Will a Narcissist Change For Their New Supply?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
  • Here is the link to all my best resources:
    beacons.ai/narcabusecoach/
    chapters
    00:00 Intro
    00:46 The novelty factor
    02:32 The idealization phase
    03:57 Evoke Jealousy in You
    05:25 The desire for control
    06:50 The pursuit of validation
    07:57 Conclusion

Комментарии • 75

  • @popmonika
    @popmonika Год назад +75

    They don't treat them better, it's just how they treated you at the beginning of the relationship.
    Eventually the mask falls off.

    • @narcabusecoach
      @narcabusecoach  Год назад +8

      Exactly!

    • @Earthoceanfire435
      @Earthoceanfire435 Год назад +4

      He treated her nicer for years because she enjoyed bashing me! It was hysterical to watch on social media. They fought like cats and dogs. Two narcissists, thank goodness not another innocent victim.

    • @LoveSource1111
      @LoveSource1111 Год назад

      I agree! There mask falls. I caused some serious narc injuries in him.

    • @dianevitale1214
      @dianevitale1214 Год назад

      YES!!!

    • @msuuups21
      @msuuups21 Месяц назад

      ​@@Earthoceanfire435how many years ?

  • @janicebullard5774
    @janicebullard5774 Год назад +21

    I made it very clear I had no Jealousy in me I believe that Angerd him!

  • @l.5832
    @l.5832 Год назад +39

    I accidentally came face to face with my narc ex-husband and his new supply while I was shopping. My ex was so uncomfortable and I could tell he was actually terrified I would blow his cover with this woman and say something that would expose his real nature. So, I purposely introduced my self and prolonged my chit chat with this woman until my ex was visibly pacing around in circles he was so uncomfortable. I actually found it really amusing. I feel sorry for the woman, however. I hope she dumps him as quickly as all his previous women have since our divorce.

    • @RapturereadyforJesus
      @RapturereadyforJesus Год назад +1

      That is amazing and you did so well at making him squirm.

    • @LoveSource1111
      @LoveSource1111 Год назад +3

      She will dump him.

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 Год назад +2

      Pray for the woman she will need it.

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n 4 месяца назад

      I won't prey for new supply sod her he was going with upstairs neighbour she was my flying monkey got mine and my daughters money stopped. They both tried to get me jailed.

  • @AA-nx2jz
    @AA-nx2jz Год назад +17

    Exactly!!! They will eventually going to show their true color sooner or later .

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 Год назад +11

    My narc ex hated the fact that he had to spend so much money and start all over trying to control someone else. He has crazy rage so he will scare them away. Plus his face is disfigured and young girls are not going to stay with him isolated in the mountains with a cheap boring man with messed up face telling them what to do. He doesn't drink and doesn't like to go out. He will be alone.

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 Год назад +17

    I am not his supply anymore. I refuse to see what he is doing with new supply. I think about it but I don't care to look at his Facebook. I hate him

  • @julia197
    @julia197 Год назад +11

    We were at the dinner table on my sons birthday. He poured his new supply a glass of wine. So strange to see, he did it never for me. Now she has left him after years.

  • @lolaweed7467
    @lolaweed7467 Год назад +6

    YES: Posts her on social media. Gave her his phone number. Told his family about her. Moved her in after 5 months of dating - He gave her everything that would've made me feel secure within the relationship, I begged for the bare minimum for 2 years. I think he began doing all these things because I no longer remained silent with some mutual friends about his emotional abuse towards me

  • @Earthoceanfire435
    @Earthoceanfire435 Год назад +31

    Yes he treated her better but she left him too lol!

    • @teresitaekim2565
      @teresitaekim2565 Год назад +2

      The guy over here dramatically changed but who knows? He probably have a new supply and I don't care. I wish he'll go as fast as he can. 😂 New supply? Good luck to her. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @twi1__12j
      @twi1__12j Год назад

      @@teresitaekim2565 😂

  • @2cool4u24
    @2cool4u24 5 месяцев назад +4

    I don't understand why they would flaunt the new supply to hurt you. If they are with someone else and happy with them why would they care to hurt the old supply. Boggles my mind.

  • @patriciat4493
    @patriciat4493 Год назад +4

    ex narc received a major promotion and decided he needed the proper accessories; the blonde in the next office that was half his age. Love bombing in the extreme, eventually winning her over with gifts and promises of exotic vacations. He told me to my face that he had 'traded up'.
    In short order, the new supply was demanding he make good on his promises which of course he never did and she left him. From what I hear, he's still up to the same games, always refreshing his supply

  • @Stort23
    @Stort23 10 месяцев назад +3

    I just found you. New supply I LOVE IT 😂 Funny story, (btw I thought my ex was just an abuser, I had no idea about all of this) when I left I took him name off my Costco card. B4 we were divorced he had a new supply & went shopping for his new gf's bday party. Hundreds of dollars. When he ck'd out they told him he had no account. He called me absolutely furious, I guess he looked really stupid 😂😂😂 I was like just open your own account. Samething happened when I took him off my dental and health insurance after divorce. If I would've known all this I would've had so much joy & played my cards a little different.

  • @77naaz
    @77naaz Год назад +10

    I lied to him and told him I am broke. He was gone 😂

  • @angelakeely5859
    @angelakeely5859 Год назад +20

    It's all so fake and shallow their behaviour with "new supply", it's a sad pityfull existence 😏

  • @cinnamonrose5599
    @cinnamonrose5599 Год назад +9

    Greetings to your beautiful cat & thx so much for sharing your expertise. Your clarity helps us all so much.

  • @vickiemcguire9956
    @vickiemcguire9956 Год назад +11

    Good morning Danish thanks again that is so spot on have a blessed day

  • @carolineonline2112
    @carolineonline2112 Год назад +7

    I absolutely LOVE your videos and advice!!! If you are new to these videos you MUST watch and subscribe!!!

  • @starsunny8240
    @starsunny8240 Год назад +7

    Why is my narcissistic friend still trying to talk to me in public casually with out acknowledging the no contact policy I took after him discarding me?

  • @dianevitale1214
    @dianevitale1214 Год назад +3

    YES YES YES!!! To think your narc might truly care for his new supply, unlike how he treated you is doing yourself a HUGE disfavor. Danish is right on the mark. TYVM

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 3 месяца назад +3

    He will never control me again

  • @janicebullard5774
    @janicebullard5774 Год назад +8

    Guess what Mr.Danish sir my Ex Narcissistic tried to take his life he left a message and said Life was worth living without me he almost was successful I had given him to God

  • @bettyvillegas9367
    @bettyvillegas9367 Год назад +4

    O I'm a low life good for nothing now. lol!! But 3 yrs later he wants to come back . I guess he's tired of her already lol!! But too late I gotta a new man who lives me and will do anything for me and is faithful to me and I'm so happy! I may have to get a ro now .ugh I'm sick of the narrsisit wish he'd just go away ..

  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  Год назад +6

    Here is the link to all my best resources:
    beacons.ai/narcabusecoach/

  • @janetrekha7252
    @janetrekha7252 Год назад +3

    An eye opener about narcissism, narcissistic abuse. Im undergoing all these and i have almost come out after him treating his new supply far and beyond. Really don't know when all this is going to stop

    • @popmonika
      @popmonika Год назад +1

      Hello I suffered narc/toxic abuse at work and the person after I had enough went over to another work colleague. Same behavior (love bombing etc).
      They also (months later) saw the mask falls off.
      Best advise I can give is to limit contact (no contact if you can) and concentrate on healing.
      People will eventually see through these people - it just takes time.

    • @michelle-vl3me
      @michelle-vl3me Год назад

      it will stop when YOU decide it will stop. it is up to you. narcs are frauds, they pretend to be what they want people to believe they are. the new supply won't be treated any better than you were, it's just a matter of time for her. he doesn't care about her more, he doesn't care about you less, he only cares about getting what he needs from other people. he will never change and he will never truely care about anyone but himself...when you are ready to move and put him out of your life...then it will stop. only you have that power.

  • @vaibhavi990
    @vaibhavi990 Год назад +1

    The way he refers people as 'supply' is epic!

  • @user-me5td6nh2e
    @user-me5td6nh2e 3 месяца назад

    Excellent informative discussion by respected speaker 🎉!

  • @jojo_024
    @jojo_024 Год назад +2

    Thank u For covered this topic.🥂🥊

  • @claresilvester561
    @claresilvester561 7 месяцев назад +1

    Always brilliant and scarily always so accurate too. These videos help me so much. Btw, can I have your cat lol?

  • @yasminsheikh-pg4qp
    @yasminsheikh-pg4qp Год назад +3

    Thankyou for this.....

  • @dianaalyssa8726
    @dianaalyssa8726 Год назад +13

    He likes her wallet

    • @77naaz
      @77naaz Год назад

      😂i was so going to write that too!!!

  • @daniellapierre9798
    @daniellapierre9798 Год назад

    Very well explained! ❤thanks for helping us learn how those beast function!

  • @yami_mami
    @yami_mami Год назад +1

    He treated her better but had to go out of the way to bring her down fast. He was playing revenge on the cheerleader 📣 by love bombing, dismissing, and discarding.

  • @Anonymous-gt1eq
    @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +8

    My dad is the biggest Narcassist, toxic person....it's just unbelievable how he wants to establish his control and constantly gaslights in the worse way possible.... as u say
    That's a big cat behind u lol...

  • @katvond6346
    @katvond6346 Год назад +7

    You were the new supply once...

  • @AndreeaCe
    @AndreeaCe 2 месяца назад +1

    What's outrageous is how they make possible to turn real empath look the opposite and them as the empaths. How they manipulate and manufacture data in their advantages, and then still play the victim.

  • @adumak3870
    @adumak3870 Год назад +2

    🎯, Subhanallah! How accurate! Thanks Danish.

  • @Crackrocksteady
    @Crackrocksteady Год назад +1

    My ex narc cheated on her new supply

  • @sylviaford3828
    @sylviaford3828 21 день назад

    Interesting. My narcissistic ex-husband (I left the marriage) got back together with his first ex-wife (she had also left him before this reconnection), whom he insisted on remaining in touch with throughout our marriage. There were no children in either marriage. How does this work the second time around with the narcissist and old new supply?

  • @monaj33
    @monaj33 4 месяца назад

    What a beauty 😺

  • @konangal16
    @konangal16 3 месяца назад

    Every supply to a trash narc will later smell like double rotten together

  • @nji7772
    @nji7772 Год назад +3

    PS I know he still "stalks" my FB. Again, I don't care. Have fun.

  • @nji7772
    @nji7772 Год назад

    Maybe when I let him know I am unable to accept "expensive" gifts, that threw him for a loop?

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 12 дней назад

    Its all a cycle ! We all know what's underneath that shit

  • @Momemtsinmotion
    @Momemtsinmotion Год назад

    What will happen if i send the narc this vedio?

  • @ladyvirgo9514
    @ladyvirgo9514 19 дней назад

    Yup,i saw through his shit & hes dragging the divorce out 14 plus months & its still ongoing, he moved into her house immediately upon leaving the marital home. What an immature idiot. When this divorce is finalized, Game on for her 😂😂

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 12 дней назад

    Lol they will be rotated as well 🤣

  • @jojo_024
    @jojo_024 Год назад

    💗