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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2017
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Комментарии • 95

  • @Kovukingsrod
    @Kovukingsrod 6 лет назад +60

    This video is making me excited haha

    • @asher6531
      @asher6531 6 лет назад +7

      Same, I’m so happy for him and I want top surgery haha. Also I love your channel Kovu!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +7

      tbh every time I record something about it I get more excited too

  • @kalebrider1897
    @kalebrider1897 6 лет назад +15

    Your comment about being trans and still liking glitter and traditionally feminine things really got to me. I have been dealing with a lot of self-doubt due to my mother doubting me, but watching your videos is always reassuring.

  • @toastghost1297
    @toastghost1297 6 лет назад +26

    MY DUDE I'M SO EXCITED FOR YOU

  • @stinkylittleman709
    @stinkylittleman709 6 лет назад +25

    I would not wear a bra, because I figured "Hey, boys don't have to wear bras, so I won't either." Now I can't go anywhere without feeling uncomfortable if im not wearing one. I don't think I need a binder yet, but I would probably feel more comfortable. Also, I relate to the hugging thing. Have a good day!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +7

      yeah I feel you. try finding a good sports bra, they’re compressing but more comfortable and easier to get your parents to be okay with :)

  • @melonbinch6911
    @melonbinch6911 6 лет назад +11

    I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!🎉🎊🎉🎊 **single tear** Our baby boy is a man now...

  • @chemicalseh6014
    @chemicalseh6014 6 лет назад +16

    This is a so big step for you, congratulations and I wish you will heal fast! be happy with yourself, Ash! you are a great human, and this world is lucky to have you.

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +1

      aaaaaaaa shh that makes me so happy thank you so much 💖

  • @dhxjwkzl6307
    @dhxjwkzl6307 6 лет назад +16

    Your voice is soooo much deeper

  • @teethandbones888
    @teethandbones888 6 лет назад +32

    I WANT MY CHEST TO JUST FALL OFF 😔

    • @tyler439
      @tyler439 6 лет назад

      same

    • @SkzCarteruwu
      @SkzCarteruwu 6 лет назад

      Same ;.;

    • @nickolas361
      @nickolas361 6 лет назад +1

      Kai QueerBear same dude

    • @n.c.435
      @n.c.435 6 лет назад +1

      Jack Fowler5 try to....... stop........ puberty?? im confused

    • @n.c.435
      @n.c.435 6 лет назад +1

      Jack Fowler5 sadly most trans people can't get them :'(

  • @alexanderfool7510
    @alexanderfool7510 6 лет назад +14

    Why tf is he so fucking cute?

  • @NickBrownsubscribe
    @NickBrownsubscribe 6 лет назад +3

    We have a lot in common. I'm 5'3 and have a naturally large chest because of my unfortunate genes. I can't bind for long because I'm severely asthmatic. Even when I bind I get bad dysphoria because no binder can compress my chest enough for me to pass as well as I want to. I've had countless breakdowns over chest dysphoria alone. Then there's my voice, hips and the shape of my face. I'm 16 and I've not been able to start T yet but have an appointment coming up at the gender clinic. Honestly living for the day I can take hormones and eventually get surgery

  • @Georgina0404
    @Georgina0404 6 лет назад +6

    IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!

  • @hayleyrosewall1095
    @hayleyrosewall1095 6 лет назад +3

    i’m so happy for you and excited. i wish you a speedy and full recovery and a bit less dysphoria. watching you has been super inspiring as a trans male who hasn’t been able to transition in the way that would make me company. good luck, ily❤️❤️

  • @kryldon8146
    @kryldon8146 6 лет назад +4

    Aahhh, I've been following your channel for so long and I'm unbelievably excited for you. :,) I cannot wait to get top surgery myself. I hope the surgery and healing go wonderfully, and I hope you're perfectly satisfied with the result. We'll be with you all the way, Ashton!

  • @derekgrant3501
    @derekgrant3501 6 лет назад +3

    OMG YOU'RE IN MARCHING BAND!!! What instrument do you play?? Ahhhh you look wonderful I'm so excited for you Ashton

  • @lewysf8705
    @lewysf8705 6 лет назад +4

    Woaaah super congrats!!!

  • @mlem.2026
    @mlem.2026 6 лет назад +4

    AaaaAAAAAaaaaaah, im so happy for youuuuu 😊😊😊

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon 6 лет назад +1

    I had those nightmares too. Internet hugs!! I don't have the money to get rid of my chesticles. I'm huge also, I'm 5' 2" was a 32 DDD. They only gave me a REDUCTION, not complete removal because my insurance didn't cover it. I would give ANYTHING to get it all gone 34 DD now since.i gained more weight, I NEED THEM GONE. I hope you can get what I can't! Please enjoy it for me if you get that far!!!!

  • @cottontaelle
    @cottontaelle 6 лет назад +2

    I'm so happy for you!!!!!!!! aaaaa!!!!! I'm planning on getting top surgery but I'm a baby enby who's still closeted

  • @LoxiDays33
    @LoxiDays33 6 лет назад +1

    Duuuude that's amazing!! 🎉🎉 I'm so happy for you 😊 Best wishes

  • @KoleCook
    @KoleCook 6 лет назад +1

    So proud

  • @rory5586
    @rory5586 6 лет назад +6

    I just call my chest my "pectoral muscles".

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +9

      hell yeah we just have giant strong pecs

  • @phansplierismyreligion6866
    @phansplierismyreligion6866 6 лет назад +1

    I'm so fucking proud of you dude. congrats ♡

  • @arloe6737
    @arloe6737 6 лет назад

    Congratulations!!! I’m really happy for you!! I hope it goes well! Take as long as you need to heal and don’t worry about making videos of anything. I’m terrified of surgery so I probably won’t be getting top surgery myself, but I’m extremely happy for you!

  • @teesmith3460
    @teesmith3460 6 лет назад +2

    So excited for you ❤❤

  • @ThumbToeShow
    @ThumbToeShow 6 лет назад +2

    Love the MCR flag. This was a really insightful video. I also had bra nightmares OMG! I had a dream that one was chasing me and like dragging my chest down into like this sinking pit! I also used to wear 2 sports bras that were a size too small. I was also a large C/small D and I have asthma. The binding struggle was real. I had migraines and bruising and it was the worst. I went to see Fall Out Boy while binding and felt like I was gonna die and then saw Maraiana's Trench and almost fainted. I am almost a year post op and it has been the most freeing part of my transition. Happy it's "off mah chest" (sorry had to). Hugging is much better now :) -Thumb

  • @ashton8289
    @ashton8289 6 лет назад +2

    I feel you about the bra thing. I’m 15 and I got top surgery three days ago, but when I was 5th-7th grade, I would refuse to wear a bra and I hated my chest and would wear clothes that made my chest look flat. When I was in between 7th-8th I tried to be more “normal” and wear a bra but when I realized I was trans in the beginning of 8th I bound my chest ever since. Right now I’m about to be a sophomore for comparison

    • @ricky5505
      @ricky5505 Год назад

      That "doctor" should be arrested.

  • @-amanda-7993
    @-amanda-7993 6 лет назад

    IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU AHH I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL GOOD LUCK MY DUDE

  • @migratory.114
    @migratory.114 6 лет назад

    i am so excited for u ashton!!!!!!!! i luv u and wish u happiness!
    please get well soon. ur subscribers' band is always with u
    like really, im so happy for u as if i am getting this surgery!
    take care, ash ♥

  • @rowynn3445
    @rowynn3445 6 лет назад

    Yaay another video!!

  • @jacksontaylor3205
    @jacksontaylor3205 6 лет назад

    YES I’m so excited. I can’t wait to see your results video!

  • @rory5586
    @rory5586 6 лет назад

    I'm so fucking pumped.

  • @Jack-xn6jm
    @Jack-xn6jm 6 лет назад +1

    Yay I'm so happy for you!!!!!

  • @nimosound3159
    @nimosound3159 6 лет назад +2

    EXCITING TIMES!!!!

  • @PeachyRambles
    @PeachyRambles 6 лет назад

    I AM EXCITED

  • @mikeygleason9878
    @mikeygleason9878 6 лет назад +1

    Your gonna love it i just had mine done Wednesday if you wanna chat im here

  • @Frisktacular
    @Frisktacular 6 лет назад

    IM SO EXCITED FOR U AAA

  • @xaraxchnidx
    @xaraxchnidx 6 лет назад +2

    Omg I am so freaking excited for you!!! Good luck. (Oh btw I’m nonbinary, and I bind. I’m WAY too young for top surgery, but in the future could I get approved for top surgery if I’m not a guy, and do not want to go on T, but I currently am on Loupron?)

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +2

      You absolutely could :) check out Celeste M, they went on T for a few months and then stopped T, and they got top surgery two months ago!!

    • @CelesteM
      @CelesteM 6 лет назад

      ❤️

  • @ashtontrimmer9424
    @ashtontrimmer9424 6 лет назад

    Omg I’m so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @madisonklein2617
    @madisonklein2617 6 лет назад

    Ahhhh I'm so excited for you!!!

  • @creating.casper
    @creating.casper 6 лет назад

    Dude, this is great! So happy for you

  • @420jerm
    @420jerm 6 лет назад

    ( . Y . ) =BAD | . . | =GOOD. congratulashton on top surgery

  • @pxtxrparkxrcos2172
    @pxtxrparkxrcos2172 6 лет назад

    Im so excited for you!!!

  • @crunchyjellocomics397
    @crunchyjellocomics397 6 лет назад

    I bet the days are going by quick

  • @teethandbones888
    @teethandbones888 6 лет назад +1

    My dad does not support me what so ever... but my mom does ...how do I get started on my way to T and top surgery do both of my parents have to approve?

    • @nickolas361
      @nickolas361 6 лет назад +1

      Kai QueerBear if u wanna talk about some trans stuff u can dm me on Instagram @mon.moonie (-I'm trans as well and I'm also on the beginning of my transition)

  • @brooklynbarrett8042
    @brooklynbarrett8042 6 лет назад

    I wish you the best of luck❤️

  • @asher6531
    @asher6531 6 лет назад +1

    Once you get Top Surgery, maybe you can give away your binders? Just an idea, love the video by the way!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +2

      I’m planning on it!! I just gotta figure out logistics :)

  • @jedipikachu254
    @jedipikachu254 6 лет назад +4

    Have you been thinking about bottom surgery? Or at least getting something to stop a period?

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +6

      I’m not comfy with the current procedures for bottom surgery, and I’m not all that dysphoric about my genitals in the first place, so no on that. T is supposed to stop my period it just hasn’t yet.

    • @jedipikachu254
      @jedipikachu254 6 лет назад +1

      Ashton Daniel, Wow... I never thought you would reply... I love watching ur vids on your life stories, so far I can pick out a lot of things that connects to me. I was especially happy about seeing another (proud) Canadian, just like me, on RUclips...

  • @junoroark3184
    @junoroark3184 6 лет назад +2

    i know you dont but i really like your hair

  • @mrlynx68
    @mrlynx68 2 года назад +1

    How long did it take you once you found a surgeon? I’m planning on top surgery when I’m 17 and I heard some people say it takes 0.5-1 years I can not wait untill I’m 18 so should I start the process now? Or is it okay to wait untill 4 ish months before my bday?

    • @mrlynx68
      @mrlynx68 2 года назад

      Pls reply if anyone knows!!

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  2 года назад

      it really depends on your surgeon and how long their waiting list is. that’s definitely smth most offices should be able to answer if you can call them!

    • @mrlynx68
      @mrlynx68 2 года назад

      @@graveyardpansy how was ur experience?

  • @otaku5869
    @otaku5869 6 лет назад

    I'm not trans, but i don't want boobs either. They are just uncomfortable and i hate wearing a braw. Not getting surgery, but hopefylly losing some weight would make them smaller where i can just go out without a braw.

  • @mikeygleason9878
    @mikeygleason9878 6 лет назад

    Im not gonna lie this binder after waking up hurts its super tight just a heads up

  • @alanahiguess929
    @alanahiguess929 6 лет назад

    Me too. You’re lucky you’re getting surgery

  • @DigitalMonster
    @DigitalMonster 6 лет назад

    I live in Florida and have state insurance and _surprise surprise_ because its the south it doesn't cover top surgery. Hormones, but not surgery.
    We're lucky to even have that.
    And the only surgeons in Florida who perform surgeries on minors don't take insurance period. Kill me.
    I'm happy and excited for you though! I can't wait to see you be finally happy.

  • @SketchyRaven
    @SketchyRaven 6 лет назад

    ..my chest is still growing but it's not that fast. I am pretty sure when I NOTICED my chest getting bigger was when I needed extra padding to feel comfortable in a sports bra.

  • @crab2731
    @crab2731 6 лет назад

    sorry i havent watched one of your videos since the stim toy collection so why is your voice different

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад

      Because testosterone makes your voice drop

  • @PedaleDouce
    @PedaleDouce 6 лет назад

    your voice is going down so much now x) also i'm so excited for you with the surgery coming soon. Enjoy your new bra-free life :)

  • @everlastingflames
    @everlastingflames 6 лет назад

    TOMORROW OR MAYBE TODAY ????

  • @yeiiid6633
    @yeiiid6633 6 лет назад +7

    The first time i watched one of your videos i thought that you were a feminine man lol

    • @graveyardpansy
      @graveyardpansy  6 лет назад +16

      I mean, I am a feminine man.

    • @jedipikachu254
      @jedipikachu254 6 лет назад +1

      I am Jade that is not so much a joke it is a true fact just like Ashton said in his reply

    • @noahlutz3870
      @noahlutz3870 6 лет назад +1

      i thought he was a butch lesbian xD

    • @jedipikachu254
      @jedipikachu254 6 лет назад

      noah lutz, yo don’t go so far he is changing his life to be someone who he is comfortable with and don’t disrespect that

    • @yeiiid6633
      @yeiiid6633 6 лет назад

      Ashton Daniel yeah, i said it cause on the video you mentioned that people always see you in the masculine woman side rather than the feminine male side and that's not true, i didn't see you that way.

  • @tyler439
    @tyler439 6 лет назад

    s.a.m.E

  • @JacksonFM-ft9xc
    @JacksonFM-ft9xc 6 лет назад

    Do you have any siblings? I so what do that think I you being trans? Ps I’m also trans meh dude

  • @sethturner9727
    @sethturner9727 6 лет назад +1

    Sup baby

  • @rubbiisgems5820
    @rubbiisgems5820 6 лет назад

    I hate bras and for along time I didn't wear bras I hated it so much I hate my boobs I don't want boobs