This is why you hate your outfits even though you have great taste

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @tripunk
    @tripunk 2 месяца назад +683

    Love that these tips are psychological stuff and not “buy this, it will make u stylish”

  • @arielgiroux
    @arielgiroux 2 месяца назад +668

    FINALLY! Someone who is disavowing “dress cute feel good”. I feel like this makes me feel worse every time because I end up trying on sooo many different pieces because nothing “feels right” which then heightens my insecurities and leaves me with a pile of clothes to put away. If I wanna rot in a sweatsuit then I’m gonna rot in that, not something uncomfortable to try and trick my mind cause society says so.

    • @kitsunedayy
      @kitsunedayy Месяц назад +6

      Gonna completely agree here! Sometimes if I go out for the day but I'm not feeling how I look, I'll dress down and be a bit more comfy, yet I sill feel fashionable if the items look unique!

  • @Angel.aaa109
    @Angel.aaa109 2 месяца назад +281

    Lipstick with other make up. Lipstick without make up. Lipstick is such a holy grail. Even if you're just in a tank top, jeans and flip flops with your hair undone lipstick can always elevate the look. I am 10000% a red/black lipstick warrior

    • @kallias88
      @kallias88 2 месяца назад +15

      I personally really dislike lipstick on myself and have never liked how it feels and looks on me but I do absolutely love some crazy eyeshadow color, it makes me feel super happy lol

    • @Angel.aaa109
      @Angel.aaa109 2 месяца назад +4

      @kallias88 that's super cool too!! at least where I'm from it's so rare to see people wear colourful eyeshadow, myself included 😭😭

    • @kallias88
      @kallias88 2 месяца назад +7

      @@Angel.aaa109 it's not really a thing here either, but I'm sucker for blue eyeshadow, and it's a staple for me now! My grandma has been a great influence on me and made me adore vintage 60s/70s makeup and fashion, so I think that's why I love it so much haha!

    • @Angel.aaa109
      @Angel.aaa109 2 месяца назад +2

      @kallias88 out of all the eyeshadow colours blue eyeshadow definitely reigns supreme 😌

    • @madistowell9023
      @madistowell9023 2 месяца назад +2

      This but lip liner for me

  • @sofialaanigri655
    @sofialaanigri655 2 месяца назад +372

    I absolutely LOVE the fact that you put diversity in your exemples, it feels more universal and not just white girlies. It's actually the first time in my life that I see fashion advice including dreadlocks and black skin and diverse curly hair, it's so refreshing. Thank you SO MUCH for that

  • @EliotRaimer
    @EliotRaimer 2 месяца назад +144

    This is actually the best fashion advice I have ever received like dressing ugly when you feel it is so much better than dressing up and feeling uncomfortable

    • @zabitosarenke
      @zabitosarenke 2 месяца назад +8

      yes! and most of the time you end up looking super cool and stylish because it goes with your vibe and mood and there's intension and thought put into it

  • @kyndxhll
    @kyndxhll 2 месяца назад +175

    love this! This video caught my eye because I saw my face on the thumbnail LOL. You dropped some useful tips that I will definitely be using in the future :)

  • @louisejeppesen7735
    @louisejeppesen7735 Месяц назад +85

    this really made me realize things about myself and my bad fashion habits lol.. especially the one about buying something at a thrift store bc you have a vision, but you don't have all the pieces - so you just end up with a piece you never rly use, which is sad. I have realized that i should only buy something that looks good on it's own, which also makes it much more sustainable

  • @quokaii7
    @quokaii7 2 месяца назад +265

    haven’t watched it yet but the thumbnail is so cute and the diversity of black girls was so eye catching! most thumbnails i see are usually slim white-asian girls so it was great to see something different:)

    • @_xograce_1548
      @_xograce_1548 2 месяца назад +83

      Omg I noticed that, I was expecting a black women behind this video before I clicked it

    • @Hotgirlbff
      @Hotgirlbff 2 месяца назад +3

      same. i was expecting a Black host!!

  • @LollaBelle
    @LollaBelle 2 месяца назад +149

    I love the way you brought us back to the basics like tidiness, noticing our emotional and physical state and choosing the outfit according to the situation. We tend to get a bit lost sometimes and it's refreshing to be grounded in a sensible and pleasant way like that. Thanks ❤

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  2 месяца назад +3

      @@LollaBelle awe I love this compliment thank you 💗

  • @snr9365
    @snr9365 2 месяца назад +58

    Your point about hair is 100% true and under-discussed. Times when I think my hair looks great elevates whatever I'm wearing. It's one of the key elements to making "basics" and minimalist fashion work IMO

  • @eloisebrieschke5873
    @eloisebrieschke5873 2 месяца назад +59

    Your comment about your hairstyle!!! For MONTHS I felt like my outfits were off & kept saying “oh I just need to chop my hair” as SOON as I got a wolf cut I felt like my style was elevated

  • @AndreaAlexander
    @AndreaAlexander 2 месяца назад +54

    This is my favorite style advice video I've come across yet! I also 100% stand by the "realistic" Pinterest suggestions. I have a board for fashion and art that is beyond what I wear, and then I have one called "my actual style". I first started by pinning a bunch of things that look as close to the real outfits I already wear as I could possibly find (no matter how boring), so that way the algorithm would show me not only posts that are similar, but also posts take those outfit formulas in slightly different directions. This has been an amazing tool for growing and developing my style organically and realistically.

  • @beepboop449
    @beepboop449 2 месяца назад +38

    i like that ur advice is centered around what makes you comfortable and what’s practical. i feel like i see a lot of the opposite, or implications that dressing that way is boring and not fashionable. fashion is how I WANT TO DRESS

  • @emynng
    @emynng 2 месяца назад +22

    This is hands down, one of the best fashion videos I've ever watched. It really clarifies some inner outfit/fashion struggles I've been having lately.

  • @bcardosol
    @bcardosol Час назад

    I loved your statements. Beyond just saying "oh put jewelry, create layers" you gave reasonable explanations. Definitely won a follower.

  • @laramendesm
    @laramendesm 7 дней назад +1

    that last one abt the pinterest board makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! this actually helped sm, i will be reorganising my pinterest board tn ty

  • @gavronette
    @gavronette 2 месяца назад +16

    These are very insightful tips, and I have to admit I'm guilty of having a messy wardrobe as well as thinking of styling pieces with stuff I don't own yet. I noticed that when I take pics to sell the clothes I don't like anymore and style them nicely I suddenly start liking them again - because sometimes I feel so against picking up a certain piece that I haven't worn in a long time.

  • @cathy4697
    @cathy4697 2 месяца назад +9

    Leaning into how you're feeling while dressing is amazing advice

  • @haykfortyseven
    @haykfortyseven 2 месяца назад +36

    I looooove leaning in to “feeling ugly” I actually come up with some really cute comfy outfits I feel like myself in that I wouldn’t have put together otherwise, hair scarves for dirty hair, cardigans over a tank and lounge pants and flip flops, love it.

  • @sustylery
    @sustylery 2 месяца назад +21

    The choice of "okay" pieces is really the worst. Just because they are cheaper than your first choice for instance, you get them regardless of your lack of love for them. But this will just result in the piece just hanging around in your closet unused

  • @tabea9254
    @tabea9254 2 месяца назад +35

    the 'items and styles you find beautiful aren't necessarily what you want to wear' is so real, for example I love short skirts and revealing outfits on other people but I have had to realise as much as I love some pieces I don't actually feel comfortable wearing them myself, and it's not an issue of lacking confidence that I simply need to work on to feel better in them, it's just simply not my thing as much as I adore it on other people. I personally enjoy such a wide variety of styles and for the longest time would buy a variety of pieces I find lovely, but my closet didn't really represent ME and it was too all over the place to have well matching outfits and a proper style. Also I love the point about not trying to force yourself into a stand out outfit on days you don't feel good in your skin, dressing more comfortably actually will improve your mood, rather than like you said, an outfit that just makes you feel like you're forcing it and want to get back home to take it off.

  • @Sweetcierra
    @Sweetcierra Месяц назад +2

    These are the tips I’ve been looking for! I feel like I watch alllll the fashion/personal style tips out there, take notes, & I still tend to dislike my outfits. This was so helpful

  • @aleahl4765
    @aleahl4765 2 месяца назад +6

    Wow, thank you for bringing up some thought-provoking tips… I definitely find I am the “has a few loved items but can’t fit them in their current wardrobe”… my journey in discovering my style has been slow and I have dreadful anxiety around spending money, so when I purchase something I love I usually invest into it… but then find I do not wear it often with the pieces I already have In my wardrobe that don’t “fit” with my idealized style … thank you for putting words to this feeling!

  • @emduve
    @emduve 2 месяца назад +15

    I resonate with the last point so much! Would love if you made a video specifically on that. Everyday dressing is maybe not as exciting as outfits most content creators are putting out but it’s literally the most practical for most people!!

  • @beylap5724
    @beylap5724 Месяц назад +7

    clicked on this for styling and unlocked the psychological aspect of clothing. this was very helpful, thanks!

  • @mindpalace_reveal
    @mindpalace_reveal 24 дня назад +1

    HEAVY on the importance of having hair that works with your style. my entire wardrobe opened up to me more when i got a heavily layered cut with micro bangs.

  • @Sara-iu1cr
    @Sara-iu1cr Месяц назад +2

    This whole video was GOLDEN and I will be rewatching it

  • @bealestreet8220
    @bealestreet8220 Месяц назад +2

    I enjoyed this video so much, ive been trying to curate my style but have trouble going about it. I often tell myself im not a "cool girl" and that could never be me, but after watching this video i realised there are a lot of factors that can influence your style and your perspective on fashion and dressing well so this served as a good starting point. THANK YOU. also sidenote my attention span has been fried because of tiktok and I havent been watching long form content, but I was able to make it through the entrie video without scrolling through the comments or keeping myself busy which is very telling about you and how you engage your audience. That being said I really enjoyed the video very entertaning.

  • @kirascott609
    @kirascott609 2 месяца назад +2

    As someone who’s on a personal style journey, all of this advice was so real.

  • @carolyna.3316
    @carolyna.3316 2 месяца назад +3

    I’m currently growing out my french bob and now that my hair is a bit longer, it doesn’t not slay in outfits as much. Like a backless dress with a short bob, is SO GOOD. 10/10 recommend getting a french bob!!

  • @itscosmicnerd
    @itscosmicnerd 2 месяца назад +5

    I love how comfy this video felt. So many helpful tips, you’ve earned a sub ❤

  • @lindaraj3643
    @lindaraj3643 2 месяца назад +2

    I really like several points you made! I know I'm short waisted so I'll often think "oh that's a long waisted person, it will never look like that on me"-- And don't know why I never considered figuring out to wear something to hit me in the same place. So obvious now!
    I also thought your point about dress how you feel was good-- and I think it actually in someways works the same as "dress good, feel good"-- it requires some thought and effort being put into what you wear, rather than reaching for yesterday's sweatpants-- and it's often that intentionality that lifts the mood, and your way avoids any cognitive dissonance which is uncomfortable
    Keep up the thoughtful content!❤

  • @smac1517
    @smac1517 14 дней назад

    gagged - most relatable thing I’ve come across so far. You hit the nail on the head with each reason

  • @mudslidegirl
    @mudslidegirl 2 месяца назад +3

    i also think that sometimes what you want in your inspo pic is the way the outfit looks on the body of the person in the picture, not necessarily the shapes and textures and colors of the outfit. sometimes i love the way an outfit looks and when i recreate it i end up hating it, and i realize that it's because the person wearing it is very tall and thin, but i am short and curvy- so i need to reassess if i like about the outfit, not just the way it looks on a certain type of person

  • @bcardosol
    @bcardosol Час назад

    12:20 heavy agree to this. I love consuming fashion content from Asian girls but as a Brazilian tall and curvy girl, I have to be very intentional about it.

  • @lilybethlewis
    @lilybethlewis 2 месяца назад +8

    This video felt like style therapy! 10/10 advice. Will be considering all of them

  • @anacarolinarocha3133
    @anacarolinarocha3133 2 месяца назад +4

    I was not expecting this to be so accurate! Great great tips!

  • @harleymayo-u6r
    @harleymayo-u6r Месяц назад +1

    This is such a helpful video! Being realistic is so difficult in a space which, for many of us, is the only part of our day where we can fantasise and be creative. I really love that you mentioned leaning into more 'slouchy' 'relaxed' outfits when you're feeling a little ugly, shy, insecure etc. Because it highlights this whole mantra that when getting dressed, this should be used as an opportunity to check in with ourselves, allowing inner thoughts and feelings to permeate, rather than be ignored and met with frustration later. I have always had a conflict with clothes, being madly inspired and excited whilst on the other-hand sometimes feeling exhausted and disheartened. Perhaps it is about letting clothes and fashion become a more flexible and kinder place for feelings, instead of something rigid and straightforward made from often unrealistic visions. Hope that made sense lol :)

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  Месяц назад

      @harleymayo-u6r loveee this 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @AJDwatching
    @AJDwatching 2 месяца назад +13

    I love how you use reference photos-subscribed!

  • @FadhiliTheOne
    @FadhiliTheOne 2 месяца назад +10

    These tips are EXCELLENT!!! Funny coincidence cuz I keep telling my sister “maybe it’s not a laco of clothes but a lack of organizing and proper storage” 😂Thanks for putting this together!

  • @EliseHolland-wp2mj
    @EliseHolland-wp2mj 2 дня назад

    thank you for your insight, this was actually so eye opening! looking forward to implementing these tips in the future💕

  • @vioxlaria9896
    @vioxlaria9896 12 дней назад

    this is the first video in a long time where I have learned something new, thank you

  • @ttrashley
    @ttrashley 2 месяца назад +4

    ok the 10/90 split of real normal at-home life vs going out to meet friends is so real and really made things click in my brain. 🤯

  • @graciecurtis2048
    @graciecurtis2048 2 месяца назад +2

    Love these tips! totally feel the messy room and needed to hear that. please more detail yes

  • @camillef8698
    @camillef8698 2 месяца назад +2

    I found your tips super clever and a great way to think about our closet more realistically! 🌻 I just don't resonate with the lipstick one, not everyone feels good with lipstick on (due to mouth size or lips thickness compared to the rest of one's features)

  • @pipelayomimiko
    @pipelayomimiko 2 месяца назад +3

    The haircut one is so true! I have a really cute short French, Taylor Russel type bob right now and then I put extensions in my hair for braids and now I miss my bob so bad and my fits do too!

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  2 месяца назад +1

      @@pipelayomimiko omg the Taylor Russel bob is everything. I’ve been thinking of a short chop 👀

  • @aliaelborai
    @aliaelborai 2 месяца назад +3

    Really really enjoyed this, it deeply resonated and felt refreshing from other videos on the topic

  • @camilacarmona
    @camilacarmona 2 месяца назад +9

    The thrift tip hit me hard oh god. I love my thrifting but I hit a Plato where most of the clothes just don’t feel right in me. I’m considering to start sewing to adjust them, but maybe I should first buy staples pieces that just fit me right first instead

    • @madd7e
      @madd7e 2 месяца назад +2

      noooo get into sewing if youre able to!! its so cool to wear your clothes and know its altered specifically for you!! plus way more options if you can wear dif sizes

  • @ellukej
    @ellukej 2 месяца назад +2

    Love to find somebody new and niche! Thank you Phoebe for creating super interesting video for me to enjoy! 💛✨️

  • @Verena2022
    @Verena2022 20 дней назад +6

    Obsessed with two of your tips:
    1) dress ugly when you feel ugly is a VIBE.
    2) The create inspiration for what you’ll realistically wear is so true. I work from home and have no need to stunt the way I used to at school or the office. I am in my pjs and maybe it is time for me to get a y2k velvet sweatsuit instead of so many slacks and jeans

  • @esther8262
    @esther8262 Месяц назад +1

    I've been loving ironing my clothes recently- my ironing skills are pretty shocking like it comes out looking the same as it did pre-iron lol, but i always feel better putting them on

  • @mathildewill7326
    @mathildewill7326 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Phoebe ! Just discovered your channel, your content is so dense thank you so much ! This whole video is pure gold, and I agree with e v e r y t h i n g you say ; I wished I stumbled upon your channel before having to figure all that out on my own ! To comment your thought about bold haircut, I have very fine hair and always hated it, I have a very androgynous look and have always struggled with my styles, specifically due to my hair that would never look the way I wanted. Until I literally shaved my head, and it's been a year since I LOVE my style, my clothes, and have absolutely no hair. Powerful haircut is everything !!!

  • @user-cf5hs1ov3m
    @user-cf5hs1ov3m Месяц назад +1

    The main reason is because I’m unhappy with my body and I need to lose weight but I do agree with most of your points. This was chill to listen to while cleaning so I’ll subscribe

  • @natalikla3285
    @natalikla3285 Месяц назад

    I love your hair so much! I was very surprised when you told that you need to change them because of outfit.

  • @cha295
    @cha295 Месяц назад +1

    this video is so well made and the points you make are so good!!

  • @zabitosarenke
    @zabitosarenke 2 месяца назад +2

    oh wow, hi girlie, I feel like you just said everything that's in my own private "fashion manifesto". 100% agree

  • @romu3252
    @romu3252 Месяц назад +3

    Wow this was very interesting and made me learn more!!! Thank you

  • @rebekahsdiary
    @rebekahsdiary 2 месяца назад +3

    not related to the topic, but i LOVE your intro - super creative!!

  • @Fierie333
    @Fierie333 2 месяца назад +2

    finallyy someone who gets it! you get me so so well! 100% this

  • @ariela_
    @ariela_ 2 месяца назад +88

    Baited me with that thumbnail

    • @alondra6111
      @alondra6111 2 месяца назад +6

      like…

    • @Kiiiiiiiiara
      @Kiiiiiiiiara 2 месяца назад +18

      Literally thought i was gonna see…oneofus😭😭

    • @ariela_
      @ariela_ 2 месяца назад +7

      @@Kiiiiiiiiara lmaoooo yes exactly, I wasn’t even paying attention at first cause I thought it was a long advertisement that I couldn’t skip then I was like wait a damn minute

    • @Kiiiiiiiiara
      @Kiiiiiiiiara 2 месяца назад +2

      @ 😭😭😭😭

    • @tristessesdelalune
      @tristessesdelalune 2 месяца назад +5

      Same haha

  • @rubywednesdays
    @rubywednesdays 2 месяца назад +1

    This was a great vid I’m so excited to check out your others ❤️

  • @emilyjo2158
    @emilyjo2158 2 месяца назад +1

    This was such a well done and genuinely refreshing video

  • @juliagreen3965
    @juliagreen3965 2 месяца назад +4

    ❤ Love your channel so much! Great tips! 🙏🏻

  • @Mebabytee
    @Mebabytee 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this video. Ur points were so on point! ❤

  • @princessd802
    @princessd802 2 месяца назад +1

    I loved this video, you gave so many great tips!

  • @inesterblanche
    @inesterblanche 2 месяца назад +1

    such a interesting concept !! loved this video

  • @m1lpyy
    @m1lpyy Месяц назад

    girl i love your hair!!

  • @aldanatuchsznajder346
    @aldanatuchsznajder346 2 месяца назад +1

    this was AWESOME, so many good tips

  • @khool_girl
    @khool_girl Месяц назад

    This video was actually INCREDIBLE. Subscribing right now!!😊

  • @crystalc9216
    @crystalc9216 2 месяца назад +1

    Wowowow, subscribed. These tips are so insightful!

  • @kassdapp6843
    @kassdapp6843 24 дня назад

    HEAVY on the pinterest tip!!!!

  • @jordansosin2274
    @jordansosin2274 День назад

    Soo random but I have been trying to figure out who you remind me of and it is Minnie Driver! Mostly when she was younger. Something about your features just really reminds me of her!

  • @lizfoster9495
    @lizfoster9495 5 дней назад

    such great tips, thank you :)

  • @brekaterina
    @brekaterina 2 месяца назад +10

    the way i’ve fallen victim to almost all of these 😵‍💫

  • @kurrristin
    @kurrristin 2 месяца назад +1

    I love this! Solid advice ❤

  • @pipelayomimiko
    @pipelayomimiko 2 месяца назад +1

    Wait... lemme subscribe real quick. Love your vibe.

  • @fjjjjjsdlfjslakjdf
    @fjjjjjsdlfjslakjdf 2 месяца назад +1

    such good tips. thank you.

  • @nastinka778
    @nastinka778 10 часов назад

    this was so helpful thnk u💙

  • @Katerinaas77
    @Katerinaas77 2 дня назад

    this is so real ty

  • @dianaramoscm
    @dianaramoscm Месяц назад

    Phoebe, where have you been the last ten years of my life? Suscribed already.

  • @Souls-at-zer0
    @Souls-at-zer0 2 месяца назад +2

    I hate my outfits cuz I’ve been out of highschool for 7 years yet I still wear all my highschool clothes… don’t have money for new clothes haha… and when I DO get new clothes they are so fucking cheap they rip and come apart I cannot even wear it! The only clothes I have are like a decade old .. half my shirts are OG from the 90s (thanks dad) and they still last longer than any shirt I’ve got in my own time. Every jewelry I’ve got, broken, dresses? Threads come out it falls apart . Pants? All the crutches, rip out ect.ect . i dont even bother getting new clothing anymore …
    BUT good advice in video, i just dont have the clothes to do.

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  2 месяца назад +2

      @@Souls-at-zer0 I’m gonna think about this and try to come up with a video that might help! 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @dictefaerch
    @dictefaerch 2 месяца назад +4

    what boots are you wearing - they look so nice!!

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  2 месяца назад

      @@dictefaerch thrifted! Brand is Nine West 🫶🏽

  • @Dark-uk4oz
    @Dark-uk4oz 2 месяца назад +1

    Instant subscribe!!! I love everything about this video. The presentation, the thumbnail, the spot on advice.

  • @planetvarz
    @planetvarz 2 месяца назад +1

    these tips were amazing!!!!

  • @maitearmstrong1890
    @maitearmstrong1890 Месяц назад

    This is soooo good, thank you!!!!

  • @nayara7604
    @nayara7604 13 дней назад

    I needed this video

  • @blooumn
    @blooumn Месяц назад

    one of my friends re on the thumbnail (: honestly so cool ,, good video!

  • @giovannamartinez5124
    @giovannamartinez5124 2 месяца назад +1

    Love it!

  • @rosafischer2748
    @rosafischer2748 2 месяца назад +1

    Wauw, analyzed 10/10, i feel seen haha

  • @lovecherrymoonx8936
    @lovecherrymoonx8936 2 месяца назад +1

    I don't have a closet or any where to put my clothes in so I struggle with keeping them organized. I don't know what to do it's goinh to take at least three more months to be able to afford one

    • @__phoebe.taylor
      @__phoebe.taylor  2 месяца назад

      @@lovecherrymoonx8936 you might be able to find a used clothing rack for pretty cheap! Ive seen them look quite beautiful in a bedroom on Pinterest before 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @vanillac0ffeebean
    @vanillac0ffeebean 2 месяца назад +1

    wow these are real good.

  • @CocoaBelow
    @CocoaBelow Месяц назад

    This is such a good video on this topic

  • @alyssataylor9891
    @alyssataylor9891 5 дней назад

    Love this video wow

  • @StrawberryCake689
    @StrawberryCake689 Месяц назад +1

    this video is so good I felt my frontal lobe develop

  • @foreverbored2009
    @foreverbored2009 14 дней назад

    hi phoebe thank you for your advice!! also wait omg who are the gorgeous girls in the thumbnail?? 😍

  • @svcsc-b3l
    @svcsc-b3l 2 месяца назад +1

    youre a genius omg

  • @Violeta-franco
    @Violeta-franco Месяц назад +1

    "this could look really cool with this pair of boots that i´m hoping to find in another thrift store" SO WE ALL GIRLS THINK THE SAME WAY

  • @carmensanchez5472
    @carmensanchez5472 Месяц назад

    great ideas girl

  • @violett8042
    @violett8042 2 месяца назад +1

    so well thought

  • @notmeggybutmeg
    @notmeggybutmeg 2 дня назад

    100% agree with dressing ugly when you feel ugly! it's almost... cathartic LMAO i've tried dressing cute when i felt ugly and i just felt WORSE because i felt like i made a cute outfit ugly/i feel wrong jldskfjlkawe