Do Filipinas trust younger men?

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @conniemw4886
    @conniemw4886 8 месяцев назад +5

    100% true at what Chad said, know what you want in a relationship and stick to your guts.I am married to a Canadian guy for 15 years and going strong. I told my family that marrying a white guy doesn't mean he is rich so they don't ask financial support from us. It's up to the pinay wife to put a reign on her family.

  • @BULLARDtheOKIE
    @BULLARDtheOKIE 9 месяцев назад +3

    Great vid!
    Lookin good Monty...I'm subscribed to Chad's Channel.

  • @Billy_B_Goat
    @Billy_B_Goat 10 месяцев назад +3

    You guys got to the core of the issues on quite a few important points and gave actionable advice. Good interview Monty.... always good to see The Chad. Peace and Love, B Goat

  • @notchit3542
    @notchit3542 10 месяцев назад +2

    I just Subscribed to your YT Channel. Happy for you & your family, & your story is very inspirational. Most older ppl I talk to already give up on hope, but you found meaningful things in life & shared with a great woman and child.

  • @jerrymarshall2728
    @jerrymarshall2728 10 месяцев назад +6

    My Fiancée (Wife in January) has never asked for money, and has offered to take a higher paying job, so we can build our savings better. She’s more frugal with money than I am. 😂🤣
    Now Chad had connected with all of the bigger creators!
    Glad to see you’re feeling better, Monty! 👍

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Jerry unfortunately I made this video before my latest stay in the hospital. I’m very happy that you found a good lady. I wish you both many many years of happiness together

    • @jerrymarshall2728
      @jerrymarshall2728 10 месяцев назад

      @@crewfamilyphilippines we’re planning a February trip from Luzon to Dumaguete. We’d hoped to meet Mike and Paul while there. If you’re feeling better by then, maybe we could see you, as well?
      Get better, Sir. You’re one of the mainstays of the Negros crowd!

  • @Thephilipcartmelexperience
    @Thephilipcartmelexperience 10 месяцев назад +8

    It's cheaper to rent than own. Many play the long game. Sincerity is the key. Once you can fake it, the rest is easy. Chad has class. I'm glad you two met. Monty, show him the ropes.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you Philip 💛

    • @rogerguerra4576
      @rogerguerra4576 9 месяцев назад +1

      Hello, Monty, new to your video. I have q question. If your wife's family live in the same house. Who pays for the food. Does her family contribute in anything.

    • @jsully4064
      @jsully4064 20 дней назад +1

      @Thephilipcartmelexperience While it may be cheaper to rent than buy a house in your Filipinas name, if you buy some property in your Filipinas name and you pass away after 20 years (thinking most expats that live there are over 60), she will be left with something tangible besides money and be able to take care of herself.

  • @joeknight3269
    @joeknight3269 10 месяцев назад +3

    good job Monty good seeing you back take care

  • @MarcRichard-b1u
    @MarcRichard-b1u 10 месяцев назад +5

    Do a part 2 with chad sometime as you both tell great stories….I’m pretty sure I subscribed to chads channel….

  • @soundsformeditation8531
    @soundsformeditation8531 9 месяцев назад +1

    Seriously appreciate your comments and sharing your experiences.

  • @michaelwuji1758
    @michaelwuji1758 10 месяцев назад +2

    Jungle man and the Kid!! Great video, wise content Kudos and thanks to you both...

  • @mikesimpson9997
    @mikesimpson9997 10 месяцев назад +2

    Enjoyed you two talking well done. A lot of good info

  • @holgermessner851
    @holgermessner851 10 месяцев назад +2

    I’m living in Panama and I did visit the Philippines in 2008. The difference between the countries? In Panama a clearly more “Gold digger ladies”. Why I think so? They tell it into your face. 😮 How? “If you like to have my company on your side, you have to pay for…” Seriously? I’m sure there are not a lot of men who like that kind of women. I had someone else asking me right away if I could pay the international school of her 2 kids. I never dated this woman and she wasn’t a close friend either. But she asked for her kids around $1,000 monthly from me. That’s ridiculous. I didn’t experienced that in the Philippines. Well I was only 4 weeks there. In Panama a lot of young women flirting with me here in Panama. After the depressing life in Canada, I felt like “Brad Pitt” kinda. But I figured that they actually were looking at my wallet….. Another difference here in Panama? Single women at 40 don’t think that they are any good for a man. Why? Most Panamanian men looking for 18-25 years old girls. Most married men have at least 1 mistress on the side. In the beginning I was in a dilemma. I didn’t like a 18 year old girlfriend. I raised 5 kids in my life, for weren’t my kids, and I don’t like to raise another one. The 35+ women had a mental problem, because their husbands left for a younger woman. And you have the beauty industry beating the last cent out of women. Boob, but jobs done. Maybe not. So they looking for a Gringo who would pay for it. If this is done, they need dental work that everything is Hollywood like perfect…. No gracias! How did I end up in Panama? I was after my separation in Canada actually really glad to be alone. The pandemic hit the world, and the “panic button” hit Panama. Ladies who didn’t looked at me, did start calling me. “Are you still in Panama? Can we meet?” Honestly? I’m not a guy who sees an opportunity in that - if you know what I mean. And like you guys said: Trust your guts. - 6 months into the pandemic, I was at a supermarket. We were allowed 2 hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays for shopping in the lockdown. Just paid a crying man’s medicine at the store’s pharmacy and did put my groceries into the car. Opened my driver door and looked at a crying woman. I know. That’s me. With my bad Spanish I asked what was wrong. Well. She got kicked out of her apartment because she was not working. No food, no money. I honestly couldn’t walk away. So I offered one of my rooms to her. And I can feed a second person with my pension….. She is the same age as me. And she always remembers that I picked her up when she needed help. And yes. I had many guys come over and telling me in restaurants: “You know. You could easily have 2 or 3 younger hot girls instead of her. Didn’t you know that?” But again. Younger ladies can have my son’s phone number…. And my lady always is telling me: “Don’t tell anyone that you did find me in the streets…..” The money question? She asks one’s in a blue moon for money to send to her son or mother. I honestly tell her if I can do it at the time or not. If I can’t (because I need to buy materials for my house I am building) - I tell her to wait until I get paid. She has no problem with that. And not a lot of guys want a woman older than 55 in Latin America. She knows that absolutely. Update: I forgot one important thing about having a local girlfriend. You guys know that too. But I like to mention that. - If a foreigner is looking to rent a place - you get ripped off. Send your girlfriend to get a local price on the rent. I have many foreigners as friends in Panama and all of them pay 3-6 times for rent that I do. Fish market, or produce sale on the street? Your girlfriend gets the better price!

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      I agree with you. My ex wife is from Honduras. She is absolutely nuts. I spent a lot of time over there. One positive in Panama medical is free. I'm glad that you found a good lady 💛

    • @sagdjim
      @sagdjim 10 месяцев назад

      I think your story has a lot of truth to it. I've seen it on TV reality shows, it's always the women from that part of the country who are looking for a sugar daddy. I would trust Philippinos much more than Panamaian.

  • @jspice-kl2wc
    @jspice-kl2wc 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great interview with a lot of great stories, Thank you.

  • @garyxyz4400
    @garyxyz4400 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hello Monty and Chad, i've been a long time viewer. Just wanted to say that all videos about dating or relationship is making me wonder why do I keep watching? I clitched hoping to see on the family. Back in tje beginning of youtube, people wanted to document their lives. What about a day out with family? Problems and how you handled it. And so forth. Nothing against Chad. Thanks for sharing.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for watching Gary, Aragel and I will work on that. With Faith in school and me just having another heart attack and just getting out of the hospital I have been posting videos that I had made before this happened.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 10 месяцев назад +2

    I’d not be surprised if chad gets a lot of interest after this video 😊

  • @blockaderunner
    @blockaderunner 10 месяцев назад +2

    I only gave my wife "money" to fly out to our honeymoon to where I had to be to catch a plane for my trip back home after spending time on her island. Now, I just give my wife money to support her back home AND for special occasions like Christmas coming up.

  • @kennethsuggs2546
    @kennethsuggs2546 10 месяцев назад +1

    Really enjoy both yall information yall tell truth. This what i like true videos like yall do God bless both you i enjoyed it alot

  • @fredfromtexas2764
    @fredfromtexas2764 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hi Monty, Interesting video. Someone commentated that the filipina women are all Christians. He got it wrong. They are Catholics. Big difference and are like the Catholics of the 1960s here where I grew up being a Catholic going to the schools with priest in the family. So like any Catholic they don't throw the faith down you throat like good Chtistians here. The poverty is real there so the only way out for them is to marry or have someone that has a little money. For myself it was a place that has plenty of westernized young women that is like back in my high school or college days. I get a big kick out of the guys that get hooked up with the drama girls there. You really can be picky and choosy in the Philippines. It doesn't take much to choose a drama queen or a regular girl that wants to have family and is loyal without drama. Monty seems to be like myself. Handling the life events that comes along with a drama free wife who is also trying to understand how it works. So I give up a high five Monty. As most videos are not posted about facts.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Fred, maybe we look at things the same way because we both grew up in Texas. I’m not Catholic and neither is my wife Aragel but we don’t try to push our beliefs on anyone. All of Aragel’s family are Catholics. I think drama queens are in every country and I always try to avoid them along with the negative people as well. Thank you for your kind words and your insightfulness 😊

    • @fredfromtexas2764
      @fredfromtexas2764 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Monty, Like most of my family here and friends I grew up with none I know are practicing Catholics anymore. Just so you know that. But my wife still likes to go light the candles on occasions and she wanted my son Baptized. Over in the Philippines they still use the baptismal certificate as a form of ID. That is the government so came in handy.

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@fredfromtexas2764 Yes you are correct they use it for ID as well. We go to a lot of Catholic baptisms here.. we are just plain old Christians. We had our daughter dedicated to the church. Even with that Paul McGill and my friend Dave are both Godfathers for our daughter 😊 I just go with the flow brother

    • @fredfromtexas2764
      @fredfromtexas2764 10 месяцев назад

      Yes best to go with the flow over there as the Catholic faith is not as hard core as most Christian faith especially here in Texas. And the Philippines still embrace the Catholic Church for official paperwork. Come to think of it when I got my first official driver's license in Toledo Ohio USA you could use your baptismal certificate instead of your birth for ID back in the day. My boy was Baptized but without God parents just a lot of volunteers with us at the church.

  • @lanec5672
    @lanec5672 10 месяцев назад +1

    Excellent, guys.. Thanks.

  • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
    @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 10 месяцев назад +4

    Chad is very interesting fellow

  • @damncars2618
    @damncars2618 10 месяцев назад +1

    Seems like the Young guys are like a butterfly in a garden. I think it's not age, but maturity the girls are looking at. Mature guys look at a girl's soul and not their age. A mature guy, looking for a traditional wife, will be a stable provider. Forget your age, live your life. Find a good girl and grow Old together.

  • @robkal56
    @robkal56 10 месяцев назад +2

    On women being jaded, it seems to be a universal that women make men in the present pay for the sins of men of her past. That's from Pearl, btw

  • @bayoumanbryan
    @bayoumanbryan 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for putting this together

  • @valaaufaatasifauea2837
    @valaaufaatasifauea2837 10 месяцев назад +1

    So true not all Filipino are the same 💯 even my island women some women LIKE your wife Sir Monty and a lot of women is not LIKE your beautiful 💯 you BLESSED with a amazing and true LOVE ❤💙 Thank you for sharing your life and love to us. God bless you more and more 🙏🙂

  • @francisp7609
    @francisp7609 10 месяцев назад +1

    Happy New Year 2024 to you and your loved ones! God bless and stay safe. 🎉🎆👍😄

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад

      Happy new year to you and your family. May God bless you as well. 🎆🙏🏻

  • @FlipandTheBlueMule
    @FlipandTheBlueMule 2 месяца назад +1

    82/100 still playing your playlist🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @IsmaelPR75
    @IsmaelPR75 10 месяцев назад +2

    Good to see Monty doing better!!

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you Ismael. I made this video before I went into the hospital 😊

    • @IsmaelPR75
      @IsmaelPR75 10 месяцев назад

      @crewfamilyphilippines best of luck, and a fast recovery 🙏 prayers and blessings 🙌

  • @DanielleQuiamco
    @DanielleQuiamco 10 месяцев назад +2

    Avoid those girls with Narcissistic Personality disorder

  • @ijustwanttobericherllc3410
    @ijustwanttobericherllc3410 8 месяцев назад +1

    Part 2 !!!❤❤❤

  • @unclejessiephilippinesadve7050
    @unclejessiephilippinesadve7050 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Monty hope you're feeling well😊 sometimes you have to taste a few different apples before you make you're pie😊 good show😊

  • @CasaAntonenasSanctuary
    @CasaAntonenasSanctuary 10 месяцев назад +9

    Not all Filipinas are the same…no difference with other women in other countries. So be very careful guys😊

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +3

      I think we mentioned not all Filipinas are not the same

    • @josedelnegro46
      @josedelnegro46 10 месяцев назад

      Are the laws different in the Philippines vs other nations? The primary fault in logic people like you make is that you assume that every one in the world lives under the same laws as you do.
      The laws written by the Americans in 1930, by the Spanish since 1560, and the power that the Bishop of Rome still has in the Philippines makes her different indeed.
      If one looks for the Christian Filipina who is devoted to the Christian way one will find that she can and does live well within the laws I listed above that restrict people's behavior in the Philippines.
      We as humans can do anything but since we are mortal we do not have the time to do all things.
      That is what any Filipina will tell you.

    • @addictcar69
      @addictcar69 10 месяцев назад

      @casa:we know that clown

    • @CasaAntonenasSanctuary
      @CasaAntonenasSanctuary 10 месяцев назад

      @@josedelnegro46 nice dude…long story 🙀

    • @josedelnegro46
      @josedelnegro46 10 месяцев назад

      @@CasaAntonenasSanctuary let me make state the case longer. I know the laws of the Philippines. I can read the standard Tagalog. I have run and biked 5000 miles this year. Any money I might spend in the Philippines is not a problem since my cost of living in Mexico is lower than what most expats in the Philippines say they are spending each month. But I can quickly go to the US to work and buy American products thus taking advantage of the US economics of scale.
      But if you are planning on going over 6000 miles away to an island that is easy to get on to but hard as hell to get off during a Bagio, a presidential drug war, and rebellions of Muslim autonomous regions. You might want to read a rude crude long form debate.
      But if on the other hand you have a short attention span you travel 6000 miles away in hopes of getting a piece of ass and continue to not understand that the ass who is in harms way is you!
      Now let me read your cute little one line idiotic trope.

  • @dannydubose
    @dannydubose 10 месяцев назад +1

    Good Stuff here Monty😀😀😀

  • @sagdjim
    @sagdjim 10 месяцев назад

    I suggest making a list, these would be must have, nice to have and not interested. Don't send money. Once you find that person, go meet in person in a perhaps 3 months.

  • @Sunmoon-gj9gy
    @Sunmoon-gj9gy 10 месяцев назад +4

    I was worried about you Monty after you posted about your heart attack and being Diagnosed with CHD and now your doing interviews?

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      I made several videos before I had the heart attack and was in the hospital. I’m just releasing them now 😊

    • @Sunmoon-gj9gy
      @Sunmoon-gj9gy 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@crewfamilyphilippines your in my prayers 🙏

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад

      @@Sunmoon-gj9gy thank you so very much 💛

  • @LheenChannel
    @LheenChannel 10 месяцев назад +2

    Good topic

  • @Alexinthephilippines
    @Alexinthephilippines 10 месяцев назад +2

    Some good advice there.Fortunately I have managed to detect and delete the scammers and have a good gf who never wants money from me. May I offer some small advice about your sound. Try not to tap or slap on the table or isolate your microphone by putting it on something thats not attached to the table.😊

  • @SaltySoiDog
    @SaltySoiDog 10 месяцев назад +1

    Nice new shirt Chadster 😅

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 10 месяцев назад

    If you are helping her and keeping her going with extra money she will hang on until you make the commitment then grab the money

  • @lynsaito533
    @lynsaito533 Месяц назад

    Hello ! Just wanna ask the name of your good doctor, my husband and I retiring soon in the Philippines but my one most worry is the health of my husband he also had a light heart attack and have maintenance medicine for his heart… thank you in afvance😊

  • @jsully4064
    @jsully4064 20 дней назад

    Color your hair grey and lie about your age, Chad...lol..joke..joke..joke..
    Its true, when I met my then Filipina LDR she said almost all the guys that she talked to online just wanted online sex or had no intentions of coming to the Philippines.
    New subscriber here will check out some more of your videos. Thanks, Monty...Jim

  • @Davirdcarrol
    @Davirdcarrol 10 месяцев назад +1

    What would be more attractive is the visa restrictions its to much Hassle for phlippines to be a number one tourist destination it really needs to relex some of its immigration laws for tourists and expats so it can be smooth sailing when flying into the phlippines and leaving phlippines has one the most beautiful ladies on world aslo one most top beautiful islands in the world aslo with it people so I hope they do that mouty I hope you can get a immigration specialist on your show one of these days great vedio as usual happy see you up and about hardly see your wife hope all is well sir you and your family happy holidays

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your insight, Aragel has been so busy. Our daughter Faith has started school and Aragel is very involved with that. She goes to her school every day and stays until Faith gets out of school. Aragel is the president of the PTA and she has also been working with a few friends to provide a Christmas for some of the students and some of the children in the church. Hopefully after December finishes up we can get together and do a few videos 😊

  • @CarlCutts
    @CarlCutts 10 месяцев назад

    It's not about age. It's about money. That becomes more of a contract

  • @Thephilipcartmelexperience
    @Thephilipcartmelexperience 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Chad, they love that long nose of yours. Watch your video again and follow your noses shadow all over your t-shirt 😅

  • @JensXBoyfriend
    @JensXBoyfriend 10 месяцев назад

    Why am i the only foreigner who does not get approached at the mall 😂😂😂😂😂 its another lie 😂😂

  • @Max791-z7l
    @Max791-z7l 8 месяцев назад +1

    I'm Indian and how do I get a filipina girl? i mean a good one

  • @andrewjones4773
    @andrewjones4773 10 месяцев назад +3

    Your still paying tourists visa extension fees when you could have been on a marriage visa years ago. What a waste of money.

    • @CarlCutts
      @CarlCutts 10 месяцев назад

      No. You not pay visa extension if married to Filipina

    • @andrewjones4773
      @andrewjones4773 10 месяцев назад

      @@CarlCutts the guy makeing the video still don't have a marriage visa

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner 10 месяцев назад

      I can't live there for several more years. Should I get a marriage visa anyway?@@andrewjones4773

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад +1

      Andrew I was stuck in the US for 2-1/2, years because of Covid. Plus the rest is a long story. You would understand why if you would have watched our videos from the beginning 😊

  • @josedelnegro46
    @josedelnegro46 10 месяцев назад

    The reason trust is an issue with Filipina when it comes to younger men is because implicity promise to marry is a predatory tactic promoted on other Expat Vlogers channels.
    Implicit promise to marry is promoted by saying you have to find a Filipina you can trust so #$&_# as many as you can and you will find her.
    Does that sound logical in a one and done country?
    I will not say what one and done means since Expats act like they are not subject to one and done.

  • @aarendal
    @aarendal 10 месяцев назад +1

    👍😎

    • @crewfamilyphilippines
      @crewfamilyphilippines  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you 😊

    • @whatsnext-007
      @whatsnext-007 10 месяцев назад

      Chad jumps girl to girl in his videos. I could see why Fillipinas might have reservations.

  • @jesus-b5w8e
    @jesus-b5w8e 10 месяцев назад

    Of course, younger filipino men. Not younger foreign men.

  • @santinasantina2177
    @santinasantina2177 10 месяцев назад

    👩🏻💭"So much hitting and knocking noise it really interferes with trying to focus on the conversation so sorry I have to leave, it is very annoying".

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 10 месяцев назад +1

    Chad your away to nice a guy for these fly foxy 🦊 women

  • @RuossFamilyAdventures
    @RuossFamilyAdventures 10 месяцев назад +1

    Please STOP BANGING ON THE TABLE AND MOVE YOUR MIC 🎤 it is driving me nuts 🥜

  • @SammyDavis-s7b
    @SammyDavis-s7b 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mark Thornton lies more than a filipina but not as good

  • @gordon.Jacko1055
    @gordon.Jacko1055 10 месяцев назад

    46. You look 60 😫