LOCKER ROOM | Omeleto
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- A teenager discovers her friends' group chat.
LOCKER ROOM is used with permission from Greta Nash. Learn more at gretanash.com.
A teen student named Carla discovers a secret chat group that her male friends have -- a chat where they share nude or titillating photos and videos of unconsenting girls among themselves, and rate them in a particularly degrading way.
Presented with a moral and social quandary, Carla knows what she has to do. But doing it may mean losing her friendships with the boys she calls her friends.
Writer-director Greta Nash's short, searing drama tackles a very current issue, but from a unique perspective: rather than looking at it from the POV of a perpetrator or a survivor, the story looks at sexual harassment and discrimination from the role of the bystander.
But with its taut, focused yet emotionally complex script and beautifully sensitive camerawork, Nash's film looks at this hot-button topic with great intelligence and subtlety. Carla is a fully realized character, who feels a clear rapport with her male friends. Among these friends, she feels she belongs and is respected, although that dynamic may be changing, especially as they get deeper into adolescence and the hormones begin to kick in.
But when she discovers the secret chat, she realizes that whatever egalitarianism and acceptance she may feel could be an illusion -- and her gender may indeed exclude her in both subtle and powerful ways in the future, especially as boys become men and girls become women, complete with social roles and expectations. She begins to wonder why the boys don't sexualize her, but she also feels uneasy and "gross," as she says, about what's happening. The performances of the young cast, especially by lead performer Bridie Noonan, are sensitively rendered and well done, and take care not to demonize or idealize any position.
How Carla navigates her discovery poses powerful questions about how gender and power work in the most emotional and intimate ways -- not just in the realm of romance, but in our search for belonging, connection and finding a place in the world where we feel respected, seen, heard and understood. Carla carries a heavy burden -- she knows what the right thing to do was, but she risks ostracization from the group of friends she values most. The film doesn't at all flatten her concerns, and makes clear the costs of what choice Carla eventually makes.
LOCKER ROOM is powerful, thought-provoking and memorable because, in some sense, we are all bystanders in this era of awareness -- and often must weigh the costs of speaking up vs. staying silent. Through the lens of one character's journey, we understand the small and insidious ways that oppression and domination work, especially in the realm of everyday life and emotion. In the end, the conclusion of the film is both deeply sad, subtly dark but also quietly hopeful -- much like a lot of discussion that surrounds the film's issues in general.
I'd rather lose these type of friends than tolerate their behavior.
but my question is.. who wouldn't?
BasicallyBunni people who are those “friends”
@@Auralivna People who are afraid to stand up. Some people stay with these disgusting humans because "They're not the target" and they don't want to be so they don't speak up. Same goes with bullying
@aylave tbh, you give a good point
True
**They slam the laptop shut when she walked in**
.....not suspicious at all
Dexter W it’s instict so yea
normal people would've just closed the page
@@flamgofan9821 yeah dude
You know I've an ability that I've developed over time. Its like I'm watching anything that is suspicious alone somewhere then suddenly someone comes in front of me. I don't freak out. I know he is at some distance so I remain calm and use my fingers instead to close the content as soon he reaches me. This way I don't seem suspicious at all and also don't get caught!!!
@@gautamsharma3361 Lol bro what suspicious content are you watching
😹
The worst part is that one of the guys has a little sister and still doesn't understand how wrong what they did is
he understands. he just doesn't care
@@missyrabbit5250 peer pressure...he cares more being in his little clique of mates than his own sister
I get where you’re coming from but you don’t need to have a sister to know what’s right from wrong
@@FMKAnimation it's not really about knowing whats wrong or not it's about knowing how that would make someone close to you feel, i'm pretty sure every guy that has a sister or even a close girl friend has heard that they have been catcalled at least once and they should know that it isn't something great to experience i have been catcalled and it is pretty damn awful and sadly it's an everyday thing
*I'm using catcalling as an example i can't imagine how a situation like the video would affect your life*
@@TheInfiniteArchives you really think what the guys did was JUST a joke!!! A JOKE that was objectifying a woman!!! A JOKE that could've ruined someone's life!!!
The fact that she felt like she needed to apologise for watching the video when her one friend caught her… so sad and realistic at the same time
She was reading a private chat. While what she did wasn't as bad, it still was not the right thing to do.
@@greywolf7577 i’m not disagreeing with you in any way, i’m also pointing out the fact that the second she came back into the room the guy immediately shut the computer close. that wasn’t a good thing to look through their computer but it was very suspicious and humans get curious sometimes🤷♀️
@@greywolf7577 you're so wrong
Normally you do not look at people's chats without permission.
@@greywolf7577 Though she apologized for reading a private chat, a huge apology and a form of restitution should be made for the video itself.
I hate how the guys are acting like it was just a joke when they literally assaulted a girl and recorded it.
Exactly, they're so fkn disgusting. They should be sued ffs
It is sad because boys in my school are also like this and my father was abusive as well.. & now my hate for boys is just increasing day by day and I'm not able to help it.
edit: To the people who are saying "i won't be able to find a king" let me tell you I'm not into men anyways.
Edit (1 year later): Alright so I've worked on this internalised hate towards men and now i don't think necessarily all men are bad people. There are just some bad men and women out there, there are gonna be bad PEOPLE out there, it's not a gender thing. Genuinely great men exist. Just felt like sharing it:)
its a movie
@@OrdinaryLD but it's pretty common for guys especially sport teams.
Thanks fur spoiling
She kept saying sorry, it's bad that she thought she was at fault
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Yeah, and victims of sexual assault often blame themselves for it as well. It's a common response that's really sad
It is wrong to go through someone's stuff and invade their privacy, but given what they did, they can't get upset at that. I think you could call it poetic justice.
@@tylersamuels4438 You've really got to set your morals straight mate...
@@bwmanhath3770 read my comment again until your reading comprehension skills kick in
tbh, from a girl's perspective, it's rather traumatic when your palls with whom you used to hang out on equal terms suddenly decide that you're not one of them bc you're a girl...
No, she got them suspended.. It wasn't because she was a girl.. LOL..
@@Jaydavid25. The scene with the laptop was before anyone got suspended.
Jay David rewatch the video. they still treated her as an outsider before they got suspended
@@Jaydavid25. also even the fact that they would rate her is disgusting and traumatic that guys you thought were your guy friends are looking at you in that way is disgusting
@@papasscooperiaworker3649 They didn't specifically treat her as an outsider.. It seemed pretty normal to me.. It was only when she found out they rated girls at the school, and the weird thing with the video tape that she got insecure and felt like an outsider..
She's a hero and has nothing to apologize for. More girls should be like her. If girls dont protect each other, no one will protect us.
Who did she save? XD
@@kylerjase5124 other girls from getting treated like her
well that's not entirely fair. there are plenty of us men who innately protect women. I once saw a drunk guy, outside a bar, kick his gf between the legs. I ran over and dropped him with a kick to the side of his head. All his buddies jumped me. I got the worst beating of my life. So, your comment is a little close to home.
@@keithhinchcliffe5629 props to you👏 you did well
@@keithhinchcliffe5629 pfftt
The crime is the lifting of the skirt of a sleeping girl, filming it and uploading it.
it is very disgusting
Ohhhh, that's what they were doing, I couldn't see it clearly enough to understand what they were up to (just that obviously it was wrong).
I thought it was worse than that. Hopefully the panties was still on. Looked like the girl was drunk.
I thought it was much worse and involved another object
It was implying that they drugged her and then were assaulting her when she was out of it. They didn't just lift her skirt, they were starting to touch her inappropriately and then the guy walked in. We don't have to see it acted out to know what the implication was. Then they were also filming, uploading, and laughing about the assault on the girl.
Long haired guy is not pissed that he did the deed. He’s just pissed that he got caught. Literally trash. :/
he's an actor calm down of course he wouldn't be pissed cos he (probably) not like that
why are all of these people treating it like its a real thing lol
Hassan Ahmed they’re talking about the character, not the actor lol
@@HoneyandCIover oh yeah that makes sense but still people will feel a sense of freedom to also criticize the actors. Like imagine if the girl was fat no one would really say anything bad (some would find it attractive nani??). But if one of those guys were fat imagine what would happen.....
Hassan Ahmed I’m not sure I really understand your point
I like how the girl at the end didn’t even question why she was crying, she just immediately knew she needed someone and held her.
It's a girl thing. They do it subconsciously any time anyone of their girlfriends is stressed.
🧔🏼 Wish it was this way for both genders. :/
@@cai3886
As in boys hugging girls in distress?
🙎🏼♂️ Boys hugging other boys, I believe. My friend group helps each other out regardless of gender, but we’re certainly outliers.
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 Human thing*
The idea that “hormones are kicking in” implies that these guys have no choice in what they are. This is not an issue about hormones, it is an issue of respect versus objectification, caring versus entitlement. They made a choice, and they can make a different one the minute they are ready to say “I’m sorry.”
Even if this video were real (it isn't), you have to expect that people can learn and grow from the bad decision they made when they were younger.
Nowhere was it implied they can’t change. But they sure as hell know better. It’s disgusting. Own up.
They are creepy predators. No excuse
yh they can grow in jail LOL@@binarystar300
Absolutely, this is the exact sense in which we differ from animals. Adolescence doesn't give one any excuse and/or reason to commit such atrocities. As humans, we define a whole different plane to everything. Every action has a meaning and every feeling as a purpose, yet after having intelligence of such extents, seeing what people do with it is literally wasteful.
The fact that they closed the laptop means they know how wrong it is.
That's philiphophocal in site there.
Right?? they can’t even pretend they had no idea what they were doing.
Or just that they don’t want her to see.
@@dandylion2837 because it's wrong...
@@ayanjali yeah but just because they don’t want her to know, dosen’t mean that they believe that what their doing is wrong.
But you’re right... shame and hiding comes from a conscience about good and bad. But if they believe that what their doing is okay, the closing of the laptop could just be a unconscious reflex. Like a unconscious conscience.
As a guy it disgusts me that there are boys like that. If I'll have a son I will try my best to educate him in these matters, but if he ever turns out like this I'll never forgive myself for not guiding him enough.
heres your crown king 👑
@@amyleiigh333
We need all the good decent men we can find. You're appreciated.
Sir...you dropped this- 👑
@trash boy
Change your username sir
If you see something, SAY SOMETHING.
whether a GIRL or a boy
Alr, i see a chair. CHAIR
Easier said than done.
Isn't that the terrorism hotline or whatever
SOMETHING
I love her for reporting them. Most people would keep quiet to avoid being insulted or made fun of by the boys or seen as uncool.
"It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends."
Helene G. Love the HP Quote
what friends? She had no friends in this show. only enemies that she halfheartedly stood up to.
@@Captain_Blue_Beard bruh pretty sure dumbledore says that to neville longbottom at the end of sorcerers stone.
Tyler Hughes HP is short hand for Harry Potter
@@Captain_Blue_Beard he says a great deal more to stand up to your friends. Lol i thought you was saying hp lovecraft
Carla is what every father hopes his daughter will be, brave, bold and brutally honest
@Poseidon I said father, real men make good fathers....you sound like a piss poor "dad"
@@richmondraider716 periodt
@Poseidon one doenst have to be a feminist to be those things...
@Poseidon And why not? Why don't you want a daughter who stands up for what's right and fights for equality? ( not talking about the ones who say that all men are bad or that women should be higher than men. They aren't feminist they're extremist) The ones who don't stand by when they see someone whos hurt
Brave and bold are the same thing lol
It's alot worse when you found out that you're "trusted" male friends were sending photos of you on their group chat, and saying inappropriate things about you
@@zincirbozan31 yeah but justyfing their actions by saying it's "biology" is bad too
I know.
My trusted male friends made fun of me and stuff.
They made inappropriate jokes about me, and racist jokes about me for months.
It was terrible.
Because I trusted all of them.
This girl deserves none of this. It's not her fault that they got in trouble.
She saw something, she said something. Like everybody should.
Its on 666 likes lmao
The photos were bad, but saying 'innapropriate things'? that doesn't affect you. You should not care. It's their private discussion.
@@Michael-mh2tw bruh. Are you hearing yourself rn? You’re just as bad as them if you’re enabling it
this makes me thankful to be with someone who is friends with an actual respectful decent group of men. huge red flag if a friend or partner has friends like these guys
"red flag" -👩
Yeah heavy on that red flag part, it's important to meet any partner's friends because a person's friends are often an extension of themselves
She read private messages of someone else without their consent. That itself is the BIGGEST RED FLAG. She had no right to. But of course you won't call her out. Because she is a girl.
I think most men are decent... But the ones who are not really stand out
@@rohanshende4338 Checking private messages of those who were acting suspicious and pretending to care about her. She did the right thing by checking the computer and reporting on those boys' disgusting and predatory behavior. Quit acting like there's some kind of double standard here to cover up your misogyny.
The worst thing is they got panicked after getting caught that means they know they did something they shouldn't have done...but they still act surprised that the girl is taking it seriously
Gaslighting 101
Kvian ????
@@zephyrus1442 Yo..!! I'm also a KVian
@vaishnav m Which KV ? (State) ?
oh wow..
I'm a kvain too..
from kerala
Boys: Degradeds And Belittles Woman
Girls: Gets Offended
Boys: Suprised Pikachu Face
Gothadelic I don't like the way the boys were acting. I'm a boy and I'm here to tell you that is not the way all boys act.
@Coder boi Don't you dare try to normalize this behavior as "boys being boys". The nonsense stops when we make it clear these actions are unacceptable. Stop making excuses.
Coder boi boys should be decent humans lmfao
@Coder boi wait so is being I d i o t I c just being boys?
Or long continent boi
My parents: why aren’t you friends with more boys?
Me a boy: because girl drama is less illegal
leo ga...?
@@skullxwrapper9968 y
Pip - MC ok cool
Safi Abdelrahman people can be friends with whoever they want, they don’t have to be gay and they don’t have to tell you if they are
@@skullxwrapper9968 My parents: If you talk to any boy, you're dead
I'm asian -_-
Carla did the right thing. The boys' behaviour was absolutely disgusting and predatory. Good on her for calling that out.
You do realize they drew on her with a marker... This is an age old prank children do at sleep overs, hardly anything I would call "disgusting and predatory". If you truly believe your words you are actually delusional.
@@Zaptosisbros spitting fax
I think the person said that because, in the context of the group chat and the scene, it was clearly more than just "drawing a marker on someone who is sleeping". And that they weren't only referring to the video, but also the group chat in general and how they were talking about the girls and stuff, especially Younger Girls, like the girl tells the guidance counselor.@@Zaptosis
@@Zaptosis Someone's either blind or didn't watch the video if that's all you caught from that scene.
She read their private messages. She had no right to. At that point if she got g(r)aped it's her fault.
My best guy friends were the “social rejects” in school and even at church because they wore black clothes and metal jewelry, constantly making mischief and generally had issues with authority - the EXACT opposite of who I was, which puzzled adults and peers constantly.
These same guys also held a very strong code of ethics and morals, especially towards women. I was always protected, never put into any awkward situation, and they never laid a finger on me even when we argued. The “normal” guys, however, the high-achieving social princes, kept trying to sleep their way through the student body and one even tried to sneak into my hotel room on a class trip - but was blocked by one of my friends before I even found out.
Years later one of my “troubled” friends married my best friend and they have an amazing marriage with two beautiful daughters.
Finding out how horrible most guys can be made me eternally grateful for my friends!!
I agree. It's bad to generalize, but the popular boys (particularly on sports teams) tend to experience more male-to-male, homogeneous comradery that acts as an echo-chamber for their worst ideals. Less popular kids who don't tend to hang out in hordes and focus a bit more on character to unite them than athletic ability or caste tend to be forced to see more diverse viewpoints, in addition to the missing "popularity net" that allows others room in disrespect. Specifically the kids who don't participate in party culture AND aren't socially popular or are considered troubled tend to have strong senses of justice.
@@pearlescent1557 ah yes, male to male comradory is toxic... And what about female to female comradary? Do girls also have evil echo chambers or is it just the evil, horrible guys?
I’m sorry this is great and all but I can’t get over that you accidentally wrote “they never laid a finger IN me” instead of ON me, and yet it still makes absolute sense in this context!
Metal heads are actually really gentlemanly. In the mosh pit, if I fell they didn't hesitate to help me back up. Never felt threatened by any of them
Please dont use the word 'most'. I do thank you for not generalizing all men, but theres easily more good men than bad men in the world. And sadly, the good deeds of the good men are never revealed anywhere, while the bad deeds are spread everywhere. Every news station is eager to catch the bad deeds done by men. This unfortunately causes every man to be generalized, with the bad deeds far out shadowing the good deeds.
yo I would be crying too if I lost my friends and found out they were pervs
Who wouldn’t?
@@m13-b6b me. i'd respect the girls more lol. don't worry i ain't much of a perv myself.
A little info for you, If you have guy friends they are all pervs
@@valenteleanos4774 mine aren't because they are gay
@@midnightfox5684 they're also pervs just not to girls
Ladies lets all swear a vow that if we have boys, we raise them to respect woman and be gentlemen, our era needs more of those
I do!
I do
@Dark__ Wolf lol u r here too ?
@Dark__ Wolf 😂
Count me in !
I'm glad her friend came to hug her at the end. She needed to feel she did the right thing protecting her friend and everybody else who could've been a victim.
Everyone complaining about the ending but let’s be honest it’s realistic.
v e n d e t t a who is complaining 😕
Exactly the 1000th like 🤗🤗
none of this is realistic. It's obvious that the writer has never read a boy's group chat.
@@MunkEMann yeah, in real life, we do it way worse
@@sersomeone9704 honestly, they at least could have put some racial slurs in there.
The girl hugging her at the end is the same girl in the video she doesn't know what happened yet but the point is that it's a circle it comes back around. Just something I noticed that I don't think anyone many others did
The film began with her as well along with Karla
I did not know that I thought that girl was the sister of the boy who close the laptop and I thought that was an reference to what if someone did that to your sister saying, that what I saw it has wow !! But the way has you put it was very deep !!
Lol, you're not the only one --I definitely noticed and knew that! 😂
We Indians call it karma...what goes around comes around
wow youre just a unique little snowflake
This is what happens when they say “boys will be boys” smh. Please, let’s do better in raising men
More Gentlemen ...
@@Smt_Glaive yes👈
And don't even get me started on the toxic masculanity put into boy's brains since they were young by the society.
Anice A.J.K 100% telling boys that they act like girls (which shouldn’t be an insult) when they’re emotional or expressive. Wont be me, my boys will not carry that unnecessary trauma
Yes let's do better also 550th like
When my husband was in high school, he had a mentor, an older man, who taught him how to treat women right and honour them.
I’ll always be grateful for this man’s influence in my husband’s life.
You need a mentor for that??
@@honkie You don't need a mentor to not be a bad person, but having a mentor to teach you what to _do_ to be a good person, who upholds their own examples really helps for both men and women.
@@honkie Yes. Unfortunately.
@@honkieCrazy but I guess in todays world, many men need help to develop basic human empathy towards women
When he called her ugly I lost it I wanted to slap him so bad
But 3 of them 1 of u
That was ur issue with this?
That sad part is that he’s ugly wait no that’s the funny part😂😒
@@yaaasssitzafiastar4395 bruh wtf it wasn’t even funny
@@yaaasssitzafiastar4395 exactly like you know him in real life and judge him based off a movie character real mature 🙈🖕
For everybody that is confused, a few boys on the football team made a group chat where they rate girls for their attractiveness. The video was of a girl who was sleeping /unconscious and the boys were lifting up her skirt and recording it.
Edit: What the frick i forgot about this comment why it get likes
Kentin LaBeau thank you soooo much! U rlly helped a lot!
@@darlene8299 You seriously didn't understand?
I'll only forgive you if you're too young to understand or do not speak English. Otherwise you dissappoint me, sorry.
@@smauggerr well in my case
I didnt wanna watch a 13 min video so skipped thru more than half of it
So yea that was helpful for me atleast
@@smauggerr darling, you disappoint me. Some people don't want to watch a 13 minute video.
Akemi Moore If you don’t want to watch it then don’t worry about what happens in it
"The world will not be destroyed by evil, but by those who watch it and refuse to fix it."
-Albert Einstein
I know this quote from Criminal minds
My history teacher put this on his board and never took it off
@@Evelynl378 Nice I like the quote it just makes too much sense to me. Too many people have the privilege's of being a bystander.
This is true.
But how can we ? 🥺
The guilt of losing the friends is so overwhelming... But she did the right thing and she's so brave. I hope we can all do the same things for what's better
I love how it's a girl offering Carla a hug than Finn. Don't get me wrong - I'm not a man hater, but the message that girls should support and be there for each other is important. So much of the problems girls face can be solved from just that attitude to reach out than tear each other down.
yeah, i feel like even if it's someone i hate, i will be there for them if something like this happened. girls need to support girls.
Felt the same
He could have and had the chance to, but showed his true colors instead.
I know, lots of women hating other women these days
So true
The fact it could of happened to her, she's comfortable around the guys you can tell, what if she passed out or fell asleep around them😔
I can't even imagine 😔😔😔😔😔
not gonna happen. they did that to the other girl because they were not emotionally attached
They can't do that to her since they are very familiar with her.
They see her as one of them......just like they would view their sisters, but of course, they aren't related.
These are just teenagers, not animals.
Thatswhy she take action i guess
They'll wake her up and drive her home.
Oh gosh I totally remember the whole 'feeling disgusting and grossed out but still wanting to be noticed or payed attention to' as a young teen... puberty sucks y'all 😥
yup, sad but true
You put it into words
that's how I feel..I'm 14
@@khadzk1936 oh man, I gotta say just be careful when talking to people online because I seriously could have gotten into danger, and try talking to your parents or if you have them, older siblings (I wish I had) about stuff you're unsure about. It'll be ok
Priscilla Ruiz oh no, don't worry 😂 I'm fine honestly, I wasn't going to do anything drastic to change my feelings haha. I don't think my parents would understand and no older siblings..yeah that sucks.
I was molested by one of my aunts in the cover of darkness. It shows not only men but women are capable of such acts. Stay awake and don’t ever think it’s just men doing this type of crime
I hope your doing alright now.
@@orange6179 it happened to me some 9-8 years ago but yeah, I’m alright thanks
Gross please tell she is in bars
@@mindingmybusiness3915 she is not, I can’t nor remember who it was or her name, but I have
@@mindingmybusiness3915 suspicions on which aunt
I had a lot of guy friends at one stage and was pretty chill with a lot of their crap.. but then I saw the way they treated some of their girlfriends or spoke about women.... and even though they didn't speak that way about me.... it just stopped being ok. I was never friends with their girlfriends, I'm not even a gal's gal.. but it just leaves you so uncomfortable.
That's how you can tell if a person is descent or not, it's the way they talk about other girls.
Yea, me and my bff where in a cool friendgroup we where al chill with eachother but then they started making fun of her behind her back and in her face ): but they didn’t do it to me now I left them Bcs they are toxic af and my bfs b-day is tomorrow 💕
Honestly because once you speak up about it. They decided you just don't understand because you are a girl. And every moment when you hung out with them becomes nothing.
@@zerroukcirine6478
The way they talk about other people*
What, you think something like this can't happen to a guy, or any other gender/non-binary?
@@Eviiix
I mean, I constantly make fun of my friends as a joke, and we exchange insults as a joke as well. It's not toxic, we just find it funny. Hell, sometimes we make fun of ourselves. But I can see how someone doing that to someone who finds it rude can be a very uncomfortable thing, and that kind of toxicity is very bad, so I'm glad you escaped it. And I know I'm two weeks late, so happy late birthday. My present is... Uh... A yeet. My present is a yeet. Yay.
Love omeleto but I always read it as omelet.
Konny you smell like eggs
belle jackovitch 😉😂
Me too - *ALWAYS* 😏😂😂
Reading this comment made me realize that it's 'Omeleto' and not 'Omelet' LMAO.
Me too😂lol
Im more disgusted by the fact that there are still some questionable creatures (male and female) outthere who would defend those kind of actions and blame the victim.
nobody's blaming the victim. all she did was be unconcious
Those actions are unjustifiable, but if she was drunk at a party, it's her fault for being unconscious 🤷♂️
@@iveros8481 ... no. lots of people go unconscious at partys, and most of them stay safe. she probably thought she would be safe considering she was surrounded by her friends, it is in no way this girls' fault. the guys should have known how wrong it is to do anything sexual to an unconscious person, the fault is on them, not her. how can you say their actions are unjustifiable, and then say it's her fault for being uncoscious?!
@@tova1412 Tbh you should never be unconscious at a party where you don't know the host just as you should never walk into the direction of a baby grizzly bear, you just never know whether it's safe or not.
@@aomda355 Just like you should never go camping bc it;s your fault you're positioning yourself near wild animals. Just like if you go out with friends you should feel safe around them
as a girl who has been in a long term all guy friend group that’s had a breakdown, the girls support at the end is the only thing you want at that time, especially if she’s involved. it honestly helps boost your hopes and confidence towards the situation so much which is why i think girls looking out for girls is so important
As a father of three young adult women....This should be shown to all high schoolers.
this happens at middle schools as well. its sad
@@snuz1257 Jeez,
It happens to elementary also my friend had to deal with it with all the boys in the class
Rubbish. Just make sure your girls are educated enough not to drink until they pass out.
@@dncviorel please tell me you’re joking
Do not tolerate this kind of behavior guys/gals even when you're friends with them.
I'm sad
@@juliamyrie6881 Stop crying and do something about it then.
Yeah, guys are going to talk about girls, but that doesn't mean I have to too. Infact, it really bothers me.
@@EternityUnknown I’m proud you know common sense that this is wrong. Ik you never said that, but it bothering you def means you know that it’s wrong and shouldn’t be done
Thank you for saying gals, too. When Alex from Target's life got disrupted those girls weren't shamed for their creepy, uploading-without-consent behavior. They got rewarded and he was treated like he's supposed to think about lose of privacy as a good thing...
Ok but why is nobody talking about the fact that they mainly shared photos of girls from the years below?...
Inês Costa I think it’s because Seniors like freshman girls.
Inês Costa Because they’re ‘easier’
Because they’ve probably already talked about the girls their age in prior years, so now they’re on to the ones newer to them.
Cause girls their age will mostly date older guys
I think it’s because senior boys now freshman girls are easy to get or something like that
I’m really glad that the guy who stood by and seemed “nice” realizes that he’s seen as a monster too for allowing that to happen and standing by even defending it. Even if you don’t actively victimized others you’re still a part of the problem. Just one of the lads
yes, he's an enabler of abuse. The fact he probably sees himself as a 'good guy' is particularly gross
@@milab.8602 He didnt realize. He's just scared that they got caught. People like him are as bad as the others, the ones who watch and dont do anything, just accepting the fact his mate is assaulting a women on video
She did the right thing. I know she feels guilty but she saved all those girls. That would've ruined the lives of these unsuspecting, young girls. She did right. She stood for the right thing
But what about the girls who mock young men just because said girls hustle on twitch?
@@harrisn3693 wot?
@@harrisn3693 wtf are you talking about
how would their lives be ruined? plz enlighten me
@@harrisn3693 ? Didnt get your comment
looking back on high school I remember just how toxic it really was, I mean, it was super bad. sexism, racism, homophobia it was so abundant among my graduating class and other classes.
@Marwan where are you from?
I agree. As an adult, I realize how much my teachers contributed to the horrible behaviors that were allowed because they allowed them to continue. Adults making choices, without really realizing what they attributed to. Honestly would like to hear thoer excuses to my adult brain now
It can be terrible, but it really depends on your social circles, your teachers, and your reactions to other’s actions.
i know it; and i mean i’m in a private christian school. if it’s bad there i don’t know what it’s like in public school....
U saying this makes me scared to go to highschool next year oh my lord- 😭💀...
I’m a guy, and I can never understand why other guys would do this to girls. I mean it breaks my heart tbh, it kills me to see this smh. I would never do this to any girl as long as I live. That’s why I don’t really hang out with any guys.
Thank you so much for being who you are and respecting girls. I'd just advise you to not see all guys in the same way, some do commit such horrible and misguided acts but there are also some (like you 😉) who understand and are respectful.
@@abcxyz-st1zh thank you, that means a lot but I don’t hate every guy, like I hang out with some, but I know who I can trust😉
@@reasemcgill2829 Glad to hear that! 😁
@@reasemcgill2829 trust the guys who are nerds
I feel you man i have only a few guy friends that are like me im gonna treat a girl good and respectfull
I am 75 and do not understand most of the generations after me. I was brought up on books like Knight of the Round Table and other books where women and girls were respected and protected. School taught us boys to give up our seats to women on buses, open doors for them. What a different world.
Yeah, Its defintely gone the wrong direction. I come from a strict family so I never really got caught up in all this weirdness untill i ended up in college
The Vatican has been infiltrated in 1960 and second vatican council happened
The Catholic Church has fallen in 1960
That's what happened
no see, can we TALK about 7:10 and the beauty of it? The heavy silence coating them as she looks at her friend, really looks at him, for the first time ever. That haunting silence is coming from a place of realization, an epiphany that she never knew him or her other friends at all, and theres a tragic element there-- UGH beautiful
I think, she did know him, but he gave himself in to peer pressure, there's more commentary there than just that
I thought that guy was the best of them for being there for her & somewhat regretting everything
WOW...just WOW 😭
@@Lyla.abogoda He did not regret but he did feel a bit of empathy, just like most human beings.
She looked at him with disgust.
“I’m friends with guys because they are less problematic”
(I’m sorry if I offended anyone with my comment I know not all guys are toxic)
I mean they are though. Also idk why this girl didn’t run away instantly because I sure would have.
I like having guy friends more than girl friends, it’s just easier to be yourself around them.
Your comment is beyond unnecessary.
@@anonymous9074 They were best friends and she was having trouble realizing the scope of what they had done, plus one of them turns on her in an instant, questioning whether they were friends at all. It's a massive betrayal.
@Alan Smith-Emerson that has nothing to do with what I said though
The same boys that make girls cry will be wiping away the same tears from their daughter's eyes one day.
If they grow up, so likely become the dad's the objective their own daughter.
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no, they won't. which sort of daughter would voluntarily turn to a "man" like that for support? these are not men, these are cowards, they only think of themselves.
@@dedcoyt3437 I'm guessing that you used Google Translate because that makes no sense whatsoever...
@@damianayre2130 I know, I type way too fast. Obviously it wasn't an emotional comment.
This is why I really, really appreciate one of my guy friends (and now boyfriend as of a couple days ago). He still call out guys if they make a creepy joke or make a girl uncomfortable and even if they say "it's no big deal" or "it's just a joke" he still tells them its not okay and stands up for us girls.
That is an incredibly hard thing to do being faced with the choices of either laughing with friends or calling out their behavior takes real courage in the past I’m ashamed to admit I’ve been faced with those options and didn’t make the right choice
She's soo pretty and kind but they treated her like that, smh..
lesbiam
She kinda cute
@@terrytucker4811 what just happened ?? 😂😂
Wow, special treatment
Deadbeatᅩ헌 omg ikr she’s gorgeous
Why were they just staring at each other for 10 minutes
I thought the guy was going to kiss her
@@juanitaauelua2693 me too lol
@@juanitaauelua2693 Me too
@@juanitaauelua2693 same
Toyosi A trying to find words to make it better but there was that could be said bc of the situation, just brains processing
May every girl out there have the courage to what she did.
Amen!
Standing up for others will always be scary. But I hope we can always gather enough courage to stand up for others when no one else does
Girls as well as guys. Our capacity to do right isnt dependent on gender
And guy
And the same if the genders were swapped
Everyone's sharing their personal experiences and their disgust for the boys which is great but what I've been searching for is a comment that applauds these ppl for their incredible acting. It was generally amazing script writing, editing and acting, I could totally see the emotions and the realism. It wasn't trying to make it extra dramatic for entertainment, it was so real. They truly did an amazing job!
I agree! And I was thinking I'd love to see this woman in a real movie, especially a drama.
Quando si commenta la storia e non gli attori, vuol dire che gli attori sono stati talmente bravi da far dimenticare allo spettatore che stavano recitando, quindi per me non commentare gli attori è un gran complimento.
Sometimes you just gotta beat up a pervert
Yea
*torturing 🌚
eat alive* :)
*kill 🙂
Dont be shy let's all have knives 😌🔪
Girls locker room: Omg Josh is so sweet!
Boys locker room:
memes aside thats one of the most realistic typical "boys locker room" events.
Actually i remember this one time in my lockerroom, these seniors put this freshmen in a trashcan no in a mean way buf a fun way and it was halarious
Nathan Mendyk how do you put someone in a trash can in a fun way?
@@shayaanlindow8180 like not in a mean spirited way
@@shayaanlindow8180 same way you tap someone on the other shoulder and say made you look, just not in a mean way
I remember two guy “friends” of mine in high school made a bet on who would get with me first. I found out because one of the guys girlfriend tried to confront me about it as if I had a clue about their secret group chat. This is why I don’t really have guy friends because I feel like I can’t trust them.
Exactly, I felt betrayed. Guys like them make it hard to have male friends, because you dont know if they actually want to be your friend, or just want to get in your pants.
so sorry you went through that. i am glad you found out about it.
I'm sorry that you had to go through all this
These days both guys and girls have a hard time trusting each other when it comes to a relationship
@@SianaRose on the other hand being a cliche nice guy, girls in my college don't wish to talk to me for long because I'm not someone with a good sense of humour and neither am I into shallow talks, they somehow love being with jerks
It seems like the guys you were friends with were just questionable people. Good, decent guys with morals and integrity, just like girls with integrity wouldn't do things like that
That short hesitation from that one boy at the end is incredible, you can see he wants too apologise, but knows it doesn't mean anything. He also doesn't want to break away from his group of friends. He is just so incredibly torn.
nope. I don't think he's regretful about what they did or thinks that much of it either. I think he just sincerely likes the girl and doesn't want to lose her (like in wants her to be his gf). It's a woman vs friends kind of conflict in his soul. Not right vs wrong.
I'm glad they went with a more realistic ending and not that movie-of-the-week, after-school-special feel-good ending, where everyone would cheer for her while inspirational music played, and she would have a warm feeling of closure. Oftentimes, doing the right thing ends up completely screwing you over. But you still have to do it.
True
Yeah. That’s life.
Totally agree.
why do you still have to do it then?
@@leonardu6094 bcse its the right way
To ever TOUCH a girl without her consent is horrible.
To talk about her sexually and rate her is horrible.
Doing these things then playing it off as humour is horrible.
Ask a woman before shes okay doing ANYTHING.
I completely agree with your comment, I just feel that it would be better if it was more inclusive like if you say that,
'To ever touch a person without their consent is horrible
To talk about them sexually and rate them is horrible....' and so on because men also go through such horrible and disgusting situations. 🙂
@@abcxyz-st1zh aye they do well said.
Its not spoken about as much but it should be. Many aee abused by someone they know and carry that trauma daily without any reprieve. Yes girlsbeing sexualized in school and in general is disgusting but we should target that as awhole, not just for one gender. Male children are targeted by paedophiles and people they know because its instilled in them that this stuff happens to girls, because people refuse to open up the conversation and be more inclusive. Boys dont talk about it because theyre subliminally taught that girls being abused is the problem, not abuse in general.
There are two many cases or abuse. Lets not shut some voices out to hear others.
@@xenasmith5265 I could not agree more, there's too much painful truth in your words.... The fact that even children are violated in such an obscene way shows how tragic our society still is and how much more we still must accomplish.
@@bwmanhath3770 I understand, I really do but just because the ratio is disproportionate doesn't mean that the minority deserves to be cast aside, the pain of such an experience is equal for both sexes the attention and compassion should be equal as well.
@@theironglitch9268 The comment is based on the context of the video (sexual consent and misbehavior). When a person is in a life or death situation and if you have the opportunity to save that life, the context changes and it becomes a matter of saving a life. All I'm saying is that the context of the content must be taken into account. But there can be exceptions depending on the situation. Your comment is valid but takes the original statement out of context.
Alright, I hate it when people do disgusting/offensive things and then when people react appropriately to them, it means they don’t have a sense of humour.
Hey do u believe a bunch of guys and girls will line up and they will all fight to the death
@@juliamyrie6881 I believe
This really just reinforced my paranoia of never wanting to be in a house just with just my male friends.
This reinforced my paranoia of having male friends💀
thats kind of sexist, like i get it but try to not no generalized people and im saying this as a girl who gets a along with both female and male, i guess what? female friends have hurt me more than male friends
I hope you can recover. Most men are chilling. Try not to avoid connection with half the population based on this video 😂 but stay safe too
@giddygoblinI agree but keep your fists clean bro
@@itsvale6371being afraid of men is not sexist. It would be sexist to think they’re lesser than or deserve less rights than women, which clearly nobody does, because men as a group have always had more opportunities and rights than women, even today. I am afraid of men, I carry a knife with me because of it, and it’s saved my life. I would never want men to be subjugated or to not have the same rights as everyone else, but I don’t want them around me and will avoid them as much as possible. Self preservation isn’t hate. I will always be polite and kind to anyone in public, I just never seek out anything from men if I don’t need to. Because I’ve been in situations where that leads to traumatizing events or near life ending ones.
I will always be grateful that social media wasn't a big thing yet when I was a kid.
Me too. It was bad enough without it!!! 🕉️
Yes. Sometimes I petty my younger siblings for that. I’m from the time of Orkut. And facebook never amazed a bit.
Is it like 'I know what you did last summer' ?
Sure, but even when we were kids the act shown in the chat video was unthinkable.
Ok boomers
When you're in highschool, your friends are as important as your grades ( at least for me it was). So for Carla to tell on her friends was such a brave act. In the end, highschool is only a small part of her life but her integrity and self-worth will forever be a part of her.
That's just you lol
@@enigmafiresup4658 😂
Enigmafiresup no i think 663 other people also 😂😂
I just lost my friends from being racist to this one dude in the group:/ I honestly didn't think it was that bad until now
Ivy Aguas my grades aren’t important tf if you’re one of those kids i stg
i felt so uncomfortable for her
same...a male "friend" of mine took a screen shot while in the meeting and edited it inappropriate and spread the photo in all the student groups.....my dada was close to killing him but thats not the point....it haunted me in my dreams for years
@@mimiworld1704 i am sorry you had go through that it must have been horrible:( but i hope you are safe now and i hope Karma gets him! Stay safe ✌🏻💕
As a girl who has many guy friends, this is quite sickening. My friends have always treated me with respect and also treat other women highly. I'm grateful for the friends I have as I know they will do nearly anything for me. I hope that our society doesn't keep being like this and have men treat women respectfully. Now this goes towards men as well. Some guys go through this too either with a group of girls or a group of guys. This goes both ways. At the end of the day, we should all just respect each other and not do horrid things like this
update?
your the most based person here, dont generalized, dont say only girls should be respected just write with the truth
Exactly! Only reasonable person in this common section
@dakotatheicewolf sorry to break it to you but your male friends do this as well lol. And no, they wont do "anything" for you lmao. Even if you will do anything for them, you cant force them to care. Deal with it.
No they are just smart enough to properly hide this.
We need more people like Carla. She was brave, took a stand and did the right thing even though it cost her. Much respect.
Being a little snitch on your own friends is not being "brave".
@@Serjo777 wtf
@@Serjo777 what they did was wrong so they deserved it
@@luvlana515 They didn't do anything wrong, they were talking about people in a private chat. Last I checked there is absolutely nothing wrong with that & nothing for them to get in trouble with. You realize gossip is 100% legal don't you? If it hurts your feelings then suck it up cause there is nothing you can do in the real world.
@@ZaptosisThey literally assulted her, they took a sexual video of her while she was asleep, that is illegal
Last scene when girl hugged to Carla is called women solidarity
I love that, I wish females do that more often and all be on the same page and support each other and be there for each other when most needed rather than dragging others down further more into despair
Also Sorority
The girl who hugger her is the same one who got filmed, only she doens't know it yet.
@@pranavvaishnave7648 gosh where do you guys get this narrative from
@@pranavvaishnave7648 I don't get it, most of my friendships have always been with women and I just love every single one of them
I love how they added that bit at the end with the two girls hugging it really shows that them boys never considered her a "friend" and even someone she barely knows (presumably) still went out of the way to be there for her.
Correct!
She was the same girl who was harassed by those teens
"Boys bad, girls good"
Frr
yea that happened to me, i saw this girl crying, she was already my friend and i hug her. it feels so good to calm down people... she thanked me after it. its so cute
I think instead of "need more people like Carla" we need more people like a father-figure/a guide who can guide the boys the right thing and not to be a dick
instantly closed a loptop lid when someone walks in.
me : Tss....Amateurs
Lol exactly what I said when she opened the chat log
Yeah, he didn't even have a lock on his computer!
Exactly
I just alt tab B)
ShaDows Cradle not even a password
It’s the fact that Finn seemed genuinely sorry for his behaviour, but “the boys” were influencing him too much so he could actually drop them and be right.
@@nickimillennium Exactly
Hes only sorry because he got caught so yes he shows remorse but only because she found out. He may have just been doing it to fit in but he still did it
@@suzannekilgannon1242 Exactly if he was truly sorry and felt guilty, he would've done something about it/call them out on it instead of letting the rest of the team carry on commiting their crimes.
@@suzannekilgannon1242 you as a woman can't understand boys head. If he would tell someone about this group, he couldn't be with them anymore. That's one of the worst thing male can experience, being out of group.
It's very hard for man to do this.
I can tell what could he done, because I don't know what he done. It's just 13 min film.
@@nieznajomy7 This is plain stupidity. Being scared of calling out your friends in fear of being dropped out of the friend group has nothing to do with gender. No correlation. He is still a bad person, regardless if he was peer pressured.
This is sadly very realistic, and i could definitely see this happening in real life. She is so pretty, kind and sweet, she doesn’t deserve that.
It happened in India
It is realistic. But not all men are like this. This is just bad people being bad.
@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 yess ...... i am an indian girl too and i very well remeber delhi's boys lockerroom case
the sad thing is most high schools around the world can recall something similar if not worse to situations like these/ We really need to work on raising guys better instead of blaming everything on women and/or victims
@@emmazas wait someone commented that???
My sister had to go through the same experience in high school, except she was the friend and the target. She even dated one of the guys that did this to her because he had the same bahavior than Finn in the video (the one that's the closest to carla), saying he did not take part in it and all while not stopping his friends... My sister was so grossed out when she found out, she didn't even want to tell me at the time because she wanted to preserve me from this all. She told the school which said they "couldn't do anything" and they graduated as if nothing had happened.
Her ex got her hospitalized because of how bad he treated her and how toxic he was. Her hospitalization was one of the scariest thing i've had to experience and i never would wish such bad treatment to anyone. You girls stay safe and please tell someone when something bad is happening, even your parents or siblings.
No one cares
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984You cared enough to comment, just like you care about big oily men.
@@Ziirah
Ok Muslim
i hate humans i want to be a tree
Falling Beauty what so i can get cut down
@@jade2836 pls dont
Falling Beauty I wish I'd be a bird so that I could fly away
Falling Beauty lol I wish I was a rock so i could sit around all day and do nothing
Humans will cut you
When they slammed the computer down so fast I almost dieddd😂😂
When your mom walks in your room.
Matthew Nowak Lmfaoo deffo goes for me
When you accidentally left the “research” tabs open and you open your laptop it in class
Weird cos it takes a millisecond to switch tabs or even close the browser. There wasn't a need to slam the laptop like that. And do they not even use passwords? Of course if this was realistic it couldn't have happened because most boys don't keep their devices easily accessible like this.
AzzWalk thank you 🙏
Let's be honest: We all prayed in the end that this boy Finn would just say something like "Look... I'm sorry." And then leave. But no.
Coz he's not
Because that makes it better? “I’m sorry” doesn’t cut it when it comes to sexual assault and enabling it.
@Wyatt Wilson still at least leave with some kind of morality saying sorry at least shows he regrets it
Idk When you have bad influences you make things that even you dont understand.
Not defending him and this type of act of course he deserve the same punishment as the others ones. But like "13 reasons why" show very well is the "loyalty" you have with your friends.
Some people are easy to influence (sry my bad english). When they have the wrong influence, even if they think the act is wrong, they just dont do anything bcz of their friends. It's really normal to happen, teenagers dont have a formed character.
This guy I think,by himself he probably would never do anything like that to a girl. You can see that bcz he is not angry at all. But he made that bcz of his friends.
He became like his friends.
So people always messed up, some people in simple things,some people in serious things.
But the consequences must come!
no matter how genuine, there is nothing that Finn could of said or done.
The fact that she was apologizing after she found it really hit home for me...
I had an experience like hers, my male friends had a group on instagram when one of them logged on my phone, I was curious if they talked about me there, and i found lots of my closest male friends saying horrible things about their female friends intimate parts (mine too), and how they kept looking at our bodies during classes. I told my friends cause I wanted them to not trust in them, not be comfortable around them, because they had second intentions for our hole friendship. We stopped talking to them, but as time passes they were returning to be friends with them. I’m still worried for them but I can’t do much about it. I’m no longer friends with them, and I do not wish to be ever again. That’s my story! (Sorry for the bad english)
Your english is definitely not bad and you look gorgeous in that profile picture 👍
Better English than me. It's the only language I know....
"hole friendship" lmao
Butter eingliesh thain me👍👍
Thank you for telling your girl friends about it. I hope ya'll stay safe.
It takes a lot of courage, especially when you're a teenager, to stand up against your friends when you realize they're doing something wrong. Remember who you are, and remember what's right and what's wrong.
This happens at my school all the time and absolutely nothing is done to prevent it when it happened to me I got in trouble for putting myself in the situation not the boys on the team
I'm sorry you went through it. Soo many guys are sick
Crimson Rose thank you
High School is one of the sickest times of your life. You're surrounded by aggressive hormonal teens and you will be super unsure who to trust. The guys perverted, the girls addicted to status and their own little popularity wars. It's tiring and exhausting and I'm sure it's as disgusting as it is, because those who set the system up enjoy actual talented and promising righteous individuals to be broken down early, before they can become a threat to corruption and stupidity later.
I am sorry to hear this but keep speaking. If we save one girl from any further sexual harassment, we are giving her opportunity of living a normal life.
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I'm sick of this mentality that we have to be aware all the time what we do, what we wear, where we go etc to make sure we are not sexually assaulted. And if we are, somehow we are blamed for it. It makes me sick to the core. Why not educate everyone that this is totally unacceptable and teach them about CONSENT. They are not little babies that they can't control themselves. And if they can't they should not come out!!
Hope you are doing well now ❤
Men, if u find men like that, you do something about it, immediately, u might just save someone jail time and serious phycological and physical damage.
Is this why my parents never let me stay in the same room alone as my male friend when I was young?
Deadass same
Yes. YES I promise you they did it because they loved you not because they wanted to ruin your "social" life
@@no.6854 i mean what could possibly have happened? ... actually it makes sense never mind
@@HassanAhmed-rf9xr it does alot sadly
My parents didn’t like me having male friends in general lol
Is nobody talking about that little girl walking in on her in the bathroom?
Edit: wow thanks for the likes
Skelly Is Mystic she was a sour little thing, I know it was her house and all but if looks could kill.
I think it was because a strange girl was in her house, looking through the private cupboards and using her deodorant/perfume
@@bellelaiight8066 yes but the girl wouldnt know that if the bathroom door was closed lol
@@nednarbottelana7351 It's her bathroom, she isn't going to knock before entering her own bathroom is she? The older girl should have locked the door if she wanted privacy.
@@krashd don't u knock before going into the bathroom???
"Connor you smell like egg"
Well this is *Omeleto*
lol
Lol haha
I SNORTED AT THIS COMMENT
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yeah 1k vote by me !
11:30 She wouldn't get it? What's there not to get? It's creepy, and wrong, so she told. Not to mention an extreme violation of her privacy and also sexual harassment
Being a father, and in education as well as thinking logically, and as well as responsibly, I should say she did the right thing.
Too many boys turn into nasty young men who degrade women with the use of internet.
Had I been the Head teacher there, those so called young men would have had hell to pay.
This is a reality of today’s society. The message is clear, stamp it out before it turns to even nastier behaviour.
You sound like a good father and educator!! Atleast from this comment..
"Too many boys turn into nasty young men who degrade women with the use of the internet."
Watch this video then: "Feminist suing man for saving her life".
@Dee Robinson They're virtually degrading men, not women.
@@EiriktheNordAndersen-ju4gl but nobody said they don't.
They are degrading both.
I wonder What kind of a mental toll will it have on a girl to know that her collegues are "rating" her for her sexuality or outward appearances. Such a wrong thing. Glad this issue could be raised by this short film. People should know about these things. There's a difference between humour and insults.
The biggest problem between women and men is this. Women see wearing their sexuality on their sleeve as no big deal. Men lump everything and put their tongues out.
@@drd.n4695 The problem is not talking about who's hot. I'm a women and have some straight girlfriends, we never talk about anyo6 as if they're objects and sexual harass them. Also, tell a 'secret' dressing up and wearing make up makes us feel good about ourselves, not everything revolves around guys. So, don't put this on women and act like men don't have self control nor respect.
Yes , but only for the females , right ?
It would affect anybody's health, physically or mentally.
@@justalostlocal nah you are wrong
As a guy, this is really really pissed me off since other boys think it's okay to do such a thing and find it funny. It really breaks my heart when boy treat women like objects.
Thank you I wish more men my age were like you
Oh yeah? What about men? They don’t get Objectified?
@@therealmr.incredible3179 just shut up
@@therealmr.incredible3179 bro what lol. why are you here
@@therealmr.incredible3179 sometimes maybe yeah but who cares
Hence always keep limits between you and your male friends. Parents aren't fools to warn ya everytime 😑
actually, fathers warn daughters about the ways in which girls are used but mothers dont warn sons about the way boys are used.
@@derekjetter4039 explain what they don't explain I want to know.
@@derekjetter4039 It needs to be talked about for sure lol
@@vladienee9367he's just talking out of his as**
The girl is actually nice, it's just too sad that we live in a world where the freaks are something common.
ITS A MOVIE
Ordinary LD You're extremely ignorant if you think some movies don't reflect reality. Movies have stories to tell... and sometimes, it's a story on the current world today.
Daniel Son no but yous are talking about this girl from the movie
@@OrdinaryLD Not everything is meant to be taken "literally". That's what happens when such a word is overused.
@@papasscooperiaworker3649 Right.. this literally just happened a month ago at a UK school and a couple of U.S. schools
I loved how much depth was put into the main character. She's clearly insecure about herself because of all of the pressure that society has put on her and on women in general. Like you could tell how broken she got when one of the boys called her "ugly." The boys in general throughout the video didn't seem to care about anything else but themselves. Overall the video represented a very innocent look on sexual harassment culture.
@Jake Garcia i thought she was really pretty
Martin Jones you act like it’s not both genders though
Boys have always rated girls, girls have always rated boys. Boys will be more sexual about it, but this kind of locker room talk has always existed. I don´t even see a problem in people rating others, I think it is normal behaviour. The problem was the video they shared, and that the whole conversation was online (and thus not really in a locker room setting). In my opinion, this short film is not about pressure on women or sexual harrassment; this film is about how social media changes locker room talk.
And: everybody is insecure at that age. They feel stronger in a group, and group dynamics play a big role. The boy calling her ugly did so just because he was insecure. It was a very immature response.
@Kat J - That was part of the video.
Jake Garcia isn’t the point is it
no girl should ever feel insecure about their bodies because everything is natural and you should love who you are
You just lighted up my day, have a nice day/night and btw thank you
Or boys
Not entirely true. Extreme obesity and anorexia are both not natural at all.
If you are not satisfied with yourself, you can improve yourself, although this shouldn't come as reaction to peer pressure but at your own volition.
Mayhzon if it don’t apply let it fly
@@mooglare
How about no? Everything the West stands for has become degenerate and filthy. It's time to turn that ship around. It's time to ruin the narrative!