For anyone criticising her presentation skills: she knows that her stalker will be watching her and recording her so that he can watch this over and over again. It must be like being in a courtroom knowing that the person who has caused you so much pain is scrutinising your every word, movement, gesture, intonation and mannerisms. She is very brave to do this; I applaud her.
Gosh that's a good point. Intense. I was thinking that many of the folk commenting on her appearance and presentation have simply never been on TV, it's quiet nerve wraking (I've been there)
Thank you for saying this. This stalker has no life what so ever and she deserves so much respect for sharing her story. I hope she's doing fine now and I wish all happiness to her way 💕
How many adults here are criticizing this woman for her appearance or “poor communication skills”? Seriously? She was probably nervous! I would be the same way. Geez! 🙄 Let’s talk about the actual issue at hand, shall we?
Christine Lo --- exagerated!??!... HOW!??!... She didn"t even say anything Bad happened out of this...( as in..he assaulted her..or like "physicaly" stalked her...in person).. Etc she barely even went into Details !!! There"s absolutelu Nothing about what she said in that interview that was or "seemed" "exagerated" ... ! .. Just get over yourself
Seeking status and fame though--Megyn already was discredited and this already was Roni's first television debut. It's unfortunate Roni made this her life choice, but she knows the criticism she faces moving forward. This was never what I wanted for Roni to be humiliated like this. If any of this went to court with Roni's family, be prepared of the NAACP Congressional Legal Fund making a political statement
Yes, they do that to me too. After being harassed in the most vicious way my PTSD sets in and I start to have problems with my language skills. They will usually harass me until I get to that point and then make fun of it. At home when recuperating, then my intelligence kicks in.
Ironically, my stalker and I just reached our 15 year anniversary apparently because he sent my husband flowers telling him to give them to me. My husband and I have been together for 15 years as well. But he hates my husband because he claims "he saw me first"
When I was in college, a female student was shot in the face by a stalker she had be e n trying to avoid. He came to campus and shot her because she was avoiding him. We were all on lock down for hours. She died. Stalking is serious.
I'm not being rude. But maybe she shouldn't have avoided him. Just being honest. Give him a chance. Don't ignore ppl. That's ignorant. If u don't like them or wanna be with them, explain that to them, but in a nice way. Men find rejection very very hard.
@@daynat2349 are you on crack? How is it my responsibility if men can't take rejection well? Deal and transform that negative feeling to something positive then. There are millions of emotionally stable men who deal with rejection in a healthy way. Just because weak men don't want to deal with their emotions doesn't mean that I have to do it for them.
The nervous state of a victim is very understandable. All of my days are filled with having to listen to the worst lies about the stalking case and being bullied by countless people.
I've had someone doing it since I was 13...it's horrible. I mean...it's been a little longer than 15 years. It was no help trying to get legal help either. Ugh... /_( .__. )_\
Y'all need to knock it off about her language and words. I took a Journalism class a year or two ago in High School and just because you're one, doesn't mean you have good public speaking skills. Talking to someone one on one or one to a small group is different than one to millions of people. Plus she may be nervous about telling this story.
You lost me at "Y'all" . I don't take English or grammatical advice from people who use hick terms. Moonshine and starting a fire with pine cones and a beaver pelt however, I'll give you ten minutes. (Two shakes of a goat's tail.)
@@Havaseet2 She wasn't giving you, or anyone else, advice. She's simply pointing out some people are being jerks and why what they're saying is stupid. It's also amazingly dumb that you'd conclude that someone is a hick based off a single word. It's an assumption that makes you look moronic. Thankfully, most people will write you off for being judgemental and idiotic.
Exactly, Jillian M. There are many highly intelligent people who work in journalism who might not be wonderful at public speaking. For some, especially the introverted, writing comes much easier.
@@FriendlyHomie I've always had an adoration for noses. It's one of the first things I notice about a person. They give so much character to a face. They also can totally change a person's facial dynamics when in profile etc 👃 🤗
More like stop forcing people into relationship that they do not want with the threat of them not being "polite". So they fear that they will be judged. It is sick and kills people! Raise children to have self respect!
People criticising this woman need to understand that 15 years is a very long time to be hunted by someone. Stalking is simply a kinder way to state what it is. She is viewed by her predator as his prey and she has been aware of this for a long time. She is choosing her words very carefully because she would not wish to accidentally say something that her stalker may misconstrue as encouragement for his actions. Also with trauma many memories run into each other and it takes a lot of energy to recall exact moments in time, in an effort to explain stuff clearly. Compassion is what this woman needs, not judgement.
So for ten minutes no law enforcement intervention and she can't release this individual's real name? Why would she protect this individual still instead of making it more legitimate releasing the actual identity? Fake news!
I'm not a woman but I feel like this is true. That's why I treat my niece like I treat my nephew. I someday hope to treat my daughter the same as well, whenever I have kids...
I worked private duty for a year as I knew he'd be looking for me at all the hospitals & nursing homes.....by then he'd moved on....probably to a new victim. Eventually he died from his drinking.
Nicki nurse I am so glad you are free now. I hope that I will be someday free from this. Mine is still doing after many years and I look foward for the day I can have privacy again.
Nicki nurse Im a RN too. Mine ruined my ability to find work. I like that they mention the waste of your time - mine is still out there - unpunished . These people need institutionalized
@@ifollowillingly2 Am I the only one that thinks Megyn Kelly is an absolutely _awful_ interviewer, particularly in pieces that are live and not edited? I find these stories interesting but trying to watch them with Megyn Kelly is painful and annoying.
Prepped her how? Megyn Kelly is a racist and was condemned by NAACP? How could you support either of them? www.thewrap.com/naacp-tells-megyn-kelly-check-blackface-always-racist-never-ok/
26 years here. You are not alone. He still sends people to ask my relatives about me. They actually come to them with "bribes". And like clockwork...the attempted communications begin around his birthday every year OR if something happens (like the death of a mutual friend). Stay strong!
@@NicoleM2108 late replay yeah one of the tactics is a death in the family or even if they can find they try to get in by contacting a relative. Looked up my legal rights and a carefully worded letter threatening legal action if i heard from him one more time to his address where his wife lived nipped that .
@@winendesertrose Thank you for the reply...and your timing is impeccable! For the first time in 28 years I got an email (just last month - and on a birthday!) This is the first communication that actually got through directly to me as he did not know where I lived. It was very creepy - a bit of attempted (but certainly failed) emotional manipulation, then some sort of evaluation/praise/judgement about my accomplishments as I "matured", then some short venting (still bitter he cannot control), then a closing with another attempt to emotionally manipulate (no responsibility at all on his part in his mini-trip down memory lane, more like "what you and your family did to me is done, so nothing I can do" type of thing. LOL, my extended family either did NOT know where I was or vaguely did, but kept him at bay because they sensed something was wrong. I do not worry because I am in a place he cannot travel easily to (we are in different countries) but, still, very creepy. Thanks again for not making my feel alone! Stay strong everyone!
I think she had a lot of empathy for him because she is also a little socially nervous and can understand being off putting to people. I am too, so I try to evaluate some ones "field of intentions". As it were. I have no idea why I am posting this?
I agree, I'm glad you posted this not only is it insightful but it's way more unique than the tons of comments complaining about how negative the comment section is.
Yeah I can relate, I tend to feel bad for people who get excluded from social situations because I feel like that person could be me. But sometimes I end up regretting trying to befriend such people.
Is it just me or do they usually end up ppl that won’t respect your boundaries? I wonder if there’s a correlation between the person being excluded socially and them overstepping their boundaries with ppl that show them attention?
Children needs to be raised with self awareness. To listen to their guts. There is a difference between being shy and being actually off. The first one is just a reaction and the second one is a red flag.
Comments are absolutely disgusting. I know what it's like trying to just be nice to someone who doesn't deserve it. It's a tactic used for protection to avoid big ugly situations. You never know how a stranger would react, so you speak with a calm tone of voice with words to match. It helps me feel like I'm in control of the situation. I've been stalked home, online multiple times, had personal numbers posted on adult sites. So much blame for not just blocking him, even though she did, it did not stop him. The first stalker I had I cussed out daily for breathing down my neck while walking home from middle school. He would walk directly behind me home because he knew it bothered me. I'd push him away or run and he would not leave me alone. Yet the school listened to him first when he said I was a bully because he had mental health issues, the female coach said in a tone as if I was supposed to forgive him instantly for that. I've met 4 people in my life fully hiding behind their mental illness to get away with stalking and sexual harassment and they got away every time. If you stay quiet, later people complain why you didn't do it earlier. If you're vocal, everyone nitpicks each detail on how they would have done better in your situation. Like dealing with stalkers is supposed to be natural for everybody.
Unfortunately, it can also prompt them to up the ante and do it moreso. Even if you report it to law enforcement, some have the , IDK if it’s arrogance and entitlement or a real mental illness, to thumb their nose and that and continue.
Never ever give away your strategy to your stalker. No contact is no contact, no exception. This is nothing but domestic terrorism. I thank this woman for speaking up and sharing her experience.
Well she talk slow and too much aaah.. ahh.. ohh..ahh, nothing wrong with that if thats the way she talk, maybe she is nervous, but Meghan need to direct/ control the show, the time, seconds count in this kind of show
I had a guy try to stalk me. I feel horrible, but I had to have my brother threaten violence to the person to get him to stop. I’m just grateful it worked honestly.
This guy took it to the next level, contacting her employers, etc., but this situation is SOOO common! It’s a scary world out there, and we need to bring awareness to this issue!
I was 15 and had a very intense obsessive stalker at highschool who turned dangerous. Thankfully the police took it seriously. Then a few years after I had another. Now as a 29 year old , I have a hyper awareness of everyone around me in every area I am in. It never leaves you
Omg, there is this guy impersonating himself as a woman, can not get crazier. I am a normal woman who is so freaked out by this weirdo. I know he is who he is,
I can't imagine what it would be like to suffer from being stalked for such a long time. I applaud Roni's bravery to share her story and help raise our awareness to this very serious problem.
You don’t have to imagine there plenty of people being gangstalked through community watch, and other community policing tactics.It’s real and everyone participates because they’re told lies and told the person needs to be watched because he or she may be a danger to himself or others
megyn kelly shows here just how bad she is at interviewing. generic questions, generic comments with minimal insight. she should just say. hi, tell us your story. awful.
I'm being stalked, followed by a neighbor. I'm almost 60 years old. I want people to know that stalkers destroy your life. I wake up everyday having to figure out how to live the the day. I no longer have the freedom to come and go as I please. I can never be alone in nature. Walking from my home to my car feels life threatening. Just last night I received a notification on my phone that I have an unknown Apple Airtag on my car. I was food shopping and had to call the police. I have to spend my money on a scanner, motion detector lights, weapons...... My life does not exist really, not any more. I'm just trying to survive.
I had a stalker for 3 years people need to take this seriously...... it effects everything in your life and many times ends in kidnappings or murder etc .....
Why are people making fun of her? She’s been stalked for 15 YEARS. Of course she’s not going to be comfortable talking about this.. and the people pointing out her hair and how she spoke just really irritate me!
A graduate teaching assistant started stalking my daughter when she was a freshman. After about 6 weeks she called me one night saying she didn't think she could go to class (where he was lecturing) the following morning. I told her not to go and to send me copies of the text messages and emails he was sending her. I contacted the office of student affairs the next day (Monday), and told them instead of my daughter I'd be the one at his next lecture and would deal with the situation myself if they couldn't. He was never heard from again. Sometimes a dad just needs to handle things in that way only a dad is willing to do.
Stalkers are scary, be it physical stalking or cyber stalking. It's uncomfortable and very unsettling. I've been stalked for many years and I am sick and tried of my privacy being invaded. And yes, police isin't always helpful and you don't know who to turn to for help.
I’ve been stalked and it’s not a good feeling. I made it clear that I did not want anything to do with them. I said NO unapologetically because people like that are manipulative, deceptive, and dangerous.
Emphasis on *perceived* because if it's for your safety or the safety of others it's not actually rude. (e.g. *Pushing* someone inorder to move them out of the way of a falling boulder) Because being *Rude* ...Is *Crude* Hhahhahaha...Ok I'll stop now
One of the worst parts about stalking is that it’s SO INTRUSIVE and yet SO INTANGIBLE. Proving you’re being stalked involves getting the authorities to understand the state of mind of the perpetrator instead of their actions. Police don’t think things like a note on a car, a knife in your front yard, a person frequenting YOUR WORKPLACE when they have no business being in that town, or a person on YOUR campus where they have NO BUSINESS WHATSOEVER in being there is a problem; but it’s how they operate. It’s them sending you a message that they’re always there. I’m not sure if police and law enforcement have a unified and effective protocol on how to deal with it.
Try dealing with an ex who harassed the people around you to isolate and sabotage you. Everyone worries about how it affects them. Forget the fact that they aren't even the target. I am SICK OF IT!
Alot of people don't take stalking seriously. When I was stalked all i kept hearing was " Oh, he really likes you. Why are you being so standoffish? You just blocking your blessing." Nevermind the fact that he was making me uncomfortable. When he escalated everything changed to "OMG! That mf crazy!" I knew that already!!! Geeze!
Women dont owe men any attention just coz they force their attention on them. This is harrassment n bullying. But if someone just wants to pick a fight with u, dont run away from the fight. Fight them. And I mean confront them in a physical fight.
Flumadiddle ..... this lady in the video has no clue how to really communicate I guess she's really nervous and she doesn't really know how to communicate she totally blew it by accepting him on Facebook she seems really weak and I think her stalker really likes that I have a stalker now of 17 years and if somebody interviewed me I would really give the real details this girl is barely telling the interviewer what's going on, what's really going on
I totally agree with you. She seems to not be able to get her thoughts out through speaking. She may be more comfortable with writing instead. Gosh, I'm nervous for her and she was all over the place with her story.
I will appear mean, rude and crude a million times before I find myself in this situation! My mother raised us to speak our minds and not be afraid of what others think! Follow your gut instinct because it’s always right
She is sensing her struggle to express herself and is merely helping out to get the interview going forward. One can be a great writer/journalist and not be comfortable in front of a camera knowing a large audience is watching you.
i didn't say megan was the cringy one, this interview on a whole was cringy. and there should be other ways to help an interview move along without sounding condescending. i felt no ounce of empathy from her and i saw it again with another interview. she has the personality of a news anchor who should remain neutral. having a morning talk show isn't for her then
Treat women with respect and also respect their privacy. And she wasn't being rude at all. She had a stalker for 15 years and now she has people staring at her and cameras are in her face she's nervous give her a break she's a human that's been through something that no one should go through.
I pray that she gets the peace that she deserves after enduring that kind of psychological trauma it's taken a toll on her as it would any of us too. So proud of these women for speaking up about this and how we clearly need to stop being people pleasers! It's ok to be rude sometimes or basically it's ok to have boundaries and we don't have to feel bad/guilty about it! It's ok to tell someone that they are making you feel uncomfortable.
I feel so bad for her, having to put up with such an ongoing issue would be awful. I'm so pleased that she & her family are able to now put this behind them 🙏🏽
I’ve never had a problem being rude to someone who made me feel uncomfortable. I’ve always listened to my gut, if there are red flags, my safety is infinitely more important than his comfort level.
I have a problem with some people I don't even know personally who have been stalking me for about that long. It's almost impossible to get the police to do anything about it. We need better laws for dealing with this problem.
Arthur Of Monte Cristo are you joking? It doesn't matter what she did... there is nothing she did that makes it okay to be stalked for 30 odd years. The problem isn't her, it is with him and his behaviour.
@@arthurofmontecristo3183 wth with the victim blaming??? It doesn't start with anything. They are just insane. Once I was nice with a new player on an online game and the dude got obsessed with me. Fortunately, it was only online and ONLY on said game, but I did NOTHING wrong to get that. I wasn't flirty at all. I even told him I'm lesbian.
Article: Early one evening last March, my best friend saw my name pop up in a text notification on her phone. The message, which appeared to come from my gmail account, read: “felt a bit sad today about how I never made any friends at Emory during my time there. Not one. god I’m a loser. all I’ve got is my hair lol.” She called me as soon as she got home from work. “Are you okay?” “What? Yeah, everything’s fine,” I answered. She told me about the text, but even as she spoke we realized what had happened.“Ugh,” I said. “It’s Danny.” My cyberstalker had struck again, this time with a spot on impersonation of me and my neuroses.
I have had multiple stalking situations, most often from people I had been in close relationships with that ended. An ex-husband waited for me to get off work and followed me every night. I drove on backroads until I lost him. An ex-boyfriend locked me a room in our house for several hours when I came to get the last of my belongings. I stayed calm and repeatedly tried to reason with him until he released me on the promise of giving him another chance. I said what I had to. He never got another chance. Still, I never reported it because I didn't think it would do any good. I have a friend who was murdered by her stalker who she had a restraining order against. My point is simply that most people probably don't report, and the benefit of reporting is questionable.
Stalkers will escalate their behavior. Some victims do not survive the harassment. But, please always speak out when this is happening to you. Never remain silent.
You can tell by the way she sits, uptight, thats shes on guard and scared. The interviewer sits relaxed with her shoulders down. This is real. I had one sending me letters for 22 years and it was another woman! Although she had a family and children, she still kept sendiing me letters.
I had a stalker for two years!!! It's terrible .....its the fact it goes on and on and on ........the police do nothing it should be taken more seriously!!! It destroys you!!!
I know and you become paranoid about everything :/ and then when you notice weird stuff other people think its too crazy to be true but some people are really like that.Mine would dress very differently each time to try and help disguise him,even once trying to disguise himself as a Muslim woman though it was a very poor disguise.I could see a man's figure and recognised his gait and beard and everything.I know it sounds kind of funny but also very disturbing what extents someone will go to.
The stalker doesn't necessarily have to be violent. I was stalked for at least 8 years or so, who knows if my stalker is still watching. He used to leave notes and knives around my place. Thank good the last time he left knives was August 2016!!!
Did you call the police? They can do a DNA test on the notes and knives if you don't touch them yourself. You could get a good restraining order against him and probably some money to pay for your trauma at the psychologist (do that if possible, every dime helps).
TODAY - being stalked by a man is the worst thing that has ever happened personally as a person, to me. When someone stalks you, they will never stop stalking you. Stalking , there is only one way stocking will end. Death by the stalker your death or the stalkers death.
I went through a small period where I stalking a guy. I am horribly embarrassed by it now. I was in my early teens but it still doesn't make it right. I got really obsessed with him. I would call him all the time and blow up his phone with text messages . Looking back, I think I was just trying to deal with my own trauma. I had recently got out of a sexual abuse situation and maybe that was my way of coping. I would NEVER do this now. But now this guy and I are friends on facebook. He knows I was just harmless and annoying. I have apologized and kind of explained my situation without too much detail.
Diana Moondust well done for realizing I’m proud of you 😄👏 I too got a bit obsessed with a boy but I just followed him at school and tried to stalk his lessons haha
My ex boss started stalking me and i happened to be talking to my doctor about it and she wrote me a letter to not return to work for my health and safety. I didnt really understand at the time why she took it so seriously but now i do.
These days it seems, even as a civilian, you can’t even tell people your real name, which is truly sad. There are too many avenues for invasion of privacy. Speaking from more than one experience.
sometimes being rude only makes them more aggressive. I think it's more important to be socially aware of your surroundings and interactions, spotting the red flags when they present themselves, self defense, always try to keep the situation calm, go on life broadcasting so that there's evidence, asking for help, distancing yourself as soon as you can
I got stalked in my college days... it got to be terrifying so I had to move to the other side of the city. That helped a lot. Keeping a fake name on social media helps as well.
This is creepy...i actually had a similar experience, which exploded a couple nights ago. This guy has me on edge and makes me extremely nervous even after I confronted him and blocked him. The fear of the unknown.. after listening to this, I've realized there's more red flags than I knew of before.
She is saying that she confronted him and that she is scared of the unknown. The police won’t do anything unless she can prove that he has done something to harm her.
Same here, he was acting polite and respectful but was pushing boundaries carefully so I was allowing it as I wanted to be nice. We don't have contact in 2 months now. Hope I won't meet him by accident.
For anyone criticising her presentation skills: she knows that her stalker will be watching her and recording her so that he can watch this over and over again. It must be like being in a courtroom knowing that the person who has caused you so much pain is scrutinising your every word, movement, gesture, intonation and mannerisms. She is very brave to do this; I applaud her.
Gosh that's a good point. Intense. I was thinking that many of the folk commenting on her appearance and presentation have simply never been on TV, it's quiet nerve wraking (I've been there)
AWESOME & WELL SAID, MERCI, MERCI!!!
@Ssss Aaaa Basically. 😣
Thank you for saying this. This stalker has no life what so ever and she deserves so much respect for sharing her story. I hope she's doing fine now and I wish all happiness to her way 💕
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HER PRESENTATION!!! She's an average person, not an actress
How many adults here are criticizing this woman for her appearance or “poor communication skills”? Seriously? She was probably nervous! I would be the same way. Geez! 🙄
Let’s talk about the actual issue at hand, shall we?
or shes LYING!!! I am getting the distinct impression that she is grossly exaggerating for some political agenda.
Christine Lo --- exagerated!??!... HOW!??!... She didn"t even say anything Bad happened out of this...( as in..he assaulted her..or like "physicaly" stalked her...in person).. Etc she barely even went into Details !!! There"s absolutelu Nothing about what she said in that interview that was or "seemed" "exagerated" ... ! .. Just get over yourself
Lauren I know, the comments are disturbing. Wonder if it’s this loser pretending to be someone else.
Lauren Agreed. She's so extremely nervous she can barely articulate what she's trying to say. Poor thing
me. it was unnerving. sorry.
For those bashing her communication skills: I’d like to see you endure that for 15 yrs and speak on it in front of millions - including your stalker!
Some supposedly confident people call into radio programs with millions listening & they can barely talk because they're so nervous.
Megyn Kelly had some graphic communication on blackface; hope these two lay low today. Was it mentioned about me being an NAACP member?
Seeking status and fame though--Megyn already was discredited and this already was Roni's first television debut. It's unfortunate Roni made this her life choice, but she knows the criticism she faces moving forward. This was never what I wanted for Roni to be humiliated like this. If any of this went to court with Roni's family, be prepared of the NAACP Congressional Legal Fund making a political statement
Yes, they do that to me too. After being harassed in the most vicious way my PTSD sets in and I start to have problems with my language skills. They will usually harass me until I get to that point and then make fun of it.
At home when recuperating, then my intelligence kicks in.
Ironically, my stalker and I just reached our 15 year anniversary apparently because he sent my husband flowers telling him to give them to me. My husband and I have been together for 15 years as well. But he hates my husband because he claims "he saw me first"
When I was in college, a female student was shot in the face by a stalker she had be e n trying to avoid. He came to campus and shot her because she was avoiding him. We were all on lock down for hours. She died. Stalking is serious.
That is so crazy and scary, but its so true, stalking can go from 0-100 Fast!!
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I'm not being rude. But maybe she shouldn't have avoided him. Just being honest. Give him a chance. Don't ignore ppl. That's ignorant. If u don't like them or wanna be with them, explain that to them, but in a nice way. Men find rejection very very hard.
Women pls understand men are fragile. Their egos will be smashed to bits if they get a no.
@@daynat2349 are you on crack? How is it my responsibility if men can't take rejection well? Deal and transform that negative feeling to something positive then. There are millions of emotionally stable men who deal with rejection in a healthy way. Just because weak men don't want to deal with their emotions doesn't mean that I have to do it for them.
She seems absolutely traumatized as a person. I feel terribly for her.
I don't see it. She seem really ok to me
Listen to the cadence of how she speaks...it's not quite "right". It's not a value judgment on her, but it's just my opinion.
Wendy Alien So only poor people can be traumatized like what?
That's a very nice thing to say. I agree! 💖
@Wendy AlienOh, & let me guess, you don't, right? That's obvious,..
She’s not even acting weird. I assume that’s just her personality and she’s nervous. She’s incredibly brave to speak out and is clearly intelligent
Megyn Kelly professionally was disqualified by the NAACP; this interview has no merit
@@adamkaufman7323 Wow.... whatever that means..
Clearly intelligent? Roni is all graphic with Megyn Kelly, the Queen of Black-Face. What a riot!!!!
The nervous state of a victim is very understandable. All of my days are filled with having to listen to the worst lies about the stalking case and being bullied by countless people.
Her mouth was probably really dry due to the nervousness 🥺
wtf 15 years thats intense
This is Cutie Ringo Joy it's really scary
Tragically, it happens.
I've had someone doing it since I was 13...it's horrible. I mean...it's been a little longer than 15 years. It was no help trying to get legal help either. Ugh... /_( .__. )_\
And she's not even hot wtf
that's because she enjoyed the attention
Y'all need to knock it off about her language and words. I took a Journalism class a year or two ago in High School and just because you're one, doesn't mean you have good public speaking skills. Talking to someone one on one or one to a small group is different than one to millions of people. Plus she may be nervous about telling this story.
Esp considering the subject matter.. couldn't have been easy. :( Be well.
You lost me at "Y'all" . I don't take English or grammatical advice from people who use hick terms. Moonshine and starting a fire with pine cones and a beaver pelt however, I'll give you ten minutes. (Two shakes of a goat's tail.)
Havaseet2 - I wouldn't talk about lack of class & taste when you uploaded a video with rap in it.
@@Havaseet2 She wasn't giving you, or anyone else, advice. She's simply pointing out some people are being jerks and why what they're saying is stupid. It's also amazingly dumb that you'd conclude that someone is a hick based off a single word. It's an assumption that makes you look moronic. Thankfully, most people will write you off for being judgemental and idiotic.
Exactly, Jillian M. There are many highly intelligent people who work in journalism who might not be wonderful at public speaking. For some, especially the introverted, writing comes much easier.
The big issue with stalking is that law enforcement don’t take it seriously. A woman can be in grave danger and they will do nothing.
I agree
Yes. They take stalkers seriously but not the victims of it. It's absurd.
That's cause they do it too
This.
I really wish Megyn Kelley would shut up and let her guests talk. 😤
I know. She's like a young Nancy Grace
I think she was purposely giving her guest some breathing time
I love her nose. She is such a beautiful, classy woman. No one deserves to go through this.
thestars .night 😜
I thought I was the only one who liked people's noses. She does have a nice one, and nice lips. I'm not sure why people are criticising her.
Agreed. I wish I had a nose like that
she has such a pretty face, reminds me of Eastern European for some some reason.
@@FriendlyHomie I've always had an adoration for noses. It's one of the first things I notice about a person. They give so much character to a face. They also can totally change a person's facial dynamics when in profile etc 👃 🤗
Moral of the Story: When people seem "off".....leave them alone. Stop befriending Psychos in the name of compassion. They're sick.
Especially the one's that black face, that is completely sick
Amen
AMEN
More like stop forcing people into relationship that they do not want with the threat of them not being "polite". So they fear that they will be judged.
It is sick and kills people!
Raise children to have self respect!
I mean, she was 12 years old. Can't really expect her to have had insight on this at such a young age.
People criticising this woman need to understand that 15 years is a very long time to be hunted by someone.
Stalking is simply a kinder way to state what it is. She is viewed by her predator as his prey and she has been aware of this for a long time.
She is choosing her words very carefully because she would not wish to accidentally say something that her stalker may misconstrue as encouragement for his actions.
Also with trauma many memories run into each other and it takes a lot of energy to recall exact moments in time, in an effort to explain stuff clearly.
Compassion is what this woman needs, not judgement.
Well said :)
So for ten minutes no law enforcement intervention and she can't release this individual's real name? Why would she protect this individual still instead of making it more legitimate releasing the actual identity? Fake news!
Look what it did to Lady Diana.
@@adamkaufman7323 wTAF is wrong with you?
“Women are raised to be nice” amen
nice?
never met one..
SO MUCH truth in this statement.
I'm not a woman but I feel like this is true.
That's why I treat my niece like I treat my nephew.
I someday hope to treat my daughter the same as well, whenever I have kids...
As they should be?
Not my dad! He taught me to use a bat when necessary
I had to go undercover for years to lose my stalker.....days before social media. It would be much harder to do now.
Nicki nurse How did you get rid of him?
I worked private duty for a year as I knew he'd be looking for me at all the hospitals & nursing homes.....by then he'd moved on....probably to a new victim. Eventually he died from his drinking.
Nicki nurse I am so glad you are free now. I hope that I will be someday free from this. Mine is still doing after many years and I look foward for the day I can have privacy again.
Nicki nurse Im a RN too. Mine ruined my ability to find work. I like that they mention the waste of your time - mine is still out there - unpunished . These people need institutionalized
nicki - psychology today had an article that said 'feel sorry for them' - 🤣 i figured it was written by a stalker!
I think she had an anxiety attack, that's why she was blocked and couldn't talk.
LENEY oro I believe so too I honestly feel really bad. She was very nervous.
I would also be anxious if the presenter kept interrupting me
Celia that's what I was thinking!!! She was anxious and megyn kept interupting her!
@@ifollowillingly2 Am I the only one that thinks Megyn Kelly is an absolutely _awful_ interviewer, particularly in pieces that are live and not edited? I find these stories interesting but trying to watch them with Megyn Kelly is painful and annoying.
@@OverdramaticAngel she definitely comes across so fake & absolutely no empathy!!!
Why is everyone commenting about Roni so negatively? She’s been traumatized. Leave her alone.
She played a nasty prank on me and called out Megyn Kelly on black face. Everyone should be laughing
megan is horrible at interviews... let the girl tell her story!
true. she's fired now
y i k e s omg so true 💀💀💀 she keeps stopping her
@@erinflorida2081 Did her show get cancelled? I don't watch TV, so I didn't realize after was fired.
She’s beautiful.
Finally a positive comment about her. I'm shocked at how many negative comments there are about nothing.
Travels with Auntie Ann. 😜😒
Yes
No offense, I don't think she likes to see such comments. You know, considering her experience with creepy messages
She Ugly
How was he allowed to terrorize her for 15 years?!?! How horrible for her.
I’ve learned from experience that women such as myself never need to be “nice” I’m too nice and it’s put me in a dangerous situation before.
guys - give her a break - she alludes to her shyness at the git go. this is national TV -the producers should have prepped her better.
Prepped her how? Megyn Kelly is a racist and was condemned by NAACP? How could you support either of them? www.thewrap.com/naacp-tells-megyn-kelly-check-blackface-always-racist-never-ok/
She knows what's she's doing don't worry
My stalker is on year 18. This is tragically common, but when the stalker is an ex friend or partner the law doesn’t take it as seriously
26 years here. You are not alone. He still sends people to ask my relatives about me. They actually come to them with "bribes". And like clockwork...the attempted communications begin around his birthday every year OR if something happens (like the death of a mutual friend). Stay strong!
Amen....didn’t feel really safe until I read my stalker’s obituary...
@@NicoleM2108 late replay yeah one of the tactics is a death in the family or even if they can find they try to get in by contacting a relative. Looked up my legal rights and a carefully worded letter threatening legal action if i heard from him one more time to his address where his wife lived nipped that .
@@winendesertrose Thank you for the reply...and your timing is impeccable! For the first time in 28 years I got an email (just last month - and on a birthday!) This is the first communication that actually got through directly to me as he did not know where I lived. It was very creepy - a bit of attempted (but certainly failed) emotional manipulation, then some sort of evaluation/praise/judgement about my accomplishments as I "matured", then some short venting (still bitter he cannot control), then a closing with another attempt to emotionally manipulate (no responsibility at all on his part in his mini-trip down memory lane, more like "what you and your family did to me is done, so nothing I can do" type of thing. LOL, my extended family either did NOT know where I was or vaguely did, but kept him at bay because they sensed something was wrong. I do not worry because I am in a place he cannot travel easily to (we are in different countries) but, still, very creepy. Thanks again for not making my feel alone! Stay strong everyone!
@@NicoleM2108 I don't know if you are still here but good job staying strong! 29 years is a long time.
I think she had a lot of empathy for him because she is also a little socially nervous and can understand being off putting to people. I am too, so I try to evaluate some ones "field of intentions". As it were.
I have no idea why I am posting this?
I agree,
I'm glad you posted this not only is it insightful
but it's way more unique than the tons of comments complaining about how negative the comment section is.
Yeah I can relate, I tend to feel bad for people who get excluded from social situations because I feel like that person could be me. But sometimes I end up regretting trying to befriend such people.
Is it just me or do they usually end up ppl that won’t respect your boundaries? I wonder if there’s a correlation between the person being excluded socially and them overstepping their boundaries with ppl that show them attention?
Children needs to be raised with self awareness. To listen to their guts.
There is a difference between being shy and being actually off.
The first one is just a reaction and the second one is a red flag.
Comments are absolutely disgusting. I know what it's like trying to just be nice to someone who doesn't deserve it. It's a tactic used for protection to avoid big ugly situations. You never know how a stranger would react, so you speak with a calm tone of voice with words to match. It helps me feel like I'm in control of the situation. I've been stalked home, online multiple times, had personal numbers posted on adult sites. So much blame for not just blocking him, even though she did, it did not stop him. The first stalker I had I cussed out daily for breathing down my neck while walking home from middle school. He would walk directly behind me home because he knew it bothered me. I'd push him away or run and he would not leave me alone. Yet the school listened to him first when he said I was a bully because he had mental health issues, the female coach said in a tone as if I was supposed to forgive him instantly for that. I've met 4 people in my life fully hiding behind their mental illness to get away with stalking and sexual harassment and they got away every time. If you stay quiet, later people complain why you didn't do it earlier. If you're vocal, everyone nitpicks each detail on how they would have done better in your situation. Like dealing with stalkers is supposed to be natural for everybody.
Megan Polkasnic couldn’t have said it any better. Also, you are so strong and you deserve to be heard
Or dealing with racists just gets them the boot
@@julespayton1525 What about my side?
Telling a stalker that you'll take legal action if he continues to pursue you isn't being "rude": it's being direct, uncompromising and strong.
Unfortunately, it can also prompt them to up the ante and do it moreso. Even if you report it to law enforcement, some have the , IDK if it’s arrogance and entitlement or a real mental illness, to thumb their nose and that and continue.
What if that enrages him or her and they decide to do a murder suicide? What then?
Never ever give away your strategy to your stalker. No contact is no contact, no exception. This is nothing but domestic terrorism. I thank this woman for speaking up and sharing her experience.
5:04 that woman mouthed “nah not me” I love her
LOL could relate
BAHAHAH
wish i could relate
Well she talk slow and too much aaah.. ahh.. ohh..ahh, nothing wrong with that if thats the way she talk, maybe she is nervous, but Meghan need to direct/ control the show, the time, seconds count in this kind of show
LMAO
I had a guy try to stalk me. I feel horrible, but I had to have my brother threaten violence to the person to get him to stop. I’m just grateful it worked honestly.
This guy took it to the next level, contacting her employers, etc., but this situation is SOOO common! It’s a scary world out there, and we need to bring awareness to this issue!
That's exactly what my stalkers is doing.. contacting my neighbors,the stores I visit in town it's sad
Everyone in the comments is so negative. Ew
shut up girl
Girl stay blessed 💋
katie chandler dude people are dying why are you so concerned about her
alexandra what does this have to do with my comment
allergra asberry stay mad
I was 15 and had a very intense obsessive stalker at highschool who turned dangerous. Thankfully the police took it seriously.
Then a few years after I had another. Now as a 29 year old , I have a hyper awareness of everyone around me in every area I am in. It never leaves you
Omg, there is this guy impersonating himself as a woman, can not get crazier. I am a normal woman who is so freaked out by this weirdo.
I know he is who he is,
Contrary to opinion.. I feel she described her traumatic experience very well -she spoke from her heart this wasn’t scripted
You mean Megyn Kelly getting fired? That was just brilliant
@@adamkaufman7323 why did she get fired?!
Me too. She seems normal
I can't imagine what it would be like to suffer from being stalked for such a long time. I applaud Roni's bravery to share her story and help raise our awareness to this very serious problem.
You don’t have to imagine there plenty of people being gangstalked through community watch, and other community policing tactics.It’s real and everyone participates because they’re told lies and told the person needs to be watched because he or she may be a danger to himself or others
Yes I’m in my 6th yr and he won’t go away. I just keep living my life. It appears I’m his life….
megyn kelly shows here just how bad she is at interviewing. generic questions, generic comments with minimal insight. she should just say. hi, tell us your story. awful.
But the woman is struggling to tell her story. That's why she has to get it out with basic questions.
Exactly, and she keeps interrupting her as she does for literally all her guests
Absolutely agree.
Because its all about her - like she wants all the attention and focus on her.
Todd Cronin agreed...
I'm being stalked, followed by a neighbor. I'm almost 60 years old. I want people to know that stalkers destroy your life. I wake up everyday having to figure out how to live the the day. I no longer have the freedom to come and go as I please. I can never be alone in nature. Walking from my home to my car feels life threatening. Just last night I received a notification on my phone that I have an unknown Apple Airtag on my car. I was food shopping and had to call the police. I have to spend my money on a scanner, motion detector lights, weapons......
My life does not exist really, not any more. I'm just trying to survive.
I am so sorry, I Hope the situation got anyhow better?
I am so sorry! I really hope you can get the help you deserve
I had a stalker for 3 years people need to take this seriously...... it effects everything in your life and many times ends in kidnappings or murder etc .....
Why are people making fun of her? She’s been stalked for 15 YEARS. Of course she’s not going to be comfortable talking about this.. and the people pointing out her hair and how she spoke just really irritate me!
Yeah that makes no sense.
The point is about her story so why focusing on her looks?
(she is beautiful by the way so those people are just garbage)
She's an incredible person. Very well spoken. Thank you for sharing your story so others can learn from it
How tf do you even have time to stalk someone that much.
Such people are maniacs, I am being stalked every day at the workplace by jealous people who know of what happened. Such people are not human.
it’s called jealousy you have something they don’t. Otherwise why else would they waste anytime on u
They dont have anything interesting going on in their life...talentless individual....
Boredom. No life of your own. So if your life doesn't have much going on...they make it their full time job to destroy someone else's.
My thoughts exactly..
15 YEARS!? Jeez. I thought I had it bad when I was stalked for ONE year. I can't imagine what a nightmare it was for her.
I can its not fun
5:04 "nah not me" me too girl
Das right! 😄👍
Lmao. I know that's right. I said the same thing
Did not even catch this! 😂😂😂
Sis wasn't having that 😂
Destiney Hernandez Thanks OMG hadn’t noticed, glad I’m not alone
A graduate teaching assistant started stalking my daughter when she was a freshman. After about 6 weeks she called me one night saying she didn't think she could go to class (where he was lecturing) the following morning. I told her not to go and to send me copies of the text messages and emails he was sending her. I contacted the office of student affairs the next day (Monday), and told them instead of my daughter I'd be the one at his next lecture and would deal with the situation myself if they couldn't. He was never heard from again. Sometimes a dad just needs to handle things in that way only a dad is willing to do.
If someone is violating your boundaries THEY are rude. If someone hasn’t responded after two texts that means GO AWAY
Stalking is real and serious and emotionally sickening
Stalkers are scary, be it physical stalking or cyber stalking. It's uncomfortable and very unsettling. I've been stalked for many years and I am sick and tried of my privacy being invaded. And yes, police isin't always helpful and you don't know who to turn to for help.
I can’t imagine being stalked let alone being stalked from childhood all the way to adulthood, smh. I feel for this women.
I’ve been stalked and it’s not a good feeling. I made it clear that I did not want anything to do with them. I said NO unapologetically because people like that are manipulative, deceptive, and dangerous.
Doesn't matter if you're perceived as rude. Rude is power.
Is this a joke
Jojo Jo If you use rudeness as a form of “power”, it shows you literally have no power and are completely delusional, and sad.
It's best to not provoke the stalker.
Jojo Jo Rude is just going to fuel it even more. I'm very surprised he didn't hunt her down and do something to her after all that time.
Emphasis on *perceived* because if it's for your safety or the safety of others it's not actually rude.
(e.g. *Pushing* someone inorder to move them out of the way of a falling boulder)
Because being *Rude*
...Is *Crude*
Hhahhahaha...Ok I'll stop now
Stuff like this scares me so much. There's a lot of wacko's out there.
Not as many as you would think actually. By the way, I love your new couch.
Can’t believe there aren’t more legal protections for victims of stalking.
One of the worst parts about stalking is that it’s SO INTRUSIVE and yet SO INTANGIBLE. Proving you’re being stalked involves getting the authorities to understand the state of mind of the perpetrator instead of their actions. Police don’t think things like a note on a car, a knife in your front yard, a person frequenting YOUR WORKPLACE when they have no business being in that town, or a person on YOUR campus where they have NO BUSINESS WHATSOEVER in being there is a problem; but it’s how they operate. It’s them sending you a message that they’re always there. I’m not sure if police and law enforcement have a unified and effective protocol on how to deal with it.
Try dealing with an ex who harassed the people around you to isolate and sabotage you. Everyone worries about how it affects them. Forget the fact that they aren't even the target. I am SICK OF IT!
wow..
Comments like the ones on this video are the reason a lot of people don’t come forward about being harassed/stalked/assaulted
I know,if they'd been through it they wouldnt dare say some of the stuff im seeing.
That “not me” on the dark skinned lady at the far right on 5:04 killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 YAS GIRL
Alot of people don't take stalking seriously. When I was stalked all i kept hearing was " Oh, he really likes you. Why are you being so standoffish? You just blocking your blessing." Nevermind the fact that he was making me uncomfortable. When he escalated everything changed to "OMG! That mf crazy!" I knew that already!!! Geeze!
Women dont owe men any attention just coz they force their attention on them. This is harrassment n bullying. But if someone just wants to pick a fight with u, dont run away from the fight. Fight them. And I mean confront them in a physical fight.
Contacting an employer to smear your name is a common tactic of psychopaths and narcissists. My ex husband did that to me.
What happens to him? Your loss of reputation and possibly income is damaging. Where is the help?
Can you press charges?
Sometimes being rude provokes them making things worse.
4:52 "haven't we all been there?" (all the women in the room nod)
Jennifer Lynn not the one at 5:04
Poor lady is so traumatized it's still hard for her to talk . I hope she finds peace soon...
This is uncomfortable to watch.
Flumadiddle ..... this lady in the video has no clue how to really communicate I guess she's really nervous and she doesn't really know how to communicate she totally blew it by accepting him on Facebook she seems really weak and I think her stalker really likes that I have a stalker now of 17 years and if somebody interviewed me I would really give the real details this girl is barely telling the interviewer what's going on, what's really going on
I totally agree with you. She seems to not be able to get her thoughts out through speaking. She may be more comfortable with writing instead. Gosh, I'm nervous for her and she was all over the place with her story.
Flumadiddle .
Nancy Couch how was she all over the place lol
She need to be on ellen,
Shes such a sweet woman/being. I feel so bad for her .I hope she overcomes this and heals ,soon
I will appear mean, rude and crude a million times before I find myself in this situation! My mother raised us to speak our minds and not be afraid of what others think! Follow your gut instinct because it’s always right
The way she communicates, I can tell she is traumatized. I know exactly what she's going through. You feel like there is no end in sight.
Yes great observation. We are lucky she is alive to tell the tale.
Poor girl. Bullies online and a stalker. Give her a break.
Why isn't stalking taken more seriously?
i don't like megan's condescending tone. it's quite cringy to watch
She is sensing her struggle to express herself and is merely helping out to get the interview going forward. One can be a great writer/journalist and not be comfortable in front of a camera knowing a large audience is watching you.
Megan is a buffoon. Fox hired her. They don't like intelligent people, surely not intelligent women.
My thoughts too ;) Megan was just trying to help it move along.
i didn't say megan was the cringy one, this interview on a whole was cringy. and there should be other ways to help an interview move along without sounding condescending. i felt no ounce of empathy from her and i saw it again with another interview. she has the personality of a news anchor who should remain neutral. having a morning talk show isn't for her then
Agreed 1000000000000%
Treat women with respect and also respect their privacy. And she wasn't being rude at all. She had a stalker for 15 years and now she has people staring at her and cameras are in her face she's nervous give her a break she's a human that's been through something that no one should go through.
I pray that she gets the peace that she deserves after enduring that kind of psychological trauma it's taken a toll on her as it would any of us too. So proud of these women for speaking up about this and how we clearly need to stop being people pleasers! It's ok to be rude sometimes or basically it's ok to have boundaries and we don't have to feel bad/guilty about it! It's ok to tell someone that they are making you feel uncomfortable.
The way Meghan said “sometimes it’s ok to be rude” was in such a weird voice lmaoooo
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you're okay.
I feel so bad for her, having to put up with such an ongoing issue would be awful.
I'm so pleased that she & her family are able to now put this behind them 🙏🏽
I’ve never had a problem being rude to someone who made me feel uncomfortable. I’ve always listened to my gut, if there are red flags, my safety is infinitely more important than his comfort level.
Me too. I can turn rude girl on in a second with no remorse.
I have a problem with some people I don't even know personally who have been stalking me for about that long. It's almost impossible to get the police to do anything about it. We need better laws for dealing with this problem.
I have a feeling Megan is rude a lot lol
The way she moves her mouth is interesting
tink58bell she looks like she showing off.
It was sorta annoying tbh :P
The way you write is disturbing,
Guy Souriandt nah not really. For some reason i legit thought the same thing before i saw this comment.
tink58bell hahahaha exactly it’s frustrating me
Stalking is emotionally draining.
my mom is 56 and still has a guy stalking her from age 19
askquestionsplz oh god!!
askquestionsplz ask your mom what she did or didn't to be into that situation. It initiated somewhere
Arthur Of Monte Cristo are you joking? It doesn't matter what she did... there is nothing she did that makes it okay to be stalked for 30 odd years. The problem isn't her, it is with him and his behaviour.
@@arthurofmontecristo3183 wth with the victim blaming??? It doesn't start with anything. They are just insane. Once I was nice with a new player on an online game and the dude got obsessed with me. Fortunately, it was only online and ONLY on said game, but I did NOTHING wrong to get that. I wasn't flirty at all. I even told him I'm lesbian.
Wow
So how’d she stop him?
www.wired.com/2016/02/ive-had-a-cyberstalker-since-i-was-12/
Brandon Thanks man!
Whats the answer - I don't want to click the link
I don't want to type it out. Google it.
Article: Early one evening last March, my best friend saw my name pop up in a text notification on her phone. The message, which appeared to come from my gmail account, read: “felt a bit sad today about how I never made any friends at Emory during my time there. Not one. god I’m a loser. all I’ve got is my hair lol.” She called me as soon as she got home from work. “Are you okay?”
“What? Yeah, everything’s fine,” I answered.
She told me about the text, but even as she spoke we realized what had happened.“Ugh,” I said. “It’s Danny.” My cyberstalker had struck again, this time with a spot on impersonation of me and my neuroses.
I have had multiple stalking situations, most often from people I had been in close relationships with that ended. An ex-husband waited for me to get off work and followed me every night. I drove on backroads until I lost him. An ex-boyfriend locked me a room in our house for several hours when I came to get the last of my belongings. I stayed calm and repeatedly tried to reason with him until he released me on the promise of giving him another chance. I said what I had to. He never got another chance. Still, I never reported it because I didn't think it would do any good. I have a friend who was murdered by her stalker who she had a restraining order against. My point is simply that most people probably don't report, and the benefit of reporting is questionable.
Stalkers will escalate their behavior. Some victims do not survive the harassment. But, please always speak out when this is happening to you. Never remain silent.
You can tell by the way she sits, uptight, thats shes on guard and scared. The interviewer sits relaxed with her shoulders down. This is real. I had one sending me letters for 22 years and it was another woman! Although she had a family and children, she still kept sendiing me letters.
I've been dealing with a stalker for the last 10 months now. I can't imagine having one for YEARS !!
Hope you are doing fine now and hope you've gotten rid of the stalker
@@maddieric thank you for your kindness. I’ve since moved. An ocean away from them with no plans on going back there again.
Stalking sounds boring. They must have a lot of free time. I can't imagine caring about anyone enough to do that.
I had a stalker for two years!!! It's terrible .....its the fact it goes on and on and on ........the police do nothing it should be taken more seriously!!! It destroys you!!!
I know and you become paranoid about everything :/ and then when you notice weird stuff other people think its too crazy to be true but some people are really like that.Mine would dress very differently each time to try and help disguise him,even once trying to disguise himself as a Muslim woman though it was a very poor disguise.I could see a man's figure and recognised his gait and beard and everything.I know it sounds kind of funny but also very disturbing what extents someone will go to.
The stalker doesn't necessarily have to be violent. I was stalked for at least 8 years or so, who knows if my stalker is still watching. He used to leave notes and knives around my place. Thank good the last time he left knives was August 2016!!!
Did you call the police? They can do a DNA test on the notes and knives if you don't touch them yourself. You could get a good restraining order against him and probably some money to pay for your trauma at the psychologist (do that if possible, every dime helps).
knowlight knowright Get several guns AND know how to use them. He may return and it could be a dangerous confrontation.
Nah that usually ends up just so wrong... Her in jail or her dead...
Knives?!? Jesus that’s terrifying.
knowlight knowright he might have needed help with cutting a cake or a cheese wheel lmao
TODAY - being stalked by a man is the worst thing that has ever happened personally as a person, to me. When someone stalks you, they will never stop stalking you. Stalking , there is only one way stocking will end. Death by the stalker your death or the stalkers death.
Imagine wasting 15 years of your life on a person.
I went through a small period where I stalking a guy. I am horribly embarrassed by it now. I was in my early teens but it still doesn't make it right. I got really obsessed with him. I would call him all the time and blow up his phone with text messages . Looking back, I think I was just trying to deal with my own trauma. I had recently got out of a sexual abuse situation and maybe that was my way of coping. I would NEVER do this now. But now this guy and I are friends on facebook. He knows I was just harmless and annoying. I have apologized and kind of explained my situation without too much detail.
Diana Moondust well done for realizing I’m proud of you 😄👏 I too got a bit obsessed with a boy but I just followed him at school and tried to stalk his lessons haha
God Bless this Woman I hope she never experiences this again just safety and peace and Love
my stalker was my coworker who sat right next to me. Stalkers come in different shapes and forms.
Imagine the woman who lost her job....😢 this makes me so depressed.
My ex boss started stalking me and i happened to be talking to my doctor about it and she wrote me a letter to not return to work for my health and safety. I didnt really understand at the time why she took it so seriously but now i do.
Stalking is serious creepy 😖
These days it seems, even as a civilian, you can’t even tell people your real name, which is truly sad. There are too many avenues for invasion of privacy. Speaking from more than one experience.
sometimes being rude only makes them more aggressive. I think it's more important to be socially aware of your surroundings and interactions, spotting the red flags when they present themselves, self defense, always try to keep the situation calm, go on life broadcasting so that there's evidence, asking for help, distancing yourself as soon as you can
Megyn Kelly sure loves to put a lot of victims on her show and present them to the world.
Macario Patrick yeah like she likes it
That's what her show is about. If you dont like it stop watching her show. Plain n Simple!
I got stalked in my college days... it got to be terrifying so I had to move to the other side of the city. That helped a lot. Keeping a fake name on social media helps as well.
I can instinctively tell she's speaking the truth. Her whole body language, raw hesitant speech, facts, yes. This really happened to her. 🧡🌱
I’m now being stalked online and being abused badly… am scared right now… what should I do???
This is creepy...i actually had a similar experience, which exploded a couple nights ago. This guy has me on edge and makes me extremely nervous even after I confronted him and blocked him. The fear of the unknown.. after listening to this, I've realized there's more red flags than I knew of before.
She is saying that she confronted him and that she is scared of the unknown. The police won’t do anything unless she can prove that he has done something to harm her.
Same here, he was acting polite and respectful but was pushing boundaries carefully so I was allowing it as I wanted to be nice. We don't have contact in 2 months now. Hope I won't meet him by accident.