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Kiss to forehead, slap on the bum, thigh caresses, stomach and chest kisses, shoulder kisses, footsies, entwining yourself around him, massaging his feet and hand, holding him to your breast, rubbing your face against his gentle, blowing into his ear, nibbling his ear, just go with the way you feel. That’s all.
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During my late husband's final days with Alzheimer dementia, I would touch my forehead to his and he would smile. I had started this gesture with him before he became bedridden. He responded and I have to feel there was something sweet he remembered that made him smile. I cry when I write this.
I am so sorry for you both. I believe he knew you were there and appreciated your caring for him. My late Mom who I cared for had Alzheimer for many years. I was the primary care giver. For years before she passed away she only recognized me as someone who took care of her. She didn't remember me as her daughter. But the days before she passed away, she recognized my voice as I whispered in her ears and squeezed my hand in acknowledgement.
2:06 feather-soft face caress 3:04 neck nape graze 4:18 fingers through hair 5:21 surprise hug from behind 6:27 gentle hand squeeze 7:45 run your fingers up and down the spine 8:43 forehead connection 9:59 warmth of your breath
I am a very touchy-feely kind of person. Anytime I would walk past my late husband if he was sitting watching television or reading or whatever he was doing if I’m walking past him, I am touching him as I go. That would just grab his attention, thinking that I wanted something from him but I said no that’s just passing little love onto you, every time I did that afterwards, he just knew that here comes more love
I was married 14 years to a man who hated touch and PDA would only like it during sex... now divorced and getting back into the dating world, your videos have helped me so much. I am realizing how being with my ex had me conditioned to hold back my touch. Im now dating a new man who LOVES touch and PDA ... i feel like I'm freee again and no longer holding back my urges to be affectionate and in return feel so wanted and nurtured myself! 🎉🎉🎉 im so happy now and wonder WTF i was doing in a touchless marriage for so long! Haha i love touch!
I agree with all of these. Pay attention ladies bc the men send these messages the same way. I didnt realize my "friend" had feelings until he starting reaching for my hands across the table and looking in my eyes. We have always just been good friends.
One of my best male friends in college was 100% just a friend. Neither of us had feelings for the other one that were in the least bit romantic. We are both married with kids now and still the best of friends.@@andersnielsen6044
My husband and I knew each other in high school. 25 years later, we ran into each other again in a 12-step program. We spoke a few times at meetings, basically just saying hi. I was newly sober and he had about two years of sobriety. At the time I had no thoughts about having a relationship with him. Not too long after we came back into contact, he was speaking very emotionally at a meeting about having just found out that his teenage son (whom he had not been able to see growing up, but had just started having contact with and getting to know)had recently been killed in a rock climbing fall. I immediately got up and went and sat down beside him and took ahold of his hand as a way to try to comfort and support him and just sat there holding his hand as he continued sharing. Powerful stuff - a little over two years later we got married. Now he's got 23 years and Ive got 21 years of sobriety. We've had rocky places in our marriage, but we have been best friends since that day and always will be.
Matt is so right about a man's reaction telling it all. I went on a date with a guy who said in words he wanted a relationship and wanted affection from me. I touched his hand as we walked along and he freaked out, pulled his hand abruptly away, and felt so uncomfortable he had to go home, and just left me standing there....... He was still in love with his ex wife and was trying to push himself forward to move on when he wasn't really ready to. ..... But his natural reaction said it all to both himself and me.
Wow, that’s such a powerful example of how actions speak louder than words. Sounds like his reaction really did tell you everything you needed to know. 😬 It’s great that you recognized it and didn’t settle for less than what you deserve! By the way, if you’re interested, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s a great opportunity to dive deeper into these kinds of insights and join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
My man was cooking dinner for me. I was stading off to the side, just observing him and washing dishes. I pinched his but ever so softly, and he LOVED it!
My man was sitting in a chair outside I went inside and when I came back out I came up behind him and wrapped my arms around his chest and kissed his neck softly. And he placed his hands on mine and I could tell he loved it. Also have ran my fingers up and down the spine of my man he went crazy.
All these touches are amazing and totally relatable in relationship. My boyfriend loves it when I run my fingers through his hair especially after he gets his monthly haircut. He pouts when I forgot to do it when I see him it's very cute. He giggles and smiles the whole time. I also randomly grab his butt and he giggles( he's ticklish like me ). He also loves holding my hand with hand squeezes and I do it too especially when we are in a crowd since I'm much shorter than him he doesn't want to loose me. I also give him hugs from behind and front( he's taller than me by 6 inches so I feel like I'm hugging a tree). The slow back traces makes him giggle and melt when we're cuddling and definitely helps start foreplay when we're making out, along with the warm breath in his ear and fingers through his hair. It's my foreplay triangle I call it 😂 I agree the forehead connection is super deep and very connecting. I feel like that is the deepest touch out of all especially after a good emotional talk or activity. Thanks for sharing Mat 🤗
These are all great tips, thanks Matt. One of my favourite parts of a man is his arms and I love to massage and feel the strength of his muscles. Tell me, what effect does this have for a man?
Your videos are absolutely amazing Mat I was married for 32 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable no touch or hugs ever Now im with my younger man we are so affectionate with each other i realise how starved of affection until now Ps I left my ex 20 Years ago Years ago
Once again Matt, Clearly, intelligently, thoughtfully, and sensually conveyed in such a heartfelt way! Wishing you continued success and I feel as though I found a new ally on What is for me, a new dating path after widowhood.
100% on this! Atm, he's experiencing an oncoming illness, upper respiratory and he said he's never had this done before...the face around his sinuses and it actually opened his upper airways! He said thank you for this so I bent over, face touching his ear and whispered "you're welcome". He absolutely loves "Love Touch" ...LOVES IT ❤
I have been married 26 yrs now ,learned a lot from your channel and it really works,it helps me to do n know better...thank you wish more women watch these vids n bond with their guy instead of talking most of d time ,i like to touch my hus whenever i pass next to him 😀 i can see that he likes those things❤
Thank you so much I am doing a lot of these but love to hear more about what men like and crave from a man’s point of view. When I am holding hands I will usually take my thumb and gently and softly caress his hand with it. Also you are walking and you take your arm place your hand gently on his back and give some gentle touches.
Thanks Mat, I also learnt & experienced breathe up the spine of my partner after giving him a relaxation massage , at the time I was a masseuse. I can’t recall his response now I think it was much appreciated…..too long ago! But worth trying again everyone😊
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I dated a man once who shared with me how much he loved it when we were holding hands and I’d reach across my body to lay my free hand across our held hands …if that makes sense. It wasn’t even anything I thought about before doing it, I just never could get close enough to him. I wanted to be as close as possible without smothering or being over-the-top. He picked up on that subtle message and just ate it up. ❤
So glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 Sounds like you’re already a pro - just gotta add that back-of-the-neck magic and breath for the full effect! 😜 By the way, if you're interested, I’m doing a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s the perfect time to join the beta launch! Learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
I wrote my thesis on how touch affects trust way back in the early 90’s! Back when you had those printers that took forever to print, were super loud, and you had to tear the perforated sides of the pages. 🤣🙄💖
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lol when I’m handling a piece of paper work to a certain physician accidentally he touches my hands and said it tickles him and the other physician who’s interested witnesses it told the other physician no to do it again protecting me from his maybe flirting but at the moment I have no idea what’s happening or going on. Now being married to my late beloved husband of 54 years of married life in his loving ways he’s protecting me and kind of being jealous too 🙏🛐✝️📿🎶
My man has amazing hair and I love to run my fingers through it and I had no idea that that was something that men liked, but I tell him all the time I love running my fingers through your hair….
You’re already ahead of the game! 😏✨ Trust me, men love that-there’s nothing like a gentle touch through the hair to send those shivers down his spine. Keep it going! 💆♂🔥
Running my fingers through the hair on his chest, would take all my stress away and turn both of on!!! And he'd always rub my feet, yep,we headed for bedroom, gotta have some alone time.😂... RIP babe 😢
If interested in someone would you want to be around that person all the time? What would touching his elbow do to him? Will he reaction to that touch?
It’s natural to want to be around someone you like, but balance is key! A light touch on the elbow could get his attention and show interest. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
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I'm curious what you would recommend when there is a large height difference, for example the forehead touch or touching the back of the neck? Wonderful tips and encouraging that I am on the right track with expressing my feelings without words. ❤🙏
Yes! 👏 Touch is universal-we all crave that connection, and it can feel just as magical for women too. 💖 Keep embracing those moments-they’re powerful! 😊
For men that dont like public displays of affection, a gentle, squeeze of the wrist with 2 hands. Firm but noticeable. Quick tho so as to give him is space to be free to be himself in public... I call it a wrist hug. Lol
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Yes, the tips apply to gay couples too! Relationship dynamics and communication are universal, so the advice is relevant for everyone. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
QUESTION OF THE DAY - what types of soft or subtle touch to you love to share with men?? Let me know in the comments!
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Kiss to forehead, slap on the bum, thigh caresses, stomach and chest kisses, shoulder kisses, footsies, entwining yourself around him, massaging his feet and hand, holding him to your breast, rubbing your face against his gentle, blowing into his ear, nibbling his ear, just go with the way you feel. That’s all.
Tacing 😊my finger lightly down his spine
I really liked this video on touch.
Great video on touch
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During my late husband's final days with Alzheimer dementia, I would touch my forehead to his and he would smile. I had started this gesture with him before he became bedridden. He responded and I have to feel there was something sweet he remembered that made him smile. I cry when I write this.
I am so sorry for you both. I believe he knew you were there and appreciated your caring for him. My late Mom who I cared for had Alzheimer for many years. I was the primary care giver. For years before she passed away she only recognized me as someone who took care of her. She didn't remember me as her daughter. But the days before she passed away, she recognized my voice as I whispered in her ears and squeezed my hand in acknowledgement.
Blessings to you.
Thank you for sharing!
This is so beautiful. i am so glad that you figured it out. Sweet
I cried when I read this. How sweet of you.
2:06 feather-soft face caress
3:04 neck nape graze
4:18 fingers through hair
5:21 surprise hug from behind
6:27 gentle hand squeeze
7:45 run your fingers up and down the spine
8:43 forehead connection
9:59 warmth of your breath
Thank you! ❤❤
Thanks so much my dear!
Doing the Lord's work, thank you! 🙌
That’s 8!
My last beau would get so mad if I touched his butt…some kind of Mexican homophobia he claimed but eventually I just became afraid to touch him.
I am a very touchy-feely kind of person. Anytime I would walk past my late husband if he was sitting watching television or reading or whatever he was doing if I’m walking past him, I am touching him as I go. That would just grab his attention, thinking that I wanted something from him but I said no that’s just passing little love onto you, every time I did that afterwards, he just knew that here comes more love
YES that's so activating! He was lucky to have you as his partner :)
What a sweet relationship.
@@GenRN it was, but he took his life just over 13 years ago, I don’t know why and I can’t question it because I’ll never know
Love that
I'm so sorry to hear that Deborah
I was married 14 years to a man who hated touch and PDA would only like it during sex... now divorced and getting back into the dating world, your videos have helped me so much. I am realizing how being with my ex had me conditioned to hold back my touch. Im now dating a new man who LOVES touch and PDA ... i feel like I'm freee again and no longer holding back my urges to be affectionate and in return feel so wanted and nurtured myself! 🎉🎉🎉 im so happy now and wonder WTF i was doing in a touchless marriage for so long! Haha i love touch!
I’m so glad this helped you!
Dangerous marrying wrong person
Same! I didn't even realize physical touch was one of my love languages, until I met my current boyfriend.
I was in a similar situation while I was in my 20s. Touch is another form of communication.
So happy for you
A hug when you first meet breaks all the nerves you have in meeting a stranger
yes it totally does!!
Great
I agree with all of these. Pay attention ladies bc the men send these messages the same way. I didnt realize my "friend" had feelings until he starting reaching for my hands across the table and looking in my eyes. We have always just been good friends.
yeah so true... nonverbal communication is super powerful!
Well a male would not be around you as a "friend" if he did not have feelings for you.. That is just not happening!
One of my best male friends in college was 100% just a friend. Neither of us had feelings for the other one that were in the least bit romantic. We are both married with kids now and still the best of friends.@@andersnielsen6044
Yes Ma'am
Lucky you. Take him off the market
My husband and I knew each other in high school. 25 years later, we ran into each other again in a 12-step program. We spoke a few times at meetings, basically just saying hi. I was newly sober and he had about two years of sobriety. At the time I had no thoughts about having a relationship with him. Not too long after we came back into contact, he was speaking very emotionally at a meeting about having just found out that his teenage son (whom he had not been able to see growing up, but had just started having contact with and getting to know)had recently been killed in a rock climbing fall. I immediately got up and went and sat down beside him and took ahold of his hand as a way to try to comfort and support him and just sat there holding his hand as he continued sharing. Powerful stuff - a little over two years later we got married. Now he's got 23 years and Ive got 21 years of sobriety. We've had rocky places in our marriage, but we have been best friends since that day and always will be.
AMAZING love that share!!:)
There's a healing power of a touch .😊🙌
I appreciate your opinion on this!
@@Mat_Shaffer thanks I appreciate you too Mat . I learn something from you the Rise in Love 😁
*True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.*
Thanks so much for your feedback!
The person I connected with a few months ago,made the bells go away ☺️
Love this, Mat! Thank you for the reminder that men are not just about going straight for the ‘bread basket’ as you put it (I’m stealing that) 😆
HAHA steal away im glad it serves you!
Matt is so right about a man's reaction telling it all. I went on a date with a guy who said in words he wanted a relationship and wanted affection from me. I touched his hand as we walked along and he freaked out, pulled his hand abruptly away, and felt so uncomfortable he had to go home, and just left me standing there....... He was still in love with his ex wife and was trying to push himself forward to move on when he wasn't really ready to. ..... But his natural reaction said it all to both himself and me.
Wow, that’s such a powerful example of how actions speak louder than words. Sounds like his reaction really did tell you everything you needed to know. 😬 It’s great that you recognized it and didn’t settle for less than what you deserve! By the way, if you’re interested, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s a great opportunity to dive deeper into these kinds of insights and join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
This was heartbreaking in a way….I did all this and more but rarely if ever did I ever receive anything similar in return.
Don’t give up on love sister!
I'm finding out those men are narcissists...
Same. Also says " get away" and push off in some way. He found it irritating.
@@lmiller1413he's gotta another woman doing all that and loves it!!! I promise!!!! Don't be stupid like i was for awhile!😂
My man was cooking dinner for me. I was stading off to the side, just observing him and washing dishes. I pinched his but ever so softly, and he LOVED it!
Amazing! love hearing that!
And a little kiss 💋 there
Thank you Mat again for your wisdom. I do know too my boyfriend also loves having his back scratched. He just melts ❤
Love that!
A squeeze of the bicep when your hugging or kissing is well recieved 😊
I’m so happy for you my dear!
I agree 🤩
I can’t wait until I can touch my man😊😮
Thanks so much for your feedback!
My man was sitting in a chair outside I went inside and when I came back out I came up behind him and wrapped my arms around his chest and kissed his neck softly. And he placed his hands on mine and I could tell he loved it. Also have ran my fingers up and down the spine of my man he went crazy.
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
I love the advise to hug from behind. It is so powerful
I love hearing from you! Your words light up my screen. ✨
All these touches are amazing and totally relatable in relationship. My boyfriend loves it when I run my fingers through his hair especially after he gets his monthly haircut. He pouts when I forgot to do it when I see him it's very cute. He giggles and smiles the whole time. I also randomly grab his butt and he giggles( he's ticklish like me ). He also loves holding my hand with hand squeezes and I do it too especially when we are in a crowd since I'm much shorter than him he doesn't want to loose me. I also give him hugs from behind and front( he's taller than me by 6 inches so I feel like I'm hugging a tree). The slow back traces makes him giggle and melt when we're cuddling and definitely helps start foreplay when we're making out, along with the warm breath in his ear and fingers through his hair. It's my foreplay triangle I call it 😂 I agree the forehead connection is super deep and very connecting. I feel like that is the deepest touch out of all especially after a good emotional talk or activity. Thanks for sharing Mat 🤗
Amazing my dear so so happy for you
These are all great tips, thanks Matt. One of my favourite parts of a man is his arms and I love to massage and feel the strength of his muscles. Tell me, what effect does this have for a man?
Gemini's love it.
YES massaging his muscles is very empowering and activating to his masculinity! It’s super hot!
Haha I bet they do!!
@Mat_Shaffer good to know. To me, there is nothing better than being wrapped up in a man's loving arms
Oh my, these were all great tips! I filed them all under 'M' for Memory! Thank you Mat!
Glad it was helpful!
Your videos are absolutely amazing Mat
I was married for 32 years to a man who was emotionally unavailable no touch or hugs ever
Now im with my younger man we are so affectionate with each other i realise how starved of affection until now
Ps
I left my ex 20
Years ago
Years ago
I’m so happy for you my dear!
Once again Matt,
Clearly, intelligently, thoughtfully, and sensually conveyed in such a heartfelt way!
Wishing you continued success and I feel as though I found a new ally on What is for me, a new dating path after widowhood.
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
100% on this! Atm, he's experiencing an oncoming illness, upper respiratory and he said he's never had this done before...the face around his sinuses and it actually opened his upper airways! He said thank you for this so I bent over, face touching his ear and whispered "you're welcome". He absolutely loves "Love Touch" ...LOVES IT ❤
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
I have been married 26 yrs now ,learned a lot from your channel and it really works,it helps me to do n know better...thank you wish more women watch these vids n bond with their guy instead of talking most of d time ,i like to touch my hus whenever i pass next to him 😀 i can see that he likes those things❤
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
I am so glad you’ve returned.
A great video. Love the touching ideas. 🎉🎉
So glad you enjoyed it!!
YES those are all super hot great job!!
Agree ✨
Thank you so much I am doing a lot of these but love to hear more about what men like and crave from a man’s point of view. When I am holding hands I will usually take my thumb and gently and softly caress his hand with it. Also you are walking and you take your arm place your hand gently on his back and give some gentle touches.
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
Thank you for this amazing video once again! 😊
you are so welcome!
Thanks Mat, I also learnt & experienced breathe up the spine of my partner after giving him a relaxation massage , at the time I was a masseuse. I can’t recall his response now I think it was much appreciated…..too long ago! But worth trying again everyone😊
Amazing! love hearing that!
Thank you for sharing 😊
God bless you Sir ❤🙏
so welcome!!
❤so timely!!! So excited!!!
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Thank you fot that my hubby is in the military and when he gets back home i will do all of that
You’re the best! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and lighting up the comments. 💖
Eye kisses, touching/kissing palms and pulse points like neck, wrists and back of the knees for example.
Thank you for sharing!
Matt - You’re a 5 Star Communicator!! Excellent and Real information - hope to use some or all soon!♥️
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Wonderful vid. Thank you, Matt 🎉
You are so welcome!
Plus touching and caressing him in a certain way
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I love this information thanks!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You're very welcome.
Another super video👏👏👏👏
so glad you enjoyed it!
This is very useful video Matt
Glad to hear it!
Thank you this is a very nice and thoughtful video.
Thank you so much! 😊 I’m really glad you found it thoughtful-it means a lot that it resonated with you. 💖✨
I dated a man once who shared with me how much he loved it when we were holding hands and I’d reach across my body to lay my free hand across our held hands …if that makes sense. It wasn’t even anything I thought about before doing it, I just never could get close enough to him. I wanted to be as close as possible without smothering or being over-the-top. He picked up on that subtle message and just ate it up. ❤
Your comment is a breath of fresh air! Thanks for sharing. 🌸
This was a great video…I’ve done all but the back of the neck and the breath! Thanks for the insight!
So glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 Sounds like you’re already a pro - just gotta add that back-of-the-neck magic and breath for the full effect! 😜 By the way, if you're interested, I’m doing a FREE live coaching love + relationship course next month. It’s the perfect time to join the beta launch! Learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/ 💖✨
What an awesome channel ❣️
Thanks so much my dear!
Jesus gives the best advice.
haha I do my best ;)
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❤❤❤hahaha…… It's Jesus❤❤❤
You’re so correct!!!
Thanks so much my dear!
Exactly what I needed to know this week. Thanks for sharing.
I’m so glad this helped you!
I wrote my thesis on how touch affects trust way back in the early 90’s! Back when you had those printers that took forever to print, were super loud, and you had to tear the perforated sides of the pages. 🤣🙄💖
ok, you are simply amazing. I am sharing all of this wiith my new love interest.
You’re making me blush! Thanks for the lovely comment. 💕
Love your LONG HAIR❤️. As a big drive 73 yr old, past hippie craves hair.
THANKS FOR YOUR INFO. AFTER 40 yrs married need spicing it up🔥
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
Love it! Will do it! 👍
You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖
Thank you, Mat! For all that info!😊🙏
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
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This is sooo good!! Tysm!!
You’re making my heart smile with your kind words! Keep being amazing. 💖
Such a great video, like a wonderful refresher😊 Thank you, Mat! 🙏🏽
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Thank you so much😊
Thank you!
so welcome!
it's so powerful, more of this
Your comment made my day! Keep shining and being fabulous. ✨
Thanks for educating us, Mat!
You are so welcome!
It works if they don’t walk away from you when you’re trying to do all that.
I appreciate your opinion on this!
I’m a woman named Harriet, so I go by Harry 😊 (wouldn’t you lol)? I adore you and think you have great advice. Thank you!
Great video.
So happy to hear that! 😊
Love these tips
Glad you like it!
Thank you for the advice
I’m so glad this helped you!
Amazing you are so right on!
You’re a gem! Thanks for the sweet comment and for being here. 💕
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He loves it
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
lol when I’m handling a piece of paper work to a certain physician accidentally he touches my hands and said it tickles him and the other physician who’s interested witnesses it told the other physician no to do it again protecting me from his maybe flirting but at the moment I have no idea what’s happening or going on. Now being married to my late beloved husband of 54 years of married life in his loving ways he’s protecting me and kind of being jealous too 🙏🛐✝️📿🎶
AMAZING love that share!!:)
Excellent video
You’re making my heart happy! Thanks for the sweet comment. 💕
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love these!
Thanks so much my dear!
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❤❤❤ thank you ❤❤❤
You are so welcome!
Thank ya amazing videos wow
You are so welcome!
Wow your amazing
Many thanks! You are amazing too!
When we're walking, he slides his hand into mine, entwining our fingers.❤❤
Amazing! love hearing that!
As a female, the fingers through my hair or fingers at the back of my neck gets had the same effect on me.
Thanks for sharing!
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My man has amazing hair and I love to run my fingers through it and I had no idea that that was something that men liked, but I tell him all the time I love running my fingers through your hair….
You’re already ahead of the game! 😏✨ Trust me, men love that-there’s nothing like a gentle touch through the hair to send those shivers down his spine. Keep it going! 💆♂🔥
Running my fingers through the hair on his chest, would take all my stress away and turn both of on!!! And he'd always rub my feet, yep,we headed for bedroom, gotta have some alone time.😂... RIP babe 😢
If interested in someone would you want to be around that person all the time? What would touching his elbow do to him? Will he reaction to that touch?
It’s natural to want to be around someone you like, but balance is key! A light touch on the elbow could get his attention and show interest. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
❤ How do you flirt with a co-worker, without being aggressive?
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I'm curious what you would recommend when there is a large height difference, for example the forehead touch or touching the back of the neck? Wonderful tips and encouraging that I am on the right track with expressing my feelings without words. ❤🙏
I’m so glad this helped you!
My fiance and I do 'I love you' with 3 hand squeeze
AMAZING love that share!!:)
What if he's bald😭
Don’t give up on love sister!
I as a female can say all this works on women or me too I crave this touch connection 11:49
Yes! 👏 Touch is universal-we all crave that connection, and it can feel just as magical for women too. 💖 Keep embracing those moments-they’re powerful! 😊
Good info..thank you!! Ahh how about massage his inner thigh near the gonads?
ohh yeah thats a GREAT SPOT!!! :)
❤❤❤❤❤❤ lovely soul you .
Thanks so much my dear! You too!
I want to try the forhead touch but I am so short compared to my hubby it would turn very awkward, real quick! Lol...
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes courage to be open, and I’m here for you. 🌸
Damn I watch all your videos and I just gotta say I'm a naturual. Lol. Not one thing you said I haven't done when being intimate/romantic.
Just has to be somebody worthy of that kind of touch.
For men that dont like public displays of affection, a gentle, squeeze of the wrist with 2 hands. Firm but noticeable. Quick tho so as to give him is space to be free to be himself in public... I call it a wrist hug. Lol
@@MiahJacobs777 me too. So reassuring.
Is it alright to teach a man to do all these touchy feels to me?🤔
Great point!
Great point!
Single me watching it at 3 AM in the morning xD
I Love All of Matts segments !! Very very good advice !! ❤
. Looking lil ghoulishly castaway 😂😂
Your kind words touch my heart
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Thanks so much my dear! 💖
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hi Jesus
hi there! :) hahaha
Wow I learned to you I do this hhah
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Do your videos apply to gay couples ?
Yes, the tips apply to gay couples too! Relationship dynamics and communication are universal, so the advice is relevant for everyone. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
What do I do he. Has no hair😅
No worries! Focus on what you love about him beyond looks. Confidence and personality are what really matter! 😊
What if the man is bald?
Whether the man is bald or not doesn't change anything.
Im really short and hes tall, forehead touches adter a hug is hard 😂
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
My guy is bald- I did rub his bald head.
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
Please be quick n straight to point😤🙄🙄
Thank you for your constructive criticism. It’s important to hear all sides, and I’ll definitely consider your points.
Some of this feels a bit height prohibitive… there’s about a 9” difference between us🤷🏻♀️
I see. A big height difference might feel tricky, but it doesn't change how much you care about each other.
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Have you got a unmarried brother that knows these things
I don’t, but I can help with any questions you have!
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