how to face failure in academics | Professor Errol D'Souza | TEDxYouth@JGIS
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- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- He is a veteran in the field of Economics and has donned many hats A professor by choice, he obtained his Ph.d from the Jawaharlal Nehru University, New Delhi. He has been a visiting professor of the Indian Institute of Advanced Study, Simla, an Honorary Senior Fellow of the Institute of South Asian Studies at the National University of Singapore, a Visiting Scholar at the Columbia University and a Visiting Professor at the Turin School of Development of the International Labour Organization. He has worked on academic committees of the University Grants Commission of India and the Reserve Bank of India in various capacities. He is on the academic council of the Tata Institute of Social Sciences -the Institute for Human Development. He was the Director of the National Housing Bank and is currently on the Board of Governors of the National Institute of Public Finance and Policy, New Delhi, the Rajasthan Shram Sarathi Association, Udaipur and the India Gold Policy Centre. He is on the Editorial Board of the Journal of Quantitative Economics, the Indian Journal of Labour Economics and Macroeconomics and Finance in Emerging Market Economies. He is engaged in research of macroeconomics, development finance and public policy.
He is none other than Professor Errol D’Souza - the Director of the Indian Institute of Management, Ahmedabad.
Prof. Errol D’Souza
Ph.D. (JNU)
Errol D’Souza is a Professor of Economics and the Director at the Indian Institute of Management Ahmedabad.
He is on the editorial board of the Journal of Quantitative Economics (Springer), the Indian Journal of Labour Economics (Springer), and Macroeconomics and Finance in Emerging Market Economies (Taylor & Francis). He is engaged in research in the areas of macroeconomics, development finance and public policy. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
I just hope TED sees this comment : Can we have more videos and speeches on academic failure? Because I'm a regular viewer of Ted - talks and I find that there are very few videos on this topic. Yet this is a very big issue all students are facing.
Agreed
True story
exactly...
I agree with you, these kinds of ted talk is more realistic for me because I have faced so many failures in college
Thank you!
I feel like a burden to the family. Both my brothers are succeeding academically and in their early career but I am still failing. I don’t want to stop. I can’t stop
Don’t give up try even if you fail how many times try and try and don’t compare yourself just be you work at your pace
You and I both. I just opened my results ten mins ago and I feel like baggage
Sn
Same
For real! Similar situation buddy
Note to myself-
19th june 2021
I failed in my 4 year graduation and it will require one more year to complete making a 4 year degree into a 5 year degree.
No matter what I will chase my dreams.
Same bro I failed to graduate, I'm the only one in my class I failed because of stress I couldn't write all the assignments and records
great commitment, how are you progressing so far?
@@likeaphoenix6 same condition that is being happened with me....
@@likeaphoenix6 😢😢😢
Same Yar... Failed... feeling Soo low and due to which I am not able to concentrate.
Comming from good grades to failing is definitely humbling. I am working on my BA. in Accounting, but in German. Today i failed Macroeconomics, when I know if the subject was in English I would have passed with good grades. So, really feeling in the dumps.
Oh man I'm in the exact same situation!
I hope you make it. Try try until you succeed
I still didn't get what makes you in trouble that macroeconomics or that language.
@@himanshuchaturvedi6161 You can not communicate the thought of economics without language, especially when the question is to such an extraordinary degree as to suggest the existence and enjoyment of the great mass of people. It is therefore most eminently a social science and there should never arise any need to prove it when the answer is so painfully overt.
Edit: Upon further rumination, I find the your question deeply disruptive and offensive, especially when you speak in such an acquainted tone. There is obviously a greater impediment in the bottleneck of language and communication rather than a mere bereavement of knowledge especially when a tendency to procurement has been illustrated- it is invariable and immutable observation stemmed from the founding principals of the economic sciences.
I failed in chemistry in my 11 grade like I was a above average student I always scored 3-7 ranks out of 30-60 students always but this year I failed
Commenting this at Dec. 14, 2023.
I have been an academic failure from kindergarten to college. I started college in 2019 and till this date I am still a second year struggling to pass my courses, next semester however I will no longer let myself stay like this. I will achieve my goals and will succeed with my struggles andI shall be reborn.
How’d it go
it’s very stressful when you keep failing each semester. especially when my parents are paying for the tuitions fees which makes me feel very guilty when i fail a class. wish i could fully financially support myself so that my parents wouldn’t be burdened. but at the end of the day i can only move on from my failure and pay my parents back when i make it
I failed a college class , I really needed to hear this today.
Hey how are you now? Are u studying?
Same Maths 🤦🏾♂
Same I failed 11 grade
This video is so freaking relatable. I just checked my Math grade yesterday only to find that I failed 🤦🏾♂😢
Failure doesn't meant that you are wrothless, but giving up are
Reading the comments reminds me that I’m not alone in this, we have all screwed up or have sometimes been screwed over. What matters is that we learn from our experiences and push forward towards something better.
Tonight I gave up on my virtual economics and personal finance course. I chronically procrastinate (I’m unsure if this is just a part of who I am or if it is related to my ADHD and other things) and cannot manage myself when it comes to self paced work. I massively regret what I allowed to happen this year, and now I am finishing econ with only a little over 9 out of 13 topics completed. I do not know if I will pass or fail, and I do not know how negatively my GPA will be impacted, but there was just no way I could finish the course tonight by the deadline.
I’ve learned that I can only blame myself for what’s happened and that if I want to make it up I will have to work to defeat my procrastination demon in the future. I wish everyone here lots of love, luck, and recovery. Good night guys.
I am struggling on how I back up from the failure I had yesterday. And this talk enlightened me.
How are you now?
I’m in my 2nd year of uni studying ME and I am failing all of my classes because it’s just so much work especially because I have ADHD I have to work twice as hard
Here I am again. I'm in my 4th year. And I failed again. The online class is really hard. Our professor gave us false hope that we passed the subject. Grades are already posted in our portal but 1-week pass before the new term, our professor surprised us with the wrong computation/ encoding of grades. A lot of us failed the subject so we need to repeat the subject. We are so devastated especially me since I only need 0.1 to pass the subject and retain my scholarship however after the emergency meeting yesterday, he didn't post anything. He just ended the meeting that we will have a meeting per class today but until today there is no response to our messages 😢😔
@@nerelynregudon3567 that’s sad I hope one day you will succeed and get back again
Nerelyn, I am in the same 🚣♂️
I’m a freshman college student with adhd I failed two of my courses in my first semester, I incompleted one, and withdrew the other because of quick thinking from my professors.
I’m worried about the possibility of not graduating in 4 years because my family can’t afford it.
This video definitely helped a little bit with my morale.
Adhd sucks. Or is it higher education who’s failed to help people with learning disabilities? I don’t know.
hey, I'm writing this to you a little bit late. I just wanted to say that it is very normal actually to fail courses in your first semester of university. Lots of people say that their worst semester was the first one. Same for me actually. So please don't worry too much about it. It will get better! So if you can keep going, you can do it!
same i have many failed grades and I have to retake some of my major subjects in engineering course and I am still undiagnosed with adhd.I have other option like drop out of college and enter trade school or keep going forward but yes I don't have enough support.
@@6huckbobbinspin108 same🥲
Hello there, I am also currently struggling a lot in my first semester, like A LOT. Already failed a course, need to save another one and high possibility of probation. Tried everything, but it seems that ADHD is playing a big role here or I am just seeking excuses. Anyways, I will get a diagnosis soon.
this is actually the most insightful speech about failure. It deserves much higher views
I just failed a 10% test in my accounting class. Although I know this isn’t the end of the world.. as someone who has never failed academically before, I can’t help but take it personally. I’ve never felt so defeated and it was honestly shocking. I’ve been sulking all day even though I have so much to do.. the main reason this has been eating at me is because I go to a very competitive law school and to make into next year I have to get good grades in all courses. I just need to bounce back. I can take control and better my grade. I will do anything to achieve my goals
When there is no reinforcement or a positive cue, a person gets negative feedback loop.
It's important to step back and understand your goals with your abilities.
Proactively reach out to those who are helping you.
You fail yourself when you ignore the problem and give up the long-term.
Persevere in the short period of time.
Find your commitment mechanism, find ways to overcome failure.
Humans have the ability of foresight. Use it for decision making to be good long-term.
I just failed my 4th uni class in a row! Feel like a complete waste of space and money! I have to take a break and re-evaluate why this has happened and how I will change it.
Same I just news that I have to repeat 2 of my classes from 3rd year but now I’m going to be repeating them for a third time ..I just feel so useless and waste of money
Thank you, Im not alone in this
The goal of life is to keep trying... nice
Others succeed in one try but if I fail again and again what’s the point of trying so hard ?
@@nihsyub1039 the failure is a lesson so u got so many lessons.For example, Thomas Addison made hundreds of failures so… why not.
I am a dental student and no semester goes without failing 1 or 2 subjects THAT'S IS SO EMBRASSING I AM SUCH A WASTE OF SPACE AND MONEY AND TODAY I GOT MY FIRST FAILURE OF THIS SEMESTER
😢
I also faced one of my biggest failure yesterday, i will take this opportunity to say that i will come back, come back stronger.
I hope you are doing well now!
This man has explained every spectrum of every emotion and behaviour that I've gone through this semester. Thank you so much.
I'm here because I failed my neet exam. It was my third attempt and I joined college and I'm thinking of taking another drop after being in college for a year and I've finally gotten over my neet failure and want to try again with more vigour and more hard work than ever before. And although I'm scared , i can't just ignore this pent up feeling I've been having for more than a year.
Mat kro Bhai jbh neet UG m hi 3 sal m n hua pg mai kse hoga
Mai apko demotivate nhi krna chahte hun
Par practically socho
Ol carrier bhi hai unko follow kro
I have a major procrastination problem and now I'm failing my exam two days from now...I want to change this behavior pattern, but I feel like I'm too weak minded to do so and I have no idea how to overcome that feeling.
Me aswell, I've got a big problem with procrastination and getting distracted.
@@iceomistar4302 I have a procrastination problem as well but I also struggle to retain information long term. This might be because of my procrastination?
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v I think you’re very right. Our memory works in three components, primarily short-term memory and long-term memory. information in the short-term is stored for around 30 seconds, before it either disappears forever or moves into the long-term. That transition is called LTP where neurons are formed and stored in the cortex(outer part of the brain). For this to happen focus and purpose is required, that is why procrastination prevents it because you’re not really focused. It’s quite fascinating because if you actively put things in context you get a more effective and stronger formation of the neurons. You probably have heard about the life hack: chewing gum when studying and the chew the same flavor when taking an exam. It’s really true because you then have more and stronger formations between the neurons connecting the gum flavor to the information you have studied, thereby making it easier to retrieve. If you at the same time do other things like making a rap about a thing u studied or a little story, then you also have a stronger formation. You get the idea. I hope this made sense and gave you something to work with:) It’s something that i recently have been keeping in mind when trying to remember things.
@@JonasBebeFTW Thank you so much. I guess if I stop procrastinating then I should be fine but that's going to be a habit that will be hard to kill.
How how did it turn out for you? I'm currently dealing with the same thing, the worst thing is now it is currently two days before exam and I did not study anything except for doing homework.
I used to be a grade A student that almost never had problem with studying. Yet, I failed miserably on my junior year’s exams. Although I do have second chance to retake it this fall, I literally cannot tell whether I can make up for my horrible exam results or again repeat the same mistake. On top of that, I would not be receiving the grades of my retake before the college application deadlines, which means I have to submit low grades. My gpa is not that perfect as well(it’s 3.82). So my entire application is dependent on my SAT score. But no matter how much I practice how much I read I keep getting the same low scores. I feel like giving up because of it but I don’t want to feel the failure and beat myself up for it again, but I just just *just* can’t get the thought of failure out and I hate myself for it so much…and now look at me crying in the middle of the night…
Im experiencing this rn. Im trying my very best to study but i still fail
Me too, failed my third and last attempt on my cardiologist entrance exam. Imagine my frustration.
Did you pass?
I can confidently say that the thoughts of failure is a double- edged knife. I'm currently dealing with bad grades that are the results of my repeating carelessness, ironically enough, however, thanks to those thoughts that I managed to get high scores to cover up for said low grades by the end of semester. I still hate myself though
I can sadly relate rn. I hope you're feeling better now though
One of the best speeches I have heard on Ted Talks. 👍🏼
im here because i failed a class. i was a dean's lister. it's a very hard pill to swallow. i know that i could have done better but i also acknowledge the fact that a year into this online setup took a toll on me especially as i am continuously working on my undergrad thesis. right now, i am trying to find ways to pull myself together because a new term is about to start again and i dont want to pass the course only out of spite.
I lost my scholarship due to my low CGPA. It's been a difficult week for me . But I know 6 months from now I'll reach somewhere
Most underrated TED talks
I have an exam day after tomorrow and it is freaking me out. Hearing this I just feel it is not too bad. I will take some time. Expectations make me miserable. But I will get past this and one day I will be proud of me. I am making this promise to myself and this comment is the proof. All the best to me.
Good speech, this definitely deserves a lot more views. 👍🏻
Despite maintaing a healthy CGPA throughout my undergrad period i still apprehend that i might perform so-so as i am in my final year.Not that i am not hardworking enough but the fear is inevitable.
I hope this inspirational talk makes me feel better and stronger.
I took biotechnology 2 years ago because of covid and also because of my parents pressure to take a science subject. I really thought this subject won't have physics, chemistry and all. But now I am completely screwed up. I find it harder to study. And 2 years of online classes made me so lazy. Now the college is open and I'm failing in tests. I am completely depressed. I ruined myself be taking wrong choices😔
COVID really ruined us as students
im about to fail my dreams studying in german uni... been working hard for 2 years and probably all will go to waste after this
be hopeful you can do it buddy
Btw I love Germany and planning to move there
Man, I don't know who you are, but my dream is to go to grad school and study aging in Canada. And I really failed in many classes, including important ones, and I sometimes fear it will have an impact. I don't even know how I will graduate. But I just tell myself that whatever happens for the next 1.5 years Im going to give up all social media. delete my subscriptions and just study and take care of my health. There are people who for any reason went to prison, and started new lives after that. I am sure they have spent a lot of time regretting all they have done and how many years they've lost. And our situations are way better.
I really feel you brother, if it's really your dream to study in Germany, don't give up, keep finding solutions and work hard no matter what happened in the past (as we can't go back and change it). I won't give up on my dream about aging grad school.
@@dado721 achieved?
@@tarun2298 hey! Thanks for checking on me! Actually ALMOST YES! I am in the process of waiting for my Canadian Student visa to get approved. I did get into the master's program in biochemistry molecular biology (aging and senescence research lab!! Exactly like what dreamed about!! Despite few professors in my current school doubting I will ever succeed!!) Also graduating with a Bachelors in 2 months. My studies got a LOT better. Definitely passing the remaining classes with As and Bs. Fingers crossed my visa gets approved. Will post on an update! Passing remaining classes and getting a visa are the last milestones on achieving the dream I posted about 7 months ago
Really hope this post inspires someone!
One thing that didn't work out is deleting all my social media=DD Haha, I guess I am too addicted to them. But I certainly deleted some of them, and a number of my subscriptions got down! Also, in terms of exercises, I was really consistent in Summer but dropped the habit in September due to the start of the semester. But I am starting again tomorrow.
This so relatable sir. Thankyou for the encouragement.
Note to myself-
Yesterday i cane to know that i failed in physics abd today full with sadness. I don't know whether i will see this comment for next time or not if i am able to do so at that time i will become successful.
Great. Good Work and it must reach to all New Generations
currently failing college. watching this video to give me encouragement to keep going
keep going man don’t give up juss keep trying to try your best
I think I’m going to fail in my biochemistry paper. I had prepared well but I’m going through rough times and sometimes my brain just goes numb and I go blank and I can’t recall anything I’ve studied. the same happened to me during my exam. Ppl have ruined me. I’ve ruined myself.
Ssme situation I'm in. Tomorrow my exam and I prepared for a month. But now i can't revise anything, brain going numb,weighed,vomiting and everything
perfect timing😢
Put forward your best foot ... well-said mr
I didn’t do well in my GCSEs, I can still go to a fantastic uni, but I fell
Short of my expectations of wanting to aim high and achieve my goals. And so as of today I promise to have more confidence w I can do well, and lose my pride in order to achieve my goals.
I already failed my graduation once last year. I tried again this year.. but unfortunately there's a 90% chance I'm gonna fail again.
Regardless, I'm gonna keep trying. And you should too 💜.
How'd it go buddy
@@randomuser5073 omg I actually succeeded with a miracle 😭. I remember being super stressed when I wrote that.
Wishing you the best of luck in your studies
@@3407 I'm so glad you made it
@@3407 congrats and glad that you Made it ❤..❤
I am generally a student with high GPA, but 1st semester of my final 4th year I failed two classes as I was in exchange semester, now my school is not giving me a chance to retake exams even though the other university where I did my exchange semester does.
Did you sort it out? I've faced a similar issue. I didn't work hard for one paper of the final exam in my masters, and I didn't get good results. It hurts me very often cause I didn't score well for another paper also, which was not actually my fault. However, I have bad marks for two papers and I can't get a retest. I tend to forget about it and focus on my research now.
Hey there ! How are you doing in life now?
That's a bitter pill to swallow. Maximum effort x zero ability equals zero result.
No wonder I kept failing, I thought that I didn't put enough effort, it turns out, I don't have the ability.
i failed a class that is irrelevant to my degree and life goals. now i got cut off my accelerated program because of this class. it felt like i got played by the system
Did everything work out? I kinda am at the brink of experiencing the very same situation.
How are you doing after this?
Failed in two of my subjects today. Don't know whom to go to. I feel left out in my class now. I'm feeling the pressure a lot. Don't want to tell my parents either.
Failed my bar exams 2 times. So stressed but this helped.
We are all in the same shoes and you are not alone
I am a 14 year old student who is weak at math , science , geography , history and computers ., I don't understand my purpose in life and keep questioning my worth . What's the point of me living a life just to waste it and deplete the resources given to me .
I started a committee along with three people, one was my role model. The role model became arrogant and fought with all three of us. She left the committee, and then texted all volunteers in the committee to leave. She’s created multiple problems til the point that I’m living off coffee and a few hours of sleep daily. What am I doing? Solving problems shes creating. What about school? I didn’t get time to care about it. I had a test today that I didn’t get to do good at due to anxiety, overthinking, lack of sleep, and brain fog due to covid. I’m so busy at this point and i really feel like I have to idk
Good one Errol Sir. Nice to see you
Remarkable ted talk
Very well said...hoping for more videos like this.
I am a senior high school student and I just failed the exam that I thought I will ace,I became too confident that I didn't notice that I'm failing..... I don't know what should I do. I disappointed everyone. I've been crying for the past hours.
Failed math and science final high school exam..but I'll try again next year ✊
here after I was accused of plagiarism in my college end term assignment. had to make a question paper and an answer key. really sad cause I put a lot of effort into the assignment but got a zero for plagiarizing even when my professor said that doing something similar to that act was okay
***09 JULY 2024***
I found out today that i failed a math module, which was a core module, and previously, i did fail another module, and i did that and passed. Now, this one will extend my degree by another 6 months or a year, depending on which route i take. What was supposed to be a three year degree in now turning to a 5 year degree. I am so frustrated with what's happening, and i just don't have the energy anymore but i want to push through get the necessary help i need to get through this. Coming to this comment section made me feel that i am not alone, and we'll get through this
I just failed my anatomy today which causes me to be behind my classmates that passed the subject because I will not be able to take the 2 subjects that are supposed to be taken after passing anatomy. Out of my 5 majors, anatomy is the only subj that I failed and I feel so demotivated. I did every work but somehow our professor is just too difficult. The subject is ok for me it's just the professor. I guess I'll have to work harder to pass and have summers to be regular again next sy. Btw thanks for this talk, makes me feel like I'm not alone and it's not the end for me.
Did you clear the test
Friday 5th, July 2024
Failed and humiliated by the professor, I'm gonna pass this exam and take that damn degree with me one day.
We're not alone, look at the comments bro.
I just failed my astro midterm exam. I will go back in here once I can win this class this final term.
Did you finally win it ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ
I just got rejected from my dream law school and I’m seriously devastated right now.
Failed one of my nursing class and have to wait till next year to retake the class, what a stress😩
Wow😂I just simply told my parents I failed two classes and I’m on probation without any stress😂, and I formulate a plan for the second semester immediately bc I know where I did wrong 😂
I'm here because I *feel* like a failure.
I am academically in pain.
I studied 3 year degree major in chemistry,in my 1st sem I failed in one subject on my 2nd sem I failed at 2 subject and my 3rd sem I failed in 3 subject but after that I cleared 1 and 2 sem but again I failed in 3rd sem exam I was so depressed and I had no idea what am I gonna do but after that I cleared all my papers and I realised that chemistry is not my subject, now I am studying what I really want and succeeding in academic so don't lose your hope and study what you want.
I am also a chemistry major ,I feel the same ,I have a semester and project left for me .I have no idea how I am gonna make it.But I don't have any other option other than completing the course .I just don't understand anything these days
@@Clannah Relax and figure out something, Don't get stressed. Everything will be alright
@@daydreamer6717 Thanks man
Same kt in 2 & 3 semister
Chemistry is so darn difficult
Problems are real but solutions don't work.
Well said
You are right!
I'm scared to go back to my house during the Winter Break because I failed 2 out of 3 classes in college and might lose my academic scholarships because right now my GPA is at a 1.98. I really am ashamed because I went from a 4.0 student to this and I'm afraid to lose my financial aid because deep down I know we can't waste money on a failure but I don't know what I'll do with myself if I'm a failure.
I get you completely, academic pressure is unlike any other especially when people have such high expectations of you.
I request to everyone that please pray to God that I can pass my 1st and 2nd year math board exam which I already failed three times. I request to everyone.i just don't want that my parents feel shame because of me anymore. I will end my life if my religion allow me to do but in my religion it's an unforgivable sin so I have to live so please pray for me. 😢😢😢
I'm here because I'm about to fail my accounting paper tmr 👍😭
😂😂😂😂
Im failing my math class, I'll get kicked out of the science section I'm in. My family will shame me about failing and saying you wasted our money on your uniform and stuff. I just don't understand math, I just wanna get a job without math maybe science too. I just wanna get a job relating to creative stuff, no numbers that hurts my head. It's just embarrassing to fail,
Relatable. Some subjects aren't meant for everyone. Finish school and opt subjects beyond maths. You gonna find your way, whatever works for you. Go for it. Say it aloud as well, x y z doesn't work for me. Its not my cup of tea. Helps to overcome shame. Best wishes
I've now found out that I've done horribly in the SAT exam and probably won't get into a good college, welp gonna try again next year I guess
I have to win as there is no going back. I CAN DO IT.
Yeah 💯
I am in going into the second year of my undergrad program this September, to get into my dream program, I must get first hon ( CGPA: 3.6+). In this last year, my GPA is so bad I barely have a CGPA that passes 3.0, I am scared and don't know what to do. I know I can do better, just like what I've done before and it is so hard to be brave and find confidence in myself once again.
There is still hope and chance of getting to 3.6,people have done it and so can you
I am a failure in life. Whatever i do in studies is average. No good grades.
No job.
i failed 2, and posibly 3 courses on my second semester, i just need some mental help right now.
Bro I have been insulted by my mom almost everyday since the past two years, because of my bad percentage. And the results just got worse with each successive insult, even I want some internal peace right now, hope you are okay. Just keep it moving.
I will pass an exam in two days defining my future, and I barely studied.
I am going to study bc I will do anything to chase my dreams.
edit: I went and failed them :/ but will fight for my dream no matter what!
chill down u aint the main character
@@Alparos YOU chill down and be less aggressive lmao I don't need to be any "main character" like you say to have motivation 😂
@@blysamari ME... chill down and be less aggressive? ur being manipulative and ignoring the truth: U didnt give a damn about that "life changing" exam until 2 days left and failed, u got no dreams to fight for lmao
@@Alparos You claim I ignore the truth and am manipulative but that's totally wrong: no one can be more aware than me that I screwed up this time, but I don't need you to push it further and tell me that I don't have dreams to fight for (no one in my case would lmao). So now I'll just stop responding bc I don't have time to argue with a random yt user on whether I have dreams or not, goodbye :)
I know I can success, but realizing my success will not be enough for the people who i respect and love, makes me end up completely failing.
im in my second year of college just found out i failed chemistry and im about to fail zoology. I needed this thank you
it’s my first semester and we have two dates for each exam, i succeeded in date A but failed in date B therefore i need to retake the course again. add to that there’s 2 courses that depend on this course meaning there’s a possibility that u can’t take them for the next semester .. i feel miserable .. hope i’ll be back here again to say “i did it ..”
Did you "do it "ヘ( ̄ω ̄ヘ)
@@timmy_237 i did !(•̀ᴗ•́)و ̑̑ 👏🏼 always believe in yourself!
If you are an engineering student don't worry I failed too 😂
I had Physics major in my degree.... But during admission I chose Chemistry as my minor subject... It was the worst decision of my life that I am still suffering the Consequences As there was a change in rules that we cannot have 3 subjects... I couldn't take maths later.... For admission in MSc physics in big Institutions Maths was necessary with Physics.... I wanted to do higher studies in Physics, but all my doors were closed...However, because of a short term commitment and persistence.. I somehow hav got a chance in an IIT... But a smaller IIT...as they allowed it somehow... All my friends are in higher IITs and are doing well... But I am still very sad and RN regret feelings has hit me very badly... I am feeling like a failure... Now I cannot even drop another year and prepare for entrance exam even better than last year... Because I know... No matter How much I try, I am never going to fulfil my dream... I am not eligible... This hopelessness feeling is pretty bad😭... All my friends have either gone too ahead of me or they are preparing again, so next year they will launch themselves cross me with very high speed....And I cant do anything but see😞
First of all sorry about that. If you still got a chance in that, I highly encourage you to try and go for it no matter how hard that may be. If it's yiur dream than it definitely will be worth the extra effort.
Also, you shouldn't care so much about where other people are at, including friends. Everyone has his own timeline. Good luck
The reason why i fear failure is bcoz i dont want to disappoint my father who has high expectations on me. Im the youngest child in the family and growing up, i always looked upto my siblings and their achievements always overshadowed me. Bcoz of that i always wanted to do better than them bcoz it felt like if i fail, no one will bother to listen to me. I felt unheard and unseen. That was why i tried to do better than them in everything.
I was never good at maths, but when my father asked me to do a degree which was full of maths, i didn't deny, in fear of disappointing him. I did great for the 1st 6 months, but unfortunately failed in one final exam. I dont know how to open up to my father and tell him that i failed. Im lost and confused. He is not strict, im sure he will not scold me or be mad at me, but he will be disappointed and that is breaking me.
Im not good in anything. I cant do any sport, im not an academic achiever either. I have no ambition, no hobby, no dream, nothing.
I am so useless, lost and confused
I get exactly how you feel. You aren’t alone ❤
On 30th june 2024,,
I relly feel like a failure,,,but I don't know the result yet.. still its a negative feeling .... I am going to go for a rather difficult option for the next year, this is what i thought .. but i feel scared,,, really scared,,, and its keeping me wide eyed awake ,,but i want to sleep ... I really want to succeed,,but its hurting,,failure is hurting me,,its mid of the night,,and i just dont know when i will sleep ....but i feel unachieved.....aahhh ,what should i do?? I m full of negative feelings now!!!! I really want to get rid of this feelings...
Here I'm after not get passed in my cma inter . I might cry but okay !
I just failed my organic chemistry paper, I was expecting it but I am just sad
I'm sorry about that.
I think I just failed a course. Haven’t got my marks back yet but I don’t think I passed. I am devastated. I am so depressed and anxious and I can’t imagine how I’m going to tell my parents
the same my friend. I failed too. Kind of depressed and sad. The awful thing is how I tell it to my parents. So sad. I lost interest to everything. If you wanna talk let me know
@@letusplayfootball5691 same both of you rip man, ill have to go to summer school
Wow😂I just simply told my parents I failed two classes and I’m on probation without any stress😂, and I formulate a plan for the second semester immediately bc I know where I did wrong 😂
@@Twodime4032 bro, im in probation too rn despite feeling like i did put more effort last sem😂😂 and my mom already freaked out and spurred out lots of insults and negative assumptions at me and i calmly denied it, but hey, it is what it is, ppl only see your results, not effort
Here i am planning my next move to be even better, i hate dwelling in sadness for too long, may both of us succeed
The Radtech exam result just came out and i failed for the second time. 😐
Burn down your bridges, so you have no other option but success, because if you failed, you have no place to go back. It's not a very good advice in my opinion.
Should I quit my job at the hospital I'm currently working at, take an unpaid internship, that is not guaranteed to help, so I can get a recommendation for the next entrance exam?
I don't think I can do that, I'm too much of a coward. Because if I fail again, what's next?
On the verge of failing 3 classes if a miracle does not happen right now, hopefully I can clutch up the final but it's not looking too good right now... imma need a morale booster cuz this the 3rd semester in a row I'm failing a class or struggling
You know I'm a lazy in study from start but I want to study but someone hope that I have to do what I don't want to do so I wasted 4 years now my future is no more and I don't want to live anymore 😢😢
I failed successfully 4 exams 😢 now I can do nothing , I lost confidence but I want to comback and make a great remontada
....*ok*
I thought I was the only one 😂😂😂
watching this while I have my 2 failing grades at my university and I'll be kicked out of my department. The option is to shift to another course to stay in this university or leave the University and pursue the same course. Feeling heavy.
just received a rejection letter from my dream school:/
Am sorry to hear that :(
@@samahraheem5256 thank you❤️ i'm better now, but it still hurts to see all my friends who got in:(
@@ruunaa0708 I felt the same too but my story is different.But I still understand how much it hurt right to see your friends got in right?
I failedd all myy quizes and activities. Im a failure even though i work hard for it in the end it nonless i don't get high scores😭😭😭😭and now
I want to give up
point start @8:00
I’m about to fail my msc econ degree 👍👍
Did you fail? I hope you made it through
@@user-kd5zg5ht2i nah failed, thanks though!
for some reason, he is not relatable at all.
I failed my German course. I mean I do feel sad but I don't want to tell my parents that I failed because they wasted a lot of money for this course and the thing is I did study a lot more than some of my friends that passed the test.
I failed one class in my last year of bachelors had to take it again next fall which made my 3 years degree a 4 year one. it didn't stop here I failed 3 classes now in my Maters and I live In Canada IDK if they will drop me out of the MA since I came here I started working a lot I would always be super tired I couldn't do both I had to listen to my parents and study more idk what I am doing now. Will they drop me out of the program ?? will all the money that my mm is actually indebted for go for nothing ? will I go back home or will I stay here ? I don't know I don't even know what to do with my life now I am just in my room and trying not to actually kill myself but I can't I need to give my mom her money first its around 30K cad or bit over ig. Well I really wish dead upon myself and idk if I should tell my mom or wait for the administration decision to take tell her..