I feel this! I’m moon he’s Neptune, he’s not who I want him to be. It’s like sometimes the truth will peak through the fog. When he speaks my intuition will say “this isn’t the type of person you truly want to be with” but I ignore it because I feel such a pull to him. I know when it doesn’t feel right, but I let myself get sucked into the illusion. Neptune is very interesting.
This is a horrible aspect 😢 I got so hurt, so much illusion and disappointment. The addiction it creates is terrible. It was a double whammy, the confusion was incredibly damaging. I felt like enchanted, like stoned. Exactly like you said, the fantasy became a nightmare. Not healthy, such a deception.
My Moon is Square is Neptune and his Moon is Square mine... 26 years later, still going strong, because the rest of our chart is amazing. Or at least as a novice, I think so!~ Wow. Yes. I'm so damn lucky.
@@chinsu5098 RUclips never tells me about replies to my comments. Ugh. Our sun's don't aspect each other, so there's never been ego in the way. My Mars in Pisces is Sextile his Mercury in Cappy and My Jupiter is exactly conjunct (by 39 minutes) his Sun in Aquarius. My Neptune in Sag is Trine his Jupiter in Aries and my Saturn in Gem is Trine his Neptune in Libra. We have some tough aspects with our Venus's, Moon's, and Mars...lots of Squares, but somehow it just makes thing's ... interesting instead of difficult. Hope this helps!
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West had this aspect in their composite. I definitely don’t think they saw each other clearly, especially being that they both were Pisces moons. Neptune makes me so sad because it really brings you to the highest of highs but when you fall it’s gut wrenching painful. 💔
Neptune POV: I had this with my ex. I was the Neptune and it's true in the end it was a mess and he would guilt me a lot and hold me accountable for a lot of his emotions and they were all things I was doing to upset him apparently which I wasn't always aware of in the present moment/consciously. It was a lot of emotional responsibility that I couldn't feel like I could live up to. He really put me on a pedestal I didn't ask to be on and it made me feel like a fraud. Was very bitter towards me once we broke up. He was a sweetheart with a good soul and I hope he finds someone who can fulfil him in a way I couldn't. I'm looking back at our chart during this Venus Rx for reflection, it makes sense seeing this synastry aspect.
I’m the moon person and this is why I just want to end it now (after a month & a half of dating). I know that it isn’t fair for him. I can’t ask him to be something he isn’t or do things he can’t do. It’s just an energetic thing. I don’t feel emotionally fulfilled when I’m with him, I feel neglected and vulnerable. I think I’m playing out some mother wounds with this relationship for sure, because when I’m with him I feel like my child self being overlooked by my mom. I get so grumpy and bitter and oftentimes want to just say “just go, I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me feel lonely”, but he’s not intentionally doing anything to make me feel that way. We do have really beautiful and deep connected moments too, but I have childhood trauma and I think that emphasizes this issue. I feel like this aspect would be a little easier to tolerate from someone who has a secure attachment style.
I recently had this with someone I was dating. There was a lot he was withholding from me (he was Neptune) and recently came clean to me (I am the moon). He told me the truth about everything recently and I set him free. I had to be very firm and clear with my boundaries/request to cut all ties with him. It was painful, but I'm so glad I nipped this in the bud early before it grew into something more painful.
My husband and I have this together both ways oddly though. Both our Moons square each other Neptune's. Libra & Capricorn then Sagittarius & Pisces. We love each other and love spending time together. We get lost in each other's fantasies at times. It's like we both bring something different that the other ends up enjoying to. He has shocked me a few times I will say! I know I have surprised him too though.
Wow. This is so real. I share this aspect with a friend I once dated & we also have mars opp neptune & venus square pluto. I’m the outer planet (neptune & pluto) person in every aspect. I’m very aware of the power I have over them and constantly have to keep myself in check from acting selfishly or manipulating the other person. I hide a lot of myself when I’m around them as a result but I’m usually not aware of how much I’m editing myself to fit whatever role I think they have me in until after the experience is over. I’m not disillusioned by any feelings of love/infatuation for them. It’s very hard for me to pin down my exact feelings for them and determine whether this friendship is good/bad for either of us. I try and keep my distance as to not do/say anything hurtful but it seems to only feed the other persons illusions of me even more. The last time I distanced myself from them and addressed an issue between us when I came back, they told me about how they imagined seeing me in places where I wasn’t there and expressed how difficult it sometimes was for them to be out of contact with me. They even mentioned that they thought I might be some kind of soulmate very early on when we were briefly dating lol. It’s funny looking back, Neptune has ALWAYS been there. It only took things getting this knotted and out of control for me to see. Another weird thing, despite not feeling that love/obsession towards him I still have some strong feelings that keep me from completely breaking away. The strong feelings on my part are especially weird because the harder I think about it we don’t really know each other /that/ well, it’s like our friendship is built on a foundation that’s 70% fog/nonexistent ://
When I finally took this to its end, it was the most painful moment of any relationship I've ever had. The disappointment crushed me. I was the moon. I also have neptune and pluto aspecting my moon natally. I felt betrayed even though he hadn't done anything wrong. It was like stabbing myself in the back. I was angry at him and felt so stupid and upset with myself... What a mess...
@@miriamuSama We are actually still seeing each other. But this time with open eyes. To be honest I prefer the way it is now. And I feel like I'm learning so much about myself through our interactions. He's like a gift.
Also … just realized I have Neptune / Moon square natally. Explains the searching and familiarity with self, projected on the moon actor. Awesome!! Thank you.
This aspect really makes you see the lies as truth. Aspected at 0 degree, now I don't believe anything I think about the neptune person as truth. Thank you for making this video, jewel! You are so awesome and I love you ❤
I have this synastry with a girl and I really thought she was my soulmate but everything you said is true lol I feel like I’ve been looking like a clown this entire time 😂😭 this synastry really does blind you
"Ugh!!!" I just realized I have this with someone (as well as some other heavy-hitting aspects; Venus conjunct Pluto) and it sucks. THANK YOU, Jewel!! I ALWAYS prefer the TRUTH even when I don't (!!!). So very grateful to you and your amazing, brilliant mind. (And I love all the witchy stuff chez vous).
Jewel, you are the light of consciousness that transcends the ways for many of us, thank you !! WOWWW simply WOOWWW ... you know, I have to say one thing, reality check is HARD .... I don't know if this will play out for everyone .... but the perceived dynamics that I realized is that although I have a very well aspected moon I have it positioned in the 8th house and I have a square with 11th house neptune natally ... the other person has a very well aspected neptune but with an in fall and afflicted scorpio moon .... soooo, my previous relationships I was very manipulative putting my interests above the feelings of others ... and in this current relationship is actually the one that I see and recognize this negative side of my moon in the past !! I have to say, it's very hard for us to accept our negative side by being mirrored by our loved ones.
I would like you to do Moon conj Neptun, this is so accurate for the square, but also I have found many synastrys with Neptun conj Moon that we can apply this description. Thank you. You are great astrologer.
THIS IS TOO REAL, IT IS SCARYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know how you managed to figure all of this out, but I am living through everything you said, through this synastry relation. I have moon in 7th house (stellium) squaring their Neptune and opposing their Mars and Pluto. Yikesss
@@Kiahhhhhhhh it was a moon opposite Neptune aspect. It was similar but the difference is it swung between us so I'd snap out of it sometimes and people were able to talk me out of it. I also wasn't defensive over the toxic relationship but I had a hard time seeing him clearly
I have this but I am Neptune. Broke my heart because were they being honest or were they creating illusions to keep me hanging on...They have natal moon square Venus, Neptune and Uranus so yeah.
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I love your vids. Ive learnt so much about myself and my relationships. Ive always wanted to request an aspect, and pose a question. Being a person who has had to recognise and sort my natal Neptunian Moon square Venus and Neptune square Moon / venus opposite Moon issues that have been very present in life / relationships.. Im curious to know your insight into the Venus square Neptune in synastry.. Also I am interested in a deeper understanding of the Mercury conjunct Mars in Synastry and the Composite chart..Your work is brilliant ..I dig your approach of recognizing the natal perceptions and the subsequent seeking to go beyond that.. Jewel your work is deep, thank you for sharing 🙂🌈🖤
I have this aspect with someone. I am the neptune person. We also have pluto opposite venus in synastry. In that case I am the venus person. I am so enamored by him. And you uploaded it on his birthday.
I have the same aspecta with my gf I am also the neptune person and we also have venus opposition pluto where I am the venus person. How do you feel with the other person ?
same, I gotta send him this video, I can't have him believing stuff that ain't there, as a person of clarity everything has to be on the table, I cherish him very much and the last thing I wanna be is manipulative
Pls. help Can you guys pls. give me an advice, I'm the neptune capricorn square his moon in Libra, my uranus and saturn also square his moon also I'm pluto opposite his Venus.. Are we doomed?.. i don't know what to do, who do you think has the upper hand.. him or me..
Can you please do venus square neptune in synastry? I've done the research but still curious about how you would interpret this aspect, thanks in advance!
I really feel like whether you experienced childhood trauma or not or whether you have a secure attachment style or not is a big part of how these challenging aspects play out. I feel like if you haven’t resolved any of that stuff, that’s when these aspects “doom” connections. Or maybe that’s just why we stay in them long enough to know this stuff about them. Because a secure person dating someone and feeling this stuff come up would go “hmm I don’t think we’re compatible, next.”
Yes. Aspects build on what we bring into the relationship. If we are healed, we can experience the best that challenging aspect points to. We can come into the relationship dealing with the hard aspects in a healed, successful way right from the outset. That can happen. It typically does not but you can tell those potentials from looking at the natal charts and evaluating how each person has healed…or not.
@@JewelMayberryYep, I haven’t worked through my issues thoroughly enough yet, and I’ve only attracted people with really challenging aspects in our synastry. I see it as “God” trying to giving me opportunities to work through these things and become more aware of what I need to heal, but I’ve never seen it as something that could be overcome with the other person.
Thank you for the amazing info! So I’ve been delving into progressive chart synastry, and this aspect is currently playing out between us (it’s not in the natal synastry). I’m the moon and he the Neptune I can tell or intuit very well when I feel he’s saying all the right things and making big promises just to ‘get’ me. I can’t trust him anymore, he is a recovering alcoholic and I’ve caught him in far too many ‘fibs’ as he calls them. Eyes opened, the Neptunian brain fog has lifted, but damn I still want to love him as a supportive friend!! 😂
I have this aspect with my husband with a 1 degree orb (he's moon, I'm Neptune.) How does this aspect play out if my 12th house Neptune is in the same sign as my ascendant?
I'm so confused. I have moon conjunct Pluto natal and this aspect with this guy I see. We also have many Saturn aspects and other binding aspects. We always end up back in contact with each other even if we are looking elsewhere. We dream the same things, speak without speaking, etc. It's crazy stuff! Now, I want to know if this is real or an illusion
@@2017_K___Booth Yess! We have Venus square Pluto Moon 8th And lots of Neptune His moon is in my 12th Jupiter and Mercury. Strong spiritual connection We are supposed to be together in my situation and the Divine brought us back together. We had to change and let go of toxic behavior. We share the power and control now. Two powerful people had to learn compromise
I’m the moon person and I always think he’s up to something and I don’t trust him. I try to not think like that but it creeps back up. I have learned to detach though!
@@mysticalchemist5513 Thanks girl, I'm the neptune, but he's also neptune squaring my ascendant, I love him so much deeply we have a lot of pluto contacts aswell, I feel like he's the one that I don't trust thou.. We are on and off.. if we can't be together romantically, I just want us to be friends but given the strong feelings it's so hard,,,,
But Jewel, I have this square with EVERYONE from my generation and also my moon squares URANUS , is there something around it; - my generation squares my moon with Neptune & Uranus - If I date older their Saturn squares my moon oh boy, any suggestions?
Im curious about how much squares to the midheaven effect the synastry of a relationship. Especially so the Sun / Mars and or Pluto square Midheaven in synastry. Id love to see a vid on these interaspects 🌠💕🌅
I have this with a double whammy. My neptune in Sagittarius at 13° squares his moon at 13° in pisces. And his Neptune in Sagittarius at 20° squares my virgo moon at 19° we have a lot of synastry in our charts my venus is in exact opposition to his pluto. His mercury is exactly opposite my pluto. His chiron 2 degrees away from my sun and my chiron is exactly conjunct his sun. I hope we aren't doomed. I can't stop thinking about him.
@@JewelMayberry what if that is the only square and the rest are trines sextiles by Neptune person to inner persons Asc Sun and inner persons Neptune trines his Mercury?. Will this be like a double romanticized journey of deception?
the person I like, I think the charts show that I am the neptune sq their moon, and in general that I'd pull the wool over their eyes. fortunately I've kept my distance, cause I don't want to do that and instead working on myself. (I have some huge addictions to this person to work through with pluto conj moon in composite as well). Definitely I'd recommend working on self healing if you find yourself drawn with such intense aspects to someone. It is the only way I know not to end up causing some terrible problem.
question if we have other positive Neptune aspects in our synastry (like trine with sun and mars) is it good or the negatives will be stronger? Also about the orb is 6 "safe'' enough to feel less the negative effect?
I have this in synastry with my bf. I love the journey of acceptance it has put me on. Even with the disappointments😅 there's so much room for my growth. It takes me a bit more work to acknowledge his growth. But he has grown and changed so much. I'm like is this real? 😂
I wrote that right before we moved in together. 😂 And now I know I only want to deal with his family once a year. Same with his daughter. Love the sex that's it😂😅 hard to walk away tho. So there's still room for more growing. Like she said romance isn't perfect. I'm delusional af so this Saturn in Pisces transit is so needed to really put things into perspective. It's been needed
As the Neptune person this makes me feel rly uncomfortable bcus I’m just being myself and not hiding anything .. knowing that I’m eventually going to be disappointing is kind of a bummer lol
my moon squares this guys neptune, sun squares his neptune. and my pluto squares his moon and his pluto squares my sun, i have a crush on him, i have no idea if he has any interest in me but what can this synastry contacts possibly mean?
Jewel, do you offer any recorded birth chart readings rather than a session over Skype/ Zoom/ phone etc? I know you do an audio only relationship analysis- I was wondering if it would be possible to get a birth chart reading formatted in a similar way?
I feel this! I’m moon he’s Neptune, he’s not who I want him to be. It’s like sometimes the truth will peak through the fog. When he speaks my intuition will say “this isn’t the type of person you truly want to be with” but I ignore it because I feel such a pull to him. I know when it doesn’t feel right, but I let myself get sucked into the illusion. Neptune is very interesting.
This is a horrible aspect 😢 I got so hurt, so much illusion and disappointment. The addiction it creates is terrible. It was a double whammy, the confusion was incredibly damaging. I felt like enchanted, like stoned. Exactly like you said, the fantasy became a nightmare. Not healthy, such a deception.
My Moon is Square is Neptune and his Moon is Square mine...
26 years later, still going strong, because the rest of our chart is amazing. Or at least as a novice, I think so!~
Wow. Yes. I'm so damn lucky.
What's some beautiful aspects in your synastry chart that you think holding you two together if you don't mind sharing?
Are you guys still together
@@habeebahmustapha2623 lol - Yes. We're old, so where else would we go if not together?
@@JanicePhillips I'm so so glad to hear that❤️
@@chinsu5098 RUclips never tells me about replies to my comments. Ugh. Our sun's don't aspect each other, so there's never been ego in the way. My Mars in Pisces is Sextile his Mercury in Cappy and My Jupiter is exactly conjunct (by 39 minutes) his Sun in Aquarius. My Neptune in Sag is Trine his Jupiter in Aries and my Saturn in Gem is Trine his Neptune in Libra. We have some tough aspects with our Venus's, Moon's, and Mars...lots of Squares, but somehow it just makes thing's ... interesting instead of difficult. Hope this helps!
I consider Neptune as the planet that allows Michael Angelo to see David in stone the problem is the work it takes to materialize
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West had this aspect in their composite. I definitely don’t think they saw each other clearly, especially being that they both were Pisces moons. Neptune makes me so sad because it really brings you to the highest of highs but when you fall it’s gut wrenching painful. 💔
I have a Pisces moon square Neptune and videos like this make me feel hopeless. LOL
Neptune energy is addictive, we also have moon opposite pluto so there's more pull there an unexplainable attraction there's no logic.
Neptune POV: I had this with my ex. I was the Neptune and it's true in the end it was a mess and he would guilt me a lot and hold me accountable for a lot of his emotions and they were all things I was doing to upset him apparently which I wasn't always aware of in the present moment/consciously. It was a lot of emotional responsibility that I couldn't feel like I could live up to. He really put me on a pedestal I didn't ask to be on and it made me feel like a fraud. Was very bitter towards me once we broke up. He was a sweetheart with a good soul and I hope he finds someone who can fulfil him in a way I couldn't. I'm looking back at our chart during this Venus Rx for reflection, it makes sense seeing this synastry aspect.
Your perspective is appreciated!
How true this is. Trying to live up to emotional expectations is terrible!
I’m the moon person and this is why I just want to end it now (after a month & a half of dating). I know that it isn’t fair for him. I can’t ask him to be something he isn’t or do things he can’t do. It’s just an energetic thing. I don’t feel emotionally fulfilled when I’m with him, I feel neglected and vulnerable. I think I’m playing out some mother wounds with this relationship for sure, because when I’m with him I feel like my child self being overlooked by my mom. I get so grumpy and bitter and oftentimes want to just say “just go, I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me feel lonely”, but he’s not intentionally doing anything to make me feel that way. We do have really beautiful and deep connected moments too, but I have childhood trauma and I think that emphasizes this issue. I feel like this aspect would be a little easier to tolerate from someone who has a secure attachment style.
I recently had this with someone I was dating. There was a lot he was withholding from me (he was Neptune) and recently came clean to me (I am the moon). He told me the truth about everything recently and I set him free. I had to be very firm and clear with my boundaries/request to cut all ties with him. It was painful, but I'm so glad I nipped this in the bud early before it grew into something more painful.
My husband and I have this together both ways oddly though. Both our Moons square each other Neptune's. Libra & Capricorn then Sagittarius & Pisces. We love each other and love spending time together. We get lost in each other's fantasies at times. It's like we both bring something different that the other ends up enjoying to. He has shocked me a few times I will say! I know I have surprised him too though.
Same omg libra and Capricorn, would you say it’s real big conflict , i see him as flame,I have crash on hime 😅
Wow. This is so real. I share this aspect with a friend I once dated & we also have mars opp neptune & venus square pluto. I’m the outer planet (neptune & pluto) person in every aspect. I’m very aware of the power I have over them and constantly have to keep myself in check from acting selfishly or manipulating the other person. I hide a lot of myself when I’m around them as a result but I’m usually not aware of how much I’m editing myself to fit whatever role I think they have me in until after the experience is over.
I’m not disillusioned by any feelings of love/infatuation for them. It’s very hard for me to pin down my exact feelings for them and determine whether this friendship is good/bad for either of us. I try and keep my distance as to not do/say anything hurtful but it seems to only feed the other persons illusions of me even more. The last time I distanced myself from them and addressed an issue between us when I came back, they told me about how they imagined seeing me in places where I wasn’t there and expressed how difficult it sometimes was for them to be out of contact with me. They even mentioned that they thought I might be some kind of soulmate very early on when we were briefly dating lol. It’s funny looking back, Neptune has ALWAYS been there. It only took things getting this knotted and out of control for me to see.
Another weird thing, despite not feeling that love/obsession towards him I still have some strong feelings that keep me from completely breaking away. The strong feelings on my part are especially weird because the harder I think about it we don’t really know each other /that/ well, it’s like our friendship is built on a foundation that’s 70% fog/nonexistent ://
When I finally took this to its end, it was the most painful moment of any relationship I've ever had. The disappointment crushed me. I was the moon. I also have neptune and pluto aspecting my moon natally. I felt betrayed even though he hadn't done anything wrong. It was like stabbing myself in the back. I was angry at him and felt so stupid and upset with myself... What a mess...
Scout of the Senses A relationship never ends because of that ‘one synastry aspect.’
@@miriamuSama We are actually still seeing each other. But this time with open eyes. To be honest I prefer the way it is now. And I feel like I'm learning so much about myself through our interactions. He's like a gift.
@@paketa7736 did the illusion and dreamy feeling fade, the 2nd time around?
@@The_Eleventh_Sign it did. It's just not the same... now that I've had that reality check.
@@paketa7736 doesn't sound too good...
This piece of knowledge and teaching on Neptune/Moon square is brilliant. 100% truth.
Also … just realized I have Neptune / Moon square natally. Explains the searching and familiarity with self, projected on the moon actor. Awesome!! Thank you.
This aspect really makes you see the lies as truth. Aspected at 0 degree, now I don't believe anything I think about the neptune person as truth. Thank you for making this video, jewel! You are so awesome and I love you ❤
I have this synastry with a girl and I really thought she was my soulmate but everything you said is true lol I feel like I’ve been looking like a clown this entire time 😂😭 this synastry really does blind you
"Ugh!!!" I just realized I have this with someone (as well as some other heavy-hitting aspects; Venus conjunct Pluto) and it sucks. THANK YOU, Jewel!! I ALWAYS prefer the TRUTH even when I don't (!!!). So very grateful to you and your amazing, brilliant mind. (And I love all the witchy stuff chez vous).
I have this aspect natally so I run in to it alot!!!
Thank you for this Jewel. This is one I’ve been waiting on. Love your videos, you’re my favorite astrologer.
Jewel, you are the light of consciousness that transcends the ways for many of us, thank you !!
WOWWW simply WOOWWW ... you know, I have to say one thing, reality check is HARD .... I don't know if this will play out for everyone .... but the perceived dynamics that I realized is that although I have a very well aspected moon I have it positioned in the 8th house and I have a square with 11th house neptune natally ... the other person has a very well aspected neptune but with an in fall and afflicted scorpio moon .... soooo, my previous relationships I was very manipulative putting my interests above the feelings of others ... and in this current relationship is actually the one that I see and recognize this negative side of my moon in the past !! I have to say, it's very hard for us to accept our negative side by being mirrored by our loved ones.
Girl you look beautiful!
Thank you I see a composite moon square Neptune and saw your other video. I love this one also. Thank you
Brilliant analysis. Thank you Jewel!
YOUR HAIR SO PRETTY >.
Thanks, Jewel, very helpful and informative, as always 👏🏼
I would like you to do Moon conj Neptun, this is so accurate for the square, but also I have found many synastrys with Neptun conj Moon that we can apply this description. Thank you. You are great astrologer.
THIS IS TOO REAL, IT IS SCARYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know how you managed to figure all of this out, but I am living through everything you said, through this synastry relation. I have moon in 7th house (stellium) squaring their Neptune and opposing their Mars and Pluto. Yikesss
Lol when this finally got shattered by reality🤣 the neptune person was nothing like I "thought". Nothing at all. Granted it was an opposition
What do you mean “granted it was an opposition” can u explain that more?
@@Kiahhhhhhhh it was a moon opposite Neptune aspect. It was similar but the difference is it swung between us so I'd snap out of it sometimes and people were able to talk me out of it. I also wasn't defensive over the toxic relationship but I had a hard time seeing him clearly
I have it in natal chart. It's siren call is magnetic. Its there, you can't ignore it, but I am able to get out of it after being overwhelmed by it.
When you was talking I was thinking of the Gladys knight and the pips songs (neither one of us wants to be the first say goodbye)
I have this but I am Neptune. Broke my heart because were they being honest or were they creating illusions to keep me hanging on...They have natal moon square Venus, Neptune and Uranus so yeah.
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I love your vids. Ive learnt so much about myself and my relationships. Ive always wanted to request an aspect, and pose a question. Being a person who has had to recognise and sort my natal Neptunian Moon square Venus and Neptune square Moon / venus opposite Moon issues that have been very present in life / relationships.. Im curious to know your insight into the Venus square Neptune in synastry.. Also I am interested in a deeper understanding of the Mercury conjunct Mars in Synastry and the Composite chart..Your work is brilliant ..I dig your approach of recognizing the natal perceptions and the subsequent seeking to go beyond that.. Jewel your work is deep, thank you for sharing 🙂🌈🖤
yes and when its mother/child relationship it travels a gamut of what you mentioned
Moon square neptune for one person and neptune conjunct the moon in the other person in synastry. How does that work?
I have this aspect with someone. I am the neptune person. We also have pluto opposite venus in synastry. In that case I am the venus person. I am so enamored by him. And you uploaded it on his birthday.
I have the same aspecta with my gf I am also the neptune person and we also have venus opposition pluto where I am the venus person. How do you feel with the other person ?
@@TheDragonMasterRyu I am so in love with him.
same, I gotta send him this video, I can't have him believing stuff that ain't there, as a person of clarity everything has to be on the table, I cherish him very much and the last thing I wanna be is manipulative
Pls. help Can you guys pls. give me an advice, I'm the neptune capricorn square his moon in Libra, my uranus and saturn also square his moon also I'm pluto opposite his Venus.. Are we doomed?..
i don't know what to do, who do you think has the upper hand.. him or me..
Can you please do venus square neptune in synastry? I've done the research but still curious about how you would interpret this aspect, thanks in advance!
deep!
I really feel like whether you experienced childhood trauma or not or whether you have a secure attachment style or not is a big part of how these challenging aspects play out. I feel like if you haven’t resolved any of that stuff, that’s when these aspects “doom” connections. Or maybe that’s just why we stay in them long enough to know this stuff about them. Because a secure person dating someone and feeling this stuff come up would go “hmm I don’t think we’re compatible, next.”
Yes. Aspects build on what we bring into the relationship. If we are healed, we can experience the best that challenging aspect points to. We can come into the relationship dealing with the hard aspects in a healed, successful way right from the outset. That can happen. It typically does not but you can tell those potentials from looking at the natal charts and evaluating how each person has healed…or not.
@@JewelMayberryYep, I haven’t worked through my issues thoroughly enough yet, and I’ve only attracted people with really challenging aspects in our synastry. I see it as “God” trying to giving me opportunities to work through these things and become more aware of what I need to heal, but I’ve never seen it as something that could be overcome with the other person.
Thank you for the amazing info! So I’ve been delving into progressive chart synastry, and this aspect is currently playing out between us (it’s not in the natal synastry). I’m the moon and he the Neptune I can tell or intuit very well when I feel he’s saying all the right things and making big promises just to ‘get’ me. I can’t trust him anymore, he is a recovering alcoholic and I’ve caught him in far too many ‘fibs’ as he calls them. Eyes opened, the Neptunian brain fog has lifted, but damn I still want to love him as a supportive friend!! 😂
this is crazyy. i just recently thought about it privately and saw myself as a butterfly that goes to his light
Nina karmeeva are you the moon or the neptune person?
Is this the same as an opposition?
I have this aspect in my natal. Does this mean that when I see it in synastry it's meant to be a lesson for myself?
Everytime with neptune in synastry the roles were reversed...neptune was deceived and planet was deceiving.. Every time.
Everyone is a mirror
Yes. More so in a romance.
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel yes, you are so right! Everyone is you pushed out !
I have this aspect with my husband with a 1 degree orb (he's moon, I'm Neptune.) How does this aspect play out if my 12th house Neptune is in the same sign as my ascendant?
Com Truise So how is your relationship working out? How long have you been married?
@@miriamuSama Our relationship is pretty good. We're more than content. We've been married for 8 years and have been together for 12.
I'm so confused. I have moon conjunct Pluto natal and this aspect with this guy I see. We also have many Saturn aspects and other binding aspects. We always end up back in contact with each other even if we are looking elsewhere. We dream the same things, speak without speaking, etc. It's crazy stuff! Now, I want to know if this is real or an illusion
@@2017_K___Booth
Yess!
We have
Venus square Pluto
Moon 8th
And lots of Neptune
His moon is in my 12th
Jupiter and Mercury.
Strong spiritual connection
We are supposed to be together in my situation and the Divine brought us back together.
We had to change and let go of toxic behavior.
We share the power and control now. Two powerful people had to learn compromise
Girl, can you pls. give an update if how is going between u two now.. are u still together.. Are you the neptune or moon..?..
@@fancylyrics.
We make progress then BOOM! He’s in a Pluto 7&8 transit lol
We are off Again
I’m the moon person and I always think he’s up to something and I don’t trust him. I try to not think like that but it creeps back up.
I have learned to detach though!
@@mysticalchemist5513 Thanks girl, I'm the neptune, but he's also neptune squaring my ascendant, I love him so much deeply we have a lot of pluto contacts aswell, I feel like he's the one that I don't trust thou.. We are on and off.. if we can't be together romantically, I just want us to be friends but given the strong feelings it's so hard,,,,
But Jewel, I have this square with EVERYONE from my generation and also my moon squares URANUS , is there something around it;
- my generation squares my moon with Neptune & Uranus
- If I date older their Saturn squares my moon
oh boy, any suggestions?
What chart should we look at in a romantic relationship, the basic Synastry, composite or Davison chart . I am torn on this. thank you
Hey love your insight on aspects ❤️💯🙌🏾 do you have a video on natal moon square Neptune if not can you do one? Thank you!
I wonder how this works with a quintile.
Thank you!! ♡
This was my exact situation. It was like trying to see through a veiled smoke cloud only to find illusions
I have in my natal chart "moon square neptune". In synatry im the moon person, so im the manipulator?
Im curious about how much squares to the midheaven effect the synastry of a relationship. Especially so the Sun / Mars and or Pluto square Midheaven in synastry. Id love to see a vid on these interaspects 🌠💕🌅
I have this with a double whammy. My neptune in Sagittarius at 13° squares his moon at 13° in pisces. And his Neptune in Sagittarius at 20° squares my virgo moon at 19° we have a lot of synastry in our charts my venus is in exact opposition to his pluto. His mercury is exactly opposite my pluto. His chiron 2 degrees away from my sun and my chiron is exactly conjunct his sun. I hope we aren't doomed. I can't stop thinking about him.
Ann Tyler How are you guys doing?
Update please?
Is this similar to the semi square in composite?
Yes. The semi square is less pronounced but still an issue.
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel thanks for replying!
Who sees everything in the other person? Neptune or Moon?
Outer planet starts it, the inner planet picks it up and reflects back what the outer planet began.
@@JewelMayberry what if that is the only square and the rest are trines sextiles by Neptune person to inner persons Asc Sun and inner persons Neptune trines his Mercury?. Will this be like a double romanticized journey of deception?
the person I like, I think the charts show that I am the neptune sq their moon, and in general that I'd pull the wool over their eyes. fortunately I've kept my distance, cause I don't want to do that and instead working on myself. (I have some huge addictions to this person to work through with pluto conj moon in composite as well).
Definitely I'd recommend working on self healing if you find yourself drawn with such intense aspects to someone. It is the only way I know not to end up causing some terrible problem.
My partner has a natal moon square neptune and our moons are conjunct so I have this with him, I see a good balance of positive aspects and bad.
question if we have other positive Neptune aspects in our synastry (like trine with sun and mars) is it good or the negatives will be stronger? Also about the orb is 6 "safe'' enough to feel less the negative effect?
I have this in synastry with my bf. I love the journey of acceptance it has put me on. Even with the disappointments😅 there's so much room for my growth. It takes me a bit more work to acknowledge his growth. But he has grown and changed so much. I'm like is this real? 😂
Are you the Neptune or the moon person ?
@@madeleineformelleI'm Moon, he's Neptune
I wrote that right before we moved in together. 😂 And now I know I only want to deal with his family once a year. Same with his daughter. Love the sex that's it😂😅 hard to walk away tho. So there's still room for more growing. Like she said romance isn't perfect. I'm delusional af so this Saturn in Pisces transit is so needed to really put things into perspective. It's been needed
@@dominique4432 oh okay, but I don't understand, you still together?
Mercury conjunct mars synastry ?
lots of discussions wirh the other on this. so it is okay
can you do sun square neptune synastry
What if you have this in synastry and in composite having moon opposite Neptune. 😭
From experience you're not seeing anything for what it really is lol it's all an illusion.
Thanks. Is it strongly felt at a 5° orbs ? I'm Neptune in this case, but a saturnian girl so I'm not the neptunian archetype in my relationships
What happens if we both square and trine each other’s moon-Neptune?
Like a double whammy. I have this with someone as well. My Neptune trines their moon and their Neptune squares my moon.
As the Neptune person this makes me feel rly uncomfortable bcus I’m just being myself and not hiding anything .. knowing that I’m eventually going to be disappointing is kind of a bummer lol
I have the impression you were moved by what you were saying dear jewel (from about the 6th minute on)
my moon squares this guys neptune, sun squares his neptune. and my pluto squares his moon and his pluto squares my sun, i have a crush on him, i have no idea if he has any interest in me but what can this synastry contacts possibly mean?
Hi! Could yo do natal moon square mars and uranus?
Moon septile Neptune in synastry
What orb would you use for this aspect? Is 6 degrees too wide to be active?
Jewel how different is the trine between moon and neptune?
Oh no ! So what if my moon is square his Neptune and his moon is square my Neptune?! 😳😱
Is this a dealbreaker? can 1 aspect break a relationship?
I am the Moon and he is N
it's not necessarily a dealbreaker, this aspect has the potential to be wildly transformative
Please tell me, who is the moth that is roasted - is it the moon or neptune person?🌒
The moon person,
This is me.
Hi Jewel, is this the same as the semi sextile? :/
Jewel, do you offer any recorded birth chart readings rather than a session over Skype/ Zoom/ phone etc? I know you do an audio only relationship analysis- I was wondering if it would be possible to get a birth chart reading formatted in a similar way?
Did you find out?
Ted Bundy and his wife Carole had this aspect
Nietzsche is not a great influence. Hahahahah. Especially in this video. hahahaha. My ego hurts. But its ok