you are no longer ignorant of the loop, you have more control over the situation and can make informed decisions. It's like, if you don't create your life, a life will be created for you and usually through ignorance of how life and the universe works. Its easy to say but not easy to do. I guess it's a process. Like Teal says, you just have to make a different choice but finding out WHICH CHOICE you need to make differently is where the work is and ultimately comes down to you and your own path. For some people, it might be instantly recognizable and others it might be buried very deep. In the mean time, work on other aspects of your life. Change it up. Do things you normally would never do. If your pond is still... throw a pebble and make some ripples. It also helps to drop importance on what you are hoping to find and just accept that some day, some how, when the time is right, the universe will present you with what you need. We often get in our own way by obsessing over our shopping list of desires that we can't see what is better even though it might be right in front of us. I like to use that old 80's teen movie trope where the guy's best friend is a girl and he doesn't see that she is the perfect one all along and is much better than the girl he was chasing, until she lets her hair down and takes off her glasses. If we always look down, we never see what is above. If we are always zoomed in, we never see the big picture.
OMG Teal you need to do a PART 2 of this! This is so KEY, so ROOT, so PRACTICAL. It deserves an elaboration. So short yet if you took the highlights of interviewing people going through this self analysing, and helped them through it, it would really help people see themselves in those interviewees, and relate to this subject so much more easily. People are hard enough to help as it is, but if you provide more examples and clarity, then we can all use this info so much more easily. Short but sweet, should be hours long mind candy!
I have a pattern where I meet a woman who becomes a mother figure for me. She is always sweet and helpful and becomes someone I rely on for advice and help. Then, something will happen that causes the woman to turn on me and completely reject me and want nothing to do with me anymore. It's happened 3 times now in my life and I've just met another woman who fits this exact description. I can't think of what else to do differently except to talk about the pattern with her and how we would potentially treat each other in a conflict.
Sometimes I wonder what people did before the internet. How did people grow emotionally with only encyclopaedia brittanica and a landline??? I feel pretty spoiled to even have access to these thought prompts and resources
A library is and has been that resource for millenia. There are many philosophers and literature that deal with important issues. For example, Seneca the Roman senator had been an important author for myself.
they go to books, or they just didn't have the level of awareness we have today, collectively. The internet accelerated the projection of both light and dark.
What people did before the internet…..? We spent time with each other, face to face. We talked, shared, processed together. Elders could pass on lived experience to juniors. We had cohesive community. In my opinion people were better then. Nicer. Everything was direct. When I was younger without Internet, I knew that if I wanted a different experience in life, I had to do things differently. Simple. I learned to think for myself. People today are so spoon fed that they rarely think for themselves. That’s why we have millions of people following the government/media narrative about a man made virus with a 99% survival rate. That lack of thinking for one selves is appallingly dangerous for mankind.
Yep.. without internet i would have probably literally killed myself many years ago.. the internet is basically the most part of how i have spent my time in the last 15 years or so.. it gives me connection.. entertainment.. information.. sex.. basically everything u want!
Thank you Teal & Team! Yes, I finally saw my incompatibility with each of my family members and the family as a whole and divorced myself from that family this past week! In looking back over my journaling, it looks like I manifested this eye-opening experience in April. Thank you for confirming that I am most notably needing to make new choices right now.
Some people like me go into a relationship waiting for bad thing's to happen. From past relationships, so it's emotional mental thinking that there will be trouble in my relationships. And then again some people are just not good in love. Thank you Teal, you are beautiful. ❤
You have your guard up, thats smart, but i recommend you not get emotionally involved until you know its safe, or you can get hurt again and again. Open relationships are not a bad thing. It promotes full honesty and freedom.
42 years in this world...grew up not a Mormon in a strict Mormon city with an abundance of abuse...i survived due to life long patterns... I am loving this woman... Finally found someone that i understand and am aable to see a little bit inside me... Praying for change...trying again tomorrow
Thank you, Teal.. Universe keeps me repeating situation of lack to make me change mindset about manifesting better and how to wanting things unrestrictedly. Thank you, Universe ❣️❣️❣️
This has happened to me twice it took the 3rd time to fully get the lesson and changed the cycle completely and I am doing better than I ever have. I feel there's a lot of bad situations that keep repeating itself due to not getting the lesson the first time and won't stop until you break the cycle... your mind is the most powerful tool we got
Tomorrow I will resign on my current job. I guess that is the best thing to change the pattern that's always happening to me. I'm thinking about it for a long time. Thank you for this gem.
It’s great that you addressed not being grateful to the universe for these repeating patterns. I, personally, found awareness of the heavy weight, and power of “the universe”…relating to traumatic events repeating until a shift happens. This is personally profound to me- as I experienced a shift from feelings of anger, hopelessness, and essentially not wanting to “play the game” of existence. A game which is unfair, cold, seemingly unempathetic… today this power outside of myself is powerful. I am awe struck.
The belief of God being human while I was growing up (Catholic) instilled feelings of anger gradually toward this said human due to Him [what I easily & understandably interpreted as Him] punishing me. God is not human. God is power, Love, and light in darkness (etc)… we have access to godliness through the human experience. Being a human is special due to being capable of empathy, compassion, warmth- in ways “God” is incapable of.
Wow.. I feel like Jason is me... So grateful for you Teal. Thank you for these videos and this tribe! Even though I don’t know a lot of you personally, you guys truly are my tribe. I feel at home and connected coming here. Namaste.
This really spoke to me! I’m right in the middle of another scenario that keeps repeating and now I realize that I have to make a difference choice and not bail out this person, yet again. Very hard when a family member.
Dear Teal, I bow down to your knowledge of human behaviour. The whole video from start to end and even the example is my life exactly. Although I was aware of this, thanks for reminding and making sure I make a different choice this time. 🙏 Have a good day.
You madam are changing my life. I love listening to your work. I have autism and I have been psychologically talking myself down and having faulty thoughts my whole adult life until now. Keep up the good work and you’ll keep turning people such as myself into way mentally stronger people.
Thanks so much Teal for this very helpful message that I trust will FINALLY help resolve at least four of the patterns that I was able to identify from this video: 1) Emotionally unavailable partner relationships (2 boyfriends and 2 marriages, to include current one which slightly improved due to realizing that I need to be more emotionally available for self first and foremost), 2) Relationships of being cheated on in the past, 3) Being in situations where you don’t belong and you’re not compatible (9 Sedona jobs since 2017/some of the most challenging coworkers I've ever experienced), and 4) PTSD: 3 car accidents within a few years in the past that totaled each car (1 minor accident in Sedona a couple of years ago; 2 of 4 accidents my husband was driving) . I took screenshot notes for the questions you asked, as part of the exercise you suggested, and created a Word doc to organize my thoughts, feelings, insights, etc. I often felt hopeless due to these patterns that I've been aware of---though not this organized and clearer than ever---but felt powerless to change no matter how many different things I've done over the years (to include shadow work and inner child work, which I could practice more of). Anyhoo, you are deeply appreciated soul sister!
To anyone struggling right now- you’re not alone. I know it’s difficult, but time will help and heal. Change takes time and effort- please don’t ever give up. “Make ‘someday’ today.”
It's true! Teal is a powerful energetic person that will guide you to the stars. She is very clear that you have got to connect to the outside world in order to find harmony within yourself and to express that to another human being in order to feel truly alive.
What about those people who have developed incredible self-awareness, tried to heal and let go, transmute the dark to light while remaining mostly positive despite the tragedies.............. *and yet still find themselves in the same situation?* Letting go did not work. Behaving/thinking/feeling in a new better way did not work. Healing oneself did not work either. Now what?
Try different tools, or ways to know WHERE its coming from. Smoke pot, go deep within and find the roots, or meditate, or ask tarot cards, or maybe its a pattern in your astrology chart. When is your birthday, i want to look for you...
@@orgonebubbletechcuresyou3575 Thank you for your reply (I love Orgones too, btw :) ) The thing is Tarot cards always say the same thing 'change is coming'.....but the same message has been going on for 4 years, so I don't give much weight to them anymore. As for astrology, I've studied it in depth for a good number of years (5 years or more), and has helped me to some degree, but at the end of the day I found that it made me feel disempowered and a slave to this "written destiny" so I had to make a conscious choice to remove it from my life. It was the best decision I've ever made. I think we're far more powerful and expanded than planetary aspects, numerology and degrees. But if astrology helps you, then more power to you and I'm happy for you that it helps you. The only thing I still have yet to try is to completely do the opposite of things (positively of course), doing completely new things, what I would never have dared to do. I'm sharing it here maybe it could help someone out there.
@@salandersalgado4038 Hi Salander, I don't know about victim shaming. She is very logical in how she goes about things and some people might not resonate with that (which is okay). I don't feel she victim-shames although I can see why someone would feel that way. The thing is this........when we think it's other people's fault, and the world's fault, and society's fault, we are left feeling worse. Being the victim sucks. Period. When it's everyone's fault, it means you have no power over your life. As soon as you realize that whatever happens is, in some way, reacting to what you are thinking/saying/doing, then that means that you can change your circumstances. I am still struggling with my own sense of victimhood, so I can really understand what you meant. Sorry for the long message.
I might be the exception for this rule, but in my life I have been more than lucky to avoid all the pitfalls. Never experienced any kind of hardships or difficulties, probably because when I smile to the universe, the universe smiles at me. Keep up positive attitude and producing these motivating videos
It is nice to see someone who is not smiling at universe, and it is whole life spitting in his eyes. *sigh* There are often hidden things in one's subcouscioussness which are causing this shitty scenario IMHO.
Thank you Teal for your videos. I'm trying to heal and work on myself so I can have a better life My 6 yr relationship ended and it brought up a lot of things for me to face. Things I realized that I need to work on. I'm tired of hurting. I just want to heal.
I started changing my actions after I read your book about self-love 3 month ago. It is very hard sometimes and I need more patience. Sometimes I forget why I am doing this. Thx reminding me.
Yup. This video is 100% relatable. What's doing something over and over and expecting a different result called? Insanity. I'm sick of creating my own insanity. Thank you Teal!
Your world is a reflection of you. If you see yourself as a failure in life, you will subconsciously seek out those situations/people who match your vibration
As I clicked the video "Hmmm? I am sick of being rejected by boys I like." Happy you covered that in the intro. I do find myself always moving on to be rejected again. I know I am attractive and he Ave never met anyone as weird (in a good way) as myself so it perplexed me. I've changed the pattern by isolating myself but, now I am lonely and cynical
Depends on how much you want someone. Are you willing to do what it takes to make good money, develop a nice body, learn other things needed to attract a wider audience?
This video is like part 2 to a video Teal made a while back - "When You Feel Like You've Gone Backwards." This time she offers another important insight as to why you need to repeat a certain experience.
Staying the course. The year of being Aware not to repeat what did not serve my highest purpose, and did not deliver . on the look out for anything that might suggest doing anything drastic steering me off track out of lack of patience sending me back to square one. I have done my reset for 7 months this year now counting forward towards living the blessings.
One thing I love about you Teal is your perfect timing, I had just decided something really painful happened one too many times and needed to be handled differently. It’s time. Thank you for confirming it. 🙏💖
Thanks for this talk Teal. I come back to your videos at different points in my life. Always leave wanting someone like you around me. Maybe actively going out and trying to find that someone instead of shooting every drug on earth for those same feelings would be a starting point for me.
Sooooo helpful!!!!!!!!!! I’ve dreamt of you Teal! I’ve dreamt having a session with you! And that’s good enough for me! You are a delight!!!!! And SOOOO spot on!!!💚
Omg! I just changed spot in to spot on! I’m not trippin, lol, should’ve let it be. The fact that you favorited AND highlighted my original message gives me life!!!!!!! I love you Teal!!!!
This resonated because I just choose differently with being in codependent relationships. After my ex and I broke up I made a decision to truly love myself, to never put another person before me and it has changed my life tenfold! 🙏❣️
Thank you so much Teal. Making all these insights available to us all, explaining it so deeply and with compassion, wit, and humor, so generous. It’s a lot of energy to make these and I appreciate you so much. I’ve been living out in the forests and meadows off and on for ten years doing remediation work getting to know the indiginous western traditional food plants of the peoples of the western states I am blessed to reside in and be from. Ancestral skills interests and also hopes to create a gay and queer magic and great dark mother based religious non profit and a temple community. Your help really encourages and helps me focus. Living from a car and camping, and having these visions of what would be so good and healing for gay people. A space to come together and activate community healing and trauma healing through tending practices to the earth and each other. The new world we are headed to and back to. Thank you.
So if I want that the universe don`t have to repeat the same things again and again, I have to start with changing myself first my patterns to show the universe, that I´m willing to go the new way and take thankful the gifts that the universe offers me than.
Perrrfect timing as it feels like my couple’s counselor had done her best to tell us just this yesterday. Toooo surreal. And I Love her dress!!! Wtf I want won!! 😍
Do you ever see a Teal video and read the title and you’re just like...oh shoot...not sure I’m ready for how hard this one is going to hit
Every single time, ha ha 😅
So many times lol
I've watched two videos in a row, and I'm broken now.😩
I felt drawn to it like a moth to a 🔥 this morning 🌄
Yup
I changed a huge repeat pattern one year ago. The one thing I have to add to this video is this: sometimes you dont believe you DESERVE better than your current pattern, in other words you need to acknowledge your WORTH and talk, act and decide from it. My pattern was exactly what she describes, relationships that didnt appreciate me, but it was almost impossible to see it because they would act and say that they liked me a lot, HOWEVER they didnt love themselves and were in heavy codependent and subtle addicted cycles. Be very vigilant when asking yourself these questions and KNOW you are worthy of loving healthy people around you. Tip: love is supposed to feel good and safe, otherwise its not real love. Plus you need to be safe and in love with yourself to manifest it.
Thanks. I needed that today.
I can *SO* relate to your story. I went through something similar. Going through one toxic relationship last year taught me so so so much about what love *isn't* , so now i know what love *is* . Self love and self acceptance was the absolute *key* for me, and it is truly was has created safety in myself. May we all love ourselves and heal ourselves ❤
I always thought this was a curse, but its actually a Blessing in disguise when you look at it like this. Its an opportunity to transform
that's the saddest part: even seeing the red flags, we keep doing it anyway.
I needed this today! I'm 32 my birthday was yesterday! I'm finally finding enlightenment. My house burned down in 2014 and attracted abusive men to me and then my dad died in 2018. I'm ready to change my pattern 😊 today !
Happy Birthday to you! I hope you can change your pattern. I am trying the same. 💕
@@RachelCharles789 oh thank you so much! I had a lovely birthday so maybe you are right! Good luck on your spiritual journey as well!
Keep your head up love!!!
Suffering is the teacher…. You’ll be fine…Happy Birthday btw !🎈
I don't want to offend and please stop me if I do, but why do women fall for abusive men so often?
In every case I knew, there were quite a few good men interested in the woman, but more often than not, a bad man ends up with her, and good men are left behind, struggling to be chosen, and some never succeed.
Do those good men are doing, saying something to be unattractive or it's a genetic thing? Or something else entirely?
I'm not judging the choices, but I'm interested in why bad guys win while being a bad choice?
Thank you for this, Teal. It is true, the universe will continue to present one with the same life lesson until that person has achieved mastery over it.
After repeating the same pattern over and over again, the universe reveals that the Law of Mirroring and Law of Attraction are only imperfect half-truths developed by humans to try and explain what we observe from our narrow, unaware and programmed minds. These theories are only partially correct. Yes, thank-you for this Miss Swan. Thank-you universe for giving me a choice.
Teal, words cannot express how much I appreciate you.
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“If you do what you always did, ….you’ll get what you always got!”
But I do different things and get same results. I want new and are open for new experience but still something keeps blocking and stop me from getting new things in life.
I can definitely relate to that. Like I keep attracting people who will eventually make me feel unloved, unwanted or I’m not that important.
@@ponyhaly6131
Have you contemplated Life coaching? Finding out why we do what we do is a game changer! 😉
@@ponyhaly6131 Same here wtf is the lesson?? 😫
@@meadowc6058
We are all a source of supply/gain to others… tread carefully, don’t be so quick to help them or be “overly attractive “ as in “valuable “ to a new person in your life…withhold some information…tread carefully (healthy boundaries) and notice those that hurt you will slowly disappear … be valuable to yourself!
Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/what-is-the-benefit-of-unwanted-experiences-repeating-in-your-life-r463/
since you beautiful outlier are put against a wall can only offer one track minds dialogye! #Seeyouwhenyouseeme!
I will loVe you, long time & long term. I love everything you're about. I am the son of a hippie/witch/working woman raising my ass on her own. She was married 5 times the last one lasted. Just as the spirit told her, on the spirit board. Can't remember how to spell it out for you but, I REALLY WANT TO SPEND MY
LIFE WITH YOU!♒⭕💛💞♾️💫🤙🙏🙏🙏🌄🌄🌄
Now that they are no longer living, except in spirit. I want a family of my own that we can grow together. My daughter Trinity, is almost 16 in August 6 05. She is the best blessing I ever happened for me. Then 4 years into her life, I had 2 strokes. My mom would have never put up with what they did to me. I am mad 😡 still for them taking Trinity and not giving her back to me. Heather her mom wasn't mentally stable, so her Dad and adopted Mom took them both away. Devistating it has been 11 years, help me get her back, or have a room to sleep in when she visits us.🙏🙏🙏💞💫♾️⭕💯💝
okay my name is jason and this video literally came at a time where i just ended up in the same pattern of feeling completely unwanted for who i am, then 6:35 came, literally like word for word of what my last attempted relationship was. this is probably the biggest synchronicity ive ever had so I think im going to pay special attention to this one, thanks Teal.
Hi Jason I'm clare 😀 I literally was reading your comment when I heard my name.
Have the most beautiful day Jason!
Everything is working out best case scenario.
LOL you guys.. maybe you two have a chance 😏😄
I'm Jason too, she literally just described my loop with relationships. Teal is a synchronicity generator. I don't come to her all the time, but when I do I am presented with extremely accurate and timely weirdness. It's going well beyond coincidence now.
@@jasonchambers6787 hello, may I know what do you do to resolve the pattern? Or maybe helper/rescuer pattern?
@@starrypurple8568 start with self awareness and do the work to understand why you attract this loop. Once you are no longer ignorant of the loop, you have more control over the situation and can make informed decisions. It's like, if you don't create your life, a life will be created for you and usually through ignorance of how life and the universe works. Its easy to say but not easy to do.
I guess it's a process. Like Teal says, you just have to make a different choice but finding out WHICH CHOICE you need to make differently is where the work is and ultimately comes down to you and your own path. For some people, it might be instantly recognizable and others it might be buried very deep. In the mean time, work on other aspects of your life. Change it up. Do things you normally would never do. If your pond is still... throw a pebble and make some ripples.
It also helps to drop importance on what you are hoping to find and just accept that some day, some how, when the time is right, the universe will present you with what you need. We often get in our own way by obsessing over our shopping list of desires that we can't see what is better even though it might be right in front of us. I like to use that old 80's teen movie trope where the guy's best friend is a girl and he doesn't see that she is the perfect one all along and is much better than the girl he was chasing, until she lets her hair down and takes off her glasses. If we always look down, we never see what is above. If we are always zoomed in, we never see the big picture.
OMG Teal you need to do a PART 2 of this! This is so KEY, so ROOT, so PRACTICAL. It deserves an elaboration. So short yet if you took the highlights of interviewing people going through this self analysing, and helped them through it, it would really help people see themselves in those interviewees, and relate to this subject so much more easily. People are hard enough to help as it is, but if you provide more examples and clarity, then we can all use this info so much more easily. Short but sweet, should be hours long mind candy!
Yes,Teal,part two,please.✌️♥️😊
agreeee thissss neeeds a part
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I have a pattern where I meet a woman who becomes a mother figure for me. She is always sweet and helpful and becomes someone I rely on for advice and help. Then, something will happen that causes the woman to turn on me and completely reject me and want nothing to do with me anymore. It's happened 3 times now in my life and I've just met another woman who fits this exact description. I can't think of what else to do differently except to talk about the pattern with her and how we would potentially treat each other in a conflict.
Teal can you do a post on “I’m Stuck between ignorant people and spiritual narcissists” Thank you……. Much love !
YES THIIIIIISSSS!!!!
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90 percent of "spiritual" people are trash
I would say it has something to do with self worth and boundaries...
Sometimes I wonder what people did before the internet. How did people grow emotionally with only encyclopaedia brittanica and a landline???
I feel pretty spoiled to even have access to these thought prompts and resources
Samee thank god i m young to be able to use this to my advantage however i feel like taking action is harder
A library is and has been that resource for millenia. There are many philosophers and literature that deal with important issues. For example, Seneca the Roman senator had been an important author for myself.
they go to books, or they just didn't have the level of awareness we have today, collectively. The internet accelerated the projection of both light and dark.
What people did before the internet…..? We spent time with each other, face to face. We talked, shared, processed together. Elders could pass on lived experience to juniors. We had cohesive community. In my opinion people were better then. Nicer. Everything was direct.
When I was younger without Internet, I knew that if I wanted a different experience in life, I had to do things differently. Simple.
I learned to think for myself.
People today are so spoon fed that they rarely think for themselves. That’s why we have millions of people following the government/media narrative about a man made virus with a 99% survival rate.
That lack of thinking for one selves is appallingly dangerous for mankind.
Yep.. without internet i would have probably literally killed myself many years ago.. the internet is basically the most part of how i have spent my time in the last 15 years or so.. it gives me connection.. entertainment.. information.. sex.. basically everything u want!
Thank you Teal & Team! Yes, I finally saw my incompatibility with each of my family members and the family as a whole and divorced myself from that family this past week! In looking back over my journaling, it looks like I manifested this eye-opening experience in April. Thank you for confirming that I am most notably needing to make new choices right now.
This video came in at the right place and the right time. Thanks ❤️
Me waiting for today's upload because I KNEW it would apply to my current situation.
She’s the only woman I ever meet in my life that is able to teach me something based on her level of knowledge, Teal is awesome.
Some people like me go into a relationship waiting for bad thing's to happen. From past relationships, so it's emotional mental thinking that there will be trouble in my relationships. And then again some people are just not good in love. Thank you Teal, you are beautiful. ❤
I think this is one way to make sure that bad things will happen. If you look for it, you will find.
You have your guard up, thats smart, but i recommend you not get emotionally involved until you know its safe, or you can get hurt again and again. Open relationships are not a bad thing. It promotes full honesty and freedom.
Hope this time my choices are better and i don't repeat the same scenario. Thank u teal
42 years in this world...grew up not a Mormon in a strict Mormon city with an abundance of abuse...i survived due to life long patterns... I am loving this woman... Finally found someone that i understand and am aable to see a little bit inside me... Praying for change...trying again tomorrow
I always find it hard for people to give me money!!! I will definitely apply this principle. Thanks again, Teal Swan.
Thank you, Teal..
Universe keeps me repeating situation of lack to make me change mindset about manifesting better and how to wanting things unrestrictedly. Thank you, Universe ❣️❣️❣️
Just the right video. Perfect timing. Love you Teal ❤️
Thank you teal
AGAIN AND AGAIN. I AM SOOO BLESSED to have Self lead me to Teal. Love you, Teal. Thank you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This has happened to me twice it took the 3rd time to fully get the lesson and changed the cycle completely and I am doing better than I ever have. I feel there's a lot of bad situations that keep repeating itself due to not getting the lesson the first time and won't stop until you break the cycle... your mind is the most powerful tool we got
THANK YOU Teal Swan!! Another great video - 🤍
Tomorrow I will resign on my current job. I guess that is the best thing to change the pattern that's always happening to me. I'm thinking about it for a long time.
Thank you for this gem.
It’s great that you addressed not being grateful to the universe for these repeating patterns. I, personally, found awareness of the heavy weight, and power of “the universe”…relating to traumatic events repeating until a shift happens.
This is personally profound to me- as I experienced a shift from feelings of anger, hopelessness, and essentially not wanting to “play the game” of existence. A game which is unfair, cold, seemingly unempathetic… today this power outside of myself is powerful. I am awe struck.
The belief of God being human while I was growing up (Catholic) instilled feelings of anger gradually toward this said human due to Him [what I easily & understandably interpreted as Him] punishing me. God is not human. God is power, Love, and light in darkness (etc)… we have access to godliness through the human experience. Being a human is special due to being capable of empathy, compassion, warmth- in ways “God” is incapable of.
@@i.m_mommy based Pope says aliens will be saved
If every person in the world have access to Teal this world would be more happy
Wow.. I feel like Jason is me... So grateful for you Teal. Thank you for these videos and this tribe! Even though I don’t know a lot of you personally, you guys truly are my tribe. I feel at home and connected coming here. Namaste.
I needed this, I'm so thankful that I have access to Teal, Teal saves my life
This really spoke to me! I’m right in the middle of another scenario that keeps repeating and now I realize that I have to make a difference choice and not bail out this person, yet again. Very hard when a family member.
Dear Teal,
I bow down to your knowledge of human behaviour. The whole video from start to end and even the example is my life exactly. Although I was aware of this, thanks for reminding and making sure I make a different choice this time. 🙏 Have a good day.
Sometimes I can't believe these videos are free on the internet. Thank you Teal. You've saved many lives over and over again.
You madam are changing my life. I love listening to your work. I have autism and I have been psychologically talking myself down and having faulty thoughts my whole adult life until now. Keep up the good work and you’ll keep turning people such as myself into way mentally stronger people.
I love you, Teal!
Thankyou Teal, sharing your wisdom to humans is so deeply helpful and healing 💜✨
Thanks so much Teal for this very helpful message that I trust will FINALLY help resolve at least four of the patterns that I was able to identify from this video: 1) Emotionally unavailable partner relationships (2 boyfriends and 2 marriages, to include current one which slightly improved due to realizing that I need to be more emotionally available for self first and foremost), 2) Relationships of being cheated on in the past, 3) Being in situations where you don’t belong and you’re not compatible (9 Sedona jobs since 2017/some of the most challenging coworkers I've ever experienced), and 4) PTSD: 3 car accidents within a few years in the past that totaled each car (1 minor accident in Sedona a couple of years ago; 2 of 4 accidents my husband was driving)
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I took screenshot notes for the questions you asked, as part of the exercise you suggested, and created a Word doc to organize my thoughts, feelings, insights, etc.
I often felt hopeless due to these patterns that I've been aware of---though not this organized and clearer than ever---but felt powerless to change no matter how many different things I've done over the years (to include shadow work and inner child work, which I could practice more of).
Anyhoo, you are deeply appreciated soul sister!
To anyone struggling right now- you’re not alone. I know it’s difficult, but time will help and heal. Change takes time and effort- please don’t ever give up.
“Make ‘someday’ today.”
It's true! Teal is a powerful energetic person that will guide you to the stars. She is very clear that you have got to connect to the outside world in order to find harmony within yourself and to express that to another human being in order to feel truly alive.
Hey Teal Swan ...I haven't been getting any alerts... but im here now thanks for these short videos. Love them . Very educational 👽💜
What about those people who have developed incredible self-awareness, tried to heal and let go, transmute the dark to light while remaining mostly positive despite the tragedies.............. *and yet still find themselves in the same situation?* Letting go did not work. Behaving/thinking/feeling in a new better way did not work. Healing oneself did not work either. Now what?
She is victim shaming. She really has no idea what she is talking about!
Try different tools, or ways to know WHERE its coming from. Smoke pot, go deep within and find the roots, or meditate, or ask tarot cards, or maybe its a pattern in your astrology chart. When is your birthday, i want to look for you...
@@orgonebubbletechcuresyou3575 Thank you for your reply (I love Orgones too, btw :) ) The thing is Tarot cards always say the same thing 'change is coming'.....but the same message has been going on for 4 years, so I don't give much weight to them anymore. As for astrology, I've studied it in depth for a good number of years (5 years or more), and has helped me to some degree, but at the end of the day I found that it made me feel disempowered and a slave to this "written destiny" so I had to make a conscious choice to remove it from my life. It was the best decision I've ever made. I think we're far more powerful and expanded than planetary aspects, numerology and degrees. But if astrology helps you, then more power to you and I'm happy for you that it helps you. The only thing I still have yet to try is to completely do the opposite of things (positively of course), doing completely new things, what I would never have dared to do. I'm sharing it here maybe it could help someone out there.
@@salandersalgado4038 Hi Salander, I don't know about victim shaming. She is very logical in how she goes about things and some people might not resonate with that (which is okay). I don't feel she victim-shames although I can see why someone would feel that way. The thing is this........when we think it's other people's fault, and the world's fault, and society's fault, we are left feeling worse. Being the victim sucks. Period. When it's everyone's fault, it means you have no power over your life. As soon as you realize that whatever happens is, in some way, reacting to what you are thinking/saying/doing, then that means that you can change your circumstances. I am still struggling with my own sense of victimhood, so I can really understand what you meant. Sorry for the long message.
I might be the exception for this rule, but in my life I have been more than lucky to avoid all the pitfalls. Never experienced any kind of hardships or difficulties, probably because when I smile to the universe, the universe smiles at me. Keep up positive attitude and producing these motivating videos
It is nice to see someone who is not smiling at universe, and it is whole life spitting in his eyes.
*sigh* There are often hidden things in one's subcouscioussness which are causing this shitty scenario IMHO.
So what drew you to this video if it didn't resonate at all?
Thank you Teal for your videos. I'm trying to heal and work on myself so I can have a better life
My 6 yr relationship ended and it brought up a lot of things for me to face. Things I realized that I need to work on. I'm tired of hurting. I just want to heal.
I think it's incredible that Jason keeps empowering these women to heal their lives and become healthy over and over
Love you Teal, I was waiting for my Saturday morning with Teal, video. 💋
I started changing my actions after I read your book about self-love 3 month ago. It is very hard sometimes and I need more patience. Sometimes I forget why I am doing this. Thx reminding me.
This is absolutely brilliant!
Teal, thank you.
miss Teal's teachings are like the Lighthouse along a shore beyond the ocean of my lonely soul
This showed up for me at just the right time. ✅ Thanks Teal ❤
Yup. This video is 100% relatable.
What's doing something over and over and expecting a different result called?
Insanity.
I'm sick of creating my own insanity.
Thank you Teal!
Your world is a reflection of you. If you see yourself as a failure in life, you will subconsciously seek out those situations/people who match your vibration
Thank you Teal. ✨✨✨
Wow it is like this was made for me!
As I clicked the video
"Hmmm? I am sick of being rejected by boys I like."
Happy you covered that in the intro. I do find myself always moving on to be rejected again. I know I am attractive and he Ave never met anyone as weird (in a good way) as myself so it perplexed me. I've changed the pattern by isolating myself but, now I am lonely and cynical
Depends on how much you want someone. Are you willing to do what it takes to make good money, develop a nice body, learn other things needed to attract a wider audience?
Love you perfect timing as always
I think this video is made for me, I am facing the same pattern, repeatedly.
This video is like part 2 to a video Teal made a while back - "When You Feel Like You've Gone Backwards." This time she offers another important insight as to why you need to repeat a certain experience.
Perfect timing perfect video thank you!!! So very needed
Thank you, Teal. This video comes at the right time.
We beg to be treated this way and so we are, universe never disappoints.
Flawless timing. 🙏🏾
Love you Teal!
Thank you! Beautifully described❤️🌀
Staying the course. The year of being Aware not to repeat what did not serve my highest purpose, and did not deliver . on the look out for anything that might suggest doing anything drastic steering me off track out of lack of patience sending me back to square one. I have done my reset for 7 months this year now counting forward towards living the blessings.
One thing I love about you Teal is your perfect timing, I had just decided something really painful happened one too many times and needed to be handled differently. It’s time. Thank you for confirming it. 🙏💖
This video changed my life. I’m so grateful and finally feeling free. Thank you Teal ❤️
Thank You.. 😘
Watching this just two hours before my 35th BDay.
I love when you give examples😀
This completely applies to people who have issues with addiction…it’s a dead end and the same day over and over.
Thanks for this talk Teal. I come back to your videos at different points in my life. Always leave wanting someone like you around me. Maybe actively going out and trying to find that someone instead of shooting every drug on earth for those same feelings would be a starting point for me.
Thank You Teal 🌹🙏
Love that shirt🏵️🌻🌼
Thank you ❤️
Sooooo helpful!!!!!!!!!! I’ve dreamt of you Teal! I’ve dreamt having a session with you! And that’s good enough for me! You are a delight!!!!! And SOOOO spot on!!!💚
Omg! I just changed spot in to spot on! I’m not trippin, lol, should’ve let it be. The fact that you favorited AND highlighted my original message gives me life!!!!!!! I love you Teal!!!!
Thank you Teal.. love you
If you keep having the same thoughts, you will keep having the same experiences. It is the Law of Attraction in action.
Thank you 🌻
Teal! Thank you so much. Always on time, always on point! Getting pen to paper on this ish.
I'm simply writing this comment to boost your video! Thank you for your help💛💛
This is too real right now, even the example was a little too real, haha. I definitely needed this.
Thank you Teal ❤️
Thanks Teal❤️👍🙌😊
Thank you for this. 🤍🦋
This resonated because I just choose differently with being in codependent relationships. After my ex and I broke up I made a decision to truly love myself, to never put another person before me and it has changed my life tenfold! 🙏❣️
Thank you so much Teal.
Making all these insights available to us all, explaining it so deeply and with compassion, wit, and humor, so generous.
It’s a lot of energy to make these and I appreciate you so much.
I’ve been living out in the forests and meadows off and on for ten years doing remediation work getting to know the indiginous western traditional food plants of the peoples of the western states I am blessed to reside in and be from.
Ancestral skills interests and also hopes to create a gay and queer magic and great dark mother based religious non profit and a temple community.
Your help really encourages and helps me focus. Living from a car and camping, and having these visions of what would be so good and healing for gay people. A space to come together and activate community healing and trauma healing through tending practices to the earth and each other.
The new world we are headed to and back to.
Thank you.
Wow, that sounds really inspiring, bro.
Just got dumped a couple days ago. It seemed to come out of no where again. I needed this today 🙏🏼 thank you teal 💖
Thank you dear TEAL, this information, I am working on it 👑❤️
Thank you for this video ❤️
Oh my God, this blew my mind... Amazing content
Thank you.... I'm glad I stumbled across your video. I needed to hear.
immediately sharing w my friend
I wish I had friends who even remotely considered this
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Same here!
ooohh, thank you Tealie 💜
There are not too many women around like you, Teal!
Thank you so much!
I love you Teal! Thank you.
This video felt so good, thank you
I needed this right now ❤️
So if I want that the universe don`t have to repeat the same things again and again, I have to start with changing myself first my patterns to show the universe, that I´m willing to go the new way and take thankful the gifts that the universe offers me than.
Thanks Teal. Love this video ❤️
Perrrfect timing as it feels like my couple’s counselor had done her best to tell us just this yesterday. Toooo surreal. And I Love her dress!!! Wtf I want won!! 😍