LIfe After Failure | Evan Hansen | TEDxNorthCentralCollege
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- Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024
- What if failure wasn't the end of hope, but the beginning? Through a compelling personal story, Hansen describes an approach to success after failure that can often be overlooked.
Evan is a junior organizational communication major at North Central College.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
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I wonder there was a video about how to live as a failure Instead of how people can still succeed after failure.
I just want to know how can i just lead my life in failure
Hope carrot on a stick. Give up hoping I guess.
No! Don't fail! Also, failing isn't "failing for a whole lifetime". It's just the same as learning, or growing - a bumpy road. Failing does not say anything about who you are as a human being, as well. How we look at failure is what is important. Outwardly it can show what we did or didn't achieve or learn, yet inwardly, indefinitely we will learn what was important about those said failures. Maybe find strength in your "failing"
Rahma Darries I’ve basically been failing school for my whole life.. give me a reasons why I shouldn’t “kms”
I too was searching how to live and accept yourself as a failure...,....I belong to same category....
@@claynog101 Are you failing in highschool or college?
This was good! I wish it were a big longer, but I feel like at 21 years old he probably hasn't failed in a big enough way to be able to use it as an example. Especially not since he's already doing a Tedx Talk at that age!
I'm glad you liked it! I do wish that it was longer, I had so much more to say, but we were only allowed 3 minutes for this TEDx event. And I do agree with you that I still have many opportunities to fail, but I have had my fair share of failures in only 22 years.
This is the most useful ted talk I've heard. I recently realized that after 25 years i have failed at my life's dream. If that's not depressing enough, i failed others who needed me during that time. I was SHOCKED that i had hypnotized myself into thinking all was well while i was far from it. Then SHOCKED that everyone let me fail. Then, as if to kick me while i was down, i realized i had come up with insight, but wasn't taking my own advice. All this could be crippling, ready to throw in the towel but all i can say is I'm not dead yet. I hope to better myself. My new goal is to draw from the past without letting it draw from me. As PAINFUL as these realizations are, i am grateful to finally know the truth
@@mikeqeetus3215 such testament to the fact that life can't be avoided, shaped or shifted to be without failure - thanks! I'm 21 and reading/learning about how life is for some of us, given that stories are as honest and well as yours, so thank you.
Good point! Just shows how that “NO matter *how* far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience will benefit others”. See, I’ve failed personally. At 32, forced to rebuild a whole new life & make some painful changes. Was honestly hoping to hear a speech somewhat like my life story..
Rahma Darries same here
It is not failure that made me give up, it is the complete lack of success
Find smaller successes to go after
Sorry for the loss of his older brother. R.I.P. 💔
For everyone who is struggling and just can't find success in w.e. your doing. I just want yall to know that you are exactly where you are supposed to be. The more you fail, the better the reward will be when you finally succeed. Im starting to re-set my mindset, too. I just recently had to accept that I won't succeed in pursuing a certain dream. I have failed many times pursuing this dream and refused to give up. I recently started embracing the fact that it just wasn't meant for me. With that being said it isn't the end of the world for me. It just simply means that a new opportunity is around the corner for me. Till then, I look forward to failling again and again. WHEN I DO GET IT RIGHT, ILL LOOK FORWARD TO FAILING AGAIN 😊
We ARE defined by our failures. Some failures are near impossible to overcome.
You don’t need to know everything before you start. You don’t need to fear the lack of information. You simply have to start with something, which is your best judgement at that particular time. It is all about taking at least some action despite your fears. ha ha
I fail at everything I do. I can't do anything. I tried for four years composing a jazz song and there was many obstacles in my way. I know how I wanted it to sound in my mind but I just couldn't get it out. I tried writing the song out and failed. I have two supposedly friends that are professional musicians that didn't want to help me. They had every excuse in the book not to help. I tried one of those online hiring studio musicians sites and that flopped too. So as of today, I gave up. Too many obstacles and road blocks that stand in the way of something so simple as a song.
Composing probably needs some background knowledge. Maybe learn more and try again. RUclips is resource dense and will help you. Help comes in very ordinary ways, not only in the way we think ;)
p.s. i really love jazz by the way
@@rahmad4137 The problem is that I was born with a learning disability so I am very slow in learning and understanding things. I may even be autistic, I don't know, I've never been officially diagnosed.
@@JazzFan76 don't let yourself down regardless of what you may have been born with, also, you don't know for sure! Don't be in a hurry. Life is long enough for you to accomplish what you'd like to accomplish! One step at a time. One day at a time, you will make it :)
@@rahmad4137 I hope so although it's hard with depression. I just wish I could be where my friend is, he passed away four years ago. I miss him dearly.
@@JazzFan76 I'm sorry to hear this. A loss does hurt badly, and that which we can't change is hard for our hearts to learn to be peaceful about. But believe that even when you struggle or have pain, something will find it's way to you and change who you are at that time into who you can be when you face personal struggle at a different time. We secretly have our own inner strength that gets pushed away until you learn that it is really part of who you are inwardly and outwardly but this takes a lot of time :)
We are not defined by how we success, but how we fail.
*D E A R*
*ev an*
*H a n s e n*
Today is going to be a good day, and here's why...
The red balloon in the back made me think of pennywise 0_0
SookyBear369 Pennywise ate his brother.
You can overcome failure when you're young. Older than 50, though, and you don't have a chance.
How young? 30s?
i'm only 16 and don't have a lot of life experiences yet, but i think i have to disagree with you. being able to overcome failure has nothing to do with age. i know someone who eagerly shared how he got his Ph.D. at 70. this made me realize that setbacks do not matter. as long as you've still got the drive and motivation to pursue what you want, then there's always a chance.
His name is Evan Hansen and he's talking about failure? Amazing
I’ve been looking for this for so long. (Edit after 11 months): Not the best talk on failure. I expected him to talk about an analogy or to abstract something from psychology.
Which video do you suggest?
The rich will get EVEN richer from your failures.
Great video and awesome advice! Failure happens and it's perfectly okay! There is no perfect business, mistakes will be made and it will only help us learn, grow, and become better. Success comes with failure. Hope to see more inspiring content! :)
It is impossible to live without failing at something
I really wish I could believe everything he said.
@Michaell Alexander Why, what?
@Michaell Alexander Because everything that he said is not true. This Ted talk is a sham, it's naive, it's just not true. Failure does not sharpen you. It makes you worse. And his message is that it makes you better. I wish I could believe that. But it doesnt.
@Michaell Alexander Well, I'm sorry to hear that. Sincerely. And yes. I've been cursed with failure since the day I was born. I am never to achieve anything great and successful in life.
@Michaell Alexander Listen, I dont mean to be cruel or burst your bubble and oddly enough, I'm not trying to be nice or caring, be ause honestly, no one cares about me, so i dont care about anyone. So consider this a stranger's courtesy: forget school, university, college, whatever. They're a waste of money and they are no longer about education; they're about indoctrination. What I'd do, if I were you, is find you a damn good job and work your way up. And I'd find some sort of passion that would interest you like music or painting or carpentry, anything. School has lost its humanity. Take it from me, an English Major.
@Michaell Alexander Perhaps for you. I hold hope no longer. It's like holding dynamite. You hold it for too long and it hlows up in your face and makes it worse for you.
Btw, I happen to have a bachelors in English as well.
The fact that I'm a year away from my gcses and I'm getting lower than what I'm "supposed to be" makes me know I'm failing it and that it's too late to change that...
Anyone notice how the title is misspelled and that it says "LIfe", not "Life"
funny how the video is about failure and the title has a typo
I have failed, this didn't help
Leverage to strengthen resolve. One thing you are not weighing in, if you are addressing all people. Every day we each get older. Can you imagine lying in a hospital bed for 180 days straight? Can you imagine being driven to a mental breakdown when you were still relatively young, pumped full of RX meds that compromised your mind and a tribulation that obscures reality that lasts WELL OVER A DECADE?? I can. Then one day, I snapped out of it. I had to rise above the zombie state I was put in at the roots of betrayal by those I should have trusted with my life. Only when I did, it was too late. I realized I was old, tired and physically sick now. Your strategy may work for the young. Some of us though were robbed of our youth and can NEVER have it back. Never experience peace. Never experience happiness and we also have the privelidge of knowing that the worst is yet to come. Not getting even a fraction of what we want out of life is the least of our problems. Poverty, homelessness and a society that would rather shun than help is what we have to look forward to. Sure, we are in charge of our own destiny. What don't kill us makes us STRONGER right? If that is true then there can be NO margin for error on OUR part as individuals. I have already made that error, by trusting other people.
Well i wish i could say something nice but... Truth is that for a lot of people cinderella farytale ends at the beginig without ball or magic. That is what you get from happy ending. It is not faire but it is real. I wish you well.🙂
I have a wish to visit Newyork once in a life. But I'm helpless
I am grateful for the life
Am passing an exam for the second and last time so i can change a job that really bothers me...... A month before the exam am depressed and i m starting to see faillure.... So am hear to prepare my self for it 😓😓😓😓😓😓😓
Failure isn't the end of everything. You will and always will be bigger than any failure can ever be, simply because you are human! All the best with the prep. You can do this and you are wiser and smarter than you believe.
@@rahmad4137 thank you for your kindness ❤️
Man says words that make no fooking sense and a room full of people clap for him like trained seals🤦
When I saw the length of the video, I expected it to sum it up there is no life after failure... But it was a good speech
I failed in high School 2 times and university 2 times
Thank you 💙
Great job, Evan!!
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I failed to make it to state my senior year is that still ok no I'm heartbroken because I always wanted to go to state and I got third at districts and I was absolutely heartbroken
Tell me now, how I should feel.
Is there anybody who motivates me
I really need it 🥺
It will all be ok. Sooner or later. Just be patient and strong. You will make it.😊😊💪💪
Thanks ❤️
Now everything is okay !
Wait this dude's name is literally Evan Hansen
Needed this!!!!
It is best to give up on life. I tried suicide once but turns out I failed. Because of my parents who prevent me from doing it.
I failed to score a penalty so I watch this video😩
I wish I died during childbirth.
Am a bit tired world
Another motivational video:
Me: 😐
Too young to have me believe u know
how you got paid to do this is beyond me.
I don’t like these young people talking about failure - they haven’t really suffered real losses and have years to make it up. Not impressed. Show me someone on their sixties that lost it all and bounced back - that would be impressive. This guy does not really have a lot of real life experiences.
Go look at the life of Anthony Hopkins if you're looking for that type of story
Fear of failure is what has made great men great
I think it's actually the opposite.
Totaly wrong