My cousin's father-in-law disowned his daughter for escaping home to marry the man the father didn't approve of. He even made the whole funeral and announced her dead to him. He's known for being cold-hearted, but man, a whole funeral? Also, the daughter is, to this day, married to that man and living happily (apparently).
Good for her, she got away from what was obviously a poisonous relationship with her father. Very glad she still has a support system with her husband.
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My biological mother disowned me when she was living with us in my Nana’s house. I was in my room with my sister, (whom she had just beat), and I was comforting her. She tried to tell me to do something, and I replied with “no, you are not my mother anymore.” Mind you, I was filled with rage that she was still hitting my sister, but maybe I was too harsh. She screamed from the other room, saying “then don’t ever call me mom ever again, I want nothing to do with you.” It was a shock. Sure she was abusive, but I still saw her as my mom at that point, and a part of me longed for her approval. I was left broken. I couldn’t even cry. I just locked my door and sat there numbly with my sister who blinked at me through tears. (Edit, she refuses to believe that her first husband molested me and potentially my younger sister, and I am adopted by my grandparents, and they live separately with my now two younger sisters. My bio mom has gotten better, apparently, but she still hits my sister and verbally abuses her. As soon as I get my license, I plan on taking my sister as often as possible.)
THATS GREAT... Ok no not in that way I mean you got out of that house and into a house that listens (maybe) and *THATS* what's great I'm sorry for all the stuff ur mother did and ur mother's boyfriend's and your a great person
I am so sorry you went through that, my heart goes out to you. My parents were abusive to me as well, though it was different than your situation, they never touched my brother but always beat me... I know how painful it is when you have an interaction like the one you had with your mom that really shows you their love is just not there...you already know its absent, but feeling it is painful. no matter how much they hit you, how much they hurt you, your inner child never stops wanting mommy’s love and approval and it makes it SO painful and difficult to leave abusive relationships. You desperately want the relationship you see your friends have with their parents, it’s so hard. You begin to think “what did I do that made me unlovable?” But it’s not you family that is abusive is NOT family, don’t let people justify your abuse because you share genes.(I have encountered this problem a lot, people telling me to just forgive and forget all the abuse and have a relationship with people who do nothing but hurt me and make me feel like shit because they are my ‘parents’. My aunt was more a mother to me in two months than my mother was in my lifetime) It will get better, just keep moving forward. If you need someone to talk to, you’re welcome to comment on one of my videos and I’ll give u my email(I don’t want to leave it here) and then you can delete the comment so no one sees it. If you reply to this comment for some reason I don’t get notified so be warned I may not see it, it’s not that I ignored it, I didn’t see it. I am so glad that you still have space in your heart for your sister and are willing to go back to try to help her. She definitely needs you, you are possibly her ONLY hope and maybe the only thing keeping her tied to this world. You can really help her by getting her away from that environment as much as possible. You deserved better It’s not your fault You’re not unlovable You deserve to have people in your life who love you You were just dealt a bad hand, it’s not a reflection of you it’s a reflection of your mother not processing her own pain. But that doesn’t excuse it, It’s an explanation, not a justification. Even though your mom may have gotten better, don’t feel like you have to let her back in. If you do that. That is your choice, it may be healing, but it also can be damaging if she hasn’t changed enough. So even though she may have fixed her broken pinky, If her arm is still broken and she can’t hug you with it, that may become an issue(not the best metaphor but u catch my drift) many times when we’ve been abused in childhood by our parents, the thought sinks deep down that we deserve it, otherwise ‘why would it happen?’ Don’t fall for that thought, it’s a protective mechanism but it’s not the truth. You deserve a loving family Who, even when you mess up, will tell you they love you, hold you and look at you with loving eyes. Family is not always blood It is out there but be careful in relationships because often when we have had trauma, and by your story, you’ve been through some painful stuff...we seem to become a magnet for more of it. So be cautious picking a mate, you may be predisposed to end up in abusive relationships until you heal your sense of self worth. I don’t mean to scare, but I’d rather tell you this and put it in your head to look out than hear you ended up with someone who is abusive. when abuse is all you have ever known, you kind of begin to think it is normal. And thought it is never comfortable, it begins to feel like ‘home’ in a really toxic way. Just make sure to avoid people who’s actions show they don’t really love you. It’s hard to understand, find, feel self love when you were never shown it by a parent early on so it’s a tough road to recovery but you will get there :) Sending u and your sis love Apologies if this came off preachy, not my intention in the slightest, I was just trying to be a random Internet hypewoman Hugs I wish you both the very best
Take your sister, save up money, then ask her if she wants to get anything. Id say save up like £500 or so. Give her happiness in her life. Maybe get her things she has always wanted. Aka new phone, maybe some jewlery, SOME BETTER PARENTS. Just make her happy again.
Maybe if you ever want to report that mother if you even want to call her that that she abuses your sister and for proof Maybe recording it with your sisters permission of course that will give you proof and you possibly could take her out of that horrible household forever
Not me but some people I grew up with. Their parents were huge Christians and as most people know premarital sex is a sin There daughter moved in with her boyfriend when she turned 18 and they disowned her I dont know what there middle child did but they also disowned him And their youngest ended up hating them for disowning his siblings he ended up moving in with the oldest asap and they disowned him for doing that. Edit: before the argument goes any farther I just want to say that they are Baptist Baptist dont follow the church exactly.
Ella Bella another similar story of the ever “loving” religious folk I have seen this so many times as well, It’s disgusting, a bit ironic when you read the Bible . Abrahamic religions seem to be fertile soil for growing weeds. I see so much garbage come out of those supposedly “loving religions” I rarely see people bear moral fruit out of these scriptures, if they do, it’s always rotten under the surface... They turn otherwise kind hearted people into authoritarian, arrogant, moral hitlers who flaunt their good deeds like fur coats that they wear every Sunday. So much ego, so many minds corrupted. I have never seen so many fake smiles, so much projection and thinly veiled hatred as I have seen at church.. their main motivation for giving this forced love, for doing good deeds is not because they view the other being as their brother or sister, but because they don’t want to burn in hell. Ironically he opposite of what is supposedly the foundation for the religion It took me years to fully discard the garbage that was put into my head...The judgment, the fear, the shame...no real love. Gold painted shit, sure it shines and you can say it’s gold from a distance, but when you actually go under the surface..it’s still shit Sorry if that offends religious folk I WANT to be proven wrong, I want to see the love radiate from these institutions and people but... my personal life experience has shown me the same thing over and over. I would be ignorant and stupid if I ignore the common factor. If I ignore the facts. The message may supposedly be love, but the people don’t seem to be representing that.
Heartwork By Kitty Im a christian but the church is seriously corrupted by hypocrites who do things for self approval or are just “lukewarm” or cold in faith. A christian should hope to help and interpret the scriptures and show the love of God. He/She should work at their relationship with others and with God and help all attain eternal life.
@@heartworkbykitty7933 considering that the people you dealt with and how they are described they are not true Christians if that's how they acted and also Jesus isnt fooled by fakers who only do it because they have to and I believe there is a scripture that mentions this, and in our church we have a lot of love for everyone and I see it because of how often and how much members of our church have helped her and my family and other families as well like for example the pastors family are always getting their hands on bread and juices that they have given us a lot if it over the last few years whenever we needed it and they would offer to take her to the hospital for her appointments even though it's like a hour drive there and then another one back home not to mention the countless times other church members have given us rides to and from the church when we had no one to take us there, they also give time in every service to pray for the people who are going through things and for testimonies of their prayers being answered and they always always pray for my mom because she has terminal cancer and how she goes through times when shes good and then gets ill again and again, there was also a church member who hand crafted my pastor a podium for him to preach that was made really well and did not charge him a cent but he is no longer with us because his son killed the man over being kicked out if his home because he had drug problems and refused his father's help and stole money from them even though he offered his house and helped him and after all that everyone was saddened there were many who cried and attended his funeral and I do have many more examples if you would like for me to share them but yeah I thank Lord Jesus for blessing me and my family with a church that not only teaches from the bible but are also applying it to their lives genuinely and show love as it's meant to be shown
My brother once attacked me for raising my voice at him for being mean to my cat. I turned around at one point and he kicked my ass. Dad heard me screech and asked brother what he did. Brother told him. Dad told him to turn around then proceeded to kick my brother so hard in the ass that he lifted from the ground. Needless to say, that was the last time my brother ever attacked me as a sibling would. Fucking brilliant
Amelie Petersobln my dad fucking hates my cat ahaha I have to tell him not to screw with her too. But no he did it because he didn’t want my brother to be an ass when he got older
This has been my fear since I realized I was gay. It’s bullshit that I have to live in fear of my own family because of something I didn’t get a choice on
4:27 That's heartbreaking that she didn't even try to fight for him. Still, if she's that heartless, he's ultimately better off without her and with a dad who loves him.
It’s sad, but it’s better that she gave him to the dad and he’s with someone who loves him dearly than fight to keep him and hate him. This is one of the reasons I don’t want kids, in case I don’t connect with it as I should as a mother.
I guess it's a form of extreme loyalty towards the family. Maybe they think it would be easier to just pretend that everything's okay.. I've experienced something similar. My parents abused me emotional and occasionally physical my whole childhood. My whole family knew more or less about it but they didn't do anything against it - they just watched me getting from day to day worse. After a suicide attempt at the age of 14, I spent a few months in psychiatry and eventually was placed in a foster home by youth welfare service. At this point I disowned my whole family except my half-sister and her father. I've been in therapy for over 10 years and diagnosed with several mental illnesses but every time I meet my sister she's trying to force me to rebuilt the relationship to 'at least' my mother and blames me for how awful my mother feels, says that I "broke her heart when I left home years ago, that I'm just overreacting, she tries to convince me that it wasn't even that bad back then - no matter what I tell her - and that my mother/parents didn't mean it like that. They just wanted the best for me." Yeah, for sure haha..- that's why I still have a hard time recovering from what happened. But the worst thing is that I sometimes even believe her.
@@lizmorgan6675 I am so sorry for what happened and wtf is wrong with your sister? She thing being abused is okay? Normal parents don't use violent she is too stupid, please stay strong and continue going there will be a rainbow to your place if she ever said that you "hurted" your mom feeling tell her "I am not the one who asked them to abuse me my whole life and make me almsto end my life" I thing you better get restraining whatever ot called order against your whole family
They are stupid they thing they should keep the "family" happy and act like there is nothing wrong with them behind closed doors this is like a dollhouse of "perfect family" of dirty secrets they can fuck themselves that poor girl suffered alot gosh I hate those people choosing their lovers over their own kids
@@lizmorgan6675 That’s horrible please just try too keep living your own life and at the moment it seems you should just cut all contact with that thing that was supposed too be your family But it’s your decision of course and I promise as long as you keep trying things will get better
Parents who disowned their own child what happened: My brain: "I wAs fAiLing Ch3mIstrY" Edit: I didn't know this comment exploded lol anyway you all be safe out there, don't be nasty, and wash your hands
Good- they better be jealous that your living amazingly and you deserve it. I cant relate as my patents will accept me ( 100%, im lesbian and im not out). But im glad your amazing and living the best life
I really don't understand the "It's my kid so I MUST love him" stigma. If your kid is a horrible person, people won't think badly of you for disowning him. You aren't forced to love your kids. Contrary wise, you don't have to love your family. If they're abusing you/treating like shit, you don't have to love them just bc they're your family.
Im a high functioning autistic person with a family history of depression and other mental illnesses, the fight over structure VS chaos isnt fun, i have always been in controll but now that im older i do see that it has become less, it will never be completely gone but its not a real issue anymore.
Random Tea story time: My mom used to verbally abuse me when I was younger. She had a really bad drinking problem and was also 45% percent of time in the hospital because she has many problems with her stomach. My dad was also in the military and was at work often so he never saw or heard my mom speak to me the way she did. She would call me a bitch for random things. There’s many other things she’s called me but the words bitch and delusional have suck with me. When I was 10 she smacked me so hard a fell. Literally. I told my dad when he came home and he called me a lier. That hurt. Because he was the only person who really showed me love. Even my older brother never payed attention to the things she would do. I ended up telling my counselor because I told my friend what happened thinking it was normal. The police showed up while I was at school the next day and it caused a lot of problems. I ended up being pressured to tell them I did it for attention. A year later my parents got officially divorced and my dad got custody of me. Last Christmas I gave my mother another chance and my dad payed for a plane ticket for me to go see her. For the first time in 11 months I saw my mom. She was drunk. She hugged me and dared to say she missed me. I got into a fight with her the next day and she blurted out that she had liver cancer. Yes. She told me she had liver cancer while drunk in front of my aunt who was mortified because she didn’t want me to find out that day. I kept my composure and told her I already knew. I told her I had figured that out and that it didn’t surprise me. She failed to make me feel bad for her although I didn’t know she actually had cancer. I’m 13 now. I live with my dad and now my older brother who started to get sick of my mom because of the ways she was acting. Although my little brother who is 8 went to go live with my mom last week. I miss him and once again everyone is saying she’s changed. I tell them I believe them while deep down I know she still doesn’t care. Thank you for the people who have read all of this and survived this essay 😂
Given the mom's drinking problem and the fact that it sounds like her body lacks the enzyme necessary to break down alcohol, it's not even remotely surprising that she has liver cancer.
I was disowned by my mother last year (sort of). I graduated high school almost 3 years back. I decided to take a year off, one year turned into two. I occasionally tried to talk to my mom about helping me apply for college, but she would deflect and change the subject. As a kid she would talk about the college fund she set up for my sister and I. What happened to the money? IDK. So in this time I would spend a week with my Dad and a week with my Mom. Over the course of months Mom was progressively getting more and more verbally abusive (she was always like that, but incidents were getting more frequent) I hung around town to avoid being at home. One week, July 2020, I came home and she was angry as soon as I walked in the door. "I was already disrespected by [I forget if it was people from the IT or security company] I don't need any disrespect from YOU!" "Do you want me to leave?" I asked. She said, "NO!" I'm not kidding, she literally screamed it. Of course she didn't want me to leave, she wanted me to stay and be her verbal punching bag. I used the line I had planned to say ahead of time. "I walked in this door and I can walk right back out." "GOOD! Don't come back!" I called Dad and had him pick me up. I only went back once to return the phone she bought me, and again in October when my sister decided to move out too. She was much more tolerant of the abuse than I, the last straw was when Mom started pulling her hair. A few weeks ago Mom called Dad saying she wanted to reconcile with us, but I believe the scripture when it says "Honor Thy Father & Mother," she told me to stay away and I'm honoring her command. She needs to learn that actions have consequences, I doubt she ever will though. She used her words to scar me, so I couldn't talk to her even if I wanted that. She would use it as an opportunity to scream at me, or try to manipulate my feelings, and I can't take any more of it. So now I'm broke, unemployed, and living with my dad. I'm trying to survive my depression and learn how to function as a normal person. I walk the dog, attend church, practice my driving skills, and my sister and I have taken up cooking as a hobby. So far my proudest achievement is learning to operate a charcoal grill by myself. That and the fact my diet is going well makes me think I'm going to make it. Hang in there guys.
@@azuremv Thank you very much. Life hasn't changed that much for me, but a couple of the older women at my church have befriended me and now I help them with prepping for Sunday school. I guess I can change my status from "unemployed" to "church volunteer". My depression hurts as much as it ever did, but there are more people now that know I exist and want me to keep living. That helps. I really appreciate your nice comment.
I was friends with a Jehovah witness girl and she told me she didn’t believe any of it but tells her parents she does so she can stay at her home it’s really sad
I am never one for judging people for what they believe, but those people seem like real shitheads. This is coming from someone who was made fun of several times for being Jewish
@@juliaroth4855 Same case here. From 5th grade to 8th grade I got beat up and tormented all the time. I've struggled with suicidal thoughts, been self conscious for a long time and constantly felt wrong for my interests or religion/family (my Dad is also Jewish, mother is Christian, so it's a mixed faith home.) I just hope you have people in your life who help and support you, and I wish you well. God bless you and I hope your doing OK
I see a lot of people disowning their parents and I'm thinking I'm boutta do the same when I move out, my mom has been nothing but abusive to me and keeps denying everything she ever did so once I leave nobody in my family will ever see me again.
Sometimes you cant blame the parent. Your kids might just fall into the wrong crowd or idolize the wrong person. You might be able to do everything right and still your child is bad. I understand the feeling that the parents are at fault too for thier child's actions but sometimes they really just go down a really diffrent path
@@AJFRAN3 it 100% the parents. they have access to all things they just choose not to access them. They can set rules and boundaries, and instill good behaviors. The kids who go bad, are from families that train not parent. They act like a dictator, and rule with an iron fist. A lot of the time, the kid was abused, was made to feel they cant talk to their parents so they lash out. Or simply put the kid has mental issues and needs the help. Parents see therapy as a weakness or are ashamed.
Funny. Alot of yall are very judgmental toward the parent and act like the kid is just a puppet on strings. Kids do have minds of thier own and thier own wants and desires.
You are man. My biological mother and father both Disowned me when I was only a week old The reason for that is I had a Cleft lip on the roof of my mouth and still to this day have one lung is smaller then the other and where my mom was 18 when she had me and my father was in his 30s “this was different times” My father was a trucker on the road all year long while my mom wasn’t working she just went out partying and drinking and slept around. She had 3 more kids after years a girl and two boys. That women lost all her children and she didn’t even make an Effort to go to the court dates to even get the 3 back. The worst part is when I was a baby she wouldn’t feed me change me or even spend time with me, only my grandmother took me in when we got home from hospital not 2 weeks later. I’ll be 22 this August and I haven’t seen any of them brothers or my sister and she just graduated high school this year. I still sees my father every now and then he still works on trucking while the mother is on the run from the RCMP for Charges over the past 10 years. And if my brothers or sister sees this I really do miss you guys but I’m sorry you’re big brother wasn’t around at all when you’s were growing up Kara Brady Cody I just hope you three or any of us don’t go down the same road as our mother cause we Deserve better than that.
@@kyletbs1678 this makes me think that parents should pass a test before having kids, because it's a life/lives we're talking about, kids that will grow up into adults and probably have their life ruined/ still have trauma for a ceirtan part of their life, and the worst part is that some of those people will be like their parents so if we dont do something, this cycle of bad parents never ends. Im so sorry about your past situation btw :(
I was disowned for being "too mentally ill" for my mother, and her choosing her husband, who's not even my father, over her own daughter, but let's not forget to mention the psychological and physical ab/se she made me go through too. Well, at that point I was only "kicked out" of the house, until I went to my grandma's and aunt's side, where they helped me and actually let me stay on their home, it was at that moment where my mother decided she wanted to disown me for the terrible act of actually looking for help. Needless to say, I'm done with her.
My family disowned my older brother. He sexually assaulted my sister and I. He is now refereed to as the jailbird of the family and no one talks about him anymore. We also have no idea where he is. Last we heard, he was in Arkansas and he had a gf. That was about 10+ yrs ago. He could rot in ditch for all I care.
9:47 "stealing from the deceased/nearly deceased is one of the lowest things a human being can do" I'll spare certain details for privacy sake, but I have a story in regards to that. My mom is a lawyer, and worked on a case for a man who had changed his will (while being of sound mind) to give his money, house, etc. to his neighbors who had been so kind to him for the last years of his life, rather than to his relative (niece or daughter, I forget) who had never been there throughout his life. This final change was absolutely legal, and a few days later, the man died. When this woman found out that she was taken out of the will, she frankly lost her sh*t. despite the fact that she hardly had any relationship with this man, she claimed she deserved it, and tried to argue in court that she was not of sound mind, though it was clear that he had been. This woman was a total jackass, and tough I thankfully never met her, she seems to be one of the most horribly selfish people out there. The case progressed for YEARS, with my mother and other lawyers fighting for what was essentially this man's dying wish. Still, this b*tch wouldn't let up. It eventually was taken to a state court [ I might be phrasing that wrong, I'm not educated in law] until finally, after I think 4 or 5 years total, the case was closed. Unfortunately, that woman won the house that the man had wanted to give to his neighbors, but the neighbors got the money and other assets. To this day it breaks my heart to think about the fact that that woman cared more about money than a family member who had died, and the fact that a kind old man was so taken advantage of, even after he died. still, I'm glad they were able to win most of what the man had wanted to go to his neighbors. despite all the bad out there, there are still people fighting for what's good.
Hi from a year after u posted this comment That woman is now what we call a karen and after reading your story I am truly confused with how she won without even having a damn relationship with this man nor spending time with. She must have a had a good lawyer for it to go on for years, glad the neighbours got their share tho even tho they deserved the house :(
Drama during a funeral is almost a certainty, especially money concerns. "The knives come out." It is not what it seems on the surface. It is a form of denial in the face of death: A situation in which no one has control over. So people will often create a situation that demands more immediate attention, yet one they can control. It serves as a distraction from permanent pain from losing a loved one, postpones mourning, and stops us thinking about how we all are destined to die. Yes, it makes things more difficult in the long run. But our subconscious is more concerned with surviving the next five minutes than the next five months.
My sister got disowned for many, many reason which I’am about to explain Left the house when she was 16 because of the typical bullshit idea of “My boyfriend will take care of me” said boyfriend became abusive got her pregnant and she took the abortion, my mother allowed her to come back because she seemed truly in pain and we though she had learned from her massive mistake SPOILER: She didn’t She later on kept dating the previously metioned piece of shit Then one day my sister invited some of her friends to stay the night and the piece of shit that is her boyfriend somehow got inside in the middle of the night and beat one of her friends because he thought she was cheating, my mother tried to press charges but my sister lied about what happened to the police and contradicted what my mother said She then left the house AGAIN to stay with her college buddies but later on came back begging and my mother took pity on her and set a simple set of conditions: Help clean the house and clean your shit (My sister would leave dirty dishesh in her room with left over food that would later on rot away or get full of fungus) She of course didn’t clean her shit but it doesn’t end there She gets kick out of college because she actually never completed high School and instead bought fake papers, we still don’t know what she really did with the high school money my mom was giving her You would think this is when mom kicks her out but you would be underestimating my mother’s patience The reason why my mother finally disowned her and kick her out of the house (she was about to be 19 when this happen so a legal adult) was when my sister asked my mom to give her money to pay the last year of high School and also help her pay College, my mom refused and told her that she no longer trusted her, so my sister gets angry and acuses her of “Not Being Supportive Enough” and that is when my mom lost her shit and disowned her, cut all contact and pretty much told me that even if she is dying she doesn’t want my sister to come see her Postdata:Sorry if there was a mistake I’am Mexican and still learning English
The one talking about the child with autism and bipolar, I'm diagnosed with high functioning autism, trust me, i was physical as a kid, but that stopped around 17, and I started to really mature, but people with this will always fight authority on some internal level. I'm 20 now, and i'm doing a lot better.
Good to hear you are doing better. I am a thirteen year old and have just gotten out of being suicidal. I am doing a little better. Parents aren't. I dunno. Sorry I didn't see this 6 months ago.
For the story about the girl who was an addict and her mom letting her go. She is right that was the best thing she could have done my mom was an addict to and she never got her life together to my grandma took all her kids and said I no longer am helping because only did because you had my grand baby’s and now I have them. My mom 3 years clean she was your young ones back and we see her all the time. She doing great
my grandma was a complete jerk to my mom. Im not going to say what happened, but my mom got anxiety and depression from it. She said she didn't think she could make it through her dad's death (my grandpa died of cancer) if it weren't for the game that she still loves and plays almost 9 years later. Good on you, game. You saved my mom's life.
It really pisses me off when family and friends of a person try to bully them into having a relationship with a toxic asshole just on the basis of being blood related! No one has a right to treat another person like shit! Absolutely NO ONE!! Especially your family, they are the people that are supposed to have your back!!
14:58 as someone with Bipolar and Autism, there could be insufficient medication or something going on that you may be unaware of. While I've done a lot less with the same issues, I do find that medication regulation really helps me. In college atm myself
This videos makes me realize how blessed i actually am to have both parents, ive noticed that growing up with just one parents can take a tow on a kid. Its heavy... I wouldnt want that type of trauma in my life. Im glab my parents stayed together through the thick and thin to see me grow up happy and in a healthy enviroment. Life is very misterious, and realization is beautifull.
I think that it's Way more worse when the parents should be divorced but aren't "for the kids " . All my f*cking childhood i litteraly prayed to god for my parents to finally get divorced. But I think it's difficult too to live with only one parent...
One thing I’m extremely grateful for is that my mom would leave any guy if I asked her to. I’ve never asked her to before because her boyfriend is amazing, but she lets me know that she would choose me over any guy and that is something I will always appreciate and be grateful for.
I actually disowned my own mother at a young age, I told her so directly. She was manipulative, abusive and treated me more like a servant then a child. It's been four years and after therapy, healing and figuring out a lot about myself I know it was a good choice. Family isn't too attached to cut the hell off as soon as possible if they're nothing but a toxic shit head.
I'll tell yall a few stories about my mom I got disowned by my mother for no apparent reason (she "re owned" me said sorry and stuff but I don't really see her as a mom) She one threw me out of my room and I needed to sleep on the floor of my grandmother's room for two days She always screams at me for also no apparent reason (She also screams at my grandmother for NOTHING AT ALL) Christmas is always hell example: my dad and my mom start fighting (screaming etc.) Then my dad is mad at me for like a week and my uncle too Edit: I forgot some stuff I'm lesbian my dad is SUPER religious,homophobic and racist he usually talks smack about people (example: "god said that only man and woman should be together" etc.) I haven't told them yet *there is a lot more stuff*
Maybe try telling him since he's sooo religious that "I'm sorry the devil has made home in your heart" or "I would pray that God graces you with empathy" or something bc if you turn his religion on him maybe just maybe he'll shut up¯\_(ツ)_/¯ who know but I wish you the best of luck in life you👍💓 you deserve it.
Anyone ever get that talk from your parents when your being moody because of stuff that happened in the past and it makes you feel like shut and I'm not talking about a dumb relationship with a girl or boy I'm talking real trauma they say someone has went through so much more
I'm literally going through that right now when I was little about five I think, I saw my dad almost get killed and it scared me for life. And it never bothered me for years until a few weeks ago. And my mom can be a piece of shit sometimes, Ok here's some back round information. my dad yelled a lot and made me do all of his work etc. He made me cry all the time it fucked me up because now whenever someone yells I start crying. My dad left 5-6 years ago, my mom decided that the way to get me to behave was to scare me into thinking I'll end up like my verbally abusive father. She literally threatend to make me live with my dad if I wasn't going to be nicer to my brother. (Worse thing I ever did to him was yell at him when he annoyed me) So that literally fucked me up even more. Recently she said that if I keep feeling depressed I'll end up like my dad. Yup because I'll have anger issues and punch walls and sell everything my mom owns because I expressed my emotions once
@@GarbageHomo I'm sorry to hear that, I've been through something like that, when I was younger my father suffered from domestic violence from my stepmother, and one time my stepmother tried to stab my father, after that traumatic experience I had fear of going to my dads house. My mother also was always telling me that my father was a piece of shit, and that i was always on his side, this continued to be like that until I completely brake down because of other things in my life, and talked very sincerely with my mother, and told her everything i felt, and had been trough, after that she became very supportive, and after that my relationship with my father got very bad, and it remains like that until today. I think you should try having a real talk with your mom, and if it doesn't work, just talk with your close friends, but you really have to talk with others people about things like that, people you trust, it helps a lot
@@GarbageHomo that's a yikes man mine wasn't that bad when I was 3-5 my babysitter who was my mom's, boyfriends, brothers, girlfriend she kept molesting me as a child and it finally stopped and then I had to go to school and got bullied for years as I had bad trust issues with women for years later I found out I wasn't an only child but my 5 siblings, 4 died at birth and 1 was aborted later on I watched my great grandmother die in front of me the only person I thought cared about me went on to fuck up my left arm burning ripping and stabbing it and my mom and dad left with my granny so she tell me you need to forgive and forget but I have a mental problem were I forget everything but what I want to and I went to a mental facility recently so I know all to well that talk
It's videos like this that make me so grateful for the family I have. My parents and siblings are amazing. We travel out of state to see extended family at least once every year, and we see other extended family in state as well. My parents have taught me how to take care of myself, and I feel so lucky that I can confide in them and talk about whatever's bothering me. I came out to my mom last year. I was really afraid of how she would react, because I've heard stories of parents who have freaked out, but she was really understanding. She said, word for word, "It's okay to have crushes on girls, and it's okay to have crushes on guys." I'm almost crying just remembering how happy and relieved I felt that she wasn't upset with me. If anything, it made me feel closer to her. My parents are both so supportive of anything I want to do, as long as it's something I enjoy and it doesn't hurt anyone or get in the way of my schoolwork (during the school year). Piano lessons? Sure! Girl Scouts? Yep! Scouts BSA? Absolutely! Sometimes I forget just how lucky I am to have gotten such an amazing family. Videos like this one remind me that not everyone has parents like mine. Not everyone has the freedom to learn what they want to learn. I just... I feel so sad for everyone whose parents have ignored their cries for help. Parents are supposed to support and protect their children. To all the parents out there: if your child thinks that they need to see a therapist, find a therapist or a support group for them! You don't know their mind! They do. When it comes to your child's health, physical or mental, you don't always know what they need. They do. No child should ever have to suffer because their parents weren't giving them the support and the help that they deserve. Happiness and good health should not be privileges. Everyone deserves to be happy and healthy.
i disowned my oldest sister. shes been very mentally and emotionally abusive for years. she was one of the main reasons for my ED. she also forced me under cold showers when i dared to cry about things kids always cry about when i was like 9-10. she forced her style onto me even tho she saw how uncomfortable i felt in her clothes and she still keeps misgendering me even after my mum talked to her about it. she told me that me doing art as my job is only a hobby because i cant get money from it all the time. i am willing to talk to her again if she stops misgendering me and finally accepts that art can be a real job, but i know that will never happen.
My father "disowned"(just straight up disappeared from my life.) Me After we refused to do what he wanted, which was to abandon my great Grandmother in a nursing home, move up next to him, and have me join a private school. At the time I had just been taken out of the 7th grade because my bipolar depression and become severe enough I was flipping almost every few minutes and thinking of ways of killing myself(came very close several times to actually trying.). Which he REFUSED to believe. I'm now on depression meds which keep me stable for the most part. But had we done as my dad wanted I likely would have been dead with a year or two. Ironically it ended up being the best thing he every did for me. Since he was never around and very rarely helped out with anything. I more recently found out I'm Autistic as well, and likely he would have refused believe that as well. He still has some contact with my half brother, but he feels pretty similar to how I do about our dad. Sometimes it really isnt the kids fault, I had lived under his tyranny for years until I was old enough to decide who I wanted to live with. Until that point he kept threatening to take me from the only place I'd ever known as my home. With my Grandma and Great Grandma.
You know your family member(s) treated you unforgivably when it is a relief to be disowned. My "mother" disowned me speaking for both of my now ex parents after this year of hell and her being offended that I wanted to keep her and my ex father and my ex brother out of my wedding ceremony completely, mostly because of covid 19 and their bad health. Sometimes I still feel a bit sad because I realize now just how selfish they have always been and how they never actually loved me, but mostly its just relief now. I have plenty of other family who do actually love and support me including my loving husband, and his wonderful parents who kind of adopted me. I call them mom and dad now, and I feel so much better because of it.
I've had moments where the parents disowned me. The two didn't know how to handle what I was turning into and it took a long time before I was able to turn my life around.
@@venusdragojlovic4227 I am not disowned but I would like to be. It's clear my parents hate me, but can't disown me because of their fucking religion. I'm not being rude to the religion, I'm being rude to my parents fucking behaviour and how it has torn me apart
@@livvb5036 If you hate your parents and your parents hate you, just leave their house, write a letter and tell them to fuck off, then go to a orphanage when you packed your bags or go to your trusted family member. If I was you, I would not hesitate to do it.
Well my mum is different. My brother (an addict) always stole things from our house so he could pay for drugs and alcohol. After many, MANY years of failed rehab, my dad disowned him, but my mum is now paying his bills and rent😑 And what's sad is he graduated high school with straight A's. Could've had a better life..
Haven't been disowned, but I kind of wish I could reverse disown my bio dad. Like... get rid of him, instead of the other way around. He did all sorts of shit to us as kids, from beating us with belts, to berating us when we wanted him to be proud of us. I won't go into everything, the list is too long, and boring, but I found a dad now. My mom, who has worked her ass off, every single day of her life, found someone in 2014, and though she's had boyfriends before, this is the only one that only felt like a real dad. I call him my 'real dad', and things have been better since he joined the family. Edit: Proofreading.
I'm sorry to hear this. I'm so glad everything is better, you're very brave. I currently live with my parents who treat me like I'm shit to them. They expect me to be so perfect. If I say one bad thing, I'm in my room for hours. They verbally abuse me, and try so hard to hurt me in a way that won't get them in trouble. They like to blame my younger brother's mistakes on me because I am the older sibling. I have diagnosed anxiety, and suffer from haphephobia. Used to be suicidal, cutting my legs and stuff. Hid it with jeans and long pants so they never knew. I'm not anymore, which is good. I don't know how to get out of this situation. I'll have to wait until I move out, which is in 5 years.
Things like this video sometimes make me fear if I'll ever get disowned (or just kicked out from the house) My dad sometimes tells me "if you're here living in this home is thanks to us", sure I am grateful for what they have given me, I'm grateful for keeping up with me despite getting into deep shit (not like drugs or anything illegal, but I can be not the best at college, who they pay with great effort), and I love them with all my heart, but I'm scared that I'll ever get abandoned in such a cruel way (and I'm 20, I'm an adult, what is wrong with me?!)
So as a recovering horse girl I might actually want to wake up with my dream pet from in my vicinity. Still kinda like horses just not as crazy as I used to. Also I double took out of rage and sympathy with the whole, “Get over your trauma, because your mother is hurting over you cutting her out.” I grew up with an emotionally abusive mother and let me tell you that’s the most common type dribble I hear from people.
Maybe the channels are created by the same person. That can happen with these duplicate channels, especially if you know they're always the same every single time. If not, they hunt for the same contents that pop up on top on Reddit every single time with little effort to be different. Just avoid watching the videos if you find the same titles appearing around the same time.
My oldest sister used to be friends with this girl (we'll call her Shelby) who has a crazy younger brother. The police have never been involved and the parents don't discipline him because they're scared he'll snap. My sister's current best friend (we'll call her Kate) used to be friends with Shelby as well. Kate was at Shelby's house and Shelby was going to make ramon noodles for her brother at his request. He got mad at Shelby because she wasn't cooking them right. The kid decided to hold a knife to Kate's throat in order to threaten Shelby. I still see this kid regularly attending my church and few people actually know how messed up that family is with their sociopathic son.
18:09 this happened to my mom's severely handicapped aunt who is currently showing signs of dementia (as well as depression after her brother/primary caretaker passed away from Covid) and whose unofficially adopted son would supposedly spend hours with her and do little tasks here and there to help her out, when in reality, he wasn't doing anything
Sometimes I wish my own father would have went through disowning me because of how he treats me. The only reason he didn't go through with it was because I moved in with my mother and he wanted to prove he was better at parenting than my mother (he wasn't) and wanting to turn my brother and I against our mother and make us come crawling back to him. Now he pays my college tuition and you bet I'm dragging every last penny out of him.
My mom disowned me after finding out my dad sexually abused me, she basically said "hes my husband, so throw her away" i now live with with my grandmother and when i try to fix what small relationship i had with my mom she would yell at me and left me alone
I was disowned because my mom thought I was making up my claims about being sexually assaulted. Said my depression, anxiety, self harm and suicide attempts were because “I’m an attention seeking whore”. Blamed me for getting pregnant when I was sexually assaulted. And still SHE disowned ME.
I never got disowned, but my family talk about disowning me, when I was younger I thought it meant punishing me for my bad actions, now I realize what it actually means and now I just feel like my family doesn’t give to shits about me, now I just feel like there using me for money cause of my talent for drawing, I see, that’s why my mother brought up something about selling my art.
@port nut That's not sociopathy. Sociopathy is kind of like not being able to feel good or bad emotions, and being extremely calculating. It's an actual disorder.
@@swiftfox3461 I've heard it means you can't feel empathy or sympathy twords anyone or anything. Of course that doesn't mean you become an evil a-hole; at the end of the day you can still make decisions for yourself.
it's synonomous and it's main symptoms are the inability to feel empathy guilt or remorse. However, If your diagnosing clinician used the hare phsycopathy scale and you were diagnosed as a sociopath instead of a phsycopath, the slightest hope you had of changing, (or eventually becoming devoid of some of the malevolent nature in you), became non existent when you were 18; & your conduct disorder graduated to antisocial personality disorder. You could've been a somewhat positively contributing member of society, perhaps not quite a good person, but sociopathy as opposed to phsycopathy indicates a poor environmental upbringing along with some genetics, yet not as significant as the genes attributed to phsycopathy. Sociopaths are born, while phsycopaths are made. You are not sick, you cant not change, you need to be put down. If the much more plausible circumstance transpired and your physician diagnosed you believing both sociopathy and phsycopathy were synonomous, you were born evil and the world would be a better place without you. This sounds harsh but these individuals are our serial killers, often child molesters, torturers, and all that is malicious in the world. These people's emigdala's are undersized y approximately 20%, their prefrontal cortex is extremely compromised as well as thier hippocampus. It is almost as if they are primitive in mind. There are ways to determine this for phsycopaths and most sociopaths at birth, and they need to be put down, right then. They can not be cured, fixed or reformed.
I almost got disowned by my parents when I came out as an atheist to them, and they only took it back once I publicly called them out on it. Yay overly religious parents.
Haven't disowned my kid, but it's hard to be around her sometimes. I mean, that's my kid - Beg, Borrow, Steal, Kill or Die for her, that's my kid! Unfortunately, it hurts my heart & I feel horrible thinking that if she wasn't my kid, I wouldn't voluntarily choose to spend time around her most days. She's been through a lot the last 5-6 years: leaving with the abusive, manipulative internet boyfriend at 19, putting up with all his mind-twisting, perverted sh*t for the whole time, then finally figuring it out & coming home. She's just not who I thought (NOT planned) she'd be. Not where I thought (again, NOT planned) she'd be. She IS a good kid. Loves animals of ALL kinds, plants are a passion, her friends are few, but they are true (as is she to them),& there are times she's very pleasant & civil. So, I continue to pray.
I just wanted to share my own story, so here it is. I disowned the man that my oldest brother calls his dad. Not legally, as, being a fourteen year old, I wouldn't be able to, but he no longer has the right to call himself my father. This man has put myself and my brothers, and even my mother through more shit than they deserve. Then again, there aren't many people in my family who are good people. I'm the third or second youngest in my entire family, my oldest brother being 21, and my other brother being 20. My second oldest brother, we'll call him M, has aspergers, and was diagnosed as a kid. The man that my oldest brother calls his father (Dean), also has aspergers. (I think.) Yet, M has just used this as an excuse. He is physically abusive towards me, and constantly gets away with being outright rude towards myself. My entire family says I egg him on, and make him do the things he does. However, Dean is a different story. I've been living with my mother for a while now, and while she's, at best, emotionally abusive, it's better than living with Dean. My parents have been divorced since I was three months old, so my mother is the one who payed for my phone. My mother is the one who pays for my schooling, etc. Yet recently, when I called him up because I needed a ride to school and my mother was refusing to drive me, he made it into something bigger and made me stay at his house for a few days. I never went to school. The day I left was the day I outright decided he was *not* my father anymore. He took my phone because I didn't want to get into the shower, and proceeded to scream at me when I followed him out, attempting to get it back. My phone is mine, and he didn't pay for it. He had no right to take it, alongside the fact I didn't feel comfortable showering at his house. As there was another night where things happened, and when I got into the shower he kept opening the door and looking at me. Yet, that's another story. Long story short, he called me a disgusting pig, there were times where he shoved me to get me out of the way, he yelled at me, telling me I was a disgusting pig, and when I had a panic attack because of all the yelling, his new girlfriend (who's a therapist) told me she refused to comfort me. I was forced into the shower, and decided if no one was going to stand up for me, it wasn't worth waiting. So I stood up for myself. I yelled back at him, I told him I was sick of his shit, and he took me home. I also made him apologise. And got my phone back. I haven't seen him since. Moral of the story: You're stronger than you know. Please don't spend your days waiting around for someone to come rescue you. Superman, Spiderman and all that don't exist, the harsh reality is that you have to be your own hero. So please, never let anyone treat you as a toy. Never let anyone use you. Even if they mean everything to you, and even if you need them in your life. You have no idea how much it'll help to cut them off.
The thing about the brother attacking the sisters, happened to me and still happens to my siblings, he has FASD, and has attacked us for years, and we cannot defend ourselves because he is younger and has a disability, we fear getting arrested for so much as restraining him when he attacks us [biting, attacking pets, strangling, kicks, punches, attempting to poison our food with cleaning products after breaking the locked cabinets door to get to them and often hitting us with heavy blunt objects and knives] because we are older and on the outside it might look like we were the aggressors to a disabled child we only could lock ourselves in rooms or cover our heads with our arms as he attacked. My parents have tried for many years to get him help, doctors, therapists, prescribed medication, specialist schools, routines, you name it they've tried it. But they will never put him in a facility that specialises in his mental health issues as they don't want to be labeled as the sort who'd give up their kid, and have berated us whenever we break down and beg them to stop him hurting us "He's just a kid what harm can he really do?", I came to them one day and begged them to please help us that I couldn't take what he was doing to me and my sisters, layed out that the stress of living with him was driving me and my siblings to suicide attempts (we considered death better than living with his abuse) and self harm, that it was enough that even my anti depressants couldn't keep me level headed any more, my mums only response was "What do you have to depressed over?" It was the final straw, I still feel guilty for my decision as I couldn't take my sisters with me, but I think it was still the best thing for me, I put in my notice at work, moved countys and started living with my bf even without a job lined up to support me, my bf knew I couldn't stay where I was any longer.
one story hit hard, my brother is autistic so I was always babysitting him even though I was younger but he ended up going through something similar, I was a hard tie in life, he became a junkie and was in and out o prison, he used to physically, and mentally abuse us as well, during this time I was neglected and the cops were always at the door. this is where I slowly began to hate the very person I looked up to, he's better now,and he's clean but it was very traumatic.....
I can relate to the JW story, I was baptized as a child so when I left (after finding out about the hidden child abuse and sexual assaults) I left at age 14. My grandparents refused to talk to as well as any of my friends. It’s sad but it happens to so many people each year
Some of the stories where the parent had no justification for it surprise me because the OPs never punched the shit out of them. Especially the one with the sister's funeral attendance. There should have been 2 funerals.
If you disown a child for their sexuality then you've failed as a parent. Incestuality, beastiality, and pedosexuality are not a part of the community and will never be. Love is love so long as it's not with animals, children, or family.
Am I the only one who feels scared if I get really angry at some point my parents may disown me? It’s just something I think about, I have a great family (a brother, a sister, a mother, a father. I am the youngest) but I do think I have anger issues and I’m not sure if at some point I’ll just get too angry and then they’ll disown me. I didn’t used to think people actually did this kind of stuff but now....idk does anyone else feel this way?
@@uprisingsun9105 pfffft I regularly stay up from 10:00 at night to 7:30 in the morning on my phone and laptop playing Minecraft. I know nothing about sleep 😈😈 I'm not ok...
ere's a list why my parents hate me: I'm stupid I'm bad at math I'm bad at writing I'm bad at typing I have extreme anger for my father because of how many times he said "I'm working to be a better dad" but then put in no effort and ends up drinking and then fighting with everybody he sees and drunk driving. Reasons my parents haven't given me up for adoption is because they want a free place to live when they're older.
Stories like this really prove that you don't need to like people just because you're related to them. To quote "family are the people you're forced to be friends with, while friends are the family you choose."
My mom was disowned by her parents, they favored their youngest, but when my mom found success in being a chef they asked for literally thousands, we weren't rich, my neighbors were caught with meth for hell's sake when she declined they basically said that they never had any love for her, I haven't talked to them since and I never will, seriously how can some people be so nasty?
I guess that few hundred thousand if not more it cost them to raise her then asked for help just to be shot down. I say it was your grandparents who got the better end of the deal.
Having been raised as a JW I can honestly say that the parent don't stop loving the child when they are disfellowshipped from the congregation. They just choose their faith in God first and feel that the child needs to repair their own faith before they can be brought back in. One can only be disfellowshipped if they already made the public commitment and baptism into the congregation and are fully educated in how the discipline of disfellowshipping works. They are interviewed by several elders to be sure that they fully understand.
10:48 this is why being "fAMiLy oRiEnTeD" can be so toxic sometimes. people need to understand that kids who are abused are definitely NOT obligated to love, or forgive their abuser just because it's their parents. i am so sick of the "but they're still your parents" bullshit every time someone discusses their trauma form their parents. so what if they're the parents? they've left deep scars that will affect this person for the rest of their life and they have every single right to be mad about it.
My older cousin had a childhood friend that he was always really close to. They met in kindergarten and immediately bonded. They'd always go over to each others' houses, normal kid stuff. It turns out that when their fathers met, they recognized each other as their own childhood friends, so that was really cool. My cousin said that they wanted their sons to be best friends, when they had them. Then one day my cousin's friend suddenly died. It turned out he had a rare brain disease that went under the radar his entire life. He was only in his early 20's. His family and my cousin's family all went to his funeral; it was a tragedy, my cousin said his mother, who was a stoic woman, was reduced to tears. But his father never came. If I remember correctly there was some sort of sports thing (golf? Nascar?) that he thought was more important than his own son's funeral. Imagine if you died young and your parent couldn't even bother to come to your funeral. Everyone was hurt. My cousin's dad cut him off, as he should. TLDR: My cousin's lifelong friend died suddenly and his dad didn't even go to his funeral.
I'm trans and Pans End of story. Update: Got accepted into a international school and planning to join a program as a exchange student and my LDR friend told me her mother takes in FES
man, watching this video i realized i dodged alot of bullets in my life. so much of my early childhood and even some of my mental health resembles the first parts of these stories, and that i could have turned out to be a much worse person.
I'm also a jehovahs witnesses, my mom is strict in our religion but she loves my step-dad who is still catholic, also no, my step dad is great, he did not molest me or harass me, the JW part of my family is actually supportive of my mothers decision, and i never heard about something that encouraged us to disown/breakup/divorce with people who are not in our religion anymore.
My cousin's father-in-law disowned his daughter for escaping home to marry the man the father didn't approve of. He even made the whole funeral and announced her dead to him.
He's known for being cold-hearted, but man, a whole funeral?
Also, the daughter is, to this day, married to that man and living happily (apparently).
On the bright side not many people can say they were alive during their funeral.
Lmao extra😂😂
His loss
Good for her, she got away from what was obviously a poisonous relationship with her father. Very glad she still has a support system with her husband.
The father is in the wrong, if the daughter is happy, I wish her all the best.
"There are two rules, dont disown and dont kill your children"
"The oldest keeps molesting the sister"
*"There are zero rules."*
Come on, did RUclips delete my comment?
I only wanted to see how people would react to that.
This isn't in my hentai plot....
Why not both? *loads spread shotgun with malicious intent*
Person on the internet: *shares a story about a traumatic event that just happens to include CSA*
Unshowered Suicidal Pedophiles Who Truly Need to Get the Fuck On With It:
I mean it depends on the context
Why did I think the title said “People who drowned their kids what happened” I was so confused
WazzaPoulton so did i
Wtf
Entirely different and entirely more interesting
SAMEEE
Why would you be confused?
My biological mother disowned me when she was living with us in my Nana’s house. I was in my room with my sister, (whom she had just beat), and I was comforting her. She tried to tell me to do something, and I replied with “no, you are not my mother anymore.” Mind you, I was filled with rage that she was still hitting my sister, but maybe I was too harsh. She screamed from the other room, saying “then don’t ever call me mom ever again, I want nothing to do with you.”
It was a shock. Sure she was abusive, but I still saw her as my mom at that point, and a part of me longed for her approval. I was left broken. I couldn’t even cry. I just locked my door and sat there numbly with my sister who blinked at me through tears.
(Edit, she refuses to believe that her first husband molested me and potentially my younger sister, and I am adopted by my grandparents, and they live separately with my now two younger sisters. My bio mom has gotten better, apparently, but she still hits my sister and verbally abuses her. As soon as I get my license, I plan on taking my sister as often as possible.)
THATS GREAT... Ok no not in that way I mean you got out of that house and into a house that listens (maybe) and *THATS* what's great I'm sorry for all the stuff ur mother did and ur mother's boyfriend's and your a great person
I am so sorry you went through that, my heart goes out to you. My parents were abusive to me as well, though it was different than your situation, they never touched my brother but always beat me...
I know how painful it is when you have an interaction like the one you had with your mom that really shows you their love is just not there...you already know its absent, but feeling it is painful.
no matter how much they hit you, how much they hurt you, your inner child never stops wanting mommy’s love and approval and it makes it SO painful and difficult to leave abusive relationships. You desperately want the relationship you see your friends have with their parents, it’s so hard. You begin to think “what did I do that made me unlovable?” But it’s not you
family that is abusive is NOT family, don’t let people justify your abuse because you share genes.(I have encountered this problem a lot, people telling me to just forgive and forget all the abuse and have a relationship with people who do nothing but hurt me and make me feel like shit because they are my ‘parents’. My aunt was more a mother to me in two months than my mother was in my lifetime)
It will get better,
just keep moving forward.
If you need someone to talk to, you’re welcome to comment on one of my videos and I’ll give u my email(I don’t want to leave it here) and then you can delete the comment so no one sees it.
If you reply to this comment for some reason I don’t get notified so be warned I may not see it, it’s not that I ignored it, I didn’t see it.
I am so glad that you still have space in your heart for your sister and are willing to go back to try to help her. She definitely needs you, you are possibly her ONLY hope and maybe the only thing keeping her tied to this world.
You can really help her by getting her away from that environment as much as possible.
You deserved better
It’s not your fault
You’re not unlovable
You deserve to have people in your life who love you
You were just dealt a bad hand, it’s not a reflection of you it’s a reflection of your mother not processing her own pain.
But that doesn’t excuse it,
It’s an explanation, not a justification.
Even though your mom may have gotten better, don’t feel like you have to let her back in. If you do that. That is your choice, it may be healing, but it also can be damaging if she hasn’t changed enough. So even though she may have fixed her broken pinky, If her arm is still broken and she can’t hug you with it, that may become an issue(not the best metaphor but u catch my drift)
many times when we’ve been abused in childhood by our parents, the thought sinks deep down that we deserve it, otherwise ‘why would it happen?’ Don’t fall for that thought, it’s a protective mechanism but it’s not the truth.
You deserve a loving family
Who, even when you mess up, will tell you they love you, hold you and look at you with loving eyes.
Family is not always blood
It is out there but be careful in relationships because often when we have had trauma, and by your story, you’ve been through some painful stuff...we seem to become a magnet for more of it. So be cautious picking a mate, you may be predisposed to end up in abusive relationships until you heal your sense of self worth. I don’t mean to scare, but I’d rather tell you this and put it in your head to look out than hear you ended up with someone who is abusive.
when abuse is all you have ever known, you kind of begin to think it is normal. And thought it is never comfortable, it begins to feel like ‘home’ in a really toxic way. Just make sure to avoid people who’s actions show they don’t really love you.
It’s hard to understand, find, feel self love when you were never shown it by a parent early on so it’s a tough road to recovery but you will get there :)
Sending u and your sis love
Apologies if this came off preachy, not my intention in the slightest, I was just trying to be a random Internet hypewoman
Hugs
I wish you both the very best
Take your sister, save up money, then ask her if she wants to get anything. Id say save up like £500 or so. Give her happiness in her life. Maybe get her things she has always wanted. Aka new phone, maybe some jewlery, SOME BETTER PARENTS. Just make her happy again.
I know it’s not as easy as 321 boom but you could try to convince your grandparents to call child services
Maybe if you ever want to report that mother if you even want to call her that that she abuses your sister and for proof Maybe recording it with your sisters permission of course that will give you proof and you possibly could take her out of that horrible household forever
Not me but some people I grew up with.
Their parents were huge Christians and as most people know premarital sex is a sin
There daughter moved in with her boyfriend when she turned 18 and they disowned her
I dont know what there middle child did but they also disowned him
And their youngest ended up hating them for disowning his siblings he ended up moving in with the oldest asap and they disowned him for doing that.
Edit: before the argument goes any farther I just want to say that they are Baptist
Baptist dont follow the church exactly.
and the disowning count record goes to : The demons
parents: youll get a disown, and you get a disown. AND EVERYONE GETS A DISOWN
Ella Bella another similar story of the ever “loving” religious folk
I have seen this so many times as well,
It’s disgusting, a bit ironic when you read the Bible .
Abrahamic religions seem to be fertile soil for growing weeds. I see so much garbage come out of those supposedly “loving religions”
I rarely see people bear moral fruit out of these scriptures, if they do, it’s always rotten under the surface...
They turn otherwise kind hearted people into authoritarian, arrogant, moral hitlers who flaunt their good deeds like fur coats that they wear every Sunday.
So much ego, so many minds corrupted. I have never seen so many fake smiles, so much projection and thinly veiled hatred as I have seen at church.. their main motivation for giving this forced love, for doing good deeds is not because they view the other being as their brother or sister, but because they don’t want to burn in hell.
Ironically he opposite of what is supposedly the foundation for the religion
It took me years to fully discard the garbage that was put into my head...The judgment, the fear, the shame...no real love. Gold painted shit, sure it shines and you can say it’s gold from a distance, but when you actually go under the surface..it’s still shit
Sorry if that offends religious folk
I WANT to be proven wrong, I want to see the love radiate from these institutions and people but... my personal life experience has shown me the same thing over and over. I would be ignorant and stupid if I ignore the common factor. If I ignore the facts. The message may supposedly be love, but the people don’t seem to be representing that.
Heartwork By Kitty Im a christian but the church is seriously corrupted by hypocrites who do things for self approval or are just “lukewarm” or cold in faith. A christian should hope to help and interpret the scriptures and show the love of God. He/She should work at their relationship with others and with God and help all attain eternal life.
@@heartworkbykitty7933 considering that the people you dealt with and how they are described they are not true Christians if that's how they acted and also Jesus isnt fooled by fakers who only do it because they have to and I believe there is a scripture that mentions this, and in our church we have a lot of love for everyone and I see it because of how often and how much members of our church have helped her and my family and other families as well like for example the pastors family are always getting their hands on bread and juices that they have given us a lot if it over the last few years whenever we needed it and they would offer to take her to the hospital for her appointments even though it's like a hour drive there and then another one back home not to mention the countless times other church members have given us rides to and from the church when we had no one to take us there, they also give time in every service to pray for the people who are going through things and for testimonies of their prayers being answered and they always always pray for my mom because she has terminal cancer and how she goes through times when shes good and then gets ill again and again, there was also a church member who hand crafted my pastor a podium for him to preach that was made really well and did not charge him a cent but he is no longer with us because his son killed the man over being kicked out if his home because he had drug problems and refused his father's help and stole money from them even though he offered his house and helped him and after all that everyone was saddened there were many who cried and attended his funeral and I do have many more examples if you would like for me to share them but yeah I thank Lord Jesus for blessing me and my family with a church that not only teaches from the bible but are also applying it to their lives genuinely and show love as it's meant to be shown
My brother once attacked me for raising my voice at him for being mean to my cat. I turned around at one point and he kicked my ass. Dad heard me screech and asked brother what he did. Brother told him. Dad told him to turn around then proceeded to kick my brother so hard in the ass that he lifted from the ground. Needless to say, that was the last time my brother ever attacked me as a sibling would. Fucking brilliant
My brother punched my in the nose for hiding my DS from him, (it was my DS)
Matteo Dona rip nose
Do you think he did that for you? or for the cat?
It was probably for the cat.
Amelie Petersobln my dad fucking hates my cat ahaha I have to tell him not to screw with her too. But no he did it because he didn’t want my brother to be an ass when he got older
@@matteo7676 Nintendo DS?Who tf even plays/owns one anymore?Like wtf
I love Saint Bernard dogs, they are fat and fluffy but they could probably eat several big mac combos in one gulp.
-- Shakespeare
Yes
Honda The Power Of Dreams I’m like two seconds into the video and read your comment and am genuinely confused?
@@thebatperson7530 I have watched the whole video, but also confused.
Sophia Sass sometimes you just need a random comment about a specific breed of dogs to change your day
I have a friend who's parents no joke, disowned him for being gay. He was a teenager and he was forced to live with his older sibling.
1TZ M3HH that absolutely infuriated me. I support the lgbtq+ community, and I am angered by people who do that type of stuff.
I myself am gay,and I'm terrified of coming out to my parents and them neglecting me.
This has been my fear since I realized I was gay. It’s bullshit that I have to live in fear of my own family because of something I didn’t get a choice on
@trool hp ?
It makes me so incredibly sad that so many people have to think about it. I honestly wish all of you the best for the future
My dad just disowned my sister after she violated quarantine stay home orders...I wish I were joking.
Julia I’m sorry to hear that mate
Seriously?
@Robbert Kööp no thats just..no
@Robbert Kööp your rude
@Robbert Kööp asshole
4:27 That's heartbreaking that she didn't even try to fight for him. Still, if she's that heartless, he's ultimately better off without her and with a dad who loves him.
Ikr? I’m glad he still has a good dad
Luckily for him, he has the support of the reddit family on his side. The community can both relate and talk to you when you need it.
The bright side of this situation is the mother left the kid with his dad instead of on the side of the road.
It’s sad, but it’s better that she gave him to the dad and he’s with someone who loves him dearly than fight to keep him and hate him. This is one of the reasons I don’t want kids, in case I don’t connect with it as I should as a mother.
Me:Disowning you’re children is horrible and disg-
Me two seconds later: welp fu-
There is another
A friend got disowned because she was gay. Thankfully another friend's family took her in.
Ginger West I thankfully haven’t been disowned by my parents but a few aunts and uncles took that route when I came out.
Negasi * gay is a bad thing? *
Negasi Can you elaborate??
being gay is gay
being gay is GAY because your GAY and that's pretty GAY
Excuse me, OP's family wants them to get over a trauma to be with the person who ignored and continued that trauma? sounds like idiots to me.
I guess it's a form of extreme loyalty towards the family. Maybe they think it would be easier to just pretend that everything's okay..
I've experienced something similar. My parents abused me emotional and occasionally physical my whole childhood. My whole family knew more or less about it but they didn't do anything against it - they just watched me getting from day to day worse. After a suicide attempt at the age of 14, I spent a few months in psychiatry and eventually was placed in a foster home by youth welfare service. At this point I disowned my whole family except my half-sister and her father. I've been in therapy for over 10 years and diagnosed with several mental illnesses but every time I meet my sister she's trying to force me to rebuilt the relationship to 'at least' my mother and blames me for how awful my mother feels, says that I "broke her heart when I left home years ago, that I'm just overreacting, she tries to convince me that it wasn't even that bad back then - no matter what I tell her - and that my mother/parents didn't mean it like that. They just wanted the best for me."
Yeah, for sure haha..- that's why I still have a hard time recovering from what happened.
But the worst thing is that I sometimes even believe her.
@@lizmorgan6675 I am so sorry for what happened and wtf is wrong with your sister? She thing being abused is okay? Normal parents don't use violent she is too stupid, please stay strong and continue going there will be a rainbow to your place if she ever said that you "hurted" your mom feeling tell her "I am not the one who asked them to abuse me my whole life and make me almsto end my life" I thing you better get restraining whatever ot called order against your whole family
They are stupid they thing they should keep the "family" happy and act like there is nothing wrong with them behind closed doors this is like a dollhouse of "perfect family" of dirty secrets they can fuck themselves that poor girl suffered alot gosh I hate those people choosing their lovers over their own kids
When contemplating such things as the banality of evil, one needs to look no further than the wickedness the family unit is capable of.
@@lizmorgan6675
That’s horrible please just try too keep living your own life and at the moment it seems you should just cut all contact with that thing that was supposed too be your family
But it’s your decision of course and I promise as long as you keep trying things will get better
Parents who disowned their own child what happened:
My brain: "I wAs fAiLing Ch3mIstrY"
Edit: I didn't know this comment exploded lol anyway you all be safe out there, don't be nasty, and wash your hands
JESSICA, DID YOU SLEEP, WITH YOUR GODDAMN TEACHER!?
@@WORLD-STAR670Mister Wilson?
@@bloodymarysperiodblood6667 MR WILSON
Simone the Spaghetti Noodle NO I DIDN’T!!
@@royal6659 YES YOU DID!
My parents disowned me for being gay, 2 years later thank God I'm living my best life
*Cheering*
I'm glad you're doing well, your parents didn't deserve you anyway! ❤
Good for you!👍
Good- they better be jealous that your living amazingly and you deserve it. I cant relate as my patents will accept me ( 100%, im lesbian and im not out). But im glad your amazing and living the best life
@@fuyaaaastro2476 aww thank you
I really don't understand the "It's my kid so I MUST love him" stigma. If your kid is a horrible person, people won't think badly of you for disowning him. You aren't forced to love your kids. Contrary wise, you don't have to love your family. If they're abusing you/treating like shit, you don't have to love them just bc they're your family.
I love my dad even tho hes a narrccist
Also, loving someone doesn't mean you have to put up with their crap.
If they birthed them, it is their duty to deal with their crap. This is so because they are the ones responsible for their existence.
@@ettinakitten5047 You're an idiot if you believe that lol.
Im a high functioning autistic person with a family history of depression and other mental illnesses, the fight over structure VS chaos isnt fun, i have always been in controll but now that im older i do see that it has become less, it will never be completely gone but its not a real issue anymore.
just curious, what do you mean when you say structure vs chaos? o.o
December Cant really speak for them but I think they mean like having control over themself. Correct me if I’m wrong
Random Tea story time: My mom used to verbally abuse me when I was younger. She had a really bad drinking problem and was also 45% percent of time in the hospital because she has many problems with her stomach. My dad was also in the military and was at work often so he never saw or heard my mom speak to me the way she did. She would call me a bitch for random things. There’s many other things she’s called me but the words bitch and delusional have suck with me. When I was 10 she smacked me so hard a fell. Literally. I told my dad when he came home and he called me a lier. That hurt. Because he was the only person who really showed me love. Even my older brother never payed attention to the things she would do. I ended up telling my counselor because I told my friend what happened thinking it was normal. The police showed up while I was at school the next day and it caused a lot of problems. I ended up being pressured to tell them I did it for attention. A year later my parents got officially divorced and my dad got custody of me. Last Christmas I gave my mother another chance and my dad payed for a plane ticket for me to go see her. For the first time in 11 months I saw my mom. She was drunk. She hugged me and dared to say she missed me. I got into a fight with her the next day and she blurted out that she had liver cancer. Yes. She told me she had liver cancer while drunk in front of my aunt who was mortified because she didn’t want me to find out that day. I kept my composure and told her I already knew. I told her I had figured that out and that it didn’t surprise me. She failed to make me feel bad for her although I didn’t know she actually had cancer. I’m 13 now. I live with my dad and now my older brother who started to get sick of my mom because of the ways she was acting. Although my little brother who is 8 went to go live with my mom last week. I miss him and once again everyone is saying she’s changed. I tell them I believe them while deep down I know she still doesn’t care. Thank you for the people who have read all of this and survived this essay 😂
Given the mom's drinking problem and the fact that it sounds like her body lacks the enzyme necessary to break down alcohol, it's not even remotely surprising that she has liver cancer.
You're strong, hang in there. "You will get your happy ending"
A horse in my bed? Are you running out of threats? Honey I am the horse in my bed
The female horse yeah.
And the balcony and the trees and the ladder and the fence
That's hot
@@deidjera oof
@@scr1be_iv some kinks *need* shaming
*He is taking all the horses away :0*
:0
I was disowned by my mother last year (sort of). I graduated high school almost 3 years back. I decided to take a year off, one year turned into two. I occasionally tried to talk to my mom about helping me apply for college, but she would deflect and change the subject. As a kid she would talk about the college fund she set up for my sister and I. What happened to the money? IDK. So in this time I would spend a week with my Dad and a week with my Mom. Over the course of months Mom was progressively getting more and more verbally abusive (she was always like that, but incidents were getting more frequent) I hung around town to avoid being at home. One week, July 2020, I came home and she was angry as soon as I walked in the door. "I was already disrespected by [I forget if it was people from the IT or security company] I don't need any disrespect from YOU!"
"Do you want me to leave?" I asked.
She said, "NO!" I'm not kidding, she literally screamed it. Of course she didn't want me to leave, she wanted me to stay and be her verbal punching bag.
I used the line I had planned to say ahead of time.
"I walked in this door and I can walk right back out."
"GOOD! Don't come back!"
I called Dad and had him pick me up.
I only went back once to return the phone she bought me, and again in October when my sister decided to move out too. She was much more tolerant of the abuse than I, the last straw was when Mom started pulling her hair.
A few weeks ago Mom called Dad saying she wanted to reconcile with us, but I believe the scripture when it says "Honor Thy Father & Mother," she told me to stay away and I'm honoring her command. She needs to learn that actions have consequences, I doubt she ever will though. She used her words to scar me, so I couldn't talk to her even if I wanted that. She would use it as an opportunity to scream at me, or try to manipulate my feelings, and I can't take any more of it.
So now I'm broke, unemployed, and living with my dad. I'm trying to survive my depression and learn how to function as a normal person. I walk the dog, attend church, practice my driving skills, and my sister and I have taken up cooking as a hobby. So far my proudest achievement is learning to operate a charcoal grill by myself. That and the fact my diet is going well makes me think I'm going to make it. Hang in there guys.
i know this was 10 months ago, but hang in there, you're doing great. i hope one day youll be able to enjoy life again :)
@@azuremv Thank you very much. Life hasn't changed that much for me, but a couple of the older women at my church have befriended me and now I help them with prepping for Sunday school. I guess I can change my status from "unemployed" to "church volunteer". My depression hurts as much as it ever did, but there are more people now that know I exist and want me to keep living. That helps. I really appreciate your nice comment.
@@UrsahSolar glad you're doing sightly better though, thats something at least haha
@@azuremv Yeah, it feels great to have friends.
Are you still ok
I was friends with a Jehovah witness girl and she told me she didn’t believe any of it but tells her parents she does so she can stay at her home it’s really sad
I am never one for judging people for what they believe, but those people seem like real shitheads. This is coming from someone who was made fun of several times for being Jewish
@@juliaroth4855 are people really being made fun because of their religion? I swear people wanna poke fun at everything these days
That's not a home, it's a house, Idk why I wrote that
@@juliaroth4855 Same case here. From 5th grade to 8th grade I got beat up and tormented all the time. I've struggled with suicidal thoughts, been self conscious for a long time and constantly felt wrong for my interests or religion/family (my Dad is also Jewish, mother is Christian, so it's a mixed faith home.) I just hope you have people in your life who help and support you, and I wish you well. God bless you and I hope your doing OK
God moms husband is a witness yeah barley sees his own kids
I see a lot of people disowning their parents and I'm thinking I'm boutta do the same when I move out, my mom has been nothing but abusive to me and keeps denying everything she ever did so once I leave nobody in my family will ever see me again.
Bruh, same.
Call a HelpLine. I hope it gets better soon. I'm going through the same thing. My parents expect me to be so perfect. I'm not gonna talk about it.
Defoo is the term to use molyneux phrasing.
same
surpricingly same here, except i'll also try to put her in jail and sue her
When parents criticize their children as though they had nothing to do with it.
Sometimes you cant blame the parent. Your kids might just fall into the wrong crowd or idolize the wrong person. You might be able to do everything right and still your child is bad. I understand the feeling that the parents are at fault too for thier child's actions but sometimes they really just go down a really diffrent path
Sometimes a psychopathic kid is born and the parent has no control over that.
@@AJFRAN3 talking bout some parents not all parents :/
@@AJFRAN3 it 100% the parents. they have access to all things they just choose not to access them.
They can set rules and boundaries, and instill good behaviors. The kids who go bad, are from families that train not parent. They act like a dictator, and rule with an iron fist.
A lot of the time, the kid was abused, was made to feel they cant talk to their parents so they lash out. Or simply put the kid has mental issues and needs the help. Parents see therapy as a weakness or are ashamed.
Funny. Alot of yall are very judgmental toward the parent and act like the kid is just a puppet on strings. Kids do have minds of thier own and thier own wants and desires.
Man after watching this, I’m realising how lucky I am to have great parents, to everyone whose had bad parents, I truly feel sorry for you
You are man.
My biological mother and father both Disowned me when I was only a week old
The reason for that is I had a Cleft lip on the roof of my mouth and still to this day have one lung is smaller then the other and where my mom was 18 when she had me and my father was in his 30s “this was different times”
My father was a trucker on the road all year long while my mom wasn’t working she just went out partying and drinking and slept around.
She had 3 more kids after years a girl and two boys. That women lost all her children and she didn’t even make an Effort to go to the court dates to even get the 3 back.
The worst part is when I was a baby she wouldn’t feed me change me or even spend time with me, only my grandmother took me in when we got home from hospital not 2 weeks later.
I’ll be 22 this August and I haven’t seen any of them brothers or my sister and she just graduated high school this year. I still sees my father every now and then he still works on trucking while the mother is on the run from the RCMP for Charges over the past 10 years.
And if my brothers or sister sees this
I really do miss you guys but I’m sorry you’re big brother wasn’t around at all when you’s were growing up
Kara Brady Cody I just hope you three or any of us don’t go down the same road as our mother cause we Deserve better than that.
@@kyletbs1678 this makes me think that parents should pass a test before having kids, because it's a life/lives we're talking about, kids that will grow up into adults and probably have their life ruined/ still have trauma for a ceirtan part of their life, and the worst part is that some of those people will be like their parents so if we dont do something, this cycle of bad parents never ends. Im so sorry about your past situation btw :(
I was disowned for being "too mentally ill" for my mother, and her choosing her husband, who's not even my father, over her own daughter, but let's not forget to mention the psychological and physical ab/se she made me go through too.
Well, at that point I was only "kicked out" of the house, until I went to my grandma's and aunt's side, where they helped me and actually let me stay on their home, it was at that moment where my mother decided she wanted to disown me for the terrible act of actually looking for help.
Needless to say, I'm done with her.
Even if her husband was your father, she should’ve chose you. Kids always come first
My family disowned my older brother. He sexually assaulted my sister and I. He is now refereed to as the jailbird of the family and no one talks about him anymore. We also have no idea where he is. Last we heard, he was in Arkansas and he had a gf. That was about 10+ yrs ago. He could rot in ditch for all I care.
Good don't let anyone take your well deserved happiness and right to life let him rot
Jesus Christ, i hope you’re doing better now.
@@tomatotwin_ I am, thank you.
Your parents did the right thing, I'm glad you and your sister are safe. I hope he goes to jail and rots in there.
hope you are all ok
9:47
"stealing from the deceased/nearly deceased is one of the lowest things a human being can do"
I'll spare certain details for privacy sake, but I have a story in regards to that. My mom is a lawyer, and worked on a case for a man who had changed his will (while being of sound mind) to give his money, house, etc. to his neighbors who had been so kind to him for the last years of his life, rather than to his relative (niece or daughter, I forget) who had never been there throughout his life. This final change was absolutely legal, and a few days later, the man died. When this woman found out that she was taken out of the will, she frankly lost her sh*t. despite the fact that she hardly had any relationship with this man, she claimed she deserved it, and tried to argue in court that she was not of sound mind, though it was clear that he had been. This woman was a total jackass, and tough I thankfully never met her, she seems to be one of the most horribly selfish people out there. The case progressed for YEARS, with my mother and other lawyers fighting for what was essentially this man's dying wish. Still, this b*tch wouldn't let up. It eventually was taken to a state court [ I might be phrasing that wrong, I'm not educated in law] until finally, after I think 4 or 5 years total, the case was closed. Unfortunately, that woman won the house that the man had wanted to give to his neighbors, but the neighbors got the money and other assets. To this day it breaks my heart to think about the fact that that woman cared more about money than a family member who had died, and the fact that a kind old man was so taken advantage of, even after he died. still, I'm glad they were able to win most of what the man had wanted to go to his neighbors. despite all the bad out there, there are still people fighting for what's good.
Hi from a year after u posted this comment
That woman is now what we call a karen and after reading your story I am truly confused with how she won without even having a damn relationship with this man nor spending time with. She must have a had a good lawyer for it to go on for years, glad the neighbours got their share tho even tho they deserved the house :(
Drama during a funeral is almost a certainty, especially money concerns. "The knives come out."
It is not what it seems on the surface. It is a form of denial in the face of death: A situation in which no one has control over.
So people will often create a situation that demands more immediate attention, yet one they can control. It serves as a distraction from permanent pain from losing a loved one, postpones mourning, and stops us thinking about how we all are destined to die.
Yes, it makes things more difficult in the long run. But our subconscious is more concerned with surviving the next five minutes than the next five months.
Why would a horse on a balcony be in my bed?
Yes
The balcony would be in your bed too.
JeffTheVortigaunt oof
I was thinking that too. How would a balcony fit in my bed? How would it not crush my bet, let alone with a horse on it!
@@citadel8373 Thank you for the explanation.
*Jokes on you, I* *_want_* *a horse in my bed.*
And that's how centaurs were made
@@sebbro9432 please no
Just make sure it doesn't shit on the bed lol
Lock up your daughters and horses-
мun exe I need a horse in my bed
My sister got disowned for many, many reason which I’am about to explain
Left the house when she was 16 because of the typical bullshit idea of “My boyfriend will take care of me” said boyfriend became abusive got her pregnant and she took the abortion, my mother allowed her to come back because she seemed truly in pain and we though she had learned from her massive mistake
SPOILER: She didn’t
She later on kept dating the previously metioned piece of shit
Then one day my sister invited some of her friends to stay the night and the piece of shit that is her boyfriend somehow got inside in the middle of the night and beat one of her friends because he thought she was cheating, my mother tried to press charges but my sister lied about what happened to the police and contradicted what my mother said
She then left the house AGAIN to stay with her college buddies but later on came back begging and my mother took pity on her and set a simple set of conditions: Help clean the house and clean your shit (My sister would leave dirty dishesh in her room with left over food that would later on rot away or get full of fungus)
She of course didn’t clean her shit but it doesn’t end there
She gets kick out of college because she actually never completed high School and instead bought fake papers, we still don’t know what she really did with the high school money my mom was giving her
You would think this is when mom kicks her out but you would be underestimating my mother’s patience
The reason why my mother finally disowned her and kick her out of the house (she was about to be 19 when this happen so a legal adult) was when my sister asked my mom to give her money to pay the last year of high School and also help her pay College, my mom refused and told her that she no longer trusted her, so my sister gets angry and acuses her of “Not Being Supportive Enough” and that is when my mom lost her shit and disowned her, cut all contact and pretty much told me that even if she is dying she doesn’t want my sister to come see her
Postdata:Sorry if there was a mistake I’am Mexican and still learning English
"not being supportive enough" is the straw that broke the camels back, as the words dripped with falsehoods.
Your English is pretty good. But i’am is I am. Other than that it was perfect
Damn, i wish i had the patience of your mother
Bruh, you speak English better than most people I know
The one talking about the child with autism and bipolar, I'm diagnosed with high functioning autism, trust me, i was physical as a kid, but that stopped around 17, and I started to really mature, but people with this will always fight authority on some internal level. I'm 20 now, and i'm doing a lot better.
Good to hear you are doing better. I am a thirteen year old and have just gotten out of being suicidal. I am doing a little better. Parents aren't. I dunno. Sorry I didn't see this 6 months ago.
For the story about the girl who was an addict and her mom letting her go. She is right that was the best thing she could have done my mom was an addict to and she never got her life together to my grandma took all her kids and said I no longer am helping because only did because you had my grand baby’s and now I have them. My mom 3 years clean she was your young ones back and we see her all the time. She doing great
''My biological father divorced my mom *and also his 3 kids''*
Hmmm... suspicious
r/cursedcommment
🎵 *Sweet home Alabama. I'm coming back to you!* 🎵
my grandma was a complete jerk to my mom. Im not going to say what happened, but my mom got anxiety and depression from it. She said she didn't think she could make it through her dad's death (my grandpa died of cancer) if it weren't for the game that she still loves and plays almost 9 years later.
Good on you, game. You saved my mom's life.
What game (•×•)
@@Unfrtunte_Crcumstnc_ i lost track of how old it is, but it is world of warcraft
she still wont let go of it and im glad that she's better
@@dreaminginhell4047 oh, wow! I love that game, too! Good for your mom for using her inner gamer to help herself
@@Unfrtunte_Crcumstnc_ i play it sometimes but not as much as she does haha
@@dreaminginhell4047 that game is fun
Petition to stop the “in your bed tonight” intro
*SIGNED*
😂
I downvoted lol, I love that I Intro. To each their own I guess.
Nope
petition to keep the intro, i find it funny.
It really pisses me off when family and friends of a person try to bully them into having a relationship with a toxic asshole just on the basis of being blood related!
No one has a right to treat another person like shit! Absolutely NO ONE!! Especially your family, they are the people that are supposed to have your back!!
14:58 as someone with Bipolar and Autism, there could be insufficient medication or something going on that you may be unaware of. While I've done a lot less with the same issues, I do find that medication regulation really helps me. In college atm myself
This videos makes me realize how blessed i actually am to have both parents, ive noticed that growing up with just one parents can take a tow on a kid. Its heavy... I wouldnt want that type of trauma in my life. Im glab my parents stayed together through the thick and thin to see me grow up happy and in a healthy enviroment. Life is very misterious, and realization is beautifull.
I think that it's Way more worse when the parents should be divorced but aren't "for the kids " . All my f*cking childhood i litteraly prayed to god for my parents to finally get divorced.
But I think it's difficult too to live with only one parent...
One thing I’m extremely grateful for is that my mom would leave any guy if I asked her to. I’ve never asked her to before because her boyfriend is amazing, but she lets me know that she would choose me over any guy and that is something I will always appreciate and be grateful for.
Honestly, that's a good mom right there. Look out for her.
I actually disowned my own mother at a young age, I told her so directly. She was manipulative, abusive and treated me more like a servant then a child. It's been four years and after therapy, healing and figuring out a lot about myself I know it was a good choice. Family isn't too attached to cut the hell off as soon as possible if they're nothing but a toxic shit head.
I'll tell yall a few stories about my mom
I got disowned by my mother for no apparent reason (she "re owned" me said sorry and stuff but I don't really see her as a mom)
She one threw me out of my room and I needed to sleep on the floor of my grandmother's room for two days
She always screams at me for also no apparent reason (She also screams at my grandmother for NOTHING AT ALL)
Christmas is always hell example: my dad and my mom start fighting (screaming etc.) Then my dad is mad at me for like a week and my uncle too
Edit: I forgot some stuff
I'm lesbian my dad is SUPER religious,homophobic and racist he usually talks smack about people (example: "god said that only man and woman should be together" etc.) I haven't told them yet
*there is a lot more stuff*
Maybe try telling him since he's sooo religious that "I'm sorry the devil has made home in your heart" or "I would pray that God graces you with empathy" or something bc if you turn his religion on him maybe just maybe he'll shut up¯\_(ツ)_/¯ who know but I wish you the best of luck in life you👍💓 you deserve it.
@@emaanfatima8261 thank you for the advice! But my father is quite weird and I might try to come out to him in a few years.
@@loxial your dad is a good person,but u are just a failure
@@dodgedemonsrtx You know you’re head or something?
@@loxial u should be hetero
Anyone ever get that talk from your parents when your being moody because of stuff that happened in the past and it makes you feel like shut and I'm not talking about a dumb relationship with a girl or boy I'm talking real trauma they say someone has went through so much more
@Floopedie Doop hi
I'm literally going through that right now when I was little about five I think, I saw my dad almost get killed and it scared me for life. And it never bothered me for years until a few weeks ago. And my mom can be a piece of shit sometimes,
Ok here's some back round information. my dad yelled a lot and made me do all of his work etc. He made me cry all the time it fucked me up because now whenever someone yells I start crying. My dad left 5-6 years ago, my mom decided that the way to get me to behave was to scare me into thinking I'll end up like my verbally abusive father. She literally threatend to make me live with my dad if I wasn't going to be nicer to my brother. (Worse thing I ever did to him was yell at him when he annoyed me)
So that literally fucked me up even more.
Recently she said that if I keep feeling depressed I'll end up like my dad. Yup because I'll have anger issues and punch walls and sell everything my mom owns because I expressed my emotions once
@@GarbageHomo I'm sorry to hear that, I've been through something like that, when I was younger my father suffered from domestic violence from my stepmother, and one time my stepmother tried to stab my father, after that traumatic experience I had fear of going to my dads house. My mother also was always telling me that my father was a piece of shit, and that i was always on his side, this continued to be like that until I completely brake down because of other things in my life, and talked very sincerely with my mother, and told her everything i felt, and had been trough, after that she became very supportive, and after that my relationship with my father got very bad, and it remains like that until today. I think you should try having a real talk with your mom, and if it doesn't work, just talk with your close friends, but you really have to talk with others people about things like that, people you trust, it helps a lot
@@peppapig483 oh shit
@@GarbageHomo that's a yikes man mine wasn't that bad when I was 3-5 my babysitter who was my mom's, boyfriends, brothers, girlfriend she kept molesting me as a child and it finally stopped and then I had to go to school and got bullied for years as I had bad trust issues with women for years later I found out I wasn't an only child but my 5 siblings, 4 died at birth and 1 was aborted later on I watched my great grandmother die in front of me the only person I thought cared about me went on to fuck up my left arm burning ripping and stabbing it and my mom and dad left with my granny so she tell me you need to forgive and forget but I have a mental problem were I forget everything but what I want to and I went to a mental facility recently so I know all to well that talk
....He called me boomer
Ok boomer
yEs
Okay *zoomer*
It's videos like this that make me so grateful for the family I have. My parents and siblings are amazing. We travel out of state to see extended family at least once every year, and we see other extended family in state as well. My parents have taught me how to take care of myself, and I feel so lucky that I can confide in them and talk about whatever's bothering me. I came out to my mom last year. I was really afraid of how she would react, because I've heard stories of parents who have freaked out, but she was really understanding. She said, word for word, "It's okay to have crushes on girls, and it's okay to have crushes on guys." I'm almost crying just remembering how happy and relieved I felt that she wasn't upset with me. If anything, it made me feel closer to her. My parents are both so supportive of anything I want to do, as long as it's something I enjoy and it doesn't hurt anyone or get in the way of my schoolwork (during the school year). Piano lessons? Sure! Girl Scouts? Yep! Scouts BSA? Absolutely! Sometimes I forget just how lucky I am to have gotten such an amazing family. Videos like this one remind me that not everyone has parents like mine. Not everyone has the freedom to learn what they want to learn. I just... I feel so sad for everyone whose parents have ignored their cries for help. Parents are supposed to support and protect their children. To all the parents out there: if your child thinks that they need to see a therapist, find a therapist or a support group for them! You don't know their mind! They do. When it comes to your child's health, physical or mental, you don't always know what they need. They do. No child should ever have to suffer because their parents weren't giving them the support and the help that they deserve.
Happiness and good health should not be privileges. Everyone deserves to be happy and healthy.
i disowned my oldest sister. shes been very mentally and emotionally abusive for years. she was one of the main reasons for my ED. she also forced me under cold showers when i dared to cry about things kids always cry about when i was like 9-10. she forced her style onto me even tho she saw how uncomfortable i felt in her clothes and she still keeps misgendering me even after my mum talked to her about it. she told me that me doing art as my job is only a hobby because i cant get money from it all the time. i am willing to talk to her again if she stops misgendering me and finally accepts that art can be a real job, but i know that will never happen.
My father "disowned"(just straight up disappeared from my life.) Me After we refused to do what he wanted, which was to abandon my great Grandmother in a nursing home, move up next to him, and have me join a private school. At the time I had just been taken out of the 7th grade because my bipolar depression and become severe enough I was flipping almost every few minutes and thinking of ways of killing myself(came very close several times to actually trying.). Which he REFUSED to believe. I'm now on depression meds which keep me stable for the most part. But had we done as my dad wanted I likely would have been dead with a year or two. Ironically it ended up being the best thing he every did for me. Since he was never around and very rarely helped out with anything. I more recently found out I'm Autistic as well, and likely he would have refused believe that as well. He still has some contact with my half brother, but he feels pretty similar to how I do about our dad. Sometimes it really isnt the kids fault, I had lived under his tyranny for years until I was old enough to decide who I wanted to live with. Until that point he kept threatening to take me from the only place I'd ever known as my home. With my Grandma and Great Grandma.
My mom technically disowned me, but I don’t care because I’m happier off without her
I’m glad you’re happy fam :)
Glad you're happy
But im still curious what happened
クマ暗殺 者 lets just say she chose a substance over me
It appears you've found your true family, whoever they may be. Peace be upon you.
You know your family member(s) treated you unforgivably when it is a relief to be disowned. My "mother" disowned me speaking for both of my now ex parents after this year of hell and her being offended that I wanted to keep her and my ex father and my ex brother out of my wedding ceremony completely, mostly because of covid 19 and their bad health. Sometimes I still feel a bit sad because I realize now just how selfish they have always been and how they never actually loved me, but mostly its just relief now. I have plenty of other family who do actually love and support me including my loving husband, and his wonderful parents who kind of adopted me. I call them mom and dad now, and I feel so much better because of it.
I hear so many abusive parent stories so
Petition to make having a parenting license a thing
And a vigilante assassin service to off horrible evil parents.
I've had moments where the parents disowned me. The two didn't know how to handle what I was turning into and it took a long time before I was able to turn my life around.
2:51 to 3:39 That is someone who learnt their lesson and now is living a satisfying life. Hats off to him or her.
This video deserves this quote:
_“Why do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.”_
Batman Begins. 2005
The hardest choices require the strongest wills
I was disowned for being transgendered. Haven’t seen or talked to them in 13 years
I hope your better now :D
My sympathies.
I hope everything is going well now! you deserve better
Hope you're doing well! It makes me sick that parents can't even accept their own children, I'm sorry you had to go through that.
You're valid ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
This crap makes me happy I have such loving parents that dont do sh*t like this
Moral is dont be a piece of shit and your parents wont disown you
@@venusdragojlovic4227 pretty much
@@venusdragojlovic4227 Not necessarily, many parents disown children for really stupid reasons such as disagreeing with their religious beliefs
@@venusdragojlovic4227 I am not disowned but I would like to be. It's clear my parents hate me, but can't disown me because of their fucking religion. I'm not being rude to the religion, I'm being rude to my parents fucking behaviour and how it has torn me apart
@@livvb5036 If you hate your parents and your parents hate you, just leave their house, write a letter and tell them to fuck off, then go to a orphanage when you packed your bags or go to your trusted family member. If I was you, I would not hesitate to do it.
Well my mum is different. My brother (an addict) always stole things from our house so he could pay for drugs and alcohol.
After many, MANY years of failed rehab, my dad disowned him, but my mum is now paying his bills and rent😑
And what's sad is he graduated high school with straight A's. Could've had a better life..
Haven't been disowned, but I kind of wish I could reverse disown my bio dad. Like... get rid of him, instead of the other way around. He did all sorts of shit to us as kids, from beating us with belts, to berating us when we wanted him to be proud of us. I won't go into everything, the list is too long, and boring, but I found a dad now. My mom, who has worked her ass off, every single day of her life, found someone in 2014, and though she's had boyfriends before, this is the only one that only felt like a real dad. I call him my 'real dad', and things have been better since he joined the family.
Edit: Proofreading.
I'm sorry to hear this. I'm so glad everything is better, you're very brave.
I currently live with my parents who treat me like I'm shit to them. They expect me to be so perfect. If I say one bad thing, I'm in my room for hours. They verbally abuse me, and try so hard to hurt me in a way that won't get them in trouble. They like to blame my younger brother's mistakes on me because I am the older sibling. I have diagnosed anxiety, and suffer from haphephobia. Used to be suicidal, cutting my legs and stuff. Hid it with jeans and long pants so they never knew. I'm not anymore, which is good. I don't know how to get out of this situation. I'll have to wait until I move out, which is in 5 years.
Things like this video sometimes make me fear if I'll ever get disowned (or just kicked out from the house)
My dad sometimes tells me "if you're here living in this home is thanks to us", sure I am grateful for what they have given me, I'm grateful for keeping up with me despite getting into deep shit (not like drugs or anything illegal, but I can be not the best at college, who they pay with great effort), and I love them with all my heart, but I'm scared that I'll ever get abandoned in such a cruel way
(and I'm 20, I'm an adult, what is wrong with me?!)
Watch your parents disown you
“3 years later”
Disowned kid: NO WAY I WON THE LOTTERY
Pa
Paren
Parents: so we splitting or what
So as a recovering horse girl I might actually want to wake up with my dream pet from in my vicinity. Still kinda like horses just not as crazy as I used to.
Also I double took out of rage and sympathy with the whole, “Get over your trauma, because your mother is hurting over you cutting her out.” I grew up with an emotionally abusive mother and let me tell you that’s the most common type dribble I hear from people.
I sure hope I don’t get disowned
Honey-Spud congrats you are first!
•Itz_Kay 4692• I am? Cool
Same
This has already been posted somewhere else like the exact same order of posts
Maybe the channels are created by the same person. That can happen with these duplicate channels, especially if you know they're always the same every single time. If not, they hunt for the same contents that pop up on top on Reddit every single time with little effort to be different. Just avoid watching the videos if you find the same titles appearing around the same time.
My oldest sister used to be friends with this girl (we'll call her Shelby) who has a crazy younger brother. The police have never been involved and the parents don't discipline him because they're scared he'll snap. My sister's current best friend (we'll call her Kate) used to be friends with Shelby as well. Kate was at Shelby's house and Shelby was going to make ramon noodles for her brother at his request. He got mad at Shelby because she wasn't cooking them right. The kid decided to hold a knife to Kate's throat in order to threaten Shelby. I still see this kid regularly attending my church and few people actually know how messed up that family is with their sociopathic son.
18:09 this happened to my mom's severely handicapped aunt who is currently showing signs of dementia (as well as depression after her brother/primary caretaker passed away from Covid) and whose unofficially adopted son would supposedly spend hours with her and do little tasks here and there to help her out, when in reality, he wasn't doing anything
Sometimes I wish my own father would have went through disowning me because of how he treats me. The only reason he didn't go through with it was because I moved in with my mother and he wanted to prove he was better at parenting than my mother (he wasn't) and wanting to turn my brother and I against our mother and make us come crawling back to him. Now he pays my college tuition and you bet I'm dragging every last penny out of him.
My mom disowned me after finding out my dad sexually abused me, she basically said "hes my husband, so throw her away" i now live with with my grandmother and when i try to fix what small relationship i had with my mom she would yell at me and left me alone
I was disowned because my mom thought I was making up my claims about being sexually assaulted. Said my depression, anxiety, self harm and suicide attempts were because “I’m an attention seeking whore”. Blamed me for getting pregnant when I was sexually assaulted. And still SHE disowned ME.
I never got disowned, but my family talk about disowning me, when I was younger I thought it meant punishing me for my bad actions, now I realize what it actually means and now I just feel like my family doesn’t give to shits about me, now I just feel like there using me for money cause of my talent for drawing, I see, that’s why my mother brought up something about selling my art.
dont give them your money
Not all "sociopaths" become evil I'm liveing proof fyi- is actuilly called antisocial personality disorder not being sociopathic
Actually there is a distinction between sociopathy and psychopathy and it's psychopathy that is medically known as Anti Social Personality Disorder.
@port nut That's not sociopathy. Sociopathy is kind of like not being able to feel good or bad emotions, and being extremely calculating. It's an actual disorder.
@@swiftfox3461 I've heard it means you can't feel empathy or sympathy twords anyone or anything. Of course that doesn't mean you become an evil a-hole; at the end of the day you can still make decisions for yourself.
Jacob Fry not the same thing
it's synonomous and it's main symptoms are the inability to feel empathy guilt or remorse. However, If your diagnosing clinician used the hare phsycopathy scale and you were diagnosed as a sociopath instead of a phsycopath, the slightest hope you had of changing, (or eventually becoming devoid of some of the malevolent nature in you), became non existent when you were 18; & your conduct disorder graduated to antisocial personality disorder. You could've been a somewhat positively contributing member of society, perhaps not quite a good person, but sociopathy as opposed to phsycopathy indicates a poor environmental upbringing along with some genetics, yet not as significant as the genes attributed to phsycopathy. Sociopaths are born, while phsycopaths are made. You are not sick, you cant not change, you need to be put down. If the much more plausible circumstance transpired and your physician diagnosed you believing both sociopathy and phsycopathy were synonomous, you were born evil and the world would be a better place without you. This sounds harsh but these individuals are our serial killers, often child molesters, torturers, and all that is malicious in the world. These people's emigdala's are undersized y approximately 20%, their prefrontal cortex is extremely compromised as well as thier hippocampus. It is almost as if they are primitive in mind. There are ways to determine this for phsycopaths and most sociopaths at birth, and they need to be put down, right then. They can not be cured, fixed or reformed.
I almost got disowned by my parents when I came out as an atheist to them, and they only took it back once I publicly called them out on it. Yay overly religious parents.
Haven't disowned my kid, but it's hard to be around her sometimes. I mean, that's my kid - Beg, Borrow, Steal, Kill or Die for her, that's my kid!
Unfortunately, it hurts my heart & I feel horrible thinking that if she wasn't my kid, I wouldn't voluntarily choose to spend time around her most days. She's been through a lot the last 5-6 years: leaving with the abusive, manipulative internet boyfriend at 19, putting up with all his mind-twisting, perverted sh*t for the whole time, then finally figuring it out & coming home.
She's just not who I thought (NOT planned) she'd be. Not where I thought (again, NOT planned) she'd be.
She IS a good kid. Loves animals of ALL kinds, plants are a passion, her friends are few, but they are true (as is she to them),& there are times she's very pleasant & civil.
So, I continue to pray.
Welp at least the horse is my friend
Horse: *runs away*
Me: damn it
I just wanted to share my own story, so here it is.
I disowned the man that my oldest brother calls his dad. Not legally, as, being a fourteen year old, I wouldn't be able to, but he no longer has the right to call himself my father.
This man has put myself and my brothers, and even my mother through more shit than they deserve. Then again, there aren't many people in my family who are good people.
I'm the third or second youngest in my entire family, my oldest brother being 21, and my other brother being 20. My second oldest brother, we'll call him M, has aspergers, and was diagnosed as a kid. The man that my oldest brother calls his father (Dean), also has aspergers. (I think.)
Yet, M has just used this as an excuse. He is physically abusive towards me, and constantly gets away with being outright rude towards myself.
My entire family says I egg him on, and make him do the things he does.
However, Dean is a different story. I've been living with my mother for a while now, and while she's, at best, emotionally abusive, it's better than living with Dean.
My parents have been divorced since I was three months old, so my mother is the one who payed for my phone. My mother is the one who pays for my schooling, etc.
Yet recently, when I called him up because I needed a ride to school and my mother was refusing to drive me, he made it into something bigger and made me stay at his house for a few days. I never went to school. The day I left was the day I outright decided he was *not* my father anymore. He took my phone because I didn't want to get into the shower, and proceeded to scream at me when I followed him out, attempting to get it back. My phone is mine, and he didn't pay for it. He had no right to take it, alongside the fact I didn't feel comfortable showering at his house. As there was another night where things happened, and when I got into the shower he kept opening the door and looking at me. Yet, that's another story.
Long story short, he called me a disgusting pig, there were times where he shoved me to get me out of the way, he yelled at me, telling me I was a disgusting pig, and when I had a panic attack because of all the yelling, his new girlfriend (who's a therapist) told me she refused to comfort me. I was forced into the shower, and decided if no one was going to stand up for me, it wasn't worth waiting. So I stood up for myself. I yelled back at him, I told him I was sick of his shit, and he took me home. I also made him apologise. And got my phone back. I haven't seen him since.
Moral of the story: You're stronger than you know. Please don't spend your days waiting around for someone to come rescue you. Superman, Spiderman and all that don't exist, the harsh reality is that you have to be your own hero. So please, never let anyone treat you as a toy. Never let anyone use you. Even if they mean everything to you, and even if you need them in your life. You have no idea how much it'll help to cut them off.
The thing about the brother attacking the sisters, happened to me and still happens to my siblings, he has FASD, and has attacked us for years, and we cannot defend ourselves because he is younger and has a disability, we fear getting arrested for so much as restraining him when he attacks us [biting, attacking pets, strangling, kicks, punches, attempting to poison our food with cleaning products after breaking the locked cabinets door to get to them and often hitting us with heavy blunt objects and knives] because we are older and on the outside it might look like we were the aggressors to a disabled child we only could lock ourselves in rooms or cover our heads with our arms as he attacked. My parents have tried for many years to get him help, doctors, therapists, prescribed medication, specialist schools, routines, you name it they've tried it. But they will never put him in a facility that specialises in his mental health issues as they don't want to be labeled as the sort who'd give up their kid, and have berated us whenever we break down and beg them to stop him hurting us "He's just a kid what harm can he really do?", I came to them one day and begged them to please help us that I couldn't take what he was doing to me and my sisters, layed out that the stress of living with him was driving me and my siblings to suicide attempts (we considered death better than living with his abuse) and self harm, that it was enough that even my anti depressants couldn't keep me level headed any more, my mums only response was "What do you have to depressed over?" It was the final straw, I still feel guilty for my decision as I couldn't take my sisters with me, but I think it was still the best thing for me, I put in my notice at work, moved countys and started living with my bf even without a job lined up to support me, my bf knew I couldn't stay where I was any longer.
one story hit hard, my brother is autistic so I was always babysitting him even though I was younger but he ended up going through something similar, I was a hard tie in life, he became a junkie and was in and out o prison, he used to physically, and mentally abuse us as well, during this time I was neglected and the cops were always at the door. this is where I slowly began to hate the very person I looked up to, he's better now,and he's clean but it was very traumatic.....
I can relate to the JW story, I was baptized as a child so when I left (after finding out about the hidden child abuse and sexual assaults) I left at age 14. My grandparents refused to talk to as well as any of my friends. It’s sad but it happens to so many people each year
Some of the stories where the parent had no justification for it surprise me because the OPs never punched the shit out of them. Especially the one with the sister's funeral attendance. There should have been 2 funerals.
If you disown a child for their sexuality then you've failed as a parent. Incestuality, beastiality, and pedosexuality are not a part of the community and will never be. Love is love so long as it's not with animals, children, or family.
I agree with you
Took me a second to understand this, but I agree with this as well. 👍
agreed
but i love my family and my dogs :(
Love is love.
Hypocrisy.
This went from, parents disowning their kids to kids disowning their parents real quick
Am I the only one who feels scared if I get really angry at some point my parents may disown me?
It’s just something I think about, I have a great family (a brother, a sister, a mother, a father. I am the youngest) but I do think I have anger issues and I’m not sure if at some point I’ll just get too angry and then they’ll disown me. I didn’t used to think people actually did this kind of stuff but now....idk does anyone else feel this way?
Everyone has a breaking point, sense they seem to be good people, they should understand that.
I haven't been disowned. Yet.
But my dad has said if I were gay in anyway, shape or form, I'd get disowned by him
In my country you can't disown your children.
Yeah that's pretty dumb.
I read that as "You can't disown your own chicken." Wow I am seriously sleep deprived rn
@@uprisingsun9105 you will never escape the chickens!
@@uprisingsun9105 what's sleep
@@uprisingsun9105 pfffft I regularly stay up from 10:00 at night to 7:30 in the morning on my phone and laptop playing Minecraft. I know nothing about sleep 😈😈
I'm not ok...
@@uprisingsun9105 well legally you can give your inheritance to your chicken and then disown him, so yeah actually you can.
ere's a list why my parents hate me:
I'm stupid
I'm bad at math
I'm bad at writing
I'm bad at typing
I have extreme anger for my father because of how many times he said "I'm working to be a better dad" but then put in no effort and ends up drinking and then fighting with everybody he sees and drunk driving.
Reasons my parents haven't given me up for adoption is because they want a free place to live when they're older.
Stories like this really prove that you don't need to like people just because you're related to them. To quote "family are the people you're forced to be friends with, while friends are the family you choose."
3:40 Children don't come with an instruction manual. You just do your best. Glad it worked out in this case.
My mom was disowned by her parents, they favored their youngest, but when my mom found success in being a chef they asked for literally thousands, we weren't rich, my neighbors were caught with meth for hell's sake when she declined they basically said that they never had any love for her, I haven't talked to them since and I never will, seriously how can some people be so nasty?
It is truly disgusting how people can be like this but on the other hand I'm glad your mother got away from those fuckers.
I guess that few hundred thousand if not more it cost them to raise her then asked for help just to be shot down. I say it was your grandparents who got the better end of the deal.
"what the hell are you doing here?"
are you gonna live long?
Having been raised as a JW I can honestly say that the parent don't stop loving the child when they are disfellowshipped from the congregation. They just choose their faith in God first and feel that the child needs to repair their own faith before they can be brought back in. One can only be disfellowshipped if they already made the public commitment and baptism into the congregation and are fully educated in how the discipline of disfellowshipping works. They are interviewed by several elders to be sure that they fully understand.
So you know first hand from personal experience how it works in the religion? Because I do.
10:48 this is why being "fAMiLy oRiEnTeD" can be so toxic sometimes. people need to understand that kids who are abused are definitely NOT obligated to love, or forgive their abuser just because it's their parents. i am so sick of the "but they're still your parents" bullshit every time someone discusses their trauma form their parents. so what if they're the parents? they've left deep scars that will affect this person for the rest of their life and they have every single right to be mad about it.
My older cousin had a childhood friend that he was always really close to. They met in kindergarten and immediately bonded. They'd always go over to each others' houses, normal kid stuff. It turns out that when their fathers met, they recognized each other as their own childhood friends, so that was really cool. My cousin said that they wanted their sons to be best friends, when they had them.
Then one day my cousin's friend suddenly died. It turned out he had a rare brain disease that went under the radar his entire life. He was only in his early 20's. His family and my cousin's family all went to his funeral; it was a tragedy, my cousin said his mother, who was a stoic woman, was reduced to tears. But his father never came. If I remember correctly there was some sort of sports thing (golf? Nascar?) that he thought was more important than his own son's funeral. Imagine if you died young and your parent couldn't even bother to come to your funeral. Everyone was hurt. My cousin's dad cut him off, as he should.
TLDR: My cousin's lifelong friend died suddenly and his dad didn't even go to his funeral.
this makes me appreciate my parents so much
I'm trans and Pans
End of story.
Update: Got accepted into a international school and planning to join a program as a exchange student and my LDR friend told me her mother takes in FES
*hug*
Internet hug. ❤💛💙
I'm sorry, they dont deserve you!
Hope you have a good day.
💝💛💙
*hugs*
man, watching this video i realized i dodged alot of bullets in my life. so much of my early childhood and even some of my mental health resembles the first parts of these stories, and that i could have turned out to be a much worse person.
2:45 that story was truly beautiful
10:49 I would have gone and asked to speak to her alone then I would have said a crap ton of horrible things to her, how I felt, etc.
Oh God the first one those parents definitely made the right decision
14:39 my brother is also autistic and bipolar
Well all 3 of my siblings are, I was the lucky one that didn't get it
10:56
Should’ve went there and say something to make her last moments sad
That would be the funniest shit ever
I'm also a jehovahs witnesses, my mom is strict in our religion but she loves my step-dad who is still catholic, also no, my step dad is great, he did not molest me or harass me, the JW part of my family is actually supportive of my mothers decision, and i never heard about something that encouraged us to disown/breakup/divorce with people who are not in our religion anymore.
Well, Some of these stories are so sad and heartbreaking.