I watched one clip of that ridiculous hearing .. although Johnny Depp was telling the truth he was dramatizing it, he threw in some acting skills .. SO OBVIOUS.. hey I’m the one who told u guys that it was time to do Kubala and her arms flapping.. did you catch her the other day she’s still doing it she has slowed down a little but she’s back to full blown flapping. I think she’s high
Amber Heard's Baseline is to lie. You guys all missed this. Lying is her modus operandi. Lying is her Baseline. You can't interpret her body language without talking about how uncomfortable Amber is with the truth just in general. A person who has spent every day of her life making things up as she goes along has a very different Baseline than the one you are working from. We are watching a habitual pathological liar who believes she's always the smartest person in the room. She's a relentless liar. If Amber had that Liar Liar Curse from Jim Carey's movie, she'd melt like the Wicked Witch of the West.
@The Behavior Panel My mind went to some strange places when you called JD the pirate king, it couldn't reconcile the idea of captain jack sparrow fighting luffy for the tittle of pirate king in my favorite manga.
He was having a nervous breakdown..... This is a normal reaction to an extreme, traumatic, abnormal attack from his new wife. Normal reaction to abnormal circumstances.
There has to be a way of QUICKLY figuring out who's lying and playing victim vs who's an actual victim. We just don't have the time for these drawn-out, costly, long-winded debates in courtrooms. All well and good if it's big-time Hollywood celebs and we're all being entertained by it, but what about the countless ordinary people in these types of trials?
Sometimes people can gaslight you into believing that you're the crazy one, that you're a bad person, or that you're a "monster". They repeat it so much to you that you start to believe it when in reality they are the "monster" and not you. It makes me so sad 😞
- Arguing with your spouse is not abuse - Pushing someone off of you while they are attacking you, isn’t abuse - Kicking cabinets and pouring yourself a “mega pint” of wine while your spouse illegally records you because you are having a bad day isn’t abuse - Nodding or sleeping on “your couch.. in your house..” is not abuse to anybody JD never touched this woman!
Calling her a wh*re cu*t fastass etc, acting out aggressively (yes even if that's destroying things in the house including slamming cabinets and her closet) scares people and makes them feel threatened even if you do not lay a hand on them, threatening to cut yourself in front of your partner that is begging you to not... those things are emotional and psychological abuse. Im only speaking on whats in evidence. Both of these people need severe help. To pretend that 1 is crazy and 1 is sane, the way the majority are acting, is ridiculous though. Also we don't have surefire evidence of who initiated the first act of abuse. But if some man was acting that way towards you and calling you those names on the regular you'd probably eventually flip out on him in some way or another. The same goes for the other side of the coin. If she initiated and he refused to hit her but took it out in other ways because he couldn't contain what he was feeling either. Just rational unbiased thinking up there. But something I'll leave my personal opinion on; when they first met she was new to Hollywood. He was seasoned and significantly older and was literally calling her "kid" acknowledging not only her young age but her status below him in the industry. To pursue her, buy her and friends and family gifts is grooming behavior. Not to mention they were both married and it has come out several times his issue of jealousy especially with her female partner and friends. If people want to actually think about what forms abuse comes in rather than JUST physical, then he initiated it first. Personal opinion. Again I'm not looking at this in a biased way, just objectively. It probably sounds like I'm team amber or whatever due to me not calling her out as much in this but that's only because we all already know and no one is pretending she's a saint the way they are with him. I want to bring up what people aren't taking into consideration. These are 2 screwed up people that got into a relationship and then further brought the worst out in each other.
@@rosansashida that’s not right! How’s that emotional abuse when you come into a room and find a person who owns that property slams his own stuff around?? You can hear her saying, “ I was sleeping and I heard you walk in.. you were sweet this morning…” and JD replied, “ did anything happen to you this morning..?” And she replied no.. and he explained that had nothing to do with her.. while kicking the cabinet door he said “motherfucker” which we later found out it was about his business manager.. so yea! It’s not emotional abuse- if he got in there and started slamming things, angrily saying stuff to her then I would consider that abuse.. but on this case she came into the room, set up a camera and tried to make a situation about her.. he even left his “mega pint” on wine- he threw the phone in the garbage bin- he didn’t delete it and abuse her… so you are wrong!!!
@@dudettevlogs4257 ¨Throwing and breaking things is a violent act, even if nothing is thrown directly at you. According to Dr. Mouradian, hitting or kicking a wall, furniture, or doors, or throwing objects are clear signs of emotional abuse. ¨Google it. Ask a professional mental health therapist. Its really abusive, violent and dangeorus.
@@rosansashida sometimes we don’t need “Dr.s” of anything to understand.. we also have natural intelligence to see and read into situations… I will leave it at the fact that everything will be considered abuse by you and I don’t consider that abuse
Pr, pls don't twist it. Amber abuse Johnny and had been enduring until he said no and wanted out which Amber was ready for and so started recording and taking pictures etc.
There's evidence to even DISPROVE that claim that was brought in. There wasn't just lack of evidence to prove she did have one. There's photos of the couple together, the night after the alleged broken nose and they're at the Oscars or some other fancy party like that and she has ZERO swelling, redness, puffy, discoloration or bruising nada on her face!
Yelling names at someone is abuse. Yelling at someone is abuse. Insulting someone based on their weight is abuse. Throwing things around a person is abuse. Threatening on their life saying that you wish their corpse was decomposing is abuse. Saying that you are going to sexually assault their corpse is abuse. Stonewalling is abuse.
@@rosansashida and she did all this to him.. his text messages were to his friend..not to her. He can slam his cabinet doors as much as he pleases. He can kick those as much as he likes and call the cabinet names, too. It wasn't directed at her.. she wasn't scared at all.. she could have removed herself and not watch his cabinet abuse.. but she recorded him because it made him look bad..
@@christinemarsland4421 I never said anything about what she did or didn't do. that is independent. It is emotional abuse to throw things and punch things in the way that he did, im not saying thing to argue and be right, just google it and ask a mental health specialist. He shouldnt do it, I shouldnt do it, you shouldnt do it and nobody should do it to you.
@@rosansashida I'm a survivor of DV/IPV.. I do agree that this shouldn't happen.. non of this should happen.. to anyone.. did I yell back? Yes. What I never did was throwing insults, things or punches.. did I react to him pushing me backwards into the garage, yes,I slapped him across the face.. it was a reaction. Am I his abuser? No. I think we agree on the baseline.. Do not abuse people..be respectful 🌻
I tried to say something to this effect and got a reply from them - apparently they only accept comments from people who use their real name and photo to keep out trolls 🙄🤔
IT DOESN'T TAKE A BEHAVIOR ANALYST TO TELL THIS IS THE PERFORMANCE OF HER LIFE. ITS SO CONTRIVED, SO RIDICULOUS, DISJOINTED AND FORCED. IT WOULD BE FUNNY IF IT WERENT A SERIOUS MATTER.
I think this is the most clear, brief synopsis of this whole thing. It makes me sad he couldn’t get out at the first sign of crazy-making from her. I always believe the less powerful but a light does need to be on male abuse too. And fame can put people in the position of never knowing who likes you for you-once you trust it may be doubly hard to let go of the dream. The fact that abuse against women and girls is rampant doesn’t negate the fact that there are plenty of men abused by women. Our thinking on abuse globally needs to be more case-by-case and not as simplistic.
I am an empath who ended up with a covert narcissist for 5 years. The love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation and emotional abuse is very real. I am an intelligent woman and didn’t understand as it was initially happening, once in the thick of it I was trying to do anything to fix it and believed I was the issue. I’m out of it now but this case has been triggering. I do believe AH is using abuse stories from others and, more disgustingly, using the abuse she perpetrated to flip it and say JD did it. Johnny has more traits and mannerisms of a victim and, has honest, quality & loyal friends. Amber seems to struggle to maintain any relationship and friendship and that is also telling. My hope is JD gets his justice here and Amber gets the help she needs. Scary how manipulative and volatile she is: for someone so camera happy and willing to secretly record but have no evidence of the brutal attacks she supposedly endured, or medical records….no. It’s an insult to real victims of abuse
I haven’t seen the movie … but I’ve seen a lot of comments on other channel chats that her testimony was straight out of a scene from the movie The Talented Mr. Ripley…. Verbatim… was used in some comments…
I am so glad to see someone else comment on her projection. I read comments about her believability and I thought it was believable because she did those things.
I guess you think he has maintained his relationships. I guess you think that someone with all his addictions can be a healthy partner. I was in a relationship with a narcissist and he always acted like JD. Narcissists are amazing at looking calm and collected and eliciting empathy while making the victim look crazy.
The quote “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” has been around for a very long time because it has basis in peoples’ experience. The ‘woman’ has her own scorched earth policy.
@Julia Willy you're right. But if at any point in time she can prove he hit her or was abusive, the defamatory issue is moot because he really did it. I think that means Johnny's case will get thrown out and they will only continue Amber's countersuit.
@@karbear04 Only sister said that and she is going to be impeached as The sisters roommate has written a letter and given deposition that Amber hit and controlled Whitney.
There’s a silver lining to all these crazy stuff: This world is skewed to believe wives who accuse husbands of abuse. We husbands are guilty unless proven innocent. Case in point: ME. My ex-wife had me arrested by LAPD by calling 911 and showing up with bruises and torn dress. I was brought to the station for spousal abuse. Fortunately, some police officers stayed at the scene and interrogated witnesses separately. All witnesses stated the same thing - consistently - that my ex burst through our office with her face already bruised and dress already torn. It was the most humiliating part of my life. She was never punished for setting me up for something I never committed. So sad for us guys.
I'm so sorry for you! This is disgusting and she should have suffered penalties for filing a false police report (not from the US but isn't that a thing there?)
I am so sorry she did that to you. I hope that this trial will help others to see that the perpetrator is not always the male. I am a Survivor and I am disgusted at what she did to set you up
Some women, it seems, will do anything to implicate their spouses for abuse. 40% of men are abused according to an article I read. It's possible that it's worse than that in this day and age. It's time for another movie like "Men Don't Tell" - only the next one should be "They Don't Believe Men"
I definitely noticed how she "stared him down" during his entire testimony. If she is the "abuser" that is intimidation. Which is why he never looks at her on the stand. He would most definitely be called out as trying to intimidate her.
This won't come out in court, but based on a lot of background research done by others, Im convinced that AH has been violent for her whole life- arrested for abusing her prior spouse, beat her sister, etc.- and that she continued that pattern with JD (she admits beating him in a audio tape) ; he was a gentle but troubled guy with addiction issues and an abusive mother, so he placated AH as much as possible, even downplaying and failing to call out her direct violence against him. Meanwhile, she corrals her friends and sister to help build the "abuse" case against JD and then she gains fame as a "MeToo" warrior. I think much of his in court reaction to the audio tapes is his distress at his recollection of not calling her out for her violence, but instead trying to be kind and loving to AH
I think she used his existing weakness to drag him in and try to both break him down, and shame him when he didn’t break sufficiently for her. I understand she now has a baby girl-my grandson is just a couple weeks older. I was watching him yesterday and my heart breaks already for that little girl.
I've read that AH also has a juvenile record of DUI/OUI and suspicion of vehicular manslaughter; however, her record is sealed. Her DL was suspended from 16 until she was 21. I've been told that it takes a lot IE vehicular manslaughter, repeated DUI/OUI, driving on a suspended license, to have your DL suspended for that long at that age in TX. AH testified that she went to "quite a few" different Catholic schools. If you're a scholarship student in parochial school, as she claimed, you lose your scholarship if you're a problem child. My parents paid for me to attend until I wanted to attend public school with my friends; so, I knew better than to be a problem child 😁 My point is, AH has had socially unacceptable behaviors for a very long time, been given a free pass and never had to take responsibility, imo. I sincerely hope that Karma has caught up with her and JD will be vindicated. Take care my friend 🙂❤️
As a psych RN 4 38yrs and a survivor of DV , I don't believe her at all. She is a disgrace to true victims. It's obvious to me she's 🤥 lying with very bad acting.
I'm an abuse survivor. But, it drives me nuts when I hear people classify a male (in this case Depp) defending himself as abuse or mutual abuse. If you look at him restraining her in a completely isolated way, then, yes that's abusive. But, if you look at the entire situation - her physically attacking him and preventing him from leaving. Then he only had 2 options - restrain her until she stopped attacking or he could escape or to engage in physically fighting her, in which case he would have to hit her. We would not call a woman an abuser for the same actions. We wouldn't even call her an abuser for hitting him. Men who are in abusive relationships are stuck. They can't hit back because they're likely to do more damage per hit, society says hitting women or a weaker individual is wrong, and if police get involved they're far more likely to be the one jailed. In many cases, the men don't want the woman to go to jail and/or they're too embarrassed to call the police. I lived in an abuse shelter and a male abuse survivor cave to stay the embarrassment he felt at not defending himself because of all these fears was visceral. Add to those fears the fact that Depp is a mega star and calling the police because his spouse is abusing him would break the Internet and it's hard not to see he was stuck and restraining her was the only way he could stop the attack. That's not mutual abuse or abuse. After watching the whole trial and listening to the tapes I think there were very toxic things said from him during arguments and there were some things he could've done differently, like leave her earlier, but none were abusive. Mean words are only mean words, they become abuse only when manipulation or other tactics are added to prevent escaping or ending the relationship.
I said something to this effect too and got a response from the channel - apparently they only take suggestions from people who use their own name and photo to keep out trolls 🤔
Well, I disagree. He actually enjoys it way more to destroy her at the moment. His constant laughs and enjoyments when her team makes some stupid mistakes or somebody is testifying something funny. He also said and I think this was as evidence in court, I believe in a text message, that he seeks to globally destroy her. The UK case was already bringing up a lot, but he lost in 12 of 14 points. That enraged him and now he is suing her directly. And he wanted the cameras because he knew he can put on a show, a the cool dude, he likes to portray himself. I do believe both are not innocent and it was unfortunately mutual abuse. I really wish them both well and have better years ahead with good partners. But I’m sad, because in all the texts and calls you could be witness of how much they actually love each other. It was a great love. With a long and deep downfall.
He also said that Johnny showed signs of lying when recalling the incident of him attacking him and him responding with calm and non-violence, he said that he showed a sign that people who are accused of violence shows when they are in court trying to claim that they acted calm and gentle.
@@jaybeebabee Yes, I am embarassed on behalf of all middle aged female fans of his that miss out on everything in this analyse that doesn't suit their infantile agenda of making him some kind of half-God. He has a long history of violence and arrests, and previous ex girlfriends have recalled him as jealous and paranoid. Amber is not a monster and Johnny is not an innocent lamb at all. He also has done some really crazy things himself, like painting his walls with blood and piss, like texting that he wanted to murder and then rape the corpse of his wife, called the mother of his children a "cunt", and apparently was so drunk and high when taking care of his kids that he passed out in front of them, when he was meant to take care of them.
Chase doesn't take into account his own self-destructive impulses. As much as I usually enjoy Chase's points, here I think you could only say that she is enjoying the self-destruction of this human being.
I was an advocate for victims of DV and SA and a common thread is that neither of them want to talk about the assaults let alone get into the horrific details. It seems Amber gets some perverse thrill when she describes in detail all the ways Johnny supposedly attacked her. It's a show not genuine at all!!
As a survivor myself I can say I could barely lift my head in court. It was scary and painful and humiliating. There is nothing about AH’s testimony that I can relate to-at all.
The "monster" was what Turd called him when he didn't jump through her hoops. All those years with Moss and Paradis and not a peep about any monster. Turd put him on such a guilt trip over the years he fell in with her terminology.
When we were kids, my older sister broke my leg by accident. When I talk about it to her or anyone I never say, “you/she broke my leg….” I say, “when I broke my leg…”. I don’t think he means he actually chopped his own finger off. It’s just the way it comes out in conversation.
I wish I could say the same I say “ I chopped off my toe an severed the rest in half but those ones were saved” an it’s all true I chopped off my dam toe! 🤣🤣 but yeah your right it’s a to the point way of saying what the accident was without goin into it in depth.
@@leighinreallife7386 yeah took a while but I went into shock an was crackin jokes plus I had really bad toothache at the time which was over shadowing that pain 🤣🤣🤣
As a survivor of 20 yrs of dv, I can assure you that Amber is the abuser here. I see many many tell tale signs from Johnny that she put him through pure hell.
She is like the twin sister of the guy that did this to me, narcissistic textbook behaviour , Word for word deed for deed so textbook, set me up in the same way too except instead of assault on him he said I assaulted my own child & got me arrested & eventually jailed , I was the victim I never even smacked my sons I was all about time out !!!
these people don’t realise what they’ve done till it’s to late my abuser even while he begged me for forgiveness after I was charged & I said same word for word what Jonny said , he said if you do this, this will be the end off us & you need to go down & tell them the truth & that I did not hurt anyone & the guy that did this to me looked at me & said I can’t I’ll get in trouble then they might take kids away from me & the both of us will lose them, I said that’s ridiculous go and tell the truth .. once they tell these lies they must live with them for the rest of their life they’ll even end up believing them .. I tried protecting my children by leaving the abusive man but as it’s the most dangerous time (leaving ) and I underestimated what he was capable of I always thought he loved his children & would never hurt them to hurt me but I was so wrong
@@cheanarchist2381 I’m so sorry that happened. I hope your children were old enough to know but in my experience kids do know who they felt safe with, even years later. I HOPE that that’s the case for you and your kids.
MY GOD GUYS! the “monster” is drugs! NOT his fists or physical abuse. being with an addict is hard, and she convinced him HER physical abuse was due to his substance abuse.
She has/had the resources to leave this man immediately. Not marry him, not go out with him, not be around him. She chose to stay because of HIS money. The cycle of domestic violence is so classic here and SHE could have stepped out and away... I told myself it was like a boxing match, at the end of which, I received a pretty pleasant paycheck. And there was not nearly the $$$$ involved that there is here. She wanted to be Mrs. Johnny Depp more than she wanted to be healthy, happy, "clean." She's intelligent: She has a craft: She had her own money: She could provide for herself: She wanted his. She could have left this horrific mess for someone else: She wanted it. Boo hoo Boo hoo. Hurt me once, shame on you: Hurt me twice, three times, umpteen times... Shame on me. I am a domestic violence THRIVER and a woman has options, especially one like "her."
So many of my friends who were addicted to hard drugs referred to the addiction as a monster. He put the monster back in the bottle = he stopped doing drugs.
@@_birdie that's what made me believe him. When you've been a child of domestic violence you can swear you will never do to someone else what has been to you and the result truly is self abuse. Trust me. And you have to know that as your truth to say it. Trust me. 😢😢😢
"She enjoys the destruction of this human being." Wow. That really sums it up. I hope you will do some of her testimony. While I felt like I was going to cry when Johnny spoke about his childhood, I felt zero empathy for her during her assault testimony.
It seems to me these guys are always biased against women. Remember the Petito case? What ‘destruction’ is Heard enjoying? As far as we know nothing has happened to him yet. And Chase forgot to make the same point every time JD laughs when she’s talking.
@@patriciajorgensen4728 The destruction of his reputation and his career. I think the Behavior Panel has watched the deposition as well as all of the audio tapes before this trial so they have a clear picture. If you haven’t heard all of the audio tapes, (most of which she recorded) you definitely should.
@@lindatakesitback8945 her recording their conversations is a huge red flag to me. However, I don’t trust these guys. They lost my respect with the Petito case. I could not believe they did not recognize her attitude as that of an abused woman and his as that of an abuser. Anyone having met or been in a situation like that could tell.
You all have nailed Amber. As a woman and a victim of domestic abuse, every moral fiber of my body is appalled at Heard's obvious lies, and narcissistic sadistic behavior. Depp's legal team is going to take her apart, and it will be easy. I'd feel bad for such a disturbed woman as Heard is, but the sadistic side of her makes my skin crawl.
Her entire marriage was a collection of evidence to use in the divorce. If he did half the crap she's claiming, she'd have evidence. The fact that she doesn't says a whole heck of a lot.
Absolutely! Her claim of "we often recorded each other to hold each other accountable" was even a lie. Why didn't she hide a camera or cameras and catch this frequent abuse? He was away enough. She easily could have! Where are all of the witnesses who saw so much? You can tell by today's testimony and acting alone she plays the victim. She would provoke arguments and I'm sure she would be the nastiest person behind closed doors and is just an evil liar. Her portrayal of her never doing anything wrong is nauseating. We're watching her act on a witness stand as her lawyers coach her. Disgusting.
When I worked as an advocate for victims of domestic violence during the preliminary hearing for the perpetrator, I would interview the victim. The judge had come up with a check list of questions that would aid him in to figure out just how volatile the perp is associated to by the fear factor of the victim. Also using my first hand experience as a survivor of DV, I had a unique 6th sense when speaking to the victims. Not all the time the true perp was arrested. With this in mind, After I watched the first part of this series, I watch a bit of her testimony of her turn in the hot seat. Within a few minutes of dialogue, I knew who the real perp was. It’s not Depp.
Agree completely. Plus when he was presenting his side the other week she watched him intently & clinically. That doesn't mesh with her sudden "fearfulness" when they were near each other while trying to leave after she took the stand. If you are that afraid of a person you have a hard time looking at them period. She is going to do & say whatever she thinks will help herself. Johnny by simply initiating this lawsuit had already accepted that negative things would come out about himself. And he was willing to go through that humiliation. You don't do that unless you truly believe there will be a greater good to come out of it.
Yep, I agree and thinking the same thing. She lacks completely, empathy! Did she EVER ask if he was okay, or “I am so sorry!” For decapitating his finger!! Wicked and evil girl. I am a survivor of severe domestic violence, my mom and an ex. I can understand his reaction to the damage to his finger. I am a musician as well. It’s devastating to damage a hand when you use your hands to play your preferred instrument! As a musician, playing ones instrument It’s deeply felt emotionally, because music is extremely personal in expression of ones soul. To lose a finger tip as a musician is likened to losing a foot to a runner, or losing your eyes as a painter! One loses the ability to express their emotions, creativity, or entertain others which is a joyful experience as well! I would liken it to if Amber had deep lacerations all over her lovely little face.. her ability to hoodwink, manipulate or seduce others would be way less affective with her instrument of choice, taken away from her in an act of violence from someone who “supposedly LOVES YOU “?! It is DEVASTATING! She is just downright LUCKY Johnny’s such a good guy and NEVER touched her in a violent act. The decapitation of his finger, if happened to AN ACTUAL ABUSER, would NO DOUBT set him off to beating the HELL out of Amber in actual reality!!! But Johnny just reacted to the absurdity of moment and extremely violent actions of Amber towards him. A lot of victims of abuse actually DO hurt themselves physically in an altercation. In self loathing and hatred for their situation of being hurt again and again by their domestic violent perpetrator! It is a mental state of absolute loathing of ones predicament of feeling trapped like an animal and your self worth crushed before one that you thought loved you. It’s rejection of who you are in an outright act of violence to your physical person yes, but the perpetrator wants to destroy your soul as well. It’s a despairing and desperate feeling of hopelessness and loss of being wanted or loved or cared for. The abuse is the complete opposite of being loved. I just want to hug him and tell him it’s not ok what she did and he is very fortunate that she didn’t do him greater harm down the road. She is “the monster” and when she speaks of “the monster” it is her referring to herself and reflecting it upon Johnny, extremely common action of a perpetrator, narcissist, SOCIOPATHS! Notice how she is trying to gaslight Johnny ALL THE TIME! I doubt that Amber knows the first thing about Love or COMPASSION! That poor baby girl Amber acquired From a surrogate! The Mommy Dearest sequel is in production right now, sadly.. I have no doubt.
This woman is a selfish and manipulative nightmare. I can't stand her voice and they way she's trying to come off as a victim. She has a history of DV even getting arrested in 2009. I have never heard of anyone saying Johnny Depp slapped, punched or raped a woman. Amber shame on you for trying to destroy this man after you abused him.
I have watched her testimony. She is too the point she can't talk, but no tears. She can't talk because she so emotional, yet she responds clearly within a couple of seconds. She is trying to put on an act and sucks at it.
"She enjoys the destruction of this human being" - Amber Heard's entire existence summed up quite nicely. And, no, it's not "normal behavior"...it was a mental break, which he is likely humiliated by. The messages weren't to himself, they were to Amber. She, then, took multiple photos before and after adding her own words in lipstick.
Amber obviously thinks her gaslighting and recordings are helping her while she’s clearly manipulating him and trying to goad him. She’s really disturbing, not only in her need to control every scenario, but also him. True malignant behaviour from a master manipulator
I do wonder if she actually believes these stories. She's a terrible actress, but I also think she does have significant mental health issues and I think it's entirely possible she believes at least some of this.
The recording of conversations trying to get evidence against him reminds me of Jodi Arias recording sexually explicit phone calls between her and Travis Alexander. Calls in which she clearly participated equally and showed zero hesitation or reservation about doing so. THEN tried to use those calls to claim abuse. It wouldn't surprise me in the least that she also was the instigator of those types of conversations simply so she'd have a weapon against him to use with his LDS friends. I see this exact behavior in AH and wonder what it would have taken for AH to do the same to JD in 'self defense'.
Amber is gloating with glee seeing Johnny hurt yet again. She loves to kick him when he's down. I agree with you Chase, the smile is nothing short of horrifying. The soul satisfying contempt of sadistic superiority.
I am a child abuse survivor, and my mother was a domestic violence victim. I also worked with domestic violence victims and mental health and addictions. And one of my job duties was advocating for domestic violence victims by accompanying them in court for their testimonies or I would speak on their behalf as a victim representative if they are unable to nor want to speak out in court. I also spearhead several domestic violence victim advocacy groups. And I can tell you from both my personal and professional experience and education and speaking for the many, many domestic violence victims I work with; there is 100% no doubt that Amber is absolutely not the victim here. It is Johnny who is the victim. As for all of you on this panel, you need to educate yourself on a term called, "reactive abuse", which is why Johnny tried to restrain his wife when she was trying to harm him or why he says nasty things to her in RESPONSE to her verbal and physical attacks. Reactive abuse is not the same as being an abuser. In reactive abuse, the victim does not instigate the physical violence and physical aggression. They "react" to the abuser's physical attacks on them.
They try to play her as being reactive... I see or hear no evidence of that just by their demeanor in the things recorded. He sounds angry, pleading yes, but hurt. Her tone sounds angry, controlling.
I have NEVER heard a victim of abuse sound so aggressive towards her "abuser" .... if she was SO AFRAID ....why would she speak to him in a way that might provoke him to violence?????
I agree with all the replies. But to the comment, as a woman who was abused by my husband, during a time it was not talked about or actually a law. After you get away get your self respect back & learn it was not your fault other than not running away sooner with great speed. You learn to when to avoid, walk away & when to fight for yourself! Do not get me wrong I see her being a narcissist & the one who started the fights even though she may not been aware of being a narcissist!!!
I think we can agree that these two human beings have acted outrageously to one another. As a Clinical Psychologist of over 40 years experience, they one thing that I know for sure is that Amber Heard is a LOUSY actress.
I was reeling watching her, and am abuse survivor (including sexual trauma). She was *very* convincing to me at times, but at other times I felt like I was getting whiplash. Her mood shifts and deportment/composure felt bizarre, even though I wanted to try to lend benefit of doubt (even after watching up until now utterly 100% convinced that Mr. Depp is the victimized in this case, and behaved very badly at times but was not the provoker or attacker).
I agree. I also think he is a clear narcissist very convinced of his power, his charisma and used to having his way. He also said some things that looked very coached.
It honestly astonishes me - a woman - that men aren't allowed to reasonably defend themselves from a physically violent woman without risking arrest. I consider bear-hugging someone who won't stop hitting or kicking you to be a completely reasonable defense. Then again, I will admit to being biased, as my husband's ex was abusive and even after stabbing him in the hand on two separate occasions, the police declared he must have done something to provoke her because he'd grabbed her wrist to stop her from stabbing him anywhere else. I just can't comprehend thinking that stopping an assault with reasonable force (we're not talking backhanding or choking her) = automatic physical abuse if it's a man who's stopping an assault against a female aggressor.
Man or woman, come at me with a knife. If I can't get away, because I have zero inclination for a knife fight, I'll do my best to knock the attacker out or disarm them. And I'll do it in the quickest most appropriately violent way. Tips for those with little imagination for these things. Go for the eyes. Go for the balls. Go for any soft spot with any available improvised weapon. 😘✌
My theory- after hearing so much of their private recordings- is that she was always confrontational and aggressive with him, and he would self-medicate to “escape”, not be aware of himself as much (or potentially be blacked or grayed out), and she’d accuse him of violence knowing that he wouldn’t remember absolutely everything. That being said, I don’t believe that he was ever violent with her. She’s psychotic.
Here’s why I don’t believe Amber: She’s trying so hard (but not doing a good job) to look sad and scared, but there’s no shame. Victims of abuse will show some kind of shame when speaking about their abuse, even when they understand that it wasn’t their fault and they don’t have anything to be ashamed of. It gets easier to talk about with therapy and time, but it’s almost like emotionally stripping down naked because you’re exposing something so personal. Like I said, it gets easier over time, but there’s always a compulsion for shame that you make a conscious effort to fight through. To go along with the emotional nudity metaphor, Heard’s claims feel like emotional revenge porn.
And Johnny had this little laugh/smile everytime he was talking about the abuse.. like it's his go to, to hide how he feels.. like some sort of distancing himself from the actual pain.. 🤔 he can't look at her.. while she stared him down.. 🥺 he to me, was very real.. still hiding the pain, laughing at himself because he's embarrassed and ashamed.. 😔
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I CANT WAIT for the Amber analysis. I’m not an expert/professional body language/behavior analyst extraordinaire. But as a mom, I can spot a liar…especially when it’s so blatant and cringeworthy. Ambers “performance” was pathetic.
Amber’s career is dissolving like an Alka Seltzer tablet in water. Perhaps all Johnny wanted out of this is to expose her and her lies. I can’t imagine anyone hiring her for movies after this.
There are enough feminists in Hollywood she might still get her normal crappy movie offers. I highly doubt she will get any larger roles unless she comes up with some really good evidence...
IMO they (this panel) are taking “restrain” way too literally - by restrain JD means hold her arms to stop the barrage of hits slaps throwing things etc and I don’t think they watch the entire trial either because JD explains exactly how and why he has to do it and can’t even leave much of the time. Another thing - he never did so with force otherwise there would be bruises on arms etc -completely agree with you
My hope, for Johnny, is that he takes this horrible experience and uses it to face his childhood trauma caused by his abusive mother, give up the self-medicating, and do the work to heal.
The self soother while the Jerry Judge text was read, to me is bc he is reminded of Jerry's passing and then his words are read out as if he was there from beyond the grave. He's taken back to a point in time where Jerry was alive and all was 'well'. When he was protective of Depp and at the same time happy for him as a father would be of his son finally finding happiness. Depp clearly misses Jerry and probably felt his absence tremendously in these last few years since he's past.
She is actually not as animated today as she was yesterday. She has toned it down, I am sure on the advice of her council and the PR firm. The facial expression are not as severe as they were. She still is not believable. 90% of her testimony I call Bullsh*t
My husband is a professional musician guitarist. He accidentally almost severed three fingers (index, middle and ring) of his left hand. Nerve damage, tendons and to the bone in He's right-handed, so I told him that at least it wasn't his dominant hand. He explained that his left hand is the most important when playing the guitar, because it's the fret hand. His right hand mostly strums or picks the cords. The fret controls everything from tone, key, etc. No serious, passionate guitarist would deliberately cut his fingers. Especially the fret hand. He'd more likely cut out his heart.
I'd trust someone who is self aware of his flaws (i.e. a 'monster') far than someone who constantly acts - is acting - playing a role, a part, being dramatic for the sake of drama
Why does he let all her friends and family living on his dime? Abusers usually keeps all support of their victims away. She was surrounded by her sister and friends
Would such a “horribly “ abused woman take so much gleeful pleasure in his pain?…shouldn’t she be sad?scared? Disassociating in ptsd fear? Certainly not smirking and smiling like a petulant child! 🤷♀️
Omg, so if she was beating him and he tries to restrain her, hes guilty of abuse? BS. Even men have a right to self defense. The automatic assumption of fault is outrageous.
We don't know what happened, this is only his version. Secondly, the panel did say that they saw signs of him being deceptive when he recalled that event. Are you not paying attention? They said he showed signs that people accused of abuse does when they are -falsely- recalling the event, portraying themselves as calm and gentle at the time.
As an mentally abused wife I can say touching your throat when listening to part of the abuse it’s the shame and hurt that is choking him to listen to the tape, you guys are great ❤️
About the "I chopped my finger off" - what is he going to say to her, "you chopped my finger off?" He's not going to say that because that will provoke more abuse from her. That's what happens with abuse - you end up taking responsibility for things you didn't do, because putting the responsibility where it really belongs with the abuser, just makes them abuse you more.
Also, when people are abused and gaslighted, they start echoing the manipulative language of the abuser. When I heard him say that I knew from personal experience that that was exactly what was happening. He is just echoing her words. It doesn't mean he totally believes it, but he's being gradually gaslighted to believe he did it to himself, that it's his fault. And now the lawyer is continuing her gaslighting.
I agree, clearly from the recording he’s not trying to start an argument, and if she already apologized many times and made him accept the fact that it was an accident and she didn’t aim for his hand, if he accepted her version that it was a freak accident and doesn’t blame her anymore, then he would definitely say « the day I chopped my finger off ». When I was a kid my father used to beat my mother bad, even broke her leg, I was there, I remember him acting all concerned on the way to the hospital so that she would lie and say she fell on her own, the doctor told her it doesn’t look like it (just like Johnny’s doctor btw) but she kept telling this lie to everybody many times, now even when she talks to me who was there and know exactly what happened she says « when I broke my leg » not « when he broke my leg » not « when my leg got broken »
As Johnny has admitted to drug and alcohol abuse, the monster refers to himself when using most likely. The monster, the beast and the gorilla are commonly used terms in AA for those of us taking it one day at a time.
For Greg: the "restraint" testimony from Depp is consistent- its his reaction when AH attacks him, beats on him, punches him, spits in his face, kicks him, and throws things at him. According to his testimony throughout, his reaction was to leave if he could or if not, to hold her arms and try to get her to stop hitting him by restraining her.
I just replied to the comment before yours that I am like a child waiting on Christmas morning for their video on her testimony. It is going to be epic. It will literally be a course in body language! Ugh, that woman.
Her opening statement was a direct quote from "The talented Mr Ripley". Her "crying" had no flushing, no tears, no chin boss, no grief muscle. No amount of botox can excuse this terrible performance. No stars
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I am very late for this, but I just thought this video is interesting . Two things: he is wearing a tie. He has a dark blue shirt and a black tie. Look closer. Also, when he smirks during Jerry Judge’s text, he is just remembering his friend that is just deceased. That’s what you do when you are remembering someone that is no longer with you, and you have a fond memory of your relationship with them, and they come to mind, you smirk remembering them or the time you spent with them.
@@didomilan1725yes that’s a good point. He was very close to the bodyguard that passed away. Funny enough the only person that Amber says pointed out her bloody nose was jerry judge. In Camille’s words. “How convenient” 😂
The way Amber attacked JD, especially when he tried to get away from her, is a great reason to try to restrain her. Being a female doesn't mean she can attack and he can't try to stop her by whatever means he can.
“I don’t know why he’s self soothing” probably because he’s having a conversation between him and his dead best friend being read to him in front of millions of people.
Her testimony is from Talented Mr Ripley: Marge Sherwood: The thing with Dickie… it’s like the sun shines on you, and it’s glorious. And then he forgets you and it’s very, very cold. Tom Ripley: So I’m learning. Marge Sherwood: When you have his attention, you feel like you’re the only person in the world, that’s why everybody loves him so much. This is what she said about Johnny. A total fake!!
Just because a professional writer could put feelings into words better than a non-writer could, doesn’t mean AH’s feelings weren’t valid. People have been using poetry written by professional poets to express their feelings for ages. Same with music. JD himself uses turns of phrases from literature. It just means they identify with what has been written, nothing else.
Would a woman be called a mutual abuser if she defends herself when her partner violently attacks her? No she isn't. The hypocrisy in this case is sickening. We're constantly being told to believe AH, yet I don't hear the mainstream media saying we should believe jd. Jd who actually has lots of evidence to back up his allegations unlike heard. When are men going to get equality when It comes to dv? AH is the abuser I have absolutely no doubt. Mutual abuse? Rubbish!
I totally agree with you. If the roles were reversed and she defended herself, she would be getting pats on the back. Yet since it is JD then it's mutual ab@se. Makes no sense to me.
1:03:05 Depp: I'm not so sure. In fact earlier, you had quoted Jerry Judge from the airplane tape as calling me an asshole -- "wait 'til the asshole falls asleep" and I'm positive that those words never left his mouth. Heard's lawyer: Maybe they left his mouth when you were passed out Sir, respectfully. Me: Why would anyone say to wait for someone to fall asleep if they're already asleep?
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I watched one clip of that ridiculous hearing ..
although Johnny Depp was telling the truth he was dramatizing it, he threw in some acting skills .. SO OBVIOUS.. hey I’m the one who told u guys that it was time to do Kubala and her arms flapping.. did you catch her the other day she’s still doing it she has slowed down a little but she’s back to full blown flapping. I think she’s high
Amber Heard's Baseline is to lie. You guys all missed this.
Lying is her modus operandi.
Lying is her Baseline.
You can't interpret her body language without talking about how uncomfortable Amber is with the truth just in general.
A person who has spent every day of her life making things up as she goes along has a very different Baseline than the one you are working from.
We are watching a habitual pathological liar who believes she's always the smartest person in the room. She's a relentless liar. If Amber had that Liar Liar Curse from Jim Carey's movie, she'd melt like the Wicked Witch of the West.
@The Behavior Panel My mind went to some strange places when you called JD the pirate king, it couldn't reconcile the idea of captain jack sparrow fighting luffy for the tittle of pirate king in my favorite manga.
He's also blind in one eye.
I think AH had him gaslit so much he believed he was a monster at this point.
He was having a nervous breakdown..... This is a normal reaction to an extreme, traumatic, abnormal attack from his new wife. Normal reaction to abnormal circumstances.
Restraining a woman who is attacking you is not abuse.
@Lara Cross sorry you have to deal with that. I hope your sister gets some help before it's too late for her or someone else.
There has to be a way of QUICKLY figuring out who's lying and playing victim vs who's an actual victim. We just don't have the time for these drawn-out, costly, long-winded debates in courtrooms. All well and good if it's big-time Hollywood celebs and we're all being entertained by it, but what about the countless ordinary people in these types of trials?
Exactly. You are trying to stop being attacked, making sure she doesn't hurt herself, and trying to descalate
This ☝🏼
It’s assault
Sometimes people can gaslight you into believing that you're the crazy one, that you're a bad person, or that you're a "monster". They repeat it so much to you that you start to believe it when in reality they are the "monster" and not you. It makes me so sad 😞
FYI this is called DARVO.
I don’t think restraining your attacker male or female is abuse. Women need to be more accountable for their actions
- Arguing with your spouse is not abuse
- Pushing someone off of you while they are attacking you, isn’t abuse
- Kicking cabinets and pouring yourself a “mega pint” of wine while your spouse illegally records you because you are having a bad day isn’t abuse
- Nodding or sleeping on “your couch.. in your house..” is not abuse to anybody
JD never touched this woman!
Calling her a wh*re cu*t fastass etc, acting out aggressively (yes even if that's destroying things in the house including slamming cabinets and her closet) scares people and makes them feel threatened even if you do not lay a hand on them, threatening to cut yourself in front of your partner that is begging you to not... those things are emotional and psychological abuse. Im only speaking on whats in evidence. Both of these people need severe help. To pretend that 1 is crazy and 1 is sane, the way the majority are acting, is ridiculous though.
Also we don't have surefire evidence of who initiated the first act of abuse. But if some man was acting that way towards you and calling you those names on the regular you'd probably eventually flip out on him in some way or another. The same goes for the other side of the coin. If she initiated and he refused to hit her but took it out in other ways because he couldn't contain what he was feeling either.
Just rational unbiased thinking up there. But something I'll leave my personal opinion on; when they first met she was new to Hollywood. He was seasoned and significantly older and was literally calling her "kid" acknowledging not only her young age but her status below him in the industry. To pursue her, buy her and friends and family gifts is grooming behavior. Not to mention they were both married and it has come out several times his issue of jealousy especially with her female partner and friends. If people want to actually think about what forms abuse comes in rather than JUST physical, then he initiated it first. Personal opinion.
Again I'm not looking at this in a biased way, just objectively. It probably sounds like I'm team amber or whatever due to me not calling her out as much in this but that's only because we all already know and no one is pretending she's a saint the way they are with him. I want to bring up what people aren't taking into consideration. These are 2 screwed up people that got into a relationship and then further brought the worst out in each other.
Actually yes, kicking cabinets and yelling and insulting somebody is emotional abuse. Ask a mental health professional.
@@rosansashida that’s not right! How’s that emotional abuse when you come into a room and find a person who owns that property slams his own stuff around?? You can hear her saying, “ I was sleeping and I heard you walk in.. you were sweet this morning…” and JD replied, “ did anything happen to you this morning..?” And she replied no.. and he explained that had nothing to do with her.. while kicking the cabinet door he said “motherfucker” which we later found out it was about his business manager.. so yea! It’s not emotional abuse- if he got in there and started slamming things, angrily saying stuff to her then I would consider that abuse.. but on this case she came into the room, set up a camera and tried to make a situation about her.. he even left his “mega pint” on wine- he threw the phone in the garbage bin- he didn’t delete it and abuse her… so you are wrong!!!
@@dudettevlogs4257 ¨Throwing and breaking things is a violent act, even if nothing is thrown directly at you. According to Dr. Mouradian, hitting or kicking a wall, furniture, or doors, or throwing objects are clear signs of emotional abuse. ¨Google it. Ask a professional mental health therapist. Its really abusive, violent and dangeorus.
@@rosansashida sometimes we don’t need “Dr.s” of anything to understand.. we also have natural intelligence to see and read into situations… I will leave it at the fact that everything will be considered abuse by you and I don’t consider that abuse
I think the difference is: she ENJOYS the toxic relationship while he is TORTURED by it.
Pr, pls don't twist it. Amber abuse Johnny and had been enduring until he said no and wanted out which Amber was ready for and so started recording and taking pictures etc.
Does anyone feel uncomfortable watching Ambers testimony?
I had to stop. Waiting for the cross. I can't handle her no tears crying.
@@MichelleKavarnos me too (pun not intended)
She is very triggering. The recordings of their fights were just as bad for me to listen to. Poor Johnny.
I hate to listen to her contrived voice. It gives me cringe!
@@MichelleKavarnos same.
She claims he broke her nose at some point but there is no records to support her claim. No doctors or hospital records.
There's evidence to even DISPROVE that claim that was brought in. There wasn't just lack of evidence to prove she did have one. There's photos of the couple together, the night after the alleged broken nose and they're at the Oscars or some other fancy party like that and she has ZERO swelling, redness, puffy, discoloration or bruising nada on her face!
There was no “mutual abuse” she attacked him and tried to restrain her from continuing the onslaught. That’s not mutual abuse!
Yelling names at someone is abuse. Yelling at someone is abuse. Insulting someone based on their weight is abuse. Throwing things around a person is abuse. Threatening on their life saying that you wish their corpse was decomposing is abuse. Saying that you are going to sexually assault their corpse is abuse. Stonewalling is abuse.
@@rosansashida and she did all this to him.. his text messages were to his friend..not to her. He can slam his cabinet doors as much as he pleases. He can kick those as much as he likes and call the cabinet names, too. It wasn't directed at her.. she wasn't scared at all.. she could have removed herself and not watch his cabinet abuse.. but she recorded him because it made him look bad..
@@christinemarsland4421 I never said anything about what she did or didn't do. that is independent. It is emotional abuse to throw things and punch things in the way that he did, im not saying thing to argue and be right, just google it and ask a mental health specialist. He shouldnt do it, I shouldnt do it, you shouldnt do it and nobody should do it to you.
@@rosansashida I'm a survivor of DV/IPV.. I do agree that this shouldn't happen.. non of this should happen.. to anyone.. did I yell back? Yes. What I never did was throwing insults, things or punches.. did I react to him pushing me backwards into the garage, yes,I slapped him across the face.. it was a reaction. Am I his abuser? No. I think we agree on the baseline.. Do not abuse people..be respectful 🌻
I tried to say something to this effect and got a reply from them - apparently they only accept comments from people who use their real name and photo to keep out trolls 🙄🤔
IT DOESN'T TAKE A BEHAVIOR ANALYST TO TELL THIS IS THE PERFORMANCE OF HER LIFE. ITS SO CONTRIVED, SO RIDICULOUS, DISJOINTED AND FORCED. IT WOULD BE FUNNY IF IT WERENT A SERIOUS MATTER.
So true!
Is yelling necessary?
It sure does prove Johnny Depp’s point though doesn’t it?
EXACTLY !!
I just hope the jury are intelligent enough to realise this
“She smiles, she enjoys the destruction of this human being”. She’s vile.
Truth!!
I think this is the most clear, brief synopsis of this whole thing. It makes me sad he couldn’t get out at the first sign of crazy-making from her.
I always believe the less powerful but a light does need to be on male abuse too. And fame can put people in the position of never knowing who likes you for you-once you trust it may be doubly hard to let go of the dream.
The fact that abuse against women and girls is rampant doesn’t negate the fact that there are plenty of men abused by women. Our thinking on abuse globally needs to be more case-by-case and not as simplistic.
I am an empath who ended up with a covert narcissist for 5 years. The love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation and emotional abuse is very real. I am an intelligent woman and didn’t understand as it was initially happening, once in the thick of it I was trying to do anything to fix it and believed I was the issue. I’m out of it now but this case has been triggering. I do believe AH is using abuse stories from others and, more disgustingly, using the abuse she perpetrated to flip it and say JD did it. Johnny has more traits and mannerisms of a victim and, has honest, quality & loyal friends. Amber seems to struggle to maintain any relationship and friendship and that is also telling. My hope is JD gets his justice here and Amber gets the help she needs.
Scary how manipulative and volatile she is: for someone so camera happy and willing to secretly record but have no evidence of the brutal attacks she supposedly endured, or medical records….no. It’s an insult to real victims of abuse
I haven’t seen the movie … but I’ve seen a lot of comments on other channel chats that her testimony was straight out of a scene from the movie The Talented Mr. Ripley…. Verbatim… was used in some comments…
I am so glad to see someone else comment on her projection. I read comments about her believability and I thought it was believable because she did those things.
Spot on
I guess you think he has maintained his relationships. I guess you think that someone with all his addictions can be a healthy partner. I was in a relationship with a narcissist and he always acted like JD. Narcissists are amazing at looking calm and collected and eliciting empathy while making the victim look crazy.
Don’t forget. This trial is about Amber writing lies that destroyed his career. She did it on purpose to pay him back for leaving her.
The quote “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” has been around for a very long time because it has basis in peoples’ experience. The ‘woman’ has her own scorched earth policy.
@Julia Willy you're right. But if at any point in time she can prove he hit her or was abusive, the defamatory issue is moot because he really did it. I think that means Johnny's case will get thrown out and they will only continue Amber's countersuit.
@@karbear04 Only sister said that and she is going to be impeached as The sisters roommate has written a letter and given deposition that Amber hit and controlled Whitney.
Heard is a slap in the face to all the women who have been actually abused
The monster he's referring to is his addiction. It's really that simple.
Right, but he blames ‘the monster’ for the times he got abusive. Great way to not take responsibility.
If there's any justice, Heard will never be in another movie for the rest of her life.
@@ormorphe or becomes a chambermaid, she poos in beds!!
If you restrain a women hitting you it’s completely ok. This idea that you just take the beating is ludicrous.
100% agree - and he was restraining her so he could leave the room!
Or self defense? He didn't hit her, he just restrained her to get away and to quit being beaten on
Restraining someone who’s beating the crap out of you is not abuse. Period.
Exactly!
There’s a silver lining to all these crazy stuff: This world is skewed to believe wives who accuse husbands of abuse. We husbands are guilty unless proven innocent. Case in point: ME. My ex-wife had me arrested by LAPD by calling 911 and showing up with bruises and torn dress. I was brought to the station for spousal abuse. Fortunately, some police officers stayed at the scene and interrogated witnesses separately. All witnesses stated the same thing - consistently - that my ex burst through our office with her face already bruised and dress already torn. It was the most humiliating part of my life. She was never punished for setting me up for something I never committed. So sad for us guys.
That sucks… she got you arrested and that’s on your record and you did absolutely nothing wrong
I'm so sorry for you! This is disgusting and she should have suffered penalties for filing a false police report (not from the US but isn't that a thing there?)
I am so sorry she did that to you. I hope that this trial will help others to see that the perpetrator is not always the male. I am a Survivor and I am disgusted at what she did to set you up
@@NrsLisa I understood he was brought to the station but not arrested.
Some women, it seems, will do anything to implicate their spouses for abuse. 40% of men are abused according to an article I read. It's possible that it's worse than that in this day and age. It's time for another movie like "Men Don't Tell" - only the next one should be "They Don't Believe Men"
I definitely noticed how she "stared him down" during his entire testimony. If she is the "abuser" that is intimidation. Which is why he never looks at her on the stand. He would most definitely be called out as trying to intimidate her.
True, Amy
Yes, you're right I've seen that look before myself.
That smug look on her face is sickening actually.
This won't come out in court, but based on a lot of background research done by others, Im convinced that AH has been violent for her whole life- arrested for abusing her prior spouse, beat her sister, etc.- and that she continued that pattern with JD (she admits beating him in a audio tape) ; he was a gentle but troubled guy with addiction issues and an abusive mother, so he placated AH as much as possible, even downplaying and failing to call out her direct violence against him. Meanwhile, she corrals her friends and sister to help build the "abuse" case against JD and then she gains fame as a "MeToo" warrior. I think much of his in court reaction to the audio tapes is his distress at his recollection of not calling her out for her violence, but instead trying to be kind and loving to AH
Totally agree wholeheartedly with you.
I think she used his existing weakness to drag him in and try to both break him down, and shame him when he didn’t break sufficiently for her.
I understand she now has a baby girl-my grandson is just a couple weeks older. I was watching him yesterday and my heart breaks already for that little girl.
I've read that AH also has a juvenile record of DUI/OUI and suspicion of vehicular manslaughter; however, her record is sealed. Her DL was suspended from 16 until she was 21. I've been told that it takes a lot IE vehicular manslaughter, repeated DUI/OUI, driving on a suspended license, to have your DL suspended for that long at that age in TX.
AH testified that she went to "quite a few" different Catholic schools. If you're a scholarship student in parochial school, as she claimed, you lose your scholarship if you're a problem child. My parents paid for me to attend until I wanted to attend public school with my friends; so, I knew better than to be a problem child 😁
My point is, AH has had socially unacceptable behaviors for a very long time, been given a free pass and never had to take responsibility, imo. I sincerely hope that Karma has caught up with her and JD will be vindicated.
Take care my friend 🙂❤️
As a psych RN 4 38yrs and a survivor of DV , I don't believe her at all. She is a disgrace to true victims. It's obvious to me she's 🤥 lying with very bad acting.
She is a fraud
I'm an LPN for 30years last 14 in plasma donation. I've had someone with an obvious track mark lie better than her with unbelievable stories.
I’m surprised you don’t see his entitlement.
If anyone could see through liars… is a psych nurse 🤗
@@chrismcree9366 😂🤣😂 That’s hilarious
I'm an abuse survivor. But, it drives me nuts when I hear people classify a male (in this case Depp) defending himself as abuse or mutual abuse. If you look at him restraining her in a completely isolated way, then, yes that's abusive. But, if you look at the entire situation - her physically attacking him and preventing him from leaving. Then he only had 2 options - restrain her until she stopped attacking or he could escape or to engage in physically fighting her, in which case he would have to hit her. We would not call a woman an abuser for the same actions. We wouldn't even call her an abuser for hitting him. Men who are in abusive relationships are stuck. They can't hit back because they're likely to do more damage per hit, society says hitting women or a weaker individual is wrong, and if police get involved they're far more likely to be the one jailed. In many cases, the men don't want the woman to go to jail and/or they're too embarrassed to call the police. I lived in an abuse shelter and a male abuse survivor cave to stay the embarrassment he felt at not defending himself because of all these fears was visceral. Add to those fears the fact that Depp is a mega star and calling the police because his spouse is abusing him would break the Internet and it's hard not to see he was stuck and restraining her was the only way he could stop the attack. That's not mutual abuse or abuse. After watching the whole trial and listening to the tapes I think there were very toxic things said from him during arguments and there were some things he could've done differently, like leave her earlier, but none were abusive. Mean words are only mean words, they become abuse only when manipulation or other tactics are added to prevent escaping or ending the relationship.
I said something to this effect too and got a response from the channel - apparently they only take suggestions from people who use their own name and photo to keep out trolls 🤔
In my opinion, there is only one monster in this relationship and it is NOT Johnny Depp.
Can't resist but to mention, Amber clearly provokes/sparks the flame, then she starts recording...she does this with bad intentions..
Chase said it best. “…she enjoys the destruction of this human being…”. I couldn’t possibly agree more.
he's visible disgusted with this human :/ you are both right. It's insane… that such people exist.
Well, I disagree. He actually enjoys it way more to destroy her at the moment. His constant laughs and enjoyments when her team makes some stupid mistakes or somebody is testifying something funny. He also said and I think this was as evidence in court, I believe in a text message, that he seeks to globally destroy her. The UK case was already bringing up a lot, but he lost in 12 of 14 points. That enraged him and now he is suing her directly. And he wanted the cameras because he knew he can put on a show, a the cool dude, he likes to portray himself. I do believe both are not innocent and it was unfortunately mutual abuse. I really wish them both well and have better years ahead with good partners. But I’m sad, because in all the texts and calls you could be witness of how much they actually love each other. It was a great love. With a long and deep downfall.
He also said that Johnny showed signs of lying when recalling the incident of him attacking him and him responding with calm and non-violence, he said that he showed a sign that people who are accused of violence shows when they are in court trying to claim that they acted calm and gentle.
@@jaybeebabee Yes, I am embarassed on behalf of all middle aged female fans of his that miss out on everything in this analyse that doesn't suit their infantile agenda of making him some kind of half-God. He has a long history of violence and arrests, and previous ex girlfriends have recalled him as jealous and paranoid. Amber is not a monster and Johnny is not an innocent lamb at all. He also has done some really crazy things himself, like painting his walls with blood and piss, like texting that he wanted to murder and then rape the corpse of his wife, called the mother of his children a "cunt", and apparently was so drunk and high when taking care of his kids that he passed out in front of them, when he was meant to take care of them.
Chase doesn't take into account his own self-destructive impulses. As much as I usually enjoy Chase's points, here I think you could only say that she is enjoying the self-destruction of this human being.
I was an advocate for victims of DV and SA and a common thread is that neither of them want to talk about the assaults let alone get into the horrific details. It seems Amber gets some perverse thrill when she describes in detail all the ways Johnny supposedly attacked her. It's a show not genuine at all!!
As a survivor myself I can say I could barely lift my head in court. It was scary and painful and humiliating. There is nothing about AH’s testimony that I can relate to-at all.
@@carolann1727 {{hugs}} ❤️
@@sandyjamison5929 Hugs back!
The "monster" was what Turd called him when he didn't jump through her hoops. All those years with Moss and Paradis and not a peep about any monster. Turd put him on such a guilt trip over the years he fell in with her terminology.
It’s amazing to me that Heard is acting like she’s crying but she never sheds a tear.
When we were kids, my older sister broke my leg by accident. When I talk about it to her or anyone I never say, “you/she broke my leg….” I say, “when I broke my leg…”. I don’t think he means he actually chopped his own finger off. It’s just the way it comes out in conversation.
I wish I could say the same I say “ I chopped off my toe an severed the rest in half but those ones were saved” an it’s all true I chopped off my dam toe! 🤣🤣 but yeah your right it’s a to the point way of saying what the accident was without goin into it in depth.
@@joupton9908 whoa! That’s a some time you must’ve had. I wouldn’t want to know what the healing pain was like. I bet it wasn’t fun!
@@leighinreallife7386 yeah took a while but I went into shock an was crackin jokes plus I had really bad toothache at the time which was over shadowing that pain 🤣🤣🤣
@@joupton9908 when it rains it pours right!
Restraining someone who is being violent toward you is self defence
Restraining someone that is hitting you is not abuse and no reasonable person would think it is…..
Exactly, it is self-defense and completely legal and justified
I don't need a psychiatric, psychology, or any medical degree ... not one single thing ... I don't believe a word she is saying in her testimony.
"I'm just asking where your fingers were."
I'm somewhat disappointed he didn't answer "at that time still attached to my hand"
Pretty sure JohnnyD is suppressing a whole lot of sarcasm regarding where those fingers were 😂
@@Megs901 I'm sure too. The patience and self discipline he has shown throughout this trial is amazing.
As a survivor of 20 yrs of dv, I can assure you that Amber is the abuser here. I see many many tell tale signs from Johnny that she put him through pure hell.
She is like the twin sister of the guy that did this to me, narcissistic textbook behaviour , Word for word deed for deed so textbook, set me up in the same way too except instead of assault on him he said I assaulted my own child & got me arrested & eventually jailed , I was the victim I never even smacked my sons I was all about time out !!!
these people don’t realise what they’ve done till it’s to late my abuser even while he begged me for forgiveness after I was charged & I said same word for word what Jonny said , he said if you do this, this will be the end off us & you need to go down & tell them the truth & that I did not hurt anyone & the guy that did this to me looked at me & said I can’t I’ll get in trouble then they might take kids away from me & the both of us will lose them, I said that’s ridiculous go and tell the truth .. once they tell these lies they must live with them for the rest of their life they’ll even end up believing them .. I tried protecting my children by leaving the abusive man but as it’s the most dangerous time (leaving ) and I underestimated what he was capable of I always thought he loved his children & would never hurt them to hurt me but I was so wrong
@ Che Anarchist,
Amber knows what she’s done and she still doesn’t care. She enjoys causing Johnny pain.
I agree… that’s what’s so fascinating about these videos… she cried me too but he clearly is the one abused… 💔
@@cheanarchist2381 I’m so sorry that happened. I hope your children were old enough to know but in my experience kids do know who they felt safe with, even years later. I HOPE that that’s the case for you and your kids.
Amber is no victim. Justice for Johnny
MY GOD GUYS! the “monster” is drugs! NOT his fists or physical abuse. being with an addict is hard, and she convinced him HER physical abuse was due to his substance abuse.
Yup. “look what you made me do!”
She has/had the resources to leave this man immediately. Not marry him, not go out with him, not be around him. She chose to stay because of HIS money. The cycle of domestic violence is so classic here and SHE could have stepped out and away... I told myself it was like a boxing match, at the end of which, I received a pretty pleasant paycheck. And there was not nearly the $$$$ involved that there is here. She wanted to be Mrs. Johnny Depp more than she wanted to be healthy, happy, "clean." She's intelligent: She has a craft: She had her own money: She could provide for herself: She wanted his. She could have left this horrific mess for someone else: She wanted it. Boo hoo Boo hoo. Hurt me once, shame on you: Hurt me twice, three times, umpteen times... Shame on me.
I am a domestic violence THRIVER and a woman has options, especially one like "her."
So many of my friends who were addicted to hard drugs referred to the addiction as a monster. He put the monster back in the bottle = he stopped doing drugs.
It was heartbreaking when he said “the only person I’ve ever abused is myself”
@@_birdie that's what made me believe him. When you've been a child of domestic violence you can swear you will never do to someone else what has been to you and the result truly is self abuse. Trust me. And you have to know that as your truth to say it. Trust me. 😢😢😢
"She enjoys the destruction of this human being." Wow. That really sums it up. I hope you will do some of her testimony. While I felt like I was going to cry when Johnny spoke about his childhood, I felt zero empathy for her during her assault testimony.
It seems to me these guys are always biased against women. Remember the Petito case? What ‘destruction’ is Heard enjoying? As far as we know nothing has happened to him yet. And Chase forgot to make the same point every time JD laughs when she’s talking.
@@patriciajorgensen4728 The destruction of his reputation and his career. I think the Behavior Panel has watched the deposition as well as all of the audio tapes before this trial so they have a clear picture. If you haven’t heard all of the audio tapes, (most of which she recorded) you definitely should.
@@lindatakesitback8945 her recording their conversations is a huge red flag to me. However, I don’t trust these guys. They lost my respect with the Petito case. I could not believe they did not recognize her attitude as that of an abused woman and his as that of an abuser. Anyone having met or been in a situation like that could tell.
@@patriciajorgensen4728 people make mistakes , a lot of people still think O.J is innocent
@@deadpoolgaming997 I know. It’s crazy!
My 88-yr-old mom was flipping channels during Amber's testimony and thought the trial was a soap opera.
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Hilarious 😂
So funny lol lol lol lol lol. 😁 😀 😂 🤣 😅
It’s cruel once again watching Amber find enjoyment knowing Johnny is embarrassed & in pain, actually in my opinion it’s evil and not normal.
You all have nailed Amber. As a woman and a victim of domestic abuse, every moral fiber of my body is appalled at Heard's obvious lies, and narcissistic sadistic behavior. Depp's legal team is going to take her apart, and it will be easy. I'd feel bad for such a disturbed woman as Heard is, but the sadistic side of her makes my skin crawl.
You and I both.
It’s repulsive to watch her
Her entire marriage was a collection of evidence to use in the divorce. If he did half the crap she's claiming, she'd have evidence. The fact that she doesn't says a whole heck of a lot.
Absolutely! Her claim of "we often recorded each other to hold each other accountable" was even a lie. Why didn't she hide a camera or cameras and catch this frequent abuse? He was away enough. She easily could have! Where are all of the witnesses who saw so much? You can tell by today's testimony and acting alone she plays the victim. She would provoke arguments and I'm sure she would be the nastiest person behind closed doors and is just an evil liar. Her portrayal of her never doing anything wrong is nauseating. We're watching her act on a witness stand as her lawyers coach her. Disgusting.
Red flag: a spouse who archives every step in a marriage. That’s odd, something you just don’t do if you’re committed to someone.
@@emmc9898 it was a setup from the start. She felt his attraction for her while they filmed Rum Diary. I think the plot started then.
When I worked as an advocate for victims of domestic violence during the preliminary hearing for the perpetrator, I would interview the victim. The judge had come up with a check list of questions that would aid him in to figure out just how volatile the perp is associated to by the fear factor of the victim. Also using my
first hand experience as a survivor of DV, I had a unique 6th sense when speaking to the victims. Not all the time the true perp was arrested.
With this in mind, After I watched the first part of this series, I watch a bit of her testimony of her turn in the hot seat. Within a few minutes of dialogue, I knew who the real perp was. It’s not Depp.
Agree completely. Plus when he was presenting his side the other week she watched him intently & clinically. That doesn't mesh with her sudden "fearfulness" when they were near each other while trying to leave after she took the stand. If you are that afraid of a person you have a hard time looking at them period. She is going to do & say whatever she thinks will help herself. Johnny by simply initiating this lawsuit had already accepted that negative things would come out about himself. And he was willing to go through that humiliation. You don't do that unless you truly believe there will be a greater good to come out of it.
How can anyone be married to someone who is constantly recording and attempting to build a case against you?? This is so wrong!
I feel very sorry for Amber’s kid. A raging narcissist does not make a good parent but does make a destructive one.
Amber doesn't have a kid.
Yep, I agree and thinking the same thing. She lacks completely, empathy! Did she EVER ask if he was okay, or “I am so sorry!” For decapitating his finger!!
Wicked and evil girl.
I am a survivor of severe domestic violence, my mom and an ex.
I can understand his reaction to the damage to his finger. I am a musician as well. It’s devastating to damage a hand when you use your hands to play your preferred instrument!
As a musician, playing ones instrument It’s deeply felt emotionally, because music is extremely personal in expression of ones soul. To lose a finger tip as a musician is likened to losing a foot to a runner, or losing your eyes as a painter! One loses the ability to express their emotions, creativity, or entertain others which is a joyful experience as well!
I would liken it to if Amber had deep lacerations all over her lovely little face.. her ability to hoodwink, manipulate or seduce others would be way less affective with her instrument of choice, taken away from her in an act of violence from someone who “supposedly LOVES YOU “?! It is DEVASTATING!
She is just downright LUCKY Johnny’s such a good guy and NEVER touched her in a violent act. The decapitation of his finger, if happened to AN ACTUAL ABUSER, would NO DOUBT set him off to beating the HELL out of Amber in actual reality!!! But Johnny just reacted to the absurdity of moment and extremely violent actions of Amber towards him. A lot of victims of abuse actually DO hurt themselves physically in an altercation. In self loathing and hatred for their situation of being hurt again and again by their domestic violent perpetrator! It is a mental state of absolute loathing of ones predicament of feeling trapped like an animal and your self worth crushed before one that you thought loved you.
It’s rejection of who you are in an outright act of violence to your physical person yes, but the perpetrator wants to destroy your soul as well.
It’s a despairing and desperate feeling of hopelessness and loss of being wanted or loved or cared for. The abuse is the complete opposite of being loved.
I just want to hug him and tell him it’s not ok what she did and he is very fortunate that she didn’t do him greater harm down the road.
She is “the monster” and when she speaks of “the monster” it is her referring to herself and reflecting it upon Johnny, extremely common action of a perpetrator, narcissist, SOCIOPATHS! Notice how she is trying to gaslight Johnny ALL THE TIME!
I doubt that Amber knows the first thing about Love or COMPASSION!
That poor baby girl Amber acquired From a surrogate! The Mommy Dearest sequel is in production right now, sadly.. I have no doubt.
@@looking4things669 she's got a one year old daughter Oonagh that she had via a surrogate
That may be why Johnny is trying to find out who the father is to warn him of what his narcissist mother did to him.
😱 she’s a MOTHER?? Aye dios mio !
Johnny Depp is thanking his lucky stars that he didn't marry an actress...
ha ha -- took me a second to get it . . . indeed, you are onto something.
Very very funny and droll!😅😅😅😅
You mean, that he didn't marry a GOOD actress 😃.
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@@ethical13 :)
Heard: "Tell them Johnny. I Johnny A MAN am a victim of abuse. No one will believe you."
This woman is a selfish and manipulative nightmare. I can't stand her voice and they way she's trying to come off as a victim. She has a history of DV even getting arrested in 2009. I have never heard of anyone saying Johnny Depp slapped, punched or raped a woman. Amber shame on you for trying to destroy this man after you abused him.
Not a single tear for all of that fake crying. The jury can see that as well as we can.
I have watched her testimony. She is too the point she can't talk, but no tears. She can't talk because she so emotional, yet she responds clearly within a couple of seconds. She is trying to put on an act and sucks at it.
"She enjoys the destruction of this human being" - Amber Heard's entire existence summed up quite nicely. And, no, it's not "normal behavior"...it was a mental break, which he is likely humiliated by. The messages weren't to himself, they were to Amber. She, then, took multiple photos before and after adding her own words in lipstick.
Handbasket, perfect last name U got! 😂
Amber obviously thinks her gaslighting and recordings are helping her while she’s clearly manipulating him and trying to goad him. She’s really disturbing, not only in her need to control every scenario, but also him. True malignant behaviour from a master manipulator
I do wonder if she actually believes these stories. She's a terrible actress, but I also think she does have significant mental health issues and I think it's entirely possible she believes at least some of this.
The recording of conversations trying to get evidence against him reminds me of Jodi Arias recording sexually explicit phone calls between her and Travis Alexander. Calls in which she clearly participated equally and showed zero hesitation or reservation about doing so. THEN tried to use those calls to claim abuse. It wouldn't surprise me in the least that she also was the instigator of those types of conversations simply so she'd have a weapon against him to use with his LDS friends. I see this exact behavior in AH and wonder what it would have taken for AH to do the same to JD in 'self defense'.
Amber is gloating with glee seeing Johnny hurt yet again. She loves to kick him when he's down. I agree with you Chase, the smile is nothing short of horrifying. The soul satisfying contempt of sadistic superiority.
I love the comparison to the T Rex.
I am a child abuse survivor, and my mother was a domestic violence victim. I also worked with domestic violence victims and mental health and addictions. And one of my job duties was advocating for domestic violence victims by accompanying them in court for their testimonies or I would speak on their behalf as a victim representative if they are unable to nor want to speak out in court. I also spearhead several domestic violence victim advocacy groups. And I can tell you from both my personal and professional experience and education and speaking for the many, many domestic violence victims I work with; there is 100% no doubt that Amber is absolutely not the victim here. It is Johnny who is the victim.
As for all of you on this panel, you need to educate yourself on a term called, "reactive abuse", which is why Johnny tried to restrain his wife when she was trying to harm him or why he says nasty things to her in RESPONSE to her verbal and physical attacks. Reactive abuse is not the same as being an abuser. In reactive abuse, the victim does not instigate the physical violence and physical aggression. They "react" to the abuser's physical attacks on them.
Well said my friend
You are very correct.
Yes I completely agree!
They try to play her as being reactive... I see or hear no evidence of that just by their demeanor in the things recorded. He sounds angry, pleading yes, but hurt. Her tone sounds angry, controlling.
yes. well said.
I have NEVER heard a victim of abuse sound so aggressive towards her "abuser" .... if she was SO AFRAID ....why would she speak to him in a way that might provoke him to violence?????
Exactly
100%
And gift him a KNIFE with inscriptions about "until Death"?
Spot on. One speaks cautiously & fearfully
I agree with all the replies. But to the comment, as a woman who was abused by my husband, during a time it was not talked about or actually a law. After you get away get your self respect back & learn it was not your fault other than not running away sooner with great speed. You learn to when to avoid, walk away & when to fight for yourself! Do not get me wrong I see her being a narcissist & the one who started the fights even though she may not been aware of being a narcissist!!!
I’m anxious to see your take on Amber’s overly theatrical performance 🎭
I think Johnny ended up marrying his mother. A mean spirited, hateful women.
I think we can agree that these two human beings have acted outrageously to one another. As a Clinical Psychologist of over 40 years experience, they one thing that I know for sure is that Amber Heard is a LOUSY actress.
I was reeling watching her, and am abuse survivor (including sexual trauma). She was *very* convincing to me at times, but at other times I felt like I was getting whiplash. Her mood shifts and deportment/composure felt bizarre, even though I wanted to try to lend benefit of doubt (even after watching up until now utterly 100% convinced that Mr. Depp is the victimized in this case, and behaved very badly at times but was not the provoker or attacker).
I agree. I also think he is a clear narcissist very convinced of his power, his charisma and used to having his way. He also said some things that looked very coached.
I think we can agree that Heard abused Depp and then accused him of what she herself was guilty of, thereby destroying his reputation and career.
@@patriciajorgensen4728 nothing about JD fits the patterns of unhealthy, toxic, or pathological narcissism. Quite the opposite.
The smirk n smile on her face is disgusting. She enjoys being cruel.
Yes she does, and Johnny likes to hit her when she smirks, and then she hits back harder. Both seem to be thugs.
Amber Heard quoted directly from The Talented Mr Ripley.... Isn't that really odd? Does she think people won't realise?
To quote the behaviour panel in another video: she isn't the smartest narcissist.
She probably thought she had no choice, she isn't poetic like JD.
It honestly astonishes me - a woman - that men aren't allowed to reasonably defend themselves from a physically violent woman without risking arrest. I consider bear-hugging someone who won't stop hitting or kicking you to be a completely reasonable defense. Then again, I will admit to being biased, as my husband's ex was abusive and even after stabbing him in the hand on two separate occasions, the police declared he must have done something to provoke her because he'd grabbed her wrist to stop her from stabbing him anywhere else. I just can't comprehend thinking that stopping an assault with reasonable force (we're not talking backhanding or choking her) = automatic physical abuse if it's a man who's stopping an assault against a female aggressor.
Man or woman, come at me with a knife. If I can't get away, because I have zero inclination for a knife fight, I'll do my best to knock the attacker out or disarm them. And I'll do it in the quickest most appropriately violent way.
Tips for those with little imagination for these things.
Go for the eyes.
Go for the balls.
Go for any soft spot with any available improvised weapon. 😘✌
The monster is addiction. Any addicts in here will understand that. He's referring to being clean.
I believe he testified to that
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My theory- after hearing so much of their private recordings- is that she was always confrontational and aggressive with him, and he would self-medicate to “escape”, not be aware of himself as much (or potentially be blacked or grayed out), and she’d accuse him of violence knowing that he wouldn’t remember absolutely everything. That being said, I don’t believe that he was ever violent with her. She’s psychotic.
Had JD not been on so many substances he might have see the disaster of AH coming a mile off. Poor judgement, not an abuser of anyone but himself.
Chase is spot on: “The story of a Narcissist and an introvert.”
Here’s why I don’t believe Amber: She’s trying so hard (but not doing a good job) to look sad and scared, but there’s no shame. Victims of abuse will show some kind of shame when speaking about their abuse, even when they understand that it wasn’t their fault and they don’t have anything to be ashamed of. It gets easier to talk about with therapy and time, but it’s almost like emotionally stripping down naked because you’re exposing something so personal. Like I said, it gets easier over time, but there’s always a compulsion for shame that you make a conscious effort to fight through. To go along with the emotional nudity metaphor, Heard’s claims feel like emotional revenge porn.
i agree with this - i also see no shame
And Johnny had this little laugh/smile everytime he was talking about the abuse.. like it's his go to, to hide how he feels.. like some sort of distancing himself from the actual pain.. 🤔 he can't look at her.. while she stared him down.. 🥺 he to me, was very real.. still hiding the pain, laughing at himself because he's embarrassed and ashamed.. 😔
@@Goddess4moon
I would be. Letting that garbage animal into your home? Jesus...
@@Goddess4moon God analyse, er enig (fra erfaring selv) Dit navn lyder dansk? Jeg er også dansk, hedder Mads. Troede ikke der var andre danskere som kendte kanalen , cool. 🙂God dag til dig.
@@migrateme695Hey Mads.. er også kun nu begyndt at følge den her for.. måske 1 uge side 😝 god dag til dig også 🤗🇩🇰
I helped a few female friends get out of physically abusive relationships. I truly believe from the evidence that AH was the abuser
Absolutely.. if you lived it you can see the lies and twisting of truths
I CANT WAIT for the Amber analysis. I’m not an expert/professional body language/behavior analyst extraordinaire. But as a mom, I can spot a liar…especially when it’s so blatant and cringeworthy. Ambers “performance” was pathetic.
“I don’t restrain my wife.”
I guess she isn’t punching you or throwing bottles at you?
I agree. How can restraining be considered abuse if you are preventing that person from physically hurting you?
Amber’s career is dissolving like an Alka Seltzer tablet in water. Perhaps all Johnny wanted out of this is to expose her and her lies. I can’t imagine anyone hiring her for movies after this.
There are enough feminists in Hollywood she might still get her normal crappy movie offers. I highly doubt she will get any larger roles unless she comes up with some really good evidence...
Plus she is over 30 and clearly has, "lost her bloom," as well as her bad behavior, she's not going to work again.
So if he's not supposed to restrain her what's he supposed to do? Let her beat the crap out of him? Domestic violence against men is real.
IMO they (this panel) are taking “restrain” way too literally - by restrain JD means hold her arms to stop the barrage of hits slaps throwing things etc and I don’t think they watch the entire trial either because JD explains exactly how and why he has to do it and can’t even leave much of the time. Another thing - he never did so with force otherwise there would be bruises on arms etc -completely agree with you
My hope, for Johnny, is that he takes this horrible experience and uses it to face his childhood trauma caused by his abusive mother, give up the self-medicating, and do the work to heal.
Same
The self soother while the Jerry Judge text was read, to me is bc he is reminded of Jerry's passing and then his words are read out as if he was there from beyond the grave. He's taken back to a point in time where Jerry was alive and all was 'well'. When he was protective of Depp and at the same time happy for him as a father would be of his son finally finding happiness. Depp clearly misses Jerry and probably felt his absence tremendously in these last few years since he's past.
How convenient for the attorney yeah?? the man is no longer alive to refute it.. and he hits where it hurts…. The loss of a ear friend
She is actually not as animated today as she was yesterday. She has toned it down, I am sure on the advice of her council and the PR firm. The facial expression are not as severe as they were. She still is not believable. 90% of her testimony I call Bullsh*t
Yeah I wonder if she’s sneaking some social media in to track her performance. And I strongly think she’s projecting her abusive actions onto him.
My husband is a professional musician guitarist. He accidentally almost severed three fingers (index, middle and ring) of his left hand. Nerve damage, tendons and to the bone in He's right-handed, so I told him that at least it wasn't his dominant hand. He explained that his left hand is the most important when playing the guitar, because it's the fret hand. His right hand mostly strums or picks the cords. The fret controls everything from tone, key, etc. No serious, passionate guitarist would deliberately cut his fingers. Especially the fret hand. He'd more likely cut out his heart.
Exactly.
I'd trust someone who is self aware of his flaws (i.e. a 'monster') far than someone who constantly acts - is acting - playing a role, a part, being dramatic for the sake of drama
Why does he let all her friends and family living on his dime? Abusers usually keeps all support of their victims away. She was surrounded by her sister and friends
Would such a “horribly “ abused woman take so much gleeful pleasure in his pain?…shouldn’t she be sad?scared? Disassociating in ptsd fear? Certainly not smirking and smiling like a petulant child! 🤷♀️
Have you seen him laughing when she talked?
my mother was paranoid schizophrenic the worse the situation the more my siblings and i use humor. it's a coping mechanism for life.
Omg, so if she was beating him and he tries to restrain her, hes guilty of abuse? BS. Even men have a right to self defense. The automatic assumption of fault is outrageous.
We don't know what happened, this is only his version. Secondly, the panel did say that they saw signs of him being deceptive when he recalled that event. Are you not paying attention? They said he showed signs that people accused of abuse does when they are -falsely- recalling the event, portraying themselves as calm and gentle at the time.
As an mentally abused wife I can say touching your throat when listening to part of the abuse it’s the shame and hurt that is choking him to listen to the tape, you guys are great ❤️
About the "I chopped my finger off" - what is he going to say to her, "you chopped my finger off?" He's not going to say that because that will provoke more abuse from her. That's what happens with abuse - you end up taking responsibility for things you didn't do, because putting the responsibility where it really belongs with the abuser, just makes them abuse you more.
Ding Ding Ding! This Exactly.
Also, when people are abused and gaslighted, they start echoing the manipulative language of the abuser. When I heard him say that I knew from personal experience that that was exactly what was happening. He is just echoing her words. It doesn't mean he totally believes it, but he's being gradually gaslighted to believe he did it to himself, that it's his fault. And now the lawyer is continuing her gaslighting.
Yes!
This was my 1st thought. Been there. You just take responsibility instead of starting the fight over again.
I agree, clearly from the recording he’s not trying to start an argument, and if she already apologized many times and made him accept the fact that it was an accident and she didn’t aim for his hand, if he accepted her version that it was a freak accident and doesn’t blame her anymore, then he would definitely say « the day I chopped my finger off ». When I was a kid my father used to beat my mother bad, even broke her leg, I was there, I remember him acting all concerned on the way to the hospital so that she would lie and say she fell on her own, the doctor told her it doesn’t look like it (just like Johnny’s doctor btw) but she kept telling this lie to everybody many times, now even when she talks to me who was there and know exactly what happened she says « when I broke my leg » not « when he broke my leg » not « when my leg got broken »
This girl rambles on and on…digging her own grave.
As Johnny has admitted to drug and alcohol abuse, the monster refers to himself when using most likely. The monster, the beast and the gorilla are commonly used terms in AA for those of us taking it one day at a time.
For Greg: the "restraint" testimony from Depp is consistent- its his reaction when AH attacks him, beats on him, punches him, spits in his face, kicks him, and throws things at him. According to his testimony throughout, his reaction was to leave if he could or if not, to hold her arms and try to get her to stop hitting him by restraining her.
I have to agree with Marlene. Restraining a woman who is attacking you is not abuse. That’s it in a nutshell. Amber is clearly the abuser.
I absolutely cannot wait for you guys to start covering her testimony
I just replied to the comment before yours that I am like a child waiting on Christmas morning for their video on her testimony. It is going to be epic. It will literally be a course in body language! Ugh, that woman.
@@Professor-Patti the body narration alone was driving me crazy!
Her opening statement was a direct quote from "The talented Mr Ripley". Her "crying" had no flushing, no tears, no chin boss, no grief muscle. No amount of botox can excuse this terrible performance. No stars
chin boss?
@@7beers You gotta’ know chin boss, blink rate and chaff to be a Behavior Panel fan. 🤣
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Restraining a person attacking you to make them STOP was a good move in my opinion.
She’s a liar and used makeup. It’s clear she’s lying. How anyone believes her is beyond!
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I am very late for this, but I just thought this video is interesting . Two things: he is wearing a tie. He has a dark blue shirt and a black tie. Look closer. Also, when he smirks during Jerry Judge’s text, he is just remembering his friend that is just deceased. That’s what you do when you are remembering someone that is no longer with you, and you have a fond memory of your relationship with them, and they come to mind, you smirk remembering them or the time you spent with them.
It’s hard to listen to his friend’s message. I think he seems sad and needs a moment to compose himself
@@didomilan1725yes that’s a good point. He was very close to the bodyguard that passed away. Funny enough the only person that Amber says pointed out her bloody nose was jerry judge. In Camille’s words. “How convenient” 😂
Except when it’s a good memory, it’s a smile or grin, not a smirk.
The way Amber attacked JD, especially when he tried to get away from her, is a great reason to try to restrain her. Being a female doesn't mean she can attack and he can't try to stop her by whatever means he can.
“I don’t know why he’s self soothing” probably because he’s having a conversation between him and his dead best friend being read to him in front of millions of people.
She’s a horrible actor. It’s nauseating to watch her: no tears, no redness from crying, too many eye blinking and her eye avoidance reveals her lying.
I can not wait for you to cover her incredibly bad acting, on the stand. From the very beginning I never believed a word she said.
Her testimony is from Talented Mr Ripley:
Marge Sherwood:
The thing with Dickie… it’s like the sun shines on you, and it’s glorious. And then he forgets you and it’s very, very cold.
Tom Ripley:
So I’m learning.
Marge Sherwood:
When you have his attention, you feel like you’re the only person in the world, that’s why everybody loves him so much.
This is what she said about Johnny. A total fake!!
Just because a professional writer could put feelings into words better than a non-writer could, doesn’t mean AH’s feelings weren’t valid. People have been using poetry written by professional poets to express their feelings for ages. Same with music.
JD himself uses turns of phrases from literature.
It just means they identify with what has been written, nothing else.
@@bofhzerozero777 Or it means that she has no original feelings and she had to lift something that sounded somewhat human for her testimony.
@@bofhzerozero777 Yes that is true and we all use verses or sentences we are identify with but she took whole paragraphs not just sentences.
I’ll bet she never figured ANYONE would recognize that plagiaristic comment!!😝
Restraining someone attacking YOU is not abuse!
Nah, she’s not afraid of him. She’s goading him.
Would a woman be called a mutual abuser if she defends herself when her partner violently attacks her? No she isn't. The hypocrisy in this case is sickening. We're constantly being told to believe AH, yet I don't hear the mainstream media saying we should believe jd. Jd who actually has lots of evidence to back up his allegations unlike heard. When are men going to get equality when It comes to dv? AH is the abuser I have absolutely no doubt. Mutual abuse? Rubbish!
I totally agree with you. If the roles were reversed and she defended herself, she would be getting pats on the back. Yet since it is JD then it's mutual ab@se. Makes no sense to me.
Domestic Abuse Not A Gender Issue. Andrew Pain.
@@seekingthetruth2748 Domestic Abuse Not A Gender Issue. Andrew Pain.
1:03:05
Depp: I'm not so sure. In fact earlier, you had quoted Jerry Judge from the airplane tape as calling me an asshole -- "wait 'til the asshole falls asleep" and I'm positive that those words never left his mouth.
Heard's lawyer: Maybe they left his mouth when you were passed out Sir, respectfully.
Me: Why would anyone say to wait for someone to fall asleep if they're already asleep?