Why Narcissists Hate When People Joke About Them

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  • Опубликовано: 28 янв 2025

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  • @DanceChickaDee
    @DanceChickaDee 11 дней назад +6

    This is usually how I can point out a narcissist….. on how they can take a joke and how much they joke on others.

    • @90charim
      @90charim 9 дней назад +1

      Yes this is a good one! Hunny don’t bust no joke in me if you don’t want me to bust one on you! lol and baby I’m funny he probably think I take it too far! Haha I grew up the only girl so I stay ready 😂😂

  • @jalesapowell
    @jalesapowell 12 дней назад +14

    Why when they say something to you its a joke but when you joke back" you trying to embarrass them and they only laugh just to make you feel better cause its wasn't that funny " they would say 😂 I have a friend at work who is like this

  • @FlyIslandGuy
    @FlyIslandGuy 10 дней назад +1

    Came back from a road trip with an ex-narc friend - he had been spending time with theis girl while he was on the trip with me. She called him to tell him that she tested positive for covid and he brushed it off. The following week he was complaining about how tired he was (I thought it was just because of our long drive back - hindsight now, it was the fatigue from the early stages of his covid infection) and eventually started showing cold symptoms. A bunch of us (him included) went on a getaway the following weekend and shortly after we came back, we started exhibiting symptoms (fatigue, sore throat, etc). Immediately tested and it came back positive. My gf (his best friend at the time) put him on a group call and basically accused him of giving us all covid. He tested as well and his was faintly positive since he was getting over it. We were all kind've teasing him and laughing. We weren't super serious about it, we weren't even upset or anything but we wished he had been more careful. Well....after that, it kicked off the 1 month of silent treatment, followed by weird behavior, him trying to break my gf and I up, talking about us behind our backs, etc. It was basically the milestone of when our friendship went down the toilet. He never acted the same after that and we eventually cut him off. Makes sense now

  • @MissSothePeacefulObserver
    @MissSothePeacefulObserver 12 дней назад +6

    Oh boy, is this the truth. They can say all kinds of vile things about us, and we're supposed to laugh it off, but the minute we joke about them in the same way, they sure can't take it. Then suddenly, it's not a "joke".

  • @LivingBeyondBeauty
    @LivingBeyondBeauty 12 дней назад +4

    Narcissists hate jokes about them because they can't bear anything that cracks their perfect facade & image. They're so busy worshipping at the altar of their own reflection that the joke is pointing out how seriously they take themselves. When in reality we all know how ridiculous it is.

  • @jalesapowell
    @jalesapowell 12 дней назад +5

    Now i get to watch on my break 😌 Hi Lee and Everyone ❤

  • @ebrown4762
    @ebrown4762 11 дней назад +1

    I couldn't even laugh off an argument she would start without her losing her shit...

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 12 дней назад +1

    Great truthful video! My older brother narc cannot take it.

  • @rosieingram6893
    @rosieingram6893 12 дней назад +2

    ❤❤❤
    Thank you

  • @smusicluv
    @smusicluv 9 дней назад

    They can joke about you, maybe laugh a little too hard at joke made at your expense, but don't you dare make even the most innocent light hearted joke about them. They loose their sh*t.

  • @creatorsunionSVERDLOVSK
    @creatorsunionSVERDLOVSK 12 дней назад +3

    Well... My brother (he's undiagnosed, but 100000% grandiouse narcissist. like a textbook one) cannot stand ANY (even slightest and harmless) jokes about him. It's always a sh*tstorm after.
    On the other hand, one of my best friends - diagnosed person with anti-social disorder. Behind the closed doors he was abusive as hell with all of his exes, (physical violence on regular basis included), BUT... He loves all kinds of jokes about him, especialy most dirty and nasty ones.

  • @marisitaxxxx
    @marisitaxxxx 12 дней назад +2

    Thank you for all of your videos, they are really helpful especially because I don’t take their actions so personally anymore!
    Could you make one about reverse hoovering when they go silent on you or other tactics, like my ex never really reached out to me but used many ways to provoke a reaction from me by for example trying to log into my accounts. Anything so that I might contact them

  • @sammymiller3865
    @sammymiller3865 12 дней назад +1

    Yep happen to me alot , he would say dont ever think your funny or smarter than me , you shouldn’t ever joke your not good at it you don’t know what the joke is about . Gaslighting for sure . Basically telling me u cant be the one getting all the attention . If his friends come over and he was ignoring them or pretending he was listening his friends would talk to me cause well I actually listen and know what they’re talking about .

  • @CradleofLifeSA
    @CradleofLifeSA 12 дней назад +5

    The narc was the joke💯 When the tables were turned he played victim. Typical🥸🧛🏻‍♂️🤡🧿

  • @1001Stars
    @1001Stars 12 дней назад +1

    I think if someone made a joke about me I wouldn't react much but I would make sure to never talk to them again. If it was someone who I worked with or family I would keep in mind that they are someone who doesn't have my best interest in mind

  • @Destiny-ch5ux
    @Destiny-ch5ux 12 дней назад +1

    He'd glare at me with
    his piercing evil eyes
    when I'd joke abt him
    It's cringey awkward🥶

  • @PamelaCox-v2i
    @PamelaCox-v2i 12 дней назад +1

    How is it they can be so calm and laid back at work?

  • @tamikatracy4415
    @tamikatracy4415 12 дней назад +1

    I would really like to talk with you. I went through some things and would like some clarity. I know one thing, your channel really helped me through a rough time… thanks.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  11 дней назад +1

      🙌🏾

    • @tamikatracy4415
      @tamikatracy4415 11 дней назад +1

      @ can we possibly schedule a meeting to talk for a few minutes? I would really like your perspective on a few things.

  • @TheMusiqlvr
    @TheMusiqlvr 12 дней назад +3

    How long have you been married?

  • @CJ-ku1hw
    @CJ-ku1hw 12 дней назад

    He just laughs at the jokes

  • @TheMusiqlvr
    @TheMusiqlvr 12 дней назад +3

    Where do we go to hear your wife? I would love to hear your wife side from being with you.

  • @mkb7013
    @mkb7013 11 дней назад

    Oh how they hate it.