Super Empath vs Greater Narcissist: Shocking Insights from a Real Narcissist Inside! [Exclusive]
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- Опубликовано: 26 июн 2021
- Are you a super empath? Are you dealing with a greater narcissist?
There are few pairs of people that can spark a chemistry that is so intoxicating, it can feel like an addiction, than a super empath and a narcissist.
When their worlds collide, the super empath’s kindhearted and giving nature, paired with the narcissist’s love bombs of grand romantic gestures and empty promises, their romance can be described as a whirlwind of lust and passion.
However, once the initial attraction and love bombing phase has ended, the couple will find themselves on a battlefield of mind games instead of a sturdy foundation, building toward a healthy relationship.
What about a Super Empath and a Greater Narcissist? If you’re wondering what a “greater narcissist” is, don’t worry.
Put simply, a “greater narcissist” is a narcissist who is self-aware of their condition and of their manipulative tendencies. This of course makes a “lesser narcissist”, in contrast, a narcissist who is not aware of their narcissistic traits.
Whether a greater narcissist has become aware of their traits through a diagnosis or if they simply grew up with a high sense of self-awareness, it makes them distinct from “lesser narcissists” because their behaviors are more controlled and calculated.
That’s why today’s video is about one of our most requested topics of Super Empath vs. Greater Narcissist.
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The point of going up against a narc of any caliber as an empath, is to maintain your values despite the evils done you. You don't become like the narc, you don't finally resent or hate. These are counter to the empath. Rather you finally quit them but forgive and continue to love anyway. And ultimately, you find that you actually weren't harmed at all.
So true what you said. I've even become better version of myself
But it was hell tryna figure these monsters
@@abdifatahaltayusuf5861 Yep.
Very true. I feel so much stronger after the encounter actually.
Your take is so accurate. I drove myself crazy trying to internalize the guilt and responsibility of losing who I thought was the love of my life. As I gained understanding about who my partner was and who I was and am, I stopped all the attempts of gaining my “power back” and all the self help stuff on the internet. Instead, I just fell back into myself. I got here by being loving and caring. That is who I am and I’m ok with it. The only thing I need to work on is identifying my own boundaries and communicating that to my loved ones. In the end, I m not ashamed of who I am and that brings me comfort
This.
This is me. When I see a narcissist I’m actually not upset by them I can feel kind of sorry for them, wish I could help them, but not at the expense of harming myself🤷🏻♀️
Yea they're fucked up.
@@pnutbuttababi24 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🌹😊🙏🏻
NEVER FEEL SORRY FOR THESE DEMONS!!
Yea they’re pathetic lol it’s sad they don’t realize we can see through their mirroring
@@PITTSBURGH06 never.
Yes, as an empath you date a Narcissist for years, when that relationship breaks off, no one will fool you ever again
Unless you’re in a severely vulnerable position like loss of a loved one.
Mine recently only lasted for a few months but I’ve encountered multiple of Narc’s, it wasn’t until the last one I started to educate myself. I realized who he was as a person, pure evil.
My best friend of 12 years was a narc and then I realized my x wife was and now I realized they are everywhere around me.
@@jeremyjjet4909 - Same. Am hunkered down with hubby & pets since pandemic began & have adjusted fine. He retires on 9/1 & I sincerely hope he outlives me; he promises he will. (I’m 4 years older.)
❤❤😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I never got baited by his manipulations. It meant fights. I never broke. I discarded him cause he tried to make me lose my mind and I saw him do it as he did it.
Good for you! It took way too long for the realization that I am not crazy and being played with to kick in. Take care, stay strong and thank you for sharing 🙂
Yea he won 😂
I’ve encountered two narcissists in my life and walked away from both as soon as I detect the devaluation starting. I’ve noticed It’s usually a very slow drip process… like super under the radar… I can only assume it’s because I am not afraid of conflict and calling people out on their shit. And I have a very high sense of self-confidence, so they have to be very clever to devalue me. But as soon as I sense it, I shut the operation down and walk. It’s literally instinctual; I don’t even think about it. No warning, just goodbye forever. Doesn’t matter how much it hurts me to do it. And yes, I have been trauma bonded in the process. It takes me about 3-4 months to fully recover. Total cognitive dissonance , rumination, sleeplessness, no appetite, uncontrollable crying, etc. But this second time around, despite all of that, I was fully functional and went about my life as if nothing happened. Once the bond breaks, I go into the grieving stage, then there’s just sheer, utter hate… Like literally hate their guts. But eventually I settle into acceptance and then neutrality. Forgiveness, so far, has not been part of the process. At least not with the first narc. That guy is dead to me. Maybe with this second one. I don’t know as I’m just getting past this recent trauma bond with him. Only time will tell. But I usually just go neutral and then completely don’t care anymore.
Seems like the battle between empaths and narcs are battles of angels and demons in humanoid forms(not surprised if there’s some ACTUAL truth to that haha)
Except the narc in my life thinks he's a saint.
That’s exactly what it is
In bible you have batlle on haven end earth
In religion you have writen in bible you have harubim serafim on earth end haven i dont know what are you say you belive god is only in haven ' you have good end evil on earth
Its not the person you battle but the demon inside of them
I thought I was *losing* my empathic traits because I was becoming less giving etc. Turns out I may very well have leveled up to a super empath after my last relationship with a narcissist! Well shit! *makes Bruce Lee noises*
I loved that 😂🙏
I am the same, it happened to me too, so freeing to get to that point.
Florence, cat lady, and missXspencer (digging the name by the way would it happen to be in correlation with the dead weight that you recently got rid of! 😌)
I like the directions this conversation is taking! empaths, leveling up, you guys have to check out Tea on NPD and relationships we were strong enough to change the cycle... she picks it up from there... Richard Grannon no b.s on acceptance, Lisa Romano hard cold fact based healing! All provide Clarity focus understanding and encouragement is what literally saved my life and my mind! See y'all there soon 🔜
I discovered what was once precieved by me as losing my empathic traits only to inadvertently becoming a victim of my environment... I had become a narcissist! 👀 However as an empath who has their uprising after a soul wrenching devastating trauma, it's right in alignment with what should have happened.
we mirror the dark empaths, by use of our narcissistic traits but only in dire emergencies never for harm!
The word and definition I found was, Acrimony this in fact is what I'm sure we have all experienced plus hey I think it sounds better too how about you? Lol
In fact there was a movie that came out a couple of years ago that had the same title! Check it out sometime it's wicked!
Hi same kind.
I am a Super Empath that cannot be manipulated by a Narcissist. Just left a 3-year relationship with a Greater Narcissist... No contact since July, and my silence will continue. No closure, only a peaceful happy new beginning for me.
I have a question. If super empaths are able to see the narc's games from the beginning, why do they bother with them? Even if they can't be manipulated, why stay with someone who keeps trying to manipulate them? What exactly is a super empaths reason for even TRYING with a narcissist?
@@SJ-up9em It's fun. Plus, it is an exercise in strength and a way to annoy the heck out of the narcissistic. One of those, I can show you better than I can tell you type of expressions. It works well, as long as he is not dangerous.
@@JaniceMarieSingleton i fully agree with this ^
How do you manage to stay away from other narcissists? Or how do you deal with them when no contact is not an option?
Since leaving the situation, I have learned a great deal about this disorder. There are Doctors and Victims of abuse all over RUclips sharing their knowledge so that those of us that had the experience do not ever have to go through it again. It could have been a lot worst, but during the craziness, I was writing a Spiritual -Self-Help book, which had my undivided attention. It became a test of wills. The more negative his behaviour was, the more positive I became. Humbly, I love myself, my life, my creative gifts, and my parents were awesome and extremely supportive. I offered that to him and more. That was my first experience in a dysfunctional relationship, but I have enough stored lasting love in my heart, mind, and cells that he was simply unable to undo. Now, I know the warning signs. Life is way too short to be mixed up with people that are your opposite in every area and level of life. It is a no-brainer. Simply leave that situation and surround yourself with unspeakable joy and unconditional love. Your Soulmate will eventually show up. Until he does or she does, choose perfect peace as your path until the pain passes. I hope this helps! Joy/Peace!!!
As a super empath - evolved from a codependent empath - it ìs not the mirroring that attracts us to narcissists of any type - it's the undeniable and potent sexual attraction of the power narcissists maintain - that power - I recently realized - is not only addictive but intrigues a super empath on how to control it.
that's true! been there myself -- he had this giant sexual energy sending towards me and i couldnt help resisting it.
When i'm around narcissists (overly arrogant) or even covert narcissists (overly wounded) now, they always give off some kind of energy that gives them away. It's not even fun anymore. Even when they're mirroring, something always peaks through the cracks.
And it's hard not to take that as behind the mask bc that energy that peaks through is so much more intense. The mirroring has a real nothing feeling to its energy. So it usually gets completely disregarded (prob the point - like a trojan horse)
It's almost like the narc can feel a disturbance in what they're trying to accomplish, so it stuns them for a minute, and the mask slips.
This was very enlightening, I don’t a think true super empath would tolerate so much junk from a narc. I’m on full alert for these demonic people. Y’all stay prayed up 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me too. I started off as a regular empath but after dealing with a number of narcs I just spot them from a distance now
They might tolerate temporarily, or if they are tired and distracted. Once they have had enough, they will leave no doubt in anyone's mind.
True
Now don’t think they not extremely smart usually has high grades in high school could have went to Harvard they smart cons 🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽🙌
@@tammyfitzgerald5336
well, we give them benefit of the doubt. We always do. But sooner or later we decipher IQ, and knowledge of narcs.
Most narcs never met super empaths. We do not like each other and we avoid. Basically, we can smell them... There present nothing...
Harvard or not, doesn't matter in the real world.
They are flawed and always mistake us for regular empaths.
But, one is certain - we will hurt them...but we will not change them..Its just how we want. We are prepared to lose...Narcs want praise...We don't care...
Yes, mirroring the super empath is a very effective way of manipulation however, the main reason is that we do not expect someone in our circle to be the one stabbing us in the back.
Now if you want to describe it in terms of energy or feeling here it goes. Yes, we can truly pick up on the emotions of people we are engaging with the narc has this ability to mask their emotions they project the right frequency for whatever emotion they are trying to transmit. The only way you can disarm a narc is after you get through their firewall AKA their self-defense mechanism. After they know that you know they emit two different frequencies the one they trying to protect and the one they are trying to disguise then is game over for the narc.
I resonate with that in the middle of the the battle of good and evil now….I’ve literally sat across the table from a master manipulator pure evil empty dark eyed and relentless seeking revenge for my failure he is making me pay for dearly!. I asked questions of his technique he gave them willingly asked if he knew who I am? he said yes, smirked then looked away from my intense eye contact. This exhausted my energy tremendously. We went our separate ways. The next day I saw the personality shift and replied “oh no not you again?! You gotta warn me next time, I don’t like surprises?!” Personality shift again* the empty soul I once thought was my husband returned…he looked genuinely confused and said huh? What do you mean last night?! Me: gaslight alert! I walked away saying not today I’m tired! I left him standing in the kitchen bewildered…
Thank you for putting what I’ve been feeling in to words!
I recently found out I’m an Empath with intuitive gifts. However I did question whether or not I was an Empath because I worked in law enforcement for many years and successfully dealt with many narcissists and sociopaths, some of which were my coworkers / bosses or politicians. I was never meek or weak but I usually was quiet and kept to myself. I never felt comfortable within the group but I would voice my concerns when warranted and stood my ground when appropriate no matter what the potential consequences for standing up for my beliefs of what was right. After seeing videos about super empaths it definitely resonated and connected the dots so to speak.
Way too go, we are a 3 generation law enforcement family and USMC Family, it makes sense about the "Super Empath" side of us.
Way to go Alex 👍
Wow we mirror each other both cops same traits my wife is a huge narcisst mean spirited as hell. When she tries to control me like your not going fishing or guilt trip or gaslight. I just smile and say your batshit crazy and I love you see you later. It’s kills her soul ol son. I swore to the Lord you get me out of Fallujah. And you won’t have no more trouble
out of me.
Omg this just made me realize I’m being targeted. Too bad for this narcissist though I’m way too smart to fall for his shit lol. I plan on being alone until I find someone like me, not just someone pretending to be. Most “super empaths” won’t give a narcissist the time of day. Usually while these narcissists are chasing us they have their codependent on a leash just in case because they’re aware their chances are slim.
I’m an empath turned super empath. My hubby has narc traits but he said the same thing: he does like he has me to challenge him now that I’ve grown a spine, but I’m no punk. He used like to devalue me on purpose too, esp in front of people. I stopped reacting to it and now he really tries to not go there. Im one of the luckier ones with a hubby who recognizes his behavior sucks and is trying to stop, and he isn’t abusive either. You can be a charming, manipulative and mild mannered narc who doesn’t raise their voice or call you out of name. I do see he has changed a lot! Thank God!
Use your wisdom, don’t react and do not stoop. You have more integrity than to let these people take you down to their level. The strongest and wisest people always know when to speak, or when not to. It take a lot of strength to do. Trust me. Take pity on them, pray for them and keep your distance. ❤ You will be okay because you’re here, reading these comments and seeing we are in it together. 😉🥰
Peace Be With You!🙏🏾 Sounds like this narcissist who agreed to be interviewed took advantage of you guys who did the interviewing. If you listen closely, you will sense some bragging in his tone and in the way he delivers his message. I've dealt with one, and took them down. I know manipulation when I see it. This guy just wanted an interview for show. Like my narcissist said, "I did it for brownie points!!!" To all of you who did the interview with him, and for those who have and have not dealt with a narcissist yet, it pays to pray for discernment, insight, wisdom, and intuition. Use God as your shield, and you will be able to take down any one of them. Blessings!😌🙏🏾
super cant lose - we know we lost when we meet them,,, for us is just another type of narcs to our collective mind information...
I use them as I wanna till I smell discard...then I initiate discard first...
They want to get back for more super fuel...and you mirror narcs trades back at them...and they eventually let go for another empath...
HG Tudor is an incredible source to understanding narcissists. I’m so glad that you mention him.
I'm so glad you mentioned HG Tudor! HG Tudor is one of the people who helped me escape when I found out what my narc ex-husband truly was. These last 4 years have been one hell of an adventure - escaping, starting over, the preemptive strikes on his attacks, (knocking down pillars - as HG Tudor would say). If it hadn't happened to me, I'd say it was better than a movie. SO MANY "Mission Impossible" moments! At one point I had to solicit help from my dad, who lives in another state. He's still married to my mom (the narc) and one of my "Mission Impossible" tasks he helped me with are now a bond we share. HG Tudor has some GREAT insight. If you're dealing with a narc, get all the knowledge, insight, help you can get - and get out. They can't be saved, but you can. Save yourself!!
I was always the one to discard my narcissistic ex, I always caught her on her lies and she could never understand how was I able to do it, tried to Hoover several times and every time I will down play her games. Stay wise and awake people. Learn how to love and stay to yourself.
I’m a big empath guy and two years ago I was in a relationship with a narcisist that was ashamed of herself. I was in the middle of rebuilding myself and I still didn’t have all the self respect that I have now. She lived in my same appartment and she already was in a relatioship with a spineless guy that was codependent and constantly took shit from her. Betrayal was just the next step for her I suppose. I knew what I was doing and I was ashamed of myself, but when we started being secret lovers it was a BLAST. Then the pandemic came and while I continued to build myself, she was stagnant and just the same fragile person. I cared for her as I could, but she seemed unwilling to save herself, she appearently lost her toys.
When I started being unsatisfied of being the second (while providing all the support, companionship and passion) things started crumbling and I was not still free of her. It got to a point where I gave her the choice “me or him”. She chose him after a light confession (I suppose, because I still can’t belive how he could forgive her for lieing to him for months). I was hit hard, but I was not codependent and walked away for months, knowing that I was worth much more than this.
This screwed her up, badly. She didn’t have any challenge with her boyfriend, I provided all the excitement and she belived that my feelings were blind and unconditional. They were not…
This made her ego collapse and when she knew (from me, after meeting to talk again) that I was doing well and that I was starting a new relationship…
She stole my 8 year long best friend. To be fair, he was changing and I think he started despising me as a threat now that I had high self esteme. He showed many narcisistic traits in the years, but he never used them against me. They were very alike and when I realized what he was and what he was trying to do at my back, I dumped him deflecting every manipulation, then confronted her face to face and thankig her for ridding me of a Judas. She was so pissed that she didn’t talk me for a whole year… While living in the same appartment.
Kinda funny. I learned a lot, from the worst. When my father (he was a diagnosed narcisist a few months ago) tried to screw me over, I was the one screwing him. Not the other way around. It’s about survival and I’m quite the magnet for narcisists. I prowdly show my scars, because I have many.
Grande! 💪
Because you grew up with a narc father, you know what they even dream when they sleep, all their next steps. That's why you were quick to put them back into their places. You're not a magnet, they actually are drawn to you for your strength and wisdom that they lacked. They are the ones with scars seeking healing, but in wicked ways you know.
@@Zenfoni they are like Vampires, there’s no other way to put it
Knowing it's so calculating is mind blowing 🤯
When someone mirrors me I find it creepy but maybe that’s because my demon sister used to do that. We would be sitting at a table and it would take a moment but all of a sudden I would realize every time I changed positions or touched my face or moved my hair she would do the same thing. Now mirroring triggers me and brings back awful memories of a person I hope one day to forget.
I am a super empath and my ex is a narcissist. I didn’t realise in the beginning but once I saw through him that was it, to say it was a difficult relationship is putting it mildly, I did not act how he expected me to. He hoovered a few times until I finally ended it for good, but he has tried recently hoovering me again and I know what he is doing, I have had mirroring, future faking and love bombing from him which did make me laugh, as I knew it was all lies to get me back. It hasn’t worked, I know now what he is and I am no longer in love with him so I can deal with his nonsense.
Hurt people hurt people. We've all been hurt sometimes & we've all hurt people sometimes. This is usually not intentional because when we speak or do something while trying to express ourselves, we don't know and feel how it affects someone else. People are different. Think differently, see and feel differently. It's all about communication and how well we learn to see and express ourselves and how open we are about our feelings (also when someone's words or actions hurt us).
I believe there's a really fine line between being empathetic or being narcissistic. We all have both - a soul and an ego. It all depends on the character of the person which side they/we will listen to, especially when we're hurt (when we think someone hurt us intentionally). We all have souls, we all have an ego, we all have traumas, we all have triggers,... It's all about the character, the sense of self, up-bringing, beliefs and how willing are we to see ourselves. And yes, I agree we all have to have boundaries and keep them.
I also believe it's on ALL of us how are we going to leave something behind in this world, especially on the ones that have that strength to continue to be and do good no matter what bad happens. Let's try to lose the labels. Be mindful, be strong, be humble, be compassionate, be proactive (first for and to ourselves, only then, also to everybody else). Help yourself on this side, only then can you help anybody else, this or that side. But keep boundaries and respect and true value of yourself. Don't ever let anybody take the good from you. Help people help themselves. Be good. Only then leave. How are we leaving the world...
True empathetic person will not want to destroy or harm anyone anytime.
You know I watch these videos to gain wisdom for defusing situations and I think to myself why is EVERY single video for the empath to crush or destroy? Never to heal? And then you read the comments and see “I’m a super empath and I destroyed that sucker” no, you want a title for little work. So who’s really the narc?
And I think to myself a real empath wouldn’t brag about being an empath or much of anything for that matter, as that would draw them into the center of attention #1 and #2 most narcissist seriously CANT control a lot of their behaviors. It happens different in their minds than in reality. Most behaviors are subconsciously happening and then when they realize you ain’t smelling what they’re spraying they morph into a screaming, tantrum throwing man child & if you succeed in self control & manage to keep your cool and don’t engage in any voice lifting. Expect them to start to self-sabotage, his favorite ammo is the hurtful truths I expressed when I was still worshipping him instead of God. (And I told him that I serve him to please God not him) These things? I said years ago. When I was more codependent/addicted to him. And then I’ll say “your words not mine you’ve grown tremendously since then” hell he tells me to give up, he’s tired. And I tell him “I’ll never give up on my friend.” But the fact that I won’t quit & I educate myself on what to expect keeps him from discarding me. Now I have purpose, now I have strength, now I have growth expectations. But I have grown spiritually and full on surrendered to Jesus and am no longer a slave to the flesh.
Sometimes they just need yah to grab them and tell them their safe yah know? Or that you expect their behaviors.
Now genetics play a key role (here’s to breaking generational curses, praise God) The only thing I can come up with for how I turned out the way I did (possessing humility & obedience) is God. I didn’t know him then but it’s the only explanation I can come up with for how I’m the only one who is like me on both sides of my family. however when you combine the lack of unconditional love with trauma & abuse mix in with genetics you get the angry narc. Now we label to make this specific to them. If you make it about them you might figure out the magic way of teaching them accountability, or maybe intriguing them enough to RUclips a few videos. As this is them specific. But it’s a constant battle telling them it’s not their fault their dad beat and belittled them and their mom abandoned them to save her own skin. They may have never known unconditional love their whole life. But their so fragile they take that comment as an attack even though the fact was clearly stated it’s not your fault. I feel some symptoms can be reversed and uprooted as a lot of it is bitterness over their tender years. Cause ultimately the narcissist is strong in the world where the empath is weak, Making the ideal protection for the empath and the empath is strong spiritually where the narcissist is weak making them ideal protection in the spiritual realm. Now my walk is different than the next but I was moved to say all this cause anyone who is only trying to steal, kill and destroy is of the enemy (undercover)
But I agree with another commenter of the angels and demons theory.
Thanks for reading
God bless
@@burrginialiving1615 WOWWWW!!!! I feel like i COMPLETELY FAILED not just God, but my now ex husband of 25 years, my two grown sons and well, just about everybody I've ever known..... 😭😭
@@flamingsword777 no way
Irregardless how your walk turned out now I’m more than certain you gave it your all, as we all try to do.. it’s real easy to act/comment like we’re hard on RUclips and social media, however it’s much harder to trust God to give you the right words to say & the guts to stay if yah know what I mean? Cause the truth is if it wasn’t for the 4 year old we share I’d given up long ago.. as my grown children who long suffered the narcissistic madness now forgive me for the life they lived & I finally forgive myself for the life they faced & thankful they all turned out as great as they did. But know you didn’t let anyone down everyone’s walk is different and know your beautiful no matter how your marriage turned out..♥️
Yes, I've followed H G TUDOR for years now. He is building a Legacy by helping others understand what an NPD is. He is a Sociopathic NPD, as he was diagnosed, and charmingly responds to his viewers. I resonated with him, versus the Sam Vaknin, boring full of himself professor, who reminds me of my Mid-Range X. I see the spectrums over the course if my life. I believe that the difference between Empaths are in discernment, versus judgement and truly exercising Independence within core values, versus Co-dependence. A so called Super Empath would be the challenge that NPD, Sociopathic opposites that attract. Mirroring is a technique of all narcissistic personality disordered, main way of compart-MENTALization, used by children to imitate and learn and gets better at over time. Trauma causes damaged perceptions within an NPD, or Empath, just like fright or flight, however the NPD places their internal feelings into others, in advance by smear campaigning, isolating and overcoming, overtaking or sniffing out their Empathic Idol. If they can't feel the JOY, they don't want anyone else to. They hate true happiness due to the fact that they cannot find it within their fake selves. They want to take it from others, to feel in control. Powerful Controlling Mental illness that gets much more fuel supply from harming others. If the empath is true to their vows, then the real NPD, comes to life. A battleground is opened up and The NPD GAME begins. Yes, they cannot lose in their OWN mind, or games. I walked up the aisle in matrimony with one man, and came back with another. It didn't last, and I recognized swiftly that The Man Was A CON, built from childhood bad parenting skills where he had divided his own parents. They sent him to Catholic Military School, but that was too late as he was a young adult and was well practiced at getting what he wanted. He was also adopted into a couples home who he divided and secretly got what he wanted behind his Mother's back, by an enabling Father. Later in life, his father saw the creation he caused, in our home, with children involved. All 3 children acted like him. They SO wanted his approval and laziness, versus be gone working and supporting His CON and facades were learned.
Tell this greater Narcissist he has never really dealt With a true super Empath because a true super empath Will destroy any narcissist big or small
Speaking as a super empath, you have to learn to set boundaries. And make others keep them. That’s the hard part for a lot of people. I’m living across the hallway from a covert narcissist and going no contact is really not possible, seeing how we are not even barely 3 feet apart. So I’ve set boundaries and I value myself enough to know not to get caught up in the drama. Better to Grey rock at this point or be polite and nothing more.
I just found your channel and really like your content. As a Super Empath who just discarded a Narcissist after one sign of abuse (Yeah!) I can honestly say that HE DID NOT SEE THAT COMING! He spent the next month hoovering and pouring on the charm like it was Niagara Falls, but I was completely immune to his charm. Charm is a smoke screen Narcs use to distract their prey, like a magician's slight of hand. It might be interesting to do a video on the use of charm to lure people into potentially destructive relationships. Thanks so much for posting amazing content in the short video format. I'm a new subscriber.
Thank you for subscribing Gail. That is a great suggestion.
Glad to hear you were able to discard the narcissist in your life.
I could not get past the first few minutes without the biggest AHA! All my life I’ve been attracted to confident, resilient strong people! People who stand up for themselves and don’t back down. Not knowing that this is why I was initially attracted to narcs. However, it never failed that the persona they put forth usually gets exposed and I see how paper thin they really are. All puff…
I never thought about myself as a Super Empath! Thanks too you now the entire puzzle in my life makes sense!
Thank you!
Ah, the mind games... that shit can fuck you up really good.
Mind game is a pleasure if you are an empath.
I’m an empath on the way to being a super empath. I’ve been with quite a few narcissists and worked with more than a few that I had to navigate the waters of casual manipulation. Someone once told me about mirroring in a job interview and it has served me well over the years with not only getting a job, but interacting with supervisors and subordinates alike.
Polar opposites, empaths see the bigger picture, narcissist just sees themselves
Damn!! It's real in the field. SMH. I am a Super Empath and I literally am dealing with two narcissist (who both happen to be Pisces men). One I am guessing is the unsuspecting Narcissist (or he just playing his role out to perfection, lol). I call him out on his BS regularly and don't let him get away with any of his toxic ways and behavior. He's subtle but I don't let him know I think he's a Narc. Lol. I just tell him how I feel and after going off on him in a pleasant but stern manner, he can't help but get choked up and tripping over his words trying to recuperate from my verbal lashing of his toxic ways. It's actually pretty amusing to me. And the other one he's trying to use his overt tactics to try to break me down but I spotted him right away and decided to have a little fun 😅. I allowed him to employ his tactics on me as if I was unsuspecting and he proved me right of my intuition when he tells me he loves me AFTER our first week of being sexually active. I picked up on several things he told me to try and pull me in. Both men love bombed me the same, it's hilarious. I laughed internally and replied to them both "I love you back" but I say that to everyone including my children so it's nothing special in my eyes. So fast forward, he tells me I better not give his "Pu**y" away to anyone else. I thought to myself, this cocky son of a Bich 😉 he really thought or think he got me sewed up already because I tossed him a few Empath bones. Lol. But nope not me. I'm not the one to be played 😂 so now he think I'm mad at him for something because he stood me up this Sunday. I told him I'm not mad at all. He then invited me over to his place on Tuesday and I ignored him then about an hour later I told him I was busy and maybe another time. I don't plan on going over there ever, lol. And I'm done with him but my silence will kill him more than me letting him see me get emotional in any way. I don't have the time to deal with these creatures. I have too much going on in my world that is good. They are out there on the prowl though, that's for sure. Thanks for letting me rant. ~ Scorpio/INTJ/Sigma Female/Super Empath.
I have been in two relationships with greater narcissists; both were Pisces men. I discarded them both. I have done several tests and keep coming up as a super empath. I knew I wasn't co-dependent and needed to try to understand how these relationships had happened to me. Master con-men and manipulators. It took me a long time to see through the masks. I wouldn't accept the unwarranted criticism and was devalued through neglect and deceit as he humiliated me in our community with cruel levels of infidelity.
Well evidently the super empath broke his ass down because he’s in therapy
Therapy doesn't help them they'll actually use those tools to get worse and upgrade their manipulation techniques.
He may have had to go to therapy because he is a malignant narc meaning he suffers from the dark triad of Machiavellianism, Antisocial Personality Disorder, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. My malignant narc had to go therapy, I discovered later due to his partner filing domestic abuse charges against him. ASPD or Antisocial Personality Disorder in layman's terms is psychopathy or sociopathy. Often these types end up going to therapy because of some criminal behavior and not by choice. Also MOST therapist don't want to treat them because they feel they can't truly be reformed. HG Tudor is a psycho/sociopathic NPD and so was my last narc. I escaped from him during one of his lengthy silent treatments.
The best way to defeat a narc is to block them out of your life and ghost them forever. They need you to placate and validate them, YOU do not need them...though they will try to use mind games so you think you do. You hold the power.
That's our choice to make.
To make them better aware 🙏
@@pagemastrogiovanni9195 Its to my assumption that their personalities defract (break away) both as a defense mechanism and as a tool for the bargaining.
To go to therapy really only means to have charges dismissed on all levels of account.
If they are mach, only they will know, and only by themselves they feel they have a power. They themselves feel too hard to crack , its how they negotiate and proportionate intentions by times of loneliness they feel.
Its usually why they themselves choose to fly under the radar and feel a frey that no one is deserving to escape their callous wrath of intentions.
They are happy with what they do, the results as such until they are provoked. This sounds an alarm in their system which generally concerns to being called out. It conflicts with their passive aggression because they will have to risk behaving civily forthright.
It is then you get to realize what scale their true emotional capacity has been limited at 🙏
You must be prepared to never encounter this person again, their dark side apparence is highly sadistic in a way people just don't usually get dirty in.
@@bertzerker747 agreed!
This video is pure gold! I am a super empath and this describes what happened between a rotten narcissist and myself to the letter! Keep up the good work👍 you are helping good hearted empaths as well as super empaths everywhere to understand why what happened to them happened!
Thank you for your kind words
I am a spiritual awakened empath (super). I just had a antagonist narcissist destroyed. We've been off n on 1yr. I met him right around the time I was hoovered by a covert narcissist. I was a codependent empath. I ignored all of my empath psychic abilities. He broke me down to nothing. I went through the dark night of the soul. Spiritual Awakening happened. Bam! I am now my true authentic badass loving, healing super empath. I am very educated on the narcissist. I also have 4 Clair abilities. I am able to know who a narcissist is when I see them. I'm also able to know where someone needs healing, hurting inside. The antagonist narcissist I discarded recently, I knew I was intended to be in his life. And me to be in his. I told him we were eachother gift and blessings. Me to open his heart to love. Him to improve my communication skills. Lol I knew who is is. He didn't know who I am. I was never controlled or documented by him. Devaluing stage...he knew he couldn't control me. I then discarded him. My empathy went to sleep & my narcissistic traits woke up. Supernova!
I am too intelligent & strong for the weak.
Mirroring/cameleon = falling in love with yourself
I think mirroring is attractive for the reason that it makes the empath feel like the narc is looking up to the empath like they are trying to learn from them,
This super empath plays the game well, i know how they play. I buy my time then strike. I have broken many this way .
I like ur way of thinking👏
Um.. If you have to DECLARE yourself a super empath, YOU'RE NOT. it's like all these people who go around SAYING they're a QUEEN or they're a KING like royalty etc are miles away from actually being it.
If you knew ANYTHING about a super empath, you'd know they're in massive counseling and therapy. They actually see words left in the room and taste actual colors etc. A super empath a TRUE one, has been damaged ALOT thus the reason why they're getting help.
Don't go around claiming you're soemthing you're not just because it has the word SUPER in it. Soemthing above REGULAR empath. 😂 Next thing you know, you're gonna say yours an ULTRA empath. 😂
Can't wait for the SUPERRR DUPERRRR empath category. Lol.
If you have to declare it, you're NOT IT. 😂
@@daviedood2503 super empaths do not stay in therapy as they heal themselves eventually that's why they are counsellors and psychologists...the self healing through all the hell they repeatedly went through is their ultimate super power...and that's the main subconscious envy of narcs who do not and never will heal themselves in just one life time. Also you'd know a super empath when you know they have destroyed narcs (albeit not out of choice).
@@GitaS777 my statement still remains. It's the equivilant of those who must declare they're this "queen" or whatever. 😂
People see that as BEGGING for validation of trying to be something you're clearly not. "Look at me, pay attention to me..see..im SUPER"
Even THERPIST, psychologist, and the narcissist THEMSELVES will also say that if you have to go around declaring something .. You're clearly not. 😂
People just want to throw it around because it has the word SUPER in it. That's all it is. The FEEL GOOD aspect of being MORE than just a mere REGULAR empath. 😂
I'm sorry if your feelings got hurt, and the ego balloon got popped.
But as Dr Bryant says "being a super empath isn't what you THINK it is. They are highly DAMAGED. They just have a high threshold for PAIN and conditioned to take way more abuse than most folks" They just want the "Narc destroyer" title. 😂 So others will validate and look up to them. So they feel a sense of purpose or whatever. It's all EGO. If not, then why get mad if you're just a plain ole empath then hmm? 😂
Please educate yourself. Thanks.
dood man you are very angry and bitter...so shamens should also not declare themselves as healers and how dare doctors declare themselves as doctors cos if they do then they're not it🤦♀️😂 BTW I am SUPER educated in many things and also a doctorate in psychology but hey I shouldn't declare myself that just so you don't get slighted 🤣 well-done for being SUPER belittling just cos you don't understand the level others have elevated themselves to due to extreme trauma and High level education and so much healing work. Ps. I'm also an initiated shamen but oops guess now I've said it then I'm not one now...best threw away my feathers😂🤣
I have been 3 steps ahead of my narc at all times ...it was interesting at first until I figured them out, but now they are so predictable
I would LOVE to hear more about how they feel after all is said and done but I guess we all know… they don’t. 😳
I think these Greater Narcissists are sometimes attracting Dark Empaths, which are equivalent or supercedes Super Empaths and are greater challenges because they could go either way since they have high narc traits and high empathic traits. In fact, Dark Empaths are the MOST DANGEROUS group of people and a greater majority of people are Dark Empaths than Narcissists or Super Empaths.
I learned not to be nice. Life is good
Thank you for your video ⚘you are absolutely right, I just walked away from a Ex greater narcissist, after 24 years 💪super empath that is exactly what happened, he could not control, me or manipulate me ,one day I just saw him for who he was ,and I told him we no longer can date I packed his things up, told him to come and get his things, and I stood my ground, he made sure he would not let me see that mask come down again🤡
Nice to hear a narcissist’s perspective that isn’t HG tutor for a change. Brave interview.
Thank you Nathan. Glad you liked it!
@@PsychologyElement Anon Narcissist ..Mark Bowden by any chance LOL
Sam Vaknin has been around longer than HG Tudor and he's a self professed narcissist. He gives his perspective also. The only thing is Vaknin doesn’t believe in empaths. He believes in codependents though. He says all self-proclaimed empaths are closet or covert narcissists that are unaware of what they truly are. Also there's this young Aussie woman that is sociopath/narcissist that shares her views on YT.
@@pagemastrogiovanni9195 The thing is Psychology is NOT a science ..Every human is unique and has unique character traits so therefore phycology is not a science.
I have to agree with Sam Vaknin on the "Empath thing" My youngest sister thinks she is an empath..
No, she is an unaware Covert Narcissist.
Kind regards Brian
@@pagemastrogiovanni9195 Sam Vaknin is surely right about "empaths" selfproclamation; but he's wrong when denying empathy and empaths to exist. As a narcisist he really seem to be, he can't place himself in an empaths feelings, experiences and perspective, and can't imagine nor explain what empathy is. I've listened at some of his videos on empathy, because he's very good at explaining narcissism so I wondered how he would explain empaths, or empathy alone at least.
I am a sigma male and a super empath. I have aspergers. I am 39. I am currently in a relationship with a narc. She attempts to use Gas Lighting techniques on me and has for all but 3 weeks in the beginning of our almost 1 year together. I believe she may be a lesser narc. A slight chance she is a greater. She has cried in front of me over how things are regarding "Us" and every sign, body language, mannerisms, flushing of the face, the cheeks, eye movement, all say that her feelings and reaction was true. I have never seen much less barely even heard of gas lighting prior to this. I began educating myself on this all in attempt to save my relationship. Connections like this can be difficult for me to gain and hurt a great deal to lose. I am near the end of the road with my drive to get her to hear me and HEAR ME. I NEED her to HEAR what I say to her and to perceive it as intended so that she fully understands. If I cannot get through to her soon I do not think that I can mentally handle many more attempts. It truly is killing me. I cannot handle much more and it is breaking me the idea of not having her on my life. I have prayed, meditated and ran many deep thought experiments on this. I do not want to lose her and our connection. To understand how I feel you have to understand that the day I met her I was planning on committing with in 72 hours. I had been researching ways within my means on Quora in forums and had settled on an exit bag. Using helium and Argon and a valve on the exit bag for the gasses to push out oxygen and as they displace it cause unconsciousness and then death. She caught me off guard asked me where I was from as I walked from my pickup to a restroom at a parking lot to a hiking trail that I like and we talked for a short while. She came the next day and we talked again. Then the next day again. She had made me think. About how interested in me she was at my lowest point, homeless and looking and I'm sure smelling awful. But she asked me to smoke a bowl of weed with her and we smoke and talked. I even told her what I had been planning and was about to do and why. She said "I wish you wouldn't". Obviously I didn't. Now what stopped me from killing myself is pushing me closer and closer. I have now gained SOME love for life but still want to not to wake up alot of days. Not just not wake up, wake up crying because I do wake up. It is crushing some days. I want to learn how to make it work and fix what has come between her and I. I am almost out of time with this. If I do not get through to her and keep trying I know that it will push me to suicide. So I either must get through to her or leave. It hurt so much the idea of leaving but that is better than ending my life. I may find someone else someday that I have a connection with as strong or stronger. I was going to end my life because after 39 years of hell, being beaten and molested from 4 to 9 and beaten until about 14 to joining the Army for 3 years and 8 months to 13 1/2 years incarcerated and 3 months after being released waking up from a severe heroin overdose to one of my closest friends dead from his i had lost the taste for life. I pray and ask anyone out there that believes in anything to lend their minds and prayers to assisting me in getting through to Morgan. She is a beautiful person, I know that. She has just been damaged and hurt by others. Lend your minds and prayers if you will. I will have to walk away soon. Almost 1 year of gas lighting. It is intense to say the least and it takes a strong mind and stronger heart. I love Morgan
My heart physically hurt lately
Dare I say, you just picked a different way of killing your self...just one long drip at a time. There is only on way forward and that is never going back.
Best self protection is to not internalize their assults.
If you can separate your feelings from theirs once you realize what belongs to you and them.
The secret service determines what is a counterfeit by studying in detail the legit money.
Get to know yourself in detail and every other emotion is from another. You don't have to absorb them into yourself.
You are actually a wonderful person. Be the empath to yourself.
Aa from my personal experience. All I can say, spot on. Thanks for shedding lights on some darkest corners .
The narc has nothing going on toying and destroying others is their favorite way to spend their time. The narc needs to do this to survive wether they know it or not, to them they have no choice because the sacrificed themselves out of pain and only have the demon and the demon needs to put out the light in others.
Yeah I have a question for a narcissist. I want to know do they ever get anyone straight-up beating them up or any serious repercussions from family members or friends of the empaths that they tried to destroy? I'm just extremely curious if they've ever had incidents from their horrible behavior that have happened to them... I just find it very hard to believe that you act like this your whole life and you don't get a beat down eventually.
Me too 😂😂😂.
I’m not a narcissist or an empath, but I can answer this question. It is a yes. They back down when confronted, an ax whoop’en is an unfriendly reminder to leave a person alone. Conversely, the intervention with the target sometimes has to be as equally eye opening to help break the cycle of abuse. I use a three strikes rule with the abused person.
I am a Superempath and I will never know about narcissists what they want at the beginning and what they dislike so much at the end... I am proud I will never understand that. Many great Thanks!!:))!!
As a Super Empath, l've also used to manipulate peoples sometimes. My Friend is also a Greater Narcissist. First, I attracted on her. I thought she was good. After I find that she was a Narcissist, I told that to their friends. Even still also, they don't believes me. Because, they blindly trust her. The supernova was created inside me. I don't know when I'm going to release that. Anyway, My mom is a Covert Narcissist. I suffered a lot because of her
wow thank you for the video !
Yes, I would like to hear and learn more about this. T.Y.
This was so helpful for me. I’d like to see more interviews
Thank you Breezy.
Let the battle commence
THANK YOU..Awesome insight
There is a third possible outcome, and it's probably the best one--the Super Empath gets the narcissist to leave and think it is their idea. I've done this by simply giving the narcissist an ultimatum--knock it off or go essentially, and they chose to go.
Thousands thanks for helping us with your teaching 🙂
Yep! We're 'friends' now. He helps me & I help him. It took awhile but on more of a equal friendship balance, lol. I call him a chameleon & I know what he does & how he does it!
Good info!
Thank you. Very informative and helpful.🙏🏻❤️👍🏻😊🌹
Your outcome is not always what happens. I am not codependent yet have been married to my super-narcisstic husband 30 years. We have had many disagreements, with him trying every trick imaginable a super-narcisst can try. Often , every conversation becomes a power struggle. I have a very deep love for him and can see how weak and lacking in confidence he is at the core of his being. If he was strong he would not need to control every situation.
I'd never let any narc devalue me, I know myself worth..it didn't take long for me to see through this demon, they tried to destroy me and it backfired spectacularly
I'm done with it .no they don't stop..its true.good video.
I suggested that we not communicate for a time - nothing totally final....there was no contact for about a week, then he sent an email telling me we were done. He sensed I was moving away emotionally and he needed to be the one who called the shots. He also told me that he was out of town, when he'd left and when he'd be back and that he would pack up any of my things that were at his place. I know that I deserve better.
This is great information for sure!!!
Thanks for taking the time to watch. Glad it was helpful!
Yes, would benefit from listening to the real narcissist statements...thank you
Unlike the majority i can admit im no super empath. I can think of a few people in my life who might be, however. It is fun to learn new perspectives.
Oh wow! Shocking indeed 😳
I know this is rare. I’m a super empath my husband is a misogynistic narcissist in recovery. I married him AFTER he cheated on me. I have a story that’s unbelievable. He’s such a different man today. And I walked my dog myself. 😂. I’m a life & health coach.
Very helpful
Thanks
Spot....On....
mirroring gives it away so fast ;-)
Wow! I literally just went through this! He's blocked.
yes
Good video 👍
Thanks 👍🙏 for good explanation 🙂
Most welcome 😊
I can tell you right now as a super empath living and married to a covert narcissist for over 14 years… we don’t believe a word they say. They may feel remorse and cry and be upset for everything, but a few hours later they will repeat the same thing that caused the remorse. For instance… my husband thought I was cheating on him just because I met another at home dad at the park so our kids could play. (this dad was a kind of overt narcissist… turn off anyway) And even by re-assuring him there was no cheating, he was fine after a meltdown… but the next day he started saying that guy was my bf. So after a while you might give empathy when the narcissist hits their bottom and cracks, but we always know its short lived and full of baloney.
I agree with this video.
I want to know what happens when 2 narcissists enter a relationship? Whether it be a covert, vulnerable, malignant or whatever.
Super empathy
As soon as he say I don’t trust anyone anymore 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️💯💯💥💥🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My ex went violent cause I was trying to make him accountable for is actions...not only to me but to others... his behaviours deeply hurts me by the lack of respect but it doesn't affect who I am ...I know I am right and I know I do the right things whatever he said.
This title mirrors my older brother(highly narcissistic Leo) and me(Aquarian Empath). He loses every time!
I just walk away, when there are too many mistreatment. Good people will never mistreat you, I know out of experience. Narcs are very bad for your health, so walk away. I keep one as a pet. When you become a super empathy this will be possible.😅
Waauw shocking. Really. So well tought.
Conscious(greater) narcissist mirroring a super empath is what he is.. Sometimes you mirror so good, you forget that it's a role.
I wouldn't myself one but I resonate with many qualities of a super empath. Thing is, I enjoy the challenge but it's a different game for me. I play for keeps. I genuinely give a fuck, so you can play to break and I'll never break, I'm playing A. Since you wanna mirror. Put that effort in to be a super empath. B. because power couples take over shxt and you'll (we'll) never get there breaking everyone down.
The short version..
Greater Narcissist: In relationship.. If I win, you lose. Ending relationship.. If I win, you lose.
Super empath: in relationship... If I win, WE win. Ending relationship... If I win, best case: they know they messed up. Worst case: drama to follow before it dies out.
I am the one that got away. Thank goodness.
Mirroring ease n I said thanks God blessssss them there reality n win attititude.
Solid pace stacking but missing lead. I like this for years ongoing cult of E/N duality you are part of. So many operators working on that.
I am looking forward for your next "Empath God" vs "Narcissist Devil" escalation. I consider myself a perfect candidate for both...
I’m very close to a super empath. I recently was involved in the most intoxicating relationship with a greater narcissist. Reply to this if you’re a psychologist and want to interview me. I’m extremely self aware.
True
I'm a heyoka empath and my kryptonite is a covert narcissist. I cant turn her down. Her doll eyes, fake tears and on point acting.
Sounds like you all spoke with HG Tudor...
Some say we all have a bit.
Why waste it ✌
😳THAT WAS "GOOD"!!
I am a super empath
This was wow total light bulb moment !!! My 17 year marriage to a t
Question for the narcissist. How do you sleep at night? Do you/ did you ever look in the mirror and see a sick person?