This is Your Postpartum In 2 Minutes | Glamour
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- Learn more about the science behind postpartum depression. Whether it's vaginal soreness from labor, nighttime hot flashes in the weeks to follow, or hair loss from changing hormones, you'll learn what is actually happening in your body during postpartum-in two minutes.
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Major respect to my mom, she did this 3 times
Harry Potter Fan my mom did it 7. No joke. She always wanted a big family.
My mom did it 4 times
Harry Potter Fan 8 times for me
My mom did it 5 times. I remember her telling me when I was pretty young (and when she only had 2 kids) that I’m gonna have 3 more siblings when I’m older. My mom had siblings when she grew up, but they were much older than her and she sometimes felt lonely so she wanted us to have siblings with not too many years between us. My dad also wanted a big family, so they made sure to start when they were financially able.
Harry Potter Fan m’y mom did this four times two of them failed
This gave me anxiety in two minutes
I’m a 17 year old😅
Same
omg same its 1 am rn idk why I'm watching this
You don’t have to become a mum
Shrishti Singh same
I’m 14 why am I here😂😭
Why she ate the apple like that tho? 😂😂
Jojoba M my thoughts exactly 😂
I looked for this comment to see who agreed and it was right at the top 😂
for realll
That's how I eat an apple when I'm trying to eat healthy but it doesn't satisfy me and I still want junk food 😅
Stop laughing....when u go through that stage...u will understand
Guess who's not having kids
I said that mess. I have two.
Meeeee
Green Jade lmao same
@@bellemyjade686 loool 😅😅😅
Stina meeeeeeeehhh
Now imagine living in the 1800's or even the 1950's when postpartum education wasn't as normalized of and described as "crazy" and taboo to discuss
Yep, then women get sent off to an asylum
Jesus loves you!😊❤
My postpartum hair loss tips and experience. ruclips.net/video/VJmMkJRArZ0M/видео.htmly postpartum hair loss tops and experience
@@tboss3276 awwww
@@Buskis-music-vault He does!😊❤❤❤
This literally seems like a nightmare lol
Yeah it is!
The best nightmares though.
Lol yeah, never having kids.
the worst part about having the baby is a) labour/contractions and b) going to the toilet afterwards. THe rest is manageable IMHO
@@DolceVita i feel like people really try to justify that it's only good to have kids. Yeah for some, but let's not ignore the fact that it is hard and can be really difficult.
Thats one GIANT newborn 😂
Its six months so the size of the baby is pretty accurate
Deborah Olugbenga that says 6 WEEKS 😂
@@TransitioningBeauty it's just to pretend, they do that in movies too
Ikr
Lol Mom ate too much food during pregnancy
And so many women are alone in that time:(
That's so sad.
I had someone with me both times causa alone it's a nightmare.
Am 19 i did it alone and am still alone
My Bby boy will soon be 3months healthy and happy
I Will be going back To school soon.it wont be easy🤞🤞
kizzylegend michael you can do it! ❤️
Me too,I was alone that time. So terrible !!!
@@kizzymichael7452 u are in school how ??at the age of 19 i am 19 too but i am in college and my parents say me that i am too little to be having boyfriend
If you:
- don't feel like yourself
- cannot bond with the baby
- feel irritable
- have changes in appetite
- feel anxiety
- have low energy
- feel hopeless
You may have postpartum depression (it usually develops within 4-6 weeks postpartum, but it may take several months). Some experience it so severely that they may have the urge to self-harm or even have suicidal thoughts. If you have just given birth, please take care of yourself as much as possible. It is okay for you to depend on your partner, family, healthcare professionals and other people.. you don't have to do everything alone and shouldn't have to
If your loved one has recently given birth, please let them know that they're loved. Help them even without them asking. Try to be more patient and understanding, because they have just given birth and it is really a difficult process.. 😊
Edit: Oh and, DO WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU!
And when you don't have anyone for help?
This is so true. I suffered with postpartum depression with all three of my pregnancies 😔
@@Kekschannelotti reach out to a medical professional or even a support group. There are resources to help. If you have Kaiser they are good with the type of support needed.
Thank you for bringing that up. I had postpartum with my first son really bad and it eventually turned into just regular depression and i didnt tell anybody for about it for years
Also watch out for postpartum anxiety
I am 4 weeks postpartum yesterday with my first baby and I promise it is all worth it. I’ve never loved anyone or anything as much as I love my son
Same. I love my fattums.
Good luck queen! Lots of support for you and your son!
Im saying. Whoes not going to fall in love with something so beautiful they created
Sorry to say, thats how nature works. Its hormonal thing to feel love for baby.
@@dibya8319 I've known lots of women where they never felt a connection to their baby.
That guy just vigorously rubbing her shoulder at the end 😂
2:15
😂😂like a motorbike
Oh my gosh I didn’t notice this 😂😂😂
Sometimes we moms need a good rub 😁
Do haha😂😂
That's not vigorous.. that's a good shoulder rub 😂
Men with gf, wife, fiancé, please do research postpartum depression
Agreed.
men wity gf make them your wife and commit to them before you get them pregnant. pleaseee
@@lilmamagc Couldn't agree more... 👌💯👏🙏
Not just men, women with their wifes who are or wanna get pregnant should also do research
I gave birth to my baby boy in august and I can definitely say that the “4th trimester” or the postpartum stage is the hardest out of all the trimesters.
This made me not want to give birth even more than I did before
You'll forget everything
OOOF my body won’t no thanks I’ll adopt
As a woman who can't have any children of my own. I'd love to go through all of that just to have a beautiful child ❤️
I had two big headed babies with broad shoulders. My body is actually better.
hate it when you’re pretty certain on the fact you don’t want kids or atleast don’t want to go through pregnancy and would rather adopt and people keep trying to tell you that you’re wrong and YOU WILL want kids, honestly it’s your choice and i agree with you people need to quiet down about “you’ll want kids when you’re older, you’re just being childish”
She made it seem a lot easier than what it actually is.
It already looks terrifying you try to tell me it's even worse irl?! 😰😭
@@yoongistongue4163 some people are saying it's easier, some people saying it's harder - I imagine experiences differ, but try not to just listen to horror stories :)
Mine was way worse. The mood swings. Depression. I felt horrible and I could not recognise myself in the mirror. Hard to explain. The pain in the breast due to alot of milk. The night sweats make you so uncomfortable that I used to wake up frequently. My abdomen was paining for like 3 months and back for 5 months. My daughter is 15 months old. And am perfect now. Just have to loss more weight.
Exactly! Whoever did this video has absolutely no idea what giving birth and postpartum is.
Way worse
Just had my third child a month ago. Just so as not to scare anyone off, your postpartum period can also be ok. For me it was a bit different with each child but I was up and doing things pretty comfortably within a couple of days. I’m not trying to make anyone who had a harder time feel worse but just remind people that (as with pregnancy) you probably won’t get every symptom at full strength, you might feel more emotional but physically ok, or vice versa.
Oh good for you!
KEEP TAKING YOUR PRENATAL VITAMINS! They never tell you that but it makes a huge difference after you give birth. Why? Because you will have a hard time getting enough nutrients while breastfeeding and taking care of baby and other kids if you have them. You need to continue supplementing.
Ashley Parmar will they also prevent the hair loss? That sounds so horrible.
@@dewilew2137 don't think so, because that's a hormonal thing. It's normally not as horrible as it sounds, because you get fuller hair during pregnancy (and you don't lose such big junks of hair in one pull)
@@dewilew2137 your hair goes in "sleep mode" during pregnancy, which results in you losing less hair. When you give birth it turns off the "sleep mode", and all the hair your body has been holding on during the pregnancy (that should have fallen off) now falls off, all pretty much at the same time. You're not actually "losing" hair/balding (that can happen, but rare), you're just going back to normal.
I agree. I used to feel awful when I didn't take folic acid and iron
Also to add to this.There are liquid prenatals that were easier on me to take if you can’t deal with the horse pull ones. I had such a sensitive gag reflex with my pregnancies.
Why random people liking this comment
Merry Christmas ikrr
she’s @reneefromthebay
How has this got more likes than the postpartum depression one🤯
This video gave more education to women in minute just 2 minutes then most doctors give any information about postpartum at all. Kudos to glamour
Guess who’s adopting😅
Tianna Trainer 😂😂😂
guess how many people have said that when they were young and still had kids?
my type type it’s a joke calm down..
my type type it’s still a good idea. It helps other children that couldn’t be raised by their birth parents.
cusco525 it does, good point
My grandma (mom of my mom) gave birth to her children ALONE. I'm still confused, I would've died, but I guess when you have no choice you have to do it.
Mothers are angels❤
more like heroines
wait whatttt
Totally forgot to give the model dark circles and completely exhausted look
Lol facts
The vaginal and perineal pain is SO REAL. Especially if you have an episiotomy. I was in so much pain, it hurt to sit, stand, walk, and just move in general. It was very tender even after then stitches and incision site healed. I was very sensitive about the area for almost 3 months
In both kids I didn't have a episiotomy but with the first baby I had a lot of stiches cause her head was kinda big 35 cm!
I remember that I had to get to the shower to pee and I was traumatized to clean the area without getting in the shower... For 2 months I felt pain while peeing, I couldn't sit and the pain was huge. With the second baby (I had him after 15 months) was easier, no stiches, causr his head was smaller. To me, this is worst than anything. Not being able to pee is so bad, I was even afraid to drink cause then I had to pee. But everything's fine now, I don't even remember the pain. We're strong. Very strong.
Blue Girl is there something that can prevent it?
Brendons Forehead You can do perineal massage in your last trimester and request that your doctor/midwife also do it during labor,but there are no guarantees. I refused an episiotomy and just tore,but it was a minor tear with minor stitches. Factors include head size,speed of birth(baby comes out hard and fast),and your bodies own elasticity.
Currently going through it! I had a 4th degree tear during birth and recovery is hard
Lord this makes me happy i had a c section.
I like how it says take care of yourself with:
healthy foods
*person eats apple*
exercise
*smiles awkwardly and continues to sit*
Why yes I also like to skip over the exercise and Go straight to relaxation.
I don't think I'm having kids, but I'm so glad my mom had enough strength to successfully go through this at 18, ALONE.
As someone who just gave birth 2 months ago, yes it’s very hard. It’s painful and uncomfortable. However, it doesn’t last that long. Just make sure you do everything your doctor advises after childbirth. It was hard, but the joy of having my little one makes me excited to have another. Don’t deny yourself an amazing experience without fully knowing everything. These videos make it seem scarier than it actually is.
Its very subjective though
Some women has more difficulty than this
Don’t dismiss someone s feelings because you had it otherwise
wow now i have so much respect for my mom....
Didnt you to begin with?!?!
I'm totally into postpartum depression... It's been 3 months but still... My husband left me. My dad and my sister are by my side and taking care of me. Yet I feel very depressed. God has brought me this far..much better than before. It's only by His grace I'm surviving
How are u doing now hun? Just prayed
@@irisfilmproductions TYSM it really means a lot. I'm much better now with God's grace. He has done great things.
@@salomisundar im so very glad!❤❤❤
Just had my fourth baby ... And uh i would like to say it gets easier...but I think I just adapted to the chaos. 3 hours of sleep ...that's it. Oh well happy new year 🤷💪👶🥂
Lots of love and respect for you queen!! You can do this
“You will start to lose weight”😂😂😂
sure if you stop eating entirely.
Coolbabymama yes because appetite changes after having a baby and baby needs fed and changed every 2-3 hours. It can get exhausting and repetitive. Sometimes there’s also sleepless nights when there other stuff to do like laundry, dishes, etc.
Busy all the time.
Lol, right?! My breastfeeding hunger is 10x pregnancy hunger 🤦🏿♀️🤪!!!
Hats off too my mom who went through this 2 times. Also to my both grandmothers as they went through this 8 times.
YAAAS. this video is perfect timing as I’m procrastinating everything in life. 👌👌👌🤣🤣🤣
I had a baby two weeks ago. Of course, every mom’s journey is different, but for me, all of this is still so worth it ☺️
i’m a guy and this mad me really anxious
idk why i keep watching these when i’m not pregnant and planning to not have kids anyways lol i just watch these videos to solidify why i don’t want to go through this ever
STARMY is me why is this me
I do the exact same
I really REALLY don’t like how Glamour really downplays and makes all these experiences women and women’s bodies go through look like a breeze.
To any women who is going through this right now please know that you are not alone in feeling and thinking that this looks much easier than it actually is!
The actress looked uncomfortable most of the video.
Thanks for looking at more struggles/serving realness
I didn't stare at the camera and enjoy the music like she does. I sit and cry with my baby all night. It took me 45 days to get to the reality of motherhood.
I am on my period and after watching her like this my pain is increasing
For the first two minutes my uterus. Started to pain by seeing the word bleeding uterus become larger up to 15x . OMG .
I appreciate the awareness this video brings. Just had my son in apr 2022 and in march 2023 I finally was able to go to the gym again, feel like myself again, (still nursing) but all these things go way past the 6 weeks for most of us. I thought I would fit it in my old clothes by 6 weeks and cried when I couldn’t, even at 2 months. Postpartum stage is a crazy one, and mental health is more important than ever around this time. Any parent to be reading this, don’t forget to put in your oxygen mask❤
In adopting.Thanks
Can't believe my mom did this 7 times! My baby is almost 2 years and i'm never having another one, ever!
As soon as the worst of my postpartum depression wore off I felt an incredible sense of love and over protection of my little ones. Literally, our bodies experience an internal shift... hormones and organs slowly getting back into correct zones, we slowly but surely. I can feel the differences in my body.
Add dealing with episiotomy and infection... post natal depression and lack of sleep. No way did I feel more myself by 6 weeks! More like 3 months. Those first weeks were the darkest and hardest days. Shes 13 weeks old now and I'm enjoying being a mum. I think postpartum experience for a lot of women is ALOT harder than this makes out. Also if you've had a traumatic birth you may have ptsd for a while after
wow thank you! I thought its not normal for me to not fully recover mentally at 6 months. Still feeling depressed and anxious all the time.
Love the facial expressions 😂
watching this as a new mom and wishing it was really that easy :D this video is 9% of reality :D :D
Just had my final child! (Number 4)
And my post partum was so hard to handle this time round but my other 3 have been easy and fast!
Oh.
I thought it said "postmortem"
Debbie Appleby oh no
I-
Me too
Omg this is so true every single part of it! I can't believe I went through it 3 times.
Im 36 weeks pregnant with my 3rd, wish me luck 😀
I’m 2 months post partum!! What a journey omg lol
Me too :)
Motherhood truly isn't for everybody. Props to mothers out there for going through this🧡🧡🧡
I've been saying I don't want to have any kinds and these videos help me to definitely not change my mind 😂
One thing you learn after going through a pregnancy is everything last for a moment, so there is no need to be super scared of postpartum, it is for few weeks or months than it will pass too. You just deliver a human being, like a whole person, you cant expect your body to just act like nothing happened, you are a super hero, super heroes get hurt in the process of winning the battle and it is okay.
My great grandmother went through this 9 times. In the f***ing early 1900s. Amazes me that I'm here at all.
Glamour I really enjoy these 2 minute videos about how the female anatomy functions. There are so helpful and fun to watch
Where's period girl? WE NEED PERIOD GIRL!!!!!
PS. This girl chews with her mouth opened wtf 1:58
I like this video. It’s the most positive “what to expect video” I’ve ever seen 😊
This is really good. Great snapshot of what to expect!
I agree with MOST of this video, except the losing weight part, especially for breastfeeding moms. I’m one of those moms that loses 0 weight breastfeeding and I just had my third 9 months ago. A lot of times though most people hear that breastfeeding helps you to lose weight postpartum. But that’s only true for SOME women- not all. That is why I started my own RUclips channel because a lot of things concerning motherhood I found out the hard way. But now, also being a doula, I’d like to help other mommas on their journey as well☺️!
Oh yes! I put on so much weight post partum not because of overeating or anything but not sleeping enough. So much that it caused so many other health complications. This video is great but in reality, life isn’t so simple. Breastfeeding moms with clingy babies and insufficient support don’t get any rest and that hits hard. I’ve been shamed for my weight so much- really hope that happens to fewer women and the world can be kind.
I respect these moms for the amount of struggles there going through, makes me think twice if I want kids
Thanks for reinforcing my childfree status in two minutes.
I know this might be incredibly dumb but I had no idea so many things happened postpartum. I'm glad I learned some new things! Had to stop school due to my health so I'm happy I'm still learning new stuffs
This one is done so well!!!! Love
I was just thinking to myself, I can't wait to become a mother! And then YT recommended this. I'm kinda discouraged now. But..wow! LOVE YOUR MOTHERS KIDS! They're the most amazing. 💕
I love glamour I ran when I saw the alert on my phone❤❤
The last phrase of the video made me feel better. Thanks.
those whp don't have kids and are watching this,trust me it isn't this bad, because there's a precious bundle of joy with you that makes you forget any pain. Also this varies for person to person.. I had a c section and other issues but its only for a season and worth every pain
The “baby blues” is no joke and really makes you appreciate what people go through who deal with mental illness all the time. It’s not just sadness, it’s like your brain is no longer your brain
The worst postpartum thing is being emotional and hormonal
Great video!
Ok but seriously she's pretty and has really good acting!!!!
The in-video links cover up the text.
Thanks this is the most educational thing I’ve ever seen in my life
I’m 15 years old and I felt that if I was planning on becoming a mother( way into the future) I will know what to expect
Postpartum is not that bad which shown in this vdo..With proper care and help u can enjoy this days with with ur newborn...
I had no idea I needed this
as a new student midwife this was amazing
Add to that thé possibility of your boyfriend /husband becoming distant or an altered sense of your relationship (some women go through the trauma of abandonment / losing their partner at that stage ... which could totally induce C-PTSD symptoms) + sleep deprivation + new and overwhealming feeling of responsability and you have the perfect mix for suicide ideation
My mother had six children and two miscarriages. She is an absolute legend. As the oldest child, I’m glad I got to witness her carrying and raising five kids and I will definitely go to her for wisdom when I have children of my own.
Those videos are treasure! Its so great that you did them
There’s much more pain involved if you have gone through a C Section! Should have mentioned that also. 🤔
Amen
I’m sure recovery is different but if you’ve never delivered vaginally, how do you know one is more painful than the other? Vaginal delivery hurts so much bc all your other body parts down there get affected too. 🤨
@@ACC-2929 bruh the literally cut you open take the kid out and sew you back together. Do you think that's not painful at all?
Why did this pop up on my screen as if I wanted a baby in the first place
That is literally the chubbiest, happiest baby I’ve ever seen.
PLEASE MAKE MORE OF THESE!!!
I think this is why I’m closer with my mom. It’s awesome and amazing how much she went through with me.
Meanwhile my dad has never changed a diaper in his life and prides himself about that.
Really sad most pregnancy videos exclude moms who delivery via C section. It’s not like it’s extremely uncommon. I actually requested a c section and I never regretted my decision, I just wish it was more talked about.
Right. I thought c sections were rare but me and 2 friends had them.
I love how educational yet not to Hard to keep up with these
This video is so helpful and CUTE!!
Great job! I will share it with my childbirth education students and doula clients! THANK YOU!
*Adoption is always a option.*
Yow, I cannot believe my mom went thru this 7 times...Love you mom, you a champ 💕
My grandma WENT tought this 11 times
@@mioaca wow
Very nice. Well done
Her expression while eating the green apple was awesome n filled with strength n showcased overcoming the emotional stress.
Yo I'm adopting
Stan Twice You Cowards me too bro
This video is a good form of birth control for me
Just what I need - I'm a first time mom and due in days. I don't know what to expect but I hope it goes great.
Please make more of these videos
Its called depression/anxiety when you dont wanna bond with baby. Im surprised they didnt mention it.
bigfanofbraxtons not always. a lot of moms don’t bond right away
Postpartum doesnt last 4 to 6 weeks, thats more specifically the quarantine, but postpartum can last 3 to 12 months, for real.🥴🥺
Omg, really?
@glamour the choice of colour throughout the video make it very difficult to read the text.
As a 17 year old virgin, this has been very helpful to me.