INFJ & ISFJ Interaction (Marriage, Communication, S v N, and Tea Towels)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @katiebrown7617
    @katiebrown7617 5 лет назад +22

    I’m an INFJ and my boyfriend is an ISFJ so this was fun to watch. You can see the love and understanding you two share with each other. I do love researching though and can do it for hours especially if it’s a topic I’m really interested in

  • @nicolasdanek4225
    @nicolasdanek4225 Год назад +3

    I'm an INFJ who loves to research. I can do so for hours. I'm like an information sponge. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ezekiel33USA
    @Ezekiel33USA 4 года назад +23

    I am an INFJ married to an ISFJ. We are at our 22 year mark and it’s been a journey. It’s been good and bad but I wouldn’t trade the journey for anything. My daughter is an INFJ so it’s interesting to see my personality in her.

    • @m44kka
      @m44kka Год назад

      Hi mate, could you mention some of those good and bad. Thanks

  • @thecraftcuckoo
    @thecraftcuckoo 7 лет назад +44

    This is so sweet. I am an INFJ and my partner is ISFJ but it is me who can research things for hours and my partner skim reads and can handle about five minutes of research haha. I love to learn.

    • @roshniprasad8550
      @roshniprasad8550 4 года назад +1

      Relatable.. he just wants a summary in the end.

  • @light9623
    @light9623 6 лет назад +19

    There's definitely a language between the two of you that is totally unspoken....very nice! Also, I can SEE clearly that helping people realize something greater within in themselves is a passion you both carry. You two really are a fascinating couple.

  • @laurenm162
    @laurenm162 7 лет назад +28

    I've been looking for a good quality infj isfj interaction video, thanks for making this!

  • @janebedoe2071
    @janebedoe2071 7 лет назад +30

    The tenderness I felt watching this video made me so happy. The category of the relationship aside (marriage), the way you both interact with each other made me miss my sister. I will Skype her tomorrow.

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +3

      We both think this is wonderful - happy Skyping!

  • @drv9744
    @drv9744 6 лет назад +6

    Y'all are so kind to each other. Thank you for posting this. I'm an ISFJ from Texas.

  • @CorieCupcakes
    @CorieCupcakes 7 лет назад +16

    5:10-5:17: cutest moment.

  • @ManuelOrtiz-on8cb
    @ManuelOrtiz-on8cb 7 лет назад +58

    I'm an INFJ Married to an ISFJ

    • @Jmc19857
      @Jmc19857 6 лет назад +2

      Batz Otacon same my wife is INFJ and I am isfj

    • @sublita
      @sublita 5 лет назад +4

      I'm an INFJ married to another INFJ. Our communication and feeling is beyond words....real soulmates!

    • @sublita
      @sublita 5 лет назад

      @BeetleBUMxX yes, it would be. I can relate when you say that you wish someone like you, because understanding without words makes a relationship easier, complete. This tuning is fulfilling but I think we can grow faster with a person very different from us thanks to his/her different point of view and way of perceiving. So you can marry your INFP friend and have some advantages anyway :)

    • @sherenifernando97
      @sherenifernando97 5 лет назад

      Same my boyfriend is an ISFJ

    • @sherenifernando97
      @sherenifernando97 5 лет назад +1

      Jenny.V wow that’s amazing

  • @April18265
    @April18265 6 лет назад +7

    What a lovely couple. It's so obvious you both have a strong relationship and really care for each other deeply! Your wife has such a beautiful spirit :) Great video!

  • @brucebruno842
    @brucebruno842 4 года назад +13

    As an INFJ I've always thought these 2 personalities would go well together. INFJ and maybe INFJ also. INFJ and ENFJ too. Another INFJ and INTJ. I like the idea of INFJ and ISFJ the best though. I had a feeling that it would be nice for the ISFJ to understand how the feeling behind the words matter, and for the INFJ to become more grounded in the present reality or the sensory world.

    • @ninaninapumpkineaterz1267
      @ninaninapumpkineaterz1267 4 года назад +6

      Absolutely! My husband is an ISFJ and keeps me grounded particularly when my mind is looping non stop about stuff...he is refreshing to be around and is a good listener. Been married 28 years and I appreciate him so much!!

    • @brucebruno842
      @brucebruno842 4 года назад +3

      Glad to hear about a long loving marriage!!

  • @knowyourlove5613
    @knowyourlove5613 7 лет назад +10

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful relationship.
    Scott you have a smile that won't stop, different from your normal videos. INFJs have a unique love glow. I find when I'm around someone I love I have a glow no one else sees.
    But a few times in this vid you are oozing such joy you look a little stoned ;).
    I wrote that above before she asked the smile question. Lol.
    No please don't try to be more emotive, INFJs just have natural contemplating thinking face. To see you in this natural way kinda makes it alright for us INFJs to show that part of ourselves, when we aren't concerned about making other ppl feel good with our warm smiles.

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад

      Thanks Knowyour Love for your comments and encouragement.

  • @JeanKolohiya27
    @JeanKolohiya27 4 года назад +5

    Oh my... Hi, Kate. I’m ISFJ and I can relate myself to you. I’ve been dating with INFJ man for 8 months now. Everything went well and smooth. Hopefully it will last. Thanks for making this video. I really love watching you both and I appreciate things as lovely couple. I didn’t expect that INFJ and ISFJ are compatible. 😍💕

  • @absolutetruths1245
    @absolutetruths1245 4 года назад +7

    Im an INFJ, my boyfriend is ISFJ and has so many lovely qualities, but he shuts down a little bit if I try to explore topics that are outside of his realm or a little deep, I find that he will often stay quiet until I move on entirely!

  • @rramos120776
    @rramos120776 6 лет назад +4

    Hearing you two talk makes me feel so peaceful and inspired! (I'm an INFJ male)

  • @luisacordero6789
    @luisacordero6789 6 лет назад +2

    Please don’t change. Keep educating. As an INFJ I prefer you don’t multitask. Be you! You are awesome and so is your wife!

  • @MithraSemiramis
    @MithraSemiramis 6 лет назад +8

    i noticed a lot of comments about the research... i'm infj and i am just like you Scott. i can spend hours immersed in subjects I'm obsessed with but that is a very different thing to me, a passion rather than research.

  • @mattpatterson1447
    @mattpatterson1447 7 лет назад +7

    Very sincere and complimentary couple. Thanks for sharing

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +1

      You're welcome Matt, cheers!:)

    • @mattpatterson1447
      @mattpatterson1447 24 дня назад

      @@scott.morgan I’m also an INFJ enneagram 4. I can relate to your perspective in that

  • @leogrrrl5876
    @leogrrrl5876 3 года назад +1

    Such a lovely video! So nice to see the warm & gentle interactions of an IxFJ couple.

  • @miahleissa9599
    @miahleissa9599 7 лет назад +6

    You two make a beautiful couple....but then, you already know that. ;) Thanks for sharing yourselves with us. lovely

  • @BassBwoy3
    @BassBwoy3 6 лет назад +11

    I'm an INFJ and am just finding my girlfriend is an ISFJ. This video is gold. The only interesting difference is that I find I love research, where Scott got tired after 10-30 mins. I helped my girlfriend research something that helped her for nearly 3 hours, just so we could both better understand it.

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  6 лет назад +10

      Hi Alex, the research question needed further explanation in our video. In the video I / we were thinking about specific types of research - namely research the best product to buy or holiday destination etc. This sort of research doesn't interest me much, but Kate could do it all do. In saying that, if there was a product I was interested in I would probably be happy doing more research on it. But a lot of the everyday items that one buys I would probably to a little looking and then buy something, were as Kate likes to read the fine print and do much more compare and contrasting, and wanting to learn everything about the product(s). This drains me. Because Kate loves to research things, I leave it with her and I focus on other things. When it comes to researching more intuitive ideas and concepts I am a fish in water when it comes to this. In fact I do this all day both actively and passively. I hope that gives a clearer explanation to that part of the video.

    • @BassBwoy3
      @BassBwoy3 6 лет назад +4

      Thanks Scott! Yes, I understand you completely. Thanks for explaining. It really does depend on the topic and one's level of interest.

    • @matilda4406
      @matilda4406 2 года назад

      I think Scott won't research for long because the subject matter is not as interesting. When it is, the research will be lengthy. Or, infj's don't like technology that much? not sure

    • @matilda4406
      @matilda4406 2 года назад

      @@scott.morgan where in AU do you guys live?

    • @hannahnewell305
      @hannahnewell305 2 года назад +1

      @@matilda4406 Based on my study of Ni and how I experience it (I'm an ENFJ), Ni tends to be focused on narrowing options down and finding a single outcome/pattern. It tends to be uncomfortable for us to have a lot of unknowns or for us to have to consider multiple options for too long. When doing research into products, I tend to try and figure out what features are most important to me and quickly compile a list of the most promising options, compare those, and pick a final winner. My INFJ father is the same. My ESTJ mother, on the other hand, will spend days, weeks, and sometimes even months casually looking into specifics and it can drive my dad and I a little crazy lol. We tend to have a mentality of "research, form a plan, execute said plan". Indecisiveness is one of my pet peeves.

  • @ifonlyunu994
    @ifonlyunu994 6 лет назад +15

    I can tell your wife is an IxFJ. The Fe in her eyes...wow. You two make a beautiful couple.

  • @JN-kg7jx
    @JN-kg7jx 4 года назад +1

    I appreciate it when people soften their lazer eyes.

  • @katjak0717
    @katjak0717 7 лет назад +4

    I'm also an INFJ and when you were talking at 37:00 about how you deal with a task, I realised that's exactly why I can't cook!

  • @beachboy4928
    @beachboy4928 7 месяцев назад

    This was very encouraging. Thank you!

  • @allbeing24
    @allbeing24 5 лет назад +4

    Watching u both made me laugh alot ur chemistry the sense of comfort and just everything 💗 ur both so cute and I'm an INFJ ☺️

  • @rpd7573
    @rpd7573 4 года назад +4

    INFJ here and been with ISFJ missus for +20 years

  • @igorkhomenko9680
    @igorkhomenko9680 4 года назад +1

    You guys are so sweet! Keep your journey going, wishing you all the best!

  • @bigbufobufo
    @bigbufobufo 3 года назад +2

    There is so much Fe in this video. I can feel it through the computer monitor lol. 😊

  • @itachisusanoo3689
    @itachisusanoo3689 7 лет назад +4

    Haven't watched beyond the seven first minutes so far, but this is interesting! Thx for uploading this!

  • @tiberiusmononoke6824
    @tiberiusmononoke6824 7 лет назад +5

    Inspirational video bro, and Kate is gorgeous!

  • @therippletheory4345
    @therippletheory4345 5 лет назад +1

    Hey y’all thanks for sharing I understand you made this over 2 years ago but what you said was really helpful. Especially when you mentioned talking to the camera I totally relate. I never understand why it’s hard to express emotion when I’m by my self speaking to the camera as u explain it’s your ni that takes over. I was trying to explain this in a video basically saying I try so hard to be transparent and share what I’m trying to explain in my head but it comes off monotone or that’s what I feel vs what ppl perceive it to be. If you can’t tell by now I’m a infj and the reason I’ve watched your video is I’ve found my self to be attracted to a isfj and I’m trying to teach her a thing or to about mbti but baby steps I don’t want to overwhelm her. Simply I expressed my feelings to her and left it at that wish me luck bc I’m not sure what’s gonna happen lol. But anyways like I said thanks for sharing if your interested in who I am watch my video on why I make videos you may find it interesting and also relevant.

  • @oscarl.3563
    @oscarl.3563 6 лет назад +3

    Great energy. Beautiful couple.

  • @trex3053
    @trex3053 3 года назад +2

    Let's have an infj site.

  • @criminozs
    @criminozs 4 года назад +3

    I'm an INFJ and Mrs is ISFJ which is great but she also has BPD, not great at all.

  • @RRRsimracing
    @RRRsimracing 5 лет назад +1

    My wife is an ISFJ as I'm an INFJ. 2 years into marriage you guys that's great and Congrats, however after 10 years that INFJ Ti child can get a little strong so just be thoughtful of how you say and use it my INFJ friends, she's worth it as my wife is.

  • @rory8585
    @rory8585 7 лет назад +2

    Scott, I like that your tone is serious when delivering info on videos. Don't change it. Love meeting Kate. You guys have a great relationship. thanks for sharing. as an INFJ, I know how little time I spend on Se. Am wondering for Kate how she accesses Ne.

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад

      Thanks for that Shelby :)

    • @Kmno444
      @Kmno444 7 лет назад +1

      Hi Shelby. Not sure that I access Ne very often, but I think it comes out when I hear something quirky and it takes me a while to get the joke.

  • @casanova4391
    @casanova4391 7 лет назад +4

    i'm intp, i love infj & isfj..

  • @coolz9349
    @coolz9349 6 лет назад +2

    I'm an ISFJ and my husband is an INFJ :) and this was spot on for him and me. It's so true about learning when to help, because otherwise I would confuse/annoy him. It's all about communication and compromise lol. Also, yup I'm all about eye contact... Lol.

  • @산산정-k1u
    @산산정-k1u 6 лет назад +1

    great amount of matureness.

  • @imfine9256
    @imfine9256 7 лет назад +4

    Scott,Kate is such a pretty, lovely, delightful, warm, intelligent, and compassionate woman. Please pass along my thanks to her for being in this video with you. As always many thanks to you as well.An idea for natural smiling on your videos: have Kate on the opposite side of the camera. You have no problem smiling at her. :-)

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks!, :) I have past on your kind words and they were received. Regarding the smiling, I have actually thought about doing that LOL!

  • @TheBananaDeanna
    @TheBananaDeanna 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your life experiences. It's refreshing to hear as well to to feel! You & your wife are absolutely wonderful together! I've really enjoyed listening to every word 👍👍👍👍😊❤️

  • @Intersessor1
    @Intersessor1 7 лет назад +4

    I'm an isfj lady and I want to marry an infj guy.. they're the sweetest🍬🍬🍬

  • @susanpeters3341
    @susanpeters3341 7 лет назад +1

    I just found your channel, and the timing is perfect for me. I need to backtrack a little, for I don’t understand the meanings of SE, NI, and the other.. I need to start with your 1st video, perhaps. This is me to a T. Thank you, and my love to both of you. xo

  • @TreasureSeasons
    @TreasureSeasons 5 лет назад +1

    This was so helpful 🌜🌛 this must have been equally helpful for you two to capture and reference to. You're both beautiful in your openness to differences and similarities. I'm an infj female with isfj male.

  • @macoeur1122
    @macoeur1122 4 года назад +1

    F! .....Effie keeps us together! ...Think of me babe whenever.....
    (name that tune!)

  • @philly111
    @philly111 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video, much appreciated!

  • @kishajohnson1962
    @kishajohnson1962 2 года назад +1

    You two are sooooo cute!!!

  • @silentgrove7670
    @silentgrove7670 6 лет назад +1

    What you have together is beautiful ...

  • @NomadOfTheWoods8
    @NomadOfTheWoods8 4 года назад

    when you said God. that was one of the most transparent things you said. as judgement cant not acquire such entitlement understandings.

  • @smol9217
    @smol9217 3 года назад +1

    YALL ARE SO CUTE

  • @macoeur1122
    @macoeur1122 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful couple...

  • @icanrelate
    @icanrelate 4 года назад

    You two are the sweetest ❤

  • @MithraSemiramis
    @MithraSemiramis 6 лет назад +1

    wow, i can't believe how accurate this is 😮 i love it. I'm curious if many infjs were raised by isfjs... both of my parents are isfj (kind of "damaged" ones, but the personality remains even in the extremes). i have a close peer relationship with one now and this is eerily similar 😍

    • @pt5244
      @pt5244 6 лет назад

      Mithra Semiramis I’m an INFJ female and have an ISFJ mother - it’s simply amazing😊

    • @jasminemariedarling
      @jasminemariedarling 5 лет назад

      Another infj with an isfj mom! Interesting. I didn't have a great relationship with her growing up, but it's getting better now.

    • @rabbijoe316
      @rabbijoe316 4 года назад +1

      Another INFJ here (male though) with an ISFJ mom 🙋🏿‍♂️

  • @harshalkaushik7024
    @harshalkaushik7024 2 года назад

    Thank you very much for this video. so much information and many things relatable..
    Being an Infj, sometimes I get nutty when my "good" isfj friend becomes a bit impatient while I am busy collecting my thoughts in the conversation.. do you please suggest anything for me and my isfj to get better at this?

  • @Sara39693
    @Sara39693 Год назад +1

    I’m wondering why ISFJ and INFJ are not in each other’s compatible list? They seem a nice match. Can you explain why?

    • @Sara39693
      @Sara39693 Год назад

      I’m an ISFJ myself and recently met an INFJ person. We seem to have a lot in common and can keep a deep conversation. I’m actually surprised by not seeing them in their compatible lists

    • @LeeLynn-vq8yq
      @LeeLynn-vq8yq 4 месяца назад

      I've found that surprising as well. I wonder if people predicting that are looking too much at what's on paper, vs how people work emotionally, especially on a comfort level.

  • @wonkavision1731
    @wonkavision1731 5 лет назад

    awww...nice couple! ❤ Just goes to show that any type combination can be great! 👍

  • @light9623
    @light9623 6 лет назад +2

    Nice!

  • @painfullyzuzu3927
    @painfullyzuzu3927 7 лет назад +3

    the research thing confuses me, because i identify as infj and i research A LOT, and find it relaxing/energizing. I'd read this is due to development of tert ti in the infj. its also something that comes up in infj fb groups, i wouldnt be surprised though if there were many mistyped people in those groups. what would surprise me would be if i were an isfj so I'm wondering how exactly you'd feel this research thing fits in the isfj stack versus infj?

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +1

      I don't think researching is MBTI type specific. In the video I think we were talking about a specific type of research. I (INFJ) also like to research things, but I think INFJs and ISFJs like to research different sorts of things.
      When it comes to researching topics I am interested in I could also do it for hours. Kate (ISFJ) likes to research many things, for eg if we need to buy something Kate can spend a lot of time researching different brands, pricing etc in a lot of detail. This sort of research allows Kate to file away the info for later retrieval. For me this amount of detail would for the most part not be filed away or remembered. For me I would spend 10 -15 mins depending on the item and then make a choice. Ni and Si differences.
      For me, I could research psychology related topics or ideas, theories, metaphor etc for a long time. This is not to say that there is not some overlap of ISFJs interested in psychology or topic related to the human condition, or INFJs interested in learning a lot about more sensory related topics. But to summarise both types like to research different sorts of information.
      I hope that clarifies things a little.

    • @painfullyzuzu3927
      @painfullyzuzu3927 7 лет назад +1

      Introvert Power thanks for the response, sorry I couldn't reply earlier. thats the thing though, i would do both those types of research. researching before purchasing was something i'd specifically put down to se(buying things) and ti(researching best options). from everything I've read/watched i come back to infj every time, including your videos. then every now and then something puzzling like this pops up and i have to go over everything i thought i knew again. I specifically find si as something I don't relate to and my memory for details is usually pretty terrible, i can gather and order it temporarily but then usually forget it all and keep the general conclusion i came to. And i dont fit the isfj stereotypes at all.

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +1

      As an INFJ, I relate to everything you have shared here :).

    • @painfullyzuzu3927
      @painfullyzuzu3927 7 лет назад +1

      Introvert Power i was considering isfj(again) after this, then i remembered something i'd read about how infjs are often artistic and a quote from jungs psychological types where he described the infjs art, then my husband laughed in my face when i suggested i could be one of the most common types of women, and then i looked at my(ever so slightly weird with a humanitarian bent) artwork, and felt pretty confident in my INFJness again. But i do research like your wife, i just bought a blender and spent 3 days picking it out haha it might just be a symptom of stay at home wife syndrome rather than a type thing? hahaha

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад

      :) most likely.

  • @JN-kg7jx
    @JN-kg7jx 4 года назад

    Moments come and go.

  • @yulissaf3112
    @yulissaf3112 6 лет назад +1

    Kate is very sweet ☺😍 I'm also an ISFJ

  • @Shermanys926
    @Shermanys926 2 года назад

    This is so truth, but for me as an INFJ, its giving me a hard time for me to understand ISFJ, is like they are struggling for words and slow thinker, lost for words

  • @cos244
    @cos244 7 лет назад +1

    You guys are so cute together

  • @officialmintt
    @officialmintt Год назад

    Oh no haha. I’m an INFJ and I would pack a week before. My boyfriend is an ISFJ and he would pack 2 hours before

  • @cass8330
    @cass8330 4 года назад

    Cuteness overload 😍🥰😍🥰❤❤

  • @elmehdisaniss2731
    @elmehdisaniss2731 5 лет назад

    What are these numbers ? Type 1, 2, 3, 4 ? Where can I find these information plz ?

  • @jewelbennett5446
    @jewelbennett5446 5 лет назад

    Oh she seems sweet I hope some day to be as lucky. Thanks for your videos.she like me funnu. Is it weird to have separate bedrooms. My x was a person who had the same routine and never would deviate. I'm a night owl he was a early riser it saved alot of arguments. But now I don't think I could share a room lol😔

  • @davidclarke10
    @davidclarke10 2 года назад

    How are Info differ from isfj?

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад

    I wonder how things are for you guys five years on. Are you in the same town? What state in AU are you?

    • @oceanmoonbelle
      @oceanmoonbelle 2 года назад

      I’m wondering as well! Just how the relationship is not which state!😂

  • @yulissa6395
    @yulissa6395 7 лет назад +2

    Is Kate shy?

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +2

      I wouldn't say shy so much as introverted and private.

  • @NomadOfTheWoods8
    @NomadOfTheWoods8 4 года назад

    more simply in comments. thank you

  • @luisacordero6789
    @luisacordero6789 6 лет назад

    What would be different in your relationship if Kate were to be an ENFJ vs an INFJ? What is the difference?

    • @Kmno444
      @Kmno444 4 года назад +1

      I think I wouldn't take myself so seriously!

  • @XBluePrincessXx
    @XBluePrincessXx 7 лет назад +1

    Do you know your instinctual stackings?

  • @matilda4406
    @matilda4406 2 года назад

    It is hard to show feelings to a camera. I guess imagining talking to someone, idk

  • @Kate98755
    @Kate98755 4 года назад

    I think I might be isfj instead of infj

  • @napndash
    @napndash 7 лет назад

    Both enneagram 9?

    • @scott.morgan
      @scott.morgan  7 лет назад +1

      No but I can understand you thinking that though. I'm a type 4 and Kate's a type 2. We talk about our enneagram in the video.

    • @jmesuz
      @jmesuz 6 лет назад +1

      @@scott.morgan I am friends with a couple who have your types, but he, the infj, is an enneagram 6 and she is an enneagram 1....they seem to argue excessively and they are not yet married. I'm wondering about the likelihood they will be able to understand each other...they seem so different......and both unhappy, almost toxic, but unwilling or unable to work on it or abandon it for something more compatible. Frustrating to watch. Any insight?

  • @adamkahuna1166
    @adamkahuna1166 4 года назад

    260. 26/01/2020. 01:01. 10 396.

  • @Drigger95
    @Drigger95 2 года назад

    dollar store John Danaher?

  • @Triplesolid
    @Triplesolid 4 года назад

    Isfj with Isfj has this ever happen

  • @elmehdisaniss2731
    @elmehdisaniss2731 4 года назад

    I think she is an esfj.

  • @timefortee
    @timefortee 3 года назад +1

    No way she's ISFJ. An Ne type (dom or aux, I mean).