Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Great video. Sad reality when being abusive to a woman still garners her respect and enough attraction to override a good man making a few mistakes and vacillating between his feminine and masculine essence. Isn’t that interesting.
... yep, in this case though, the warnings signs were all there: She was raised by a present, yet distant father, only to then marry a distant, UN-doting husband who took her for granted. That's what she is use too... which is why she doesn't get turned on by the sincere, doting and semi-emotional new guy. And she never will. The new guy either needs to go brute-force, and be the kind of man her father was, OR walk away.
You're taking about 2 very specific types of women dude. Normal and healthy women don't stay in or put up with abusive men, period. A women who gets turned off from a guy getting retarded and unattractive is inevitable. God forbid each person has a complex life.
I think the issue is for a lot of men, including myself, is just speaking up and speaking your mind because that’s masculine too. it’s a leadership quality putting your foot down setting the boundary. He’s not doing that.
I’m on my third date! With the same girl!! Wow honestly I’ve been applying everything you teach in your book and it’s been helping me so much, I lost my V card recently because of your help haha.
With all due respect, that’s such a red pill thing to say and it’s really ignorant, why would you have to take care of her children? That is your decision to make, you’re not forced to do any of that, I’ve dated women with children and guess what? I don’t take care of their kids, they do! You can date a woman who is single and has children and still lay down boundaries, at best you would be an older mentor and that’s it, your red pill and you’re actually buying into it, stop doing that.
most time a woman is wishy washy with me or i see less interest , i just drop them. I admit it does hurt a little but i always choose myself first and i have pride and respect and i refuse to put myself in any compromised postion. i simply just drop out of the "relationship" i trained myself over the years to not put women first but myself first (repectfully of course to everyone involved) and when i did that i started meeting even more women. funny how that works and happened
18:59 she's still married AND has no plans on a divorce anytime soon. Yes, wash your hands of her. Walk away and never look back. If she's will to see other people while still married and living with her husband she's a trainwreck. And your Collateral damage if you think she's a keeper.
Dude should just let her come to him , especially after that date where she acted indifferent towards him. I've delt with that before and the best thing to do is just let her do all of the pursuing because if she like you she will be back and if not f*** her.
I don’t buy into a lot of the “Red Pill” ideology but I have dated a single mom before and as a man without kids it definitely never worth the trouble and hassle. Why put yourself into a situation that could be filled with drama.
It's rare that you find a single mom who hasn't been through a traumatic experience. But there are some out there who are very well-adjusted. It's usually very blatantly obvious.
Seven years ago I dated one, turned out her ex husband had sexually abused their son. Terrible, but, no point getting yourself involved in all of that.
Childless guy here and yeah I’ve dated several single mothers before and it was inviting a lot of stress n drama to my life that I didn’t need nor want. That said once you hit 30-35 the odds of you finding a somewhat attractive, sane childless woman in your age range is slim.
I agree, even if your relationship is going well, and you're getting along with her kid/s, she almost always is going to have issues with her baby daddy.
This video came along at a good time. I've been dating a woman since Labor Day weekend. It's been a great experience getting to know her. Easy-going, feminine, fun, sexual. We agreed to be exclusive just before November. A week and a half ago it was our first date in 2 weeks due to conflicting schedules. That night, she labeled me as her boyfriend for the first time. The week leading up she told me how much she was missing me, almost daily. Since that date, I've not heard she misses me, and in the last few days I noticed I have been the first to reach out to her in the morning. She broke our date to a party this past Saturday as she was sick all week. Ended up being a good thing because I was able to enjoy myself at the party with my friends, and not worry about whether she was having fun. That said, it's the 2nd broken plans by her in the last 2 weeks. I think I'm going to hold off initiating plans with her this coming weekend, until she brings it up. We're both kid free, there'd be no reason to not see each other once before the holiday.
She's flaked on you twice already? Stop calling or texting. Let her contact you. When she does, ask her to get together. If she cancels again, let her go and start dating other women. In fact, start dating other women now.
Corey allows the principles of attraction to guide his coaching. Very rational. I recommend people to Corey constantly. Why is this man not over 1mil in subscribers?!
Hail to your content and to your efforts in repairing the dating dynamic Corey! I love it, and wish that it was orientation curriculum in high school even 😂 -signed a "trapped" newlywed 😭
Hubby still has access. Therefore hubby still taps. Seems she likes volatility and high emotion, among other things. Stop being Capn’ Save ‘Em and drop this drama queen.
It is a bad idea to try to rip off a dude's wife even if she left the husband before she gets divorced. It is not an issue with single moms but with women who are still married or have boyfriends who are trying to monkey branch. The woman would do the same thing to the guy that she monkey branches to if he messes up instead of pointing out the mess up so he could correct it. These are not the type of women that I would want to date or be in a relationship with
Corey. Been with you a long time. All worked as written. I am now single again but going to be 69 in Feb. Wow. Women are so different. Many umbarrased to be seen naked. They don't move the same. Testing is different when it's the last chance they can take. One bad relationship from 74 and single. It's not pretty Corey. Help. Semper fi
I’d be fine being alone than playing games like this. Some of these women, they’re just too screwed up upstairs. She can’t decide, and he has to pretend he’s somebody he’s not to win her over. None of its worth it. There’s a reason she’s getting divorced. The older I get, the less patience I have which is great. This woman isn’t grateful. Let her be alone or with her ex husband. Move on
I'll work on understanding women but I'm working my way up to it. I decided to start with something easier, differential calculus. Once I have that one, I'll do a few tricks like solving string theory and the theory of relativity. Then I MIGHT be up to trying to figure out women.
I dated a girlfriend with one kid, problem started after 6months, i found out that she is still with her baby daddy, and she wanted me to commit to her, it never worked but i took my attention away till today,when she realize that i am not giving her attention and i don't communicate at all. She was busy telling me, i am a bad communicator and i kept on telling her,i won't drop my job during the day and focus on talking to her.
I don't care what kind of a pill you like to swallow, mother will always choose her kid over any husband/fiancé/husband/mother/actor. That's called mother instinct nothing new.
I don’t care how much you like a woman or how much you love her, you have to be willing to walk away, that gives you the indifference not too over pursue, and look like a slave or a joy boy I have found out in my own experiences, that differences a powerful tool, they don’t wanna talk to you anymore? No worries see you later, they want to take a break from dating you? No worries, see you later, we have to watch the other other thin line between indifference and being an ass! You have to know the difference.
I love your channel you're the best hands down. No comparison.. my only issue overall with relationships is that open relationships are the most unconditional and monogamy is bad in the long run it isn't healthy and even influences and hurts people's ability to be their authentic self if I'm not mistaking . Correct me if wrong. If you can't , nobody cant. I believe in you that much . If you can't have a healthy open relationship you will not have truly healthy monogamous relationships. Love you .. you're still the only coach I recommend and nobody matches up to you. Everyone who doesn't know your shit suffers because of it.
@@brianmeen2158 Lots of people don't realize how the dating game has changed. These young women only want the top guys. Coach's techniques are useful, but I believe they have to be adapted to fit the modern dating landscape.
Corey keeps saying the lady’s husband is a real man. A real man doesn’t call the mother of his children a whore or have her fear him. That man is a tnuc.
From an objective viewpoint, this dude has no business chasing after a single mother whose life is a total mess. But those love chemicals are a hell of a drug.
@@RarelyCheck It’s the ultimate form of disrespect to the husband. It seems like Corey has some bias on this video. Maybe his ex wife cheated on him and he wants to think that she still respected him.
Why do guys want to complicate their lives dating a sigle mother? Just don't do it, leave them alone. Sure, some simp will come around and will take care of all the bagge a single mother has with her, but let it be other guy, not you...,be smart
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
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@@PeterrJwoww yes this exact comment has been posted on videos that have nothing to do with relationships lmao
Sucks man, any update a month with how you feel and your situation a month later?
Great video.
Sad reality when being abusive to a woman still garners her respect and enough attraction to override a good man making a few mistakes and vacillating between his feminine and masculine essence.
Isn’t that interesting.
... yep, in this case though, the warnings signs were all there:
She was raised by a present, yet distant father, only to then marry a distant, UN-doting husband who took her for granted.
That's what she is use too... which is why she doesn't get turned on by the sincere, doting and semi-emotional new guy.
And she never will.
The new guy either needs to go brute-force, and be the kind of man her father was, OR walk away.
She's damaged goods, shouldn't of let her through the front door, let alone introduce her to his kids
You're taking about 2 very specific types of women dude. Normal and healthy women don't stay in or put up with abusive men, period. A women who gets turned off from a guy getting retarded and unattractive is inevitable. God forbid each person has a complex life.
Gotta find the attraction style that suits your needs, not lust after her persona(s) or body
That's only if she's a broken woman.
I think the issue is for a lot of men, including myself, is just speaking up and speaking your mind because that’s masculine too. it’s a leadership quality putting your foot down setting the boundary. He’s not doing that.
First 🎉 I just put my two teenage nephews on coach Corey Wayne
I’m on my third date! With the same girl!! Wow honestly I’ve been applying everything you teach in your book and it’s been helping me so much, I lost my V card recently because of your help haha.
@@RarelyCheck 100% this is very true
I dealt with this identical scenario 2 years ago...........RUN!!!!!!!
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How was it identical? I might be in a similar situation, and I think I need to bail.
Why I love Corey’s videos is because he tells you exactly how it is and does not sugar coat it he gives you the business and that’s what you need.
Right on! He is very refreshing in that way.
First red flag on my ideal woman list is no kids i would rather be single than take care of someone else child you feel me guys?💪💪💪
Yep, you don't wanna play another man's saved game. 💯
With all due respect, that’s such a red pill thing to say and it’s really ignorant, why would you have to take care of her children? That is your decision to make, you’re not forced to do any of that, I’ve dated women with children and guess what? I don’t take care of their kids, they do! You can date a woman who is single and has children and still lay down boundaries, at best you would be an older mentor and that’s it, your red pill and you’re actually buying into it, stop doing that.
@@CaptainAngelo she is going to subconsciously expect that, and if you do not step up, you will be replaced.
@@siegfriedoNope! You set those boundaries on day 1!!! It’s called communication.
most time a woman is wishy washy with me or i see less interest , i just drop them. I admit it does hurt a little but i always choose myself first and i have pride and respect and i refuse to put myself in any compromised postion. i simply just drop out of the "relationship" i trained myself over the years to not put women first but myself first (repectfully of course to everyone involved) and when i did that i started meeting even more women. funny how that works and happened
18:59 she's still married AND has no plans on a divorce anytime soon. Yes, wash your hands of her. Walk away and never look back. If she's will to see other people while still married and living with her husband she's a trainwreck. And your Collateral damage if you think she's a keeper.
you say it so well sometimes Corey, I wish more men saw your videos and read your books
Sadly, they rather whine and cry about their incompetence. About 97% of men to be exact.
@Frank.Melendrez 97% are currently crying on RUclips and instagram about women 😂
Dude should just let her come to him , especially after that date where she acted indifferent towards him. I've delt with that before and the best thing to do is just let her do all of the pursuing because if she like you she will be back and if not f*** her.
Ty coach we love you
I don’t buy into a lot of the “Red Pill” ideology but I have dated a single mom before and as a man without kids it definitely never worth the trouble and hassle. Why put yourself into a situation that could be filled with drama.
It's rare that you find a single mom who hasn't been through a traumatic experience. But there are some out there who are very well-adjusted. It's usually very blatantly obvious.
Seven years ago I dated one, turned out her ex husband had sexually abused their son.
Terrible, but, no point getting yourself involved in all of that.
Childless guy here and yeah I’ve dated several single mothers before and it was inviting a lot of stress n drama to my life that I didn’t need nor want. That said once you hit 30-35 the odds of you finding a somewhat attractive, sane childless woman in your age range is slim.
Single mom is one of the worst dating materials out there, together with hookers, junkies and pathological liars. Avoid it like a plague.
I agree, even if your relationship is going well, and you're getting along with her kid/s, she almost always is going to have issues with her baby daddy.
Thank you for making this second video after I emailed you coach. This helped me alot.
This video came along at a good time. I've been dating a woman since Labor Day weekend. It's been a great experience getting to know her. Easy-going, feminine, fun, sexual. We agreed to be exclusive just before November. A week and a half ago it was our first date in 2 weeks due to conflicting schedules. That night, she labeled me as her boyfriend for the first time. The week leading up she told me how much she was missing me, almost daily. Since that date, I've not heard she misses me, and in the last few days I noticed I have been the first to reach out to her in the morning. She broke our date to a party this past Saturday as she was sick all week. Ended up being a good thing because I was able to enjoy myself at the party with my friends, and not worry about whether she was having fun. That said, it's the 2nd broken plans by her in the last 2 weeks. I think I'm going to hold off initiating plans with her this coming weekend, until she brings it up. We're both kid free, there'd be no reason to not see each other once before the holiday.
Congratulations you over pursued and chased her out of your life
She's flaked on you twice already? Stop calling or texting. Let her contact you. When she does, ask her to get together. If she cancels again, let her go and start dating other women. In fact, start dating other women now.
There is another guy...
@@raulyaeger Agreed
Damn. You kept reaching out to her in the morning following your last date. Over pursuing.
Corey allows the principles of attraction to guide his coaching. Very rational. I recommend people to Corey constantly. Why is this man not over 1mil in subscribers?!
Maybe they don't want to be a 3% man
Single mom or not, you have to let a woman chase you.
Any tips?
Hail to your content and to your efforts in repairing the dating dynamic Corey! I love it, and wish that it was orientation curriculum in high school even 😂 -signed a "trapped" newlywed 😭
Been there before. Tread slowly and know when to leave for good 🤔🧐.
Hubby still has access. Therefore hubby still taps. Seems she likes volatility and high emotion, among other things. Stop being Capn’ Save ‘Em and drop this drama queen.
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Amazing how you create nearly everyday. Legend Wayne 👑
It is a bad idea to try to rip off a dude's wife even if she left the husband before she gets divorced. It is not an issue with single moms but with women who are still married or have boyfriends who are trying to monkey branch. The woman would do the same thing to the guy that she monkey branches to if he messes up instead of pointing out the mess up so he could correct it. These are not the type of women that I would want to date or be in a relationship with
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My advice.
He needs to let her go and find someone else this scenario is doomed from the start
Husband is still smashing... ..
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I really appreciate these deeper discussions. Thanks Corey
It’s also her avoidant behavior. It does not necessarily mean he is over pursuing. Even a man in his center can experience this all the time.
Corey. Been with you a long time. All worked as written. I am now single again but going to be 69 in Feb. Wow. Women are so different. Many umbarrased to be seen naked. They don't move the same. Testing is different when it's the last chance they can take. One bad relationship from 74 and single. It's not pretty Corey.
Help.
Semper fi
So glad I found Corey.
I’d be fine being alone than playing games like this. Some of these women, they’re just too screwed up upstairs. She can’t decide, and he has to pretend he’s somebody he’s not to win her over. None of its worth it. There’s a reason she’s getting divorced. The older I get, the less patience I have which is great. This woman isn’t grateful. Let her be alone or with her ex husband. Move on
I hope you had a great xmas coach corey...
I'll work on understanding women but I'm working my way up to it. I decided to start with something easier, differential calculus. Once I have that one, I'll do a few tricks like solving string theory and the theory of relativity. Then I MIGHT be up to trying to figure out women.
I dated a girlfriend with one kid, problem started after 6months, i found out that she is still with her baby daddy, and she wanted me to commit to her, it never worked but i took my attention away till today,when she realize that i am not giving her attention and i don't communicate at all. She was busy telling me, i am a bad communicator and i kept on telling her,i won't drop my job during the day and focus on talking to her.
😂😂😂😂facts
thanks man, golden
15:30 Dude, that "Duh." 😂
"I forgot to mention she has a husband " sounds like famous last words of a fool.
I don't care what kind of a pill you like to swallow, mother will always choose her kid over any husband/fiancé/husband/mother/actor. That's called mother instinct nothing new.
Did you never hear about women leaving their family to be with a guy? It happens frequently.
Never do that fellas
LISTEN WITH YOUR EARS TO THE COACH AND READ THE BOOK 10-15 time. I always enjoy hearing your newsletter/emails.
Dude, let it go and run!
I don’t care how much you like a woman or how much you love her, you have to be willing to walk away, that gives you the indifference not too over pursue, and look like a slave or a joy boy I have found out in my own experiences, that differences a powerful tool, they don’t wanna talk to you anymore? No worries see you later, they want to take a break from dating you? No worries, see you later, we have to watch the other other thin line between indifference and being an ass! You have to know the difference.
I never understand these guys that bring damaged women around their children. If you can't protect your kids how are you going to protect a woman
I hate the word "irregardless" with passion... XD
I love your channel you're the best hands down. No comparison.. my only issue overall with relationships is that open relationships are the most unconditional and monogamy is bad in the long run it isn't healthy and even influences and hurts people's ability to be their authentic self if I'm not mistaking . Correct me if wrong. If you can't , nobody cant. I believe in you that much . If you can't have a healthy open relationship you will not have truly healthy monogamous relationships. Love you .. you're still the only coach I recommend and nobody matches up to you. Everyone who doesn't know your shit suffers because of it.
True, but I know of only a small number handful like C.W.
Some of the red pill guys have good content. I don't know who he's referring to.
I’d say 60-70% of the red pill stuff is right on the money but the other 30% is almost counter productive
@@brianmeen2158 Lots of people don't realize how the dating game has changed. These young women only want the top guys. Coach's techniques are useful, but I believe they have to be adapted to fit the modern dating landscape.
Elvis has left the buidling lol
She’s lying. She’s not getting a divorce and has no plan to. This dude is her side piece and nothing more.
Love you corey
What did J-Cole say again? Oh yeah, "Don't save her she dont want to be saved." hahaha
Corey keeps saying the lady’s husband is a real man. A real man doesn’t call the mother of his children a whore or have her fear him. That man is a tnuc.
From an objective viewpoint, this dude has no business chasing after a single mother whose life is a total mess. But those love chemicals are a hell of a drug.
It doesn’t sound like he did a lot wrong tbh. The lady is just indecisive which he should have noticed
Coach Corey "WHHHEEEEIIINNN"
She respects the husband but she is sleeping around while still married? That doesn’t make much sense
@@RarelyCheck It’s the ultimate form of disrespect to the husband. It seems like Corey has some bias on this video. Maybe his ex wife cheated on him and he wants to think that she still respected him.
I had a feeling this video would trigger the RedPill whinny guys 😂 SMH. Oh well, the book is titled 3% Man for a reason.
Become a better man fellas
NEVER DATE OR GET INVOLVED WITH A SINGLE MOTHER. PERIOD!
Man, just start dating other women and when she wants to come by, let her.
Why do guys want to complicate their lives dating a sigle mother?
Just don't do it, leave them alone. Sure, some simp will come around and will take care of all the bagge a single mother has with her, but let it be other guy, not you...,be smart
Men should only date single mothers who are widows and he's a widower.
Dopey 😂😂
men understand women? i think i,d better read the book 10 to 15 times, coz i can understand em! lol
No self discipline