I worked from home for a long time and now I have to go in one day a week. My cat does not take being left alone very well. He will meow loudly calling out for me. I don't know if the cameras are a good thing as it makes me feel worse when I see him sad and lonely. He's an older gentleman so I'm not too concerned about him getting into trouble but if there was something I could do to make him feel less lonely and anxious about being on his own that would be great.
Try leaving something that smells like you where he loves to sleep. Also, get him some toys or special treats for when you leave. Only bring them out when you leave. We have our cats trained so well now they get excited when we are going to leave because they know it will be special treat time. It will take a little bit but once he understands you will come back the crying will stop I promise. It's like a mom dropping her kid off at daycare for the first time. They will cry but over time will get better. Sending you love as all kitties have the saddest meows ever! I know it is hard.
Awwww. One of the best things to do is get your baby some toys to play with just when you are gone. That will give them something to look forward to. Also, get the cameras so you can check in on them. That will give you peace of mind.
Hello, My house has 4 floors, and I don’t know if I shoul let my kitten free around the house, or in only one room because of the stairs. There are these stairs protection for babies and pets but my mom doesn’t want these in every stairs.
Start small in one place and gradually open up other areas. Make sure they are comfortable and know where the litter box is before moving on to another area. Usually, they will let you know when they are ready. It is when they start trying to get out of wherever they are and want to start exploring other areas. Also with multiple floors, you need litter boxes on all of them if possible. ❤
Im thinking of getting kitten my self but i also like going out in day for couple hours of course when younge i wouldn't but when older i would still like to go out from couple hours but at same time i would feel really guilty leaving cat for couple hours is because i like to go for nature walk and little drive then i settle for evening im also autistic so i can get very anxious
Why not take kitty with you? We have backpacks and strollers for ours so they can go with us outside. I have ADHD and my little ones bring me so much comfort. Definitely think about it but just know kittens are super playful and full of energy. But talking them with you on walks would help with that.
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much for replying a lot people said I shouldn't do that because stress cat out but I'm like it would be my furry babies I would want to take my cat to my boyfriends and adventure I get very anxious with animals I have pets little ones but at same time they help me I think jut having reassurance helps
@@redraven3565 So that might be more true with older cats who have never been outside. With older cats, you would have to see if they liked it or not but with kittens you can train them so it is normal for them. Just make sure to get a good backpack. I recommend this one. ruclips.net/video/-JryDF7Bn24/видео.html
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much I really appreciate your advice and I have subscribed to you I love your vibe and your personality and love your videos
@@ThatCatMommy The wife said the same thing. Will speaking with them through the camera calm their nerves? She is small but not a baby. I hope she does well.
She should be as long as you have kitten-proofed your home or the room she is going to be in. Here is a video that will help with that: ruclips.net/video/Z5b9-5i_-Sw/видео.html Just know she might be a little sad that you are gone and need to play when you do get home to get out some of that kitten energy. :)
I wouldn't recommend leaving a kitten for the weekend. 😥 You could either pay a pet sitter to stay with it or you could teach it to be a travel cat and take it with you. That is what we are doing with our little ones. That way we can just take them with us. Hope that helps. ❤
Hey I have a huge issue, so I'm 15 and live with my VERY strict parents, we are travelling for one week and my dad said there was NO way we're gonna be taking my cat with us, and even worst, my mom jumped in and was like, '' I'm not leaving a cat in my house for an entire week, what if he gets poop on him and spreads it all over the house!! We're gonna lock him in the bathroom and put food in there '' And I was like "mom that's ridiculous", and she started yelling at me, I'm very upset that my cat has to stay for an entire week locked in a small bathroom, and I'm scared he will run out of food or water, and I personally struggle with depression and my worst nightmare it's my cat getting depressed, and I'm afraid he'll think that we abandoned him and he will probably get really depressed and feel trapped inside of the bathroom. Please I need advice on how to convince my parents to take him with us or at least let him free inside of the house. Or maybe just some tips
Oh no I am so sorry. Hopefully, you can sit down and talk with your parents and work something out. Maybe ask if the cat could stay in your room or tell them you would be willing to clean up any mess the cat left behind if they allowed it to stay in the whole house. Also maybe you could have a relative or someone the family trust come over and check on the house and the cat while you were gone. They could change the litter box and make sure the cat has food and clean water. Sending you good vibes and well wishes for you and your kitty. ❤️
Just make sure to follow the tips in this video and have someone to check in on your cat every day to change the litter box and feed your kitty. :) I would also recommend getting a camera so you can look in on your kitty anytime you want to.
@@lindagardner706 I ask at my vet's office. Lots of times some of the people who work at the vet have a pet sitting side hustle. One of the vet techs at my vet is who watches our kitties. It makes me feel better to know someone who knows my cats and could access their records is pet-sitting my babies. You could also go with a pet sitting service and if you get the cameras you will be able to see what they do. :)
As long as you have kitten proofed your home or the room the kitten will be left in you should be ok. Here is another video that will help ruclips.net/video/Z5b9-5i_-Sw/видео.html :)
I have a 4 month old kitten. But nowadays I have to go back to my mom's house as she's no longer strong enough to take care of herself. I can't bring my kitten along (kitten will be at my 1 bedroom apartment). Do you think he will cope? Behaviour wise, needs, etc? I'm really worried):
I am sure the kitty will miss you but as long as you spend some time with him/her daily it should be ok for a little while. However little kittens need lots of attention and without you there to entertain them they may destroy stuff. I would definitely get a camera to watch him/her as that will for sure make you feel better.
I have a question please someone answer, I have school everyday for 5 hours my cat is 6month old and I got her two days ago, and I leave her in one room is it ok?:(
Just be prepared with water, food a litter box, and toys for her. Also, make sure to play with her before and after school and let her out to explore the house when you get home. She should be just fine just make sure to remove anything she might get hung up on or chew like cords. :)
Ok. Just make sure you get a pet sitter or friend to take care of your baby. If you need a pet sitter I have a website you can check out to find someone. Just let me know.
That would depend on the size of the room, room set up, and the kitty. If your kitty is super active it would need to run and climb to burn that out or it could end up messing something up in your room. Defiantly get a camera so you can see how the kitty reacts and make adjustments where you need to.
Awwww. :( Maybe try to get it a few new toys. If money is an issue you can make a lot of things yourself for cheap. I have one video on a DIY puzzle feeder here: ruclips.net/video/wJu7WkKloMg/видео.html
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thank you for these tips. helped ease my anxiety leaving my girl while I'm at work :)
Awwww. Yay. I am so glad.
I worked from home for a long time and now I have to go in one day a week. My cat does not take being left alone very well. He will meow loudly calling out for me. I don't know if the cameras are a good thing as it makes me feel worse when I see him sad and lonely. He's an older gentleman so I'm not too concerned about him getting into trouble but if there was something I could do to make him feel less lonely and anxious about being on his own that would be great.
Try leaving something that smells like you where he loves to sleep. Also, get him some toys or special treats for when you leave. Only bring them out when you leave. We have our cats trained so well now they get excited when we are going to leave because they know it will be special treat time. It will take a little bit but once he understands you will come back the crying will stop I promise. It's like a mom dropping her kid off at daycare for the first time. They will cry but over time will get better. Sending you love as all kitties have the saddest meows ever! I know it is hard.
My husband and I have long working hours and our cat is only three month old and i feel so guilty for leaving her alone
Awwww. One of the best things to do is get your baby some toys to play with just when you are gone. That will give them something to look forward to. Also, get the cameras so you can check in on them. That will give you peace of mind.
Hello, My house has 4 floors, and I don’t know if I shoul let my kitten free around the house, or in only one room because of the stairs. There are these stairs protection for babies and pets but my mom doesn’t want these in every stairs.
Start small in one place and gradually open up other areas. Make sure they are comfortable and know where the litter box is before moving on to another area. Usually, they will let you know when they are ready. It is when they start trying to get out of wherever they are and want to start exploring other areas. Also with multiple floors, you need litter boxes on all of them if possible. ❤
Im thinking of getting kitten my self but i also like going out in day for couple hours of course when younge i wouldn't but when older i would still like to go out from couple hours but at same time i would feel really guilty leaving cat for couple hours is because i like to go for nature walk and little drive then i settle for evening im also autistic so i can get very anxious
Why not take kitty with you? We have backpacks and strollers for ours so they can go with us outside. I have ADHD and my little ones bring me so much comfort. Definitely think about it but just know kittens are super playful and full of energy. But talking them with you on walks would help with that.
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much for replying a lot people said I shouldn't do that because stress cat out but I'm like it would be my furry babies I would want to take my cat to my boyfriends and adventure I get very anxious with animals I have pets little ones but at same time they help me I think jut having reassurance helps
@@redraven3565 So that might be more true with older cats who have never been outside. With older cats, you would have to see if they liked it or not but with kittens you can train them so it is normal for them. Just make sure to get a good backpack. I recommend this one. ruclips.net/video/-JryDF7Bn24/видео.html
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much I really appreciate your advice and I have subscribed to you I love your vibe and your personality and love your videos
@@redraven3565 Awww thanks.
Good tips. I left a 5 month alone today. First day. Lol I am at work!
Definitely get a camera so you can watch them on your break. I love looking in on mine. ❤️
@@ThatCatMommy The wife said the same thing. Will speaking with them through the camera calm their nerves? She is small but not a baby. I hope she does well.
@@GAMEBUDZ I am sure she will be ready to see you. Expect a excited kitty that is ready to run and play. ❤️
Thank you maam, this help me soo much
You are super welcome.
Thaaaaank u so much!!
You are super welcome.
If I leave my kitten alone for 8 hours ?
Is it okay?
For remaining 16 hours I will be with her...
She should be as long as you have kitten-proofed your home or the room she is going to be in.
Here is a video that will help with that: ruclips.net/video/Z5b9-5i_-Sw/видео.html
Just know she might be a little sad that you are gone and need to play when you do get home to get out some of that kitten energy. :)
I'm worried because I'm thinking of getting a kitten but I go outside with my family and the house is empty on weekends. Can you tell me what to do?
I wouldn't recommend leaving a kitten for the weekend. 😥 You could either pay a pet sitter to stay with it or you could teach it to be a travel cat and take it with you. That is what we are doing with our little ones. That way we can just take them with us. Hope that helps. ❤
@@ThatCatMommy I was thinking of making it adapt to come with us, is it possible if you can make a tutorial about that? Once more, thank you so much!
@@markhoredits Sure. :)
@@ThatCatMommy thank you!
Hey I have a huge issue, so I'm 15 and live with my VERY strict parents, we are travelling for one week and my dad said there was NO way we're gonna be taking my cat with us, and even worst, my mom jumped in and was like, '' I'm not leaving a cat in my house for an entire week, what if he gets poop on him and spreads it all over the house!! We're gonna lock him in the bathroom and put food in there ''
And I was like "mom that's ridiculous", and she started yelling at me, I'm very upset that my cat has to stay for an entire week locked in a small bathroom, and I'm scared he will run out of food or water, and I personally struggle with depression and my worst nightmare it's my cat getting depressed, and I'm afraid he'll think that we abandoned him and he will probably get really depressed and feel trapped inside of the bathroom.
Please I need advice on how to convince my parents to take him with us or at least let him free inside of the house.
Or maybe just some tips
Oh no I am so sorry. Hopefully, you can sit down and talk with your parents and work something out. Maybe ask if the cat could stay in your room or tell them you would be willing to clean up any mess the cat left behind if they allowed it to stay in the whole house. Also maybe you could have a relative or someone the family trust come over and check on the house and the cat while you were gone. They could change the litter box and make sure the cat has food and clean water. Sending you good vibes and well wishes for you and your kitty. ❤️
OMG how was the cat?
I have to leave my 8 year old cat for about 5 days. Do you think it's okay ? I'm a bit nervous. I have a water foundation for him.
Just make sure to follow the tips in this video and have someone to check in on your cat every day to change the litter box and feed your kitty. :) I would also recommend getting a camera so you can look in on your kitty anytime you want to.
@@ThatCatMommy problem is I just moved here and don't trust or know anyone good enough to have them come into my home
@@lindagardner706 I ask at my vet's office. Lots of times some of the people who work at the vet have a pet sitting side hustle. One of the vet techs at my vet is who watches our kitties. It makes me feel better to know someone who knows my cats and could access their records is pet-sitting my babies. You could also go with a pet sitting service and if you get the cameras you will be able to see what they do. :)
Good tip re" the bathing suit top, never would have thoughht they can strangle themselves with things like that
Thank you.
I m watching without having one
Awwww. Thanks for watching. ❤️❤️❤️
My kitten is 2months old and i have school 7hours a day is it ok
You should be fine. Just make sure to kitten proof your home and make sure the kitten has plenty of things to keep it entertained.
my cat is 3 months can i leave alone when i go to office
As long as you have kitten proofed your home or the room the kitten will be left in you should be ok. Here is another video that will help ruclips.net/video/Z5b9-5i_-Sw/видео.html :)
New fear unlocked
:( Oh no! I don't want you to be fearful. Get the cameras that will make you feel better.
I have a 4 month old kitten. But nowadays I have to go back to my mom's house as she's no longer strong enough to take care of herself. I can't bring my kitten along (kitten will be at my 1 bedroom apartment). Do you think he will cope? Behaviour wise, needs, etc? I'm really worried):
I am sure the kitty will miss you but as long as you spend some time with him/her daily it should be ok for a little while. However little kittens need lots of attention and without you there to entertain them they may destroy stuff. I would definitely get a camera to watch him/her as that will for sure make you feel better.
@@ThatCatMommy thank you so much
@@mnz9214 Anytime.
@@ThatCatMommy how many times a day should I drop by though?
@@mnz9214 I would try for at least 2 but for sure 1 time. Make sure to change the litter box, feed, and play with him/her when you are there. :)
I have a question please someone answer, I have school everyday for 5 hours my cat is 6month old and I got her two days ago, and I leave her in one room is it ok?:(
Just be prepared with water, food a litter box, and toys for her. Also, make sure to play with her before and after school and let her out to explore the house when you get home. She should be just fine just make sure to remove anything she might get hung up on or chew like cords. :)
I will leave my cat alone for 14 days and i don't wanna to put her in a pet boarding
Ok. Just make sure you get a pet sitter or friend to take care of your baby. If you need a pet sitter I have a website you can check out to find someone. Just let me know.
@@ThatCatMommy what is the website?
@@genesismillion My website is thatcatmommy.com/
Hi there. I need to ask. Is it okay for me to leave my kitten in my bedroom the whole day with all the necessities? She's alone and quite active. 🤣
That would depend on the size of the room, room set up, and the kitty. If your kitty is super active it would need to run and climb to burn that out or it could end up messing something up in your room. Defiantly get a camera so you can see how the kitty reacts and make adjustments where you need to.
My kitten gets bored and wants to run away sometimes.
Awwww. :( Maybe try to get it a few new toys. If money is an issue you can make a lot of things yourself for cheap. I have one video on a DIY puzzle feeder here: ruclips.net/video/wJu7WkKloMg/видео.html
My cat won't let me go he thought I'm his mom 😭💢
Teach him to be a backpack cat and take him with you. :)
@@ThatCatMommy okay I'll try